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S21, #10: Fantasy Suite Fallout · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with i R Radio. Hey guys, it's Ashley I and
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  Speaker 1: Ben isn't here to do this intro, which I feel
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  Speaker 1: really weird doing. So I'm gonna jump into who our
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  Speaker 1: special guest for today is, and it is Becca Tilly.
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  Speaker 1: Hello everybody. She you probably know from my season with
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  Speaker 1: Chris Souls as well as Ben Higgins season, because you know,
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  Speaker 1: Becca has all the greatest tasting guys, so she had
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  Speaker 1: to she had to go and David Ben too. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like no one remembers me from Chris this season
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  Speaker 1: and only remembers me from Ben season. That's so weird.
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  Speaker 1: Of course I think of you from Chris this season,
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  Speaker 1: but you went further. That's what I'm saying. Nobody ever
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  Speaker 1: forgets the runner up except for me, but then you're
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  Speaker 1: known as being six fifth fifth place be season. It
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  Speaker 1: was like not even a real like even like a
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  Speaker 1: thought process for being a front runner on Ben season.
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  Speaker 1: That's so weird. Okay, wait on this topic, Becca, Let's
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  Speaker 1: talk about that one week that you got a limit
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  Speaker 1: from Ben season and instead of going home to San Diego,
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  Speaker 1: You're like, I'm just going to sleep over at Ashley's
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  Speaker 1: for a straight week and I had the flu and
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  Speaker 1: she sat next to me. She didn't care. She was
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  Speaker 1: a great nurse when I needed um. What it wasn't
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  Speaker 1: Postmates back then, we used grub. Yeah, we're not a plug.
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  Speaker 1: We love Postmates. They're really efficient. She was clean all
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  Speaker 1: the time. These are things that I learned about Becca.
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  Speaker 1: She takes a shower in the morning and at night,
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  Speaker 1: or a bath at night. For sure. She always smells good. Thanks.
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  Speaker 1: We binge watched Scandal and we ate a lot of
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  Speaker 1: Thai food. And she'd wake me up at like one
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  Speaker 1: in the morning and one at night when she was
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  Speaker 1: about to order her lunch and I was still sleeping
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  Speaker 1: on Nike. Well, it was a great time. Let's just
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  Speaker 1: say our metabolism slowed down that week. Friend ship blossom. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it was so fun. I will forever remember that week.
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  Speaker 1: So did you two become close? On Crystal Season? We
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  Speaker 1: started becoming actual friends. I think when we started traveling.
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  Speaker 1: I never really talked to her before we started traveling,
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  Speaker 1: which is really weird. No, I remember you like the
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  Speaker 1: first night and then you eating corn on the cob
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  Speaker 1: on the couch when I was trying to get everybody
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  Speaker 1: play Cinderella with me, but everybody just looked at me
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  Speaker 1: like I was a wacko. I remember thinking in that moment,
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  Speaker 1: I don't belong on this show. That's normal, Okay, if
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  Speaker 1: you guys don't remember. Of course, Jade got the Princess
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  Speaker 1: date and because Cinderella was a Disney movie in coordination
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  Speaker 1: with ABC that was about to come out, so she
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  Speaker 1: was gonna have a legitimate Cinderella date. I was very jealous,
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  Speaker 1: so I tried to gather the girls in the house
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  Speaker 1: to play to play Cinderella with me, and nobody was down.
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  Speaker 1: You know what, you would have really thrived on beIN
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  Speaker 1: season because there was a night where they they like
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  Speaker 1: played out Frozen and I don't Frozen. This is something
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  Speaker 1: I don't get and something I should talk about my
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  Speaker 1: I don't get a podcast. I don't get FEN. I
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  Speaker 1: love it, but I was not found to play it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh really, do you all go stir crazy because you're
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  Speaker 1: like locked in together like prisoners? Um? I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I would probably play Cinderella anytime I had a chance.
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  Speaker 1: I were you the kind of girl when you're a
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  Speaker 1: little that you put on plays or were you like
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  Speaker 1: I'd rather just watch TV because of course my sister
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  Speaker 1: would rather watch TV, and I was always forcing her
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  Speaker 1: to do plays with me. You know what. I played
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  Speaker 1: with beanie babies a lot, like I played them in
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  Speaker 1: like had voices for them. But I was young, like
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  Speaker 1: fifth grade fourth fifth grade was a beanie baby time,
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  Speaker 1: and my sister I kind of moved out of this
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  Speaker 1: phase and she was a little too cool for me,
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  Speaker 1: so I really just played it by myself a lot. Becka,
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  Speaker 1: that's so sad. Do you feel like you're brought up
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  Speaker 1: um to your sister's level, like because she's two years
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  Speaker 1: older than you, or were you more of like the
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  Speaker 1: big sister to your other siblings? I was neither. Kind
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  Speaker 1: of was like I. I was definitely the younger sister,
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  Speaker 1: the older like I didn't always try to be like
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  Speaker 1: her with her friends or anything, but I don't. I
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  Speaker 1: was still kind of childish, and I don't think I was,
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  Speaker 1: like I'm a mother figure now, I feel like more
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  Speaker 1: than I ever heard, like the Becay is the king
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  Speaker 1: of kids kids, She's the queen of children, Like she
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  Speaker 1: turns into a Disney princess when there's kids around, and
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  Speaker 1: then they all flock to her and then She's like,
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  Speaker 1: has like three on each arm and there's a cartoon bird. Yeah. Animal,
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  Speaker 1: You're more like that with animals, like that with children? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: well I would probably rather be like that with children,
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  Speaker 1: because when I see Becca interact with children, it makes
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  Speaker 1: me feel scared that I am gonna like not be
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  Speaker 1: okay once I have kids. No, you'll be great. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna be like, No, they're so like whatever, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: get in trouble. As much as we should break this down,
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  Speaker 1: I have a question. Yeah, she'd be like talking about
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  Speaker 1: things other than this, a little bit about what it
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  Speaker 1: was like to be a number two. Because as we're
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  Speaker 1: going into sort of the last couple of weeks here,
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  Speaker 1: that's our producer Amy. Just to remind you, guys, Amy
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  Speaker 1: really comes in with the tough questions. So it's funny
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  Speaker 1: because watching this last episode, Peter reminds me a lot
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  Speaker 1: of myself on Christ this season. Oh, he's closed off
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  Speaker 1: and so not ready to get engage. At the end
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  Speaker 1: of all this, I was going to say probable and realistic,
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  Speaker 1: closed off and lots of walls built up, um, but
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  Speaker 1: I remember like watching him and hearing everything he said,
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  Speaker 1: and also being very kind of bored by him because
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  Speaker 1: I felt like that's how people felt with me, because
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  Speaker 1: I remember thinking, I'm being realistic about the situation, Like
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  Speaker 1: in my head, I had spent such a small amount
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  Speaker 1: of time with Chris, and I was like, I can't
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  Speaker 1: say yes the proposal because the proposal means marriage to me.
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  Speaker 1: And I remember the producers being like, what if a
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  Speaker 1: proposal just means you keep dating. I'm like, that's not
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  Speaker 1: what a proposal is. Well, I don't know, is legit crazy?
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  Speaker 1: Like me on the show. I still think if I
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  Speaker 1: had gotten to Hometowns, I would have really started realistically
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  Speaker 1: thinking about things. That's what I always said. I would
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  Speaker 1: have like excused myself had I got to Hometowns and
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  Speaker 1: I didn't feel like I could marry him. I was
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  Speaker 1: still thinking, like because I had knowing the show and
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  Speaker 1: seeing people get engaged, and like, maybe this is when
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  Speaker 1: it happens more towards the end, when you're separated from
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  Speaker 1: the girls, and and I will say my feelings for
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  Speaker 1: him increased a lot when he met my family. I
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  Speaker 1: was like, oh, well, that's because your dad loves Chris
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  Speaker 1: souls more than anything I know. Did we talk about
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  Speaker 1: this last time? You're on, But I love talking about
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  Speaker 1: it because I would love to know how Robert felt
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  Speaker 1: when he saw Crys souls and your dad just growing
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  Speaker 1: out so hard explain your blog bludge party. So I
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  Speaker 1: had a party for my blog launch, and um, Chris,
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  Speaker 1: it was at the Bachelor Mansion, so it was only
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  Speaker 1: right normal. Did you have a lot of feelings come
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  Speaker 1: back for Chris once you saw him at the Bachelor Mansion? No,
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  Speaker 1: and I had seen him. That was harsh. It was
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  Speaker 1: like a very quick note, But I think I had
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  Speaker 1: feelings come back. I was like, Chris comes to the
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  Speaker 1: front door and reenact things with me. That's just like
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  Speaker 1: your Disney Princess, I'm wanting to re enact um. But
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  Speaker 1: I was with Robert, so I those feelings weren't there.
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  Speaker 1: And I had seen Chris before a different event, so
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't like it was. It wasn't like, oh, we
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  Speaker 1: just reunited for the first time and we're at the
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  Speaker 1: place where we met for the first time. Um. But
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  Speaker 1: I remember being like, Robert, are you okay with this
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  Speaker 1: friendship that my dad and Crystal hold them? And Robert's like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I totally get it. They met and it was such
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  Speaker 1: a different situation. They have so much in common. It
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  Speaker 1: also happened to be the first week that your parents
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  Speaker 1: were meeting Robert. Yeah, there was a lot happening that night.
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  Speaker 1: For me, I was on overload. Wow, your dad like
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  Speaker 1: he texts Chris whenever he gets the chance. Yeah, they're
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  Speaker 1: like buds. And Chris is amazing. Like I consider Chris
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  Speaker 1: a friend too. Yeah, Chris is a He's also an
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  Speaker 1: excellent answer my question. And you guys can talk about this.
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  Speaker 1: We're all kind of sitting here ripping on Peter as
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  Speaker 1: a viewer because he's boring and his walls well come
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  Speaker 1: down when really he might be the normal human and
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  Speaker 1: we're all insane that you should get married after a month. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I don't feel like I was ripping on him, I said,
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  Speaker 1: I think he was. I think he's boring because I
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  Speaker 1: think that is what Okay, here's what I have to say.
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  Speaker 1: Meeting knowing you in person, I know that you're normal.
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  Speaker 1: Watching on the show, I'm like, she's a lot, Like
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  Speaker 1: she has a lot of personality, and you're so much
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  Speaker 1: more fun to watch than I was on the show.
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  Speaker 1: And still like, I don't think shows are fun without
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  Speaker 1: you on them. With that being said, I think that
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  Speaker 1: Peter is like very level headed, and first of all,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, let's just acknowledge the fact that he's maybe
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  Speaker 1: the most beautiful man to ever be on the bat.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, we all can't really handle Peter, so you
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  Speaker 1: kind of just cross him off. As we were talking,
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  Speaker 1: you know, we're like, oh, never fall in love with
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  Speaker 1: someone who could be the future Bachelor. There's that you
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  Speaker 1: gotta just never want to attach you to the exit
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  Speaker 1: out where you end up on another season dumping exactly.
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  Speaker 1: But in Ben's case, it well, it's hard to say
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  Speaker 1: no to Ben. I thought about it. I mean, well,
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  Speaker 1: my I was so dead set, like I am not
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  Speaker 1: going back on unless the producers asked me to come back.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, I really hope the producers so
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  Speaker 1: they came to you first, it did you like plant
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  Speaker 1: the interests in their minds? Well? I planted the interest
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  Speaker 1: on Twitter, okay, and then my tweet like really took
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  Speaker 1: off and I was like that's funny. And then everyone's like,
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  Speaker 1: you should go on, you should go on. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I am not going to be Nick like he was
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  Speaker 1: on Caitlyn season that did not go well. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: everything worked out for Nick but um, yeah, they came
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  Speaker 1: to me two weeks before, so I was I kind
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  Speaker 1: of played hard to get I'm like, what do you
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  Speaker 1: want to They were like, what are you doing this fall?
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  Speaker 1: Do you want to know? How much more nerve wracking
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  Speaker 1: was it coming out of the the lima for the second
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  Speaker 1: time than it was the first time, because I think
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  Speaker 1: that you'd have the additional nerves of ben being like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't want the past season girls. I um. I
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  Speaker 1: got out of the limo and Chris har We talked
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  Speaker 1: to Chris Harrison. Me um Amber was Camber. We talked
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  Speaker 1: to Chris Harrison first, not been, and he told us
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  Speaker 1: we could walk in the house and that all of
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  Speaker 1: the other girls were already in there. And that was this.
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  Speaker 1: I had this moment where I was like, I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to do this. I'm going to run away, running away,
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  Speaker 1: me home, back to the Sheriffan. The Sheridan is our
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  Speaker 1: home away from home. Well, this is so interesting. I
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  Speaker 1: have so many questions. Do you want to be Should
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  Speaker 1: we continue to ask questions like this to Pecca? Well, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and we have so we are getting flooded with the
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  Speaker 1: best questions on our emails, So maybe we should go
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  Speaker 1: to sor right, let's hit the viewer, I mean the
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  Speaker 1: listener questions. Should we do this? One? First one from Daniella.
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  Speaker 1: It is for directed to just us too. How special,
• 11:05
  Speaker 1: Hi ladies. So I have been touring around with the
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  Speaker 1: idea of signing up for The Bachelor because I'm thirty
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  Speaker 1: one and either I suck or I've been really unlucky
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  Speaker 1: in love. My question to you both is is there
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  Speaker 1: any advice to give as to how to stand out
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  Speaker 1: and get selected to be on the show? And what
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  Speaker 1: did you guys do when you applied? Sincerely, future token
• 11:24
  Speaker 1: old person contestant. It depends on how old your bachelor is.
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  Speaker 1: I was actually like boggled yesterday thinking about how it
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  Speaker 1: was Ravens twenty six birthday this weekend and she was
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  Speaker 1: dating a thirty six year old on TV and we
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  Speaker 1: just never thought about it. That age difference. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: guess I didn't realize that that's a lot. That's a
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  Speaker 1: good age difference though, Oh you like ten years older?
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  Speaker 1: See Becca, what do you think we had this? And sorry,
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  Speaker 1: we're not even answering our viewer question. But on the
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  Speaker 1: fourth of July, Becca met Cupcake for the first time
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  Speaker 1: and it was just the three of us. It was
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  Speaker 1: so fun. We just had the chillist, shake shack, burger,
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  Speaker 1: hang at a pool. Wait, tell everyone who Cupcake is. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so Cupcake is you know seven place on Caitlin season.
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  Speaker 1: He was the dentist who came in a cupcake out.
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  Speaker 1: It was I know, I know the placements of all
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  Speaker 1: my friends. That's how we are in her phone, It's like, Becca, second,
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  Speaker 1: do you have a little rose next to everyone who
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  Speaker 1: like is from the Bachelor? I have a little rose
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  Speaker 1: next to everyone from the Bachelor. And I always get
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  Speaker 1: excited when I see like a number from far away
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  Speaker 1: and like, there's a rose. It could be Jared, it
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  Speaker 1: could be bad, it could be exciting. Who's the most exciting? Becca?
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  Speaker 1: Actually I don't even know if Becca has a rose
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  Speaker 1: because everyone else. Wait a second, it depends how I
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  Speaker 1: get the number. Wait, can you continue with the fourth? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: the fourth of July. Let's continue. So we had this conversation.
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  Speaker 1: It was pretty pretty solid about how Cupcake thinks that me,
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  Speaker 1: as a twenty nine year old single girl looking to
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  Speaker 1: settle down within the next few years, should be dating
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  Speaker 1: a guy in his forties. And we have an entire
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  Speaker 1: I don't get a podcast about this, but let's just
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  Speaker 1: touch on it here. Becca, what was your answer if
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  Speaker 1: you you are like a little bit more flexible on
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  Speaker 1: when you settle down, is that correct? And then would
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  Speaker 1: you date a forty year old right now? I mean
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  Speaker 1: it's hard to say because we don't think four years old.
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  Speaker 1: We just think that we might be old for us,
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  Speaker 1: I know, well, and I think because we're not the
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  Speaker 1: most experienced, But I also feel like you're in different
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  Speaker 1: places at different ages, and I think there can be
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  Speaker 1: someone who's twenty eight and who's an old soul and
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  Speaker 1: like totally ready to settle down since they were, well,
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  Speaker 1: the difference between Ben and Dean, I mean they're only
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  Speaker 1: two years apart, they're like essentially the same age, and
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  Speaker 1: they could be twenty years age difference. Absolutely, Ben is
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  Speaker 1: different from most men even really close to his age though. Absolutely.
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  Speaker 1: What about what about Robert and you knowing Robert the
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  Speaker 1: best of all men, Robert is I mean, I think
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  Speaker 1: Robert's in a place where he's kind of done his thing.
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  Speaker 1: He went on The Bachelor, had his after Bachelor fun
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  Speaker 1: and or bachelorette, and I think he's in a place where,
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  Speaker 1: you know, he's very mature, he settled, he has a
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  Speaker 1: good career, he knows what he wants and what he's
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  Speaker 1: looking for. So um, I think Roberts Robert is I
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  Speaker 1: guess the mentality in the age that would be ideal
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  Speaker 1: for me. I think settle. All right, let's give this
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  Speaker 1: this girl some advice. Would you date a fort ye old?
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  Speaker 1: We did not get to stay? Okay, okay, I can't.
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  Speaker 1: I honestly can't imagine myself being the girl who is
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  Speaker 1: immature in relationships. And I say immature because I haven't
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  Speaker 1: had fully was not married, I promise you fully could
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  Speaker 1: be seventy, and if he was not married, I'm into it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're right, But see, he seems to have a young spirit.
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  Speaker 1: He does depend on it. If there's a forty year
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  Speaker 1: old and he first of all, if I just have
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  Speaker 1: a connection and there's just something undeniable about it, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not going to be worried about his age at this point. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: if I were twenty one or something, it'd be different.
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  Speaker 1: I agree with you. Kate Beckinsale still dating that twenty
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  Speaker 1: year old? Oh my gosh. Yeah. So when Becca and
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  Speaker 1: I were at Craig's, we saw Kipe beck in Sale
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  Speaker 1: at the table next to us. She was striking like
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  Speaker 1: she looked younger than us. It hurt to be real.
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  Speaker 1: She was so fresh looking at hurt my feelings. She
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  Speaker 1: looks like she came right off of Pearl Harbor. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I know, and Pearl Harbor is a very has a
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  Speaker 1: very special place in my heart. Your heart love it? Okay? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: And I just couldn't oh, no, fantastic. It makes me
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  Speaker 1: feel everything the soundtrack. I couldn't decide whether I like
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  Speaker 1: Ben Affleck or Josh Hartnett more. And my best friend
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  Speaker 1: was team Josh Hartnett. And she thought I was a
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: tree her for being team aff O God in that movie.
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  Speaker 1: He's like everything I've ever wanted. All Right, we're going back,
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  Speaker 1: keep back and sail. Yes, she looked beautiful, She looked young.
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  Speaker 1: She was dating a guy who was like fifteen years
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  Speaker 1: younger than her. Didn't you know the guy she was with?
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  Speaker 1: He said high. Yeah, we said hello, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: enough about you, house Kate, all right, well you know
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  Speaker 1: what makes me look fresh every morning? Bio clarity. You
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  Speaker 1: and I both have had like a little bit of
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  Speaker 1: skin issues in our twenties. Mine was when I was
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  Speaker 1: twenty three years was more recent. I was gonna say
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  Speaker 1: that was literally really good friend, thrower under the bus.
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  Speaker 1: She's all, you had terrible acne. Beautiful right now, look
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  Speaker 1: at your house clear, your skin is now. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: know I really made a turn for the better. But
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  Speaker 1: I was going to say, can we call skin issues issues?
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  Speaker 1: If you have skis shoes, you should be going to
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• 18:27
  Speaker 1: help this girl. You know, this thirty one year old
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: who wants to go on The Bachelor. I'm assuming that
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: she probably has some pretty clear skin. Yeah, Dabiella, First
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: of all, do you have skissues? And if you do,
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: we have so. Um. First of all, it's so twisted
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: and weird to me that this show has made people
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: feel like old. Oh yeah, that's true, because I'm getting
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: close to thirty one, and I don't feel old and
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: like I do is prime. You are on fire? You
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: know that? Scientifically I read this study ones and it
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: will stay with me forever until I'm thirty two. Um. Scientifically,
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: women are their most beautiful at thirty one. Danielle, you are,
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: You're ready? Yeah? I remember Jennifer Aniston, I don't remember
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: when saying something about forty being awesome and that's how
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: you feel right now. I mean, other than the fact
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: that I want to be a little bit more in shape,
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: forties are the best there is. My mom loved her
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: thirties and forties. When then she hit fifty and she's like,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: I'm done. What's going on here? I need a little
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: muscle in my arms? So I just have to figure
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: out how to do that. How do you do that?
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Just like a clean diet and exercise. So I just
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: lift like a dictionary over my head, a bunch, just
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: a lot of water. You get weight weights. I don't
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: have any weights where, just weights? Amazon. Do you love that?
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: Jennifer Anderson is like the person who says, oh, just
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: sleep in water, that's all you really need. And it
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: then again, I've found myself to be the person who
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: says that too. I don't. I don't drink You don't
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: drink any water. You just drink dr pepper. It has
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: water in it, I know. So here's a question for
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: all of you guys. Is dr pepper hydrating? Does it
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: count as your daily water? Or is it actually dehydrating?
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: Because I want to read that dehydrat Do you know
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: how many negative comments we're going to get about this?
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: Do you love the fact that when Ben's here, we like,
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: we're like boom boo boom, topic, topic, topic, and here
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: we are still haven't answered the question brought from dam
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: just thinking about Jennifer Aniston how much I love her?
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: I love her so much? Okay, Dan, Yella, this is
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: what I did for my audition. It was nutty and
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: it was completely different than Becca's. I was just getting
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: out of grad school. We were in our capstone. We
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: had all the equipment to use in our free time,
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: so I decided to make the most elaborate audition tape
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: you've ever seen, like with with law of mix and everything.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: I think I even had two cameras to get different angles.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: I don't think this public, it's it's yeah, I mean,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: I think you've seen it. On my Instagram story. It's
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: on my Instagram story, um nuts story l L. It's
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: on my feed from a long I posted it, I
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: think like six months ago on my actual Instagram, but
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: just the bloopers part, because at least, at least with
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: the bloopers, I can be like, you guys, don't worry,
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: that wasn't my real audition. Those are just the mess ups.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: I'm not that embarrassing because the actual audition, Dave is
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: so embarrassing. It's like, so they seem to like it
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: if you do something kind of or if you're just
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: sort of like, I'll be on your show. So do
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: you know what I did? I went through an entire season,
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: you guys. I did an entire quote season of myself
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: on The Bachelor in three minutes and thirty seconds or
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: something like that. So first I arrived in the limo
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: and I got out and I met the bachelor who
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: was my sister, with a plastic a paper It was
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: like a styrofoam plate on her head and it had
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: a question mark drawn on it because we didn't know
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: who the bachelor would be. You never saw this. This
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: was made for okay. And then I met him and
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: I was like thanks, so like this, I can't believe
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: it's you. I'm so happy it's you. Blah blah. I
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: walked in and then we went off to our first
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: one on one day and it was like on our
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: little gazebo like at home, and I was talking about
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: like how I had a princess complex, and then I
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: went to oh yes. Then we went to a hometown date.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: I went to the Great Falls Falls because I'm from
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: Great Falls, Virginia, and we did the We went out
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: to the falls and we had a picnic there with
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: the bachelor who still had a paper plate on his face. Ye.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: And then I went to the fantasy suites, in which
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: we went to a hot tub and he still had
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: a paper plate on his face. And this is where
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: I dropped the virgin bomb, where I she we were
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: about to go into the fantasy suite, so I told
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: him I go so I have something to tell you.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: I'm a virgin. And then I didn't know that because
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: of that little scene in my audition tape that it
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: would become such a big deal on the show. And
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: then following that scene, we went into the final rows.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: I mean, that is Daniella, don't do that or you know,
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: if you want to, you can do that, but don't Lla,
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: don't mention the virgin thing. If you're a thirty one
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: year old version, don't use that. But here's the deal.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: If you want to be on the show and you
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: send in a tape, I think it has to be elaborate. Well,
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: how yours wasn't didn't you like not even have a tape? No,
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: I didn't have a tape, right, that's nice to say.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: I know plenty of people that got on that. It
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: was just like they were cute. Do you want to
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: know how this started? Didn't you like just breathe through
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: everything and it was like two week process? Tell us
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: your entire story back at details, So give us similes.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: My best friend from high school, Laura, lives in Louisiana
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: and we just have a very hilarious, weird comerce like
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: we just have. She's amazing, Laura. We love you, Me
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: and Amy and Ashley, Amy and I dang it, that's fine, Okay.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: So anyways, I posted on Facebook, I wonder if you
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: can train a hamster? Okay, And so Laura took that
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: upon herself to write in a paragraph about me to
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor and to say this was a recent status.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: I think you'all need to help my friend. So wait,
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: because the hamster thing alluded to how single you are? Yeah, yeah,
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: yeah like that. In my head, I was concerned about
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: like training a hamster. She didn't want my life to
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: go that direction. I still don't know if you can
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: train one, but anyway, so she sent in a really
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: nice paragraph in a photo and then they called me
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: and it was easy breezy from there. Wait, so what
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: we're so we're either saying you make something very elaborate
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: and hilarious and send it in, or you have one
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: of your friends write a super great paragraph about you.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: What about the casting calls? Oh, I've never been to one.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: What are those? And I went to that too. They
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: said we'd like you to come to the nearest casting
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: call so we can meet you in real life. So
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: I went to Baltimore two weeks later and then like
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: the local ABC affiliate was there and they were like, hey,
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: would you like to talk to us? And like I did,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: and I was like a huge ham there too, and
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: I was like, I think this is gonna work out.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: My mom thinks I need to do this because I'm
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: single as and all that. It was funny. All right,
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: we have another question from Galen. We're gonna stay on
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: topic this time. He wants us to say. He wants
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: us to talk about what kind of crazy, little behind
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: the scenes stuff can you reveal about your time on
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: the show. Um, let's see, Becca, what do you think
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: he's like? The one thing that people really don't know
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: that they should understand Galen is a guy or girl.
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: I think it's a guy. Yeah, guy, thanks for listening. Guy.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Um let me think. I think I know my biggest
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: miss I know the biggest misconception that annoys me, and
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: that's like they're throwing alcohol down your throats and you're
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: not eating. It's like, no, we're eating so so much.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: The Freshman like the bat you know, the Freshman fifteen,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: there's like the Bachelor ten. Did you gain weight? You
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: were there for so long that you think you would.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: I actually lost weight at the end because I was
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: so stressed. But um, I didn't. I'll be honest, Like
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: I didn't go into it. I didn't work out and
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: diet before I went on the show. So I was
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: just kinda like it was my basic it was my
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: normal life just extended into the Bachelor mansion. Same. It
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: wasn't like I was not getting my exercise in because
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: Becca and I, well, at least at that point, we
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: both did an exercise. Becca is now like an exercise fee,
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: which is why her body looks like a Victoria's Secret model.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: Wait a second, it was once a money Okay, fine,
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: you're right, that's treadmill there. No, no, there's nothing. The
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: girls what would like walk around the house briskly like outside. Okay, literally,
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: for the first three days people really they're really staying
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: on top of it. And the fourth day everyone just
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: gives up and they're eating everything. And oh she said,
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: I go the Oreo jars and she goes the corn dogs,
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: the corn dogs on on the cocktail ceremony night. Oh
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: my god, crazy tell them about how we get the
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: extra food on those ceremony So basically, day to day
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: we there's anything we want. The you know, people who
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: work for the Bachelor, we just make a list of
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: groceries and they'll go get it. In the house, you
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: have to make your own food, but once you start traveling,
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: we have like four day buffets. I was helpless unless
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: someone cooked for everyone, Like I made bageld bites and
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: um like bean and cheese burritos, which was wonderful, but
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: home cooked meal was only like a good healthy meal
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: was only if someone made it. Because you're a drive
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: through girl and you're a Postmates girl. I'm all about
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: that fast service, you know. And so then on roast
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: ceremony nights, they would come in and cater just glorious
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: pigs and a blanket. You know, I'm crazy. And then
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: you're like wearing a tight dress, like I can't really
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: eat that much, but hopefully I get a rose tonight
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: and I'm able to pig out on this at three am.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: Oh no, I started as soon as they put it
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: out because those you no, I ate it. They came out.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: Everyone took them fast, like you had to get in there.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: But I promise you, even if people aren't eating on
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: the dates or you don't see it, there's a lot
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: of food consumption so much. And the reason that they
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: don't want us to eat on a date is because
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: apparently doesn't look a nice on TV. It's just it's
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: not attractive. I'm mine with it, and I'm fine with
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: not being attract of all time. Hence why I did
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: eat on my Paradise dates. But it doesn't sound good.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: This sounds bother me more than the like visual you
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: don't want, like a Josh Murray pizza Sash. I loved
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: it so much, though, so crazy? Can you swim laps
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: in that pool? Um? It's freezing? The pool is like
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: set Okay, if you guys understand pool temperature. I grew
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: up with a pool. I knew that at home. I
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: wouldn't get into it unless it was like eighty two
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: or higher. And eighty two is still pretty cold. Eighty
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: five is like my perfect pool tamp. I know, I'm
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: like a baby, but the Bachelor pool must have been
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: set to like seventy five and you look like a
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: whimp when the Bachelor come over. And then there'd be
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: a pool part and you're like, okay, except I can't
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: really get into water that cold. Um. I would get
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: in just to avoid having to have my mic on,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: so I'd be shivering, and they'd be like, why don't
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: you get out and put your michone. I'm like, but
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm loving this freezing cold refreshing so funny. Yeah,
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: and another little tidbit, if you do need to talk
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: to your friends without being on camera, if you're like,
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: I can't have this on camera. Then we'd usually go
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: into the toilet room, you know, like the little toilet
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: room also, do you One time we were sitting in
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: the hot tub and none of us had mic song
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: because we were kind of getting in and out of
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: the water, and we look over and it was one
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: of those fuzzy mites and just like sitting there looks
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: like a raccoon or something like a boom the boom,
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: and we just creep up and then be sitting right
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: next to you and you'd be like, oh, hello, little
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: furry pet, Like how long has that been sitting there?
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: I was wondering is it possible to like slip a
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: secret note to the bachelor, like if one of you
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: girls wanted to get a message but you don't want
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: cameras or audio. There definitely is. I remember one season
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: of the Bachelorgrette where there was a guy who wrote
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: her letters all the time was as Chris, No, it
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: was Chris Souls with Andy. I thought it was Shawn
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: and Caitlin. Really, maybe there is a guy who does
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: this yearly. It's a great idea because that way she
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: has a form of communication that is private and something
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: to look back on and putting her back. Producer Erica
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: says it was Katherine and Sean slipping secret notes throughout
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: the season. That's cute. Seems like that seems like something
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: that it seems like something that works. I would write,
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: this is awful, Get me out of here. I'm trapped
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: in prison girl. Wait, okay, So there's an episode of
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: my other I don't get a podcast where I read
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: my bachelor diary out loud because they encourage you during
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: the show to write down your thoughts because I guess
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: it's really entertaining to look back on or something, or
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: if you end up being chosen at the end of it,
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: it's nice to have documentation of your process. So did
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: you keep a bachelor diary? I did, but it is
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: the most atrocious, like not even not even cringe worthy.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: I wish it was more that way. It's just so boring.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: I'm like, so today a bagel bite and laid by
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: the pool. The girls are really nice, Chris is so hot.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: It was like I was twelve. It was the weirdest thing.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: I find. It sounds like I'm in middle school too,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: but mine's also completely different because I say things like
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: I could really see myself marrying great and living on
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: the farm. I did that towards the end, when it
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: was the final three. I did a journal post I
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: would if I can find it, I'll get back. We'll
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: get back to this. But it was painful. I'm like,
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: I would never say that, I am I writing that
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: down because you are being held a prisoner in the mansion.
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: And I think I was like, maybe if they accidentally
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: read my journal, they'll see how invested I've been. So funny,
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: we need to have a whole reading where, like all
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor girls get together, We'll stay on the stage
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: and then we'll we'll I'll read our bachelor journals. I
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: mean that could be hilarious. I also have to say
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: one more thing, Wait, what were you going to say?
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: I was, this is totally He's gonna be pissed. But
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: I feel like we should have a Bachelor prom. That
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: would be really great. Here's the thing. I've been working
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: on an idea for our season two podcast launch and
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: a Bachelor in Paradise. Well, no, I don't have anything yet,
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: but I thought Luke could perform, and like, I have
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: all these ideas, Oh my god, can we do this?
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: That would be so fun. You are a sponsor that
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: wants to help us. Do we need a location the
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: other Californiation is easy? Location is easy? How fun? If
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: we all call Marshall. We'll call Marshall and go back
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: up to the mansion. He loves us. Yeah, I love Marshall.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: Marshall is the owner of the Bachelor Mansion. Let's call Marshall. Okay.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: Marshall owns the Bachelor Mansion and he and his family
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: living it pretty much all year round minus the two
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: months that they're filming in the And he's the nicest
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: person and crazily a huge fan of the show, which
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: is kind of amazing considering they wreck his house two times.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: He's just terrible too, Like he has a great sense
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: of humor. They always put it back together. Wait, we're
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: trying to reach Marshall. It only takes them two days
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: to move in and out. I know this because I
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: did the past. No, it's longer, he told me. It
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: takes two weeks to move out. No, No, I mean
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: like his stuff, Like they place everything back in two
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: days because everything's later. And you know, they even take
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: the curtains down. They take his curtains down and put
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: up new curtain re pain, Marshall can give us some
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: inside dirt? Are you going to call him? But don't
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: you think his house is the perfect place to have
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: the problem. Can you imagine everyone dressed up like black
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: tie for a problem at the Bachelor mansion. They'd have
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: to get it on camera because there'd be like a
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: lot of dresses or like eighties. Oh when we could
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: do a theme or we could do I was thinking
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: like like, prompt, do we have Marshall? Oh, we've got Marshall. Yes, Marshall. Ladies, ladies,
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: what do I owe this place? You are on the
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: the You are on the Almost Same As podcast with
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: Ashley I and Becca Now and your friend Amy, normally
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: hosted by Ben Higgins, but he's in Honduras. So yes,
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: So we wanted to we wanted to ask you a question.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: First off, before I ask the question, thank you so
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: much for opening your home to all of the romance
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: that we've experienced. Okay, And that was the most marshal
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: response ever what I say? Right? Um? Okay. So they
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: felt like that was a large number to all the
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: real mance that we've had. You guys had a lot
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: of romance start in your house. Thank you, And then
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: we would like to know whether you'd be open to
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: the idea of us throwing a bachelor prom at your house. Well,
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: I mean you could be shot our own by playing
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: sixty next month. That's fine, that's pretty young. Happy birthday. So, Marshall,
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: before we talked about the problem, how's the brewery has
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: got approved by UM the ABC last thirst day? So
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: we can sell beer. We can. Why don't we have
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: the prom at the brewery? We can do that is
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: an open Marshall's opening his own brewery, and so we'll
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: bring everyone out and everybody will be drinking your breers,
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: your brewers, your bruising, your beers. We'll sell it out.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: We'll make it maximum, the occupancy better than the mansion.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: We can do it at the brewery. What's the brewery
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: going to be called, Marshall? Fourteen cannons? Fourteen cannons? Okay,
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: well you guys you heard it here on the almost
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: same as podcast. First, we're going to have a bachelor prom.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be at fourteen cannons. We're gonna give you
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: the date as soon as we know it. What do
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: you what are you thinking for a date? Me? We
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: don't know yet. Just man, I'm talking about Oh my god.
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: But you guys love the fact that I just went like,
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: oh my god, I have to take it. I'll take Peter,
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: I'll take I'll take it. I'll take Ben. I'm just
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: I'm the gardener. Man. If somebody, if the trash compact
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: or brakes whatever they call me, Becca would like you
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: to hit the pool. Yeah, I just it was a
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: little cold. But I don't really have the problem anymore
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: because I'm not about well, we haven't we have an
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: expression at our house. Whatever Becca wants, you get, Marshall.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: I couldn't love you more and I think that was sarcasm,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: but I still love you. It's not your check. I
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: know you don't read your life. I'm following you. I
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: like all your stuff. I'm about to go. I follow him.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: You're gonna You're gonna see me do a post um?
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: Did you? I know you guys don't follow me. I do.
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: I do, Marshall. I am pullowing you, Marshall. I followed
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: you right after I did my piece at your house.
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: Did you see the elephant I had out there now
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: in your yard? Do you need to look back at
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: like two posts back on me go to my homepage.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, is going to University of Alabama. Their
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: mascot is an elephant called Big Al. They've never had
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: a real elephant, it's just a mascot. So I rented
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: an elephant and just it up in Crimson Tides with
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: a blanket and this nut animal cool kid. All the
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: animal prevention people were there to all take care of
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: supervibe um and they were all getting their picture taken
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: out In front there was a group of thirty kids
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: that were going off to Alabama as freshman. They've all
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: just graduated high school. And then when you get them
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: together so that when they get to Alabama, it's not
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: totally farm to them. They know twenty nine other kids.
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: That is so brilliant that we took a big group
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: photo with Big Al. He stopped by, So I'm going
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: to do another something something post here that will apply
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: to uh, Becka, Ashley and Chris. Well, thank you Marshall.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: And I see this picture of the elephant. It's really awesome.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: Do you think we could rent that elephant for the
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: Bachelor prom as well? Sure? Okay, there we go rent
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: to the elephant. All right? Well, thank you Marshall. We
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: have to call somebody else who has been in your
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: house before. Joejoe Fletcher is coming on the almost in
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: his podcast right now. Oh my god, you guys have fun.
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: Thanks for calling me. It was good talk to you. Guys.
• 39:15
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• 39:21
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• 39:24
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• 39:31
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• 39:35
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• 41:01
  Speaker 1: now we want to take a question from Macy. She says, Ben,
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: ak Becca and Ashley. I cannot, for the life of
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: me find out how to call into the show. So
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: I decided I would submit a question via email instead.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: So I am wondering how Rose ceremonies work. I'm particularly
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: fascinated with the whole process and how everything works behind
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: the scenes. I have read online that they often filmed
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: through the nights and that Rose ceremonies actually happened in
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: the last hours. I'm assuming she's saying of the in
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: the week hours of the morning. I'm hoping that you
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: can shed some light onto this and reveal some more
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: behind the scenes secrets if there is enough time. I
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: actually have some additional questions. Does the Bachelor of the
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: Bachelorette get to make decisions regarding who is casted or
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: do the producers pick out everyone? And when does the
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: bachelor the bachelorette find out that they will be the
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: Bachelor of the Bachelorette? I get out of no, I'm yeah.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: I am saying that they are left in the dark
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: and have to wait until the men or women get
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: out of the limo on night one and introduce themselves.
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: I hope you can answer some of these questions. I
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: look forward to listening more. Thanks for getting me hooked
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: on podcasts and being so relatable and hilarious. Thank you
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: so much, your fellow Indiana girl, go Poyser's. Oh my god,
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: damn you if Ben was here and you didn't say
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: Who's hell? Well, Macie Landcaster, this is the perfect time
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: to call Jojo, would you agree? Because there are so
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: many questions here that are specifically for the bachelorette. I mean,
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: it's always a perfect time to call Jojo. And this
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: is your best friend of all life, pretty much, friend
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: of all life, all life. All right, So let's get
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: on the phone. Oh hey, God, hi so much for
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: being here. I know, it's so good to hear voices.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: It's so good to hear your sweet little voice. All right.
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: So we have a couple of questions for you. It
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: is from a fan name Macy Oh Maze okay, and Jojo.
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: We can answer a lot of questions about the Bachelor,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: but we cannot answer a lot of questions coming from
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: the bachelor at perspective. So we thought who better than
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: the one and only. So she wants to know how
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: the row ceremonies work. She said, she's particularly fascinated with
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: the whole process and how everything works behind the scenes. Okay,
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: so I know that for us, Chris Souls used to
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: go back into the secret room every three people. I'm
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: not sure why that was. Did you do this? Yes? Okay,
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: so well the first night you definitely have to do
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: that because you don't remember really everyone's names except for
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: like like the three that you actually really like, unless
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: you're Ben Higgins, who says that he memorized. We don't
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: finds of unicorn uniforms a weird uniform, so Chris thing.
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: I remember producers telling me that Chris was struggled a
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: little bit with the name, so I think he went in.
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: He went back far more than the rest of us can.
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: Broth of your money are so long? The first night
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: is like I mean, you guys know, it's forever long
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: on six hours, eight hours? I don't even know. Um,
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: I don't remember. Maybe for you back it was shorter,
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: but to answer your question, yes, um it lasts until
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: about like six am. Why I don't know, Jojo. Why
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: are they so long? Because when you're the bachelorette or
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: the bachelor, of producers always have you coming back into
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: this um interview room and the interview about every conversation
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: you have, and a lot of the viewers don't see
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: that because you only see a couple of this stuff,
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: but we have to keep going back there and talking
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: about each guy, conversations who we liked, we didn't like,
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: with a lot of stuff we go So I because
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: you know I and I think it's public knowledge that
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: a lot of the interviews we do throughout the show
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: our pickup interviews, and they can kind of like recap it.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: But I feel like that first night specifically, they do
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: it a way more like in the moment because they
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: want the genuine feelings. Yeah, one day of pickups for
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: the first night, um, And I think that was only
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: because I mean, obviously, as the season progressive, you have
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: storylines that evolve, you figure out who the villain is,
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: and so they want to go back and talk about
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: certain people. But that first night, I mean, you really
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: hammer it out. I mean it's a lot of talking
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: not only to the guys but to you know, your
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: producers in the interview room. So did you ever feel
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: like you were actually going to fall asleep or did
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: any of your guys fall asleep on the first night? Um,
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: I mean I wanted to fall asleep, but I know
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: you did because like we sleep a lot. Yeah, I
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: don't know it it was this story but after that
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: I left and I threw up on the way up
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: to my room because I was hired from exhaustion, stressed,
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: just being nervous drinking alone. No, I had two glasses
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: of wine. That was it. So it was definitely not
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: the alcohol. It was just pure like I can't, I
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: can't live my life like that. That's not that's not
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: the life for us. That's hysterical. And this is another
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: part of our question, which is very specifically for you.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: Does the bachelorette or bachelor get to make any Do
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: they get to make any decisions regarding the cast? I
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: think as far that means, like as far as them
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: getting casted on the show. Oh no, I mean I didn't.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: I don't know if anyone else did. How much do
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: you tell the producers about your type? Like I'd be like, please,
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: no one, I actually you know you guys. Everybody knows
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: like my type, So like producers, I'd be like, please
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: look out for my type. Well, totally, I think you
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: They have those conversations with you obviously, and I think
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: generally they know, I mean, listen, producer know when they
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: cast guys, they already know who the top three or
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: four is going to be right, they already know because
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: they know generally who you're going to be attracted to.
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: I mean, unless there's some curveball that comes out of nowhere, um,
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: which I mean kind of happened for me, but um,
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: who's your curveball? Like, well, okay, Robbie is a good example,
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: Like no way. The first couple of weeks I thought
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: I would be in Throbbie and then he like what wait, friend,
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: that was a curveball. Wait. I have a question. Do
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: you like when they come out and they're just kind
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: of like cool and like, hey, I'm Peter, I'm super
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: hot or do you like those antics, those you know,
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: like a unicorn coming out? Sorry, I like the weird job.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: I mean I think I don't know. I don't really care.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: To be honest, if you are cool and you have
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: a good personality and you can pull off to me
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: something weird and like, more power to you. I did
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: something weird on yours. Oh my gosh. There was this
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: guy he got sent home the first night, which for
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: good reason, right, I liked him, but he made a
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: really funny joke. His name was sal and he came
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: out and he handed me like two blue balls and
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: he said me like a joke about blue balls. I
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: don't know. I just remember the joke being so funny
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: that I kept talking about that joke for the rest
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: of night. Well, and I was in that. It was
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: all pretty dull. He had like the shining moment and
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: then he was done. Like we met that tickle monster
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: at a Dodger game, and I don't I mean, he
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: was cool, but the tickling makes me so weird, I think.
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: But I definitely thought that was something that he did
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: with his patients. He's a doctor, and we didn't get
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: to know that side. But then if he tickles his patients,
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: and he said no, No, he just thought that would
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: be funny. And he came up with that in the
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: hotel and he says he's getting a lot of people
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: coming up to him and asking him to tickle them,
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: and he won't tickle teenage girls because that's what's that's
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: pretty much demographic asking for tickles. Well he's I'm glad
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: he's smart enough to say no to that. Alright. So
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: Jail showed Joe when you're top four came out of
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: the limo, were you like okay? Minus Robbie who was
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: left winger yea, it was. I I liked Robbie, but
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: like I never in the first week or do I
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: never expected for him to, you know, go it just
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: it didn't hit me that quickly, um whereas you know,
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: and kind of was slower too. But I think obviously
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: Jordan's was like a no brainer. I mean I think
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: that there was like I think I kind of knew,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: like to my top six would be um based, like
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: within the first couple of conversations, because I feel like
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: super easy to weed. I mean that sounds that, but
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: like you kind of just know you know who you're
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: going to bide with. How was strong was your desire
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: um to like just say, excuse me, I really really
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: don't want to kiss all these frogs when I can
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: really eliminate it down to four right now, and I
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: really just want to kiss these four. I know that's
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: the hardest part. I think. I really you guys, this
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: is gonna sound super corny, but I really did go
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: into that saying, you know, I'm going to be super
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: open minded, I'm gonna give everyone a chance. Obviously my
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: relationships in the past, I didn't pick them well, so
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: maybe I was doing something wrong. Um, So I did
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: I was very open minded, but there were a lot
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: of instances where you know, that's kind of a part
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: of it. You kind of have to just do that
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: and go with the flow, because you can't just send
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: every one if you don't like calm immediately. Wait, but
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: I have a question, and I know Ashley can really
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: relate to this. If someone grosses me out, like their
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: breath smell is bad, like, it's gonna be really hard
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: for me to accept a kiss from him, right, I
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: know that someone on your season had to have had
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: bad breath, you know of someone specifically, no information, You
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: can't bring this up. I was not giving inside I said.
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: I was saying, I'm assuming someone had to have happened.
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: There was somebody on my season that, oh god, that
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: I did not enjoy smell that. Did you get far
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: as the top ten? Did you actually kiss him? Okay,
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: we can't do We don't want feelings to because I
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: actually really respect this person. Did he had he just
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: eaten like um, like sardines or something. Listen, I only
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: kiss only happened once, so to be fair, iading to
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: him a follow up che like maybe he did. It
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: sounds like it's well, but it wasn't. Well, so I'm
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: protecting Wells in the moment that you're all biggest pet peeves.
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: No oh no, but that like that's there for me,
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: Like talking about kissing, it's obviously that's like on Jojo.
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: What's your favorite thing to have come out of being
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: on the Bachelor and Bachelorette? My favorite thing to count
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: out of the Bachelor? Um no, No, both experienced both
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: experiences altogether. Um. I mean I always tell people it
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: was honestly the most amazing experience of my life. I
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: I don't really know how to explain that. I was like, yeah,
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: that's great, It's it sounds like we all had a
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: great experience. But like, what's your favorite thing to come
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: out of both? Well, I met Jordan's that's great. I
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: met friends and that's awesome. I mean, there's a lot
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: of things. I wish we had a camera here because
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: this was really a fishing project. What you are you?
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: I already met your name first. She already got out
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: of my mouth you were like on the Bachelor? But
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: can I ask her one more? I need to go
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: back to this casting question for a second. There was
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: a lot of talk amongst your group of guys specifically
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: that they were casted for two different bachelorettes. Some guys
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: said that they felt like they were casted for Kayleb
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: being the bachelorette, and some thought that they were cast
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: for you. Do you think that that is true? Um? Yeah,
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: I mean because I know for why I didn't really
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: I didn't find out that I was a bachelorette so
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: kind of late in the game, and so I remember seeing,
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: you know, those rumors that were like klos a bacherette.
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: So I totally can see that happening. I mean, I
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: don't know when producers actually made that like switch in
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: their head or if that was like I have no clue.
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: That's one thing I have no idea about. Interesting. Okay,
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: that's just because like some guys are more hurt type,
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: and then some guys are more totally athletic man tall,
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: and some were more poetry reading and like, yeah, okay,
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: So last question, do you want to see Peter Brian
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: or Eric Wynn? And then second question, who do you
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: want as our next bachelor? Um? Okay, I seeing And
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: I was actually texting Beta about this like a couple
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: of days ago. I just watched the last episode and
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: I get I don't know why. It's as I think
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: everyone agrees that like Brian and her are just like
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: super intense. There's so much chemistry. He is very openly
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: like into her right, It's it's crazy and I think
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: that she really liked that. And I see him being
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: together on Eric actually really surprised me and I like
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: adore him. Um so I really like to rock um.
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: I think Peter will be the next Fastor but it's
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: seen wasn't on Paradise. I think it would be a
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: pretty good toss up between those super Bachelor. He certainly
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: has the teenybopper vote. But but no, but Dean would
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: be next year's Bachelor because after maturing too. Yeah, he
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: could go back on Paradise next year, and I think
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of girl is out there would like
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: to see him as the Bachelor at some point. All right, well,
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: thank you Joel. You have a beautiful name, and we
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: are now going to move on to listener calls. This
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: is my favorite segment because it's just live and we
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: had to come with this advice on the spot back out,
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: what is your what's your topic? I have a topic.
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: I tweeted about it last night. I want to know
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: what people think, or if people think it's important to
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: have your significant others pass code on their phone, is
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: it important or is it just something that should be okay?
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: I mean is it like is do you need it?
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: Or are you cool? Like if they tell you can't
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: have it, is that is that okay? Or if it's
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: your husband's and you can't have it, I think that's
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: a red flag. I think it's a red flag. This
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: is my thing. This was an instance that happened to
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: me and a named suitor and we were in the
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: car and I was controlling the music and it locked,
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: and so I was like, oh, phone lacked your pass code?
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: You want to give it to me? And I was thinking,
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: that's suspicious, are you Was it a current relationship or
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: it's just like a hooking up friends thing. No, it
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: was a relationship. Did you question it was? Did he
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: hand it out? Did you hand it to him? And
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: then he had to press this That's what I did. Yeah,
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: I handed over to him. He put it in there,
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: but then I was like, that's suspicious to me, and
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: then he got upset and then he ended up being like,
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: this is my pass scord and give it to me.
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: But at that point, it wasn't about the past code.
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: It was that he there was obviously something sitting there.
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: He didn't want you to say that's right. Yeah, I
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: mean it hadn't been fresh in your phone too, like
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: in the last ten texts or something that could have
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: popped up, like a girl could have texted him. But
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: my thing is like I would never I wouldn't need
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: it for snooping around, Like I wouldn't have even looked
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: in his if he's sitting right there, I want to
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: have looked in his text messages. I was just was
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: trying to change the song. And I mean I totally
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: get like needing to have privacy and everything, but if
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: it's something that's simple, like knowing it, or if there's
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: an emergency or if you need their phone, seems, oh,
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I want to get a fan opinion
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: on this, because I definitely think that it's not something
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: that you have to be like, oh, by the way,
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: just in case you're ever curious, this is my password.
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: But in a situation like that, you should be okay
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: with saying it. I would give you my phone right
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: now and you could look through everything. But on principle,
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: like as a policy. I don't think I should be
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: privy to everyone's phone business, and you shouldn't be privy
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: to mind because not everyone. I need to text my
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: mom how much you're bothering me right now? But we
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: talked about this last night. If if there's something that
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: I would vent to someone, like let's say we were
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: in a fight and I was like, oh, he's being
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: so stupid and I can't stay in him or whatever,
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: I would say it to his face too, you know. Um,
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: I do this with friends sometimes I don't want them
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: to touch my phone me too, because like they'll be
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: like can I change the song? And I'm like, well,
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: I don't want them to hang on my phone. But honestly,
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: it's because like in my recent text messages, I may
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: have texted my sister something like her breath is bad
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: right now, Like I'm not talking to my friends, but
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: like there may be something like that in there you have,
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: like I think, where there's smoke, there's fire. I've had
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: relationships where I found myself knowing the relationship was terrible,
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: and then we would be like out somewhere and I
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: see him texting, and it made me so uncomfortable that
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: I would do that weird like you so, But I
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: think and then I've had relationships that are great and
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: they could text a million texts and I don't care
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: because I know it's all good and I don't care.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: So I think it's that you feel weird about it
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: because there's something to feel weird about, like that intuition, Like, well,
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: I mean, I will admit there were times where I
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: active a little crazy just in general for no reason.
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: And so maybe in his mind if there was something
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: that was even suspect to make me be like insecure, whatever,
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: he's like, it's not even worth it it. I just feel,
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: you know, I would like to hear others opinions on it,
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: because there's so many different situations that you could argue
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: about it. All right, let's take our first caller. Do
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: we we don't have a screen? Do we have a
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: I don't know, Sorry, I've never done this before from
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: Seattle and you beat the she I but you can
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: just that. Oh huh, okay, ready, all right, let's talk
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: to Amy in Seattle about this. Amy Amy, Hello, welcome
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: to the Almost same As podcast. What do you think
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: should significant others be okay with giving you out their passwords? Um,
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: I think it's kind of circumstantial. Like, you know, my
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: parents have been married for thirty years, Like they know
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: each other's passwords, you know. Yeah, But like I think
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: if you're just like dating somebody and you are weird
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: about wanting their password, then you probably don't trust them,
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: and then you should probably just evaluate that should probably
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: be in exclusivity to the relationship thing. If you guys
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: are exclusive, like you should probably not have an issue
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: with it. Well, And I think it's like if if
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: you're the personality type that's like you're snooping around and
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: always trying to find something wrong, then that's a different situation,
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: right exactly. And like I had an X and like
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: we broke up and then we were still kind of
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: like talking, and um, I knew his password to like
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: his phone and his Facebook, and it probably wasn't good
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: things for me to know that I And then did
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: you find something? Oh yeah? Well, I mean if you
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: have the inkling, it's all about that female intuition and
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: what's in your gut. I think you usually know what's
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: going on. Yeah, yeah exactly. But if you've been married,
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: you know, and like someone's like, oh, yeah, this is
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: my password, because you know, if I die, when you
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: need to be able to access my bank account or whatever,
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: then bank account info, you know. Further, Okay, what would
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: you do if you were in a relationship and then
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: you'll have this conversation he gives you the past code
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: and then you go to use it again on this
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: phone and it's changed. I don't know, like, yeah, that's turkey,
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: but it's probably just like maybe if I trusted him,
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, then I probably just don't remember
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: what it was. But if there's a reason, like if
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: I was just going to use this phone to like
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: order pizza or whatever, then I'd be like, oh, I
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: must have forgotten what it was. But if, um, if
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: I was going on this phone to snoop and he's
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: already given me his password and then I'm snooping and
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: then it's changed, then I'd be like, that's weird. All right, Well,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: thanks Amy, it's good to know that other people feel
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: the same way we do. Yeah, thanks for having me. Yeah,
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: We're gonna go and ask the same question to Ma
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: reach she I don't know how to say your name? Hello,
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: young lady from Long Island, how do you say your name? Hi?
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: It's nor Anissa, your a niece, your Anissa? No, no, yeah,
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: well hey it's Ashley and Becca and we want to
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: know do you think that people in relationships should have
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: each other's passwords for so evenly passwords for like social
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: media or like the passcode for at the cellphone until
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: I get in the pass code for the cell phone. Okay,
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: So I think that it's okay if you want to
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: have one. But like, my husband has a pass code,
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: but he actually told me it's passcode, and I actually
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: have like my he put my he actually himself, he
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: put my thumb print onto his phone just so I
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: can go on whenever I want. So yeah, so I think,
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: you know, I think you definitely should. Um, if you
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: want to have one, that's fine. But I think I
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: think you should because I think it's a way of
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: showing your trust. Um, you know, it makes you feel
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: more confident in your relationship, knowing that you know, my
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: partner isn't hiding anything and he's totally comfortable with me
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: going into his phone. I mean, yeah, he gives you
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: that thumbprint access you're in Yeah, I would hope. So,
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: so for me, it's I know, it's just kind of hypocritical,
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: but like, you know, I don't have a problem with
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: him going through my phone, but like whenever he wants
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: to go through it, I'm like freaking out because I
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: don't want him to see my like crazy self, because
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: that's like my problem, Like I don't want him to
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: go through my phone, but it's your anone, you know.
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: But it's still so embarrassing because it's just kind of
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: I mean, we're kind of newly married to maybe that's
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: why I feel like that, but I just feel kind
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: of shy, like he he looks at me like I'm
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: trying to hide something, but I'm like, dude, it's nothing.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: I'm just trying. I just want to hide myself from you.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: Just need to get the perfect shot and take it.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: Why don't you delete? Yeah, I guess I could do that.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: I just have like whole And another thing is that
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: I screenshot like a billion things, like whether it's like
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: text on my phone or like random like memes and
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: just like weird, weird stuff, so you know, things that
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: you're not kind of still kind of awkward just showing
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: someone agree with the screenshot thing. That would probably one
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: of the few things that I'd be embarrassed for people
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: to see. I screenshot a lot of things that are
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: just for me to remember when I think she's onto
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: something that it's like, you have nothing to hide, but
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: it's sort of like your diary. It is your diary.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: When I was younger, I used to not like people
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: looking at my iTunes library because as like a nineteen
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: year old, like having I don't know, like Elton John
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: and the Eagles and stuff like, I thought like, these
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: people are going to like judge me for having like
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: Lionel Ritchie on here, and I just love I know exactly,
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: but as a nineteen year old or something, I didn't
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: want people to be like, who aren't worrying about on
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: that handsOn you had in there? No, I'd never worry
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: about Hanson. No. I just like as a kid, I
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: was very self conscious about my music taste because I
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: just love soft rock. Yeah, I totally feel you on that,
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: and like in the iPhone, especially look like the notes feature,
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: Like I don't know about you, guys, but I honestly
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: treat that as like my diary and I have like
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: the craziest things in there. I like, don't let anyone
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: look at my phone. So I'm scared they're going to
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: click on notes and just see everything that I'm in there.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I read I basically write diary interest
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: in my notes, and it's so embarrassing. Anyway, all right,
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: well we have to go and talk to Adam from
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: Nashville now and see what he thinks. Hey Adam, Hey Adam,
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: So what do you think about passwords? Should they have
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: them or should they not? Passwords? Pass code? You call
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: them pass codes because their numbers, Well, the pass code
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: to get into your phone, okay, because password would be
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: like I guess your social media right? Okay? Do you
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: all have pass codes? I don't have one. I liked
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: you don't have one. You have like every celebrity's phone
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: number and your thing open and you want to Amy,
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna steal your phone and I'm gonna get some
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: of my crushes numbers out of there. Adam, are you
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: working out here? All right? Pass codes? What do you think?
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: I actually am working. I work from home. But that
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: was a call I coud miss awesome priorities, that's right.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: I am cool with pass codes, but I am actually
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: a married My wife and I know each other's pass codes. Um,
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: not a big deal. We uh, you know, if you
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: don't have anything to hide, what's the what's the problem
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: right right right right, unless unless you have someone who
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: likes to prank you by posting strenge photos of you,
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: which my wife does do that. What about selfies? Do
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: you take a lot of selfies and your embarrassing have
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: to see them? My selfie game is strong, and so
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: you get you nail it on the first couple. You
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: don't have a whole row of them. There's no retakes,
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: one and done. Dude, Adam, are you adam? Questions? Are you?
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: Are you watching this season of The Bachelorette? Absolutely? And
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: what are your thoughts? I think Rachel is amazing. I
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: love Rachel really yeah, the guys. I felt really bad
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: for Dean and what yeah, just with his family and
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: or that she sent him home and all of the above.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: I felt like he was put in a very unfortunate position.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: It seemed like he was extremely uncomfortable and he seems
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: like a good a good dude. Um, that's what the
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: guys who are there right now, they're pretty solid. I
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: actually think that Eric is sort of um going to
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: come out from from out of nowhere. I think the
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: radar is he not? We all like Eric and he's
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: not getting the attention that he deserves. Yeah. So I
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: feel like he was sort of painted in a poor
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: light early in the season. But I don't know, he's
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: just been he's just been bubbling up. I think he's
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: a good I think he's a good, solid dick. Well, so,
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: who do you think, out of the three or even
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: anyone who's been sent home before, who do you think
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: will be the Bachelor? Oh? Good question. Um, I'm gonna
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: go with Dean. I think we like it this. Sorry,
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: go ahead. What if you were going to go grab
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: a beer in Nashville with one of these guys, Dean, Peter,
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: Brian or Eric? Who do you pick? You only get
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: to go to with one? So I'm going to go
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: with Eric. Eric really interesting cat. I would like to
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: talk to him. He's very positive. He'll make you feel
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: good about your life right after you you hang with him, exactly. Actually,
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: and you know my opinion. I'm not going to toot
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: my own horn here, but I have been live tweeting
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: The Bachelor for Bachelorrette for like six or seven seasons now,
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: so kind of fan boying out right now so much.
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: You should toot your own horn? What is your Twitter?
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: So my Twitter is at Batch Critic, be a R
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: I pretty fan on here. I'm pretty sure I've tweeted
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: back and forth with you. I believe you have. I'm
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: trying to remember if it was positive or negative, but
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: my attention I generally, I don't know. I generally stay
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: positive with all of you guys. Have always been a
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: big fan. Here's my funny thing about that. I used
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: to watch American Idol like hardcore, and I used to
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: have my favorites and the people that I didn't like,
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: And I decided, after many seasons of getting to meet
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: them their concerts during the summer, I was like, I
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: am no longer going to decide whose personality I do
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: and do not like based on TV, because when you
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: meet them in real life, totally different. Every every single
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: person is totally different. Yeah. Oh yeah, and I haven't
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: met anyone from Bachelor obviously, but I'm chatting you would
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: you all? But living here in Nashville, my wife will
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: always send me a photo She's like, did you see that?
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: You know Ashley was in Nashville and Becca was around
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  Speaker 1: and so yeah, people will run into one another at
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: you know, hot Chicken place or something. Yeah, that's our
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: second Bachelor Hub Nashville. Um, all right, well, thank you Adam, Thanks,
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: thank you. Good talking to you. All right, so let's
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: talk about this week's episode of the Bachelor a little bit. Um.
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: Rachel introduced the last three guys to her family. It
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: seems like her family likes Peter and likes Eric, but
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: they were pretty tough on Brian, and I think that
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: is that is because maybe he comes across a little
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: bit less warm. I was. I was afflicted because it
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: could go either way that they were SUSPICI suspicious of
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: his intentions or any vibes they got from him, or
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: because they saw that it was very serious and how
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: much she likes him, and so they were like being
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: a little harder on him. That could be it. She
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: got sassy when they were really questioning, and she was like,
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: excuse me, what did she say? Like you're annoying me?
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: Like I think she's a straight out, So you're annoying me.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: I'm really annoyed. Yeah, and then he walked away from
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: the situation, which seems like it was probably a producer move.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: They probably called him over here. Yeah, yeah, And then
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: Eric asked her permission to get to marry her, and
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: then Peter didn't Peter, Peter was me, and Peter was again.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: But Eric was surprised. I was kind of surprised that
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: her mom said yes because I thought she was really tough.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: And then it was I didn't know which way was
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: going to go, starting to feel anxious for him, and
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: then she said, I think Eric just seems really sincere
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: in moments like that, especially he's super nice. So then
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: we went off to Spain and we had a very
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: very serious conversation with Peter where we left off on
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: a cliffhanger because it seems like Peter and Rachel may
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: mutually end their relationship because he is not in the
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: place to repose. He likes her, he definitely likes her
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: a lot, but she's like, um, I don't want to
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: get a boyfriend out of this. It's literally the same story.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: It is the same story because you were like, Chris,
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: I'll be your girlfriend, but I'm not going to marry you. Now,
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: this is a tough question for both of you. Does
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: Rachel want to get married more than she cares who
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: she's marrying. She too focused on getting married then making
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: the choice that is the right guy. I actually have
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: to say, I think she just I think Becka, you
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: go first, she says in the preview, She's like, am
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: I just like forcing myself to feel like this, like
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: I need to get proposed to because this is, you know,
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: how the show goes, Or am I really feeling it?
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: She says. I'm pretty sure she says something similar to that. Well,
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: and I'm concerned by the I don't want to get
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: a boyfriend out of this. I want to get proposed to,
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: because what if the right guy for her is just
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: ready to be her boyfriend. That is a great point.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: I think that's probably why she's struggling so much, because
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: Peter is so great and they have a really great connection,
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: and she's like, am I going to give up something
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: that could be really great that just needs more time?
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: Or do I need to get like do I need
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: to get engaged? At the end of this, do you
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: think that she likes Peter just as much as she
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: likes Brian. I mean, I'm sorry to eliminate Eric from
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: this conversation. He just seems like the weak link for Rachel,
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: just because she doesn't seem as invested in him for
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: her right now. In my own viewing interpretation is that
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: it's really down to Peter and Brian I feel. I mean,
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: I definitely feel the same way. But I think the
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: way she is with Brian, she they're like kind of
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: all over each other. So there's that very obvious physical connection.
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: But does she have a deeper emotional connection with Peter.
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: I think she knows Peter's great. I think she's very
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: attracted to him. I think they have a very deep
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: emotional connection. I think she fears that at the end
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: of the show, once it ends, are they really going
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: to have a relationship. Are they going to date and
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: like it lead to marriage or is that just something
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: he's saying yeah. And I also think that at this
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: point in her life, at thirty one and at Brian's
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: point at thirty seven, both of them professionals, she's thinking,
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: this is like my partner in crime right now, where
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: like this might be a hot guy that I get
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: to like date for a little while with Peter. Alright, Becca,
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: you have honestly been the best villain for Ben I
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: could ever ask for. That is an honor. But see reviously,
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: you guys are like top tier personality. Love. Thank you soul.
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: Ben's a hard one to compete with, but luckily I
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: don't have to compete with it. You do. You do
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: compete with him, though, because you're so special. And next
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: week we're going to have another very special guest and
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: we can't really reveal who it is yet, but maybe
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: you can figure it out. He's on the line and
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: you could ask him a few mystery questions and see
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: if people can figure it out. Okay, all right, um,
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: do you have a voice cover up thing on your
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: voice right now? Hello? Hello special guests? Hello, Hi, um, Well,
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: if anybody is familiar with your voice, it's not going
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: to be that much of a surprise. But can you
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: give us two hints as to who you are? Two
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: hints as to who I am? Well, I guess number one?
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: My favorite dinosaurs and anklesaurus and aksaurus. What is that? Um?
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: Just google it. It's a It's like an armadillo dinosaur
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: with like a big old sledge hammer. Tale cool. And
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: number two is my favorite color is purple? Okay? And
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: do you believe in the tooth Fairy? I don't know.
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: All right, Well, you guys, you have quite the mystery
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: to crack to find out who my next co host is.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening to the Almost Famous podcast.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: It has been a pleasure Becca, thank you again. And
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: I can't wait to have mry guests on the phone
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: with me here next week. It's like a good one,
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: can't wait. And in classic Ben fashion, I have been
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: Ashley and I have been Becca awesome. Bye guys. HI
• 1:16:44
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• 1:16:47
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