Latest / SpaceTomatoes / Marc J Defant - Evolutionary Psychology vs. Social Constructionism S2-EP12
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- 0:00making sure that I say things in the right manner anymore.
- 0:04Well, I think that very thing causes a lot of men to, you know, they're tiptoeing around in the university.
- 0:13Now, I work in a university environment, so, you know, I see that aspect of the world.
- 0:18Maybe my aspect is different, but I see men, you know, almost cowering on university campuses because of fear.
- 0:27or they might say the wrong thing, or get canceled, or whatever else goes on.
- 0:31all right everybody welcome back to another episode of the space tomatoes podcast
- 0:59I'm Havoc, and we've got your other host.
- 1:02Alex, hello. Welcome.
- 1:04And today we have a special guest, Dr. Mark J. Defont.
- 1:09He is a professor of geology and geochemistry at the University of South Florida.
- 1:15Welcome to the show, Mark.
- 1:16Well, good to be here. Thank you for having me.
- 1:20Awesome, awesome.
- 1:21So, found each other on Podmatch, and you have a new paper you've published.
- 1:29You want to give us a little overview?
- 1:33Sure.
- 1:34You mean about the paper?
- 1:36Yes, sir.
- 1:37Okay.
- 1:39Well, I got interested in evolution of psychology a long time ago, and of reason, I've just
- 1:46been reading an immense amount on it and started to feel like I had the background to publish
- 1:53papers in it. As you alluded to when you introduced me, I'm not really by training an evolutionary
- 2:01psychologist. My expertise is in geochemistry and I studied volcanoes for years. But evolutionary
- 2:10psychology got me so interested, I kind of now dabble in it. One of the things that
- 2:15struck me was that feminists were attacking a whole field of evolutionary psychology. And I
- 2:23started delving into it in the feminist literature and realized that it was really because evolutionary
- 2:30psychology was not agreeing with their ideology. It wasn't a matter that they were finding
- 2:39evidence to suggest that evolutionary psychology was wrong. In fact, I've seen in the feminist
- 2:45literature where they're saying, hey, you know, I can see why people are interested in this.
- 2:50It does ring true, but we've got to stop this messaging right away because,
- 2:58you know, it doesn't go along with what we want. And that's, in my opinion, that's the wrong way
- 3:04to take science. I'm really science first kind of world. So I make all my decisions based on,
- 3:12you know, what science tells me and what the data tells me. And coming from, you know,
- 3:17a research background in science, I feel like maybe I bring a fairly unique set of tools,
- 3:25you know, to the table about evolutionary psychology and social constructionism. I got
- 3:33of fly flying around here. Anyway, we're in Florida, so that's what you expect. So,
- 3:41ultimately, feminists are promoting this idea of social constructionism. Do you or your audience,
- 3:50you think they know anything about this? Or is that something I should go into?
- 3:55Yeah, let's go into it.
- 3:56Go ahead and go into that a bit.
- 3:58Social constructionism is this idea that we're born with a blank slate.
- 4:06We have no instincts.
- 4:07We learn everything through culture.
- 4:12And it's actually, you know, the complete opposite of what evolutionary psychology is saying,
- 4:21that, you know, we come into the world with a lot of instincts and behaviors,
- 4:26primarily masculinity and femininity are actually behaviors, so to speak, that we've inherited from
- 4:38thousands and thousands of years, hundreds of thousands really, of evolution in hunter-gatherer
- 4:45society. So civilization has just been too short for evolution to have impact us, the 10,000 years
- 4:54of civilization from an evolutionary perspective has not had time to select for different behaviors.
- 5:03So we kind of bring into civilization a caveman kind of mentality, if you will, and those are
- 5:11left over from what was needed to survive in hunter-gatherer society. And that ultimately
- 5:20seems to fly in the face of what feminists want society to be. And I think that one thing is doing
- 5:29an immense amount of harm to young men in particular, but also I think to young women,
- 5:36because it misunderstands what evolutionary psychology is about. We're not trying to say
- 5:44we need to behave the way hunter-gatherers did. It's just that we have to recognize that we have
- 5:52some of the characteristics that evolved in hunter-gatherer society that we bring in today
- 5:58that forms our opinions and our ideas on society. And I'd like to eventually get into some of that
- 6:08if you agree. But ultimately, I think that's the bugaboo with the feminists. And when I started
- 6:15looking at the feminist literature, I really saw a lack of rigor in their approach. Social
- 6:24construction doesn't offer, or at least what they're saying social construction is, doesn't
- 6:31offer any alternatives data-wise. I never hear when I'm talking to a social constructionist,
- 6:39I never hear from them, oh, well, here's the evidence that suggests that social constructionism
- 6:47is correct. They simply argue against evolutionary psychology. And a lot of the ways they argue
- 6:55against evolutionary psychology is simply that it doesn't agree with their ideology and that
- 7:02sometimes they'll even say that it's trying to take us backwards. It's not. It's just trying to
- 7:07tell us that we may have been selected in the past for behaving this way, and we have to deal
- 7:15with that in society. Whether we want to act in that way or not is up to us, but we should know
- 7:24about it. So when you say, I guess one thing I would like to clarify and have some clarification
- 7:33on, right? I think you've got the more classical feminist, which I think there is a good deal of
- 7:39rigor in those studies, which is, you know, what brought about the civil rights movements,
- 7:47et cetera, right? And I think there's a good amount of information in those that are in the
- 7:53classical that I see there could be benefit to.
- 7:59So when you're talking about this particular field,
- 8:03you're talking about more of the, I guess I would try and use the term
- 8:08neo-feminists, right?
- 8:11I'm not sure I would separate them because this attitude towards evolutionary
- 8:16psychology has really been around since almost the second wave of feminism
- 8:22back in the 60s. So, no, I don't think I would separate my criticism. I think that
- 8:29what the feminists have done in giving a great deal of freedom to women is an outstanding
- 8:41thing. And I think that you will find that I'm in favor of all the good things that have happened
- 8:49to women because of equal rights. But from a scientific perspective, I'm worried about what
- 8:59we're teaching our students or what feminist studies is teaching our students. And it doesn't
- 9:05seem to be related much to the truth. And we can go into the specifics if you'd like. And I appreciate
- 9:10you bringing that up because I don't want people to think that I'm against women. I'm certainly not.
- 9:16I'm married to a woman.
- 9:18I have a daughter.
- 9:20I have a sister.
- 9:21Had a mother at one time, so, you know.
- 9:23No way.
- 9:24I don't think I'm well.
- 9:25Yeah.
- 9:26You too?
- 9:27I'm weird that way.
- 9:30All right.
- 9:31Well, I guess one of the other things that I was, man, it'll come back to me.
- 9:37I think I just blew a few bits off the hard drive there.
- 9:44LX?
- 9:45No, I'm just trying to get my head wrapped around what the social constructionism whole concept is.
- 9:53So you can tell me if I'm wrong.
- 9:56So basically what they're saying is that gender roles are basically just how you're raised and nothing biological component to that at all?
- 10:09Is that what that is?
- 10:10Completely.
- 10:12Okay.
- 10:12You can see where I'm kind of going crazy here.
- 10:16I think because typically since the beginning of time, and I'm not saying that there are definitely outliers in that, especially at this point in time, but women have basically raised children.
- 10:28And that's what they were biologically kind of designed for and the men protected and provided for the women.
- 10:36If I'm wrong.
- 10:37No, I don't think you're wrong.
- 10:39I think you're right on.
- 10:39And I, you know, well, I interrupted you, did I?
- 10:46No, no.
- 10:46It's fine.
- 10:47No, I meant Havoc.
- 10:48No, it's fine.
- 10:50Okay.
- 10:51I guess one thing I was, okay, since you opened it up.
- 10:56One thing I was going to say is I definitely agree, right?
- 11:00I mean, there's definitely instinct.
- 11:03There are patterns that come from thousands of years of evolution of existence, I guess, that kind of predefine some traits and characteristics.
- 11:18Right. And I think, you know, society at large, modern society at large does quite a lot to soften those instincts to use that social constructionism, etc. to modify some of the innate behaviors, etc.
- 11:41right and and i think that's not always a bad thing if you look at it uh i think we were far
- 11:47more predisposed to violence uh back in the hunter gatherer days if you encroach on my territory
- 11:54you're a threat that needs to be eliminated uh whereas now we you know have more tolerance for
- 12:01that and we use a system that is more i i guess you know kind i don't know that's debatable there's
- 12:12still quite a few violent people out there 100 true but i guess the point i'm making is is that
- 12:20that has to also be considered in part as part of this right i mean even evolutionary psychologists
- 12:25would have to admit that, yes, those traits exist.
- 12:28However, as we grow up, even just a homeschooled child,
- 12:33their parents are going to influence some of that instinctual behavior
- 12:37to become more positively channeled for children, right?
- 12:43So that it's not this, you know, I guess tribal, you know,
- 12:52type of, you know, warring clans, if you will?
- 13:00Well, you know, I'm not sure I know how to respond to that.
- 13:06First of all, no one would ever say, I think, no evolutionary psychologists anyway, would
- 13:12say that culture is not important.
- 13:14It is.
- 13:15The very fact that we have things like money means that there's social construction going
- 13:21on.
- 13:21money has no value unless we give it value in society. However, I find it kind of strange
- 13:31that people would say, okay, if you're masculine, culture made you that way,
- 13:39when in fact masculinity is strongly tied to testosterone. And testosterone is 10 times
- 13:48higher in males than females. And there's no question that testosterone tends to make men
- 13:55more violent. But for the feminists and those that agree with the feminists to say that men
- 14:04are toxic because some men are violent is simply wrong, in my opinion. And yes, a gentler world is
- 14:13better than a violent world, but we also should give some breath here to our instincts and be
- 14:23careful because there are some good things about masculinity, you know, being that you need to get
- 14:31violent sometimes to protect your family if they're attacked or, you know, anyone that wants to take
- 14:37freedom away from us, for example. We may want to think twice about not being violent. So I would
- 14:45say ultimately, I would agree with you, but I would caution that sometimes these things seem
- 14:55too good to be true. For example, and Alex, I think you mentioned it, you know,
- 15:03So culture is important, but if you turn out to be gay, I've failed to see how culture kind of impacted you to be gay.
- 15:16And yet that's basically what the feminists are saying, because if you talk to gays, for example, they would say, oh, I'm that way because I was born that way.
- 15:28And I think that there's probably a lot of truth in that.
- 15:33the wiring may get screwed up somewhere, or some of it might be, you know, there's been some evidence
- 15:39that suggests that there's a role played by genetics in this. So, it's hard then to see
- 15:46how society could make someone gay when, in fact, everybody's reinforced for being, or used to be
- 15:55anyway, everybody was reinforced for being straight, and there was a lot of anti-reinforcement
- 16:00for those that weren't straight. I mean, look at Turing. He basically killed himself because
- 16:06society was so cruel to him. So, yeah, I think we can say most definitely that a lot of the way we
- 16:16are is due to genetics and to the processes that come from genetics, like being bathed in
- 16:25testosterone when we're infants. Before we're even born, we get bathed, I think it's in the
- 16:30sixth week, in testosterone if we're males and we don't if we're females. And then again, we get
- 16:38bathed in testosterone once we hit puberty. And this is something that I've never been able to
- 16:47understand from the feminists when they start talking about social constructionism. It seems
- 16:53like these kinds of things are ignored.
- 16:56And I'll just kind of leave it there.
- 17:00Yeah, that's absolutely.
- 17:03And no disagreement here, right?
- 17:04I think there's some truth in both sides,
- 17:15and I think that it would be counter to ignore
- 17:21our biology, right? I mean, at the end of the day, you know, as you said, right? Testosterone.
- 17:30And I think it is, I remember it's in that, I think, yeah, first trimester that you get that
- 17:38big wash of testosterone. And like you said, at puberty as well, that's biology, right? The male
- 17:46physiology is doing this to prepare the body as it grows and changes.
- 17:52Well our brains are literally different too than females.
- 17:55Yeah and a lot of our drives and desires and obviously these are all generalizations There are outliers everywhere right Always So I want to make sure that we acknowledge that that is the case
- 18:10Well, that's why I was talking about gay men.
- 18:12Or women, sure, yeah.
- 18:15Or gay women, yeah.
- 18:16Yeah, it's, you know, but to be able to identify things that are, you know, very much the nature of our physiology as a human, right? And that's not changeable.
- 18:31So so I guess. So what do you think? What do you think is a workable a workable solution to this that? So, OK, higher higher learning. Right.
- 18:48There are, without question, elective classes out there that I always question. There are courses and minors that are out there that I'm not certain why, but hey, it's an interesting subject or topic.
- 19:04So given that, what do you think is a reasonable way to kind of, you know, take this super tanker because education operates a lot like government does. And once it starts down a direction, it doesn't just, you know, flip a U-turn and go the other way.
- 19:23So what do you think are reasonable ways to start to steer that tanker so that it starts going more towards something that has scientific rigor?
- 19:36And I hesitate to even use scientific as well because I think a lot of these are arts, right?
- 19:43What would be an art? I'm sorry. Maybe I'm missing.
- 19:46Aren't like some of the more, you know, what are we, fourth or fifth way of feminism?
- 19:54Aren't they more, you know, like art studies?
- 19:58They're not grounded in science, right?
- 20:04Like psychology.
- 20:05If they are grounded in science, I mean, if they're in the arts, I can't speak to it.
- 20:12Okay.
- 20:12So my take on that, right?
- 20:15It is like psychology as a degree is an art major, right?
- 20:19It's a Bachelor of Arts or a Master's of Arts.
- 20:21No, it is science.
- 20:22Well, it's in the social sciences.
- 20:25Okay, social sciences.
- 20:26But evolutionary psychology is beginning to have an impact on it.
- 20:30It's becoming much more rigorous with time.
- 20:33There will be a lot of psychologists that would be irritated by that statement.
- 20:37Well, that's all right.
- 20:38I hope they're impacting it.
- 20:40So I know this would be a horrible experiment to do.
- 20:43I don't know if it's ever been done before,
- 20:44but are there any cases of like children being reared by not being in a social construct?
- 20:50And what would result from that, like a feral child or something like that?
- 20:55Well, feral children are good examples of why we want to pay attention to culture.
- 21:00Because, you know, if you lock a kid up in a closet and come back in 18 years,
- 21:07you're going to basically have an animal.
- 21:09And it's happened, by the way.
- 21:10There have been some children that have had terrible things happen to them like that.
- 21:14And they were totally unsociable after, or inability to socialize them after those impacts.
- 21:24And so culture does play an important role.
- 21:29I was going to get back to your, I guess it was your comment about change.
- 21:34change. When we did some terrible things, I think, back in the 60s and 70s, we tried to change
- 21:43gay men to straight, you know, either through reinforcement learning or those kinds of things.
- 21:50And it didn't work. In fact, it turned out to be a bad experiment, if you can look at them as
- 21:56experiments. So it just goes to show you, I think, how strong the biology aspect of all of this is
- 22:05rather than the cultural. And I know I haven't gotten to your question in an answer, but I'm not
- 22:13sure how to answer it because what I focused on in my paper with the feminists wasn't anything to
- 22:21do with what may be an art, a profession like, you know, art. I was sticking mainly to things
- 22:29that could be documented with data. And certainly there's been a lot of research on
- 22:36this. And people write this off as nurture versus nature, but I don't even think that
- 22:43hits it on the head. Social constructionism, the way I see it anyway, and you can disagree with me
- 22:50if you want. I see it as feminism trying to change our society so that men and women will behave
- 23:02similarly. And from my perspective, I don't think that's as easy as they think it is.
- 23:08And yet these experiments and trying to get men and women to behave the same
- 23:13or to do the same jobs even is complex,
- 23:19and it's not easy to change our society in the way that they think it should be changed.
- 23:26And I think a lot of, particularly young men,
- 23:29have been hurt by some of the changes that have been going on in our society
- 23:34due to woke and various other things.
- 23:37Yeah, I think there's, without question, a lot of, again, ingrained tendencies in male or female individuals, risk-taking being a huge one, right?
- 23:56You just don't see female line workers.
- 23:59Yes. Women are very risk averse, not just in physical construction things, but also in jobs that require 80 hour weeks. Women steer away from those like mad. So if you're wondering why we don't get a lot of women competing in STEM or computer science or those, they don't want the hassle.
- 24:20they want the flexibility to be able to have off time and they don't understand why men don't you
- 24:27know so and being a man i understand why because you know i think um i i think a lot of my self-worth
- 24:36is wrapped up in how i do my job i can't put it any other way although i'm not sure i have the
- 24:43answer to that yeah i always describe it as a desire to win is just i i don't know why but
- 24:51it's competitive it is and it can be the most inane thing yeah and i just i have to win like i i have
- 24:59to make this this has to work it's going to this will happen yes yeah and and then success becomes
- 25:06a very important part of your life. And so I think that we're trying to make men more like women
- 25:20to the loss of a lot of men and being hurt by this, I think, to some extent.
- 25:32Do you have any idea what the rationale is for that?
- 25:35I understand the idea, you know, the ideas that are espoused.
- 25:40I don't necessarily agree with them because I think that there is data to show that a number of these things are, you know, something you could easily call out, but you can't put numbers to or drive real data and real, you know, Socratic method against, right?
- 26:00things like you know
- 26:02the you know toxic masculinity
- 26:04the you know patriarchy
- 26:06as you know the
- 26:08oppressor right
- 26:10and I think you know
- 26:12yeah
- 26:15it's an interesting one
- 26:19to me right this is a very
- 26:21very interesting topic and
- 26:22part of
- 26:23you know part of the hesitation here is
- 26:26is you know
- 26:28uh
- 26:30Thank you.
- 27:00Thank you.
- 27:30Thank you.
- 28:00Thank you.
- 28:30Thank you.
- 29:00...for males do.
- 29:24And so this male parental investment is basically a kind of a contract.
- 29:30is you help me raise the kid and I'll give you access sexually.
- 29:34And that's kind of agreed on even though we don't realize it maybe.
- 29:39And in today's society, of course, we lose a lot of that because we have the pill.
- 29:45So women can be much more free.
- 29:48But I think anybody that's dated realizes that women are a lot less willing to have indiscriminate sex than men are.
- 29:56A funny research done on that. A woman took her class. She was a research professor and she had her class of graduate students go out and ask people in the libraries on campus, both men and women. Women would ask men and men would ask women if they would go home and have sex with them that night.
- 30:18And I think, yeah, 100% of the women, not surprisingly, said no.
- 30:25And 75% of the men said yes.
- 30:28The other 25% gave reasons why they couldn't, feeling guilty almost that they couldn't,
- 30:34like I'm married or whatever excuse they gave.
- 30:38I think that kind of sums it up pretty well, that men are much more willing to have indiscriminate sex.
- 30:44And there's a good reason for it, because women might end up pregnant and having to raise a child in a hunter-gatherer society.
- 30:54That's a pretty devastating situation if you're faced with raising a child alone on the savannah.
- 31:01Now, I know it's not completely alone.
- 31:03There's families there and all that, but it's still, it's a burden on the family if you end up in that situation.
- 31:09And yet, how do we carry this over into modern day society?
- 31:13Well, we carry this over in seeing it happen.
- 31:18You know, even though women are able to have, you know, indiscriminate sex if they want, for the most part, they choose, you know, not to most of the time.
- 31:29Now, I know there are exceptions to that rule, but in general, they are more reluctant than men.
- 31:38So another thing, women started choosing men also that could protect the family, and they started choosing men that could bring home the resources.
- 31:49So remember, out on a savanna where you're hunting big game, you know, it's quite dangerous.
- 31:57Big game is hard to bring down, and it takes a lot of work and takes a lot of coordination, usually among men, because women were raising children.
- 32:05So although women could do gathering of seeds and things like that, it was mainly the men that went out and did big game hunting.
- 32:16And it's dangerous.
- 32:17And so you need brave men to go out there and do that.
- 32:20You also need brave men to protect the family.
- 32:22Think about tribes.
- 32:23Almost all tribes faced adversaries from other tribes.
- 32:27And so if a tribe won, it was bad news for the guys.
- 32:32All of them got killed, and it was bad news for the women because they basically took them home with them, and they became their wives.
- 32:38So as brutal as that may sound, that was the way nature was for millions of years of our evolution.
- 32:47And so we see some of that left over today in our society.
- 32:54And I know for me, when I started reading about evolutionary psychology in the 90s, they answered a lot of questions for me.
- 33:02It's like, well, you know, why am I attracted to beautiful women rather than, you know, what we would consider homely women?
- 33:09I thought that's nearly not fair.
- 33:11You know, I shouldn't be that way.
- 33:12Well, I should be that way because beauty is associated with health.
- 33:18And so men are really looking for healthy women when we try to find attractive women and also youth.
- 33:28Men want young women because there's more chance of having children over a lifetime with women that are young.
- 33:38So I know my work in Panama on volcanoes down there, the tribes I ran into, I was seeing 12-year-old girls in the process of getting married.
- 33:50And that's something you wouldn't see in our society today.
- 33:54so you know they're reaching puberty and they're like okay time to get married and
- 34:00and so yes 12 years old you can have a lot of children from 12 to 40 or whenever you know you
- 34:09you hit the point where you can't have children anymore if you're a woman so so that's good for
- 34:15men and women to to you know produce offspring more offspring today of course it's all bets are
- 34:22off, you know, men and women don't choose to have as many babies as they can.
- 34:26But up until recently, that was true pretty much all over the world, except perhaps a
- 34:32Western world, where people had a lot of children, even in the Western world.
- 34:37Yeah, I was going to say, even men have a lot of children.
- 34:40Up until the, you know, early 1900s, that was kind of how we operated.
- 34:46You look at, like, you know, start looking at your own family tree.
- 34:50Victorian England.
- 34:50Yeah, look at your own family tree.
- 34:52And it wasn't more than like, you know, great grandfather or grandfather at this point that had, you know, maybe, you know, nine, 10, 11 children.
- 35:02Right.
- 35:03And nowadays it's one, maybe two, if any.
- 35:07Yeah.
- 35:07I had a lot of great, great grandparents that had 12 kids, you know, not a lot, but I had a number of them.
- 35:14My grandmother was one of 13, I think.
- 35:20Just a thought of raising 13 kids.
- 35:22In a one-room house in a coal mining town.
- 35:29What were they thinking?
- 35:32I've heard comments like people asking,
- 35:35what did people do back then?
- 35:36They must have been bored before the internet,
- 35:37but I'm pretty sure I knew what they were doing.
- 35:40Well, they didn't have television.
- 35:41There wasn't much to do except read.
- 35:44And then you could do that at night if you didn't have a lamp.
- 35:46So the thing that I was getting back to was this choice by women.
- 35:54So think about that.
- 35:55They're choosing high testosterone men, basically.
- 35:58We find in these cultural studies where people have gone out and asked 60 There been huge studies like this where they asked 60 people across all cultures they can get their hands on
- 36:10And one of the things they find is that women across all cultures, that is,
- 36:17it suggests biology and not social construction, across all cultures,
- 36:22women are looking for men that have a high ability to bring home resources.
- 36:30And on the other hand, men are looking for women that are attractive.
- 36:34So right away, you've got this huge dichotomy in the way men and women choose their long-term spouses or boyfriends, if you want to look at it, or girlfriends, if you want to look at it that way.
- 36:45And this choice becomes very important.
- 36:49Women are choosing men that are protectors, are people that can go out and earn the bacon.
- 36:57and also can defend them.
- 37:02So they're looking towards somewhat masculine men,
- 37:07at least not feminized men in general for those kinds of things.
- 37:13And so you can see where extrapolating this to modern-day civilization,
- 37:20where men might be in charge of society.
- 37:23Women in hunter-gatherer society gave up leadership roles to men because they really didn't have time to be in leadership.
- 37:34They didn't want leadership.
- 37:35They wanted to raise children.
- 37:37They were maternal.
- 37:38They had high contents of estrogen in their bloods.
- 37:43Men had testosterone.
- 37:44They were, in general, making decisions for the tribes and leadership roles.
- 37:50So, yes, I think we did have what we would consider discriminatory behavior towards women in the 1800s and even in the 1900s.
- 38:00But that's to be expected, and even a patriarchy.
- 38:05But I would call that an evolutionary patriarchy, and I did it in this paper.
- 38:09You can see where men evolved into something we would call a patriarchy because women were choosing them to be that way.
- 38:16So is it the fault of men that we have this so-called patriarchy? No, not if we're not
- 38:22discriminating against women, and we're not. So I think we have to kind of now give way to women.
- 38:30That's very good because we want everyone to have equal opportunities in our society.
- 38:34But do we really need to punish men to get women in equal abundances in every group? Well, we find
- 38:43out from economists and a lot of women economists that women don't want to go into fields that have
- 38:49this high competitive 80-hour work week or in fields like STEM or yeah some women do and those
- 38:58women we should open our arms to them coming into fields but do we need to spend three million
- 39:04dollars funding National Science Foundation to figure out how we can get more women into
- 39:09stem how about just letting them do what they want to do and if they choose stem more power to
- 39:15them if they don't well let's not discriminate against men so we can get women into those and
- 39:19i think that's where we start seeing where men are being hurt by some of these dei initiatives so
- 39:26that's controversial i know and maybe you get me in trouble but i gotta i don't you know i don't
- 39:32see how right i mean there's data to back that up right it's it's if you want to refute data
- 39:39I never stopped the feminists in my department or in my university.
- 39:42If you want to refute it, go gather data and put together a paper and show how it's wrong.
- 39:47And, hey, I support anyone in their efforts to do something like that.
- 39:51Go for it, right?
- 39:52I do too.
- 39:52That's what the Socratic method is about, right?
- 39:56That's what we should all be looking to do.
- 39:58And I do think it's interesting, though, because, you know, STEM keeps coming up, and it is true, right?
- 40:03And then you look at fields where, you know, you can, I mean, arguably the medical field is full of, you know, basic, you know, the STEM principles and properties.
- 40:15However, at least last I looked, I think it's gotten to be a majority female dominated field.
- 40:28Medical has to.
- 40:29And I think one of the interesting things there, and it plays back to evolutionary psychology, is that that is a role with a high degree of care that goes into it.
- 40:40It's not uncaring, cold, scientific, hard fact.
- 40:44No, it's not.
- 40:44It is a bit of that and a bit of caring and, you know, there's more to it.
- 40:51And I think that right there is the thing that really, at least in my eyes, really kind of makes that, you know, those fields, the STEM fields, less attractive to women.
- 41:04It's cold, it's calculating, and it's uncaring.
- 41:07Data doesn't care if you like the numbers or not.
- 41:10Data doesn't care if the numbers agree with you or not.
- 41:14It's just data.
- 41:18But this is where I take issue with feminists because they have this cancel culture where, if you don't agree, I don't know if you're familiar with Helen Andrews or not, but she's written this wonderful paper called The Great Feminization.
- 41:38It just came out late last year.
- 41:41And she is claiming that woke has been generated by women because they have now become dominant in these fields.
- 41:51You know, they now, there are more lawyers that are women.
- 41:54There are more judges that are women.
- 41:56There are more educators that are women.
- 41:58You know, more professors, for example.
- 42:00More women get PhDs.
- 42:02More women get master's degrees.
- 42:04More women get undergraduate degrees.
- 42:05So we might be seeing the birth of wokeism as something that has been generated because women are very hesitant to have free speech.
- 42:18They don't like free speech as much as men do, and they tend to want to stifle any disagreement because they want to have no conflicts in the society.
- 42:32They want everything to run smoothly.
- 42:34This may be one of the reasons why they're trying to get men to behave more like women.
- 42:39And that's where the great feminization comes from.
- 42:43And, well, I could go into some other things that she goes into.
- 42:47But I find that to be very, very telling and interesting.
- 42:51It definitely is interesting.
- 42:54And DEI.
- 42:55DEI would be women are much more caring about other people.
- 42:59And you can see how this plays in DEI.
- 43:01They want to make sure that everyone's treated fairly.
- 43:04It's a good idea, but when you start discriminating against the more meritorious, then you run into some bad things for society.
- 43:15I can guarantee you that the Chinese are not trying to get everybody in high diversity in their society.
- 43:25They're interested in getting the best doing it, and ultimately, that's who we're competing against.
- 43:29and I find that feminists misunderstand how competitive the world is.
- 43:35I mean, if you come from evolution, you know, it's almost basically
- 43:40you understand how competitive it is all the time for both men and women.
- 43:46I recall hearing someone, and I can't for the life of me remember where I heard this,
- 43:52But I think it stuck with me, not because necessarily I agree or disagree with this, right? But, you know, the desire to mitigate conflict as a norm, right? And that right there, I could see some merit to that, right?
- 44:17I mean, we've been around, we live in, you know, the supposed enlightened society that we live in, yet we still have a problem where we can't seem to stop killing people.
- 44:29You know, okay, so maybe there's some room for, you know, a toning down of that in certain areas.
- 44:37But at the same time, it is something I see as being innate in, you know, human nature in general.
- 44:47So I guess it's, yeah, I don't, you know, I don't know.
- 44:52For me, it becomes a conundrum where you can have a good idea, but the getting there part is destructive in its nature.
- 45:05Well, certainly, how can I disagree with that?
- 45:09I mean, anything, you know, that helps conflict, helps to avoid conflict is good.
- 45:17Although I think men tend to want conflict at some extent.
- 45:22Yeah, and I was going to say, I wouldn't say conflict in general.
- 45:26I would say conflict when it escalates to violence, right?
- 45:30Oh, yeah.
- 45:30I think it's necessary.
- 45:31Conflict in the world of business is necessary.
- 45:36Without it, we get terrible products that never get better.
- 45:41you know it's necessary in medical and science and everywhere else because you have to you know
- 45:50continuously test theories you have to continuously test is this actually accurate did i just find
- 45:55something that makes this no longer true or relevant um you know uh you know even einstein's
- 46:02theory of of relativity relativity is still under you know under pressure and there are areas where
- 46:09it's cracked right and and that's not a bad thing and that is conflict not to my knowledge but i'll
- 46:15go ahead and defer to you it was on it was on uh i think it was the black holes where some of his
- 46:22theory has cracked on on some of those and i can't repeat it verbatim but if you look it up there
- 46:28there are some some big question marks there yeah well not to get off the subject but yeah i think
- 46:36science is always going to challenge
- 46:39Einstein
- 46:40or any ideas that are out there.
- 46:44And it should.
- 46:44That is conflict, right? And that's not a
- 46:47bad thing. Conflict can
- 46:49be great and the outcome of conflict
- 46:51can be great.
- 46:53So, you know,
- 46:54it's a tough one because
- 46:57on the flip side, yeah, sure, I'd love to
- 46:59see less conflict. I'd like to see us not
- 47:01have to make bombs anymore to drop on
- 47:03people. I think that'd be cool.
- 47:05you know well there are there's also game theory which comes into all of this and and um ultimately
- 47:13in in game theory you've got to consider what your opponents are doing so for example i don't
- 47:21think anybody wants to to have nuclear weapons running around but as long as your enemy has them
- 47:26you need them and we may we may have experienced the immense amount of peace that we've had
- 47:33since World War II on the fact that the atomic bomb was developed
- 47:40because it's kept people perhaps from having world wars.
- 47:45Knock on wood.
- 47:46I hope we don't have any more world wars.
- 47:48But throughout my life anyway, I haven't seen any world wars.
- 47:52And looking back on the ones prior to my birth, it's a godsend that we haven't had them.
- 48:02Yeah, without question.
- 48:03But game theory becomes very important in the way you look at this too. So maybe we need some people that are willing to be violent, and I'm not making light of being violent, but are willing to be violent to protect us from those on the other side that are willing to be violent. And I think it's a kind of a tit for tat.
- 48:25It's like that adage, right? Better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war.
- 48:35Oh, yeah. I think that's a pretty good saying.
- 48:39Yeah.
- 48:40But I was getting to, what was I getting to? This change.
- 48:48I would argue, based on some of the things I've just told you, that because feminism is geared towards social constructionism, fat studies where, you know, they're saying that you can be healthy and fat and overweight, obese, for example, at the same time is doing a disservice.
- 49:11We need people searching for the truth on university campuses.
- 49:18And those that want to have ideologies or promote political ideas, those should probably be in think tanks, not on university campuses.
- 49:30So I'm arguing that feminist studies be removed from campuses where they can function as whatever they function as, political entities, where they don't have to worry necessarily about getting the evidence and data to back up their ideas.
- 49:49Whereas in the university campus, when you're talking to young students with young minds, I think you should be supporting your data and your information.
- 50:00I know that's controversial, but it's certainly a scientist's view of the world.
- 50:08Yeah, I guess I would struggle to find the controversy in education being based around solid, you know, data facts or fact finding, right?
- 50:20There may be a lack of data somewhere, and that's a great place to write a thesis, right?
- 50:26Right.
- 50:26And that, again, furthers that data-driven approach to education.
- 50:34Well, take fat studies, for example.
- 50:39I was literally astounded to find that there were people saying health at any size.
- 50:47And yeah, you can be healthy like a sumo wrestler and be very healthy, but almost obese.
- 50:55But that's a whole different story than a sedentary person who's overweight and saying, oh, that person can be healthy too.
- 51:05Or that the patriarchy makes us not to like overweight women and that culture is forcing us only to be attracted to attractive women.
- 51:21That doesn't make any sense.
- 51:24and I'll certainly be the first to say that we shouldn't discriminate against people that are overweight or obese.
- 51:31But telling students that it's okay to be overweight is just not thinking about them.
- 51:38It's not thinking about their health.
- 51:40And yet it's just running rampant in the fat studies literature.
- 51:47The whole idea is so.
- 51:49That's actually a new one to me.
- 51:51I didn't know that there was a track for that.
- 51:58Oh, Fat Studies has been in Feminist Studies for quite some time.
- 52:04Decade?
- 52:07Oh, longer than that.
- 52:08I was criticizing it way back in the 90s.
- 52:13Hmm. Interesting.
- 52:14In fact, it's almost gotten to a point where some feminists, I wouldn't say all of them, some overweight feminists are proud of the fact that they're overweight and that it's kind of a, well, we'll stick it to the man here.
- 52:37That's the mentality that I see on campus sometimes.
- 52:41Look, if you want to be overweight, that's fine with me.
- 52:44I just don't – I would hate to see – I hate to see them teaching young women to – and that's mostly who they get in their feminist studies.
- 52:56They don't allow men in for the most part.
- 52:58So you get only women hearing this.
- 53:01And that seems to be a bad situation.
- 53:05I find irony in the celebrities that say it's okay to be obese and they sing about it and talk about it.
- 53:11And then they disappear for a couple of months and they come back and they're thin as a pencil.
- 53:16And you're like, hmm, I thought it was okay.
- 53:19Well, don't get me wrong.
- 53:21I want to make this point.
- 53:23I don't, I'm not, I think there's some bad things that we have in society.
- 53:28For example, it may be very bad that we tend to have supermodels out there and we're using those models to convey to women that this is the way you should look.
- 53:39because that leads to things like bulimia.
- 53:41And we don't want to hurt women like that.
- 53:44So we've got to be careful, I think, as men to watch out on that.
- 53:51I just kind of leave it there, I guess.
- 53:54No, and I think that is important, right?
- 53:55And it's also interesting to think what we see today as being beautiful.
- 54:01Again let go back 100 years That wasn the standard of beauty You know people were you know were almost not almost but you know
- 54:15often times the more
- 54:16you know portly you were
- 54:19the more well to do you were
- 54:21right
- 54:21and you know I think that
- 54:25you know extended back
- 54:27for you know millennia
- 54:29right
- 54:30but at the same
- 54:32And at the same time, I think overall, you know, there's been a big shift.
- 54:42And I agree with you on the supermodel part immensely.
- 54:45I spent a period of my life doing
- 54:49you know
- 54:51counseling if you will
- 54:57for people that had various
- 55:01disorders and eating disorders were one of them
- 55:04honestly one of the most challenging things that you can
- 55:08I mean drug addiction holds no
- 55:11food addiction is really sugar addiction
- 55:14Well, food addiction in general, drug addiction holds zero candles to it, right?
- 55:20At the end of the day, you're literally, it would be like going to a heroin addict and say, okay, you have to take three of these a day, but you can't do more than this little teeny amount and only at these three times a day.
- 55:32You know what I mean?
- 55:33So, yeah, extremely challenging.
- 55:35And like you said, that, you know, body dysmorphia that comes about in a soft pressure way, right?
- 55:42It's not even that anyone's outwardly saying that this is what you should strive to look like.
- 55:48It's that it's pervasive and known as the ultimate signal of beauty, right?
- 55:58Yes, and to go back to what you're saying,
- 56:02There have been all kinds of studies that have shown that men differ slightly within one culture.
- 56:16They will choose a whole set of women beauty, and they will rank them.
- 56:20And then men outside that culture will rank the same women, and they might rank them a little differently.
- 56:26but the ones that they see beautiful are the ones that people outside the culture see beautiful
- 56:33and vice versa. So people tend to think women in their own culture are the most beautiful,
- 56:41but outside of their culture, they would say, okay, we agree on who's beautiful. And it also
- 56:49turns out that weight plays a role. There are some cultures, no doubt, like you mentioned,
- 56:55where overweight people are a sign of having great wealth.
- 57:03And these come in cultures where there is shortages of food.
- 57:10And so you can see why there would be a real emphasis on beauty
- 57:14in a culture where there are problems getting food.
- 57:21But other than that, I think we have pretty much the same standards
- 57:24across cultures as to what is beautiful, even though we may think women in our own culture.
- 57:29And this goes for women too. Women also like attractive men. Women are much more likely,
- 57:37for example, to cheat with attractive men, but marry someone that isn't so attractive
- 57:43because they're basing their long-term relationship on how much resource he can bring in as opposed to
- 57:52his looks.
- 57:54So kind of interesting, I think.
- 57:56Yeah, absolutely.
- 57:58Alex?
- 58:00No, I don't know.
- 58:01Yeah, no.
- 58:02I don't know.
- 58:03Like you said, there's a lot of complexity to it because you think about what to say.
- 58:08I don't know if I want to say that because it might offend the wrong person or something.
- 58:14I don't know.
- 58:15Yeah, we have to be careful.
- 58:16I agree.
- 58:17Yeah, I mean, obviously, you know, I think, you know, from my standpoint, it's more about making sure that the message is what I wanted to say than it is the content of it, right?
- 58:35a lot of people misconstrue what what someone says as being something completely different
- 58:44or take something out of context and and don't I know yeah right and so that I think is one of the
- 58:51things for me at least that that you know causes me pause and and to kind of how do I want to word
- 58:57this and and frame this that it doesn't come across as like aha I gotcha you know what I mean
- 59:03someone else could say that, right?
- 59:06Instead, it comes across as a statement that I meant to say
- 59:11and with the meaning that I had behind it, you know,
- 59:16which is sad because we didn't used to have to self-censor as much, you know?
- 59:23And I think the free exchange of ideas needs a revival, honestly.
- 59:30It sure does.
- 59:31I agree 100% on that
- 59:34So I was just kind of thinking about the relationship my wife and I have
- 59:39and you know it's not like I'm above her or she's above me or whatever
- 59:43I kind of think of it like a car and like someone's the engine
- 59:47someone's the transmission but we can't do both the same job
- 59:50but we both are necessary to make the car go somewhere
- 59:54that's kind of how I think about it
- 59:55Well I think my wife and I we've been married for 40 years
- 1:00:00And I think one of the way we share ideas is that we both said, okay, it's pretty much everything for the kids.
- 1:00:09You know, yeah, we can have our own lives.
- 1:00:11But we were very focused on what would be best for our kids.
- 1:00:15So she stayed home when she first had kids for, I don't know, I want to say six or seven years.
- 1:00:22And then went back to work after that.
- 1:00:25But she really wanted to stay home.
- 1:00:27And I made sure that I married someone that wanted to stay home because I didn't want children raised, you know, outside of a, what do I want to say, where both parents worked.
- 1:00:41So, and my wife really wanted that too.
- 1:00:45I'm not saying that's best for everybody, but I think ultimately, though, it's good for the kids.
- 1:00:52Well, I think there's a lot of value to that, right?
- 1:00:54And, you know, I would say nowadays it's become exponentially more difficult to achieve that level of independence in being able to do that.
- 1:01:08You know, we don't at least, you know, not in quite some time.
- 1:01:15We haven't lived in a world where, you know, a single family or a single family with children can have a single person working.
- 1:01:23and be able to do that and provide in a manner that is, you know.
- 1:01:28Well, we went without a lot to do that.
- 1:01:30I mean, we did, but it was consciously done.
- 1:01:33Sure, sure.
- 1:01:35And I mean, even more so today, right?
- 1:01:38Yeah, I think so.
- 1:01:39I look at the price of things, right?
- 1:01:41Oh, yeah.
- 1:01:41And especially, and this is going to be dependent on your age
- 1:01:44and a number of other factors, but in general,
- 1:01:48if you're under 30 and you're out there wanting to start a family,
- 1:01:52I think it's going to be a really, really difficult thing to put yourself in a position where you can have a single working parent and one that stays home.
- 1:02:03I think financially, it's just almost, you know, it's near impossible unless there was something set up, some form of generational wealth or something that allows you at least some breathing room.
- 1:02:16Or you were really, really good with finances and managed to put together a solid nest egg, right?
- 1:02:22Yeah, that's one of, I think, the bad outcomes of feminism was that, you know, we sort of forced a situation in our society now where both men and women have to work.
- 1:02:37And I think, you know, it kind of hurts the kids.
- 1:02:40You have a lot of locky kids now coming home, you know, or having to go when they're younger off to, you know, to.
- 1:02:50I wouldn't say be raised by someone else, but certainly they don't get to be around their parents as much as they were.
- 1:02:56You're certainly getting input from people that may or may not share the same values and ideas that you do.
- 1:03:04Right.
- 1:03:05Correct.
- 1:03:05And yeah, I would also say, you know, understanding where you're coming from, I would say a large part of this is due almost directly to fiscal policy and some of the things that we have done with our system of economy at this point.
- 1:03:27You know, the fact that, you know, we operate on debt and, you know, have essentially devalued our own currency by printing money and increasing the supply has a lot to do with that.
- 1:03:42Right. I certainly think that the civil rights movement was a good thing.
- 1:03:46I really do. And I think, you know, women being, you know, I think it's, it's, you know, in my lifetime, women couldn't, you know, own a home or, or have a bank account. Let me take that back. They couldn't buy a home because they couldn't get a loan and they couldn't take a, you know, get a bank account or a credit card in my lifetime. Right. And, and I think that's, I mean, it's a wonderful thing that that doesn't exist, but, you know, there's also a big question mark on, on, you know, how much of a role.
- 1:04:16that played in in kind of creating some of the economic conditions that caused you know more
- 1:04:25more workforce came about almost overnight and you know obviously you know we increased the supply
- 1:04:33yep i agree you're talking about the detriment of having both parents working i think it's even
- 1:04:41worse uh you know these single parent homes where there's no father around for a lot of them
- 1:04:46I don't think it does anybody any favors either.
- 1:04:49I would agree with you.
- 1:04:51And this, of course, is something that feminists do not like to talk about.
- 1:04:56But I think eventually it has to be addressed.
- 1:05:00You know, is it in the interest of your kids, best interest of your kids, to not have a parent around?
- 1:05:08And if it isn't, is there a way to work around it?
- 1:05:13Yeah, I'd agree with that.
- 1:05:14I think there's a lot of room for improvement in that.
- 1:05:18You're not, you know, obviously not going to get rid of the underlying, you know, reason for that.
- 1:05:25But, you know, what happens afterwards?
- 1:05:27I think there's a huge amount of room for improvement in the system and part of it being, you know, you know, barring, you know, the extreme circumstances for that being a complete and total.
- 1:05:44In this case, I would say an equitable split.
- 1:05:49Right.
- 1:05:49Not big on equity in general, but in that one, I think there's merit to equity because it makes the most sense for the children and for the consistency of the family unit.
- 1:06:07Right.
- 1:06:10All right.
- 1:06:12Well, I think we're probably at a fairly decent place for starting to wrap things up.
- 1:06:18I really appreciate your time.
- 1:06:22Thank you for having me.
- 1:06:23I think this was a great conversation.
- 1:06:26Yeah, it was.
- 1:06:27So one question we always ask our guests is, you know, I think it's important for us to be able to recognize individuals or, you know, people that had a significant impact on our lives.
- 1:06:40so one person you'd like to give a shout out to for having that positive impact in your life could
- 1:06:47be sixth grade science teacher it could be a professor it could be an author it could be
- 1:06:52a historical figure it could be anyone well it seems rather easy to me
- 1:06:59you know short of being making my father the choice I think I because my father was a great
- 1:07:10influence on me, but I would say Darwin. Charles Darwin has basically given us evolutionary
- 1:07:21psychology. He was so great. I still have on my calendar when his birthday rolls around,
- 1:07:29which was here in February just recently. And just that one man could see so much,
- 1:07:38Not only did he come up with natural selection, but he came up with sexual selection, which is what I was talking about earlier, how women choose men.
- 1:07:49That's sexual selection.
- 1:07:51If we have a red cardinal flying around, Darwin said, that doesn't make much sense.
- 1:07:56How does that work?
- 1:07:57Because red cardinals seem to be obvious things that animals could eat over not being red.
- 1:08:05Well, yes, there's competition there.
- 1:08:07the red cardinal wants to be selected by females. That's why they're red, because for whatever
- 1:08:15reason, females like red cardinals, but so do cats. So, you know, you're rolling the dice there,
- 1:08:22and you get your genes passed on by being red. And by the way, we see that among humans to some
- 1:08:27extent. Men are much bigger risk takers than women in general. I know we have a lot of risk
- 1:08:34takers out there that are women, but men are generally more bigger risk takers. And it's one
- 1:08:41of the reasons why men die so young. Men tend to die much younger than women. And by the way,
- 1:08:49men kill men much more than they kill women. And that's all back to this competition thing. So
- 1:08:55it all seems to make sense in a big picture kind of way. But yes, Darwin, I would go Darwin.
- 1:09:01Awesome. That's an interesting choice. At least it wasn't Maslow.
- 1:09:09Sorry.
- 1:09:11Sorry.
- 1:09:12All right. Well, thank you very much for your time. Do you want to take a little bit of time and tell people what you're working on, what you've got going on, anything pointing them in a direction?
- 1:09:24Yeah, I've just gotten involved with the Comet Research Group.
- 1:09:31This is a group that thinks that, and I agree with them,
- 1:09:34that thinks that at the end of the Younger Dryas, which existed about 12,800 years ago,
- 1:09:42something struck.
- 1:09:45Comet might have been a meteorite, might have been many probably,
- 1:09:49that struck Earth and caused perhaps the end of the megafauna.
- 1:09:54You know, the mastodon, the woolly mammoths, the saber-toothed tigers, and maybe even Clovis culture here in North America.
- 1:10:01So very interesting, finding a lot of evidence for it.
- 1:10:07So yeah, that's what I'm working on.
- 1:10:08If I could say so, if you want to see some of the papers I've written, you can check me out at markdefant.com.
- 1:10:17It's M-E-R-C-D-E-F-A-N-T.
- 1:10:19And if you want to contact me, you can find my email there too, if you'd like.
- 1:10:24Wonderful, wonderful. Well, that's an interesting one and one I've been following for a bit of time as well.
- 1:10:32Oh, you know about it?
- 1:10:33Oh, yeah, absolutely. I can't remember the gentleman's name at this point. I can see his face, but I was introduced to the theory of this a while back and I was like, eh, and then I started looking at what was being presented and I was like, okay, well, maybe this makes sense, you know?
- 1:10:53so it's an interesting
- 1:10:54thing so that's pretty cool
- 1:10:57alright well thank you again
- 1:10:59for joining us
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