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Love You More · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  Speaker 1: We got a question for American mama's. Dear mama's who
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  Speaker 1: loves you more your parents or your spouse?
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  Speaker 2: Let's ask our Americ and mama's Mamma mama.
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  Speaker 1: She said, and joining us now our American mama's Terry Netteville,
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  Speaker 1: Kimberly Burlissen. This seems like a dangerous question. Your spouse
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  Speaker 1: has ever listened to the show?
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  Speaker 3: They don't. But this was a real question. This is
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  Speaker 3: a real thing that happened with our youngest sister, Lindsay
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  Speaker 3: and her husband Chad. They were having this discussion, all right,
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  Speaker 3: and they were talking about do you love your kids
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  Speaker 3: more than your weight? What was the question you who
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  Speaker 3: loves you? Who loves you more?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: And Chad, her husband, said, oh no, I mean you
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  Speaker 3: love me more than my parents do. And Lindsay's saying
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  Speaker 3: absolutely no. There's not possible be saying absolutely because for her,
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  Speaker 3: there's no way she could. She said, there are things
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  Speaker 3: Chack could do that would make me not love him.
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  Speaker 3: There's a condition to that. I love him, but if
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  Speaker 3: he was a horrible person or something happened, I could
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  Speaker 3: not love him.
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  Speaker 2: He's saying he feels more love from Lindsay than his parents.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, he feels like he is. Lindsay loves him. Yet
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  Speaker 3: she was saying, but she was saying, that's not possible
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  Speaker 3: as a parent, you can't love a spouse more than
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  Speaker 3: you love And she was saying, no, that's not My
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  Speaker 3: parents do not love me the same that your parents
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  Speaker 3: loved you. That's what he truly believes. So Lindsay puts
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  Speaker 3: that on Facebook and it blew up. I mean so
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  Speaker 3: many people had an opinion about it, and it was mixed.
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  Speaker 3: I thought everybody would feel like her, like, no way,
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  Speaker 3: you love your child more than you love your spouse,
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  Speaker 3: And no, that was not the answer for a lot
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  Speaker 3: of people.
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  Speaker 2: I just think about it. We grew up. I have
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  Speaker 2: no doubt in my mind that our parents loved us
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  Speaker 2: more than anybody else in this entire world, including my husband,
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  Speaker 2: including my children, because they made us feel that way.
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  Speaker 2: We were everything, and I still feel their love from heaven.
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  Speaker 3: That's what Lindsay said to Chad, right. She said, my
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  Speaker 3: parents are gone, The people that loved me the most
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  Speaker 3: are gone. And Chad said, that's not true. I loved
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  Speaker 3: you more than your parents love you.
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  Speaker 2: I love that he loves her that much, that he
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  Speaker 2: thinks that it's more than mom and dad. But there
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  Speaker 2: are some people, like Chad was saying, there are some
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  Speaker 2: people that have parents that have not shown that same
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  Speaker 2: kind of devoted love. So I can see where he
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  Speaker 2: would think, Wait a minute, I love you, love me,
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  Speaker 2: You show me more love than my parents showed me.
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  Speaker 2: So it could be. It could be, you know, because,
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  Speaker 2: like you said, when she put it on line, people
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  Speaker 2: were saying, going back and forth, and you know, what
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  Speaker 2: about you? Do you feel like you love Do you
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  Speaker 2: feel like there's any way that anybody could love your
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  Speaker 2: children more than you and Wendy.
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  Speaker 1: Love them honestly? I hope so, really yeah, because imagine
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  Speaker 1: how much love that would be. Saying like, do you
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  Speaker 1: think it's possible?
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  Speaker 3: I hear what you're saying.
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  Speaker 1: Do I think it's possible?
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  Speaker 3: Do you think it's even possible.
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  Speaker 1: I'll give you this, I think God loves my kids
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  Speaker 1: more than I possibly could. So if that that means
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  Speaker 1: it is possible, because it possible for another human man,
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  Speaker 1: I have no I have no way of knowing how
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  Speaker 1: much another.
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  Speaker 2: Human I have a way of knowing. No way nobody
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  Speaker 2: call love my children more than me.
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  Speaker 1: Really, no way, no.
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  Speaker 2: Way they could kill me they could, like I would
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  Speaker 2: still still love them. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So but here's and maybe this is a male female thing,
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  Speaker 1: because for men it is a choice as to who
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  Speaker 1: we've been chosen for our bride. Right, And I've told
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  Speaker 1: my parents Wendy comes first.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well I tell them boys their wives come first.
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  Speaker 2: So that's a whole different things, Steven.
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  Speaker 1: But that's a matter of she is number one, and
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  Speaker 1: she has to be number one, yes, which means I
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  Speaker 1: have to love her more than I am loved by
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  Speaker 1: my parents. Otherwise I'm not living up to what I've
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  Speaker 1: promised to her.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's got it wrong. So I tell you know, Steele,
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  Speaker 2: you're so wrong. Have you ever been told that ever
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  Speaker 2: in your life? Wrong? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Yes I have. I've been told that I was wrong
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  Speaker 1: when I was wrong.
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  Speaker 2: No, well I'll tell you this. Steele loves Tristan more
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  Speaker 2: than he loves me. Okay, he should, that's the way
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  Speaker 2: I raised him to be. So that's a different thing.
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  Speaker 2: But I love him more than anybody could, like she
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  Speaker 2: could divorce him when they won't. They're so madly love.
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  Speaker 2: But you know what I'm saying, I just think that,
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  Speaker 2: like it's very grandiose of you to say I hope
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  Speaker 2: someone loves my children more than me. No way, Stephen,
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  Speaker 2: Windy was here because you're I don't know. Maybe it's
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  Speaker 2: just us. Maybe it's the way that we were raised
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  Speaker 2: and feel that kind of love.
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  Speaker 1: Here's what here's what I can absolutely tell you. I
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  Speaker 1: absolutely love Wendy more than her father did.
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  Speaker 2: Exact situation. That's what I'm saying. It's different for different people.
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  Speaker 1: That's that's that's part of what I'm saying, too, right, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So that that I can't necessarily qualify everyone's love because look,
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  Speaker 1: some people they just don't show love well. Doesn't mean
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  Speaker 1: they don't love, they just don't show it well. Some
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  Speaker 1: people they really they think they do, like within their
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  Speaker 1: own head.
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  Speaker 3: I agree.
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  Speaker 1: So I think for different people this this question could
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  Speaker 1: have a thing. But I absolutely hope that my kids
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  Speaker 1: are married to someone that loves them more than their
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  Speaker 1: parents actually do, because imagine how much love that would
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  Speaker 1: be and how great of a life that would be.
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  Speaker 2: Not possible, but yeah, I will take it. I like
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  Speaker 2: the idea, Steven, We'll go with it fair enough. You
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  Speaker 2: can't be wrong. See, I feel like.
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  Speaker 1: To go to our website, you know, as a meteorologists.
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  Speaker 1: I have been wrong several times. Go to our website
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  Speaker 1: American Radio dot com, says mamas and click on the
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  Speaker 1: ask of the Mama's button. Terry Neville, Kimberly brother listen.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much,