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- 0:03This is Your Pain Game podcast where we talk about the game of living in
- 0:07and with chronic pain and trauma, getting to the heart of how to heal.
- 0:12I am your host, Lindsay Soprano. On the show, I plan
- 0:18on discussing with doctors, chronic pain patients, holistic practitioners, loved ones,
- 0:23and anybody that is interested in having their voice heard in the chronic pain and
- 0:27trauma world that we live in. Many many years ago, I briefly dated
- 0:41an amazingly sweet man in Nova Scotia, and by from Nova Scotia, I
- 0:47mean he lived there and I was in California, So put those together.
- 0:53Successful mission from California to Nova Scotia. Anyways, I oddly don't remember how
- 0:58I met him, but I do remember everything after I met him. He
- 1:02had four kids, triplets and a single. I don't know if that's how
- 1:06you refer to that, but like baseball teams, triplets and a single.
- 1:11So after a short time of dating from Afar, we decided that I should
- 1:15go and stay with him and his four kids in Nova Scotia with my four
- 1:21dogs and to see if this was actually potentially going to be a thing.
- 1:25Right And it was not the best idea on the planet with four kids and
- 1:27four dogs. But one of the things that I found out was that two
- 1:32of his kids had Type one diabetes. And I'd never really been around anyone
- 1:36that had had diabetes. And even to this day, I don't know enough
- 1:41about it because I haven't needed to. And I think that that's silly of
- 1:45me, because it is so rampant across the United States and well globally,
- 1:49you know why is that right? So the relationship wasn't a match. It
- 1:55was beyond hectic. But I do have a couple of takeaways for you guys.
- 1:59Don't drive to Nova Scotia from California in a snowstorm with four dogs like
- 2:05a complete asshole, Like, just don't do that. Appreciate and understand how
- 2:08delicate and precious our bodies are, and what an incredible challenge managing diabetes is
- 2:14and the importance of it and how we can help prevent it. So years
- 2:17later, a couple of my dogs actually passed away from diabetes. And I
- 2:21can tell you that I'm not comparing dogs to humans, but it's a horrible
- 2:24thing to have to manage all day long with your animals, with your people.
- 2:30Right, how do we do that better. How do we face those
- 2:32challenges and why are we even faced with these challenges? And how can we
- 2:37play a more active role right in our healthcare? So with that, my
- 2:42guest today is on a mission to empower us all to take that active role
- 2:46in their health so they can create health on their own terms. Her goal
- 2:50is to put the power back in her clients and their family's hands by providing
- 2:53tools and guidance to mitigate and in some cases, completely reverse their pain and
- 2:59their type two diabetes. So let's talk about it without further ado, I'd
- 3:02like to introduce to you my guest today, doctor Lara May. Hey girl,
- 3:07hey girl, how are you. Last time I saw her for our
- 3:10meet and greet, she had to pull over into a parking lot and she
- 3:14had a flat Bilt hat on and she was just like this little rock star.
- 3:16Now she's all gussied up for me today. So thanks for showing your
- 3:20beautiful face. Oh thanks for having me. Yeah. No, it wasn't
- 3:22even a parking lot. It was just an off ramp. Oh my god,
- 3:27you're like, I got to talk to Lindsay right now. That's what
- 3:30I'm talking about, guys. So doctor Lara Mae is an advanced clinical pharmacist,
- 3:38functional medicine, health coach, and a master tuned intuitive healer and teacher
- 3:43at her company, Light Body Healing and Consulting. She specializes in getting to
- 3:46the root cause, root cause guys of disease via functional medicine and energy medicine.
- 3:53We talk a lot about that on this show, especially our Bodies and
- 3:55our Energy. After working in emergency rooms and adult acute care for over a
- 4:00decade, she transitioned into integrative health and due to her own struggles with her
- 4:04health, she started studying and practicing. You say it, you, suey
- 4:11raiki, Oh, that's the one. I'm like, God, wait,
- 4:13which one? Which one? Which one? Is it? Right? And
- 4:16then she found functional medicine in twenty seventeen. The rest is history. So
- 4:21I am going to roll out the red carpet for you. I'd like to
- 4:25start with what the hell is diabetes and what is the difference between type one
- 4:30and type two? Ultimately, diabetes is our body not knowing what to do
- 4:36with the glucose that's circulating through a bloodstream. So ideally what should happen is
- 4:44we either eat sugar or our body also makes sugar. Our body releases its
- 4:47own sugar at times when it's triggered too, and then in response, based
- 4:51on the level our pancreas will pump out the insulin. The insulin comes along
- 4:57and grabs the glucose and and stores it away as fat. So that's why
- 5:03diabetics that are insulin dependent, whether they're type one or type two, will
- 5:09oftentimes find themselves gaining weight, because insulin is a fat storage hormone. So
- 5:13that's the other thing that I think a lot of people don't realize it.
- 5:15Insulin is a hormone in the body. So, yes, thank you for
- 5:18clarifying me. Yes, yeah, which is why when you're a diabetic you
- 5:21go to an endocrinologist even you know. But you know, sometimes when people
- 5:26are like, well, if I have my thyroids out of whack, I
- 5:29go to an interochronologist too, or if my estrogen or testosterone I should go
- 5:33to an indo chronologist. But usually they'll send me to a different practitioner.
- 5:36I'm all confused, like, what are all these people doing? That's exactly
- 5:40right, Yeah, that's basically our healthcare system. Yes, freaking confusing,
- 5:44Yes, yes, But the difference between type one and type two is type
- 5:47one is a genetic mishap malfunction yes neapoo that is triggered at some point,
- 5:55usually during childhood. It is one of the less than two percent of disease
- 6:00states that are truly genetic, and type two is brought on by lifestyle choices.
- 6:08You know, I'm all about radical responsibility these days. So we create
- 6:13it. Unfortunately, we do that to ourselves. But you know what that
- 6:15means, as that means we can uncreate it, we can fix it,
- 6:17we can heal it, we can move beyond it. So I think there's
- 6:21great power in knowing what we create. I love that so much. It's
- 6:26almost like it just feels so good to say that we can pull ourselves out
- 6:31of a lot of our health issues by unfortunately having to look at ourselves pretty
- 6:36straight on in the mirror and go all right, so I've got X,
- 6:40Y and Z stuff. How did I actually add to this and bring this
- 6:45to my body and my health and my life and all that? What are
- 6:46the things along the way? Right? So? Okay, So with you,
- 6:50you work specifically with type two diabetes, right, yes? So can
- 6:57we talk a little bit about what you do in relation to that? Yes?
- 7:00Absolutely, So what I do Normally people come to me, they already
- 7:03know something as a myss, So I'm not the diagnostician here. People already
- 7:09know what's going on when they get to by the time they get to me.
- 7:12And but what we do is we go through and we look out.
- 7:15What are you eating? What is your life? What does your daily life
- 7:17look like? How are you sleeping? How often do you eat all those
- 7:21good things? How much stress do you have in your life? How much
- 7:24support do you have in your life? How do you handle the stress that
- 7:27is in your life? Because we all have stress, right, but how
- 7:30do we handle it? Do we just shove it in our body and shove
- 7:33it down and go through life with a smile and say I'm fine, Everything's
- 7:39fine. That. Yeah, Now I'm the poster child for it, for
- 7:45sure. I've said before that I'm Meryl Street being got shit on me when
- 7:47it comes to acting through things. I've got many many Academy awards for doing
- 7:53just that. Yeah, fooling the world. But yeah, ain't nothing to
- 7:58see here, Yeah to see here. But at the end of the day,
- 8:01I mean, all it's doing is hurting ourselves, you know, right,
- 8:03So yes, and so beyond that, once we've I call it my
- 8:07in depth health history and health evaluation, which most people, even throughout our
- 8:13entire life in Western medicine, never really get a good comprehensive, thorough one.
- 8:16And so I also want to know, you know, were you born
- 8:22by C section? Did you have a lot of antibiotics in your life as
- 8:26a child? Were there traumas? I know you were going to ask me
- 8:28about this later, but I can also just say, like, if there
- 8:33were any traumas that a client of mine wants to bring forward, I provide
- 8:37space for them to do that. And then again like are you on medications
- 8:41now? What are they? How long have you been on them? What
- 8:43have you tried? What have you you know that's worked? What are all
- 8:46the things that you tried to obviously have it worked? You know? So
- 8:50I very in depth conversation and then I order tests and so that's sort of
- 8:54like the cornerstone of functional medicine, besides the fact that it's a systems based
- 8:58approach, meaning it's a whole integrative look. So I'm not just looking at
- 9:03your pancreas. I want to see, you know, how is your gut
- 9:07health, what are your thoughts about your disease process? Or your life or
- 9:11this whole thing that's going on for you. You know that mind and body
- 9:16connection is for real. And the more we recreate and repave those roads,
- 9:22the better and easier time we have moving forward of healing and putting some of
- 9:28these things in the rear view and reversing them well. And I love that,
- 9:31and I love that that it's functional, because what I've learned over the
- 9:35past couple of years, especially since I started this show, is how left
- 9:39behind I've been with Western medicine for a decade, actually earlier than that,
- 9:46Like there were things that happened, like, for example, I have polysic
- 9:48sickovarian pcos right and I couldn't get pregnant, all of these different things.
- 9:54And we're talking about going back to childhood trauma. And I read so much
- 9:58about how all of these things that happen within our body can happen from things
- 10:03that happen to us when we're younger, and those traumas can come in and
- 10:07influence our energy obviously, and our body and our development. And when you
- 10:11have childhood traumas and even adult traumas, you know, I feel like that
- 10:16it sits so close into our bodies and goes into ourselves and into our brain,
- 10:22and it just transforms who you actually end up becoming. And I love
- 10:26that we can uncreate that, like you said earlier, because that gives me
- 10:30hope versus like, well, that's it. But the functional part of it
- 10:35is so interesting to me because I've never been functional. I've never gone through
- 10:39all of the testing for functional medicine until almost a year ago, where I
- 10:43started going down the path. I found out so many incredibly interesting and also
- 10:48detrimental things that have been just harboring in my body and eating me away basically,
- 10:54and nobody said, well, maybe we should test you for this.
- 10:58Nobody got curious about why I was having these issues. And so now I'm
- 11:03here and everybody's curious in my life now, and I love that, And
- 11:07that's something that I that I love about you, that curiosity. Like,
- 11:09Okay, well it's like a puzzle. You know. Our health is kind
- 11:11of like a puzzle because not everybody is the same everybody. We're all different.
- 11:16So if you're going to be like, oh, well your cholesterol is
- 11:18high, we're just gonna put you on this, Well, do you know
- 11:20why my cholesterol is high because my liver's sluggish will start there. My mom
- 11:26and my grandma had really high cholesterol, Like no questions are being asked,
- 11:30And I think that that's something that's really important for us moving forward in our
- 11:35healthcare. Like you said, to be our own advocates of our health and
- 11:37to take responsibility for the decisions that we make in our lifestyle. You know.
- 11:41Yeah, And I'll say too, you know, because diabetes also type
- 11:46two also gets this wrap of well it runs in my family, so I
- 11:50must be doomed. I'm gonna get it sure. And I'm also from the
- 11:54school of epigenetics, which is, you know, it's about the environment.
- 11:58Yes, we might have genetic tendencies within our lineage, but that's not set
- 12:03in stone, that's not your destiny because again, we're all unique. We're
- 12:07all surrounded with different environments. So what's happening in our life is turning things
- 12:13on and off in our genetic makeup. So which is why emotional stress,
- 12:18mental stress, physical stress can trigger these things to develop. So with polesterol,
- 12:26we can test for the familial hypercholesteremia because that is a specific genetic snip,
- 12:33but most of us it runs in the family because we have these historical
- 12:39ways that we eat that aren't great, and I'm so so yeah, I
- 12:46get it. Well, I'm from, you know, the land of the
- 12:50fruits and the nuts here in southern California, and I was fortunate with my
- 12:52parents that they were always very healthy. We were always very very very healthy
- 13:00family, outdoorsy, super active, you know. My whole family is like
- 13:03that. And then with my CRPS, what happened. You know, I
- 13:07haven't been able to be active like I used to. And then with pain,
- 13:09I ended up stopping eating. And then, as my listeners know,
- 13:11I started disordered eating. And then I've been dealing with that and it was
- 13:13like, oh my god, slippery slope. I'm trying to get myself better
- 13:16and the first thing I had to do is actually start feeding my body again.
- 13:20And I'm still I still don't have anybody guiding me on what I'm supposed
- 13:24to eat. It's just it's ridiculous. After the mountains of money that I've
- 13:28spent, how I'm still feel like I'm behind on the number one thing that
- 13:31I need to be great at, which is nutrition, and I just stink
- 13:35at it. Not because I don't know what to eat, I just don't
- 13:37want to do it. I don't want to do it. You don't want
- 13:41to do the eating, or you don't want to do the Oh, I
- 13:43don't want to do the eating. Yeah, yeah, it's the good stuff.
- 13:46I've always said, like I just want to take a pill in the
- 13:48morning, in the afternoon of the night, and I'm good. Like I'm
- 13:50not a foodie. I don't care when I go out to eat with people,
- 13:52I move my food around and make it look like I ate. It's
- 13:54good. It's good stuff, very healthy, very very healthy behavior. Well,
- 13:58I just think this illustrates how unique we are because so much of the
- 14:03rest of our culture is wrapped around food. And yeah, I mean how
- 14:07like we start with little kids of like we're using food as a reward or
- 14:13like bribing them or like rewarding them for a good job done. I mean,
- 14:16when I was on the swim team, we would get blowpops for if
- 14:20we could like how many laps down the pool we could go without a breath,
- 14:22or if you know, our relay one we would get you know,
- 14:26like just different things we would be rewarded. What's sugar? So, yeah,
- 14:28sounds like a great idea. Yeah, So no wonder that we get
- 14:31addicted from very early on, and then by the time we're even you know,
- 14:37like in our For me, it was in my thirties is when I
- 14:39actually started. And this is part of my journey that I don't talk about
- 14:43very much, actually is I was diagnosed with insulin resistance and I was like,
- 14:46uh uh, nope, not here, not happening. Because my grandmother
- 14:52died of complications of type two diabetes. So by the time she passed away,
- 14:56she was insulin dependent. Okay, now as a professional, and it's
- 15:00obviously as an adult, but really being able to own that I have power
- 15:03here. I don't have to just because I get a label of a diagnosis
- 15:07doesn't mean that that means I'm doomed for A B and C to happen,
- 15:11and and like there's no choice there, which a lot happens a lot in
- 15:16Western medicine, with a lot of different things, but very much so with
- 15:18diabetes. Oh, you're taught two diabetic, Okay, here's your pill,
- 15:22and you know you should expect in this many years that you're going to start
- 15:26losing feeling in your extremities. It's called neuropathy. And then in a few
- 15:28more years you're probably going to go into kidney failure. Oh, if you
- 15:33get an infection on one of those extremities and we can't you know, treat
- 15:35it, then we're gonna have to take it off. So you're gonna have,
- 15:39you know, like all these barbaric things that we still do. And
- 15:43no, no, it is not doesn't have to be that way. I
- 15:46love and it's a message of hope. And it's something that we talk about
- 15:50all the time around here, is hope because we have to have it.
- 15:52Yeah, and it's in it. It's so yeah. Western medicine just blows
- 15:58my mind. I mean it just it makes me so angry that we have
- 16:02spent so much money and so much time taking all of these pills and doing
- 16:06all of these things that have caused so much more damage. And I'm speaking
- 16:08for myself that it caused so much more damage and a lot of things that
- 16:12were really really scary. That doctors were giving me my first round with one
- 16:18of my billion doctors at usc Kech Medicine of all places, gave me one
- 16:23hundred and twenty milligrams of ketamine on my first dose. And I went on
- 16:26a fucking cable I wouldn't believe. And it was not fun and I'm like,
- 16:33I'm like one hundred and two pounds wet for crying out loud, and
- 16:36I'm like, you're giving me enough medication to knock out an elephant. Like
- 16:40there's just so much mismanagement and just I don't even It just infuriates me.
- 16:45And so it's so nice to have these conversations with people that are like minded
- 16:49in this department. I do believe that there is a place for Western medicine
- 16:52in our shild for sure, for sure, but when it comes to our
- 16:56day to day I don't yet. Western medicine is great for broken bones,
- 17:03for emergency surgeries, you know, if you have you know, a burst
- 17:07appendix or a rupture gallbladder or something like that that's going to cause systemic infection,
- 17:11we got to get that thing out. Great for that, Art surgery
- 17:15is even great, fantastic, But for chronic illness, no, they their
- 17:22definition of treat is, here's a medication that treats your symptoms, but it
- 17:25does not get anywhere near the root cause because that question is never even asked.
- 17:30So that's the big difference between Western medicine and functional medicine. For anybody
- 17:33out there, if you're new, is that functional medicine is a root cause
- 17:37approach. We want to know what's causing the inflammation, that's causing your symptoms,
- 17:41that's causing the disease state, and we want to get to that root
- 17:45and rebalance things. Your body wants to be in a state of homeostasis,
- 17:48which means balance. So even if you've been living in this state of imbalance
- 17:52for years and years and years, your body's actually trying every single day to
- 17:56get you back to balance. So we just have to help a little bit.
- 18:00Yeah, I need a little bit more help than some people, that's
- 18:03for sure. But I mean it's pretty unbelievable how we are. Like we
- 18:08said earlier, how you are curious, I'm also curious. This is we
- 18:12have to be asking people to ask us questions. Like I literally, when
- 18:17I go in and I meet yet a new doctor or a new whatever,
- 18:19I have a sheet that I have printed out that says all the medications I've
- 18:23tried, all of the things that it caused, the surgeries, I've had,
- 18:27stuff that happened to me when I was a little girl all the way
- 18:30through to adulthood. Like I give them a one sheet when I come into
- 18:33my first appointment, when I check in at the front desk with Whomeverville,
- 18:37and I'm like, please tell the doctor to read this before they come in
- 18:41and talk to me, because I don't want to go through this for the
- 18:44seven thousandth time. And they still don't even ask questions, and so I
- 18:48just stopped going to the doctors. It stopped. I was like, I'm
- 18:52not even going to do this anymore. I'm going to try to heal myself
- 18:55on my own. And that's how I started the show. And so here
- 18:57I am. The only reason I've gone to doctor has been for emergency purpose.
- 19:02That's it. Other than that, I haven't seen a doctor. But
- 19:03I am in the process of interviewing functional doctors here in southern California. Awesome
- 19:10because we need to interview them. They are people that are taking are supposed
- 19:11to be taking care of our bodies, and you have to have good synergy
- 19:15and good bedside manner. I need somebody that I can sit down next to
- 19:18and I can use the F word with, like, I mean, let's
- 19:21be real, Like I want to be able to be me, say what's
- 19:23happened, try like I always do whatever it is, and not feel judged
- 19:27and not feel like they're looking at their watch and they're ready. They're already
- 19:30one foot out the door, which is how I feel a lot of us,
- 19:33especially women, how we feel when we go to the doctor. Yeah.
- 19:37Absolutely, you definitely should be interviewing all your practitioners, and if you
- 19:41don't like the response that you get, go find another one. There's lots
- 19:45of them out there. There's so many. I mean, yeah, granted,
- 19:48like so most of us are working within the parameters of insurance, but
- 19:52still, even within that, there's a lot to choose from. So don't
- 19:53feel like you know that you don't have anywhere else to turn, because there
- 19:59there's a lot options. It might be exhausting and infuriating, but remember that
- 20:03you're choosing yourself, you're advocating for yourself, and that the discussion that happens
- 20:10in a practitioner's office should be just that, a discussion of you know,
- 20:14oh you know, I'm thinking about this treatment for you. This is the
- 20:18full explanation of it. What do you think? How does that feel to
- 20:21you? Whatever happened to true informed consent? I have no idea because I
- 20:26think you just caused a couple of car accidents right now. You are,
- 20:30like, what pull it on the off ramp just to listen to us,
- 20:34don't crash and burn. Yeah, for I don't know, Like COVID was
- 20:41a blessing and a curse in a lot of different ways, and everybody says
- 20:44it. I think one of the curses was that informed consent. Whatever we
- 20:48had left just went right off the damn window unfortunately. So yeah, and
- 20:52we were stuck with whatever we could get, that's for sure. But you
- 20:55kind of ramped up and your dedication to the diabetic side of things in your
- 21:00practice, because I know, she doesn't just talk, she doesn't just do
- 21:03diabetes, guys, she does all kinds of other things too. But we
- 21:04just wanted to focus on this a little bit more today. But that the
- 21:07diabetes epidemic. During the pandemic, you know, so how did you help
- 21:12people get through that? Because that's nuts. Well, I saw I was
- 21:17still working in the hospital full time at that point, and I just saw
- 21:21a you know, an untold number of people that were overweight dying at a
- 21:26higher proportion, and diabetics were dying at a higher rate also, And it
- 21:33was just so frustrating for me because these two things are completely preventable and reversible.
- 21:37Obesity is preventable reversible, so is diabetes. And I don't say that
- 21:41likely. I'm not blowing it off and telling you that it's easy. No,
- 21:45it can be if you want it to be. Again, that's a
- 21:48thought that we're having about the thing that's happening, and we can talk about
- 21:51how powerful our thoughts are, but but it is something that's possible, and
- 21:56that just even having that thought of, oh, this is possible for me
- 22:00to reverse, for me to get beyond, I think is super important and
- 22:04empowering for people to even like start there. Yeah, and I think talking
- 22:10about COVID, I don't want to spend too much time on COVID because I
- 22:12think all of us were like covided out. But during that stand of time,
- 22:15so many amazing things happened to us as a globe. But one of
- 22:21the things that I took away from it was that I really really needed to
- 22:25take care of myself more than I was, and so much of it was
- 22:30stress related, which is still still my biggest thing. But earlier you had
- 22:33mentioned a little bit ago about how it's our response to stress that is where
- 22:38I actually suck so many bags of you know what, because when something stressful
- 22:45comes into my world, I immediately respond in a negative way. I don't
- 22:49even know why, and I'm working on it within myself to figure out,
- 22:53like why am I doing that? Because I know that stress, along with
- 22:57diabetes and other health problems, obviously, we're so damn inflamed. And I
- 23:02want to talk about inflammation and how all of this kind of leads into what
- 23:07inflammation does to your body and our brains. Well, I want to I
- 23:11want to talk about that too, But I also want to go back to
- 23:14because you said I respond in a negative way, what does that mean for
- 23:17and look like for you? What is negative anger? Anger? Anger?
- 23:21Yep mm hmm yep. I lose or I just lose my mind and I
- 23:23just start sobbing and I go into bed for a little bit, and I'm
- 23:26like, all right, I got that out. We see that's actually good.
- 23:30Curious. Yeah, well we're talking about ladies and gentlemen. She literally
- 23:34just like put the kaibash on me and was like no, no, no,
- 23:37no, no, you're not getting away with that one. I love
- 23:40that, thank you. No problem. Well, it's because calling me out
- 23:44on my stuff, yee, it's how we frame things again like that labeling
- 23:48it negative is really a reflection of self judgment, and we all do it
- 23:52because actually it's actually really healthy to have emotions. So when we're not having
- 23:57the emotions, what are we doing having the thoughts? And then we're just
- 24:00shoving that shit in different parts of our body. It could be in our
- 24:04ovaries, it could be in our uterus, it could be in our pancreas,
- 24:07it could be in our spine, you know, any of the places
- 24:10where inflammation, pain, disease shows up in your body. That should be
- 24:15if we know we're going to talk here about that connection between energetics and disease
- 24:18manifestation, that should be the first place that you go to get curious,
- 24:22like why, you know, what's my pattern? And it's a pattern,
- 24:26it's something we learned along the way, So it just is a little bit
- 24:30of takes a little bit of curiosity. The learning about ourselves part is the
- 24:33scariest part of what I've been going through, certainly more recently than ever,
- 24:38just because I'm working so damn hard to try to get my body to uncreate
- 24:44what's been created, you know, and it's like baby steps. My stuff
- 24:49started in my feet, and so for me, it's been moving upwards right
- 24:55from my feet all the way up into full body crps. And so with
- 24:57that being said, it's like, where do you start when your whole entire
- 25:02body hurts, you know? And so I was always focusing on my feet,
- 25:06and then I realized, I'm like, okay, well I've spent like
- 25:08a billion dollars on shoes, none of which should have solved any problems,
- 25:15you know. And so I started like with these little steps here, these
- 25:17little things here, and then I just flipped my switch. And this is
- 25:19very recent where I said, I'm going to start top box top down instead
- 25:23of bottom up. And so with that, I wrote a list of,
- 25:27like from my head all the way down to my feet, all of the
- 25:30things that I needed to work on within myself that would be good for those
- 25:33parts of my body. I have no idea why I started to do it
- 25:37or how I came up with this idea, but I may have read it
- 25:38somewhere, I don't know, but something that I just recently started doing,
- 25:41and it's really it's a really interesting way for me because I'm a real like
- 25:45list of things to do every single day, and even if I do something
- 25:48that's not on my list, I write it on my list and then I
- 25:51cross it off so I can see that I did all the things I add
- 25:53to my list after I've even done them, and then so I can do
- 25:56it. But it's something that's been really interesting for me to assess where my
- 26:00priorities actually ended up being and it was not what I expected it to be.
- 26:04And so there's just so many different tools that we can, you know,
- 26:07that we can use to help ourselves. My thing is the self talk
- 26:11for sure. Isn't that interesting? Yeah? Okay, so nobody steal that
- 26:15right because that's now mine. I haven't named it yet, but it's going
- 26:21to be some wild and crazy thing that's going to pop out in a year
- 26:22or two. Nobody. It was just an interesting thing for me to take
- 26:26some inventory of, like everything that's gone wrong with my health since I was
- 26:30a little little girl, and how I did not feel safe in any of
- 26:36the situations that I was ever in with my body and my health since I
- 26:38was nine years old, never have and so I'm working through a lot of
- 26:42that. Some of that's trauma, some of it's like, well I was
- 26:45born with it, just like you were saying, like my appendix ruptured all
- 26:47right, Well, that's not really because I did anything wrong, but you
- 26:48know, it's just it's really interesting for me to see and dive into myself
- 26:53and go, wow, these things in this timeline. When that happened,
- 26:57when things were going wrong with my health, it was it's almost frightening that
- 27:00I'm that I am as happy and go lucky and fabulous as I am when
- 27:06you look at this. Do you know why? No, because you decided,
- 27:11Yeah, you just wanted damn it, I'm going to be happy and
- 27:14go lucky despite all this other ship. I'm so again like how powerful we
- 27:18all are. We can just decide and it will be Yeah. So well,
- 27:26now where do you want to go for it? Well, I can't
- 27:26answer your question about the inflammation. I know, I know, and I
- 27:32love the phrase circle back. It's like one of my favorite probably on my
- 27:34tombstone. She always wanted to just circle back. So yeah, inflammation is
- 27:38huge, especially in my life. And we're hearing the word. I mean,
- 27:41it's just everywhere it is so rampant. Why is it so rampant?
- 27:45And what the heck is going on with all of us? So let's start,
- 27:49And I know that's a big that's a big goal because as you were
- 27:52talking to like the the message came through to me too, that we need
- 27:57to talk about this ellular imprint of both stress and trauma. I like,
- 28:03I think obviously trauma is stressful, so we can call it stress, we
- 28:07can call it whatever we want. But also this collective and familial and generational.
- 28:15So yes, we're we're born pure energetic beings and happy little baby bodies,
- 28:22right, and it doesn't take long at all before our parents and whoever
- 28:26else. But I'm sure, maybe hopefully good intentions, we can make that
- 28:29assumption. I don't know if that's whatever. We'll leave that there. They
- 28:34start piglyon, you know, and they say, you know, don't do
- 28:37this, don't do that, do this, do that, whether you want
- 28:40to or not, show up this way, don't cry, don't talk,
- 28:45don't yell, don't get angry, you know, all these things, and
- 28:48before know it, we're like just like paralyzed, like scrunched up like little
- 28:53beings. So I can't be a human right that blow up like a volcano.
- 28:57Every now and then, whether it's with anger or tears or whatever.
- 29:02Sometimes that people act out in violence because they just can't hold it in anymore
- 29:07and I'm not saying violence is justified and just saying like this is part of
- 29:10our process. So eventually this has a physical effect and the inflammation is both
- 29:18cellular and chemical. And so it's a two part approach to how do we
- 29:23address it. So one part is going in and doing that investigation and reloving
- 29:30ourselves, reacknowledging and loving that inner child with intention, releasing any collective trauma,
- 29:41stress, grief. Grief's a big one that I don't think gets processed
- 29:45or talked about nearly. Shame. Shame is a big one. Yeah,
- 29:48huge and huge, and this can be even said for things just because this
- 29:53is what's happening right now, it's coming in front of mind. An example
- 29:56would be like generational trauma, you know with the Jews throughout the Holocaust and
- 30:02even before that. You know, like talk about generational trauma, and we
- 30:06talk about things throughout our lineage too, to be aware. But this also
- 30:11keeps it alive in our cellular structure, in our cellular vibration, because we're
- 30:15all energetic vibrational beings. So what do we do? So it's a matter
- 30:21of again being intentional and making the choice to release, let go. I
- 30:26work a lot with the light on the energetic side of things. So connect
- 30:30with source light, connect with that unconditional love that does exist in the universe.
- 30:34I promise y'all it does. It's out there. It kind of makes
- 30:38me sad when you were saying, like to fall in love with yourself again,
- 30:41that baby or whatever. I don't have any recollection of loving myself.
- 30:48I honestly don't know if I do either, if I was to be honest.
- 30:51But that doesn't mean that we can't choose it now. And all the
- 30:56things that you're doing and the searching and all those things our acts of self
- 31:00love. So give yourself that credit too. Yeah, give yourself some grace
- 31:04everybody. I have to say that to myself often because I I am my
- 31:10worst enemy when it comes to judging, you know, And that's something that
- 31:14self talk and all of that. You know. Like I was in I
- 31:15have an infred sana and I use it religiously and every morning I'm in there
- 31:21and I do you know, dung ung ung, I do my Whatever I'm
- 31:23doing in there, Sometimes it's meditation, sometimes it's crying, sometimes it's singing.
- 31:29Sometimes it's laying still, you know, doing some breathwork or what have
- 31:33you. But man, it has been it has been a challenge to find
- 31:37the person that I guess I feel like I was supposed to be and kind
- 31:42of like kind of well recreate her. Yeah, yeah, that's exactly right.
- 31:49Yeah, because I've held myself back from a lot of opportunity because I
- 31:53didn't feel like I was good enough or you know whatever, all that perfectionism
- 31:57that is like my worst dad has always said, some of the most the
- 32:00most wonderful things about you are absolutely the worst things about you, because I'm
- 32:07such a challenge the Gemini and me or what have you. But I'm such
- 32:10a challenge in that regard where I'm like, I'm a giving and loving and
- 32:14all this, but I give and I love too much that I don't take
- 32:15care of myself when I take care of everybody else. So it's like when
- 32:20I did the flip. That's where my flip for which I was mentioning earlier,
- 32:23where I started from my head down, that's where my I had to
- 32:25do the flip where I decided I was going to choose me first instead of
- 32:30everybody else. And so that flip didn't happen overnight. It's just been this
- 32:32like gradual shift, and I decided the way that I was going to do
- 32:37me over people was starting from my head down. So anyway, learning how
- 32:40to say no with love boundaries have been the most empowering thing that I've done
- 32:46though during this journey thus far. Yeah. Yeah, I've been like,
- 32:51no was a complete and loving sentence. It is so wonderful. No,
- 32:57I don't think so bad. But to go back to the what is so
- 33:05you asked me about the physical inflammation. Why is it everywhere? Yeah?
- 33:07So we if you think about our cells, I mean, we can think
- 33:12about them as perfect little circles, even though they're really not. But we'll
- 33:15just say, for the purpose of this biology class, little circles, you
- 33:21know, cell membranes, and when they get inflamed, they get all crinkled
- 33:28up and twisted. We'll just call it them. Why Why does that matter?
- 33:34Because on the outside of our cells are all these receptors and these channels,
- 33:38which is how nutrients get in, which is how electrons and our electrolytes
- 33:45go in and out of the cell. That's actually how our muscles contract.
- 33:49They call it proton gradients. So if your cells are all crinkly and twisted
- 33:53and you know, gnarled up. Then your receptors aren't going to be available
- 34:00to bind to all the things that it needs to to let the nutrients in,
- 34:04which keeps the cell healthy. So this is also part of the problem
- 34:07with diabetes. So the insulin resistance, so the glucose will be either overloaded
- 34:14and your cell will be super saturated, so it's met it's load, and
- 34:17now there's just extra floating around in your bloodstream. And that's when we have
- 34:21hyperglycemia or those and or both. Really, the receptors are so misaligned and
- 34:30damaged that they can't grab on to the glucose like they used to. So
- 34:34what is the result. You have less in the cell, so the cell's
- 34:37not fed and you have the extra floating through your bloodstream. Great, well,
- 34:40I think my cells probably look like like a Christmas morning with all of
- 34:44my Christmas wrapping paper just all thrown on the ground. That's my cells or
- 34:49no, lindsay, let's talk more happy about it and say my cells are
- 34:52healthy and round and plump and beautiful. We've already learned on this episode Guy's
- 34:58self talk, because it is incredible, how are how powerful our mindset is?
- 35:04I mean it truly is. Yeah, so what we say to ourselves
- 35:07matters, but beyond that too, how we feel about what we say.
- 35:10So when we're shifting to say the my cells are happy and plump, can
- 35:15we feel what that will like? What would that feel like if your cells
- 35:17were happy and plumping instead of if my cells are in hell instead of my
- 35:22cldiers doing their job, what would it feel like if they were happy and
- 35:24doing all the things that they're supposed to. I have lists of things that
- 35:29I know what my cells would be doing if they were a little bit more
- 35:31plump and happy. I can tell you that much right now. One maybe
- 35:35being able to walk my dogs again. Yeah, that's literally on the top
- 35:38of my list of things that I have to be able to accomplish. That's
- 35:40so simple. That's just something so simple that we took. I took for
- 35:45granted, and I took dancing for granted, and skiing for granted, yoga
- 35:47for granted. I took all of it. And so when you step back
- 35:51and you lose a lot of it, you're like, well, okay,
- 35:53this is it. I'm just stuck with myself in my house and I can't
- 35:57go and do anything. Oh of course not, Lindy. In the meantime,
- 36:00going a wheelchair, go out and do a couple of five k's.
- 36:01That's what I've been doing, you know. Nice. Yeah. So when
- 36:06with when you're treating inflammation and diabetes and all the other things that you do
- 36:10and do you work a lot with pain in relation to diabetes, particularly in
- 36:15inflammation because I know with me, I live in pain, but I know
- 36:19the underlying root causes of it. I do, which I finally it took
- 36:22forever to get to it, but we now have it. Now it's like,
- 36:24now what do I do? But do you help people in the pain
- 36:29department when it comes to this, I do a lot of especially my diabetic
- 36:32patients comes to me with the neuropathy complaints and that's one of their first questions
- 36:37are like, yeah, yeah, with the diabetes, the blood sugar whatever,
- 36:42can we get this neuropathy thing to stop? The aner is yes,
- 36:46but it also there's a caveat usually it takes longer. And I say usually
- 36:52because I don't I don't want to be one of those practitioners that like pigeonholes
- 36:55any of my patients or clients into a timeline, because I do believe in
- 37:00miraculous healing is possible, but it's possible when the receiver, when the patient,
- 37:07when the person that's going through it believes it's possible for them. So
- 37:10that's the other thing I say is you are your own best healer. So
- 37:15I am even with when I'm doing an intuitive or raiki session, I am
- 37:19the conduit, I am the spaceholder, I'm the channel, I'm the guide,
- 37:23but I am not doing the work for you. You are your own
- 37:28best healer, So damn it. No, it's actually great because you can't
- 37:32complain that you can't find a healer. You're it. You're it. You're
- 37:37it. And that's literally why I started the show in the first place,
- 37:39because I was like, I've had it, I'm up to here. I'm
- 37:43going to find people to help me heal because I know at the end of
- 37:45the day, I'm at the end of the day, I'm the one behind
- 37:47the wheel. That's it. Nobody else is driving this hot mess express over
- 37:52here but me. Right well, And because a lot of people do say,
- 37:55well, my doctor's driving this train or my group of doctors is driving
- 38:00and but then they're like, but my doctors don't talk to each other.
- 38:04That's exactly right. It's so stupid, very frustrating. Even as a practitioner.
- 38:08It's frustrating because you know, a lot of times you're looking for information.
- 38:13Well, if I just have this piece of information, I would know,
- 38:15like you know, which which way to go next? So uh yeah.
- 38:21So it's so great when people finally say, no, I'm the conductor,
- 38:24I'm the one driving the train. Yeah, I'm going to be the
- 38:28greatest showman. I'm going to be the one that's going to put on this
- 38:30performance, not anybody else. And that's that's something that I also had to
- 38:36learn. And I think we all kind of do, you know, no
- 38:37matter what we're trying to get through. At the end of the day,
- 38:40I mean, we lose people. We go through so many things in our
- 38:44lives and we can only the only way that we're going to feel the way
- 38:46that we're going to feel is because that's how that's that's us. It's our
- 38:49choice, you know. And it's really hard to take your health into your
- 38:52own hands sometimes because we feel, especially here in the United States, I
- 38:57mean is from a healthcare perspective, I feel like we're we're constantly leaning on
- 39:01having to go to a doctor in order to get healed, and I just
- 39:06it's just just not that way. It's just not the case. And I
- 39:08love the energy healing side of it. So I'd like to talk up.
- 39:12I'd like to get into what you do in the energy space, because it
- 39:15is I mean, we we're emotional people. Emotion is energy. You know,
- 39:20all of this is we can feel. There's a reason why we feel.
- 39:22We get the chills. I mean, we are this energetic force,
- 39:25you know. Yeah, So we are beings of light. That is actually
- 39:30a scientific fact. It's not wu wu when you start, because a lot
- 39:35of people will go, well, great, here we go, here we
- 39:37go with But one of the things that I like to do is bring the
- 39:39science into the wu wu. So here, here we go. So we're
- 39:43beings of light. We're actually made up of photons, which are particles of
- 39:45light, and we are also made up of carbon, nitrogen, oxygen,
- 39:52you know, all the different molecules that make up our DNA and our cells
- 39:57and our cell structure and our organs. All of that is that's also what's
- 40:00the universe is made up of, and the Earth and the stars and the
- 40:04stardust. So we are stardust. There is more space within us, then
- 40:09there is actual matter. So we are energetic, vibrating beings. And it's
- 40:15actually an optical illusion that you and I are even looking at each other right
- 40:20now if we want to get into like the crazy quantum, I kind of
- 40:23do, because she's looking at my face slight now because my mouth is like
- 40:28smiling with my mouth open at the same time. So yeah, because when
- 40:31everyone's like, oh, light and spirit and source and all of that,
- 40:35it's so confusing to some people that don't believe in it. When but I
- 40:39like that you brought the word science into it because it is like, this
- 40:43is a legitimate thing. But yeah, please talk about how our perception of
- 40:46what we're seeing is talk about the stardust, which, yeah, so more
- 40:52and more and more the science is actually reinforcing and supporting what we've known spiritually
- 40:58for thousands and thousands of years. So you're a yogi, I'm a yogi.
- 41:02We can start there. You know, like, that's a tradition that
- 41:07is thousands of years old. They know that sound heels, they know that
- 41:14movement and breath and postures heel. They you know, they didn't know why,
- 41:21but now we're starting to understand even the concept of coherence versus dissonance.
- 41:27So coherence is like if you look at a wave line. Coherence is like
- 41:30if you have two wave lines, they're in sync with each other, like
- 41:35they go up and down at the same time, and they're essentially doing everything
- 41:40in parallel mirroring each other. Dissonance would be if you have one line going
- 41:45up and down and then your next the parallel line is like crisscrossing it and
- 41:51is like maybe like faster, taller, depending on your amplitude or frequency.
- 41:54You know, they're not in sync. So what's happening in our body when
- 41:59we have the inflammation is dissonance, so things are not in sync. This
- 42:02is when you're in pain. Things are not in sync. When we're you
- 42:07know, having a panic attack, or we're super depressed, or you know,
- 42:10any of those things not in sync, we're in dissonance. But we
- 42:15can create coherence just by centering ourselves and doing some deep breathing. It's not
- 42:22complicated, it's very simple, but it's very powerful, and it is based
- 42:28on age old practices that we are now being able to understand how they work
- 42:34on the molecular and cellular level because of our scientific research. It does make
- 42:39sense, but ocause I'm of course I'm thinking about like what my little chart
- 42:43would look like right now of dissonance, and there's like lines going all over
- 42:46the place. There's nothing running parallel. There's nothing running in sync at least
- 42:51not. Okay, lindsay, we're gonna step back. We're not going to
- 42:53say nothing. There are plenty of things that are working. There are just
- 42:57a few things that are not right now that I've got to get big out
- 43:00here. We all have our shit, we all have our shit, we
- 43:02all have stuff to work on. So don't you dare think that you don't
- 43:06have stuff to do for yourself and others. Okay, but it's it's that
- 43:10the physical and energetic part of healing, they go hand in hand in my
- 43:15in my view at least, because I find that when I do tapping or
- 43:19I do things that are in energy work, I feel so much better.
- 43:23It's unbelievable. But I also have had the experience. I did a couple
- 43:28of different tapping sessions with this this gallop friend of my Lauren Fondelle. She
- 43:31was on the show, but she's amazing, and I was like physically unable
- 43:37to not stop crying. The following day after, like we unleash so much
- 43:42emotion that needed to come out. Like I could not even function. I
- 43:45was just laying on the couch crying. That was it. That's all I
- 43:46did for the whole day. And she's like I texted her, She's like,
- 43:51just let it go, Like, just keep letting it come out,
- 43:53because we opened something that needed to come out, and then I wanted to
- 43:57put the lid on it, right, And it was the put on the
- 44:00lid that got you to where you are before that, right, So yeah,
- 44:04we're always remembered too that where we are today did not get to be
- 44:07that way overnight. So because we live in a time space continuum on this
- 44:14planet, the planet Earth has the level of time with it. Not all
- 44:17dimensions and realms have time, but this one does. And so what does
- 44:22that mean. It means that we creation takes time, destruction takes time.
- 44:27It doesn't mean it takes a lot of It has to take a lot of
- 44:29time. But you know, again, you didn't get here overnight, and
- 44:32you're not gonna normally reverse everything overnight. But again, like I believe in
- 44:37miraculous healing too, So that's why I like, I don't want to like
- 44:42put that out there too much because it is possible, but again, we
- 44:45all have to believe that it's possible or oh absolutely, I believe that there
- 44:50is a source energy out there. I believe that we are all souls and
- 44:55we chose to incarnate here. But that also means that we're all connected and
- 45:01that we'll sort of reconnect when we leave this life, and we may choose
- 45:08to come back or not. Maybe some of us will choose to take a
- 45:10break. I might need one break. I might just need one and then
- 45:15I'm going to come back like Gangbusters. Yeah. But from those humans that
- 45:22have had experiences quote with the other side, what the feedback is is that
- 45:29we choose to incarnate here on this planet at this time so that we can
- 45:32experience contrast, meaning the good the bad, so we can experience emotion,
- 45:38so we can experience time, even because time does not exist across all realms
- 45:45and so you the Earth is such a unique place and it presents us with
- 45:50so many challenges. But really I'm starting to see it more as like a
- 45:54challenge to remember who we are at our core, and we're light, We're
- 46:00love, We're soul, We're source, we are source. Every single one
- 46:04of us. So when it comes to healing and this angelic side of things,
- 46:10this light, this source, how do you work in regards to helping
- 46:15your clients heal through this energy work that you do? So a lot of
- 46:21it is just a providing the safe space so people will be willing to allow
- 46:28themselves to feel the feelings. Just like you said when you went through that
- 46:31tapping with your practitioner or friend and the next day you had a huge emotional
- 46:36release. Most of us don't want to allow ourselves to feel those feelings,
- 46:40but we have to. We have to allow ourselves to feel the feelings because
- 46:45the thing is is they're temporary. They're not going to stay around forever,
- 46:49and if we let ourselves feel them, then they will move through us because
- 46:53they are energy too. So the only thing constant in the on this planet
- 46:59at this time time has changed. That's true with everything. That's another universal
- 47:02truth. As Caroline Mace would say, truth with a big tea. It's
- 47:07a big ta being trauma. Yeah, because that's a liar all the time.
- 47:13Little teas and big teas Like my gosh, they're all just big.
- 47:16I love I. She'll say, Now, are you guys ready this is
- 47:19a This is a big truth, big tea, And I think that I
- 47:24think that facing the truth is probably the hardest part of healing because at the
- 47:29end of the day, you dan well know what you're doing wrong. I
- 47:30mean honestly, Like, if you sit down and look, get yourself in
- 47:34the mirror for just a second, go, I wonder why I put on
- 47:36forty pounds. Well, maybe you should stop putting Carl's Junior burgers into your
- 47:38mouth. Like there's so many things that we know that we're doing wrong and
- 47:42we continue to doing. Like me, I'm like, you know, I
- 47:44should probably stop drinking so much red wine. I'll do it tomorrow, you
- 47:46know, And we do that, and then we put it off, and
- 47:50we put it off, and we keep doing it. I'll do it tomorrow,
- 47:52I'll do it tomorrow, you know, the next day. And that
- 47:52procrastination over time has added up to unhealthy lifestyle choices, you know. And
- 47:59so a lot of it, at least from my perspective, is from marketing
- 48:01advertising in our culture, you know, because they make food look delicious and
- 48:06they make drinking look amazing, you know, and you're you're smart, you're
- 48:09sophisticated, you're thin, you're beautiful and you you're on your eighteenth martini,
- 48:14but your panties are on your ankles in the bathroom with some random stranger.
- 48:17That's not a good lifestyle choice, which can lead to problems with your health,
- 48:22you know. And I can speak to that particular example because I've been
- 48:25there, and it's you know, when you make these choices in your life
- 48:30and then you beat yourself up about why they why they happened. You know,
- 48:34it's a lot that is just looking back at yourself as well, not
- 48:37saying that there aren't things that happened to us. Obviously, I'm the first
- 48:38one to say that I've had plenty of things happened to me that I were
- 48:42completely out of my control. But to circle back to our earlier part of
- 48:45our conversation, those those things come up and we can't we can't really we
- 48:52can't blame them. We have to come back and go, Okay, well
- 48:53that stuff happened, So now what we're just gonna sit in it. We're
- 48:57going to let it keep us sick. We're going to you know, have
- 49:00it get in the way of our relationships, our success, all of that,
- 49:02because you just don't want to open up and let go. That's that's
- 49:07that's being stuck. Yeah. Well, there's a big part of it,
- 49:10that self forgiveness. So even though we made decisions and choices no matter how
- 49:17old we were, I was going to say when we were younger, but
- 49:20even if we're still doing it now, just being willing to forgive yourself and
- 49:24move forward. So there's a big, huge piece of that too. So
- 49:30when again, when someone comes to me and I work with them on just
- 49:34the energetic piece alone, I'm doing a lot of holding space and allowing the
- 49:37energy to go where it needs to go, and allowing the emotions that need
- 49:42to come up and out come up and out, and making sure that whoever,
- 49:47whether it's distance or in person, that they know they're in a safe
- 49:52space and that knowing that whatever is coming up as for their highest and greatest
- 49:57good. I one hundred sent believe in that message and it's a good one
- 50:02to end us today with because it is a message of hope and we really
- 50:07like to do that around here. Yeah. Yay, way, oh my
- 50:13goodness. Okay, Well where can we find you online? So I am
- 50:16at doctor Lara May that's d R l A R A m A y on
- 50:21all the socials. I actually just joined TikTok yesterday. I know, you
- 50:29crazy woman. Well, someone said there's lots of doctors on TikTok, usual
- 50:34it would be good for your practice. I'm like, okay, we'll see.
- 50:36Yeah. Some people say go jump off a cliff as well, and
- 50:38so I guess you're just joining them too. I don't know, So we'll
- 50:42see. We'll see how it goes. But I'm mainly on Instagram, YouTube,
- 50:46Facebook, those are my main three. I'm going to see how the
- 50:50TikTok thing goes. I've got stay tuned. Oh yeah. My website is
- 50:55doctor Laramy dot com and so that's where pretty much my whole practice lives online.
- 51:02So you can find life coaching sessions, functional medicine programs, intuitive healing
- 51:08sessions. I have fun memberships that are extremely affordable. If you want to
- 51:15show up every month and just receive some reiki. That's what that's there for,
- 51:19because I want to make it accessible for everyone to have a place to
- 51:22go to. I do seasonal detoxes as a like a quarterly membership, and
- 51:27then I also do a monthly meal planning. I don't plan it well,
- 51:30I guess I kind of do plan the meals for you. I provide you
- 51:32a shopping list and recipes for the entire month, and then obviously, like
- 51:37you get to decide how that fits into your life. But then there's also
- 51:40support every month, so live calls with that too, so you can bring
- 51:45your questions and get coached and all that good stuff. I love it.
- 51:47Thank you so much. That is wonderful. This has been so much fun
- 51:51with you, and I know we were kind of like going over there and
- 51:52going over here and go to because we have so much that we want to
- 51:54talk about, because she's so holistic in what she does, and so we
- 52:00could have eighteen more episodes. We could have our own podcasts together just on
- 52:02this. Oh and we did. We could. I think we'd be just
- 52:06talking randomly for hours and hours on end. Who knows. I mean we
- 52:09could outline it out, you know. Yeah. Maybe. Well, thanks
- 52:15again for being here with me. I appreciate it, and I have so
- 52:19much to learn from you. Even still after this episode of my I'm more
- 52:23curious than I was before we started. And that was the whole point.
- 52:27Yay, Well, thank you for having me. This has been a lot
- 52:30of fun. Yeah, no problem. I love having you. Yeah,
- 52:32I will just say two more things. If you want to learn to be
- 52:36a practitioner yourself. I also teach raki and channeling. And then I do
- 52:40have a retreat coming up. I'm not sure when this will be published,
- 52:45but I'm co facilitating. I guess it's the word a retreat to Balie in
- 52:50February of twenty twenty four. We're calling it a self love retreat because it
- 52:55culminates around that holiday with all the and the followers. What do you call
- 53:00oh Valentine's Saint m yep, So it's created for all us to spend bgs
- 53:07of money that they're unnecessary. Come love yourself in Bali instead. Oh my
- 53:13god, I would totally that. My Sweeten and I don't do anything on
- 53:15those kind of days. We're like, every day's Valentine's Day. Why do
- 53:17we need to have an actual Valentine's Day? Yeah, we're so goody and
- 53:21gross. Hey, like four times I'm out for dinner seriously, Yeah,
- 53:25with a bunch of people like getting engaged or breaking up. Who knows what's
- 53:29happening on Valentine's Day. I'm her a whole moment, always entertaining, No,
- 53:32get it well, Thanks again for being here with us. You can
- 53:36find her at doctor Laura May dot com and follow her on all of the
- 53:39socials. Thanks again, girl, and I will be in touch with you
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