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New Dirty Little Secret:“When A College Hookup Becomes the Groom” · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Get it off your chest to comment, you'll feel better.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to the dirty little Secret, all right, bring it.
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  Speaker 2: A chance to see Harry Styles coming up next, Harry Wayen,
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  Speaker 2: you want to go to New York City?
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  Speaker 3: Trip on us. Let's make it happen.
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  Speaker 2: It's Mix one O two point nine Ability to Kid
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  Speaker 2: Candice Lopez, producer Pooh And if you have a secret
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  Speaker 2: eight three three seven eight seven one oh two nine,
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  Speaker 2: just let us know, just tell us what's going on.
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  Speaker 2: It's a no judgment zone. Yeah, we'd like to hear
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  Speaker 2: your issues, and we won't judge. We have our own issues, sure,
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  Speaker 2: and our own secrets. So and sometimes we tell them.
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  Speaker 3: Not enough. We got to do another day like that where.
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  Speaker 2: We tell our secrets. Okay, but then Candace never tells
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  Speaker 2: a good one.
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  Speaker 1: What do you mean, I don't tell a good one?
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  Speaker 3: You have no secrets. It sucks.
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  Speaker 2: So we want like the best secrets from you, right,
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  Speaker 2: And I know Pooh's secrets and he's not going to
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  Speaker 2: tell the good ones.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe we do one day where we tell each other's
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  Speaker 3: secrets that we know.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, actually no, never mind, no, never mind, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: you got a secret.
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  Speaker 3: What's up?
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  Speaker 1: So I have a secret. My college friend is getting married. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we're we're good friends. We're best friends, so just keep
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  Speaker 1: that in mind.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, got it.
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  Speaker 1: So you know, I haven't really kept up with her
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  Speaker 1: life on a regular basis, and I'm rarely on social media.
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  Speaker 1: I've just never really been big on social media. And
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  Speaker 1: after she got engaged, I happen to be on Facebook,
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  Speaker 1: and my stomach just dropped. I totally recognized her fiance,
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  Speaker 1: and not in a mutual friends on Facebook kind of way,
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  Speaker 1: in a i've absolutely been in this man's apartment after
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  Speaker 1: a chaotic night at North Texas back.
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  Speaker 3: In twenty ten kind of way.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Wait, so you know, okay, so let me get this.
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  Speaker 2: So you you go on Facebook, You're like, oh, she's engaged.
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  Speaker 3: I knew that.
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  Speaker 2: Let me catch up with what's going on in her life.
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  Speaker 2: And you're like, wait, I know this guy, So you
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  Speaker 2: know him like personally personally?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, very personally. I mean not, I don't know him well,
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  Speaker 1: but I do, if that makes sense. You know, back then,
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  Speaker 1: I was at North Texas living my best life, which
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  Speaker 1: was occasionally questionable, and I definitely hooked up with this
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  Speaker 1: guy like a few times, and yep, I know I mean,
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  Speaker 1: are the odd to that? Obviously it's nothing serious. I'm
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  Speaker 1: married now. I haven't thought about this guy in years. Sure,
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  Speaker 1: I had no idea she was engaged to him, and
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't really matter from the standpoint of it was
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  Speaker 1: back in college.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, I was invited to the wedding and
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  Speaker 1: I do want to go, But like, what if he
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  Speaker 1: recognizes me? I would assume he'd remember, So I just
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  Speaker 1: feel so weird and awkward about it. But at the
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  Speaker 1: same time, like, what am I going to do? Tell her?
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  Speaker 1: Why would I tell her? You know what I mean, Like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think that's the move.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think that's that's the move. I don't think
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  Speaker 2: that's the move either. But there's no way you could
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  Speaker 2: take the chance of just showing up at the wedding
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  Speaker 2: knowing that you hooked up and this happened multiple times.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, But.
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  Speaker 1: Like, I don't think he'd want to address it either,
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  Speaker 1: So like, as long as he doesn't say anything, we're good.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think he would either. But this is tough.
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  Speaker 3: What do you do? What an awful situation?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, do you need to go to this wedding?
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  Speaker 1: You haven't even kept up with her. I think it
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  Speaker 1: would be fine. I was totally planning on going before
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  Speaker 1: I knew this, and I already told my husband about it.
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  Speaker 2: So, oh, that's another thing.
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  Speaker 3: You know, it's your husband.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean he knows obviously, I've been with others.
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  Speaker 1: It's not like it's a mystery. But yeah, I mean
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  Speaker 1: it's not an ideal no.
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  Speaker 2: And I know you're like, yeah, of course people have passed,
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  Speaker 2: but this is a little too. It's just also the date.
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  Speaker 2: It's not like you're going to high school or union.
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  Speaker 3: What are the odds?
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  Speaker 2: This is kind of weird stuff that would happen to me. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: this is totally something that would happen to me.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like this definitely happens to me.
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  Speaker 2: We're a lot of like we're a lot of like
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  Speaker 2: when's the wedding anyway in the summer?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Oh Candice, what would you do?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I just I don't know why you
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  Speaker 2: need to go to this wedding, you know, because.
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  Speaker 3: There's an open bar and she got invited.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, weddings can be fun. Some people love wedding Like,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not a wedding guydd you do?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate him because it involves love and happiness.
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  Speaker 2: It's just too much for me. But if you like
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  Speaker 2: weddings and you're there, like I don't, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Of course, he's not going to say anything. Yeah, he's
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  Speaker 2: gonna look at you and go, oh my god. But
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  Speaker 2: what if he Okay, here's like worst case scenario is
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  Speaker 2: he's like, oh my god, I know her and you
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  Speaker 2: guys are dancing. It's a reception, and then he pulls
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  Speaker 2: you off to the side, Oh my god, like and
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  Speaker 2: she sees you two sidebarring.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's gonna sidebar with her this wedding.
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  Speaker 3: And what are you doing here?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you'd be like, oh wait, I can't believe you
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  Speaker 2: know each other. And she's gonna be like, what were
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  Speaker 2: you What were you guys talking about?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: How we hooked up?
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  Speaker 1: Reach out to him before?
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  Speaker 2: No, no, don't reach out to him at all premeditated. Yeah, okay, fine,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going.
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  Speaker 3: Who you going?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going christ free because I can tell you're
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  Speaker 2: leaning in on going, so let us know what you
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  Speaker 2: end up doing though.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, well I think I'm gonna go, but I'll
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  Speaker 1: let you know.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a feeling you will to stay right there, follow
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  Speaker 2: up with us, or maybe you tell the girl first, heye,
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  Speaker 2: just to let you know I hooked up with your
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  Speaker 2: fiance back in the day.
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  Speaker 3: Or is that something you just shut up about. Do
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  Speaker 3: ladies shut up about that kind of stuff? Yeah, that's done, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: not that Candice ever. No, no,