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- 0:00Ladies, here's a great first date tip, because I know there's
- 0:03a lot of you ladies who want these men to pick you up or in
- 0:09some cases, send a car for you. A lot of ladies are saying, you
- 0:11know, giving the guy your address to have him pick you up
- 0:15right away. Oh my God.
- 0:16What do you think this is? The 90s?
- 0:17No, hang on. OK, so never let him pick you up
- 0:21on a first date. Just don't.
- 0:22Just don't. Instead, do this.
- 0:25I'm going to give you 2 options. One Uber yourself to the
- 0:29restaurant or pick a restaurant that's within walking distance
- 0:32to your house and let that restaurant always be your first
- 0:35date restaurant. Now I know a lot of you ladies
- 0:38want to see what the man chooses and determine if you like him
- 0:43based on the places he chooses. I get that, I get that.
- 0:46But let that be the second date. Let that be the second date.
- 0:49Why not on the first date? Just worry about keeping
- 0:51yourself safe. So either Uber yourself there
- 0:54and then if you like him, if you get a good vibe, you can let him
- 0:57Uber you home, take you home, do not get in the car with him.
- 1:01Let him Uber you home. If he's trying to be a
- 1:03gentleman, he can do that. And guys, if she's Ubered
- 1:06herself there and you like her, offer to get her the car home,
- 1:09OK? Or what I used to do and it
- 1:12always worked perfectly for me. When I was in Venice especially,
- 1:15I had my go to restaurant. It was just right at my corner.
- 1:17It was my favorite restaurant anyway.
- 1:19It was easy. I could get ready.
- 1:21I could get there. I didn't, you know, it wasn't.
- 1:23I didn't invest a lot, I didn't invest a lot.
- 1:27So it was so easy in every way. I knew the staff, the staff knew
- 1:30me, I felt safe. It was predictable and it was a
- 1:33perfect go to first date restaurant.
- 1:36OK, so I they'd say, hey, you want to go out Friday and I'd
- 1:39say sure, let's go blah blah blah.
- 1:42And and I'd make it clear like it's fairly close to me.
- 1:45It's a great spot. It's one of my favorite spots.
- 1:48And they always said, OK, so literally every first date would
- 1:51go there. I would go there and I felt safe
- 1:54and I could walk there. I can easily get myself there,
- 1:57easily get myself home if need be, easy breezy.
- 2:00And that is what I recommend for you ladies for a first date.
- 2:03All right, Be safe.