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- 0:00Speaker 1: M HM. In all you're getting get wisdom. Wisdom is
- 0:08Speaker 1: the principal thing. Through wisdom is a house built.
- 0:11Speaker 2: And by understanding it, it's tapist join up possible, Joshua
- 0:16Speaker 2: Sellman of eternity as working international. As it takes you
- 0:20Speaker 2: on a journey into the wisdom of God's word, it's
- 0:24Speaker 2: increasing its.
- 0:26Speaker 1: Partnership, its fermianship.
- 0:29Speaker 2: This is Carimonias.
- 0:52Speaker 3: Lift your hands as waving to Jesus.
- 0:56Speaker 1: Thank you for this faateful if the Lord had not
- 1:01Speaker 1: been on my side, now make easier. Lord may give
- 1:06Speaker 1: you friend shave after trust. You're defendable the world of
- 1:26Speaker 1: trust lasting. We are casting, we are and we will ride.
- 2:11Speaker 4: You.
- 2:58Speaker 1: Father Frandsen and link tonight, please lift your voice the.
- 3:03Speaker 5: Baron to separate car lava stopt quicken my understanding, as
- 3:12Speaker 5: I level said, shall make you up quick to understanding.
- 3:17Speaker 6: Quack understanding, make me a quicker.
- 3:39Speaker 3: Allen, Spirit of the Living God, rant us understanding of
- 3:48Speaker 3: the world. Open our minds and supply the grades to
- 3:55Speaker 3: walk in the truths that we will learn.
- 3:57Speaker 1: We have come before you.
- 4:00Speaker 3: If he represent the wisdom of God to us, while
- 4:03Speaker 3: not rebels to your world, teach us open our hearts
- 4:07Speaker 3: grant us understanding, Grant us illumination in the name of
- 4:13Speaker 3: Jesus Christ a man, and Amen. Good evening, please be seated. Allelujah,
- 4:23Speaker 3: Praise the Lord. So is my joy to bring us
- 4:31Speaker 3: the word of the Lord. Bible says, I will stand
- 4:35Speaker 3: upon my watch and set myself upon the tower, and I.
- 4:38Speaker 1: Will see what the Lord would say. Every time spent
- 4:43Speaker 1: in his presence gives us access to wisdom. Wisdom.
- 4:49Speaker 3: The spirit of wisdom is the dimension of the Holy
- 4:52Speaker 3: Spirit responsible for bringing prophecy to pass. When God speaks,
- 4:57Speaker 3: the dimension of the Holy Spirit that goes forward is
- 5:00Speaker 3: the spirit of wisdom. He begins to coordinate people and
- 5:04Speaker 3: circumstances that make for a manifestation of that which has
- 5:09Speaker 3: been spoken. I sensed in my spirit even while I
- 5:13Speaker 3: prepare for this meeting that there will be a mighty
- 5:17Speaker 3: and not importation, but tonight's communication will be under the
- 5:23Speaker 3: strong influence of the Spirit of wisdom. Allelujah.
- 5:28Speaker 1: Every time God is speaking, there are.
- 5:30Speaker 3: Many ways that he speaks, but when the Spirit of
- 5:33Speaker 3: Wisdom is operating on a man communicating the word of
- 5:38Speaker 3: the Lord, and is important to listen. Every time the
- 5:41Speaker 3: wisdom of God comes, it means that there is something
- 5:44Speaker 3: about his intention for your life that has been spoken
- 5:47Speaker 3: about that he desires to be made manifest.
- 5:51Speaker 1: Allelujah, Praise the Lord.
- 5:54Speaker 3: All the dimensions of the Holy Spirit revealed in the Bible,
- 5:57Speaker 3: they don't work anyhow, they accomplis specific things.
- 6:02Speaker 1: Allelujah.
- 6:03Speaker 3: Jesus will give you all the priest. I want to
- 6:16Speaker 3: appreciate our passion for the world. I have noticed personally
- 6:21Speaker 3: that the Lord is multiplying and increasing our desire and
- 6:27Speaker 3: are appetite not just for Bible study, but for revelation
- 6:32Speaker 3: that works. I think that when your heart is opened
- 6:36Speaker 3: to know the truth, it says, and ye shall.
- 6:39Speaker 1: Know the truth.
- 6:41Speaker 3: And if it is really the truth, you know there
- 6:43Speaker 3: will be an evidence that truth can make you free.
- 6:47Speaker 1: Allelujah, it will make you free.
- 6:50Speaker 3: So you check the liberty you are experiencing in every
- 6:54Speaker 3: area of your life.
- 6:55Speaker 1: That is, your.
- 6:56Speaker 3: Liberty is what justifies in valid date whether or not
- 7:00Speaker 3: the information you are receiving is truth, because if it
- 7:04Speaker 3: is truth, then an aspect of your life should experience
- 7:08Speaker 3: that dimension of liberty. If I catch the truth about finances,
- 7:13Speaker 3: I should experience that liberty. Is that true if I
- 7:16Speaker 3: catch the truth over my victory in Christ. I should
- 7:20Speaker 3: see it demonstrated by.
- 7:23Speaker 1: My ability to rise beyond the oppressions of darkness. If
- 7:27Speaker 1: I catch the truth concerning my health, it should show
- 7:32Speaker 1: is that true if I catch the truth concerning whatever
- 7:35Speaker 1: aspect of life.
- 7:36Speaker 3: So all you need to do is to look at
- 7:39Speaker 3: your life, the areas where you still remain.
- 7:42Speaker 1: A slave an in bondage.
- 7:45Speaker 3: It's a picture of the dimension of truth that is
- 7:49Speaker 3: yet to be real to you. And ye shall know,
- 7:52Speaker 3: not have you can have it forever, but it is
- 7:55Speaker 3: the day you know it.
- 7:56Speaker 1: Ye shall know the truth.
- 7:59Speaker 3: And tonight the Lord is coming, which is truth again. Truly,
- 8:03Speaker 3: when you have this revelation, you will love the house
- 8:06Speaker 3: of God.
- 8:07Speaker 1: The House of God is the place of truth. Is
- 8:10Speaker 1: that true? Yes, the place of truth.
- 8:14Speaker 3: So I expect that by the time we're sharing the
- 8:17Speaker 3: grace tonight, someone will work rejoicing because something that may
- 8:23Speaker 3: have kept you bound for long, all of a sudden
- 8:26Speaker 3: you find out that this is the revelation that is
- 8:29Speaker 3: needed truth.
- 8:33Speaker 1: So if you are have been a.
- 8:35Speaker 7: Faithful follower of God and his word for a long time,
- 8:40Speaker 7: there should be some level of liberty in your life
- 8:44Speaker 7: that is compelling enough.
- 8:46Speaker 1: To want someone to listen to what you are listening to.
- 8:49Speaker 3: You can't claim you are around truth for an appreciable
- 8:53Speaker 3: period of time, and then every area of your life
- 8:57Speaker 3: is helplessly in bondage. No, sir, That means you've been
- 9:00Speaker 3: around the environment of truth, but you have not listened.
- 9:04Speaker 1: Carefully or engaged diligently. We have learned that been around
- 9:10Speaker 1: the truth does not bring transformation. It does even bring liberty.
- 9:15Speaker 3: The truth personallyfied Jesus the word himself. There were people
- 9:20Speaker 3: who lived with him and act with him, yet they
- 9:22Speaker 3: did not change. Being around the vicinity of truth does
- 9:26Speaker 3: not guarantee liberation.
- 9:28Speaker 1: It doesn't guarantee transformation. Are we together now? Lord, help
- 9:32Speaker 1: me to understand and receive the truth. Can you pray
- 9:37Speaker 1: that one prayer help me understand shabracottuscle atakasu branched now
- 9:50Speaker 1: brand does ya husakorosia, and ye shall know the truth.
- 9:56Speaker 1: And the truth that you know that you have.
- 9:59Speaker 3: Received, that you have engaged, will set you free.
- 10:07Speaker 1: Allelujah, Press the Lord.
- 10:13Speaker 3: We have been examining. We started right from last year
- 10:19Speaker 3: what I would summarize as success systems, because I believe
- 10:23Speaker 3: that it is the will of God for us to
- 10:25Speaker 3: rise to excel, and the Lord has been opening us
- 10:29Speaker 3: up to all the dimensions that are prerequisites for a
- 10:34Speaker 3: life that becomes a validation of everything Jesus said in
- 10:39Speaker 3: the Bible. It is my goal that we excel in
- 10:43Speaker 3: every aspect of our life, not just in one area
- 10:47Speaker 3: at the expense of another.
- 10:49Speaker 1: Allelujah.
- 10:50Speaker 3: And the Lord helped us to share a lot of things,
- 10:53Speaker 3: and I just feel stared in my heart to still
- 10:57Speaker 3: share tonight along the side of relationships, because I believe
- 11:03Speaker 3: that our success in life is based on relationships. I
- 11:11Speaker 3: have grown to appreciate the power of relationships.
- 11:18Speaker 1: Alleluyah.
- 11:19Speaker 3: I will pick an aspect of it to share today
- 11:22Speaker 3: and then it will bless us. And then we also
- 11:24Speaker 3: get into you know when the season February usually are
- 11:28Speaker 3: seasons when ministries focus on aspects of relationship, not necessarily
- 11:32Speaker 3: marriage and love. But then I think it's valid for
- 11:36Speaker 3: all times. If you do not understand relationships, you will
- 11:41Speaker 3: never prosper in life. You will never be victorious. It
- 11:45Speaker 3: is true, say fact, in all your knowing, in all
- 11:50Speaker 3: your understanding, no matter your business acumen, no matter your
- 11:54Speaker 3: educational qualification, no matter your level of spirituality, If you
- 12:00Speaker 3: do not understand God's system of relationships, then you stand
- 12:06Speaker 3: a chance to being a failure and a frustrated personality.
- 12:13Speaker 3: I've told us here that the easiest way to succeed
- 12:17Speaker 3: in life is through relationships. Your relationship is a stream
- 12:22Speaker 3: of income. Your relationship greater than any invention. The only
- 12:28Speaker 3: thing that validates invention is because men are there to appreciate.
- 12:32Speaker 1: And reward it. This is the world of men. You
- 12:36Speaker 1: have to understand men.
- 12:38Speaker 3: I watch with shock and wonder how we get whipped.
- 12:44Speaker 1: Over issues that should give us cheap.
- 12:46Speaker 3: Victories because we ignore the systems of God. The easiest
- 12:51Speaker 3: way to succeed in life is true relationships. I told
- 12:55Speaker 3: us that relationships are currencies. They can purchase anything money
- 13:00Speaker 3: can buy. There are seven currencies we used to purchase
- 13:04Speaker 3: realities in this realm that the lowest and the seventh
- 13:09Speaker 3: of them is money financial resources. There are many other
- 13:14Speaker 3: currencies that are used. Integrity is currency. Godliness is currency.
- 13:21Speaker 3: The annointing is currency. Relationship is currency anything money can buy.
- 13:28Speaker 1: Relationship can pay for it anything.
- 13:33Speaker 3: The only thing that gives value money or money value
- 13:36Speaker 3: is that there is a hand to collect it and
- 13:39Speaker 3: reward you.
- 13:41Speaker 1: One person can open a hundred doors of opportunity for you.
- 13:45Speaker 3: Sometimes we really don't need so many people in our
- 13:48Speaker 3: lives in terms of favor and open doors.
- 13:50Speaker 1: You just need one person.
- 13:54Speaker 3: Sent by God and will open a door. I've told
- 13:59Speaker 3: us that who likes you can make all.
- 14:01Speaker 1: The difference in your success.
- 14:04Speaker 3: God has trained us to understand that we do not
- 14:07Speaker 3: ignore men and prosper You exhort God are both men.
- 14:12Speaker 3: But you ignore men, every prophecy will remain burying in
- 14:16Speaker 3: the realm.
- 14:16Speaker 1: Of the spirit.
- 14:17Speaker 3: Even God had to look for men to cooperate with him,
- 14:22Speaker 3: and he still does still today. So who likes you
- 14:26Speaker 3: can make a difference. A king loved a village girl,
- 14:30Speaker 3: and she.
- 14:30Speaker 1: Became a queen. A king hated a queen.
- 14:34Speaker 3: And she lost her place. God so loved men and
- 14:38Speaker 3: they became redeemed. It matters who likes you. Everything reproduces
- 14:47Speaker 3: on the basis of relationship. Everything everything in life, your success,
- 14:52Speaker 3: your failure, your spirituality. Everything in life reproduces. Adam, where
- 15:03Speaker 3: are they? I heard your voice? What I hit because
- 15:06Speaker 3: I was naked? What relationship entered between us to make
- 15:10Speaker 3: for that? Who told you it didn't say what happened?
- 15:13Speaker 8: Who told you your neglecting.
- 15:17Speaker 3: My laws have been because I'm not that individual and
- 15:21Speaker 3: not that personality was introduced. Everything reproduces on the basis
- 15:28Speaker 3: of relationships. Your resources in life, your finances, your access
- 15:36Speaker 3: will always come out of relationships. Your resources will always
- 15:42Speaker 3: come out of relationships. I'm just reading with you what
- 15:48Speaker 3: I as a preamble. Favor is who God has made
- 15:56Speaker 3: to like you, and your willingness to manicate benevolence to you.
- 16:02Speaker 1: Favor is who God has made to like you. It's
- 16:08Speaker 1: amazing how.
- 16:09Speaker 3: Your life can change when the right people like you.
- 16:13Speaker 1: It's true.
- 16:15Speaker 3: The Bible is full of hevinistic kings who fell in
- 16:18Speaker 3: love with certain individuals, like Pharaoh to Joseph.
- 16:23Speaker 1: And all of his shudden their lives changed.
- 16:26Speaker 3: Like Daniel in Babylon, two men had a similar dream,
- 16:37Speaker 3: and for one person it meant the favor of the king.
- 16:41Speaker 1: He was restored as the wine presser.
- 16:43Speaker 3: For another person it was death and the hongymn the
- 16:47Speaker 3: birds of the air Ethimo. But I've taught us again
- 16:54Speaker 3: the relationships don't maintain themselves.
- 17:00Speaker 1: This is the most important part of my conversation. Relationships
- 17:04Speaker 1: don't maintain themselves.
- 17:06Speaker 3: The parties involved must commit to maintaining it.
- 17:12Speaker 1: Any kind.
- 17:13Speaker 3: It doesn't just have to be love relationships, marriage, or
- 17:16Speaker 3: there's not any kind. Business relationships, your relationship between you
- 17:20Speaker 3: and the Holy Spirit, your relationship between you and your friends,
- 17:24Speaker 3: you and parents, love relationships, marriages, business, career relationships. No
- 17:31Speaker 3: relationship maintains itself the parties involved, doesn't matter how many
- 17:37Speaker 3: they must commit to maintaining it. And the Holy Spirit
- 17:42Speaker 3: studied my heart to teach us a dimension today of
- 17:46Speaker 3: relationships that I think.
- 17:49Speaker 1: Will really really bless us. There are not.
- 17:53Speaker 3: Many times when I stand and I tell you that
- 17:55Speaker 3: a teaching will bless you.
- 17:57Speaker 1: If tonight's teaching does not bless you, something.
- 18:00Speaker 3: Is really wrong with your understanding. Allelujah. I title what
- 18:05Speaker 3: I'm about to share.
- 18:06Speaker 1: What is love? Understanding relationships? What is love? This?
- 18:19Speaker 3: This is not about love relationships necessarily at all.
- 18:24Speaker 1: It's more serious than that. It's a subject that God has.
- 18:28Speaker 3: It's something that God has revealed to me that I think.
- 18:32Speaker 1: The body of Christ needs to understand. What is love?
- 18:37Speaker 3: Jeremiah Chapter thirty one.
- 18:44Speaker 1: I love I love these three. I love your presence.
- 18:54Speaker 9: I love.
- 19:00Speaker 6: I love your priend, I.
- 19:04Speaker 4: Love my.
- 19:09Speaker 9: I love you g.
- 19:19Speaker 1: I love your.
- 19:23Speaker 3: It says the Lord had appeared of old onto me,
- 19:27Speaker 3: saying please read with me. Yeah, I have loved been
- 19:32Speaker 3: with an everlasting love.
- 19:35Speaker 1: Dear four, with loving kindness have I drawn you? This
- 19:41Speaker 1: is God speaking.
- 19:42Speaker 3: I have loved you with an everlasting love. The basiness
- 19:49Speaker 3: of my relating with you is love. It took my
- 19:53Speaker 3: loving kindness to draw you to myself to receive of
- 19:57Speaker 3: my benevolence.
- 19:59Speaker 1: Now it is this love that we want to consider.
- 20:04Speaker 1: What is love? John chapter three, verse sixteen, very popular scripture.
- 20:10Speaker 1: Many of us have not ready for a long time.
- 20:13Speaker 3: Because of our pride of believing we know what it
- 20:15Speaker 3: says John three sixteen.
- 20:18Speaker 1: For God, read the first, the third, and the fourth
- 20:21Speaker 1: world one to read so loved, so loved.
- 20:28Speaker 3: That's the key word forget about what he did later
- 20:31Speaker 3: on the foundation for anything.
- 20:35Speaker 1: That was done. So loved. I have loved you with
- 20:40Speaker 1: a never last seen love.
- 20:41Speaker 3: And in my loving kindness I have drawn you to myself.
- 20:45Speaker 3: And the Bible says, for God so loved the world.
- 20:49Speaker 3: Whatever he did is a subject of another day. The
- 20:52Speaker 3: most important.
- 20:53Speaker 1: Thing you can say, he gave his only begotten son
- 21:00Speaker 1: because he so loved the world. Are you seeing that now?
- 21:06Speaker 1: The foundation for his benevolence, and his sacrifice was the
- 21:12Speaker 1: extent of his love.
- 21:15Speaker 3: Love is the word that is used greatly in our
- 21:20Speaker 3: world today and in our society. We attach it to
- 21:23Speaker 3: our affection affinity for things.
- 21:25Speaker 1: You hear people say.
- 21:26Speaker 3: I love you, I love my car, I love my boss,
- 21:32Speaker 3: I love my wife, I love my husband, I love
- 21:36Speaker 3: my children, I love Jesus, I love poinonia. Is that true?
- 21:41Speaker 3: And so it's a word. It's not a word that
- 21:44Speaker 3: is new or strange, even foreign. Even little children will
- 21:49Speaker 3: tell you they have an idea. We have always associated
- 21:53Speaker 3: love with something that is positive. But I just want
- 21:59Speaker 3: to help us because knowing this will turn every aspect
- 22:05Speaker 3: of our lives around, not just relationships, finances.
- 22:09Speaker 1: Our work with the Holy Spirit, and so on and
- 22:12Speaker 1: so forth. It is a word that, in many respects
- 22:16Speaker 1: is carelessly used.
- 22:17Speaker 3: Many people do not understand the gravity of what they
- 22:20Speaker 3: are saying. I love you, or I love your shit,
- 22:25Speaker 3: I love this phone, I love this book, I love
- 22:29Speaker 3: Jesus Christ, I love my wife, my husband, I love
- 22:34Speaker 3: my father. And for many of us, and I think
- 22:39Speaker 3: largely our society societally speaking, we're victims of this. Every
- 22:46Speaker 3: time we mentioned the word love usually the scope of
- 22:51Speaker 3: our understanding. Please listen, the scope of our understanding is
- 22:55Speaker 3: hinged around.
- 22:57Speaker 1: The emotions at time. We use the word love from
- 23:03Speaker 1: a layman's perspective.
- 23:05Speaker 3: Many people just use it to explain the goodness the
- 23:10Speaker 3: positive attachment. Is that true that they have towards a
- 23:14Speaker 3: person or towards a thing. So for many people, the
- 23:19Speaker 3: scope of love is just emotions or a world we
- 23:22Speaker 3: have invented to explain it.
- 23:24Speaker 1: Feelings, feelings.
- 23:26Speaker 3: So when you feel good about a thing or a
- 23:29Speaker 3: person and you are actual to articulate what is happening
- 23:33Speaker 3: to you, you say, I love that thing.
- 23:35Speaker 1: I love this flower.
- 23:37Speaker 3: Why you say, because it is beautiful, the design made
- 23:41Speaker 3: it pleasant to my eyes.
- 23:43Speaker 1: And then I have.
- 23:44Speaker 3: A positive affinity towards it, and I call it love.
- 23:51Speaker 3: But you see, I want to share with us a
- 23:53Speaker 3: number of things that will help us ready.
- 23:56Speaker 1: Number one, true love is not emotion. True love is
- 24:04Speaker 1: not emotions. It's not feelings. Now, don't get me wrong.
- 24:09Speaker 3: There is an emotional component when you're talking about love.
- 24:13Speaker 1: There has to be an emotional component. But love is
- 24:17Speaker 1: not emotional.
- 24:20Speaker 3: If the entire scoop of your definition of love for
- 24:24Speaker 3: a person or for a thing is just an attempt
- 24:28Speaker 3: to express the emotional affinity towards that thing, then you
- 24:33Speaker 3: are very limited.
- 24:34Speaker 1: Please listen.
- 24:36Speaker 3: There is a lot of trouble in marriages, in relationships.
- 24:41Speaker 1: In carnality, attachment to things because of this one definition. Feelings.
- 24:52Speaker 3: The word's feeling is a very is a psychological word.
- 24:56Speaker 3: It's a word that was invented to explain.
- 25:00Speaker 1: Your psychological disposition at a given time.
- 25:04Speaker 3: It's called feelings, an expression of your psychological disposition. So
- 25:10Speaker 3: if I am not feeling all right because of it,
- 25:14Speaker 3: for instance, it's.
- 25:15Speaker 1: Stomach upset, you ask me what's wrong, and I tell
- 25:18Speaker 1: you I'm feeling sick. Is that true? If someone annoys
- 25:23Speaker 1: me and I am not happy, you ask me what's
- 25:26Speaker 1: wrong with you? I say, I'm feeling bad. So the
- 25:29Speaker 1: word feeling is the word that.
- 25:32Speaker 3: Attempts to describe your psychological.
- 25:35Speaker 1: Disposition at a given time. It is God helping us tonight.
- 25:39Speaker 3: Please make sure you are listening everywhere online, outside, because
- 25:43Speaker 3: one of the biggest unbecomings of people is their vulnerability
- 25:49Speaker 3: to feelings.
- 25:52Speaker 1: When you become a victim of feelings.
- 25:55Speaker 3: Both your relationship with God and your relationship with life
- 26:00Speaker 3: will be shattered because you see feelings. Listen, love is
- 26:08Speaker 3: not a feeling. Love is not emotion.
- 26:12Speaker 1: Love can and should create feelings.
- 26:16Speaker 3: True love should create feelings. Don't get me wrong. True
- 26:19Speaker 3: love should create emotions. Would discuss that later. Without emotions
- 26:25Speaker 3: and without feelings, you cannot be committed towards a person
- 26:28Speaker 3: or a project. I preach and we run this ministry
- 26:32Speaker 3: and do what God is doing because much more than
- 26:35Speaker 3: an instruction from God, I'm emotionally connected to what I'm doing,
- 26:39Speaker 3: and therein lies my passion for the work I'm doing.
- 26:43Speaker 3: Without feeling, without emotion, there is no business for being passionate.
- 26:48Speaker 1: But love is not feeling. Are we together? Love can
- 26:57Speaker 1: create feelings, but it's not feel.
- 27:02Speaker 3: We know from life and biology that feelings can be
- 27:06Speaker 3: products of chemical.
- 27:07Speaker 1: Reactions, hormones, Feelings can be products of whatever it is,
- 27:16Speaker 1: all kinds of.
- 27:19Speaker 3: Physiological things that happen within a human being.
- 27:23Speaker 1: That is the reason why love that is based on
- 27:26Speaker 1: feelings should not be trusted. Is that true?
- 27:34Speaker 3: When you build your love life based on emotions and feelings,
- 27:39Speaker 3: you will.
- 27:40Speaker 1: Never be able to sustain.
- 27:42Speaker 3: That's why many people do not have the strength to
- 27:45Speaker 3: push a business idea to the end, they say they
- 27:48Speaker 3: love it because the idea reflected a positive emotion to them.
- 27:54Speaker 1: Is that true? And so they believe that they love
- 27:57Speaker 1: the idea.
- 27:58Speaker 3: But then when I'm not our idea came to them
- 28:01Speaker 3: higher and better than that one. All of a suddenly
- 28:04Speaker 3: your loyalty to that idea went, and it is easier
- 28:07Speaker 3: for it to be a thing.
- 28:09Speaker 1: It is terrible when it becomes a person. Is that true.
- 28:14Speaker 3: We live in a world where our definitions of love
- 28:18Speaker 3: are based on feelings. So when you feel good about
- 28:22Speaker 3: a person, you say, I love that person.
- 28:25Speaker 1: And for many of us, now I say this with honor.
- 28:29Speaker 1: We have watched films, we have been exposed to books,
- 28:33Speaker 1: and we have even been mentored by personalities who have
- 28:37Speaker 1: been so inclined to emotions, and.
- 28:41Speaker 3: The entire scope of their definition of love is that
- 28:45Speaker 3: it must always give you a feeling, a positive feeling,
- 28:51Speaker 3: and if for any reason the feeling is.
- 28:53Speaker 1: Not positive, then it is not love. That is not
- 28:57Speaker 1: an accurate teaching or helping us.
- 29:01Speaker 3: So if I say, come, I love David dam what
- 29:06Speaker 3: for many of us are saying.
- 29:09Speaker 1: What we're trying to say is that my sight of David.
- 29:12Speaker 3: It doesn't matter what parameters I put together to arrive
- 29:16Speaker 3: at my idea of love. What I'm attempting to say
- 29:20Speaker 3: is that the presence of David Dam creates a.
- 29:25Speaker 1: Positive emotional experience for me. Is that true? And then
- 29:31Speaker 1: I can be fooled.
- 29:32Speaker 3: Into thinking that just because at the moment I felt
- 29:37Speaker 3: positive about.
- 29:38Speaker 1: Him, I love him. Then tomorrow I announced it.
- 29:43Speaker 3: I'm not a side of David Dam that communicates an
- 29:47Speaker 3: experience that does not go well with my.
- 29:50Speaker 1: Idea of happiness? Is that true?
- 29:53Speaker 3: And all of a sudden I change my mind and said, David.
- 29:56Speaker 1: Damb I no longer love him.
- 30:00Speaker 3: Remember that's what you did to the shirt you now
- 30:02Speaker 3: throw in your house. See how much you loved it
- 30:05Speaker 3: when you bought.
- 30:05Speaker 1: It, beautiful shet, my god, and you wore it and
- 30:09Speaker 1: you were happy.
- 30:11Speaker 3: Something about that shit made you feel happy and excited,
- 30:16Speaker 3: and you use.
- 30:16Speaker 1: The wrong word. You called it love. And now because
- 30:21Speaker 1: the shets began to fade or tear, it started.
- 30:26Speaker 3: Falling your hand, and you no longer were confident about
- 30:31Speaker 3: it because it no longer created that disposition. Confess right
- 30:35Speaker 3: now what did you do to the shed? Isn't it
- 30:40Speaker 3: amazing how your attitude towards that shirt has changed. You
- 30:43Speaker 3: look at it in your wardrobe and have no pity
- 30:47Speaker 3: for that shirt. Think of how much you were bagaining
- 30:50Speaker 3: just a few months ago. Please reduce one thousand, reduce
- 30:54Speaker 3: five thousand.
- 30:55Speaker 1: And this is the sht now. But you said you
- 30:57Speaker 1: loved the shit.
- 31:01Speaker 3: Remember when you drite it, And for whatever reason.
- 31:04Speaker 1: You do find it you start who took my shirt?
- 31:07Speaker 1: But now the shirt is right there? Love? What exactly
- 31:14Speaker 1: it's love?
- 31:20Speaker 3: Feelings are always based I wrote something here.
- 31:26Speaker 1: Feelings are temporary.
- 31:28Speaker 3: Dispositions based on something we consider pleasant. Feelings write it down.
- 31:36Speaker 3: Feelings are temporary dispositions based on something we consider pleasant
- 31:46Speaker 3: about someone or an object. So if they be done things,
- 31:53Speaker 3: watch this. I give the bedomb a mic and he
- 31:57Speaker 3: has a beautiful voice.
- 31:59Speaker 1: Now when he he.
- 32:00Speaker 3: Raises that voice, his flawlessness is focal discipline, he's apt history,
- 32:05Speaker 3: the ability to coordinate himself musically sounds pleasant to me.
- 32:11Speaker 3: That gives me a basis for feeling right.
- 32:14Speaker 1: About David dam is not correct.
- 32:16Speaker 3: And now I may be tempted to call that feeling love,
- 32:21Speaker 3: It remains love for as long as David.
- 32:23Speaker 1: Dum is singing. What if he's sleeping?
- 32:26Speaker 3: What is the name of the experience. The difference between
- 32:30Speaker 3: singing now snorting. Them all makes sounds. One is coordinated,
- 32:35Speaker 3: one is not. So they are all coming out from.
- 32:38Speaker 1: The same person. That's the interesting thing. All coming up
- 32:42Speaker 1: from the same personality. Now one is coordinated.
- 32:45Speaker 3: Please understand what I'm teaching you, And then it is
- 32:48Speaker 3: pleasant to.
- 32:49Speaker 1: You, and he becomes like cable all of a sudden.
- 32:53Speaker 3: You are drawn emotionally based on something. Now most of
- 32:58Speaker 3: us may not admit that that what is drawing us.
- 33:02Speaker 3: Is that true? And then the person now snores, for instance,
- 33:06Speaker 3: And then that experience does not go.
- 33:10Speaker 1: Well with your disposition, and you begin to lose that fever.
- 33:17Speaker 3: Our world is in danger of losing it if we
- 33:21Speaker 3: do not understand what love is. I foresee that if
- 33:24Speaker 3: we do not know what love is, many marriages will break,
- 33:29Speaker 3: Many relationships will not even exist.
- 33:32Speaker 1: Many businesses will never grow to be big enough. Many ministries,
- 33:37Speaker 1: many leaders.
- 33:38Speaker 3: Will not be able to write because of this mistake
- 33:44Speaker 3: of feelings. Building anything on just feelings and emotions is
- 33:51Speaker 3: a guarantee of failure and frustration. Please hear what I'm saying.
- 33:57Speaker 3: Building anything at all, just based on feelings and emotion
- 34:05Speaker 3: is a guarantee for failure and frustration. When you build
- 34:10Speaker 3: a business on feeling, when you build a relationship on feeling,
- 34:14Speaker 3: when you build marriage on feeling, when you build your
- 34:19Speaker 3: work with God on feeling, when you build your spirit
- 34:22Speaker 3: to our growth process on feeling. That's what makes a
- 34:26Speaker 3: lot of believers start feeling bad.
- 34:28Speaker 1: I used to feel the presence of God in a
- 34:31Speaker 1: way when I'm about to plan the stage, I feel
- 34:34Speaker 1: that thing. When I feel it, I know God is there.
- 34:37Speaker 3: And right now I'm about to pray for sick people,
- 34:39Speaker 3: and I don't seem to feel it, and they believe
- 34:43Speaker 3: God is not there with me. Because we have been
- 34:45Speaker 3: trained we don't need no feelings. But feeling is not love.
- 34:51Speaker 3: Feeling has brought a lot of people into trouble. There
- 34:54Speaker 3: are marriages that are in trouble today because of the
- 34:57Speaker 3: mistake of feeling. Listen carefully. There are relationships today that
- 35:01Speaker 3: are in shambles because of feeling.
- 35:04Speaker 1: There are businesses, there are careers. There are people today
- 35:08Speaker 1: who are.
- 35:08Speaker 3: In geographic regions that they should never be.
- 35:11Speaker 1: Ask them what happened, they say, I felt so. There
- 35:15Speaker 1: are people who should.
- 35:16Speaker 3: Never be close to certain personalities. There are people who
- 35:20Speaker 3: should never be involved in certain businesses. It's like an
- 35:24Speaker 3: emotional rampage. Feelings their drivers up and down, and so
- 35:29Speaker 3: we begin to vacillate based.
- 35:32Speaker 1: On whatever disposition we have at the moment.
- 35:36Speaker 3: When a revelation sounds good to you, Ah, this is wonderful,
- 35:41Speaker 3: and then you.
- 35:42Speaker 1: Love the revelation, so you say. Then the day you
- 35:45Speaker 1: understand the gravity of that revelation and it does not
- 35:47Speaker 1: go well with you, you throw it away. Love is not feeling,
- 35:57Speaker 1: it's God helping us. There are many things in life
- 36:01Speaker 1: that have capacity. Please look up. There are many things in.
- 36:05Speaker 3: Life that have capacity of creating positive emotional experiences for us.
- 36:12Speaker 1: Looks can create that.
- 36:15Speaker 3: You know that when you see a guy or a
- 36:18Speaker 3: lady or whatever individual or a thing, once it is
- 36:22Speaker 3: good looking, it can create a positive experience for you.
- 36:29Speaker 3: Education when you see someone who is well learned, someone
- 36:33Speaker 3: who has been able to acquire stratifications of all kinds,
- 36:37Speaker 3: they have a way of creating.
- 36:39Speaker 1: A positive disposition. Is that true appearance when you see.
- 36:45Speaker 3: Someone looking sharp and looking.
- 36:47Speaker 1: Nice, beautiful and handsome. When I stepped in and I
- 36:50Speaker 1: saw a worship team, they were all looking.
- 36:52Speaker 3: God, just wonderful people right from outside I saw our ushers.
- 36:56Speaker 1: Too, they were looking beautiful. I had a positive position
- 37:00Speaker 1: towards them. Are you following me now? Orientation when you
- 37:07Speaker 1: see someone who is exposed first intelligent, he has a
- 37:12Speaker 1: great command of his intellect, well developed.
- 37:15Speaker 3: Understanding about several aspects of life. And the person has
- 37:18Speaker 3: an opportunity to articulate his understanding before you.
- 37:22Speaker 1: Naturally, naturally, you will be drawn towards the person.
- 37:28Speaker 3: There are other things like well finances. Finances have the
- 37:34Speaker 3: capability of creating pleasant experiences.
- 37:39Speaker 1: Why because they.
- 37:40Speaker 3: Are able to be exchanged for a solution you desire.
- 37:44Speaker 3: You can exchange money for a solution that you desire,
- 37:48Speaker 3: could be medically, could be spiritually. You can use money
- 37:52Speaker 3: to buy a Bible. You can use money to move
- 37:54Speaker 3: from being a tenant to a landlord.
- 37:57Speaker 1: It can give you a lot of options.
- 38:00Speaker 3: Godliness and spirituality. When you find out that someone has.
- 38:04Speaker 1: A very high level of understanding with.
- 38:07Speaker 3: God, that disposition can cause pleasantness.
- 38:13Speaker 1: But none of those things in themselves equates to love.
- 38:18Speaker 1: Is God helping.
- 38:18Speaker 3: Us because you see many of our marriages, many of
- 38:24Speaker 3: our relationships, many.
- 38:26Speaker 1: Of our businesses are hinged on physical things that were
- 38:31Speaker 1: pointed out and used as references.
- 38:35Speaker 3: To mean what we call today love. So when you
- 38:39Speaker 3: meet the gentleman and say why do you love this lady,
- 38:44Speaker 3: he says because she's beautiful, or because she has character,
- 38:50Speaker 3: or because.
- 38:50Speaker 1: She did whatever it is. Why do you love this gentleman?
- 38:54Speaker 1: He says, he's responsible, he loves God, doesn't run around.
- 38:57Speaker 3: His well cultured and his visionary. Those things look very.
- 39:02Speaker 1: Sincere, and they are, but that's not love. Are we together?
- 39:07Speaker 1: Why do you love this intelligent entrepreneur? Oh, this guy
- 39:12Speaker 1: is very sharp. His business acumen is sound. The result
- 39:16Speaker 1: he has has to show for it. Why do you
- 39:18Speaker 1: love this course you are studying?
- 39:20Speaker 3: I love it because I was told there is an
- 39:23Speaker 3: opportunity there.
- 39:24Speaker 1: I love it because my father tried to study.
- 39:27Speaker 3: It and it didn't work. Now you think that those
- 39:30Speaker 3: things mean love. They are positive, don't get me wrong,
- 39:34Speaker 3: but they.
- 39:34Speaker 8: Are wrong foundations for love, because if your foundation is
- 39:42Speaker 8: based on those things, there will be serious struggle.
- 39:46Speaker 3: How many of you have seen an old man and
- 39:49Speaker 3: an old woman maybe the old woman maybe sixty five
- 39:53Speaker 3: to seventy years, and how old husband is rinkled sitting
- 39:57Speaker 3: on a wheelchair, and you see.
- 39:59Speaker 1: Them your hands and say, we love ourselves.
- 40:03Speaker 3: Talk to me, intelligent people, we feel emotionally drawn to ourselves.
- 40:10Speaker 1: Is that what you believe? They are saying? It couldn't be.
- 40:16Speaker 1: We make it full of.
- 40:17Speaker 3: Ourselves because of the impulsive nature of our lives, which
- 40:23Speaker 3: has been a derivative of our idea about love that
- 40:27Speaker 3: every time I have.
- 40:28Speaker 1: A positive disposition towards a thing or a person, then
- 40:34Speaker 1: I love the thing or the person.
- 40:36Speaker 3: And whenever that positive feeling is not there, we now
- 40:41Speaker 3: say I do not love the person.
- 40:43Speaker 1: That's not God's idea. That's not the definition of love. Allelujah.
- 40:51Speaker 1: The Bible says goes that God loves the chastises. How
- 40:54Speaker 1: do you equate chastening with love?
- 41:07Speaker 3: Impulsive marriage is, impulsive businesses, impulsive relationships, impulsive career pathways
- 41:18Speaker 3: and all these mood swings that come in life are
- 41:22Speaker 3: product of dependence.
- 41:24Speaker 1: On feelings to make destiny decisions.
- 41:28Speaker 3: There are people I remember talking to a lady one
- 41:31Speaker 3: I was in a gentleman one day and it came
- 41:33Speaker 3: and met me, said I want to read a course.
- 41:35Speaker 1: I said why, I say, because I like the name.
- 41:37Speaker 1: That's exactly what we're talking about. I went together chemical engineering,
- 41:46Speaker 1: a chitecture neural sojourn aromatic engineer.
- 41:56Speaker 3: You know, so the name is charismatic, and we do
- 42:00Speaker 3: not understand the gravity of what is involved, and we
- 42:03Speaker 3: subscribe for things that we start regretting from day one.
- 42:09Speaker 1: Is that true?
- 42:13Speaker 3: Many people have been whipped by the sad reality that
- 42:17Speaker 3: they were not ready for what they subscribe for. This
- 42:20Speaker 3: happens in relationships, it happens in businesses.
- 42:23Speaker 1: Listen, if you listen to what I'm teaching you tonight,
- 42:26Speaker 1: I promise you you will work out here happy and
- 42:29Speaker 1: you will live happy. As far as relationships are concerned.
- 42:35Speaker 3: Feelings can be deceptive and are not an accurate measure
- 42:41Speaker 3: of love.
- 42:42Speaker 1: Write it down.
- 42:43Speaker 3: Feelings can be deceptive, Feelings all kinds. Feelings can be
- 42:51Speaker 3: deceptive and are not an accurate measure of love.
- 42:58Speaker 1: As any married.
- 42:59Speaker 3: Man and man married woman, as any mother and her children,
- 43:03Speaker 3: as every father and the children, as any leader and
- 43:06Speaker 3: his subordinates, they will tell you that if you depend
- 43:10Speaker 3: on feelings as an index to measure love, you will
- 43:14Speaker 3: be deceived. Many times. There are times that you are
- 43:18Speaker 3: having the greatest manifestation of the presence of.
- 43:21Speaker 1: God in your life, and you will not feel nothing.
- 43:24Speaker 3: But at those times your relationship and work with God
- 43:28Speaker 3: are two incredible proportions.
- 43:30Speaker 1: But because you have programmed.
- 43:32Speaker 3: Yourself into believing that because you felt his presence and
- 43:36Speaker 3: he shook your body, that meant you were receiving an importation.
- 43:40Speaker 1: How many people walk out of miracle services.
- 43:43Speaker 3: Angry because they did not have a feeling they expected
- 43:48Speaker 3: to fall down?
- 43:49Speaker 1: Is the noisemaker who was sitting close to.
- 43:51Speaker 3: Them that was not even prepared in the spirits, who
- 43:54Speaker 3: was falling up and down. And they go back feeling
- 43:57Speaker 3: pain and disappointed and said, look, you mean you watch
- 44:00Speaker 3: me like this first thing I did even't break. And
- 44:03Speaker 3: this guy who was gossiping and.
- 44:05Speaker 1: Making noise from praise and worship, he was already on
- 44:07Speaker 1: the ground.
- 44:08Speaker 3: We convince ourselves that because there was no feeling that
- 44:13Speaker 3: accompanied your experience that your senses could relate.
- 44:16Speaker 1: With, you didn't receive anything. It's the reason why many
- 44:19Speaker 1: people don't get filled with the Holy Spirit because they
- 44:22Speaker 1: are waiting for feelings.
- 44:31Speaker 3: Feelings can be deceptive and are not an accurate measure
- 44:36Speaker 3: of love. Are feelings wrong no? Are emotions wrong no?
- 44:42Speaker 3: But our society, many of you sit there today looking
- 44:46Speaker 3: at me, are depending on a feeling to show you
- 44:50Speaker 3: your wife, you are depending on a feeling to show
- 44:53Speaker 3: you your husband. You are depending on a feeling to
- 44:56Speaker 3: love your wife if you're married, or a feeling to
- 44:59Speaker 3: love your hosband. You are depending on a feeling to
- 45:02Speaker 3: save God. You are depending on a feeling to believe
- 45:05Speaker 3: that you are loved. In your department, You're depending.
- 45:08Speaker 1: On a feeling. Feelings are deceptive, very deceptive.
- 45:17Speaker 3: Before I tell you what love is, I want to
- 45:19Speaker 3: show you a scripture that blessed me dimensions of true love.
- 45:25Speaker 3: Let's discuss that deficient chapter three. Please, from verse seventeen
- 45:30Speaker 3: and eighteen. It's amazing how Paul gives us.
- 45:33Speaker 1: His exegesis on the.
- 45:36Speaker 3: Subject of love. Very strange communication that came from Paul.
- 45:42Speaker 3: And let's see what he's saying. Paul said that Christ
- 45:46Speaker 3: may dwell in your hearts by faith. Look at me,
- 45:49Speaker 3: listen that ye being rooted and grounded in love. Now
- 45:54Speaker 3: Paulice confusing us here, Paulice giving us an idea. You
- 46:00Speaker 3: know it's using agricultural terminologies.
- 46:03Speaker 1: But this is not where I'm going.
- 46:04Speaker 3: Verse eighteen it says, may be able to comprehend with
- 46:10Speaker 3: all the saints written with me.
- 46:12Speaker 1: What is the number one the breath number two, the
- 46:16Speaker 1: length number three, the depth number four, the height. So
- 46:23Speaker 1: love has these dimensions. There is breath, there is length,
- 46:30Speaker 1: there is depth, there is height. Have you experienced these dimensions.
- 46:37Speaker 3: In your definition of what you call love? If I
- 46:42Speaker 3: ask you, what is the breadth of love? And when
- 46:45Speaker 3: should it be used? Because it's in the Bible. If
- 46:49Speaker 3: I ask you, what is the length of love? And
- 46:51Speaker 3: when should it be used?
- 46:52Speaker 1: Because all these dimensions have their relevance. Remember his teaching
- 46:56Speaker 1: us to grow in.
- 46:57Speaker 3: The fullness of God, who is love and is fragmenting
- 47:01Speaker 3: this dimensionally. And he's saying that love has breadth and length,
- 47:06Speaker 3: and depth and height with one of the four.
- 47:09Speaker 1: Do you know when you say love, which of them
- 47:13Speaker 1: do you refer to? My brother? When you say I
- 47:18Speaker 1: love that lady, which of this is it? The breadth,
- 47:23Speaker 1: the length, the depth, When.
- 47:26Speaker 3: You say I love Jesus.
- 47:29Speaker 1: Which of them?
- 47:33Speaker 3: Because fly saying if that thing you are doing or
- 47:36Speaker 3: no is love, it must have breadth, Listen carefully, it
- 47:40Speaker 3: must have length, It must have depth, Thank you media,
- 47:45Speaker 3: it must have height. Believe us, love us, Remember we
- 47:49Speaker 3: love God and love ourselves. What is the name of
- 47:52Speaker 3: what we have been doing? With respect to this, I
- 47:58Speaker 3: love you, I love my card. And Paul says that
- 48:05Speaker 3: things we are talking there are dimensions the first dimension.
- 48:10Speaker 3: Write it down. I want to give you the four dimensions.
- 48:14Speaker 3: The Lord revealed this to.
- 48:15Speaker 1: Me and it changed my life. It really deep.
- 48:19Speaker 3: If these for dimensions are not captured in your idea of.
- 48:24Speaker 1: Love, then never talk about it.
- 48:28Speaker 3: These for dimensions I'm about to describe for you. If
- 48:32Speaker 3: they are not captured, all four must be captured for
- 48:36Speaker 3: it to be called love.
- 48:39Speaker 1: Play over four in this equation it still it must be.
- 48:43Speaker 3: Four over four to be called God's idea. The dimensions
- 48:48Speaker 3: of love ready Number one.
- 48:50Speaker 1: Passion. The first dimension of love is passion. There is
- 48:59Speaker 1: no your love if it cannot be expressed in passion.
- 49:06Speaker 1: That's why I told you that there is a place
- 49:08Speaker 1: for feelings. It's only that feelings is.
- 49:11Speaker 3: Not the entire school. Please follow me in this teaching.
- 49:14Speaker 3: God is going to be revealing to many of us
- 49:16Speaker 3: the mistakes will be making, whether in love, relationships, even
- 49:21Speaker 3: in marriages and our work with God and businesses and
- 49:25Speaker 3: relationships among believers around.
- 49:31Speaker 1: Passion. What is passion is strong or.
- 49:35Speaker 3: Extravagant fondness of something.
- 49:38Speaker 1: When you are strongly fond of something.
- 49:42Speaker 3: It can be said you are passionate about that person
- 49:45Speaker 3: or that thing.
- 49:47Speaker 1: What is passion? Sorry, I'll hurry up.
- 49:49Speaker 3: You can get the teachings enthusiasm or desire for someone
- 49:55Speaker 3: or something.
- 49:57Speaker 1: Your passion for a person or a thing is measured
- 50:00Speaker 1: by your.
- 50:01Speaker 3: Enthusiasm your desire for something. You cannot say you love
- 50:12Speaker 3: a person or you love a thing, and intrinsicalit there
- 50:17Speaker 3: is no desire. Person is called an intense enthusiasm, compelling desire,
- 50:28Speaker 3: even admiration qualifies to be called passion.
- 50:37Speaker 1: Write this down. The proof that you are passionate about
- 50:42Speaker 1: a person or a thing is pursuit. Pursuit. Pursuit is
- 50:49Speaker 1: the proof of passion.
- 50:51Speaker 3: When you love someone and you love something, you are
- 50:55Speaker 3: willing to be vulnerable enough to pursue that personality, to
- 51:00Speaker 3: pursue that idea. There cannot be passion when there is
- 51:05Speaker 3: a shamedness for pursuit towards.
- 51:09Speaker 1: God, towards men.
- 51:15Speaker 3: There are many relationships and many marriages, many business ideas
- 51:22Speaker 3: that do.
- 51:22Speaker 1: Not have passion attached.
- 51:24Speaker 3: So the individuals they may say that they love this
- 51:30Speaker 3: line of business, but I do not see pursuit.
- 51:34Speaker 1: They may say I love this lady, I love this.
- 51:37Speaker 3: Guy, but there is no desire for pursuit. Many say
- 51:42Speaker 3: I love Jesus, I love the things of God, but
- 51:46Speaker 3: there is no pursuit. The first dimension of love that
- 51:50Speaker 3: must be at work in your life is pursued some aide.
- 51:55Speaker 3: Please quickly, let's look at God himself demonstrating this dimension
- 52:02Speaker 3: of love. Some eight and us three. This is the
- 52:09Speaker 3: sammist in shock and awe as to white. The God
- 52:13Speaker 3: of the heavens, with all the dexterity of heaven, will
- 52:17Speaker 3: still look down at man. Remember the Bible said, for God, soul,
- 52:21Speaker 3: love the world.
- 52:22Speaker 1: I have loved you.
- 52:24Speaker 3: We are not studying love from any relationship experts. We
- 52:27Speaker 3: are studying love directly from the one we invented any
- 52:30Speaker 3: inself because many people have carved out I have great
- 52:34Speaker 3: honor and respect for people authorities that God has used
- 52:38Speaker 3: in the area of.
- 52:38Speaker 1: Love and relationship. Board.
- 52:40Speaker 3: There is a deception that is destroying the body of Christ.
- 52:43Speaker 3: Every angry person comes up with a book and any
- 52:47Speaker 3: idea of what they believe and begin to mentor young
- 52:50Speaker 3: guys and young ladies. And we are destroying marriages, hsions, dreams,
- 52:57Speaker 3: relationships because of wrong template that are being communicated.
- 53:02Speaker 1: So let's go to God. How did God express pasion?
- 53:05Speaker 1: This is what the psam is saw that made him wonder.
- 53:08Speaker 1: He said, God, is it that you cannot do without man?
- 53:13Speaker 1: You throw your pride on the ground. Your throne is
- 53:16Speaker 1: not enough for you. You look at a man that is
- 53:19Speaker 1: so godless and doesn't love you. He said, when I
- 53:22Speaker 1: consider the heavens, do you know what he's saying? Lord,
- 53:26Speaker 1: you are not dull.
- 53:28Speaker 3: You make the heavens without pillers, the works of your fingers.
- 53:31Speaker 3: Can't you invent another thing to replace that man? The
- 53:37Speaker 3: moon and the sas which thou hast ordained best?
- 53:39Speaker 1: Four were reading verse five.
- 53:41Speaker 3: What is man that thou art change mindsful to passionate?
- 53:46Speaker 1: Ready?
- 53:47Speaker 3: What is man that thou art passionate? Not the son
- 53:54Speaker 3: of Man that you prove you are passionate?
- 53:57Speaker 1: By doing what visiting him? You leave your throne. You
- 54:03Speaker 1: are not even considering whether people who say have but God,
- 54:07Speaker 1: you are too big for this childishness. It's no problem.
- 54:10Speaker 1: Say whatever you say about me. I am in love
- 54:13Speaker 1: with that man, and the first dimension is my passion.
- 54:16Speaker 3: I am not ashamed. Let's go back to a world
- 54:22Speaker 3: of proud and arrogant people. Where a guy claims he
- 54:26Speaker 3: loves a lady, but he is still protecting his vulnerability.
- 54:32Speaker 1: You are not passionate. You are not in love.
- 54:36Speaker 3: Where somebody claims he loves a business, he loves his idea.
- 54:40Speaker 1: I love this. I love that I am a business man,
- 54:44Speaker 1: and you are not serious. I don't see you wake
- 54:46Speaker 1: up in the night.
- 54:47Speaker 3: To read any book. I don't see you go for
- 54:49Speaker 3: any seminar. You are not passionate.
- 54:52Speaker 1: You do not love it. The first dimension of love is.
- 54:56Speaker 3: Measured by your passion, and your passion measured your willingness
- 55:01Speaker 3: to pursue without being embarrassed.
- 55:04Speaker 1: Anything that shame will not let you pursue. Don't even start.
- 55:10Speaker 1: Shame and love doesn't go hand in hand. No matter
- 55:14Speaker 1: who you are in.
- 55:16Speaker 3: The world of God's idea of love, you must be
- 55:19Speaker 3: willing to throw shame down to pursue a person, an idea,
- 55:24Speaker 3: or pursue God. When we were sitting here and the
- 55:27Speaker 3: w Wasship team were praising, I saw Jimmy got up and.
- 55:30Speaker 1: He was dancing honor shamedly. Is a proof of passion?
- 55:36Speaker 1: Is that true?
- 55:39Speaker 3: Listen, be careful whenever someone says he loves you, or
- 55:44Speaker 3: she loves you, or you think you love someone. Before
- 55:49Speaker 3: you make a shipwreck of your life because of ignorance,
- 55:52Speaker 3: ask yourself question number one. Am I willing to be
- 55:57Speaker 3: vulnerable enough to pursue I have loved you with an
- 56:02Speaker 3: everlasting love, and my everlasting love was demonstrated by my
- 56:07Speaker 3: being mindful.
- 56:11Speaker 1: Lord. There are many things to distract you in heaven,
- 56:15Speaker 1: the beauty of heaven, the throne room, the four and
- 56:19Speaker 1: twenty elders. And after he watches that orchestra and Heaven,
- 56:22Speaker 1: all of his sudden they find God thinking, and the
- 56:25Speaker 1: elders can wonder, God, what again, and he says, man,
- 56:29Speaker 1: seem true. Here is the stubborn and careless man rooming around,
- 56:33Speaker 1: trying to make an image a bow to him, and
- 56:37Speaker 1: the angels say, George, now, George, God you are wise,
- 56:42Speaker 1: and he says, no, I'm not ashamed that as great
- 56:45Speaker 1: as I am, God's a weak point. Man has gotten it.
- 56:50Speaker 1: This is God. Listen, don't ever marry anybody who doesn't
- 56:56Speaker 1: have this thing. I'm telling you.
- 56:59Speaker 3: Big Man is say Man, passion cannot go hand in hand.
- 57:02Speaker 3: Show me what wakes you in the night. And I
- 57:04Speaker 3: know whether that idea is worth your love?
- 57:07Speaker 1: What wakes you? You snow by ten and wake up
- 57:10Speaker 1: by eleven, say my named entrepreneur. It's not for you.
- 57:13Speaker 1: It's very clear that you don't have passion for that thing.
- 57:17Speaker 1: You can try other aspects of life.
- 57:19Speaker 3: Lord, I love you, and you are praying and then
- 57:23Speaker 3: fall asleep and sleep for ten hours.
- 57:25Speaker 1: Now, when you are mindful.
- 57:28Speaker 3: Of anything, there is passion there. It's God helping us. Tonight,
- 57:32Speaker 3: lend this.
- 57:33Speaker 1: This is the spirit of wisdom speaking to you.
- 57:37Speaker 3: We'll use words shrelessly and do not understand the gravity
- 57:41Speaker 3: of what we're saying.
- 57:42Speaker 1: Lord, I love you, he says, which dimension is that? Dimension?
- 57:46Speaker 1: Number one? I love you. I am passionate towards you.
- 57:51Speaker 1: I am not ashamed of my vulnerability. Oh, David showed
- 57:55Speaker 1: us what passion was. He stands before God, and the
- 57:59Speaker 1: wife said, or thing again where you're not trained? Well,
- 58:05Speaker 1: David said God, that took me from.
- 58:07Speaker 3: The back side, as you're not down before Khen. God
- 58:10Speaker 3: had it and God said, you dare not stop.
- 58:13Speaker 1: Anyone who is passionate about me. Number two, what is
- 58:20Speaker 1: the second dimension of love? Commitment?
- 58:24Speaker 3: Write it down the second dimension of love? There is
- 58:29Speaker 3: no love. I've not defined love or we're just describing
- 58:33Speaker 3: the dimensions. Love is commitments. Everybody shout commitment. Do you
- 58:44Speaker 3: know what commitment is? Commitments is the willingness to give
- 58:48Speaker 3: your time, the willingness to give your energy, the willingness
- 58:53Speaker 3: to give yourself to something or someone you believe in
- 59:00Speaker 3: is called commitment. The willingness to give your time, the
- 59:06Speaker 3: willingness to give yourself.
- 59:08Speaker 1: Person talks of pursuit.
- 59:11Speaker 3: The honor shamedness to remain mindful of a thing, But
- 59:15Speaker 3: commitment talks of the staying power.
- 59:18Speaker 1: Brothers and sisters, there is no emotion to commitment. Commitment
- 59:23Speaker 1: is a product of your belief in.
- 59:26Speaker 3: A thing, staying power based on the fact that you believe.
- 59:32Speaker 3: So you can see a believer being persecuted and they're
- 59:36Speaker 3: going to set fire on him, and he's willing.
- 59:40Speaker 1: Lord, I remain with you.
- 59:41Speaker 3: Denounce Jesus Christ or die? Is there any pleasure there?
- 59:46Speaker 1: No? Son, listen to me.
- 59:51Speaker 3: Commitment is the state or quality of being dedicated. Another
- 59:58Speaker 3: spain on him for commitment is the dedication.
- 1:00:01Speaker 1: I know how committed you are to a person or
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: a thing by dedication.
- 1:00:11Speaker 3: I wrote a definition that when I finished writing I
- 1:00:14Speaker 3: finished writing it, I doesn't leave my head.
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: And I took a deep breath and I said, God,
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: this is serious.
- 1:00:21Speaker 3: Here this The third definition of commitment is an engagement
- 1:00:28Speaker 3: or obligation that restrict freedom of action.
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: Hi, you must write everything. Let me say it again.
- 1:00:37Speaker 1: An engagement or obligation to someone or.
- 1:00:42Speaker 3: Something that restricts freedom of action.
- 1:00:47Speaker 1: Look at this kind of dangerous definition.
- 1:00:49Speaker 3: So there is a restriction that commitment can create your life.
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: The love of God constraints constraints. There are actions that
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: are restricted because of commitment.
- 1:01:16Speaker 3: You have options, you can sleep, you have options, you
- 1:01:20Speaker 3: can travel, you have options, you can go for vacation.
- 1:01:24Speaker 1: But your commitments for your vision because you believe.
- 1:01:29Speaker 3: That if you're committed to that vision, your children.
- 1:01:31Speaker 1: Will eat from it. So you stay and they look
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: at you and say, ah, the be damn, what is
- 1:01:37Speaker 1: this that you have claimed the keyboard? Two am? Two am.
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: You are tired. You say, it's true, it's obvious your
- 1:01:45Speaker 1: eyes are teary. But something else has obsessed you more
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: than the discomfort you are having commitment. There are many
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: believers who are not committed to anything. There are many
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: young people who are not committed to anything, and anyone
- 1:02:02Speaker 1: we run away from commitment. I'm a member of cononia. Boy,
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: I don't want to join any workforce. That's how I am.
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: Do you know why?
- 1:02:10Speaker 3: Because the restriction that commitment brings is what we're afraid of.
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: Restriction. It's God blessing us.
- 1:02:24Speaker 3: Number three, let's hurry up the third dimension to love.
- 1:02:28Speaker 3: When we get to the fourth dimension, you give us
- 1:02:30Speaker 3: that scripture again in efficients. The third dimension to love
- 1:02:36Speaker 3: is pleasure.
- 1:02:38Speaker 1: Write it down.
- 1:02:41Speaker 3: If you must manifest full love, it must be captured
- 1:02:46Speaker 3: this dimension pleasure. What is pleasure, delight, gratification. There must
- 1:02:56Speaker 3: be delight, There must.
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: Be space for gratification.
- 1:03:01Speaker 3: What is pleasure the satisfaction derived from what is to
- 1:03:07Speaker 3: one's liking. It cannot be a war of pain and
- 1:03:12Speaker 3: regrets and fighting and pursuits. Indefinitely. Know there is a
- 1:03:21Speaker 3: dimension to love that is defined by pleasure.
- 1:03:24Speaker 1: PM sixteen, verse eleven. Let me tell you.
- 1:03:29Speaker 3: Something that is very interesting about love personified.
- 1:03:33Speaker 1: Here's what the Bible says sixteen verse eleven. Psums are
- 1:03:36Speaker 1: we there?
- 1:03:38Speaker 3: It says, thou will show me the part of life
- 1:03:42Speaker 3: ready in your presence is what fullness of joy? And
- 1:03:48Speaker 3: then it is say in the hand of a twenty
- 1:03:50Speaker 3: four elder at your right hand, at what for how long?
- 1:03:56Speaker 3: If your definition of love is all about pain and
- 1:04:00Speaker 3: fights and there is no capture of the dimension of pleasure.
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: Then you are not defining love based on God's terms.
- 1:04:10Speaker 1: God's teaking to us, Yes, whether it is a love.
- 1:04:14Speaker 3: Relationship, whether it is a business relationship. I should come
- 1:04:18Speaker 3: and see you working on a difficult project with a
- 1:04:20Speaker 3: smile on your face.
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: And I said, but I'm aware this thing is hard.
- 1:04:25Speaker 1: You mean you have to count these things one by one,
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: and there are five thousands of them. And he say,
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: even me, I don't know why this thing gives me joy.
- 1:04:32Speaker 3: My brother continued, that's the sign that there is love there.
- 1:04:36Speaker 3: There are many things we do and we're angry and
- 1:04:38Speaker 3: frowning at it. Relationships, career, even work with God.
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: Brothers and sisters.
- 1:04:46Speaker 3: Do we not rejoice after we love God? We celebrate
- 1:04:49Speaker 3: miracles here in his presence. He makes sure that the
- 1:04:53Speaker 3: dimension of delight is featured in.
- 1:04:55Speaker 1: Our serving him. Is delight and pleasure feature in your
- 1:05:00Speaker 1: idea of relationship? There are husbands and wives.
- 1:05:05Speaker 3: There are people in relationships where there is completely no
- 1:05:09Speaker 3: joy and laughter and delight at all.
- 1:05:15Speaker 1: There may be passion there may be commitments, but there's
- 1:05:18Speaker 1: no delight, no jokes, no laughter.
- 1:05:25Speaker 3: Especially for we who are very visionary people, it's a side.
- 1:05:29Speaker 1: Effect that comes with being visionary.
- 1:05:31Speaker 3: Sometimes we can strangle every iota of pleasure from our lives.
- 1:05:37Speaker 3: I have found myself many times been on fair even
- 1:05:40Speaker 3: to myself in this regard, because of the enormous responsibilities
- 1:05:45Speaker 3: that I have over my life and over people. I'm
- 1:05:48Speaker 3: always thinking. But the Bible says even God.
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: Loves from is true? Are wing together? The Bible says
- 1:05:57Speaker 1: laughter do it good? Like medicine, h pleasure must be captured.
- 1:06:03Speaker 3: There are times that I've been involved in ideas involving things,
- 1:06:07Speaker 3: and I've enjoyed the beauty and the joy of triumph.
- 1:06:13Speaker 3: Your business should make you laugh one day.
- 1:06:17Speaker 1: Your firscuit of the annointing should make you laugh one day.
- 1:06:20Speaker 3: If you continue being angry indefinitely, can your.
- 1:06:23Speaker 1: Voice that this thing is not for you? There must
- 1:06:28Speaker 1: be a time of laughter. Your relationship must give you
- 1:06:32Speaker 1: laughter one.
- 1:06:33Speaker 3: Day, No sir, From January last year till January this year,
- 1:06:39Speaker 3: you've been meeting with the lady or the guy, no laughter,
- 1:06:42Speaker 3: no shilling of relaxation and happiness.
- 1:06:46Speaker 1: What sort of a I'm trying to be very careful
- 1:06:52Speaker 1: so I don't double directly.
- 1:06:55Speaker 3: Into relationship issues. Are you deriving satisfaction from your pursuits? Now,
- 1:07:01Speaker 3: let me tell you something. If there is no pleasure
- 1:07:05Speaker 3: in what you are loving, you will feel cheated. If
- 1:07:12Speaker 3: there is no pleasure. If I sit down and I'm
- 1:07:17Speaker 3: doing ministry as God has anointed me too, there are.
- 1:07:22Speaker 1: Pleasure revel moments in ministry.
- 1:07:25Speaker 3: People so into my life, people bless me. I have
- 1:07:28Speaker 3: the privilege of enjoying honor.
- 1:07:31Speaker 1: You all love me and respect me so much, and
- 1:07:33Speaker 1: I'm deeply grateful for that.
- 1:07:35Speaker 3: Those are the fringe benefits. It's the pleasure dimension of love.
- 1:07:39Speaker 3: I love God with all my heart. I think his
- 1:07:42Speaker 3: favor upon my life. I've seen him shown.
- 1:07:45Speaker 1: Me with blessings that if He never blesses me.
- 1:07:48Speaker 3: Again, I am deeply grateful. There must be pleasure captured
- 1:07:52Speaker 3: in your idea of love. This is a challenge to
- 1:07:58Speaker 3: visionary people. This is a challenge to spiritual ladies. Hello,
- 1:08:05Speaker 3: spirituality is not an insult, but we have found ourselves victims.
- 1:08:09Speaker 3: There are sisters that are spiritual. They love God, they
- 1:08:13Speaker 3: don't not inconvenience.
- 1:08:14Speaker 1: They're creative.
- 1:08:15Speaker 3: They strangle this that dimension of love intentionally as poof.
- 1:08:21Speaker 3: They feel so ashamed when there is an atmosphere of relaxation.
- 1:08:25Speaker 1: There are believers that frown at dinners. There are believers
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: that frown at any opportunity to relax and doness no, no, no,
- 1:08:32Speaker 1: don't do this. There are more important things they say
- 1:08:36Speaker 1: is wrong.
- 1:08:37Speaker 3: There are fathers that will not allow this incorporated in
- 1:08:40Speaker 3: their family. There are mothers that will not allow this incorporated.
- 1:08:45Speaker 3: Oh we just feel like getting two chickens just to
- 1:08:47Speaker 3: caut no occasion.
- 1:08:50Speaker 1: See.
- 1:08:50Speaker 3: That's why it's part of my reservation about things like Valentine,
- 1:08:55Speaker 3: because they are not exactly since yeck, most of the things.
- 1:09:01Speaker 1: That are done around this period.
- 1:09:03Speaker 3: Are just emotions. They are not revelations. So someone that no,
- 1:09:09Speaker 3: there's no eyeota being nice.
- 1:09:12Speaker 1: Suddenly changes for two days or for this, that experience
- 1:09:16Speaker 1: should not be desired because it will not continue. Am
- 1:09:22Speaker 1: I against VALENTI? I don't know, do your thing, but.
- 1:09:25Speaker 3: I'm just telling you that this is the revelation. There
- 1:09:29Speaker 3: is a pleasure dimension to life. That's the reason why
- 1:09:33Speaker 3: I came to serve God.
- 1:09:35Speaker 1: I came to preaching Coinonia. I didn't come to drink water.
- 1:09:38Speaker 3: However, they know that there is a dimension of love
- 1:09:42Speaker 3: that must be captured, and they kept me a bottle
- 1:09:44Speaker 3: of water. How grateful I am for this Allelujah.
- 1:09:51Speaker 1: There are believers who don't.
- 1:09:52Speaker 3: Know what the Bible cause the joy of salvation said
- 1:09:55Speaker 3: after me, the joy of salvation. Brothers and sisters, there
- 1:09:58Speaker 3: is joy in salva. If that experience has not been
- 1:10:02Speaker 3: featured in your life. Fet what you did that you
- 1:10:05Speaker 3: called born again or vet the atmosphere, you are submitting
- 1:10:08Speaker 3: your spiritual understanding too.
- 1:10:11Speaker 1: I detest a.
- 1:10:12Speaker 3: Life that is just full of passion and commitments.
- 1:10:18Speaker 1: And then pleasure is not captured. How about schools that
- 1:10:23Speaker 1: flowed children alone?
- 1:10:24Speaker 3: There's no opportunities. They are either reading or serving punishment.
- 1:10:29Speaker 3: That's how many of first were raised. That's how many
- 1:10:32Speaker 3: of us were raised. Our families did not have provision.
- 1:10:36Speaker 1: You are sleeping, you are praying, you are reading, or
- 1:10:40Speaker 1: you are walking. Break time they give you ten minutes. Now.
- 1:10:45Speaker 1: It looks like it's a nice thing, but is destructive.
- 1:10:49Speaker 3: Go and as the most productive people and corporations, they
- 1:10:53Speaker 3: create scenarios and foster people to have times when their
- 1:10:59Speaker 3: minds can rely.
- 1:11:01Speaker 1: It's God helping us, captured this, captured this.
- 1:11:06Speaker 3: They met Jesus with little children, as reasonary as he is,
- 1:11:11Speaker 3: and then the serious disciples.
- 1:11:12Speaker 1: Abah, Jesus, you have soon to die. Remember all of
- 1:11:15Speaker 1: this this and please carry you. Let the little children
- 1:11:19Speaker 1: come to.
- 1:11:20Speaker 3: Me, and do not forbid them for such most adults
- 1:11:25Speaker 3: who say these are children.
- 1:11:26Speaker 1: Please Jesus. Let's focus on what matters. Jesus said, I
- 1:11:29Speaker 1: don't know what you are talking about. There was a
- 1:11:31Speaker 1: time this saw him with prostitutes and people. He was
- 1:11:34Speaker 1: not preaching, he was eating with them, cracking Johnston laughing.
- 1:11:40Speaker 3: If this is not featured in our lives, somewhere we
- 1:11:43Speaker 3: are missing it. Men of God, listened to me. Sirit
- 1:11:50Speaker 3: to our brothers and sisters, listen to me. Your service
- 1:11:53Speaker 3: and your spirituality should not strangle. The trouble becomes when
- 1:11:58Speaker 3: your entire life is defined by a pleasure. Your whole
- 1:12:01Speaker 3: life revolves around the impulses of pleasure.
- 1:12:04Speaker 1: You are back to the feelings we're talking about. Yeah no, no, no, no,
- 1:12:17Speaker 1: no no no no.
- 1:12:29Speaker 3: I was told the other day that the worship team
- 1:12:31Speaker 3: went through an aerobic session.
- 1:12:32Speaker 1: I was so blessed.
- 1:12:33Speaker 3: You would think all their doings to pray there was
- 1:12:36Speaker 3: a time. I think the bride department we're having, was
- 1:12:38Speaker 3: it a seminar or something like that?
- 1:12:40Speaker 1: And that's why after service you should not stop people
- 1:12:44Speaker 1: from those brief moments where they are how are you.
- 1:12:47Speaker 1: That's why we crack jokes in the middle of the service,
- 1:12:49Speaker 1: even if it's a miracle. Service doesn't matter whose.
- 1:12:52Speaker 3: Problem you have, your medical reportible talk to your neighbor,
- 1:12:55Speaker 3: tell them I love you, say God bless you. That's
- 1:12:57Speaker 3: why after service I said, oh, someone and say something
- 1:13:00Speaker 3: some of you. As soon as the grace of our
- 1:13:02Speaker 3: Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God you from your face,
- 1:13:05Speaker 3: you will stand outside listen.
- 1:13:07Speaker 1: I respect your commitment to vision.
- 1:13:10Speaker 3: But you are robbing yourself and God and your environment
- 1:13:16Speaker 3: of this dimension of love, friendliness.
- 1:13:21Speaker 1: This dimension. Let's worry off number four. If God is
- 1:13:25Speaker 1: helping you, say amen. The fourth dimension of love is sacrifice.
- 1:13:35Speaker 1: Sacrifice the length, the breath, the height, the depth of
- 1:13:43Speaker 1: the love of God.
- 1:13:44Speaker 3: It is these compositions that make the fullness of God's love.
- 1:13:51Speaker 1: What is sacrifice?
- 1:13:53Speaker 3: Giving off something you consider valuable for the sake of
- 1:13:57Speaker 3: someone or a better cause, giving up something you consider
- 1:14:03Speaker 3: valuable for the sake of someone or a better course
- 1:14:09Speaker 3: giving up something you consider valuable for the sake of someone.
- 1:14:14Speaker 1: Or a better course.
- 1:14:18Speaker 3: You must give up something if you want to fulfill
- 1:14:21Speaker 3: the last dimension of love.
- 1:14:25Speaker 1: Sacrifice talks of constraint. Sacrifice talks of.
- 1:14:29Speaker 3: Inconvenience, very uncomfortably.
- 1:14:34Speaker 1: Sometimes, sacrifice talks of pain. Language of generation does not
- 1:14:40Speaker 1: know again, pain.
- 1:14:44Speaker 3: Constraint, the inconveniences that, if need be, you may have
- 1:14:50Speaker 3: to go through because of someone or a cost that.
- 1:14:54Speaker 1: You consider to be nobler. Please look up.
- 1:14:58Speaker 3: I have mentioned four parameters. Ready's number one passion? What's
- 1:15:02Speaker 3: number two?
- 1:15:03Speaker 1: Commitment? What's number three? Pleasure? What's number four? Sacrifice? Sacrifice
- 1:15:12Speaker 1: is sacrifice featured in your idea of love, Love for
- 1:15:17Speaker 1: your vision, love for your assignment. Brothers and sisters, we're
- 1:15:20Speaker 1: all happy right now and join what God is doing here.
- 1:15:23Speaker 1: But how many of you.
- 1:15:25Speaker 3: Know that things as early as maybe sometimes seven.
- 1:15:28Speaker 1: In the morning, work is already going on in cityc here.
- 1:15:31Speaker 3: Prayer department members came by four four o'clock praying for
- 1:15:36Speaker 3: at least one hour for this meeting.
- 1:15:39Speaker 1: The worship team here several people.
- 1:15:42Speaker 3: You came and found seats arranged already. You came and
- 1:15:47Speaker 3: found the spits clean. Sometimes during the rainy season, you
- 1:15:51Speaker 3: see the pain. As soon as you share the place,
- 1:15:54Speaker 3: you're going to have one another and go back. Every week,
- 1:15:57Speaker 3: I leave this place past twelve. The next stay past
- 1:16:00Speaker 3: twelve because I have to spend an extra one or
- 1:16:03Speaker 3: two hours standing. The moment I call for coynonia, I
- 1:16:06Speaker 3: still down only for a few minutes.
- 1:16:08Speaker 1: Once I get upstanding, it is until I leave. While
- 1:16:11Speaker 1: you are sitting. I'm standing. Sometimes during the workhast retreats.
- 1:16:15Speaker 3: I am standing from it at about nine, sometimes still
- 1:16:18Speaker 3: evening or night, and afterwards I may still have.
- 1:16:21Speaker 1: To counsel people and go back. Show me your sacrifice
- 1:16:25Speaker 1: as a proof of love.
- 1:16:27Speaker 3: Show me the sacrifice you are doing for that sister
- 1:16:30Speaker 3: as a.
- 1:16:30Speaker 1: Proof that you love her. Show me the sacrifice you
- 1:16:33Speaker 1: are doing for that brother. Show me the sacrifice you
- 1:16:36Speaker 1: are doing for your wife, your husband, your children. If
- 1:16:39Speaker 1: there is no sacrifice, there is no love.
- 1:16:45Speaker 3: Love is measured by sacrifice, not sacrifice alone, but it
- 1:16:51Speaker 3: is an index. I look at parents, and I see
- 1:16:54Speaker 3: how they care for their children. I look at other parents,
- 1:16:58Speaker 3: I see how he responsible they are over their children.
- 1:17:02Speaker 1: Oh we need school, fish or we need something. Sorry,
- 1:17:06Speaker 1: I need to do something, and they say, I love you. No,
- 1:17:09Speaker 1: stan Lord, I love you.
- 1:17:11Speaker 3: And then you want to give a free You came
- 1:17:14Speaker 3: with two thousand, You remove one hundred narra and return
- 1:17:17Speaker 3: it back. You remove fifteen er and return it back.
- 1:17:19Speaker 3: Then you remove the old twenty ran. God is watching saying,
- 1:17:22Speaker 3: is that what you call love?
- 1:17:24Speaker 1: Sacrifice? These people are standing, every single one of them.
- 1:17:33Speaker 3: I'm here preaching, you are here enjoying, and male and female,
- 1:17:38Speaker 3: they are standing. If we stand during colonia vigils, they
- 1:17:43Speaker 3: are standing.
- 1:17:44Speaker 1: When they get tired, they go back to rest the pitch.
- 1:17:46Speaker 1: Some of the people came sacrifice. Believers don't understand.
- 1:17:51Speaker 3: The language of sacrifice, and we need to inconvenience.
- 1:17:54Speaker 1: There's no hasty, there's no this, there's no this sacrifice,
- 1:18:00Speaker 1: the sacrifice.
- 1:18:01Speaker 3: Of waking up in the night, whether it's convenient or not,
- 1:18:04Speaker 3: to create, the sacrifice.
- 1:18:06Speaker 1: To pursue one study, the sacrifice to delay gratification with
- 1:18:09Speaker 1: your finances.
- 1:18:11Speaker 3: God gave you one small, one or two million, instead
- 1:18:14Speaker 3: of blowing it to live a fake life.
- 1:18:16Speaker 1: You say, let me pay the price and sacrifice this
- 1:18:18Speaker 1: so that my children will eat what I did not eat. Sacrifice.
- 1:18:22Speaker 3: How many selfish parents I'm sorry to say it.
- 1:18:26Speaker 1: With all due respect. They saw the future of the children,
- 1:18:29Speaker 1: they saw their present. They would have paid their price.
- 1:18:32Speaker 3: Some of us would have been happy now, but they
- 1:18:34Speaker 3: chose their belly at.
- 1:18:35Speaker 1: The expense of a generation.
- 1:18:39Speaker 3: They had your opportunity to have bought the land in
- 1:18:42Speaker 3: nineteen sixty four nineteen seventy four, just buying the land
- 1:18:46Speaker 3: without developing it, instead of going for one polo club competition.
- 1:18:51Speaker 3: They would have used that money to buy the land.
- 1:18:53Speaker 3: That single land would have been over one hundred million today,
- 1:18:57Speaker 3: and they would have been able to train everybody and empowered.
- 1:19:00Speaker 1: Their young men. Supports their sisters.
- 1:19:03Speaker 3: But selfishness, and they look at transit children. I love
- 1:19:07Speaker 3: you no wonder the resentment rises in many.
- 1:19:10Speaker 1: Young people for their parents. There is no sacrifice. You
- 1:19:15Speaker 1: hardly will hate someone or a thing that sacrifices. How
- 1:19:19Speaker 1: many leaders claim they love their people, how many pastors
- 1:19:23Speaker 1: claim they love their members. There is no index to
- 1:19:26Speaker 1: measure sacrifice. Everything that is an.
- 1:19:29Speaker 3: Inconvenience goes to the members. The convenience comes to the
- 1:19:33Speaker 3: pastor no su A two shepherd laid down does not
- 1:19:40Speaker 3: work on his ship lays down. What are you laying down?
- 1:19:52Speaker 3: For your wife. What are you laying down for your husband?
- 1:19:57Speaker 3: What are you laying down for that come darling?
- 1:20:01Speaker 1: For that lady you want to get married to. What
- 1:20:03Speaker 1: are you laying down for the guy you want to
- 1:20:05Speaker 1: get married? His birthday is coming? Well, let me put
- 1:20:11Speaker 1: something small. You call him hello style, Your birthday is coming?
- 1:20:15Speaker 1: Can you give me the money to cook for you?
- 1:20:17Speaker 10: Is that sacrifice? Is that sacrifice? That sacrifice?
- 1:20:34Speaker 3: How many of our parents claim that they love students
- 1:20:38Speaker 3: or their love whatever. They're coming to a city where
- 1:20:41Speaker 3: you are, dear, carry out a business transaction. Cannot even
- 1:20:45Speaker 3: drop a small envelope? Is when they leave they say
- 1:20:47Speaker 3: I came there? There is no sacrifice. Sacrifice is not
- 1:20:52Speaker 3: about convenience, so do not expect it to be convenient.
- 1:20:56Speaker 3: There are times both for God and men in convenience.
- 1:21:00Speaker 3: You ask any married man. There are times when it's
- 1:21:03Speaker 3: straight betwixt between your child's cookies and are not that
- 1:21:06Speaker 3: equally important thing?
- 1:21:08Speaker 1: But you may have to lay it down.
- 1:21:11Speaker 3: Bless God for some of our mothers that will not
- 1:21:14Speaker 3: buy one rapper for five years so that your children
- 1:21:17Speaker 3: will eat. Now, that's love to ring. Bless God for
- 1:21:21Speaker 3: some of our fathers who would rather pack the car
- 1:21:24Speaker 3: and not take four hundred thousand to buy a new
- 1:21:27Speaker 3: chair box. It says that for a hundred thousand consponsor
- 1:21:30Speaker 3: my children, let me send them to school, not sure
- 1:21:33Speaker 3: that they will feed me.
- 1:21:34Speaker 1: Back when they are graduates. That's investments. That's not love.
- 1:21:42Speaker 1: Are we together?
- 1:21:44Speaker 3: Our generation does not understand the language of sacrifice.
- 1:21:47Speaker 1: Sister, Let me tell you are not a good.
- 1:21:50Speaker 3: Wife if you don't understand sacrifice.
- 1:21:53Speaker 1: Unfortunately, you know, I love our sisters.
- 1:21:56Speaker 3: But there is a deception that is looming across the
- 1:21:59Speaker 3: or right where many ladies believe everything about relationship is
- 1:22:04Speaker 3: all about their pleasure and enjoyment.
- 1:22:07Speaker 1: Anything that has to do with a lead to sacrifice.
- 1:22:10Speaker 1: They frown and revolt and rebel. No, how about.
- 1:22:15Speaker 3: Brothers who think, because you are a celebrity, if you
- 1:22:18Speaker 3: go because you are this, you are a graduate, you
- 1:22:21Speaker 3: are working in an oil.
- 1:22:22Speaker 1: And gas company, and all these things are happening.
- 1:22:25Speaker 3: You want the lady to worship you forever because you
- 1:22:30Speaker 3: are this.
- 1:22:30Speaker 1: Somebody is lying to somebody somewhere sacrifice, sacrifice.
- 1:22:42Speaker 3: How many businessmen cannot make sacrifice for their future? How
- 1:22:46Speaker 3: many young men I look at, some not not necessarily here.
- 1:22:49Speaker 1: I look around and I see.
- 1:22:50Speaker 3: Young people that I know don't have anything much. I
- 1:22:53Speaker 3: see what they're wearing. I wash their shoes. Even in
- 1:22:56Speaker 3: Millonnia is not wearing that kind of shoe. And I aswer,
- 1:22:59Speaker 3: what do you have in saving him nothing?
- 1:23:04Speaker 1: And that person wants to marry, and that person is
- 1:23:06Speaker 1: looking at a.
- 1:23:07Speaker 3: Lady he loves or a guy that he loves. How
- 1:23:09Speaker 3: many ladies carry their future and use.
- 1:23:12Speaker 1: It to make themselves beautiful today? No sacrifice.
- 1:23:16Speaker 3: People are poor, not just because the devil is powerful.
- 1:23:20Speaker 1: This sacrifice is what we lack in our generation. Alleluya.
- 1:23:27Speaker 3: You're considering a relationship, or you're considering marriage, or you
- 1:23:30Speaker 3: are married, Please don't go into it.
- 1:23:32Speaker 1: It's not a scene. Be ready for sacrifice. First.
- 1:23:37Speaker 3: There are men who will come back with salary and
- 1:23:39Speaker 3: ask their wives, my wife, can you give this person
- 1:23:43Speaker 3: twenty thousand whereas.
- 1:23:45Speaker 1: You have your own one million. Let's tell ourselves the truth,
- 1:23:48Speaker 1: and it starts from relationship sacrifice. This four dimensions are
- 1:23:59Speaker 1: the dime mentions that spell love. Give us efficient chapter
- 1:24:03Speaker 1: three Again, Efficient chapter three, Let's hurry up Verse eighteen,
- 1:24:11Speaker 1: that you will be able to comprehend with all the
- 1:24:14Speaker 1: saints and that includes the family of Coinonia.
- 1:24:17Speaker 3: What is the passion and the commitment and the pleasure
- 1:24:27Speaker 3: and the sacrifice.
- 1:24:29Speaker 1: Dimensions that I involved. The Bible caused these dimensions, the
- 1:24:33Speaker 1: fullness of the love of God. I want you to
- 1:24:37Speaker 1: look at this carefully.
- 1:24:39Speaker 3: Which dimension So when you say, brother, I love you,
- 1:24:45Speaker 3: or sister I love you, or Destiny I love you,
- 1:24:49Speaker 3: or Jesus I love you, My question again is which
- 1:24:52Speaker 3: are one of them?
- 1:24:54Speaker 1: All of them?
- 1:24:56Speaker 3: Jesus, I have pleasure towards you and the things you
- 1:25:01Speaker 3: can give me, he says, wonderful. How about sacrifice for me?
- 1:25:07Speaker 3: How about commitment for me? No, I don't have those ones.
- 1:25:15Speaker 3: Let me show you a secret, brothers and sisters that
- 1:25:19Speaker 3: will give you an opportunity to enjoy your marriage, your relationship,
- 1:25:26Speaker 3: your vision, whether you are born again or not.
- 1:25:31Speaker 1: If you subscribe to this.
- 1:25:33Speaker 3: Four templace on anything, you will succeed in it.
- 1:25:38Speaker 1: It's true.
- 1:25:39Speaker 3: Some of the best I've studied, some of the top
- 1:25:41Speaker 3: business entrepreneurs around the world. Please they subscribe to this template.
- 1:25:46Speaker 3: They may not acknowledge Jesus, don't just look at their results.
- 1:25:50Speaker 3: Look at your passion, look at their commitment, look at
- 1:25:56Speaker 3: the pleasure they derive from what they are doing, no.
- 1:25:58Speaker 1: Matter how comverasome, and then look at the sacrifices.
- 1:26:03Speaker 3: I studied one particular businessman, and when I saw what
- 1:26:07Speaker 3: that guy went through, I said, compared to what he
- 1:26:10Speaker 3: went through, I still think that the world still should
- 1:26:13Speaker 3: reward him.
- 1:26:16Speaker 1: His name is Nicola Tesla.
- 1:26:21Speaker 3: Tesla's one of the Genesis, had about seven hundred.
- 1:26:25Speaker 1: Patents to his honor. He lived a secluded life of sacrifice,
- 1:26:30Speaker 1: created the inventions today that we are credits to different people.
- 1:26:35Speaker 1: It was the product of the pain of that man.
- 1:26:40Speaker 3: Didn't get married in his life, didn't do a lot
- 1:26:44Speaker 3: of things, began to restarch many of He.
- 1:26:47Speaker 1: Was like yes, ahead of humanity, and he died living
- 1:26:52Speaker 1: his blessing sacrifice.
- 1:26:55Speaker 3: I watched Myles Monro's videos great Mentor in life and
- 1:26:59Speaker 3: in Death.
- 1:27:00Speaker 1: I see how that that man shit at death.
- 1:27:02Speaker 3: He's long gone, but his wisdoms hell guides us. There
- 1:27:06Speaker 3: is illumination, the touch from his experiences guide us.
- 1:27:10Speaker 1: What's the greatestiny? What are you willing to lay down
- 1:27:14Speaker 1: for the annointing you claim you want? What are you
- 1:27:16Speaker 1: willing to lay down for the kind of lady you
- 1:27:18Speaker 1: are praying for? What are you willing to lay down, sister,
- 1:27:23Speaker 1: for the kind of husband you are praying for. It
- 1:27:26Speaker 1: is free, but is not cheap.
- 1:27:28Speaker 3: You must be willing to lay down something. Lord, I
- 1:27:31Speaker 3: want a visionary guide. I want somebody who loves God.
- 1:27:35Speaker 3: God says they're all available. Let me see what you
- 1:27:38Speaker 3: are willing to lay down? Can you lay down the time,
- 1:27:41Speaker 3: the ego, the inconvenience. Will you be able to solb
- 1:27:44Speaker 3: me to search a man with gladness as one who
- 1:27:47Speaker 3: is worthy of your honor for his paradigm? Oh Lord,
- 1:27:51Speaker 3: I have my own ego. I don't want to be cheap,
- 1:27:53Speaker 3: and God says all I've got a fine men who
- 1:27:55Speaker 3: are like you, But it is my son you want.
- 1:27:58Speaker 1: You must be serious. Oh Lord, I want this.
- 1:28:00Speaker 3: Lady, beautiful, godeous, whatever parameters you use, and God says
- 1:28:04Speaker 3: they're available.
- 1:28:05Speaker 1: But gentlemen, let me see what you are willing to
- 1:28:07Speaker 1: lay down. A lady who is.
- 1:28:09Speaker 3: That fetch us deserves a responsible man.
- 1:28:12Speaker 1: A lady who is that viatchu us, God will tell
- 1:28:15Speaker 1: you deserves a blessed man.
- 1:28:17Speaker 3: If you consider that lady to be priceless enough, then
- 1:28:20Speaker 3: you must rise to the occasion.
- 1:28:24Speaker 1: We have this pride in our world that all fingers
- 1:28:29Speaker 1: are equaled.
- 1:28:29Speaker 3: It's a lie that includes human beings.
- 1:28:34Speaker 1: Since then there are some kinds of brothers. God will
- 1:28:37Speaker 1: never give you the way you are. It's not a
- 1:28:39Speaker 1: bad talk. It is true. God is not a fool.
- 1:28:45Speaker 1: He gave on to some five talents. True, this is
- 1:28:48Speaker 1: God who is not unjust.
- 1:28:52Speaker 3: God is not unjust, but it gives one five talents.
- 1:28:56Speaker 3: I talk to brothers, and sometimes when I hear brothers,
- 1:28:59Speaker 3: I ask the question, what kind of sister do you want?
- 1:29:01Speaker 3: When they describe that lady, and look at the brother
- 1:29:04Speaker 3: and I know he's joking. I already know his prayer
- 1:29:06Speaker 3: will not be answered, because God is not a fool.
- 1:29:08Speaker 1: If you want the level of qualitative desire, you are
- 1:29:12Speaker 1: making for you, because God will not yoke people on equally.
- 1:29:17Speaker 3: No, sir, Lord, I want a ministry like Bennie Hein,
- 1:29:24Speaker 3: And God says, really, are you willing to do what
- 1:29:26Speaker 3: Benniehill is doing? That for two weeks, they can close
- 1:29:29Speaker 3: himself and nobody will see him. At the beginning of
- 1:29:33Speaker 3: a new year, the first seventh days, no body sees him.
- 1:29:37Speaker 3: Try first, he's alone with God, access in power. Don't
- 1:29:40Speaker 3: let the suits deceive you.
- 1:29:42Speaker 1: If you want to marry Bennie Hee, you must be
- 1:29:45Speaker 1: able to be like him or the wise. You will
- 1:29:47Speaker 1: be on equally. You will carry pleasure into the relationship
- 1:29:51Speaker 1: and Bennihin will say, you love that Bennie. He came
- 1:29:53Speaker 1: from this secret place.
- 1:29:55Speaker 3: He's amazing how people revolve when they see the demands.
- 1:29:59Speaker 1: For their desire.
- 1:30:02Speaker 3: I want prosperity, Oh God, I want to be blessed.
- 1:30:06Speaker 3: I'm a Millonia in Jesus name, and God says, no problem,
- 1:30:09Speaker 3: Millonnaius from me. Must be able to say yes to
- 1:30:12Speaker 3: every instruction I give. Agreed yes, give the only one millionaire.
- 1:30:17Speaker 1: Your account and said, God, I don't understand. I said
- 1:30:19Speaker 1: you had me. You want me to bless you.
- 1:30:24Speaker 3: You want me to talk to someone else who is
- 1:30:26Speaker 3: like you to send ten million too your account. Prove
- 1:30:29Speaker 3: to me you are worthy to be my treasurer by
- 1:30:34Speaker 3: answering me.
- 1:30:35Speaker 1: Every time I speak to you.
- 1:30:36Speaker 3: You would think is the kind of Abraham's test that
- 1:30:39Speaker 3: God will says stop till your internet transfer does send
- 1:30:44Speaker 3: is gone, and then.
- 1:30:46Speaker 1: Your balance is one mira or five narra. And you
- 1:30:49Speaker 1: think God would talk to the person to send it back.
- 1:30:52Speaker 1: It's gone and brothers and sisters. Two months after that.
- 1:30:56Speaker 3: Giving, you feel like dying and you say, Lord, but
- 1:30:59Speaker 3: I'm not lazy. It took me three years to save
- 1:31:01Speaker 3: this one million, and the heavens become silent.
- 1:31:04Speaker 1: You think God is not watching. He's looking One day
- 1:31:09Speaker 1: this God. One day you are sitting somewhere.
- 1:31:12Speaker 3: That is not your business, and someone will come and say,
- 1:31:15Speaker 3: there is a contract somewhere.
- 1:31:17Speaker 1: Do you have a company? Yes, I have, but we're
- 1:31:20Speaker 1: not What do you do? I sell close live clothes.
- 1:31:22Speaker 1: Char will come and it gives you something. And all
- 1:31:25Speaker 1: of this sot.
- 1:31:26Speaker 3: The millions enterre your account and people say.
- 1:31:28Speaker 1: It's not fair. Say go and ask him what is
- 1:31:30Speaker 1: not fair about it? Don't be angry when you see
- 1:31:35Speaker 1: God lifting people. Find out what they are doing.
- 1:31:39Speaker 3: The blood that drips from their all time is what
- 1:31:43Speaker 3: shots the attention of heaven when you see a man
- 1:31:45Speaker 3: of God. Sometimes people just hear me talk, Oh the
- 1:31:48Speaker 3: power of God is this, and people are shouting it's
- 1:31:50Speaker 3: not magical. My brother, find out what my secret place is.
- 1:31:55Speaker 3: Don't claim I say it is christ fulst We are
- 1:31:59Speaker 3: not stupid.
- 1:32:02Speaker 1: There is a sacrifice on that all time. You see
- 1:32:05Speaker 1: those think you get up and touch somebody, because the
- 1:32:08Speaker 1: Bible says like, no, there is a sacrifice. We are
- 1:32:13Speaker 1: not Jesus among God. That reasons because he hung on
- 1:32:16Speaker 1: that cross. Brothers and sisters, I hope you know there
- 1:32:19Speaker 1: was no covering around him. It's just films that put
- 1:32:22Speaker 1: it because children will be watching two. That thirty three
- 1:32:25Speaker 1: year old man was hung naked on the cross. His
- 1:32:28Speaker 1: only covering was blood.
- 1:32:30Speaker 3: He would have stopped it, but he said, this is
- 1:32:32Speaker 3: the price for that tone. So don't you take insolve
- 1:32:35Speaker 3: that tone. That's why, ever, demon must answer when you
- 1:32:38Speaker 3: invoke the power in that tone. You don't know what
- 1:32:41Speaker 3: he went through. The highest and no blessed expression.
- 1:32:52Speaker 1: Of true love is sacrifice. It's not the only one,
- 1:32:57Speaker 1: but it is sacrifice.
- 1:33:00Speaker 3: Pray one minute over these four things. What's they're going
- 1:33:03Speaker 3: to continue? Pray while you are sitting. Please pray.
- 1:33:15Speaker 9: How nan allah she naybin he's.
- 1:33:23Speaker 1: She nay a band's talma she lay wan ca chatka, how.
- 1:33:35Speaker 9: How noah she nabine, shebeima she nails.
- 1:33:51Speaker 1: Chat Pray, Lord, kive me.
- 1:33:58Speaker 3: The Christ that person be captured in my definition of love.
- 1:34:04Speaker 3: Let me be passionate about something. Let me be passionate
- 1:34:09Speaker 3: about my wife. Let me be passionate about my husband.
- 1:34:13Speaker 3: Let's distins and tell us ourselves the truth. Are you
- 1:34:16Speaker 3: personate about the business, Are you pasionate about God? Are
- 1:34:20Speaker 3: you committed to the sister? Are you committed to the brother?
- 1:34:24Speaker 1: Or you just want to marry?
- 1:34:26Speaker 3: You want to exist personahood, you want to exit sprince tahood.
- 1:34:31Speaker 3: And you are so spelsish that you are not looking
- 1:34:34Speaker 3: to see that you are actually capturing these dimensions.
- 1:34:39Speaker 1: How about pleasure? Pleasure?
- 1:34:45Speaker 3: Your life must produce pleasure to your spouse. Your life
- 1:34:49Speaker 3: must produce pleasure to your parents, to your leaders, to.
- 1:34:54Speaker 1: Your office, to your company.
- 1:34:56Speaker 3: You can't just be taking your life. Must pro use
- 1:35:01Speaker 3: pleasure to God. Yes, all men are not perfect for
- 1:35:08Speaker 3: your life must produce pleasure to God. Finally, sacrifice pray
- 1:35:22Speaker 3: this issue of having it at my terms. Let me
- 1:35:26Speaker 3: pray this issue of having it at my will.
- 1:35:29Speaker 1: No, sir, it can't always be the way you want.
- 1:35:33Speaker 1: Life is not like that.
- 1:35:35Speaker 3: Go and ask any married man, as anybody in a
- 1:35:38Speaker 3: visionary relationship, as every millionnaire, as any great man of God.
- 1:35:43Speaker 1: There are constraints. There are times it will not go
- 1:35:47Speaker 1: your way. Don't take it personal. There are times it
- 1:35:52Speaker 1: will not go your way.
- 1:35:58Speaker 11: Sacrifice then, Ama, sacrifice, Allelujah said, what then is love?
- 1:36:19Speaker 1: Seeing that love is not healing, Seeing that love is
- 1:36:25Speaker 1: not emotions, Seeing that love is.
- 1:36:28Speaker 3: Not a beautiful face a match of six pack, Seeing
- 1:36:34Speaker 3: that love is not a trip path outside, Seeing that.
- 1:36:38Speaker 1: Love is not the ability to cook.
- 1:36:40Speaker 3: Well in a lady, saying that love is not given
- 1:36:43Speaker 3: the prayer favor of a guy.
- 1:36:45Speaker 1: What then is love? For the rest of your life
- 1:36:49Speaker 1: as you live, don't forget what I'm about to teach you.
- 1:36:52Speaker 1: If you master this.
- 1:36:55Speaker 3: As taught by the inventor of love himself, haw Yer
- 1:37:00Speaker 3: done any relationship expert hier than any consultant psychologist.
- 1:37:06Speaker 1: This is God's perspective of love. Number one love. True
- 1:37:12Speaker 1: love is a choice. Write it down. True love is
- 1:37:19Speaker 1: a choice. True love is a choice, is an act
- 1:37:26Speaker 1: of the will. True love is not feelings.
- 1:37:33Speaker 3: When you believe you are in love, then it is
- 1:37:39Speaker 3: a choice.
- 1:37:43Speaker 1: Listen, come to Sin the next time you say to Sin,
- 1:37:50Speaker 1: I love you. What you have said is to Sin,
- 1:37:55Speaker 1: I choose.
- 1:37:56Speaker 3: You by the act of I will. I have chosen
- 1:38:03Speaker 3: whether or not I think you are the best, whether
- 1:38:07Speaker 3: or not I think you are the brightest, whether or
- 1:38:10Speaker 3: not I think you are the finest chef, whether or
- 1:38:13Speaker 3: not I think you are the most beautiful lady, the
- 1:38:16Speaker 3: most handswong guy, the most visionary, the most born.
- 1:38:20Speaker 1: Again, whether or not this business is.
- 1:38:22Speaker 3: The one that makes me become a millonea fastest, whether
- 1:38:26Speaker 3: or not this ministry is the most anointed.
- 1:38:28Speaker 1: When I say I love you, I'm saying I choose you.
- 1:38:33Speaker 1: Is a choice. Any manifestation of love, especially.
- 1:38:41Speaker 3: In the context of relationship and marriage, that you serves.
- 1:38:45Speaker 1: The will of money is witchcraft. No matter what vision
- 1:38:51Speaker 1: you see about what lady, no matter what bream you
- 1:38:55Speaker 1: have about what brother, no matter what counselors tell you.
- 1:39:00Speaker 3: In the final analysis, your will must be involved.
- 1:39:04Speaker 1: Otherwise it is not fue love. Write it down. Love.
- 1:39:09Speaker 1: True love is a choice, a choice to be and
- 1:39:16Speaker 1: live with someone. In the context of marriage, When you
- 1:39:20Speaker 1: say you love someone, it is a decision you have.
- 1:39:23Speaker 3: Made to be a decision to.
- 1:39:27Speaker 1: Live with that someone, not a decision to live with
- 1:39:31Speaker 1: the person look or if the person is perfect, not
- 1:39:35Speaker 1: a decision to live with someone if things are good
- 1:39:39Speaker 1: or bad. When you said Jesus, I love you, now
- 1:39:45Speaker 1: you know what you're saying. Jesus, I choose you.
- 1:39:49Speaker 3: I have gone online and googled all the gods.
- 1:39:52Speaker 1: On the head, and I've seen names that I was
- 1:39:55Speaker 1: never told.
- 1:39:56Speaker 3: But I checked everything and I came to you reasons.
- 1:40:01Speaker 1: For whatever reason, have made up my mind to go
- 1:40:05Speaker 1: go to wait for the rest of my life. That's love, brother,
- 1:40:11Speaker 1: I've made of my mind.
- 1:40:19Speaker 3: Pastor Alpha shows Annie, he made up his mind that
- 1:40:25Speaker 3: as far as this life is concerned, this is the
- 1:40:28Speaker 3: personality who will be with me. It doesn't matter whether
- 1:40:32Speaker 3: he's happy with her or sad. It doesn't matter whether
- 1:40:34Speaker 3: she's happy with him or side. Whatever differences arise, it's
- 1:40:38Speaker 3: not worthy.
- 1:40:39Speaker 1: Enough to corrupt this decision. Brother, that's love.
- 1:40:43Speaker 3: If you ever say you like a lady, make sure
- 1:40:45Speaker 3: this is what you are saying. So as I'm talking now,
- 1:40:48Speaker 3: be checking what you are doing. Are you choosing the
- 1:40:51Speaker 3: pessine for now or are you choosing the person some
- 1:40:55Speaker 3: of you are about to ask Ladies this week next week, listen,
- 1:40:59Speaker 3: before you go to anybody and say I love you,
- 1:41:01Speaker 3: ask a very clear question. Have I chosen you or
- 1:41:05Speaker 3: are you just choosing because of your level of exposure?
- 1:41:09Speaker 3: I suspect and Mecca is a doctor. I'm not yet
- 1:41:13Speaker 3: clear so let me let me say yes to him
- 1:41:17Speaker 3: while I very fine if I find out, Oh, I.
- 1:41:21Speaker 1: Thought he was the one.
- 1:41:22Speaker 3: I CHANGM not afraid, so I don't.
- 1:41:24Speaker 1: Love him again. I love you, I choose you.
- 1:41:28Speaker 3: If a Mecca says, I know I studied medicine, but
- 1:41:32Speaker 3: the Lord is calling me and he's sending me to Zamparah.
- 1:41:36Speaker 1: Now your love is being tested. You thought it was
- 1:41:39Speaker 1: about a great guy who would be a consult and
- 1:41:41Speaker 1: have this private hospital fly you around. Unfortunately you said
- 1:41:46Speaker 1: you choose him. Many of us young people don't know
- 1:41:51Speaker 1: what we're saying. Tru listening when we mention this loved thing.
- 1:41:56Speaker 3: Likely, Lord, I love the assignment you have given me,
- 1:42:01Speaker 3: and then we stay down two years. Lord, I said,
- 1:42:04Speaker 3: I love you and I love this assignment. But I
- 1:42:07Speaker 3: have only five members. I have nobody's hearing for me.
- 1:42:11Speaker 1: Lord.
- 1:42:11Speaker 3: I'm on my way going. After all I read this,
- 1:42:14Speaker 3: I can go and start extramorras.
- 1:42:16Speaker 1: And God says they don't love it. A choice, everybody
- 1:42:20Speaker 1: say a choice? Say it again, a choice.
- 1:42:25Speaker 3: Ask anybody who has been married for a long time.
- 1:42:28Speaker 3: They will tell you they were legitimate reasons as to
- 1:42:31Speaker 3: why they will feel they made a mistake in that marriage,
- 1:42:34Speaker 3: but every time they remember their choice.
- 1:42:36Speaker 1: That's why when you stand.
- 1:42:38Speaker 3: On stage with your wife, they don't ask your father.
- 1:42:41Speaker 1: To answer for you or your mother to answer for you.
- 1:42:44Speaker 1: Like rapture, you stand alone. God's beakings towards tonight because
- 1:42:52Speaker 1: what I'm saying is very important.
- 1:42:54Speaker 3: I love you too much, and God knows and sez
- 1:42:59Speaker 3: my heart that I.
- 1:43:00Speaker 1: Have an assignment to breach the ignorance and the catastrophy
- 1:43:04Speaker 1: that the devil.
- 1:43:04Speaker 3: Is programming to happen between young people and young ladies.
- 1:43:08Speaker 3: Many ladies who claim they love many guys have not chosen.
- 1:43:15Speaker 1: Therein lies the revelation of these hilarious mood swings that
- 1:43:19Speaker 1: fly up today and tomorrow. A choice is a costly thing.
- 1:43:23Speaker 1: When you know the gravity, you will not be hasty.
- 1:43:26Speaker 3: You will think well, you will say I am tatisfied,
- 1:43:29Speaker 3: I need to hurry. Your time is not on my
- 1:43:31Speaker 3: side to choose. That's why it who preaches to you
- 1:43:37Speaker 3: to give your life to Christ.
- 1:43:39Speaker 1: It matters what you are told. If all you are told.
- 1:43:42Speaker 3: Is that you come to Jesus Christ and all your
- 1:43:44Speaker 3: troubles go away. I believe in the victory of Christ.
- 1:43:48Speaker 3: But brothers, and sisters have shown you the dimensions of love,
- 1:43:51Speaker 3: and there are times that some of.
- 1:43:52Speaker 1: Those dimensions who cost you.
- 1:43:54Speaker 3: There are people who gave their lives to Christ, and
- 1:43:56Speaker 3: they did not last seven days.
- 1:43:59Speaker 1: They knew that what they were signing up for was
- 1:44:01Speaker 1: a bomb blast.
- 1:44:03Speaker 3: There are reverence in different parts of this nation who
- 1:44:07Speaker 3: said I love you, and with all the terrorism there, Jesus.
- 1:44:12Speaker 1: I love you.
- 1:44:13Speaker 3: And on Sunday they had the sounds of bombs.
- 1:44:16Speaker 1: And they still got up and looked at their wives
- 1:44:19Speaker 1: and said, honey, if I never come back, let it
- 1:44:21Speaker 1: be that I died for the one I loved. And
- 1:44:24Speaker 1: they went and were killed and never returned. They got
- 1:44:28Speaker 1: up that morning knowing they may die.
- 1:44:30Speaker 3: Ah who corrupted our definition of love and left it
- 1:44:36Speaker 3: only to pleasure, and that at our own times.
- 1:44:41Speaker 1: You may not like me for what I'm sharing, but
- 1:44:43Speaker 1: I tell you.
- 1:44:44Speaker 3: This, this is the recommendation from the inventor of this thing.
- 1:44:53Speaker 1: A choice.
- 1:44:55Speaker 3: I've made a choice to serve God with all my life.
- 1:45:00Speaker 3: If Donald Trump calls me and says, young man, we
- 1:45:04Speaker 3: want to give you a very noble position in America,
- 1:45:07Speaker 3: you're receiving a salary of one hundred thousand dollars per
- 1:45:10Speaker 3: month with anything you want.
- 1:45:12Speaker 1: Do you think I would run and leave you? I
- 1:45:15Speaker 1: know what some of you will do. Just here read it.
- 1:45:18Speaker 3: Although you are not the ones. You will never come
- 1:45:19Speaker 3: to chruche again. Your gown cook food and as I
- 1:45:24Speaker 3: remember me.
- 1:45:31Speaker 12: The man for save me, still live well, falle no turning,
- 1:45:41Speaker 12: no turning, the man for savedby, still live well, fall no.
- 1:45:52Speaker 1: Turn Listen this work of the ministry you see me do.
- 1:46:01Speaker 3: It's not because I don't have options, brother Sans.
- 1:46:04Speaker 1: This man standing before you is a business man. I
- 1:46:07Speaker 1: think I'm quite smart. There are many other things I
- 1:46:10Speaker 1: would have chosen to do with my life. Are we together? Yes,
- 1:46:16Speaker 1: but it's a.
- 1:46:16Speaker 3: Choice that I will stand and communicates the life and
- 1:46:20Speaker 3: the power of Jesus.
- 1:46:22Speaker 1: I never came into ministry for on a radio. Do
- 1:46:24Speaker 1: you know? Let me tell you, God is my weakness.
- 1:46:27Speaker 1: When I started ministry, I didn't know they used to
- 1:46:30Speaker 1: give men's kids and on on raio. But right now
- 1:46:33Speaker 1: you see every.
- 1:46:34Speaker 3: Young man, poor earling John, because they called him into
- 1:46:36Speaker 3: a small group to share something for ten minutes and
- 1:46:39Speaker 3: he finishes, he refuses to go.
- 1:46:48Speaker 1: You call him come and play keyboard in the House
- 1:46:51Speaker 1: of god a small.
- 1:46:53Speaker 3: Choice that the entire title offering. It's not up to
- 1:46:56Speaker 3: thirty thirty thousand. The preside they pay me twenty thousand
- 1:47:00Speaker 3: because you.
- 1:47:00Speaker 1: Went to a music school. The choice, the choice. That's
- 1:47:07Speaker 1: why we must take care of our children.
- 1:47:09Speaker 3: Because they did not choose, we owe responsibility to take
- 1:47:14Speaker 3: care of them.
- 1:47:16Speaker 1: Even if the couples make mistake with your lives, the
- 1:47:19Speaker 1: children must not be victims of it. They didn't choose.
- 1:47:27Speaker 3: Any relationship used by force, and whose power to choose
- 1:47:33Speaker 3: is taking away, It's an ungodly relationship. At every point
- 1:47:39Speaker 3: of your relationship, the power to.
- 1:47:41Speaker 1: Choose must remain. Listen.
- 1:47:43Speaker 3: That's why those who abuse women are going to health
- 1:47:47Speaker 3: fire if they don't repents those who beats. And when
- 1:47:50Speaker 3: a man beats and slaps his wife forcing her to
- 1:47:55Speaker 3: make a decision, when a woman beats and slaps her husband,
- 1:47:59Speaker 3: forcing him to make it a decision. When a woman
- 1:48:02Speaker 3: manitulates a husband against.
- 1:48:05Speaker 1: His will, like Jeszabel, into doing what was not willingly decided,
- 1:48:11Speaker 1: that's not love. Is witchcraft.
- 1:48:15Speaker 3: Every relationship and every marriage must leave the willingness of
- 1:48:21Speaker 3: the personalities involved.
- 1:48:23Speaker 1: Sadly, this extends right.
- 1:48:25Speaker 3: Now in the days that we live even to extend
- 1:48:27Speaker 3: as families where parents and in laws attempt to choose
- 1:48:31Speaker 3: their hands and manipulate the state of marriages. If you
- 1:48:36Speaker 3: must marry my daughter, or now that you are married
- 1:48:39Speaker 3: to my daughter, you must live in London or you
- 1:48:43Speaker 3: must live in this No matter what God is telling.
- 1:48:45Speaker 1: You, these things are wrong.
- 1:48:49Speaker 3: Love is a choice and everything around it must remain
- 1:48:54Speaker 3: a choice.
- 1:48:55Speaker 1: Now, let me tell you this.
- 1:48:57Speaker 3: This is how God helps people, especially when it comes
- 1:49:00Speaker 3: to making decisions. You can go to God and God
- 1:49:04Speaker 3: will tell you, son, I gave you the will to
- 1:49:07Speaker 3: choose whatever woman you want. And you say, Lord, I
- 1:49:10Speaker 3: take that will back by myself to you because I
- 1:49:14Speaker 3: am not sure of my decision. I know how vulnerable
- 1:49:17Speaker 3: I am, so justified before Heaven that you gave.
- 1:49:21Speaker 1: Me the power to choose. I have returned it back
- 1:49:24Speaker 1: to you.
- 1:49:25Speaker 3: I say, token of my trust, and God says, now
- 1:49:27Speaker 3: that's it. You have proven to me that if I
- 1:49:30Speaker 3: choose a wife for you, it is not against your
- 1:49:32Speaker 3: will because.
- 1:49:33Speaker 1: You trust me. That's the only condition where you will
- 1:49:35Speaker 1: see the.
- 1:49:36Speaker 3: Dream and trust it, and the vision and trust it.
- 1:49:38Speaker 3: Not just that you get up and see anything and
- 1:49:40Speaker 3: stand up and blame God.
- 1:49:48Speaker 1: It's a choice. Number two. HM. True love.
- 1:49:59Speaker 3: Is understanding the value, the worth, and the significance of
- 1:50:05Speaker 3: a person. True love is understanding the value, the worth.
- 1:50:14Speaker 1: The significance of a person.
- 1:50:18Speaker 3: Or a thing, to God, to you, and to humanity.
- 1:50:25Speaker 1: True love is understanding the value, the war, the importance,
- 1:50:35Speaker 1: the significance of a person to.
- 1:50:37Speaker 3: God number one, to your life number.
- 1:50:41Speaker 1: Two, and to society number three.
- 1:50:44Speaker 3: The second definition of love is love is understanding value.
- 1:50:52Speaker 3: When you pay fifty thousand dollars to buy a car,
- 1:50:57Speaker 3: you part that kind in a special garage because of
- 1:51:00Speaker 3: what it cost you to obtain it.
- 1:51:03Speaker 1: Now watch this come.
- 1:51:08Speaker 3: Are you ready to marry this woman and take her
- 1:51:10Speaker 3: as your lovely weathered Wif you said yes, the ax
- 1:51:13Speaker 3: are what of you?
- 1:51:14Speaker 1: Yes? Two of you? And then just because she should
- 1:51:19Speaker 1: she did not. She was not able to give you
- 1:51:21Speaker 1: a child. Listen carefully.
- 1:51:23Speaker 3: First month of marriage, no child, second month of marriage,
- 1:51:27Speaker 3: no child, or whatever it is. All of this sudden
- 1:51:30Speaker 3: you begin to make delegatory statements.
- 1:51:33Speaker 1: Two men cannot live in the same house.
- 1:51:35Speaker 3: So what you are saying is I listen, I do
- 1:51:39Speaker 3: not see your worth, I do not see your value,
- 1:51:44Speaker 3: I do not see your significance to God, to me,
- 1:51:50Speaker 3: and to society. True love is understanding the value of things.
- 1:51:56Speaker 3: So when you are doing that business, you.
- 1:51:59Speaker 1: Love that business only if you understand the significance of
- 1:52:04Speaker 1: that business to kingdom advancement, the significance of that business
- 1:52:09Speaker 1: to your finances, the significance to the development of your society.
- 1:52:14Speaker 1: If not, don't say I love it.
- 1:52:18Speaker 3: Why do I wake up in the night and study
- 1:52:22Speaker 3: and prepare for every message and labor to the hours.
- 1:52:28Speaker 1: Is because I love God. It's because I love you.
- 1:52:31Speaker 1: I understand what this information.
- 1:52:34Speaker 3: Will do to your life, will do to the kingdom,
- 1:52:37Speaker 3: will do to your children and your children's children. Never
- 1:52:40Speaker 3: say you love any lady whose magnificance.
- 1:52:44Speaker 1: To your life you have not perceived. Let me tell
- 1:52:46Speaker 1: you this. Look at me, everybody. If you have.
- 1:52:51Speaker 3: Any measure of success, before a lady or a man
- 1:52:55Speaker 3: enters your life, be careful.
- 1:52:57Speaker 1: Because the most successful.
- 1:52:58Speaker 3: You are chance you are that you will hard least
- 1:53:01Speaker 3: see the significance of a man or a woman.
- 1:53:04Speaker 1: In your life. They are successful women who are collecting
- 1:53:08Speaker 1: three ondred thousands as single ladies four hundred thousands as
- 1:53:12Speaker 1: single ladies. They are traveling to embassaists.
- 1:53:15Speaker 3: They have snapped with precedents, there is every likelihood that
- 1:53:19Speaker 3: they will be bad wives. You know why because based
- 1:53:21Speaker 3: on their experiences, almost everything a man should represent has
- 1:53:26Speaker 3: been represented in their success. So when they say they
- 1:53:29Speaker 3: want to marry a man, they find out that when
- 1:53:32Speaker 3: the man comes and says.
- 1:53:33Speaker 1: My food, say your what are you crazy?
- 1:53:36Speaker 3: I stay in a hotel with taptain towels and servants
- 1:53:40Speaker 3: come and give me this, And you are saying, as
- 1:53:41Speaker 3: su probably am for you, you are.
- 1:53:43Speaker 1: Reduced in me. They say to a village girl. The
- 1:53:46Speaker 1: best recommendation for such a beautiful society remains single and
- 1:53:50Speaker 1: support the kingdom. Yes, you will be more useful to God.
- 1:53:59Speaker 1: It's true. That's why Paul didn't marry. If Paul married,
- 1:54:04Speaker 1: only God knows the version of pain that the church
- 1:54:07Speaker 1: would have received. The wife would have seen a husband
- 1:54:12Speaker 1: less than ten times in his entire lifetime. Are we
- 1:54:22Speaker 1: together understanding value?
- 1:54:27Speaker 3: I watch relationships and I see how the ladies devalue
- 1:54:32Speaker 3: the man because maybe they didn't read certain things, or
- 1:54:39Speaker 3: they have not become certain things yet. And you see
- 1:54:42Speaker 3: the communication of devaluation.
- 1:54:44Speaker 1: To the man. That's not love. Love is that I perceive.
- 1:54:49Speaker 3: Your significance in my life.
- 1:54:53Speaker 1: Why do I love God? Or do I really love God? Yes?
- 1:54:57Speaker 1: I have seen the value of God in my life. Ah. Yeah,
- 1:55:01Speaker 1: for without me, he can do nothing.
- 1:55:03Speaker 3: So when I say, Lord, I love you and I
- 1:55:05Speaker 3: seek you, I'm not doing God in favor by coming
- 1:55:08Speaker 3: to church. When I come to church, his word cleanses
- 1:55:12Speaker 3: me and gives me an understanding that programs me for victory.
- 1:55:16Speaker 3: It's not a favor to God, are we together? It
- 1:55:21Speaker 3: is because Varsity did not see the significance of a
- 1:55:25Speaker 3: hazardous in her life.
- 1:55:27Speaker 1: So when he said, FIRSTI come and flaunt yourself, he says,
- 1:55:30Speaker 1: so I'm now a property. Now I don't know.
- 1:55:32Speaker 3: What he has done, but just forgotten that that guy
- 1:55:35Speaker 3: is a king over one hundred and twenty seven provinces.
- 1:55:38Speaker 1: Brothers and sisters, let's not lie to ourselves. That's a
- 1:55:41Speaker 1: great man. A man who is the king over one
- 1:55:44Speaker 1: hundred and twenty seven provinces deserves the honor of any
- 1:55:48Speaker 1: woman who is wise. It's true. She said, well, I
- 1:55:52Speaker 1: don't know what you're saying. You have money. I have money,
- 1:55:55Speaker 1: You have the throne and have a beautiful face.
- 1:55:57Speaker 3: And he said, of you go then it caught to
- 1:56:00Speaker 3: her that they are all the options.
- 1:56:03Speaker 1: It was their choice to keep you.
- 1:56:09Speaker 3: The same way you say, Lord, if I don't come
- 1:56:11Speaker 3: for coynonia Joshah selma, you can't do anything. And God,
- 1:56:14Speaker 3: they say, okay, I will raise somebody that didn't even
- 1:56:17Speaker 3: finish secondary school.
- 1:56:18Speaker 1: And annoying him.
- 1:56:20Speaker 3: Is doctor Paulamania that says God will use the calabash
- 1:56:24Speaker 3: to disgrace the port. He will use calabash to fetch
- 1:56:26Speaker 3: water so that the port.
- 1:56:27Speaker 1: Will see that.
- 1:56:29Speaker 3: That you are being used. It's not because you don't
- 1:56:31Speaker 3: have holes. It's because God is giving you a chance.
- 1:56:36Speaker 3: There's nothing called indispensable in this kingdom.
- 1:56:39Speaker 1: Now. There are wives that when they get married, they
- 1:56:43Speaker 1: don't care again.
- 1:56:44Speaker 3: Not about their husbands, not about anything. There are husbands
- 1:56:47Speaker 3: when they get married. There are guys that when they
- 1:56:50Speaker 3: say when the lady says yes to them, that's the
- 1:56:53Speaker 3: end of it.
- 1:56:54Speaker 1: There are ladies that when the guy asks them out,
- 1:56:57Speaker 1: and now they know that stringleness is all, people change and.
- 1:57:02Speaker 3: Vacillate because there is no understanding. Please don't ever ask
- 1:57:07Speaker 3: any lady you do not see her worth and significance
- 1:57:11Speaker 3: in your life. The danger is you will punish that
- 1:57:14Speaker 3: dear lady, and you will victimize her. Don't ever say
- 1:57:18Speaker 3: yes to any man you know you will not be
- 1:57:21Speaker 3: proud based on the value. It is painful to watch
- 1:57:28Speaker 3: a guy do his best for a lady and she
- 1:57:32Speaker 3: keeps giving an impression you are not worthy enough. Or
- 1:57:36Speaker 3: a lady does her very best to a guy and
- 1:57:39Speaker 3: he's communicating is not enough.
- 1:57:42Speaker 1: Even God does not do that to you when he
- 1:57:45Speaker 1: sees your sacrifices. God as as though he cannot do
- 1:57:49Speaker 1: without you. That should flatter you, But it is true.
- 1:57:54Speaker 3: I search for a man, a Jimmie, the god of
- 1:57:57Speaker 3: the heavens, who make the heavens and the pattact the
- 1:58:00Speaker 3: sea with the breath of his nostrils. It's going around suching,
- 1:58:04Speaker 3: and that such came to a young, poor small boy
- 1:58:07Speaker 3: called Joshua Selman, and he says, can I use you
- 1:58:10Speaker 3: to shake the nations?
- 1:58:11Speaker 1: God, boy, you can't do without me. I know I
- 1:58:14Speaker 1: have limited myself because I love you. I have made
- 1:58:18Speaker 1: you valuate bullying my program. That's good. If you're married
- 1:58:25Speaker 1: here or you're in a relationship, you should go back.
- 1:58:29Speaker 3: And find what's significance your husband, your wife, or your
- 1:58:32Speaker 3: friend or your business means.
- 1:58:35Speaker 1: To you and to God. I'm giving you a business.
- 1:58:38Speaker 3: Don't just say yes to a guy, don't just ask
- 1:58:40Speaker 3: a lady out, don't just start business.
- 1:58:43Speaker 1: Disn the value are we together? Yes, I love our
- 1:58:51Speaker 1: daddy here with all my heart. I love him. I've
- 1:58:57Speaker 1: made a choice to love and honor him.
- 1:59:00Speaker 3: But I've also discerned the relevance and the significance of
- 1:59:06Speaker 3: his authority, his influence to my life.
- 1:59:10Speaker 1: To this ministry, to the advancement of God's kingdom. Many
- 1:59:16Speaker 1: of us do not respect our parents because we have
- 1:59:19Speaker 1: not discerned.
- 1:59:21Speaker 3: When a woman is treating her husband andyhow what she's
- 1:59:24Speaker 3: saying is I looked at my life and have not
- 1:59:27Speaker 3: found where.
- 1:59:27Speaker 1: You are valuable. That's not a good thing. When a
- 1:59:32Speaker 1: guy looks at a lady and treats her like a
- 1:59:34Speaker 1: piece of rug, what he's.
- 1:59:36Speaker 3: Simply trying to say is, my dear, I have not
- 1:59:40Speaker 3: seen your relevance. That's why he's dangerous to tie love
- 1:59:44Speaker 3: to things like beauty and the rest. Because by the
- 1:59:47Speaker 3: time she's fifty years old, and she's not as beautiful
- 1:59:50Speaker 3: as she was nineteen or twenty or twenty.
- 1:59:53Speaker 1: One when you married her. Now, all of a sudden. Oh,
- 1:59:57Speaker 1: the guy was tall, dark and handsome, and.
- 2:00:00Speaker 3: Now the guy is suffering from prostrate cancer and he
- 2:00:03Speaker 3: has to be relegated to a wheelchair and you are
- 2:00:06Speaker 3: the one doing the pushing.
- 2:00:07Speaker 1: Don't say Job's wife did not love him.
- 2:00:09Speaker 3: Now you know Job's wife stood close to him. She
- 2:00:13Speaker 3: was frustrated. She's spoken in how Bo. She remained there
- 2:00:17Speaker 3: till he was healed. Now listen, let me say one
- 2:00:20Speaker 3: thing that is going to shock many of you around
- 2:00:23Speaker 3: in all the only part of love that is unconditional
- 2:00:31Speaker 3: is choice. You know, we say that God pays unconditional
- 2:00:37Speaker 3: love is true, but let me break it down to you.
- 2:00:40Speaker 1: Not every part of love is unconditional.
- 2:00:43Speaker 3: The choice to remain, the choice to stay with your
- 2:00:49Speaker 3: wife or your husband is unconditional.
- 2:00:54Speaker 1: But the honor that's going to be the third point
- 2:00:57Speaker 1: that I would give this conditional You A man is
- 2:01:01Speaker 1: not going to sit down and live irresponsibly and then
- 2:01:05Speaker 1: expect every manifestation of honor that is a clue to greatness.
- 2:01:10Speaker 1: It doesn't work that way. The choice is what should
- 2:01:13Speaker 1: never change. Are we together?
- 2:01:16Speaker 3: God has chosen to love all men, but it does
- 2:01:19Speaker 3: not best for the same honor upon them.
- 2:01:21Speaker 1: It is based on their alignment. This is God. Let's
- 2:01:30Speaker 1: finish the second point. I love you means I understand
- 2:01:34Speaker 1: the extent of.
- 2:01:35Speaker 3: Your usefulness and significance to my life and destiny.
- 2:01:41Speaker 1: That's what it means. That means there is no shame
- 2:01:44Speaker 1: of being vulnerable. And Jamil loves his daughter.
- 2:01:50Speaker 3: She's there taking water and enjoying herself, and he's dear,
- 2:01:53Speaker 3: well dressed.
- 2:01:54Speaker 1: She may pour water on his shed, it doesn't matter.
- 2:01:57Speaker 1: He understands the significance of this, dear lady.
- 2:02:00Speaker 3: There are people looking for children, and God has blessed him,
- 2:02:04Speaker 3: and he's.
- 2:02:05Speaker 1: Not ashamed to be vulnerable.
- 2:02:07Speaker 3: There are mothers here who were just a few years
- 2:02:11Speaker 3: ago young ladies, but right now they have to run
- 2:02:14Speaker 3: to one breastfeed their children, and they are not embarrassed
- 2:02:18Speaker 3: because they understand.
- 2:02:19Speaker 1: The value of the gift of a child.
- 2:02:22Speaker 3: Please don't get into any relationship where there is no
- 2:02:26Speaker 3: absolute revelation of the value of the person who are
- 2:02:30Speaker 3: bringing in your life.
- 2:02:31Speaker 1: Abuse is a product of.
- 2:02:34Speaker 3: Lack of discerning value.
- 2:02:36Speaker 1: Whether to a woman or to a man.
- 2:02:39Speaker 3: A man that beats his wife is not just an
- 2:02:42Speaker 3: ungodly man. He's a man who does not love her,
- 2:02:45Speaker 3: do you know why because he has not discerned her value.
- 2:02:52Speaker 3: If I told you this watch was, for instance, three
- 2:02:56Speaker 3: hundred thousand, right, I have placed you on it and
- 2:03:01Speaker 3: say I'm wearing on my hands an object.
- 2:03:05Speaker 1: That is three hundred thousand worths of gold. And then
- 2:03:09Speaker 1: if I remove it and give you, will you.
- 2:03:11Speaker 3: Forget it on a chair? Please talk to me. You
- 2:03:14Speaker 3: will protect it. Your protection is.
- 2:03:17Speaker 1: A revelation of the value and what it can do
- 2:03:20Speaker 1: to you.
- 2:03:20Speaker 3: That you can remove this watch and run to Canoe
- 2:03:23Speaker 3: black market and make over three hundred and sixty thousand
- 2:03:28Speaker 3: from this watch.
- 2:03:29Speaker 1: And so if I give you, you say thank you. If
- 2:03:32Speaker 1: some tires a piece.
- 2:03:33Speaker 3: Of paper from his book and gives you, you may
- 2:03:35Speaker 3: forget it on the ground. That's exactly the revelation you
- 2:03:39Speaker 3: give in the way you treat your children. So when
- 2:03:42Speaker 3: a man has five children and does.
- 2:03:45Speaker 1: Not take care of them, what he is saying is
- 2:03:47Speaker 1: I don't think any of you will be useful in
- 2:03:49Speaker 1: this life, So there is no point being committed to
- 2:03:52Speaker 1: your future value.
- 2:04:03Speaker 9: The keeper of is whill he'll never sleep nos lumber.
- 2:04:12Speaker 1: He's watching lover me. He knows I'm useful to his kingdom.
- 2:04:18Speaker 1: The keeper of wild will never sleep, no slumber. He's
- 2:04:29Speaker 1: watching knows there is a law in this ministry.
- 2:04:34Speaker 3: Anybody who is sick, we make sure that within twenty
- 2:04:38Speaker 3: four hours late at forty eight, that report would have
- 2:04:41Speaker 3: reached me and the heads of departments, alongside other executives,
- 2:04:45Speaker 3: try to meet.
- 2:04:46Speaker 1: The person in partnership with the welfare department.
- 2:04:49Speaker 3: If need be, we send them to the hospital, and
- 2:04:51Speaker 3: as much as we can foot the bill, we love them.
- 2:04:55Speaker 1: But the truth is we have seen the significance.
- 2:04:58Speaker 3: Of a precious walker to the continuity of this assignment.
- 2:05:02Speaker 1: I will not be too arrogant to say without you,
- 2:05:04Speaker 1: God will still move.
- 2:05:06Speaker 3: I know you can still move, but since He has
- 2:05:08Speaker 3: chosen you, then I must respect it.
- 2:05:14Speaker 1: I can't act save your participation.
- 2:05:16Speaker 3: It's not helping the ministry rise. I can't act save
- 2:05:20Speaker 3: without you. Sometimes we'll do that thing. We must be careful.
- 2:05:23Speaker 1: Do not be embarrassed to communicate value. There are people
- 2:05:28Speaker 1: in my life who are useful. I let them know.
- 2:05:31Speaker 1: There are people in this ministry who are useful. I
- 2:05:34Speaker 1: let them know.
- 2:05:36Speaker 3: Have you communicated value to those who mean a lot
- 2:05:39Speaker 3: to you? But your destiny helpers and your enemies are
- 2:05:43Speaker 3: in the same category your mind. There is no body
- 2:05:46Speaker 3: that is worth your understanding, your value and their usefulness.
- 2:05:55Speaker 1: Number three, we have to render. True value is honor,
- 2:06:06Speaker 1: true love. And then to say is honor it's first
- 2:06:10Speaker 1: a choice.
- 2:06:11Speaker 3: Then it is understanding the worth and the usefulness of
- 2:06:16Speaker 3: a person or a thing to you.
- 2:06:19Speaker 1: And then true love is honor. What is honor?
- 2:06:22Speaker 3: The recognition, the acknowledgement, and the celebration can even be
- 2:06:30Speaker 3: the rewarding of that value that you now understand.
- 2:06:34Speaker 1: It is not enough to know that a wife is
- 2:06:36Speaker 1: valuable to you, no matter how much you love God.
- 2:06:40Speaker 3: Without a woman, you will not be able to have
- 2:06:44Speaker 3: another child, another life. So when a woman comes into
- 2:06:47Speaker 3: your life, just because you put a.
- 2:06:49Speaker 1: Ring in her hand does not mean you treat her
- 2:06:51Speaker 1: like a piece of rag.
- 2:06:52Speaker 3: She is the mother of your children. She is the
- 2:06:57Speaker 3: reason why you are called abba father. Why don't treat
- 2:07:05Speaker 3: your husband or in a relationship treats the other party
- 2:07:09Speaker 3: no when they stand those Why in a relationship stand up?
- 2:07:12Speaker 3: If you ever stand up as a ladies because somebody destands.
- 2:07:16Speaker 1: You enough to ask you out and even sustain the
- 2:07:19Speaker 1: courage to go and see your parents. Please don't take
- 2:07:22Speaker 1: it for granted. Survive all the embarrassing things that needed
- 2:07:28Speaker 1: to go through, and they answer him before the whole world.
- 2:07:31Speaker 1: Are you willing to take care of this lady? He
- 2:07:34Speaker 1: said yes.
- 2:07:35Speaker 3: Most ladies don't understand that being a man is very hard.
- 2:07:39Speaker 3: It's easy to stand like a refree and a commentator and.
- 2:07:43Speaker 1: A supporters club.
- 2:07:44Speaker 3: You are so as to bring the schoolies harber By
- 2:07:46Speaker 3: now you should have they can let me submit to you.
- 2:07:50Speaker 3: Being a man it's hard.
- 2:07:52Speaker 1: That's why the treasons are full of them.
- 2:07:57Speaker 3: They try and try and try. It doesn't walk legally.
- 2:08:01Speaker 3: They jump in like Zero's boss.
- 2:08:02Speaker 1: And their court. They try the pressure that women put.
- 2:08:09Speaker 3: On men put on their husbands by this by that
- 2:08:13Speaker 3: build their house by. They just name it because Nigerian
- 2:08:17Speaker 3: film showed that if you love me, you must pend
- 2:08:20Speaker 3: on me.
- 2:08:21Speaker 1: Let's be careful. To be a man's a sacrifice. That's
- 2:08:26Speaker 1: why Jesus didn't come as a woman. He claim as
- 2:08:29Speaker 1: a man. Now, I'm not teaching some feminist things. I
- 2:08:35Speaker 1: have great regard and respect, but there are certain burdens.
- 2:08:39Speaker 1: No matter what human rights movement is flaunting the earth,
- 2:08:42Speaker 1: there are some loads that only a man. A man
- 2:08:47Speaker 1: is a mystery. It's a system. He's not just a
- 2:08:50Speaker 1: masculine figure with a hosky voice. It's more than that.
- 2:08:53Speaker 1: He's a burden beerer.
- 2:08:55Speaker 3: Any man you ever see that he's paying the price
- 2:08:58Speaker 3: to keep his family or pay relationship.
- 2:09:01Speaker 1: Please respect the person.
- 2:09:02Speaker 3: Don't open your mouth and run people's families. There are
- 2:09:07Speaker 3: men who don't sleep in the night when your wives
- 2:09:09Speaker 3: are sleeping.
- 2:09:10Speaker 1: Lord, open the doors for my children. Don't sit down
- 2:09:13Speaker 1: and trivialize it.
- 2:09:16Speaker 3: Love is honor, the recognition, the celebration. That's what Esther did.
- 2:09:26Speaker 3: When Esther came. She knews you as a beautiful lady.
- 2:09:30Speaker 1: But when Azar was choose her for the rest.
- 2:09:33Speaker 3: Of her life in that parlace, she honor the king.
- 2:09:36Speaker 3: He said, Look, I hope you know that you are
- 2:09:38Speaker 3: choosing ladies. If they were all fine, what of me?
- 2:09:42Speaker 3: This pride will destroy your sisters.
- 2:09:45Speaker 1: Please, I talk to you from a heart of love.
- 2:09:48Speaker 3: When a man who is worthy of honor comes into
- 2:09:51Speaker 3: your life and proves himself to be worthy of honor,
- 2:09:55Speaker 3: do not be ashamed to communicate that honor.
- 2:10:01Speaker 1: A businessman comes into your life and wants who advise you. You
- 2:10:05Speaker 1: have seen his results.
- 2:10:07Speaker 3: Don't act like we're colleagues humble yourself and communicate the honor.
- 2:10:12Speaker 3: That's why we don't come before God and do big
- 2:10:14Speaker 3: manage them. When it's time to worship him.
- 2:10:16Speaker 1: We can kneel down our role on the floor and say, Lord,
- 2:10:19Speaker 1: it is you that gave me life. I always will
- 2:10:21Speaker 1: give you like where your mother is there, I know
- 2:10:24Speaker 1: and God says you did this to me. Let the
- 2:10:26Speaker 1: blessings come down.
- 2:10:28Speaker 3: The embarrassments of showering honor between husbands and wives, wives, husbands, students, lectureers, parents, children, mentors, mentees,
- 2:10:40Speaker 3: leaders is what is.
- 2:10:42Speaker 1: Destroying people's concept of love. I love you.
- 2:10:47Speaker 3: Means I am willing to intentionally recognize, acknowledge, celebrate, and
- 2:10:56Speaker 3: reward your uniqueness and your usefulness.
- 2:11:00Speaker 1: In my life.
- 2:11:03Speaker 3: So if I say so, Tobia, I love you, or
- 2:11:05Speaker 3: promise I love you, what I'm trying to say is
- 2:11:08Speaker 3: I have come to terms with the fact that if
- 2:11:13Speaker 3: you live my life, I can't lie that I will
- 2:11:16Speaker 3: not feel it. That's honor, and I'm willing to express it.
- 2:11:22Speaker 3: Here in lies the pride that destroys relationships, the pride
- 2:11:27Speaker 3: that destroys marriage. Where husbands claim they can't do without
- 2:11:32Speaker 3: their wives, where wives claim they can't do without your husband.
- 2:11:36Speaker 1: When a company.
- 2:11:37Speaker 3: Worker claims he can't do without his CEO, where men
- 2:11:41Speaker 3: is claim they can't live without a mentor, where a
- 2:11:44Speaker 3: member claims he knows everything, the pastor is saying, honor
- 2:11:50Speaker 3: the willingness, trust some well ch.
- 2:11:57Speaker 1: After two and averse thirty.
- 2:12:01Speaker 3: I know the usefulness of the worship team to my
- 2:12:05Speaker 3: life as a person, to Corinonia as a ministry.
- 2:12:08Speaker 1: I know the.
- 2:12:09Speaker 3: Usefulness of the prayer department to my life. I know
- 2:12:14Speaker 3: the usefulness of all of the people that represent this ministry.
- 2:12:19Speaker 3: I know the usefulness of the media department to my
- 2:12:23Speaker 3: efficiency in preaching. I know the usefulness of all the
- 2:12:27Speaker 3: people sited outside. That's why we honor you by providing
- 2:12:31Speaker 3: busses after service. It costs us a lot, but for
- 2:12:35Speaker 3: as long as God grants grace, we will continue doing
- 2:12:38Speaker 3: its honor. You honor me, and you respect me very much,
- 2:12:45Speaker 3: and I appreciate because you have seen not just the
- 2:12:48Speaker 3: significance of God in your life.
- 2:12:50Speaker 1: You have come to discern my usefulness and you are
- 2:12:53Speaker 1: not ashamed to express it.
- 2:12:55Speaker 3: That's why you send the text messages of honor. That's
- 2:12:58Speaker 3: why you show the seeds.
- 2:13:01Speaker 1: I wait to see you after study is as tired
- 2:13:03Speaker 1: as I am, whether I'm eating or not. Because I
- 2:13:06Speaker 1: honor you, God give me the annointing because you are dear.
- 2:13:10Speaker 3: If you are not there, the annointing will not come
- 2:13:12Speaker 3: to me much more than prayer and first thing. The
- 2:13:14Speaker 3: annointing is only in my life because there is.
- 2:13:17Speaker 1: Someone to receive, so I can pay the price to
- 2:13:20Speaker 1: receive it. Through honor is mutual. I'm rounding on through
- 2:13:30Speaker 1: honor is mutual.
- 2:13:32Speaker 3: Write it down, especially in the context of marriage and relationships.
- 2:13:37Speaker 3: Through one side that honor is selfishness, and it is devilish.
- 2:13:43Speaker 3: The woman cannot be the one communicating or indefinitely No,
- 2:13:48Speaker 3: A wise man most received for Kate back honor.
- 2:13:52Speaker 1: I honor the Lord.
- 2:13:54Speaker 3: He honors me with his presence. He honors me with results.
- 2:13:57Speaker 3: I can't speak and said, there's someone in a flow
- 2:14:00Speaker 3: three and a long this times from where I am.
- 2:14:04Speaker 1: The Angel of the Lord's presence will honor that word
- 2:14:07Speaker 1: spoken by a small man. Elie honor the Lord. The
- 2:14:11Speaker 1: Lord honor his world. Through honor is mutual.
- 2:14:15Speaker 3: Many relationships suffer, Many marriages suffer, Many business relationships suffer,
- 2:14:22Speaker 3: Many friendships suffer because there is a one sided communication
- 2:14:27Speaker 3: of honor, So come, darling. The husband sees the value
- 2:14:32Speaker 3: of the woman, showers all kinds of.
- 2:14:35Speaker 1: Love like christis church. Make sure that she's looking beautiful,
- 2:14:40Speaker 1: make sure that she's happy, make sure that.
- 2:14:43Speaker 3: The children are well taken care of. And then the
- 2:14:46Speaker 3: woman takes him for granted, after all.
- 2:14:49Speaker 1: Is your right. I didn't ask you out. You are
- 2:14:52Speaker 1: the one who chase me. They say, dangerous, The must
- 2:14:56Speaker 1: be rectifocation.
- 2:14:59Speaker 3: The same way, a woman is almost worshiping her husband
- 2:15:02Speaker 3: like Sarah, calling Abraham Lord, going out of her way,
- 2:15:07Speaker 3: doing things she never would have done to communicate honor,
- 2:15:10Speaker 3: and there comes the arrogant and pomp postman, beating his chest.
- 2:15:15Speaker 3: Many of our loved ones. That's how they humiliated our
- 2:15:20Speaker 3: village mothers. Some of our mothers who came from the village.
- 2:15:23Speaker 3: I met a little father who had the privilege to
- 2:15:25Speaker 3: go to school, and he spent his life humiliating our
- 2:15:29Speaker 3: mothers because he felt, after all, you were a village
- 2:15:32Speaker 3: here somewhere. I took you and cleaned you, and for
- 2:15:36Speaker 3: that you will keep worshiping me for.
- 2:15:37Speaker 1: The rest of your life. No, sir, honor is mutual. Lord,
- 2:15:43Speaker 1: I love you, son, I back you. Lord. I worship you, son.
- 2:15:49Speaker 1: I honor you, my wife.
- 2:15:52Speaker 3: Thank you for being beautiful and looking wonderful for me,
- 2:15:55Speaker 3: my husband, Thank you for being responsible to make me
- 2:15:58Speaker 3: like this.
- 2:15:59Speaker 1: Honor are we together? Oh, my son?
- 2:16:05Speaker 3: Thank you for paying the price you took first position.
- 2:16:09Speaker 1: You made me a proud father. Daddy, thank you so much.
- 2:16:12Speaker 1: I have watched them drive children for schoolfish, but you
- 2:16:15Speaker 1: paid my SCHOOLFI is a session beforehand.
- 2:16:19Speaker 3: I acknowledge you there will hardly be any fight when
- 2:16:23Speaker 3: there is a determination.
- 2:16:25Speaker 1: From both parties to consistently.
- 2:16:28Speaker 3: Don't say I know it in my heart. Even God
- 2:16:30Speaker 3: knows it. My brother and men look at the outward appearance.
- 2:16:33Speaker 3: Don't say I know it in my heart.
- 2:16:37Speaker 1: I love you means I am willing to celebrate your.
- 2:16:42Speaker 3: Usefulness, not just your uniqueness.
- 2:16:45Speaker 1: I am willing.
- 2:16:48Speaker 3: Are you willing to celebrate your uniqueness of that lady
- 2:16:51Speaker 3: you love that you are about to ask during Valentine?
- 2:16:55Speaker 3: Are you willing to celebrate the usefulness of that brother
- 2:16:59Speaker 3: that God gave you? You are same ladies trusting God
- 2:17:03Speaker 3: for brothers. You are same brothers trusting God for ladies.
- 2:17:07Speaker 3: You were not even praying and God brought a correct
- 2:17:10Speaker 3: brother to you.
- 2:17:11Speaker 1: You are about to lose that brother because of lack
- 2:17:13Speaker 1: of discandment and lack of honor.
- 2:17:15Speaker 3: God brought a nice lady to you. You are saying,
- 2:17:18Speaker 3: ladies giving men have to attack all around town. And
- 2:17:21Speaker 3: God gave you a nice lady with a meek and
- 2:17:24Speaker 3: a quiet.
- 2:17:25Speaker 1: Spirit, and you are about taking it for granted.
- 2:17:28Speaker 3: A lady you can count one hundred thousand and give,
- 2:17:31Speaker 3: and she says, my husband.
- 2:17:32Speaker 1: Thank you, But I know that you have a greater need.
- 2:17:35Speaker 1: Ten thousand will do the family?
- 2:17:37Speaker 3: Take nineteen thousand and do something with it as a
- 2:17:40Speaker 3: proof of trust, not that she pockets and keeps as ladies,
- 2:17:43Speaker 3: wicked man, you have a lady that is that faulnerable
- 2:17:46Speaker 3: to you and can move, move herself for you, And
- 2:17:48Speaker 3: you're not going to behave yourself and honor that woman
- 2:17:52Speaker 3: like you would a trophy.
- 2:17:54Speaker 1: There is problem in our society. We must learn. We're
- 2:17:58Speaker 1: going to pray to night. I know that our time
- 2:18:01Speaker 1: has gone. But this is what love is. It is
- 2:18:05Speaker 1: a choice. A choice.
- 2:18:10Speaker 3: Love is a perception of the value of God, of men,
- 2:18:17Speaker 3: of laws.
- 2:18:20Speaker 1: To the usefulness of your life. And love is the
- 2:18:24Speaker 1: celebration of that usefulness.
- 2:18:28Speaker 3: Don't take anything for granted in your life. Don't take
- 2:18:33Speaker 3: anything for granted in your life.
- 2:18:36Speaker 1: You can take this.
- 2:18:37Speaker 3: Finger for granted until the day there is a weekload, dear,
- 2:18:40Speaker 3: and you find out that the pains from this finger
- 2:18:42Speaker 3: will force your leg as healthy as it is from working.
- 2:18:45Speaker 3: That's the day you will know that this finger plays
- 2:18:48Speaker 3: a role. Men who are seven feet tall type because
- 2:18:53Speaker 3: the small heart stop walking, your small hat you call it.
- 2:18:59Speaker 1: A great man can run to.
- 2:19:01Speaker 3: India because two tiny substances called ice stop working. His
- 2:19:06Speaker 3: hands didn't stop working, but just because the eyes were
- 2:19:10Speaker 3: not working, it can paralyze the man. Could it be
- 2:19:14Speaker 3: that what you are ignoring in your life maybe the
- 2:19:17Speaker 3: epicenter of.
- 2:19:18Speaker 1: Your relevance, and you ignore it. Anything you disorno is
- 2:19:23Speaker 1: authorized to live your life.
- 2:19:29Speaker 3: A husband may not live your life. Your wife may
- 2:19:31Speaker 3: not live your life. The person you are going out
- 2:19:33Speaker 3: with may not live your life. Goes something about them
- 2:19:35Speaker 3: will leave.
- 2:19:36Speaker 1: You, is true? Take a super attack at.
- 2:19:49Speaker 3: I would teach you something next week. We're not wrong.
- 2:19:53Speaker 3: There is a powerful The most important part of this
- 2:19:56Speaker 3: teaching is what it's about to come, but I'll fold
- 2:19:59Speaker 3: that for next week.
- 2:20:01Speaker 1: Jesus, grant us grice. Do we have something to pray about.
- 2:20:05Speaker 1: Rise upon your feet. Tonight is a sober Knights. I know.
- 2:20:15Speaker 3: It's being a challenging time for different people, but I
- 2:20:20Speaker 3: want you to remember everything I've said.
- 2:20:23Speaker 1: Love is not feelings. Love is not emotions. It's more
- 2:20:27Speaker 1: than that. Love is not the tingly feeling towards a
- 2:20:30Speaker 1: person or a thing.
- 2:20:32Speaker 3: No, there are dimensions to love. There is passion, there
- 2:20:38Speaker 3: is a commitment, there is pleasure, there is sacrifice. And
- 2:20:43Speaker 3: then I define love for you as defined by God himself.
- 2:20:46Speaker 3: That number one, true love is a choice.
- 2:20:50Speaker 1: Number two, true love is a perception of the value,
- 2:20:55Speaker 1: the usefulness, a comprehension of the need.
- 2:21:00Speaker 3: Don't marry until you understand the usefulness of marriage to.
- 2:21:05Speaker 1: Your life, to God's agenda.
- 2:21:07Speaker 3: Don't have children until you understand the usefulness of children
- 2:21:11Speaker 3: to your life. Don't bring your wife, don't bring your
- 2:21:15Speaker 3: husband until you distand their.
- 2:21:17Speaker 1: Usefulness and then honor the outspoken, honor, shamed, recognition, rewarding,
- 2:21:26Speaker 1: celebrating of that usefulness in your life. Lift your voice
- 2:21:30Speaker 1: and thank the Lord for the spirit of wisdom. Tonight
- 2:21:34Speaker 1: sas man the la Cosa. Now you can say, Lord,
- 2:21:44Speaker 1: I love you from the standpoint of.
- 2:21:46Speaker 3: The revelation that you have. Lord, I love you. It's
- 2:21:50Speaker 3: a choice that I've made. It's a choice that I've made.
- 2:21:54Speaker 3: I'm passionate towards you. I'm committed towards you. I de
- 2:21:59Speaker 3: ivele stop being with you, and I'm ready to lay
- 2:22:02Speaker 3: down everything if need pree for you.
- 2:22:05Speaker 1: I've made a choice. It is a choice.
- 2:22:08Speaker 3: I understand your usefulness in my life. I understand your
- 2:22:12Speaker 3: significance in my life, and I'm willing to celebrate you.
- 2:22:16Speaker 3: Know O that God can tell it creature. I love you.
- 2:22:20Speaker 3: I don't thank you for granted that you love me,
- 2:22:23Speaker 3: that you die for me, and I douyah just one
- 2:22:32Speaker 3: prayer tonight, Lord break down my pride and in the
- 2:22:40Speaker 3: place of that.
- 2:22:40Speaker 1: Space, create whom for this revelation.
- 2:22:43Speaker 3: Let it and tell me go ahead and pray, take
- 2:22:46Speaker 3: away every pride from my life. Some of you, what
- 2:22:50Speaker 3: I'm saying is hard on you, but it is the
- 2:22:53Speaker 3: word of the Lord.
- 2:22:54Speaker 1: It is the spirit of wisdom to your life.
- 2:23:00Speaker 3: Sabaraka took a step. Brother, Lord born this truth in
- 2:23:08Speaker 3: my heart that every time I say I love a sister,
- 2:23:12Speaker 3: I love a brother, I love my wife, I love
- 2:23:16Speaker 3: my housband, I love my job. I love Coinonia, I
- 2:23:20Speaker 3: love the holiest periit.
- 2:23:22Speaker 1: Let it be that.
- 2:23:23Speaker 3: I haven't understanding that I've made my choice. I designed
- 2:23:28Speaker 3: the usefulness, and I'm ready to celebrade.
- 2:23:32Speaker 1: I'm ready to reward. I'm ready to appreciate you. Alan Jujah,
- 2:23:41Speaker 1: listen this. Everyone stands. When you reject Jesus and you
- 2:23:46Speaker 1: say I don't love you, you know what you have said. Now.
- 2:23:49Speaker 3: I have the power to say yes to you, but
- 2:23:52Speaker 3: I use.
- 2:23:53Speaker 1: My wheel and I reject you. Number two, When you
- 2:23:56Speaker 1: say no to Jesus, what you.
- 2:23:59Speaker 3: Say is that I have not seen your usefulness in
- 2:24:02Speaker 3: my life. I've seen the usefulness of a certificate, so
- 2:24:06Speaker 3: I pursued it. I've stien the usefulness of a job,
- 2:24:09Speaker 3: so I'm still dropping my CV.
- 2:24:11Speaker 1: But I have not seen your usefulness. Number three, I
- 2:24:15Speaker 1: do not think you are important and worthy of my
- 2:24:18Speaker 1: worship and my acknowledgements. But I know that there are
- 2:24:21Speaker 1: people in all the overflows and.
- 2:24:24Speaker 3: Others fallen online who are saying are personal.
- 2:24:27Speaker 1: I never knew that this was what loving Jesus was
- 2:24:29Speaker 1: all about.
- 2:24:30Speaker 3: And right now that you have spoken, I really want
- 2:24:34Speaker 3: to run to Jesus to communicate my love.
- 2:24:38Speaker 1: Wherever you are, our time is gone. Whether you are
- 2:24:42Speaker 1: inside overflow three, you will walk to your projectors, but
- 2:24:46Speaker 1: overflow one and two. Wherever you are, I.
- 2:24:49Speaker 3: Want you to run and say a personal I want
- 2:24:51Speaker 3: to love Jesus.
- 2:24:53Speaker 1: I want to love Jesus genuinely. Where are there? Where
- 2:24:56Speaker 1: are there? Where are those who are not as shamed? No?
- 2:25:01Speaker 1: God is closing his eyes. Make your way to the front,
- 2:25:04Speaker 1: inside or outside. Remember, I say choice. No one can
- 2:25:08Speaker 1: trust you. You can sit on your seat, or.
- 2:25:11Speaker 3: You can get up and say first all I'm.
- 2:25:13Speaker 1: Coming to Jesus. It's a choice. I have an option
- 2:25:17Speaker 1: to say no. I've foll lot of things less not.
- 2:25:21Speaker 3: Things yes, but I say yes to Jesus.
- 2:25:25Speaker 1: Keep coming, well out of time, keep coming.
- 2:25:29Speaker 3: I say yes to Jesus.
- 2:25:31Speaker 1: In pain and in pleasure. I say yes to Jesus.
- 2:25:35Speaker 1: I'm willing to be passed on it. I'm willing to
- 2:25:38Speaker 1: be committed.
- 2:25:39Speaker 3: I'm willing to derive pleasure from my experience with him,
- 2:25:43Speaker 3: and I'm willing to sacrifice.
- 2:25:45Speaker 1: All for him. I've made a choice.
- 2:25:49Speaker 3: It is Jesus only and Jesus ever. I've made a choice.
- 2:25:53Speaker 3: I see your usefulness in my life. I've made a
- 2:25:56Speaker 3: choice I will live my life to honor you and
- 2:25:59Speaker 3: bring Clow like Esther did, a hazardous keep coming. Let's
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- 2:26:08Speaker 1: But lacas, brother, allelujah, all of you in front, those
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- 2:26:22Speaker 3: Those at overflow three. I want you to say this
- 2:26:27Speaker 3: after me, please, men, it from your heart. I've told
- 2:26:29Speaker 3: you what love is, and I want you to say
- 2:26:32Speaker 3: it from your heart. Saylf till me. Lord Jesus, I
- 2:26:37Speaker 3: love you. I truly love you. Tonight, I make a
- 2:26:43Speaker 3: choice to hand over my life and everything about it
- 2:26:53Speaker 3: to you and to your lordship. I make Jesus Lord
- 2:26:59Speaker 3: of my life, King of.
- 2:27:02Speaker 1: My life, lover of my life, savior of my life.
- 2:27:08Speaker 1: From today and forever.
- 2:27:12Speaker 3: I declare that you are my lord, the owner, the
- 2:27:17Speaker 3: manager of my life.
- 2:27:20Speaker 1: I declare that the power of sin stata that grave
- 2:27:27Speaker 1: is over in my life. I declare that Jesus is
- 2:27:33Speaker 1: my savior.
- 2:27:34Speaker 3: I receive your life. I receive salvation a man. Keep
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- 2:27:43Speaker 1: Over these ones.
- 2:27:45Speaker 3: They have communicated their willingness to choose you above all.
- 2:27:50Speaker 3: They have communicated their willingness to love you to serve
- 2:27:54Speaker 3: you to live. For your help that lady in the
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- 2:28:02Speaker 3: heard what they said. I command that your power behalf
- 2:28:06Speaker 3: from them.
- 2:28:07Speaker 1: In the name of Jesus Christ, I supply upon you
- 2:28:10Speaker 1: the grace it takes to leave the reality of this confession.
- 2:28:15Speaker 1: I declare that eternal life is yours from tonight, the
- 2:28:19Speaker 1: grace upon you to live a victorious life. I release
- 2:28:23Speaker 1: it right now in Jesus' name. I declare your sins forgiving.
- 2:28:28Speaker 3: I declare that a new chapter is opened over your
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