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2057 - PART 2: 90 Day Fiance (s12e2) "Trusting the Process" with Kimberly · Pink Shade: Reality TV with Mary Payne

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Speaker 1: Hey, Bunky's it's producer Ingrid. This is part two of
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Speaker 1: a two part episode. If you miss part one, look
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Speaker 1: in your feet, it's already there. Enjoy the show. Okay,
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Speaker 1: Marissa and Edward.
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Speaker 2: Okay, I did watch More to Love Than There was
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Speaker 2: a bunch of deleted scenes with her. And she meets
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Speaker 2: with Ronnie, the owner. I don't know if anyone remembers.
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Speaker 2: I remember Ronnie from he owns Kleinfeld and he's like
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Speaker 2: this old Jewish man and in New York. And so
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Speaker 2: they have this conversation. He says she treats the staff
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Speaker 2: really well and they love her, and I was like, oh,
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Speaker 2: I still have doubts and we've lived through some relationships
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Speaker 2: with her, but hopefully this guy is the one and
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Speaker 2: she'll stop taking time off because she's taking she's taking
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Speaker 2: time off to acclimate him to America, and like Ronnie
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Speaker 2: seems kind of stressed about it. He's like, it's gonna
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Speaker 2: be okay, you have prepped the staff, everyone can handle things. Well,
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Speaker 2: you're gone, are we sure? Okay? Now it's fine for you.
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Speaker 2: Go for it. And so then she talks to Edward
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Speaker 2: and he doesn't seem that concerned about finding a job,
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Speaker 2: and she she says, I've heard stories about Dominican men
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Speaker 2: using women to get to the United States. It's like, yes,
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Speaker 2: that's this whole show. So uh huh. So I need
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Speaker 2: I need him to get a job right away and
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Speaker 2: prove himself to me.
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Speaker 1: She's not a job.
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Speaker 2: That is literally one thing that he will not be
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Speaker 2: able to do legally. And she tells him, I need
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Speaker 2: you to step up and make something of yourself and
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Speaker 2: be the man I need you to be, because if
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Speaker 2: I see that you don't have the drive to succeed,
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Speaker 2: I might lose respect for you. No pressure, she is
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Speaker 2: getting worse and worse. She treats him not well.
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Speaker 1: I mean, there's just so much power and bials.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. So she's driving in New York, which I thought
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Speaker 2: no one did, and she smashes a bug on the
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Speaker 2: window and she says she has fifty to fifty custody
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Speaker 2: of the boys, and that's how she lives in Pennsylvania
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Speaker 2: and works in New York. But we know she has
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Speaker 2: an apartment in New York, so she probably does half
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Speaker 2: of splits her week up. She's very busy being a
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Speaker 2: mom and working. She doesn't have time for Edward and
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Speaker 2: That's what they fight over the most is she doesn't
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Speaker 2: have the energy to talk to him on the phone
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Speaker 2: after dealing with the kids all day and working. And
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Speaker 2: she hopes when he comes she'll see why. He'll see
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Speaker 2: why she's so busy and understand she likes Pennsylvania.
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Speaker 1: Leave him in Pennsylvania, like with the kids or whatever,
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Speaker 1: and while she goes, or is he just going to
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Speaker 1: go back and forth with her? I wonder, I don't know.
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Speaker 2: I don't know. So she likes Pennsylvania. It's like very
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Speaker 2: suburban where she is, but there's lots of trees and
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Speaker 2: it's quiet and pretty and she likes that. So she
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Speaker 2: drives to Pennsylvania. She plays horse with her kids on
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Speaker 2: the basketball court at their house, in her blonde extensions
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Speaker 2: and leggings and makeup, and she always wears that big
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Speaker 2: cross around her neck too.
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Speaker 1: And something sublominal message.
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Speaker 2: M So, Derek is a leven, Cole is ten, and
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Speaker 2: so they were born quickly and they don't even look
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Speaker 2: like brothers, she says, their total opposites. Derek is an
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Speaker 2: athlete and Cole is her artistic child. He likes art
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Speaker 2: and music, and they show him missing a basketball shot
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Speaker 2: and they're talking about more than one, how artistic he is,
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Speaker 2: and the key's cutting it with him missing at basketball.
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Speaker 2: It's like, oh, he's ten years old.
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Speaker 1: He looks just like his mom. Yeah, and so the
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Speaker 1: other one must look just like the dad. I mean,
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Speaker 1: you know how sometimes that happens. Yet but he looks
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Speaker 1: exactly like her.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. So she's never let the kids meet a boyfriend
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Speaker 2: in person before Edward. And the kids say they're excited
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Speaker 2: about Edward coming because she promised them a dog when
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Speaker 2: he gets there, but now she's renegging on that and
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Speaker 2: I so Derek says, yeah, we only found out about
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Speaker 2: him like a year ago, and now he's moving in.
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Speaker 2: So it's like a weird reaction in my body.
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Speaker 1: I think these kids have been to a lot of therapy.
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Speaker 1: And he uh huh's voicing how his Yeah, it makes
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Speaker 1: him feel upset in his stomach, you know, absolutely.
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Speaker 2: So Derek asks her when he comes here, will he
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Speaker 2: have money? And she says, good question, don't know, and
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Speaker 2: she he's like, did he have a job. Yeah, he
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Speaker 2: worked in a resort, and he worked in like a
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Speaker 2: nice resort, but we don't have those all inclusive resorts,
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Speaker 2: so he doesn't have a skill set that is useful here.
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Speaker 1: We do have all inclusive resorts here, I mean in well,
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Speaker 1: I don't know, there's a lot. I mean probably not
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Speaker 1: close to Bluebell, but there's definitely He could definitely work
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Speaker 1: at a high end hotel totally. Yes.
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Speaker 2: I think the skills are transferable, and or at a
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Speaker 2: restaurant like he got you something.
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Speaker 1: He's in the hospitality industry.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. So they ask will he get an allowance
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Speaker 2: and she says probably, he's gonna need help for paying
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Speaker 2: for things. And the amount that someone would get here
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Speaker 2: for a paycheck a weekly paycheck is like something he
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Speaker 2: would get in a month there. And Derek says he's nervous.
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Speaker 2: He doesn't want him to replace their dad, and she
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Speaker 2: says He'll always be your dad and Edward will be
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Speaker 2: just another adult here to love you. And Derek says,
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Speaker 2: can we take it slow though? I don't want him
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Speaker 2: coming in like hello, my son. That would be weird,
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Speaker 2: and she says she tells us the divorce was hard
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Speaker 2: on the kids, and I really want them to be comfortable,
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Speaker 2: and at the end of the ninety days, if they
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Speaker 2: aren't happy, we're gonna have to call it quits. And
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Speaker 2: that's a lot of pressure and the time crunch.
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Speaker 1: I liked these kids a lot. They are adorable, and
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Speaker 1: I liked how open they were talking.
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Speaker 2: Yes and well one Derek Cole does not speak well.
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Speaker 1: He was thinking about us next art project. But yeah,
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Speaker 1: I liked this whole scene. I kind of liked how
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Speaker 1: open they were, and I was like, Okay, maybe she's
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Speaker 1: like a great mom. You know.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, they seem to be open to talking about their feeling.
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Speaker 2: They haven't hit their teenage years though yet.
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Speaker 1: True.
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Speaker 2: If it was like two years later, Derek would be like, whatever, mom,
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Speaker 2: look about both you.
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Speaker 1: okay Asha and Maxwell. Okay Asha talks to her mom
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Speaker 1: in the kitchen. Her mom is funny and her mom
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Speaker 1: is named Juliette. So I don't know if Asha lives
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Speaker 1: with her mom or it was just at her mom's
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Speaker 1: or unclear.
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Speaker 2: Dodd has not supplied her her own place to live.
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Speaker 1: Maybe then God did supplier, Alexis so.
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Speaker 2: God gave her a I feel like everything she does,
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Speaker 2: Like if she goes to the grocery store, it's like,
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Speaker 2: does God want me to get a grapefruit or a
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Speaker 2: mango today? God? Mango? Okay, thank you God.
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Speaker 1: So she talks to her mom and she says, Maxwell
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Speaker 1: is just devastated how all this went down. And so
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Speaker 1: I'm going to talk to an attorney about an appeal.
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Speaker 1: You know, it never occurred to me that the application
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Speaker 1: would be denied because I've got on my side. Just can't.
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Speaker 1: She just can't. So she's going to pick up her
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Speaker 1: god brother Rod. He's like a real brother. He's veryly,
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Speaker 1: very overly protective. He's stuck on the whole Nigerian scammer thing.
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Speaker 1: So are we Here's a question that I put to
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Speaker 1: the group. Okay, so people have god parents?
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Speaker 2: Right that I wrote, what the hell is a god brother?
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Speaker 1: Okay? So people have godparents? I grew up Methodists. We
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Speaker 1: didn't do that. Yeah, and now I'm Presbyterian and they
11:44
Speaker 1: don't do that either, But Catholics one hundred percent do it,
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Speaker 1: and people that are like Episcopalian do it. But lots
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Speaker 1: of religions do it.
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Speaker 2: So I here, I don't think we do it.
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Speaker 1: Okay. So my mother has a goddag her Vicky. Okay,
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Speaker 1: does that mean Vicky is my godsister? Is that? Is that?
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Speaker 2: What is that?
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Speaker 1: What that means?
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Speaker 2: No, Vicky is.
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Speaker 1: My mom, My mom goddaughter named Vicky, So that means
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Speaker 1: Vicky is my godsister.
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Speaker 2: God stepsister, no god half sister.
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Speaker 1: No, just it would be my godsister because my mom
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Speaker 1: is her godmother. It might be what it is I
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Speaker 1: just need So then I was like, okay, so I'm
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Speaker 1: the godmother of my friend Emily's daughter Ellie. So Ellie
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Speaker 1: is my god daughter. Does that mean my daughter Anna
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Speaker 1: and Ellie are godsisters.
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Speaker 2: A god brother typically refers to the son of your
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Speaker 2: godparent or a godchild of your own parent. It creates
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Speaker 2: a sibling like bond built on shared faith and family friendships.
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Speaker 1: Okay, Well I had never heard this, and not one
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Speaker 1: person in the Facebook chat had ever heard of it.
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Speaker 1: They said, this is not a thing.
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Speaker 2: I had no idea.
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Speaker 1: Okay. So it was quite a discussion and people said,
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Speaker 1: it's not a thing. I've never heard of it. But
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Speaker 1: now I know. Next time I see bikiyak can say hello,
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Speaker 1: what's up my god sister? Okay, so blah blah blah.
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Speaker 1: Rod is very stuck on the whole Nigerian scammer thing.
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Speaker 1: Good for you, Rod, she needs somebody, she needs it. Yes,
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Speaker 1: So in the car she goes to pick him up.
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Speaker 1: And in the car he goes, so, you're just giving
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Speaker 1: up on American men And she goes, no, I just
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Speaker 1: never found any. And he goes, you know, also there
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Speaker 1: are Nigerian men who live in the United States. If
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Speaker 1: you have to be a Nigerian And she goes, no,
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Speaker 1: that's not what God told me. And he goes, what
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Speaker 1: about your big tall list? This guy has none of that. Now.
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Speaker 1: Her list is as follows, pull it up it is.
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Speaker 1: Where's the list? Girl, where's the list? Where's the list?
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Speaker 1: Where is it? Oh my gosh, I took so many
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Speaker 1: pictures and here's the list. Okay, here's the final list. Okay,
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Speaker 1: no smoking, drinking, no kids, great job.
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Speaker 2: Wait, so does he have kids or does he smoke.
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Speaker 2: He says he has none of these things.
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Speaker 1: So a great job questionable.
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Speaker 2: He didn't they meet and that he was was he
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Speaker 2: like working at the room?
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Speaker 1: No?
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Speaker 2: I always just think they met at the resort.
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Speaker 1: They met online online. She widened her search to the
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Speaker 1: world God.
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Speaker 2: Okay, so no, no good job. He might have children,
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Speaker 2: and he might be a smoker.
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Speaker 1: He might be a drinker. Has ambition, always got ambition.
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Speaker 2: He does have ambition.
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Speaker 1: He does God, but not die hard for God, which
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Speaker 1: is interesting from a woman who speaks in tongues and
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Speaker 1: hurls herself on the floor and wears a Jewish delete
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Speaker 1: and constantly says God is speaking to her.
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Speaker 2: I want She wants God when she's in church, but
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Speaker 2: the rest the time she wants to drink and bang
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Speaker 2: it out. No, not follow God's rules.
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Speaker 1: That's not true. We've seen her talking to God, not
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Speaker 1: at church. She wants someone that's understanding, organized, athletically built,
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Speaker 1: a great lover.
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Speaker 2: I maybe I don't know if they've had sex. He
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Speaker 2: looks athletically built.
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Speaker 1: No sasquatch.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, because she said she hates big feet on a man.
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Speaker 1: Big feet, So I guess who big feet on a man?
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Speaker 1: Big cares big feet. I guess no, sasquatch means bigfoot.
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Speaker 1: Yeah to me, I wouldn't. I wouldn't have gotten there
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Speaker 1: with that, by the way.
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Speaker 2: But who get cares wealthy? So big feet, I think
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Speaker 2: usually means bigger penis.
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Speaker 1: They say so big nose, big penis.
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Speaker 2: Oh, I thought it was big hands too, that's what
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Speaker 2: they say. What was that last one?
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Speaker 1: You just said wealthy?
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Speaker 2: Okay, definitely he does not have that.
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Speaker 1: No, it's not that knows his purpose m My note
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Speaker 1: was purpose is to get yeah, good hygiene, good hair,
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Speaker 1: and pretty teeth. Okay. I think he's got the yeah
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Speaker 1: and really loves God, but not too much. But not
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Speaker 1: too much because she wants to be the star of
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Speaker 1: that God relationship. Uh huh Okay, that's her list, so
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Speaker 1: he says she did.
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Speaker 2: I didn't think it was that bad. I didn't think
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Speaker 2: it was as critical as we've seen other people have lists.
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Speaker 1: Oh, when we covered Indian matchmaking and Jewish matchmaking, those
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Speaker 1: were some lists.
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Speaker 2: Now, yes, totally must like Chinese food, like must it
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Speaker 2: was like that specific.
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Speaker 1: Must do crossbit four times a week. Yeah, must be
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Speaker 1: above five eight, you know, like.
16:48
Speaker 2: Must watch Vampire Diaries. So like it's so specific.
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Speaker 1: God whish that show would come back.
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Speaker 2: So did you watch that show? Which Vampire Diary? Oh?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Indian Matchmaker? I love that show so much. Okay,
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Speaker 1: you know I did pretty recently go on Netflix site
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Speaker 1: and look for who was the press contact for Indian
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Speaker 1: Matchmaking because I wanted to write them and be like,
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Speaker 1: is it coming back?
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Speaker 2: It was such a good show. Just tell me that
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Speaker 2: was a fun show to cover.
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Speaker 1: So good Jewish Matchmaking too. I still follow her at
17:24
Speaker 1: the Jewish Matchmaker. I follow her and YE love her. Okay.
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Speaker 1: Rod says, listen, cousin, brother, sister, godsister, this is a
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Speaker 1: scary situation for everybody, and she goes, what, No, it's not,
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Speaker 1: and he goes, it is. It's scary for us. There's
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Speaker 1: so much unknown. What if the embassy knows something we
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Speaker 1: don't know, which I think is a great point.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.
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Speaker 1: He says, I'm just trying to protect you, and she goes, well,
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Speaker 1: you're not protecting me. You need to be supportive, and
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Speaker 1: he said, looking out for you is how I'm showing
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Speaker 1: me my support. I'm talking to head. Rod goes, I
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Speaker 1: don't know what's going on with her. Her biological clock
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Speaker 1: is ticking and she's rushing into this. I don't know
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Speaker 1: this guy, and I don't think it's a realistic relationship. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: especially once he goes to that church and sees her
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Speaker 1: fall on the floor. Okay, So they arrive at the
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Speaker 1: lawyer's office, who has a lit up sign in front
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Speaker 1: of his office that says love Immigration.
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Speaker 2: Wow. I mean that's a way to get people's business.
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Speaker 2: I think he is not a brand yourself.
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Speaker 1: He's in Birmingham. I looked him up, which is thirty
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Speaker 1: minutes away, and she tells the guy's name is Jeremy.
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Speaker 1: She tells, Jeremy, listen, I know you see a lot
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Speaker 1: of cases. And he goes, yeah, I saw what she
18:44
Speaker 1: wrote online, so I'm kind of caught up. But you
18:46
Speaker 1: tell me what's going on. She says, listen, my case
18:49
Speaker 1: is more important than all your other cases because it
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Speaker 1: was God ordained.
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Speaker 2: And he goes, this is where I cannot with her.
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Speaker 2: He goes, wow, wow, And my case is more important.
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Speaker 2: My life is more important than everyone else because I
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Speaker 2: am chosen by God, and God speaks to me and
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Speaker 2: gave me an en Sync song, and that puts me
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Speaker 2: above other people, which is what God and Jesus told
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Speaker 2: people not to do. If I'm wrong, I think I'm
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Speaker 2: not wrong on that. She constantly puts yourself more important
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Speaker 2: as other people.
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Speaker 1: And Jeremy wasn't buying it.
19:32
Speaker 2: No, he but he did a good job of faking
19:35
Speaker 2: like he was like oh wow. He goes, wow, God, girl.
19:41
Speaker 1: Yeah, what song's gonna play next? Tell me? And so
19:47
Speaker 1: she explained about Maxwell and then they were a couple.
19:51
Speaker 1: So they introduced there for you know, the friends blah
19:54
Speaker 1: blah blah. And when we went for the interview, the
19:58
Speaker 1: guy interviewing Maxwell thought it was fraud and denied it
20:02
Speaker 1: because of the friends. And she goes, so we need
20:06
Speaker 1: to start the appeal process. We need to do the
20:08
Speaker 1: appeal process. And he goes, okay, so there is no
20:10
Speaker 1: appeal process. There's that's not a thing. She's like what
20:15
Speaker 1: And we're talking to her. She says, we have spent
20:18
Speaker 1: and I think she just means her, but we have
20:20
Speaker 1: spent thousands of dollars on this K one visa. And
20:23
Speaker 1: I was hoping for an appeal.
20:25
Speaker 2: So the law God told me that there can I
20:29
Speaker 2: appeal to God, Like I know normal people can't appeal,
20:34
Speaker 2: but I this is more important because God wants this
20:37
Speaker 2: to happen, right, And Roger, they're like, there's a God
20:40
Speaker 2: exception to the appeals thing. Right.
20:43
Speaker 1: The lawyer says, you can file another K one petition,
20:48
Speaker 1: or you can get married and file the and file
20:51
Speaker 1: the c R one spousal petition and Rod goes, hey, hey, hey,
20:56
Speaker 1: don't give her any ideas, like she does not need
20:59
Speaker 1: to rush this thing. She does not need to go
21:01
Speaker 1: over there and get married. And Ray goes, I don't
21:05
Speaker 1: want her to go over there and marry this guy.
21:06
Speaker 1: I don't want her to get scammed. I don't want
21:08
Speaker 1: her to get hurt. And the lawyer says the K
21:10
Speaker 1: one is probably will take about another year if you
21:14
Speaker 1: start over, maybe a year and a half, and the
21:17
Speaker 1: CR one will probably be like two years from when
21:20
Speaker 1: you file it, and she goes, right, so if I
21:23
Speaker 1: do one of those, which one would be like the
21:25
Speaker 1: sure thing, And he goes, no, it's possible they could
21:28
Speaker 1: be denied, Like you just don't know, and he says,
21:31
Speaker 1: they found fraud or misrepresentation in the past, so they
21:35
Speaker 1: could find it again again. She needs to find out
21:39
Speaker 1: what was on that file, you know.
21:42
Speaker 2: I think they need to just apply again. Separate from
21:46
Speaker 2: this other couple correctly, and no, do not pictures together,
21:49
Speaker 2: the pictures together or crap, crap the pictures. Yeah, I agree,
21:56
Speaker 2: it might be okay.
21:58
Speaker 1: She says. So my options are to marry him and
22:02
Speaker 1: go and live thousands of miles away from my family.
22:05
Speaker 1: You know, I'm thirty eight. My biological clock is ticking,
22:08
Speaker 1: and I do not have time for this. I truly
22:10
Speaker 1: believe that this is going to work. I just don't
22:12
Speaker 1: know how. Now. My question is, why don't you just
22:15
Speaker 1: if this is God has told you this is your husband,
22:18
Speaker 1: go over there, marry him, go ahead and start this
22:21
Speaker 1: pregnancy thing going, because that's really what you want. And meanwhile,
22:24
Speaker 1: that's another notch in your cap for getting the R
22:27
Speaker 1: one and you may have to live there for a while.
22:31
Speaker 2: Except with Angela and Michael, it was like eight years.
22:36
Speaker 1: But that's because he was playing the long game. He
22:39
Speaker 1: was doing that purpose.
22:39
Speaker 2: I always forget that he was stalling.
22:42
Speaker 1: Yes, he's a genius.
22:43
Speaker 2: Plus, there were a lot of red flags with Angela
22:46
Speaker 2: and Michael. These people are the same age. No, he's
22:49
Speaker 2: younger than her.
22:51
Speaker 1: Nine years younger.
22:53
Speaker 2: Shoot, but she she's good looking, she is, so it's
22:58
Speaker 2: maybe it's less like, I think he might actually be
23:01
Speaker 2: into her, but she's a little bit crazy for sure. Okay, guys, demanding, demanding.
23:10
Speaker 1: We are going to quickly do Kimberly's corner from ninety
23:13
Speaker 1: Day Diaries.
23:15
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm gonna try.
23:17
Speaker 1: You don't have it or you do have it.
23:18
Speaker 2: No, I have it. I just don't know how to
23:20
Speaker 2: do it quickly, but I'm gonna try.
23:21
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay.
23:23
Speaker 2: We had two episodes This is the New Me and
23:26
Speaker 2: I'm gonna lose it. Jasmine and Matt. Matt is shaving
23:30
Speaker 2: Jasmine's head. They live in Florida.
23:32
Speaker 1: Now.
23:32
Speaker 2: Matilda is eight months old, very cute. Jason has alopecia.
23:36
Speaker 2: Matt shaved his head too in solidarity, but she thought
23:39
Speaker 2: he looked ugly with the shaved head, so you're and
23:44
Speaker 2: now he shaves her head every few days and gives
23:47
Speaker 2: her a head massage and she likes it. And she
23:50
Speaker 2: tells us how she started with Gino it went downhill.
23:52
Speaker 2: We didn't see any clips of the toe sucking or
23:55
Speaker 2: the peeing, thank god. And Jasmine says Matt was supposed
23:59
Speaker 2: to be just used for sex, but now I love
24:01
Speaker 2: him and they're buying a house. Jasmine fell in love
24:05
Speaker 2: with this house and it was above their budget, but
24:07
Speaker 2: she said, it's this house or nothing.
24:10
Speaker 1: And she will be Jazmine at the end of the day.
24:13
Speaker 2: Absolutely, And Matt says Gino taught her well. She's very demanding.
24:18
Speaker 2: And so they go to the house. It's very nice.
24:20
Speaker 2: It has a pool. They better get a fence for
24:22
Speaker 2: that pool. We see Coco running around. I'm so glad
24:26
Speaker 2: Coco is still alive and well and Coco and Jasmine
24:32
Speaker 2: says she wants to host family for Thanksgiving. She never
24:35
Speaker 2: cooked a turkey before. She says Matt is very traditional
24:39
Speaker 2: and wants her to change the way she dresses. And
24:41
Speaker 2: she's baking now, she's cleaning. She's like, it's weird, she's
24:46
Speaker 2: become like this Stepford wife, a little eat eating meat,
24:51
Speaker 2: eating meat now. And she says she doesn't have a
24:54
Speaker 2: great relationship with Matt's mom. And she looks at Jasmine
24:57
Speaker 2: like she's a Jezebel and she dragged sweet innocent Matt
25:01
Speaker 2: to hell. So she's hoping that Thanksgiving will win over
25:04
Speaker 2: the mom. Then she's baking. She called video calls her
25:08
Speaker 2: sister Zuellen, who is the sister slash daughter, right, the
25:13
Speaker 2: one that we thought was maybe her daughter or was
25:15
Speaker 2: it the other sister?
25:17
Speaker 1: Well, does zuell And look like she's twelve?
25:19
Speaker 2: No snagna anymore?
25:22
Speaker 1: No, but I don't think that the daughter slash sister
25:25
Speaker 1: was named Zuelle, And I think Zuellen was her another
25:27
Speaker 1: sister that I could be wrong, but I can't remember
25:30
Speaker 1: this call.
25:31
Speaker 2: Yeah, so she talks to her sisters every day. No
25:34
Speaker 2: mention of her children does. Literally, they do not exist
25:38
Speaker 2: on this show. So she says Matt. She tell's sister
25:41
Speaker 2: Matt controls what I wear and like wants me to
25:44
Speaker 2: dress more modest, and the sister does not like that,
25:47
Speaker 2: and Jasmine says, I feel like I have a beast
25:49
Speaker 2: inside of me. It's getting harder to contain.
25:53
Speaker 1: She's like Katie as a kissing Yeah.
25:55
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's gonna snap. So then it's Thanksgiving. She's crying
25:59
Speaker 2: because Matt told her that her his family was coming
26:02
Speaker 2: at four pm and she'd have all day to get organized.
26:05
Speaker 2: They arrived at six am with their luggage to the
26:09
Speaker 2: house woo, and they woke up the baby and it
26:14
Speaker 2: was like a horror Thanksgiving movie. So then she bought
26:19
Speaker 2: what she thought was a turkey, but it's not. She
26:22
Speaker 2: didn't look underneath and it says it's ham So Matt
26:26
Speaker 2: is mad. So then the mom tries to make coffee
26:30
Speaker 2: and it overflows all over the counter and Jasmine's like
26:33
Speaker 2: gritting her teeth. And then the mom says, I'm going
26:36
Speaker 2: to open the window and Jasmine says, no, it will
26:38
Speaker 2: let in all the mosquitos and the air conditioning is on,
26:41
Speaker 2: and the mom does it anyway. Oh dear God, this mom,
26:46
Speaker 2: so Jasmine says. The mom is so judgmental. She asked
26:49
Speaker 2: Jasmine if Matt and her have sex and if Jasmine
26:52
Speaker 2: is on birth control, and Jasmine says, don't leave me
26:56
Speaker 2: alone with her, Matt, I'm going to lose it. And
26:59
Speaker 2: Matt's like, she he's just an old person. You have
27:01
Speaker 2: to have patience with old people, like, don't let it
27:03
Speaker 2: get to you.
27:04
Speaker 1: She's not that old.
27:05
Speaker 2: No, she's not that old. She could be trained and
27:09
Speaker 2: not doing some of this. And Jasmine tells her Matt,
27:13
Speaker 2: I didn't buy the turkey, and he's like, I knew it.
27:15
Speaker 2: I knew you mess it up. And I was like,
27:18
Speaker 2: that's rude.
27:19
Speaker 1: I think that's for show. I think I hope so
27:22
Speaker 1: I think that's for show.
27:23
Speaker 2: Yeah, And Matt's like, at least be in a good mood.
27:26
Speaker 2: If you'd be in a mansion, you'd still say, find
27:28
Speaker 2: something to complain about, like it's Thanksgiving being a good mood.
27:32
Speaker 2: She's like okay. So then in this next episode she
27:36
Speaker 2: does another opening. Each episode they do like how they
27:39
Speaker 2: got on ninety day and she says, I met Gino
27:43
Speaker 2: on a sugar Baby site, which I love that they're
27:45
Speaker 2: just saying it now because I kind of feel like
27:47
Speaker 2: they hit it for I yes a long time, and
27:51
Speaker 2: he didn't want to sleep with me. So we decided
27:53
Speaker 2: to get a divorce and I started a relationship with Matt.
27:56
Speaker 2: And I was like, that's not the order of how
27:58
Speaker 2: things happen.
27:59
Speaker 1: She just narrowed it down. She just said, boom boom boom,
28:02
Speaker 1: three Voluti boots.
28:03
Speaker 2: Yeah, this was totally the timeline and all lines up.
28:06
Speaker 1: Yeah.
28:06
Speaker 2: So she says, I'm sick of Matt not appreciating everything
28:09
Speaker 2: I do for him. I'm going to start wearing high heels.
28:11
Speaker 2: He tells me not to wear high heels because I
28:13
Speaker 2: look taller than him, and she's like, tiny fucking ego
28:17
Speaker 2: And I can't deal with this, and then she's like
28:19
Speaker 2: and then she kind of centers herself and she's like,
28:22
Speaker 2: I have dealt with my Latino family. I can deal
28:24
Speaker 2: with this Romanian family. It's an appetizer compared to my family.
28:28
Speaker 2: I can ignore Matt's mom and make the best Thanksgiving ever.
28:31
Speaker 2: And everyone loves it. They're all complimenting the chicken because
28:35
Speaker 2: I guess she also got chicken. She never got turky. Anyway,
28:38
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter.
28:38
Speaker 1: So this is the second episode of Diaries and it's
28:41
Speaker 1: still Thanksgiving.
28:42
Speaker 2: Yeah, so Matt tells her, I'm so thank you for
28:46
Speaker 2: this Thanksgiving. I'm going to show you how thankful I
28:49
Speaker 2: am later and she says I have my period, and
28:52
Speaker 2: he says, it's fine. I know how to run a
28:56
Speaker 2: red light. No is that I didn't get it. I
29:02
Speaker 2: still don't know if I totally know it.
29:04
Speaker 1: You know you got it, but he needs it.
29:07
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't I like it. I knew I didn't
29:10
Speaker 2: like it, but I didn't know like why I didn't
29:12
Speaker 2: like it. And now I'm getting why I didn't like
29:16
Speaker 2: it as I'm saying it out loud. So the next day,
29:19
Speaker 2: Jasmine says, I thought I left a really good impression
29:22
Speaker 2: with Matt's mom. But as she was leaving, she gave
29:25
Speaker 2: Matt an envelope this says happy Birthday, even though Matt's
29:27
Speaker 2: birthday was last month, and she said, this is for Matt,
29:31
Speaker 2: but there's something in there that I want you to read.
29:34
Speaker 2: And she says the words in this envelope on the
29:37
Speaker 2: were like a paper cut through my heart like a knife.
29:41
Speaker 2: And she's crying. So she's a good crier. You never
29:44
Speaker 2: know if it's real or not. So she she would
29:47
Speaker 2: be great on dateline if she had murdered someone, because
29:50
Speaker 2: you can never She has real tears, so you never know.
29:53
Speaker 1: Yeah.
29:54
Speaker 2: Yeah, So she shows Matt the envelope and there's a
29:57
Speaker 2: card for his birthday and a twenty dollars bill and
29:59
Speaker 2: she's like, I'm keeping this and after you read what's
30:04
Speaker 2: in this card, you will know why I am keeping this.
30:07
Speaker 2: And so it says, Dear Jasmine, I spend a lot
30:09
Speaker 2: of time praying for you, and I can have decided
30:13
Speaker 2: I cannot give you my blessing without commitment of marriage,
30:17
Speaker 2: and I cannot participate in your life if you are
30:21
Speaker 2: living in sin with Matt. And I also need to
30:25
Speaker 2: say that your clothing selection seems immodest. All of this
30:29
Speaker 2: could have been avoided if Matt had chosen someone to
30:32
Speaker 2: share that who shares our background, like Romanian girl who
30:36
Speaker 2: understands our tradition with love, Olympia, thank you for inviting
30:41
Speaker 2: us to Thanksgiving.
30:43
Speaker 1: She can't get married to Matt because she's still married
30:46
Speaker 1: to Gino. I mean, that's the first problem.
30:48
Speaker 2: Right, and that is on Gino.
30:51
Speaker 1: I think, So why did she need to put that
30:53
Speaker 1: in writing?
30:54
Speaker 2: That is so bitchy? It is, it's bad, that's horrible.
30:58
Speaker 2: So Matt says, I mean, I hate to say it,
31:00
Speaker 2: but I agree with my mom, like marriage is very
31:02
Speaker 2: important and I would like to get married. And Jasmine says,
31:05
Speaker 2: all you do is joke around with me about marriage
31:08
Speaker 2: like that. I get married and divorced as a hobby,
31:11
Speaker 2: and you call me Jennifer Jasmine Lopez, and you make
31:17
Speaker 2: fun of me. And why would I want to get
31:19
Speaker 2: married with you if you joke around like that? And
31:21
Speaker 2: why would you want to marry me? And he says
31:23
Speaker 2: because we have a kid together, And she says, I
31:25
Speaker 2: don't want to marry someone just because I have a kid.
31:27
Speaker 2: I want to marry someone because they can't live without me.
31:30
Speaker 2: And they I'm the love of their life and you
31:34
Speaker 2: never say things like that to me, And he goes, well,
31:37
Speaker 2: the other men said things like that to you, like, oh,
31:39
Speaker 2: I love you so much, Jazzman and Vina that he's
31:41
Speaker 2: kind of doing a gino and you divorce them, and
31:45
Speaker 2: so what does it matter? He's being a jerk, And
31:48
Speaker 2: Jasmine's like, I'm not going to be pressured into marrying anyone.
31:51
Speaker 1: So also still married to somebody else.
31:53
Speaker 2: Also, I'm still married to Gina. Lauren and Alexi, they
31:57
Speaker 2: have three kids under five. It's chaos in their house
32:00
Speaker 2: and she's trying to build a career marketing. So this
32:03
Speaker 2: brand wants Lauren to be the face of it, and
32:06
Speaker 2: they want the kids to be in it, but Alex
32:08
Speaker 2: doesn't like the kids to be on social media, which
32:11
Speaker 2: is smart except they are on a TV.
32:13
Speaker 1: Show, correct, So okay.
32:18
Speaker 2: Yeah, So she decides to film this sizzle reel with
32:22
Speaker 2: her kids and not tell Alex and beg for forgiveness after.
32:26
Speaker 2: And she says, I'm going to show it to him.
32:28
Speaker 2: He'll see how happy the kids are and they'll earn
32:30
Speaker 2: money for college and it'll be a win win, And
32:34
Speaker 2: so she films this thing with the kids. They're kind
32:36
Speaker 2: of being crazy, she tells him, and he's pissed that
32:39
Speaker 2: she did it behind his back, and she says, like,
32:43
Speaker 2: I want to be like a momager. They keep using
32:45
Speaker 2: the word ma meager, and I hate it. And then
32:49
Speaker 2: she shows him the video with the kids that she
32:52
Speaker 2: filmed and there he's actually laughing and like sees that
32:55
Speaker 2: the kids are having fun and they weren't being pressured
32:58
Speaker 2: into it, and he's like, Okay, they can do it,
33:00
Speaker 2: but we're going to ask them always like if they're
33:03
Speaker 2: okay with it, and if they say no, then it's over.
33:06
Speaker 1: So I will say that she said on that which
33:09
Speaker 1: I think was last week, maybe that she was saying
33:12
Speaker 1: it was for Mother's Day, And so I went and
33:14
Speaker 1: looked at her stuff for Mother's Day. And first of all,
33:17
Speaker 1: she's somehow broken her wrist, so she's walking around with
33:19
Speaker 1: a cast and she explains, like, here's the thing that
33:22
Speaker 1: we shot for Mother's Day and it was it was
33:24
Speaker 1: something it was like she was on there, but it
33:27
Speaker 1: was like the day after Mother's Day she posted it. Yeah, okay, yeah.
33:32
Speaker 2: Ari and binyam ari Ella. Remember this is a very
33:35
Speaker 2: few heavy episode. So they they live in Vegas. She
33:41
Speaker 2: is doing a single af boudoir photo shoot, which is
33:45
Speaker 2: very outside her comfort zone. She looks like a Swedish
33:48
Speaker 2: pin up alien model. Her new face is very sweetish
33:54
Speaker 2: and very alien, but she looks pretty.
34:00
Speaker 1: She looks good. I saw these pictures on Instagram and
34:03
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, say you want to be on the
34:05
Speaker 1: single life without saying you some geez.
34:10
Speaker 2: So she looks good. It's just so different from her
34:14
Speaker 2: face before, and I kind of want to know what
34:16
Speaker 2: she did because I kind of want it done too.
34:18
Speaker 2: So then she goes on a blind date that was
34:20
Speaker 2: set up by her rabbi, and because she's like BFFs
34:24
Speaker 2: with her rabbi, so she's really nervous, but he seems
34:27
Speaker 2: he's cute and seems nice and they have as much
34:30
Speaker 2: fun as she can have because she's a very boring
34:33
Speaker 2: person and it is just the most boring date at
34:36
Speaker 2: this restaurant ever, but they both seem to be enjoying it.
34:39
Speaker 2: It's very much like the SNL with the the schweaty balls,
34:45
Speaker 2: where the are you enjoying your food? I like lasagna, yeah,
34:50
Speaker 2: I like when they layer the noodles and the sauce
34:54
Speaker 2: and then put cheese on top, and I didn't even
34:59
Speaker 2: write down, but they were talking. I was so boring.
35:01
Speaker 2: So Kenny and Armando, this was good. They show off
35:05
Speaker 2: their house. They they live in San Felipe, which is
35:09
Speaker 2: Armando's hometown.
35:11
Speaker 1: They they left Co City. They left Mexico City interesting.
35:14
Speaker 2: And Kenny says, it's very quiet here. It's too quiet here.
35:18
Speaker 2: But they have coyotes and scorpions and they're showing the
35:22
Speaker 2: house and he's like, don't look at my products. And
35:24
Speaker 2: he has like so many products by his bathroom sink,
35:27
Speaker 2: because that's he's He should show off his products and
35:31
Speaker 2: get paid to promote them.
35:32
Speaker 1: We'd like to know what he's doing.
35:34
Speaker 2: He looks amazing and has not aged. So it was
35:37
Speaker 2: important that they moved back to Armando's hometown because he
35:40
Speaker 2: felt like he ran away and he wanted to be
35:43
Speaker 2: like an openly gay man there and he felt before
35:46
Speaker 2: like he couldn't do that, and he wants to reconnect
35:49
Speaker 2: with his family. He owns a dog grooming business there.
35:52
Speaker 2: It's like a dog salon resort thing, and his sister
35:57
Speaker 2: was running it. Well he's away, but now he's running
35:59
Speaker 2: it and he works there part time. We see Kenny
36:01
Speaker 2: watching a dog and getting all wet because the dog
36:04
Speaker 2: shakes and it's very cute, and Hannah comes. She is
36:08
Speaker 2: so adorable still, but she's like a full teenager now,
36:12
Speaker 2: and they say she's like a princess. And Armando says,
36:16
Speaker 2: because Kenny can't be the princess, and Kenny goes, I'm
36:19
Speaker 2: the queen. She's the princes. So Hannah says, she's really
36:22
Speaker 2: excited for the immigration process because she wants to study
36:26
Speaker 2: in America and they are planning to move to America,
36:29
Speaker 2: and I was so excited about all of this, So
36:33
Speaker 2: this should be unhappily ever after this is like too much.
36:36
Speaker 2: I hope it is actual things happening to be on Diaries.
36:40
Speaker 2: So Diaries is like the filler show. This should not
36:43
Speaker 2: be this is the real plot line. So she they
36:47
Speaker 2: were not planning to move to America when he went
36:50
Speaker 2: the other way, he says, when I went the other way,
36:52
Speaker 2: he quotes the name of the show because he knows
36:54
Speaker 2: this is my brand. So when I went the other
36:57
Speaker 2: way to be with Armando, we weren't planning to be
37:00
Speaker 2: in America. But I think it'll be great for our
37:03
Speaker 2: family to be in America, and I want to reconnect
37:07
Speaker 2: with my family. My grandkids are growing up. My dad
37:10
Speaker 2: is really old and can't travel, Like I think it's important,
37:13
Speaker 2: and Armando's like, I totally agree. And we've lived together
37:17
Speaker 2: for seven years in Mexico, and I want to get
37:20
Speaker 2: close to your family too. So they applied for the
37:23
Speaker 2: visa four years ago, and even though they're legally married,
37:28
Speaker 2: they are only now off the wait list to get
37:30
Speaker 2: to America. It's so long, it takes so long, it's crazy.
37:35
Speaker 2: So they fly to another area of Mexico to the
37:38
Speaker 2: US consulate. They have to get on a plane to
37:40
Speaker 2: do this. They have to get They meet with the
37:43
Speaker 2: immigration lawyer who's like, first you have to get this
37:46
Speaker 2: medical tests, all of this work up and blood samples,
37:50
Speaker 2: pe samples, the whole nine yards and basically, if you
37:53
Speaker 2: get denied, you could eventually try again, but you can't
37:56
Speaker 2: appeal it, like with what's your face, Pasia. So Armando
38:01
Speaker 2: shaves his face, his beard because he's worried that with
38:04
Speaker 2: the beard he looks like a bad boy, which is
38:06
Speaker 2: hilarious because it's Armando and.
38:10
Speaker 1: He always looks just so sweet.
38:11
Speaker 2: He's so sweet. He's not a bad boy. And Kenny
38:15
Speaker 2: and Armando are Kenny and Hannah laugh at him when
38:18
Speaker 2: he reveals his face and they're like, well, your lips
38:21
Speaker 2: are so small, what are you? Looks so weird. So
38:26
Speaker 2: Hannah and Armando go to this medical exam and they
38:29
Speaker 2: come out and Armando says, we had some bad news.
38:33
Speaker 2: They found scarring on his lungs on the X ray,
38:37
Speaker 2: which is they have to now test him for tuberculosis,
38:41
Speaker 2: which is very common in Mexico. But if he has
38:45
Speaker 2: active tuberculosis, he will get denied and they'll have to
38:50
Speaker 2: push it like if it'll take He has interviews canceled.
38:55
Speaker 2: The interview the next day is canceled automatically because it
38:58
Speaker 2: takes like two months to get the TB results, and
39:01
Speaker 2: if it comes back negative, he'll have to reschedule the
39:05
Speaker 2: whole thing for a few months later. If it's positive,
39:08
Speaker 2: he'll have to wait a year and a half before
39:11
Speaker 2: his TV is for sure not active and he can
39:15
Speaker 2: apply again. It's like the hoops that people have to
39:18
Speaker 2: jump through. I mean crazy, so but I get it.
39:21
Speaker 2: They don't want infectious diseases. So Hannah will get her
39:25
Speaker 2: test results in just a few hours, so she'll probably
39:28
Speaker 2: get approved to go to the States, but Armando won't,
39:30
Speaker 2: so they all start crying and hugging. It's very sad.
39:33
Speaker 2: So they go to the hotel they wait for Hannah's results.
39:36
Speaker 2: She gets a clean bill of health so she gets
39:38
Speaker 2: to go to the interview the next day, and since
39:40
Speaker 2: Armando might be contagious, they won't let him in the building,
39:43
Speaker 2: so Kenny has to go with her and Armando just
39:46
Speaker 2: has to wait outside, and he's like, the people I
39:49
Speaker 2: was waiting with their family got denied. It's so hard.
39:52
Speaker 2: Now it's so strict, and like, this is really scary.
39:55
Speaker 2: So he Hannah comes out and she got She's like,
40:00
Speaker 2: she got approved, but they're all gonna wait until they
40:03
Speaker 2: can go together because I would hope yes. And now
40:07
Speaker 2: Armando's crying again, which is funny because Kenny's usually the crier,
40:10
Speaker 2: but Armando's the big crier. And then we get a
40:13
Speaker 2: black screen of death that says Armando's TB test came
40:17
Speaker 2: back negative and his visa interview and next medical exam
40:22
Speaker 2: are scheduled for four months from now.
40:25
Speaker 1: Wow.
40:26
Speaker 2: But this is like if you're trying to get a
40:28
Speaker 2: kid into school. This is like a whole school year,
40:32
Speaker 2: and it's been four years since they applied, Like that's crazy.
40:37
Speaker 2: So Josh is our last person. And I thought this
40:42
Speaker 2: was gonna be boring because Josh yes a bad boy fame.
40:49
Speaker 2: And we see this clip from last time when he
40:51
Speaker 2: was on Diaries where he asked Jen Elizabeth's sister and
40:57
Speaker 2: to be his girlfriend and she said no, and they
41:01
Speaker 2: were on a boat and it was really awkward and
41:03
Speaker 2: he said, I got turned down. It was really sucks,
41:06
Speaker 2: he says. Since then, they've decided they should just be friends.
41:09
Speaker 2: So they broke up, and he and his son go
41:12
Speaker 2: to dinner with his ex wife, who is the son's mom,
41:16
Speaker 2: and she looks like a little barbie with tattoos on
41:19
Speaker 2: her arms. She wears, she shows her abs in tops.
41:23
Speaker 2: It's like, no mom I've ever seen she looks.
41:26
Speaker 1: We saw one of the ex wives when he was
41:29
Speaker 1: dating Natalie. Remember they went on a boat and one
41:32
Speaker 1: of his ex wives was there on the boat. Was
41:34
Speaker 1: that this one that sounds kind of like she's very fit.
41:37
Speaker 2: Super pretty and super fit, and like has plump lips
41:41
Speaker 2: and like looks very well preserved, Like you can't tell
41:44
Speaker 2: what age she is that I.
41:46
Speaker 1: Don't remember the woman look alike. I remember the woman's
41:48
Speaker 1: even more like like a like a cool, beautiful surfer chick.
41:52
Speaker 2: I could see that that being this the real She
41:55
Speaker 2: does have tattoos, like a lot of tattoos on her arms, Okay, So,
42:00
Speaker 2: and she wears like tank tops and crop tops. Yeah,
42:04
Speaker 2: like and she has full on apps. So they're still
42:08
Speaker 2: on really good terms. But they got married when they
42:10
Speaker 2: were very young, like twenty four or something, and he
42:14
Speaker 2: was traveling a lot for work, and that's when their
42:17
Speaker 2: marriage went downhill because he was gone all the time.
42:19
Speaker 2: And he says, it's the biggest regret of my life
42:22
Speaker 2: is letting go of Candace. And so yeah, so they're
42:26
Speaker 2: boring their son with how they got married and they're
42:29
Speaker 2: like telling and he's not interested. And then, you know,
42:33
Speaker 2: Josh says, this is the first time that Candace and
42:35
Speaker 2: I are single at the same time, and it has
42:37
Speaker 2: me thinking, like you know, and so he asks her,
42:41
Speaker 2: will you will you go hang out with me, like
42:44
Speaker 2: on a date, just with us, and she says yes,
42:47
Speaker 2: so but and then Josh tells the story of his
42:51
Speaker 2: son's horrible accident when he lost his leg and like
42:54
Speaker 2: almost died and I did his friend die that was
42:58
Speaker 2: in the car.
42:58
Speaker 1: I feel like, yes, I feel like the and died.
43:00
Speaker 2: Yeah, we see the car. It's just destroyed. It's horrible.
43:04
Speaker 2: And Josh starts crying and and Candace was there and
43:08
Speaker 2: like telling the doctors take his leg, just save his
43:10
Speaker 2: life please, and like he says, it brought them close
43:13
Speaker 2: as a family and he doesn't take anything for granted now.
43:18
Speaker 2: So he takes his son to ping pong to they're
43:21
Speaker 2: playing ping pong and he's gonna ask his son if
43:23
Speaker 2: he's okay if he starts dating his mom again, and
43:26
Speaker 2: Jet the son just says, I don't think it's gonna
43:29
Speaker 2: work because you lived such different lifestyles. You've tried it before,
43:33
Speaker 2: you're always traveling, and it's not gonna work. But go ahead,
43:36
Speaker 2: you can try, but don't mess it up, Dad, because
43:39
Speaker 2: I know you're a piece of shit, and don't slide
43:41
Speaker 2: in anyone's DMS. You can't do that if you're dating mom.
43:45
Speaker 2: And Josh is like, no, I'm a new man now.
43:49
Speaker 2: I don't do things like that. I know I haven't
43:51
Speaker 2: been very commitment ready in the past, but I'm ready now.
43:55
Speaker 2: So I'm done like hooking up with the groupies of
43:59
Speaker 2: the ninety day bad which there are, which is crazy. Yeah, so,
44:05
Speaker 2: and Amy Archer is one of them. Yeah, they go
44:10
Speaker 2: roller skating, he and Candae and they're having a good time.
44:13
Speaker 2: It's like they're teenagers again and they're like having fun,
44:16
Speaker 2: and he says, I'm ready to go all in. So
44:19
Speaker 2: he tells her, let's just try again, let's do it.
44:22
Speaker 2: And she says, no, that's really scary things to go
44:25
Speaker 2: sideways quickly. And he says, no, I've grown up a lot,
44:29
Speaker 2: and we were so young when we got together and
44:31
Speaker 2: all this stuff, and she says, I don't want to
44:33
Speaker 2: get hurt again. I think maybe we should be friends
44:36
Speaker 2: and we could go on some fun dates now and then,
44:38
Speaker 2: but let's wait a couple years to make sure you're ready,
44:42
Speaker 2: because I don't think you're ready and I don't know
44:44
Speaker 2: if I'm ready. And so Josh has been now friend
44:48
Speaker 2: zoned twice on diaries. Yeah, and he goes it sucks again,
44:56
Speaker 2: but she seems to think of me as the self
44:59
Speaker 2: center guy, and that hurts. But I really think I've changed,
45:04
Speaker 2: and I'm she does still want to hang out with me,
45:06
Speaker 2: and you know, so, I think I have hope that
45:09
Speaker 2: we can work this out and get together.
45:12
Speaker 1: Interesting, Okay, Yeah, We'll have to go and look at
45:16
Speaker 1: this woman and see if she's the same one that
45:18
Speaker 1: was on the boat with him that time, because I
45:19
Speaker 1: can't remember that lady had ted. I remember she had
45:21
Speaker 1: like curly hair and she was very fit.
45:24
Speaker 2: Well, this lady has straight hair. But I don't know,
45:26
Speaker 2: but I can imagine if you saw your ex dating
45:31
Speaker 2: women like Daalie, you would think he's not ready, Like
45:35
Speaker 2: there's no way now he says he's grown up and
45:37
Speaker 2: sat ready to settle down. And you've seen the ninety
45:40
Speaker 2: day Bad Boys lip sync videos and two.
45:44
Speaker 1: Weeks ago he was trying to date Jin in Florida xact.
45:46
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
45:49
Speaker 1: Is that it for Kimberly's Corner? That's it, girl, You
45:52
Speaker 1: did that so fast, You did that in twenty two minutes.
45:56
Speaker 1: Whoa look at us, Look at us, guys. This is
45:59
Speaker 1: a very long episode, but that's what you get, and
46:01
Speaker 1: you're welcome. And we had to do Kimberly's Corner. And
46:05
Speaker 1: I don't know if we're gonna keep doing it here
46:08
Speaker 1: or if we're gonna have to move it over to
46:09
Speaker 1: the Single Life, because I don't know what they're gonna
46:11
Speaker 1: do with the schedule once the single Life tell all
46:13
Speaker 1: is over, they might move right over there if they're
46:16
Speaker 1: not gonna if they're gonna give us a between the
46:19
Speaker 1: sheets for single life? Are they going to keep ninety
46:22
Speaker 1: day diaries? Unclear?
46:23
Speaker 2: But single Life is over, well, we've got.
46:25
Speaker 1: Two more episodes. We don't have anything after it, but
46:28
Speaker 1: they're two hour episodes that tell alls.
46:30
Speaker 2: But what is coming after therapy in a castle?
46:35
Speaker 1: Oh right, last resort, So they might have a between
46:38
Speaker 1: the sheets for that.
46:40
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, yeah.
46:41
Speaker 1: And then are they going to keep dinety day diaries
46:43
Speaker 1: or anyway? Unclear? They don't ever tell us anything in advance.
46:47
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