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God s Warning 7 Types Of People You Must Not Help Billy Graham Sermon · Gil I Am

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  Speaker 1: Have you ever found yourself constantly giving to people who
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  Speaker 1: only drain you. Have you repeatedly helped someone only to
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  Speaker 1: realize they were never truly changing.
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  Speaker 2: The truth is not everyone is meant to be helped.
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  Speaker 1: The Bible provides clear warnings about certain types of people
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  Speaker 1: we should avoid helping, not out of a lack of love,
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  Speaker 1: but out of wisdom and obedience to God. There is
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  Speaker 1: a fine line between being a blessing and being an enabler,
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  Speaker 1: and if we are not careful, we may find ourselves
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  Speaker 1: being manipulated, used, and drained by those who have no
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  Speaker 1: true desire to change. Proverbs four to seven says wisdom
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  Speaker 1: is the principal thing. Therefore, get wisdom, and with all
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  Speaker 1: thy getting yet understanding. This means that our help must
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  Speaker 1: be guided by godly wisdom, not just emotions. In this message,
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  Speaker 1: we will delve into God's warnings about the seven types
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  Speaker 1: of people you should never help. These warnings are not
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  Speaker 1: based on human opinions, but on powerful biblical principles that
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  Speaker 1: will transform the way you give, serve, and protect your peace.
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  Speaker 1: Many Christians struggle with guilt when it comes to saying
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  Speaker 1: no to people. We have been taught that helping others
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  Speaker 1: is always good. But what if I told you that
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  Speaker 1: helping the wrong people can actually go against God's will.
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  Speaker 1: Some people are not looking for true help. They seek
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  Speaker 1: someone to carry their burdens while they continue in their ways.
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  Speaker 1: They desire your effort, but reject your wisdom. Even Jesus
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  Speaker 1: set boundaries, he walked away from certain people. John two
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  Speaker 1: twenty four warned against casting pearls before swine Matthew seven
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  Speaker 1: to six, and refuse to be manipulated by those unwilling
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  Speaker 1: to change. If Jesus set boundaries, why do we struggle
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  Speaker 1: to do the same. Let's explore the seven types of
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  Speaker 1: people you should never help. According to the Bible, one
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  Speaker 1: the lazy and idle. Beloved listen with spiritual ears and
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  Speaker 1: a discerning heart. There is a difference between helping those
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  Speaker 1: who are struggling and enabling those who refuse to move.
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  Speaker 1: The Bible is clear laziness is not a weakness. It
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  Speaker 1: is a choice, a habit, and ultimately a form of
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  Speaker 1: self sabotage. Proverbs ten four declares lazy hands make for poverty,
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  Speaker 1: but diligent hands bring wealth. If a person refuses to work,
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  Speaker 1: to apply themselves, and to take responsibility, then the poverty
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  Speaker 1: they experience is not an attack from the enemy. It
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  Speaker 1: is a result of their own neglect. The Apostle Paul
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  Speaker 1: was firm on this issue, writing to the Thessalonian Church,
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  Speaker 1: if anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat.
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  Speaker 1: To Thessalonians three ten, this was not cruelty, but a
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  Speaker 1: principle of divine accountability. God has structured life so that
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  Speaker 1: we reap what we sow, and if someone sows nothing,
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  Speaker 1: they should expect to reap nothing. When we continuously rescue
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  Speaker 1: the lazy, we interfere with the divine system designed to
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  Speaker 1: bring correction. Some people confuse helping with enabling. Understand this.
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  Speaker 1: When you support a lazy person financially, you do not
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  Speaker 1: bless them.
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  Speaker 2: You cripple them.
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  Speaker 1: When you make excuses for them, cover for them, or
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  Speaker 1: bail them out, you rob them of the lesson that
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  Speaker 1: could provoke them to change. Jesus himself illustrated the cost
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  Speaker 1: of laziness in Matthew twenty five twenty four through thirty
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  Speaker 1: through the parable of a servant who buried his talent
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  Speaker 1: instead of investing it. When the master returned, he did
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  Speaker 1: not reward the servant's fear or excuses. He called him
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  Speaker 1: wicked and lazy, and took away.
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  Speaker 2: What little he had. This is a biblical warning.
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  Speaker 1: Those who refuse to act will eventually lose even what
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  Speaker 1: they have. There is a distinction between those who cannot
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  Speaker 1: and those who will not work. Proverbs six' nine nine
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  Speaker 1: through eleven, warns how long will you lie, there you?
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  Speaker 1: Sluggard when will you get up from your? SLEEP a little,
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  Speaker 1: sleep a little, slumber a little folding of the hands to,
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  Speaker 1: rest and poverty will come on you like a, thief
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  Speaker 1: and scarcity like an armed. Man some of you are
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  Speaker 1: exhausted because you keep trying to help people who refuse
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  Speaker 1: to help. Themselves you pour out your, resources your, time
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  Speaker 1: and your. Energy but the more you, give the less they.
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  Speaker 1: Do that is not a godly. Burden there is a
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  Speaker 1: time to help and a time to step. Back if
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  Speaker 1: you keep feeding a man who refuses to plow his own,
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  Speaker 1: field you prevent him from ever learning to Trust. God
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  Speaker 1: sometimes the most loving thing you can do is SAY
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  Speaker 1: i will not carry What god never asked me to.
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  Speaker 1: Carry you may wonder how DO i know if someone
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  Speaker 1: is lazy or just in a difficult. Season here are
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  Speaker 1: some signs they always have an excuse for why they
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  Speaker 1: can't work but have plenty of time for entertainment and.
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  Speaker 1: Distractions they expect others to provide for, them but refuse
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  Speaker 1: to put in any. Effort they have opportunities but reject.
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  Speaker 1: Them they consistently waste, resources, money, time or. Talents they
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  Speaker 1: only seek help in a, crisis but never take action
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  Speaker 1: to prevent the next. One setting boundaries is not. Unkind
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  Speaker 1: when the rich young ruler walked, Away jesus did not
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  Speaker 1: chase after, Him mark, ten seventeen twenty. Two god allows
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  Speaker 1: people to feel the weight of their choices because sometimes
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  Speaker 1: pain is the only thing that provokes. Change if you
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  Speaker 1: have been enabling, laziness it's time to, stop and if
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  Speaker 1: you have been, lazy it's time to. Repent the good
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  Speaker 1: news is That god gives grace to those who humble.
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  Speaker 1: Themselves proverbs thirteen o four says a sluggard's appetite is never,
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  Speaker 1: filled but the desires of the diligent are fully. Satisfied
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  Speaker 1: if you rise, up shake off, complacency and put your
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  Speaker 1: hands to, Work god will bless the work of your.
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  Speaker 1: HAND i challenge you, today who are you helping That
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  Speaker 1: god has told you to let? Go of pray for
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  Speaker 1: wisdom and, discernment because the truth, is you can never
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  Speaker 1: save someone who is committed to staying stuck to the.
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  Speaker 1: Ungrateful there are people who will take your, sacrifice, love,
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  Speaker 1: effort and, time yet act as if they were entitled to.
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  Speaker 1: It ungratefulness is not just a bad. Habit it is
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  Speaker 1: a sign of a corrupted, heart and The bible warns
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  Speaker 1: us about. It In luke seventeen seventeen, Eighteen jesus heals ten,
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  Speaker 1: lepers but only one returns to give. Thanks jesus doesn't ignore,
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  Speaker 1: This he, Asks we're not all ten? Cleansed where are
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  Speaker 1: the other? Nine this is a question we must ask.
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  Speaker 1: Ourselves where are the people who received but never? Returned
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  Speaker 1: where are those who were helped but never express. Gratitude
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  Speaker 1: gratitude is the mark of a humble and godly, heart
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  Speaker 1: while ungratefulness is the mark of entitlement and. Selfishness in
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  Speaker 1: Two timothy three to, Two paul warns that in the
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  Speaker 1: last days people will be lovers of, themselves lovers of, money, ungrateful.
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  Speaker 2: Unholy did you catch that.
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  Speaker 1: Ungratefulness is a sign of a godless. Generation helping an
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  Speaker 1: ungrateful person is like pouring water into a bottomless. Pit
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  Speaker 1: no matter how much you, give it will never be.
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  Speaker 1: Enough the more you, sacrifice the more they. Demand proverbs
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  Speaker 1: seventeen thirteen warns evil will never leave the house of
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  Speaker 1: one who repays good with. Evil some people don't just
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  Speaker 1: fail to say they thank, You they turn around and
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  Speaker 1: mistreat the very ones who help. Them if you find
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  Speaker 1: yourself constantly trying to please ungrateful, people Remember god did
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  Speaker 1: not call you to be anyone's. Doormat stop giving your
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  Speaker 1: best to those who don't value. It gratitude is a
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  Speaker 1: key to. Increase When jesus multiplied the fish and Loaves
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  Speaker 1: john six,' eleven he gave thanks before. Distributing them if
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  Speaker 1: gratitude opens the door, to blessings ungratefulness. Closes it don't
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  Speaker 1: let ungrateful people drain. You dry protect, your peace And obey.
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  Speaker 1: God's wisdom doors close when. Ingratitude enters some people are
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  Speaker 1: not stuck because of. The devil they are stuck because
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  Speaker 1: of their. Own ungratefulness they do not experience abundance because
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  Speaker 1: they never take the time to acknowledge the blessings they have.
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  Speaker 1: Already received if you want to Live in, god's favor
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  Speaker 1: cultivate a spirit. Of gratitude and if you, seek wisdom
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  Speaker 1: stop helping. The ungrateful let them learn to appreciate what
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  Speaker 1: they have before they.
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  Speaker 2: Lose it because here's.
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  Speaker 1: The truth whatever you refuse, to appreciate.
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  Speaker 2: You will.
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  Speaker 1: Eventually lose the proud. And Arrogant the bible does not
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  Speaker 1: just warn, against pride it. Condemns it pride, is, dangerous destructive.
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  Speaker 1: And deceptive proverbs sixteen eighteen makes it clear pride goes,
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  Speaker 1: before destruction and a haughty spirit before. A fall some people.
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  Speaker 2: Are so full of themselves that there is no Room.
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  Speaker 1: For god they are consumed by their, own wisdom their,
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  Speaker 1: own achievements their own ways of, doing things leaving no
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  Speaker 1: space for correction. Or counsel and do you know what
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  Speaker 1: happens to such? A person they fall every single Time
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  Speaker 1: the word, Warns us god opposes, the proud but gives
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  Speaker 1: grace to.
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  Speaker 2: The humble james.
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  Speaker 1: Four six did you Hear that god himself will? Resist
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  Speaker 1: you if you operate. An arrogance you're not just facing circumstances.
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  Speaker 1: Or people you are standing in Opposition. To god and
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  Speaker 1: let me tell. You something you cannot win.
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  Speaker 2: That.
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  Speaker 1: BATTLE now i know what, You're thinking but aren't we
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  Speaker 1: supposed to? Help, people yes we help, the hurting lift,
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  Speaker 1: the fallen and strengthen. The weak but we do not
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  Speaker 1: waste our time trying to help those who refuse to
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  Speaker 1: acknowledge their need, for help because pride is a. Closed
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  Speaker 1: door when you try to correct a, proud person they.
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  Speaker 1: Reject wisdom when you try to, guide them they. Ignore
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  Speaker 1: counsel when you try to, warn them they. Dismiss advice
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  Speaker 1: proverbs twenty six, twelve states do you see a person
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  Speaker 1: wise in their? Own eyes there is more hope for
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  Speaker 1: a fool than. For them pride is. Self sabotaged some
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  Speaker 1: people are not suffering due to demonic attacks or. External
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  Speaker 1: circumstances they suffer because they refuse, to listen, take correction or.
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  Speaker 1: Humble themselves and let me tell, you something if you
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  Speaker 1: keep trying to help a, proud person you will end
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  Speaker 1: up frustrated. And exhausted you cannot rescue someone who.
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  Speaker 2: Does not believe they.
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  Speaker 1: Need saving, to clarify confidence and arrogance are not. The
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  Speaker 1: same confidence comes from Trusting, in god while arrogance comes
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  Speaker 1: from trusting. In oneself confidence is humble Acknowledging.
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  Speaker 2: That god is.
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  Speaker 1: The source arrogance is, self centered believing that success is
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  Speaker 1: solely the result of. Personal effort the confident, PERSON says
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  Speaker 1: i can do all Things, through christ who Strengthens me, philippians. Four.
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  Speaker 1: P thirteen the arrogant, PERSON says i, DID this i,
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  Speaker 1: BUILT this i. Achieved this and when you start taking
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  Speaker 1: credit for what Belongs, to god you set yourself up for.
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  Speaker 1: A fall there is no clearer picture of pride leading
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  Speaker 1: to Destruction Than king Nebukanezzer and. Daniel four he, had
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  Speaker 1: power wealth, and influence but he made one. Critical mistake
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  Speaker 1: he took credit For what god. Had done, one day
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  Speaker 1: he looked over his kingdom, and declared is not this
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  Speaker 1: The GREAT babylon i have built as the royal residence
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  Speaker 1: by my mighty power and for the glory of My
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  Speaker 1: majesty daniel. Four thirty the moment those words left.
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  Speaker 2: His mouth.
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  Speaker 1: Judgment fell god stripped him of, his power drove him from,
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  Speaker 1: his palace and made him live like an animal for
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  Speaker 1: seven years until he humbled himself and Acknowledged that god.
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  Speaker 1: Alone reigns Then there's Pharaoh. In exodus moses warned him
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  Speaker 1: ten times to, humble himself listen and Let the, israelites.
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  Speaker 2: Go but pharaoh hardened.
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  Speaker 1: His heart he refused, to, listen submit Or acknowledge. God's
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  Speaker 1: authority the result his kingdom was devastated, by plagues his
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  Speaker 1: army drowned In The, red sea and.
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  Speaker 2: His life legacy. Was destroyed pride.
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  Speaker 1: Blinds people it makes them, ignore warnings reject, wise counsel
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  Speaker 1: and fight battles they were never meant. To fight some
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  Speaker 1: of you are frustrated right now because you keep trying
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  Speaker 1: to help people who refuse to. Receive help you keep pouring,
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  Speaker 1: out wisdom but they. Reject it you keep trying to,
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  Speaker 1: lead them but. They resist you keep, warning them but
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  Speaker 1: they refuse. To listen and let me tell. You something
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  Speaker 1: you cannot force wisdom upon. A fool jesus himself Said
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  Speaker 1: in matthew seven. To six do not give dogs what.
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  Speaker 1: Is sacred do not throw your pearls. To pigs if,
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  Speaker 1: you do they may trample them under their feet and
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  Speaker 1: turn and tear you. To pieces some people are so
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  Speaker 1: arrogant that they will take the wisdom you give them
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  Speaker 1: and trample. On it you cannot help someone who refuses
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  Speaker 1: to acknowledge they.
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  Speaker 2: Need help you cannot correct someone.
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  Speaker 1: Who believes they are always right and if you continue
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  Speaker 1: trying to force wisdom on such, a person all you
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  Speaker 1: will do is waste, your time drain, your energy and
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  Speaker 1: invite unnecessary stress into. Your, LIFE now i am not
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  Speaker 1: saying to be harsh, or RUDE but i am saying
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  Speaker 1: that you must. Use discernment if you see pride, in
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  Speaker 1: someone confront it. With love but if they refuse, to
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  Speaker 1: listen step back And let god deal. With them some
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  Speaker 1: lessons can only be learned. Through hardship some people will
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  Speaker 1: never change until they have. Been humbled nebukunza did not
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  Speaker 1: change until he. Lost everything pharaoh did not break until
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  Speaker 1: his entire army. Was destroyed sometimes the most loving thing
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  Speaker 1: you can do is allow someone to experience the consequences
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  Speaker 1: of their. Own arrogance because, Hear me god knows how
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  Speaker 1: to humble, the proud, the wicked. And sinful we live
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  Speaker 1: in a world where People say god, loves everyone, and
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  Speaker 1: yes that, is true but do Not confuse god's Love
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  Speaker 1: with God's. Approval god god does not. Bless wickedness god
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  Speaker 1: does not. Support sin god does not. Reward rebellion, as
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  Speaker 1: believers we are called to walk. In wisdom PSALM one
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  Speaker 1: o one makes it clear blessed is the one who
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  Speaker 1: does not walk in step with. The wicked did you
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  Speaker 1: hear that if you want to, be blessed you must
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  Speaker 1: separate yourself from. Wicked, people now let me. Be clear
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  Speaker 1: we are all sinners in need, Of grace we all.
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  Speaker 2: Fall short but.
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  Speaker 1: There is a difference between a sinner who repents and
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  Speaker 1: a wicked person who refuses. To change there is a
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  Speaker 1: difference between someone who struggles with sin and someone, who,
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  Speaker 1: embraces defends and encourages others. To sin proverbs six sixteen
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  Speaker 1: to nineteen lists Things the, lord hates among them a,
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  Speaker 1: lying tongue hands that shed, innocent blood a heart that devises,
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  Speaker 1: wicked schemes feet that run quickly to. Do evil some
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  Speaker 1: people do not Just. Reject god they mock, his word reject,
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  Speaker 1: his wisdom and promote what. Is evil if you are
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  Speaker 1: trying to help a person committed, to wickedness you are wasting.
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  Speaker 1: Your time if a person is committed, to sin your
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  Speaker 1: help will not. Change them your kindness will not, Break
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  Speaker 1: them your sacrifices will not. Soften them and here's the.
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  Speaker 1: Real danger when you help, the wicked you share in.
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  Speaker 1: Their Guilt romans won thirty. Two warns although They know god's,
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  Speaker 1: righteous decree they not only continue to do these, very
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  Speaker 1: things but also approve of those who. Practice them some
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  Speaker 1: people do not just live. In darkness they invite others to.
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  Speaker 1: Join them if, you, support enable or, assist them you
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  Speaker 1: are partnering With something god has. Already condemned jezebel, was
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  Speaker 1: wicked and her downfall. Was Tragic two kings nine thirty and.
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  Speaker 1: Thirty seven cain murdered His brother abel and Was cursed
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  Speaker 1: genesis four ten.
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  Speaker 2: To twelve.
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  Speaker 1: Judas betrayed jesus and Met destruction matthew twenty. Seven five
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  Speaker 1: what do they have? In common they, were warned but
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  Speaker 1: they refuse. To repent some of you have wicked people in, your,
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  Speaker 1: life family, co, workers friends and you wonder HOW do
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  Speaker 1: i love them without? Enabling them the answer, set boundaries speak,
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  Speaker 1: the truth do. Not compromise love them enough to tell them,
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  Speaker 1: the truth but do not support. Their rebellion pray for
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  Speaker 1: them without participating in, Their sin love them without endorsing.
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  Speaker 1: Their actions intercede for them without letting them pull you into.
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  Speaker 1: Their mess you Are. Not god it is not your
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  Speaker 1: job to. Save them your job is to stand. For
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  Speaker 1: righteousness some people will never change until they experience the
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  Speaker 1: consequences of. Their, sin today foolishness is not a lack,
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  Speaker 1: Of intelligence it is a refusal to. Embrace wisdom there
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  Speaker 1: are people in this world who.
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  Speaker 2: Are not suffering due to a lack.
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  Speaker 1: Of opportunity they are not struggling because no one has
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  Speaker 1: tried to. Help, them no they are struggling because they refuse.
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  Speaker 1: To Listen the bible is filled with warnings. About fools
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  Speaker 1: proverbs thirteen twenty gives us a strong word. Of caution
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  Speaker 1: walk with the wise and. Become wise for a companion
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  Speaker 1: of fools. Suffers harm if you keep company with, foolish
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  Speaker 1: people you will, suffer harm not because you, are foolish
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  Speaker 1: but because you are connected. To them some of you
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  Speaker 1: keep trying to help People whom god has already warned.
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  Speaker 2: You about but is.
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  Speaker 1: A fool a fool is someone who hears wisdom but.
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  Speaker 1: REJECTS it a fool is someone who repeats the same
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  Speaker 1: mistakes over and. Over again proverbs twenty six to eleven
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  Speaker 1: gives a. Graphic description as a dog returns to, its
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  Speaker 1: vomits so fools repeat. Their folly now that is a.
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  Speaker 1: STRONG image a dog will eat, something harmful vomit, it
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  Speaker 1: out and then turn around and eat. It again and
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  Speaker 1: that is exactly what a. Fool does they break free from,
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  Speaker 1: bad decisions but run right back. To them they escape,
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  Speaker 1: toxic situations but return. To them they, receive wisdom but.
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  Speaker 1: Ignore it let me tell. You something you cannot save.
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  Speaker 1: A fool some of you are frustrated because you keep pouring,
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  Speaker 1: your wisdom, your love, your resources and your time into
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  Speaker 1: people who are not ready. To change and no matter
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  Speaker 1: how much you, advise them, correct them or, warn them
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  Speaker 1: they keep running back to the same. BAD choices a
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  Speaker 1: fool will, DRAIN you a fool will. EXHAUST you a
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  Speaker 1: fool will pull you into. Their dysfunction and here's. WHAT'S
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  Speaker 1: worse a fool will make you look like the, crazy
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  Speaker 1: one because you're the one chasing, after them trying, to
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  Speaker 1: help while they are the ones. Rejecting it, every time
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  Speaker 1: have you ever tried to reason with, A fool it's
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  Speaker 1: like arguing with. A wall proverbs twenty three to nine
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  Speaker 1: warns us do not speak, to fools for they will
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  Speaker 1: scorn your. Prudent words some of you keep trying to
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  Speaker 1: make sense of people who do not. Want wisdom let
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  Speaker 1: me tell. YOU something a fool does not. LACK knowledge
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  Speaker 1: a fool. Lacks humility it's not that they don't know.
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  Speaker 1: What's right it's that they refuse to. Accept correction here's the.
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  Speaker 1: Hard tooth when you keep helping, a fool you become
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  Speaker 1: part of. The cycle you become the person they turn
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  Speaker 1: to when they. Need rescue but they will. Never change
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  Speaker 1: fools are. Not teachable they, want help but they do not.
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  Speaker 1: Want corrections they, want relief but they do not.
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  Speaker 2: Want transformation.
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  Speaker 1: And if you keep trying to, save them they will drain,
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  Speaker 1: your energy waste, your resources.
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  Speaker 2: And then blame you when things. Go wrong.
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  Speaker 1: This is Why the bible Says in proverbs, fourteen seven
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  Speaker 1: stay away from, a fool for you will not find
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  Speaker 1: knowledge on. Their lips some of you need to take
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  Speaker 1: a step back and let life teach them what they
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  Speaker 1: refuse to learn. From you you cannot save. A Fool
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  Speaker 1: only god can. Humble them dishonest and. Manipulative people, my
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  Speaker 1: friends there are some people you should never help because
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: their intentions are. Not pure these are people who do
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  Speaker 1: not come to you because they. Need help they come
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  Speaker 1: because they see you as. An opportunity they come because
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  Speaker 1: they know you have a. Soft heart they come because
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  Speaker 1: they know you will give. Without questioning and let me tell.
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  Speaker 1: You Something the bible is very clear about dishonest and.
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  Speaker 1: Manipulative people proverbs twelve twenty two Says the lord detests,
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  Speaker 1: lying lips but he delights in people who. Are trustworthy
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  Speaker 1: god Detests dishonest why because deception is not just, a
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  Speaker 1: lie it is a tool of. The Enemy to corinthians
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  Speaker 1: eleven fourteen warns Us that satan himself masquerades is an angel.
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  Speaker 1: Of light in, other words deception is not. Always obvious
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  Speaker 1: the most dangerous liars are the ones who know how to.
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  Speaker 1: Sound sincere the most dangerous manipulators are the ones who
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  Speaker 1: know how to act. LIKE victims a manipulative person will
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  Speaker 1: play with your emotions to get what. They want they
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  Speaker 1: will make you, Feel guilty they will twist. Your kindness
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  Speaker 1: they will use flattery and pretend to be something they.
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  Speaker 1: Are not but let me, warn you do not. Be
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  Speaker 1: deceived proverbs twenty six twenty four through twenty six says
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  Speaker 1: enemies disguise themselves with, their lips but in their hearts they.
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  Speaker 1: Harbor deceit though their speech, is charming do not. Believe
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  Speaker 1: them there are people who will tell you everything you
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  Speaker 1: want to hear just to get what, they want and
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  Speaker 1: some of you have fallen into. This trap you keep
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  Speaker 1: helping people who have proven themselves to. Be dishonest you
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  Speaker 1: keep giving to people who have never, been truthful and
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  Speaker 1: every time they, get caught they come with, another excuse,
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  Speaker 1: another story. Another manipulation let me tell. You something if
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  Speaker 1: someone has manipulated you to get, your help they do not.
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  Speaker 2: Deserve it if.
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  Speaker 1: They have twisted, the, truth guilt, tripped you or pressured you,
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  Speaker 1: into giving you need to step back and let. Them,
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  Speaker 1: go now let me say. It again i'm not saying
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  Speaker 1: we shouldn't. Help people i'm saying we must. Use discernment
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  Speaker 1: there is a difference between someone who is truly in
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  Speaker 1: need and someone who is playing. A game there is
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  Speaker 1: a difference between someone who struggles with sin and someone who.
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  Speaker 1: Is unrepentant there is a difference between someone who falls
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  Speaker 1: and gets back up and someone who lays in their
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  Speaker 1: sin and refuses. To Move the bible is very clear
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  Speaker 1: about those who refuse. To repent hebrews ten twenty six
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  Speaker 1: says if we deliberately keep on sinning after receiving the
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  Speaker 1: knowledge of, the truth no sacrifice for sins.
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  Speaker 2: Is left this is a.
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  Speaker 1: Sobering word it is one thing to fall, into sin
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  Speaker 1: but it is another thing entirely to deliberately continue in
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  Speaker 1: it after hearing. The truth if someone refuses, to change
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  Speaker 1: they will continue to misuse. Your help you can pray,
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  Speaker 1: for them, counsel them pour out, your wiss, your love and.
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  Speaker 1: Your resources but if they are not ready to turn away,
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  Speaker 1: from sin everything you do will. Be wasted there are
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  Speaker 1: people who do not want to. Be delivered they want
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  Speaker 1: to be comforted in. Their sin they don't want to.
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  Speaker 1: Be corrected they want to. Be affirmed they don't, want
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  Speaker 1: transformation they. Want sympathy but, hear me you cannot set
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  Speaker 1: someone free who loves. Their Chains the bible warns Us
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  Speaker 1: in proverbs twenty nine, oh one whoever remains stiff necked
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  Speaker 1: after many rebukes will suddenly be destroyed. Without remedy some
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  Speaker 1: people will never change until they hit. Rock bottom some
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  Speaker 1: people will never repent until they. Are broken some people
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  Speaker 1: will never listen until they have. Lost everything and if
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  Speaker 1: you keep trying to rescue them before, they repent you
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  Speaker 1: are interfering with the Lesson that god is trying to.
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  Speaker 2: Teach them.
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  Speaker 1: What should you?
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  Speaker 2: Do instead.
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  Speaker 1: Pray, For Them ask god to soften their heart and
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  Speaker 1: lead them. To repentance, speak truth but don't. Force it
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  Speaker 1: give them, the word but do not argue or chase.
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  Speaker 2: After them.
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  Speaker 1: Set boundaries do not let their rebellion drain, you emotionally financially.
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  Speaker 1: Or Spiritually let god deal. With, Them beloved god calls
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  Speaker 1: us to, be generous but he also calls us to.
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  Speaker 2: Be wise if you.
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  Speaker 1: Have been giving to, the lazy, the proud, the ungrateful,
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  Speaker 1: the wicked, the foolish, the dishonest and, the unrepentant it
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  Speaker 1: is time to rethink who you are. Pouring into because
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  Speaker 1: let me tell. You something there are people out there
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  Speaker 1: who need. Your help there are people who will appreciate.
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  Speaker 1: Your kindness there are people who will use what you give.
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  Speaker 1: Them wisely there are people who, will listen learn. And
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  Speaker 1: grow but if you keep giving all your energy to
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  Speaker 1: people who refuse, to change you will have nothing left
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  Speaker 1: for the ones who truly. Need It ask god. For
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  Speaker 1: discernment are you helping the? Right people are you pouring
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  Speaker 1: into good ground or are you wasting. Your efforts when
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  Speaker 1: you give to the, right people you will See growth
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  Speaker 1: when you sow into the, right people you will. See
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  Speaker 1: fruit when you help those who are truly ready, to
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  Speaker 1: change you will. See transformation, be wise, be discerning And
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  Speaker 1: trust god to handle those who refuse.
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  Speaker 2: To listen