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Why Kids & Adults Commit Suicide Dealing with #abuse #bully #bullys · Brett Keane and Eve Show

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so, we've seen a lot of incidences in the world where
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People have committed suicide because of being the victim of
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bullies, but I have a different theory on the reason why people
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commit suicide. I don't think it has really
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anything to do with the bully at all.
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I don't think it a bully has that much power to be able to
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push someone around to the point where they decide that they want
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to end their life. I think the real problem is the
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support structure and communities, as well as With
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family and also friends. I'll give you instant that I
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went through whenever I was a kid.
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I had actually made a video a while back called, I've never
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been bullied and I don't feel like I have, there's plenty of
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people. There's tons of people who've
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attempted to bully me, but they didn't succeed because of my
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philosophy. And my way of doing things, my
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idea of existence is it's my way or the highway type of concept
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and I won't put up with anybody standing in my way.
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Whenever I'm trying to achieve or accomplish things, it's just
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the way it is. Since I was a kid, I learned
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that and a lot of things in this world, I'm going to have to do
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it alone. I had a sick mother and a father
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who left the relationship at a very early age through divorce.
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And I found myself having to take care of myself and be
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responsible for myself. And I'll be honest with you, I
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had some moments pants whenever I was dealing with obstacles and
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challenges of people trying to hurt me or do things where I
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considered the idea of committing suicide and ending my
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existence. But it wasn't because every now
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and then whenever I went to school, somebody would hit me on
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the bus or they would call me names and then the other little
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bastards and the boss would laugh their ass off at when
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someone would strike me and then I would sit back and just try to
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mind my own business. Or whenever I was in school and
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someone would call me out at 3, p.m. after school goes through,
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or out at recess and want to whip my ass.
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See what it is. Is whenever you go home and your
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mother doesn't give a shit that you've been hit, or that you've
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been hurt. She doesn't even have the energy
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or the strength to ask you, how was your day?
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Did you learn anything in school?
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How are you feeling? Would you like to go out for an
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ice cream? Something like that.
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And when you have nobody to call about your issues of your Seems
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you start feeling like you're in the deep end of the pool.
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You start feeling like I have no safety.
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And one of the worst things is when you're in the middle of one
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of these events where you got some big brute of a prick trying
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to pound on you and you know that you have a lot of friends,
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you know, that there's people that you talk to and people that
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you've helped either you've helped them with their homework
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or you've tutored people, or you have done nice things for them
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and got them things. And you've been nothing but
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friendly, but as soon as someone attacks you and you're in a very
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threatening environment, all of a sudden these people just kind
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of disappear or dissipate as if they weren't even there to begin
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with OR sometimes it gets even worse.
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Some of these type of people that you consider your friends,
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they just kind of stand around, they stand there as if they're a
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part of the group whose circling around you.
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To watch to see what happens. And they do not think they just
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stand there, sometimes they'll go along with it and you'll be
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feel betrayed because they laugh and think it's funny when you're
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hurt or your damaged or maybe they just feel like for the
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moment. They're relevant or important
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because now there's people standing around them and they're
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not the ones, getting their ass whipped.
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A lot of people out there, they see bad things going on in the
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world all the time and they just sit back and do nothing.
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We already know that, it's inevitable that evil people are
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going to rape and murder and kill and do harmful things.
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We already know that, no matter where you go in life, there's
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always going to be someone who wants to beat you up, are hurt,
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you are emotionally scar you, but the most painful thing about
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it all is Whenever good people, just sit back and do nothing as
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far as I'm concerned. That's the true form of evil
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when people that you thought had a good heart people.
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You thought were stable people that you thought were good to
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stand around and do nothing and they actually participate or
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watch an event go down, and they do nothing to me.
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These people are on equal standing with a bully.
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The bully is simply aggressively doing what they want to.
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To do the bully. Most likely spent the entire
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night with an alcoholic father, that beat them up called them,
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every name in the book, and devalued them as a person and a
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human and because the bully doesn't feel strong enough or
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powerful enough to take on their own father, or hit them or tell
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them. Get away from me, leave me
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alone. They're too scared.
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All that rage and anger saved up for someone that they feel that
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would be safe to be taught. On take out all that anger and
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rage and all that animosity that they dealt with a bully is just
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as much as the victim, as the victim who's getting messed with
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by the bully. They have their reasons and they
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had their justifications. Usually bullies will get
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triggered like in classrooms whenever they see that you are
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the type of person who raises your hand, to answer a question,
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and you're really good at it. Bullies get triggered whenever
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they hear other adults out there, say something like good
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job. Johnny, you did a great thing
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when no one ever says that to them, no one ever says your.
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You're awesome. You did great because bullies
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are usually thinking about what it's going to be like whenever
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they go home and hang out with that alcoholic, father bullies
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usually think about how their mother is going to drag them
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through a bunch of bullshit that they don't want to put up with
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some listen to. Just, As I said, they're just as
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much as a victim as a bully. So the real problem here, ladies
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and gentlemen, whenever it comes down to it, it's the friends and
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the family who are the real reason why people adults, as
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well as children end up killing themselves, it's inevitable that
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when we walk out in this world, we're going to take hits every
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time you walk outside your door and you interact or engage with
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other people. You're getting in the ring with
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the world and the world sometimes seems to win.
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Every single time, there's always going to be someone who's
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going to do something that will make you uncomfortable.
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Make you feel awkward. Make you feel like less than
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shit. Whether it's your boss or
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somebody you're working with or someone you're going to night
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school. With, if you're an adult, I can
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name off thousands of different scenarios for you, which you
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probably already know because every single one of you probably
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experienced some of you Only have the bad experience of
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actually having family members do this to you, and you have
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this awkward position inside of you knowing that, will I live
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with this person? If they hit me and I turn around
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and jacked him in the damn mouth, they might have me
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arrested for assault, or they may decide to pick up something
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like a knife or go into their bedroom and get a gun and shoot
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me, right in the damn head. Cho, And unfortunately, in
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school have to be concerned with the same thing, it's not like
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the movies, where, you know, a kid gets his ass whipped, and
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then he goes, and he learns karate or something.
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And then at the end of the day, gets the girl.
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And then kicks a guy in the face with the stupidest move you've
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ever seen. Sometimes, if you try to fight a
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bully, a bully will not stop. Hitting you until you're dead or
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into the ground or a bully. If the bully feels like you're
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getting the better of them, they might pull out.
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Out of shank, they might pull out some pencils and stab you
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right in your fucking neck. Some bullies will go home and
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get a gun off of out of their father's gun Shelf.
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Come to school the next day, and blow you away, along with 30
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other students, just because they're unhappy and they're
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miserable. So as you can see, that's one of
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the reasons why we like television shows and movies
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because we like to live in a fantasy world where things are
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balanced and that evil can always be dealt with.
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But the reality is is there is nobody that is actually doing
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anything. There is nobody that's actually
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trying to help. At least that's how victims
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feel. They feel like there's no one to
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talk to you, that no one loves them.
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Anybody can get through a day of getting their ass whooped as
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long as whenever they come home are, they know that whenever
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they pick up their phone, there's someone that they could
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call that will listen to them and care.
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If you have that, then it gives you enough breath and gives you
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enough relief and peace in you to be able to go another day.
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And another day and another day So, what do you do about this?
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There are several phone numbers that people I suppose can call
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but even that feels weird talking to a total stranger.
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What you need is to actually feel like it's someone you can
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trust someone that you can care about not just someone that's
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sitting on. The other line is going to be
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jumping from phone called a phone call, talking to other
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people with miserable Lives who are willing to end at all.
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You need a mother. You need a father, you need
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family members and you need friends who have balls.
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You need people who have the courage to do the right thing
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and that is extremely challenging to find in this
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world. I myself, I'm one of those type
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of people where if I'm walking around with a friend and I see
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my friend get shit on by somebody, I end up by the
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roasting, the person verbally that is making the assault or
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attack. Or if they get physical, then I
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will be the first one to Jack that some of the bitch right in
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the mouth. That's the type of person I am.
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I feel like if you care about somebody and you love somebody
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or somebodies important to you or has any value whatsoever, So
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then they should be protected, they should be cherished, they
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should be appreciated. And whenever it comes to my
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family, I become absolutely homicidal as somebody attempts
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to cause any suffering that he my, my wife or kids, or anything
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like that. It causes me great distress when
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someone thinks that they can get away with doing something to my
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family because I know in my heart, not just because I'm a
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father and husband I know is a man that my kids are fantastic,
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they're beautiful. And they don't wish any harm or
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problems are in anybody else. And that's the same with my wife
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to fuck with them is just it's like, what kind of evil is going
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on in you that you think that it's okay to do some shit like
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that. That's my attitude about it.
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I've seen videos and I've read a lot of news reports a while
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back. There was a 13 year old kid on
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the internet on YouTube, where he said that he feels
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uncomfortable about gay marriages.
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And a huge community of non-believers decided to attack
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that kid over and over and over. They wouldn't leave them alone.
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They made thousands of memes about a 13 year old child who
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simply thought that it felt uncomfortable or uninteresting
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to him to have a sexual relationship with another male.
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Thirteen-year-old kid going through sexual development,
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trying to figure out their own identity, and the atheist took
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the so fucking personal that they felt like they needed to
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just continuously drive as much pain and anguish as they could
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into the kid. But the whole time while this
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was going on, even though I realize these bastards are going
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to be the bastards, I've always known them to be.
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It didn't quite surprised me or shocked me because I know that's
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how they are. That's the nature of the Beast.
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But I'm wondering my whole time. Where's Mom at, where's Dad?
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Where's, where's the, the kids support structure?
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Where is the people who he's supposed to be sitting with
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explaining to him how life works and what not to say in public
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and whatnot, what to say and what not to say?
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Where are his? His Guardians?
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Where are the people? While he's up there on video
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crying, and he sad, because he's people are breaking his heart
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and, and breaking his balls and all that.
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There's nobody in the background.
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There's no one coming in and hugging him and telling him to
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turn that shit off. That's the problem.
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Don't you see, evil people are going to do what he will people
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do. But then, where is the people
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who are supposed to be those who love you and care about you?
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You know, I told a friend recently my friend tells me
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well, he says he's my friend. He says brat, I just want to be
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honest with you, I want to be honest about my feelings, about
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things and all this, and I appreciate honesty I really do.
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But my friend likes to bring up a lot of things that he's
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watched. Our new tube.
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He likes to go to nasty videos. Done about me, why?
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Why Wells justification is he wants to know what other people
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think about me. Doesn't that sound exactly?
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Like what little kids do in school they gossip they spread
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rumors. Doesn't it sound like high
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school? Your friend says they want to go
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hang out with groups that treat. You like absolute shed or talk
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down to you and then they act like they don't understand why
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it is that might bother you, or it might be an issue if you ever
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run into someone like that, who says that they watch bad videos
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of you or they hang out with people who basically, Lee drag
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you through the dirt and then claim to be your friend
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question, their motives question, their intentions
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better yet, you should do what I do.
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Because nine times out of ten people like this are usually
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absolute trash and they're trying to just find dirt on you.
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They're lonely pieces of crap who are just looking for
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something to entertain them, even if it's your suffering and
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pain. What I do in these instances
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whenever I run into someone like that, I get rid of them.
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I cut them off at the knees. I shut them down there ended.
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It's like they're dead to me. no one out there, none of you
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should ever put up with some abusive person whether it's your
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family or friend or whatever, And instead of committing
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suicide or taking my own life. Like some people have done out
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there whenever they're attacked or brutally lied about or made
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false accusations about instead of doing all that.
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I say to myself. Who are these people do?
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They even matter? And why even bother listening to
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what they have to say because evil is going to be evil.
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The only thing that truly hurts me, the only thing it really
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causes me pain is whenever I've been deceived by someone that I
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think is a friend are whenever I feel like someone's a good
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person it turns out they're not because finding good people is a
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very rare thing. It's like trying to find a
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diamond and a haystack or needle whatever analogy you want to go
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with and when you find out that someone isn't good they're just
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better at being deceptive. Only evil, that's horrible.
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No one likes to feel like a fool.
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No one likes to feel stupid. Our fuel will naive.
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I like to consider myself a beautiful intelligent person and
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if I'm convinced someone's good and they do something stupid, or
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ignorant to me intentionally, that is hard to deal with that's
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hard to swallow. So what advice can I give people
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out there? Well, you got to make sure one
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that you find the right friends. You're not able to make the
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decision or choice or what family you're born to.
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So I can't help you on that. I hope that you at least have
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one uncle or nephew or niece or somebody in your family, maybe a
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grandparent or a foster parent that you can go to and talk to
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you about your problems. Don't ever feel like it's too
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stupid or feel like you're weak. Arf.
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Feel like you just got to be just try to ignore it because
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it's not going to go away. If you can't find somebody in
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your near family to do something then, go talk to a teacher, talk
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to your principal. There's no reason for you to
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have to go through it and as far as wanting to commit suicide,
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don't do that either. Think about it.
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What hurts more punching? The bully in the mouth, Are
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putting a gun to your head and pulling the trigger.
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Seems to me that taking yourself out of this.
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World's going to be a hell of a lot more painful than what some
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chump is doing to you out on playground. so something to
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think about, And also one other thing, if you really don't feel
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like, there's a teacher that cares about you and the
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principal won't. Listen, you have family members
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that aren't willing to listen to you.
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And you don't want to call some uncaring, stranger on the
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telephone, because you don't think they can do anything for
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you because they love a thousand miles away.
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And they're just going to send you a pamphlet send emails.
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Anyway, I do live shows and I have my phone number in the
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description. If you ever need somebody to
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talk to keep in mind, I love you and I care about you.
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I care about you and I value you as a person, but better than
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that. Jesus Christ loves you.
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He cares about you. He is watching and he is
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listening. And he's just waiting for you to
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pray. Not necessary that you need to
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be able to pray to ask him for help, because God knows what you
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need and help take care of you. Just be patient and give it
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time. God bless.