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Time is a Healer · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becka Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in that we are happy Tuesday.
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  Speaker 3: It is a Tuesday. Sorry for the delay on a podcast,
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  Speaker 3: but we pushed it today.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we weren't our best.
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  Speaker 3: We said, if we're not at our.
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  Speaker 2: Best, why phone it in?
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  Speaker 3: Why phone it in? And let's just come back stronger
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  Speaker 3: and better.
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  Speaker 2: Tomorrow tomorrow, which is really a good approach to life.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, so we're sorry if you're a Monday listener or
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  Speaker 3: Tuesday morning listener and you didn't have us to join you.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm a big routine girly and I don't like
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  Speaker 2: I don't like throwing people off their routines, so I
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  Speaker 2: don't enjoy missing a Monday. However, your girl was down.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I was scared of you through text and I said,
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  Speaker 3: I am not doing a podcast with her today, respectfully.
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  Speaker 2: Excuse me, You too did not feel your damnedest.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I was like I was kind of going, okay,
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  Speaker 3: I could go because you said I'll do it, I'll
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  Speaker 3: just do it, and I'm like, that's not the vibe
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  Speaker 3: I'm looking for. Today, so I said, let's just push it.
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  Speaker 3: I'm happy to Yeah, if not today, why not tomorrow?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
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  Speaker 3: How are you so? You know?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, it does like I don't like to miss a Monday,
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  Speaker 2: so it was it was tough for me.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was a rare circumstance. And we can't
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  Speaker 3: say it won't happen again, but we'll try to make
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  Speaker 3: sure it doesn't happen often.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Anyways, how are you feeling.
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  Speaker 2: I'm feeling fine. How are you?
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  Speaker 3: I feel great?
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  Speaker 2: Love that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, let's not to feel great about you know.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, life is perspective.
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  Speaker 3: Life is wonderful. And I was thinking about this over
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  Speaker 3: the weekend. I was thinking about how something that I
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  Speaker 3: really try to practice in my life is knowing that
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  Speaker 3: so many things can exist so once, Like there can
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  Speaker 3: be moments in your life that don't feel like they're
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  Speaker 3: at their top of the game, and they can feel
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  Speaker 3: like down and sad, but then you can also experience
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  Speaker 3: so much joy and love and all the things in
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  Speaker 3: gratitude and they can both be happening at the same time.
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  Speaker 2: Becka, what it's like you're reading my mind?
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  Speaker 3: I think it's just the human experience, really is it? Though? Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I think.
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  Speaker 2: But I have never lived such a dichotomy in my
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  Speaker 2: entire life.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, that's I think being able to do that, though,
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  Speaker 3: is the gift, because I think a lot of times
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  Speaker 3: you laser in on like everything's going great, so I'm
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  Speaker 3: only experiencing joy in the highs or every one thing's
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  Speaker 3: going bad, so therefore that's.
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  Speaker 2: Why everything sucks. Yes, yeah, I posted this on my
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  Speaker 2: Instagram story the other day. And because I think I'm
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  Speaker 2: I'm very type A and so I always feel like
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  Speaker 2: the things I'm experiencing are just like me, only I was.
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  Speaker 2: When I tell you, I got thousands of dms from
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  Speaker 2: people saying that they felt this exact same way when
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  Speaker 2: they were like in their TTC trying to conceive era,
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  Speaker 2: where like everything on your mind, Like someone asks you, like, hey,
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  Speaker 2: how's your day, and I'm like, I'm ovulating today and
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  Speaker 2: I had mucus yesterday and like like that's all like
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  Speaker 2: that is in my mind, and I say like I'm good,
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  Speaker 2: I'm fine, you know, I answer normally, but in the
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  Speaker 2: back of my mind, like it's always something related to
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  Speaker 2: something that's going on in the background. It's like the
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  Speaker 2: craziest thing.
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  Speaker 3: Do you think that's a type A like do you
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  Speaker 3: think it's a personality type? Like do you think I
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  Speaker 3: would be that way?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I thought it was just me, Like I was like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm insane and everyone just says so just like hey,
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  Speaker 2: back and relax and like forget about it, dude, and
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  Speaker 2: I'm like I can't yeah, and I won't. Yeah, but
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  Speaker 2: so many people respond like I'm not I'm not even kidding.
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  Speaker 2: I've never had more DMS in my entire life. And
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  Speaker 2: that made me feel better because I was like, I
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  Speaker 2: thought that I was a little bit crazy, yeah, and
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  Speaker 2: now I just feel like one of the girlies.
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  Speaker 3: You know. I was thinking about that because you haven't
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  Speaker 3: you haven't shared much, and I think you share what
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  Speaker 3: and when or however you want to share. But I
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  Speaker 3: was thinking, you share so much of your life and
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  Speaker 3: feel so much of a community around people, and then
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  Speaker 3: this you have chosen to be very you know, you've
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  Speaker 3: you're going about it in your own way. But I
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  Speaker 3: was wondering if when you shared that, if you felt
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  Speaker 3: like very seen and almost like yes, almost like a
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  Speaker 3: sense of comfort of not being alone. Yeahause when you
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  Speaker 3: hold things in, there is that feeling of you feel
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  Speaker 3: like you're the you feel like you're being crazy because
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  Speaker 3: you're only experiencing it in your head and I don't
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  Speaker 3: get it. Robbie doesn't get it, you know. So unless
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  Speaker 3: you've been through that experience, it's not really something you
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  Speaker 3: can relate to. Yeah, so I was wondering if you
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  Speaker 3: felt that sense of God.
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  Speaker 2: And just the sheer amount of the DMS was like crazy,
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  Speaker 2: we're all crazy together, yes, Like it was like and
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  Speaker 2: I think the reason why just because there's just been
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  Speaker 2: so much like hard and pain and I feel like
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  Speaker 2: I like to come here and like escape and have
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  Speaker 2: fun and like not cry, you know, like take a
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  Speaker 2: minute to just like get away. So I think that's
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  Speaker 2: why I've kind of like built a bridge or I
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  Speaker 2: don't even know if that's the word a damn, but yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it did. It felt it made me feel very seene.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I think there's I think people listen to
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  Speaker 3: our podcast because of it being our lives. Like I
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  Speaker 3: don't think people expect you to always be this just
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  Speaker 3: like everything's great and everything's happy and I'm not having
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  Speaker 3: any hard time.
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  Speaker 2: But what's weird is like I love my life, like
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  Speaker 2: I really genuinely do. That's what's like the craziest thing
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  Speaker 2: is like you can be so happy and like in
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  Speaker 2: love with your life and like Robbi and I have
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  Speaker 2: never been better, and like he's been showing up in
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  Speaker 2: ways like I could have never have like dreamed of,
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  Speaker 2: and so it's like there's so much good and then
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  Speaker 2: there's just like one thing and it's just like how oh.
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  Speaker 3: That's a big thing, and it's a life thing, you know.
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  Speaker 3: And I think our listener specifically, especially our age range, like,
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  Speaker 3: I think a lot of people are in this journey
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  Speaker 3: with you. So I think you know when and if
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  Speaker 3: I'm again don't want you to feel pressure, but when
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  Speaker 3: and if you want to share, there's a whole group
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  Speaker 3: of people that are wanting to surround you with love
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  Speaker 3: and support and and also saying like me too. I
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  Speaker 3: think people listening, you know, I don't think they'd listen
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  Speaker 3: to the podcast and be like, oh, Tanya's being sad again,
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  Speaker 3: you know. I think they'd be like, oh, it's so
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  Speaker 3: it's so nice to hear someone else who whose life
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  Speaker 3: seems totally perfect and everything's great experiencing something that I'm
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  Speaker 3: also experiencing. So but I'm glad you're able to see
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  Speaker 3: all the good things while you're going through this too.
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  Speaker 3: Robby's like full chef, what's going on over that?
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  Speaker 1: I can't.
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  Speaker 3: Every time he puts on, I go, what's going on
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  Speaker 3: over there?
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  Speaker 2: So I've like I have needed a little bit of
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  Speaker 2: more a little more nutritional. Uh, what's the.
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  Speaker 3: Word nutritionally dense?
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  Speaker 2: I needed a more nutritionally dense diet for the past
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  Speaker 2: few weeks. And he really took it upon himself. Again,
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  Speaker 2: he doesn't need to do this, he took it upon
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  Speaker 2: himself to become this like culinary expert. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: what the hell is going on, but I have Gordon
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  Speaker 2: Ramsey in my house, like every night he's like, I'll
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  Speaker 2: have looking up this mustard vineagrette shellet sauce with the
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  Speaker 2: chicken and then the kale salad with pomegranate, and like
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  Speaker 2: he's whooping up stuff like.
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  Speaker 3: Crazy and it's beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, yeah, I think it's like his way
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  Speaker 2: of being able to be creative also while doing like
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  Speaker 2: what he wants to do for me right now and
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  Speaker 2: showing up for me in that way. But it is crazy.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like I'm getting DMS from some women being like
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  Speaker 2: do you feel bad? That you don't cook and I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: like negative one hundred. I feel bad, Yeah, like not
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  Speaker 2: at all.
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  Speaker 3: I feel sad. People feel bad like women that feel
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  Speaker 3: bad that they're not in the kitchen.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah that's okay. I feel no, no, And that's he's
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  Speaker 2: doing it like happily. He's not like grudgingly all.
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  Speaker 3: Robbie loves loves cooking and like being in the He
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  Speaker 3: watches barbecue brawle. He gets inspired and he also is
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  Speaker 3: a creative. He's an so I think the getting to
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  Speaker 3: plate it and make it look beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, that's been like a whole new Yeah. Now he's
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  Speaker 2: like into the knives and he's getting really into all
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  Speaker 2: the kitchen accessories like it's been. But I think at
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  Speaker 2: the root of it, it's because of me and stuff
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  Speaker 2: that I'm going through, and so that is like so meaningful. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: because he cares like that much.
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  Speaker 3: I know, it's a amazing Yeah, it's really nice. I
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  Speaker 3: told Tanya, I was like, well, if you ever doubt
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  Speaker 3: how loved you are, go back and watch this series
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  Speaker 3: of what he has been whipping up for you in
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  Speaker 3: the kitchen.
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  Speaker 2: Anyways, all this to say, I've been feeling like a
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  Speaker 2: bad friend to you lately, because like, you were in
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  Speaker 2: the raid this weekend and I didn't even know, like
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  Speaker 2: our best friend, and I'd like seeing videos of you
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  Speaker 2: on this parade and I'm like, I looked back through
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  Speaker 2: our text messages. You were very nonchalant about it. I
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  Speaker 2: was like, what are you doing this weekend? You're like, Oh,
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  Speaker 2: we're gonna go to Weehole Pride and then we're gonna
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  Speaker 2: go to a basketball game. Yeah, you never told me
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  Speaker 2: you were gonna be in a flow and that like
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  Speaker 2: I could come see you and wave, well.
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  Speaker 3: Pray it is open to everybody. So I also, I
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  Speaker 3: know that I haven't wanted you to feel pressured or
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. Sometimes I ask you to do things
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  Speaker 3: and you're like, I can't think of anything I'd rather
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  Speaker 3: do what? So I think it's just like there's certain things,
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  Speaker 3: but I would not expect you to be like, oh
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  Speaker 3: my god, I'm gonna drive over to us Hollywood, pray,
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  Speaker 3: try to find parking walk in the heap. I wouldn't
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  Speaker 3: stand there.
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  Speaker 2: And get dropped off right where I need to be and.
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  Speaker 3: Just didn't feel Again, I had no expectations for you
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  Speaker 3: to be there at all. But I also I didn't
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  Speaker 3: feel like it was something. I was like, I'm not
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  Speaker 3: gonna that's not something I'm gonna ask, but.
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  Speaker 2: It was so meaningful to you.
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  Speaker 3: It was it was it was meaningful to I mean,
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  Speaker 3: it was a girl's like girls float. They did focused features,
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  Speaker 3: did like a car, and Haley was planning on writing
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  Speaker 3: in it. And then she had tons of people that
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  Speaker 3: are on like the street team for the movie and
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  Speaker 3: friends and family walking with shirts that said girls like
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  Speaker 3: Girls and Team Haley on the back. It was so
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  Speaker 3: fun and I Haley said, oh, there's a seat in
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  Speaker 3: the car if you don't want to walk, and I
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  Speaker 3: was like, no, I'm happy to walk. I'm totally happy
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  Speaker 3: to walk in. And then her team was like, no,
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  Speaker 3: you're You're in the car with her. So I was like,
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  Speaker 3: that's fun of me. I'm happy to sit there and.
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  Speaker 2: Don't mind me.
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  Speaker 3: I wasn't really planning on being in there. And then
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  Speaker 3: I just told Ali about it because she is walkable
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  Speaker 3: from there, so I just was like, Hey, if y'all
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  Speaker 3: want to come down. So I didn't know she was
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  Speaker 3: going to be.
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  Speaker 2: There from there.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so when I saw her, I was like, oh
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  Speaker 3: my god. You know, so it wasn't something that I
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  Speaker 3: was like, oh my god, no one showed up for me.
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  Speaker 2: I'm all riddled with gill on Saturday and I was
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  Speaker 2: in painful.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you can let that down. I haven't felt that
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  Speaker 3: at all. You can let that guilt go. I have
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  Speaker 3: not felt that once.
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  Speaker 2: Well that's nice, that's good to hear.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, we had that one Sunday, and it was
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  Speaker 3: my first Pride parade. Like I've I've been to a
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  Speaker 3: parade where I stood there for like ten minutes or
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  Speaker 3: you know, one time in San Francisco, but it was
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  Speaker 3: my first time going and like well being in it
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  Speaker 3: and then also you know, just seeing being in it
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  Speaker 3: for that long, and it's so interesting because there's so
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  Speaker 3: much like hate and like people that are anti and
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  Speaker 3: it was so wholesome and like warm and everyone was
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  Speaker 3: just like so happy and it made me feel like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: it was just like gosh, the hate is so unwarranted
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  Speaker 3: for this, you know, like even.
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  Speaker 2: The protests there is so strong.
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  Speaker 3: Heley's amazing.
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  Speaker 2: Haley's like no, I said hate, oh oh yeah, but
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  Speaker 2: can be.
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  Speaker 3: So stronger, like it really is. But I think people
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  Speaker 3: like who have never experience taken what you hear hateful
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  Speaker 3: people say, and that's their expectation of what it's going
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  Speaker 3: to be. And even I was going into it being like,
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  Speaker 3: oh gosh, she's just gonna be like, you know, overwhelming
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  Speaker 3: or whatever, and it was just so wholesome and like
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  Speaker 3: I said, just full of joy and love. And just
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  Speaker 3: if you're in a space where people are making you
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  Speaker 3: think that those things are are scary or or like
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  Speaker 3: in any way negative, just know that is not accurate.
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  Speaker 1: There were protesters there.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, there's always protesters. But Haley's niece was in the
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  Speaker 3: car with us writing and I saw her looking at them,
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  Speaker 3: and I was just like, you know, sometimes weird people
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  Speaker 3: show up to these things, because she was just like,
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  Speaker 3: why are they screaming? You know? And she can read,
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  Speaker 3: so she's like, you know, and it's just one of
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  Speaker 3: those things where you're like, oh, yeah, you just kind of.
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  Speaker 1: What is sadder than that? That that's how we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: spend our Sunday, what Holly Wood, We're gonna scream at
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  Speaker 1: people and be hateful.
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  Speaker 3: I know. And you know I was telling Haley go
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  Speaker 3: to the beach. I know, I told Haley. I was like,
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  Speaker 3: they think that they're doing what's right, Like they're right.
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  Speaker 3: They're in a system where they're saying, like you're you're
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  Speaker 3: doing what you need to do against it's going against
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  Speaker 3: everyone else, but you're you know, you're doing this for
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  Speaker 3: God or whatever religion they're you know, I think it's
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  Speaker 3: I guess it's christian a really extreme form of Christianity,
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  Speaker 3: but it's just not loving. And I think that's where
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  Speaker 3: they miss the mark a lot. You know, it doesn't
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  Speaker 3: it doesn't come again. It doesn't make anyone want to
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  Speaker 3: go in the direction that they're going. I'll tell you
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  Speaker 3: that much.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So anyways, do you also do you have a
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  Speaker 1: moment of like, wow, ten years from now, I never
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  Speaker 1: thought i'd see the day.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I had. I posted about it. I was like,
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  Speaker 3: if you would have shown twenty eighteen back at this video,
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  Speaker 3: it would be so crazy because she wouldn't believe it.
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  Speaker 3: And I think that also it all the things that
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  Speaker 3: I had so much fear about kind of I look
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  Speaker 3: at it now and I'm like why, Like I carried
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  Speaker 3: so much of that, Like what are people gonna think
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  Speaker 3: of me? Like I could never do that. I could
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  Speaker 3: never be publicly on a parade and float with my girlfriend,
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  Speaker 3: my now fiance and not feel scared or you know,
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  Speaker 3: and bear whatever the fear, and I would go back
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  Speaker 3: and give her a big hug. So then we went
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  Speaker 3: to the Sparks game.
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  Speaker 2: Time time really is a healer, Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Just a reminder, Like, and I know there's so many
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  Speaker 3: people who aren't out yet and they're navigating and trying
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  Speaker 3: to They're probably thinking I'll never get to be out,
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  Speaker 3: Like I'll never get to be myself and feel free
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  Speaker 3: or you know, feel elated to be with my person
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  Speaker 3: that I want to love. But I just give it time.
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  Speaker 3: So after the parade, we went like went home, changed
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  Speaker 3: and freshened up, and then we went to the Sparks game,
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  Speaker 3: the WNBA game, and it was so much It was
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  Speaker 3: my first well I've been to one before, but we
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  Speaker 3: had side seats and it was so much fun, and
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  Speaker 3: I liked.
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  Speaker 2: The Timothy shallomet w.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly. But I was so excited and proud of how
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  Speaker 3: like packed the stadium was because you know, the women's
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  Speaker 3: sports teams have really gone through it. You know, they're
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  Speaker 3: finally starting to get recognition. And it was such a
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  Speaker 3: fun game. They promoted girls like girls like crazy. It
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  Speaker 3: was Pride night, so it was so fun. Haley through
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  Speaker 3: T shirts to the crowd was hilarious.
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  Speaker 2: With like the gun or the other hands. Oh dang,
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  Speaker 2: that's pressure.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. And then yeah, we had a pretty chill weekend
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  Speaker 3: and she's out doing press.
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  Speaker 2: Now that is not a chill weekend.
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  Speaker 3: No, it wasn't chill.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the opposite of chill.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we watched Love Island. I got Haley into she's
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: lucked in.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: Wow, I mean we definitely have to get into that.
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: Did you watch the Double the not the WM? Did
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: you watch the NBA Finals last night?
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: No?
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: But I was asking, so is it just starting? Do
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: you know? Mark? I know, I know.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: Please?
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: How many games have they had so so?
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: The New York Knicks, yeah, have won three?
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: Okay, nope?
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: Two? And the Spurs that are from Texas.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: Can you be more specific?
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: Nope?
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: I think alliteration.
• 16:18
  Speaker 3: The Spurs San Antonio.
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: San Antonio Spurs won one. And that's last night's game.
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: And what's the they have to win? How many?
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: Four?
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: Oh? Sorry tell you instead of seven?
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: Seven? So far?
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: Okay? Cool? When's the next one?
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: Game? Four is tomorrow night, five point thirty.
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: I'm bartered to watch these games.
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: I know.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: I'll give you a little Love Island if you give
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: me a little MBA. Yeah, but it's really I get
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: a cush deal because Love Island is an hour and
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: then I give him twenty minutes of basketball.
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: Why does he only get twenty minutes that deal? It
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: doesn't feel like the.
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: Deal because the game is so long, so we can
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: watch other things and then he can go back to
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: the game. It worked out nice. There was no complaints.
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: Why why is it an hour of Love Island for
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: an hour of basketball?
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: I can't watch an hour of basketball?
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: Well, he can't watch an hour of it?
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: Doesn't he does it?
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: But the Hello Island is every night except for one night.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and we're watching both. We're watching the USA and UK.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: Wow.
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: So it's quite the undertaking at the moment.
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you all got a lot going on over there.
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know it's like nice to kind of
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: like know what's going on the sports world.
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, just to talk with the bros about it.
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, just like when people are like, yeah, I'm like, yeah, you're.
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: Not going for go Nicks? Is that who you're going for?
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: No?
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: Oh, I'm going for the Spurs because there are they underdogs?
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: Are they always go underdog? Are they not? The underdogs.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: I don't know if they're the underdogs. I don't follow
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: basketball very closely.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: All I feel is my streams are my stream My
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: fees are just filled with Knicks fans.
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: Oh, I mean I only see this stuff about Tim Timmy.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: Charalame, Yeah he's a Knicks fan.
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's all I see is the stillers.
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: Of the underdogs. Okay, I love an underdog. Yeah, I
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: don't need the man to win, you know. Yeah, they're
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: all men, but like you in like metaphorically speaking, I
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: don't know the man the man to win.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: The Spurs were favorites going into the series. They're up
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: two games to one.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: But the Sin yeah, they're more beloved.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: Are you a fan of Victor wembin Yama?
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, the really tall guy.
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: Isn't his nickname Wimby?
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I see him on TikTok sometimes.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: How tall he is?
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: Six ten?
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: Nope?
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: Is he seven to one?
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: Seven? Four? Oh?
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: Geez?
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Louise, those are some he's got to do some
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: good exercises. Those are some tall limbs that he's got
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: to take care.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think that's why they wanted him. He
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: can literally just set the balls in the basket. He
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: doesn't even need to jump.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: How do you sleep? It probably only go wider. They
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: don't go longer.
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: You might have to get a really wide one and
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: lace to put it side, like two. He has to
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: get two an Alaskan king bed.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: They only go wider, I.
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: Know, but I'm saying you could shift it to where
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: it goes. Why you know the way?
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: I think if he's lying across, it's still not big enough.
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: Maybe he's just gotten used to his feet hanging off
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: of bed again. I can't. Okay, I want to get
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: into Love Island because I did start UK.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: Oh you did.
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: We'll talk about when we come back. We're back, okay,
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: Love Island. I want to start with USA because we
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: can get into the UK after because I have a
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: lot more to say about USA.
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: Tell me so.
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: Upon the first week, the first episode, I didn't even
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: finish the first episode. I was so grossed out. I
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: was like, these people are not people I want to
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: spend every single night with.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: For six weeks, the cast felt like Cossa. More like
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: it felt like the tier that you bring in like
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: midway through the season. Like that did not feel like
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: beginning cast energy.
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: No, which I don't know if I really have felt that.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: I do feel like it takes a little time to
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: get into it with other casts too, really, no way, yeah,
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: because you know what it is. They start with that
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: corny ass choreographer choreographed dance and you're like, I already
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: have a just a bad feeling about this.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: That dance is new. I think, people, this is only
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: like the third year they've done it.
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: Well those I guess how many years I've watched three three,
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: so I've only experienced that, but they continue to get
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: more cringe. But I weirdly like when our is it
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: Ariana or Ariana because they always say different on the show,
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: so I never know.
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: I think it's an accent. It's Arianna that you know.
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: It was really good good you need to maybe last
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: early love Violin and that was a little too good. Anyways.
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: I love when she comes in on the dance though,
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: because it almost feels it feels like it elevates it.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: She's a professional, uh huh. Anyways, so immediately I was like, no,
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: the kissing the back, it was so much back to
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: back making out and the noises. I just was disgusted.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: You know, I think that every year, like the kissing
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: on Love Island always becomes viral, like people are always
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: like talking about it, and so I feel like this
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: season the producers forced it upon us so early, like
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: episode one that it was just too much.
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: Well because you know they're going to do that in
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: the games and stuff, the challenges correct.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: But one that I'm saying, and then they're all just
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: like kissing each other.
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: Like I was like, you, I know, it was grossen.
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: I posted this on Instagram and someone was like, Okay,
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: prutty duty and I'm like, Okay, well, if I'm prude
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: for thinking that was disgusting, I'll take it.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: I'll be pretty even having the same thought, I'm like,
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: am I just old? Or like, is Love Island disgusting? This?
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: I think I've seen a lot of people talk about this,
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: so we're not alone.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: But don't even get me started on Beatrice and her
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: in Bisi ligne, because if you're making out with multiple
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: people within Visilne, the spit gets caught in there.
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: Oh that just shivers on my spine.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: Yes, she's a lot of spit swapping amongst She's Islanders.
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: Making out with her treason, I think.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: So, I don't know, I'm so focused on her. I
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: thought they were braces at first, but I'm pretty sure
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: it's in visil line.
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I don't know, but that's that's the detail
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: I didn't want to know about.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: It's a lot of saliva swapping. But I respect the
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: fact that she's trying to do the twenty two hours
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: that they recommend.
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: She's like, listen, this did not come at a convenient time.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: But yeah, and this cost me a pretty penny, so
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna follow the rules.
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: So yeah, my initial take was I'm not watching this
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: season and I'm just gonna have to an episode suffer
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: through listening to everyone talk about it. But then Taylor
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: came over to watch the Summerhouse Reunion Part two, and
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: then I said, let's just watch she goes, do you
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: want to just watch episode two? So I watched it,
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: and I will say, as expected, the cast has grown
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: on me more because I have a lot of issues
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: with them all, but I appreciate that there's conversations and
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: when when there's drama, that they have handled it and
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: talked to each other. And I loved the conversation with
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: Bea and Melanie when uh like, I loved when Trinity
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: called baa al and was like, listen, I get what
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: you were saying, but you were a little harsh. It
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: made me like Trinity more because I was like, oh,
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: she called her out, she stood her ground, and then
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: I liked it. The girls had a conversation and THEO
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: was like, I have a really hard time being vulnerable,
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: and that was the first time we kind of saw
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: depth from her, you know.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: So I saw this video and it really twisted that
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: whole scenario for me. Wait why because they were like
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: Beatrice was getting mad at Melanie for talking to the
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: new Bombshell because she wants Kenzie to talk to the
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: new Bombshell so that Kenzie will get off of Gabriel.
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well whatever the reason, Well.
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: Whatever, No, She's like trying to ask like she's like
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: all high and mighty, and I don't think it was.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: I think it was a little bit selfish.
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: I think she was I think that she was projecting
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: her insecurity coming across high and mighty. Yeah, but I'm
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: saying the conversation where she pulled Melanie to the side
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: and let me talk to her. I appreciated that, Corbin.
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: I have never seen someone come in with so much
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: Aura and just appeal only to crush as soon as
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: he opened his mouth. He's like wallpaper, like white wallpaper,
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: just that you want to dry. Yeah, he's so cute,
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: but there's just nothing that we have seen thus far
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: of depth from him. Yeah, I Melanie lost me a
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: little bit in last night's episode because of the the
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: paint stuff.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: I have to tell you something, And you know me,
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: I am a Love Island stand like, I am hardcore
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: stand by it. I will stick up for it. Last
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: night I was watching the episode and I was bored.
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: I was like, I.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: Finally got to the bed scene and I was like,
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: I have to go to sleep. I didn't even finish it.
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: Okay, well, okay, are you gonna watch it?
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah? But you can, I mean I don't. I'm not
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: wordy of spoilers.
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: Basically, they all had a color paint and they yea.
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: So they had to find their guy, and of course
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: they go through every guy and make out with him
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: before they found their man. Not everyone did. Everyone kind
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: of if they found their person, they would stop. But
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: Melanie went to the end and Sincere and Corbin were
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: both at the end, and she was going back and
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: forth multiple times and she'd be like, wait me one
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: more time, and just like knew which one Sincere was
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: because she like felt his bun and just kept making
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: out with both of them. And then I'm like he
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: all he did was pul kata for a chat and
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: she had a full meltdown.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So yeah, I really am eating my words because
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: I was like, I feel like Melanie and Sincere are
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: going to be the Tommy and Molly of this season.
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: Boy was I wrong? How are you feeling about the
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: comparisons to Kenzie?
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: So I don't know how to feel about it at first,
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: but visually I understand the way like she has, like
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: her dagger eye, like her big wide eye, with the
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: faces she makes, I understand like I make those same faces.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: And I've really come around on her. I think she's
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: really sweet. I think she's just like a sweetheart.
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: I do too. I like her.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, in the beginning, I didn't like her so much,
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: and now I'm like really liking her.
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: Well because when people started comparing you as when she
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: was like spiraling about Zach and they had known each
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: other for a day, She's.
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: Like, he doesn't like blondes. I'm like, who cares a
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: lot of guys don't like blonde alone sister.
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: But we were watching and Haley it was I think
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: the first episode she watched and she was like, this
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: is that is Tanya. I don't know if Toni's happy
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: about that.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: But yeah, the comparison is thick.
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: I think it's the expressions, the like squeet, the excitement,
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: the love of life, you know, the squeals. I think
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: that's more than it.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: And she's like evolved.
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she's just like very evolved she is.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: Don't you think if she gets called out, she's like, yo,
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: I get it. I'm sorry. You know. She's not defensive.
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: She's not like, ye, caddie.
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: What I'm saying. I do appreciate that about the girls
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: this season. There they'll say what they want to say,
• 28:07
  Speaker 3: and then if they hurt their feelings, they'll have a
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: conversation about it.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: So I started a UK because everyone's talking about how
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: much better it is, but I just what is it?
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: I can't get into the UK. I don't know what
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: it is that's correct because everyone likes it better, I
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: just can't.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: Did you watch the first episode? First two?
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: No, just the first episode and you didn't like it?
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: I just couldn't get into it.
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: It's so much better because you know why why it's classy.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: Well yeah, in a trashy way, like the show in
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: and of itself is not classy, but like the UK
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: version is classy. They managed to date other people and
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: like date people that their friends are dating in a
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: respectful manner. They're not making out and like being disgusting,
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: Like you know, like when they kiss, it's like it
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: actually means something, you know, like, oh my gosh, like
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: you guys kiss, that's so exciting. You know, we're in
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: USA that like kissed the whole cast night one. Yeah,
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: so it's just it's a little bit more wholesome and
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: the drama that they put like I don't want to
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: spoiler alert, but like they sent home Sam, Raj and
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: Ellie and then they send them a text saying no,
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: you get a second chance.
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: See I don't like that stuff. I love it because
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: it's like, why have the rules if they get sent
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: home and then you bring them back.
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: I think this is producers being like these two are
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: two of our most popular islanders. They were my two
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: favorite islanders and they just got sent home. I would
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: have been so pissed.
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: Was the point of having rules if you just can
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: change and want to die.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: That's what the producers do all season. Do you not
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: notice that they toy with us all season if they
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: want certain people on the island to stay.
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: They didn't like this season? Was yeah, I don't like
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: it because I'm like, I don't get why not just
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: make you just make your rules and run the show
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: how you want instead of making everyone feel like are
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: a part of it.
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: I like it.
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: I know you like him. You love being manipulated by
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: a production team?
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: I yeah, I love being manipulated. Just in general period period.
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: Ariana Grande and Ethan Slater broke up with Love Island.
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: Oh sorry, Oh my gosh.
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: I guess we can be done with it.
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: What else was there to say?
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: I mean, there's just so much like I don't know
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: if I can keep up the pace of watching both.
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: Also, it's a lot.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: It's a lot, So I am going to give it,
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: like a proper two weeks with both, and then I
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: think I'm gonna decide. But I think I know where
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: I'm leaning.
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: I guess the thing is, is what I The one
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: thing I do like about watching Love Island is the
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: camaraderie of everyone watching together. It's like the white lotus
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: of it all, Like you get to watch weekly and
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: you're all talking about it, and it feels like if
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: you miss it, then you aren't a part of it.
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: Not a part of it.
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: So you have to make your decision based on that.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: That's tough.
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: One who doesn't live in.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: The UK, that's tough.
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: But maybe you could find like a UK reddit or something.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: To be you know what's crazy. A lot of people
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: are watching UK.
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, apparently a lot people prefer it much over the
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: USA version.
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So I don't feel alone. I don't feel low.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: You know the thing that I don't really I didn't
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: watch vander Pump Rules, so I don't know Ariano Maddix,
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: but I feel like they're trying to make her this
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: like Maya Jama, the host of Love Island UK, is
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: this like sexy, like sex appeal, Like she walks in
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: and she like before Maya Jama, the other hosts were
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: not like that, Like they were just themselves. And I mean,
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: I think that's who I'm not saying Maya is trying
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: to be somebody else. I think that's just who she is.
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: But she's stunning.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: She's stunning. But she has this like sexy like ooz
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: is just like sex appeal, right. But what I'm saying
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: is the hosts before her were just themselves, you know,
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: like the girl next door. And I kind of feel
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: like Arian is trying to be the Maya Jama of USA,
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: and I just like I wish that she could just
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: be her feel comfortable being her.
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: I love her, but I know nothing about like I love.
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: I love that she comes in and it's like this
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: like whole thing every time she comes in, and I
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: love her little one her one liners make me llol,
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: like I like her, yeah thing not less. I don't
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: want to be friends with her.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: I feel like she's trying to be somebody that she's not.
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's the I think. I think she would
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: say that because when you see her in interviews and stuff,
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: she's not like that at all.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: So why isn't she just be her persona for like
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: her being the host and having this you know, the love.
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: I'm sure the producers are like, pump it up.
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like that.
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: I like she stands in her little podium far off you.
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: Know what I'm talking about, Like the walk in with
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: this and that's.
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: Love Island way, That's how I view the show.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: So that's OG's no.
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yah, I'm not a no. Yeah. As I
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: was saying, Ariana Grande and Ethans later broke up, which
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: I thought happened a year ago, So I was confused.
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: I was shook by this news.
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: Wait, I thought this happened forever ago.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: No, this just happened a couple months ago.
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: Shocked.
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: Yes, really, you're not. He broke up his family for this.
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: He had a wife, Mark, can you fact.
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: Up that he had a kid.
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, well he still has the kid.
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: The kid still is Yes.
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: Yes, he still is the father of the child. But like,
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: he broke up his family for this, Yeah, for this maybe.
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: Well maybe it wasn't her his decision. It takes two
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: to tango. Yeah, so I was. I wish them both
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: the best, but not surprised you weren't.
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: I thought this. I thought that maybe they get married.
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: I am under the impression that the vast majority of
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: Hollywood relations end marriages and everything, but you seem to
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: be stunned by every single one. I remember when Bieber
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: and Selena broke up, you were a despondent.
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, people are still.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: Over it truly. So you think I'm bad, I don't know.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: I think I saw that one coming. This one doesn't
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: surprise me in the least.
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: He broke up his family, right, like Mark, who is
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: a celebrity couple that if they broke up, you would
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: be shocked.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson.
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: They've certainly gone the distance.
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that would crush me.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: I think there are others, but nothing's leaping to mind.
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: Emily Blunt and John Krasinski.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: No, I don't think. I used to say that's fine.
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: Hugh Jackman and his wife.
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: Well, you've made a whole industry of predicting these relationships.
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: I did.
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: I don't know how I'm doing.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: Well, we can check in on that. It's been a while.
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I just thought it happened a long time ago.
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: So when it came out, I was like, get what
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: you know that I have? You see things happening before
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: they come to the light.
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: You know who's not getting divorced? Well, I'm sorry they're
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: not divorced. They broke up. Taylor Swift and Travis Kelsey.
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: Well, I hope not. They're getting married right, allegedly at
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: in Madison Square, Garden.
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: Can you believe that's not Do you think that's real?
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: So yeah, the fact.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: That TMC is reporting it makes me feel like it's
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: not just like a thing. But was it planted information
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: from her team to throw people off? I don't think so.
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: But my new theory is this, let's take a break. Okay, right,
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: we're back, We're back.
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: Okay, what's your theory? Okay?
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: So my theory is that when they invited people to
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: the wedding, they're not disclosing the location. M okay. Madison
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: Square Garden doesn't have any windows. Okay, okay, they also
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: have underground parking. Mark, can you do just a quick.
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: Could you see a theory about this?
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: No? No, this is all true. This is all true
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: that there's no windows and that there's underground parking.
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: So what I think that they're going to do is
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: because when people get married with like an undisclosed location,
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: they always have like a meeting place where people meet
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: and then they have like the buses or the shuttles
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: take them to the venue. So I think Madison Square
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: Garden is going to be the place where the guests meet.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: There's no windows, people can park underground, so they don't
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: get paparazzi. And then that's where Taylor's team or sorry,
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: Taylor and Travis's team is going to pick their guests
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: up and take them to the actual venue.
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: Oh that's an interesting theory to where.
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: People like can't see them, they won't follow them. Because
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: I believe there's underground tunnels, Mark.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: I mean there are, there is parking under msg, but
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: I think all the underground tunnels are subways. I don't
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: think there's other than that.
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: So if anyone can halt the subways for a day,
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: maybe I think it's Taylor and Travis.
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: WHOA, that's crazy.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: If I'm right, I'm genius.
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: Right, we're going to stick you on some other cases.
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: If you're right about that.
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry, I have to jump in here. I
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: checked Becka's list a couple of predictions. Somebody should go
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: back and find the audio. But on December thirtieth, twenty
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: twenty four. Okay, so Nocember twenty four, a year and
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: a half ago. We asked Becca what do you see
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: for Ariana and Ethan? And she said they would break
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: up in twenty twenty six.
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: See I knew. I That's why I was like this
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: already happened you guys.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: The time is a construct.
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: That's I think I should actually start speaking life into
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: relationships instead of.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: That's pretty good. And I was just going through some
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: of these other ones, like I noticed you had Zoe
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: kravitzen here and Noah Sentineo. They dated in March third.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: We asked you about that you did not think that
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: was going to go very.
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: Long, and that you said labor there, thanks for her.
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah you sure did. Yeah, pretty good.
• 38:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you. Yeah. So, well, what do you think
• 38:44
  Speaker 3: about her new song for Toy Story?
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: I like it?
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I like it too.
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: Are you gonna see Toy Story five? Well?
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: No, it's the same weekend Girls Like Girls comes.
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: Out, So I'm preserved for Girls Like Girls June nineteen.
• 38:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, shut up. Yeah, so you got big decisions to
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: make people.
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: Well, I missed Toy Story two, three, and four, so
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: I think you should catch up. I've got to catch up.
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: Before you might not need to see them to uh
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: to really be able to pick up what's going on
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: by Yeah, you think.
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: I think it's like, Well, it's like if I didn't
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: see the previous sonics, I don't think I would enjoy
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: it as much.
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: Which officially started recording the new one.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: So, yeah, the one that got away, There is one
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: in here she missed on I have to say Taylor
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: and Travis.
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I was, but I think I I think I
• 39:32
  Speaker 3: publicly changed my mind on I think I was, Like,
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: I think I was wrong.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: You guys, they did an update this, but on March
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: twenty seventh, twenty three, over three years ago, you said
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: that they would break up by October of twenty four.
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I let the I let the haters get in
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: my head.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah he did.
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: I also got nervous because he's a professional athlete and
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: I knew nothing about him, and I was like, I
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: felt scared for her, But I didn't know athletes do
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: have a rap. Yeah I don't know. I don't either,
• 40:04
  Speaker 3: but I didn't know much about him. And now that
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: I feel like I've seen more and I know him better,
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: I feel like I trust him more. I mean, I
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: don't think all athletes are bad people. I just am
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: saying that world is they have a reputation.
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: Imagine reading your vows to Taylor Swift's.
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: I don't think tough. I don't think he feels I
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: think that's why she like loves him.
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: Because I don't think he's not a wild smith.
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: He's not a wordsmith, and I don't think he feels
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: like he needs to be a wordsmith.
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: Like he's not gonna bust out some like poetry.
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: He's not leaving his typewriter at her house, no so,
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: and I think she likes that he's not trying to
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: be this poet just to be with her, like he
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: is who he is, and I think she likes that.
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: So I'm sure his vowels will be hilarious. Oh like jokie,
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: it's just like sweet and funny and romantic. But I
• 41:02
  Speaker 3: don't do I think they're gonna be lyrical. Maybe not, yeah,
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: but I love I love that for her because I
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: think she's dated men who probably write really yeah, trying
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: to use bigger words than she uses, and she's like
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: it up, Yeah, they're sorry, that's funny.
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: I'm just like so curious to see who's going to
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: the wedding, like I'm TMC keeps reporting like who's coming,
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: who got invited, who's not invited? Like whatever happened to
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: Taylor and Miles, Taylor, Taylor and Kelly or Kylie?
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: What's her name? Haley? Haley?
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: I know that was, well, they're like tight, and now
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: like they're not. What happened that was not reported on?
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: I feel like that falling out just like came and went.
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it felt like they were doing everything together and
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: then nothing.
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: All at once.
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: You never know, and maybe nothing happened, and it's just
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: people haven't seen them together, so they're speculation, right, so
• 42:06
  Speaker 3: you never know. They just be having to deal with
• 42:09
  Speaker 3: rumors left and right. Oh, can we talk about the
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: new trend that you sent me?
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: Yes? So I fear this is a trend that's coming
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: in hot and heavy for the summer. But it's like
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: the pants with the skirt over it. Do you remember
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: that was like a trend like where the skirt is
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: like built into the pants.
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: I don't even have a memory of ever wearing this.
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: What year was this?
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: I don't know, but I used to have so many
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: pants skirts, like it was a trend like in height
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: like what eighth year, like seventh grade, eighth grade? Maybe school? Yeah,
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: middle school.
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: And it's not because initially what you described to me,
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: I thought you were talking about like jeans with the
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: scarf tied around that looks like a skirt, huh, But it's.
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: Not that no, this is built in built in same
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: fact es basically a.
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: Skirt, yes, but pants since the.
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: Flowy pants underneath.
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: And so Tanya sent them to me examples, and she goes,
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: I fear I would look like Aladdin in these, and
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: so I did a little work and took a photo
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: of her and added them onto her. And I actually
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: didn't think the gold ones were that bad.
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: Chat GPT was generous with me. Really, yeah, I think so, I.
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: Don't think so. I feel like, look, I'll show you
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: the picture of this was the original photo her in
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: these black pants in a swimsuit, and then Chat added
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: the pants skirt. I think it's I like this one.
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: Actually I cannot, but I fear. I fear it's a
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: trend this summer. You know, I'll be trying it. That's
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: funny that you do that, because that was like a trend,
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: girly like you're.
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: You're willing to try. I can see a trend from
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: a mile away and say that is not going to
• 43:54
  Speaker 3: be something that makes me look trendy. That trend will
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: not look Try.
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: If there's anything about me is I'm going to try hard,
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Try, try and try again.
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: It's my initials.
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it only makes sense.
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: Try if I may try, if I might.
• 44:11
  Speaker 3: Well, in that note, we're going to try to end
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: this podcast all right successfully, But we do have one
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: coming Thursday, so don't worry. And that's not tomorrow but
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: the next day because so you don't even have to
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: wait that long because we'll hear our voices, because we'll
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: be back with the dear Bonyo on Thursday. We love you,
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: somebody love you.