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🚨WE NEED TO TALK: WHY IS EVERYBODY SO ANGRY? · J&B Live Podcast

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  Okay, guys. So don't just watch what we're saying. We need you to join the conversation.
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  So I want you to drop those comments and also drop your city and state and let
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  us know where you're from.
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  Okay, guys. So let's take, you want to just set this guy we heard from?
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  We can get into a little short scenario right now. Yes. You know,
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  you have a man, he spends hours every day arguing with strangers online about politics.
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  Now, we know a lot of this is going on right now, especially with so much political
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  tension going on right now.
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  Now, his family says that he's become very angry, disconnected,
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  and he's miserable in real life because of what's going on politically and all
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  the people that he's arguing with online.
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  And I sympathize with him because I'm going to be honest with y'all.
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  Some of this stuff I hear on the news about our president, it just makes me
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  just furious. I'm serious.
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  Literally, I am upset.
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  But I don't take it on anybody else. So that's the key to that.
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  You can be upset about what's going on, but you don't want to take it out on
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  anybody else. All right, guys.
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  So is social media becoming an emotional dumping ground?
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  Or people simply showing us who they always were?
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  In other words, those people who are speaking out now, now they find like they
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  got a voice and they're telling you who they are. Were they always like that? What do you think?
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  All right, guys, you tell us what you guys think. Put it in the comments. We want to hear from you.
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  Okay, guys. So let's look at money stress.
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  Is that really what's making people mad?
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  Is it because they don't have the finances? What you think, Dr.
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  J3? No, Dr. B, but let's talk about something real. All right.
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  You know, you have bills because, you know, being broke, you know,
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  that kind of stress, it hits different.
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  Yeah, it do. Yeah, it do. When you can't pay your bills and you can't take care
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  of your children, that's totally different.
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  So financial pressure can change people, but people are worried about keeping
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  the lights on, paying rent, buying groceries, or just surviving paycheck to paycheck.
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  Frustration is going to build up and they're going to become angry.
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  Yeah. And guys, let's be honest.
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  Let's be completely honest here, guys. People are tired. You know,
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  everything is expensive now.
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  You know, the food prices are high.
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  The insurance is high. The rent, the mortgage, everything is high.
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  You walk in Walmart for three items and somehow spend $18, you know, or $80.
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  And it's amazing because, you know, I went shopping last month.
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  And I normally get the same things. You know, I usually don't experiment too much.
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  And what cost about $45 last month, well, the month before that,
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  actually, last month, it was almost $80.
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  It almost doubled for the exact same thing.
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  Either that, y'all, either that, or they're going to make the container smaller.
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  And I know you guys remember that time when after COVID hit, that's what they did.
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  Same price, smaller container. So that's what's happening.
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  So financial stress creates emotional stress and emotional stress often shows
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  us anger. That's why people are angry.
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  Now, you know what else? Pride. You know, some people are struggling,
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  but they are just too embarrassed to talk about. Yeah, that is true. Let's be real.
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  You know, you're behind on your bills. You know, you're struggling.
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  To keep food on the table, you know, especially if you're a man,
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  you know, and let's be real, you know, if you're at home in a relationship.
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  That woman, she's a little tense, you know, because the bills are piling up
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  and you're supposed to be that provider and you're going through some financial issues.
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  It's hard to talk to somebody and say, hey, I'm struggling right now to take
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  care of my family, you know, because of that pride that you may have. Yeah.
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  And, you know, Broker J3, you just said it.
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  This hits men totally different because society teaches our men to suffer silently
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  and still be the providers. That's what they normally do.
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  Yeah. So somebody, y'all better hear that tonight. I mean, literally.
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  So for some of y'all out there in these relationships, you know,
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  and your man may be going through something right now, you know, don't beat him down.
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  You know, it's tough out here for everybody.
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  Yeah, it is. It is. All right, guys. So sometimes people are angry.
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  I mean, aren't just angry. It's more than that. They're angry at life.
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  You know, they use the term everything, you know, I'm just lifing because life has a tendency.
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  Guess what? It throw you a curveball every now and then and you got to know
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  how to deal with that curveball.
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  OK, so let's think about this, guys. What if a husband starts becoming short
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  tempered and withdrawn after he's been laid off from work?
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  There are some people who have been laid off, you know, A.I.'s replacing, taking a lot of jobs.
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  His wife thinks he's changed and no longer loves her.
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  But in reality, he feels ashamed because he can't provide for the family the
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  way that he used to. Yeah.
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  So, guys, real quick, if you've ever been financially stressed,
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  just type been there in the comments.
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  Ladies, let me ask y'all something.
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  Do men suffer silently? All right, Ms. Empowered, how are you doing this evening?
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  Thank you for joining us. Happy birthday, Ms.
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  Empowered. Yes, happy birthday to you. Thank you for joining us. Yes, yes, yes.
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  So guys, again, do you think men are suffering in silence? What do you think?
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  All right. So why do men struggle without, then they can't open up emotionally?
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  Why is it me? And tell us why y'all struggle silently.
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  Let us know. I mean, it depends on the man.
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  Oh, and you and you're right, because some some men can talk about it with their
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  significant other and some can't, you know.
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  But you have to keep in mind, you know, all men were not raised the same.
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  You know, my father used to talk to us all the time, you know,
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  and I never had an issue sharing things with people because,
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  you know, that's what my father taught me.
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  So imagine if you was in a household where, you know, you either didn't have
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  a father or you didn't have that mentor to be able to talk to you or let you
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  know that it's okay to talk about it.
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  You know, so it depends on the man, as Miss Empower said, and it also depends
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  on, you know, how that man was raised.
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  Yeah, that part, that part. I agree with you, Miss Empower. Okay, guys.
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  So let's hear from y'all comment. You know, those comments do affect the algorithm.
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  So let's talk about hurt people who hurt other people.
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  So hurt people hurt people. And you know what?
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  That is so true, Dusty, because, you know, how many of you guys have experienced
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  where somebody was having a bad day? and because they was having a bad day, they take it out on you.
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  You did nothing wrong to them, but because they was having a bad day.
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  Now they're taking it out on you like you was the reason why they had a bad day.
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  Like earlier when we were talking about a young lady that lost her job.
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  So she took it out on the cashier because she lost her job.
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  So sometimes hurt people can hurt people.
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  Okay, Broker J3, can I say something that might hit hard tonight? Go ahead, Dog B.
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  Okay, so everybody who look angry out there, guys.
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  They ain't necessarily angry some people are just hurting and they don't know
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  how to express that anger okay go ahead and explain that okay we're going to
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  talk about the childhood trauma yes someone may be going through a divorce yes
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  husband cheating or whatever wife cheating whatever.
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  Betrayal losing loved ones y'all know those of you who had them adult children
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  you know how that roll you know how that goes the church the church some churches
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  are in a shamble right now toxic relationships, being rejected.
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  Some people never heal from those type of traumas.
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  So what happens, Doug? That pain is going to eventually turn into bitterness.
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  Those people are going to become bitter because that hurt is going to turn into
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  walls that they're going to put up around themselves because then that fear
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  is going to eventually turn into anger. That's the only way they know how to cope.
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  Ooh, that right there. But hear me clearly, people, pain may explain your behavior,
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  but healing is still your responsibility.
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  In other words, however you're feeling is still your responsibility to get help
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  because help is available.
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  So somebody type in the comments right now, healing is my responsibility.
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  Type it in the comments, healing is my responsibility. Because you can't keep
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  punishing new people that you meet for old pain.
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  That old pain is never going to go away unless you deal with it. So true, so true.
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  So we're going to get into this other scenario. You know, you have a woman constantly
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  lashing out in every relationship because she was cheated on years ago.
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  Now, every disagreement is turned into accusations because she was never healed.
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  Now, we talked about this in a couple of podcasts that we've had, Dr.
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  V, about women getting into these relationships and they have not healed or
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  men getting into the relationship and they have not healed.
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  Now, we have By You says, I'm a part of a man and woman group.
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  We talk about all issues.
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  We build each other's lives up.
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  Can you drop the name of that group for some of our viewers who may be interested?
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  Yeah, by you, drop the name of that group. Yeah, because everybody needs to
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  do something. You'll be surprised.
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  It may be some people that joined us that may need to be a part of that group. Yes, yes, yes.
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  And so, you know, what were you saying again, Broker J3, about,
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  you know, every disagreement may turn into accusation?
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  Yeah, because they never was healed in the first place.
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  We talked about how some people be in relationships. They've been hurt.
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  And before they get a chance to heal themselves, they're already in another relationship.
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  Exactly. Why go jump in another relationship when you hadn't healed from that relationship first?
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  Because you're going to hurt that person that don't know you.
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  They're hopping in a relationship with you thinking that you're ready for a
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  new relationship, not knowing that you're still hurting from the one you just
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  got out of. Just got out of.
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  It is never a good idea. I'm going to say this to jump from relationship to relationship.
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  You need your body you need time for your body
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  to heal and I tell people all the time you need
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  to learn to love yourself before you
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  move on to another relationship I totally agree alright shout
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  out your majesty Boss Bae again thank you Miss Unpower she says everyone needs
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  time before getting into another relationship 100% agree with you and that time
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  depends on the person there is no time frame
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  You know, if somebody tell you, hey, take a couple of months,
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  it may take you a couple of years. I'm just being real. It depends.
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  Every person is different. And because the pain that that person goes through
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  is different than the other person.
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  Now, Bayou said it's called the First Askena Academy.
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  Okay. All right, guys. So you see that in the comment? First Askena Academy.
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  If you want to meet with a group where you can just talk, have someone to talk
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  to. It's always a good thing to do.
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  And another thing I want to say, we've talked about people jumping from relationship to relationship.
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  Now, my generation is a little different. We didn't do, we don't do that.
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  But this newer generation, I'm telling y'all, you know, those of you who have
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  children that may be in their late 20s to 30s, maybe early 40s,
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  they do not mind jumping from relationship to relationship.
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  It is not a healthy thing to do because you have not healed.
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  That's right. And sometimes that brings on more drama. Yeah.
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  So big shout outs. We got Chicago watching. Still got Dallas in the house.
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  Florida's also in the building.
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  Alabama. Okay. Oh, Alabama.
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  And we still got South Carolina hanging in there. And, oh, wow,
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  we have Los Angeles. Okay. West Coast.
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  Okay. Got West Coast in the house. So keep tapping that screen.
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  Keep sending those gifts, guys.
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  And make sure you please send some love and follow our top supporters.
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  We always like supporting our top supporters because we like to help their platform grow as well.
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  Okay. Nova says, meet with a groomer. You got to be more specific on that.
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  And Bayou says, true, true. So, and then we've got Nova that says she is married to seven men.
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  I want to know who that is. Seven? Okay. Let me know who that is.
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  He won them seven. Oh, wow.
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  Wow. Okay. All right. So let's get into this.
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  Relationships are under pressure. Yeah. You know, let's be real, guys.
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  We already know relationships seem harder now than they've ever been before.
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  Before getting into relationships, being in a relationship,
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  was was much easier than it is now so
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  let's get into it and just think about it because a
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  lot of people are just not patient you know patience is
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  lower stress is higher and expectations
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  are have become somewhat unrealistic but you
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  know what it's not happening the thing and you hear this all the
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  time everybody wants peace everybody want peace
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  i want my peace yes but nobody
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  wants to communicate how can you have peace and you don't want to communicate
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  you can't shut down and you i want peace okay so baby tell me what's going on
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  or honey or whatever be with mad female whatever these case may be tell me what's
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  going on i just don't want to talk about it right now,
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  yeah yeah just doesn't make sense
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  and then guys uh another uh thing that's affecting relationships too,
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  is social media has you comparing your relationship to the relationships that you see online.
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  And guess what? We already talked about this. We mentioned this.
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  Some of those relationships online are fake.
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  They're not real, you know, and then, you know, you'll have some time where
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  somebody will reveal it.
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  You know, if you read some of the comments, they'll say, well,
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  that couple is not long. They're not even together anymore.
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  So stop comparing your relationship to what you see on social media.
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  I appreciate that comment there.
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  You're so true about that, about them toxic relationships.
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  Thank you so much for that comment. You know, somebody is watching a celebrity
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  relationship online thinking that theirs is supposed to be like that.
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  Let me tell you something. some of these relationships and
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  we keep saying it that you see on these social media platforms they
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  are not real let's let's let's keep
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  it 100 they are not they look good they look like they are doing this for the
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  gram they're doing it for the facebook they're doing it for the likes they're
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  doing it for the followers they're not they're not like like here's an example
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  the real housewives we're gonna go back we're gonna go back we're gonna go back
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  that's a perfect example we're
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  talk about Rashida and Dirk they were named Dirk whatever but for years.
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  They made it seem like he was cheating. They had a baby on the way and all that
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  stuff like that. All that was just for views, guys.
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  Rashida and her husband, they still together. They still love each other.
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  If this man was out there cheating about to have a baby and all this stuff,
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  she would have been left him.
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  So get real, guys. Don't fall for the okie-dokie. This is all for views so that
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  they can keep getting money and they can keep adding another season under their
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  belt so they can keep getting paid.
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  And definitely don't be, you know, I'm not a reality show fan.
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  I, you know, I don't like to see black women behaving like that because it's
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  bad enough. We're all stereotyped to think that we're loud and angry and,
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  you know, act some kind of way.
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  And when you portray that on TV, you just add more to that.
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  And I'm just not a fan of that. So, you know, like I said, what you see on social
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  media is not always, not social media, but the real life, the reality shows
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  is not always true, nor social media is already true. Just think about it.
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  Social media only show edits.
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  Real Housewives of the Ladder, all that stuff been edited, social media videos edited.
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  Come on, guys. You don't know what's real and what's not.
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  Yeah. So let me ask you guys something controversial, okay?
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  Are people quitting relationships too fast now?
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  Are they quitting these relationships too fast? Okay. Yeah. Some of them are.
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  Just think about it. Sometimes, yes, I'm going to say. But also,
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  some people stay too long in unhealthy relationships. That's what's happening, guys.
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  What do you think, Broker J3? Yeah, I think so as well. And Bayou says, yeah, that's true.
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  Everything you see on the internet and TV is for views and likes and money.
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  Okay, now Nova said, like you two. I'm not sure what you mean.
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  I've been reading a couple of comments from Nova. I'm not sure.
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  I'm not sure. I'm not sure where they're going with that. Quit before you start. I'm not sure. Okay.
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  All right. Now, that's a conversation. So we're going to get into another scenario real quick, guys.
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  You know, a couple argues almost every single day.
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  They're arguing over the bills piling up. The kids are stressing them out.
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  The work is just totally overwhelming them. They think that they're falling
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  out of love, but really the life pressure is just crushing them.
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  Yeah, and so they're getting it confused because they're so consumed and overwhelmed with the problems.
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  So is it really love problem? I don't think that's really a love problem because
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  I think they probably still love each other.
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  What do you think, bro? You know, I think it's a lot of the life pressure because
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  sometimes, you know, that life pressure dot B,
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  it really can get the best of you, you know, and it can definitely take a toll on relationships.
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  Okay, guys. So put it in the comment. Do you think it's a love problem or do
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  you think it's life pressure?
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  Which one? Okay, guys. So while you're adding that comment, we're going to say everybody mad online.
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  Yeah, it really is. Okay, so can we talk about social media one more time?
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  Okay, guys, so let's do it. All right. Why everybody is so brave online?
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  Because we talked about it. They have that little keyboard courage,
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  not willing to say nothing face-to-face, but they'll use that keyboard up something.
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  You know, folks are arguing over everything.
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  Again, we talked about it earlier. They're arguing over politics,
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  religion, celebrities, parenting, church, relationship.
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  Some of them even arguing over their chicken recipes. Okay.
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  And then so what happens is when they're arguing all the time,
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  people attack first instead of listening. And that's not good.
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  That's not good. Yeah. So you post one opinion and suddenly people are writing
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  novels in your comments, you know, about that one opinion that you have. That you have, yeah.
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  And this is happening because people are emotionally triggered by,
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  you know, something that they read. And that's what's happening. Yeah.
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  And honestly, we already know this. Misery loves company.
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  Have you ever had that friend that she's miserable and she wants you to be just
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  as miserable as she is? Come on.
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  People love lies over truth is sad, too.
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  Totally agree, Bear. Yeah, yeah. Totally, totally agree.
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  All right, so let's get into this other scenario that, you know,
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  there's a man, he spends all day online and debating strangely.
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  You know and and now his wife
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  feels like he's become emotionally distant
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  and just outright angry yeah
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  and there are some people if you've been we've even
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  had trolls on our websites who you know
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  troll us and and you know want to speak out on
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  behalf of the president you know and always going
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  to support him no matter what and i think some
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  of them have may have been consumed you
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  know and then you know the algorithms know that they're supporting
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  him so it's going to continue to generate that information but
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  i hope they have not been consumed and as to where
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  it's controlling their lives so is social media
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  helping people cope or is it making
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  yeah or is it making things worse yeah yeah i
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  think in some particular cases is making this worse so thank
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  you guys for those comments nova we
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  appreciate your comments even though some of them are
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  different yeah this empowered and black thank
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  you for joining us as well and jose ramon
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  perez thank you for joining us as well we appreciate
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  you guys thank you pretty bo thank you guys so
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  much all right so let's just jump in this so how
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  do we fix you know what's going
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  on with all the anger that people are having okay
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  okay dot b enough diagnosing the.
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  Problem how do we fix this first people need
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  to rest I said they need to take a
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  time out and we're talking about real rest we're talking.
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  About not scrolling on social media all night or.
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  Just put that phone down for a couple days put it down when you got that itch.
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  The jump on social media check yourself and say no not today I need to take
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  a break because right now social media is consuming everybody yeah second guys.
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  You know, therapy and prayer, much prayer.
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  They are not a weakness. They are considered strength. So I would recommend
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  that they do that because there's nothing wrong with seeing a therapist.
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  And definitely there's nothing wrong with prayer.
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  Yeah, that's right. Embarrassed as people need detox from it.
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  You're right because social media, it is an energy drainer.
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  Come on, let's be real. Is it powerful or ask yourself, is it worth losing your family? It's not.
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  It's a very important question. It's really not because what you guys should
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  realize by now, if you haven't already, especially the way times are going.
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  Family right now, families need to stay closer and tighter than ever before
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  because we don't know where this world is going. No, we don't.
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  And protect those babies. Yes. So I think families need to really hunker down
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  and tighten up and get more closer than they've ever been before.
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  And third, you know, stop taking your frustration out on innocent people.
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  If you're having a bad day or whatever.
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  Sit down somewhere. sit down somewhere sit down calm your
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  nerves and do not take it
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  out on somebody that had nothing to do
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  with what's going on with you and let me say this
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  you know you know when I was telling you guys about the the woman that went
• 24:54
  in the Walmart and was cutting up an older lady that was just taking it out
• 24:58
  on this young guy a lot of people put in the comment section I wish I had knew
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  about it you know saying that if I was his mama or his sister that they would
• 25:07
  have went down there and they would have whooped her butt.
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  You know, I don't encourage anything like that, but you have to think about that.
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  That was somebody's child that you were verbally abusing.
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  And so you may not be lucky the next time. Yeah.
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  Yeah. Okay. So learn emotional regulation. It will cost you.
• 25:25
  I mean, you will be glad you learned how to regulate that. Yeah. And
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  Cookies4445 said hey i'm officially
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  a mary k consultant and i am working on
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  my first big goal 30 customers okay
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  all right uh cookie we'll appreciate that
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  and uh hopefully uh if any of our followers are are into your products hopefully
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  they'll they'll they'll shot shot you out or hit you in your dms yeah all right
• 25:53
  guys and you also have to learn how to communicate communication is key if you've
• 25:59
  I've been having issues, struggling with it.
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  Learn how to communicate. And it's okay to reach out to family members during
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  this time. There's nothing wrong with that.
• 26:09
  Listen, there is nothing wrong with reaching out to family.
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  Yeah. And also, you want to learn forgiveness. It's okay to forgive somebody.
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  Actually, when you forgive someone, it actually empowers you.
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  You don't really do it for them. You're actually doing it for yourself.
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  And that's what people don't understand. They don't. forgiveness is not for the other person.
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  It's for yourself. It's because you'll never be able to move on mentally if
• 26:38
  you're still holding that grudge against that other person. And maybe.
• 26:42
  Just maybe bring some kindness back. Yes, bring a little kindness. It goes a long way.
• 26:48
  You never know what battles someone is fighting privately. You never know what
• 26:53
  somebody is going through. You really don't. Exactly.
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  Somebody needed to hear that tonight. Okay, guys. So thank you again.
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  We've got Nova. Keep those comments coming.
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  Thank you guys for joining us. We appreciate Chris 69. All right.
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  Yeah. And Bear, thank you. Have patience too. Yes, Bear, you are correct.
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  Definitely have patience.
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  Mary Darvizel, give us your final thoughts on tonight's podcast.
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  Okay, guys. In my opinion, now this is just my opinion. The truth is that many
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  people are carrying a lot of invisible burdens.
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  You can't see what they're going through.
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  But anger cannot become permission for you to mistreat people.
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  I don't care what you're going through. You still don't have a right to mistreat people.
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  Healing is very important in this process.
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  Accountability matters.
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  Healing, grace, all of those things matters.
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  And if you want a better world, we must become healthier people emotionally,
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  mentally, and spiritually.
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  And I'm going to get back to this old saying, treat people how you want to be treated.
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  Yeah, I totally agree with you, beat with that one. You know, guys, it's like this.
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  Life is already hard right now for a lot of people, okay?
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  But don't let the hardships harden your heart, you know? Have a little tenderness.
• 28:24
  It's already saying, a little tenderness, you know?
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  You know, be kind anyway.
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  Even if it's tough, be kind.
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  Speak kindly always. And I mean always. It really goes a long way.
• 28:39
  And love always, you know? it's so much hatred out there, guys.
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  You know, sometimes you have to break that with that love.
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  Because one smile, one encouraging word.
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  One moment of patience may save somebody who is ready to give up.
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