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A Very Two Ts Holiday Q&A · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: To Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera Judge.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of to Teas and
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  Speaker 2: a Pod with myself, Teddy Mellencamp and we're Judge. So
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  Speaker 2: I'm pretty excited for today you are. Yes, it's a
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  Speaker 2: fan Q and a day for the twats.
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  Speaker 3: So we're gonna kind of read out.
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  Speaker 2: We put something on Instagram and then we're kind of
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  Speaker 2: read out what everybody's questions are and kind of.
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  Speaker 3: Go through them for you guys.
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  Speaker 4: All right, let's go.
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  Speaker 3: All right, you want to ask Lisa r A.
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  Speaker 4: Lisa are from Rancho Cucamonga. Teddy, how are you and
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  Speaker 4: Edwin doing Christmas with your kids in tim or will
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  Speaker 4: you be celebrating oc oh Sie or Big Bear?
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  Speaker 2: You can go first, I think as of now, I
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  Speaker 2: mean the kids who are with me over Thanksgiving, So
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  Speaker 2: technically Edwin, I you know, has Christmas, but we're just
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  Speaker 2: all going to be spending it together.
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  Speaker 4: Can we clear something up? Yes, all over the internet
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  Speaker 4: it's Teddy moved in with Kyle.
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  Speaker 3: I mean it is such.
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  Speaker 4: Can you clarify that it didn't It's not like you
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  Speaker 4: picked up and you moved in and you left the
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  Speaker 4: kids at home, Like, people don't understand you. And you
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  Speaker 4: didn't even say that.
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  Speaker 3: No, I didn't. I never said that.
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  Speaker 5: It was like it's so with nesting, it's the kids
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  Speaker 5: stay in the house and then the parents come and
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  Speaker 5: go so that there's no disruption in the kids' lives.
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  Speaker 2: Right, So I mean maybe two nights a week I
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  Speaker 2: would stay, you know, like maybe like it really it's
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  Speaker 2: just on the night that I'm not there.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you have to go somewhere.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So do you think eventually you'll get an apartment?
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  Speaker 3: I really, I'm truly like taking one day at a time.
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  Speaker 3: I don't I don't know. I don't want to make any.
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  Speaker 4: Like because this isn't long term sustainable. It's like until
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  Speaker 4: you figure everything out, right, Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I think, you know, there's a lot of things that
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  Speaker 2: need to be figured out, and I don't want to,
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  Speaker 2: you know, do any make any rash decisions?
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  Speaker 3: Like I would rather just sit in this And yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I've had friends that have done this before. And one
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  Speaker 4: friend of mine they got an apartment and that apartment
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  Speaker 4: was it was just like really basic and nothing in
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  Speaker 4: it really Yeah, and then whoever had the kids who
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  Speaker 4: didn't have the kids would go to the apartment. They'd
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  Speaker 4: switch off on that apartment until everything was over with
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  Speaker 4: and they were able to split assets and buy houses
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  Speaker 4: or rent houses or whatever they did.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean so, I mean right now we're both
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  Speaker 2: I mean everything, I can't really speak.
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  Speaker 4: And also, are you dating Kyle? That's not oh right,
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  Speaker 4: that's that's the other. I love that I have my
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  Speaker 4: own questions because I'm like, I get so mad reading
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  Speaker 4: all these lies that are out there about you.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I love that they also put it like in quotes,
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  Speaker 2: like it's like I said it, I said it. And
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  Speaker 2: also the fact that I've gotten to the place where
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  Speaker 2: I'm not even allowed to like laugh at myself or
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  Speaker 2: make a joke where and people clearly take it seriously.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like if I didn't laugh, I would cry, guys.
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  Speaker 2: So like it's one of those show up for my kids,
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  Speaker 2: show up for life, and like, yeah, there's some days
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna be sad, there's some days I'm gonna be happy, But.
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  Speaker 3: Like I have to, I have to laugh at myself
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  Speaker 3: or it would be you know, it's it's teddy.
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  Speaker 4: It's really one of those things. If you don't talk
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  Speaker 4: about it, you're hiding something. If you do talk about it,
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  Speaker 4: then why are you telling everybody your business like it's
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  Speaker 4: a no win situation.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lose lose, and you know, I'm trying
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  Speaker 2: my best to like protect my family.
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  Speaker 3: And do the best buy everybody.
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  Speaker 2: And also share like the parts that I feel like
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  Speaker 2: could be helpful but also helpful to others but not
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  Speaker 2: detrimental to my family.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 2: If you were going to pick an OC housewife to
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  Speaker 2: move in with or best with, who would it be?
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  Speaker 4: Heather to bro Yeah, but then you have to drive
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  Speaker 4: to La That's all right, use one of her drivers
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  Speaker 4: to pick me up.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god? Then, oh, are you going to be
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  Speaker 2: an OC or Big Bear for Christmas?
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  Speaker 4: We will be splinding our time so because it's so
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  Speaker 4: hard to get everybody up to Big Bear because of
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  Speaker 4: work schedules and things like that. So we're going to
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  Speaker 4: do like a little Christmas celebration with family Prior to Christmas.
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  Speaker 4: Last year, what we did was Christmas Eve, we spent
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  Speaker 4: at Big Bear because Ryan had ava on Christmas Eve
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  Speaker 4: and then he had to give ava to Sarah on
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  Speaker 4: Christmas Day, So we celebrated, you know, on Christmas Eve,
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  Speaker 4: we open presents and then we drove home the next
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  Speaker 4: day and Spencer was working so he couldn't go Christmas Eve,
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  Speaker 4: and then we had Christmas at home. So this year
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  Speaker 4: I'm thinking about doing like I don't know if I'm
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  Speaker 4: gonna do it before Christmas were after, but kind of
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  Speaker 4: like maybe like a Christmas New Year's Eve celebration but
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  Speaker 4: not on Christmas or New Year's Eve, if that makes sense,
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  Speaker 4: just so everybody can go and enjoy it because everybody
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  Speaker 4: has families, yeah, you know, and it's hard, like you know,
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  Speaker 4: with extended family and stuff. So we will be like, well,
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  Speaker 4: I'll deck. I haven't decorated because we haven't been a
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  Speaker 4: big bear for a couple of weeks, but we're probably
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  Speaker 4: going to go up this weekend and decorate and you know,
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  Speaker 4: do all that fun stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Well that's fun. And then what are our goals for
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  Speaker 2: twenty twenty five?
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  Speaker 4: Oh, my goodness. For me, I have set a goal
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  Speaker 4: and I don't know if I'm gonna be able to
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  Speaker 4: do it because I've been having some back problems and
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  Speaker 4: hit problems. I want to run a half marathon again,
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  Speaker 4: so I always when I'm always like have a schedule
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  Speaker 4: and a goal. It's always best for my fitness because
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  Speaker 4: then in my mind, I know like there's a date
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  Speaker 4: that I have to do it. I just have to
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  Speaker 4: amp it up like I've always worked out, but my
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  Speaker 4: cardio has not been as strong as it was in
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  Speaker 4: the past. So I am running like four miles on
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  Speaker 4: the treadmill course.
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  Speaker 3: Which one are you doing? What date? I would do
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  Speaker 3: it with you?
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  Speaker 4: I know I want you to do it with me.
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  Speaker 4: There's quite a few from Catalina to Napa and all that,
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  Speaker 4: so there's quite a few of them, and I haven't picked.
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  Speaker 3: It yet, all right, but let me know I would
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  Speaker 3: love But I.
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  Speaker 4: Was having back in knee problems running, so I'm like,
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  Speaker 4: oh my god, really, how.
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  Speaker 3: And this is a PSA for everybody.
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  Speaker 2: How often are you changing your sneakers because well, you start,
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  Speaker 2: once you start.
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  Speaker 3: Running, you need to be changing them like every three months.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I think that I need to get fitted for
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  Speaker 4: better running shoes now that I'm older. Before I could
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  Speaker 4: freaking run barefoot. Now it's like my knees are hurting.
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  Speaker 4: But I know it's not my knees. I know that
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  Speaker 4: my back's out and I have some pinch nerves which
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  Speaker 4: I always have back problems, and I think that's making
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  Speaker 4: my knees ache because I can like mess with my
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  Speaker 4: knees and hit them. They're hurt. Yeah, but it's like
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  Speaker 4: the nerve when I start running, I'm like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 4: just when I was on a good roll too. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm just breezing through this. This happens and
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  Speaker 4: then I get sick. It's like shit, Well.
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  Speaker 2: You know all In has a marathon training coach.
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  Speaker 3: Oh really? Yeah, so Eddie.
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  Speaker 4: Eddie was actually a running coach. We had classes at
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  Speaker 4: the gym for running.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So I mean she really helps, like she gives
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  Speaker 2: you just like she helps you train for like whatever
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  Speaker 2: it is that you want and gives you the schedule
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  Speaker 2: so it makes it best on your body and easy
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  Speaker 2: to follow. And she's incredible. I mean she's run every
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  Speaker 2: marathon there is and.
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  Speaker 4: There's amazing. So yeah, so twenty twenty five is all
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  Speaker 4: going to be about a lot of like health and
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  Speaker 4: fitness and mental health as well. I'm pending on not
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  Speaker 4: drinking in twenty twenty five. Let's see if I can
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  Speaker 4: stick to it. Okay, I'm not a huge drinker anyways,
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  Speaker 4: but it's like one of those things where you know,
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  Speaker 4: if I want a glass of wine. I'll have a
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  Speaker 4: glass of wine, but I prefer not to at all.
• 8:25
  Speaker 4: We're coming out with a new CBD THC seltzer that's
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  Speaker 4: five milligrams of THHC, so I'm super excited about that,
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  Speaker 4: oh little substitute for alcohol.
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  Speaker 2: My goals are, gosh, putting one foot in front of
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  Speaker 2: the other, one foot in front of the other, and
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  Speaker 2: just really trying to show up with with love and
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  Speaker 2: surround myself, you know, with family and people that I
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  Speaker 2: truly care about, and and just try to work hard
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  Speaker 2: and figure out, you know, the next stages of life.
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  Speaker 2: So I don't want to put too much pressure on,
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  Speaker 2: like giving myself what exactly twenty twenty five needs to
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  Speaker 2: look like. I mean, I want to continue building our
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  Speaker 2: Twatz empire.
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  Speaker 3: That's for suit.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's that's for me. It was so funny
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  Speaker 4: because talking to Emily the other day and she made
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  Speaker 4: a very good point. She's like, did you at the
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  Speaker 4: reunion people said on our side of the couch was
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  Speaker 4: the you know, the mean, horrible girls that you know whatever.
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  Speaker 4: On the other side, they're all sweet and princess. I'm like,
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  Speaker 4: she goes, but do you know what me? You Heather
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  Speaker 4: we have businesses, we own houses, we are hustlers, we
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  Speaker 4: are happily married, and the other side you have people
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  Speaker 4: that don't have any of that, and we're the bad people.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm like, you know what, sweetie, I'd rather build
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  Speaker 4: my empire, keep moving, keep pushing for my future in
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  Speaker 4: my retirement than to be unsettled and unhinged.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just bananas.
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  Speaker 2: Who is the one guest we hope to have on
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  Speaker 2: the podcast in twenty twenty five?
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  Speaker 4: Mary Cosby is one of them. We've never had her
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  Speaker 4: on the show.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I would love to have her on.
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  Speaker 4: I would love to have Mary, But you know, I
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  Speaker 4: often think like even bigger, like I'd love to have
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  Speaker 4: like somebody like Oprah or something like that, like somebody
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  Speaker 4: big Barba Yanna something, somebody like that.
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  Speaker 3: I would love to have Rihanna on all right.
• 10:39
  Speaker 2: Then this next one is from Schmidt to Lisa on Instagram. Tarmra,
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  Speaker 2: do you regret being on the concrete?
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  Speaker 4: Oh my god, people, this is such a like, No,
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  Speaker 4: I don't. This is people take life way too serious.
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  Speaker 4: This was a game we were playing truth or Day,
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  Speaker 4: like literally Jingas style, Jenga style, whatever it is, and
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  Speaker 4: so yes, and if my memory is what I think
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  Speaker 4: it is, it was grass, strips of grass on concrete,
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  Speaker 4: Like I just squatted and and you guys didn't even
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  Speaker 4: see it. So it's like big deal. I mean, Emily
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  Speaker 4: Pete outside of Katie's house because she was drinking in
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  Speaker 4: the in the party van, Like, is it really that
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  Speaker 4: big of a deal? Do I go around pean in
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  Speaker 4: people's eyes?
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  Speaker 3: I had to pee in a big goalt before in
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  Speaker 3: a long car ride.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's not that big of a deal. People,
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  Speaker 4: if you're taking life that serious, say it's so classy.
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  Speaker 4: I don't. I've never said that. I'm so classic. When
• 11:43
  Speaker 4: was the last time my peede like that? Oh?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, but when you had your P funnel
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  Speaker 3: that we never yet I had.
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  Speaker 4: A P funnel? Yeah, I had that in the back
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  Speaker 4: of the car. The when Emily Pete on Katie's grass,
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  Speaker 4: It's like, God, there's where things in the world like relax.
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  Speaker 3: People like just laugh or move on or be like yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So it's me. Jessica Dee on Instagram ask Teddy would
• 12:10
  Speaker 4: you ever consider having tam or recap Beverly Hills with
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  Speaker 4: someone else? I get this all the time.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know.
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  Speaker 2: I mean I personally, like if I'm out and somebody
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  Speaker 2: else recaps it and they have a different point of view, great,
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  Speaker 2: But we recap all the shows, all the Bravo shows
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  Speaker 2: that we're not on together.
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  Speaker 4: I think people are saying because you're you're so close
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  Speaker 4: to Kyle that you're not able to say things you
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  Speaker 4: probably would say about other people or you know, question them.
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  Speaker 4: And I get that, Like, you'll have a good friend
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  Speaker 4: on the show, but don't worry, I'm here to fill
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  Speaker 4: in for those spots.
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  Speaker 3: Right, Like, don't you know I might be a loyal friend.
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  Speaker 4: But yeah, she's a loyal friend and I speak my
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  Speaker 4: mind and that's why.
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  Speaker 2: And we're gonna no matter what franchise we're recapping, we
• 13:05
  Speaker 2: are going to have different opinions. And like, if I'm
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  Speaker 2: recapping a show from my perspective, I understand you think
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  Speaker 2: I'm biased or too kind towards my friends, but these
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  Speaker 2: are my actual real friends.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, So I mean that's how I'm gonna be. And
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  Speaker 3: it's the same way I'm gonna be with you too.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. I know I didn't listen to the recap because
• 13:27
  Speaker 4: I just didn't want to get annoyed with you.
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  Speaker 3: So which is.
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  Speaker 4: Better that way.
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  Speaker 2: Well, dear Sarah XO asks Tamra, what did you think
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: of Alexis's reunion performance?
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  Speaker 4: I think you guys all saw that. I went into
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  Speaker 4: her trailer and told her, you know, don't be John's mouthpiece.
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  Speaker 4: Go in there and just speak what's on your mind,
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  Speaker 4: not about John, Like this is your chance to clear
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  Speaker 4: things up. Because all season long, even though she talked
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  Speaker 4: about other things on the show, the only thing they
• 13:58
  Speaker 4: showed was her sticking up for John. And I think
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  Speaker 4: that she could have played that differently. I wish she
• 14:05
  Speaker 4: would have played that differently. It worries me, to be honest,
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  Speaker 4: you know. I I went into the reunion and I
• 14:14
  Speaker 4: played it differently. Yeah, and I think that it would
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  Speaker 4: have helped her.
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  Speaker 3: But where do you stand with her now?
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  Speaker 2: By the way, after that final scene at Emily's house.
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  Speaker 4: She wasn't happy that we filmed that scene, That's for sure.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not gonna even try to lie about that. But
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  Speaker 4: you know, this is a job, and this is was
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  Speaker 4: a scene. Like I think she wanted me to tell
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  Speaker 4: her about it, and I couldn't. You know, once we
• 14:42
  Speaker 4: film stuff, we're not allowed to talk about it, and
• 14:45
  Speaker 4: we're not allowed because it was such a big scene
• 14:50
  Speaker 4: and there, you know, I think that they might have
• 14:53
  Speaker 4: been afraid that she would get ahead of it or
• 14:55
  Speaker 4: he'd get ahead of it. But I don't feel like
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  Speaker 4: it was a scene that necessarily that bad on John.
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  Speaker 4: I felt like it was more damaging to Shannon when
• 15:06
  Speaker 4: people found out that she punched him in the face. Yeah, so,
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. I we're good though. We talked, and
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  Speaker 4: we talked it through, and she was upset, and I
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  Speaker 4: think she kind of felt like it looked like me
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  Speaker 4: and Heather turned on her, and that was not the
• 15:24
  Speaker 4: case at all. Yeah, nobody's turned on her at all.
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  Speaker 3: Well, she was hard for me to watch.
• 15:34
  Speaker 4: She was hard for a lot of people to watch.
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  Speaker 4: You know, would she have done it differently if she could,
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think so, I don't.
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  Speaker 4: Alexis is somebody that writes really hard for her man,
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  Speaker 4: and I understand where she's coming from. I went through
• 15:49
  Speaker 4: the same thing all season long. You know, she doesn't
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  Speaker 4: she doesn't pan her for the audience like some people do.
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  Speaker 2: I think it said she's not pandering to the audience,
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  Speaker 2: or she's just really not self aware.
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  Speaker 4: How do I explain this for somebody that was made
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  Speaker 4: out to be a really bad person this season and
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  Speaker 4: I'm not and all I was there. I was only
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: there for Shannon for so many months and years and
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  Speaker 4: all this stuff, and all of a sudden, I'm being
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  Speaker 4: told I'm a toxic friend, and I'm like, oh, that's
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  Speaker 4: why I was so angry.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 4: Could you imagine having a friend for ten years and
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: being there for them and then finding out that they're
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  Speaker 4: saying horrible things about you behind your back, not about
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  Speaker 4: my ego. It wasn't about my ego. It was way
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  Speaker 4: deeper than that. And then I made out to be
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  Speaker 4: a horrible person because I'm not there for her, Like, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I was there for you and it was exhausting, exhausting,
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  Speaker 4: and then now you know, you're trying to make me
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  Speaker 4: out like I'm the bad person when they never really
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  Speaker 4: did into what went down between me and Shannon before
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  Speaker 4: we were filming. They never really got into it. And
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  Speaker 4: I think it's because of Alexis. Because Alexis was there,
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  Speaker 4: it overshadowed what Shannon did to me, and then she
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: played victim.
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  Speaker 2: But she does right, But I mean in the same token,
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  Speaker 2: I think that you could have you would have handled
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  Speaker 2: your delivery differently after watching it back.
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  Speaker 3: Correct, Yeah, I would have, but.
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  Speaker 4: I had some really bad self awareness.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I'm.
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  Speaker 4: Awareness, pent up anger about being there for somebody that
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  Speaker 4: is toxic, that is hard to be around, that does
• 17:38
  Speaker 4: have an issue, and you're there trying and trying and trying.
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  Speaker 4: It's an exhausting friendship, and then to have them shitting
• 17:46
  Speaker 4: all over you and talking about you in such a
• 17:48
  Speaker 4: negative way. I don't need that. I don't want that.
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: You know, it was hard. It was very hard for me,
• 17:54
  Speaker 4: and I go over it in my brain a lot,
• 17:56
  Speaker 4: you know, because I was made out to look like
• 17:58
  Speaker 4: this horrible person that didn't give about her and it's
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: the farthest thing from the truth. Okay. Ryan Stoneman eighty
• 18:17
  Speaker 4: three on Instagram asked Teddy, what are your thoughts about
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: what Crystal said to Us Weekly that you should be
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: required to talk about your divorce on to tease? Her
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: quote is I think if Teddy's going to come after somebody,
• 18:30
  Speaker 4: she should open up more. She told Us Weekly. My
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: thing is I don't really care personally, but I but
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: I don't do that to people. That's not expected of me.
• 18:41
  Speaker 4: I am super honest and open in general.
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to the podcast, Crystal, appreciate the listen.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: I mean I do open up about it when asked
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: a question, and if you want to listen to Diamonds
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: in the Rough, Erica and I get more into it
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: in general.
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: I think I think that I.
• 19:02
  Speaker 4: Think when she said that it was a little too new,
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: I mean that happened. But also I think you have
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: opened up since then.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but also like give somebody a little bit of time,
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: and what has she opened up about?
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: And would you guys have beef the two of you?
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: I mean, it's whatever.
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: She didn't like that I was recapping the show and
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: giving my opinions.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: But here's the thing.
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: I love Cynthia and I wish her all the best
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: on the podcast, so humble brag, I wish them. Uh.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: The next one is Tamra asks what advice would you
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: give yourself if you could redo this past season of OCIE.
• 19:38
  Speaker 4: Well, my advice would be, in real life, just stay
• 19:41
  Speaker 4: out of it. Just I would have stayed out of
• 19:43
  Speaker 4: some of the stuff, but that's not how the show works,
• 19:45
  Speaker 4: and that's not why I've been on the show for
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: going on sixteen years, yeah, or fifteen years or I
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: don't even know how long I've been on fifteen years.
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: I mean, that's not who you are either, Like you should.
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: Go yeah, Like, you know what, guys, you know, people
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: are never really happy. If I'm not speaking my mind,
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: you know, Oh you're boring. If you are speaking your mind,
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: oh you're mean. So I am not going to listen
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: to the audience anymore. You beat me down this year.
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: I thought for a second and I wasn't going to
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: go back because of the hate that I was getting. That,
• 20:23
  Speaker 4: you know, obviously interferes with my health, my mental health mostly,
• 20:28
  Speaker 4: but my businesses too. Yeah, so you know, I thought
• 20:31
  Speaker 4: about it and I thought, you know what, No, you
• 20:33
  Speaker 4: are not winning. You are not winning. I am going
• 20:36
  Speaker 4: to be myself and be who I am, and that's
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: why I am the longest running housewife. Mic drop.
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: You asked the next one, okay, mister.
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: Josh DC on Instagram, ask Teddy, how do you feel
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: about your name always being brought up on Beverly Hills.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: I mean, I would rather to tease in a pod
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: be brought up my name, But I think it's I know,
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: it's clear my name's going to be brought up because
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: they're my friends.
• 21:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and you were on it.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah. So I mean, there's always.
• 21:11
  Speaker 4: Gonna be a random flashback.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: There's always gonna be some random thing that I'm gonna
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: cringe saying, But it is what it is.
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: I don't I don't really have any when I.
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: Was off for two years. The first year I was off,
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, they talked about me in every single
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: episode and they were so some of them like so
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: mean to me. And I'm like, if you guys didn't
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: want me on the show, like why are you talking
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: about me? Like why why? It was so annoying, Like
• 21:41
  Speaker 4: oh god.
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: Then this one is green. Gal eighty one asked are
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: are you? And Shannon good? Now you know what she.
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: Asked to hug me at the reunion. I don't know
• 21:55
  Speaker 4: how genuine that is after what she said in the press.
• 22:01
  Speaker 4: I think that when Andy read they didn't show it
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: on Bravo, but I'm peacock. Andy read our text messages
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: and how much I did care for her and how
• 22:09
  Speaker 4: much I was there for her, and I think she
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: had a moment like, oh shit, I'm going to look bad.
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: So she's like, can I give you a hug, which
• 22:19
  Speaker 4: I thought it was great. I don't want to fight
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: with her. I don't want to fight with her, but
• 22:22
  Speaker 4: I want her to take accountability of what she did
• 22:25
  Speaker 4: to me as her best friend. It was very hurtful.
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: It wasn't like I was going in there and being
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: me and I was hurt. Could you imagine if you
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: heard Kyle was saying horrible things about you, that you're
• 22:35
  Speaker 4: no better than Kelly Dodd, that nobody wanted you back,
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: that you're a piece of shit. Could you imagine hearing
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: those things? No, totally blindsided when you're there for all.
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: The time, and yeah, in talking all the time and
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: all that.
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it was really really hard. So she basically said
• 22:53
  Speaker 4: she was thankful for my support, but doesn't want to
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: be friends because it's toxic.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: But then why did she say she filmed with certain people?
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: But then she backtracked on that because.
• 23:03
  Speaker 4: It looked bad. Do you know how bad that looks
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: for the at the you know, the network level to
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: go out there and say I'm not filming. Look at
• 23:10
  Speaker 4: Jersey Prime example, they didn't film with people and and
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: you know what we've talked about this rules they got,
• 23:18
  Speaker 4: they got canceled. So I'm assuming I don't know. I'm
• 23:21
  Speaker 4: assuming she got it. Somebody spoke to her and said,
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: this is not a good look. To say that you're
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: refusing to film with people is not a good look.
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: I don't know if she's talking about me. She probably
• 23:29
  Speaker 4: was talking about Lexus. She could have been talking about me.
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: But I'm not the toxic one in the friendship. I
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: was the one that was always there for her, So
• 23:37
  Speaker 4: it was just so I thought we were.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: I mean, it's fair to say that you both have
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: had your moments with one another.
• 23:44
  Speaker 4: Oh for sure. Yeah. I mean, other than being very
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: very angry with her this season, for you know, the
• 23:50
  Speaker 4: things that were said off camera that were never really discussed.
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: I've been nothing but a really good friend to her,
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: really good and it's exhausting.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: What is it?
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: Leanne Lockin said, my pantyliner is tired.
• 24:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, exactly. So I hope. I mean, I you know,
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: the whole show is about conflict and resolution, and I'm
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: not really one that holds a grudge. And I do
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: care about her, of course, I care about her. I
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: love her. I've been friends with her for so long,
• 24:22
  Speaker 4: and you know, to say something like that doesn't look
• 24:26
  Speaker 4: like she's really wanting to move forward, so I don't know.
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: We have a holiday lunch coming up with most of
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: the cast, not all of them, and we'll see, you know,
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: how she acts. I'll be more than happy to talk.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: To her and let me guess who's not invited from
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: the cast and blink if I'm correct. Okay, Katie and
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: Alexis more Katie, Alexis.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: And Jen.
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: Is that it.
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: I'm not saying you're gonna have to see the pictures always.
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: I'll stay tuned on the gram, you guys. But thanks
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: for tuning in for another episode of to Cheese and
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: a
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: Pod And we love you guys, and we have lots
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: more content to come.