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Mother's Wedding Mistake, Can You Come Back From This, Finish the Sentence, VIP Table · Absolutely KNOT Another Podcast

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SPEAKER_02: All right, welcome to another episode of Absolutely Not, another podcast, fresh off of being professional wedding guests.
0:08
SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah.
0:08
SPEAKER_02: I think we nailed it.
0:09
SPEAKER_02: Nailed it.
0:10
SPEAKER_02: Nailed the professional wedding guest.
0:12
SPEAKER_02: Out in Chicago.
0:13
SPEAKER_02: We did drive.
0:15
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that was probably the worst part is the drive.
0:17
SPEAKER_01: But the wedding itself was so much fun.
0:20
SPEAKER_02: Great time.
0:21
SPEAKER_01: And a beautiful venue.
0:22
SPEAKER_01: Like they had that speakeasy cocktail hour.
0:25
SPEAKER_01: 10 out of 10.
0:26
SPEAKER_02: Food was really good at the cocktail hour.
0:28
SPEAKER_02: Food for dinner was great.
0:30
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
0:30
SPEAKER_02: Drinks for flowing.
0:32
SPEAKER_01: They had they had uh mini bunk cakes instead of like wedding cake, which I love when people do that.
0:36
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
0:37
SPEAKER_02: And I got to know some of the guys that were in the groomsman party because I was attend I attended the bachelor party myself, not a groomsman, but became good friends.
0:50
SPEAKER_02: And then I felt like I became great friends with some of them after rekindling the bachelor party friendship to the wedding.
0:56
SPEAKER_01: You doubled down with the doubled down.
0:59
SPEAKER_02: I was dancing, I was moving and shaking, I was trying some cigars.
1:03
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
1:04
SPEAKER_02: Having a good old time.
1:05
SPEAKER_01: It was good.
1:05
SPEAKER_01: And the DJ was really good.
1:07
SPEAKER_01: Except remember the DJ's power went out?
1:09
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
1:11
SPEAKER_00: Didn't he like start singing?
1:12
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
1:13
SPEAKER_01: The DJ recovered really quickly.
1:14
SPEAKER_01: Like it probably was no fault of his own.
1:16
SPEAKER_01: It probably was like a faulty like plug or something.
1:20
SPEAKER_01: But he was like playing a good song, and then all of a sudden everything just went dead.
1:25
SPEAKER_01: And he was like, Give me a moment.
1:27
SPEAKER_01: And everyone on the dance floor just kept singing and like having a good time.
1:30
SPEAKER_01: And then he came back and we were all like, Yeah.
1:33
SPEAKER_01: I forgot that happened until right now.
1:35
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
1:35
SPEAKER_02: I do remember doing the limbo.
1:37
SPEAKER_01: Oh, yeah.
1:38
SPEAKER_01: I participated in limbo for sure.
1:40
SPEAKER_02: I did it the first round.
1:40
SPEAKER_02: I might have done the second round and then I just gave up.
1:43
SPEAKER_02: I knew I couldn't bend my back any further than the second round.
1:47
SPEAKER_01: And like, I don't mean to toot my own horn, but I'm was a dancer and I'm extremely flexible, so I know I'm gonna win limbo.
1:54
SPEAKER_01: When they bring the limbo stick out, I'm like, you don't even know.
1:56
SPEAKER_02: You don't even know who's in the room.
1:59
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, the drive the drive wasn't well.
2:01
SPEAKER_02: The drive in wasn't too bad.
2:02
SPEAKER_02: We did try to stop at Notre Dame, and then the GPS took us through a you had that scan card to get through.
2:09
SPEAKER_02: Because we were just gonna go to the bookstore.
2:11
SPEAKER_02: Our neighbor's a big Notre Dame fan.
2:12
SPEAKER_02: Steve was our only detour that we took to get to the area.
2:18
SPEAKER_02: On the way back, you took a detour the complete opposite direction heading home because you did drive on the way back.
2:24
SPEAKER_02: I drove there.
2:25
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
2:26
SPEAKER_01: And five minutes in.
2:27
SPEAKER_01: I'm I'm already derailing the trip.
2:29
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
2:29
SPEAKER_01: And we're a little hungover.
2:31
SPEAKER_01: You don't want to be going the wrong way.
2:32
SPEAKER_01: It's raining.
2:33
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you sent us towards Memphis and we needed to go east.
2:38
SPEAKER_02: You went south.
2:38
SPEAKER_01: I wanted the scenic route.
2:39
SPEAKER_01: You know, I'm not a great driver, and I really was trying to follow the directions, but the signage plus where the line was taking me.
2:48
SPEAKER_01: Wrong choice.
2:49
SPEAKER_01: And we did get to see my sister and brother-in-law, and nephew and niece, nephews and niece, which was really nice.
2:55
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, since they live out there.
2:56
SPEAKER_02: They did have a pizza, which again, people that are it's kind of like people in Pittsburgh, like Permanes is always a touristy thing, where Chicago deep dish pizza is a tourist thing.
3:08
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
3:08
SPEAKER_02: Because they like the really thin crust out in Chicago.
3:12
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, they ordered that thin crust pizza and that was delish.
3:14
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
3:15
SPEAKER_02: And it was cut up, not in it was a s it was a circle pizza, but cut up in squares.
3:23
SPEAKER_02: So good.
3:24
SPEAKER_01: But they were like, yeah, in Chicago, that's how we do it.
3:26
SPEAKER_01: It's a circle pizza, but it's cut up in squares.
3:28
SPEAKER_01: I'm like, so interesting.
3:29
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, forget the name.
3:30
SPEAKER_02: Maybe Alia's.
3:31
SPEAKER_02: It was like Nani Nana's pizza or something.
3:34
SPEAKER_01: Like, I can't remember.
3:35
SPEAKER_02: If Aliyah, you're listening, go to the comments and just put the pizza place.
3:38
SPEAKER_02: We'll just want to plug that shop.
3:40
SPEAKER_02: So if you're ever in Chicago, it was so good.
3:42
SPEAKER_02: You're going to want to try that kind of pizza.
3:43
SPEAKER_01: And the mozzarella sticks were ginormous.
3:45
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
3:46
SPEAKER_02: Thick.
3:47
SPEAKER_01: Thick and cheesy.
3:49
SPEAKER_02: But beyond that, one thing, we keep mentioning it on previous episodes, either at the beginning or at the end.
3:55
SPEAKER_02: I think by the time this airs or within the next few weeks, tickets will be going on sale for our first live wedding game show.
4:06
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, the big wedding game show.
4:08
SPEAKER_02: It's going to be a good one.
4:10
SPEAKER_02: Any details that you would like to share about it?
4:12
SPEAKER_01: So, well, we haven't signed our contract yet.
4:14
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
4:14
SPEAKER_01: So I won't share the location, but it's going to be in Pittsburgh.
4:17
SPEAKER_01: It's going to be a two-hour event.
4:19
SPEAKER_01: There's going to be good drinks, food.
4:22
SPEAKER_01: You can meet me if you're interested.
4:24
SPEAKER_01: And Garrett, I guess, too.
4:27
SPEAKER_01: Um, but it's really about the experience.
4:28
SPEAKER_01: So there's going to be like a one-hour live game show.
4:31
SPEAKER_01: You don't have to be engaged or planning a wedding to attend this.
4:33
SPEAKER_01: It's more like a fun experience.
4:35
SPEAKER_01: And we'll be, you know, having challenges where anybody that's in the audience can get called up.
4:40
SPEAKER_01: And I would say it's a game show just themed wedding.
4:44
SPEAKER_01: And the location we're looking at is very over the top in theming, which I think will add to the experience for anyone that attends.
4:51
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's a newer location to the Pittsburgh area that can host weddings.
4:55
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
4:56
SPEAKER_02: Elotements.
4:57
SPEAKER_02: That could be like a hint.
5:00
SPEAKER_01: Um, but yeah, it's very cool spot.
5:02
SPEAKER_01: We're gonna have some like interactive stations, some strolling food, drinks, probably have some merch and stuff there.
5:10
unknown: Yeah.
5:10
SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
5:11
SPEAKER_01: I'm very excited.
5:12
SPEAKER_02: Early November.
5:13
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
5:13
SPEAKER_02: Weekday.
5:14
SPEAKER_01: Well, November 10th.
5:15
SPEAKER_01: They did say that date was open.
5:16
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
5:16
SPEAKER_01: So November 10th.
5:17
SPEAKER_01: November 10th is the date unless we for some reason it changes.
5:20
SPEAKER_02: But as of now, that's the on the lookout for tickets.
5:24
SPEAKER_02: We'll be posting it.
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SPEAKER_02: Might have some other people posting about it as well.
5:28
SPEAKER_02: And come and have a fun time with us.
5:30
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
5:31
SPEAKER_01: And I feel like the hope is we host one in Pittsburgh, we see how it goes.
5:35
SPEAKER_01: And then we would travel to different areas, especially if we're traveling for weddings.
5:39
SPEAKER_01: It's like we could host a game show and then work a wedding on the weekend.
5:44
SPEAKER_01: But we're hoping this could be something where we can travel around and meet people.
5:47
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
5:48
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
5:48
SPEAKER_02: We know that Chicago is an area where people follow you.
5:53
SPEAKER_02: That might be the majority, like the most.
5:55
SPEAKER_01: We have a big following from Chicago.
5:56
SPEAKER_02: I'm not sure why.
5:58
SPEAKER_02: DC, some other places that are like closer by too.
6:00
SPEAKER_02: Like we'll come to Cleveland.
6:02
SPEAKER_02: We'll head down maybe to like the DC area.
6:05
SPEAKER_02: Pittsburgh will probably host another event.
6:07
SPEAKER_01: I'd say we'll probably do another one.
6:09
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
6:09
SPEAKER_02: So again, November 10th, our big wedding game show.
6:13
SPEAKER_02: Is that the name of it?
6:14
SPEAKER_01: I think Big Wedding Game Show is it.
6:15
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
6:16
SPEAKER_02: My big fat wedding game show.
6:19
SPEAKER_01: Maybe keep the fat part out.
6:21
SPEAKER_02: Well, that's like from my big fat Greek wedding.
6:23
SPEAKER_02: I know.
6:23
SPEAKER_02: So I know.
6:24
SPEAKER_02: All right.
6:25
SPEAKER_02: Our story today.
6:26
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
6:26
SPEAKER_01: Our story today is wedding related and it deals with a mistake that happened in the wedding planning process, just like my mistake driving home.
6:34
SPEAKER_01: So we'll see about that.
6:35
SPEAKER_01: And the episode will stay with the theming of mistakes, things that happen that you're like, oh, oh boy.
6:42
SPEAKER_01: Okay, here we go.
6:43
SPEAKER_01: Twenty four years ago, I was supposed to have a very relaxed and fun wedding at the local hall in our town.
6:48
SPEAKER_01: We had invited over 200 people on the guest list.
6:51
SPEAKER_01: I was young, 21 years old, marrying my still husband.
6:55
SPEAKER_01: I feel like this story goes to show you one thing.
6:57
SPEAKER_01: It's at the end of the day, you are marrying the love of your life, and nothing else really matters.
7:01
SPEAKER_01: And after hearing this story, you might believe that.
7:04
SPEAKER_01: Twenty-four years later, we're happily married, three kids, and a lifetime adventures under our belt, but our wedding day was a crazy one for sure.
7:12
SPEAKER_01: As I mentioned earlier, I was young and so was my husband.
7:14
SPEAKER_01: And I had a very eager and excited mother who wanted to plan it all.
7:18
SPEAKER_01: This woman could not be more excited for her baby girl who found her soulmate.
7:22
SPEAKER_01: I knew nothing about planning a wedding, so I was merely along for the ride.
7:25
SPEAKER_01: Excited for all of the pretty and fun things that would be coming up quickly in my life.
7:30
SPEAKER_01: My baby.
7:31
SPEAKER_01: I love that though, like a mom and daughter where they're just like so excited for it is an exciting time, especially if you have a close relationship with a mom that's like supportive, because I remember it being like a very positive experience with your mom and my mom.
7:44
SPEAKER_01: Um, but some people don't get that.
7:46
SPEAKER_01: This mom is is good, but made a big mistake.
7:49
SPEAKER_01: Uh-oh.
7:50
SPEAKER_01: My mom went ahead and booked the hall for May 11th, 2002.
7:53
SPEAKER_01: We got engaged in June of 2001, so we had about a year of planning.
7:57
SPEAKER_01: My mom was guiding me in all of the things that I needed to be doing.
8:01
SPEAKER_01: We went and we bought the dress, we booked the cater, and we started making our own centerpieces.
8:05
SPEAKER_01: It seemed so easy and stress-free.
8:07
SPEAKER_01: It was like out of a movie, everything falling into place without a worry in the world.
8:11
SPEAKER_01: I was just giddy and happy to be getting married.
8:13
SPEAKER_01: We had absolutely no idea that shit was about to hit the fan.
8:16
SPEAKER_01: Now, to put into perspective the hall that we're getting married at, think an old fire hall.
8:21
SPEAKER_01: You rent it through the city, I think, and that's it.
8:24
SPEAKER_01: There are some existing tables and chairs there, but the rest of everything is up to you and your entourage to organize, decorate, and plan.
8:31
SPEAKER_01: There was no meeting with the hall staff to plan a timeline or a floor plan.
8:36
SPEAKER_01: I think we showed up and the space would be unlocked and we had it from 10 a.m.
8:39
SPEAKER_01: to 10 p.m.
8:40
SPEAKER_01: I was not the one directly communicating with the hall team, but that's what it seemed like from my perspective.
8:46
SPEAKER_01: My mom said she chatted with the woman who ran the hall a couple of times, and everything was very light.
8:52
SPEAKER_01: Can't wait for Emily's wedding.
8:53
SPEAKER_01: Do you guys have extension cords on site?
8:56
SPEAKER_01: How many chairs are on site?
8:57
SPEAKER_01: That sort of thing.
8:58
SPEAKER_01: My mom also attended a few events there throughout the year that we were planning.
9:02
SPEAKER_01: They had a little fall vendor market, and there was a bingo fundraiser that she went to.
9:06
SPEAKER_01: So she knew the vision that she had for my wedding, and everything seemed very doable.
9:10
SPEAKER_01: We had asked several of my cousins and aunts to meet us there the morning of the wedding to help decorate and get everything in place.
9:17
SPEAKER_02: So far, so good.
9:18
SPEAKER_01: So far so good.
9:19
SPEAKER_01: The night before the wedding, we rehearsed at my childhood home and headed to a local restaurant with some family for dinner, and then we called it a night very early.
9:26
SPEAKER_01: I was up bright and early the next day, ready to decorate, and say I do.
9:30
SPEAKER_01: Excited was an understatement.
9:32
SPEAKER_01: Here's where our story takes a chaotic turn.
9:35
SPEAKER_01: We were running a little bit behind loading boxes and stuff into the car when my mom gets a call from one of my aunts asking if she is in the right place.
9:44
SPEAKER_01: My mom says, yes, that is the hall.
9:46
SPEAKER_01: That's the place.
9:48
SPEAKER_01: And my aunt tells my mom that there must be a mistake because there's several other cars there in the parking lot that are unloading a bunch of stuff.
9:56
SPEAKER_01: My mom was very confused and told her to just hang on and that we would be there in about eight minutes.
10:01
SPEAKER_01: We literally lived down the road.
10:03
SPEAKER_01: We sped there as fast as we could and we pulled into exactly what my aunt had described as a very busy parking lot.
10:10
SPEAKER_01: Half of the cars there were people we didn't know.
10:12
SPEAKER_01: The other half were my aunts and cousins that were there to help us decorate.
10:15
SPEAKER_01: The other group of people were loading in a ton of stuff.
10:18
SPEAKER_01: Pictures of an old man and a bunch of old antique-looking items.
10:22
SPEAKER_01: We walked up to one of the women who were carrying items in and asked what they were doing.
10:27
SPEAKER_01: And they said they were setting up for Uncle Earl's celebration of life and family auction.
10:32
SPEAKER_01: My mom was quick to tell them that they had it wrong.
10:35
SPEAKER_01: She had booked the hall for my wedding that day.
10:38
SPEAKER_01: And the lady was like, Are you sure?
10:41
SPEAKER_01: Here's our contract.
10:43
SPEAKER_01: And there it was, right in right in the writing in front of all of us.
10:46
SPEAKER_01: We saw it.
10:46
SPEAKER_01: Uncle Earl's celebration of life for May 11th, 2002.
10:50
SPEAKER_01: My mom was livid.
10:52
SPEAKER_01: My mom is normally a super kind person, but when upset, she can snap and snap she did.
10:57
SPEAKER_01: She first started yelling at that lady and then turned her anger to the venue hall.
11:02
SPEAKER_01: How could they do this?
11:03
SPEAKER_01: How could they double book the venue on my daughter's wedding day?
11:06
SPEAKER_01: She started calling every number in her phone, and finally someone picked up.
11:10
SPEAKER_01: Before that person could even get a word out, my mom went off on them, talking about how unprofessional this is and how they better come and make it right.
11:18
SPEAKER_01: I am not sure what the lady asked my mom to do next, but she responded with, Oh my God, I have made a terrible mistake.
11:25
SPEAKER_01: Turns out my mom did not book the hall.
11:28
SPEAKER_01: Oh, turns out my mom did book the hall, but she booked it for June 11th, 2002.
11:33
SPEAKER_01: She drove straight home, frantically digging around the house, and pulled out the piece of paper, which indeed said Emily and Drew's wedding, June 11th, 2002.
11:41
SPEAKER_01: Right number, wrong month.
11:43
SPEAKER_01: Meanwhile, we have a funeral that's been paused setting up because my mom screamed and freaked out on them.
11:49
SPEAKER_01: And we have 12 members, family members standing in the parking lot waiting for directions.
11:53
SPEAKER_01: My mom had to drive back to the venue with her tail between her legs and apologize to the family members setting up for the funeral party.
12:00
SPEAKER_01: My mom's next ask was, what time would they be done?
12:03
SPEAKER_01: Maybe there was a chance that when they wrapped up, we could set up quickly and do the wedding after, in which the lady said, Oh, this is an all-day affair.
12:11
SPEAKER_01: Haven't you ever attended a family auction before?
12:13
SPEAKER_01: She then explained that they have a big luncheon and then they all bid on their dead family members' items to gather funds to pay off any outstanding debts that person has.
12:22
SPEAKER_01: Open bar, it was a whole thing.
12:24
SPEAKER_01: So that was that the hall was no longer an option.
12:27
SPEAKER_01: Time for plan B.
12:28
SPEAKER_01: We were supposed to be getting married five hours later.
12:31
SPEAKER_01: Also, I'm interested in the family auction.
12:33
SPEAKER_02: I've never been at one of those before.
12:35
SPEAKER_01: I'm like, does anyone do people really do that?
12:37
SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
12:37
SPEAKER_02: I've never even heard of that until right now.
12:39
SPEAKER_02: Like I've heard of estate sales at someone like at someone's house after they pass, but not at the celebration of life at right after you'd have an auctioneer and get rid of everything.
12:49
SPEAKER_01: That actually would be fun.
12:50
SPEAKER_01: You know how people do like Christmas family auctions and they'll like bid on things.
12:55
SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
12:55
SPEAKER_01: That's a brilliant idea.
12:57
SPEAKER_01: Uncle Earl, I hope I hope it was a great day for you.
13:00
SPEAKER_01: This is where I stopped caring about where I was gonna get married and got more nervous about how we were going to contact everyone.
13:07
SPEAKER_01: We had 175 people coming in and no place to put them.
13:11
SPEAKER_01: We started calling around, most places booked by weddings or graduation parties, and we landed on a local park that had one pavilion open.
13:18
SPEAKER_01: So a park wedding it was, I guess.
13:20
SPEAKER_01: No problem.
13:21
SPEAKER_01: Now we had to communicate with all 175 guests, which was quite the task in 2002.
13:26
SPEAKER_01: Remember, cell phones were not really prevalent.
13:29
SPEAKER_01: My whole wedding morning was spent calling people, trying to relay directions, parking instructions, and everything else.
13:36
SPEAKER_01: We even had to contact the vendors to make sure that they were good with the change.
13:39
SPEAKER_01: My makeup looked terrible because every 20 minutes I just kept crying it off because I was stressed out.
13:44
SPEAKER_01: And yes, I forgot to mention that on May 11, 2002, it was an 85 degree sunny day, no breeze in sight, and no air conditioning in the outside park pavilion.
13:54
SPEAKER_01: Terrible.
13:55
SPEAKER_01: Finally, the wedding rolled around, and we had to do a standing ceremony because the park didn't have chairs or staff on site that we could utilize.
14:03
SPEAKER_01: We were missing about 50 people who had not got the update or the changes and showed up at Uncle Earl's funeral party.
14:10
SPEAKER_01: They happily gave directions to the park, but they were too late to see the ceremony.
14:14
SPEAKER_01: The food made it too, but it was sitting out in the hot sun with flies all over it.
14:18
SPEAKER_01: Again, we were not prepared to be getting married outside, and my poor mother was sulking all day because her dream vision for my wedding had fallen into shambles.
14:26
SPEAKER_01: But 22 years later, the biggest thing I remember is being happy the moment that I walked down the aisle to get married, and having a bunch of people lifting my spirits and celebrating Drew and I.
14:36
SPEAKER_01: Of course, it was not ideal to be scrambling around the morning of the wedding, but my mom and family made it work with the cards that we were dealt.
14:42
SPEAKER_01: And at the end of the day, I married my best friend.
14:44
SPEAKER_01: We never let my mom sign another contract without an extra set of eyes, and I don't think she will ever live that mistake down.
14:50
SPEAKER_01: But it's a reminder to anyone who's planning their wedding, double check that date before signing that contract.
14:55
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
14:56
SPEAKER_01: I can't imagine that.
14:59
SPEAKER_01: Like you have sent out your invites, you have all these people, and then wrong date.
15:05
SPEAKER_02: Wrong date.
15:06
SPEAKER_02: New place to the scrambling to let everyone know.
15:10
SPEAKER_01: And you'd be desperate.
15:11
SPEAKER_01: Like you really wouldn't care.
15:12
SPEAKER_01: You're just looking for a place that could have something.
15:14
SPEAKER_02: Have something.
15:16
SPEAKER_02: Oh yeah.
15:17
SPEAKER_01: That would stress me out.
15:18
SPEAKER_01: Like as a planner, like thinking about that, the logistics of that.
15:23
SPEAKER_01: Not great.
15:24
SPEAKER_01: It does seem that it wasn't like a fancy wedding because it was going to be at a fire hall.
15:28
SPEAKER_02: Right.
15:28
SPEAKER_02: So it's but still to go from like inside to outside to outside.
15:34
SPEAKER_02: Being as hot as it was.
15:36
SPEAKER_01: Not ideal.
15:37
SPEAKER_01: I I've had a guest show up on the wrong day before.
15:40
SPEAKER_01: Actually, I've had it happen twice.
15:41
SPEAKER_02: Like wedding crash, but a different wedding.
15:43
SPEAKER_01: Like not realizing until Yeah, like I I've had people show up and then I'm like, oh, are you here for this wedding?
15:49
SPEAKER_01: And this is like when I worked at the History Center.
15:51
SPEAKER_01: And they'd be like, No, I'm not.
15:53
SPEAKER_01: I'm here for this wedding.
15:54
SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, Yeah, they're getting married next week.
15:57
SPEAKER_01: And I had it happen once for a conference, and the person came a month early.
16:01
SPEAKER_02: And they flew in and everything.
16:03
SPEAKER_01: And I'm thinking in my head, like, how did you get this far that you flew in, you showed up, and then the guy was like, I guess I'll see you guys next month.
16:11
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
16:12
SPEAKER_02: And not being able to contact anyone, or if it's a conference, like the you know, don't you get a pre-email?
16:17
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
16:18
SPEAKER_02: Gives you all the event details, where to stay.
16:20
SPEAKER_02: There's probably a room block somewhere for them, too.
16:22
SPEAKER_01: I thought maybe for that person that maybe they had an assistant and just saying, like, here's your hotel booking in 8K.
16:29
SPEAKER_01: But I remember being like, Yeah, you're a month early, man.
16:31
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
16:32
SPEAKER_01: You gotta come back next month.
16:34
SPEAKER_02: Yikes.
16:36
SPEAKER_02: I'm glad that they still lived happily ever after.
16:39
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
16:39
SPEAKER_01: I mean, it is at the end of the day, you are just getting married.
16:43
SPEAKER_01: For a lot of people, you put a lot of time and money into it, so it becomes more than that.
16:46
SPEAKER_01: But they said I do.
16:50
SPEAKER_01: That's the main thing.
16:51
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16:57
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17:32
SPEAKER_02: Our next segment is can you come back from this?
17:36
SPEAKER_02: I will read situations and we can debate if you can recover from these.
17:42
SPEAKER_02: Okay, I'm ready.
17:43
SPEAKER_02: First one, forgot your spouse's birthday.
17:49
SPEAKER_01: I don't think so.
17:50
SPEAKER_01: How do you forget your spouse's birthday?
17:52
SPEAKER_02: Like I sometimes don't I don't know like all my friends' birthdays.
17:56
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
17:56
SPEAKER_02: I know when like what month.
18:00
SPEAKER_02: But up until unless I'm like super close with them, I really don't know when their birthday is until it hits on my Facebook, like so-and-so's birthday.
18:09
SPEAKER_02: Wish them a happy birthday.
18:10
SPEAKER_01: I see people post, like I've seen more particularly women, women posting about their husbands being like, I'm not gonna say anything about my birthday.
18:19
SPEAKER_01: And they like videotape them going throughout their day, and their husband doesn't say one thing, doesn't do anything nice.
18:24
SPEAKER_01: We're not, I mean, I like to celebrate birthdays.
18:27
SPEAKER_01: I'm not like a big birthday like party thrower this year.
18:32
SPEAKER_01: I want to, because it's like 35 for me.
18:35
SPEAKER_01: But I don't know.
18:36
SPEAKER_01: If you literally just forgot my birthday, I'd be like, Yeah, loser that's loser behavior.
18:41
SPEAKER_01: If you don't know your spouse's birthday, you've got to know when the birthday is.
18:44
SPEAKER_01: You know what their birthday is.
18:45
SPEAKER_01: You're just being like lazy, I think.
18:47
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's one of like the few dates that you have to remember.
18:51
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
18:52
SPEAKER_01: Anniversary, birthday, your kids' birthdays.
18:55
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
18:56
SPEAKER_02: I don't know, Christmas.
18:58
SPEAKER_02: Well, you always know the holidays, I feel like.
19:01
SPEAKER_02: All right, book tickets for the wrong date.
19:04
SPEAKER_02: I did this.
19:06
SPEAKER_02: I did this.
19:07
SPEAKER_03: I did that.
19:08
SPEAKER_02: We went to go see a comedy show and we had the sitter lined up, everything was good to go.
19:16
SPEAKER_02: And then about two hours before we were supposed to go to the show, or maybe it was I don't know how long in advance.
19:23
SPEAKER_02: It was the day I think it was the day up.
19:27
SPEAKER_01: It was like Thursday.
19:28
SPEAKER_01: You found out that you bought tickets for Friday, but we had the sitter and everybody lined up for Saturday.
19:34
SPEAKER_01: So you were like, oh shoot.
19:35
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I bought we gotta have the tickets again.
19:38
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, the because I only I bought them for the Friday show, did not buy them for the Saturday show.
19:42
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
19:43
SPEAKER_02: So then I had to buy the Saturday show.
19:45
SPEAKER_02: Thankfully, they weren't like super expensive tickets.
19:48
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
19:48
SPEAKER_02: Because I remember when I did purchase the one for Friday, they were super cheap.
19:52
SPEAKER_02: Like I want to say they were$30 total.
19:54
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
19:55
SPEAKER_02: But then they were more expensive for the Saturday show.
19:59
SPEAKER_01: I do remember that.
20:00
SPEAKER_01: So I guess the answer to this is yes, you can recover.
20:02
SPEAKER_01: You can recover.
20:03
SPEAKER_01: As long as it's not like a huge expense.
20:05
SPEAKER_01: I even think about like plane tickets.
20:07
SPEAKER_01: You hear about people that like buy their plane tickets for the wrong month, they show up at the airport.
20:11
SPEAKER_01: There is a chance that you can't recover from that.
20:13
SPEAKER_01: Because like, what if the flight's sold out?
20:15
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
20:15
SPEAKER_02: There was I ran into this issue a few months back in the spring.
20:20
SPEAKER_02: I did an event in Dallas, like the Frisco area, and I booked a rental car at an enterprise, and I booked it on like the Southwest app.
20:35
SPEAKER_02: But I whenever I did that, I didn't realize like I was flying into whatever, there's like the Fort Worth airport and then the Dallas Lovefield airport.
20:44
SPEAKER_02: Flew into Dallas Love Field, but I booked the rental car through the Southwest app at the Fort Worth location.
20:51
SPEAKER_02: So I whoops.
20:53
SPEAKER_02: So I had to get an Uber, drive to that place, and thank goodness I had a reservation because people were complaining that and I got the vehicle that I got.
21:02
SPEAKER_02: Because if I would have got a regular car, they would have given it to somebody.
21:06
SPEAKER_02: I had to get a van.
21:07
SPEAKER_02: So you can recover, but not great.
21:12
SPEAKER_02: Got caught talking about someone who was standing behind you.
21:18
SPEAKER_02: It depends on how well you can um maneuver the conversation.
21:24
SPEAKER_01: I feel like most people are pretty aware.
21:26
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
21:27
SPEAKER_01: If you are talking about somebody and it's very clear you're talking about them, you're not gonna be able to recover in that.
21:32
SPEAKER_01: You're gonna probably have to apologize.
21:34
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
21:35
SPEAKER_01: One, you shouldn't be doing that.
21:36
SPEAKER_01: We're all guilty.
21:37
SPEAKER_01: You sometimes talk about people, but like that's not great.
21:42
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
21:42
SPEAKER_02: I remember doing it one time to somebody that I knew didn't like someone I'm friends with.
21:47
SPEAKER_02: I they weren't standing behind me, but their like spouse was.
21:51
SPEAKER_02: I wasn't saying anything bad, but like, oh he got back to them.
21:57
SPEAKER_02: They probably did.
21:58
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
21:59
SPEAKER_01: I think if I walk Into a conversation and someone was talking about me, I'd be like, Hey, are you talking about me?
22:04
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
22:04
SPEAKER_01: And see like how they respond.
22:06
SPEAKER_02: I'm right here.
22:08
SPEAKER_02: Ruined a surprise proposal.
22:11
SPEAKER_01: You can't make it.
22:12
SPEAKER_01: You cannot come back from that.
22:14
SPEAKER_02: No.
22:15
SPEAKER_01: Like, remember, I mean, we've talked about it on here, but when we know our friends are going to propose, I have a hard time hanging out with them ahead of it, especially close to it, because it's a topic on the top of my mind.
22:28
SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, what if I say something?
22:30
SPEAKER_01: I don't want to be the one that like does something or says something that tips them off.
22:34
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
22:35
SPEAKER_02: Like I was trying to maneuver around it for our one friend.
22:39
SPEAKER_02: And he was proposing like the following Saturday morning at a um at the aviary.
22:47
SPEAKER_02: And I'm saying I thought that she knew that they were going.
22:50
SPEAKER_02: I don't think she knew they were going.
22:51
SPEAKER_02: And Dad, like once you guys leave the aviary, we'll get together and do something next week.
22:56
SPEAKER_02: Like she was, but I was saying that I was busy.
23:00
SPEAKER_01: She also shared that it's because multiple people made comments about the aviary.
23:04
SPEAKER_01: About the aviary.
23:05
SPEAKER_01: And it's like, we're not telling everybody what we're doing that it's a topic of conversation.
23:09
SPEAKER_01: Like everybody knew because it was important.
23:11
SPEAKER_02: But like it is.
23:15
SPEAKER_02: But it was and it wasn't because of just me.
23:17
SPEAKER_01: But it kind of got blamed on you a little bit.
23:20
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
23:20
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
23:21
SPEAKER_02: Well, certain people trying to blame it just on me.
23:23
SPEAKER_02: It's like, wait, see?
23:24
SPEAKER_02: I wasn't the only one.
23:25
SPEAKER_01: But I do not think you can recover from it.
23:27
SPEAKER_02: You're telling me that his mom wasn't like acting a little suspicious either.
23:32
SPEAKER_02: She was probably acting suspect.
23:33
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
23:34
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
23:35
SPEAKER_02: Forgot to pick your kid up from school.
23:38
SPEAKER_01: Oh.
23:39
SPEAKER_01: I was the last car once and I felt terrible.
23:42
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
23:42
SPEAKER_02: But you weren't like you probably had a reason for being.
23:45
SPEAKER_01: I had a reason.
23:46
SPEAKER_01: Like I left work and then I just hit every stoplight.
23:48
SPEAKER_01: It was just like I was six minutes late.
23:51
SPEAKER_01: But like at where they go to school, that's late.
23:53
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
23:54
SPEAKER_01: Technically, five after five minutes, you're late.
23:56
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, especially when you're a kid.
23:57
SPEAKER_02: I do remember whenever I was in preschool.
24:00
SPEAKER_02: It was close, it was the bottom of the hill where I my house was at in the little town I'm I grew up in.
24:05
SPEAKER_02: And my mom was super late picking me up.
24:08
SPEAKER_02: And I just remember my teacher was Miss Patty.
24:13
SPEAKER_02: Shout out Miss Patty, probably one of our most frequent listeners.
24:17
SPEAKER_02: She, it's still like a vivid memory.
24:19
SPEAKER_02: Meanwhile, I'm four years old probably.
24:22
SPEAKER_02: But she's trying to like make it the situation good.
24:26
SPEAKER_02: Like she's obviously not going to leave me there by myself.
24:29
SPEAKER_02: But once my mom showed up, she's like, that's high.
24:33
SPEAKER_02: And surprise her when she comes around like to the front door.
24:37
SPEAKER_02: Like I remember that moment in particular.
24:39
SPEAKER_02: So I got left one time and I still remember it.
24:43
SPEAKER_01: You can recover though.
24:44
SPEAKER_01: Like I do feel usually there's a reason.
24:46
SPEAKER_01: Sometimes you're just probably people are busy in life, and it's like one spouse thinks the other spouse is picking them up.
24:52
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
24:53
SPEAKER_02: Like I've run into issues going to pick them up, and I know other people were in it, but I was driving the same direction we would always we always go to get them or take them.
25:02
SPEAKER_02: And there was a one there was construction going on on the road.
25:06
SPEAKER_01: Or the street sweeper.
25:07
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
25:08
SPEAKER_02: And I had to turn around because I was like, I'm gonna be super late.
25:11
SPEAKER_02: Like I'm I I'm still three more like slow and stops to pass the construction.
25:18
SPEAKER_02: So I had to turn around and I probably was one of the last ones, but maybe I wasn't.
25:22
SPEAKER_02: But I just yeah, you feel guilty more so.
25:26
SPEAKER_02: You broke your mother-in-law's favorite serving dish and blamed the dishwasher.
25:32
SPEAKER_01: I feel like that's recoverable.
25:35
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it's it's a tangible item, which I think if it's a family heirloom, that would be kind of a touchy subject.
25:41
SPEAKER_01: But at the end of the day, it's a dish.
25:43
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it might get brought brought in up in multiple sequences later.
25:48
SPEAKER_02: But anytime you have a holiday get together, it's gonna be like where's the dish?
25:51
SPEAKER_01: Oh, guess he broke it.
25:54
SPEAKER_01: Like, I think you could definitely like replace it, and it might be an expensive replace pending what you broke, but it's just a tangible item, yeah.
26:02
SPEAKER_02: You can move on from that.
26:04
SPEAKER_02: You accidentally uh threw away your spouse's sentimental t-shirt.
26:09
SPEAKER_01: Oh, this like brings me back to the kids' stuffies, like if that would get like taken away again.
26:14
SPEAKER_01: Um sentimental t-shirt, but it is one of those items that is like a stuffy or a lovey that some people it's more of like an emotional attachment, maybe something from like a loved one that's passed on.
26:29
SPEAKER_01: You can move past it, but it that person has a right to be like pretty upset, I think.
26:34
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, the first couple days after it's like, oh I don't have an item like that.
26:39
SPEAKER_02: I don't think I have a favorite t-shirt, like or like a t-shirt that's just hangs in my closet that never gets worn, but it has a purposeful meaning.
26:49
SPEAKER_02: Usually I go through my shirts ever I used to do it as someone show me a trick of the trade, is at the turn of the year, you put all of your hangers facing one direction, and then at the in six months, it the if it's like winter time, obviously, but like you might not wear a summer shirt.
27:09
SPEAKER_02: But after six months, if there's any shirts that are still facing the one direction, like once you wear it, you can flip the hanger and then it faces the other direction, but then you can get rid of your clothes.
27:20
SPEAKER_01: Is that why you get rid of so many clothes?
27:22
SPEAKER_02: Uh I used used to do that way.
27:24
SPEAKER_02: I should probably do that again because I can probably get rid of more.
27:26
SPEAKER_01: We can't move anything in our closet, it's packed tight.
27:29
SPEAKER_02: Very bad, yeah.
27:30
SPEAKER_02: You forgot to send your friend's wedding gift three years ago and they never noticed.
27:36
SPEAKER_02: They never noticed.
27:37
SPEAKER_01: They never noticed.
27:37
SPEAKER_01: It is what it is at that point.
27:40
SPEAKER_01: Move on.
27:40
unknown: Yeah.
27:41
SPEAKER_01: I don't need your hundred dollar check.
27:43
SPEAKER_02: No.
27:43
SPEAKER_02: They might think of it if like you're not married yet.
27:47
SPEAKER_02: Like they didn't send us anything anything.
27:49
SPEAKER_02: But I feel like I forget what anyone ever gave us for our wedding channel.
27:53
SPEAKER_01: I have it written down because my mom wrote down.
27:56
SPEAKER_01: Like, I don't know.
27:56
SPEAKER_01: Some families do that.
27:57
SPEAKER_01: They'll write down like how much you gave them so that you can like return the favor.
28:01
SPEAKER_02: Right.
28:01
SPEAKER_01: To me, I'm like, I don't care.
28:03
SPEAKER_01: We s we give the same thing at every wedding, I feel like.
28:05
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
28:06
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
28:06
SPEAKER_01: So I'm like, uh, whatever.
28:09
SPEAKER_02: You accidentally learned the gender of your friend's baby before the reveal and shared it online.
28:15
SPEAKER_01: Oh bad.
28:16
SPEAKER_02: Un not recoverable.
28:18
SPEAKER_01: Not recoverable.
28:19
SPEAKER_01: I almost did that with our friend's child.
28:21
SPEAKER_01: Well, I did do that.
28:22
SPEAKER_01: I didn't know that she hadn't shared the name of what she was naming her baby.
28:26
SPEAKER_01: Like, we all knew it was a girl.
28:27
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
28:28
SPEAKER_01: I went to the baby shower, I took a picture with her, and I said something like Looking forward to meeting baby.
28:34
SPEAKER_01: To meet baby Poppy.
28:35
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
28:36
SPEAKER_01: Because Poppy is her name.
28:37
SPEAKER_01: Well, that's her nickname, I think.
28:39
SPEAKER_01: She like texted me later.
28:41
SPEAKER_01: It had been up for a while.
28:42
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
28:42
SPEAKER_01: She was like, Hey, can you make sure to like remove the name?
28:45
SPEAKER_01: And I was like, Oh shoot.
28:46
SPEAKER_01: Like, have you not been telling people?
28:47
SPEAKER_01: Like, we were chatting as if it was out and about.
28:51
SPEAKER_01: And I feel like I just thought when we had our kids, we had once we picked the name, we're like, oh yeah, this is gonna be the name.
28:56
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
28:56
SPEAKER_01: I felt really bad.
28:57
SPEAKER_01: I mean, not that a lot of people are going on my personal Instagram to like, what's her baby's name gonna be?
29:02
SPEAKER_01: But I was guilty.
29:04
SPEAKER_01: Still though, yeah.
29:04
SPEAKER_01: That was recoverable, but a gender, I think, especially if it's like a first baby, yeah, and they're hosting like a gender reveal party or they're gonna do like, you know, people do videos and all kinds of stuff.
29:14
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
29:14
SPEAKER_02: So we did it the opposite for ours.
29:16
SPEAKER_02: We did it as we knew the gender and we revealed the gender for our for Tyson, our firstborn.
29:23
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
29:23
SPEAKER_02: And we did a little game show to reveal game shows to our born.
29:27
SPEAKER_02: To reveal who or what gender they were.
29:30
SPEAKER_01: That was actually so funny.
29:31
SPEAKER_01: A member of friends had like adult diapers on that.
29:34
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
29:35
SPEAKER_02: So that I feel like that's like I we didn't even do like a gender reveal for Benny.
29:41
SPEAKER_02: We just found out and we did it with Tyson.
29:44
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, we came home and we we opened it together with Tyson and shared with him, which like he was two, so he probably didn't like.
29:50
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, he had no clue that what he was about to have.
29:55
SPEAKER_02: His little sissy, his little sissy baby.
29:58
SPEAKER_02: You ate the leftovers your spouse specifically told you not to eat.
30:02
SPEAKER_02: Like, I'm a culprit of this sometimes.
30:04
SPEAKER_02: I'm like, it's been sitting in there for two days.
30:06
SPEAKER_01: It's recoverable, but like again, I'm gonna be mad about it.
30:10
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
30:11
SPEAKER_01: Especially when it's like you go to a restaurant, you're like, oh, I can't wait to eat this tomorrow, or like I can't wait to eat this, and then the spouse eats it.
30:18
SPEAKER_01: Like my dad used to do that.
30:19
SPEAKER_01: He would just like eat what was over in the fridge, and I'd be like, Dad, I was gonna ask.
30:24
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I wanted that for dinner today.
30:25
SPEAKER_02: Why'd you eat it for lunch?
30:27
SPEAKER_02: I uh like I said, I have it as a rule.
30:29
SPEAKER_02: If I see you have food in there and it's I give you the whole next day, and I'll even go through like lunch the the next one.
30:38
SPEAKER_02: But if I'm hungry for it, I'm like, oh, it's still in there.
30:41
SPEAKER_02: Maybe she's not gonna eat it.
30:43
SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna have that.
30:44
SPEAKER_01: A lot of times too, you'll ask, and I'm like, you know what?
30:46
SPEAKER_01: I'm actually probably not gonna eat that, and I'll just give it to you.
30:49
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
30:49
SPEAKER_01: I'm I do like leftovers, but after a day, yeah, I'm usually like sometimes too.
30:55
SPEAKER_02: If we make a dinner that has leftovers to have, like we make a tuna noodle casserole.
31:00
SPEAKER_02: I always make sure I leave enough for you to have if you wanted it.
31:03
SPEAKER_02: But if again, it's sitting there the next day for lunch, it's gonna be mine.
31:07
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, fair.
31:08
SPEAKER_01: That's fair.
31:09
SPEAKER_02: This is the last one.
31:11
SPEAKER_02: You accidentally deleted your partner's recording of the championship game or like your show or something.
31:19
SPEAKER_01: Back in the day when it was like D VR only was how you could see things.
31:23
SPEAKER_01: Pissed.
31:23
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
31:24
SPEAKER_01: But recoverable because eventually you'd probably be able to see it somewhere.
31:27
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
31:28
SPEAKER_01: Nowadays, with you have access to everything at all times, you could buy it to watch it, probably.
31:33
SPEAKER_02: I'd say fine.
31:34
SPEAKER_02: Most likely be able to find it somehow.
31:36
SPEAKER_02: Or even the highlights.
31:38
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
31:39
SPEAKER_02: Like I remember this isn't anything to deal with getting something deleted permanently on like a championship game or something on a VHS.
31:48
SPEAKER_02: Like I remember like my mom, I'm sure your parents did too.
31:51
SPEAKER_02: Like back when we were kids, babies.
31:53
SPEAKER_02: There's my mom has VHS VHS tapes of us as kids.
31:59
SPEAKER_02: I remember as a kid, I would want to watch myself as a kid.
32:02
SPEAKER_02: Just like our kids.
32:03
SPEAKER_01: Kids like to look at videos and pictures of them.
32:05
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but like it's hard to, you know, whenever you end up like recording something else over VHS type, that used to be a thing.
32:13
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
32:14
SPEAKER_02: But I had an iPod back in high school leading into college, it had everything.
32:21
SPEAKER_02: It was whenever I didn't have like I wasn't purchasing music, I was don't come after me now.
32:27
SPEAKER_02: Lime wire.
32:28
SPEAKER_02: And it was on my iPod, but then I got a new laptop.
32:33
SPEAKER_02: So anytime I would log in to my my iPod to my laptop, I didn't have LimeWire anymore.
32:39
SPEAKER_02: And somebody was I was having a couple friends over and playing music, having a good time, and they clicked the recover button and deleted all of my songs.
32:51
SPEAKER_02: And I didn't have the computer that had the LimeWire songs anymore.
32:54
SPEAKER_02: So I lost thousands of songs.
32:56
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that's not recoverable.
32:57
SPEAKER_01: Also the music taping over a family memory or like a family tape not recoverable.
33:03
SPEAKER_01: You can't get it back.
33:04
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
33:05
SPEAKER_02: Okay, segment number two.
33:07
SPEAKER_02: We're I'm gonna give a situation, and we have to come up with the worst possible thing that could happen next.
33:14
SPEAKER_02: So finish the sentence style.
33:16
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
33:17
SPEAKER_02: You're sitting in the tattoo chair, and the artist says, oops, dot dot dot.
33:22
SPEAKER_01: Did you spell it with this letter or this letter?
33:26
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
33:26
SPEAKER_01: Spelling it wrong, I would say.
33:28
SPEAKER_01: I feel like that would be terrible with the tattoo.
33:31
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
33:31
SPEAKER_01: I don't have anything with oh wait, mine's words on my foot.
33:34
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you got words.
33:35
SPEAKER_01: But like I feel embarrassed for the people that get a tattoo and it's spelled wrong.
33:40
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
33:41
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
33:41
SPEAKER_02: Oops.
33:43
SPEAKER_02: You wanted it the other arm.
33:46
SPEAKER_02: How'd you not even say anything?
33:48
SPEAKER_02: The pilot comes over the intercom and says.
33:53
SPEAKER_02: We've lost the engines.
33:56
unknown: I don't know.
33:57
SPEAKER_01: Anything that was like, we have to make an emergency landing or we're not gonna make it.
34:01
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, we're circling around because there's a heavy storm over top of the airport that we're laying into.
34:07
SPEAKER_02: Like, that's my I I understand.
34:11
SPEAKER_02: Don't put me through the storm, but I'm not a good heights person.
34:15
SPEAKER_02: And there's times I get fearful of being in the air in general.
34:19
SPEAKER_02: Like I just think of what is directly beneath us.
34:21
SPEAKER_02: It's just nothing until the ground to continuously stay up there because there's a storm, and like eventually you're gonna have to land, you're gonna run out of gas.
34:31
SPEAKER_01: It happened to the when we went down for Disney for the wedding, the photographer was messaging me and was like, Yeah, we're on our flight.
34:38
SPEAKER_01: We were coming into Orlando, they looped us back to Fort Lauderdale.
34:42
SPEAKER_01: We have to land there, and then we have to wait to take off to come back in.
34:45
SPEAKER_02: That's yeah.
34:46
SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, that would stress me out.
34:47
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I don't like that kind of stuff at all.
34:49
SPEAKER_02: Anything the pilot says.
34:52
SPEAKER_01: Yes, I like it when it's like, we're coming in for landing and we're taking off and we're soaring.
34:57
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, just give us a very good I don't want anything else.
35:00
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, we're gonna be landing about 10 minutes early.
35:02
SPEAKER_02: I love it when they say that.
35:04
SPEAKER_02: Yes, yes.
35:05
SPEAKER_02: Which I also think that they do that on purpose.
35:08
SPEAKER_02: Like anytime it says you're gonna land at let's say 12 o'clock, but you really land at 11.45, but you still don't get to the gate until you don't get off the plane until 10 minutes after you land, anyways.
35:22
SPEAKER_02: Like even if you do land early, you still, depending on where you're sitting, don't never be the people that get up initially.
35:29
SPEAKER_02: Like you can stand up and hold the line unless they say, Hey, let someone through.
35:35
SPEAKER_02: The wedding planner, your wedding planner, walks into the bridal suite and says, We can't find the groom.
35:44
SPEAKER_02: The dates next month.
35:46
SPEAKER_01: I luckily have never had a problem where I can't locate the groom.
35:51
SPEAKER_01: I had a problem once where the brother of the bride had like unplugged everything in his room, fell asleep, had his phone off.
36:02
SPEAKER_01: It was something with religion that like he didn't like whatever day they were getting married, yeah.
36:09
SPEAKER_01: He couldn't he couldn't like be around electronics or something.
36:12
SPEAKER_01: I don't know much about I don't remember what it was.
36:14
SPEAKER_01: But he literally, like, we're knocking on his door, he's not answering.
36:17
SPEAKER_01: He's like passed out taking a nap, and he showed up like five minutes before the ceremony.
36:21
SPEAKER_01: But we the bride was like, if he doesn't get here, like we're going with it.
36:24
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, we you gotta go, gotta go.
36:26
SPEAKER_01: But your partner missing?
36:28
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, not good.
36:29
SPEAKER_02: No.
36:30
SPEAKER_02: Your babysitter texts one hour into your expensive date night and says they just threw up.
36:37
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, either they they have to go or the kids threw up.
36:40
SPEAKER_01: One of those two options.
36:42
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, big emergency just happened.
36:43
SPEAKER_02: I'm like, oh my goodness.
36:46
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that's all like we've only had it with daycare where they've messaged a bit like your son just threw up.
36:52
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, but I'm like, I'll be there in five minutes.
36:54
SPEAKER_01: Right, right.
36:55
SPEAKER_02: But it's it's just one of those things.
36:56
SPEAKER_02: It's like even when I start going to school, like just waiting for those calls, because I've had to have that happen to me where I got sick at school and then like I gotta leave.
37:05
SPEAKER_02: I gotta go home.
37:06
SPEAKER_01: For us, because of our flexibility with what we do, hopefully, we won't have to be like four.
37:13
SPEAKER_01: I feel like my parents would be like, take some medicine, you're going to school.
37:16
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
37:16
SPEAKER_01: And that's when you get the call that's like, hey, your kids are the nurses.
37:20
SPEAKER_01: Didn't last long.
37:21
SPEAKER_01: They're deathly ill.
37:22
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
37:23
SPEAKER_02: Why did you bring them?
37:25
SPEAKER_02: The waiter comes to your to clear your plates away and says, Got room for dessert?
37:32
SPEAKER_02: Because I might say yes.
37:34
SPEAKER_02: That's a good thing.
37:35
SPEAKER_01: Um, I would say, like, what if they say something like, We served you expired something?
37:42
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
37:42
SPEAKER_02: We want to inform you that there was a toenail in your mashed potatoes.
37:47
SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
37:48
SPEAKER_02: Nasty.
37:49
SPEAKER_02: No, I think mine would be room for dessert because I always cave.
37:53
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, me and you are like, no dessert, and then they'll come over, like, are you guys hungry for anything?
37:57
SPEAKER_01: We're like, sure.
38:00
SPEAKER_02: Maybe they mention it like it's part of their spiel, like our specials, and then they say, like, you've got to try this.
38:06
SPEAKER_01: Especially if we're on a date night, it is nice to like have a nice plated dessert.
38:10
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
38:10
SPEAKER_01: We don't do that at home, so that's like, oh, special little chair.
38:13
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, let's have a little tiara masue.
38:16
SPEAKER_02: Rico's Rico's Rico's Tierra Masu.
38:18
SPEAKER_02: Shout out Rico's restaurant.
38:20
SPEAKER_02: Your kid's teacher pulls you aside and says your son keeps pooping his pants.
38:27
SPEAKER_01: I don't know, something weird.
38:28
SPEAKER_02: It's like the big daddy, whenever he comes there, and it his first thing is the fact that it he's like, Your kid just smells.
38:36
SPEAKER_02: Your kid has a smelly problem.
38:37
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
38:38
SPEAKER_01: If they say something about hygiene, that's like that sucks.
38:41
SPEAKER_02: And he like goes pee in the bush in the little plant.
38:44
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
38:46
SPEAKER_02: Your Uber driver, mid-drive, pulls over and says, I ran out of gas.
38:53
SPEAKER_02: Here, try one of my cookies I made.
38:56
SPEAKER_01: Try this special cookie I made.
38:58
SPEAKER_01: Something like that.
38:59
SPEAKER_02: We are in like to it's like katana yoga or something weird.
39:02
SPEAKER_01: I don't know what that was.
39:04
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
39:05
SPEAKER_02: You're getting your car checked by the mechanic, and they say, Um, oh, your filters, your filter needs to replace.
39:13
SPEAKER_02: Do you want to do that?
39:14
SPEAKER_02: No, don't replace it every time.
39:16
SPEAKER_01: I feel like that's an easy one to say no to, but when they're like your brakes are bad, or this or that, like something where it's like, you have to do it.
39:22
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you went somewhere, you went for one thing and an extra.
39:24
SPEAKER_01: You know it's gonna be like an extra thousand dollars.
39:27
SPEAKER_01: You're like, Yeah.
39:28
SPEAKER_02: You know you haven't changed your tires in a minute.
39:31
SPEAKER_02: Like, uh, that's gonna cost me a lot of money.
39:34
SPEAKER_02: Your hairdresser, mid-cut, says you wanted five inches, right?
39:40
SPEAKER_01: And you're like, no.
39:42
SPEAKER_02: So I don't know how to deal with anything like that.
39:43
SPEAKER_02: I'm like, they're just you want the same thing?
39:46
SPEAKER_02: Yep.
39:47
SPEAKER_02: There are times whenever if you go to somewhere, like I go to the same person because they know, I know that they know what I want.
39:54
SPEAKER_02: When you find someone like that, that like which is great because they get to know you in a sense.
40:00
SPEAKER_02: But you go to somewhere because you're in a pinch and you have to get a haircut by somebody new and they mess it up a little bit.
40:06
SPEAKER_02: I remember going to get my hair cut like right before I moved back home.
40:11
SPEAKER_02: Similar situation to what our happened to our dog.
40:13
SPEAKER_02: He went to a new groomer and got it was that he got a hack job.
40:17
SPEAKER_02: Like he got shaved but on his body, but his legs and his head and his tail, he's a golden retriever.
40:23
SPEAKER_02: Like his body was shaved and everything else was dirty.
40:26
SPEAKER_01: This is what a vet did, or this is what a groomer did to our dog once.
40:30
SPEAKER_02: But I right before it was like the day before I get I get like a one to a three fade and just like cut the top like a half an inch.
40:39
SPEAKER_02: And once you cut it low up at the top, it starts to like kind of how our son's is stick, it sticks up, and I just I looked like an old man.
40:50
SPEAKER_02: I didn't like it.
40:50
SPEAKER_01: Your hair grows fast though.
40:52
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
40:53
SPEAKER_01: Your photographer at your once-in-a-lifetime event says that they the memory cards broke or their battery for their flash died.
41:03
SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
41:04
SPEAKER_02: I had the cover on the I missed your whole ceremony.
41:09
SPEAKER_01: I I mean, I've luckily never had any clients that have gone through that, but it happens a lot where people will say when they're transferring the photos that they get deleted, or like you can't recover those.
41:20
SPEAKER_01: I I remember seeing someone from my high school post that all the photos from their wedding got deleted and their photographer wasn't able to give them any.
41:30
SPEAKER_02: That's sad.
41:30
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you just have to get it from people that took photos on their phone.
41:35
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
41:35
SPEAKER_02: Which is not nearly as like nice, as nice quality.
41:39
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
41:40
SPEAKER_02: Not great.
41:41
SPEAKER_02: All right.
41:41
SPEAKER_02: This is VIP table.
41:43
SPEAKER_02: These are the biggest regrets or things that you immediately regret after you do it.
41:49
SPEAKER_02: I can go first.
41:50
SPEAKER_02: Sure.
41:50
SPEAKER_02: I feel like you went first the last few times.
41:52
SPEAKER_02: So I'll start off with eating out at a buffet, specifically Ponderosa, and then thinking that the drive home is gonna be an easy one.
42:00
SPEAKER_02: Like it's not ever I think every time.
42:03
SPEAKER_02: I live too next to a Ponderosa that was five minutes away from me.
42:07
SPEAKER_02: And you know that feeling when you're driving home and like you're lifting yourself off of the seat because it's just like ready to come out.
42:13
SPEAKER_02: Like your body knows, oh, you're two minutes away.
42:16
SPEAKER_02: You're a minute away.
42:17
SPEAKER_02: Like, I know it's coming, but it might need to come out right now.
42:21
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and it's just you think you might like you might poop your pants.
42:26
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
42:27
SPEAKER_01: I had something similar.
42:28
SPEAKER_01: I had eating a dairy heavy meal before a road trip or doing something important the next day.
42:33
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I can't do it.
42:34
SPEAKER_01: For me, that's bad.
42:37
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
42:38
SPEAKER_01: Um, my now that I know your tone, I know which direction I'm gonna go.
42:41
SPEAKER_01: And I had to like wait to see what you were gonna do.
42:44
SPEAKER_01: My number one is gonna be saying, I could do this myself.
42:48
SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna DIY whatever project is gonna be, probably a house project.
42:51
SPEAKER_01: And then you get like a little bit into it and you're like, I should have hired it.
42:55
SPEAKER_02: Yes, yes.
42:56
SPEAKER_02: I had one similar, I won't pick, but it's just yeah, it's assembling anything.
43:00
SPEAKER_02: Like I can do this, and then I'm like, I'm building a dresser, and then two months later the dresser's already falling apart because I'm not I'm handy, but I'm not that handy when it comes to bigger things like that.
43:13
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, not fun, not good at all.
43:16
SPEAKER_02: Okay, um but I did build our swing set.
43:19
SPEAKER_01: Your swing set, your swing set build was good.
43:23
unknown: Okay.
43:27
unknown: Oh, yeah.
43:28
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you and your dad built that.
43:30
SPEAKER_01: That was a good one too.
43:31
SPEAKER_02: So I guess I'm not but it's like the ones that are like the in-home projects.
43:36
SPEAKER_02: Some of them are easier than others.
43:38
SPEAKER_02: Like building a table, easy, but building a dresser, things like that, hard.
43:42
SPEAKER_01: I feel that you see other people do it.
43:44
SPEAKER_01: Like I'll watch videos and I'm like, oh, that looks so easy.
43:48
SPEAKER_01: And like they bought the products at Home Depot.
43:50
SPEAKER_01: I could do this myself.
43:50
SPEAKER_01: And then I'm like, what the fuck am I doing?
43:52
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
43:53
SPEAKER_02: You open up the instruction thing.
43:55
SPEAKER_02: Like, oh no.
43:56
SPEAKER_01: Or sometimes I'll have a vision for something and then I go to do it, and I'm like, no.
44:00
SPEAKER_01: No.
44:00
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
44:01
SPEAKER_01: My number two, right?
44:03
SPEAKER_01: I get to do two.
44:03
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
44:04
SPEAKER_01: My number two is deciding to cut my own hair.
44:07
SPEAKER_01: I did this so many times growing up where like bangs would be in like swoop bangs.
44:12
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
44:12
SPEAKER_01: And me and my friends would be like, yeah, we should just cut swoop bangs.
44:15
SPEAKER_01: We'd like have a sleepover and like cut each other's hair too short, not looking good.
44:20
SPEAKER_01: And like I look back on pictures, I'm like, what the hell was I thinking?
44:24
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
44:24
SPEAKER_02: I've done that too.
44:25
SPEAKER_02: Like you get, then I look like I have a bowl cut.
44:28
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
44:29
SPEAKER_02: Like I just put I would put my bangs down just like let me trim it like right here.
44:33
SPEAKER_02: Just that line.
44:34
SPEAKER_01: I've even done it with Tyson a couple times where like his hair's getting long, and I'm like, I don't have time to get him to the hair salon and I'll trim a couple pieces because again, it looks easy.
44:42
SPEAKER_01: And then I do it, it just looks so terrible.
44:45
SPEAKER_01: I'm like, why did I do that?
44:46
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I should have just left.
44:48
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
44:49
SPEAKER_02: Good pick.
44:50
SPEAKER_02: Uh my next pick will be taking a shot of anything while I'm having like adult beverages.
44:58
SPEAKER_02: I held myself to this for the wedding that we were just at.
45:02
SPEAKER_02: Like, I I'm just gonna stick the beer.
45:04
SPEAKER_02: Nothing else.
45:05
SPEAKER_02: Do not offer a shot.
45:07
SPEAKER_02: Do not give me like a vodka drink, nothing.
45:09
SPEAKER_02: But the moment I take a shot and I'm having a couple beverages, the like the next day hangover is gonna be miserable.
45:17
SPEAKER_02: And then like I might start to feel like I might be blacking out a little bit.
45:21
SPEAKER_01: I also feel that when you take shots on similar, like a different version of us comes out, and you're like drinking more, and then you're like just getting a level up that again results in like a terrible hangover.
45:35
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like I used to be able to do it and I would be fine.
45:38
SPEAKER_02: You know, I was in my 20s, everything's good, but I have like a green green apple, crown royal, green tea shot, like any of those, like a tequila shot.
45:50
SPEAKER_02: I used to think I can take a tequila shots and be well the next time.
45:53
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, well, and then my third pick is going to be eating an edible.
46:00
SPEAKER_02: The moment I do not, I no longer great choice, yeah, no longer uh partake in anything that deals with that kind of stuff, mainly edibles, because I will take it.
46:14
SPEAKER_02: Like I used to be able to smoke not regularly, but pretty regularly and be fine.
46:20
SPEAKER_02: But then I within the last it was maybe three years ago now at this point, I took one and I literally thought that that was the end of me.
46:28
SPEAKER_02: And then one time I tried one that was one of those drinks, and the same thing happened.
46:33
SPEAKER_02: Like, yeah, I'm absolutely done with this because it it made me start being more like paranoid than having a good time.
46:41
SPEAKER_02: So eat yeah regret those immediately, and I will never have them again.
46:45
SPEAKER_01: That was a fabulous choice.
46:47
SPEAKER_01: It wasn't on my list, but now that you say it, that should have been on the top of my list.
46:50
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
46:51
SPEAKER_01: Ooh, no.
46:52
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
46:53
SPEAKER_01: Um, my next regret is going to be instead of scheduling a doctor's appointment, Googling my symptoms.
47:00
SPEAKER_01: And I get into, you know, I'm watching TikTok videos.
47:04
SPEAKER_01: Now I think that I might be dying.
47:06
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
47:06
SPEAKER_01: And I really get like, I it mostly passes, but there are times where I'm like, oh my gosh, like I might have to go get emergency surgery because of a cramp that I felt on my right hand side.
47:18
SPEAKER_01: Has now the videos I'm watching, I might need a body scan.
47:21
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
47:22
SPEAKER_01: I it's always what it's like, you could just literally schedule a doctor's appointment.
47:26
SPEAKER_01: If you really think you're not feeling well and there's something wrong with you, just schedule the doctor's appointment.
47:30
SPEAKER_01: Like, don't try to medicate yourself or face out on your own.
47:33
SPEAKER_02: Sometimes the the diagnosis online, there's a few good ones, but then it's a really scary one.
47:40
SPEAKER_02: Like, yeah, you you might only have two more weeks left to live.
47:44
SPEAKER_01: And the story time will be like the time my headache turned into, and it's like this terrible disease, and you're like, oh my god, I'm not sure.
47:51
SPEAKER_02: Like you have like a brain bleed the whole time.
47:53
SPEAKER_02: Like, oh my gosh.
47:54
SPEAKER_02: I just had it not even a week ago.
47:57
SPEAKER_02: I my one eye was just staying constantly red.
48:01
SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
48:01
SPEAKER_02: And then I searched, like, I wear contacts.
48:04
SPEAKER_02: I wear daily contacts because my eyes would always get red when I would wear the by like they were like two week ones, contacts that I can take them out, put them on.
48:12
SPEAKER_02: Like I never go to sleep with contacts in unless I'm taking a nap, which happens few and far between.
48:18
SPEAKER_02: But I searched it and the same thing happened when I searched it online.
48:22
SPEAKER_02: You know, like this ain't good.
48:23
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I thought that I thought I was gonna go blind in my eye.
48:26
SPEAKER_02: Thankfully, it's like recovered, but I was like, I gotta go get an eye.
48:29
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I had to send you the eye insurance information.
48:31
SPEAKER_01: You were like, I gotta get an appointment.
48:33
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, because again, like I don't want like it gave me a bad diagnosis.
48:37
SPEAKER_02: Like you said, the videos popping up was had some term that was basically saying, yeah, like you might lose sight in your eye if it is staying persistently red, but then it went away.
48:49
SPEAKER_02: Like I didn't have pink eye because you know you get the crusties.
48:52
SPEAKER_02: So but yeah, good pick.
48:53
SPEAKER_02: Did you just pick two?
48:55
SPEAKER_01: I did one.
48:56
SPEAKER_01: So is it me again?
48:57
SPEAKER_01: No, because I did two, then you went, then I went.
49:00
SPEAKER_02: I went.
49:01
SPEAKER_02: No, I went twice, I went one twice, and then you just went one time.
49:04
SPEAKER_02: So you got one more pick.
49:06
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
49:06
SPEAKER_01: My last one is trusting a fart after eating taco bell or something.
49:12
SPEAKER_02: Anything that deals with yeah, what the poop's always a good answer.
49:16
SPEAKER_01: Like it's just like you know, when you're like, maybe I shouldn't.
49:20
SPEAKER_01: Maybe I should just go to the bathroom for this.
49:22
SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
49:22
SPEAKER_01: I think we've all been there though.
49:24
SPEAKER_01: When you're like, Oh, I'm just gonna, I'm gonna let it out.
49:27
SPEAKER_01: And then you're like, Oh, I need to go somewhere right now.
49:30
SPEAKER_01: Right now, yeah, our son does it all the time, but he's like, Mom, I sharted.
49:34
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, he said it on the plane.
49:36
SPEAKER_01: I pooped my pants and he's like, I thought it was a fart.
49:39
SPEAKER_01: Oh my brother, never trust your fart.
49:41
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
49:42
SPEAKER_01: Think about it.
49:42
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, then it's like not even a bad if it ends up just being a fart and you go to the toilet and you're sitting down and it comes out pure gas.
49:50
SPEAKER_02: At least you were in like the safe zone that if it wasn't, that it wasn't going in your pants.
49:55
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
49:56
SPEAKER_02: Because then it just then you gotta shower, then you gotta maybe throw the underwear throw them out.
50:01
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I'm not washing them, I just throw them out.
50:03
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and sometimes it is like a good pair of underwear.
50:07
SPEAKER_02: I I say it as this happens often.
50:09
SPEAKER_02: It probably happens once every year.
50:12
SPEAKER_02: Maybe maybe more.
50:14
SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
50:14
SPEAKER_02: I don't know, but maybe once a year.
50:16
SPEAKER_02: Maybe, yeah.
50:17
SPEAKER_02: I've been that stuff.
50:18
SPEAKER_02: Everyone always says, like, I don't never poop my pants like, but you probably shard it.
50:21
SPEAKER_01: Remember when my dad did, and then my sister was like, What's in the back of your pants?
50:26
SPEAKER_01: He's like, Oh, I shit myself.
50:29
SPEAKER_01: You weren't gonna wash these yes ago, yeah.
50:34
SPEAKER_02: Um my last pick is volunte volunteering to help somebody move.
50:42
SPEAKER_01: Oh, gosh, your picks were so good.
50:44
SPEAKER_02: Like, I don't get me wrong, I love to help people out, but I'm now at the point of my age, and I think my friends are at the point of their age.
50:52
SPEAKER_02: If you need help moving, just hire somebody.
50:56
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
50:56
SPEAKER_02: Like back in the like we asked people to help.
50:59
SPEAKER_02: We're still young, strapping lads.
51:01
SPEAKER_02: I've helped people move before, but those days are behind me.
51:05
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'm not doing it anymore.
51:07
SPEAKER_01: I feel the same way.
51:08
SPEAKER_01: Like, if you need help moving a couple pieces of furniture, if that makes sense.
51:11
SPEAKER_01: I got a couch, I need to have come into your house to pack up your frickin' dishes.
51:15
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, do that yourself.
51:17
SPEAKER_02: Hire a mover.
51:18
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's not even the to help somebody move in and like, hey, I we didn't have like people help us move everything in.
51:25
SPEAKER_02: It was the furniture, some of the furniture pieces itself.
51:29
SPEAKER_02: Like, wasn't a lot of stuff.
51:30
SPEAKER_01: But the boxes we did ourselves, like we packed up our own stuff.
51:34
SPEAKER_02: It's the pack, it's also the packing up.
51:36
SPEAKER_02: I didn't sign up for that.
51:38
SPEAKER_01: No.
51:38
SPEAKER_01: You're right.
51:39
SPEAKER_01: When you're moving, it is your job to go through your own personal things, yeah, put them in the boxes, and label them where they're supposed to go.
51:47
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, you then at our age, over the age of we are close to 35.
51:53
SPEAKER_01: Over anything over the age of 30, I'm like, you should just be hiring a professional.
51:56
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, they can come pack the boxes in the truck for you.
52:00
SPEAKER_01: They pack them nicely, and they can unload it.
52:02
SPEAKER_01: And then they unload it.
52:04
SPEAKER_01: And only time I'm like, okay, maybe people need help is when you're younger, first starting out.
52:10
SPEAKER_01: We did all the time.
52:11
SPEAKER_01: Everybody helped everybody.
52:12
SPEAKER_02: Because you would buy for like you would get furniture from like Facebook Marketplace and you would have to pick it up.
52:17
SPEAKER_02: So then you need somebody that has a truck, then you need somebody that can help you load it, unload it.
52:22
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, family.
52:23
SPEAKER_01: I get like helping family out, but sometimes with friends, I'm like, all right.
52:27
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
52:28
SPEAKER_02: Fam, I'm not don't expect me to be there for eight hours.
52:31
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I'll help you move a couple things, but other than that, yeah.
52:34
SPEAKER_02: Those days have sailed.
52:37
SPEAKER_02: Pass.
52:38
SPEAKER_01: Um I only I only had one other honorable mention, which was chancing it with low gas.
52:43
unknown: Yeah.
52:44
SPEAKER_01: I've been very lucky.
52:45
SPEAKER_01: I mean, you know me, I'll be rolling around with like 20 miles in the house.
52:48
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and I'm like, what the hell?
52:49
SPEAKER_02: You gotta have it at like 20, or I don't know if I said 20.
52:54
SPEAKER_02: You gotta have it at a quarter tank.
52:56
SPEAKER_02: Once it starts getting lower than a quarter tank, you might as well just even if you want to put 20 bucks in.
53:01
SPEAKER_01: Okay, dad.
53:02
SPEAKER_01: Just say that's how you should have it.
53:04
SPEAKER_01: That's actually what my dad said.
53:05
SPEAKER_01: I didn't listen.
53:06
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
53:07
SPEAKER_02: Well, it's especially where we live in in the wintertime, you want to have it like always a a quarter and above because it's cold.
53:14
SPEAKER_01: You know, one time I coasted down at like five left in the tank.
53:18
SPEAKER_02: I definitely did that in like high school and such, whenever I wasn't really my money was strictly going to like paying for gas and like very minuscule things.
53:28
SPEAKER_02: Like that was what my money went to.
53:30
SPEAKER_02: Because gas was expensive then, too.
53:32
SPEAKER_02: I remember back whenever I was in high school, gas was like over$4 then.
53:37
SPEAKER_02: And people are like, it's never been this high before.
53:39
SPEAKER_02: It was high then as well.
53:41
SPEAKER_02: I don't remember.
53:42
SPEAKER_02: I just remember being like, Why don't we even have a driver's license?
53:46
SPEAKER_02: I have to pay all my gas for it.
53:48
SPEAKER_02: And still that way now.
53:50
SPEAKER_02: Like, I wait until I get when I get those fuel perks, and I'm like, oh, I got a dollar fifty off.
53:55
SPEAKER_02: I'm filling up, and then I'm taking my gas tank, like gas cans, filling those up too, getting those discs.
54:01
SPEAKER_01: I don't use the fuel perks because you have a truck, so I'm like, you need more gas than my car.
54:05
SPEAKER_02: The only I had one one that was just saying you two after a server's like, enjoy your meal.
54:13
SPEAKER_02: I had very niche, two niche ones though, trading in my Camaro when we moved up north.
54:19
SPEAKER_02: Like, I really loved that thing.
54:20
SPEAKER_02: But it was a great car.
54:21
SPEAKER_02: It wasn't able to be driven in the winter time.
54:24
SPEAKER_02: Like it was definitely a Florida car.
54:26
SPEAKER_01: And you are a nervous winter driver.
54:28
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, big time.
54:30
SPEAKER_01: Me, I might have chanced it.
54:31
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but I would have had the I would have had to have gotten another vehicle.
54:35
SPEAKER_02: I would have tried to keep it.
54:36
SPEAKER_02: I should have just kept it and got something cheap to drive me to and from work and then take that thing out when the time came.
54:42
SPEAKER_02: And then the last one is just driving on Route 51 in the Pittsburgh area.
54:46
SPEAKER_02: Like people knock and say, like, uh 28's terrible.
54:50
SPEAKER_02: I don't know where the discourse at, discourse is at to say that 28's worse than Route 8.
54:55
SPEAKER_02: No worries.
54:56
SPEAKER_02: Or 28's worse than Route 51.
54:59
SPEAKER_02: 51 is the worst.
55:01
SPEAKER_02: There's construction all throughout it.
55:04
SPEAKER_02: There's from where we drive to and from my parents' house, because they live in the Mon Valley.
55:10
SPEAKER_02: So we can either take the turnpike or we take 51 after we get past the city.
55:16
SPEAKER_02: There's like 30 traffic lights on 51.
55:20
SPEAKER_00: And if you hit them, it's adding at least 10 to 15 minutes.
55:23
SPEAKER_02: And some of the times the road's a little narrow.
55:26
SPEAKER_02: You can't trust every driver.
55:27
SPEAKER_02: Like I'm surprised, knock on what I've never gotten in like some sort of fender bender on 51.
55:32
unknown: Yeah.
55:35
SPEAKER_01: I am not a fan of 51.
55:36
SPEAKER_02: Those are my regrets.
55:37
SPEAKER_02: Because sometimes you I always look at the GPS.
55:40
SPEAKER_02: You do.
55:41
SPEAKER_02: To make sure.
55:42
SPEAKER_02: Because if it's if it says it's an hour, it's in three minutes to my parents taking 51 route, it's possible.
55:51
SPEAKER_02: But if it says anything over that, there's somewhere along that path that is just backed up.
55:57
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
55:57
SPEAKER_02: And it's either because of lights or the construction, or because they're you don't even get to 51 and there's traffic getting to the Liberty Tunnel.
56:06
SPEAKER_02: And then you're not even at the worst part of your drive and you're stuck in traffic.
56:11
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
56:12
SPEAKER_01: I don't I usually do not chance it.
56:13
SPEAKER_01: The one time I did chance it, taking the kids down to Triple B farms last year, I gave my daughter car sickness.
56:19
SPEAKER_01: She was vomiting the whole way.
56:20
SPEAKER_01: So I avoid 51.
56:22
unknown: Yeah.
56:23
SPEAKER_01: If I do not have to take it, I'm not taking it.
56:25
SPEAKER_02: I drove it one time at night and it was very smooth because there was anything.
56:29
SPEAKER_01: Coming back at night, like after eight o'clock.
56:31
SPEAKER_02: Perfect.
56:32
SPEAKER_02: Perfect time.
56:32
SPEAKER_01: But anytime between like 12:30 and 8, no, thank you.
56:37
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
56:38
SPEAKER_02: Count me out.
56:39
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
56:40
SPEAKER_02: Good picks.
56:41
SPEAKER_02: I my this hair is like the tight pants hair.
56:44
SPEAKER_02: Yes.
56:45
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56:52
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56:58
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57:00
SPEAKER_02: All right.
57:01
SPEAKER_02: All right.
57:01
SPEAKER_02: See you next week.
57:02
SPEAKER_03: Bye.