Latest / Reformed Thinking / Walking Wisely in Evil Days: Redeeming the Time (Ephesians 5:15–16)
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- 0:00Welcome to Reform Thinking. We're doing another deep dive
- 0:02today, really getting into a specific passage and seeing what
- 0:05it means for, well, for how we live our lives as Christians.
- 0:10Today our focus is well, it's about urgency, but also
- 0:14precision. We're looking at Ephesians
- 0:17chapter 5, verses 15 and 16, a really packed couple of.
- 0:20Verses. Absolutely.
- 0:21Packed, Paul tells us there. Look carefully then, how you
- 0:24walk. Not as unwise, but as wise.
- 0:27Redeeming the time because the days are evil.
- 0:30And looking at our sources, the consensus seems to be this isn't
- 0:33just about being busy, it's more like a call to wise urgency.
- 0:38Does that sound right? Yeah, Wise urgency captures it
- 0:41well. It's this idea of stewardship,
- 0:43but one that's born out of grace.
- 0:44You know, it gives us a real ethical practical strategy.
- 0:48So today we want to unpack what that careful walking means, what
- 0:51redeeming the time really costs, and why Paul gives this command
- 0:55right then. And the first thing I think we
- 0:56have to get is that Paul doesn't just like, throw these commands
- 0:59out there randomly. There's 15 isn't some standalone
- 1:02proverb. It's woven really tightly into
- 1:04the section right before it, Ephesians 5 verses 8 through 21.
- 1:08That whole block deals with the Christian walk, with wisdom, and
- 1:12with the Spirit. OK, so context is key.
- 1:15Before we jump into redeeming time, we need to see where it
- 1:18fits theologically. Where does Paul start this
- 1:20section? He starts with the indicative.
- 1:23That's just the reality of who God has made us in Christ.
- 1:25Paul says it plainly. You were darkness, but now you
- 1:29are light in the Lord. So the reality comes first.
- 1:32Exactly. And the imperative, the command
- 1:34to walk as children of light, that follows from the certainty
- 1:37of who we are. We're not told to walk carefully
- 1:39to become light. We walk carefully because we are
- 1:41light. That's a crucial distinction.
- 1:43Our identity in Christ is secure.
- 1:46So why is the walk itself described as something needing
- 1:48such careful attention? Is it about forgetting our
- 1:51identity or something else? I think the difficulty comes
- 1:55because that new identity immediately demands something
- 1:58from us. Active engagement.
- 2:00Discernment identity flows right into verse 10.
- 2:04Try to discern what is pleasing to the Lord.
- 2:07The walk is hard because it demands we keep testing
- 2:09everything, our habits, our conduct, our goals against God's
- 2:13revealed will. And that testing takes work.
- 2:16It needs a word informed critique of ourselves
- 2:19constantly. Constantly.
- 2:21And looking at the structure verse 15, look carefully then
- 2:24how you walk seems like the bridge, doesn't it?
- 2:28It takes that general call for discernment and makes a very
- 2:31specific, very behavioral. That's a great way to put it.
- 2:33It is the bridge. Verse 15 connects back to the
- 2:36discernment in verse 10, and it pushes forward to verse 17,
- 2:39understanding what the will of the Lord is.
- 2:42So it's a sequence. What we are dictates what we
- 2:45must discern, which then shapes how we walk with precision.
- 2:49And that leads us to the power source needed for all this.
- 2:52Yes, because you read this and you think, OK, how on earth do I
- 2:55live with that level of constant precision?
- 2:57It's clearly beyond just, you know, gritting my teeth and
- 3:01trying harder. Right.
- 3:02Where does Paul point for the the fuel for this kind of walk?
- 3:06He points straight to the Holy Spirit.
- 3:08The Spirit is the only sufficient power, the only
- 3:11engine for this wise walking. Paul uses that really sharp
- 3:14contrast in verse 18. Between being drunk with wine
- 3:17and being filled with the spirit.
- 3:18Exactly. Being drunk leads to debauchery,
- 3:22loss of control. Being filled with the Spirit,
- 3:25though, is also a kind of surrender, but it's surrender to
- 3:28Christ's authority, and the result isn't loss of control,
- 3:32but actually holy judgement and joyful obedience.
- 3:36That's a powerful image. Drunkenness means losing
- 3:39judgement to a substance, leading to dissipation.
- 3:42Spirit filling means yielding judgement to God, leading to,
- 3:45well, more spiritual control and coherence.
- 3:48Precisely. And this yielding, this filling
- 3:51is the absolute requirement for carrying out these commands
- 3:53about wisdom and careful walking.
- 3:55But, and this is important, Paul doesn't frame the Spirit feeling
- 3:58as some kind of like private mystical experience.
- 4:00Which is how many people think of it today.
- 4:02Isn't it like an internal feeling?
- 4:03Personal comfort. Right.
- 4:04But Paul immediately corrects that idea.
- 4:07He shows us the public, the corporate expression of being
- 4:09spirit filled. OK, So what does that look like
- 4:12according to the text? It looks like word filled
- 4:14communal holiness. It happens within the church
- 4:17body. Paul uses these very active,
- 4:20interactive participles, addressing one another in psalms
- 4:23and hymns, singing and making melody, giving thanks, and,
- 4:27crucially, submitting to one another.
- 4:29That's verses 19 to 21. So the careful wise walk isn't a
- 4:33solo journey, it's sustained by the life of the church, by
- 4:37speaking truth to each other and worship by mutual
- 4:39accountability. That's it.
- 4:41Wisdom is practiced together, powered by the Spirit, governed
- 4:44by the Word. OK, let's shift then to the
- 4:46posture itself, verse 15. Look carefully.
- 4:49Not as unwise, but as wise. That command look carefully
- 4:53bleeped. It sounds like more than just a
- 4:55glance. Oh, much more.
- 4:56It's an imperative, meaning keep watching, be constantly
- 4:59attentive. It's like being on guard duty.
- 5:00You need an alert gaze looking ahead.
- 5:02And then there's the adverb a cribus.
- 5:04A cribus that means. Careful accuracy, precision.
- 5:08This is where it gets really practical.
- 5:10Grace doesn't make us lazy or passive because we've been
- 5:13redeemed. Grace actually demands this kind
- 5:16of rigorous watchfulness. So precision is the opposite of
- 5:19just stumbling through life accidentally.
- 5:21It's a commitment, isn't it? A commitment to make sure the
- 5:24whole pattern of life, work, home, downtime lines up with
- 5:28what is pleasing to the Lord. That's the goal, and it's a high
- 5:31bar. This precision requires that
- 5:34word governed evaluation. We talked about holding the
- 5:37mirror of Scripture up to everything.
- 5:38Habits, feelings, even how we react to things.
- 5:42It's stopping to check our steps against God's map, not just our
- 5:45own feelings or what seems easiest.
- 5:47Yes. It's what sanctification looks
- 5:49like in practice. Alert discriminating steps.
- 5:52And the opposite of this wise walk is the life of the unwise,
- 5:55The asafoi. You mentioned this isn't about
- 5:58IQ points. No, definitely not.
- 6:00It's a covenant category. Being Asape means being
- 6:03unaligned. Your life is uncalibrated to
- 6:05what pleases God. In Scripture.
- 6:07Wisdom and folly are always moral categories tied to your
- 6:10relationship with God and His standard.
- 6:12So the fool isn't necessarily unintelligent, but the one who
- 6:16rejects God's standard. That's the heart of it.
- 6:19And how does this lack of wisdom, this foolishness, show
- 6:22up? It sounds like maybe Nah, a lack
- 6:24of purpose. It often looks like spiritual
- 6:27inertia, just kind of drifting the unwise.
- 6:30Life tends to react passively to whatever comes along, the pings
- 6:34and pressures. As the sources put it, the world
- 6:36sets the agenda, or maybe just your own desires at that moment.
- 6:40Instead of intentionally choosing steps based on God's
- 6:43Word. Right.
- 6:44It's that slow, subtle slide away from God that often feels
- 6:47comfortable, even normal. And if a life is uncalibrated,
- 6:51it means it's running on different standards, not God's.
- 6:55Will. Our sources point out a few
- 6:57counterfeit standards that enable this drift.
- 6:59What's the big one? Probably the most common 1 today
- 7:01is pragmatism. Just judging everything by the
- 7:04results. If it works, it must be right.
- 7:07Confusing functionality with faithfulness.
- 7:09Exactly. You can justify almost anything,
- 7:11harshness, cutting corners, compromising truth, if the end
- 7:15result looks good or efficient. But God cares about how we walk,
- 7:19not just the destination. The huge trap?
- 7:22What about errors related to spiritual guidance?
- 7:25Well, there's mysticism. That's the chase for, you know,
- 7:27extra biblical impressions, private whispers, feelings as
- 7:31the main guide for decision. Instead of relying on scripture.
- 7:33Right wise walking relies on the public revelation of God's Word.
- 7:37Seeking some private special word often bypasses the clear
- 7:41standard Paul sets for discernment right here in
- 7:44Ephesians. And the third counterfeit, it
- 7:46relates to effort, doesn't it? Yes, legalism.
- 7:50This is that nagging suspicion that our effort, our precision,
- 7:54somehow earns God's favor. It shifts our assurance away
- 7:58from Christ's finished work onto our own performance.
- 8:01Which makes the whole effort anxious and striving, not
- 8:04grateful. Totally true.
- 8:05Precision flows from gratitude because we're accepted, not in
- 8:08order to be accepted. It's an act of love, not wage
- 8:11earning. So passivity, distorted
- 8:13guidance, anxious striving, they all fail because they either
- 8:17ignore God's standard or get the motivation wrong.
- 8:19They do, and thankfully, because God's standard is clear, we
- 8:22actually have a way to test our actions, a kind of moral
- 8:25diagnostic, even when things seem to be working.
- 8:27OK, let's look at that diagnostic.
- 8:29James 3.17 gives us this profile of true wisdom.
- 8:32Right, James says. Wisdom from above is pure, then
- 8:36peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good
- 8:39fruits, impartial and sincere. That's the checklist.
- 8:43So if we make a decision, maybe even a strategic one, but the
- 8:46way we carry it out makes us argumentative, harsh, unwilling
- 8:50to listen, defensive. Then it fails the wisdom test.
- 8:53Regardless of the outcome. If your wise strategy leads to
- 8:56ungodly behavior in you or towards others, it wasn't truly
- 9:00wise in God's eyes. The process reveals the source
- 9:03of the wisdom. That's a vital check.
- 9:05OK, so the posture is precision. Now, how does that translate
- 9:09into an active strategy that takes us right into verse 16,
- 9:12redeeming the time. What does that phrase actually
- 9:15mean? This is where the urgency really
- 9:17kicks in. The Greek is exaggerazum annoy
- 9:19tonkiron literally buying up the Kairos, and it's a present
- 9:23participle, meaning it's something we should be doing
- 9:25continually. Buying up like at a market.
- 9:27Exactly like that. The verb exaggerazi's is a
- 9:30marketplace term. Imagine seeing a valuable,
- 9:33scarce item you absolutely need and you quickly pay the price to
- 9:36secure it before it's gone or someone else grabs it.
- 9:38That's the image. Wow.
- 9:40And that specific verb xagarazu? That's significant, isn't it?
- 9:44Isn't that the same word Paul uses for?
- 9:46For Christ's redemption, yes, buying us out of slavery to sin
- 9:51and the law paying the price with his blood.
- 9:53So the connection is huge. It's foundational.
- 9:57Our sources call it the Grammar of Grace.
- 10:00Christ's finished work, His buying us, generates the
- 10:04imperative for us to be buying up these opportunities.
- 10:07Because He bought us, He owns us, and that includes our time.
- 10:11So we're not redeeming time to earn favor.
- 10:13No, we do it because Favor has already found us.
- 10:15We're his stewards. Precision, redeeming time.
- 10:18These are acts of grateful stewardship, acknowledging his
- 10:21ownership, not trying to pay him back.
- 10:23OK, so our time isn't just ours to waste, it's his to be
- 10:26stewarded. But what kind of time are we
- 10:28supposed to be buying up? You mentioned Kairos, it's not
- 10:30just clock time. Right, there are two main Greek
- 10:32words for time. Kronos is just sequential time,
- 10:35seconds, minutes, hours ticking by quantitative.
- 10:38Like chronology? Exactly.
- 10:40But Paul uses Kairos. Kairos is qualitative time.
- 10:44It's the opportune moment, the fitting season, the specific
- 10:48window where a particular act of obedience or witness or love is
- 10:52uniquely called for. So Kairos is like the right time
- 10:57for something specific, a God appointed window.
- 11:00That's a good way to think of it.
- 11:01These providential windows pop up and we need to recognize them
- 11:05and act before, as the sources say, waste and wickedness claim
- 11:08them. If you miss the Kairos, that
- 11:10specific opportunity is gone. Can you give some examples?
- 11:13What does Kairos look like day-to-day?
- 11:15Well, it's often relational or situational.
- 11:17Your neighbor is going through a crisis?
- 11:19That's Kairos. For practical help and maybe
- 11:21gentle gospel witness. Your child asks a hard question
- 11:24about God out of the blue. That's Kairos for discipleship.
- 11:27Or maybe just realizing you have a 30 minute quiet slot in your
- 11:30schedule. Yes, and recognizing that is the
- 11:32Kairos for focused prayer for your church or your family
- 11:35instead of just letting it evaporate into scrolling or
- 11:38distraction. Redeeming it means seizing that
- 11:40specific window for that specific godly purpose.
- 11:43OK. So we're buying up these
- 11:45valuable fleeting moments. What's the currency?
- 11:49What does it cost us? It always cost something.
- 11:51Buying high res requires, as the sources put it, the discipline
- 11:56of subtraction. Because time is finite, choosing
- 11:59to seize one opportunity means choosing not to do something
- 12:02else. And we're not just talking about
- 12:04subtracting sin, which is always required.
- 12:06It's often about subtracting good things or neutral things.
- 12:12Often, yes. It's about saying no to lesser
- 12:15goods or even neutral amusements that become time thieves, the
- 12:19things that crowd out communion with God or acts of love and
- 12:22service. Like staying up late watching
- 12:23something entertaining. It might feel harmless, but.
- 12:26But if it means you're too wiped out the next morning for
- 12:28meaningful prayer, or too foggy to really engage in worship on
- 12:32Sunday, then that neutral amusement actually stole a more
- 12:35valuable Kairos. The cost of securing the Kairos
- 12:38for preparation or worship was subtracting that late night
- 12:41diversion. That discipline of subtraction
- 12:43sounds really hard, especially today, with endless distractions
- 12:47practically begging for our attention.
- 12:49That means putting actual limits on things.
- 12:51It has to it might mean capping screen time, say 30 minutes on
- 12:55weekdays, or might be having specific media free times.
- 12:58And it often means replacing a time wasting habit not just with
- 13:01nothing, but with a positive counter habit like reading a
- 13:04Psalm or praying instead of late night scrolling.
- 13:07So it's strategic removal, cutting out the patterns that
- 13:09make us drift or become dull. It's like spiritual surgery
- 13:12sometimes necessary area to maintain that alert precision.
- 13:16And this whole strategy, this urgency, it's grounded in the
- 13:20reason Paul gives at the end of verse 16, because the days are
- 13:24evil. That sounds pretty stark.
- 13:26It is stark, but it's meant to be realistic, not pessimistic.
- 13:30Paul isn't saying everything is hopelessly awful.
- 13:32He's grounding our urgency in moral realism.
- 13:36We need to recognize that evil is real.
- 13:38It permeates the environment, the cultural weather.
- 13:40So time isn't neutral ground. No time is contested ground.
- 13:44Evil forces are actively working to waste our moments, distract
- 13:48our hearts, numb our consciences.
- 13:49We're in a spiritual conflict zone.
- 13:51And knowing that the days are evil, knowing we're in contested
- 13:54territory, that mandates this vigilance, this strategic
- 13:57holiness. Absolutely calculated obedience.
- 14:01Seizing moments for God, for evil or apathy, squanders them,
- 14:05and this awareness guards against two opposite errors we
- 14:07can fall into. OK, what are those?
- 14:09The first sounds like maybe just doing nothing passivity.
- 14:14Yeah, that's quietism, spiritual inertia.
- 14:16It's that sort of let go and let God passivity that
- 14:19misunderstands grace. It assumes the Spirit works
- 14:22automatically without our effort.
- 14:24But the Bible commands us to strive, to walk, to redeem.
- 14:28It requires spirit enabled industry.
- 14:31We work hard because the Spirit enables us.
- 14:33OK, so not passivity. What's the other ditch?
- 14:35The opposite extreme hustle culture or maybe productivity.
- 14:39Idolatry. Mistaking frantic, often anxiety
- 14:42driven busyness for true holiness.
- 14:44Trying to justify ourselves by how much we get done.
- 14:47Instead of spirit LED precision, right?
- 14:49Wise urgency isn't panicked hyperactivity.
- 14:52Our sources call it Sabbath schooled vigilance.
- 14:54We work strategically for six days, yes, but that work is
- 14:57framed and refreshed by rest, worship and recalibration on the
- 15:007th day. You mentioned the Sabbath, the
- 15:02Lord's Day. That seems really crucial here
- 15:04as a guardrail. It's essential.
- 15:07The Lord's Day is the weekly instrument of calibration.
- 15:09It's God's built in guardrail against burnout and against
- 15:13losing our way. Properly observing it, stopping
- 15:16regular work, focusing on corporate worship.
- 15:18Deliberate rest recalibrates our hearts.
- 15:21It restores sanity so the other six days can be stewarded well,
- 15:25not just frittered away in distraction or frenzy.
- 15:27Neglecting the Lord's Day makes stewarding the rest of the week
- 15:30much harder then. Inevitably.
- 15:31And one more guardrail related to the days are evil.
- 15:34We shouldn't misunderstand. Holiness is isolation.
- 15:37Certainly not. That's the error of monastic
- 15:38withdrawal, mistaking separation from sin for separation from
- 15:42sinners. Paul expects us to walk wisely
- 15:44within these evil days. Colossians 4.5 to 6 makes this
- 15:48explicit walk in wisdom toward outsiders, redeeming the time.
- 15:53So redeeming the time actually involves engaging with
- 15:55unbelievers. Yes, wise walking requires
- 15:59proximity with purity. It means intentionally looking
- 16:02for and planning for opportunities.
- 16:05Kairos moments to show mercy, share hope, have gracious
- 16:09conversations with outsiders. If we just hide in a Christian
- 16:12bubble, we forfeit countless opportunities God gives us for
- 16:15witness and love. We have to be out there, but
- 16:18alert and holy. OK, this is incredibly
- 16:21practical. We've moved from identity in
- 16:23Christ all the way down to strategy.
- 16:26How do we actually do this? How do we sustain this precision
- 16:29day in, day out? Let's talk about practical
- 16:31achievement, starting with the Daily Foundation.
- 16:33Right. The sources strongly suggest
- 16:34what they call the daily first things rule, making it a non
- 16:37negotiable habit. Specifically, before you engage
- 16:40any screen, phone, computer, TV, whatever, read at least one
- 16:44chapter of scripture and pray for, say, 5 minutes minimum.
- 16:47Why that specific rule before the screen?
- 16:49Because the screen is usually the doorway to the world's
- 16:51agenda, isn't it? The pings, the emails, the news,
- 16:54the noise, it immediately pulls our attention and affections
- 16:56outward. By going to the word first, we
- 16:58establish a word governed evaluation for the day before
- 17:01reacting to external pressures. So it protects that early
- 17:04morning Kairos from being hijacked.
- 17:06It sets the trajectory. Exactly.
- 17:07It forces us to calibrate first by revelation, not reaction.
- 17:11OK, that's the individual start. What about in the home?
- 17:14How does this wisdom look in family life?
- 17:17It looks like turning routines into liturgies of love.
- 17:20Wisdom gets built through simple, repeatable patterns that
- 17:23sanctify the ordinary. Things like brief, regular
- 17:26family worship, maybe just 10 minutes five nights a week with
- 17:29a Psalm, prayer, blessing. Simple but consistent.
- 17:32Yes, or making mealtimes intentional moments for
- 17:36Thanksgiving. And maybe reading a proverb
- 17:38marking bedtimes not just as a rush, but with a moment for
- 17:41confession, maybe speaking a blessing over your kids.
- 17:44These things redeem the daily Kronos by intentionally
- 17:47injecting Kairos into the predictable rhythm.
- 17:49They sound simple, but doing them consistently takes real
- 17:53intentionality. It absolutely requires
- 17:56precision, and that precision, that careful walk, it's not
- 17:59meant to be a solo mission. Our sources are clear.
- 18:02Lone Christians are easy prey. Accountability is vital.
- 18:05So how does that work practically?
- 18:07Most people keep spiritual goals pretty private.
- 18:10We need to flip that. We should actually formalize a
- 18:13plan. Maybe call it your Wise urgency
- 18:15plan or your Kairos plan. Then, and this is key, invite
- 18:20someone else in. Ask a pastor, an elder, a mature
- 18:23believer you trust for plain spoken counsel.
- 18:26And schedule check insurance. Yes, schedule regular check
- 18:29insurance to talk about how it's going, where you're struggling,
- 18:31where you failed. That external perspective is
- 18:34invaluable for seeing blind spots, especially those sneaky
- 18:38time thieves. That gives the outside check.
- 18:40What about internal checks? How do we monitor and adjust
- 18:43ourselves? There's a suggested weekly
- 18:45rhythm for that, often tied to the Lord's Day evening, a weekly
- 18:49examine. It involves a few steps.
- 18:51First, honestly confess failures in time, Stewardship.
- 18:55But do it resting in Christ's forgiveness, not beating
- 18:57yourself up. OK, confession grounded in
- 19:00grace. Second, specifically, note one
- 19:02way you did manage to buy up Kairos that week.
- 19:04Celebrate the small victory. Third, note one specific way
- 19:07Kairos was clearly wasted or lost.
- 19:09Be honest. Confess Note success.
- 19:11Note failure and 4th. Plan one concrete, specific
- 19:14adjustment for the next week based on what you just reviewed.
- 19:17So that weekly examine is how you actually implement that 2
- 19:21for one subtraction policy we talked about earlier, like
- 19:24cutting out two time wasters for every new discipline.
- 19:26Exactly. If your review shows that
- 19:29mindless scrolling on Friday night wrecked your Saturday
- 19:31focus, the adjustment might be delete the app or put the phone
- 19:34away at 8:00 PM. That subtraction frees up the
- 19:37chiros you need. It's a cycle.
- 19:40Evaluate, confess, adjust All grounded in grace.
- 19:43We have covered a lot of ground from our identity in Christ, the
- 19:46need for discernment, the power of the Spirit, all the way to
- 19:49scheduling, subtraction, and accountability.
- 19:51Let's try and tie it back together.
- 19:53What's the core message here? Fundamentally, wise urgency
- 19:56flows from Christ's redemption. He bought us, so our time is
- 20:00His. That ownership demands
- 20:01precision, careful, accurate walking.
- 20:04And that precision expresses itself by actively buying up
- 20:07those opportune moments. The Kairos.
- 20:10For God's purposes, worship, witness, love.
- 20:12All while recognizing the reality that the days are evil.
- 20:15Yes, that moral realism keeps us vigilant, and the whole thing is
- 20:18powered only by the Holy Spirit working through His Word and His
- 20:21Church. And as we saw, this whole epic
- 20:24really pivots on how we understand and use our time,
- 20:28especially the Lord's Day. Our sources called it the weekly
- 20:31hinge on which Cairo swings. So maybe a final thought for
- 20:35you, our listener, to take away this week is this.
- 20:38Don't just think about what you do on Sunday during those hours
- 20:41of worship and rest. Think also about how your
- 20:44choices, your subtractions, your preparations during the other
- 20:47six days are intentionally aimed at guarding and getting ready
- 20:51for that crucial day of rest and recalibration.
- 20:54Are the six days serving the 7th?
- 20:56That's a challenging thought. May God indeed establish the
- 20:59work of your hands as you seek to walk with this kind of wise,
- 21:01urgent precision this week. Amen to that.