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New Dirty Little Secret:“The Surgery She Hid From Her Ex” · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: You're any little secrets.
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  Speaker 2: It was time to confess. Sorry, if you have a confession,
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  Speaker 2: just bring it. Eight three to three seven eight seven
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  Speaker 2: one two nine. It's Billy the Kid, Candice Lopez and
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  Speaker 2: producer Pooh, I'm mixed one or two point nine. This
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  Speaker 2: is where we just let you confess anything that's on
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  Speaker 2: your mind. It could be big, it could be small,
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  Speaker 2: it could happen five minutes ago, five years ago, whatever.
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  Speaker 2: It's a non judgment zone for the most part. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it'd be a little bit judging, but not in a
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  Speaker 2: hateful way. We'll just talk about what's going on. It'll
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  Speaker 2: feel good to cleanse your soul spring cleaning of the soul.
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  Speaker 2: You got one, what's up?
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  Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I guess. Yeah. I mean people are probably
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  Speaker 1: gonna judge me for it, but yeah, I wanted to
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  Speaker 1: sort of say it out loud.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So basically, when my daughter was born, she was, you know, perfect,
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  Speaker 1: just absolutely perfect. But the second that they later on
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  Speaker 1: my chest, I noticed something stand out immediately and it's
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  Speaker 1: her ears. So they were they were like big, I
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  Speaker 1: mean noticeably huge.
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  Speaker 2: Your daughter don't last my baby?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe, Yes, she's my baby and she's perfect, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: not trying to be mean, but at the same time,
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  Speaker 1: you know, they stuck out so far that she looked
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  Speaker 1: like she could be like my little dumbbo you know.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, when their babies, you've been stuffed up in there.
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  Speaker 1: Who knows how her ears were smushed, you know, but
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  Speaker 1: like maybe when you're a baby, it's cute, but think
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  Speaker 1: about it, you're in kindergarten, middle school, like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: kids can be absolutely brutal. Okay, So so here's where
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  Speaker 1: you know, her dad and I are not together anymore,
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  Speaker 1: and you know, I don't need to get into all that,
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  Speaker 1: but basically we're just we're not really parenting in harmony
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  Speaker 1: most of that. And he and his family they're they're
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  Speaker 1: like super religious, you know, very much like God made
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  Speaker 1: her perfect and you know, you don't need to change
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  Speaker 1: a thing, you know type. So if I had even
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  Speaker 1: suggested surgery, he would have shut it down immediately. So
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  Speaker 1: he doesn't live in Texas, and he's more of this
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  Speaker 1: sort of like spring break and holidays kind of dad,
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  Speaker 1: so he's not around as much. We'll say that. So
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  Speaker 1: a few weeks ago, I did it, you did what?
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  Speaker 1: And I fixed her ears? I got her ears fixed,
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  Speaker 1: and I didn't tell him. Yeah, it would Listen, I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you, it's a super simple person feature nothing extreme.
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  Speaker 1: She's like totally fine, healing beautifully. But I didn't tell
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  Speaker 1: him that I was doing it.
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  Speaker 2: And now I got I gotta be honest that it
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  Speaker 2: kind of freaks me out and weirds me out that
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  Speaker 2: I get that you have this weird you know, maybe
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  Speaker 2: not the best co parenting relationship with him, But any
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  Speaker 2: kind of medical procedure where you know there might be
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  Speaker 2: anesthesia involved, or a physical change or anything, really, I
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  Speaker 2: wouldn't want to know.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know what, like if you're a part
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  Speaker 1: time dad, like, you know, if you're a part time dad, like,
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  Speaker 1: you don't get to be full time making decisions, right,
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  Speaker 1: That's how I see it. Yeah, I'm the one with
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  Speaker 1: her every single day, and I'm the one that's thinking
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  Speaker 1: about her future and her confidence and the way the
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  Speaker 1: world is going to treat her. Like, I don't feel
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  Speaker 1: like I owe anyone an explanation. I did what was
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  Speaker 1: best for my daughter, and and I truly believe that
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  Speaker 1: one day, you know, when she's older, she's and she's
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  Speaker 1: not getting teased on the playground or hiding her hair,
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  Speaker 1: you know, like making her hair right, pupper her ears right.
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  Speaker 1: She's actually thank me, like honest, and you know what,
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  Speaker 1: he will too. He will too, I don't think.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I get that, but you didn't make that
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  Speaker 3: kid by yourself. I mean you should at least have
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  Speaker 3: consulted with a little bit. I know he's part.
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  Speaker 2: Time, but at least tell him he's walked away.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I can't say that.
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  Speaker 1: I would.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I mean, right, like, I don't
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  Speaker 2: know both sides of the story. So without knowing both sides,
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  Speaker 2: the way it looks right now, the optics don't look
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  Speaker 2: good for Dad.
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  Speaker 1: If you just kind of Sonny Caesar, yeah, I'll tell you.
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  Speaker 2: Definitely it does. He is involved, but he's not involved
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  Speaker 2: as much as he should be. You're saying, so he
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  Speaker 2: doesn't get those decisions. But what is something what if
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  Speaker 2: something had gone wrong? No, I would have told trouble.
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  Speaker 2: I would have told him and said, well, this is
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  Speaker 2: what I'm doing. I'm just letting you know. Maybe not Hey,
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  Speaker 2: we're going to discuss this. I would just you know,
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  Speaker 2: but yeah, I'm not you, So I don't know. I
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  Speaker 2: can't speak for what you should have done or shouldn't have.
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  Speaker 1: Done, you know, the dynamics of the relationship or where
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  Speaker 1: that gets really complicated, and you know, I just really
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  Speaker 1: feel like if he really wanted to be a part
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  Speaker 1: of making decisions in her life, then he could step
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  Speaker 1: up and near on more do him. I'm happy for
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  Speaker 1: my girl. She's absolutely perfect and beautiful, and I know
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  Speaker 1: that this is just going to help prevent teasing and
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  Speaker 1: things like that, and I just wanted to do it
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  Speaker 1: for her well being. And it's fine and she's great,
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  Speaker 1: and that's my little secret.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's a good secret, reac And I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: ask people, you know, what they would have done, and
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  Speaker 2: other moms and parents and dads what they think, because
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  Speaker 2: I know people have strong opinions on this, but I
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  Speaker 2: don't parent, shame and judge. So you do what you
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  Speaker 2: gotta do. And I'm glad it worked out and she's good.
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  Speaker 2: She'll look back and I think you're right. I think
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  Speaker 2: she will be happy that it happened. Although some people
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  Speaker 2: love big years, yeah, some people never get him fixed.
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  Speaker 2: And there's actually some people who think it's very cute
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  Speaker 2: and it's endearing for sure, like Poo's got extra small ears.
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  Speaker 2: I wonder if there was any way we could have
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  Speaker 2: actually gotten ear enlargement. No, ears are like you have
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  Speaker 2: baby ears. Yeah, yeah, it's cool. I mean yeah, no,
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  Speaker 2: it's neat.
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  Speaker 3: I've never noticed look at it like, I mean, but
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  Speaker 3: Billy got some big ears.
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  Speaker 2: That's why you don't listen for Well, thank you, ma'am.
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  Speaker 2: We really appreciate your secret. And and well yeah you'll
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  Speaker 2: hear what people have to say coming up next.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so your daughter, all right, all right, I'm just