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Understanding-People-Mastering-Relationships · Apostle Joshua Selman

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  Speaker 1: Hmmm.
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  Speaker 2: The Word of God is the seed containing the very
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  Speaker 2: life of God. It is his agent of transformation. As
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  Speaker 2: you receive these words in your heart with faith, that
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  Speaker 2: life is released into your spirit and your life receives
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  Speaker 2: a supernatural lictin join upos to Joshua Salmon, as it
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  Speaker 2: brings you goods world with simplicity and power.
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  Speaker 1: Let's live a handsome Thank the Lord. I give you
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  Speaker 1: all the praise God to give to your hands and
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  Speaker 1: bless him. Jesus will honor you for tonight. Thank you
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  Speaker 1: for your grace. Thank you for your ability to change
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  Speaker 1: us everywhere inside and outside.
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  Speaker 3: I like us to lift our hands and just bless him.
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  Speaker 1: Lord.
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  Speaker 4: I know you brought me tonight to change me.
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  Speaker 1: Pray. Thank you Jesus. Thank you Lord, Jesus. Every time
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  Speaker 1: in your presence is worth the wire, because one word
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  Speaker 1: from you, one understanding of a kingdom truth, can change
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  Speaker 1: our lives forever.
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  Speaker 4: Lord, we give you praise.
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  Speaker 1: In the name of Jesus Christ.
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  Speaker 4: Allelujah.
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  Speaker 1: Let's quickly prayer and say, Father, give me understanding tonight.
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  Speaker 1: The Bible says, the entrance of thy word, give it
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  Speaker 1: light even understanding to the same pole, give me understanding
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  Speaker 1: of God, pray, Please.
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  Speaker 3: Give me understanding, give me understanding. Please make sure your prayer.
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  Speaker 4: Mm hmmm.
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  Speaker 1: Understanding.
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  Speaker 5: Name of Jesus, Allelujah, Allelujah God.
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  Speaker 4: Let's we please be seated.
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  Speaker 1: Don't to your left and right does greet someone? Amen.
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  Speaker 1: I sincerely want to appreciate everyone for coming inside and outside.
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  Speaker 1: So always exciting every Friday and every time we get
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  Speaker 1: to meet, because it is always an opportunity for us
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  Speaker 1: to not only experience the presence of God, but to
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  Speaker 1: gain understanding. Allelujah. When God shared something earlier on very powerful,
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  Speaker 1: he said, those who fly fly based on instructions. Allelujah.
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  Speaker 1: The word of God has come to give us the instructions,
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  Speaker 1: give us enlightenment. In the name of Jesus Christ. I
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  Speaker 1: decided to again shift our series on the Gospel so that.
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  Speaker 4: We can learn something very powerful tonight.
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  Speaker 1: In line with the season. This is a Valentine's period,
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  Speaker 1: and I thought that it was very wise to share.
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  Speaker 6: Some truth with us along this line. Not necessarily love relationships,
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  Speaker 6: for truths that will help us. You will be mightily
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  Speaker 6: changed tonight. Believe me, God will do something to your mind.
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  Speaker 6: Is very very important.
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  Speaker 1: We have come as individuals, as a ministry to respect
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  Speaker 1: the power of ideologies that a man's understanding and conditioning
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  Speaker 1: can open him up to a new dimension of reality
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  Speaker 1: or keep him as a victim.
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  Speaker 4: Hallelujah.
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  Speaker 1: So the Word of God is going to challenge us
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  Speaker 1: very seriously tonight. Many of us will find answers to
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  Speaker 1: many questions in our lives. You will know why your
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  Speaker 1: life has refused to move forward for many of us,
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  Speaker 1: and for many of us who will gain understanding as
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  Speaker 1: to what suddenly happened in your life that has brought
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  Speaker 1: you so much speed and acceleration. Hallelujah. The greatest evidence
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  Speaker 1: please listen to me, the greatest evidence of Please come,
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  Speaker 1: let me use somebody come from us, the greatest evidence
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  Speaker 1: of the power of God, the influence of the world
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  Speaker 1: of God and the presence of the Holy Spirit upon
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  Speaker 1: the life of a person. It's not just healing, please listen.
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  Speaker 1: It's not just miracle in terms of supernatural administration of
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  Speaker 1: the power of God. Did you know that this guy
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  Speaker 1: can be healed and still go to hell? Do we agree? Yes,
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  Speaker 1: he can be healed and you will still land in hell.
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  Speaker 1: He can be healed and still be a failure in life.
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  Speaker 1: Did you know that he can even be healed and
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  Speaker 1: become sick again of the very same sickness he was
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  Speaker 1: genuinely healed, but then something about his life made him
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  Speaker 1: become a victim of what he was just delivered away together,
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  Speaker 1: do you know that this guy can also be saved,
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  Speaker 1: accept the lordship of Jesus Christ over his life. He
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  Speaker 1: can be saved genuinely say go to heaven, but live
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  Speaker 1: a life.
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  Speaker 4: Of failure and struggle and defeat here on earth. Away together.
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  Speaker 1: That he came and responded to an altar call is
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  Speaker 1: no guarantee.
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  Speaker 4: It is the platform.
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  Speaker 1: Listen, please listen, because many of us have been conditioned
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  Speaker 1: to think that the moment you answer an altar called
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  Speaker 1: all of its suddenly your life changes by itself. It's
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  Speaker 1: not true that begins to give you access access. The
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  Speaker 1: Bible calls it seeing the Kingdom. So you have been
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  Speaker 1: put in a position where, potentially, speaking, you can now
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  Speaker 1: begin to step into the reality of the Kingdom. But
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  Speaker 1: the experience of the kingdom is based on light, is
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  Speaker 1: based on illumination.
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  Speaker 4: So this brother can be saved genuinely save.
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  Speaker 1: His name is in the Book of Life, but his
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  Speaker 1: name is not in the book of the successful. Ones.
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  Speaker 1: His name is in the Book of Life. But here
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  Speaker 1: on earth his name is in the book of struggling
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  Speaker 1: people who will keep moving in attack, confusion, waiting for
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  Speaker 1: the day Jesus Christ will come to look like a consolation.
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  Speaker 1: The hallmark of the activity of the World of God
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  Speaker 1: in this brother's life is called transformation. Transformation. What is
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  Speaker 1: transformation a change of state brought about by a change
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  Speaker 1: of conditioning, a change of understanding. Please listen. Transformation is
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  Speaker 1: the most powerful evidence of the activity of the World
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  Speaker 1: of God and the ministry of the Holy Spirit in
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  Speaker 1: a man.
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  Speaker 4: That this brother, for instance, let's assume he.
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  Speaker 1: Used to be a smoker, maybe phnicat or living in singing,
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  Speaker 1: doing all kinds of things, all of a suddenly comes
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  Speaker 1: under an atmosphere that can grant him access to the
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  Speaker 1: world of God. And by word of God, I mean
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  Speaker 1: the understanding of the principles and the mysteries of the Kingdom.
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  Speaker 1: Every time you hear me say a word of God,
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  Speaker 1: the world of God in itself on explain and not understood,
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  Speaker 1: can not do you any good. Please don't confuse yourself
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  Speaker 1: that because you have proximity with the scripture, it means transformation,
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  Speaker 1: not at all.
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  Speaker 4: You can interact with.
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  Speaker 1: The world of God as much as you know, the
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  Speaker 1: same way someone can be holding the catches to a.
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  Speaker 4: Anything and not be able to operate it.
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  Speaker 1: The word of God only becomes profitable when it is
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  Speaker 1: believed on the stood and applied believed on the stood.
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  Speaker 1: You can't believe alive. You believed, but what you believe
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  Speaker 1: is not correct. You can have an inaccurate understanding of
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  Speaker 1: a truth, So your belief it's not wrong. Is the
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  Speaker 1: information you believe that is wrong? Are we together now?
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  Speaker 1: Transformation that all of a sudden, this brother's value system
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  Speaker 1: changes the things that used to be priority to him
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  Speaker 1: based on new idea that has been given to him.
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  Speaker 1: He no longer has an ability, his appetite, his value system,
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  Speaker 1: his perception.
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  Speaker 4: His response to life.
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  Speaker 1: His interpretation of life has been altered to be similar
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  Speaker 1: to that which is of Christ.
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  Speaker 4: We call that state in a man's life transformation.
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  Speaker 1: If you are a man of God, that's going to
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  Speaker 1: be the hallmark of the quality of your ministry.
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  Speaker 4: You would be very deceived.
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  Speaker 1: If you think your ministry is moving just because you
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  Speaker 1: are raising wheelchairs.
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  Speaker 4: That's very important. You will be very deceived.
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  Speaker 1: If you think just because people are getting safe.
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  Speaker 4: That's very important.
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  Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, But I am telling you you
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  Speaker 1: really are a blessing to people when you transform them.
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  Speaker 1: Any Body who sits under you are anointing, and you
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  Speaker 1: do not challenge.
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  Speaker 4: Their perceptions and their ideologies.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't matter what time of mysteries you are teaching.
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  Speaker 1: You are wasting your time. Say amen, something intentional should
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  Speaker 1: be happening to you every week. It's called transformation, not
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  Speaker 1: just enlightenment, not just illumination, not just awareness. I'm sorry
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  Speaker 1: to say this, but many preachers are more concerned about
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  Speaker 1: giving their members awareness of a reality than focusing on
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  Speaker 1: getting them to.
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  Speaker 4: Understand the operation of it. I can come and begin
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  Speaker 4: to give you all kinds of Greek and Hebrew words,
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  Speaker 4: and there's a place for that.
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  Speaker 1: I can come and leave you confused, and at the
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  Speaker 1: end of it you'll be like, my goodness, ah ah,
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  Speaker 1: how did that persile get this revelation? And then we
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  Speaker 1: rise up on the strength of awareness without sufficient understanding
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  Speaker 1: to defend it. So there are many things we claim
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  Speaker 1: to know in the Body of Christ, but our lives
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  Speaker 1: do not show we really understand it.
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  Speaker 4: The Bible says they are lives to those who find them,
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  Speaker 4: and health to their flesh.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to bold claims about a reality.
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  Speaker 4: In the spirit that I do not understand the dynamics.
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  Speaker 1: We talk so much about prosperity, but it's obvious we
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  Speaker 1: know very little about it. We talk so much about
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  Speaker 1: the anointing, but it's obvious we're only aware. We talk
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  Speaker 1: so much about leadership, churche growth. You know all of
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  Speaker 1: these persons. Please, I want you to have a passion
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  Speaker 1: for transformation. Transformation is not a mystery. Transformation is the
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  Speaker 1: product of new spiritual ideas that I believed received. Those
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  Speaker 1: ideas common First and foremost, there is a conflict.
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  Speaker 4: The old man is fighting something new.
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  Speaker 1: The ideas you have had about God, about life, about ministry,
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  Speaker 1: about the Anointing, about the operations. Right, those ideas are
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  Speaker 1: facing something new and superior. They will not bow by default.
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  Speaker 1: It takes your willingness to allow. This is where the
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  Speaker 1: power of the Holy Spirit comes in. That you can
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  Speaker 1: come in and become an influence in your transformation, so
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  Speaker 1: that your thinking is altered, your conditioning is altered, your
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  Speaker 1: programming is altered. All of a sudden you find out
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  Speaker 1: that you now begin to have new appetites.
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  Speaker 4: There is a level of order and take on in
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  Speaker 4: your life, and.
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  Speaker 1: Then your compliance with the truth of the world begins
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  Speaker 1: to produce the results that God said would happen. You
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  Speaker 1: will be very frustrated when your life is full of
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  Speaker 1: awareness without evidence.
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  Speaker 4: Almost every truth they want to teach you have had
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  Speaker 4: it before.
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  Speaker 1: But the frustration is that everything you are aware of
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  Speaker 1: implicates you because people expect foods from it. When Jesus
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  Speaker 1: looked at the victory and saw that it had leaves,
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  Speaker 1: the leaves were so marketable. You see, your awareness will
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  Speaker 1: draw people to you, but they don't want to live
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  Speaker 1: on awareness. They rate your awareness has been thorough understanding,
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  Speaker 1: so they come because you give them a picture of
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  Speaker 1: something you claim to know, only for them to be
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  Speaker 1: disappointed that even you yourself, you don't even understand what
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  Speaker 1: you're saying. So many of us past us are jumping
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  Speaker 1: with truths and realities in the spirits that are contentially
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  Speaker 1: supposed to deliver certain level of results.
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  Speaker 4: But because we.
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  Speaker 1: Are so concerned about dispensing things, because we think our
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  Speaker 1: value as men of God is tied to new things.
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  Speaker 1: Your value as a man of God is not tied
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  Speaker 1: to the new revelations you bring. Your value as a
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  Speaker 1: man of God is tied to how much of the
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  Speaker 1: world you understand that you have been able to demonstrate
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  Speaker 1: its reality, both in your life and the life of others.
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  Speaker 1: That track record of consistency results results that are intentional
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  Speaker 1: and came reproduce.
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  Speaker 4: It's God blessing us already, So I want.
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  Speaker 1: Your growth to be very definite. This brother has come
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  Speaker 1: tonight expecting certain.
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  Speaker 4: Things to happen. Some of us do not even know
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  Speaker 4: what should happen in an atmosphere like this. You know
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  Speaker 4: you came to church.
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  Speaker 1: You know that the worship team is supposed to sing,
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  Speaker 1: You're supposed to participate, You're supposed to pray.
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  Speaker 4: You're hoping that apostle will come.
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  Speaker 1: Up and teach. But you are not even You don't
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  Speaker 1: even know what should happen to you. This is what
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you. Every time you come for cononia or
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  Speaker 1: any ministry at all, expect transformation. Listen, let me tell
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  Speaker 1: you this, and I say it without any sense of apology.
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  Speaker 1: If you stay under a ministry and under and anointing
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  Speaker 1: for a long time and you cannot trace transformation, get
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  Speaker 1: out of that place. Get out first. Don't fight them.
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  Speaker 1: Don't insult anybody, but place off you go. Value your
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  Speaker 1: life because you are giving your time, and your life
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  Speaker 1: is mentioned in time. I cannot invest five years of
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  Speaker 1: my life in a platform, a ministry, or a place
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  Speaker 1: and not have a noticeable transformation. I'm still confused five
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  Speaker 1: years later as I was before I came.
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  Speaker 4: There's nothing that has changed about my values.
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  Speaker 1: It becomes a mockery to you. It becomes a mockrey
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  Speaker 1: to the God that you represent. Away together now.
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  Speaker 4: At least within five years.
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  Speaker 1: If I don't know the solution, I should be able
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  Speaker 1: to identify what I am very wrong. That for me,
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  Speaker 1: the fact that I am now aware that I'm not
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  Speaker 1: getting it right, it's already a revelation for me. Away
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  Speaker 1: Together now. I may not know the way out, but
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  Speaker 1: the fact that I have been brought by life to
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  Speaker 1: a point where I know that something must be wrong,
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  Speaker 1: that is enough awareness to begin to stimulate transformation. Please
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  Speaker 1: don't ever expect your growth and excelling in life to
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  Speaker 1: be a mistake. There's no such thing as that. Allelujah,
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  Speaker 1: the Lord has declared onto us that this is our
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  Speaker 1: year of multiplike, grace, and influence. It's not a cliche.
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  Speaker 1: It's not a pressure that we have to bring words.
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  Speaker 1: If God doesn't say anything, we carry over the world
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  Speaker 1: from the last year and continue with it by God's grace.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not one of those people who are under pressure
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  Speaker 1: to make sure that December thirty first you.
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  Speaker 4: Must bring a word. But this word came from the
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  Speaker 4: Lord and only those who know how to run with it.
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  Speaker 4: I pray that what will be hearing tonight will really
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  Speaker 4: change us.
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  Speaker 1: Allelujah. See before we begin to teach, I want to
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  Speaker 1: show you how to make the world change.
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  Speaker 4: You listen, how to allow the world to change you,
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  Speaker 4: just just listen. Look at me. Please, don't you wire write,
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  Speaker 4: but I want you to look at me.
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  Speaker 1: Listen. The dynamics of transformation through the world. Is this
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  Speaker 1: the Holy Spirit? Listen.
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  Speaker 4: The same Holy Spirit who is at work.
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  Speaker 1: Influencing your life and your mind is the same Holy
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  Speaker 1: Spirit who is guiding the Man of God as he
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  Speaker 1: is teaching.
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  Speaker 4: So there's not supposed to be confusion.
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  Speaker 1: That's why sometimes you think the Man of God is
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  Speaker 1: talking to only you, because.
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  Speaker 4: He's being under the Bible says Holy Man speak.
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  Speaker 1: As they were moved right, their faculties came under the
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  Speaker 1: influence of the Holy Spirit, and their communications were consistent
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  Speaker 1: with the will of God.
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  Speaker 4: And when that world comes to a.
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  Speaker 1: Recipient like this, that world begins to go over around
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  Speaker 1: your destiny. Listen, before the arrival of that world, your heart,
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  Speaker 1: your mind was not empty. There was an information there
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  Speaker 1: away together. There was an ideology there. That ideology is
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  Speaker 1: what is responsible for the quality of your present life.
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  Speaker 1: Now the Word of God comes like a man wanting
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  Speaker 1: to ask a woman out.
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  Speaker 4: But imagine that that woman or have somebody else?
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  Speaker 1: Are we together?
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  Speaker 4: But that person is destructed.
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  Speaker 1: Now the word of God comes, give it the figure
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  Speaker 1: of a man coming to say, would you respond to
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  Speaker 1: a more superior proposal? You have been mismanaged by your
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  Speaker 1: association with this man called the old man. The Bible
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  Speaker 1: calls it right.
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  Speaker 4: So the word of God comes is a proposal.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't force it on you. You are hearing new ideas
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  Speaker 1: now between the old ideology and the new one. You
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  Speaker 1: are the ultimate person who can make the word of
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  Speaker 1: God of non effect away together, or you are the
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  Speaker 1: one who can respond. Do you know what it means
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  Speaker 1: to tremble at the world of God. It's not just
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  Speaker 1: to be afraid, but that every time the Word of
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  Speaker 1: God comes the moment the ideas are superior and excellent,
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  Speaker 1: and your spirit is at peace with it. You replace
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  Speaker 1: it immediately, you permit it to be replaced. Oh, this
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  Speaker 1: is how I used to see life, My goodness, I
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  Speaker 1: never saw it this way. Now something new has come.
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  Speaker 1: So how do you respond?
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  Speaker 4: My life will never move this direction again.
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  Speaker 1: And you make up your mind that from.
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  Speaker 4: That time ends forth. Are we together?
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  Speaker 1: Now? If you need to jot down certain resolutions by
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  Speaker 1: remember you are not just doing it candally, because you.
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  Speaker 4: Are responding to the world.
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  Speaker 1: You are not just sitting and.
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  Speaker 4: Saying I will do this, I will do this.
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  Speaker 1: No, there is an ability that is backing and supporting
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  Speaker 1: your decision.
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  Speaker 4: So we can render the word of God.
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  Speaker 1: Of non effect in our lives by refusing to allow
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  Speaker 1: it changes. The word of God hits you, and you
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  Speaker 1: look at the world that is coming, and go back
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  Speaker 1: and look at your old idea. And because sometimes the
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  Speaker 1: old idea keeps us in a comfort zone, I went together.
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  Speaker 1: The new world you are hearing will challenge you, challenge
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  Speaker 1: your ministry, challenge your paradigm.
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  Speaker 4: Kill every excuse you said.
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  Speaker 1: Kid, Let me join act as if I never knew
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  Speaker 1: it so that I would remain there. Many people hate
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  Speaker 1: information because they know information will kill excuses, so they
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  Speaker 1: don't want to go for knowledge because they do not
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  Speaker 1: want to take action.
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  Speaker 4: Pray in one minute and say, Lord, I'm desperate for transformation.
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  Speaker 1: Pray. I pray this for my life. Pray I pray
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  Speaker 1: this so God, for my children. I pray this for
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  Speaker 1: the many who depend on your hand upon my life.
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  Speaker 1: I pray this for the nations and the shares of
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  Speaker 1: influence that you'll be committing to my hand. Please pray
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  Speaker 1: from the depth of your heart. There is a level
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  Speaker 1: of clarity and certainty that a man can work in.
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  Speaker 1: This is like a spiritual workshop. Please pray, pray from
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  Speaker 1: the depth of your heart. Lord. I'm not just jumping
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  Speaker 1: at the world. I tremble at the world. I have
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  Speaker 1: understood its power to change me. I've been a victim
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  Speaker 1: of poor ideology. It's render God of non effecting. My
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  Speaker 1: life is rendered, my destiny helpless a lot. I'm on
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  Speaker 1: a project, an intention out project to conforming to the
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  Speaker 1: image of Christ.
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  Speaker 7: Oh oh oh yeah yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Make sure you are praying Lord, I must change my
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  Speaker 1: journel red sure is the patient on that.
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  Speaker 8: Yea, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Listen, let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 1: Listen to me. There is no man who is born
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  Speaker 1: with a transformed mind by default. It's not a gift.
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  Speaker 1: Never has it been a gift that a man is
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  Speaker 1: born with an excellent mindset. Something we do not know
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  Speaker 1: is responsible for our life. Our parents and our loved
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  Speaker 1: ones do well meaning have been responsible for some of
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  Speaker 1: the tragedies in our lives. They've feed us with informations
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  Speaker 1: that are not consistent with the paradigm of the kingdom.
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  Speaker 1: We were angry with them, we blame them, but now
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  Speaker 1: we're reproducing their mindset. You will never receive another result.
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  Speaker 1: By default. You have to open up your and said no,
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  Speaker 1: I suffered this. It must end in my lineage. I
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  Speaker 1: suffered this, I've gone through it. My children cannot go
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  Speaker 1: through this. Lift your voice and cry in one minute,
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  Speaker 1: say Lord, I tremble at your world. I tremble at
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  Speaker 1: your world.
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  Speaker 4: I understand its power to change me those outside.
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  Speaker 1: Make sure you participate, regardless of your geographical location and
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  Speaker 1: its limitations, regardless of the mindset that Africa and Nigeria
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  Speaker 1: has been known with the difference between the qualities of
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  Speaker 1: a man's life, The difference between the access point in
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  Speaker 1: a man's life for the Holy Coast to use him
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  Speaker 1: is his depth of permission to be transformed.
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  Speaker 9: Satprendica Labahar Yadava rata Baa Recanda cross got Brenda Dabakara
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  Speaker 9: Daakada para coast Cabala Rascal dadaaa math Grascal.
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  Speaker 1: I Brando's carrier.
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  Speaker 4: Alia Allelujah. I like you to pray.
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  Speaker 1: See the Bible says that we receive with meekness. There
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  Speaker 1: is there is an attribute. Listen, wor say pray just
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  Speaker 1: one more prayer. I like you to say, Lord, I
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  Speaker 1: admit that there is something I do not know that
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  Speaker 1: is responsible.
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  Speaker 4: For where I am show me this night. I admit it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not arguing with you. I know I've seen you
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  Speaker 1: move in an area of my life. But Lord, there
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  Speaker 1: is something I do not know. There is something I
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  Speaker 1: refuse to believe. There is a wrong information I believe
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  Speaker 1: that is responsible for my condition. Pray, pray, pray tonight. Lord,
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  Speaker 1: I kill the excuse. I admit that there is something
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  Speaker 1: I do not know. Lord, I am admit there is
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  Speaker 1: something I have not seen. I admit there is an
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  Speaker 1: information I have not received. H B B.
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  Speaker 4: Branding by.
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  Speaker 10: He hen amos anamos.
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  Speaker 1: Say, I was standing face to face with our destiny son.
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  Speaker 4: Im soon Dad, allelujah, allelujah.
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  Speaker 1: I just feel we should pray. That's one more prayer
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  Speaker 1: point you're going to say, Lord, I don't have loyalty
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  Speaker 1: to any mindset that has not helped me so far,
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  Speaker 1: no matter.
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  Speaker 4: How long I have held it. If it's wrong, did
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  Speaker 4: most leave me?
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  Speaker 1: Tonight?
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  Speaker 4: Lift your voice and pray.
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  Speaker 1: I have no loyalty to a mindset and an understanding
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  Speaker 1: that is inconsistent with.
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  Speaker 4: The Word of God.
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  Speaker 1: Some of us have held onto ideologies for years. It
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  Speaker 1: was the foundation of our building, and so in loyalty
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  Speaker 1: to it, we do not want to drop it, whereas
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  Speaker 1: that may be the very thing that is responsible for
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  Speaker 1: the limitation of the.
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  Speaker 4: World of God in our life. Alleluis.
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  Speaker 1: Let's sit down, God bless you.
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  Speaker 8: M m hm.
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  Speaker 1: Hm yeah. Oh, I found my way. I found my way.
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  Speaker 11: I've found my way.
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  Speaker 1: Honey, you hear, rogers and sisters, you can handle the
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  Speaker 1: keys of destiny and paralyze. I don't care what kind
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  Speaker 1: of ancestor whatever.
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  Speaker 4: When you find the key.
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  Speaker 1: When you find the key, every door responds to a key,
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  Speaker 1: not complaining. Every door responds to a key. Believe me
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  Speaker 1: when I tell you this. Every door responds to a key.
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  Speaker 1: The day you find it and know how to use it,
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  Speaker 1: that's the day your Sabbath has come.
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  Speaker 4: That's the day your Sabbath has come. As the day
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  Speaker 4: your Sabbath has come, Spirit of the Living God will
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  Speaker 4: depend on you.
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  Speaker 1: You're the only one who can open up the mysteries
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  Speaker 1: of the Kingdom on towards. We want to live like
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  Speaker 1: God's upon the earth. We want to take our place
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  Speaker 1: in life and destiny. We want to change the things
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  Speaker 1: that we have seen around our lives and environments. The
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  Speaker 1: transformation in our families.
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  Speaker 4: Our lives are dependent upon the things that you teach us.
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  Speaker 1: So, Lord, we tremble at your world. We tremble at
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  Speaker 1: your world. We are recipients of your world.
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  Speaker 4: Tonight.
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  Speaker 1: We are believers. Our hearts are malleable. We have no
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  Speaker 1: loyalty to wrong ideologies. We are willing to change in
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  Speaker 1: the name of Jesus Christ a man and Amen, God
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  Speaker 1: bless you. That was such a powerful preamble to open
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  Speaker 1: up our hearts. We must be prepared to receive the word.
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  Speaker 1: Praise the Lord. Now tonight, I'll be teaching in three sessions.
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  Speaker 1: The Holy Spirit inspired me to break Tonight's teach three sessions.
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  Speaker 1: Please make sure you're writing or at least benef it's
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  Speaker 1: to type it on your phone or you can get
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  Speaker 1: the message.
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  Speaker 4: So there are three sessions.
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  Speaker 1: The first session, I'm going to be teaching us on people.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's important we need to understand who people are.
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  Speaker 1: I will teach us certain truths about people. Listen, if
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  Speaker 1: you do not understand people, you will be humiliated in
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  Speaker 1: your life and destiny.
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  Speaker 4: A great man, Bishop Oedepo, was asked and.
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  Speaker 1: They're asked him the greatest asset in his life and
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  Speaker 1: he said people, and he said the greatest problem in
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: his life.
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  Speaker 4: And he said people.
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  Speaker 1: If you do not understand people, you will never be
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  Speaker 1: able to fulfill your assignment. If you do not understand people,
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  Speaker 1: are we together now? Many leaders have failed because they
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  Speaker 1: do not understand people. Many past us, fathers, mothers, and
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  Speaker 1: with the young people. Our inability to understand people has
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  Speaker 1: destroyed our lives in a very great way. So I'll
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  Speaker 1: be teaching us on that very powerful revelation. Then I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to be teaching us the second session on maintaining relationships.
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  Speaker 1: It's a powerful revelation. I'll be sharing with us a
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  Speaker 1: few keys that I have gleaned from the lives of
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  Speaker 1: absolutely phenomenal people, and some of the truths that the
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  Speaker 1: Lord has opened my eyes to. And this will include love,
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  Speaker 1: relationships and relationships generally. And then number three, the Lord
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  Speaker 1: inspired me to answer certain questions. You know, God just
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  Speaker 1: put in my heart many questions that many people will
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  Speaker 1: be having. And I call that session what could be wrong?
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  Speaker 1: The third session what could be wrong? So I put
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  Speaker 1: a number of points. What could be wrong.
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  Speaker 4: If nobody is asking you out, are we together?
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  Speaker 1: What could be wrong if every relationship you lay your
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  Speaker 1: hands on does not work? What could be wrong if
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: your marriage is on its way to being shattered? So
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  Speaker 1: I know that the Lord will bless us to night
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  Speaker 1: in Jesus name. Let's start of media. I will need
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  Speaker 1: you to help us on this. I want to share
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  Speaker 1: with you seven I call them seven great scriptures that
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  Speaker 1: guide friendships and relationships. Because the foundation of understanding people listen, please,
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  Speaker 1: the foundation of friendships in the Kingdom, the foundation of
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  Speaker 1: relationships in the Kingdom must be tied to an understanding
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  Speaker 1: that is revealed to us from God's world, not just
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  Speaker 1: understanding that Wessonization has brought, not just understanding that our
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  Speaker 1: cultures have given to us. And there are seven great
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  Speaker 1: scriptures have found in my own pursuit to understand people,
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  Speaker 1: understand friendships and relationships that I think will bless us.
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  Speaker 1: I won't dwell so much there because we have a
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  Speaker 1: lot and I really need us to finish.
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  Speaker 4: This and do so in good time. So I'll give
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  Speaker 4: you the scripture.
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  Speaker 1: Media. When I give you the scripture, I will give
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  Speaker 1: you the next one so that you will help us.
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  Speaker 1: And then I'll just explain the scripture. Every one of
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  Speaker 1: these scriptures give us guidelines. Scattered within them are principles
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  Speaker 1: that help us to excel in friendships, relationships, and to
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  Speaker 1: understand people.
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  Speaker 4: Praise the Lord. Okay, so we'll start off with Proverbs.
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  Speaker 1: We spend some time in the Book of Proverbs Proverbs
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  Speaker 1: chapter twenty seven, verse seventeen, Proverabs twenty seven, verse seventeen.
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  Speaker 1: While you're projecting that our next scripture will be Proverabs seventeen,
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  Speaker 1: verse seventeen. So media, please help us Proverbs twenty seven,
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  Speaker 1: verse seventeen and Proverabs seventeen, verse seventeen. Let's look at
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  Speaker 1: what it says everyone. Please read Proverbs twenty seven, verse
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  Speaker 1: seventeen one to read.
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  Speaker 4: The idea. Idea is a.
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  Speaker 1: Comparison as ion sharpen it ion.
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  Speaker 4: So a man sharpened the countenance of his friend.
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  Speaker 1: It gives you a God's idea on the kind of
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  Speaker 1: friendships you should be involved in. Are weing together now?
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  Speaker 1: It never says ion sharpnet robber. It's God's loreaking to
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  Speaker 1: us all. You are in for a shock tonight.
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  Speaker 4: He never said ion sharp net mood.
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  Speaker 1: That means true friendship must be based on the same material,
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  Speaker 1: paritual material, psychological material. Are wing together now, it says
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  Speaker 1: as ion sharpenet ion, So a man sharpened the countenance
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  Speaker 1: of his friend, meaning any kind of friendship. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: just talking of love, business friendship, social friendship meaningisterial friendship
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  Speaker 1: that does not culminate in a mutual sharpening is a
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  Speaker 1: useless friendship. As far as the Kingdom is concerned, This
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  Speaker 1: already is a big deliverance for many of us who
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  Speaker 1: are under so much pressure to be friends to and
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  Speaker 1: with everyone. There are many kinds of friendships that don't
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  Speaker 1: kuild us. Is taken from us, is stolen from us,
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  Speaker 1: is destroyed our lives. You've been friends with someone for
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  Speaker 1: two years, you cannot tell one spiritual advantage of his
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  Speaker 1: or her presence in your life.
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  Speaker 4: Are we together? The person did not help you know God.
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  Speaker 1: The person they help you discover purpose.
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  Speaker 4: The person day will help you understand life.
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  Speaker 1: That's a useless friends, God speaking to us tonight.
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  Speaker 4: We grew up together.
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  Speaker 1: So what.
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  Speaker 4: When I came to Zaria, he was the first person
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  Speaker 4: I met.
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  Speaker 1: So what it says as iron, sharpen it iron. Let
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  Speaker 1: me stop the next first place seventeen seventeen of Proverbs.
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  Speaker 1: Then the next one will be Probabs eighteen twenty four.
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  Speaker 1: I'll give you one ahead. I just want to show
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  Speaker 1: us seven scriptures that have been the foundations of my
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  Speaker 1: understanding friendships and relationships. This is a very interesting one.
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  Speaker 1: Let's read it together. One to read A friend love
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  Speaker 1: it at how many times? How many of your friends
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  Speaker 1: have done that? The ones you call friends destiny friends,
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  Speaker 1: the ones who claim you can die for the Bible,
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  Speaker 1: says a friend, a true friend. Can we have amplified
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  Speaker 1: please all through? Let's see how we can work with
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  Speaker 1: amplified all through?
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  Speaker 4: That is possible, It says.
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  Speaker 1: A friend, love that at all times In other words,
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  Speaker 1: a true friend, any man you call your friend, should
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  Speaker 1: be someone who's commitment to you, who is not dependent
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  Speaker 1: on circumstances. I'm not talking of love relationships yet, although
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  Speaker 1: that applies to it. A friend loves at all times
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  Speaker 1: and is born as is a brother for adversity. In
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  Speaker 1: other words, friends. Part of the benefits of friends is
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  Speaker 1: to be sources of encouragement and lifting. It's a terrible
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  Speaker 1: thing when a man is in the downside of his
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  Speaker 1: life and you look around, there is nowhere to dross strength.
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  Speaker 1: There are so many people in our lives today who
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  Speaker 1: are not friends. We have entertained them. We are wasting
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  Speaker 1: our time believing that they are friends. Let something bad
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  Speaker 1: happen to you. You will never see.
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  Speaker 4: Any one of them.
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  Speaker 1: Yet some of us will not come to church because
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  Speaker 1: of those people. Yet some of us are now losing
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  Speaker 1: the good friends because we want to maintain those people.
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  Speaker 1: As you are watching this, I likely to begin to
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  Speaker 1: look at all the people in your spares.
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  Speaker 4: Of influence who you call friends, indeed, whether.
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  Speaker 1: Or not they meet this criteria.
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  Speaker 4: The Bible says a brother is made for adversity. Is
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  Speaker 4: there someone in your life today.
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  Speaker 1: Who can see you in the prison and here that
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  Speaker 1: Gordea was arrested, and not just saying I don't know
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  Speaker 1: the med too, where all workers, it's just the church
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  Speaker 1: that brought us together. Let me tell you something, a
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  Speaker 1: true friend. The Bible says, it's made even for adversity,
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  Speaker 1: where we're Job's business partners, where we're.
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  Speaker 4: All his extended relatives. None of them came around away together.
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  Speaker 1: Now see, this revelation will help you to know where
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  Speaker 1: to channel your energy and effort as far as you
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  Speaker 1: deal relationships are concerned. Because many of us feel that
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  Speaker 1: there are certain people you are so committed to and
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  Speaker 1: you will allow anything go bad to maintain relationships with them.
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  Speaker 1: That is leading nowhere. They are not friends. They may
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  Speaker 1: not be enemies, but they are surely not friends. From
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  Speaker 1: the definition of Bible. Are we together? Next Scripture eighteen,
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  Speaker 1: verse twenty four, Proverbs. Then the next one will be
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  Speaker 1: Proverbs twenty seven, verse six. These are seven scriptures of let's.
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  Speaker 4: Say eight that have really really changed my life.
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  Speaker 1: Proverbs twenty seven verse Okay, Prohabs eighteen, verse twenty four.
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  Speaker 1: Look at this, Hello, celebrities, social people, those who rejoice
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  Speaker 1: around in Everybody likes me. I don't have one kind
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  Speaker 1: of spirit. Listen to what the Bible is saying. I
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  Speaker 1: you already want to read them, really read it.
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  Speaker 4: I mean it's not me, it's not my book. It's
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  Speaker 4: in the Bible.
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  Speaker 1: Want to read the man of many friends, a friend
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  Speaker 1: of all the world will prove himself a bad friend.
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  Speaker 1: There is a.
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  Speaker 4: Friend who sticks closer than your brother. Listen, let me
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  Speaker 4: explain what that means for you.
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  Speaker 1: If your life is not uncommon to drive certain kinds
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  Speaker 1: of people, that means you don't have value some principles.
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  Speaker 1: Any godly sees the temperate of their life in you.
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  Speaker 1: When a smoker sees you, he sees something. He sees
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  Speaker 1: a connection between him and you. Are we together?
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  Speaker 4: When somebody who has no value for the things.
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  Speaker 1: Of you are like, you know ow a universal charger.
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  Speaker 1: They call that. You can put any kind of phone,
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: any kind of battery. Some of us are like that,
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  Speaker 1: and we think because everybody is comfortable around us is
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  Speaker 1: a sign that we're good friends. Hear what the Bible says.
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  Speaker 1: You will eventually prove yourself to be a bad friend.
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  Speaker 1: This is a friend that has no standards. This is
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: a personality that has no values. Meaning if you come
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  Speaker 1: to church, you behave like a Christian. If you go
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  Speaker 1: to a place and the sub gooder drop my own,
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  Speaker 1: I mean I'm in social I'm okay, I'm all right.
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  Speaker 1: You go to where people are not serious Christians, you say,
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  Speaker 1: what's yeah?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, don't feel bad about this.
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  Speaker 1: All right, let's let's let's come to it.
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  Speaker 4: You seem like you're a friend of everybody.
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  Speaker 1: The Bible says it's a sign that something is wrong
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  Speaker 1: with your life because there are no standards. Something in
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  Speaker 1: your life must attract some people and drive other people. Now,
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  Speaker 1: I don't mean to I don't mean to insult people,
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  Speaker 1: and don't feel bad. Life is in levels, but there
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  Speaker 1: is a soul that I hear the bath with and
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  Speaker 1: wash with. Listen, listen, now, don't feel I said, don't
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  Speaker 1: feel bad. God is taking everybody in levels, so don't
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  Speaker 1: feel offend that it does what you use.
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  Speaker 4: But I'm just trying to communicate something.
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  Speaker 1: You bath with, wash your clothes, try to clean out
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: the stains, and then in your body too.
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  Speaker 4: I I respect those who produce that soul.
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  Speaker 1: If you are working with them, please accept my kind apologies.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm not a doctor, but I can tell you this.
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  Speaker 1: That soap will not give you the best in terms
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  Speaker 1: of quality away together, because you and your.
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  Speaker 4: Clues are not the same.
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  Speaker 1: Away together. Now, some of us are like that. See
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  Speaker 1: let me teach you something this night.
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  Speaker 4: Lend this.
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  Speaker 1: If you are afraid of being controversial, forget about being
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: a leader. It takes the courage of being controversial to
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: become exceptional in life. The reason why many of us
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  Speaker 1: find ourselves in useless friendships friendships that don't make sense,
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: is because you want to agree with everybody. You don't
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: have the courage to look at people and say no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: no no, I love you, but this understanding is not
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: consistent with my ideologies.
• 45:58
  Speaker 4: So a roommate comes into your room. She loves God.
• 46:01
  Speaker 4: You love her too, But she says, let me just
• 46:03
  Speaker 4: see what happened in Judge this weekend. Hey, just sit down,
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  Speaker 4: and he said.
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  Speaker 1: No problem. And while you are just someone calls you
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  Speaker 1: and say you know that it's time for prayer band meeting,
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  Speaker 1: And he said, I'm.
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  Speaker 4: Coming you see, so to you, you don't see the difference.
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  Speaker 1: You can enter and stretch for two hours, shouting till
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  Speaker 1: you lose your voice and just call someone.
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  Speaker 4: I said, where are you Now, he says, I'm in pleased.
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  Speaker 4: What was the name of that club?
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  Speaker 1: Come and tell me. I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: It's TJ Pallas, no now Mates or something.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it's okay, I know you used to go there. No, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: forever jealusy, Not for I know you go there forever jealousy?
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  Speaker 1: Are we together? Man with those standards? Men who are
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  Speaker 1: afraid of being controversial. These are the kinds of caerelessness
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  Speaker 1: that stops certain people from being mightily used by God.
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  Speaker 4: People cannot just about you and say no, no, no
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  Speaker 4: when it comes to this one, just forget. This person's
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  Speaker 4: standard is high and clear.
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  Speaker 1: Many of us are ashamed of defining our standards because
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  Speaker 1: we suspect it to robots of certain people. When you
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  Speaker 1: set that standard, that lady you like who have to
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  Speaker 1: shift so you patsh it so that I can incorporate them.
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  Speaker 4: Look, let me tell you.
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  Speaker 1: The Bible says a man who tries to be Have
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  Speaker 1: you not heard that love with the Father's enimity with
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  Speaker 1: the world, you cannot gain everything. You must choose one
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: so that all inclusive kind of friendship. Now, please get
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: my idea of friendship.
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  Speaker 4: It doesn't mean you frown at others and love at others.
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  Speaker 1: I mean a friend is one who you are allow
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  Speaker 1: to influence your life. A friend is one who you
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  Speaker 1: are confortable with his paradigm and his ideologies. It doesn't
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  Speaker 1: mean that because you don't agree with someone who hates
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  Speaker 1: the person, or you don't interact with the person. No,
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  Speaker 1: you're going to work. If you're a worker here, for instance,
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  Speaker 1: you know that there are people in your office whose
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  Speaker 1: values are not consistent with yours, even if they are Christians.
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  Speaker 4: You must have standards.
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  Speaker 1: Twenty seven, verse six. These proverbs, then the next verse
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  Speaker 1: will be John fifteen, verse thirteen.
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  Speaker 4: Are you getting blessed already?
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: John twenty seven verse I mean Proverbs twenty seven, verse six,
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  Speaker 1: and then John fifteen, verse thirteen.
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  Speaker 4: Now listen to what the Bible says. Let's read one
• 48:56
  Speaker 4: to read inside and outside one to read.
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  Speaker 1: Let me explain to you what that means. The word
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  Speaker 1: wound there means the discomfort from the correction of a friend.
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  Speaker 1: Are you get You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 4: The word wound there doesn't just mean after you fight
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  Speaker 4: with your friend.
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  Speaker 1: He means fretful when you meet it true friend, one
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  Speaker 1: who loves you enough, and it can tell you no, no, no, no, no, no, nurse.
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  Speaker 1: I love you, but the way you are going about
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  Speaker 1: this me and you know that this is not consistent
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  Speaker 1: with the word.
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  Speaker 4: It will sting your ego. The Bible calls them wound,
• 49:37
  Speaker 4: but it says fitful.
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  Speaker 1: Are the wounds depends that you sustain. A friend is
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  Speaker 1: even ready to risk his friendship to make sure you're
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  Speaker 1: expending life. That's a true friend. In other words, if
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  Speaker 1: after telling him the truth, I lose out on the relationship,
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  Speaker 1: no problem. But at least I'm not talking about truth
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  Speaker 1: that is seeing. I'm not talking about you coming to
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  Speaker 1: blast somebody and making feel.
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  Speaker 4: Bad and say something like that.
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  Speaker 1: I say everything raw rod does not mean stupid. You
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  Speaker 1: have common sense to take it easy and say no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: no no. Bengard, you love the Lord, but cry I
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  Speaker 1: saw AMBNC.
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  Speaker 4: Do you think it's all right if you do something
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  Speaker 4: about it?
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  Speaker 1: He may think his ego, are we together now? But
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  Speaker 1: he says straight full are the wounds of your friend.
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  Speaker 4: Notice what he called the kisses of an enemy?
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: You know what these are very These are very powerful
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  Speaker 1: linguistic expressions. You are entering the whole. It's an apostle
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  Speaker 1: of the most high. You're the only one. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: look at what you are happening. Whereas I'm entering a
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  Speaker 1: ditch and you are there watching. Then the friend will
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  Speaker 1: kiss you and make you feel happy and go out
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  Speaker 1: and say, I can't tell you. This guy is about
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  Speaker 1: to die. But then you immediately you step you in
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  Speaker 1: the middle of the coming ayes son, sir, God is
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  Speaker 1: lifting you. The Bible calls that the.
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  Speaker 4: Cheesies some of you.
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  Speaker 1: Your cheese is almost red with the kisses of enemies.
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  Speaker 1: You are about to die. Nobody is telling you are
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  Speaker 1: doing something wrong. You're in a relationship with five men.
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  Speaker 1: And somebody comes and says, man, this girl you have said, so,
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: how are you doing it? It's called the kisses of
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  Speaker 1: an enemy. Hivs at the corner, demons and spirits, all
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: kinds of instruments of ancestry at the corner. It's called
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  Speaker 1: the kisses. It was with a cheese. Judas used to
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  Speaker 1: let people know the person I cheese, you would think
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  Speaker 1: is an instrument of love. Now, in Jewish days, they
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: didn't have a problem.
• 51:38
  Speaker 4: Men kissing men. It was not they away together. It
• 51:42
  Speaker 4: was a culture like they're still doing Britain.
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: You know, kiss hands and all of that. So the
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  Speaker 1: chises of an enemy, he said, they are lappish, generous.
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: Your prayer life has died. But he looks at you,
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: his friend. You are sleeping, and he says we are rising.
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: That's the chises of a friend.
• 51:59
  Speaker 4: You are not going anywhere, but he's saying we are rising. Listen.
• 52:06
  Speaker 4: My father taught me something. He said, it's better to
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  Speaker 4: live with a wise enemy than your foolish friend. When
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  Speaker 4: you live with a wise enemy, you will have to
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  Speaker 4: be wiser.
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  Speaker 1: To live with a person faithful. Are the wounds of
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  Speaker 1: a friend. There are people that have challenged and corrected.
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  Speaker 1: There are pastors that have had the privilege of closeness
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  Speaker 1: with them, and I have told them you're a great
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: man of God. But I think you need to adjust
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: here and here and here, And they never come near
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  Speaker 1: me again. I love them, I pray for them. There
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: are pastors who I love sincerely, but they will never
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  Speaker 1: come upon Cononia. Wupit.
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  Speaker 4: I love you too much to let them preach.
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: Their vulnerability and their lack of standard is too bad.
• 53:00
  Speaker 4: There are some of you.
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: Any man of God, you say, who comes to town
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: just because he gave prophecy or he gave a revelation.
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: You say, please, I think that's you. Is that how
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: much you love your people? The keys is of an enemy.
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: You finish administration and someone comes to live and say
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: you're doing in Somebody sent me a very interesting text.
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: You know what the person said. He said he wanted
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: to sew a seed into Cononia. And he said, man
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: of God, you are the only one who is raising
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  Speaker 1: disciples in Nigeria.
• 53:32
  Speaker 4: He said, all that, listen, listen, he said, other men
• 53:35
  Speaker 4: of God?
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: What did he even say?
• 53:37
  Speaker 4: Other men of God are just raising money as the.
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: Keys of an enemy.
• 53:45
  Speaker 4: How could such a man, with the mighty work God
• 53:49
  Speaker 4: is doing.
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: I mean men and women who are pledged their life
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: inconveniencing themselves to see the kingdom advanced some of you.
• 53:57
  Speaker 4: As as really kill us and sack stick.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: As that statement is, you like it, you will embrace
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: it and live in that deception.
• 54:06
  Speaker 4: How could you be so.
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: Deceived like that? It's called the kisses of an enemy?
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: You preach misquoted scriptures, said a lot of things, did
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: a lot of things, insulted people in the process, allow
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: your canality to override the stage. And at the end
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: of it, your friend looks.
• 54:24
  Speaker 4: And says my brother.
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: What happened into this meeting? It's called the kisses of
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: an enemy. Please listen to what I'm saying. You must
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: begin to respect people in your life who love you
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: so much. Even with tears in their eyes. They can't
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: tell you the.
• 54:40
  Speaker 4: Truth, they will guide you into the part of truth.
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: Now, I'm one person who by nature surprisingly did you
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: know that all this shau.
• 54:52
  Speaker 4: Child you see ends on stage here?
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: It's because of your apostolic annointing as a person.
• 54:57
  Speaker 4: I am incredibly soft. You will be amazed.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: Some people think I'm not emotional.
• 55:01
  Speaker 4: I am away together. Now go ahead, look at you
• 55:07
  Speaker 4: are laughing. You can't believe it.
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: You better believe it. Those are close to me. No,
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: but I can laugh with you one moment. And while
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: we're in the middle of a celebration. You violated kingdom principle.
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: And I look at you, and I see how many
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: other people will be misled from that paradim. You're going
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: to receive it right there are way together. That change
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: is important.
• 55:33
  Speaker 4: So if you love your destiny, you will love me.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: Some of us hate anybody that can correct you. Now
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: I don't mean in anger, but somebody that has the courage.
• 55:43
  Speaker 4: To say, my dear, listen, I think you need to.
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: Work on this.
• 55:47
  Speaker 4: You were calling and talking with someone. You just told
• 55:49
  Speaker 4: a lie.
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: You lie that you're card If you don't like him,
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: say you don't like him. Why say officer, I'm in Carduna?
• 55:56
  Speaker 4: And then you laugh.
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: You're smart, You're not smart. It's called the cases of
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: an enemy. And listen, listen, listen, listen. A friend who
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: partners with you to do evil will do evil against you.
• 56:12
  Speaker 4: Break the phone and life for me. The day it
• 56:15
  Speaker 4: collides with our own personal interests, you'll be shocked.
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: Next, we have a lot to do. I mean, this
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: is an advertiser. We're about to lift up John fifteen,
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  Speaker 1: verse thirteen. Then you'll go to Luke six thirty one.
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: That will be the next cripture. I said seven, but
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: I'll give you eight. Technically, John fifteen, verse thirteen. Please
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: write it and look up inside and outside those outside
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: are we together? Say amen?
• 56:44
  Speaker 4: God bless you. Okay, let's read one to read.
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: Uh huh. The Bible says the ape of friendship is sacrifice.
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: I'm giving you the interpretation of all this English. The
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: epet of true friendship is sacrifice. How much you are
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  Speaker 1: willing to inconvenience yourself if need be to see the
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: other party excel.
• 57:17
  Speaker 4: Greater love had no.
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: Man than this. Right, He says that a man laid down. Sorry,
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: I'm not it's from my mind. That's why I'm not
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: consistent with this. But that's what King James says, what
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: I'm putting. Greater love had no man than this. He
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: said that a man laid down his life for his friend. Listen.
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: Anybody you claim to be a friend who cannot inconvenience
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: himself or herself, no matter how little, for your welfare,
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: is a bad friend.
• 57:46
  Speaker 4: In fact, is an enemy. You love yourself.
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: You are singing Cornonia songs, and all of a suddenly
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: your mother said, please call me, and he said please,
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: can you help me with your tone? And said, please,
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: I'm tired of this kind of thing.
• 58:01
  Speaker 4: I suffer and I work.
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: I get. Richard Carl, you are prophesign on everybody in
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: Cornonia receive for yourself. That's a bad friend. You were
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: rejoicing together, but your mother sends an emergency call and
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: the person cannot allow you.
• 58:13
  Speaker 4: To take advantage of fifteen hors.
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: Listen, listen, listen, be very careful, Great.
• 58:22
  Speaker 4: Hallo had no man than this.
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: You are coming down from a bike and you found
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: out that ah, you misplaced your wallet, and your friend
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: who came down from their bike and he's going. He said,
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: so I'm going, and he said sorry. It looks like
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: there's no one saying no deed. You just releash your
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: thing there.
• 58:37
  Speaker 4: That's a bad friend.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: You may laugh about it, but the friend is already
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: giving you signs. I am so addicted to my interest.
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: If it means killing you, I will. That's the message.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: This even is a deliverance for love relationships. There are
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: people who claim they're in love now is Valentine. There
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: are brothers who will give lazy has stupid excuses on Sunday.
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: You know why, because they are not winning. They don't
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: want anything to touch them at all. There are certain brothers.
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: You can buy me a shoe, but you cannot buy
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: a lady. You claim you love so much you want
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: to spend the rest of your life. You are a liar,
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: You're a hypocrits. You are not doing it because of honor,
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: greater love at no man than this. Look at your
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: circle of friends, look at what has left you to
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: maintain that relationship. And you will know if you're a
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: good friend, look at what has left them to maintain
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: your relationship and you will know. Sister, if you look
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: at the life of this guy you are shouting around
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: your laptop. Is his picture everywhere right, and you cannot
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: see traces of genuine sacrifice, not sacrifice that the value
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: period is on the altar sacrifice that he's genuine. See,
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: let me tell you one of the indecees we're going
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: to talk on that. To know a very good guy
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: is see how he responds to people who are not
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: necessary in his life. Are we together? Look at the
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: way the guy responds to people who he does not.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 4: Need in his life.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: He tells you the true way every body looks nice
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: if you can see what you will get from somebody,
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: the way he responds to a cleaner who cannot add
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: anything to his life, The way he responds to a
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: restaurant waiter who cannot add anything. So when he's looking
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: at you and kneeling down, said this way, my think, Well,
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: see how he just insulted the waiter. I said, sorry
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: at my temper, I love you. Come and sit down.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: What he's telling you is for as long as I
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: need you, You will get this response.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 4: But the day I do not need you, that's what
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 4: you are.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: Going to get. The default behavioral pattern of people is
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: revealed when they're talking and interacting with people who do
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: not add to their lives. Everybody can fake it when
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: you are looking for attention or a gift, But the
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: way you respond to people who mean.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 4: Little to you, it's God blessing us six verse thirty one.
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: Please look six thirty one. Then give us give us
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: Proverbs thirteen twenty media. This is for you. Please after this,
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: now give us Proverbs starteen twenty and First Corinthians fifteen
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: thirty three.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 4: I join two of them.
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: Together because they are the same thing that's supposed to
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: be the last sets of scripture, But they are the
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: same thing really in different ways. Proverabs start in twenty
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: and First Corinthians fifteen thirty three. Let's look at look
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: six thirty one. Everyone please read one to read. Oh,
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: come on, let's read like able body people want to read.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 4: Listen.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: This is another idea on kingdom, friendship and relationships that
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: God is saying. He's saying the same way you want
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: people to treat you, please listen. It says, do to
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: them likewise, sister, all the guys who are parading around
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: and just playing around with and you are happy the
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: way you're clashing.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 4: And fighting themselves. The Bible says, the same way you want.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: People to treat you is the way you treat other people.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: I have learned as a person never to do to
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: people what I know I will frown out if it
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: were done to me.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 4: Now it's not easy.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: It's easier saying it than doing it, because sometimes many
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: things are unconscious. But you must have a determination. Never
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: delight yourself doing things to people that you will frown
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: up if it were done to you. We see the
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: way some of our mothers treat the house helps in
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: the house. Yet that house help is somebody else's daughter
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: away together. Now, yeah, we see the way some of
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: us treat other people. You see the way we pastors
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: streat people, right, and then we do not want the
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: same thing happening. The Bible says, as ye would that
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: men do to you. I know what I want men
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: to do. I want people to honor me and honor
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: what I represent. I want people to trust me. I
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: want people to find a friend in me. I want
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: people to pay attention to the truths that I bring
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: because I believe that there are communications of the field,
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: and I want people to believe in me and believe
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: in the ministry.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 4: And because I want that, I will never take.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: My mouth and be running another man's ministry.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 4: Are we together now?
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: Yes, I'll not open my mouth and be calling pastors
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: sake of no. No, no, no no no. I leave
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: every judgment to God. I will challenge ideas, challenge ideologies
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: that are not consistent with the Word of God. But
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: I will do to men as I would want them
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: to do to me. I don't want any man coming
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: and realizing the grace of God upon my life.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 4: So I make it a point of duty to honor everyone.
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: I don't enter a meeting and seemen of God seated
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: and now here comes appost to Joshuah Selman and I
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: rubbish them and make.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 4: It look like everything.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: Oh, Nurse Benger, if you're doing shahama na's all these
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: things you were saying, you're just teaching nonsense. Now sit down.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 4: No, I don't want that done to me, and so.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: I will not do that to anyone. It's amazing how
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: people hate the things they do to orders. They will
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: not be able to survive, want ten of the things
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: they engineer to happen to orders. For instance, you're in
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: a relationship with a brother, and maybe you were supposed
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: to have an appointment and you could not make it.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: Unlet's say you was careless, you didn't let you know,
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: you wasted your time. Hear what some of those bird
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: friends says, Show this guy. I've been telling you, show
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: this guy. Whereas that same lady will be in a
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: relationship and something need to happen, and you will come
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: back boiling. Listen, don't you ever do or advise people
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: to do things that you know you will not want
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  Speaker 1: for yourself or for your loved ones. I want my
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  Speaker 1: children treated well, and I treat everybody's child properly.
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  Speaker 4: You never see me stand and say, oh you're this,
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  Speaker 4: your clothes are this, you are smelling. You've not taken
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  Speaker 4: your back.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I don't want anybody doing that,
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  Speaker 1: because everybody, we are all we're all products of our environments.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what people have gone through. We're all
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  Speaker 1: seated here as our faces are different.
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  Speaker 4: So our challenges.
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  Speaker 1: And I always want to make sure that when people
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  Speaker 1: see me, they have this idea that this is somebody
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  Speaker 1: who genuinely loves you and is committed to your group.
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  Speaker 1: Next verse probabs starteen verse twenty a big key. Write
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  Speaker 1: it and please look up. Want to read. He that
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  Speaker 1: worketh with the wise shall be wise, it says, what
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  Speaker 1: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed. He that
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  Speaker 1: works with the wise, the Bible says, shall be wise.
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  Speaker 1: Why Because friendship is a platform for mutual influence.
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  Speaker 4: You imby people's ideologies.
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  Speaker 1: So it says if you find yourself working with wise people,
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  Speaker 1: it says you will also be wise. But when you
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  Speaker 1: escort people who are foolish don't know where they are going.
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  Speaker 1: You look at a lot of group and I need
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  Speaker 1: to tell us this because this includes physical friends, social
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  Speaker 1: media groups.
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  Speaker 4: Are we together?
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  Speaker 1: Any organization of people who are going nowhere? You should
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: have more business. Some people just come and meet you
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: and say, let's start a club. The name of this
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  Speaker 1: club is those through. I mean, all work and no
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  Speaker 1: play makes Jack a doll boy. Let's create a club.
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  Speaker 1: We rest on Saturday.
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  Speaker 4: We are just happy, enjoy our lives. What is the
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  Speaker 4: work you are doing that justifies that rest?
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  Speaker 1: You don't know? It's your register.
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  Speaker 4: You're now register collect from collect your ID card. You
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 4: are in all kinds of useless groups.
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  Speaker 1: That are not adding anything to your life. I'm a
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: member X y Z club. What do you do on Saturday?
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  Speaker 4: We rest? How old are you?
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  Speaker 1: Twenty one? You are joking?
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 4: You are really joking.
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  Speaker 1: Are we together? There are all kinds of groups, associations
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  Speaker 1: and body of people. You should have no business following
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  Speaker 1: the Bible, says he that works with the whites. You
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  Speaker 1: have a friend that maybe you are roommates or work
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  Speaker 1: mats or whatever it is. You are together in the
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  Speaker 1: night while you are sleeping, you can tapyo and said,
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  Speaker 1: my brother, I've noticed two three days you've not prayed.
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  Speaker 1: I heard you saying a lot of things about issues
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: in your life. Why don't you pray?
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  Speaker 4: And say I've been feeling with He said, don't worry,
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 4: it happens, let's spray.
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  Speaker 1: That's a wise spread somebody who you don't want to
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: comfort Cornonia, I just said, I'm tired.
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  Speaker 4: I've been waiting.
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  Speaker 1: Nothing is happening. I said today, maybe your day. That's
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  Speaker 1: a widespread Are we together? Someone who sees you hugging
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  Speaker 1: lady and says you'll be hugging ladies worker today's org zeros.
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  Speaker 1: Are you ready for a relationship or is lost? Which
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  Speaker 1: of them so that you will know how to help
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  Speaker 1: you saved me to I don't know, so let's go pray.
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  Speaker 1: That's a wise friend. Are we together?
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  Speaker 4: Not one who allows you until he.
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  Speaker 1: Backfires on you. That's a wise friend. People come around
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  Speaker 1: your house and you don't have money. You run and
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  Speaker 1: want borrow money. You borrow ten thousand and n other
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  Speaker 1: buy them you shortcake and say it is said, look
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  Speaker 1: this place. We're reaching this place.
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  Speaker 4: A wise friend calls you and said, God is he
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  Speaker 4: wise to borrow money? And you're just spending on consumption?
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  Speaker 1: Don't you think he will just do what you have?
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  Speaker 1: If what you I mean tomorrow you can rise. That's
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  Speaker 1: a wise friend.
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  Speaker 4: You borrow a undred and fifty thousand to buy a
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  Speaker 4: phone and your friend says.
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  Speaker 1: No return the money. Be grateful with what you have.
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  Speaker 4: God will help you. That's a wise friend. Away together.
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  Speaker 1: Now you are loving a guy who is going nowhere.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: The friend calls you and talk sense to you and said,
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  Speaker 1: we're housing this brother will see his ideology where he's going.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: He doesn't love God. It's not on the authority. Don't listening.
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  Speaker 4: It's a god of his old. You see his temper.
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  Speaker 1: He's not even born again.
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  Speaker 4: And you sit that and say, mate, I was carried away.
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  Speaker 1: Age is not on my side. That's why I'm being
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  Speaker 1: sincere with you.
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  Speaker 4: And the friend says, I know, I understand that, treasure.
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  Speaker 1: Let's pray together. That's a white friend. Who will you
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: call a white friend in your life today? When you're
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  Speaker 1: about to die? The person says, hire old, and you Christ,
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: that's not a wise friend. A wise friend is not
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  Speaker 1: a friend that you sit with and be justing and
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  Speaker 1: gossiping about people. From the person who is cooking, you
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  Speaker 1: are gossiping.
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  Speaker 4: You finish cooking, you leave the place there, you are
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 4: still gossiping.
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  Speaker 1: It's evening. That's what I just working down with one
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  Speaker 1: nice movie and just rest Roger read his life said,
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  Speaker 1: that's not a wise friend, because a friend is eating
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  Speaker 1: up your time.
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  Speaker 4: Don't since here. It's God blessing us. He that works
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  Speaker 4: with the whites. I will never work with foolish people.
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  Speaker 4: I mean business about my skilly.
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  Speaker 1: There are so many persons who have met me a
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  Speaker 1: person I want to be your friend, and I don't
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  Speaker 1: reply them. I don't have a problem with them. I
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  Speaker 1: really love them, but they are not wise friends. I
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  Speaker 1: have seen the way they do ministry away together. I've
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  Speaker 1: seen the way they manipulage people when the ministry has it.
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: I've seen them do a lot of things. I've seen
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  Speaker 1: their attitude towards ladies. They don't care.
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  Speaker 4: Can come to the President's house and see it.
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  Speaker 1: Lady in the knight lying down loosely and carelessly warmingly
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  Speaker 1: do me for him?
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  Speaker 4: No, no, no no, I don't want that kind of life.
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  Speaker 1: I plan to go far. My success is intentional. Of
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  Speaker 1: course I love them. We will interact, but they will
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  Speaker 1: never be my destiny friends.
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  Speaker 4: Never a way together. He that works with the white
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  Speaker 4: wise give us the last scripture of place.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you media First Corinthians fifteen, verse thirty three. It
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  Speaker 1: says almost the same thing, in essence, Please write it
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  Speaker 1: and look up. One to read, be not deceived evil communications?
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  Speaker 4: Do what corrupt?
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  Speaker 1: Please amplify, amplify, amplify.
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  Speaker 4: Let's hurry up.
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  Speaker 1: We have a lot to do. Thank you. Are you
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  Speaker 1: ready to read? One to reread everything? One to read
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  Speaker 1: communion associations corrupt and depraved good manners, im.
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  Speaker 4: Morals and what Look at this?
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  Speaker 1: The new Testament interpretation of what we read in proverbs.
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  Speaker 1: That means I can be a well behaved person. I
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  Speaker 1: love God, but my association with somebody else can start
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  Speaker 1: altering my values.
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  Speaker 4: Let me tell you how you know that things are
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 4: going wrong.
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  Speaker 1: The things you used to frown at you now become
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  Speaker 1: silent over them. Progress are way together. On a very
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  Speaker 1: good day, you.
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  Speaker 4: Are somebody who, over certain things you would say God is.
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  Speaker 1: Faithful, but kai this one. But now the devil is
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  Speaker 1: softening you the influence of friends. A friend comes and says,
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  Speaker 1: brous neil, I'm your friend, I'm your classmate. I drink.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not saying you should drink, but just allow me.
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  Speaker 1: Use let me keep the gulder your fridge after let
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  Speaker 1: to our command take. On a very good day, you
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  Speaker 1: tell a person, don't feel bad. I know that I
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: sound like a fool, but I really am sorry. I
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  Speaker 1: have convictions. Please allow me respect my convictions. I love you.
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  Speaker 1: I hope that you see the truth. But please so
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  Speaker 1: you drop the gulder. The next day you will come
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  Speaker 1: with another friend as a sorry bros. But' come again,
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: let's drop it. Shapshap. Your standards are bending, but you
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  Speaker 1: don't know you see how the devil decease people.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, a lady will come into your room, comes stroll around.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not ladies, please don't feel bad. I'm still I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to balance everything comes to your room and all
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  Speaker 1: of that carelessly and says, ah, it looks like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: we be going for a lecture whileife quickly for you know,
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  Speaker 1: I know that things happen with our adults, but there
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  Speaker 1: are times that you know that which is gone out
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  Speaker 1: of love and generosity, and that given the lady herself
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  Speaker 1: did not intend.
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  Speaker 4: For it to get to where it's going to.
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  Speaker 1: Or you have eyes, you have discerndmant, prayers activated your discernment.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: The Holy Spirit is saying check, check, check, check something.
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  Speaker 4: You just ignore it.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: I wait together now and then one day you will
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: return back. Your money is stolen, your phone is stolen.
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: The lady writes a letter for you. Stupid boy. You
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  Speaker 1: think you can use me and drop me, and you
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  Speaker 1: all of it sudden find out that the lady you
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: were thinking was a naive small girl can sell you.
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  Speaker 4: You have exposed yourself to nonsense.
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  Speaker 1: See let me tell you. One of the most disturbing
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  Speaker 1: things I see about people is this lack of standards.
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: If there's anything I want to use this scripture to
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  Speaker 1: teach you is that you will never go find in life.
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  Speaker 1: It's better to have standards and break them at least
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  Speaker 1: even when you are repenting. You know what you are
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  Speaker 1: repenting to, but you don't have standards. The Bible say
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  Speaker 1: a man here, what the Bible says that a man
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  Speaker 1: who cannot guard is spirit is like a city without words.
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  Speaker 4: Anything comes in, anything goes out. And I will tell
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  Speaker 4: you why many.
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  Speaker 1: Of us hate being controversial. You don't want people to
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  Speaker 1: talk against you.
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  Speaker 4: Allelujah, as God bless us.
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  Speaker 1: Before we continue to prayer and say, Lord, I make
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  Speaker 1: up my mind to have standards. I'm realizing right now
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  Speaker 1: that I'm already allowing a lot of cheerlessness.
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 4: I'm allowing things.
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  Speaker 1: To just bend. Please pray, pray, pray, Lord, I receive
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  Speaker 1: fresh grace standards.
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  Speaker 4: Don't feel bad if you found.
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  Speaker 1: Yourself compromising standards. That's why God put this meeting. Lord,
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  Speaker 1: rest tell me, let me have standards. I started with
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: you as a man of discipline and standards, but I
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: ask for chrice, I ask for grace. Let the weaknesses
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: of my flesh not prevail against me. I ask you
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: for standards in the name of Jesus Christ. Yes I'm human,
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: Oh God, but give me standards. Standards. Allelujah, allelujah. Now
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: please listen, very powerful revelation. I want to show you
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  Speaker 1: three kinds of people and three kinds of relationships you
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: will find in your life. And this is according and
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: classifying them according to motives.
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  Speaker 4: Please listen, learn this tonight and be wives.
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  Speaker 1: There are three kinds of people you will find in
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  Speaker 1: your life according to motives. Every man who is born
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  Speaker 1: of a woman and is alive today you have these
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: three people in your life. And if you don't learn
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: how to interact with these people, you will both deceive
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: yourself and you will have on necessary heartbreaks and pains.
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 4: Are you ready now?
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  Speaker 1: Number one? The first kind of people or relationships you
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: will have classify based on motives is this Number one.
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: Those who genuinely love you. Those who genuinely love you
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: in this kind of relationship or this kind of people,
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: you are the object of their passion. You are the
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: object of your attraction, not what you have, not where
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: you are going, not even your destiny. You as a persid.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 4: Their commitment is onto you.
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: Please listen. Their commitment is not onto you as a pastor.
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 1: Their commitment is not up to you as a millennium.
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: Your commitment is not up to you as a man
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: or a woman, your person. You are the object of attraction.
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: This represented truest and surest form of people and relationships
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: on earth today. Where you find someone who is committed
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 1: to you as a persid, not your skill, not your gift.
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 4: So you are the object of attraction. Look at me
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 4: and let me tell you a sincere truth.
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: If you find ten of this lipul in your life lifetime,
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  Speaker 1: then in your lifetime you are the luckiest man that
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: has lived in a generation. I know you won't believe
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: what I'm telling you. Now keep rising, and you will
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: find out when you are fifty years you will come
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  Speaker 1: back and say, of.
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  Speaker 4: Course you remember something you said, as I remember it
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 4: clearly because I said.
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  Speaker 1: It out of conviction and experience. It is difficult to
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: find a man a woman who will commit your lives
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: to you, not your vision. You are the object of attraction,
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: not your accomplishments. And my prayer for you is made
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: that persing be your husband or wife, because it is
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: not if your husband or wife does not fall into
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: that category. Honestly, you have made you have entered into
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: a realm of pain that only the spirit of God
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: will comfort you. Joe was the wealthiest man in the East. Listen,
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: and for that.
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 4: No wealthy man grows wealthy alone.
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  Speaker 1: He must have business associates and allies, political figures and
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: all of that.
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  Speaker 4: And the Bible says, when Suddain things happened.
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  Speaker 1: To Joe, the only person that stood with him was
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: his wife. Even she communicated her frustrations, you see, because
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: God had died. But at least she was a wife
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: that stood by her husband.
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 4: Three examples of this in the Bible. We may not
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  Speaker 4: have time to go there, Just write the scriptures.
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  Speaker 1: First Samuel, chapter eighteen, verse one and three tells us
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: the story of they did. Let's let's at least let's
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: look at that one first. First Samuel, eighteen one to three.
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 1: The story of David and Jonathan. Right, David and Jonathan.
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 4: Gives us the picture of these kinds of people in
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 4: your life. First Corinthians. Okay, First somewhere, listen, he says.
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  Speaker 1: And it came to pass when he had made an
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  Speaker 1: end of speaking on to Saul, that the soul of Jonah,
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  Speaker 1: and was what meet with the soul of David, and
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: Jonah turn loved.
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  Speaker 4: Him as he Saul.
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  Speaker 1: Just stop there.
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 4: Do you know what it means for a man to
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 4: love you as himself? He has entered it. When you read.
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  Speaker 1: Downwards, will have to say, because of time, he entered
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 1: a covenant. He was a covenant of friendship.
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  Speaker 4: You will hardly find these kinds of people in your life.
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: Example number two Routh, chapter one, verse sixteen, Just give
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  Speaker 1: it towards media. Ruth one verse sixteen. The story of
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  Speaker 1: Ruth and Naomi an example of these kinds of people
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  Speaker 1: and this kinds of relationship. I'll read and Ruth said,
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: when Naomi aks and said, please leave, I can't give
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: better children for you now, to wait for them to
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  Speaker 1: grow so that you will marry them.
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  Speaker 4: And yes, what Ruth said, entreat me.
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  Speaker 1: Not to leave thee or return from following after them.
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  Speaker 4: He says, for with that thou goest, I will go,
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  Speaker 4: and where thou lodgest, I will lodg.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, what he says, thy people shall be my people.
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: And die God, my God, May God bring these kind
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  Speaker 1: of people to your life. Another example.
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  Speaker 4: We may not have the time, but I will just
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 4: give you is Jesus.
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: Christ, and John the beloved Jesus and John the Beloved.
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: The Bible says he loved Jesus so much. When Jesus
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  Speaker 1: was teaching, he would come and lean on his chest,
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: like if theyby would lean or a sister or brother
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: would lean on the chest of an elder one.
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  Speaker 4: That it was not I service, it was genuine.
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 1: When all the disciples decided he John was there right
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 1: there with the mother of Jesus, and he said, John,
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 1: behold your mother, Mother, behold your son. And the Bible
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 1: says from that day John began to take care of her.
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 1: John loved him passionately, brothers, and says that these are
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  Speaker 1: the kinds of people you need in your life if
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 1: you really want to fulfill their stay. These are the
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  Speaker 1: kinds of people who will be with you if they're
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: here today. That, ah, God forbid you will never happen.
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  Speaker 1: But nurse, God your lady pregnant.
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  Speaker 4: They'll say, I know, and Nurse is it too? Nurse
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  Speaker 4: say yes, He said, no problem, Nurse, I'm with you.
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  Speaker 1: If we're going before the reporters, they will snap me
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  Speaker 1: before they snap you.
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  Speaker 4: If you ever find those kinds of people in your life.
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  Speaker 1: Praise God for them.
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  Speaker 4: Are we together that you here?
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  Speaker 1: Ah?
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  Speaker 4: Then just wash my house and they say, where you rain?
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  Speaker 1: Wash your house? What happened?
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  Speaker 4: They stole my car?
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 1: Please come and carry my other can use? He said,
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  Speaker 1: you just bought. The guy said, what is the car for?
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  Speaker 4: I love you more than the cal Come and.
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  Speaker 1: Take it and use it.
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  Speaker 4: There is one I would divide my house into two.
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  Speaker 1: I will plead with my wife for us to move,
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  Speaker 1: and you will stay with us for three months before
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  Speaker 1: you get another place.
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  Speaker 4: Friends, Please pay attention to what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: It's very important when you find these kinds of people
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  Speaker 1: in your life, no matter how foolish you will look,
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  Speaker 1: do all you can to keep that relationship with them.
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  Speaker 4: No matter how foolish.
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  Speaker 1: Preserve that relationship. Oh when I know that I offended
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  Speaker 1: you the other time, but you mean more to me
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  Speaker 1: and this I appreciate your imputing my life. I know
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  Speaker 1: you will be with me and I appreciate you, not
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  Speaker 1: me or I'm not a desperate person. Anybody that does
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  Speaker 1: anything I can troll the person. You better talk all
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  Speaker 1: those childish talk. There are people in my life today.
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  Speaker 4: If it means me crawling and rolling on the ground.
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  Speaker 1: To maintain my relationship with them. I will do it.
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  Speaker 4: It's not too much of.
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  Speaker 1: An ego because of what they representing my life.
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  Speaker 4: Away together.
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  Speaker 1: I know husbands who are in such a state of
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  Speaker 1: passion with their wives. If it takes if they offriend
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  Speaker 1: that woman, if it means them stabbling themselves food to
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  Speaker 1: show how solid they are, because they know they know
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  Speaker 1: how rubbish their lives were when that woman came. You
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  Speaker 1: are listening to me right now. God is giving you
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  Speaker 1: wisdom that there are people like this who will say
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  Speaker 1: you're God, will be my God. Man of God, a
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  Speaker 1: great man of God in this nation years ago, had
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  Speaker 1: a very serious scandal. I will mention names for the
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  Speaker 1: sake of honor. He's something that was everywhere but had
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  Speaker 1: a great scandal. And one other man of God who
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  Speaker 1: had being his friend. They had grown together that man.
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  Speaker 1: You know, sometimes when you really love God and you
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  Speaker 1: find yourself in something that is very embarrassing can break you.
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  Speaker 4: It to take the grace of God for you to
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  Speaker 4: be restored.
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  Speaker 1: They had to come together as friends to just tell
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  Speaker 1: him to go down to a particular country and just
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  Speaker 1: want to rest and have some time with God. Did
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  Speaker 1: you know that that man of God was ministry input
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  Speaker 1: in his church, because that man of God's church was
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  Speaker 1: at the bart of scattering people. You know what happens
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  Speaker 1: when there are things like this. And this man of
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  Speaker 1: God came and put his reputation on the line to
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  Speaker 1: tell all people, look, I know that your pastor did this,
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  Speaker 1: but I know him. He's a man of great integrity.
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  Speaker 4: Forget what happened.
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  Speaker 1: I take my reputation to endorse it. That's a friend.
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  Speaker 4: That's a true friend.
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  Speaker 1: I way together. Now. These are friends that you don't
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  Speaker 1: have to act otherwise because being with them is like
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  Speaker 1: being alone. You don't have to change. These are the
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  Speaker 1: kinds of friends that if you are caught up watching phornography,
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  Speaker 1: they can enter the room and you can put it
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  Speaker 1: and say this is what I'm doing, and they look
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  Speaker 1: and say, look, God help you. I love you. I
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  Speaker 1: love you more than this. I know that is the
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  Speaker 1: devil who is trying to destroy you.
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  Speaker 4: And together you will cry before God and they will
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  Speaker 4: pray for you.
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  Speaker 1: My neighbor has one woman. I'm sure she'll see her
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  Speaker 1: listening to me and loving. There is a woman that
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  Speaker 1: I spoke to her about. That woman is about the
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  Speaker 1: most faithful friend I've seen in recent time among ladies.
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 1: I told my neighbor again and again, and I'm still
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  Speaker 1: telling her. She's here somewhere listening.
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  Speaker 4: I said, keep this friend, because this is a true friend.
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  Speaker 4: There was a day that the.
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  Speaker 1: Woman came to her house, came to her place, and
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  Speaker 1: my neighbor was not around.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not sure the woman knew I was around when she.
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  Speaker 1: I don'tated the room was open. I can't remember the story.
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  Speaker 1: When she entered it, my neighbor was not around, but.
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  Speaker 4: I was hearing her.
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  Speaker 1: She knelt down and began to weep. She prayed there
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  Speaker 1: for more than twenty minutes. Oh God, bless my friend.
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 1: She was crying. She never knew that I was hearing.
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 1: I started crying too for my I said, what is this?
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  Speaker 1: This woman can be so true. The friend was not there,
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 1: but she was praying. Jeguity, Do you have somebody in
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  Speaker 1: your life who can take it days first, not for relationship,
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  Speaker 1: but to pray and say, Lord, bless her.
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  Speaker 4: I love him so much.
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  Speaker 1: She would never come and see my neighbor w washing
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  Speaker 1: and just get a chair immediately she comes. I believe
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  Speaker 1: she may be older than my neighbor, but she would
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  Speaker 1: come and pushing aside and insist what a friend. It's
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 1: God challenging us. My prayer is not that you only
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  Speaker 1: wait for friends like that, that you make yourself such
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  Speaker 1: a friend. Are way together now because some of us
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 1: are far from this. Our idea about friendship is so bad.
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 1: You are far from this. This is my goal to
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 1: become a true friend, that I love people above and
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 1: beyond their being necessary in my life. There are people
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 1: today who do not have anything in my life, frankly speaking,
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  Speaker 1: but most times I spend time following up on their lives.
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 1: I can travel from one place to another just to
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  Speaker 1: be able to see them. How are you? How is
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  Speaker 1: your family? They are not even to appreciate it. But
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  Speaker 1: I want to be that kind of friend. Tonight you
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  Speaker 1: can make up your mind that I must be this
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  Speaker 1: kind of friend.
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  Speaker 4: I must at least not to everybody, but to somebody.
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  Speaker 1: And the place to start maybe in your home or
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  Speaker 1: your relationship. Number two. The second kinds of people and
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  Speaker 1: kinds of relationships that you will see in your life.
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  Speaker 4: Please pay attention. God is taking us somewhere.
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  Speaker 1: Those who love what you represent, those who love what
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  Speaker 1: you have, those who love where you are going.
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  Speaker 4: Those who love what you.
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  Speaker 1: Represent, command what you have and where you are going.
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  Speaker 1: Their commitment is not to you. Their commitment is to
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  Speaker 1: your gift. Their commitment is to your vision. Their commitment
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  Speaker 1: is to your destiny, not your passing. For the way
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  Speaker 1: of the Lord is the way I choose the way
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  Speaker 1: the Lord.
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  Speaker 4: So these friends listen.
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  Speaker 1: Now, the dangerous thing about these friends is they act
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  Speaker 1: exactly like.
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  Speaker 4: The first category.
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  Speaker 1: The only difference is motive. Everything this first category of
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  Speaker 1: people who genuinely love you do they also do, but
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  Speaker 1: they do it because of a vision. They do it
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  Speaker 1: because of a gift. Now they're not dangerous people. They
• 1:31:54
  Speaker 1: are just a class of friends. Are we together? Because
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 1: you are like that to somebody too. I am like
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  Speaker 1: that to some body too. I'm just showing you classifications
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  Speaker 1: of friends based on motif. So you come for Corononia
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  Speaker 1: and you find a very visionary and impactful ministry and
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  Speaker 1: you plunge into the vision your this category. So for
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  Speaker 1: as long as Collonia remains visionary, for as long as
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  Speaker 1: we remain proposed driven, you are connected.
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  Speaker 4: So the person it's not your business is the vision.
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  Speaker 4: Are we together?
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  Speaker 1: Now? Listen, let me tell you where these kinds of
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  Speaker 1: people are dangerous. They are dangerous because they love you
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  Speaker 1: and they are sincere. But they hope that your diligions
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  Speaker 1: and your vision will also help them achieve their own
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  Speaker 1: Are you seeing the basis of their partnership and their participation.
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  Speaker 1: They will don't you any time they find and of
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  Speaker 1: a faster alternative. They are so driven by the vision
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  Speaker 1: they don't care if you die in the process, so
• 1:32:59
  Speaker 1: longer the vision continues. I went together. Now, most of
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  Speaker 1: the people you will meet in your life, yeamy. Most
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  Speaker 1: let me give you the Let me tell you the truth.
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  Speaker 1: Eighty five to ninety percent of the people you will
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  Speaker 1: meet in your life, they are not bad people. But
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  Speaker 1: this is it. Your gift attracted them. They will call
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  Speaker 1: you names, you will eat.
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  Speaker 4: Together, you will pray together, you will cry together.
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  Speaker 1: Occasionalidy will even make sacrifices for you. But the truth
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  Speaker 1: of the matter is the front, the mental motivation. Your
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  Speaker 1: attraction is to a.
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  Speaker 4: Thing, not a person.
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  Speaker 1: Yeami. This is the reason why many relationships so far
• 1:33:48
  Speaker 1: we're coming to that you were attracted to a god.
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  Speaker 1: Just beautiful looking lady. I mean you just came into Cononia.
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  Speaker 1: You just look at a lady of my goodness. You
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  Speaker 1: were looking this way or something attracted you and you look.
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  Speaker 1: I see the ladies right to hide up this looking
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  Speaker 1: at her are wing together.
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  Speaker 4: Now Ah, this lady's finance. Say beg, guys saw something?
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  Speaker 1: Ah, Bega, come come, come, let's talk. Say have come now, bega?
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  Speaker 1: After going on, you have you watching all the ladies?
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  Speaker 1: That person you see that lady blue, the other one,
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  Speaker 1: she's the one.
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  Speaker 4: And Benga said, ah, no, you have eyes now listen, listen, listen, listen.
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 4: There is nothing wrong with that. But the point is
• 1:34:32
  Speaker 4: the object of your attraction. What gives you awake when
• 1:34:37
  Speaker 4: not thats are sleeping?
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 1: Is that beauty and figure eight.
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  Speaker 4: There's nothing wrong with that except that there is there is.
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  Speaker 1: There is selials trouble and serio stanger because your commitment
• 1:34:49
  Speaker 1: is to the shape the form, not the messing. This
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 1: goes me into us. Or you see a guy comes
• 1:34:58
  Speaker 1: and you admire his threats, sends you admire his composure,
• 1:35:02
  Speaker 1: he splits where he behaves like a leader, as I
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 1: like this guy's a wise guys say leader, wonderful.
• 1:35:08
  Speaker 4: There is a possibility of backsliding.
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  Speaker 1: Are you aware? Are you aware that I can't compromise
• 1:35:15
  Speaker 1: my values, then what happens to my.
• 1:35:18
  Speaker 4: Passing listener.
• 1:35:23
  Speaker 1: Their commitments? How many pastors move around saying, all my
• 1:35:28
  Speaker 1: members love me, they can give up anything for me.
• 1:35:32
  Speaker 4: Let the annointing.
• 1:35:33
  Speaker 1: Live your life for two months where the people do
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 1: not get any traceable results.
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  Speaker 4: You will be surprised.
• 1:35:45
  Speaker 1: Are we together? Now? An example of this where the
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  Speaker 1: disciples of Jesus, before they became a perstles they work
• 1:35:56
  Speaker 1: with Jesus. They were looking for vision and a life,
• 1:36:00
  Speaker 1: not a person. Their commitment was not to the person.
• 1:36:04
  Speaker 4: Jesus. Do you know even them were suspecting that you
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 4: was fake? I hope you know.
• 1:36:10
  Speaker 1: At the point Jesus said, oh do men say that
• 1:36:13
  Speaker 1: I am? All of them are saying you are exactly
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 1: say you? Who do you say that I am?
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  Speaker 4: None of them would speak honestly me.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know who you are.
• 1:36:22
  Speaker 1: You're a strange man.
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 4: I'm close to you. I'm just keeping quiet, But the
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  Speaker 4: truth is I don't know you.
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  Speaker 1: You are strange. How many peas of men of God
• 1:36:37
  Speaker 1: move around The men of God keep moving around and
• 1:36:40
  Speaker 1: think that these are the confidence, whereas these are the
• 1:36:43
  Speaker 1: ones who can sell them and destroy them. How many
• 1:36:49
  Speaker 1: people a woman who marries a husband, and you hear
• 1:36:53
  Speaker 1: a husband who marries his wife, and you hear.
• 1:36:55
  Speaker 4: The woman talking about the husband and said, Neil, I'm
• 1:36:57
  Speaker 4: not a fool.
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  Speaker 1: I know why I'm married in.
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  Speaker 4: If he dies, that's his cope of team.
• 1:37:02
  Speaker 1: She's committed towards visual. That vision can be money, it
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 1: can be anything. The person can die or if the
• 1:37:09
  Speaker 1: object of their attraction is still alive, they are committed
• 1:37:12
  Speaker 1: to it. So whatever happens to the person, it's none
• 1:37:15
  Speaker 1: of their business. So if God forbid, if Joshua Salmon
• 1:37:22
  Speaker 1: is sick and Cononia is moving forward and to it,
• 1:37:26
  Speaker 1: you can gain relevance. Let Joshua Salmon even die. My
• 1:37:29
  Speaker 1: commitment is to Cononia, not him. Are you seeing that now?
• 1:37:34
  Speaker 1: There are many people whose commitment is to principles of
• 1:37:37
  Speaker 1: the Kingdom, not Jesus Christ. Their commitment is to principles
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 1: of prosperity, principles of lifting, the presence of Jesus, the
• 1:37:49
  Speaker 1: things that bring the.
• 1:37:50
  Speaker 4: Glory, and the person of God.
• 1:37:52
  Speaker 1: It's none of their business. So they will never love Jesus.
• 1:38:00
  Speaker 4: Will practice the principles of the king.
• 1:38:02
  Speaker 1: They will never be born again, but they will tight
• 1:38:04
  Speaker 1: They will even come to Coynonia.
• 1:38:06
  Speaker 4: And said me, oh, I'm a nonbeliever. What I believe
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 4: in tighten. They love the principles because of what it
• 1:38:11
  Speaker 4: delivers to them, or they do not love the person.
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  Speaker 1: Number three I said something here. They will leave you
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  Speaker 1: in a hurry when they find a faster route.
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  Speaker 4: To their future. They will live in a hurry.
• 1:38:30
  Speaker 1: There are many people involved in relationships, for instance, that
• 1:38:32
  Speaker 1: are like that. So you can see a wonderful lady.
• 1:38:36
  Speaker 1: At the time you met the lady, you did not
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  Speaker 1: know better. At the time you met the lady, you
• 1:38:42
  Speaker 1: did not have a job. At the time you met
• 1:38:44
  Speaker 1: the lady, you stink of dresses. You are still a villager,
• 1:38:47
  Speaker 1: and so it was easy to connect. But as you
• 1:38:50
  Speaker 1: kept growing, you realize that your commitment was not to
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 1: have pertin.
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  Speaker 4: So right now you no longer are proud of her.
• 1:38:57
  Speaker 4: She's now looking like a village.
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  Speaker 1: Girl, are you seeing? Because you are now at financing,
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  Speaker 1: So you start creating tactical ways to resenter. Your commitment
• 1:39:05
  Speaker 1: is not to the passing. Your commitment is to something else.
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  Speaker 4: Let me show you something. Palms fifty five please, let's
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  Speaker 4: rush Psalm sixty, Psalms.
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  Speaker 1: Fifty five, Verse twelve to fourteen, Psalm fifty five. Please
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  Speaker 1: look up. Let me show you certain possibilities that can
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  Speaker 1: happen with these friends. Ready, look up, let's read. Let's
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  Speaker 1: hurry up. For it was not an enemy that reproach me.
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  Speaker 1: Please give us amplified, amplified, amplified. Today we're working with amplified,
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  Speaker 1: he said. For it was not an enemy who reproaches
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  Speaker 1: me and taunts me. He said, then I might bear it.
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  Speaker 1: It's not the words, the passing causing me. Then it's
• 1:40:00
  Speaker 1: not even my enemy.
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  Speaker 4: I would have been able to be aid, he said.
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  Speaker 1: No. Is he the one who has hated me insolently,
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  Speaker 1: who found himself against me? Then I might hide from him.
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  Speaker 1: That's that team, he said. But it was you, a man,
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  Speaker 1: my equal, my companion, and my words familiar friend. When
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  Speaker 1: I heard about the rumor, I thought it was my enemies.
• 1:40:30
  Speaker 1: I got to a point where I would never believe
• 1:40:34
  Speaker 1: that it was you who edued me.
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  Speaker 4: A wing together. Now, he said, I thought it was
• 1:40:39
  Speaker 4: an enemy. It's easy, that's their work.
• 1:40:42
  Speaker 1: But you how many husbands sacrifice their wives for money?
• 1:40:48
  Speaker 4: Are we together?
• 1:40:50
  Speaker 1: They come for a meeting like Collinonia and you are
• 1:40:53
  Speaker 1: together with somebody, and in the middle administration and everything,
• 1:40:58
  Speaker 1: you get to find out, for instance, that that person
• 1:41:02
  Speaker 1: have you not seen uncles who are the ones who
• 1:41:04
  Speaker 1: tied the destinies of families? When somebody dies, they who
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  Speaker 1: kill the person who come and say you mean he died, Ah,
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  Speaker 1: But it was you, a man, my equal, the person
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  Speaker 1: I call Companiel. You are the mother of my children.
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  Speaker 1: Look at what Delilah did to Samthing. She was the
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  Speaker 1: one who walked with this match man, this mysteriously strong man.
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  Speaker 4: She laughed with him.
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  Speaker 1: Imagine when she will tell him something you know, I
• 1:41:39
  Speaker 1: love your ex answers, harb say today, but she will
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  Speaker 1: run to the Philistines and say I found the secret
• 1:41:44
  Speaker 1: who will kill this man? I pray for you, sincerely,
• 1:41:48
  Speaker 1: listen to me. I pray for you that in the
• 1:41:50
  Speaker 1: course of this teaching, God will identify to you certain
• 1:41:54
  Speaker 1: people you may not avoid. But keeping this dance or
• 1:41:58
  Speaker 1: the wise, they will kill you, bury you, and one
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  Speaker 1: say your obituary. They would kill you, bury you. A
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  Speaker 1: police officer once told me a story of a boy
• 1:42:13
  Speaker 1: that killed his father. He killed his father skilled the blood,
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  Speaker 1: threw everything away, and then he ran and was crying
• 1:42:20
  Speaker 1: and called people that his father was dead. It was
• 1:42:27
  Speaker 1: later on that they discovered that he was the boy
• 1:42:30
  Speaker 1: that killed his father. Why did the boy kill his father?
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  Speaker 4: Some money just came in for the father, and he
• 1:42:36
  Speaker 4: killed the father.
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  Speaker 1: It's you, not the brothers of Joseph that sold him.
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  Speaker 1: It's in your bible.
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  Speaker 4: Brother brother said, I mean you can imagine, save father.
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  Speaker 4: May not be the same mother, but at least save father.
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  Speaker 1: They prey up together and the brother said, guy, how
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  Speaker 1: do we kill this? They kill their brother and they well,
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  Speaker 1: and you would think you to touch them. They saw
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  Speaker 1: some people that they said, let's make money from my brother.
• 1:43:01
  Speaker 1: Look at you, that's trying to make money off Jesus.
• 1:43:09
  Speaker 1: It was you a man, my equal, my companion, my
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  Speaker 1: familiar friend. We started this relationship together. I was happy,
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  Speaker 1: but I never knew that in your mind you were
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  Speaker 1: out to just destroy me. Number three, we have to
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  Speaker 1: run the third kinds of people. According to motif that
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  Speaker 1: you will meet in your life is God giving you
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  Speaker 1: wisdom tonight.
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  Speaker 4: Those who do not love you.
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  Speaker 1: Know what you represent, but we'll partner with you to
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  Speaker 1: fight a bigger enemy for them. Listen, this third category,
• 1:43:57
  Speaker 1: they do not love you. They don't love your vision,
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  Speaker 1: but they are confronted with an enemy that is bigger
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  Speaker 1: than them, so temporarily they will come into partnership.
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  Speaker 4: With you to help them fight a bigger enemy, and then.
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  Speaker 1: After that they will return to their default position. Listen,
• 1:44:21
  Speaker 1: do you know the Pharisees and the Saducees were enemies?
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  Speaker 1: We all sat in the Bible here is that true?
• 1:44:30
  Speaker 1: Do you know that the phariseeis and the Services never agree.
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  Speaker 1: One of the cheap points of contention was the concept
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  Speaker 1: of resurrection.
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  Speaker 4: Are we together?
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  Speaker 1: But when Jesus showed up, Jesus was a bigger enemy
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  Speaker 1: than their personal differences, so they came together as a
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  Speaker 1: team to make sure they fight Jesus to death. We
• 1:44:53
  Speaker 1: never see Parisis and Services struggling and fighting during Jesus' side.
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  Speaker 4: When Jesus dies, then their contention continues. When Paul the.
• 1:45:02
  Speaker 1: Apostle shows up, they're busy fighting. In fact, he uses
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  Speaker 1: that as an advantage to bail himself out at a point.
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  Speaker 4: Listen, let me tell you the danger of this. All
• 1:45:16
  Speaker 4: of it sudden. You will find out that.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody who hates you is trying to look for a job.
• 1:45:25
  Speaker 1: And you know the person to give her that job.
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  Speaker 1: So for that temporary time she will come to you
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  Speaker 1: and be your friend. For the sake. The person hates
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  Speaker 1: you but needs the access you have. So the whole
• 1:45:40
  Speaker 1: attention is that other person, not you, are wing together
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  Speaker 1: and becomes your friend. And in that process you run
• 1:45:47
  Speaker 1: your mouth thinking you are talking to a friend.
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  Speaker 4: This is what God is doing.
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  Speaker 1: Can you imagine that this brother asks me out and
• 1:45:53
  Speaker 1: she's laughing the whole idea. By the time that great
• 1:45:57
  Speaker 1: the enemy is conquered, you will now say why did
• 1:46:00
  Speaker 1: I open my mouth to a wrong person? Many of
• 1:46:05
  Speaker 1: firs have given ourselves cheap because somebody all of a
• 1:46:09
  Speaker 1: sudden steps into your life and you say, I made
• 1:46:11
  Speaker 1: a new friend. We are just two days.
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  Speaker 4: But my goodness, there's nothing the person doesn't know about me.
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  Speaker 1: Who did be? I have seen many, and I say
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  Speaker 1: this with all humility. I've seen many sincere nice and
• 1:46:25
  Speaker 1: well meaning pastors. Sometimes they come for a meeting, maybe
• 1:46:29
  Speaker 1: when I go to minister somewhere, and they see what
• 1:46:32
  Speaker 1: the power of God does and all of that, and
• 1:46:34
  Speaker 1: you know that they are desperate for growth or they're
• 1:46:37
  Speaker 1: desperate for something, and they don't even know me. But
• 1:46:40
  Speaker 1: they're in such desperation for a person. They now send
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  Speaker 1: me a text and say, ah, my covenant brother or
• 1:46:48
  Speaker 1: man of God, I want us to be covenant friends.
• 1:46:50
  Speaker 4: And in my mind I said, no, no, no, don't
• 1:46:51
  Speaker 4: want to be your covenant friends.
• 1:46:52
  Speaker 1: I don't know who you are. I don't know what
• 1:46:54
  Speaker 1: your convictions are. I love you, but you don't become
• 1:46:57
  Speaker 1: friends like that to solve a bigger enemy, to fight and.
• 1:47:03
  Speaker 4: Kill a bigger enemy.
• 1:47:09
  Speaker 1: Are we together? Yeah?
• 1:47:11
  Speaker 4: When there is crisis, is that yea?
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  Speaker 1: Or crisis all over? Nobody says which church do you attend?
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  Speaker 1: What do you believe?
• 1:47:19
  Speaker 4: Are we together?
• 1:47:20
  Speaker 1: All Christians come as one good, even if it's a
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  Speaker 1: smoker that was born as he he's not born again.
• 1:47:25
  Speaker 1: The fact that most of the guys that fight are
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  Speaker 1: they believers. Some of yourself can give them money for
• 1:47:32
  Speaker 1: Willie because they are representing the camp of Christians.
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  Speaker 4: And so at that point, this is a boy you
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  Speaker 4: will say if you see him near your house or with.
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  Speaker 1: Your daughter, but because you need protection, you will now
• 1:47:45
  Speaker 1: call him and say, while you're patrolling, they should make
• 1:47:47
  Speaker 1: sure they come around your place. Now, she never a
• 1:47:51
  Speaker 1: child could do that shit. You know what that boy
• 1:47:53
  Speaker 1: is going to do with that money. But you did
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  Speaker 1: it because momentarily you need that. The moment soldiers come
• 1:48:02
  Speaker 1: and take over the place, and the next day he
• 1:48:05
  Speaker 1: comes to knock, you will tell him let me not
• 1:48:06
  Speaker 1: see you in my house again. He's had a third
• 1:48:09
  Speaker 1: category of people. They hate you.
• 1:48:12
  Speaker 4: They would chill you if they have rules.
• 1:48:16
  Speaker 1: They hated Barabbas before Jesus came.
• 1:48:19
  Speaker 4: Barabbas was a thief.
• 1:48:20
  Speaker 1: He was a notorious criminal. They hated him, and that's
• 1:48:25
  Speaker 1: why they caught Barabbas and locked Barabbers so that they
• 1:48:28
  Speaker 1: could have peace. But compared to Jesus, Barabbas became a friend.
• 1:48:34
  Speaker 1: Are you seeing that?
• 1:48:34
  Speaker 4: And they say release Barabbas For us, we know.
• 1:48:37
  Speaker 1: He's a criminal, but we so want this guy to
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  Speaker 1: die if he takes releasing Barbbers. Let it be.
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  Speaker 4: Brothers and sisters, listen, especially for those who are leaders.
• 1:48:50
  Speaker 4: Every one of.
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  Speaker 1: Us will have these three categories of people in your life.
• 1:48:56
  Speaker 1: They are not necessarily enemies. It's just how they are.
• 1:49:01
  Speaker 1: They come with different motives. And if you do not
• 1:49:05
  Speaker 1: have the grace to discern, you will cast your pearl
• 1:49:10
  Speaker 1: before swine. You will reveal Destiny's secrets and things about
• 1:49:16
  Speaker 1: your life to people who do not merite it. This
• 1:49:19
  Speaker 1: is what many of us have done. Someone comes in
• 1:49:22
  Speaker 1: into your life. In ten minutes, he knows about your father,
• 1:49:26
  Speaker 1: your mother. He knows what your father did to your mother.
• 1:49:29
  Speaker 1: In ten minutes, he has entered your bedroom. You have
• 1:49:31
  Speaker 1: shown him everything my father said. I was supposed to
• 1:49:34
  Speaker 1: collect my check. I don't know what is making me
• 1:49:37
  Speaker 1: just say you everything foolishness. Let me tell you what
• 1:49:40
  Speaker 1: is making you say it. I know what is making
• 1:49:42
  Speaker 1: you say foolishness.
• 1:49:44
  Speaker 4: That's the name.
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  Speaker 1: Foolishness.
• 1:49:52
  Speaker 4: I went together.
• 1:49:55
  Speaker 1: Many of us have given ourselves cheap today. There are
• 1:49:58
  Speaker 1: too many people informations about our lives that are not
• 1:50:02
  Speaker 1: necessary because we did not discern what kind of people.
• 1:50:06
  Speaker 4: We did not let them qualify and grow into access
• 1:50:10
  Speaker 4: to our lives. I don't cast well before swig.
• 1:50:13
  Speaker 1: Now, let me tell you something. If I call you
• 1:50:18
  Speaker 1: my friend, then you are my friend. Indeed, I'm not
• 1:50:22
  Speaker 1: a difficult person, or it takes standards.
• 1:50:27
  Speaker 4: There are not many people, especially men of God, that
• 1:50:29
  Speaker 4: I tell you this is my friend. I love people.
• 1:50:31
  Speaker 1: I'm happy. I joke around with people. But I know
• 1:50:34
  Speaker 1: people that I can.
• 1:50:35
  Speaker 4: Sit down and discuss destinyies.
• 1:50:39
  Speaker 1: It's difficult.
• 1:50:44
  Speaker 4: We'll go to the next session now very important, but
• 1:50:47
  Speaker 4: I wanted to pray and say, Lord.
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  Speaker 1: Let these truths that I've had tonight, grant me grace.
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  Speaker 4: That I will not look at people as the same.
• 1:50:59
  Speaker 1: People come with motives. Let them motives, give the access
• 1:51:06
  Speaker 1: that they will have to my life. Please pray inside
• 1:51:09
  Speaker 1: and outside and around.
• 1:51:10
  Speaker 4: Please pray.
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  Speaker 1: Lord. I've made costly mistakes because I've thought everyone who
• 1:51:18
  Speaker 1: comes around is a true friend. I've betrayed my trust.
• 1:51:22
  Speaker 1: I have betrayed secrets that you have committed to my life.
• 1:51:27
  Speaker 4: I've been jealous.
• 1:51:31
  Speaker 1: Shivalac sat Silia maharatu, your man. Those who love you,
• 1:51:38
  Speaker 1: they are committed to you. Some of us have generalized
• 1:51:42
  Speaker 1: people you don't even know those who really matter in
• 1:51:45
  Speaker 1: your life. Again, every one you see, you keep them
• 1:51:48
  Speaker 1: at bay. There are some people that should be so
• 1:51:51
  Speaker 1: close to you, but you could.
• 1:51:54
  Speaker 4: Not discern that these are the people who can die
• 1:51:57
  Speaker 4: with you and can die for you.
• 1:52:00
  Speaker 1: You. You have thrown them away because they don't have money.
• 1:52:03
  Speaker 1: You have thrown them away because they didn't go to school.
• 1:52:06
  Speaker 1: You have thrown them away because their parents are not rich. Lord,
• 1:52:14
  Speaker 1: gave me the eyes to see to, not those that
• 1:52:17
  Speaker 1: I will also dear to, not those that I will
• 1:52:21
  Speaker 1: still being friendship with after thirty years, twenty years.
• 1:52:29
  Speaker 4: Allelujah, Session two right, please.
• 1:52:35
  Speaker 1: Maintaining relationships. I want to teach you something very quickly
• 1:52:38
  Speaker 1: because I need us to finish this. It's God blessing
• 1:52:41
  Speaker 1: us maintaining relationships. There are many teachings that we have
• 1:52:55
  Speaker 1: taught about relationships, both love relationships and all of that
• 1:52:59
  Speaker 1: you can make friends to them. The Mystery of Marriage,
• 1:53:02
  Speaker 1: Relationship and Family Life series and then the Letters was
• 1:53:04
  Speaker 1: challenging discussions on late marriage. I will want to repeat
• 1:53:07
  Speaker 1: myself on these issues. You can get the message that
• 1:53:10
  Speaker 1: the media stand is free.
• 1:53:12
  Speaker 4: But then I want to share with us just three
• 1:53:16
  Speaker 4: things that I believe will help us maintain relationships. There
• 1:53:21
  Speaker 4: are many of us who don't know how to maintain relationships.
• 1:53:25
  Speaker 1: I'm not just talking of love relationships, although it applies
• 1:53:28
  Speaker 1: to it, relationships in general. Listen, Even if what is
• 1:53:37
  Speaker 1: given to you is a gift, it is maintained by principles.
• 1:53:43
  Speaker 1: It may come as a gift, but it's not maintained
• 1:53:46
  Speaker 1: as a gift. It comes as a gift, but it
• 1:53:49
  Speaker 1: is maintained by principles, and I want to show you
• 1:53:52
  Speaker 1: certain things. Now hallelujah, a bitter com let me use
• 1:54:01
  Speaker 1: her for listeners. The first thing I want you to
• 1:54:06
  Speaker 1: learn about relationships, and this applies also to love relationships.
• 1:54:12
  Speaker 1: In fact, it applies majorly. Did you know why two
• 1:54:15
  Speaker 1: people can be in a relationship?
• 1:54:16
  Speaker 4: Listen please.
• 1:54:17
  Speaker 1: There may be nice people, but there's a lot of
• 1:54:20
  Speaker 1: tension in that relationship. It could be two guys who
• 1:54:25
  Speaker 1: are destiny friends, but they never seem to be able
• 1:54:29
  Speaker 1: to stay together.
• 1:54:29
  Speaker 4: I'll tell you why. Number one is the concept of value.
• 1:54:35
  Speaker 4: The first g Sorry, you're standing with me. You should
• 1:54:39
  Speaker 4: be writing what you're getting.
• 1:54:41
  Speaker 1: The concept of value. Write this word down to be valued.
• 1:54:51
  Speaker 1: To be valued means to be given an impression that
• 1:54:56
  Speaker 1: you are not easily replaceable. To be valued means to
• 1:55:03
  Speaker 1: be given an impression that you are not easily replaceable.
• 1:55:09
  Speaker 1: To be value means to be given an impression that
• 1:55:14
  Speaker 1: you are not easily replaceable. Brothers and sisters, there is nobody,
• 1:55:19
  Speaker 1: including Joshah Selman, who can survive any kind of relationship
• 1:55:25
  Speaker 1: that devalues you. I've taught us, I've taught us in
• 1:55:30
  Speaker 1: school of ministry, and I think i've also taught us here.
• 1:55:34
  Speaker 1: I think principles of effective living. You can get the
• 1:55:37
  Speaker 1: teaching that the higher psychological need. I want you to
• 1:55:41
  Speaker 1: cram this and know this for the rest of your life.
• 1:55:43
  Speaker 1: The higher psychological need of any man is the need
• 1:55:49
  Speaker 1: to feel loved, the need to feel appreciated, and the
• 1:55:54
  Speaker 1: need to feel important. Any man will hate you if
• 1:55:59
  Speaker 1: you try on this. And by man, I meet both
• 1:56:02
  Speaker 1: male and female. So I'm in a relationship with Tabitha.
• 1:56:06
  Speaker 1: Watch this, and because of my ego as a man
• 1:56:11
  Speaker 1: of God, oh as a public figure, oh as a
• 1:56:15
  Speaker 1: leader or a successful business man, I keep creating a
• 1:56:20
  Speaker 1: body language or communications that get Tabitha an impression like, look,
• 1:56:27
  Speaker 1: do you know how many other ladies love me? Are
• 1:56:31
  Speaker 1: we together? Are you blind? Don't you see the way
• 1:56:35
  Speaker 1: other ladies may want me to be in a relationship
• 1:56:38
  Speaker 1: with them. It's a pretty laged that you are around me.
• 1:56:41
  Speaker 1: I want you to never forget that. You see, I
• 1:56:45
  Speaker 1: am feeding out and understanding that you are of a
• 1:56:48
  Speaker 1: lesser value. Now, temperaments different, She may I mean temperaments
• 1:56:53
  Speaker 1: are different, They differ.
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  Speaker 4: She may be able to absorb it like that and
• 1:56:58
  Speaker 4: just swallow it.
• 1:57:00
  Speaker 1: But I'm doing something to her, I'm diminishing her self work,
• 1:57:04
  Speaker 1: I'm diminishing herself image. Are we together now? I'm taking
• 1:57:08
  Speaker 1: advantage of maybe her background, I'm taking advantage of a
• 1:57:12
  Speaker 1: level of exposure. I'm taking an advantage, advantage of her
• 1:57:16
  Speaker 1: idea about herself, and I'm using it to post my ego,
• 1:57:21
  Speaker 1: the concept of value. Nobody can work with you in
• 1:57:26
  Speaker 1: a business, in a ministry, in a corporation whenever they
• 1:57:31
  Speaker 1: feel truncated, especially in a love relationship.
• 1:57:38
  Speaker 4: You see a lot of fathers, mothers, husbands, young.
• 1:57:42
  Speaker 1: People in relationships. They give that lady an impression that
• 1:57:47
  Speaker 1: you are not value, or the lady gives the guy
• 1:57:50
  Speaker 1: an impression when you came to ask me out, there
• 1:57:54
  Speaker 1: were ten guys I cheerfully selected, and I selected you.
• 1:57:59
  Speaker 4: So you see that kind of.
• 1:58:01
  Speaker 1: Irrational idea, and so you give the.
• 1:58:04
  Speaker 4: Guy an impression like you were selected out of many.
• 1:58:07
  Speaker 1: So you better keep being a chaser for the rest
• 1:58:10
  Speaker 1: of your life, because I don't plan to commit myself.
• 1:58:13
  Speaker 4: This is a relationship that is still shaking.
• 1:58:16
  Speaker 1: Many ladies like giving that impression when the guy behaves,
• 1:58:20
  Speaker 1: no problem. At least somebody's way to count this evening and.
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  Speaker 4: You hear what I would tell him.
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  Speaker 1: So that threat is supposed to diminish the guy, to
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  Speaker 1: make him look like it was just because he spoke
• 1:58:31
  Speaker 1: to hr the technical and he spoke to me.
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  Speaker 4: That's why I told you yes.
• 1:58:34
  Speaker 1: Don't think I just respect nas need to say yes
• 1:58:37
  Speaker 1: on a very good day, even not because of cononia.
• 1:58:40
  Speaker 4: Who does want keep an.
• 1:58:47
  Speaker 1: An impression?
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  Speaker 4: Listen, some of us do it unconsciously, but you have
• 1:58:54
  Speaker 4: to change tonight, especially when there are your flaws in
• 1:59:01
  Speaker 4: the lives of the people that you can use.
• 1:59:03
  Speaker 1: It's a different thing if you are talking against the
• 1:59:07
  Speaker 1: person and there may be nothing you are just lying.
• 1:59:09
  Speaker 1: That becomes foolishness. But there are times that what you
• 1:59:12
  Speaker 1: are saying may be true and it may have a
• 1:59:14
  Speaker 1: justifiable basis. Are well together.
• 1:59:19
  Speaker 4: So I come to Tabetha and I tell her I
• 1:59:21
  Speaker 4: used to be a drunkard. I used to be.
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  Speaker 1: In fact, I'm even surprised I'm in the church today.
• 1:59:26
  Speaker 1: And she uses it to say, look, I've been a
• 1:59:29
  Speaker 1: serious lady with God and you just you just meander
• 1:59:34
  Speaker 1: your way into church and you were rescue. Don't ever
• 1:59:37
  Speaker 1: think we're the same.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, the Lord of Jesus, Yes, new creature in Christ
• 1:59:42
  Speaker 4: but me, and you know we are not the same.
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  Speaker 1: You see that kind of thing.
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  Speaker 4: So forever she keeps giving me an understanding and managing you.
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  Speaker 1: Never forget a possibility of replacing you still exists. It's
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  Speaker 1: a terrible way. It causes tension. You will never be
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  Speaker 1: able to maintain relationships like that, whether it is a
• 2:00:02
  Speaker 1: business relationship and all of that. One of the things
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  Speaker 1: that I have particularly done, especially for the heads of department,
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  Speaker 1: is to make them feel loved and valued. They know
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  Speaker 1: it's not because you know me. You can ask all
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  Speaker 1: those who travel with me for administrations. Most times when
• 2:00:19
  Speaker 1: they come to receive it, sincerely, those who do not
• 2:00:22
  Speaker 1: know me don't even know who is a person because
• 2:00:25
  Speaker 1: I just jumped down with my earphone, follow and my
• 2:00:27
  Speaker 1: jeans and all of that. Most times they may think
• 2:00:30
  Speaker 1: it's Victor or my or somebody and they're like, we'll
• 2:00:33
  Speaker 1: have to lose that. Then they see them maybe holding
• 2:00:35
  Speaker 1: my luggage or something, and then they don't know who
• 2:00:37
  Speaker 1: to read again, and they're wondering, sorry, who is the person?
• 2:00:40
  Speaker 1: They're trying to be careful? Can you be that open
• 2:00:44
  Speaker 1: with people and yet secured in yourself?
• 2:00:47
  Speaker 4: Almost you tell them no, no, no, no, I.
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  Speaker 1: Lead the way, work behind, let or go forward, and
• 2:00:52
  Speaker 1: then after they have finlished with you, then I show
• 2:00:54
  Speaker 1: up there. I'm the word.
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  Speaker 4: Wrong understanding that came from culture.
• 2:01:06
  Speaker 1: We incorporate it into ministry. Are we together now? Yes? Value?
• 2:01:15
  Speaker 1: If you are in a relationship here, God is asking
• 2:01:18
  Speaker 1: you a question tonight. Have you given your partner or
• 2:01:23
  Speaker 1: your husband?
• 2:01:24
  Speaker 4: Not even a love relationship?
• 2:01:25
  Speaker 1: It could be anything business linis free, lack coin onia.
• 2:01:29
  Speaker 1: Have you communicated value? Whenever people stay close to you.
• 2:01:36
  Speaker 1: Whenever people talk to you, do you give them an
• 2:01:38
  Speaker 1: idea that they are important, especially when they don't have
• 2:01:44
  Speaker 1: anything to contribute to your life. If I have something
• 2:01:49
  Speaker 1: to benefit from, promise, it's easy for me to treat
• 2:01:52
  Speaker 1: him well.
• 2:01:53
  Speaker 4: Because if I don't treat him well, I will not
• 2:01:55
  Speaker 4: get what I want. But can you treat everybody?
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  Speaker 1: Some of you see the way I greet Some of
• 2:02:01
  Speaker 1: these are children that come around. You see all of
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  Speaker 1: them run and come to hug me. I'm telling you,
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  Speaker 1: if you know the way I love these people, I
• 2:02:08
  Speaker 1: do that because I love them passionately. They don't have
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  Speaker 1: anything to give me.
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  Speaker 4: Whether financially or otherwise, but I love them sincerely.
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  Speaker 1: You see the way greet people. I never look at
• 2:02:19
  Speaker 1: somebody and I'm looking at his hand. Okay, I'm seeing
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  Speaker 1: you holding a brother envelop this way, Sam, and then
• 2:02:24
  Speaker 1: you come, and then the way I hug you. I say,
• 2:02:26
  Speaker 1: I like, if we have five of you in Colonia,
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  Speaker 1: I'll be happy. Then the other one who says man
• 2:02:31
  Speaker 1: of God, even the transport right now to go down.
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  Speaker 1: I came from Gaskier.
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  Speaker 4: You don't want those kinds.
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  Speaker 1: Of people value value Number two.
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  Speaker 4: Tabit, I use you again. You have to be able
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  Speaker 4: to give.
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  Speaker 1: People value a sense of value.
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  Speaker 4: Number two mutual honor.
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  Speaker 1: Second key to maintaining all kinds of relationships is mutual
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  Speaker 1: or not to sided honor, two sided honor. Doctor Mike
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  Speaker 1: Mudogg defines or no as a celebration of your uniqueness,
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  Speaker 1: not just a recognition of it, an open and public
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  Speaker 1: celebration of your difference.
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  Speaker 4: Now look up place, especially broad us. Let me show
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  Speaker 4: you where you are.
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  Speaker 1: Dimissing it unconsciously, especially in relationships. And this applies to
• 2:03:30
  Speaker 1: all those who have had some level of influence, whether
• 2:03:32
  Speaker 1: you're a pascal, your heads of departments and all of that.
• 2:03:36
  Speaker 4: Because of business.
• 2:03:37
  Speaker 1: People, anybody that has any measure of success. The position
• 2:03:41
  Speaker 1: that God has put us, tells us to be victims
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  Speaker 1: of this. We like one sided or no, because we
• 2:03:49
  Speaker 1: think that one sided or creates a potential difference enough
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  Speaker 1: for people to see where we stand against the person
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  Speaker 1: who is honor renos, and so we are embarrassed to
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  Speaker 1: show two sided honor. So if Tabitha comes right now,
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  Speaker 1: and then Tabita gets down on her knees, no.
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  Speaker 4: No, no, no, she you know, maybe to say, oh,
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  Speaker 4: Man of God, I appreciate you.
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  Speaker 1: I make sure that I leave her year to be
• 2:04:16
  Speaker 1: clear enough to those who are watching. They don't know me,
• 2:04:21
  Speaker 1: but I deliberately leave her year. I enjoyed the honor generously.
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  Speaker 1: Are way together now to a point that it becomes
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  Speaker 1: a humiliation for her. So if it is prayer's a simple.
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  Speaker 4: Prayer that I was to say, God, bless you, it
• 2:04:36
  Speaker 4: changes to another prayer.
• 2:04:38
  Speaker 1: And I shouted deliberately, lod I pray for this, and
• 2:04:41
  Speaker 1: everybody turns, who is this guy kneeling down, Oh apostle?
• 2:04:45
  Speaker 1: One sided honor? You see how we create tensions in
• 2:04:52
  Speaker 1: our relationships. You see how we create tensions in marriages.
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  Speaker 1: Are we together? Now?
• 2:05:01
  Speaker 4: Honor must be two sided? Brothers and sisters.
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  Speaker 1: A man cannot be there calling his wife telling everybody
• 2:05:08
  Speaker 1: she's a nice lady, and looking and saying my wife,
• 2:05:11
  Speaker 1: this is my wife, wonderful lady, and then all the
• 2:05:14
  Speaker 1: things men say, she's my this and that and that,
• 2:05:17
  Speaker 1: and then the woman is not looking for an occasion
• 2:05:19
  Speaker 1: to reciprocate. She's just there smiling and receiving it as
• 2:05:22
  Speaker 1: if the man is a chief standing close to her.
• 2:05:24
  Speaker 1: You find the way of reciprocating the honor? Are you
• 2:05:28
  Speaker 1: seeing why people get frustrated eventually because the lady is
• 2:05:32
  Speaker 1: doing what she thinks is the attribute of a virtuous woman,
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  Speaker 1: and the man is just absorbing it as a right.
• 2:05:39
  Speaker 1: There are people in this Valentine right now. For instance,
• 2:05:43
  Speaker 1: it's only the lady who.
• 2:05:45
  Speaker 4: Is thinking of doing something for the guy who have
• 2:05:48
  Speaker 4: been drumming distances lass with Valentine.
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  Speaker 1: Is this on Sunday? But the guy will act as.
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  Speaker 4: If he doesn't.
• 2:05:54
  Speaker 1: Ah, you know the way ministry is, guy, This ministry
• 2:05:58
  Speaker 1: self honestly, as we said, this is a multip life
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  Speaker 1: grace and new friends walk walk walk walk, h aside
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  Speaker 1: from relationship or of mutual friends. I've taught the heads
• 2:06:14
  Speaker 1: of department to love themselves and appreciate themselves. And you
• 2:06:18
  Speaker 1: see that in their attitudes they honor one another. If
• 2:06:22
  Speaker 1: you see then gard treating nurs or, you'll do You
• 2:06:25
  Speaker 1: may look and think why is this guy doing this?
• 2:06:28
  Speaker 1: Then another occasion will come and you will share them.
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  Speaker 4: You see the way they walk. Listen, listen, I want
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  Speaker 4: you to lend this.
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  Speaker 1: Honor is mutual. True honor is mutual. Even when it's
• 2:06:44
  Speaker 1: obvious that there is a gap, there is a difference,
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  Speaker 1: there is a disparity.
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  Speaker 4: You must create an occasion to honor them. During my
• 2:06:55
  Speaker 4: birthday last year, this many of the.
• 2:07:00
  Speaker 1: Children that are little ones that come to great Me,
• 2:07:02
  Speaker 1: when they came to great Me, I appreciated them sincerely.
• 2:07:06
  Speaker 1: And when I did, they wrote me a letter. They
• 2:07:09
  Speaker 1: came together and wrote me a letter. Now I'm not
• 2:07:11
  Speaker 1: the kind of person who will see that and be
• 2:07:13
  Speaker 1: writing letters. But when I was so touched and I
• 2:07:16
  Speaker 1: said to them they came together to do this, I
• 2:07:18
  Speaker 1: had to write them a letter. I came to reply
• 2:07:21
  Speaker 1: and to drop. That was my honoring them, honoring their
• 2:07:25
  Speaker 1: idea of value for me. There are people who send
• 2:07:28
  Speaker 1: me recharch card. Oh Man of God, you have blessed
• 2:07:30
  Speaker 1: my life you may not know me, and I respond
• 2:07:33
  Speaker 1: back to them, I appreciate what you're doing.
• 2:07:35
  Speaker 4: I truly, truly appreciate it. Every time we meet as leaders,
• 2:07:39
  Speaker 4: most times I begin my talk with.
• 2:07:42
  Speaker 1: Them by saying, guys, I appreciate you. It's easy for
• 2:07:45
  Speaker 1: people to see what is happening in Cornonia and think
• 2:07:48
  Speaker 1: it's just Justua Selman and the announcing upon his life.
• 2:07:51
  Speaker 1: But you are the ones who make things happen in
• 2:07:53
  Speaker 1: the scenery, and I appreciate them. Do you take our
• 2:07:59
  Speaker 1: time to meet your honor mutual or is it one sided?
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  Speaker 1: Every time you are the one everybody is saying this,
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  Speaker 1: and that's h oh passal Femi ah, you have changed
• 2:08:13
  Speaker 1: my life and person, Femi says, are you joking? You
• 2:08:16
  Speaker 1: know you think I am just fasting and praying for nothing.
• 2:08:26
  Speaker 1: So there is tension when there is no mutual honor.
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  Speaker 1: When I honor Tabitha and she knows that I do
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  Speaker 1: it from my heart and I will do it openly,
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  Speaker 1: and Tabita also makes it as a point of duty.
• 2:08:41
  Speaker 1: When you watch doctor Paulnnche and his wife, every time
• 2:08:45
  Speaker 1: he's talking.
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  Speaker 4: About his wife, she stands up whenever she is the
• 2:08:48
  Speaker 4: moment he.
• 2:08:49
  Speaker 1: Is giving an example. She will stand up and remain
• 2:08:51
  Speaker 1: standing until he finishes. And every time he comes up,
• 2:08:55
  Speaker 1: if it's his wife that is.
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  Speaker 4: Going to preach, he must be the one to introduce her.
• 2:08:59
  Speaker 4: How many of your notice it.
• 2:09:00
  Speaker 1: He will come up and say, we're about to receive
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  Speaker 1: from the woman of God, not my wife, from the
• 2:09:04
  Speaker 1: woman of God dot tor missus Becky and then she
• 2:09:06
  Speaker 1: and she comes up mutual honor. I want to appreciate
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  Speaker 1: my husband, the man of God. And is there just
• 2:09:15
  Speaker 1: boiling and sitting down, And it comes up and says,
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  Speaker 1: my wife, let's go to the world. I see what
• 2:09:23
  Speaker 1: is the meaning of God? No, you take out time,
• 2:09:26
  Speaker 1: and you are generous enough, not flattery, but let her
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  Speaker 1: know you appreciate. Let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 4: Listen, listen, learn this, especially.
• 2:09:35
  Speaker 1: For great leaders. Every idea about your wife is a
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  Speaker 1: reflection of what you get people.
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  Speaker 4: I went together.
• 2:09:47
  Speaker 1: Now every idea, if I belit to Benga, I belit
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  Speaker 1: to a Brdo or all the heads of departments and
• 2:09:55
  Speaker 1: all of them there, it would transfer to them. You
• 2:09:57
  Speaker 1: know why you honor them very much. You honor them
• 2:10:00
  Speaker 1: because it was deliberate to create the platform you dishonor me.
• 2:10:06
  Speaker 1: They will rebuke you because they love me and they know.
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  Speaker 4: That I honor them away together.
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  Speaker 1: Now you must lend this.
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  Speaker 4: If you are embarrassed to honor your spouse husband, why
• 2:10:22
  Speaker 4: the person.
• 2:10:22
  Speaker 1: You're in a relationship, you are embarrassed. The person cannot
• 2:10:28
  Speaker 1: maybe doesn't have that kind of social orientation, right, the
• 2:10:34
  Speaker 1: person is not yet rich. This and that and that,
• 2:10:38
  Speaker 1: and you are a shamed Now that's a shame. Mutual
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  Speaker 1: honor and this must not be what you do in
• 2:10:46
  Speaker 1: the open. You can't do it any other way. You
• 2:10:50
  Speaker 1: have a business partner, you're working together. You may be
• 2:10:53
  Speaker 1: smarter than the person, but you take out time to
• 2:10:56
  Speaker 1: tell the person, Look, I appreciate I know that I've
• 2:11:00
  Speaker 1: brought more money in disport. Look at your creativity, your discipline, allelujah.
• 2:11:10
  Speaker 1: As a pastor, you have your assistance, you have people there.
• 2:11:13
  Speaker 1: One time you come up on stage and you're like,
• 2:11:15
  Speaker 1: my goodness, did you hear what personal also said? I mean,
• 2:11:19
  Speaker 1: this is a revelation that blew my mind. It's a way,
• 2:11:22
  Speaker 1: it looks childish, but you're honoring him. He's impressed that
• 2:11:26
  Speaker 1: was able to bring a revelation that given in superior
• 2:11:29
  Speaker 1: was impressed with not that you come up and you said,
• 2:11:31
  Speaker 1: you know, in ninety three, when God was showing you
• 2:11:34
  Speaker 1: what this guy was saying, I remember impressed. I've lanted first.
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  Speaker 4: What are you doing you? It looks like you are
• 2:11:40
  Speaker 4: endorsing your geoship, But what.
• 2:11:43
  Speaker 1: You are doing is that you are chilling the people.
• 2:11:49
  Speaker 1: We do this a lot in Africa. Because of this,
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  Speaker 1: our mindset have made it a point of duty on
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  Speaker 1: other people. Ladies, you don't have to.
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  Speaker 4: Marry first to honor the man God that's put in
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  Speaker 4: your life.
• 2:12:05
  Speaker 1: Don't say even God knows, God sees the heart. Men
• 2:12:08
  Speaker 1: look at the outwarder here.
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  Speaker 4: So you have to find a way of communicating it openly.
• 2:12:15
  Speaker 1: Honor, mutual honor.
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  Speaker 4: Can I use it for one more example?
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  Speaker 12: Allelujah.
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  Speaker 1: The third key to maintaining relationships it's God blessing us tonight.
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  Speaker 1: Now this is very serious. I want you to pay
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  Speaker 1: attention because I'll spend a minute or two five minutes
• 2:12:37
  Speaker 1: to talk on this area. The third key to maintaining
• 2:12:41
  Speaker 1: relationships is clarity, write it down. Clarity and definiteness of motifs,
• 2:12:49
  Speaker 1: roles and expectations. Clarity and definiteness of motives, role and expectations.
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  Speaker 4: This is probably of the three. One of the biggest
• 2:13:06
  Speaker 4: reasons why any kind.
• 2:13:08
  Speaker 1: Of relationship will not be able to see that. There's
• 2:13:12
  Speaker 1: too much ambiguity in many relationships, no clarity, no definiteness
• 2:13:20
  Speaker 1: of motives. Listen back to our example. I'm with Tabitha.
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  Speaker 1: I am so close to Tabitha. I love Tabtha so
• 2:13:31
  Speaker 1: much to an extent that if I see any guy,
• 2:13:35
  Speaker 1: even if it is worship team song for next week,
• 2:13:40
  Speaker 1: is giving her, she will notice the frown in my face.
• 2:13:44
  Speaker 1: Brothers and sisters, let me tell you this. If you
• 2:13:46
  Speaker 1: are close to a lady, you have not acer out,
• 2:13:49
  Speaker 1: but the moment you see another guy with that something
• 2:13:51
  Speaker 1: strikes your heart.
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  Speaker 4: Your heart is already connecting.
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  Speaker 1: You See.
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  Speaker 4: The first way we are accepting in Africa is denial.
• 2:14:00
  Speaker 1: The first way we accept things in Africa is denial.
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  Speaker 1: We deny until the denial lakes full of us that
• 2:14:12
  Speaker 1: we are meeting. Thank you, are we together now? So
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  Speaker 1: who is Tabitha to me? When you see us in
• 2:14:24
  Speaker 1: the restaurant? It's me and Tabitha.
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  Speaker 4: Now, there's nothing wrong. If you have your ears, you
• 2:14:30
  Speaker 4: are friends.
• 2:14:30
  Speaker 1: Of course, compatibility both brothers and sisters, there is an
• 2:14:34
  Speaker 1: invisible life between general friendship and friendship that is becoming intenate,
• 2:14:41
  Speaker 1: supposedly heading to a relationship. Are we together now? Listen?
• 2:14:45
  Speaker 4: Listen, Please write this down, and ladies here.
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  Speaker 1: This counsel and be happy. Avoid on du closeness if
• 2:14:52
  Speaker 1: there is nothing defined happening over a period of time.
• 2:15:00
  Speaker 1: Avoid on du closeness if there is nothing happening, nothing
• 2:15:07
  Speaker 1: defined happening over a period of time. I counsel, ladies
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  Speaker 1: and guys, and brothers and sisters. Most and many of
• 2:15:14
  Speaker 1: the hart shattering experiences of people is because of assumptions.
• 2:15:22
  Speaker 1: Who is Tabitha to me? And with Tabitha all the time?
• 2:15:29
  Speaker 1: I claim nothing is happening between me and Tabitha. We
• 2:15:32
  Speaker 1: talk for two hours during the day, one hour in
• 2:15:35
  Speaker 1: the night, taty minutes before morning.
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  Speaker 4: Are we together now?
• 2:15:42
  Speaker 1: Now? Listen. I may not have intended for a relationship,
• 2:15:50
  Speaker 1: Tabitha may not have intended for a relationship. But the
• 2:15:53
  Speaker 1: truth of the matter is that the way we are
• 2:15:55
  Speaker 1: going is becoming clear that we're becoming too close for
• 2:15:59
  Speaker 1: those general friendship. Are we together now? A lady just
• 2:16:03
  Speaker 1: comes to hug me, and I come back and Tabitha
• 2:16:05
  Speaker 1: and now crack it. I'm seeing all of them mine. Well,
• 2:16:08
  Speaker 1: I know she's not playing, she's taking that in seriously.
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  Speaker 1: It's all I yes signed that she's becoming I want
• 2:16:15
  Speaker 1: to say, economically committed, she's becoming emotionally committed. Listen, there
• 2:16:25
  Speaker 1: is nothing you see one thing with ladies product. Let
• 2:16:27
  Speaker 1: me tell you a very big secret about ladies. It's
• 2:16:30
  Speaker 1: not very easy for ladies to be committed emotionally. But
• 2:16:33
  Speaker 1: when they do, they can do it way for it.
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  Speaker 1: So you have to be careful. There is a level
• 2:16:40
  Speaker 1: to which a lady becomes so committed to you that
• 2:16:43
  Speaker 1: there you now someone courage to look at her and say, look, Tabita,
• 2:16:47
  Speaker 1: I really appreciate this our two years of coming to
• 2:16:53
  Speaker 1: coin on her every day, every time we see it
• 2:16:56
  Speaker 1: in the same seat.
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  Speaker 4: But I think you heard what I also said in Colonia.
• 2:17:01
  Speaker 4: We really have to talk about this and listen, this
• 2:17:06
  Speaker 4: this thing right now?
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  Speaker 1: Sare you know? There's nothing at me? What do you
• 2:17:10
  Speaker 1: expect her to say there's something? She said, well, it's
• 2:17:13
  Speaker 1: all right, there's nothing, and then she goes back. One
• 2:17:18
  Speaker 1: hour later, you're calling, how are you feeling about it?
• 2:17:20
  Speaker 4: My brother?
• 2:17:21
  Speaker 1: You too ask yourself what are you doing? Oh?
• 2:17:25
  Speaker 4: Come on, you should club for me.
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, he leave me and guide me to the city. Up,
• 2:17:41
  Speaker 13: he leave me and guy me to my place of test.
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  Speaker 12: He leave me and guide to the city, guys.
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  Speaker 1: To my place. So clarity of motives. Listen, you see
• 2:18:09
  Speaker 1: I'm not a danger. Of Clarice's five motives is Promise
• 2:18:15
  Speaker 1: may be looking at Tabita. This is the house of God.
• 2:18:21
  Speaker 4: Are we together?
• 2:18:22
  Speaker 1: Promises looking at Tabitha and he's pray. He's discussing with
• 2:18:26
  Speaker 1: Pastor Femi.
• 2:18:27
  Speaker 4: I like this, lady.
• 2:18:30
  Speaker 1: Are we together now? While that is happening, I'm here
• 2:18:35
  Speaker 1: blocking every space. You see what we do sometimes that
• 2:18:39
  Speaker 1: we don't know because Promise cannot be fighting with me.
• 2:18:43
  Speaker 4: We are brothers, I would saying, we're brothers in.
• 2:18:46
  Speaker 1: The house of God. Now I'm here, I'm promised assumed
• 2:18:49
  Speaker 1: that this guy is already okay. I love the lady,
• 2:18:52
  Speaker 1: but I mean the Kingdom advances even if it's not me.
• 2:18:55
  Speaker 1: I'm happy because the person in her life so ad
• 2:19:00
  Speaker 1: the end of it, this lady does everything, graduate says
• 2:19:04
  Speaker 1: no to every godly brother that has vision and can
• 2:19:08
  Speaker 1: ask her out, waiting in expectations for who Joshua Sam
• 2:19:12
  Speaker 1: are you seeing that now?
• 2:19:14
  Speaker 4: And then at the end of it. Then you now
• 2:19:18
  Speaker 4: say I.
• 2:19:18
  Speaker 1: Think I should start considering a relationship now, and she's
• 2:19:21
  Speaker 1: smiling because in her mind she's saying, Wow, this guy's
• 2:19:24
  Speaker 1: ready to take this I thing to the next level.
• 2:19:27
  Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden, some guys even get
• 2:19:30
  Speaker 1: so bad. You keep talking with the lady, you keep
• 2:19:33
  Speaker 1: doing everything, and one day you just find out that
• 2:19:37
  Speaker 1: the guy is already seeing the parents of somebody else
• 2:19:40
  Speaker 1: whereas every communication with this other sister is still intact.
• 2:19:45
  Speaker 1: Nothing changed, There was no sign. Now, brothers, you may
• 2:19:48
  Speaker 1: be doing it sincerely, but I'm telling us this. We
• 2:19:51
  Speaker 1: have to learn and it must stop.
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  Speaker 4: Ladies are very sensitive, and hear me. This is the
• 2:20:01
  Speaker 4: house of God. Brothers, Behold your wives, wives, behold your brothers.
• 2:20:05
  Speaker 4: We're adults.
• 2:20:06
  Speaker 1: There's nothing to hide your wives who come from here,
• 2:20:09
  Speaker 1: largely your husbands will come from here. And most of
• 2:20:12
  Speaker 1: our sisters have been well taught. If I see our
• 2:20:15
  Speaker 1: sisters are not nice people, I'm saying I'm the fool
• 2:20:17
  Speaker 1: because I'm the one who talks them.
• 2:20:19
  Speaker 4: Most of the sisters God has helped them.
• 2:20:21
  Speaker 1: Do you know that almost every lady that I've spoken
• 2:20:24
  Speaker 1: to this year are saying they're ready to settle down
• 2:20:27
  Speaker 1: this year, and it's not a lie. They really are.
• 2:20:29
  Speaker 4: Ready that What does that mean?
• 2:20:31
  Speaker 1: We're human being it's not about being desperate. That means
• 2:20:34
  Speaker 1: when a brother begins to drug or usually closed, the
• 2:20:38
  Speaker 1: sister expects that he knows what he's doing. Are we
• 2:20:42
  Speaker 1: together because we have preached this again and again, so
• 2:20:45
  Speaker 1: she expects that he knows what he's doing. Now the
• 2:20:48
  Speaker 1: brother has not been able to sort himself out, and
• 2:20:51
  Speaker 1: he's dear. Is nice?
• 2:20:53
  Speaker 4: Now there are brothers who Our problem is that we
• 2:20:55
  Speaker 4: don't know what we want. We don't know what we're
• 2:20:58
  Speaker 4: looking for.
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  Speaker 1: We don't even know where we are going.
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  Speaker 4: You want, what is saying.
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  Speaker 1: Amaca to enter, what is in Mario entire, what is
• 2:21:09
  Speaker 1: in Messitila and Ti, what is in Tabita that becomes
• 2:21:15
  Speaker 1: your wife? Please?
• 2:21:16
  Speaker 4: You are dreaming.
• 2:21:17
  Speaker 1: Please, you are dreaming.
• 2:21:19
  Speaker 4: That's what you're saying.
• 2:21:20
  Speaker 1: So whenever you are in coin Onia and you hear
• 2:21:23
  Speaker 1: Tabita singing, all of a sudden, you remember that you've
• 2:21:26
  Speaker 1: always dreamt of a worshiper. You wake up in the
• 2:21:29
  Speaker 1: morning with three or four children and there's solid worship
• 2:21:32
  Speaker 1: going on in your house. That's that's a very kingdom paradigm,
• 2:21:36
  Speaker 1: and I appreciate you for that, except for the fact
• 2:21:38
  Speaker 1: that while that is happening, you also want a chef.
• 2:21:42
  Speaker 1: You want Shahama to be cooking for you.
• 2:21:44
  Speaker 4: I mean, you want a lady who can cook. How
• 2:21:48
  Speaker 4: were we together?
• 2:21:49
  Speaker 1: And then after that you also wanted lady who is
• 2:21:51
  Speaker 1: the first class to dent. You see all of these combinations,
• 2:21:55
  Speaker 1: you all want them in one person. You are joking,
• 2:21:58
  Speaker 1: it doesn't exist. In the name of Jesus, it doesn't exist.
• 2:22:09
  Speaker 4: We're going to pray. I know you are laughing, but
• 2:22:11
  Speaker 4: I came to form.
• 2:22:12
  Speaker 1: My heart to really talk to us because I want.
• 2:22:15
  Speaker 4: Us to benefit. Marzimily, are wey together?
• 2:22:24
  Speaker 1: So Tabitha is in a state of extreme emotional tension.
• 2:22:30
  Speaker 1: She doesn't know what to call the name of what
• 2:22:32
  Speaker 1: we are doing. Do you know this is why some
• 2:22:36
  Speaker 1: ladies now run away from any guy. It's not that
• 2:22:40
  Speaker 1: they're bad or they don't want a relationship. They just
• 2:22:42
  Speaker 1: don't want all of this heartbreak. Brothers, Now you are
• 2:22:46
  Speaker 1: a victim. You like the girl boy, she likes you
• 2:22:49
  Speaker 1: to go. She's running away because of the accumulation of
• 2:22:52
  Speaker 1: emotional pain she's going through as a result of a
• 2:22:55
  Speaker 1: brother coming, Am I coming on? No, no, no, he
• 2:23:00
  Speaker 1: must change the most hurt in all this Itelli sincenly
• 2:23:05
  Speaker 1: are the ladies?
• 2:23:08
  Speaker 4: Do you know why?
• 2:23:09
  Speaker 1: Because India attempts to be virtuous and faithful By the
• 2:23:14
  Speaker 1: time Nursey's coming to Tabitha. Tabitha positions herself and in
• 2:23:20
  Speaker 1: her mind she wants to all know what Nursey's doing
• 2:23:24
  Speaker 1: because she knows that he's coming and every body language
• 2:23:28
  Speaker 1: is giving shows that he's coming to her. Are we together?
• 2:23:31
  Speaker 1: And now she raises herself to make sure that she
• 2:23:35
  Speaker 1: avoids any other guy because she's positioned herself to be committed,
• 2:23:40
  Speaker 1: which is supposed to be a very good thing for
• 2:23:42
  Speaker 1: a responsible lady. But now she drives the guys, positions herself,
• 2:23:47
  Speaker 1: nursys close today, tomorrow his bag and this happens for
• 2:23:51
  Speaker 1: many years only to leave her in pain and untold disappointment.
• 2:24:00
  Speaker 1: It's God speaking to us.
• 2:24:02
  Speaker 4: Now let's see my dear, thank you clap for her. Please,
• 2:24:05
  Speaker 4: let's appreciate her. So there must be clarity. Now, please
• 2:24:12
  Speaker 4: let me balance this.
• 2:24:14
  Speaker 1: It doesn't mean after comin onia, a brother just looks
• 2:24:16
  Speaker 1: like you said, Shaham I said, what is the name
• 2:24:18
  Speaker 1: of what we're doing.
• 2:24:20
  Speaker 4: Say it now, that's too early. You don't become too
• 2:24:23
  Speaker 4: forward on people just because of that.
• 2:24:26
  Speaker 1: Or somebody just send you a wonderful text. It may
• 2:24:28
  Speaker 1: even be a balanine present and what are we doing? No,
• 2:24:31
  Speaker 1: that's not what I'm teaching you. But I'm saying, over
• 2:24:35
  Speaker 1: a period of time, there should be definite.
• 2:24:40
  Speaker 4: There should be definite.
• 2:24:42
  Speaker 1: I've seen certain brothers get close to certain ladies, and
• 2:24:45
  Speaker 1: most times they come and meet me.
• 2:24:47
  Speaker 4: I joke a lot with them, and I say, ah,
• 2:24:49
  Speaker 4: the way you're looking.
• 2:24:50
  Speaker 1: At this lady say, of course with you too.
• 2:24:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah like this guys, she's.
• 2:24:54
  Speaker 11: A nice lady.
• 2:24:55
  Speaker 1: I'll be praying for you. I can't joke to them, and.
• 2:24:58
  Speaker 4: The day ask out and lady says she's doing for me.
• 2:25:01
  Speaker 4: I'm happy when two of them from myself, I'm really happy.
• 2:25:04
  Speaker 1: People make a great coupy with God bless you. Not
• 2:25:12
  Speaker 1: the one that the lady comes to me and says,
• 2:25:13
  Speaker 1: are possible. There are three.
• 2:25:15
  Speaker 4: Guys a D C whereas the bee is.
• 2:25:17
  Speaker 1: Talking about, came and met me already and said there's
• 2:25:20
  Speaker 1: one sister.
• 2:25:20
  Speaker 4: Her name is D. So the sister is class.
• 2:25:25
  Speaker 1: He find the guy among her suitors where us. Yes,
• 2:25:28
  Speaker 1: even come to tell me that the person I'm looking
• 2:25:30
  Speaker 1: at is not even this.
• 2:25:32
  Speaker 4: So the lady is there thinking he's part of those
• 2:25:34
  Speaker 4: who love her.
• 2:25:35
  Speaker 1: This is let's clarify.
• 2:25:36
  Speaker 4: All these loose ends must be tied.
• 2:25:38
  Speaker 1: This Valentine in the name of Jesus Christ. Definiteness of
• 2:25:45
  Speaker 1: Rose roads. This is very important. Who can I okay, tabikaka,
• 2:25:53
  Speaker 1: you come again when you're tired. But okay, if you're writing,
• 2:25:55
  Speaker 1: you come. This is your turn.
• 2:25:56
  Speaker 4: Now come, definiteness of Rose. Now watch this.
• 2:26:03
  Speaker 1: I'm married to this lady.
• 2:26:04
  Speaker 4: Now this is my wife.
• 2:26:05
  Speaker 1: Listen, who are we in this marriage? What? What are
• 2:26:10
  Speaker 1: our roles? Let's even start from a relationship. This also
• 2:26:13
  Speaker 1: applies to marriage.
• 2:26:15
  Speaker 4: See when there is no clarity of roles, there will
• 2:26:18
  Speaker 4: be tension.
• 2:26:20
  Speaker 1: Are we together? It's of yours that one of our
• 2:26:23
  Speaker 1: roles is to give me children.
• 2:26:24
  Speaker 4: I don't have a room, so that's not something we
• 2:26:26
  Speaker 4: have to explain to one another.
• 2:26:27
  Speaker 1: She knows. But one of other things, who is the
• 2:26:30
  Speaker 1: chief financial body beera in this relationship?
• 2:26:36
  Speaker 4: This applies also to roommates.
• 2:26:38
  Speaker 1: Oh you are a roommate? Okay? Are you a roommate
• 2:26:41
  Speaker 1: by association or your roommate by contract. It's either you
• 2:26:45
  Speaker 1: paid the money to or the generosity of a friend
• 2:26:48
  Speaker 1: put you here. We are business partners.
• 2:26:51
  Speaker 4: What is your role in this business?
• 2:26:54
  Speaker 1: It's God's speaking to us now. Oh, we are in
• 2:26:57
  Speaker 1: this ministry together. What is your role? Co founders, assistant,
• 2:27:03
  Speaker 1: a member who is just a faithful follower? What are
• 2:27:06
  Speaker 1: you their?
• 2:27:06
  Speaker 4: Most be definiteness of roads. Nobody will come.
• 2:27:11
  Speaker 1: And just sit down.
• 2:27:12
  Speaker 4: There is a place and mark.
• 2:27:13
  Speaker 1: For heads of department. Nobody will just come and see that.
• 2:27:16
  Speaker 1: If it sits down, it's not even them. Someone else
• 2:27:19
  Speaker 1: with tapping and say no, no, no. There are seats
• 2:27:20
  Speaker 1: that are results because of clarity and definiteness.
• 2:27:24
  Speaker 4: This section is for worship team.
• 2:27:27
  Speaker 1: That section is for media. There is clarity definiteness.
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  Speaker 13: Of course.
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  Speaker 1: In this relationship.
• 2:27:35
  Speaker 4: Who cooks two of us? You?
• 2:27:38
  Speaker 1: When I cook? Is it a right? Or is help?
• 2:27:41
  Speaker 4: When you pays cookies for the children?
• 2:27:42
  Speaker 1: Is it you?
• 2:27:43
  Speaker 4: See? There must be clarity. We sit down and we
• 2:27:47
  Speaker 4: guess roads, and.
• 2:27:49
  Speaker 1: That's what brings ten shil So the woman is collecting
• 2:27:53
  Speaker 1: three hundred thousand and the man is collecting hundred thousands.
• 2:27:56
  Speaker 1: It still does not mean because she's collecting three undred thousands,
• 2:27:59
  Speaker 1: she must be the one prince. Wool is for children.
• 2:28:01
  Speaker 1: It is never, never have responsibility. Any woman who does
• 2:28:06
  Speaker 1: that does that out of love and a communication of
• 2:28:09
  Speaker 1: virtue is not a right because the Bible say any
• 2:28:13
  Speaker 1: man that cannot care the hallman of manhood and masculinity
• 2:28:21
  Speaker 1: is provision and protection. Any man that cannot provide, any
• 2:28:27
  Speaker 1: man that cannot protect in this home, I am the
• 2:28:32
  Speaker 1: print of the house.
• 2:28:34
  Speaker 4: I oversee the.
• 2:28:36
  Speaker 1: Spiritual growth and the progress of my wife, my children,
• 2:28:40
  Speaker 1: and all who are with me in this house. My
• 2:28:46
  Speaker 1: wife is not a house gail. My wife is not
• 2:28:49
  Speaker 1: a concubine are together. My wife is not whatever it is.
• 2:28:55
  Speaker 1: So my mother will not come or my mother in
• 2:28:58
  Speaker 1: law and come and make my wife look like that
• 2:29:01
  Speaker 1: class citizen. I love my mother, I love my mother
• 2:29:04
  Speaker 1: in law and all of that book. We have become
• 2:29:06
  Speaker 1: one with this lady, and I'm not going to watch
• 2:29:09
  Speaker 1: anybody truncate on her just because of loyalty.
• 2:29:14
  Speaker 4: Now, we come from cultures that have all kinds of
• 2:29:17
  Speaker 4: perspectives about marriage.
• 2:29:18
  Speaker 1: There are cultures that really don't give their children mother
• 2:29:22
  Speaker 1: and father and all.
• 2:29:23
  Speaker 4: This, who are still in control of the whole consistential.
• 2:29:28
  Speaker 4: It's God speaking to us.
• 2:29:29
  Speaker 1: Now, what is her role? What is her rule? There
• 2:29:36
  Speaker 1: are families where the woman does not have the right
• 2:29:40
  Speaker 1: to authorize anything in the family. Mommy, I want to
• 2:29:45
  Speaker 1: take that yogosy place. Want to ask your father? You
• 2:29:48
  Speaker 1: see that because the impression the man has given is
• 2:29:52
  Speaker 1: that I am king of kings and lord of lords,
• 2:29:55
  Speaker 1: and not even this woman.
• 2:29:57
  Speaker 4: Can you sumpon my authority?
• 2:30:01
  Speaker 1: A man can have seven cars in the house, yet
• 2:30:04
  Speaker 1: the wife is still taking transport.
• 2:30:06
  Speaker 4: Have you seen people like that taking transport? She does
• 2:30:09
  Speaker 4: not know.
• 2:30:10
  Speaker 1: And then you find out that his friend's wife is
• 2:30:13
  Speaker 1: coming from the airport, and you will send the son
• 2:30:15
  Speaker 1: or a driver with one of the car to one picker.
• 2:30:18
  Speaker 1: Why would she not.
• 2:30:19
  Speaker 4: Say, we're having an affair with a friend's wife. Allelujah.
• 2:30:26
  Speaker 4: Your wife is in the house. Listen, we're going to pray.
• 2:30:29
  Speaker 4: What I'm saying is very important.
• 2:30:32
  Speaker 1: Your wife is in the house, and all of a
• 2:30:35
  Speaker 1: sudden a strange woman comes and you see her with
• 2:30:37
  Speaker 1: measuring tape, measuring chairs in the palot. Madam, who are you?
• 2:30:41
  Speaker 1: Or GA sent me?
• 2:30:42
  Speaker 4: I don't have anything to tell you in my house.
• 2:30:47
  Speaker 1: I may tell her if you want to know. I'm
• 2:30:48
  Speaker 1: trying to measure some things. I want to make table
• 2:30:51
  Speaker 1: cloth and all of that, and say, well, at least
• 2:30:53
  Speaker 1: you're supposed to tell me you didn't even greet me. Please, madam,
• 2:30:56
  Speaker 1: don't talk to me. Won't talk to your husband. The
• 2:30:59
  Speaker 1: woman is the morseband is supposed to say, when you
• 2:31:04
  Speaker 1: go to that house, my wife is there, make sure
• 2:31:07
  Speaker 1: you're glitter and talk to her. I'm saying this because
• 2:31:11
  Speaker 1: that's the family menu of whats came from, and that's
• 2:31:14
  Speaker 1: the mindset we have. It's already reflecting on our relationships
• 2:31:18
  Speaker 1: where I ambarrassed to allow the woman to take her place. Allelujah,
• 2:31:26
  Speaker 1: there are there are There are some ladies in this
• 2:31:29
  Speaker 1: place because of how close and needed I am when
• 2:31:33
  Speaker 1: they come to my place.
• 2:31:34
  Speaker 4: There are people who come to.
• 2:31:34
  Speaker 1: My place and they are shaking and sitting there because
• 2:31:36
  Speaker 1: of the level of relationship.
• 2:31:38
  Speaker 4: There are certain people when they come they don't even
• 2:31:39
  Speaker 4: ask me anything. They go to the freege are just goole.
• 2:31:42
  Speaker 1: There's one of the ladies here. I'll not mention her name.
• 2:31:44
  Speaker 1: She knows herself. When she steps into this play with
• 2:31:46
  Speaker 1: her friends, she just goes openers. Shees she may be
• 2:31:49
  Speaker 1: giving them month and she said, this is my father's house,
• 2:31:53
  Speaker 1: and I just say down. Watch brothers have hot ladies
• 2:32:05
  Speaker 1: more than they can imagine, sometimes doing it. Sincerely, God
• 2:32:12
  Speaker 1: is speaking to us that we need to make amend.
• 2:32:14
  Speaker 1: So tonight there are many people falling online. There are
• 2:32:18
  Speaker 1: people inside and outside. God is showing you the loose ends.
• 2:32:21
  Speaker 1: While they may be tension in your relationship. The lady
• 2:32:24
  Speaker 1: suspects any guy that comes around you because you have
• 2:32:27
  Speaker 1: not clarified her position in your life. The wife sees
• 2:32:31
  Speaker 1: every man that comes were that it is from your office,
• 2:32:33
  Speaker 1: and she says, madam, what do you want. Oh, it's
• 2:32:36
  Speaker 1: a god, he's not around.
• 2:32:37
  Speaker 4: Please go, because she's thinking you are coming.
• 2:32:40
  Speaker 1: To wreck at home. The man has a responsibility.
• 2:32:44
  Speaker 4: You see a husband and a wife in church. They
• 2:32:47
  Speaker 4: don't even sit down together.
• 2:32:48
  Speaker 1: The man hated you'll find once more together and does
• 2:32:51
  Speaker 1: sit down, and they say, talk to your neighbor. And
• 2:32:53
  Speaker 1: you see an elderly man. Just try to look at
• 2:32:55
  Speaker 1: Then you talk hour and the wife is watching from
• 2:32:59
  Speaker 1: where she is.
• 2:33:00
  Speaker 4: The man is driving. When he's driving with his wife,
• 2:33:03
  Speaker 4: you will know.
• 2:33:03
  Speaker 1: It is his wife because you will turn his face
• 2:33:05
  Speaker 1: one side, shouting and yelling at her, embarrassing her.
• 2:33:10
  Speaker 4: But when he carries his daughter's friends. He's dropping them somewhere.
• 2:33:15
  Speaker 4: How are you are you eating?
• 2:33:17
  Speaker 1: There? Were? We just pass the restaurants. Are you sure
• 2:33:19
  Speaker 1: you want? Daddy can buy food for you. It's not
• 2:33:21
  Speaker 1: daddy anything. There is something he's suffering that it is
• 2:33:25
  Speaker 1: not humble enough to address. So let me tell something.
• 2:33:31
  Speaker 4: Some men may not sleep around, they may not do
• 2:33:33
  Speaker 4: certain things, but there is.
• 2:33:34
  Speaker 1: An affinity for unfaithfulness. He may never lead to immorality,
• 2:33:39
  Speaker 1: but they enjoy. If you enjoy the presence of any
• 2:33:43
  Speaker 1: of that person than your wife, something is wrong. Many
• 2:33:49
  Speaker 1: women have done well, or now excessest them. Imagine looking
• 2:33:57
  Speaker 1: at you and telling you many women have done well, eh,
• 2:34:00
  Speaker 1: but you excel them. Or she will be happy. She
• 2:34:02
  Speaker 1: may not do now because who have there's a video camera,
• 2:34:05
  Speaker 1: Or she'll be happy. There's no lady I know who
• 2:34:08
  Speaker 1: will not be happy. Brothers, Could this be why your
• 2:34:16
  Speaker 1: relationship is almost tearing up? Pat herst Fan? Fathers?
• 2:34:20
  Speaker 4: Could this be why your marriage is tearing up?
• 2:34:22
  Speaker 1: Pat? There's no flavor because your wife is a slave.
• 2:34:26
  Speaker 1: She's happier being coin onion than going back home. And
• 2:34:30
  Speaker 1: let me tell you the trouble with these kind of men.
• 2:34:32
  Speaker 1: And women. Except you are in their house, you will
• 2:34:34
  Speaker 1: never believe that's what they're doing because the impression they
• 2:34:38
  Speaker 1: give outside is very different. That's why you see them saying,
• 2:34:42
  Speaker 1: we have a man of God appost to Joshua Sellman,
• 2:34:44
  Speaker 1: a father indeed very humble, and the wife.
• 2:34:47
  Speaker 4: Is just nodding and say, people don't know what you're saying.
• 2:34:51
  Speaker 4: Awards after awards, and I may.
• 2:34:54
  Speaker 1: Think, because I'm collecting those awards and a good father,
• 2:34:57
  Speaker 1: I may even be counselling certain people. This is how
• 2:35:00
  Speaker 1: you should do your marriage.
• 2:35:01
  Speaker 4: Whereas yours is your name, Mass.
• 2:35:05
  Speaker 1: I leave to praise your name, and I have no fee.
• 2:35:11
  Speaker 1: I'm want more.
• 2:35:13
  Speaker 4: Robbery, sing it just one time.
• 2:35:18
  Speaker 11: I leave to praise your name.
• 2:35:23
  Speaker 4: I have no fee.
• 2:35:26
  Speaker 1: What my robery? Hallelujah, God, bless you, Thank you, my dear.
• 2:35:31
  Speaker 1: I already began to answer Session three. Give me five
• 2:35:34
  Speaker 1: minutes and I'm done and we'll pray. This is the discussion. Now,
• 2:35:40
  Speaker 1: what could be wrong? Hey, if you are struggling to
• 2:35:44
  Speaker 1: love your partner, please listen. I know our time is on,
• 2:35:48
  Speaker 1: but I want everybody to please pay attention. Just get
• 2:35:51
  Speaker 1: this because God.
• 2:35:52
  Speaker 4: Is about to answer many people's questions right now What
• 2:35:55
  Speaker 4: could be wrong.
• 2:35:58
  Speaker 1: If I am in a relationship with I'm Macca, but
• 2:36:01
  Speaker 1: I am struggling to love her.
• 2:36:03
  Speaker 4: She's born again and born again. It's God's talking to us.
• 2:36:07
  Speaker 4: What could be.
• 2:36:08
  Speaker 1: Wrong if shall have I in a relationship with Benga
• 2:36:12
  Speaker 1: and she cannot love him?
• 2:36:13
  Speaker 4: Or if they are married.
• 2:36:16
  Speaker 1: Many couples, many people go through this and they never
• 2:36:20
  Speaker 1: study what's lit?
• 2:36:21
  Speaker 4: A message from God?
• 2:36:23
  Speaker 1: Is lit a message from the devil? Is it a sign?
• 2:36:26
  Speaker 1: Please hear this?
• 2:36:29
  Speaker 4: What could be wrong? If you are struggling to love
• 2:36:33
  Speaker 4: your partner?
• 2:36:34
  Speaker 1: Listen? Your partner can be the person you are going
• 2:36:37
  Speaker 1: out with, or it can be your husband or wife
• 2:36:40
  Speaker 1: or business partner, whatever it is, This is what can
• 2:36:43
  Speaker 1: be wrong.
• 2:36:43
  Speaker 4: Listen?
• 2:36:44
  Speaker 1: What could be wrong? If you're struggling to love your
• 2:36:48
  Speaker 1: number one? It can be that you are unequally yoke.
• 2:36:53
  Speaker 1: That could be why you are struggling to love the
• 2:36:55
  Speaker 1: person you were in a relationship with, somebody that you
• 2:37:01
  Speaker 1: are on equally.
• 2:37:03
  Speaker 4: He's not in Christ. You see that he does not
• 2:37:07
  Speaker 4: have the value system of the kingdom. Or maybe when
• 2:37:11
  Speaker 4: you got married, you got married cheerlessly.
• 2:37:13
  Speaker 1: Now don't feel bad, please, especially for those of us
• 2:37:16
  Speaker 1: who are married. You got married cheerlessly. You had a
• 2:37:19
  Speaker 1: challenging past, and now you are married to a man
• 2:37:23
  Speaker 1: who you are now born again, but you are living
• 2:37:26
  Speaker 1: with this guy he's obviously not born again.
• 2:37:29
  Speaker 4: You find out that there is a problem connecting with him.
• 2:37:32
  Speaker 1: So the first explanation could be because you are on
• 2:37:35
  Speaker 1: equally yoke number two, what could be wrong if you
• 2:37:41
  Speaker 1: are struggling to love your partner?
• 2:37:44
  Speaker 4: Still still on the same point, I'm giving the second reason.
• 2:37:46
  Speaker 1: The second reason can be please listen and pay attention carefully.
• 2:37:51
  Speaker 1: The second reason can be that your spirit has picked
• 2:37:55
  Speaker 1: the signal of danger and is communicating that signal to you,
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  Speaker 1: especially when there is no physical reason to necessitate that
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  Speaker 1: kind of fear.
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  Speaker 4: Ah, I'm giving you. I'm giving you a big secret
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  Speaker 4: that will help many of you tonight.
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  Speaker 1: People have come to me for counseling. I know this
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  Speaker 1: brother loves God. I know this sister love God. There
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  Speaker 1: are are people here, they leaven, the workers, maybe even leaders,
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  Speaker 1: and they start a relationship or about to start a relationship,
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  Speaker 1: or are even married. And you find out as a brother,
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  Speaker 1: this lady, come matter, I love matter all right, or
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  Speaker 1: I'm in a relationship with matter.
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  Speaker 4: But every time we go on in that relationship.
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  Speaker 1: It's like there is an invisible force of repulsion something
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  Speaker 1: I still don't know what it is. If his beauty,
• 2:38:51
  Speaker 1: she is fine. If it's to love God, she loves God.
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  Speaker 1: If it's commit then she's fretchels. But I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what is driving me away from.
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  Speaker 4: And let me tell you it no longer is a
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  Speaker 4: physical thing.
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  Speaker 1: There is a spiritual contention. I want to explain something
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  Speaker 1: to you. Please open your eyes now and understand what
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  Speaker 1: the spirit is saying. Matter may be coming from a
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  Speaker 1: spiritu our background where there are are still spiritual things
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  Speaker 1: to resolve, and my spirit man has sticked up that
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  Speaker 1: thing that there could be burness in the future.
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  Speaker 4: There could be certain things in the future. Are we
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  Speaker 4: together now?
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  Speaker 1: And so while I am tighting to love her, there
• 2:39:29
  Speaker 1: is a resistance. God is saying, your commitment should now
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  Speaker 1: be to break that thing, not just to think of marriage.
• 2:39:36
  Speaker 1: When it is resolved, the first will leave and you
• 2:39:39
  Speaker 1: find out all of it sudden. After one miracle service,
• 2:39:42
  Speaker 1: your love for her stepped into a new dimension.
• 2:39:44
  Speaker 4: Many of us are fighting something. God is speaking.
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  Speaker 1: He has been speaking for months. I love you, I
• 2:39:50
  Speaker 1: love you. Are not opening your eyes this night, God
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  Speaker 1: is showing you.
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  Speaker 4: It's a different thing.
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  Speaker 1: If this leg is not virtuous.
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  Speaker 4: But there is no no why I should not love her.
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  Speaker 1: Are we together now? Sid we ignore it, but it's
• 2:40:08
  Speaker 1: a language in the spirit. There could be foundational things,
• 2:40:12
  Speaker 1: brothers and sisters that may be in her family. And
• 2:40:16
  Speaker 1: that's what the spirit of God, that's why there is
• 2:40:19
  Speaker 1: that on rest. The moment she tells you, okay, Mike,
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  Speaker 1: when will you want to see my parents? All of
• 2:40:27
  Speaker 1: a sudden your heart is pitying.
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  Speaker 4: But this is what you were prepared for all the while.
• 2:40:32
  Speaker 1: Listen. Every time you send any unrest pro long unrest
• 2:40:37
  Speaker 1: in a relationship, don't you quiet about it. There is
• 2:40:40
  Speaker 1: an issue to be resolved. It may not have anything
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  Speaker 1: to do with the person, but it has to do
• 2:40:46
  Speaker 1: with the spirit, to our influence.
• 2:40:48
  Speaker 4: That connects to the person. Are we together now?
• 2:40:54
  Speaker 1: Please? Don't feel bad. Ninety percent of the people who
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  Speaker 1: get married and the woman or the man changes, or
• 2:41:01
  Speaker 1: you see them a prolonged period, you know, birness or
• 2:41:05
  Speaker 1: one kind of thing like that. The man who says,
• 2:41:07
  Speaker 1: I kept picking these signals. I know people who have
• 2:41:11
  Speaker 1: cried one week to their wedding, as if if there
• 2:41:15
  Speaker 1: is a way I can break this.
• 2:41:17
  Speaker 4: I prayed for many people who are married.
• 2:41:20
  Speaker 1: The moment they got married, the man cannot even meet
• 2:41:24
  Speaker 1: with his wife as a husband and wife.
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  Speaker 4: No affection, no nothing.
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  Speaker 1: He cannot explain why, So he will go out to
• 2:41:31
  Speaker 1: try to sleep with another lady to verify and finds
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  Speaker 1: out that a house help in the house who is
• 2:41:38
  Speaker 1: not even any standard to compare with his wife. He
• 2:41:41
  Speaker 1: has almost an addiction for her. That means that he
• 2:41:44
  Speaker 1: still has a passion for a woman, but it can
• 2:41:47
  Speaker 1: never be translated to madame, something is wrong. What could
• 2:41:50
  Speaker 1: be wrong?
• 2:41:51
  Speaker 4: If you're losing affection, it could be a message.
• 2:41:54
  Speaker 1: Now that may not mean the relationship is not of God.
• 2:41:57
  Speaker 1: It may mean God is saying your priority now to speak,
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  Speaker 1: to stand together and challenge some things.
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  Speaker 4: Ladies, this may be the reason why certain brothers.
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  Speaker 1: Changed close to you and you found out that for
• 2:42:09
  Speaker 1: reasons they don't have the courage to tell you they
• 2:42:11
  Speaker 1: are halting because they're picking signals some brothers. God is
• 2:42:15
  Speaker 1: answering your question now as to why you plan asking
• 2:42:18
  Speaker 1: that lady out since September, but right now you don't
• 2:42:21
  Speaker 1: want anybody to come around her. But scary that fear.
• 2:42:25
  Speaker 1: You have prayed and fasted about it. Nothing has changed.
• 2:42:28
  Speaker 1: It's a message. I'm interpreting that message to you right now.
• 2:42:36
  Speaker 4: It's God helping us tonight. It can be the same
• 2:42:38
  Speaker 4: thing for the lady.
• 2:42:40
  Speaker 1: Now. I used to know a lady whom there was
• 2:42:44
  Speaker 1: a very strong covenant that was done. She didn't even
• 2:42:48
  Speaker 1: know as in it was a strong covenant. The murther
• 2:42:53
  Speaker 1: went somewhere and did all kinds of things. We believe
• 2:42:56
  Speaker 1: in the blood of Jesus, but we're not unaware of
• 2:42:58
  Speaker 1: the strategies of that, all kinds of demonic dedications.
• 2:43:02
  Speaker 4: Now listen, there was a track record.
• 2:43:05
  Speaker 1: The first person she ended up a relationship. It reach
• 2:43:09
  Speaker 1: two years. He died. She says, sincere, lady, she's born again,
• 2:43:13
  Speaker 1: But that guy died. True story. Are we together now?
• 2:43:18
  Speaker 4: The second person she entered a relationship with.
• 2:43:20
  Speaker 1: He didn't die, for his finances crashed from the day
• 2:43:25
  Speaker 1: he stepped into her life. I'm telling you, this guy
• 2:43:28
  Speaker 1: has in it crashed light to pieces. Now this other brother,
• 2:43:33
  Speaker 1: they were going out, but this guy kept finding out
• 2:43:36
  Speaker 1: that It's like, I don't know what it is, like
• 2:43:39
  Speaker 1: an invisible force. I'm trying to be proud of this lady.
• 2:43:43
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to love her. Look, God is answering somebody's
• 2:43:47
  Speaker 1: question tonight. I'm trying to Sometimes the lady does not
• 2:43:50
  Speaker 1: even understand, or the guy does not understand, and the
• 2:43:53
  Speaker 1: lady is helpless. She doesn't have the courage to explain
• 2:43:56
  Speaker 1: this to anybody, because they will say, you even have
• 2:43:59
  Speaker 1: a guy, and you are the lady is telling you
• 2:44:02
  Speaker 1: something is wrong. This could be it.
• 2:44:06
  Speaker 4: And I told myself, what's the issue?
• 2:44:09
  Speaker 1: And I spoke to the lady when she came. I
• 2:44:11
  Speaker 1: began to talk with her, and I found out that
• 2:44:13
  Speaker 1: there were some strong things that needed to be broken
• 2:44:17
  Speaker 1: and shattered. Believe me, thank god they're married. But had
• 2:44:21
  Speaker 1: that guy married that lady like that, he would have
• 2:44:23
  Speaker 1: been surprised. He will no longer be an issue of love.
• 2:44:26
  Speaker 1: His life would have scattered. There are men who have
• 2:44:31
  Speaker 1: entered into the lives of ladies and they brought in
• 2:44:34
  Speaker 1: certain atmospheres from the day he entered a life mysterious sickness.
• 2:44:39
  Speaker 4: This is why we pray for people.
• 2:44:41
  Speaker 1: I believe in ministry, deliberance with people love.
• 2:44:44
  Speaker 4: My concept of deliberance is very bigtical, But don't.
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  Speaker 1: Let anybody tell you it's unnecessary.
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  Speaker 4: It's not just about you. There must be a separation,
• 2:44:54
  Speaker 4: a way together. Let's see it again. So that could
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  Speaker 4: be one of the re why you are struggling to
• 2:45:01
  Speaker 4: love your partner.
• 2:45:02
  Speaker 1: In fact, once there is a struggle, aside from the
• 2:45:07
  Speaker 1: fact that it may not be the will of God,
• 2:45:08
  Speaker 1: that is usually the next area to check. I'm teaching
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  Speaker 1: you right now because some of you will go back quickly.
• 2:45:13
  Speaker 1: Some of you can now wait for Connonia to finish.
• 2:45:15
  Speaker 1: So you run and call your friend and say, I
• 2:45:17
  Speaker 1: found the reason why you are always complaining to us
• 2:45:20
  Speaker 1: that this guy is nice.
• 2:45:22
  Speaker 4: He advites you everything.
• 2:45:24
  Speaker 1: You are even thinking of how to dodge Valentine this Sunday,
• 2:45:27
  Speaker 1: because it's like when you are within, it's as naked
• 2:45:30
  Speaker 1: you cannot even tell what is happening to you. Yet
• 2:45:32
  Speaker 1: you are supposed to love him. So people told you
• 2:45:35
  Speaker 1: that's how it is. That just just keep doing it
• 2:45:37
  Speaker 1: one day to be really saying, lie, sit down and
• 2:45:40
  Speaker 1: slog the issue. There is power in the name, jeezus,
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  Speaker 1: there is power.
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  Speaker 4: The name Gee.
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  Speaker 14: To break here, break break change, breaking change, break the change,
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  Speaker 14: break there cha.
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  Speaker 1: I saw a pattern in my family as I began
• 2:46:15
  Speaker 1: to grow up.
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  Speaker 4: People make it in life for this so far.
• 2:46:20
  Speaker 1: You know what I say, so far?
• 2:46:22
  Speaker 4: That language called is that thing does?
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  Speaker 1: I didn't see it existing my famd. I saw people
• 2:46:28
  Speaker 1: something that can take you two months, you can spend
• 2:46:31
  Speaker 1: twelve years, or you'll achieve it. I looked at a
• 2:46:35
  Speaker 1: few of my cousins and I saw them following that
• 2:46:38
  Speaker 1: pattern from my dad's side. Listen, this is a very
• 2:46:44
  Speaker 1: serious issue. My father is the only, not even the most,
• 2:46:48
  Speaker 1: the only successful person. I come from a family of missionarists.
• 2:46:57
  Speaker 1: I saw a pattern with my cousins from the on
• 2:47:00
  Speaker 1: the maternal side. I found out that all the first.
• 2:47:03
  Speaker 4: Bones were males, but there was always something, a very adjic.
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  Speaker 1: Situation that will happened in their life.
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  Speaker 4: Either you will get somebody.
• 2:47:10
  Speaker 1: Pregnant before marriage or something. When I saw those things,
• 2:47:14
  Speaker 1: I said, no Eli, I shared with you my testimony
• 2:47:19
  Speaker 1: going again, killed the Holy Spirit, doing ministry, but still.
• 2:47:22
  Speaker 4: Being oppressed by demon's spirits in the night. My own
• 2:47:25
  Speaker 4: was so bad. It's not that I would sleeping mine.
• 2:47:28
  Speaker 1: I will see.
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  Speaker 4: What light came to me.
• 2:47:34
  Speaker 1: Some of you are carrying atmospheres that are drive new friends.
• 2:47:38
  Speaker 1: That's why everybody who comes close to you notices that
• 2:47:41
  Speaker 1: something leaves them.
• 2:47:42
  Speaker 4: Jonah entered the boat.
• 2:47:44
  Speaker 1: People lost money, they lost properties because of his presence.
• 2:47:48
  Speaker 4: The act of God entered the house of coped Dam.
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  Speaker 1: There is a presence you are carrying that may be
• 2:47:54
  Speaker 1: responsible for what is going on in your relationship. H
• 2:48:04
  Speaker 1: I want to stop here. I have three or that points,
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  Speaker 1: but maybe next next week before we take on that, if, if,
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  Speaker 1: if there's time, I live touched on that, because I
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  Speaker 1: think we have we have gotten.
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  Speaker 4: Too a place that represents somewhere to pray on away together,
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  Speaker 4: preak every change, preak cha break.
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  Speaker 15: Chaney, preak care change, Please get said to pray, not
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  Speaker 15: to go, get said to pray.
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  Speaker 4: We really have to pray to preak carey change, to break?
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  Speaker 4: Are change?
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  Speaker 1: Break?
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  Speaker 4: Are cha.
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  Speaker 1: Speaking to him to break up? Chad al Elijah.
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  Speaker 4: Well went to pray. Who's the prayer?
• 2:49:00
  Speaker 1: With this last point, I like you to pray You're
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  Speaker 1: going to challenge every atmosphere in your.
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  Speaker 4: Life that is stopping your relationship, your.
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  Speaker 1: Marriage from moving to the next level. I like you
• 2:49:16
  Speaker 1: to pray, Lord, what is that atmosphere in my life
• 2:49:20
  Speaker 1: that drives everyone who comes close to me. No one
• 2:49:24
  Speaker 1: wants to be my friend, No one wants to marry me.
• 2:49:28
  Speaker 1: There is an atmost pay. I challenge that foundation. Levet
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  Speaker 1: your voice that praise says no prayer and brat. So
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  Speaker 1: tell them rectaa man broad very care every shame pair
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  Speaker 1: God on your let the take care lemos to talk
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  Speaker 1: after her this Valentine period. I contend in the name
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  Speaker 1: of Jesus, there.
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  Speaker 4: Must be changed.
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  Speaker 1: That repulsive atmosphere that dribes man from me, that tries
• 2:50:07
  Speaker 1: women from me, that drives business partners from me, that
• 2:50:12
  Speaker 1: drives ministerial colleagues at chalgice I chalegic, by the flood
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  Speaker 1: of Jesus.
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  Speaker 4: Vacabe vacab change.
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  Speaker 1: Hall Lujah. Listen. I like you to pray when the
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  Speaker 1: man who was born blind Jesus first is certain city
• 2:50:44
  Speaker 1: and they saw a man who had been born blind. Listen,
• 2:50:47
  Speaker 1: they said, who was seen that this man was born blind?
• 2:50:51
  Speaker 1: Was it him or his father? The disciples knew that
• 2:50:56
  Speaker 1: something a generation can do can affect the general. I'd
• 2:51:00
  Speaker 1: like you to pray and say, whatever I was done
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  Speaker 1: in my lineage that has an implication on my marriage,
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  Speaker 1: my relationship.
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  Speaker 4: I come by the run of it.
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  Speaker 1: I am pre school in the name of Jesus. Shane
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  Speaker 1: reg sha pray Colonia. This is your liver till tonight.
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  Speaker 1: Re Captain Constata, mandra letaer. I've entered family relationship. None
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  Speaker 1: of them's work. People promise to marry me and disappoint me.
• 2:51:43
  Speaker 1: The business partners come and they run away. Help us
• 2:51:48
  Speaker 1: come and they run away.
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  Speaker 4: Oh I break that chain, I break that shame.
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  Speaker 1: Hallelujah, hallelujah.
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  Speaker 4: What's saying when to pray?
• 2:52:13
  Speaker 1: Listen? I have seen hu mantains carry certain patterns. I
• 2:52:19
  Speaker 1: used to know somebody who when it comes into your life,
• 2:52:24
  Speaker 1: for the first fight months, he will bless you. But
• 2:52:27
  Speaker 1: after that time you must fight with him. Something must
• 2:52:31
  Speaker 1: happen and hear that relationship. I saw that happen in
• 2:52:35
  Speaker 1: many relationships. Every time God wants to lift you, God
• 2:52:40
  Speaker 1: will send him when it comes into your life. Know
• 2:52:43
  Speaker 1: that the season of lifting has come. But as far
• 2:52:46
  Speaker 1: as you are lifted, he's the same person who crashed
• 2:52:50
  Speaker 1: you back.
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  Speaker 4: Some of us are like that.
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  Speaker 1: Listen, I like you to pray in the next two minutes.
• 2:52:57
  Speaker 1: I know our time is gone, but please, if you
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  Speaker 1: go home late tonight and you are free forever, it's
• 2:53:04
  Speaker 1: a good packing. We're going to pray for the next
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  Speaker 1: few minutes. I'd like you to lay your hands on
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  Speaker 1: your head. I'm professide pray, I'm proper side. Oh I practice,
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  Speaker 1: I practice, I practice plead.
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  Speaker 4: Joke sackles.
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  Speaker 1: It dies from my life, It dies from my business,
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  Speaker 1: It dies from my minis.
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  Speaker 4: In the name of Jesus, shut let them.
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  Speaker 1: Promos.
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  Speaker 4: Oh break le boss can break up.
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  Speaker 1: Allelujah. Now listen, please put down your hands. The last
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  Speaker 1: prayer point. I tell you I feel fire in this room.
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  Speaker 4: Listen, the last prayer.
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  Speaker 1: We may not be able to take all thus less
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  Speaker 1: respect time, but the last prayer point.
• 2:54:24
  Speaker 4: You're going to pray passionately. Sisters, Listen, It's.
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  Speaker 1: Not a sign of desperation to pray and call for
• 2:54:34
  Speaker 1: the man, not any man. You don't need every man. Please,
• 2:54:39
  Speaker 1: you need the man. Brothers, there are some of us.
• 2:54:42
  Speaker 1: Do you know that many of us our life partners
• 2:54:45
  Speaker 1: have come to pass us, but something drove them away.
• 2:54:49
  Speaker 1: Some of you, your life partners are here, but they
• 2:54:52
  Speaker 1: cannot see you. There are many ladies here who want
• 2:54:56
  Speaker 1: to settle down this year. Please help them. There are
• 2:54:58
  Speaker 1: many ladies who want to to dow. It's not a scene.
• 2:55:02
  Speaker 1: There are many products who want to say to down
• 2:55:04
  Speaker 1: it's not a scene. Please put your ego behind. I
• 2:55:08
  Speaker 1: pray you see me joining you to pray. Put your
• 2:55:11
  Speaker 1: ego and pray and say, Lord, whoever should be in
• 2:55:15
  Speaker 1: my life and it's not in my life, I call
• 2:55:19
  Speaker 1: them forth now. Whoever should not be in my life
• 2:55:23
  Speaker 1: and is in my life, I release them right now.
• 2:55:25
  Speaker 4: Prayer, prayer, prayer, prayer.
• 2:55:30
  Speaker 1: And a man and a woman in my life today
• 2:55:38
  Speaker 1: who should not be in my life, Lord, I release
• 2:55:42
  Speaker 1: that presivet I release that persist. And if business alli
• 2:55:54
  Speaker 1: who should not be part of my business, I release
• 2:55:58
  Speaker 1: that presence. And if body I'm in a relationship with
• 2:56:04
  Speaker 1: who is not my husband, I release the passage.
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  Speaker 4: Any lady I'm not in a relationship with who should
• 2:56:16
  Speaker 4: not live my wife and release her person.
• 2:56:20
  Speaker 1: And a brother who should have cared my life, I
• 2:56:24
  Speaker 1: call him Hock and his sister who should have turned
• 2:56:28
  Speaker 1: my life. I can't have hoped. I pray, helper and like, allelujah, allelujah,
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  Speaker 1: Please forgive me for eating off your time. But the
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  Speaker 1: Lord disministering a prayer request for me. We're going to
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  Speaker 1: do it this way, brother, you are going to pray.
• 2:56:59
  Speaker 1: I share down every wall of lack of truthfulness and advancement.
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  Speaker 4: Listen, there are many products those.
• 2:57:07
  Speaker 1: Destinies and advancement that tied down. They will never believe
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  Speaker 1: it because that's what is stopping some of us from
• 2:57:14
  Speaker 1: getting married. You are going to pray that and Professoriah
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  Speaker 1: advancement every lady's share. You're going to lay your hands
• 2:57:23
  Speaker 1: on your womb while the products pray. You are going
• 2:57:26
  Speaker 1: to pray to attack pardingness and of truthfulness.
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  Speaker 4: Use your womb. That's a point of contact. Prayer, prayer.
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  Speaker 1: Put your hands on your stomach and prays.
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  Speaker 4: Reg get take the.
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  Speaker 1: Red pellet, God talk matter he plata us plasia. This
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  Speaker 1: is the prayer, A free spell e brill enchangement, of rufulness,
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  Speaker 1: of folly ness, of lack of ad tansment. I caught
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  Speaker 1: it by the blood of Jesus. I caught it by
• 2:58:10
  Speaker 1: the blood of Jesus. I cast it by the blood
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  Speaker 1: of Jesus. Brother, pray, prayer, prayer. I'm making progress.
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  Speaker 4: I bst make progress. I am a fish spirit of dignation.
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  Speaker 1: Going oh without making progress. I conn against you in
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  Speaker 1: the name of Jesus.
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  Speaker 11: The check in the cheese, the cheese.
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  Speaker 16: Key, the chair, Allelujah, hallelujah, allelujah.
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  Speaker 1: Fire is burning in this place. Oh, I wish we
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  Speaker 1: had time. I wish we had time. There are prayers
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  Speaker 1: that would have led you into that would have turned
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  Speaker 1: some change into pieces.
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  Speaker 4: I tell you there are different kinds of prayers.
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  Speaker 1: Brothers and sisters. You must praise strategically when it comes
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  Speaker 1: to commanding breakthrough. I did this for my life. I
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  Speaker 1: refuse to let some of you your background alone. You
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  Speaker 1: can see all kinds of deliberance happening to people all
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  Speaker 1: around because.
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  Speaker 4: This is a serious issue. Allelujah, allelujah. Let's pray one.
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  Speaker 1: More prayer, Lord, from this Valentine. You are changing my
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  Speaker 1: life from this one. This is the last Valentine that
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  Speaker 1: I will go to in this frustration. Marry Tally, whatever
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  Speaker 1: it is, I'd like you to pray. Please take advantage
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  Speaker 1: of seasons. Our time is gone.
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  Speaker 11: But pray.
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  Speaker 4: Don't say it does not concern me, married or not.
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  Speaker 4: Pop in your mouth and pray, say.
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  Speaker 15: Shat carry us or brah.
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  Speaker 1: Shut up, black house, check them out. Please lift your hands. Everybody,
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  Speaker 1: lift your hands, everyone inside and outside, lift your hands.
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  Speaker 1: In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. I pray
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  Speaker 1: me anyone here carrying any atmosphere that has been programmed
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  Speaker 1: by darkness to hit that your husband or your.
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  Speaker 4: Wife, your business partners.
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  Speaker 1: Your ministerial help us from entering into your life. Take
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  Speaker 1: arata kaliaba. I challenge that atmosphere right now in the
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  Speaker 1: name of Jesus Life. I challenge that atmosphere right now,
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  Speaker 1: in the name of Jesus Life. Yeah me, every sister
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  Speaker 1: here Sincearahs of settling down with a godly man, not
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  Speaker 1: a foolish man.
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  Speaker 4: In the name of Jesus Christ, we called for that
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  Speaker 4: man into your life.
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  Speaker 1: We call for that man into your life. We call
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  Speaker 1: for that man into your life. I pray for every
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  Speaker 1: product here you have struggled. People may not know what
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  Speaker 1: you have struggled. In the name of Jesus, that struggle
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  Speaker 1: comes one end tonight. Please help that brother. That struggle
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  Speaker 1: comes to one and tonight. That struggle comes to an.
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  Speaker 4: End tonight, in the name of Jesus.
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  Speaker 1: Emmy, any one here who is a victim of geography,
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  Speaker 1: your geographical location has implicated your spiritually shake Kappa latoko
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  Speaker 1: super tariya da land calaskapa stant rata dabatia. I stand tonight,
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  Speaker 1: and that is a polic annoint and in the name
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  Speaker 1: of the Lord Jesus, I break that influence from your life.
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  Speaker 4: I've break that influence from your life.
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  Speaker 1: Shake that, Take that, leah, I break that influence from
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  Speaker 1: your life. Every disfavor that appears every year your life,
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  Speaker 1: a certain period of your life, he repeats itself. When
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  Speaker 1: things are about to happen, well, when a product comes
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  Speaker 1: to you, just when it's about to propose, something happens,
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  Speaker 1: when a sister is about to tell you, yes, something
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  Speaker 1: happens right now, I change it tonight in the name
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  Speaker 1: of Jesus, Allelujah. Now listen last prayer. There are brothers here,
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  Speaker 1: there are a sister's here who are ready to take
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  Speaker 1: their relationships to marriage or year. Lack of courage? What
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  Speaker 1: am I doing? How will I take this product to
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  Speaker 1: my parents? Will they think I'm not responsible? Brothers?
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  Speaker 4: I prophesy to.
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  Speaker 1: You between now and April in the name that it
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  Speaker 1: is a both all names. Take this as a prophecy.
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  Speaker 1: The progress you will make in your life will shot
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  Speaker 1: everyone mocking your God. I released the spirit oft upon you.
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  Speaker 1: I release college upon you.
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