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Radical Authenticity: Stop Performing, Start Showing Up | Spiritual Growth in Real Life · Eye Opener Society

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Hello, everyone. My name is Gary Dean. Welcome to Eye Opener Society.
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I want to throw a couple things out there.
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First off, my wall back here.
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Can I do it? Oh, no. See, I got to learn how to do it myself,
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but I'm going to take it down so everybody can see it. If you are watching on
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video, that's a great thing.
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This is my new painting I got up on the wall.
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This I'm showing went off simply because this was
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done by hannah rose from the sound
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within i know most of you all know her and she
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just opened up her etsy shop dream shop
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by hannah on etsy and i think it's
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the same name on instagram but i'm going to put the links up for everybody
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to see in the synopsis but i wanted to let everybody know this
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is part of her eco series so it's like um
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refurbished i think canvas and all so it
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goes easier on the earth which is cool and as all of
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you know i'm a big fan of aliens and ufos so when i seen this i had to get it
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plus it's in purple which is the official color of eye opener society so i think
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this is going to be something super cool for hannah um she does some incredible
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work she's working on some other uh,
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artsy things too as well so that's a
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dream shop by hannah i'm gonna
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leave that here so don't fall off my wall just yet um also
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wanted to give a shout out to carly and carla from appalachian rootworks rooted
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in ruins check out their website appalachianrootworks.com full service metaphysical
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shop one of the best i've ever been in you got to check them out and if you
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could get there in Cynthia Ann in Kentucky, definitely walk in, say hi.
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Say that the Eye Opener Society sent you in there.
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They have everything, and they're loaded with practitioners and all.
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If you can't find it, metaphysically, it will be at Appalachian Rootworks.
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And another thing that's a bit exciting, too, I got word that Haunted and Waiting
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will be dropping an episode, again, really, really soon. So be looking out for that.
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Ann Lund, we all love her, too, as well. Haunted and waiting That should be coming out real soon So,
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All of us Our authentic selves The wonderful people The beautiful souls That
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are you And joining us here On Eye Opener Society,
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We're doing this a little late We always drop our episodes On Monday mornings
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And of course With everything going on,
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Lizzie and I We You know Sometimes wait to the last second Luckily this isn't
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a Sunday It's a Saturday But we're still close to that age But that's the authentic
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thing When it comes to people,
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No matter what we're doing No matter how much Somebody may be a cosmic fairy
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princess Or somebody a meditation master Or whatever the case may be We're still true souls,
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Within our bodies We could try and do everything possible To be the greatest
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that we can be But in the bottom line We are true We are real We'll see you later.
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And everyday life happens to all of us, and especially to Lizzie and I.
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And we've been going through these conversations back and forth recently.
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And there's a lot I learned about Lizzie, and I know Lizzie's learning a lot about me even still.
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This whole co-creation is coming together.
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And yet we're still learning. We're still everyday people. So let's welcome
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again Lizzie. Lizzie, how are you doing, buddy?
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Do you want that? Just having fun, you know, learning and expanding what I can.
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Really excited to talk about today's topic. That's kind of really what my whole
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focus has been about lately.
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Well, go ahead and start that off. I mean, we've been talking a lot,
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and I know we got so much going on.
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We're trying to condense everything. But you know what?
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Real life shows up all the time, whether it's the 3D world or whether we're
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having our cosmic clashes and,
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you know, the universe is trying to branch us out too quickly and all.
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That's what's been going on. And it affects us, but we get around it, don't we?
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Yeah, for sure. And really what I'm finding, my biggest hang up anyways,
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is, so I think the opposite of authenticity is expectations.
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See, authenticity, we just think is like, just anything that is true, right?
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But I'm finding that so much of what is true for us is what we've built to know
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and expect and assume about the world.
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And I'm finding in every aspect of my life no matter what concept it is the less I expect.
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Anything specific and more just kind of
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hold the vibe that I want right just go at it with love because that's generally
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like the vibe I'm going for the more that I do that the more everything just
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kind of shifts how it's supposed to be even if it's a chaotic afternoon or an
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afternoon where everything worked out where it looks like it worked out all,
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perfectly. Either way, at the end of the day, when I lay down and I think about
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it, I see how everything that moved moved how I wanted it to,
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as long as I'm not trying to control the outcome.
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You know, like today, for example, we were, we ended up recording a lot later
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and then hopefully you guys can't hear the baby screaming in the background.
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She's just not having being babysat today you
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know what I mean and and all these things can make things really
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hard but it what it does is if
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you just kind of let everything move forward the baby's just fine she's fed
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she's changed you know what I mean been loving on her all day long she'll be
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just fine for a little bit while we record but what I'm finding is I'm seeing
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now is I'm just moving through it all these different things I can do to make
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it better and I can come up with different things But previously,
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something that I'd get kind of hung up on is how things are supposed to work out.
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And all my plans and my ideas would be framed around how to make it work out.
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But that's not what you're doing. You're not making anything work out.
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You're just like moving like, OK, this tiny little thing will make this better next time.
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It works. It doesn't work. And you just kind of move through it.
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But the more you try to anticipate anything or plan, it just kind of, you know, yeah.
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I've...
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Grown so much closer to you um in relation to
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all of this um but first if people
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are watching on any of the video channels i just want to
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point out that is not blood dripping down lizzie's shoulder i just i wanted
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to point that out because i know on camera it looks like something you know
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really slaughtered taking place there this is a baby light language you see
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at first i was trying to keep her art contained on paper.
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And then one time she drew basically what I was seeing in the meditation.
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And so I just deemed it all just beautiful magic. And now I let her draw on
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me and I just count it as like a baby blessing, you know, but it does look a
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little gruesome today because she had red.
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Exactly. I just wanted to point that out. I've gotten used to it.
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Most of the time now I see you're all drawn on, you know, living canvas, which is beautiful.
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I mean, like I say you were doing this um with your
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kids and it really plays out
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i don't i see such magic and beauty
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in that i really do and when you
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become a canvas for someone like that especially someone so young um like your
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your youngest one who doesn't really have the ability to you know make actual
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drawings but some beautiful stuff still comes out of that and it looks wonderful
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sometimes Does it look like an eyeball or something, you know?
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And I'm just like, how did you manage that? Because she's just like, you know?
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Yeah, so that's what's going on with that. But, you know, this falls into exactly
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what you're talking about, too, you know?
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The wonderful beauty of walking through life. Like, you have your...
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And your days unfold the way they do. And like you said, with the planning and all,
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it sometimes doesn't work, but then again, it still works out the way it was
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supposed to because we're not forcing or we shouldn't force anything to happen in our lives.
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I've been going through a different aspect of it, so to speak.
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Like my days now are full. like my concentration is on this show and developing
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the church and I'm so ready for all of it.
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I'm trying to block out a lot of things that are going on in my life.
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I mean, a lot of them because I am so hyper-focused.
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But then that real life comes up where now I got to go to work and then work is in the way.
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And all day long, all I'm thinking about, oh, I got this great idea.
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And then I'm wondering how I can incorporate it into my job so I could get things done.
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This is the way things happen. I want people to be completely aware that success
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and failure, they're going to shine no matter what.
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Failure is never really failure. It's just another path that you're going to have to learn to take.
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It's just another lesson. You learn something from that failure.
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But with all of the outside influences that are going on, these are the things you have to look at,
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and how to incorporate it into your ideas. And this is how you're going to succeed
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by pushing forward and no matter what goes on.
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So even if, let's say your child drew all over you and you need to do a meeting
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or something, you know what?
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Show up at the meeting full of ink marks all over you.
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But that is going to project your life, your fun, your expectations forward.
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I think that's what happens with me That's my belief And that's what I think
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you're getting at too, right?
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100% Like, you know, this can be taken in so many different ways But it can
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be as small as that You know,
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one of the things that I wanted to get hung up on When I started the podcast
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Was having to get dressed up Because I'm on video I wanted to look nice This
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is permanent, you know what I mean?
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But with everything that was going on in my life specifically when I first started
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the podcast because I really almost didn't.
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I was like I don't have time for this and you're like 30 minutes a month that
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would be enough and I'm like well.
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Okay, okay. You know what I mean? So just the idea of having to make sure my
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hair was washed and brushed and my clothes were nice and you know what I mean?
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I had a good background and all of these things made it so it was impossible to try to plan anything.
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And I just kind of committed to whatever I looked
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like that day that's what I looked like that day and
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I don't scare myself a little bit sometimes going
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through the eye opener on YouTube because I'm
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like okay I really didn't brush my hair yet that day that's fine but the thing
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is is those expectations of what I look like and so people it was so people
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would take me seriously if I've got messy hair and drawings on me and I'm in
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my sports bra like how serious are people going to take me.
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But the truth is, is those are expectations I've placed on myself.
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If somebody popped up, I'd be like, oh, wow, it doesn't look like they brushed their hair.
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Maybe I would notice that. But as soon as they started talking,
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I'm not even going to be thinking about their hair.
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So maybe it doesn't really matter. And when I could let go of those expectations
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I set on myself and just enjoy what we were building with the podcast,
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I had way more time to do it.
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There was, You know what I mean? It was so much simpler just to get it done
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because all I had to do was hook up the laptop and push record with you.
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What I really like about that, the bottom line is we need to just learn to just show up.
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It's that simple. You know, I try to do the same thing.
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I tried to project an image, you know, on this show.
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You know, I got my, you know, trademark cap and, you know, the Eye Opener Society.
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Branding is good. It's branding, right. And, but, you know, the thing is,
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the same thing if, hey, you and I had a concept, an idea, and we say,
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we need to do the recording right now.
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I'm going to show up exactly the way you do. It's not going to change anything
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about the message that's going forth.
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You know, it may be entertaining to watch me maybe, you know,
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not looking as good, you know.
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And yet the same thing with you, you show up.
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And that's something that I'm
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very proud of to have you part of this is because you show up regardless.
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And you take pride in yourself regardless. Regardless, you know,
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if you haven't brushed your hair yet or what you're wearing,
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these are things that will not affect moving forward.
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This is what success looks like. It's showing up all the time and creating that
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magic because you know you have it in you and you don't need anything fancy.
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And this is what I always talk about, too. Like I said, I paid the money on
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Podbean for the video. I said, okay, well, since I paid for it,
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I'm just going to do video.
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But you're not going to get high-quality movie-like stuff.
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I just learned how to do audio stuff. That's going to take a while before I really fancy up a video.
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So what we're bringing to you is reality. This is what we really are in this moment.
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And we're still going to bring forth something powerful.
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And that's what you do as well, Lizzie. You do it beautifully. I love it.
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Thank you. Thank you. Like I said, this episode is kind of like a big focus
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on my whole thing right now.
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I'm trying really hard to switch from this mindset of like shadow working from
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the point of like trying to find the wound and poking at that.
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And it's so beautiful, but I've just done it for so long. I'm trying to switch to this other thing.
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And I think I just overcomplicated it really is too simple. If you're just radically
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honest with yourself and everybody around you about absolutely everything,
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it actually leaves no space for shame or guilt.
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Because if you're being honest with yourself, you don't have to trace back the
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first time you felt shame about something similar to this.
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You can just be like, oh, I feel shame because I feel like I'm supposed to be perfect.
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Or I had this expectation of myself that actually doesn't really matter.
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And so it's like when you can really just be honest, you can just see the little
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problem and kind of move through it.
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And everything kind of unfolds from there. And it just seems like it's a lot
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simpler than I think I was making it out to be.
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And if you remember one of our talks when we were comparing ourselves and our
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modalities and all, And I told you, the basic principle of my meditation is
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overly simplify everything.
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You teach me that, definitely. Most certainly.
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And this is the result. And it plays so naturally now.
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Because when we started this whole thing, you and I, you were way up here.
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You were in many, many different places. And then you disappeared.
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And then you'll pop back up and all.
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That's transmuting. And that's all part of the alchemy of all of this.
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And I love you for it, buddy. You know that, but,
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I've watched from that to what we have now.
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And you're showing up and you're focused. And your whole design and plan is
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for what we're trying to create. And you're showing up for everybody in this audience.
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And once things really kick off and we could start, you know,
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teaching, you're perfect for it.
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Because I taught to just overly simplify everything. We don't need to make it so dramatic.
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Whatever point we try to get across very very simple and i know you're laughing
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because i know lizzie's on another level but i understand you i was like i'm
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trying to write like a 500 page book on every topic and you're just like okay
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and then you like simplify it into a couple sentences and i'm like i guess that
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does kind of summarize that yeah that's probably.
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But this and this is what we
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teach you know and you learn from me
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i learn from you there's a lot of things you taught
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me i'm still to this day fascinated that i learned that money is a frequency
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it was the very first time i heard that was from you and ever since then i said
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wow that's oversimplifying it it's it's a frequency and i started to learn about
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that and now this is how I go about life.
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And you know what? I'm no longer worried about finances anymore because I'm
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seeing it so differently.
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I want to comment, speaking of life just does its things, I got to go turn on
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the light switch or this laptop's going to die. Give me 30 seconds. I'm so sorry.
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Yeah, go for it. This is, again, part of real life. And this is what happens during the show.
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We don't edit anything. So we don't want her laptop to die. But I did.
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I learned from Lizzie that... Never plug in in this part of the living room.
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And I forget that you have to turn the lighting switch or this wall,
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the outlet doesn't work.
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And I'm like, oh, crap. Okay.
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So yeah, the frequency of money has been a real trip for me to explore.
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And I'm going to have to do like a bunch of episodes on that one.
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I think I'm still fully grasping it, but it kind of goes right into the co-creation because the thing is,
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is every time you connect with somebody, even if it's just like you lock eyes
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with a stranger across the grocery store the thing is
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that is a moment of co-creating energy you guys both wrote a story about it had expectations.
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Exchanged energy moved on like you can literally change your whole life based
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on like making eye contact with a stranger I don't know if you've ever experienced
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that where it's like you just catch them in that moment you know what I mean
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and and you just like see something Thank you.
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The thing is, it's all meant to blend and we can learn so much.
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Our truth is inside of us, but there's only so much we can do with that.
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You know what I mean? That would be a really boring game if that's all it was,
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was to remember your truth.
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How many times have we done that? Probably, you know what I mean? It's what we can create.
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And so it's like, you got to remember who you are and what you want.
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And then you got to go out and realize that you don't actually know any of it.
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And now you're going to grow and change even more.
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And the more you can build off of other people,
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the more it expands both of you because your natural talent and personality
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play off of mine in such a way that like you make sense of me when I'm like,
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I can't even figure out what I'm trying to do. You know what I mean?
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And then I kind of do the same thing to you but like reverse
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and i find that this kind of
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applies across life in all concepts people
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your hobbies all of it it's just
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a kind of a blending of energy yeah i you know i just kind of got chills for
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a second when you mentioned about you know making eye contact just with strangers
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and all i think this is something we can set on the side i'm going to make a
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note about it and actually do an episode about that because... I'd love to.
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All right. Good. That's why I said I got chills. I was like,
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that's an excellent topic because I literally...
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Do that in life. In order for me to get a sense of anybody, I have to lock eyes, read that person.
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And so, yes, that exchange of energy and everything else, even if no words are
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spoken, yeah, that's an extremely long episode that we could get into.
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So I appreciate you bringing that up, but that does play into, you know,
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the whole cosmic world too, and just how we
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are all part of each other and the
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things we can get off of people so i'll keep it at
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that and we'll keep that for another episode and don't forget people this
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this is season two i don't know how many people
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actually sit and you know like read the synopsis is and down to like you know
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minutes but uh i just i used to do episodic uh shows you know one two whatever
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and i was like all right well let's just do seasons to keep them kind of compacted
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but i like the thoughts of seasons because it really breaks down.
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Timelines, because I don't believe in time anyway, but we could actually kind
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of group or bunch together a bunch of episodes, call it a season.
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And then I could look back and say, yeah, well, that whole season,
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we had some great conversations.
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And now moving forward in season two, we were just talking about this because
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we were, funny thing too, is like we sat down and both of us were staring at
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each other like, okay, what are we going to talk about?
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We had no idea. I mean, we both had thoughts, but we said we have so much we want to talk about.
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But to pick just one, we just kind of went, okay, let's just do this.
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And that's what works. And we have things, though, that we want to do and we're
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going to do for season two.
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And they're going to be some great, great, fantastic episodes.
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If all people remember from way back on the listener episode,
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my good friend, Brittany.
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Brittany's going to join us soon And she's going to interview Lizzie and I About
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the church And setting that all up So that's going to be great Because I love
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the way Brittany interviews,
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Lizzie and I get to sit back And just field questions Which is so much easier
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Than trying to come up with a concept And an idea at the last minute Like we're doing,
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So look forward to that one,
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Lizzie and I We were talking about this When we were doing all the relationship
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episodes There's going to be Put your kids to bed early And there's going to
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be a very explicit talk on sex eventually on here.
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We had some ideas. We wanted somebody else to join in, but I think Lizzie and I can handle this one.
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So we got these strong, powerful ideas,
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shows that are coming up and then lizzie and i speaking of all this authenticity and showing up.
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We have to start concentrating on the church too and
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we need to start doing like thursday night sermons
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and i got to figure out how to do some lives and we
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have all of this and you know what we're going to do
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it we have started and we're not going
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to back down but here's what we were talking about
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we need to show up and regardless of what we look like
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on you know camera we're going to be here
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for you lizzie's going to be here for you i'm going to be
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here for you we're going to be together and we're going to start branching off
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on different ideas and i'm still trying to get lizzie to take her concept of
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tiktok and put it on our platform here something else she hasn't done yet but
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i plugged in my laptop today so i'll probably catch up on those things.
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But yeah, I would like to have like, like I do my Saturday morning shows.
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I would love for Lizzie to do a solo episodes.
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These are all concepts and they're going to get done, but this is real life.
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This is what's so exciting.
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It's like we talk about these things and then when we wake up each day,
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we see, we kind of immerse ourselves into, well, what is the universe going
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to do with all of this? And how is it going to apply?
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And that's the fun part of it Because again This is where success comes in,
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You have to take sometimes Not everything's going to go Exactly as planned It's
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what you do with that When it does fall apart or break apart And how you change that.
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Europe. My brain just went, I had like two thoughts I was going to say, and then it just like,
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I was going to comment on because I kind of went off on two different tangents
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and then didn't fully finish it.
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I was talking about the frequency of money and then connecting it to kind of
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co-creating things with people.
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But I never circled back to finish my thought on that one.
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The thing is, is if you go into an interaction with an expectation of what you get out of it,
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if that is not what you were going to get out of it
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you now can't get what you were going to get out of it it's not
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in your awareness you're not even available to receive
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it but if you can just go into it like I
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you know I sent you a little bit of what I was writing that
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spiraled off so many thoughts that you had right
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and then you came back and you said things about
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it and it spiraled thoughts for me to have but
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if I had kept that for myself until you know
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you pay for it then I wouldn't have learned
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those things that I'm now going to put into it for the next
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person who's going to read it you know what I mean and so
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the thing about the frequency of money is when you
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let go of deciding a specific
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amount and a specific way you're going to get paid suddenly
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everything kind of starts flowing in like I'll
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do something and then I'll get like a
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bunch of free food or I'll do something and somebody will pay
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me money for something I didn't like anticipate you
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know and it like it all circles around but you.
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Have to trust the process and you have to be
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willing to put things out there and i'm
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not saying to like give away your work for free definitely like charge
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for your time and stuff and and your work but if you can do it from a place
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of knowledge that it's going to come back like it has to its cosmic law like
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it does and it'll always come whatever it is that you need when you need it
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you'll have it and that's the frequency of money.
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And this is why I would like a whole episode two on that, because yeah,
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this exactly what you're talking about is exactly what I learned.
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And it's just like, okay, rather than thinking, oh man, can I afford this?
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Should I, you know, spend money on it?
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If it feels like I can, I will.
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And then on the same way as receiving money, I mean, you know, I get a paycheck.
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I know that's always going to be there, but just like you said,
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it's not always going to be in the form of money, but it can be in the form
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of things, things that you need just happen to appear.
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It's cosmic and it's all part of my mental processing of everything now,
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where I don't need to look at my bank account and start doing all mathematics
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and, oh, am I going to afford this bill?
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That was too much work. And that's what puts so much pressure on you.
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And that's when you watch your money just go all the way down.
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It's it's hard too because sometimes when it's
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but specifically when you're playing with the frequency of money
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because you kind of have to jump off of that you know
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hamster wheel of work hard hard hard like literally when
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you get stressed about money you have to put your budget away
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and go for a walk like the frequency of
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money is built in your rest it's not built in
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your productivity that's capitalistic money which is still
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beautiful it's still the game we're playing i'm not minimizing that
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you still gotta work for it you know what i mean but in terms of resetting your
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brain back to like the quote abundance thing it's it's built in the rest yeah
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and it's amazing how cosmically a lot of things are coming today i've been watching this new uh podcast um.
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Motivational savages by jody savage i'll give
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her a shout out because i've i just started listening and she's a
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motivated motivational speaker and i
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like that because i love motivational speaking and she does this podcast
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and it was funny she was talking just about that just not with money where she
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was talking about like she just woke up and after all this work 10 000 followers
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she says when she was putting all of her time and energy into looking at stats
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and doing this and doing all the stuff that she was doing with book writing
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and something that she has to do with bookstores.
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Nothing seems to have been working. But in that moment of rest,
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when she took a step back, boom, there's the 10,000 followers all of a sudden.
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So that's, it's amazing. I was just listening to that this morning and you're
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bringing it up and you had no idea.
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So cosmically, that's what happens. So yes, that's the frequency of money.
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That's how it works. That's the frequency of anything really.
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Yeah. And I've really learned that if it doesn't come, you didn't need it.
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And the universe really pushed me to my limit on how willing I was to accept that.
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I talked a little bit about how I went through like a very deep poverty moment there.
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And there was a point in time in which I wasn't hardly paying anything.
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And I was like, my car is going to get repoed. I'm going to like my children
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and I are going to live in a box like everything. You know what I mean?
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Everything's falling apart.
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But I just got through my moment. I went back to what I was doing. I'd refocused.
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And every single time, things always got paid before I had a problem.
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You know what I mean? And I'm not saying don't pay your bills.
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I'm just saying that you don't have to have money and have this nervous system thing.
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That's what a lot of people teach, the frequency of
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money they won't even work with you unless you
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um can pay all your bills because when you're
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in that scarcity mindset they say it's too hard to get out
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of it but that just means they don't know how to
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get out of it and so that's what i'm playing in
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and i'm determined to freaking prove that you can get out of
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it and it's it's been working for me i'm slowly building and i never got my
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car repoed so yes we're gonna do a big episode on that um i think that'll be
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one of our next ones while we plan out um everything that we got to do uh in the coming months so.
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With that being said though i think we have established that what people need
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to understand whether it be money whether it be anything that they do in life
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from the babysitting at the last minute to, you know,
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turning on our podcast and hitting record with nothing to say.
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Everything's going to work out. And it's going to work out cosmically.
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And we don't need to force the process.
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We allow these building blocks to just start forming.
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That's how life works.
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You are...
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Well, you set your script, and then everything else has to come into play.
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I always use that analogy, and I did a whole podcast episode in the very early
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days, where life is just a stage. You are the actor. You write the scripts.
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But everything else around you, they're the lighting crew, they're the sound
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crew, they're the audience, they're, you know, the production managers.
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It all has to come together, and it's going to come together in its own beautiful way.
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I hope that was the analogy that came out perfect because i like that one that was beautiful,
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thank you well lizzie i think we said what we wanted to say this is season two
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we are going to move forward there's going to be so many more announcements
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so many more great shows and just like today completely authentic completely
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unedited when lizzie forgets to hit that switch to that, you know,
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turn the electric onto a computer. If it happens, it happens.
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We roll with it. We love you, Lizzie.
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Thank you. Thank you so much for recording with me today. And thank you for
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everybody for listening.
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Yes. Thank you so much, everybody. Stay tuned. And don't forget about Wednesday night meditation.
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And don't forget every Monday morning and Saturday mornings and soon to come
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Thursday evening sermons. Thank you again. And we'll see you soon.