Latest / Fairview Presbyterian Church (PCA) Sermons / The Muddied Waters of Theodicy (John 9:1-41) - Pastor Kenneth Collins Maple
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- 0:00And if you would now take your Bibles and open
- 0:03up to John chapter 9. John chapter 9 and we're
- 0:13going to look at all of the verses within that
- 0:18chapter today as we continue in our sermon series
- 0:23through some of the miracles of Jesus. And so
- 0:28I ask you now, as you have those Bibles open
- 0:30to John 9, that you would pay close attention,
- 0:34because this is God's Word. As he passed by,
- 0:43he saw a man blind from birth. And his disciples
- 0:47asked him, Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his
- 0:53parents, that he was born blind? Jesus answered,
- 0:58it was not that this man sinned or his parents,
- 1:01but that the works of God might be displayed
- 1:04in him. We must work the works of him who sent
- 1:08me while it is day. Night is coming when no one
- 1:13can work. As long as I am in the world, I am
- 1:17the light of the world. Having said these things,
- 1:21he spit on the ground and made mud with the saliva.
- 1:25Then he anointed the man's eyes with the mud
- 1:28and said to him, go wash in the pool of Siloam,
- 1:32which means scent. So he went, and he washed,
- 1:37and he came back seeing. The neighbors and those
- 1:41who had seen him before as a beggar were saying,
- 1:44is this not the man who used to sit and beg?
- 1:47Some said, it is he. Others said, no, but he
- 1:51is like him. He kept saying, I am the man. So
- 1:55they said to him, then how were your eyes opened?
- 1:59And he answered, the man called Jesus made mud
- 2:02and anointed my eyes and said to me, go to Siloam
- 2:07and wash. So I went and washed and received my
- 2:11sight. They said to him, where is he? And he
- 2:14said, I do not know. They brought to the Pharisees
- 2:19the man who had formerly been blind. Now it was
- 2:22a Sabbath day when Jesus made the mud and opened
- 2:24the eyes, his eyes. So the Pharisees again asked
- 2:28him how he had received his sight. And he said
- 2:30to them, he put mud on my eyes and I watched
- 2:34and I see. Some of the Pharisees said, this man
- 2:37is not from God, for he does not keep the Sabbath.
- 2:41But others said, how can a man who is a sinner
- 2:43do such signs? And there was a division among
- 2:47them. So they said again to the blind man, What
- 2:51do you say about him? Since he has opened your
- 2:54eyes, and he said he is a prophet The Jews did
- 2:59not believe that he had been blind and had received
- 3:01his sight Until they called the parents of the
- 3:04man who had received his sight and asked them
- 3:07is this your son? Who you say was born blind
- 3:10how then does he now see and his parents answered
- 3:13we know that this is our son and That he was
- 3:16born blind but how he now sees we do not know
- 3:21nor do we know who opened his eyes ask him he
- 3:25is of age he will speak for himself his parents
- 3:28said these things because they feared the Jews
- 3:31for the Jews had already agreed that if anyone
- 3:34should confess Jesus to be Christ he was to be
- 3:38put out of the synagogue therefore his parents
- 3:40said he is of age ask him So for the second time
- 3:46they called the man who had been blind and said
- 3:48to him give glory to God We know that this man
- 3:51is a sinner. He answered whether he is a sinner
- 3:55I do not know one thing I do know that though
- 3:59I was blind Now I see they said to him. What
- 4:03did he do to you? How did he open your eyes and
- 4:06he answered them? I have told you already and
- 4:08you would not listen. Why do you want to hear
- 4:11it again? Do you also want to become his disciples?
- 4:15And they reviled him saying, You are his disciple,
- 4:19but we are disciples of Moses. We know that God
- 4:22has spoken to Moses. But as for this man, we
- 4:26do not know where he comes from. The man answered,
- 4:29Why, this is an amazing thing. You do not know
- 4:31where he comes from. And yet he opened my eyes.
- 4:34We know that God does not listen to sinners.
- 4:37But if anyone is a worshiper of God and does
- 4:40his will, God listens to him. Never since the
- 4:44world began has it been heard that anyone opened
- 4:46the eyes of a man born blind. If this man were
- 4:50not from God he could do nothing. They answered
- 4:54him, you were born in utter sin and would you
- 4:57teach us? And they cast him out. Jesus heard
- 5:02that they had cast him out and having found him
- 5:04he said, do you believe in the Son of Man? He
- 5:07answered, and who is he sir? that I may believe
- 5:11in him. Jesus said to him, you have seen him
- 5:14and it is he who is speaking to you. He said,
- 5:18Lord, I believe. And he worshiped him. Jesus
- 5:22said, for judgment I came into this world that
- 5:25those who do not see may see and those who see
- 5:28may become blind. Some of the Pharisees near
- 5:31him heard these things and said to him, are we
- 5:34also blind? Jesus said to them, if you are blind,
- 5:39You would have no guilt, but now that you say
- 5:42we see your guilt remains This is God's holy
- 5:48word. Let's pray Father we praise you and we
- 5:54thank you for this word And I ask that you would
- 5:57open up our ears Open up our eyes and open up
- 6:01our hearts to see Jesus this we pray in his name
- 6:05Amen Some 2 ,000 years or so, give or take a
- 6:14few years, before this man, before this man was
- 6:20born blind, there was another man who suffered
- 6:23terribly and also was accused of bringing affliction
- 6:28on himself. The man I'm thinking of lost his
- 6:31family. He lost his servants. He lost his wealth.
- 6:36He lost his status. And he lost his health. The
- 6:41man I'm thinking of, you may be thinking of,
- 6:43is Job. The book of Job is called a theodicy.
- 6:48And that's a big fancy term. But what it means
- 6:51is the times when we try to make sense out of
- 6:55pain and suffering and evil in this world that
- 6:59is governed by God, we try to make sense of why
- 7:02do these tragedies happen? Why is there evil
- 7:05in the world? Another shooting happens, and we
- 7:10say, why, Lord? Persecution happens to Christians
- 7:14in Nigeria, and we say, how long, oh Lord? A
- 7:18child dies, and we say, Lord, we don't get it.
- 7:23Why do these things have to be this way? In those
- 7:27ways, we're just like the psalmist in Psalm 13,
- 7:31verse 1, who says, how long, oh Lord, will you
- 7:35forget me? How long will you hide your face from
- 7:39me? No doubt you've asked these questions, too.
- 7:42You've tried to figure out why do these things
- 7:44happen. Job's case is especially tragic, just
- 7:51like this man in John 9. It's tragic because
- 7:54he undergoes so much suffering, and what do his
- 7:58friends say about him? They say, you did this
- 8:01to yourself. Listen to this. From Job chapter
- 8:074 verse 8 one of Job's so -called friends Eliphaz
- 8:16says this as I have seen Those who plow iniquity
- 8:22and sow trouble reap the same In other words
- 8:27you reap what you sow You did this to yourself
- 8:31this kind of theodicy This kind of understanding
- 8:35pain and suffering and evil by attributing it
- 8:38all to a person's sin. This is very troubling.
- 8:43This is what Job's friends did to him. And Jesus'
- 8:48disciples, while they might not say it to the
- 8:50man, these are the things that they say. Look
- 8:54there in John 9 verse 2. His disciples asked
- 9:01Jesus, Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents,
- 9:06that he was born blind. The only good thing I
- 9:09want to say about this is at least the disciples
- 9:11know where to go with the question. They go to
- 9:14the rabbi, they go to the teacher, the master,
- 9:16they go to Jesus. But their question is wrong.
- 9:23It's incredibly wrong to say that if you suffer,
- 9:27it must be, the emphasis on must, that it must
- 9:31be because of your sin. It should also be noted
- 9:36that the man was born blind. So in saying, did
- 9:41he do this to himself? That seems rather impossible.
- 9:45And so what the disciples are doing here is either
- 9:49talking foolishly, accusing the man's parents,
- 9:53or perpetuating bad theodicy. This sort of theodicy
- 9:58is instructed. It is destructive. It amounts
- 10:02to those who suffer the worst must be those who
- 10:06sin the worst. And this is actually contrary
- 10:10to what we might observe in this life. It's contrary
- 10:13to what Solomon observed in this life. I want
- 10:16to read this to you from Ecclesiastes chapter
- 10:19seven, verse 15. This is what Solomon saw when
- 10:24he looked around at suffering. He said, in my
- 10:27vain life, I have seen everything. There is a
- 10:31righteous man who perishes in his righteousness
- 10:34and there is a wicked man who prolongs his life
- 10:38in evil Doing and that may be our observation
- 10:42as well that sometimes those who suffer the most
- 10:46Are those who are the most faithful to God? We
- 10:51also need to be careful we get ourselves into
- 10:55trouble when we start answering questions And
- 10:59we don't have the answers in Scripture. We don't
- 11:02have the answers from Christ, right? Because
- 11:05sometimes we just don't always know why a person
- 11:09suffers the way that they do or the extent to
- 11:11which they suffer. You might not know the reason
- 11:14for your suffering. And this is where people
- 11:17tend to muddy the waters of theodicy. We come
- 11:21to hasty conclusions. We speak when we don't
- 11:24know what we're talking about and we don't know
- 11:26what God is doing. But here's the good news friends
- 11:30in John chapter 9 We do know what God is doing
- 11:36Because Jesus tells us we see three things at
- 11:41least three things from Jesus in this passage
- 11:44Firstly Jesus is going to give this man his sight
- 11:48Secondly Jesus is going to teach everybody a
- 11:51lesson and thirdly Jesus is going to point out
- 11:55true blindness Ultimately, Jesus will display
- 11:59the works of God and teach us that spiritual
- 12:04blindness is worse than physical blindness. Let's
- 12:11look at this here at the beginning of chapter
- 12:139. You can see that once again Jesus's compassion
- 12:18is on display. Everybody is blaming this poor
- 12:23blind man. for his own blindness. But Jesus destroys
- 12:29that bad theology and he gives sight to the blind.
- 12:32Look in verse 6. After he says these things,
- 12:36he spits on the ground and he makes mud with
- 12:39the saliva and he applies it. He anoints the
- 12:42man's eyes with it. There is no objection from
- 12:46this man, is there? We might say, ooh, what are
- 12:49you doing? No objection from this man because
- 12:53Blindness is all he has ever known. He probably
- 12:56would have done just about anything to be able
- 12:58to see. This man has never experienced a sunset.
- 13:02This man has never even looked on the faces of
- 13:05his parents. And so Jesus applies this to him,
- 13:10but the miracle's not done until he washes. And
- 13:13so he sends him to Siloam. And so your Bible
- 13:15probably says that Siloam, the name means what?
- 13:19The word scent. I believe there's a connection
- 13:22with the name of Siloam in verse four. Go back
- 13:26to verse four. Jesus says, we must work the works
- 13:30of him who sent me. We are to be reminded that
- 13:34Jesus is sent by the Father for the purposes
- 13:38of doing this very thing and of saving people
- 13:41from their sins. We are reminded that Jesus comes
- 13:45to do the Father's will. But also, what he goes
- 13:52to do is symbolic, this washing. Because we're
- 13:57ultimately going to see that as he's told to
- 13:59wash, we should be reminded that there is a greater
- 14:02miracle that's going on. There's something greater
- 14:05than being able to see physically. It's being
- 14:09able to see who Jesus is in our hearts. The cleansing
- 14:13of our hearts is what we all need. And so the
- 14:17man is sent. He goes to the pool of Siloam. He
- 14:20washes. And then he can see. And the people are
- 14:24amazed. They cannot believe that this is the
- 14:27same man. The neighbors, the people, they can't
- 14:31believe it. So what do they do? They take this
- 14:33man to the Pharisees. And when he gets there,
- 14:37you see some of the Pharisees are less concerned
- 14:40with the miracle and more concerned with when
- 14:43the miracle is done. They are, according to verse
- 14:4816, divided on this. There's, we might say, Pharisee
- 14:52group A that says, no way is this man from God.
- 14:57And Pharisee group B is saying, well, he did
- 15:00do this incredible thing. They're just not sure
- 15:02what to make of it. But some of these ones, group
- 15:05A, they're accusing Jesus. They're saying, you
- 15:08can't be from God. Why? Because you did this
- 15:11on the Sabbath. Don't they know the Sabbath?
- 15:16was made for man, not man for the Sabbath. And
- 15:20certainly, if it's acceptable according to Jewish
- 15:23law to save the ox from the ditch, then it is
- 15:26a good thing to give sight to the blind. It's
- 15:30not really about the miracle anymore, though,
- 15:32for the Pharisees. Look in verse 17. In verse
- 15:4317. They said again to the blind man, what do
- 15:48you say about him, since he's opened your eyes?
- 15:51And he said, he is a prophet. Friends, we're
- 15:56itching for the man to say more than that, aren't
- 15:58we? We're itching to say, yes, this is the Christ.
- 16:02But saying that he is a prophet is no small thing.
- 16:06It's remarkable. There's only so many prophets.
- 16:09The Pharisees could probably only dream of being
- 16:11called prophets here. And so it's true that what
- 16:16Jesus does is he's displaying the works of God
- 16:19in this man who along the way is starting to
- 16:23realize, I think, more and more who this Jesus
- 16:26is. But the Jews don't believe this man. And
- 16:30so what's the next step? Well, let's go to the
- 16:33man's parents. They'll know. Maybe they're even
- 16:37thinking, we'll go to the parents and the parents
- 16:39will say, no, our son was never blind. And so
- 16:42they interrogate the parents. Is this your son?
- 16:46Was he born blind? And how is it possible that
- 16:48he can see? And they say, yes, this is our son.
- 16:52Yes, he was blind. How he can see right now?
- 16:56No clue. We don't know. Why won't they admit
- 17:02it? Why won't they admit that Jesus has done
- 17:06this? Well, the text is very clear, though. They
- 17:10fear excommunication. They fear getting kicked
- 17:14out of the synagogue, right? And so what do they
- 17:18say? He is of age. Go ask him there in verse
- 17:2323. Now, we might be thinking, well, with a synagogue
- 17:26like that, who wouldn't want to be kicked out,
- 17:29right? With friends like these who needs enemies.
- 17:32Additionally, this is their son we're talking
- 17:35about. How many days, nights had they prayed?
- 17:39or just long for their son to be able to see.
- 17:42Remember what their son is doing with his time.
- 17:44He is a beggar. He's sitting by the city gate
- 17:47just hoping that somebody would give him some
- 17:50money. Surely his good parents, they want something
- 17:52better for their son. But they won't say it because
- 17:58they're afraid of man, not afraid of God. We
- 18:01must have a healthy fear of God. a respect, an
- 18:05admiration. We must be in awe of God. But no,
- 18:09they are in awe of the Pharisees. And so they
- 18:13say, just go ask our son. Friends, anybody should
- 18:18have been able to see this. This sort of thing
- 18:20of giving sight to a person born blind, that
- 18:23just doesn't happen. But the Jewish leaders are
- 18:27too blind to see it. And so they utter this awful
- 18:31statement. in verse 24. So for the second time
- 18:36they called the man who had been blind and said
- 18:38to him, give glory to God. We know that this
- 18:41man is a sinner. Is there a more blasphemous
- 18:45false statement than that? Here's a hint, there's
- 18:50not. Calling Jesus a sinner is about the worst
- 18:54thing you could possibly do. No doubt they're
- 18:56remembering this healing that happened on the
- 18:59Sabbath, right? But Jesus is the Lord of the
- 19:05Sabbath. They have so much to learn. We have
- 19:10so much to learn, too, don't we? We really do.
- 19:13Because when we sin, we forget that Jesus has
- 19:17come and He has lived perfectly for us to deliver
- 19:21us from our slavery to sin. I already referenced
- 19:24Ecclesiastes chapter 7. I'm going to go back
- 19:27there again because Ecclesiastes 7 20 says something
- 19:31important about Jesus. This is Solomon's observation.
- 19:35He says, surely there is not a righteous man
- 19:39on earth who does good and never sins. Yes, there
- 19:45is. There is now. There is with Jesus, right?
- 19:49Jesus is perfectly righteous. And when we believe
- 19:52in Jesus, we have his righteousness. It is given
- 19:56to us. It is credited to our account. The reason
- 20:01that we can have salvation is because Jesus lived
- 20:05for us perfectly. He kept the law, where Israel
- 20:11did not. When Israel failed, Jesus was successful.
- 20:15When we are not obedient, Jesus is. Jesus performs
- 20:20miracles like this, but apart from Jesus, anything
- 20:23that we do is nothing better than just a filthy
- 20:27rag, according to Scripture. But here is where
- 20:32the lesson comes in. Here is where we see that
- 20:36Jesus is teaching all along, even when Jesus
- 20:39isn't present yet in the story. We take some
- 20:42time off from Jesus here, and yet what he has
- 20:45been teaching is coming to fruition. Look at
- 20:48verse 27. I love this verse. This is the man
- 20:55speaking to the Pharisees. He answered them,
- 20:58I've told you already. And you would not listen.
- 21:01Why do you want to hear it again? Do you also
- 21:04want to become his disciples? Nothing about this
- 21:08makes it sound like they want to be Jesus's disciples.
- 21:11They have just called Jesus a sinner. And so
- 21:14I think there's some humor in there. This man
- 21:17is being bold in what he has to say, right? And
- 21:21yet he doesn't know everything about Jesus. They're
- 21:25saying that he's a sinner and the man's saying,
- 21:27I don't know if he is. But I can tell you, I
- 21:31can tell you what Jesus has done for me. And
- 21:38so what do they do with the man? They don't want
- 21:40to hear it. And so they excommunicate him. The
- 21:44very thing that his parents feared is what they
- 21:46do to this man. And yet here comes Jesus again
- 21:49with great compassion to continue teaching the
- 21:53lesson. Look in verse 35, Jesus heard that they
- 21:57had cast him out. And having found him, he said,
- 22:00do you believe in the Son of Man? The man born
- 22:07blind, as I said, so far he's starting to understand
- 22:13who Jesus is, but he doesn't fully get it. And
- 22:15so he says, yes, but where is he? Where is the
- 22:20Son of Man? And Jesus says, in effect, you're
- 22:23looking at him. You are looking at him. Friends,
- 22:28as we study the miracles of Jesus, I want us
- 22:32to do more than look at the responses of people.
- 22:35I want us to respond. And so when Jesus asked
- 22:40the question, do you believe in the Son of Man,
- 22:42I want you to ask that question of yourselves.
- 22:44Do you believe in Christ Jesus? And the answer
- 22:48must be yes. Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ
- 22:51and you shall be saved. He is the way and the
- 22:54truth and the life and the only way to the Father.
- 22:57You see, ultimately, what's on the line in this
- 22:59miracle is not just sight to see things, it's
- 23:03eternal life. The man doesn't fully know it yet,
- 23:06but he has been the object, a lesson for the
- 23:08works of God. Verse three, the works are displayed
- 23:12in this man. And so this man, while he doesn't
- 23:16know everything about Jesus, when they question
- 23:19him, he doesn't launch into a sermon. He doesn't...
- 23:24He doesn't teach a systematic theology class.
- 23:28What does this man do? He simply tells what Jesus
- 23:31has done for him. That's what I want you to do.
- 23:35Every single person in here who says that I believe
- 23:38in Jesus, you need to have your story at the
- 23:41ready. You need to have your testimony at the
- 23:44ready. You need to be able to share what Jesus
- 23:46has done for you. And then from that, launch
- 23:49into the gospel. that Jesus saves sinners who
- 23:53can't save themselves. This is the lesson for
- 23:56us, that we would all be ready to share our story.
- 24:02But I also know in a lot of ways we're weighed
- 24:05down, aren't we? We are weighed down by all kinds
- 24:09of pain and trouble and suffering. And so I want
- 24:12to give you two pieces of encouragement here.
- 24:15One, suffering is a result of sin. just not necessarily
- 24:21your sin. Suffering is a result of sin, just
- 24:25not necessarily your sin. All the trouble that
- 24:28we experience comes from living in a fallen world.
- 24:32Sickness, pain, death, these are products of
- 24:34the fall. But while that's true, that doesn't
- 24:37mean that every problem that we experience is
- 24:40because of our sin. It could be that God does
- 24:43punish for sin, and certainly there are consequences
- 24:46for our actions. If you get behind the wheel
- 24:50of a vehicle and you drive recklessly, you might
- 24:52get in a crash and that might hurt. But that
- 24:56doesn't mean that everything that we do brings
- 25:00on punishment from God. D .A. Carson said this,
- 25:04pain and suffering are not always or even usually
- 25:08the immediate consequence of a particular sin.
- 25:11That is a hideous piece of heresy. capable of
- 25:16inflicting untold mental anguish. And so friends,
- 25:20I know many of us, we've got these illnesses.
- 25:24We've got these injuries. Or think about people
- 25:27who are suffering in other parts of the world
- 25:29for the sake of the gospel. They have not brought
- 25:31this upon themselves. God is doing something
- 25:34in our suffering. Consider Romans 828, how God
- 25:39is working all things out for the good of those
- 25:42who love him and are called according to his
- 25:44purpose. The sovereignty of God necessitates
- 25:47that whatever we go through, God is in charge
- 25:50of that. And so remember, in your suffering,
- 25:53remember the compassion of Jesus. Cry out to
- 25:56him. Rest in what he did. And remember that he
- 25:59is the righteous one who suffered in your place.
- 26:02That even when you go through the valley of the
- 26:04shadow of death, But he is with you. Perhaps
- 26:09you remember Romans chapter 8, verse 18. Let
- 26:16me read this for you. For I consider that the
- 26:20sufferings of this present time are not worth
- 26:23comparing with the glory that is to be revealed
- 26:27to us. But how can we have that? We must believe
- 26:34in Jesus. In order to have our eyes dried and
- 26:38the suffering gone, our hearts must be open to
- 26:41Jesus. We must believe. Look back at our text
- 26:44at verse 38. You've seen the question, what's
- 26:48the answer from the man? He said, Lord, I believe
- 26:51and he worshipped him. This needs to be our response
- 26:57to believing in Jesus, to the grace of God saving
- 27:01us from our sins, that we would worship Jesus.
- 27:04That's really what this is all about. This is
- 27:07really what the miracles are all about, bringing
- 27:09people out of their sin to trust in Christ and
- 27:12to worship Him. And this is very plain to see,
- 27:17isn't it? Because our eyes have been opened.
- 27:20But for the Pharisees, their eyes are not. They
- 27:23have seen the plain evidence before them of Jesus
- 27:26doing something that is completely astonishing,
- 27:29that perhaps has never, ever been done, giving
- 27:32sight to a man born blind. And yet they are the
- 27:36ones who are truly blind. Friends, the worst
- 27:41blindness you can have is refusing to see. The
- 27:46worst blindness you can have is refusing to see.
- 27:49Many of them, they see the works of Jesus and
- 27:52yet their response is to call Jesus a sinner
- 27:55and excommunicate his disciples. And so Jesus,
- 27:58this whole saga ends with them overhearing Jesus
- 28:02and they ask this question, are we also blind?
- 28:10Of course they are. They can't see what's right
- 28:13there before them. They are unwilling to examine
- 28:17their hearts. Additionally, these are Jewish
- 28:20leaders They should have been looking for the
- 28:22Messiah Isaiah 42 7 that says that there is one
- 28:26coming who opens the eyes of the blind and there
- 28:29he was right before them They said this man must
- 28:33be a sinner Friends the evidence is right before
- 28:39us because we have the scriptures the very word
- 28:43of God And so we must respond with faith. We
- 28:47must respond in worship because God alone is
- 28:51worthy of our praise. But as I begin to wrap
- 28:56up, the lesson's not quite done. We have not
- 29:01thought about the disciples for several minutes
- 29:03here and their question. The way in which they
- 29:07respond, when they see the man, they don't respond
- 29:10in a very good way, do they? And so we need to
- 29:12understand how we should respond to others who
- 29:15are in suffering. And so just one point of application
- 29:19here. Friends, we must listen to the suffering
- 29:25and we must avoid assumptions. Think of the harm
- 29:30done to this man throughout his lifetime by people
- 29:32who would not stop to listen to him. They continued
- 29:36to operate under the assumption that sin by the
- 29:39man had somehow led him blindness all the times
- 29:43that this poor beggar heard people whispering
- 29:46about him or avoiding him or telling him to his
- 29:49face you're a bad person and you did this to
- 29:52yourself like like Job's friends just wearing
- 29:56him down friends we must be people who listen
- 30:00to one another in our suffering look at verse
- 30:0434 they answered the man you were born in utter
- 30:10sin And would you teach us? Isn't it funny how
- 30:15much we care about what God teaches us, but how
- 30:19little we care about what God teaches other people.
- 30:22We must be willing to listen. Oh, that we would
- 30:26learn to listen to those who are in suffering,
- 30:28that we would learn how to persevere in suffering,
- 30:31that we would be reminded of the glory that awaits
- 30:34us as Christians to be good friends. We must
- 30:39take time to listen to one another, to love one
- 30:42another through our suffering, avoid assumptions,
- 30:46and in doing so give glory to God as we love
- 30:50our neighbor as ourselves, remembering that Jesus
- 30:56suffered in our place.