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Ep254. The Art of Receiving: Moving From Scarcity, Struggle, and Attachment to Embodied Creation. · The Inner Wealth Podcast

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  SPEAKER_00: You ever wake up feeling like there's something missing in your life?
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  SPEAKER_00: You ever feel the need to escape your business?
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  SPEAKER_00: Are you running your life or is your life running you?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm like Dipco and I'll help you design and create a life so authentic and align with who you really are.
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  SPEAKER_00: You'll get excited just to wake up.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'll help you create real wealth with self and freedom from the inside out.
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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Inner Wealth Podcast, where we learn and choose to live inspired each and every day.
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  SPEAKER_00: Over the last 10 years since 2016, March 20, March 2016, I have been a student of the creation process.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what I mean by the creation process is we are creators.
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  SPEAKER_00: Human beings are creators.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we're not separate from God.
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  SPEAKER_00: We are a piece of.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's why people, some people have built huge empires in businesses, and and that's why you know someone would build a company that makes rockets that wants to go to Mars.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's why someone creates wealth for themselves or or whatever.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's we are creative beings.
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  SPEAKER_00: We are creators.
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  SPEAKER_00: Human beings, the spirit that we are within the human form, which is the you have a mind, you are the you have a mind, you have a body, but you are the soul.
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  SPEAKER_00: The spiritual essence that's inside of this body that's using the mind is a creative force.
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  SPEAKER_00: And over the last few episodes, I've shared a uh kind of a new approach that I've been taking to teach that is that the soul carries a dream.
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  SPEAKER_00: The soul comes into this human experience to experience something.
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  SPEAKER_00: So the soul carries a dream.
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  SPEAKER_00: The the mind creates, the mind can uh can plan, can strategize, can uh execute, can build, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So the where we get really clear about what the dream is, we can start to create it in the world.
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  SPEAKER_00: So where the soul carries the dream and the mind creates, I've I've recently come to the realization, I guess, the the uh epiphany for me is that the body receives and the body is a tool of receptivity.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if the body is not willing to receive, then we won't receive it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Just like, you know, when I talk about my uh my retreat in uh Miami, the inner wealth mastermind retreat, where right after we came back from the retreat, it all my mastermind started falling apart.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's because my body wasn't willing to literally receive and hold that level of financial abundance and that level of acceptance.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is what self-sabotage is all about.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's the the body's lack of willingness to participate and to receive.
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  SPEAKER_00: So where money is, we could have money in a bank account.
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  SPEAKER_00: If we have wealth in a bank account, but we feel broke, it's because the body hasn't received the money in it.
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  SPEAKER_00: If we have massive businesses and we're super successful and we impact the world and the evidence is there, but inside you still feel like a fraud or an imposter or a failure, then you know it's because your body hasn't received it yet.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you if you're in an awesome relationship and you you are loved, but you feel unloved or you feel unlovable, it's because your body's not willing to receive the love that's there.
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  SPEAKER_00: We can be safe and completely safe and secure in our circumstances, but yet our body feels unsafe and our body feels un insecure because our our body is is unwilling to receive the safety and security.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if the body doesn't receive it, we're not really, we're not really experiencing because we experience the world through our body.
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  SPEAKER_00: And all of this is kind of come to, you know, come to some sense of of clarity and understanding in in me over the over the past few weeks.
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  SPEAKER_00: And hopefully go back and listen to a few episodes, you know, it hopefully is listen to all of them.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if you go back at least, you know, three or four, you're gonna start to see me starting to build, build this out and this this new framework of understanding that that the uh the soul carries the dream, the mind creates the dream, and the body receives the dream.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that has been for me, in my experience, the uh the dream has been there.
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  SPEAKER_00: My mind is creative as as all get out, but it's that last piece, that body receiving, that has been the struggle for me.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that has been my kind of my lifelong, um, my lifelong challenge that that I'm I'm working through.
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  SPEAKER_00: And and hopefully, you know, if you are a listener to this up this podcast, uh hopefully you are too.
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  SPEAKER_00: And hopefully you're doing the work.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've got a I've got a great uh meditation called installing future you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's available on YouTube, and it's also available in my meditation package.
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  SPEAKER_00: But installing future you is an awesome, awesome meditation to help us allow the body and invite the body to receive what we want.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we're gonna talk about that a little more, and we've talked about it on prior episodes.
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  SPEAKER_00: This isn't new stuff.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: But today I want to share a kind of a new framework, a new little piece, new little wrinkle to this, because again, I'm building this out, and I'm also uh I've begun the planning phases and the organization phases of my uh the next book that I plan to publish, and it's titled the working title is uh Built to Give, Rebuilt to Receive, because I have been an awesome giver in life, but I haven't always had the willingness or the courage or the whatever to receive, the openness to receive.
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  SPEAKER_00: So this is why, this is why things have I can watch everybody else build massive things, and I'm just starting to realize it's because my body hasn't been willing to receive or hold.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: So this is why everyone else had girlfriends when I was little and I didn't.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is why, this is why some people I'm coaching them and I'm teaching them and they're blow, they blow by me and just like all of this.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, well, what am I doing?
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  SPEAKER_00: What am I doing wrong?
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's because they're they're willing to receive and I'm not, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Or I haven't been up to this point.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm changing that and fixing that.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's the work that we're doing.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if I don't experience the challenge, then I can't teach the challenge and the overcome of that challenge.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's kind of what I'm here to do.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm I'm like the canary in a coal mine.
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  SPEAKER_00: I I feel like I go through challenges and obstacles so I can learn what I need to learn so I can teach.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so I can help humanity kind of overcome these things that that have plagued human human beingness for uh for millennia.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, new framework of understanding.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what this is, this is the the creation process is clarity, certainty, and commitment.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you've there's tons of episodes on my creation process, clarity, certainty, and commitment.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what it means is you got to get really, really clear about what it is that you want, get really certain in your body, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Build certainty.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm gonna explain that a little more in your body.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then commitment is take some inspired action, be patient in the process from a place of internal uninterruption where you're just you're you're locked in on the commitment, is more about being locked in on the target.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then when it shows up, receive clarity, certainty, and commitment.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've taught that over and over.
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  SPEAKER_00: This framework builds on that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is this is kind of the expression of that, let's say.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the, this is the uh the appearance of the creation process working.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is the, these are the feeling states that you're going to experience as you learn the creation process and utilize the creation process.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the goal is to climb the ladder of uh climb this ladder.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I call it the ladder of desire.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can also call it the ladder of creation, but I'm referring to it as the ladder of desire because desire is all of these states, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: All of these states like reflect desire.
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  SPEAKER_00: But at the same time, these are the expressions of desire, all the way from the bottom rung, which is the least healthy, the least fulfilling, the least uh um, the least freeing uh state, all the way up to the highest level.
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  SPEAKER_00: And there's five, five, uh, five steps.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna go through each of them.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, and hopefully it helps.
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  SPEAKER_00: It certainly has helped me.
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  SPEAKER_00: But these are these overlap with the creation process.
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  SPEAKER_00: So this isn't a different creation process, these are just the expressions of the creation process being used.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: So this inspiration came when I was on my run the other day because some of the best downloads and some of the best information I get is when I am running.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've been studying this for 10 years, and I'm I just moved my head.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're watching on video, I just pointed to a stack of books, okay?
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  SPEAKER_00: Under that was that's right that are right behind my head.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if even if you can't see it, um, these books are the they they they all talk about the creation process.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'll call them the Sacred Seven.
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  SPEAKER_00: Books like Think and Grow Rich, books like Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, uh The Science of Getting Rich, As a Man Thinketh, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: The Strangest Secret, all of these books that uh break in the habit of being yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: Guys, they all say the same thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm just trying to uh provide a little more clarity and a little more understanding around this, okay?
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  SPEAKER_00: Nothing new under the sun, but hopefully these expressions help you like they've helped me.
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  SPEAKER_00: The bottom rung of desire, and this is where I say that most people are creating from, okay, or trying to create from.
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  SPEAKER_00: The bottom rung and the bottom voice, the bottom feeling state of desire is need.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, we do have needs.
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  SPEAKER_00: Human beings do have needs.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I refer to them, I was taught and I refer to them as owner, oxygen, water, nutrition, exercise, and rest.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, we thought those are our basic needs.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oxygen, water, nutrition, exercise, and rest.
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  SPEAKER_00: Those are our basic needs.
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  SPEAKER_00: When we have those, we kind of sometimes, if if we're not careful and intentional, when all of our basic human needs are met, then we start to look for things that we want and we turn them into needs.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we confuse our wants with our needs.
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  SPEAKER_00: And where we we start to we start to express that, you know, there's things that we say we need to be okay, but we don't really need them to be okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we confuse all of this, this these needs and desire and wants, and we're gonna get to want in in a little bit.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's another expression.
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  SPEAKER_00: But when we are coming at the creation process from a place of need where I need more money in my bank account, I need this strategy to work out, I need another client, I need a new car, I need whatever.
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  SPEAKER_00: When we're coming at this thing from need, we are making it a lot harder than it needs to be because it's coming from this place, this internal conflict place that says, if I don't have it, I won't be okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that is just not true.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oxygen, water, nutrition, exercise, rest.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's what we need.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: We we desire things outside of ourselves.
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  SPEAKER_00: We desire going on noisy vacations and and and and a more robust bank account.
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  SPEAKER_00: We desire a bigger business, we desire these things, but we don't need these things.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, we don't need these things.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we're when we're trying to create from this place it from a place of need.
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  SPEAKER_00: And somebody, some, some folks, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Some grind gurus, hustle whores, they talk about be obsessed with the goal.
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  SPEAKER_00: And and almost like if you're not freaking, if you're not, if your internals aren't on fire, then and they're they're actually like helping us create from a place of need, which basically puts your your uh you feel you feel like there's something wrong if you know you're you're you're a failure, you're broken, or whatever if if you can't create it, because there's some somewhere in your operating system.
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  SPEAKER_00: This need is saying, I won't be okay if I don't, if, if this thing doesn't show up in my life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the bottom rung.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hope that hopefully that one makes sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that most people, I believe most people are operating from that one.
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  SPEAKER_00: So next rung up, okay, the second rung of the ladder of desire is want.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Separate from this, separate from from need.
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  SPEAKER_00: Need is this this feeling that I won't be okay if I don't have it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Want is almost like it's a it's a lesser tone, a lesser volume of that that just says that there's something I am incomplete or there's something missing, and this will fill the void.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, in essence, what what we're saying is, and when we're creating from a place of want, when we're trying to create from a place of want, that says there's an internal conflict in me, there's an internal space, there's an internal gap, there's some kind of internal problem that I'm experiencing.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's there's some kind of internal scarcity, there's there's something missing inside of me, in my body.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what I feel is if I get this thing, then it'll be complete.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that is a one of, or maybe it is you're you're looking at it as it is a missing piece.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh, it is the missing piece, but sometimes it's just the missing piece because as soon as we get that, there we just it reveals another missing piece.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you've ever experienced going from, you know, moving from uh goal to goal, and just as soon as you achieve the goal, you just target, you just move that.
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  SPEAKER_00: You just move the target, you just move the goal, and nothing changes.
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  SPEAKER_00: No quality of life changes.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is this is operating from want.
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  SPEAKER_00: You just you just keep wanting more because you feel like something's missing, but you never quite, you never quite get your hands wrapped around it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Most times when you're when you're going from goal to goal, when you're when you're creating and receiving, and it's not changing the quality of your internal environment, then you're creating from this space, where there's something missing in you and you're trying to solve that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Bottom rung is need from I'm not okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: I won't be okay if I don't have it to want.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's something missing in me, and this will this will help me feel more whole and complete.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: But you're still doing it.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're still doing these two for emotions.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're trying to fill the emotional tank.
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  SPEAKER_00: The the next rung, the next ladder or the next step on the ladder of desire is the preferences.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: But this is there's a little bit of neutrality to preferences.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is like when you like pizza and you like wings, or you like, you know, I'm a I'm a big lover of Asian cuisine, where you I love Chinese food.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, let me say I love Thai and I love Indian.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I might at that moment have a preference for one or the other.
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  SPEAKER_00: But but even if I get my preference, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Even if I get my preference, I don't feel like I've I've lost anything.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm just deciding between two things.
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  SPEAKER_00: And there's a certain neutrality to that, okay?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's just a preference.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like I prefer the daytime because I get to sit in the sun, but nighttime is pretty awesome too because I get to see beautiful stars, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: I love the daytime because I can see the beautiful trees, nighttime because I can see the stars.
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  SPEAKER_00: But there's a certain neutrality there that, you know, we prefer something, but it doesn't create the pain, doesn't create this internal conflict.
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  SPEAKER_00: Excuse me.
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  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't create the internal conflict and it doesn't create this internal lack inside of us.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's just a preference.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I think we're gonna stop here, and I want to make sure that we understand that as we're moving up this ladder of desire, we're loosening and lessening our attachments to the outcome.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: As we move up the ladder, the intensity of emotion is decreasing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: The intensity of lack of abundance or of lack of scarcity is lessening.
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  SPEAKER_00: As we go up the ladder, the intensity of the experience is decreasing and the attachment to the outcome is decreasing.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I think that's really, really important and prominent to say.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's why we just reached a place of neutrality.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now we're gonna move into two of the two of the more creative, okay, where where things really, really get fun and really get um experiential, let's just say.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because we're doing it in some cases, these next two levels, we're doing it for funsies.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're we're looking to experience something instead of doing it to try to solve some internal conflict or some some inner freaking thing that that's got us, you know, raveled inside.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: The next level is basically the the creative part of this where we cast a vision.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when you, you know, when you when you talk about the sacred seven, that they're talking about vision.
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  SPEAKER_00: They're talking about getting clear in your mind about what it is you want and building it, almost like building it mentally before you, before you build it physically.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: And and when when we cast the vision in the world, when we see it clearly, when we see something clearly in our mind, it is true that life starts to rearrange itself and life starts to life starts to to uh rearrange around this vision and around this thing that and and starts to create opportunity, starts to, you know, starts to provide opportunities for us to experience this.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because I truly do believe this with every cell in my body that God, life, the universe, whatever it is, wants for us whatever we want for ourselves.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when we get into the creative space, the the the cast your vision and and the and and then we'll move on to the last step.
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  SPEAKER_00: When we start to get really, really clear, clarity is a very creative force.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes just getting clear, you know, when when when we're when we're clear, when we when we discern between what we want and what we don't want from a from a clarity perspective, then the whole this whole thing becomes so much easier.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: So where this is really the mental realm, and where I said the soul carries the vision, the mind creates, and the body receives.
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  SPEAKER_00: This this vision is the mental work.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the mind creating.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, and whatever you can see clearly inside your mind's eye, you can create in this world, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Every skyscraper started from a vision.
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  SPEAKER_00: Every business, successful business, started from a vision.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Everything, everything starts with a thought.
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  SPEAKER_00: Every creation, everything that you can look at that is created by man, that is built by man, that is attained by man, has started with a single thought, a vision, okay?
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  SPEAKER_00: And when we get clear about that, it becomes very creative force because that's how we create.
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  SPEAKER_00: We we create with the mind's eye, all right, and the mind.
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  SPEAKER_00: In the uh choose your destiny live intensives, when I when I was hopes hosting those workshops regularly, which we'll do again at some point in the near future, we did a lot of vision work to get clear about what we wanted in in our life.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in fact, it was really the first day because most people know exactly what they don't want and wake up every day to avoid it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Very few people are super clear about what they do want and work actively on a daily basis to create it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Most people are are playing defense and trying to avoid what they don't instead of playing offense and create what they do.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: Bottom rung is need, where I won't be okay if I don't get it.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's still some question.
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  SPEAKER_00: Next step is want.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's there's something that I'm missing inside of me.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's something that's incomplete, and this'll this will fill some of that gap or fill all the gap, but it never really fills the gap.
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  SPEAKER_00: You've got preference where you like both, you'll say you'll be okay with both, but the one, you know, you one you prefer over the other, but you don't feel lack or you don't feel like disappointment if you get the other.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then vision, casting a vision in the world, which is the creative part of this process.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, here's the last the the last ladder or the last step on the ladder.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, this is the one that then I'm pointing again to my sacred seven.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the one that some of these books say this and some of them don't.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some of them some of them help us understand uh how to do.
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  SPEAKER_00: This and some of them just don't even don't even uh uh mention them.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is really embodiment work, okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is where we move from the mind to the body, from creating to receiving, right?
• 22:16
  SPEAKER_00: I like to call this, okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: I this is my word, and I'm gonna I'm gonna use this out.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna give you the kind of definition around and kind of the essence and the energy that I that I've baked around this word for the ladder of desire.
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  SPEAKER_00: The word I like to use is anticipate.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do you anticipate this thing flowing into your life?
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  SPEAKER_00: Do you anticipate it?
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, that doesn't mean that it doesn't mean that you are always hunting for it.
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  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't mean that that you are expecting it and you're obsessed with it and whatever, and you're not going to give up until you have it.
• 22:59
  SPEAKER_00: This is that almost like an anticipation that uh sometimes we anticipate good things happening in their life, and some people anticipate not so good things happening in their life.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that anticipation is in our body.
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  SPEAKER_00: That anticipation is inside of us.
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  SPEAKER_00: That anticipation, are you, are you anticipating your vision flowing into your life?
• 23:28
  SPEAKER_00: Or are you are you doubting?
• 23:31
  SPEAKER_00: Is there worry?
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  SPEAKER_00: Is there doubt?
• 23:32
  SPEAKER_00: Is there fear?
• 23:34
  SPEAKER_00: Is there some are you still holding some sense of lack, some sense of scarcity, some sense of of you, you know, you're just hoping, right?
• 23:44
  SPEAKER_00: Hope is the opposite of anticipation.
• 23:46
  SPEAKER_00: Anticipation and hope are moving in opposite directions.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hope is just a kind of a wish where an anticipation is almost like it's it's you understand that you it will happen because God wants for you whatever you want for yourself.
• 24:02
  SPEAKER_00: And it's not an if, it's a when.
• 24:04
  SPEAKER_00: And this is the commitment part of the creation process: clarity, certainty, commitment.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the commitment.
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  SPEAKER_00: Just stay in the game long enough and it will show up.
• 24:12
  SPEAKER_00: This is the anticipation, all right?
• 24:15
  SPEAKER_00: And you literally feel it in anticipation, you feel so locked in.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not an if, it's a when.
• 24:23
  SPEAKER_00: And it's not like you have to do anything more to earn it or deserve it.
• 24:29
  SPEAKER_00: You literally just go about your life, you live your life, you take some inspired action, and you just wait for it to show up.
• 24:35
  SPEAKER_00: And you wait patiently for it to show up.
• 24:37
  SPEAKER_00: And when it shows up, you take uh receipt of it because it's already yours.
• 24:42
  SPEAKER_00: Because you've already released all the worry, the fear, the guilt, the shame, the selfishness.
• 24:50
  SPEAKER_00: You've released all of this inner baggage that would create resistance, and your body is just so tuned into it.
• 24:56
  SPEAKER_00: Your body already feels like you already possess it.
• 24:59
  SPEAKER_00: And this is why it's called embodiment.
• 25:01
  SPEAKER_00: There's a great book by uh one of my favorite authors, Neville Goddard, and it's called The Feeling is the Secret.
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  SPEAKER_00: And he talks about the fact that once you feel that you are already in possession of it, then it again, that if goes away.
• 25:18
  SPEAKER_00: And also in Dr.
• 25:19
  SPEAKER_00: Joe Dispens's book, Break in the Habit of Being Yourself, it says the same thing.
• 25:23
  SPEAKER_00: So does the science of getting rich.
• 25:26
  SPEAKER_00: These books that in my sacred seven, these books address the emotional part of this, the the body part of this, but they don't say that the body receives, they just say, and and these aren't the only uh teachers that teach this thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Walk as if it's already yours.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the essence of the anticipation of your dream.
• 25:51
  SPEAKER_00: Soul carries a dream, mind creates, the body receives.
• 25:54
  SPEAKER_00: And once your body is so tuned into it, also, you know, some new age folks call it the law of attraction that you know, you're you're you're attracting, you're you're vibrant, you're raising your vibration, and and that vibration attracts higher level vibrations and you're a vibr vibrate vibratory match.
• 26:13
  SPEAKER_00: This is all saying the same thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're you are literally in in those terms, you are literally the frequency of the thing that you desire.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because you embody it, it's in your body, it's already true in your body, then you anticipate it showing up.
• 26:30
  SPEAKER_00: You don't hope it shows up, you don't wish it shows up, you anticipate it showing up.
• 26:34
  SPEAKER_00: Right.
• 26:35
  SPEAKER_00: And this is this is some of the other work that we did in uh in the Choose Your Destiny live intensives that we moved from uh we moved from the the vision part on day one into the embodiment work on day two.
• 26:49
  SPEAKER_00: And although I didn't have the language, and is I couldn't, I wasn't quite yet in a place where I could articulate what we were doing.
• 26:59
  SPEAKER_00: We were literally creating a body that's willing and able to receive.
• 27:05
  SPEAKER_00: Because your nervous system has one job and one job only, and that's to keep you alive.
• 27:11
  SPEAKER_00: It keeps you alive by trying to keep you in familiar circumstances, and it tries to keep you in familiar circumstances because it knows how to keep you alive there.
• 27:20
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 27:21
  SPEAKER_00: And this is why sometimes we we get really, really close to getting what we desire, and then we back off because the nervous system is threatened by new circumstances.
• 27:32
  SPEAKER_00: And this is why self-sabotage happens, and this is why someone would procrastinate because their their body, their nervous system, is hesitating because new circumstances, new experiences feel threatening to the nervous system.
• 27:48
  SPEAKER_00: And when we do this last step and we do the embodiment work, we are literally, it's almost like we're practicing our body into feeling safe.
• 27:58
  SPEAKER_00: And we're we're allowing the new circumstances and experience to live in our body so that our body actually prepares itself to receive and feel safe in the receptivity of it.
• 28:11
  SPEAKER_00: Right.
• 28:11
  SPEAKER_00: And and in that meditation, installing future you, what I have in there is basically three parts where you start to experience a little peace, you you see it in your mind's eye, right?
• 28:25
  SPEAKER_00: The the vision work.
• 28:27
  SPEAKER_00: And then I drop you into your, I invite you to drop into your body so that you can feel your new reality.
• 28:32
  SPEAKER_00: And that's all we're doing is we're tuning your body to your new circumstances and we're moving you from vision to anticipation.
• 28:40
  SPEAKER_00: All right, guys, I hope this makes sense.
• 28:42
  SPEAKER_00: I hope you got some value out of this.
• 28:44
  SPEAKER_00: I hope that you uh uh that you are doing the work.
• 28:48
  SPEAKER_00: Uh I'm gonna put the link to uh to the meditation package that I have in the show notes.
• 28:55
  SPEAKER_00: I'm also going to put the YouTube link in case you just want to go to YouTube and grab it.
• 29:00
  SPEAKER_00: Uh, I hope this helps.
• 29:02
  SPEAKER_00: Get the work moving up the ladder of desire from need to want to just having a preference to the vision work, to it being a reality in your body, and your body just anticipates that it's going to show up.
• 29:16
  SPEAKER_00: It's not an if and if it's a win.
• 29:18
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 29:18
  SPEAKER_00: Hope this helps.
• 29:19
  SPEAKER_00: See you next week.
• 29:20
  SPEAKER_00: If I can do anything to help you in the in the meantime, feel free to reach out.
• 29:24
  SPEAKER_00: My email address is in the show notes as well.
• 29:27
  SPEAKER_00: I'm always open to a conversation.
• 29:33
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