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- 0:00This is the Late Late Lunch Show with Rod Maxwell.
- 0:04So it's Rod Maxwell for Radio Alty and today I'm out and about,
- 0:07not too far away from my house in the beautiful Stamford Park and I'm here at
- 0:11Cafe in the Park which is part of the overall CFC organisation and I'm with
- 0:17Kelvin Lau who's the manager of the cafe.
- 0:20Kelvin how are you? Yes I'm good thank you, how are you too? I'm very well thank you.
- 0:24Now I think this cafe is almost like a best kept secret.
- 0:28It's sort of in the park, and it's a beautiful location, and it's a great place
- 0:32to come for a cup of coffee, a cake, or whatever.
- 0:36Tell me about the background to the cafe.
- 0:38Yeah, there's cafes of very interesting things. There's some elderly customers
- 0:43come here, or they already live in the ocean, maybe 30 or 40 years.
- 0:49When they come in, they ask, oh, I don't know, here's a cafe in the park at Stamford Park.
- 0:56Yeah, because yes, I told them, yes, because we don't have any advertising,
- 1:01marketing, and we have just a big banner, just have a cafe in the park here.
- 1:06So, oh, there's a nice place in the park so we can get coffee here, take a rest.
- 1:12That's it, our cafe in the park.
- 1:13As you stay here, we are under the Counseling and Family Center, CFC.
- 1:21CFC, we do everything, family counselling, especially children's counselling part.
- 1:28Even just when you come to a cafe in the park, buy everything,
- 1:32coffee, food, everything, that's helped us to let children grow correctly.
- 1:39And when I've been down here in the past and had a cup of coffee,
- 1:42there's a lovely atmosphere of the young children and their mothers or their carers bring it down.
- 1:48And that brings an energy to the cafe as well.
- 1:51Yeah, because we are located in the park, so our customer, there's mainly just,
- 1:59grandparents and sons and kids,
- 2:02young parents and kids, and some maybe dog runners or elderly couple.
- 2:07So just once let me feel pleased that so once maybe I'm working here for four years already.
- 2:15Before, I just saw some young mom that was pregnant.
- 2:20After that, the newborn baby, just very little. And one year by year, just let they grow up.
- 2:28And yeah, I think that's so lovely.
- 2:31Yeah, but sometimes, yes, they will still get very energetic.
- 2:34We are happy and we have years by year, our bonding from the cafe and the customer,
- 2:43still being stronger and stronger.
- 2:46We got quite a lot of royalty customers to come back again and again.
- 2:52We are very happy.
- 2:54The one thing, either the newborn baby, but as I said, there's so elderly people,
- 3:00but that's very, I think, with some upset things year by year.
- 3:04Once maybe we see some elderly people every week, but sometimes he or she didn't come again.
- 3:11So maybe just try to ask some friends, oh, oh, oh, sorry, Kevin.
- 3:16I'm really sorry. Just go on.
- 3:19So sometimes it's just a good pity.
- 3:24I understand that totally because when I go out dog walking I can meet somebody,
- 3:29you might meet them over a certain time and then suddenly they don't you don't meet them again,
- 3:35and you're sort of thinking what's happened and then you find out later on that
- 3:39maybe they passed away or they've become ill,
- 3:42and I guess what you're relaying to me there is that there's a sense of community
- 3:46there's a sense of family to this cafe yes there's also now I told you about
- 3:51the bonding We have come very strong.
- 3:53Just as you say, maybe not family, just like a friend.
- 3:57Just maybe come here, take a coffee. If not busy, at summertime we are very busy.
- 4:03We are talking about the weather, what happened the weekend, everything on top.
- 4:08If there's a grandparent, talk about their grandson, how not he in the school. Just everything.
- 4:15So Kelvin, can I ask, you're originally from Hong Kong. Yes.
- 4:19And you came over, how many years ago did you come to England?
- 4:23Yes, I came here since 2022, January.
- 4:29Maybe I know maybe everyone lives here, you may find that since that year,
- 4:37you can see a lot of Asian face into maybe southern part of Manchester.
- 4:42That is because maybe some people may know that with what happened in Hong Kong in 2019.
- 4:50There's some political issue with CCP.
- 4:54So they use a more strong rule that they launched Russian Lulu to try to control,
- 5:01your speech, your freedom, your everything.
- 5:04So because that's a long story, if people know that you can search Hong Kong
- 5:09in 2019, there's a whole picture that you can learn more about it.
- 5:13Some Hong Kong people, especially family, they have children,
- 5:18so they try to make their children a good future.
- 5:22They like to bring laws to everyone.
- 5:25So they want to move not only to the UK, but some in Canada,
- 5:29Australia, some in Europe, everywhere in the world, to give a more good future
- 5:36for their children, as more freedom.
- 5:39So that's it, we come here. As you say, many people and customers ask me,
- 5:45oh, how is it different to Hong Kong or UK?
- 5:48Yes, I think there's quite a bit different for even for eating culture,
- 5:53even maybe entertainment.
- 5:55Everything is quite different or in terms of consumer culture is quite different.
- 6:00So just one example of that is Hong Kong before.
- 6:04Hong Kong, you can eat everything during the midnight.
- 6:10But up here, maybe after, not except the Manchester City Centre,
- 6:15maybe just like the small time, just like the old time, maybe after 8 o'clock, everything's closed.
- 6:21Yes, but in Hong Kong, restaurant may be from 10pm till 10pm, 11pm.
- 6:28And if you want to buy something during the midnight, you just go down to the
- 6:32street. you can find convenience stores everywhere, different kinds of small
- 6:38restaurant, cafe everywhere.
- 6:41Or you can just take on delivery. So you don't think about, oh,
- 6:45I need to drive some so far away to buy something. But UK, actually, it's quite boring.
- 6:52Yeah, to be honest, yes, yeah. But everything, the rhythm, the speed is very,
- 6:57very slower than Hong Kong. So I no need to rush everything.
- 7:03Even though the custom come here,
- 7:05Oh, so even with elderly people, mother, even the kids, I say the very true,
- 7:12oh, no, no, no, you just take your time to do the coffee.
- 7:15Yeah, that's it. It's quite interesting. I think that, how to say,
- 7:18the thing that fits out of my expectation. Oh, also, the mindset for local people
- 7:26is quite different from local people, from us.
- 7:29So that change from the bustle of Hong Kong to what you're describing as the
- 7:34relative calm and slowness of coming here, that was a huge change for you.
- 7:41And you're a young man. So, I mean, how have you adjusted?
- 7:45I mean, obviously, having a sense of community around you, and this cafe is about community. Yes.
- 7:52That must have become more important to you when you moved away from Hong Kong
- 7:57and you settled here. Yeah, yeah.
- 7:59First year, I worked here at the first beginning.
- 8:04I was the only Asian man here. Even at the beginning, my English is okay but not good.
- 8:12And just some colleagues, their accent I never heard before in Hong Kong.
- 8:18So I used for a long time to adapt different kinds of UK accent.
- 8:27Now I'm okay, but not 100%, 70%, 80%.
- 8:32But it's really, really better compared with the few years before.
- 8:36The most communities say Cafe in Nepal is just a charity.
- 8:41We can't afford to do very huge labor costs. So we really rely on the volunteer.
- 8:48I'm working the first year. There's not enough volunteer. with just me,
- 8:53the other pay staff, maybe just two or three volunteers.
- 8:56After one day, this quite inspired me. One day, there's one,
- 9:00also the Hong Kong couple come here for coffee.
- 9:03They just came to UK maybe a few months. They said, oh, why don't you ask Hong
- 9:08Kong people to be a volunteer?
- 9:10Yes. Oh, yes. Oh, that's because as I am Hong Kong people, I think Hong Kong
- 9:16people don't like to be a volunteer.
- 9:20Because they're too busy. too busy of seven days, so there's no time.
- 9:25But, oh, so I'm just trying to ask,
- 9:28In some social group, do anyone have an interest to be a volunteer?
- 9:34Oh, very, I don't realize there's the replies.
- 9:38So many people reply, they are very interested to be a volunteer here.
- 9:45I think the most important thing is in Hong Kong, both parents go out for work.
- 9:51They hire the domestic worker to take care of children. But here,
- 9:56if you ask for care, it's very expensive.
- 9:59So there's either father or mother just go out to work and the other one just
- 10:06stay home. So after sending the students to school, maybe in the morning during
- 10:11the afternoon, they're nothing to do.
- 10:13They are willing to come here to be volunteer. Maybe after that,
- 10:18they can take the children back after school.
- 10:20And the most thing is here.
- 10:23We can give the opportunity to local working experience once they are still.
- 10:29Unemployed or after their children grow up and they have time to find a work
- 10:36that's a better place to gain more working experience here.
- 10:40Kelvin, you were just describing to me there how volunteering can help people
- 10:45almost get back into a working lifestyle, also connect with the community.
- 10:50And that's definitely, I mean, in some ways I sometimes think that the UK is
- 10:54run by volunteers in a way.
- 10:56But that's one of the roles then here where you bring people in and they get
- 11:00back into sort of a working cycle and they get to meet people as well.
- 11:05That must give you a great sense of purpose and achievement when you see somebody
- 11:09coming through and they get back into that work mode.
- 11:13Yeah, they're so happy because it's not only Hong Kong volunteers,
- 11:17but also we have a lot of local UK, local people, volunteers.
- 11:23Maybe they have difficulty to work outside and have different kinds of issues.
- 11:30They have some retired people here to work and make coffee.
- 11:35And even though they are not good, maybe doing coffee or making food,
- 11:42they're likely to stay here, do something, washing, cleaning, everything.
- 11:46I'm very happy and appreciate.
- 11:49All of them, they're happy to volunteer in the cafe, but I'm very happy with that, yeah.
- 11:56Has that helped you settle because you've got a sense of a family around you,
- 12:01even though they're not direct relatives, but it's helped you feel more part of the area?
- 12:07Yes, because before I moved to the other place, I lived in Alterntown for a few years.
- 12:13Just here, maybe five minutes walk to the cafe. So I think I like there's not
- 12:20only just in this Stamford Park, maybe…,
- 12:24during the whole Oceania area. Sometimes, because we serve just the local community,
- 12:30just almost them customers, we just live around five minutes, ten minutes walk here.
- 12:36Sometimes I walk to down the street, so hi, Kelvin, hi, Kelvin.
- 12:39Oh, nice to meet you. Sometimes I go to bar at night, and the next door is a
- 12:43vegan customer may come to the cafe every week. Oh, why are you here?
- 12:48I have a dinner and drink a beer with my wife. Yeah, that's lovely.
- 12:53Even I don't want to be so famous.
- 12:59But they're so happy just to say when I walk to the street, just say some different
- 13:05kind of customers, say, hello, how are you? Yeah, that's really lovely.
- 13:09And that is actually so important, isn't it? Because it gives you a sense of belonging. Yeah, yes.
- 13:15And that this is a place that accepts you and you can live in.
- 13:20It's a small thing, but it's a really important thing, isn't it? Yeah, yeah.
- 13:23So I think as I'm the,
- 13:26you can say I'm the immigrant to here, so I don't expect local people,
- 13:33but I should put more passion or put more effort to adopt the new place, even though,
- 13:40the weather, the place, the people, I need to adopt the new things.
- 13:45That's because in Hong Kong, I'm doing office jobs.
- 13:48But in here, I'm doing some catering. That's quite different for me.
- 13:53That's quite good for me for doing catering jobs. I meet different types of people, kids.
- 13:58That's good for me to learn what happens.
- 14:03In this community, sometimes they say, oh, there's a new restaurant somewhere.
- 14:10We try that, or there's a new thing. Oh, there's some maybe,
- 14:15there's the tree drop during somewhere.
- 14:18Just last weekend, there's a storm. They tell me, oh, there's something happened somewhere.
- 14:24Also, yes, I think that cafe is not just cafe.
- 14:28That's maybe as a community place, just people come here, chit chat, share, anything's.
- 14:36Maybe make some friends. Yeah, I will volunteer. We are so lot of volunteers.
- 14:43They work with different people and they can ask to share this opinion, everything.
- 14:49I think not only me, but also it's good for everyone.
- 14:52As I talk to you, one of the things that comes to mind is that I imagine in
- 14:56Asia and in Hong Kong, family is a very important thing and it's a centrifuge of your life.
- 15:03And actually, that's what you're bringing here. and here at the cafe in the
- 15:08park, there is that family feeling and that must be one of the reasons why people like coming here.
- 15:15Yeah, sure. So how to say, so I think local people, they are concerned about
- 15:21the service, just how we treat them.
- 15:25So we put our pressure, treat them.
- 15:28I don't think there's a customer, they're just a baby friend,
- 15:31maybe friends, sometimes a baby family that they come in I don't think they
- 15:38buy a coffee it just buy a coffee but I think,
- 15:41behind the coffee I think we can bring a lot to them even that oh not just a
- 15:48coffee just oh I very cold warm maybe.
- 15:51About the bonding I think I think bonding maybe not only here but everywhere I think.
- 15:58Bonding communication that's a I think that's quite important just like here
- 16:04at the CFC, so why are you constantly just really to communicate maybe different
- 16:09kinds of people to know their problem?
- 16:13To know their problem, everything, I think it is important for me maybe CFC and the community.
- 16:20I think that is so important and actually only a sort of community based organisation
- 16:25can do that, to have the compassion to have the time to even just to sit and
- 16:30listen to somebody because,
- 16:32in a commercial cafe people are just really interested in sales and turning over here,
- 16:38I always feel like you're creating a place where people can come and talk if
- 16:42they want to, share if they want to. It's quite a nice environment.
- 16:47Yes, yes, it's very nice. Also, not only the cafe, that's nice,
- 16:52but also outside the cafe, there's a Stanford Park.
- 16:56Maybe our famous Stanford Park, Myra and Jackie do very well.
- 17:01So they do very well and address more people playing in the park.
- 17:07And when they play in the park, they found that there's a cafe,
- 17:12they came here and buy something, our CFC get the benefits.
- 17:18I think that's just sort of linkage.
- 17:21One, there's linkage one by one to each other. So I think.
- 17:27We can't live without anyone. So that's bonding.
- 17:32If that's Stanford Park, it's just, oh, there's a road bridge and the playground
- 17:39area, just no end of the operation. There's no one coming. We can't survive.
- 17:45And I'm just thinking, with the hustle and bustle of Hong Kong,
- 17:49the high rises, et cetera, I can imagine park space is very cherished by people.
- 17:55It's a place where they can meet.
- 17:57That's very much the role of the likes of Stanford Park. And we have a lot of
- 18:01lovely parks in the area.
- 18:02So is that something that you, you know, in Hong Kong is also a factor that
- 18:06people like those communal spaces? It's totally opposite.
- 18:11There's a, in Hong Kong, the working environment, working environment,
- 18:16sometimes I can say are toxic.
- 18:18Because you know some people, you know that Hong Kong, you can say Hong Kong
- 18:22is like London, high speed, high rhythm, just work, work, work.
- 18:28I try to, in Hong Kong, I work every day on July, Monday to Sunday,
- 18:37yeah, to July, because I'm very busy.
- 18:39Yes, and after work, I need to handle many things. So you can say that maybe 24-7 work is quite hard.
- 18:51You can't stop. Even though you walk on the street, you can see everyone just
- 18:56locked down on the ground. No smiling.
- 18:59Yes. I think that's a city. That's time and money.
- 19:05But now here in Manchester, especially the little town, we can see the face,
- 19:12the people of the face keep smiling.
- 19:14And you will say in the morning when you walk in the park, you say,
- 19:17hi, good morning. It never happened in Hong Kong.
- 19:20Yes, when you say, when you say hello to someone and the,
- 19:25that people would say, what's going on? Really? Yes, yes.
- 19:29So you find here the environment and the society a lot more friendly.
- 19:34Yeah, sure, absolutely. Yeah, absolutely. Here it's more friendly.
- 19:38So you can't even know when just walk around the park and one letter of people
- 19:43just joking in the park and we are high contact and say, hi, good morning.
- 19:49You're never helping in Hong Kong. And people don't sometimes understand how
- 19:54valuable that is, and they take it for granted. But that little hello to somebody
- 20:01can be the difference in their day sometimes, can't it?
- 20:04Yeah, yes, I know. But it seems, I think, the Hong Kong people really protect by themselves.
- 20:10So it seems something, some strange people say hello to them.
- 20:15They think, oh, what happened? You want to take something to me?
- 20:20Take something for me? So we try to put it, I know.
- 20:22But here, I think it's the thing, the people here is quite, I think it's simple or natural.
- 20:30No more concern about, I just feel they put their heart to the other one.
- 20:37So they, that's one of the most things of fun.
- 20:40That's things when we get on the bus, we say hello to the driver.
- 20:47And when we get off the bus and we say thank you.
- 20:50But that's never happened in Hong Kong, just when you get out of the beat and,
- 20:56go on, and when we arrive, just go out.
- 21:01Yeah, that atmosphere or vibe is quite different between the...
- 21:05Hong kong and uk gavin let's talk about the cafe yes okay,
- 21:09i mean clearly there is a very strong food culture in hong kong and a certain
- 21:15type of cuisine etc then you come to britain and as much as we are very multicultural
- 21:21there's also some very specific british foods,
- 21:25what was your first impression when you came i came into the cafe actually and
- 21:29you it was the cakes and the coffee and stuff like that.
- 21:32And what have you, have you introduced anything, a little bit of Hong Kong into what you do?
- 21:39For the food culture, at the first beginning, you know, UK is an island.
- 21:45It's a very, very big island.
- 21:47And I think the UK should be similar to Japan. There's more, many, many seafood.
- 21:56But when I come, yeah, I have many, many seafood.
- 21:59In fact, No seafood Seafood just means king plum Squid Mousseau That's.
- 22:09It Yes So for an island You were shocked That we don't actually have A more,
- 22:13bigger range of Interest in seafood Yeah, yeah, sure,
- 22:19Yeah, that's quite Quite shocked Because before I worked here I worked in a
- 22:25Chinese restaurant And that's quite Shocked for me there's people,
- 22:30local people eating Chinese food that sometimes are…,
- 22:36It's so very interesting that.
- 22:40The private Chinese restaurant manager gave the menu to me, and I see that kind of food menu.
- 22:49I can't find anything in Asia. Yeah, that's interesting. So here,
- 22:54local people, maybe just the most items, sweet and sour chicken, Singapore, I like it.
- 23:03Chai meal? Yeah, chicken fried rice, chicken chow mein, palm toast.
- 23:10Every table, all the foods are almost similar. Same thing with crispy duck.
- 23:16I think crispy duck is maybe just from the Peking duck from China.
- 23:23The presentation is completely different. yeah so I know there's a Chinese.
- 23:29They train so many try to make the local people want to eat them I know that
- 23:35but sometimes that's quite interesting,
- 23:38also one thing question is there's chips they're always with curry sauce yeah,
- 23:45curry sauce and I think it's okay chips with curry sauce yes but the other colleague said that,
- 23:53oh Kevin you think that For us, we also,
- 23:58the curry sauce with potato or whether to get that. That's the same thing.
- 24:02But now local just separate the two things.
- 24:06I have a confession to make because when I was growing up in Northern Ireland,
- 24:09one of my treats in the week at school
- 24:12was to go down to the local Chinese restaurant that they'd take away.
- 24:16And they did a thing which was half rice, half chips and curry sauce.
- 24:21Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Right?
- 24:23And it was actually, The curry sauce was very flavorsome And there was lots
- 24:29of carbs And it was about a pound,
- 24:32But it couldn't be further away From proper Oriental Chinese or Asian cooking
- 24:38But you're a bit shocked At,
- 24:41the fascination of curry chips and curry rice Yes,
- 24:46there's a question I'm not sure local people have two different insights there's
- 24:53one standard for Chinese food and there's another standard.
- 25:00For any food except Chinese food.
- 25:02Yes. Yeah, the two different standards. Yeah, I'm not sure.
- 25:07Yes, maybe we have a great Indian food, great Italian food, great Spanish,
- 25:13great, great. But sometimes,
- 25:16but why does only Chinese things.
- 25:20Other special standards. So I'm just thinking about it. It's very interesting.
- 25:26But the thing is now time trains as more Hong Kong people come here.
- 25:32Many of them own their business. Now you can see not only here,
- 25:39maybe in Manchester, different area in Manchester, you can see a lot of Hong
- 25:44Kong style restaurants.
- 25:45Cha Chan Chan, the tea restaurant. you can taste very local Hong Kong food.
- 25:54I'm also trying to introduce something to Hong Kong-style sandwich to our colleagues.
- 26:01So what's a Hong Kong-style sandwich then?
- 26:04Yes, one thing, they have a toast sandwich with a ham and scrambled egg.
- 26:11Yeah, mixed together, that's nice. Also, they have some, yeah,
- 26:18maybe a toast sandwich, corn egg with cornbread.
- 26:24Yeah, that's quite typical dishes. Yeah, that's quite a typical dish in a tea
- 26:30restaurant in Hong Kong.
- 26:32Yes, many things more. I also would buy some dim sum from Chinese restaurant
- 26:39to let them taste it. It's really nice.
- 26:42So you've been introducing these different things into the menu here at Coffee in the Park?
- 26:47I'm trying, but I know at any times, maybe try to run by one. Maybe seasonal.
- 26:54Know, maybe this month, maybe this few months, I try to launch maybe that toast
- 27:01sandwich, and the other few months, different kind of things, right?
- 27:06Some is okay, but some is a Lundfork customer order. You say,
- 27:12oh, what is this? I don't know what, I don't know what. But I'm trying before. It's a jacket potato.
- 27:18I try to make it with curry sauce, curry chicken. Yeah, I think that's okay.
- 27:25Many people like that. Yeah, try to do different kind of presentation rather
- 27:30than chips and curry sauce.
- 27:35I'm very glad to hear. It's Rob Maxwell and Radio Alty on the Late Late Lunch Show.
- 27:39And today I'm out and about. I'm down in Sanford Park at the building,
- 27:44which is the family council, the CFC, isn't it? The Counselling and Family Centre.
- 27:54And I'm speaking with Kelvin Lowe, who is the manager of the cafe here called Cafe in the Park.
- 28:00It's just interesting, the take on food, and you've been introducing things.
- 28:04But you've had to adjust the menu a little bit for that.
- 28:08Tell me, events that you run or events that are run here and how does the cafe
- 28:13get involved in, whether it be Halloween or whether it be Christmas,
- 28:16do you do things around those times?
- 28:18Yes, during the Halloween, because we're opening for the daytime,
- 28:23I think Halloween is mainly at light. We are not related to them,
- 28:28but we also don't have so fancy decorations.
- 28:32We just saw the pumpkin, spider, witch in different areas in the park.
- 28:39And also we already have pumpkin baskets, put chocolate and candy,
- 28:46let kids take one, that's for free.
- 28:51Every time after school, kids come here. Oh, that's free. They are very happy.
- 28:57Not only the kids, but also adults are happy. Can I take one? Yes, okay.
- 29:01That's really nice. They are happy. I'm happy. That's okay. Also Christmas.
- 29:07Before that, we have some, me and the counselor center, maybe we do some raffles
- 29:16for the Christmas hamper.
- 29:19I don't know what happened this year, but last few years, I really say thank
- 29:23you. Different kind of customer, they buy the ticket for the hamper.
- 29:29Maybe I will do, I'm not sure we communicate with the staff.
- 29:33I hope maybe we can do the raffle for the hamper.
- 29:38Maybe I will discuss to them later. And I guess, do you celebrate Chinese New Year? Yes, yes, yes.
- 29:44I will celebrate with the Chinese New Year from the early February.
- 29:51Yes. For me, I'm writing Chinese cryptography.
- 29:56I will write the web banner. Yes. I'm writing some very lucky words.
- 30:04It may be literally translated, but stay healthy, stay wealthy.
- 30:08We'll study something like that. Also, the past few years, the Manchester Hong
- 30:14Kong community, they will make the Chinese new year market in the city center.
- 30:22So I already joined them to do some volunteer work.
- 30:28Almost three years already. Very good.
- 30:32Yeah, yeah. Very good. So if you're in the area, if you're in Stamford Park
- 30:35and you fancy a coffee, come down to the bottom corner by the Play Park where the Kids Park is.
- 30:40You see the building, which is the counselling centre, and in there is a cafe
- 30:46in the park. And I've got to say, the food is wonderful, the coffee is lovely,
- 30:49and you'll always get a lovely welcome as well. Kelvin, thank you very much for your time. Yes.