Latest / Untraditionally Lala / The One About ALL The VPR Moments
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- 0:06Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, and welcome to the Give Them La La Podcast.
- 0:10Speaker 1: We are getting down and dirty, getting back to my roots,
- 0:14Speaker 1: headed back to the mothership of vander Pump Rules.
- 0:17Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my goodness.
- 0:21Speaker 1: I know I thought after season eleven I'd never discussed
- 0:24Speaker 1: it again. I'm just kidding.
- 0:26Speaker 2: I'm back.
- 0:28Speaker 1: So, as you guys know, I am going to start
- 0:32Speaker 1: my nesting process. So We've got episodes that have to
- 0:35Speaker 1: be pre recorded. And I was like, what do people
- 0:37Speaker 1: want to hear about? Just because like, are you serious
- 0:39Speaker 1: people want to hear about vander Pump Rules. You're pretty
- 0:41Speaker 1: much a nobody without vander Pump Rules.
- 0:43Speaker 2: And I was like, you're right, they did not say that.
- 0:47Speaker 1: Everyone I should talk about it. So I had you
- 0:50Speaker 1: guys right in your questions for moments that happen on
- 0:56Speaker 1: vander Pump Rules that you would like to discuss break down.
- 1:01Speaker 1: Maybe I regret those moments. Maybe I wish I would
- 1:04Speaker 1: have gone a little heavier on the paint. Is it
- 1:07Speaker 1: on the painter or in the paint? And that's what
- 1:09Speaker 1: I thought, but it came out as on.
- 1:12Speaker 2: And guess what we're rolling with it.
- 1:14Speaker 1: Ocean's favorite song right now is ice Cream Paint Job.
- 1:18Speaker 1: By Dora.
- 1:19Speaker 2: Wait, Dora, I thought that was.
- 1:26Speaker 1: Well, I mean, can we make it what I call him?
- 1:33Speaker 1: Who cares? Wait, I'm Lauren.
- 1:35Speaker 2: It's oh, you're right. Can we make a correction? You guys?
- 1:38Speaker 2: It is Hailey Williams on airplanes?
- 1:40Speaker 1: I know. I'm so glad. I was I no.
- 1:44Speaker 2: No, I said, I think it's Hailey Williams.
- 1:46Speaker 1: And I was like, you're absolutely incorrect. It is Skyler
- 1:50Speaker 1: Gray And so many people are like you dumb Batch
- 1:52Speaker 1: had Hayley Williams.
- 1:53Speaker 2: I was like, damn, they sounds I never looks stupid
- 1:58Speaker 2: soon ever.
- 1:59Speaker 1: You know what's about this podcast is I think even
- 2:02Speaker 1: when we have really stupid moments, it's okay because next
- 2:05Speaker 1: week we'll move on to something else exactly.
- 2:08Speaker 3: Also something stupid next week, So.
- 2:10Speaker 1: Here we go exactly people, we'll forget about way you
- 2:14Speaker 1: said the week before. Okay, Jess, do you want to
- 2:18Speaker 1: get it popop in for us?
- 2:20Speaker 2: Yes, because we have so many things. So what la
- 2:22Speaker 2: La posted was what vander Pump rules moments would you
- 2:26Speaker 2: like me to discuss, breakdown, deep dive into et cetera.
- 2:30Speaker 2: You guys wrote in with so many good ones. So oh,
- 2:34Speaker 2: we're starting off a little Spicy Okay, Season seven, episode twelve.
- 2:39Speaker 2: What happened that got you so upset with are? It
- 2:43Speaker 2: looks deeper than being sober together.
- 2:46Speaker 1: I think that this was when I went to Christina
- 2:49Speaker 1: Kelly's house and I was sobbing in her house, and
- 2:54Speaker 1: it was deeper than that I have said in any
- 2:58Speaker 1: relationship that I ever have. I have two very very
- 3:02Speaker 1: hard lines. Absolutely no cheating and absolutely no drug use. Okay,
- 3:10Speaker 1: and I'm gonna leave it at that.
- 3:12Speaker 2: Got it very interesting question here, Jacks, did you guys
- 3:17Speaker 2: hook up? What happened with him and you? And I'm
- 3:20Speaker 2: just adding this, like how are you now?
- 3:23Speaker 1: Jacks is one of those people that I kind of
- 3:27Speaker 1: just know who he is. I adore Brittany and and
- 3:34Speaker 1: you know, I respect that they are whatever they're going through.
- 3:39Speaker 1: They're married right now at this point in time, and
- 3:43Speaker 1: could stay married. So I accept him because that's my
- 3:47Speaker 1: friend's husband. But we've never hooked up. I remember being
- 3:51Speaker 1: wasted at my apartment on Olympic one night and texting
- 3:55Speaker 1: him very late to come over. And the only reason
- 3:59Speaker 1: why I remember this is because I didn't delete the text.
- 4:02Speaker 1: I saw the next morning and was like, I'm so
- 4:05Speaker 1: fucking glad he did not come over here.
- 4:08Speaker 2: Did he respond or like like it or I guess
- 4:11Speaker 2: you probably couldn't like it at the time, But did
- 4:13Speaker 2: he like say anything about it? Or you pretend you
- 4:15Speaker 2: guys it didn't happen.
- 4:17Speaker 1: I don't think he responded, really no. I think it
- 4:20Speaker 1: was like four in the morning. I don't think I
- 4:23Speaker 1: got a response, and I was like, what am I doing?
- 4:28Speaker 1: That's when you know, well, I was in my bed
- 4:31Speaker 1: like slowly passing out, so even if he.
- 4:34Speaker 2: Did respond, he wouldn't have been able to get inside.
- 4:38Speaker 1: No, it all worked out. We have never hooked up,
- 4:41Speaker 1: and I mean like not even we haven't even pecked
- 4:44Speaker 1: each other ever. Nothing. But that was a beautiful moment
- 4:49Speaker 1: when he was saying that I've like hit on him
- 4:53Speaker 1: Season four throwback and Brittany was thinking that I was
- 4:57Speaker 1: this little like skank who was trying I'm like, no, no, no.
- 5:01Speaker 1: That was the first time that I was like, oh wow,
- 5:03Speaker 1: there are people who like really are liars right in
- 5:06Speaker 1: the world that like can look you dead in the
- 5:08Speaker 1: eye and know that this should be filmed like that
- 5:11Speaker 1: never happened, and it's like, what the.
- 5:13Speaker 2: Fucking yeah, they don't.
- 5:15Speaker 1: Rule this way in Utah. There may be a lot
- 5:17Speaker 1: of Mormons, but there's morals. You're a naughty boy, You're
- 5:22Speaker 1: a liar.
- 5:23Speaker 2: Naughty boys, bank bottom and.
- 5:27Speaker 1: I cried in Hawaii. I was like, this is strange. Yeah,
- 5:31Speaker 1: I'm getting called out for taking my top off, which
- 5:33Speaker 1: my friends, I'll take their top stuff where I'm from, right,
- 5:36Speaker 1: tits out, tit's out. Anyway, there's my long winded story
- 5:41Speaker 1: to where Jackson I stand. I never really know. We float,
- 5:47Speaker 1: We waff yes.
- 5:52Speaker 2: Why you and Sheena used to clash.
- 5:55Speaker 1: Oh sheesh. I think as you get older, if you
- 6:00Speaker 1: start realizing that you're not going to change people, and
- 6:04Speaker 1: you start either saying I'm going to accept them for
- 6:07Speaker 1: exactly who they are or I'm going to be done
- 6:10Speaker 1: with them. And I think Shehena and I both clashed
- 6:15Speaker 1: back in the day because I was a little bit
- 6:19Speaker 1: rough around the edges. I still am, but I've learned
- 6:23Speaker 1: how to kind of tame it a bit in my mind,
- 6:27Speaker 1: I guess. But back then it was like I said
- 6:31Speaker 1: exactly what I wanted to say in not productive ways.
- 6:37Speaker 1: They could come across as very mean. And by the way,
- 6:40Speaker 1: I can still do that, and there are times where
- 6:42Speaker 1: I regret it, and there are other times where I'm
- 6:43Speaker 1: like it was harsh, but it needed to be harsh.
- 6:46Speaker 1: I didn't baby my friendship with Shina back in the day,
- 6:51Speaker 1: and I can't even explain why. I just was timing
- 6:55Speaker 1: was off. We did not see eye to eye. She
- 7:00Speaker 1: was someone who even when we were clashing, I said
- 7:02Speaker 1: that that girl has a very very good heart that
- 7:06Speaker 1: I could not be disputed. And season nine, when it
- 7:11Speaker 1: was like, okay, we're like really struggling. We keep missing
- 7:15Speaker 1: and like I need to know are we going to
- 7:17Speaker 1: continue to keep missing or is this a friendship where
- 7:21Speaker 1: it's like I like you, you like me, and we
- 7:23Speaker 1: also have kids the exact same age that are girls Like,
- 7:27Speaker 1: there's now stakes to the friendship and it was like
- 7:31Speaker 1: we were dating. It was like we sat down and
- 7:34Speaker 1: we were like, we're going to do this, We're really
- 7:37Speaker 1: going to take a whack at it for real.
- 7:38Speaker 2: Season nine, Yeah, that's key.
- 7:41Speaker 1: Season nine and season ten we hit rough waters. But
- 7:45Speaker 1: she respected me and I respected her. That's what shifted.
- 7:48Speaker 1: Season ten. I sat down with her, I said, I
- 7:51Speaker 1: love you. I don't appreciate the way that things went
- 7:55Speaker 1: down last night with Raquel and Tom Schwartz and how
- 7:58Speaker 1: how you and Brock and everyone else celebrated that. I
- 8:01Speaker 1: know how Katie's feeling. I'm not going to be attending.
- 8:05Speaker 1: And even though she maybe didn't like that answer, there
- 8:08Speaker 1: was respect there now. So timing is just on, yeah,
- 8:14Speaker 1: as of right now. And I know what she needs,
- 8:16Speaker 1: she knows what I need. And we've both accepted each
- 8:19Speaker 1: other exactly how we are.
- 8:22Speaker 2: I love that, as you should a lot of times.
- 8:24Speaker 2: That's just how it needs to be with friendships. Like
- 8:26Speaker 2: maybe we don't see eye to eye hear, but we
- 8:29Speaker 2: respect and accept each other. And that's that.
- 8:31Speaker 1: Yeah. And I'm thirty three, is yes, young, but it's
- 8:35Speaker 1: also a point in time where just in my life,
- 8:39Speaker 1: what I've been through, what I've seen and experienced, having
- 8:43Speaker 1: a second baby, you know, raising kids, you just realize
- 8:48Speaker 1: this is what I'm going to accept and this is
- 8:51Speaker 1: what I want cut out of my life. Yeah, and
- 8:54Speaker 1: if I end up with a handful of people, most
- 8:58Speaker 1: of which are my family, I'm okay with it. Yeah.
- 9:02Speaker 2: There you go, There we go, there you go. Okay.
- 9:05Speaker 2: Next one, you're fling with James dot dot dot in
- 9:08Speaker 2: all caps. Why crying, laughing face.
- 9:10Speaker 1: That is the strangest time of my entire life.
- 9:13Speaker 2: You guys, I tell me why, because I kind of
- 9:16Speaker 2: now knowing you, I didn't know you back then. I
- 9:19Speaker 2: feel like I know why.
- 9:20Speaker 1: But tell me, I just we had the best time together, right,
- 9:25Speaker 1: He made me laugh so hard. We would like create
- 9:29Speaker 1: music together, but it would like we were the definition
- 9:33Speaker 1: as corny as it sounds of, like young, wild and
- 9:37Speaker 1: free and we're on fucking TV. Yeah you know.
- 9:41Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 9:41Speaker 1: It was like the world was ours for the taking.
- 9:44Speaker 1: What are you talking about tomorrow? Who's worried about tomorrow?
- 9:47Speaker 1: We're living for today. Let's make a great song cut
- 9:51Speaker 1: to Feeling You Yeah, which still hits heavy. By the way,
- 9:56Speaker 1: Easton's not gonna say much because he's never seen an episode.
- 10:00Speaker 1: So I'm here though today he's just listening and probably
- 10:07Speaker 1: gonna learn a lot of things, not stuff I think
- 10:12Speaker 1: I want to learn.
- 10:14Speaker 2: That's exactly what I thought, because it was like, why
- 10:16Speaker 2: not you trusted him? It was like, you guys are
- 10:19Speaker 2: both on the same TV show.
- 10:20Speaker 1: It's fun, you're drinking, It's like and we had each
- 10:23Speaker 1: other's back, Yes.
- 10:24Speaker 3: James, Andy had mine. Like when I'd come out here,
- 10:27Speaker 3: he made an effort like I really did like James,
- 10:29Speaker 3: when you guys were I think you were hooking up
- 10:32Speaker 3: at that time, great or if you had, but he'd
- 10:34Speaker 3: always call me, we'd go to the bars.
- 10:37Speaker 1: Yeah, we more would just make out all the time.
- 10:41Speaker 1: And then the finale of my first season, I shoved
- 10:45Speaker 1: Kristen to the ground. Not proud, not proud of that
- 10:51Speaker 1: at all. How do you not condone physical contact? Right right?
- 10:56Speaker 1: You're playing a contact sport, right, Not that. I was like,
- 11:00Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna fuck your man. I think
- 11:03Speaker 1: it wasn't her man, I.
- 11:05Speaker 2: Fuck your XX man.
- 11:07Speaker 1: Right, your ex. I was like, I think you deserve it,
- 11:12Speaker 1: you know the push. You know, no one deserve the
- 11:18Speaker 1: push I'm saying. I looked at James that night and
- 11:21Speaker 1: was just like, let's go home, have a couple more
- 11:24Speaker 1: and get really sloppy.
- 11:28Speaker 2: Just fun.
- 11:29Speaker 1: It was fun. Yeah, it's a fun time in my life.
- 11:33Speaker 1: And sometimes I look at us on the plane to
- 11:35Speaker 1: Hawaii and I'm like slouched in the seat and we're
- 11:37Speaker 1: just like making out as a producer films it on
- 11:42Speaker 1: their iPhone. Do you know how I could never do that?
- 11:46Speaker 1: Like if someone came up to me, even if I
- 11:49Speaker 1: was dating them, and started trying to make out with
- 11:51Speaker 1: me while the producer filmed. I would feel so weird
- 11:55Speaker 1: when I brought the dawn back to the back to
- 11:58Speaker 1: the house. Yeah, I was so fucking scared.
- 12:02Speaker 2: You were like nervous that cameras were there, nervous about
- 12:05Speaker 2: all of it. Okay, did you I forget, did you
- 12:08Speaker 2: kiss him or anything on while the cameras were there,
- 12:11Speaker 2: or did you? Literally You're like, we're not doing anything
- 12:13Speaker 2: until I leave. I know you went in the bedroom,
- 12:16Speaker 2: so let me tell you. Yeah, tell us some beata.
- 12:19Speaker 1: I'm in the car with Christina and Katie. Okay, Katie's
- 12:25Speaker 1: responsible for this whole night, right. I give Katie all
- 12:29Speaker 1: the credit for getting me out of my funk and
- 12:33Speaker 1: reviving me and making me like do something with the dawn.
- 12:37Speaker 1: Whether it was like kiss him, hold his hand. Well,
- 12:40Speaker 1: Christina was like, you can just kiss him and hold
- 12:42Speaker 1: his hand, and Katie was like, no, you're gonna fuck yes, Katie,
- 12:48Speaker 1: Ocean is thousands of miles away. I was like, I
- 12:51Speaker 1: don't know about thousands, like thousands of miles away. You're like,
- 12:56Speaker 1: she's away, She's.
- 12:59Speaker 2: One stayed over.
- 13:00Speaker 1: So we're having this conversation in the car and I
- 13:02Speaker 1: was like, okay, I'm gonna text him. I was like,
- 13:04Speaker 1: but no one say anything. Well, I didn't realize that
- 13:07Speaker 1: my mic could be heard. That I was in the driveway.
- 13:11Speaker 1: We drove home. Production was setting up in the house.
- 13:14Speaker 1: They heard you're still miked. Oh yeah, you stay MICD
- 13:17Speaker 1: because we went from the restaurant. Yeah, after I told
- 13:20Speaker 1: Raquel to disengage. Bitch, Yeah, you're not gonna tell me
- 13:23Speaker 1: about my situation that I lived right your little fucking square.
- 13:27Speaker 1: You won't go there, Okay. I was upset. Okay, yes
- 13:31Speaker 1: you were. We drive home, they've set up. We're in
- 13:35Speaker 1: the driveway. I text the Dawn to come over. Yeah,
- 13:39Speaker 1: and I'm like, no one talk about this in there.
- 13:41Speaker 1: I don't want I want production to leave and then
- 13:43Speaker 1: he can come over. Well we get it. Well, like
- 13:47Speaker 1: we heard everything and we're filming a show. And I
- 13:49Speaker 1: was like, all right, fine, fuck it.
- 13:52Speaker 2: I feel like that's such a not season ten la
- 13:54Speaker 2: la mistake. The fact that you did not just always
- 13:57Speaker 2: assume your MICD always assume they can hear.
- 13:59Speaker 1: I didn't. I thought that they were way too far
- 14:02Speaker 1: away for us to be heard. I'm always aware of
- 14:07Speaker 1: my mic, right, but I'm like They're so like, there's
- 14:10Speaker 1: so much distance, there's no way they're gonna pick this up. Oh,
- 14:13Speaker 1: they they picked it up.
- 14:15Speaker 2: They picked it up, which, by the way, let's do
- 14:17Speaker 2: a fun little BTS. The next morning, Laala texted me
- 14:20Speaker 2: because I'd been like waiting for her to have sex.
- 14:23Speaker 2: I've been like, you have to get it in, you
- 14:24Speaker 2: have to get it in. She finally does, and she
- 14:27Speaker 2: texted me like, I had sex last night. I'm freaking out.
- 14:31Speaker 2: I did not realize on these trips cameras are there
- 14:34Speaker 2: early in the morning. This was like nine am. I
- 14:36Speaker 2: was at Palazzo. I didn't realize this. So she calls
- 14:40Speaker 2: me or I call her.
- 14:42Speaker 1: And at this point in time, productions not in the
- 14:44Speaker 1: room right, like, so I'm really revealing all the nitty
- 14:48Speaker 1: gritties and you're gonna hear some shit, but we do
- 14:50Speaker 1: it for the audience, so you just sit there and
- 14:53Speaker 1: so serious.
- 14:54Speaker 2: So Lala's telling me, but you're not Mike to this
- 14:57Speaker 2: point because I call you back, right and I say it. Basically,
- 15:00Speaker 2: Laala's telling me on the phone. She says, I want
- 15:03Speaker 2: to say it. She's like, and I squirt it and
- 15:07Speaker 2: I she says this, and I think maybe I call
- 15:10Speaker 2: her back, like a few minutes later or whatever. Don't know.
- 15:13Speaker 2: She's miked and cameras are in the room and I'm like, okay, well,
- 15:15Speaker 2: I love you. I'm so glad you had sex, congratulations
- 15:19Speaker 2: on squirting for the first time. And she goes sh
- 15:22Speaker 2: I was like what she's like, I miked the camera here.
- 15:26Speaker 2: I was like, fuck, they didn't use it. I thought
- 15:30Speaker 2: for sure they would.
- 15:31Speaker 1: No, but they definitely were like, do you want to
- 15:33Speaker 1: tell Christina about the bed? I'm like it was soft.
- 15:38Speaker 1: They're like, no, about the bed. I was like, I
- 15:43Speaker 1: couldn't sleep in the bed because it was so wet,
- 15:46Speaker 1: crawling off.
- 15:47Speaker 2: That was my bad. I never did that again. That's funny.
- 15:50Speaker 1: On the drive home, yeah, from because I really thought
- 15:53Speaker 1: it was a one and done. Okay, great to me.
- 15:55Speaker 1: The Dawn one night stand right like production. I see
- 16:00Speaker 1: them coming through the garage. I look in the room.
- 16:02Speaker 1: I said, the Dawn, you gotta go. I give him
- 16:06Speaker 1: a little pat on the ass, set him on his way.
- 16:07Speaker 2: Did they see him walk out?
- 16:09Speaker 1: Nope? They go where is he? And I go, He's gone.
- 16:13Speaker 1: He's gone. So we get in the car. We do
- 16:15Speaker 1: our like goodbye and Jeremiah, one of our producers. They
- 16:18Speaker 1: had like, because you know, we're in Lake havasuits, so
- 16:21Speaker 1: they have like really cool things at their gas stations.
- 16:26Speaker 1: And they had one of those like knives that was
- 16:28Speaker 1: like wooden and you know, like it looks like it
- 16:31Speaker 1: was like hand carved or whatever, and it said Dawn
- 16:35Speaker 1: on it, and he he bought it for me. Jeremiah did, yeah,
- 16:38Speaker 1: do you still have it somewhere? I do have it.
- 16:41Speaker 2: You have to keep it, of course I would keep it.
- 16:43Speaker 1: So the dawn like revived my soul.
- 16:47Speaker 2: I wonder what he's doing now, probably and pussy given that.
- 16:55Speaker 1: Good good all around town.
- 17:01Speaker 2: Okay, next, this is a bit of a bts. Okay
- 17:04Speaker 2: in editing, do they mess with the conpos Sometimes it
- 17:07Speaker 2: seems like they've really e ft. I don't know why
- 17:10Speaker 2: I'm saying. F it says really fucked with them.
- 17:14Speaker 1: I can't speak on exactly what they do behind the
- 17:19Speaker 1: scenes because I'm not there for every single conversation that's had.
- 17:25Speaker 1: When I watch myself have conversations with other people, I
- 17:29Speaker 1: sit there and think, like, oh, I do remember that.
- 17:31Speaker 1: Going a little bit differently, again, the show is very
- 17:36Speaker 1: much real life. These are real conversations, but we have
- 17:40Speaker 1: to whittle it down to less than an hour show
- 17:44Speaker 1: an hour with commercials like it's you have to you can't.
- 17:47Speaker 1: It's impossible to show every single detail that scene of
- 17:52Speaker 1: like me Katie and season season eleven, the most recent,
- 17:56Speaker 1: where we're at James and Alley's for the reading, start reading.
- 18:00Speaker 1: I mean we were there for like three four hours.
- 18:03Speaker 2: Damn.
- 18:03Speaker 1: Yeah, they're long shooting moments that we have long hangouts.
- 18:08Speaker 1: I will say there was one one thing that happened
- 18:12Speaker 1: season seven. Season seven was really really tough for me
- 18:16Speaker 1: because my dad had just died in April. We picked
- 18:19Speaker 1: cameras up in May, and I was a mess, and
- 18:24Speaker 1: I remember losing my mind on Raquel. That's the bambe
- 18:28Speaker 1: eyed bitch moment, James really wanting to come to her defense. Understandably,
- 18:34Speaker 1: that's his girlfriend and him sitting across from me, and
- 18:41Speaker 1: I start talking like him, like I start saying something
- 18:46Speaker 1: that he said and I talk in his accent and
- 18:50Speaker 1: he said, YE always did love my accent, didn't you, babe,
- 18:53Speaker 1: And like does a tongue thing, and I go, you're
- 18:56Speaker 1: still loving the fact that you fucked La La. Good
- 18:59Speaker 1: for you. Baby's most successful thing you'll ever do in
- 19:01Speaker 1: your life. They cut out him saying you always did
- 19:06Speaker 1: love my accent, didn't you, babe with the tongue thing.
- 19:10Speaker 1: So it looks like I have become so unhinged that
- 19:12Speaker 1: I just randomly say.
- 19:14Speaker 2: That, Okay, yeah, but obviously you did not.
- 19:17Speaker 1: No, I was provoked and I was already on one hundred.
- 19:21Speaker 1: I had screamed at Raquel on the way into the
- 19:27Speaker 1: other room. Billy Lee is screaming at me, and I
- 19:30Speaker 1: remember looking at her and going no, and then almost
- 19:36Speaker 1: headbutting her. Get the fuck out of my face. I
- 19:40Speaker 1: was losing it. I was losing it.
- 19:42Speaker 2: Okay, you're drunk or no, you were drinking.
- 19:47Speaker 1: I had said that. I had said that I wasn't
- 19:49Speaker 1: drinking at that time, but I did go next door
- 19:52Speaker 1: to it was a TORTI called tortillera republic, and I
- 19:56Speaker 1: did have champagne before I started filming, so I wasn't
- 19:59Speaker 1: completely like a sober person or a dry person at
- 20:04Speaker 1: that time. It was like I was just surviving. It
- 20:06Speaker 1: was like a win for me to even put your
- 20:09Speaker 1: feet on the ground right season seven. But that was
- 20:12Speaker 1: the one thing that I remember them cutting out, and
- 20:15Speaker 1: I was devastated by it because I'm like, I already
- 20:19Speaker 1: am hanging on by a thread. Could you have maybe
- 20:22Speaker 1: fucked with me on a season where my dad didn't die, right?
- 20:26Speaker 1: You know?
- 20:26Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 20:27Speaker 1: But it made me a tough bitch yep. After that,
- 20:30Speaker 1: it was like all is good And what's crazy is
- 20:33Speaker 1: I got a lot of smoke that season. But then
- 20:36Speaker 1: as time passed, I would we have the iconic Bambiyde
- 20:40Speaker 1: bitch line, which was not iconic in the moment, and
- 20:43Speaker 1: then you have people reaching out saying the way that
- 20:46Speaker 1: you were. So it was my most vulnerable season that
- 20:50Speaker 1: I've ever had in my entire life, because I couldn't
- 20:53Speaker 1: hide people reaching out saying thank you for sharing what
- 20:56Speaker 1: your grieving process looked like, because it helped me through
- 20:59Speaker 1: my grip process when I didn't understand how to take
- 21:03Speaker 1: it all on. So everything everything ends up being all good.
- 21:08Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, this is a lighter one. But I feel
- 21:12Speaker 2: like I can read this one because like I'm like,
- 21:15Speaker 2: I feel like everybody knows what ken breaking. The news
- 21:19Speaker 2: of Scandival really scripted.
- 21:21Speaker 1: Okay, so let me tell you something. This is how
- 21:23Speaker 1: I this is what I believe, and I'm pretty I
- 21:28Speaker 1: would put I wouldn't put my life on it, but
- 21:29Speaker 1: I'd put a large sum of money on it, Okay.
- 21:32Speaker 1: And we've spoken about this before, back when Scanival was
- 21:35Speaker 1: actually like forefront of the news happening. So I'm happy
- 21:38Speaker 1: that we're talking about it again. I think because Lisa
- 21:42Speaker 1: is boss bitch queen of the show. She's you know,
- 21:48Speaker 1: top of top of the food chain when it comes
- 21:50Speaker 1: to vander Pump rules, right, she certainly couldn't. She's the
- 21:54Speaker 1: one where we go and we tell her about our
- 21:57Speaker 1: drama and she's like, I don't want to know about it.
- 21:59Speaker 1: I want to know how you're doing. She talks to
- 22:01Speaker 1: the toms about she doesn't care about the drama of
- 22:04Speaker 1: the bar. She cares about when will the bar be open?
- 22:07Speaker 1: And making money? Right, Like that's her. I don't want
- 22:11Speaker 1: to call it a role, but her role is like
- 22:13Speaker 1: our mama. And I think she didn't want to be
- 22:21Speaker 1: the one to drop something so big, so it was
- 22:24Speaker 1: kind of punted onto Ken, like Ken, we gotta like
- 22:28Speaker 1: someone beyond the main cast has to drop this, and
- 22:32Speaker 1: the only person that was there was Natalie. If you
- 22:37Speaker 1: would call the flashback where Raquel comes into the restaurant
- 22:41Speaker 1: very late talks about her night. The only people that
- 22:43Speaker 1: were there were Raquel, who clearly is not going to
- 22:46Speaker 1: be the one coming up to us to drop the news. Natalie,
- 22:50Speaker 1: she's got her own thing going on. And Lisa. How
- 22:53Speaker 1: do we make sense of this and have Lisa not
- 22:55Speaker 1: spill the tea?
- 22:57Speaker 2: Well?
- 22:58Speaker 1: Have her husband do it? Yeah? Husbands and why talk?
- 23:01Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 23:01Speaker 1: Yeah, it was so funny, iconic.
- 23:07Speaker 2: It looks like shuffling in, dropping the line, shuffling.
- 23:11Speaker 1: Out now again. Yeah, it was a fantastic I love it. Yeah,
- 23:16Speaker 1: and I love Katie being like come again. Dipped out,
- 23:20Speaker 1: she left, She did not dip out. He dipped in.
- 23:24Speaker 1: He dipped in with aust oh boy, oh boy. Okay, okay,
- 23:30Speaker 1: I'm assuming. I just want to for the record, I
- 23:32Speaker 1: don't know that that's how it happened. That's just me
- 23:35Speaker 1: as a viewer because I wasn't there. I don't know exactly.
- 23:38Speaker 1: That's how I would take it, Yes, because it seemed scripted,
- 23:41Speaker 1: but our show was not scripted, right like I yes,
- 23:44Speaker 1: you get what I mean?
- 23:44Speaker 2: Yes, of course.
- 23:45Speaker 1: Okay.
- 23:47Speaker 2: This has been asked so many times, and I'm just
- 23:48Speaker 2: going to keep asking it because I see it a
- 23:50Speaker 2: million times for anyone who hasn't heard pasta.
- 23:53Speaker 1: Is it pasta again?
- 23:54Speaker 2: What is pasta code for something else? Or was it
- 23:57Speaker 2: really just about the pasta? I know, but you have
- 24:01Speaker 2: to every time. We're just gonna answer it every time
- 24:04Speaker 2: until we never see it as.
- 24:05Speaker 1: As it was a plate of food, a plate of pasta.
- 24:08Speaker 1: Everyone has a different recollection of what the pasta was. Okay,
- 24:13Speaker 1: I thought it was like a fetcini with snow peas.
- 24:17Speaker 1: Raquel on her pod or Rachel on her podcast said
- 24:19Speaker 1: it was the pasta siciline, which actually is very fantastic.
- 24:24Speaker 1: I don't recall it being that. Someone else recalled it
- 24:27Speaker 1: being something different. We were passing a blunt that night.
- 24:32Speaker 1: We were all very fucking high, so feddicini, pasta siciline,
- 24:38Speaker 1: maybe spaghetti and meatballs. It's all the same when you're
- 24:41Speaker 1: that gone, right. But it wasn't like a code word.
- 24:47Speaker 1: The whole thing was it thinks it's cocaine. For the record,
- 24:49Speaker 1: let me let me put this out here. I got
- 24:52Speaker 1: sober from alcohol. I liked my weed. I was not
- 24:57Speaker 1: addicted to it. I could take it or leave. I
- 25:00Speaker 1: did mushrooms one time when I had first moved to
- 25:04Speaker 1: La I have never done cocaine in my life. I
- 25:07Speaker 1: have never popped pills. I don't fuck with that stuff.
- 25:12Speaker 1: So everyone thinking that I was talking about how I
- 25:14Speaker 1: did all of Raquel's cocaine absolutely fucking not right, all
- 25:20Speaker 1: of her pasta. Truly, it was the pasta because we
- 25:23Speaker 1: were all stoned.
- 25:24Speaker 2: Right. There we have it once again, There we have it. Okay,
- 25:28Speaker 2: I like this because we've touched on your sobriety a
- 25:31Speaker 2: little bit. Your initial steps into sobriety weren't really shared
- 25:35Speaker 2: being around drinkers much love. I'm assuming they mean, like, yeah,
- 25:40Speaker 2: you're taking steps into sobriety being around drinkers, so maybe
- 25:43Speaker 2: touch on that.
- 25:45Speaker 1: You know. What's really amazing is there are times I
- 25:49Speaker 1: find sobriety to be very interesting because I'm a sober person.
- 25:55Speaker 1: My sobriety is not at the forefront of banner pump rules,
- 26:01Speaker 1: and I think for a good reason. There are things
- 26:03Speaker 1: that maybe they want to share, like me talking to
- 26:06Speaker 1: my sponsor, never gonna happen. You showing me go to
- 26:11Speaker 1: an AA meeting, not going into the room, but you
- 26:14Speaker 1: just showing me go there, or working on my steps,
- 26:17Speaker 1: never gonna happen. I don't do those things in front
- 26:20Speaker 1: of anybody, let alone an audience. It's similar to why
- 26:25Speaker 1: I've never done therapy on camera, because yes, I that
- 26:31Speaker 1: is very much real life. But in real life, I
- 26:33Speaker 1: don't invite my friends to watch my therapy sessions, So
- 26:37Speaker 1: why would I invite a camera crew? Right right? For me,
- 26:42Speaker 1: there are just certain things that I want private. My sobriety.
- 26:46Speaker 1: I'm happy to talk about it. You're never gonna see
- 26:49Speaker 1: me talk to my sponsor or one of my fellow
- 26:54Speaker 1: sober sisters, not on the table. So maybe that's why
- 26:59Speaker 1: it's not really focused on. It's kind of like loss sober,
- 27:03Speaker 1: congratulations on the amount of years, and I'm happy that
- 27:06Speaker 1: it's even acknowledged. I think what got me sober was
- 27:11Speaker 1: just my rock bottom looking very different than most. Season
- 27:15Speaker 1: seven of drinking and losing my dad wiped me out.
- 27:21Speaker 1: We talk about it all the time because Easton no
- 27:23Speaker 1: longer drinks. He's a little pothead. And my mom got
- 27:29Speaker 1: sober a year after I did for just support reasons,
- 27:35Speaker 1: but drunk, well, we get the two of us together.
- 27:41Speaker 1: You're so fun now they're videos of us. We're still
- 27:44Speaker 1: very much yes, fun, I think. But when she had
- 27:48Speaker 1: her prosecco, I was vodka's deep. We had a fucking heyday,
- 27:54Speaker 1: all right, especially before my dad died, where it wasn't
- 27:58Speaker 1: dark yet, it was we drank to have fun.
- 28:00Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 28:01Speaker 1: Then dad dies and we start drinking to none and
- 28:04Speaker 1: it's dark. Even now. The thought of a drink takes
- 28:08Speaker 1: me right back into Okay, we've just lost dad and
- 28:11Speaker 1: we're in an aggrieving process, like it does. I don't
- 28:14Speaker 1: watch people drink yo, oh, that looks so fun. Maybe
- 28:18Speaker 1: when they have like a sparkling rose on rooftop. M M.
- 28:21Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, I know that feeling of the
- 28:23Speaker 1: first one that is fucking fun. Yeah, you could never
- 28:26Speaker 1: get me to go there. Now those days are probably
- 28:28Speaker 1: looming where they are difficult and I have my mouth
- 28:31Speaker 1: start watering and I want one. They haven't happened yet,
- 28:33Speaker 1: Thank god. I can't even explain why I got sober.
- 28:38Speaker 1: It was just a moment that I woke up six
- 28:41Speaker 1: months to the very day of my dad passing in
- 28:45Speaker 1: this dark apartment Easton and his ex or girlfriend at
- 28:49Speaker 1: the time, and my mom were gone. We had just
- 28:52Speaker 1: come back from Disney World. The flight home was dark
- 28:55Speaker 1: as fuck for me.
- 28:57Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember that in your book about like the
- 28:59Speaker 2: Ram you're letting people.
- 29:02Speaker 1: Oh my god, just the thought of it takes me
- 29:05Speaker 1: right back to that place, and it's like I just
- 29:06Speaker 1: attended a meeting when I never need to go back
- 29:09Speaker 1: there again. It was just me simply waking up and saying,
- 29:12Speaker 1: we're done. We're done. You're an alcoholic. Fucking figure it out.
- 29:17Speaker 1: There's no reason that you should be living this way
- 29:20Speaker 1: any longer. There's multiple people out here who could offer
- 29:23Speaker 1: you help. You just had someone last week give you
- 29:25Speaker 1: a phone number to call if you wanted to get help.
- 29:29Speaker 1: Fucking do it. And so I fucking did it.
- 29:32Speaker 2: Yeah, you fucking did it. We love you for it,
- 29:35Speaker 2: Love you for it. Congrats. No, it is amazing. This
- 29:39Speaker 2: coming October twenty twenty four will be No. Eight No.
- 29:43Speaker 1: Six seven October six.
- 29:46Speaker 2: Six years amazing. Oh this is a fun one. Can
- 29:50Speaker 2: you recall how you met each cast member? Was it
- 29:53Speaker 2: on camera ever? Did you meet them before you were
- 29:57Speaker 2: even in talks of being on the show. Yeah, because
- 30:00Speaker 2: you worked there first, right.
- 30:02Speaker 1: You know I had met them because Madison and Danielle.
- 30:06Speaker 1: If you guys remember Danny Shaye. I don't know that
- 30:08Speaker 1: Madison ever appeared. Madison's my tall blonde bombshell friend. She
- 30:16Speaker 1: was referred to as the hot girl in Grown Ups.
- 30:20Speaker 1: And then Danny Sha, her older sister, was on the show.
- 30:24Speaker 1: So I had met Stossy at Jen Bush's Christmas party.
- 30:31Speaker 1: They were doing like a cute little gift exchange amongst friends,
- 30:34Speaker 1: and I was new and Danny was like, just come,
- 30:36Speaker 1: it's fine, no big deal. You're not getting a gift,
- 30:39Speaker 1: but you won't fill out of place at all. And
- 30:44Speaker 1: I did.
- 30:44Speaker 2: I did fill out a place, but I think.
- 30:47Speaker 1: My actual first time meeting no, I just lied to you.
- 30:52Speaker 1: My first time ever meeting Stossy and Jack's was in Vegas.
- 30:56Speaker 2: In Vegas for what.
- 30:58Speaker 1: I flew into Vagevegus for Danny. She had the Magic Show,
- 31:04Speaker 1: which is like a peril. It's like a convention where
- 31:06Speaker 1: a lot of you know, stores come and they purchased
- 31:10Speaker 1: their summer, winter, spring, and fall collections for their stores,
- 31:14Speaker 1: you know, like Nordstrum Bloomingdale's. What almost a pop up. No,
- 31:19Speaker 1: it's like a full convention with like booths setup where
- 31:23Speaker 1: you walk through and you're like, oh, I really love these.
- 31:26Speaker 1: These would be great in mama's little boutique. All right,
- 31:30Speaker 1: I'll take thirty seven units or whatever the fuck that's
- 31:34Speaker 1: what I was doing, Okay. I was asked to model
- 31:38Speaker 1: for the company. It was called Sovereign Code. They sold
- 31:40Speaker 1: them at Nordstrum. I don't know if it exists anymore.
- 31:43Speaker 1: Stassy was there for another brand, and so I met her,
- 31:48Speaker 1: and I remember her digging on my outfit, okay, and
- 31:52Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, this is so cool,
- 31:54Speaker 1: like a girl from La thinks my outfit is cool. Stuck,
- 31:59Speaker 1: you know, because I was just a bitch from Utah. Yeah,
- 32:01Speaker 1: Like I thought I looked cool, but then you take
- 32:03Speaker 1: me outside of my bubble and I'm a little insecure
- 32:06Speaker 1: about life.
- 32:07Speaker 2: Right. Was she on the show then? Now?
- 32:09Speaker 1: I can't remember if the show existed yet. No, I
- 32:12Speaker 1: don't think it did exist because that's it didn't exist
- 32:15Speaker 1: yet because Jacks and Stossy met there as well. They
- 32:20Speaker 1: met it the Magic Show that I was. Yes, that's
- 32:23Speaker 1: where they met and then they started dating started dating
- 32:26Speaker 1: so wild. Yeah, that was the first time I met
- 32:29Speaker 1: Jax and Stossy.
- 32:31Speaker 2: Did you meet any of the like Core cast on camera?
- 32:35Speaker 1: Katie? I met on camera, Okay, Arianna, I met on camera. Sandoval,
- 32:41Speaker 1: I think I met on camera. Shena I'm having a
- 32:43Speaker 1: hard time recalling. I was friends with Jenna Willis and
- 32:47Speaker 1: she was balls deep in that group, so I felt
- 32:50Speaker 1: like I had heard a lot of things about each person.
- 32:54Speaker 1: Doty I met on camera, I would say most people
- 32:59Speaker 1: I think I I met on camera, but had maybe
- 33:02Speaker 1: seen in passing, but there was no full meet high
- 33:05Speaker 1: How are you okay?
- 33:06Speaker 2: What about the first time you met Lisa vander Pump,
- 33:08Speaker 2: because I know you worked at SIR before there was
- 33:10Speaker 2: even a show, right or no? Is that not true?
- 33:14Speaker 1: That's not true.
- 33:14Speaker 2: Okay, there was a show.
- 33:17Speaker 1: I got a job at SIR, and I think I've
- 33:21Speaker 1: told this story before. The couple comes in. They tell
- 33:25Speaker 1: me their name for their reservation. I was told in
- 33:27Speaker 1: training fifteen minutes late or more, you're being put to
- 33:32Speaker 1: the side, tables being given away. Will fit you in
- 33:34Speaker 1: when we can our Diana, who I love and Adoor
- 33:39Speaker 1: comes up and asks why the person that I just
- 33:43Speaker 1: set aside is set aside. They come into the restaurant
- 33:46Speaker 1: often they give very great business. I was essentially yelled at,
- 33:52Speaker 1: yelled at for this. Okay, this was a very big
- 33:54Speaker 1: deal and it was me and another hostess, Sammy. Diana
- 33:59Speaker 1: leaves I'd worked at sur for maybe like a week
- 34:03Speaker 1: or two. I look at Sammy, it's a Saturday night,
- 34:06Speaker 1: all right, Sir is fucking poppin'. I go, I don't
- 34:10Speaker 1: know about you, but I will not be spoken to
- 34:12Speaker 1: that way, So I'm gonna leave. And I opened the
- 34:15Speaker 1: bottom cabinet, grabbed my bag, shut it, clocked out, and
- 34:19Speaker 1: I dipped. I was out of there.
- 34:21Speaker 2: Had you met Lisa at that point?
- 34:22Speaker 1: No? I met Lisa when I came back into sir,
- 34:25Speaker 1: just as a regular old girl trying to have free drinks.
- 34:29Speaker 1: You get a free crunk out of the deal. And
- 34:32Speaker 1: she saw me mingling. I knew Danny. I was talking
- 34:38Speaker 1: to people who were just chilling because I'm a social butterfly.
- 34:40Speaker 1: When I drink right now, I'm like, don't take me
- 34:43Speaker 1: out of the house. I don't know how to create
- 34:45Speaker 1: words if I leave this room, right And she just
- 34:50Speaker 1: came up to me and said, how do you know everybody?
- 34:53Speaker 1: And I talked about Danny shaving my best friend whatever.
- 34:56Speaker 1: I live in Stosse's old apartment or whatever, and she said,
- 35:01Speaker 1: are you looking for a job? And I did not.
- 35:03Speaker 1: I was not looking for a job there. I was like,
- 35:05Speaker 1: I literally ditched work, But like, what else you got
- 35:10Speaker 1: for me?
- 35:11Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 35:11Speaker 1: How are you going to sweeten this deal? Put it
- 35:13Speaker 1: in the pot? With that came the camera.
- 35:17Speaker 2: Yes, amazing. I love that.
- 35:19Speaker 1: They said we'd like you to work at her as
- 35:21Speaker 1: a hostess. Great. Are you also free to have a
- 35:24Speaker 1: sit down with our producer? Love? Yeah, your performance?
- 35:31Speaker 2: Did Lisa really pick out the white boots she gave you?
- 35:34Speaker 2: Or did you the white but?
- 35:36Speaker 1: Oh, first, I think that was season six, No, Lisa,
- 35:42Speaker 1: that was I had seen them, and I think I
- 35:45Speaker 1: had shown them to her through the grapevine. Someone had
- 35:49Speaker 1: heard that I loved these boots, right, and then she
- 35:52Speaker 1: surprised me with them. Oh that's cute. Yes, that's really cute.
- 35:56Speaker 2: I still have them? Yeah?
- 35:57Speaker 1: Do I still have the boots? I do not? No, No,
- 36:01Speaker 1: I'm really mad at myself. Actually, when I moved from
- 36:04Speaker 1: the old Palazzo apartment, so I went from Stosse's on
- 36:08Speaker 1: Olympic to the Palazzo to mull Holland, back to Palazzo
- 36:13Speaker 1: now to where I am. When I moved into the
- 36:16Speaker 1: mull Holland house. Anything that sounds so disgusting and cringey,
- 36:22Speaker 1: don't judge me for it, because I have already judged myself,
- 36:25Speaker 1: and I was sober when I did this. If it
- 36:27Speaker 1: was not a designer shoe, it did not come with me.
- 36:31Speaker 2: You checked it.
- 36:32Speaker 1: I gave it interesting. It had to be like a
- 36:37Speaker 1: designer label to come to the house with me, makes sense.
- 36:40Speaker 1: I didn't have a lot of room. Yeah.
- 36:42Speaker 2: And also, you're gonna yeah, I mean, unless it's like
- 36:44Speaker 2: super special too. I personally would be like, well, I'm
- 36:47Speaker 2: gonna keep what's most expensive.
- 36:48Speaker 1: Yeah. But now I look back at photos and I'm like,
- 36:50Speaker 1: oh my gosh, those those orange sock booties from freaking
- 36:55Speaker 1: Santi Alley. Why did I give those away? Why did
- 36:58Speaker 1: I give the LVP boots away? You dumb bitch, not
- 37:02Speaker 1: LVP me.
- 37:03Speaker 3: Oh no, look at them again. Yeah, Santi Ali's right
- 37:06Speaker 3: down the way.
- 37:07Speaker 1: The boots that Lisa gave me were not Santielli. Those
- 37:09Speaker 1: were actually very nice boots.
- 37:12Speaker 2: Someone's wearing around now hopefully, Oh for sure. Okay, do
- 37:16Speaker 2: you miss singing? Would you write a book again?
- 37:18Speaker 1: I don't know that I would write a book again.
- 37:20Speaker 1: For a moment there, I was very excited to write
- 37:23Speaker 1: a book, just because so much had happened in my
- 37:26Speaker 1: life and I felt like I had learned so much
- 37:28Speaker 1: about like just the system, about myself, and maybe, like
- 37:34Speaker 1: the itch will come back. I think maybe I'm thinking,
- 37:36Speaker 1: like me sitting down writing a book right now sounds exhausting.
- 37:39Speaker 1: Maybe the bug will come back to where I want
- 37:42Speaker 1: to write a book.
- 37:43Speaker 2: I think it will.
- 37:44Speaker 1: But my last book left kind of a bad taste
- 37:47Speaker 1: in my mouth, just like reading who the book was
- 37:51Speaker 1: dedicated to, and just like these sections of my life
- 37:58Speaker 1: let's read between the lines where I'm like, this was
- 38:00Speaker 1: a lie and I didn't even realize, like I was
- 38:03Speaker 1: like living in fiction.
- 38:07Speaker 2: But how many people in today's world literally live that life? Yeah,
- 38:10Speaker 2: they look back at photos of their marriage, of them
- 38:14Speaker 2: with their husband and kids or wife and kids, and
- 38:16Speaker 2: they're like, the entire time, this person was not that person.
- 38:21Speaker 2: That's why I think you'll eventually write when I think
- 38:23Speaker 2: you have so many things just knowing, like what was
- 38:26Speaker 2: going on behind the scenes while I was seeing certain
- 38:29Speaker 2: things of you, like trucking through and then shit going
- 38:33Speaker 2: on behind the scenes, and I was like, how is
- 38:35Speaker 2: she doing this? I think it's going to be fascinating
- 38:39Speaker 2: when you write another book because people don't know. I
- 38:41Speaker 2: feel like you're so in it, but really take a
- 38:44Speaker 2: step outside and look back. People don't do not even
- 38:48Speaker 2: know at all.
- 38:49Speaker 1: I have to remember that when I see certain comments
- 38:52Speaker 1: and I want, I feel like this fire in my
- 38:55Speaker 1: chest and I'm like, oh yeah, I have to remember
- 38:59Speaker 1: people don't know the story exactly.
- 39:02Speaker 2: You didn't bring it onto that. I mean there's stuff
- 39:04Speaker 2: you literally could not bring onto the show, could not
- 39:06Speaker 2: talk about.
- 39:07Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 39:08Speaker 2: Literally.
- 39:10Speaker 1: So yeah, once I get through I think this pregnancy
- 39:14Speaker 1: where I'm not feeling mentally exhausted as well, I think
- 39:16Speaker 1: a book may be fun. And what was the other question? Singing?
- 39:20Speaker 1: Oh girl, I'd be singing in the shower all the
- 39:22Speaker 1: livelong day and to ocean.
- 39:24Speaker 2: I know, but it'd be really fun. Oh my god.
- 39:26Speaker 2: I feel like if you too, just for fun.
- 39:30Speaker 1: Easton has a friend named Hulksiko who has like a
- 39:33Speaker 1: really cool style, and they've been working on music together
- 39:37Speaker 1: and like, I like, I'm not like shiesh when I'm like,
- 39:40Speaker 1: let's tour and do the whole thing. I just like,
- 39:42Speaker 1: I really enjoy it and I feel like it kind
- 39:45Speaker 1: of takes me out of my norm. But we're working
- 39:49Speaker 1: on a song right now, and I'm like, we need
- 39:51Speaker 1: to record it because As I get more and more pregnant,
- 39:53Speaker 1: I get more and more nasily. Okay, might.
- 40:00Speaker 2: We'll see.
- 40:02Speaker 1: Not that not that I think I'm Whitney Houston, like
- 40:04Speaker 1: I don't need to rest my vocal or anything like that.
- 40:07Speaker 1: But literally, a baby's like sitting on my airway. I
- 40:10Speaker 1: can barely walk to the car without being like, I
- 40:12Speaker 1: gotta sit down, legs.
- 40:15Speaker 3: She's always like my lag God, damn.
- 40:17Speaker 2: I feel like a wheelchair for I.
- 40:20Speaker 1: Thought about getting a car a scooter at Target the
- 40:26Speaker 1: other day.
- 40:26Speaker 2: You're prog I thought you one.
- 40:29Speaker 1: No, they have them there, you know if you like?
- 40:32Speaker 1: I know, But I'm like, am I the person who's
- 40:34Speaker 1: gonna I need? I need it now?
- 40:36Speaker 2: Yes?
- 40:37Speaker 3: Yeah. People would look at you and be like.
- 40:39Speaker 2: You and your legs, You're like I have been.
- 40:41Speaker 3: Tingling, And then they'd look down and go those cankles.
- 40:48Speaker 2: This is a really interesting one. I actually loved that
- 40:50Speaker 2: this was asked another BTS one. But when a text
- 40:53Speaker 2: combo is shown after filming, do they actually ask to
- 40:57Speaker 2: see your phone?
- 40:59Speaker 1: They don't ask to see the phone. They asked to
- 41:01Speaker 1: send in the text messages screenshots? Can you send me screenshots?
- 41:05Speaker 1: I was asked to have There have been many conversations,
- 41:09Speaker 1: including the DMS that I talk about uh Katie sending
- 41:13Speaker 1: to me that I refused to send. I'm like, I'm
- 41:19Speaker 1: just I don't need you. I don't need them shown right.
- 41:23Speaker 1: I think the only time I send screenshots they could
- 41:26Speaker 1: have come from my phone, they could have come from Schwartzy's.
- 41:28Speaker 1: But was the conversation where I basically told them to
- 41:32Speaker 1: kick rocks. You're dead to me, fool for playing pickleball
- 41:35Speaker 1: with that clown?
- 41:36Speaker 2: M Yeah, why did you stay friends with Sandafall? When
- 41:42Speaker 2: I'm assuming they mean I've seen this a couple of
- 41:44Speaker 2: times this season, Like I would like you to clarify
- 41:48Speaker 2: if you want, because like you didn't, but like, did
- 41:52Speaker 2: it look that way? I don't think it looked that way?
- 41:53Speaker 2: But then why are people asking that you didn't stay
- 41:56Speaker 2: friends with them? I were never friends with them.
- 41:58Speaker 1: Because people are used to me being black or white,
- 42:03Speaker 1: and season eleven people saw me in the gray and
- 42:07Speaker 1: it's so it's still hard for me to process because
- 42:15Speaker 1: I didn't ask crazy questions. I felt like I asked
- 42:20Speaker 1: pretty logical questions, right. I tried my best to practice empathy, compassion,
- 42:31Speaker 1: realize things happen, and we don't intend for them to
- 42:34Speaker 1: happen that way, but sometimes shit just fucking happens, right,
- 42:41Speaker 1: And I was trying to find the gray in my life.
- 42:46Speaker 1: And I don't care what anyone says. You know, people,
- 42:49Speaker 1: Jacks has accused this show of being scripted. Let me
- 42:52Speaker 1: tell you something. This show were scripted, I would have
- 42:55Speaker 1: made damn sure that season eleven, I came out of
- 42:58Speaker 1: this as a fucking gem fan favorite, and I would
- 43:01Speaker 1: have had to go against everything I thought, everything I
- 43:03Speaker 1: believed sand of aal and I have never been thick ever. Okay,
- 43:08Speaker 1: I think we had one season, season four where you know,
- 43:12Speaker 1: he's he's always really good to the new Bee, the
- 43:15Speaker 1: underdog of the show. Okay, that was me Once I
- 43:18Speaker 1: was no longer there. I felt he didn't have a
- 43:21Speaker 1: purpose for me any longer. I was not friends with
- 43:24Speaker 1: him before scanned of all happened, and I wasn't friends
- 43:27Speaker 1: with him this season. I went and had gave him
- 43:32Speaker 1: the time of day, letting him know, you know, for
- 43:36Speaker 1: me personally, I know you did not cheat on me.
- 43:39Speaker 1: Was I triggered as fuck in the moment, yes, But
- 43:41Speaker 1: time has passed. I want to let you know there
- 43:45Speaker 1: are there's a multitude of things that I feel you
- 43:47Speaker 1: have done to me to make it very easy for
- 43:50Speaker 1: me to come for you when you fucked up. Okay,
- 43:54Speaker 1: but now time has passed, my reality is sinking in.
- 43:58Speaker 1: You know, I don't. I don't go to bed with
- 44:01Speaker 1: the audience at night. The audience doesn't go to bed
- 44:03Speaker 1: in my head. I go to bed in my head. Okay.
- 44:06Speaker 1: So if I go out there and I play to
- 44:08Speaker 1: the audience, I have to go to bed with myself
- 44:11Speaker 1: at night, and that becomes really intense. Okay. I have
- 44:17Speaker 1: to live in my truth, whether you like it or not.
- 44:19Speaker 1: And you can sit here and say, you know you
- 44:23Speaker 1: were a puppet for production. Uh, fucking blow me, dude,
- 44:27Speaker 1: fucking blow me. I've never played for production, never been
- 44:31Speaker 1: a puppet to anybody, which is why you guys have
- 44:34Speaker 1: such an intense view on me. It is love or hate.
- 44:38Speaker 1: I have not ever had someone be like, sometimes I
- 44:41Speaker 1: like you, but sometimes I don't. It's like I fucking
- 44:44Speaker 1: hate you or I fucking love you. There's no in between.
- 44:47Speaker 2: I will say there is. There are a lot the
- 44:51Speaker 2: love in the hate is loud because there are a
- 44:53Speaker 2: lot of in between that come in the DMS or
- 44:55Speaker 2: comment and they're like, look, I get where she was
- 44:57Speaker 2: coming from. I don't agree with this. I really love this.
- 44:59Speaker 2: I've always is a mom. There is a lot of
- 45:02Speaker 2: in between, but I hear you and that the loudness
- 45:05Speaker 2: is the love and the hate because you got the
- 45:07Speaker 2: haters screaming and then the lovers who we love being like, well,
- 45:10Speaker 2: hold on a second, and like, you know, so I
- 45:12Speaker 2: get it.
- 45:13Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so enough of this. Like as much as
- 45:18Speaker 1: you guys do like the the audience, they do know us.
- 45:22Speaker 1: They also don't. I love that you have the comment section. Okay,
- 45:25Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go back on what I said a
- 45:27Speaker 1: while back when I addressed season eleven, like I love
- 45:30Speaker 1: that the comment section, okay, but like also, I'm not
- 45:35Speaker 1: gonna allow jan from Mississippi to tell me who the
- 45:39Speaker 1: fuck I am. M. You don't know me like that.
- 45:43Speaker 2: Yeah, And there's so much I don't see.
- 45:45Speaker 1: Right, Like you don't know Lauren from Utah. You don't
- 45:49Speaker 1: know the girl that like went through X, Y and
- 45:51Speaker 1: Z and now has you know a reason for every
- 45:55Speaker 1: single thing that she does. I live my life with
- 45:58Speaker 1: intent and per and it doesn't need to make sense
- 46:01Speaker 1: to you. No one's life needs to make sense to anybody. Yeah,
- 46:04Speaker 1: but I stand by the fact that I did not
- 46:06Speaker 1: go into any season being manipulated playing to an audience.
- 46:12Speaker 1: I have lived every second on this show for myself. Okay,
- 46:17Speaker 1: and sometimes I look wild, I look whack at times,
- 46:21Speaker 1: but guess what, you need to fucking worry about it
- 46:23Speaker 1: because you ain't gotta go to bed in my head
- 46:24Speaker 1: to night. I do, so we'll deal with it.
- 46:28Speaker 2: Ay, exactly, love it. Oh. I actually am curious about this.
- 46:33Speaker 2: I don't know if I missed the scene or don't
- 46:35Speaker 2: remember it. So this person said, I want to hear
- 46:38Speaker 2: how you and Saucy became friends after everything and what
- 46:42Speaker 2: those convo I'm assuming what that conbo looked like because
- 46:46Speaker 2: I do remember you guys didn't get along, and you.
- 46:48Speaker 1: Want to know what happened. Yes, in the Back Alley
- 46:52Speaker 1: season six, Okay, I thought that everyone was going to
- 46:55Speaker 1: be on good terms. I was coming into the show
- 46:58Speaker 1: a little bit late. Sheina had told me that Katie
- 47:02Speaker 1: brought up my man again. I asked if she was
- 47:04Speaker 1: trying to get popped. I'm in the back alley, Okay,
- 47:09Speaker 1: Katie and I are now good. Stossy comes into the
- 47:12Speaker 1: back alley. She says something about punching. Okay, and for
- 47:19Speaker 1: some reason I thought she was threatening me. Okay, I've
- 47:22Speaker 1: never been in a fight in my life, okay, and
- 47:24Speaker 1: I don't think Stoscy has.
- 47:25Speaker 2: Either, except the hit.
- 47:28Speaker 1: But except the hit. Oh doty Doty's the ally person
- 47:31Speaker 1: that's taken.
- 47:34Speaker 2: For Christensen, damn it.
- 47:37Speaker 1: Oh no, anyway, moving on, that is funny that we
- 47:41Speaker 1: both meet, I know. So she sits down in the
- 47:44Speaker 1: back alley, she brings up a punch, and I think
- 47:46Speaker 1: she's threatening me. So I was like, she says she
- 47:49Speaker 1: doesn't know how to throw a punch or something, but
- 47:51Speaker 1: I yeah, but I take it as she's threatening me
- 47:53Speaker 1: to punch me. Like in other words, I don't know
- 47:55Speaker 1: how to throw a punch, but I will. And I go, well,
- 47:57Speaker 1: unlike you, I I definitely know how Okay. So we
- 48:02Speaker 1: leave and it's like not good. It's not good. And
- 48:07Speaker 1: then we go to I think it's a housewarming party
- 48:12Speaker 1: at someone's house at it's at it's at Brittany and
- 48:18Speaker 1: Jackson air. This definitely I don't know if this airs, guys,
- 48:22Speaker 1: I haven't seen this is what I do know that
- 48:25Speaker 1: this happened. I don't know what aired, but she says
- 48:28Speaker 1: something to me and I was like, I just don't
- 48:30Speaker 1: take kindly to like people threatening to punch me. And
- 48:33Speaker 1: she was like what And I was like the back
- 48:36Speaker 1: alley where you like were talking about like hitting me.
- 48:39Speaker 1: And she was like, I don't know how to punch anyone.
- 48:41Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, that's how you meant it.
- 48:45Speaker 1: I was like me, neither. And we had a good
- 48:47Speaker 1: laugh about it, and after that it was all squashed.
- 48:50Speaker 1: I was ready to go toes with her again season six?
- 48:55Speaker 1: Do you and just a little misunderstanding about punches being
- 48:58Speaker 1: thrown between bitches to bond?
- 49:00Speaker 2: I love it. I was gonna say, was there a
- 49:03Speaker 2: moment though on the show where you like have a
- 49:05Speaker 2: talk or No? I don't remember it. I just remember
- 49:07Speaker 2: you guys being friends.
- 49:08Speaker 1: No, there was, no, I don't I don't remember there
- 49:11Speaker 1: being some long winded conversation. It was season five. I
- 49:16Speaker 1: attended the reunion, Katie apologized, I apologized. I didn't think
- 49:20Speaker 1: I'd go back for season six. I ended up going
- 49:23Speaker 1: back and we let bygones be bygones.
- 49:26Speaker 2: Byons be by ones. Was season five? The Blue Luck,
- 49:30Speaker 2: the Pink Cheeks?
- 49:32Speaker 1: What was it?
- 49:33Speaker 2: The Blue Luck?
- 49:34Speaker 1: No? That was season four. That's season four, Okay, season five,
- 49:37Speaker 1: I was a little bit more classy. I wore my
- 49:39Speaker 1: grandmother's real I think it was like three or four
- 49:45Speaker 1: layers of real pearls, a choker, oh, and like a
- 49:49Speaker 1: little white jumpsuit. I remember down basic makeup. Okay, Okay,
- 49:54Speaker 1: I want to wear a T shirt of my reunion
- 49:56Speaker 1: like season I'd wear.
- 49:59Speaker 2: It too, Okay. I mean there's a few of these,
- 50:03Speaker 2: so I'm just gonna ask it. The swimming topless and
- 50:06Speaker 2: lvpce pool with James. This is all it says. But
- 50:10Speaker 2: I'm wondering, like, how did it come about? Did Lisa
- 50:12Speaker 2: like freak out after? Was this a random did anyone panic?
- 50:16Speaker 1: Like?
- 50:16Speaker 2: How did this whole thing?
- 50:18Speaker 1: No?
- 50:18Speaker 3: Tv?
- 50:19Speaker 1: Ken and Lisa. Ken and Lisa were out of town, Okay,
- 50:23Speaker 1: Faith and Max, who's Lisa's son, were dating, and I
- 50:29Speaker 1: was doing whatever I was doing with James. Faith and
- 50:32Speaker 1: I were super fucking close, and Max and James were
- 50:35Speaker 1: super fucking close, right, so we had like this.
- 50:37Speaker 2: Little like gang okay, you know.
- 50:40Speaker 1: Yeah, and Max did something to his teeth where he
- 50:45Speaker 1: had to have mouth surgery and he was like all
- 50:47Speaker 1: fucked up on pain pills and stuff, and we were like,
- 50:48Speaker 1: we're gonna see him, We're gonna bring him breakfast or whatever.
- 50:51Speaker 1: So we go over there and we're like, you need
- 50:55Speaker 1: to have a drink. That's what it is.
- 50:57Speaker 2: Max.
- 50:57Speaker 1: You're not even feel shit, of course, and we're upset
- 51:00Speaker 1: because we're like, you gotta go to I think it
- 51:02Speaker 1: was like we had a Hawaiian vacation coming up. I
- 51:05Speaker 1: was like, he's gotta go to Hawaii. We gotta come on,
- 51:07Speaker 1: I'm sorry about your fucking mouth, Like we gotta get
- 51:10Speaker 1: your drunk and get my party up. So we go
- 51:13Speaker 1: downstairs with Max and he's you know whatever. When we
- 51:18Speaker 1: started just like popping bottles at fucking Villarosa, right, and.
- 51:23Speaker 2: The crew's there recording, like filming, they're filming.
- 51:27Speaker 1: Us like basically like being nice. I think that they
- 51:30Speaker 1: thought there's it was such a fun life. Yeah, okay,
- 51:35Speaker 1: they thought we were going over we're gonna like making muffins.
- 51:38Speaker 2: Right, Fuck, no.
- 51:41Speaker 1: Bottles, your mom and dad are gone and you have
- 51:45Speaker 1: like top shelf booze. They're not in plastic bottles.
- 51:49Speaker 2: No, no, no.
- 51:50Speaker 1: When we popped him, Max starts having the time of
- 51:53Speaker 1: his life. Faith and I are like, tops off, let's
- 51:56Speaker 1: get in the pool. It was so much fun, so you.
- 51:58Speaker 2: Didn't even think twhy start think like this needs to
- 52:01Speaker 2: I need this scene needs to be spiced up, or
- 52:03Speaker 2: this whatever moment needs to be spiced up by taking
- 52:05Speaker 2: myne top off. You were just like, why don't you
- 52:08Speaker 2: do after? Did Lisa ever say anything to you about it?
- 52:11Speaker 2: Or was she like?
- 52:12Speaker 1: I think she was just happy that we like made
- 52:15Speaker 1: Max happy. Yeah, you know, because she called him on
- 52:18Speaker 1: the phone and she was like, I love you, darling,
- 52:20Speaker 1: I want you to take care of yourself. And James
- 52:23Speaker 1: is like, we'll.
- 52:24Speaker 2: Take care of him, Lisa, He's.
- 52:26Speaker 1: Fine, and she like feels like he's in good hands. Meanwhile,
- 52:29Speaker 1: check the maring camera's leasese Billa Rose is about to
- 52:32Speaker 1: go down and or go up in flames. Probably.
- 52:44Speaker 2: It's so funny.
- 52:45Speaker 1: I know that we have a bunch of these we
- 52:47Speaker 1: do so, but we're like pretty much out of time,
- 52:49Speaker 1: so the rest of them will do it at a later.
- 52:52Speaker 2: Date, Yeah, like a bonus episode or something.
- 52:54Speaker 1: Yeah, and since this is pre recorded and we usually
- 52:57Speaker 1: do an ache and relief about our week, you guys
- 53:00Speaker 1: don't get an ach and relief love it only I
- 53:04Speaker 1: get one. We'll do an aggre relief about filming vander
- 53:09Speaker 1: Pump rolls. I think the relief of filming vander Pump
- 53:13Speaker 1: roules is that everything that I was sitting in Utah
- 53:18Speaker 1: dreaming about as a kid has pretty much come true
- 53:22Speaker 1: because of vander Pump Rules and Bravo and NBCU. They've
- 53:27Speaker 1: been tremendous to me and I've had the time of
- 53:29Speaker 1: my fucking life. In fact, going season eleven kind of
- 53:34Speaker 1: wiped me out a little bit, and it could be
- 53:37Speaker 1: because I was pregnant. I always start with that I
- 53:40Speaker 1: am not a weak bitch, just a hormonal one. But
- 53:44Speaker 1: going through these and like reliving, I'm like, what a
- 53:48Speaker 1: fun life? Yeah, you know, so many embarrassing moments for
- 53:52Speaker 1: the world to see, and you've forgot a lot of them.
- 53:56Speaker 1: This is so fun. And there are times where we've
- 54:00Speaker 1: had like really amazing conversations with the cast where like
- 54:05Speaker 1: everyone's kind of getting along, or there's like a brief
- 54:08Speaker 1: moment where cameras are down and you just have a
- 54:10Speaker 1: moment of like, you, guys, there's gonna be a day
- 54:13Speaker 1: where none of this exists anymore. We're no longer on
- 54:15Speaker 1: vander Pump Rules. We've got kids. Maybe not maybe grandkids,
- 54:20Speaker 1: and we get to think back and be like we
- 54:23Speaker 1: were on fucking television.
- 54:25Speaker 2: You got to rewatch it, you know.
- 54:27Speaker 1: That is so fun, so fun. These are the best
- 54:31Speaker 1: days of our lives. I think the ache is having
- 54:36Speaker 1: people think that they know you and that they have
- 54:40Speaker 1: the right to tell you who you are in not
- 54:43Speaker 1: a constructive way, in a really really mean way. They
- 54:47Speaker 1: take it so far as to come to my wonderful
- 54:51Speaker 1: assistance page and be unkind to her. Bring it to
- 54:55Speaker 1: my brother who you don't know, and say unkind things
- 54:59Speaker 1: about him, say unkind things about my three year old. Oh,
- 55:02Speaker 1: they all really dope it out, things like that, where
- 55:05Speaker 1: I'm like, I really want to shake this off, but
- 55:09Speaker 1: I'd actually like this bitch to meet me somewhere because
- 55:11Speaker 1: I'm not a physical person. I'm about to become one,
- 55:14Speaker 1: you know, or I got to really regroup.
- 55:16Speaker 2: I'm gonna pop in and say, do not meet her
- 55:19Speaker 2: anywhere or look for her. She is hormonal, do not
- 55:23Speaker 2: come near her.
- 55:25Speaker 1: No. But I think anybody who's a mom can relate
- 55:28Speaker 1: to that. You'll be the kindest person in the world.
- 55:30Speaker 1: Someone comes for your baby, the claws are out and
- 55:33Speaker 1: we're swiping. That's I think the ache of it all,
- 55:37Speaker 1: but the relief outweighs all of it. So I hope
- 55:41Speaker 1: you guys enjoyed this episode of moments that have to
- 55:45Speaker 1: do with vander Pump rules and all the craziness, but
- 55:50Speaker 1: also all.
- 55:50Speaker 2: The fun stuff that was so fun. By the way,
- 55:53Speaker 2: I can't wait to do more of this.
- 55:54Speaker 1: I'm excited too. I love you, guys, and I will
- 55:56Speaker 1: catch you next week.