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Tazria and Metzora · Rabbi Benjy's Shiur

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  It's Friday. His real daughter for the
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  subject of Todd's, Rhea and mathura.
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  The positive 3 etcetera, says, call ya, mashayikhina, go by the
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  whole, all the time. When he has this particular,
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  plague skin disease called Sarah's body, a shave.
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  New hotel Machina is to dwell all alone outside of the camp.
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  See the rabbi's in the gemara, since masseur calls the
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  separation of Friends, by speaking against each other, he
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  to, as his punishment is separated from society.
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  If an individual can't learn to live within Society, then his
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  Your place is outside of it until he learns the value of
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  society, in the value of Harmony and good relationships, etc,
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  etc. Being all alone is unpleasant
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  it's distressful. That's why they put prison in
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  isolation. Everyone needs people.
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  Well, some people have a greater need to be around others.
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  Than song. We all need other people in our
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  lives. It can be a source of benefit,
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  but there's also a price to pay friends, and relatives can
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  drive, you nuts. Can do things to drive you
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  crazy. And here, you've got a
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  conundrum. Do you allow yourself to have
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  social interactions? Despite the fact that they drive
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  you crazy? Well, do you isolate yourself,
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  avoiding them? Driving me crazy.
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  Then you suffer the pain of being isolated, Well, when you
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  go shopping and you buy something, it's the joy of
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  purchasing not the distress of having spent money on it.
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  Imagine every time you went shopping, we look he inherited.
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  It was so painful. At to spend all this money
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  today. You have a what did you get for
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  it? Oh, I got stuff.
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  Okay, so then it was worthwhile the same needs to be true.
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  Says the terror of our interactions with people despite
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  the fact that people irritate us and drive us insane.
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  That is the price we pay for social interaction which is
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  worth so much more than the annoying Behavior.
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  Although we all know it doesn't always feel that way but that's
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  the theory nonetheless to keep moving on to the second of this
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  week surgery as well as those Tia Torres hammered.
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  So this is these are the laws of the leper or the person stricken
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  with Soros went beyond to her office on the day of his
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  purification. This is how he can fix himself
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  and get back to society, says the it man.
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  Ezra on this plastic, the terrorist states of the person
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  we brought to the Cohen. Not to, he will come on his own
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  to the come in the Hoover, he will be brought the reason is
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  because after that surrounds clears out, people not want to
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  bring the offerings at his responsible to bring.
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  When a person has aroused, he'll definitely claim that I've
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  called, who will bring what he needs to do.
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  All the sacrifices, of course, he'll fix his mistake.
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  But once he is cured, he can forget about it and back my
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  Skin's normal. No one's going to see any
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  different. No one's going to know.
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  Now that nothing is pressing him.
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  He'll focus on other things and not meet his obligations.
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  Some people find it difficult to meet responsibilities when they
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  need favor, from someone or want to impress someone, they might
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  make many promises when the time came comes to keep those
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  obligations to do everything they can to avoid their duties
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  and responsibilities a person with Integrity will derive
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  pleasure from eating his responsibilities, the won't need
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  others to coerce them. The more pleasure, you feel.
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  We're meeting our obligations for more motivated, you will be
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  to meet them. So not only does this person
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  have to recognize That friendship and people might be a
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  source of pain and distress, But ultimately it's the price.
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  We pay for living in a society and it's worth paying.
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  It's also worth paying up your duties and responsibilities and
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  doing things properly. In fact, you could almost see
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  that for Hoover, Tyler Cowen is part of a process of he
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  humiliated others. He is now humiliated because he
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  is brought rather than coming by himself.
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  So anyway, there are those Ooh, irritate us from the outside,
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  but sometimes we actually irritate ourselves.
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  We are Our Own Worst Enemy, not just the enemies from outside of
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  drive us crazy. Sometimes, we too can be an our
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  own enemies and said, the Torah tells us this week, get a grip.
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  Do what you have to do live harmoniously my friends, the
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  lovely day, and a good job.