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A Vietnam Sized Age Gap that still works for this GAL · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: We were talking about sleep divorces the.
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  Speaker 2: Other day because Kyle's sleeping with her dog in another room,
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  Speaker 2: because her husband is sleeping with the other dog in
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  Speaker 2: the other room.
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  Speaker 1: And we're trying because you're trying to get Poppy, your baby.
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  Speaker 3: Puppy, Yeah, trying to get her sort of acclimated to
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  Speaker 3: this life and trying not to.
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  Speaker 1: Invade Daisy's space. Just just that badly. You know, Nikki,
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  Speaker 1: you got to sleep divorce.
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  Speaker 3: Hi, yes, I do. So. My husband and I really
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  Speaker 3: have never slept in the same bed for gosh, maybe
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  Speaker 3: more than a few months out of the whole almost
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  Speaker 3: ten years we've been married.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So the reason why is because, first of all, he's
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  Speaker 3: in the military, and when we first met, he was
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  Speaker 3: on like a different schedule, so I'd worked during the day,
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  Speaker 3: he sleep during the day, you know, I'm and vice versa.
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  Speaker 3: So that's why we didn't sleep together. And then we
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  Speaker 3: started having kiddos and then they would come into the
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  Speaker 3: bed and he didn't get a good night's sleep, so
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  Speaker 3: then he would just sleep in the other room all
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  Speaker 3: the time, and it just turned into a thing. And
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  Speaker 3: I love it.
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  Speaker 1: Do you have you have your own room and he
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  Speaker 1: has his own room.
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  Speaker 3: Well, so we don't really have the house run right now.
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  Speaker 3: There is not like a separate guest room. So he
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  Speaker 3: just literally he sleeps on the couch, which I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: why do you do that? Oh my god, it's still uncomfortable,
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  Speaker 3: but it's it's his choice, and you know whatever, I
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  Speaker 3: get the whole entire huge kings. I've bed to.
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  Speaker 2: Myself on the couch and He's like, Man, I slept
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  Speaker 2: for eight months of the floors in Afghanistan, out of
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  Speaker 2: the rock.
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  Speaker 1: This couch is comfortable to me, right, I know.
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  Speaker 3: Well, the kids, like we have three of them now,
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  Speaker 3: and our youngest she's about to be five next month,
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  Speaker 3: and she's still like most nights, still sleeps with me,
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  Speaker 3: so terrible thrasher. Yeah my kid. Yeah, all my kids
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  Speaker 3: still like to come and sleep with me. So I
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  Speaker 3: don't mind it. And it doesn't give him any rooms.
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  Speaker 3: So you know, he got kicked out a long time ago.
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  Speaker 5: And you guys, do you are you is there any
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  Speaker 5: plan to go back? Or is this just the way
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  Speaker 5: it's going to be from now on?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I keep telling him, I mean I do
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  Speaker 3: love my space, but I keep telling him, like it's
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  Speaker 3: kind of weird. And as a get older, they're going
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  Speaker 3: to be like, why is daddy always sleeping on the couch?
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  Speaker 3: I'm like comvaccinating. I don't know. You're welcome.
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  Speaker 1: Have a good day, Ga, Lisa, you have a sleep divorce.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, I do.
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  Speaker 1: What's your story?
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  Speaker 4: Well, we've been married for twenty one years. Around the
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  Speaker 4: six year mark, he had surgery. And after the surgery,
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  Speaker 4: I couldn't sleep in the bed with him because he
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  Speaker 4: was hurt and I didn't want to kick him or whatever,
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  Speaker 4: and I started sleeping on the sofa, and then from
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  Speaker 4: there I kind of moved into the spare bedroom and
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  Speaker 4: I've kind of been there ever since because the surgery
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  Speaker 4: kind of damaged some things, and so I kind of
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  Speaker 4: been staying there and I kind of love it and
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  Speaker 4: I kind of like it. And it's been fifteen years.
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  Speaker 1: When you say damage some things, are you talking about
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  Speaker 1: his privates?
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  Speaker 4: I guess you could say so yeah, but that means
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  Speaker 4: so you mean like so you guys can't do those
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  Speaker 4: things or.
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  Speaker 5: Like right, right, so there's no need to be in
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  Speaker 5: the same bed.
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  Speaker 1: What kind of surgery was I make sure I hope
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  Speaker 1: I never ever ever ever had that it? What was it?
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  Speaker 1: What was it?
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  Speaker 4: Called Well, he's actually he was in Vietnam and I
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  Speaker 4: was being born, so he's a lot older than me, okay,
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  Speaker 4: And so it was already kind of you know, if
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  Speaker 4: it's I guess, a relationship isn't based on that solely
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  Speaker 4: because I mean we're.
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  Speaker 2: Good, you know.
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  Speaker 4: And it was a backspinal thing, and he had like
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  Speaker 4: five surgeries since what's difference? He has like no feelings
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  Speaker 4: from like maybe the waist down to his feet.
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  Speaker 1: Got it? But what's your age difference?
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  Speaker 4: I'm about to be sixty and he's seventy six.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, wow, so interesting. All right, Well you're lucky you
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  Speaker 1: have your own your own room.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, you don't want your your your sex life to
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  Speaker 5: be referred to as iffy.
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  Speaker 1: That doesn't sound awesome, right.
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  Speaker 4: Well, it's been fifteen years and I figure, you know
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  Speaker 4: what I'd rather kind of like it's like putting the
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  Speaker 4: I guess a cookie jar in front of a diabetic
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  Speaker 4: in the same room, and you know you can't have it,
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  Speaker 4: but you want it.
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  Speaker 2: So he's turned on by that sixty year old figure
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  Speaker 2: and he's like, I can't have it, nothing's working, but
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  Speaker 2: dang it. He's like dang at leasta stopped bending over.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my goodness. Every now and then he gets the
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  Speaker 4: shakes because he gets a little you know, uh, I
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  Speaker 4: guess there's some nerves that are kind of damaged, so
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  Speaker 4: he gets a little shaky, and I'd be like, hey,
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  Speaker 4: moving over here.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: True love, true love. Thanks Lisa, I have a great day.
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  Speaker 2: Thanks for calling in.
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  Speaker 1: I'm never gonna be the same after hearing that