180: Big Depth Energy: Masculine Leadership Without the Alpha Male Bullshit and Redefining "BDE" feat. Ross Lewin

Girls Gone Deep · Jul 9, 2026 · 1h 23m

Podcast Summary

This week, Elle and Vee sit down with Ross Lewin, founder of @embodi.men and creator of the Big Depth Energy Method, to unpack what modern masculinity actually looks like. They dive into why so many good men struggle with dating, how confidence gets confused with arrogance, and why consent, leadership, and emotional depth are the real turn-ons. From play parties and pickup artists to tantra, ENM, and healing men's relationship with themselves, this conversation challenges nearly everything we've been taught about attraction.

Chapters

(00:00) What Is Big Depth Energy?

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