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I Have Been Sleeping In The Bush In Europe Since 2021 - Nigerian Man Laments · DidiLawren

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  Now, let us get back to today's topic.
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  Today's topic on to talk about the Jack Markell Cho.
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  Hmm, the Japanese culture. I mean, this is not fun.
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  You bought I think regardless of what you want to think about
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  Nigeria's economy regardless of what you want to say.
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  Okay, a Niger is not working. We just want to leave everybody
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  wants to leave. The reality is at this point in
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  time, the world is going through a financial meltdown if I will
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  put it that way. Europe, America all over the
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  world. Everybody is going through it
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  now, if you want to travel, that is not a problem.
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  Well, I'm like, people migrate for different reasons, some
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  people just want to change environments, some point to
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  change continents, just to, you know, give themselves an
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  opportunity and a chance to have a better life for a better,
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  future for themselves, and their children.
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  There is no problem with that. I think where people are
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  guessing you wrong. Is thinking that all Nigeria is
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  difficult. Once I get overseas, or once I
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  get to America, Cattle. Once I get to YouTube, my life
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  will be better. Now, if you don't actually put
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  plans in place, if you don't do your research, if you don't do
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  your research, you're going to spend a whole lot of money, and
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  a whole lot of time, just trying date where you've been people.
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  Don't take into consideration the amount of money they spent
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  in terms of traveling. Now, when we talk about
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  traveling, especially people going to Europe, Europe and
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  America, this will spend millions of naira Millions.
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  I'm talking about in nothing, less than 10 million.
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  Are you going to spend when you talk about 10 million?
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  Are they? So no, I just spent two million
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  when I get there, I'll sort it out.
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  You're still going to spend that amount of money because to get
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  yourself sorted situated and actually start moving around you
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  you're going to spend that money.
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  Now for those who say oh I'm just going to use a visitor's
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  visa. So, when I get there, I'll sort
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  myself out. You are setting yourself up for
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  failure, and these people are going to spend nothing less than
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  5 million. Naira, because this agencies are
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  charlatans. These people are out there to
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  take your money and they don't care because all you want, is a
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  Visa, they are happy to get you a Visa regardless of the type of
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  Visa that they are going to get for you, all you want is to get
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  in and get on that flight and leave Nigeria, so they will get
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  it. A visa to do that.
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  Now when you get the that is no longer there problem, you are
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  now responsible for yourself, you're going to find out that it
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  is in. This is where you've no been
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  before. You may be looking at Instagram,
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  Facebook. YouTube people are making videos
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  every day, telling you how their lives are popping.
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  They're driving Mercedes the Driving Range Rovers.
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  These are all Finance calls. These are all over.
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  I just bought a house yesterday. These are mortgages and for you
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  to even get that level of getting enough money or getting
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  enough credit rating to get a car.
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  You're going to go through Lots. You're going to go through
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  certain things to be credit worthy to even get a car on
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  finance or getting mortgage. People are not considering these
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  things. Now the reason why I wanted to
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  talk about this is I mean I've done quite a number of videos
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  talking about the Jap, a cultural but What prompted me to
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  do this video is I watched a video of a young man, he should
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  be in his maybe 20 years or early thirties.
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  I am not sure, but he looks very wrong.
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  He's in Europe, I am not sure which of the countries is in.
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  So he made a video talking about his he he was sleeping in the
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  bush rough sleeping and he was talking about all people are not
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  considering what he's going through now but they're going to
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  say, oh, he's Nose wanting to help them anyway.
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  Let me just Play that video for you to see now watch this
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  when I may come. Imagine, yeah, of this shit, but
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  I forget me. Forget me.
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  Rosina a guy not to try out for Georg, I see Hardy that should
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  this year, d.c. my God babe. Well, I may come now.
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  I will say guy naughty. Try forget me as idea.
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  So go remember me. You are looking so you're over
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  me, you know, remember me. But now.
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  At the Emma. I'm suffering.
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  Snipping aside. This guy house, Not completely
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  and not go, anybody send me money.
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  But if I'd a Jana the call me Ceremony.
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  This rightly say you Wicked. When I say America, just give me
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  one year to Mecca, anybody know? Calm you.
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  Now, watching this video, this young man is explaining that
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  he's been in Europe for the past two years now and he has not
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  achieved anything. He's basically living in a bush.
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  What she got me. Were the comments.
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  Some people said, oh, just so, you don't want to help
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  regardless of your situation. If you don't want to help, you
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  don't want to help. Like this is the, the
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  entitlements were talking about. The entitlement mentality that
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  you see somebody sharing their story, sharing their life
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  experience and telling people. Listen, it's not as easy as not
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  as rosy. As you think, I am sleeping in a
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  bush. I am.
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  But people are not even taking that into consideration.
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  Somebody wanting to travel. Now you tell them things are
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  hard. Like know most everybody is in
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  recession interest rate has skyrocketed You flash on and
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  everything is happening at the same time.
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  Okay. You want to travel if you want
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  to use five million, let's see. Minimum to do a student visa or
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  a visitor's visa or whatever. Kind of these are you want to
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  do, why don't you use that to, you know, improve on want skill
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  or length? One skill right now, they're
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  looking for notices. Some people are looking for, you
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  know, healthcare workers. Some people are looking for
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  that. There are countries looking for
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  workers, skilled workers, or certain type of UK.
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  For instance, they're looking for teachers, UK, they're
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  looking for nurses, UK. They're looking for care workers
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  and you get a job in Nigeria before even coming to the UK,
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  all you need to do is to struggle for that first months
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  before you get your your payments.
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  But when you tell people about these things, they look at you
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  like yeah, I know. Of my mind.
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  I've been doing a. Let me just travel and when I
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  get there I'll sort it out. You just enemy of progress.
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  You that is the, did you know survive?
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  And why are you? Like they would just shut
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  everything down. If this man has his rough
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  sleeping, telling you friend who is asking him for connection on
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  how to travel and he is advising the friend.
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  That listen, don't take the route that I took, you know,
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  maybe those one or two years calls to get.
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  It's Healthcare. Certificates that will enable
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  you get a job before coming to this place.
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  They will give you a competition where you're going to stay on.
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  So, your salary is being paid. If he advises that friend to do
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  that, the friend is going to be like ah you want me to stay in
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  this country for one or two years?
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  Yeah. Yeah.
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  When you are there enjoying know that suffering that you want to
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  do what that suffering that you are suffering.
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  They never want to come and join me on so far.
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  Do you know? Listen, do not listen.
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  You see people. There are so many people that
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  are sleeping on the streets roaming around, not doing
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  anything. And you look at all these
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  things. Are you wonder what we are?
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  We heading. We are we heading to?
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  It's so it's so sad because these are all avoidable
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  situation. These are young people, young
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  enterprising, people were talking about Nigeria, use at
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  the moment stranded in Libya, they are Pants that went to
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  Libya to study and because of the world situation they've been
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  stranded. Although some of them they are
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  back to Nigeria right now. It is just all round.
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  Sad situation don't want to make this video very long.
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  All I want to say is if you want to travel, there are countries
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  that you can get scholarship. There are countries that are
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  actually looking for people to move to these countries.
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  They pay you to even move to this.
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  Trees. There are countries that you can
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  go to you don't pay tuition. You just have to learn the
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  language. There are countries that once
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  you do setting qualification, you can, you know, get into that
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  country with no problem. I would always talk about UK
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  because I reside in the UK and currently, there are recruiting
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  nurses from all over the world. They are recruiting, healthcare
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  workers. They are Bots.
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  Some people will still no, listen, some people would rather
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  The risk. You take loans, sell properties
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  gets family, you know, like they will do all these things to get
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  a student visa, to come to this country and still end up as a
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  care assistant health care workers and then you sit down.
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  Are you wonder, what is the point?
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  What exactly is the point, I think people just need to plan,
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  it is very good to want to travel.
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  It is good to want to better your life.
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  It Is good to want to give your children or, you know, you're,
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  you want to expand your horizon, there's nothing wrong with that,
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  but you have to also consider where you're going to the
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  skills. That is needed.
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  Yes, you studied Banking and Finance in Nigeria, you studied
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  this? And you studied that if that
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  skill is no required where you going to, if you have to take
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  certain certifications, to make sure that you can walk in those
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  field, do yourself a favor, If evil do those certifications in
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  Nigeria? Because once you get here is
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  going to cost you truck loads of money, you would not even have
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  time to do those things because you're trying to end money to
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  survive, you're trying to any money to pay your bills.
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  You're trying to earn money to pay your friends, like bills are
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  ridiculous right now in the UK and you cannot, you know, come
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  here and be like, okay, let me just go and do this and do that.
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  We are how you're going to get money to pay your bills.
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  You cannot do that. So Do yourself a favor,
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  understand where you're going to understand what is required.
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  If you say oh it must because someone will tell you you must
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  be UK. If it's not UK, I'm not good.
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  Oh I don't suppose you kill my cousin went to UK.
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  My friend is in UK. She was posting pictures and she
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  think I cannot continue cake. Mrs. Powell show her that I can
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  come to UK. It has to be okay, no problem if
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  it must be UK, then look at the qualifications that you have.
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  If you're not in night, see if you're not in it and you know,
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  that you are not tech savvy or you cannot use computers because
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  this and they're not writing in papers.
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  There it is. On the computer I'm going to
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  work if you know you're not good with that.
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  Then do a certification that will enable you to come in.
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  When you get into the system, you're working in the system,
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  then you can now have at least your any money.
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  You're okay. You're any money.
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  You know, worried about, you know, worry too much about Visa,
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  you know, changing from student visa to this Visa, you only work
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  visa already, then maybe you can sacrifice weekends to Sookie.
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  Once I'm working five days a week and I'm able to pay my
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  bills weekends, I want to sacrifice this weekend to learn,
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  you know, certain skills that will enable me now, move up or
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  move to the corporate world that That's you have to sacrifice but
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  the problem is most people gets here.
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  They want to show off. They want to show people back
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  home that they've made it. They want to show people back
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  home that they have arrived. They want to take responsibility
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  of everybody and that points you're working.
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  Maybe you're doing cleaning your cleaning.
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  Seven days a week. You're sending half of the money
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  to Nigeria and you're not even putting time to improve
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  yourself. Life is all about improvements.
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  Life is about Improvement. And one, Once you leave the
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  shores of Nigeria people be like, oh God.
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  Help me. God, I pray to God.
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  If you like do what you cannot do for money, tonight's it does
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  not work. You have to put in the work.
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  All these are meditate fever that people are praying in
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  Nigeria. Oh God, give me a merit a favor.
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  Oh God give me a job that you know apply for it is not going
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  to walk who it is not going to work.
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  You have to apply for the job. You have to Merit the job.
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  You have to be skilled to do the job.
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  You have to know what you're doing, because, yes, there are
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  certain jobs that are intrigued your level jobs, but even at
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  that entry level job, you still need to know what you're doing.
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  Please people don't just travel because people are traveling.
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  If you must travel, do your research if you must travel sit
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  down and ask yourself, why am I truck if people?
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  Sit down and answer these questions.
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  Why do I want to travel? What do I want to do when I get
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  there? What do I want to do in future?
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  How do I want to live my life? If you are happy to keep
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  suffering for the rest of your life?
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  It's not your listen. Some people have chosen
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  suffering and there is nothing you can do about that.
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  Some people are so comfortable with wherever they are.
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  There is nothing you can do about that if you are suffering.
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  Nigeria. And you think, okay, once you
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  get our product list change of environment, you have lied to
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  you, you're going to be the level of suffering is not going
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  to be that much, or you're going to just disable that like, okay,
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  once I'm here, what's the point? You know, increasingly Europe,
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  even if I'm suffering I am Europe or I am in America.
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  Once you tell yourself that and that is what you want to
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  believe. Then there's no problem
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  everybody to their own. If you want to travel, I want to
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  be sleeping in the Push like this guy, then that is your
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  choice if you decide, okay, let me he's been there for two years
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  now. He's been sleeping in the bush
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  for two years and he said, like, there's no Miracle is going to
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  happen for him to leave that bush and then the next year he's
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  going to make it just wait. Here said no, Miracle does not
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  happen like that even if he's going to get married to somebody
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  who is now going to give him? He would still have some work.
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  Unless you want to start doing dodgy things, everybody have
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  their choices. Once you have made that choice,
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  once you have made that decision.
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  It is your choice. It is your decision.
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  Nobody can force you. If you want to travel travel, if
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  you want to travel and be sleeping in the bush travel.
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  Oh, go and sleep in the bush. If you want to help yourself
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  and, you know, you want to travel to certain places, do
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  your research, look for those skills that they are looking
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  for, do some certification in Not do the whole nine yards.
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  If it is a situation that were, at least, guess you over, cause
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  they have, like, minimum requirements for what they need
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  for certain jobs, due to those minimum requirements, and get
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  those job. When you now get here, you
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  start. You know, if it's something I
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  want to continue with you continue with for you have a
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  work permit from the get-go. You have a work visa from the
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  beginning so. Well, see, regardless of how
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  difficult things are Team, you will be able to, to make do with
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  certain things. If you are decide that can, you
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  know how sulla move in or out of certain situations, you will be
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  able to do that. And then you'll be fine for
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  please and please and please. If you want to travel, do your
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  research or you're going to end up sleeping in the bush after
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  paying millions of Nara to agencies, that went to get you,
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  you know, resource visa and transit Visa ever.
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  Are they going to get for you? Do your research?
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