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Two Ts Presents: Ay Por Favor: Love Hath No Fury… · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: I put with Alexi Napola and Marisa Patton an iHeartRadio podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I woke up yesterday swallowing like shards of glass.
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  Speaker 2: Not literally, but that's how it felt like, really bad.
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  Speaker 2: And fast forward here I am with a head cold,
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  Speaker 2: so I'm a little nasally. Yeah. I take those vitamins
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  Speaker 2: every day plus once a week, beat twelve shots plus.
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  Speaker 2: I eat really clean.
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  Speaker 1: You know. That's why you're eating very clean. You're gonna
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  Speaker 1: have to start eating a little dirtier.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I'm going to start taking my.
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  Speaker 1: And then you get sick.
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  Speaker 2: Bro. No, I know exactly what happened. I had a
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  Speaker 2: confessional last week, and I went with my hair wet
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  Speaker 2: to the studio like I always do. It's a forty
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  Speaker 2: five minute.
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  Speaker 1: Ride and then there by the way.
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  Speaker 2: It's freezing and the girl that does my hair was
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  Speaker 2: an hour and a half late, so my hair was
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  Speaker 2: almost three hours wet in the a C.
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  Speaker 1: And that's that's very cold in the studios there. Yeah, listen,
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  Speaker 1: my grandmother used to used to always tell me that
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  Speaker 1: after I washed my hair, say that's how I would
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  Speaker 1: get sick and don't see too. Yeah, tell Todd when
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  Speaker 1: I take a shower at night and I wash my hair.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, bait, I have to blow my hair. You
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  Speaker 1: don't understand I will wake up sick.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah I do. Did they ever tell you gonna noco
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  Speaker 2: swimming or don't embolia after.
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  Speaker 1: You eat my own? You know? I was like you
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  Speaker 1: so I would hear that, you know with the older generation.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, I didn't think I was gonna have an embolia.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I never knew what an embolia was. I just
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  Speaker 2: knew I didn't want one.
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  Speaker 1: An embolism. It sounds really severe.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a stroke, right, Yeah, look at the
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  Speaker 2: Cuban parents scared us. Don't eat and then go swimming
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  Speaker 2: because you'll have something called it a boa?
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  Speaker 1: Right? Or do like say like bad news, you know,
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  Speaker 1: or start like blade door or you know, start a
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  Speaker 1: fight or something like in the table.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe we should start to show.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, fight leave, I know. But sometimes I'm thinking, like, bro,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like in my fifties, like I can't be fighting
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  Speaker 1: in the table, you know, while we're fighting with these
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  Speaker 1: stupid girls.
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  Speaker 2: Oh hat if what if you have a fight at
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  Speaker 2: the table and then you go swimming, do you get
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  Speaker 2: an ambolia too?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe we should try it? Should we say yeah with that.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, yes, we start fighting with the hookers.
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  Speaker 1: Why are we swimming so you can cool down a
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  Speaker 1: little bit.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go swimming. And then everyone goes in except
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  Speaker 2: for us exactly. And then we wait a really long
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  Speaker 2: time to call fire rescue.
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  Speaker 1: Right, make sure Nicoll's out there so she can't save
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  Speaker 1: anybody anyway. Oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: We need to remind everybody that December ninth, we have
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  Speaker 2: our Bro show at Mester Park in Boca, that is right,
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  Speaker 2: mm hmm. And there's tickets on sales still a ticket Master,
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  Speaker 2: and we have a vip me going.
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  Speaker 1: It's gonna be so much fun. I really hope that
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  Speaker 1: everybody starts buying their tickets. I know everybody's really last minute,
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  Speaker 1: including myself, but it's gonna be so much skin.
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  Speaker 2: Yea a birthday present for somebody, take them to see
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  Speaker 2: the Bro show. Me and Alexia, it's gonna.
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  Speaker 1: Be It's gonna be a fun night hanging out with us,
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  Speaker 1: just like if we were like in our backyard. So
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  Speaker 1: I was gonna say.
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  Speaker 2: In here, yeah, drinking Domando, singing, I'm bringing my husband
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  Speaker 2: and bringing.
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  Speaker 1: Todd, Yes, Frankie and Peter. Yes, oh well get fair.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I can't break my step song because it's
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  Speaker 2: his actual birthday. Steve was like, yeah, it's Hunter's birthday.
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  Speaker 2: He's like, oh my god, you need to tell hid
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  Speaker 2: And I said, he doesn't want to hang out, travel
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  Speaker 2: with his friends, celebrate.
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  Speaker 1: You celebrate the following day or the day before or whatever.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe you want to get him a ticket for his
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  Speaker 1: birthday to see you.
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  Speaker 2: Trust me, he doesn't want to go, but he does
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  Speaker 2: not want to.
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  Speaker 1: Well, speaking of everything and anything, how is your Thanksgiving?
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  Speaker 2: We didn't cook anything. Nobody wanted to make an effort,
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  Speaker 2: so we made a reservation instead.
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  Speaker 1: Someday in my house we all went.
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  Speaker 2: To will you guys eat out? Every night?
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  Speaker 1: He won? I know, But so the nights that we
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  Speaker 1: don't eat out, like for holidays, I actually like to
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  Speaker 1: do them here at home, but we didn't this year.
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  Speaker 1: You know, Thanksgiving is something that I'm not so good at.
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  Speaker 1: And we also get reservations.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, you're very good at making reservations.
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  Speaker 1: No, but you know what, I love Thanksgiving food. What
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  Speaker 1: about you?
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  Speaker 2: Well, now that I'm vegan, you know not so much
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  Speaker 2: because you ate The part is the is the turkey
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  Speaker 2: and the bacon and all the butter inside, the stuffing
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  Speaker 2: and all that, you know what I mean, the cream
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  Speaker 2: and everything. I can't have.
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  Speaker 1: Adea when you when you weren't vegan, you didn't eat
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  Speaker 1: all those things either.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yes I did. Do you ever spend a Thanksgiving
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  Speaker 2: with me?
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  Speaker 1: Turkey? No?
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  Speaker 2: No, I know, yeah, baked it. I had all of it.
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  Speaker 2: I like the back part of the turkey, that little
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  Speaker 2: triangle in the back that's full of all the fat.
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  Speaker 1: E by his butt.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that butt peece, I love.
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  Speaker 1: It like that. You're one of those you like that area.
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  Speaker 2: It's really good. The way it was dark atually dark. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's soft and crunchy. Yeah, and it's all the Bagan
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  Speaker 2: fat on it. Anyway, that's a long time.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway, So you didn't have that, Yeah, so maybe next
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  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving you can have it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Mohammed.
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  Speaker 1: What about the sides? I love the Thanksgiving sides. I
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  Speaker 1: love the stuffing, the green beans, the sweet potatoes, the
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  Speaker 1: mashed potatoes, the corn custrole.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I didn't have any of that because I
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  Speaker 2: don't know how they made it.
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  Speaker 1: So complica that you're so complicated.
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  Speaker 2: It's very complicated.
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  Speaker 1: Boom bear, You're so lucky you have boo beer me taught.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, he's the best. Every time we go to a restaurant,
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  Speaker 2: he's like, my wife is vegan, do you have any
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  Speaker 2: vegan specials? And that's It's always he speaks for me.
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  Speaker 1: What about me? What about your best friend? The sense pictures.
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  Speaker 1: Every time I go to a restaurant, I think the
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  Speaker 1: vegan fire because of you, and I take pictures and
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  Speaker 1: I send them to you. I never did that in
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  Speaker 1: my life, even before take care of Me.
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  Speaker 2: You're like, you're not.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to send you like you know, like you
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  Speaker 1: gt ideas different because I feel like you're running out
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  Speaker 1: of food that you can eat.
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  Speaker 2: No. I like, I'm like a creature of habit I
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  Speaker 2: can eat the same thing every day. I don't get bored. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you have a zest for life that I don't have.
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  Speaker 2: It's different only with food.
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  Speaker 1: So then, so where did you go? So then you
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  Speaker 1: went to a restaurant with we.
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  Speaker 2: Wanted to.
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  Speaker 1: Nice?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I used to go with my parents when they
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  Speaker 2: got older, because you know.
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  Speaker 1: It was just here. I feel like when I was
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  Speaker 1: growing up, there were all the restaurants and everything was
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  Speaker 1: closed on Thanksgiving Day and unless you were celebrating at
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  Speaker 1: your house or your family's house. There was nothing. It's
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  Speaker 1: like you had to eat. Even if you would have
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  Speaker 1: early lunch and you didn't have food at home, you
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  Speaker 1: would stay without it until the next day because everything
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  Speaker 1: was closed. And I feel like now, I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if it's only Miami, because Miami is such a touristy
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  Speaker 1: city and there's people visiting from all over that more
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  Speaker 1: things were open, but I felt like all the restaurants
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  Speaker 1: were packed. I mean, we went to more India and
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  Speaker 1: it was so full, like big families. You know. I
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  Speaker 1: think people are just, you know, tired of cooking.
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  Speaker 2: Much and then by the time everyone gets there to
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  Speaker 2: pass out and then everybody eat clean.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, I know, like other help that day
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  Speaker 1: wants to go home and be with their families, so
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  Speaker 1: you have like no help at home either. So you
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  Speaker 1: know what the easiest thing to do is that it's
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  Speaker 1: just to make reservations. And you know, we we had
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  Speaker 1: a really nice time and the food was great. It
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  Speaker 1: was amazing. So we're like, maybe we'll do it again
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  Speaker 1: next year, but not for.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, I won't. Oh yeah, I will be here.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah I have to make at home. You guys can come,
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  Speaker 2: oh yeah, because I can eat moto.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll have mottos for you, Uga Frida.
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  Speaker 2: It's a great idea. I'm doing that. I tell Bluebird
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  Speaker 2: to book the car already.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, you know, we do not like that. And
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  Speaker 1: then we do Christmas Day American Italian. We do like
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  Speaker 1: an Italian Christmas Day, and you know some American dishes
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  Speaker 1: as well, like the ham and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 2: But do you do you cook the seven fishes like
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  Speaker 2: the Italians?
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  Speaker 1: We don't know. I don't.
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  Speaker 2: That's a lot of work.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I get that.
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  Speaker 2: I like to glamorous on the holidays.
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  Speaker 1: The thing is, the thing is that they also expect
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  Speaker 1: us to look glamorous. So how are we gonna look glamorous?
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  Speaker 1: You know, I know we'll get that off the menu.
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  Speaker 1: There's so many other things pasta, we do all the pastas.
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  Speaker 1: We do salads, you know, say carussal, meatballs, I ham.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, I mean, I think Christmas Day is
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  Speaker 1: just like a happy day that everybody likes to come
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  Speaker 1: together and you know, and celebrate and everybody's got a
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  Speaker 1: good mood. So we make it more like a party
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  Speaker 1: just for everybody, you know, to come over and have
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  Speaker 1: fun and have drinks and and that's it.
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  Speaker 2: Get ready for New Year's Did you put your decor up?
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  Speaker 1: I Nina. I went to my warehouse today to the
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  Speaker 1: storage to take my to how many you know, even
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  Speaker 1: when I had my house, I had my stuff in
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  Speaker 1: storage because I love Christmas, and you start accumulating things
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  Speaker 1: over the years, you know, like one year I want
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  Speaker 1: everything like red because the yeah, and another year I
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  Speaker 1: want like, you know, topes and beiges and browns, and
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  Speaker 1: another year when you're even the black, purple pinks. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I've done all colors.
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  Speaker 2: You just a black Christmas tree, yeah, like.
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  Speaker 1: Black with silver and gold and whid like yeah, like
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  Speaker 1: disco balls, you know, like glittery things. It was like
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  Speaker 1: a disco tree. It was super cool. I used to
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  Speaker 1: really get into it. Yeah yeah, but it was like
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  Speaker 1: you're just saying I think it was like no, no.
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  Speaker 2: I had to argue with Steve because he did not
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  Speaker 2: want that tree up too early. But we're leaving the
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  Speaker 2: day after Christmas.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I want to enjoy it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, so I did it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so I'm gonna get to see your tree
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  Speaker 1: next week when.
• 10:52
  Speaker 2: I see yeah, my meat, my meat party.
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  Speaker 1: I love that.
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  Speaker 2: It's so good.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I'm yeah, No, I mean I know everything
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  Speaker 1: else you're gonna have an I like to, but it's
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  Speaker 1: not like I'm such a meat person. Oh but that's fun.
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  Speaker 1: But it's okay.
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  Speaker 2: I guess I need to have other stuff for you
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  Speaker 2: send me.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, whatever appetizers you put, I was like, where
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  Speaker 1: you have and your drinks and your cockies, and I'm good.
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  Speaker 2: I'm having a bartender. I'm just supervising cocktails. I need
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  Speaker 2: to have some fun.
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  Speaker 1: Of course, listen, when you have a party at your house,
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  Speaker 1: you need the proper help because I'm not. You can't
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  Speaker 1: enjoy yourself because it's before, it's during, and then after.
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  Speaker 1: So it's like when are you gonna enjoy yourself? Everybody
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  Speaker 1: else doesn't. You don't really remember when we were. Don't
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  Speaker 1: have me some wee some wee lazy? Were you? I
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  Speaker 1: mean I would, but I have to, but like you know,
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  Speaker 1: of course you know I would. I would do that,
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  Speaker 1: but you know, I like to enjoy my.
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  Speaker 2: Drink and enjoy you're gonna enjoy yourself. You're not gonna
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  Speaker 2: do a damn thing.
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  Speaker 1: No, No, if I have to, you know, I'll do
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  Speaker 1: it because I'm very hands on. But I like that
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  Speaker 1: you're getting a bartender so that you can you know,
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  Speaker 1: enjoy yourself too.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because the pressure people put on me for cocktails
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  Speaker 2: is exhausting. I'm not offering to make drinks anymore for
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  Speaker 2: the girls either on our show, because then I never
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  Speaker 2: get I don't get to sit and talk. I'm offering.
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  Speaker 1: You always get blamed, and you always get blamed. Ever
• 12:15
  Speaker 1: it seems like you're drinking all the time.
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  Speaker 2: For everybody having a good time.
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  Speaker 1: I'm okay with the names for drinking when we're the
• 12:23
  Speaker 1: ones that are drinking, and then you get blamed for
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  Speaker 1: making us drunk. You made us drink it.
• 12:36
  Speaker 2: Speaking of food and people that don't eat supermodels.
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  Speaker 1: Right, one of this supermodel, but it's like a simpesocomen
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  Speaker 1: name the evangelist. And then she had to resort to
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  Speaker 1: cool sculpting and unfortunately they did ye yes, you know
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  Speaker 1: they they did not do so good on her body
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  Speaker 1: and with the procedure, and she was.
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  Speaker 2: For that.
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  Speaker 1: Do they It doesn't really matter. But I heard that
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  Speaker 1: she did sue afterwards, so she probably got a lot
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  Speaker 1: of money for that. But there's no money in my book,
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  Speaker 1: you know, for something that has to do with your
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: mental or physical health. And I think that her I
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  Speaker 1: think this was like her first battle or like her
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  Speaker 1: first step into being into feeling the way that she's
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  Speaker 1: feeling today, which is not interested in dating, and she
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  Speaker 1: just doesn't want to be around anybody. And I think
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  Speaker 1: I really do believe that, you know, her body changing
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  Speaker 1: and her doing this procedure and just you know it
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  Speaker 1: coming up, you know, disfiguring her, it really affected her
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  Speaker 1: well being and her mental state and her and her sexuality.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, you think ex talent, that that deformity
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  Speaker 2: that she has now after being so perfect for so long,
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  Speaker 2: it's just kind of like making her so beautiful. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: I still she was always my face of all the supermodels.
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  Speaker 1: She looked, she looked, she looked pala, but she was beautiful.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, you know, because she's very pretty. But
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  Speaker 1: like from that supermodel thing, she wasn't my favorite. She
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  Speaker 1: had a very particular look and she was absolutely beautiful.
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  Speaker 1: Who is your favorite from that group? Cottie Shiffer. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she was really beautiful. Oh my god, and Cottie Schiffer
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  Speaker 1: and I loved it. I used to buy, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like the magazine, the Spanish magazine. We were little and
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  Speaker 1: Peter was like two years old too, and she was
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  Speaker 1: always in the cover of the magazine and I had
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  Speaker 1: it at my coffee table when we lived in Madrid,
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  Speaker 1: and Peter would point at it and say, Mommy, Mama, mama.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, I'll take that right.
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  Speaker 1: So he had a fascination with her too. And I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, I just found her like so beautiful, like
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  Speaker 1: very like bridget Bardot like that. I alway found it
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  Speaker 1: really beautiful. I mean they were all, you know, amazing,
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  Speaker 1: but she kind of like disappeared from the phase of
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  Speaker 1: the earth and.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe she's doing a bridge at Bardone lives with one
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  Speaker 2: hundred cats and dogs in the middle of nowhere.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I think that as a beautiful woman, you know,
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  Speaker 1: when you start aging that they you start it's hard
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  Speaker 1: to age, you know, especially those kind of women that
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  Speaker 1: were like supermodels and had you know, so much fame,
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  Speaker 1: and they were known for their beauty and only for that.
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  Speaker 1: So as you get older, if you don't do other things,
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  Speaker 1: or your you're well grounded, or you kind of like
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  Speaker 1: take different paths, you know, and you're still so obsessed
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  Speaker 1: with yourself and people judge you with that. You you
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: start getting all these insecurities, and I think she started
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  Speaker 1: resorting to doing all these procedures that unfortunately didn't work
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  Speaker 1: out for her.
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  Speaker 2: Mm hmmmm hmm. Yeah, yeah, Yeah, she looks like she
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: put filler in her face or something, because it's.
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  Speaker 1: Just like real faces the form, but it's not only
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  Speaker 1: her face. I read about her body. Like she did
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  Speaker 1: the pool sculpting, it did something different to her. I
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  Speaker 1: think she was overweight and instead of just like resorting
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: to like exercise and diet, you know, she just wanted, like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, a quick shortcut and she did the cool
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  Speaker 1: sculpting and and it just like you know, really ruined
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  Speaker 1: her body.
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  Speaker 2: So she said, I read that she was in a
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  Speaker 2: really really abusive relationship. Oh that as well, Yeah, what's
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: up with that?
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: What's up with I mean, I've been reading lately so much,
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  Speaker 1: and I guess we'll talk about you know, Paddy after that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I've been reading about so many women that have been
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: in physically and sexually abusive relationships with their husbands or
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: with like their partners. It's not like a one time
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: thing or two or three, it's like years and years
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: of these abusive relationships. They did have an age difference though,
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: Is that the one that you read about the one?
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he was much older than her.
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: So she was twenty two and he was thirty seven, right, Yeah, she.
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: Was really young.
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: You know, they know how to get in your head.
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: Once they get in your head and mess with your head,
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: you think you're the one they.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: Controlled, they own you, and of course.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: Then make you feel like you're causing these issues, you're
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: the one with the problem. And a young girl like
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: that is just gonna try. Young and beautiful.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: So the guy probably had all these complaint holes, you know,
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: all these complexes, and you know he felt like, you know,
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: she was so beautiful that he had to like abuse
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: her because he was.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: He was running her modeling agency. He was the something
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: who knows what he was saying to her, Oh you're
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: twenty two, you're getting too old, and I'm going to
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: hire this girl instead of you who knows the stuff
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: he was saying. He was getting at her head about
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: torturing the poor thing. Yeah. One, Now shepic.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: History, she does have a history of that, which was
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: actually surprising to me. And then she had a son
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: with Samahayak's husband.
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yes, that's a mouthful. Yeah, it's a good looking boy.
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: That was interesting. Oh, her son's beautiful. He has her face,
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: which is a beautiful face, gorgeous. And besides that, you know,
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: his dad is a very wealthy man, so the kid
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: has nothing to worry about with the mom and daddy
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: has But yeah, well apparently she had to go battle
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: with him for child support. He wasn't giving her any.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: But I guess it's all resolved now.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you. Sama probably helped that. Thank you probably, yeah,
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: because you know what sometimes, you know, with the thing
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: is mighty, like we never know all the information, you
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: know what I mean, we read what with out thesis. Yeah,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: but you know, there's there's always more to the story.
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: There's his story, there's her story, and then there's the truth.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: But I'm just happy that they were able to resolve
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: because definitely he has the money to be supporting his
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: son of course. Yeah, there's no reason for him not
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: too well. Yeah, and yeah, I hope he's like in
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: you know, Gucci from head to toe and all the
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: other brands that they own.
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: Totally right, he should be a model for the brands.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: That is true. Yes, he really did get good looks.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: You know, maybe he saw his mother go through so
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: much pain, you know, and boys are a little different
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: than girls when it comes to that. But hopefully he has,
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: you know, a good life and he studies and he
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: does whatever he wants to do because you know, he's
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: he has everything there, you know, having such.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna I'm a real excerpt from this article
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: that says that she doesn't want to date anymore and
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: she doesn't want to hear somebody breathing.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: I'm sorryyard, Yeah, I mean she probably that. I mean
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: that scares me that she doesn't even want to. You know,
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: she seems like she's bitter. God that she's she's angry,
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: because I think you can very disappointed I in my
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: life or whatever. I mean, there's some women that are
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: very disappointed in men, right, but they're still sexual and
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: they still are and then they go having a companion
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: and falling in love. But she seems like she seems
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: very unhappy. And I'm very sorry for her because, like
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: I said, she you know, she's still a young woman.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: I mean she's fifty eight years old. I mean, how
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: do you feel about that? I mean we're like almost there, yeah,
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: you know, is there yet?
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: No?
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: I know, But I'm just saying like, in the as
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: far as that goes, like is there do you ever
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: think that there's a point in your life where you
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: don't want to date anymore? Like let's say you wouldn't
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: have in a couple of years, you know, you wouldn't
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: be with Steve, or you just say, well, you know what,
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: this is the time in my life that you know,
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: I'm fifty eight, fifteen, iine sixty whatever, and I just
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: don't want to date anymore.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, because I'm a teenager deep down inside,
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: and I'm always in love with love and I believe
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: in love, and I don't care how.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: Many me too, you know, I'm so excited.
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it doesn't matter how many bad experiences I have.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: I'm always like, there's another good around the corner. It's coming,
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: it's coming, it's coming.
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: I never give up. I think you and I both
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: share that that point in our lives is never gonna come.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: It's going to be Like.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: I was reading a lot of comments on this article
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: and there was.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: Oh, I never war comments.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: There's more than two thousand comments, and the majority, like
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: ninety eight percent of the women were like me too.
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: You know, I like a relationship where the guy has
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: his own.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: But that's why there were so many gay guys because
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: the women don't even want to like date or whatever.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: It's like, what's going on?
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: Everybody agreed with her. I want her husband that's always traveling,
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: or he lives in a separate house, he sleeps in
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: a separate pas I know. And that that led me
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: to think to myself, is it unnatural to be with
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: someone forever? Is there an expiration on relationship?
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: Forever is a long time, and my mom the it
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: was like that it expired, right, so you can think that.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: I try not to think that because you know, it
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: just happens when it's going to happen, right. But what
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: I'm afraid of is these women. You know, there are
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: still young women that soured. Yeah, they're just like not
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: happy with themselves. You know, in a way, it's better
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: that they stay by themselves, because I mean, what are
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: you going to have to offer to you know, the
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: man that you're with or to your partner if you're
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: just like this bitter person. And to those women that
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: you read comments Because I don't read comments because I
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: really don't care what people have.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: To I was curious to see what people were saying,
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: that's interesting the overwhelming that they agreed with her, and
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: I thought.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: Well, you know how many women agree with some things
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: on our show, Which that's why don't you read the comments,
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: because I'm like, who are you? How can you agree
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: with this? Right? So, but with this being said, you're right,
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: it is interesting to read the comments. But it's scary
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: to know that almost one hundred percent of the women
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: that were making comments agreed with her, because that's not okay.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: How can you say that, like.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: I don't even want to be I don't even want
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: to hear somebody next to me breathing.
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: I mean that's kind of scary. I don't know. And
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: she never wants to have sex again. And then, you know,
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: I thought, okay, maybe there's.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: Well, asexual is a thing, no, I mean asexual and
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: you know exists. Well, you know there are people that
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: are not interested.
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: It happens too when you go through menopause. You kind
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: of just get a little you know, your.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: Desire job and so dif ain'ting.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: But she she put the men on pause in menopause.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: Right that that's good because that's what she did. But
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: I think for her, it's like a lifetime thing. I
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: don't think she's ever going back, you know, because menopause
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: can be controlled and manipulated with different substances, and there's
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: things you can do to make it better. But this
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: sounds more than menopause. This is like, I hate thing.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: Like she's just like not interested in anything. She's like,
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: she's very unhappy. Like I read this article and that's
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: what I got from it.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: I have a recipe for all those late is it
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: commented and agreed with her and for her, everyone needs
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: to get a dog.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: Oh, they were gonna say a dildo.
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: A dog and a dildo.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: No, but you know what, I think they all have dogs.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: But is a dog and a dog's you know, an
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: animal's love gonna substitute a man's love? And what about
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: their and what about the other part?
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: You know, it's a silent companion. You know, you can
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: have both.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: You can have a guy and a dog and a dildo.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: You're not all three, you know what I mean? It's
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: like have all three. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Life,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: we're winning, We're living our best life. Yeah. But I
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: just don't know. I think it's in ther in their head,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? These women and it gets
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: in your head and it gets in your head. And
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: it's not that you need a man for anything, but
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: it's nice right to have somebody that you can talk to,
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: that you can hang out with. Uh. And that's and
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: that's like what my next next question that I was
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: going to ask you, like, how did it falling in
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: love at this age different? How did it change right
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: from like the first time you fell in love? How
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: was it for you now in your fifties.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: Let's say you know, love now is calm and peaceful.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: It feels safe, it feels good. I think when I
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: was younger, I rode more with that high of chaos
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: and uncertainty, and that turned me on and that does
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: not turn me on anymore.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: That's such a great answer, my amiga. I love it.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: It's kind of like yeah, you know, like and I
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: think it's a great answer, and I feel the same.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: I'm still working on it to be peaceful, because it's
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: how I get your thing whatever you.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: Want to call it. Yeah, you go, yeah, you got
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: brozilla right, And I give you it's not within me.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: No, no, it's not even that. But I'm just saying that, like,
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: that's what I feel that somebody at our age would want,
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: you know, which is peace and stability and and chim
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: and you know, and like you before, my relationships were
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: that as well, you know, especially my first or second
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: you know, when I started dating, it's like it's it
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: was a high. It was like that's what you wanted.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: You wanted like the.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: Endormento Yeah, yeah, yeah, endormo Yeah. And I live for
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: my weekends when I can be with wake up. We'll
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: stay with the whole day ahead of each other and
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: be together. That's like my favorite part of the week.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I think companionship, you know, are
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: at our age is what we're looking for, you know,
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: somebody that we can talk to, that we have things
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: in common, that we can travel, that we can have
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: smart conversation. We can also have fun because we're super fun. Yeah,
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: and you know, and that's how it changes, you know,
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: that idea of the perfect of like the prince or
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: like you know, all the things that we wanted like
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: in our twenties and our thirties we already had and did,
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: so now we look for, you know, something different.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: You know, I think usually when you like resigned to
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: never being with anyone, again is when somebody great comes along,
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: that's usually when it happens. So yes, I think someone
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: she will find someone that will bring her peace because
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: at her age, and like us as well, she's not
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: going to put up with anything better than less than that.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: She wants peace and tranquility and a good relationship where
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: she feels safe because no one seemed to have given
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: her that safe space. And so yeah, I feel like
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: she will find someone and she's not going to be
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: looking for it. It's just going to show up because
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: that's when.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: They just better breathe really quietly.
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Our next topic is Diddy Sean Ditty Combs.
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: He seems to love him.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: Really, she's the people we all loved him.
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: She didn't know how to say his name because you know,
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: he's changed it fifty times.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: Apparently he's been sticking his baby everywhere because now he's
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: facing a second and third sexual assault lawsuit. I know, yeah,
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: I mean I knew that once Cassie. I knew that
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: once one of them came up, you know they are
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: all the other ones were going to start falling because
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: for whatever reason, Like he gives me that vibe, he
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: gives me that vibe.
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: He gives me baby and everybody's daily.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: He just gives me that vibe. And then you know
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: what happens with these things is that the Sally Una,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: they see that she settles and that she gets money,
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: and you know, then all the other ones start.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: I wonder how much Cassie got because they say that
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: she settled within a day.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, of course. I mean it was to his
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: best interest because I'm sure he doesn't want, you know,
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: all of all of that to be out there. I mean,
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: and I feel hit that everybody, like you know, looks
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: up to that loved his music, his career. You know,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: he's a father, he's a on.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's actually like restarted his career after seven
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: seventeen years. So it's like he doesn't need this mess
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: right now. When he came back with a new album.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: And he's around Miami.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: His album is called Love, Bro Love, it went all love.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: He named his daughter Love because he's all about love.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Right. No, I think it's one thing is love and
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: the another one's lost. I mean it's different love. Yeah,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: you know, some people that's another good topic. A lot
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: of people are confused with love and they think it's
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: love and it's really not love and for these young
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: girls fatuation. You know, I understand why, you know, Cassie
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: dated him because of course, you know, she was also
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: an artist and she was signed up with his record label,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: and he was also older than her, and he's managing
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: her like everything. Like I understand why you know that happened. Yeah,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: but then that's what happens. You know. It's like you
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: never know who you're sleeping with because I wouldn't or
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I thought he did all these things that she alleged,
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: you know that she was alleging that he did to her.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: She said she was being trafficked and beaten and raped.
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: I mean, how do you a traffic towel? Though? I dot,
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: I don't understand.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: You right well, I mean, if babla, you can't write anything.
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: These are all accusations and allegations that she made. I
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: don't know what truth there is to them or not.
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: Oh no, I read I think I read something. Maybe
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: it was about a different girl that they wouldn't pass.
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: They would like give them rape drugs and then pass
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: them around with other artists and producers and then videotape it.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: You know, it's a really dirty, nasty world out there.
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: And you just have to be dirty, very careful and
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: not get involved with any of this because you know,
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: that's what happens to a lot of these young girls.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: You know, they're mesmerized with these artists and that are
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: so powerful. You know, not only do they have so
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: much money, but they're so like loved and welcomed everywhere.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's just like, you know, fascinating for them,
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: and they don't know any better, and they don't know
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: how to get out of it. That's the other thing too,
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: because they're older than them, they're controlling and yeah, it's
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: really really crazy. I mean, I don't know what he's
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: going to do at this point because now they're just
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: all coming out, you know, well the second and the
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: third you.
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: Know that that will be done now because i mean
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: the one of the main reasons they all came out
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: was because of the New York Adult Survivors Act, which
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: expired twenty fourth Yeah right, yeah, so they all squeezed
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: him in by the twenty third, right, So because they
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: were all thirty year old cases exactly.
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: Well, they're suing him civilly, so that means it's for money,
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: because they're civil and criminal. I'm sure are they going
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: after him criminally as well?
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I didn't read that, but I would
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: guess that it's probably just a financial thing.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: You see. How do you feel about that?
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: I mean, you know, listen, you've had thirty years to
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: think about it. And why now we just went through
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: the whole me too movement? Why don't you speak up
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: during me too? Right? I don't know, Yeah, it doesn't.
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I think that when did When did
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: Cassie make her case? And when was it.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: Like two weeks ago? Two weeks ago?
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: Okay? So then right after she got her money everyone else, I.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: Know, I kind of I kind of thought to myself,
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: if anything comes out of this and Cassie, you know,
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: comes to an agreement or this kind of this thing
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: gets any kind of light, I just had something in
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: me knew that there was going to be like a
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: line of women after Cassie, just for whatever reason, a
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: line of men because apparently he's bisexual. Yes, as a
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: matter of fact, they did read something. There's always been
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: rumors about him as well. So I'm sure that you know,
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: he better have a lot of money because he's gonna
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: need a lot of hush money. I mean, there's so
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: many they're going to start coming out too.
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: I read he was a billionaire. He's got plenty of money.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: Forget about the money too. I mean he has two
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: young daughters and dumb he has a mother. I mean,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: I'm sure he has brothers and sisters. It's just like
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: publicly to have to go through something like this. But
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: it's like, what are they thinking. I'm like, how you
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  Speaker 1: know that we're living in days like these things? Maybe
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  Speaker 1: like forty years ago, if you was that old, he
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  Speaker 1: could have died and nobody would have found out about it.
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  Speaker 1: But nowadays there's no secrets, Like, there's no secrets. It
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  Speaker 1: comes out. If it's not one, it's another one sooner
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: or later. But like you, I agree, like, how do
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  Speaker 1: these women like are fifteen, twenty thirty years.
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  Speaker 2: These all happened in the nineties early nineties. It's a
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  Speaker 2: long time ago to wait, Alana.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I mean they're probably going to say, well, we
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: were really young, we were scared, we were naive. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like it's always that story, and I don't want
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  Speaker 1: to take away from that because you are young and
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: naive at that age and you don't know how to
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  Speaker 1: react to it. But I feel like if you were
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: able to go get over all that for so many years,
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  Speaker 1: keep living your life after thirty year lives like after
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  Speaker 1: thirty years, I mean like wubla again, it's like I
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't want that. I would be like, Okay, I got
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  Speaker 1: over it, thank you God. You know I've healed, I've
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  Speaker 1: gone like I wouldn't want to bring that up again,
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  Speaker 1: because I mean, it has to be devastating, you know,
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  Speaker 1: for the victims and for and for everyone that that's
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: involved in this process. I'm sure they've moved on and
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: they have their families, they may even have like children,
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  Speaker 1: like to have to go through all this, you know,
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  Speaker 1: and it was just like monetary compensation. Like I honestly
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  Speaker 1: that that makes me really sad.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe maybe well were most of them like singers, were
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: all the women's singers?
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  Speaker 1: No, well, it just as the second and third, the
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: two cases that are they just filed the lawsuit. It
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: doesn't say, it doesn't give too much information. Actually one
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: of them doesn't even say. She's not even disclosing her name.
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  Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, so we don't know that, right.
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  Speaker 1: But one of them was a Syracuse University student and
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  Speaker 1: that was in nineteen ninety one MM.
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  Speaker 2: I was thinking. I was in my theory of maybe
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  Speaker 2: they didn't want to you know, they were in the
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  Speaker 2: music business. They didn't want to ruin their careers, and
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: they just kind of stay quiet. And now they think
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: they're very young.
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  Speaker 1: You know, think about when we were young, and you know,
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  Speaker 1: like everybody's always been fascinated with athletes, with singers, you know,
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  Speaker 1: with musicians. You know, it's not like oh okay, like oh
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  Speaker 1: I want to go out with the doctor or with
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: an attorney. You know, it was like, you know, this
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  Speaker 1: type of thing is like they get they have this
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  Speaker 1: cloud you know that women want. You know, when they're young,
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: they're naive. You know, these guys are cute. You know,
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  Speaker 1: they have nice cars, they have airplanes. You know, they
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  Speaker 1: have like this lifestyle path and the money that the
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: women want. And then unfortunately, most of the cases, I'm
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: not saying they all do it, but a lot of
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: times it ends up like this. So, I mean, moral
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: the story, you just have to talk a lot to
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  Speaker 1: your children. You know, you have daughters and sons the same,
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: and you know, just make them aware that you know,
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: you're kind of like selling your soul to the double
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: because nothing good comes out of this.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, mm hmmm mm hmmm. Oh yeah, And did
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: you see all the other people that that had the
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: lawsuits filed against them are also to meet the deadline,
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: Jamie Fox, Axl Rose, Russell Brandt, and Cuba Gooding Junior.
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  Speaker 1: God had heard he's also in Miami. Oh in Miami,
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: Jamie Cuba Gooding, Yeah, yeah, he did it.
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  Speaker 2: Heard about Russell Brandt too, Yeah, yeah, oh boy. It's
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  Speaker 2: not a good time.
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  Speaker 1: No, I mean, it's not a good time to be
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: living and doing these kind of things. You know, those
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: things need to stop because I mean, you're going to
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: get caught sooner or later. And you know, there should
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: be like a statue of limitation, which I guess this
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: is what happened that they made that law.
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: It's like a little window you get a year even
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: though the statute of limitations is passed, so and now
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: they close that.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: You can so there is a statue of limitation.
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: It's a temporary window to file claims that passed the
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: statute of limitations. But that expired on the twenty fourth,
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: so everyone may There was an avalanche of lawsuits on
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: the twenty third, so but they may do it again.
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: Who knows.
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: Listen, it's hard to be famous my house.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: I leave my house, I'll get in trouble somehow, I
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: won't even be looking for it and it'll just happen.
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: So I stay here with it's safe and it's quiet,
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: and the cocktails are better.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: I agree.
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree.
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: That's why I look forward to seeing you on Saturday
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: and hiring all little drinks there instead of going out.
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: Little drinks and big meat.
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Well Boover is going to be happy.
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: So it's todd oh yeah, Tomahawks Porterhouse and I'm drinking
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: some beautiful tabletop decor. I have some new ideas. I
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: hope they work out. I hope they look good.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: I'm sure you're very talented.
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna try, Mouhamed. I have some new DIY projects,
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: trying to get my fingers and hands on see if
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: they come out good.
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: If you don't.
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: See it on Instagram, it's because I was embarrassed by it.
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  Speaker 2: I watch it, I get the screener, I watch the screener,
• 38:28
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• 38:34
  Speaker 1: I'm glad you are not so much.
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: All right, you got to give it the college drive. Yeah, well,
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• 38:44
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• 38:48
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