Latest / Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED / He asked if he could do WHAT to her on their 1st date?!

Transcript

He asked if he could do WHAT to her on their 1st date?! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

• 0:00
  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's Best Music is A ninety four nine.
• 0:04
  Speaker 2: And welcome to another episode of Scotti and Abby Unfiltered.
• 0:08
  Speaker 2: This has to be titled the Worst Date of All Time.
• 0:12
  Speaker 2: I'm excited for this. I've been waiting all morning to
• 0:14
  Speaker 2: finally get the information on what it went down.
• 0:16
  Speaker 3: Maybe at the worst date of all time, maybe the
• 0:18
  Speaker 3: best teases. I crashed out in the middle of a
• 0:20
  Speaker 3: date because I felt so bad.
• 0:21
  Speaker 1: I felt so bad.
• 0:22
  Speaker 3: It felt in the moment like it was such a
• 0:24
  Speaker 3: bad date, even though at nindsight it wasn't.
• 0:26
  Speaker 1: But I had a literal crash out.
• 0:28
  Speaker 2: Well before we get into that, because I haven't heard
• 0:31
  Speaker 2: the details and now we get to talk about it.
• 0:33
  Speaker 2: I also revealed the full video of me dancing with Nana.
• 0:37
  Speaker 1: I did see that, Yeah, I saw it. I wish
• 0:42
  Speaker 1: I hadn't.
• 0:42
  Speaker 2: I wish I because Okay on Instagram, I kind of
• 0:46
  Speaker 2: teased up, like, oh my gosh, I danced with my
• 0:48
  Speaker 2: best friend's our grandmother at his wedding. Because I did.
• 0:52
  Speaker 2: I told him that I was going to dance with
• 0:53
  Speaker 2: his grandmother. It's something I do. I have this thing
• 0:55
  Speaker 2: where it's like I don't know me and older women
• 0:56
  Speaker 2: we get along very.
• 0:58
  Speaker 3: Well, will you get along or do you just go
• 1:00
  Speaker 3: out of your way to hit on older women.
• 1:02
  Speaker 2: I like making sure that people feel seen, and especially
• 1:06
  Speaker 2: at a wedding and you're gonna have someone's grandmother there
• 1:09
  Speaker 2: who's not necessarily gonna be up dancing and so not
• 1:11
  Speaker 2: necessarily all in the activities. But I told her, I
• 1:14
  Speaker 2: was like, look, I'm gonna get your grandma to dance.
• 1:16
  Speaker 2: And he's like, you could try, and I said bet.
• 1:19
  Speaker 2: And so I put up part one of the video,
• 1:21
  Speaker 2: and I guess I didn't realize that I forgot a
• 1:24
  Speaker 2: lot of the things that I did. Part one of
• 1:26
  Speaker 2: the video. You just see I kind of put on
• 1:28
  Speaker 2: a couple magic mike moves, or I take my tie
• 1:31
  Speaker 2: and I wrap it around her. And she's ninety, y'all.
• 1:34
  Speaker 2: She has her walker, So I take the tie and
• 1:38
  Speaker 2: I wrap it around her, and I'm kind of just
• 1:40
  Speaker 2: like moving my body close to her, and that's when
• 1:43
  Speaker 2: the video cuts off. I was like, Okay, it wasn't
• 1:44
  Speaker 2: that bad part one, and joyles, if you want part two,
• 1:47
  Speaker 2: let me know people wanted part two.
• 1:49
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 1:49
  Speaker 2: I finally got the video back from my buddy, said
• 1:51
  Speaker 2: I was you on a better angle? When you want
• 1:52
  Speaker 2: the whole thing. Watch and I watched in every moment
• 1:56
  Speaker 2: of it. I cringed because this is in my sober mindset.
• 1:59
  Speaker 2: Now I see the tie move and I'm like, oh, Scott,
• 2:03
  Speaker 2: that's really good. And then I flip my ass around
• 2:06
  Speaker 2: and I start shaking my ass on her and I
• 2:09
  Speaker 2: spank Nana, who's ninety years old, with my tie.
• 2:14
  Speaker 3: Nana has osteoporosis. You have to you gotta be careful
• 2:17
  Speaker 3: with Nana. She's breakable.
• 2:18
  Speaker 1: I sat there and I cringed so hard.
• 2:20
  Speaker 2: I says, Scott, you know what, there's a line, And
• 2:22
  Speaker 2: in that video, I crossed the dang line. Not only
• 2:26
  Speaker 2: I spank my ass with the tie, I spank her
• 2:29
  Speaker 2: ass with the tie, and then she spanks me with
• 2:31
  Speaker 2: her hands. I posted the video on my Instagram for Nana.
• 2:35
  Speaker 1: I love that Nana is still a freaking old age.
• 2:37
  Speaker 2: I love that she went along with it because at
• 2:39
  Speaker 2: the end of it, because I was turned around for
• 2:40
  Speaker 2: a majority of it shaking that thing, I didn't see
• 2:43
  Speaker 2: until I saw the video that she was smiling the
• 2:45
  Speaker 2: whole time. She was laughing. She was patting my booty,
• 2:48
  Speaker 2: and so I turned around. I grabbed her hand and
• 2:51
  Speaker 2: I kissed it and I said thank you, and she
• 2:53
  Speaker 2: had the best tie.
• 2:54
  Speaker 1: Thank you for the spank, Nana, thank you for.
• 2:56
  Speaker 2: That nice naughty moment. So I'm glad that she had
• 2:59
  Speaker 2: a good tie with it. But the video is up now.
• 3:02
  Speaker 2: I was thinking about this because as out of radio,
• 3:05
  Speaker 2: I do other things like MC and I speak, and
• 3:07
  Speaker 2: I think this, you know, it might come back to
• 3:09
  Speaker 2: haunt me in the future as I'm going out for
• 3:11
  Speaker 2: other gigs and people are going to go through my
• 3:14
  Speaker 2: Instagram and see, like, oh, let's see what kind of
• 3:16
  Speaker 2: speaking materially does.
• 3:17
  Speaker 1: Or maybe they'll pay more omit.
• 3:19
  Speaker 2: If that's the case, then I'll do some more spak.
• 3:21
  Speaker 1: He's like that right, it's cheat.
• 3:23
  Speaker 2: If that works in my favor, then what is it?
• 3:26
  Speaker 2: God's speed?
• 3:27
  Speaker 3: You just have to have like old women set you
• 3:28
  Speaker 3: up on what is it called your speaking events? Oh yeah,
• 3:32
  Speaker 3: find find the women that are above eighty who are
• 3:35
  Speaker 3: still running these things.
• 3:36
  Speaker 2: I do a whole dare to dream conference with eighty
• 3:38
  Speaker 2: year old Yeah.
• 3:38
  Speaker 1: They're like, I'm daring a dream. I've seen the dream
• 3:41
  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna dare.
• 3:42
  Speaker 2: I'll go speak at the retirement homes. I mean, it
• 3:45
  Speaker 2: was such a good time. The full video is up though,
• 3:47
  Speaker 2: if you do want to take a look, enjoy, because
• 3:50
  Speaker 2: I'm sure I've had Instagram take down my stuff before.
• 3:53
  Speaker 3: Like, what, what's one video that you posted that Instagram
• 3:56
  Speaker 3: took down?
• 3:56
  Speaker 2: You're okay? Well, if you're new to me, if like
• 3:58
  Speaker 2: you've listened to me for a long time, you're still
• 4:00
  Speaker 2: kind of getting used to me. Just just know I
• 4:02
  Speaker 2: did a lot of weird things in the beginning of
• 4:04
  Speaker 2: my career to make sure that I I guess climbed
• 4:07
  Speaker 2: up the ladder one of the posts that got taken down.
• 4:10
  Speaker 2: You remember where Britney Spears was posting a lot of
• 4:14
  Speaker 2: scandalous pictures and videos.
• 4:15
  Speaker 1: Like the knife videos, like.
• 4:17
  Speaker 2: The nude videos and the nude pictures. So did you.
• 4:20
  Speaker 1: Post naked or like almost naked?
• 4:22
  Speaker 2: So Britney Spears put up a post once where she
• 4:25
  Speaker 2: was standing in front of the camera completely naked. The
• 4:27
  Speaker 2: only thing covering her was she had her hands over
• 4:30
  Speaker 2: her tatas and a heart emoji over Huh.
• 4:33
  Speaker 3: So you put a heart emoji over your penos to
• 4:37
  Speaker 3: climb this funny how everyone has different corporate ladders. I'm like,
• 4:40
  Speaker 3: you did this to get ahead? Was there somebody in
• 4:43
  Speaker 3: their cubicle right now going.
• 4:44
  Speaker 2: I was alone in the studio. I had nothing else
• 4:46
  Speaker 2: that I was like, all right, Britney Spears is trending.
• 4:49
  Speaker 2: I need to do something that's on the same thing.
• 4:51
  Speaker 2: I've also done this where I've recreated like Tom Brady.
• 4:53
  Speaker 2: Tom Brady did a post where he was posing in
• 4:55
  Speaker 2: his underwear, so I did the whole one. I did
• 4:58
  Speaker 2: the same exact look of everything in the studio right
• 5:01
  Speaker 2: next door.
• 5:01
  Speaker 1: That's so funny.
• 5:02
  Speaker 2: The Britney Spears one got taken down immediately.
• 5:05
  Speaker 3: It's funny how like when you're in radio, when you're
• 5:07
  Speaker 3: at the low point at the totem pole, like when
• 5:09
  Speaker 3: you really haven't gotten there, they're like, Okay, be as
• 5:11
  Speaker 3: unprofessional as possible. And then when you get to like
• 5:14
  Speaker 3: more of a host standpoint, they're like, okay, you said
• 5:16
  Speaker 3: ask too many times on the podcast. We're no longer
• 5:19
  Speaker 3: brand friendly.
• 5:20
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, the things that you could find on
• 5:22
  Speaker 2: the internet. I don't even know how to take any
• 5:24
  Speaker 2: of them down because they just live forever. Yeah, from
• 5:26
  Speaker 2: the beginning days of trying to do a show. Yeah,
• 5:29
  Speaker 2: and those they're going to come back to hot me.
• 5:30
  Speaker 2: I know, my kids one day we'll find them. I
• 5:32
  Speaker 2: know eventually, people like and I go and speak at places,
• 5:34
  Speaker 2: They're going to be like, oh is this you when
• 5:36
  Speaker 2: you were twenty four? I was trying to make it.
• 5:37
  Speaker 3: Do not judge me so funny anecdote that I've never
• 5:40
  Speaker 3: talked about for the birt Show, but right before I joined,
• 5:42
  Speaker 3: for some reason, they I got asked to submit some
• 5:46
  Speaker 3: specific content, things that they wanted to either repost or
• 5:49
  Speaker 3: repurpose from the earlier Birch Show days, and one that
• 5:53
  Speaker 3: I remember just being like really sussed out about. And
• 5:56
  Speaker 3: I mean, this would love because obviously I have a
• 5:58
  Speaker 3: great relationship with all my former coworkers. Obviously I'm coming
• 6:01
  Speaker 3: into a new environment. It's a radio show. I don't
• 6:03
  Speaker 3: really know what I'm getting into. I don't really know
• 6:05
  Speaker 3: what the expectation is for a young girl on the
• 6:08
  Speaker 3: show is, and by young girl, I mean like a
• 6:09
  Speaker 3: woman in her twenties on the show is. But I
• 6:11
  Speaker 3: remember years ago Britney Spears had posted some kind of
• 6:15
  Speaker 3: photo and a towel or whatever, so I guess everybody
• 6:17
  Speaker 3: on the cast had already done this challenge. But this
• 6:21
  Speaker 3: is like a Britney Spears thing from like, let's say
• 6:23
  Speaker 3: twenty nineteen. Let's say that was the year. I remember
• 6:26
  Speaker 3: it was like years or years ago, but they wanted
• 6:29
  Speaker 3: me to submit a photo for that Britney Spears challenge
• 6:33
  Speaker 3: in a towel, and I remember thinking this seems a
• 6:36
  Speaker 3: little this seems a little awful, little random, and so
• 6:39
  Speaker 3: I don't think I ever took the photo because I
• 6:41
  Speaker 3: remember thinking what are they gonna do with this challenge
• 6:44
  Speaker 3: that had been from years ago, and so like I
• 6:47
  Speaker 3: had gotten submitted everybody's photos and so I don't know
• 6:50
  Speaker 3: if they were gonna do like a bit or if
• 6:52
  Speaker 3: they were gonna make something out of it.
• 6:53
  Speaker 1: But I remember getting that email and being like, yeah,
• 6:55
  Speaker 1: I'm not doing that.
• 6:55
  Speaker 2: I'm too new to this. You're not gonna get a photo.
• 6:57
  Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I don't know that.
• 6:58
  Speaker 3: I trust y'all yet, Like I don't know where this
• 7:01
  Speaker 3: photo of me and a towel is going to be,
• 7:03
  Speaker 3: Like they said it. You know, it can be funny,
• 7:04
  Speaker 3: it could be rebealing, it can be sexy. But I
• 7:06
  Speaker 3: was like, yeah, it's not going to exist.
• 7:08
  Speaker 2: They're not going to have that on me on the internet. Yeah,
• 7:10
  Speaker 2: good on you for saying. I didn't say no to
• 7:12
  Speaker 2: any of my ridiculous ideas. I did literally everything, and
• 7:16
  Speaker 2: those photos still live. Yeah, and now my family got
• 7:18
  Speaker 2: to see every single one of them, So to them,
• 7:20
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but it paid off. Now over the weekend,
• 7:25
  Speaker 2: you you and I obviously went to the watch party
• 7:27
  Speaker 2: on Friday and we got to kind of catch up
• 7:29
  Speaker 2: a little bit on the first date. So, like, let's
• 7:32
  Speaker 2: do a recap of how hinge has been so far?
• 7:36
  Speaker 1: Okay, really not great?
• 7:37
  Speaker 2: Well, you did go on a date Friday day.
• 7:40
  Speaker 1: Thursday or no, was it Friday?
• 7:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 7:42
  Speaker 1: It was Friday and Saturday.
• 7:44
  Speaker 2: Busy girl.
• 7:45
  Speaker 3: I know.
• 7:45
  Speaker 1: Well, because for me, I'm like, well I'm already. If
• 7:47
  Speaker 1: I'm already.
• 7:48
  Speaker 3: Going out, then I'm like, okay, I'll weasel in a date.
• 7:51
  Speaker 2: Then I like that method instead of getting rid of
• 7:53
  Speaker 2: a whole day. If you set aside, and I know
• 7:55
  Speaker 2: a lot of people do this, but if you set
• 7:57
  Speaker 2: aside an entire Saturday night and like I'm going on date,
• 8:00
  Speaker 2: you get already, You go drive out to locate, you
• 8:03
  Speaker 2: cancel plans with friends only to go on that date
• 8:06
  Speaker 2: and it be a dud. Yeah, that's where it could
• 8:08
  Speaker 2: even be more frustrating than what this might be.
• 8:10
  Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, there's nothing worse than leaving a date where
• 8:12
  Speaker 3: you're not thrilled with the experience and then you just
• 8:14
  Speaker 3: go home and you're like sad and you're like, oh,
• 8:16
  Speaker 3: I just got ready for hours for this for Jason
• 8:19
  Speaker 3: just to ghost me. And also I do think a
• 8:22
  Speaker 3: it gives you a stopping point for the date. And
• 8:23
  Speaker 3: I do think sometimes it's hard to know, like Okay,
• 8:26
  Speaker 3: it's going fine, but like at what point do I
• 8:29
  Speaker 3: say I'm gonna leave? But if you have plans after
• 8:31
  Speaker 3: you go, oh, I have to meet my friends at
• 8:32
  Speaker 3: seven thirty, like lovely meeting you and it doesn't feel
• 8:34
  Speaker 3: like a weird thing. But for some reason, both guys
• 8:37
  Speaker 3: I went out with on Friday and Saturday, and maybe
• 8:38
  Speaker 3: it was because the weekend both of them had plans
• 8:40
  Speaker 3: afterwards that I got invited to. And I was like,
• 8:45
  Speaker 3: I have plans, I have places to be, I'm busy, off,
• 8:47
  Speaker 3: I have things to do. You get me for thirty
• 8:48
  Speaker 3: minutes to forty five if it's really good, I was, yeah,
• 8:51
  Speaker 3: I feel like a call girl. I'm like you, your
• 8:52
  Speaker 3: ninety minutes are up.
• 8:53
  Speaker 2: I got pay up by my drink, by my dinner.
• 8:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 8:56
  Speaker 2: On Friday, this was with it was it Jay the
• 8:59
  Speaker 2: guy that it looked like his photos were very modelly,
• 9:04
  Speaker 2: very attractive. Yes, but kind of got the feeling. I'm
• 9:07
  Speaker 2: gonna be honest, I was like, could this be an
• 9:08
  Speaker 2: AI profile because it was very bland.
• 9:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was very clear.
• 9:12
  Speaker 3: A photo shoot was done and he looked great and
• 9:15
  Speaker 3: said photo shoot. But I was like, we are your friends,
• 9:18
  Speaker 3: do you.
• 9:18
  Speaker 1: Have a life? Like do you just have zero photos
• 9:21
  Speaker 1: of me?
• 9:22
  Speaker 3: And so you know you want to have empathy because
• 9:24
  Speaker 3: I understand, like I come on here and I'm constantly
• 9:26
  Speaker 3: like I want men to try hard and to really
• 9:29
  Speaker 3: put the same effort that women put in their profiles,
• 9:31
  Speaker 3: and so clearly there's effort, but I'm like, it's the
• 9:33
  Speaker 3: wrong effort.
• 9:35
  Speaker 1: The effort in a different way.
• 9:36
  Speaker 2: You missed the mark. Well, I mean there's a couple
• 9:38
  Speaker 2: of things that it's like, post a photo with a
• 9:40
  Speaker 2: dog with your mom. Yeah, friends like just so we
• 9:43
  Speaker 2: know you're not gonna kill me, a.
• 9:44
  Speaker 3: Vacation photo, a photo of you playing sports or something.
• 9:49
  Speaker 3: But if it's just you, like not smiling around your
• 9:51
  Speaker 3: apartment complex, then I'm like, okay, this is this feels sinister.
• 9:54
  Speaker 3: So I went out with him on Friday and then
• 9:56
  Speaker 3: I went out with a guy who asked me out
• 9:57
  Speaker 3: on Friday on Saturday, and yeah, I was just trying.
• 10:01
  Speaker 1: I was just trying to rip the band aid off.
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: I'm like, it's been a minute, let's see what I'm missing.
• 10:04
  Speaker 3: And you date.
• 10:04
  Speaker 2: I mean, you ripped that bandai right off, and that's
• 10:06
  Speaker 2: what you want the days to look like, to be like,
• 10:07
  Speaker 2: all right, at least I'm gonna try Friday. How was it?
• 10:11
  Speaker 2: Because I'm glad at least you're alive. I literally texted Abby.
• 10:14
  Speaker 2: I was like, hey, you you were alive. Just making
• 10:15
  Speaker 2: sure after the date you good.
• 10:17
  Speaker 3: So this is the hard thing about dating is you
• 10:19
  Speaker 3: can't really talk about it in real time. I did
• 10:22
  Speaker 3: go out with him. I had a solid time. He
• 10:25
  Speaker 3: texted me on Saturday and he asked me out again,
• 10:28
  Speaker 3: and that's just all I'm where I'm gonna leave it. Okay,
• 10:30
  Speaker 3: I will update you in the future. That's where I'm
• 10:32
  Speaker 3: gonna leave it.
• 10:32
  Speaker 2: Got it all right, But I.
• 10:33
  Speaker 3: Will update you on the date that I was on
• 10:35
  Speaker 3: in Saturday where I literally crashed out.
• 10:37
  Speaker 2: So he this is like a new person. We don't
• 10:39
  Speaker 2: even know.
• 10:39
  Speaker 3: This is C. I have not introduced C on the
• 10:41
  Speaker 3: pub podcast because C asked me out on Friday, I think,
• 10:44
  Speaker 3: and I think I was literally on the date with Jai,
• 10:46
  Speaker 3: and I was like, sure, I'll go out of you
• 10:47
  Speaker 3: because I already had plans for Saturday, so I was like,
• 10:49
  Speaker 3: I'll go out with you and it won't be like
• 10:51
  Speaker 3: a whole thing. So anyway, C immediately asked me out.
• 10:54
  Speaker 3: He's not making me do much a small talk, which
• 10:56
  Speaker 3: is my favorite thing. The quickest way to turn me
• 10:58
  Speaker 3: on is don't talk to me, stay silent. And so
• 11:02
  Speaker 3: he asked me out and he said, do you want
• 11:04
  Speaker 3: to go to Embird? And that immediately was a little
• 11:08
  Speaker 3: bit of a beige flag. There's nothing wrong with m
• 11:10
  Speaker 3: Bird and the way I've described it to people because
• 11:12
  Speaker 3: I know we have a big Atlanta audience. Mbird is
• 11:15
  Speaker 3: kind of like the Ladybird of Tampa. Ladybird in Atlanta
• 11:19
  Speaker 3: is a probably the most popular bar for the twenty
• 11:23
  Speaker 3: five to thirty five crowd. It's outside, it's on a patio,
• 11:27
  Speaker 3: it's chill, but it can get a little bit rowdy.
• 11:30
  Speaker 1: I think Mbird probably turns more clubby.
• 11:32
  Speaker 2: Than Oh yeah, you get like eleven o'clock, it's yeah,
• 11:35
  Speaker 2: you can't hear each other.
• 11:36
  Speaker 1: So eleven pm a m Bird. It's more of like
• 11:37
  Speaker 1: a club.
• 11:38
  Speaker 3: And so when he asked me out for like seven
• 11:40
  Speaker 3: thirty on a Saturday, I was like, I don't know
• 11:42
  Speaker 3: that this is the vibe, but whatever.
• 11:44
  Speaker 2: I mean.
• 11:44
  Speaker 3: I've never been to mbird, so I'm like, maybe it
• 11:46
  Speaker 3: is more of a date spot.
• 11:48
  Speaker 1: So I show up.
• 11:50
  Speaker 3: We're both running a little bit late, and so my
• 11:53
  Speaker 3: m O when it comes to showing up on dates
• 11:55
  Speaker 3: is I like to be five minutes late. For a
• 11:57
  Speaker 3: couple of reasons. The main reason is I want him
• 11:59
  Speaker 3: to get there first. I want him to get there first,
• 12:02
  Speaker 3: suss out the vibes, find a bar seat, have him
• 12:05
  Speaker 3: have a second to like kind of settle in so
• 12:07
  Speaker 3: then he can chill out for a second and then
• 12:09
  Speaker 3: I can just show up.
• 12:11
  Speaker 1: It makes things go so much.
• 12:12
  Speaker 3: More smooth, rather than doing the stance of like, oh,
• 12:14
  Speaker 3: I'm here and you're here, and oh, we got to
• 12:16
  Speaker 3: find a bar seat and just like makes things very uncomfortable.
• 12:18
  Speaker 3: Whereas if you have a second to figure out the environment,
• 12:21
  Speaker 3: I can show up and we can.
• 12:22
  Speaker 2: Both just be good yeah, and you can just walk
• 12:24
  Speaker 2: right in right to where you're supposed to go. I
• 12:26
  Speaker 2: always found it would be a little hard to be,
• 12:28
  Speaker 2: like you kind of know what each other look like,
• 12:29
  Speaker 2: but then you're doing that thing where you're like looking around.
• 12:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, see asked me out to Embird. So we're both
• 12:35
  Speaker 3: running late. I show up and I text him. I said, hey,
• 12:37
  Speaker 3: just a heads up, like, I've never been to m Bird,
• 12:38
  Speaker 3: so give me a second to find it. This is
• 12:41
  Speaker 3: my way again. I'm running a couple of minutes late.
• 12:43
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to initiate conscientious conversation and also just kind
• 12:47
  Speaker 3: of sus out is he here?
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Make sure is that ghosting me on the date? Yes?
• 12:51
  Speaker 3: Well, because we he had texted me before that he
• 12:53
  Speaker 3: was running a little bit late, and so then I
• 12:54
  Speaker 3: decided to run even more late so that I would
• 12:56
  Speaker 3: show up late. And he hadn't texted me. So I'm like,
• 13:01
  Speaker 3: I don't think he's here yet, So I had to
• 13:03
  Speaker 3: go like hide in.
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: A corner at Armature Works.
• 13:05
  Speaker 3: Armature Works is kind of like Pont City Market of
• 13:07
  Speaker 3: Tampa for those who live in Atlanta.
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: It's like the food Hall of Tampa.
• 13:10
  Speaker 3: So I'm and Armature Works hiding out and he goes, oh,
• 13:13
  Speaker 3: I'm also running late, and I've also never been to
• 13:15
  Speaker 3: Embird so I might need a second too. And that's
• 13:18
  Speaker 3: what really pissed me off, because, as I explained before,
• 13:22
  Speaker 3: I like to do this I show up late thing
• 13:24
  Speaker 3: because I need you to figure out the date environment
• 13:27
  Speaker 3: so you can settle in and then I can just
• 13:30
  Speaker 3: show up and we can both just get the state started.
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like get the details all ironed out so you
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: can just walk in and just be the graceful person
• 13:37
  Speaker 2: that you will.
• 13:37
  Speaker 3: Yes, I can appear like the graceful person that I'm not,
• 13:40
  Speaker 3: because then I immediately get that text and immediately get
• 13:42
  Speaker 3: so flustered and kind of pissed because I'm like, a,
• 13:45
  Speaker 3: this feels a little bit like incompetency, Like Okay, you
• 13:48
  Speaker 3: didn't figure out, like you don't know where this is.
• 13:51
  Speaker 3: Like you you're taking me to a place that you've
• 13:53
  Speaker 3: never been, and I already know this is not a
• 13:54
  Speaker 3: good date vibe. So now I'm kind of mad that
• 13:56
  Speaker 3: you didn't even really do the research. So anyway, text
• 14:00
  Speaker 3: me that he's looking for it, and so he's like,
• 14:02
  Speaker 3: I'm in this courtyard area. I'm like, the Embert is
• 14:05
  Speaker 3: not in a courtyard. What are you doing my guy?
• 14:07
  Speaker 3: It's on a rooftop. Why are you in a courtyard.
• 14:09
  Speaker 3: So finally I just decided to just go up to Embert.
• 14:11
  Speaker 3: I'm literally texting my friends. I'm like, should I just leave?
• 14:13
  Speaker 3: Like I literally was gonna stand this guy up because
• 14:15
  Speaker 3: he's not figuring out where it is.
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: I'm like, ask for directions, dude.
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And I think for some people like that might
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: sound like, oh my gosh, av you're being so like
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: I guess, let me just use this phrase for it,
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: like picky. But it's like no, because these are little
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: tiny things, yes that If you can't get these little
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: tiny things right, how does that look? Down the line?
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: They're showing me small character correct small characteristics about you,
• 14:39
  Speaker 3: and a turnoff for me is not being conscientious and
• 14:43
  Speaker 3: just like if you don't, you haven't really ironed out
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: the plan. That's a huge, huge, huge turn off for me,
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: especially for a first date, because this is the most
• 14:50
  Speaker 3: play you're ever going to be to.
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: Me, very very true, like this is where the bar
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: is set.
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: Yes, so this is where the bar is being set.
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: So I show up, I see him and he immediately
• 14:58
  Speaker 3: like says hello, and like the vibes are already kind
• 15:01
  Speaker 3: of off, like he seems like he's really stressed.
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: Out.
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: I'm really stressed out, and I'm just kind of like,
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: where do we go? Because we're in this courtyard and like,
• 15:07
  Speaker 3: where's embird?
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: You don't know where it is? I don't know where
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: it is. Where are we going to have the state?
• 15:11
  Speaker 3: So it turns out Mbird it's under construction, so we
• 15:13
  Speaker 3: can't even go to Mbird, and so now we have
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: to scramble and find a place to Like I'm like,
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: I don't know if is there a bar here? Is
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: there another restaurant?
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know. So we're He's.
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: Literally like high tailing it throughout this entire thing, so
• 15:23
  Speaker 3: I can I can tell he's stressed out, and so
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: I feel kind of bad, but I'm also kind of
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: pissed because I'm like, this.
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: Is your fault.
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: You could have this figured.
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: Out, you could have this figured out. Research, little research.
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: So he's like high tailing it trying to find a place,
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: and I'm pointing out like literally every barstool in this place,
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: I'm like, what about that one?
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: What about that one?
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: Like let's just sit down, like let me get in,
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: let me get out. So finally we go to this
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: restaurants called Steelboch, which ironically I think what if our
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: sales girls was also there at the same time. I'm like, calckling,
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: I'm like, was this the one date night spot on Saturday?
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: I think Sydney was there.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: Oh, I still see that.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: I saw her post that. I was like, wait, I
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: was there.
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: Fun they probably saw your Like, oh my god, they
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: probably did.
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: I mean, I need to ask her in the sales media.
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: I'm like, did you see me on a date at Steelbock?
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: But I didn't see them anyway, steel Buck is this
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: It's actually really nice, Like he should have just taken
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: me there to begin with. It's kind of moody, it's
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: very dainty, very romantic.
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: It reeks of steak.
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: It's a steakhouse, but I love steak, so it's fine.
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: So we sit down a lot of meat in the air,
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: not enough, and so we're sitting there having this date
• 16:15
  Speaker 3: and it's just not going well, Like it's just awkward.
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: He's very stiff.
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: I'm like cracking jokes with the bartender. I'm trying to
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: lighten the mood, and it's just like there's just clearly
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: not a vibe.
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: We're not hitting it off.
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: And then I just start to about forty five minutes
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: in after I've ordered and finished my second glass of wine,
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: I start to crash out a little bit. I start
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: to sit there across from this guy, and I start
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: to crash out about like the fact that I have
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: to keep doing this. I'm like, I have to keep
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: sitting here and making dumb small talk with this guy
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: who has zero personality or is not really showing me
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: any personality. And maybe he's nervous, Like that's totally fine,
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: but like we're not twenty two, like we're on Earth.
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: I'm toy nine, he's like thirty one. I think, like
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: we're this is not your first did dude. And I'm
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: also noticing that his eyes are a little bloodshot, So
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: I'm like, is he high? He seems a little out
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: of it, and so I'm sort of watching him kind
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: of give me the bare minimum conversation, like he's trying,
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: but it's just really dry and bland.
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: Nothing's clicking. I'm sure, no conversations.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's just no chemistry.
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: And every time he goes to take a sip of
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: his drink, so he got a moscummule, He's taking a
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: sip of his drink and I know this.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Will give you the egg.
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: He takes a sip and he is, and then every
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: time he's done sipping it, he goes every single time gosh,
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: and so a I'm like getting the itck because I'm
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: like you.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: Then I'm also like, is his mouth dry from the weed?
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: Yes? This guy just stone out of his mind.
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: She's just stone.
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: And so as I'm having this crash out where I'm like,
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: I can't believe I keep making all the small talk.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: I'm just so bored for it of all this I hate.
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm I can't believe I've found somebody.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: By now I'm just so pissed. I look at him
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: and I go, are you high?
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: You really are? Yeah?
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: I asked him. I was like, are you full?
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: Because I'm really getting the vibe that this guy might
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: be high, Like that's that's the vibe. Like it's not
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: that he's not present, it's just like I don't feel
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: like he's fully there, and he goes, no, no, no,
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: Like I actually like, I haven't done weed in a
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: couple of years, Like my contacts are just kind of
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: like bugging my eyes. And I was like, then I
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: started to feel like an asshole because now I'm sitting
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: there I'm like, oh my god, like what if I'm
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: his first date after a breakup? And like he was
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: crying and I've just I've called out his bloodshot eyes.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: I think you'll be okay.
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: So then I started to feel bad and I'm trying
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: to carry the conversation but like really, I'm like, he,
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: I know this isn't going anywhere. He should know this
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: is going nowhere, Like let's get out of here. And
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: then about twenty minutes before the date ends, he goes,
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: are you hungry?
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Like did you eat?
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, yeah, no, I had food before this,
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: and he goes, yeah, I eat before this too, but
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: like the steak smells really good, like we should order
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: a steak. I'm like, well, if you order a steak,
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: like I'll have a bite, but like, don't feel like
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: you need to order a steak on my behalf.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: And then he goes, well if I order his steak,
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: can I feed it to you?
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: Holy shit? What?
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: And I look at him and I look at.
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: This man who has just said these words, And I
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: look at him in the eyes and I go, that's
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: crazy thing to say to me.
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: I said, that's insane behavior.
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: How poorly this date is going, what about the vibe?
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: Says I want you to feed me beef.
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: At this bar, And I said, I'll eat the steak,
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: but you're not gonna feed it to me like a baby.
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: And I understand that in his mind he's probably getting
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: tipsy and is thinking this is like a sexy thing,
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: but it just.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: Was any part of the conversation sexy to that point.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: There was no sexiness whatsoever.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: And then I just start getting mad because then I
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: just started going on this rumination rant in my head
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: of like what pisses me off about first dates is
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: like I hate having to be the one to break
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: things off, Like I wish like we could both just
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: recognize the vibes that we're both not having a good time. Yeah,
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't think either of us is envisioning
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: this is our future partner after the way that this
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: state is going. But I think guys before they sleep
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: with you, like they just get so excited that a
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: girl they find attractive is sitting in front of them
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: that they'll just do whatever it takes to just keep
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: you in front of them, even if they're.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Not having a good time.
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: And so it's like he put all of his effort
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: into the latter half of this date, because I'm like, well,
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: cause he's probably thinking, well, I just invited her to
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: this thing with my friends. Maybe she can come hang
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: out with me and my friends, and these guys can
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: be like, wow, how did you pull this girl or whatever,
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: or maybe she'll sleep with me afterwards, maybe we can
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: hook up. And so I can see all the effort
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: coming in in like the last twenty minutes. But I'm like, dude,
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: it is the fourth quarter. Like you're not even remotely
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: in the game anymore.
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: You're so behind the ball right now.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: And also I had planned, so I was like, dude,
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: I gotta go meet my friends at the Sapphire, so
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna head out.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: So we walk out, He's like, can I drive?
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: And I'm like no, no, no, Like I've seen you
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: drink two Moscow mules and you also seem a little high,
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: so that's a no.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: And then again he's pulling out all the stuffs.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: He goes, I'm getting the vibe you didn't have a
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: great time, and I have to look at his face
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: and lie and go, no, no.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: I had a great time. Thanks for taking me out.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: And you know, you're really nice. I mean, it's so
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: hard because I think that goes back to the like
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: this is where I always find it because I asked
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: you this before. I don't know if it was on
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: the podcast, but like, would you leave a date in
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: the middle of it? And I don't think you said no.
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: No, cause I'm just it's tough putting yourself out there,
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: and I understand. Like he also said that he had
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: just moved here a couple of months ago, and so
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: it was nice that he came from Saint Pete over
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: to Tampa, and he said he asked his friends where
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: they should go on a date and they said m Bird.
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: So like empathy for him there, but like, I don't know,
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: I think I'm just kind of I'm just really burnt
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: out from going on these dates that just are not great.
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: And I think especially the ones I've been on in
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: Tampa have been like especially not great. That I'm just
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: really as I've said before, I'm just really burned out
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: from the first date, second date thing. And I hate
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: having to break off things with guys that if I
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: had met them in a bar, we probably wouldn't have
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: gone out with to begin with. But I have to
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: go out on this first meeting with them, because otherwise
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: no one else is gonna ask me out. Because I'm
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: living my life and it's not like people are just
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: flinging themselves at me, or actually, take that back, they
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: are flinging themselves at me, and they are saying, when
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: you go out with me, and then they don't go
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: out with me, mm hmm.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: So this is all things except for the actual thing.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: This is my only chance for romance and it sucks.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: So that's when when did you text? Like your your
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: friends and everything that were.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: Like, oh yeah, I was in the middle.
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: I texted my family group chat after my second glass
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: of wine, and I feel bad because I think he
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: may have seen the text I texted my family. I said,
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: I am on one of the worst states I've ever
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: been on.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: That's how I felt like.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: I'm really feeling very I know this is dramatic, but
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: I'm like really like angry at this part of my life.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: Like absolutely, I'm.
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: Just really really angry that I'm gonna be thirty next
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: year and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm really mad
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: about that.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: And it's really upsetting that a lot of these guys
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: can do a lot of the basic things yeah, Like
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: I think that part goes to it. Like I think
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: the boyfriend part is of course frustrating, because it's to
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: have someone that can actually just I don't know, like
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: just do the basics, live up to a standard, put
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: a little effort in, be a little thoughtful. Don't try
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: to just wing it and then fall to the ground
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: and then try to pick yourself back up in the
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: fourth quarter.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: I know, because you want to get laid.
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: I'm like, dude, none of this is like, none of
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: us is even remotely close to it.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: Like, I don't even want to kiss you.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: Oh God, did he try to put on any moves
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: like that at the end?
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, Okay, Because I.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: Heard some crazy stories this weekend about people doing that.
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: I'm like, it's just the audacity of some people. And
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to just classify it as all men,
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: but I mean a lot of guys do it. Well.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: Women certainly aren't doing it. I know from my experience.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: I know, but I think it's just so crazy that
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: some guys could do. Let's say that whole day goes
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: by and then he's still like, oh yeah, let's go
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: hang out. What where is the part of the brain
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: that's saying this is awkward. I don't feel comfortable. I
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: don't think this is going to be a match. That
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: part that's speaking up, it's designed for that exact reason.
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: I sometimes wonder if men just don't have the social
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: cues in their head where I'm sitting here going this
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: guy's on my boyfriend. I'm not his girlfriend. I don't
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: even think he wants me to deep down to be
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: his girlfriend. I think guys just think, well, she's talking
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: to me and she's pretty, so therefore she must be
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: into me, do you know what I mean?
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: Sometimes yes, I mean guys could go as far as
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: if you look at them wrong in our head, right,
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: we in our head go, oh my god, there into us.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: There's a chance for.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: Like a second, if you look at us for a second,
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: we're like, oh yeah, we.
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: Got one, all right, Look what I it's crazy, That's
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: what I mean.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: When he said did you have a good time?
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: Or I'm getting the vibe that you didn't have a
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: good time, I literally wanted to ask him did you
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: have a good time? And I'm like, you know what,
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: maybe he did have a good time, because I'm a
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: delight it is.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: I think it's the guys are well a lot of
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: guys their standards are so low. Yeah, and it's like
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: women have proper standards or higher standards where you should
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: and so finding this middle ground is wild. Yeah, But
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: that's why a lot of guys, That's why I've talked
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: to so many friends. I'm like, Oh, you don't got
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: to be a genius. You just got to be somebody
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: that's willing to put an effort. And I don't like
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: to say like that's just something I learned probably too
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: late in life too, but that I've tried to be
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: really conscious of of, Like, oh, yes, this is the
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: base package, but like, how could I make this experience greater?
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: How could I be even better? Like how can I
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: put in more effort?
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: I want I had before.
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: I want the Premium Select, get the option. All this
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: delta flight of love just wild. Someone give me the
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: upgraded cookies please. I'm not even asking for first class.
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: I'm asking for comfort.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: Plus, I just want to be bored in group three.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Give me free alcohol and a snack.
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: So what is the next one lined up?
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: So Ji asked me out again, I will tell that
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: tale probably next week, Yeah, yeah, maybe in two weeks.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: It depends and then B completely fell through.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I have to update you on B.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: I don't know if we have time to update you
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: and B though, how much time do we ask?
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: We don't have enough time.
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: We don't have enough time. So tomorrow I'll update you
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: on BSh. Saturday was not.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: A good date for love, not a good love another
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: strike out for me.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: Well, you know what is good though, the adventure that
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: you're got coming up for the girls that want to
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: come here.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: And maybe it's say get away.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: It's not a date, it's you going out as the
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: girls date froze, girls' night out, girls out. Yeah, not
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: your night out with guys, you're night out with the girls.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: Are we talking about the Tampa bag Getawa?
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, tamp Big get Away. Oh my friend
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: Joyce just sign up again. She came to Greece and
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: she's coming to Tampa. So hey, Joyce, if you listen,
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: So mcgirl's it coming. So if you're like, oh my god,
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm going to meet anybody fun,
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: the girls are fun coming out all.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: Right, I'm okay. So that's in the link in the
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: description is already more half it's yeah's halfway.
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: We're yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's where we're at. So
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: come hang, come vibe it's me. You might see some
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: special guests. Rebecca's mentioned wanting to come, so if you're
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: a big fan of Rebecca from The Bird Show, she
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: might be coming down.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's going to be a blast. More details in
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: the episode description.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: Only a couple. I think the end of this month,
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: you gotta get signed.
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: Up by Yeah, so July first is the deadline, so
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: get it in. It's only three seventy five to sign
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: up and then the rest.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: Is due later.
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: And thank you for the reviews and the rank. I
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: did see a couple of good reviews. One review I
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: saw was so cool, so complimentary of what the podcast
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: has done, and they brought up a cool thing of
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: us starting to talk about some trending topics in pop
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: culture on top of our lives.
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, our top so our top listen to episode
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: is the birthday episode, but this one under that is
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: off campus episode.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: There you go.
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: So you got to watch Love Island because I need
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: someone to talk to you about Love Island.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: That show might just be I'm gonna say this and
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: for my boy brain, it just seems so dumb, like
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: I have a sometimes I like dumb humor. Uh huh,
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: But I don't know if I can get behind how
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: stupid Love Island.
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: It is so dumb, So I'll have to figure out
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: a way to incorporate it because I don't know that.
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like if you watch it with
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: your girlfriend, you guys are gonna get past the first
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: five minutes before you just go like ham.
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: Like of watching the show or on each other.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: On each other.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: Oh, I will say that show is like those people
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: are so hot. It's stupid.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: It's overly freaked out.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: I'm like, you guys are fake, it looks ai. Yeah,
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: I might try to watch episode one just to see
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: because maybe I'm just being too judgy. I don't think
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: I am that it's freaky.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: But yeah, we're two weeks in. You don't have time
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: to catch up.
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: Okay, I'll just get a little caught up on Love
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: Island stuff, but we will start talking a little bit
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: of the trending things going on as well. So thank
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: you for the reviews and we'll be back again tomorrow.