66 - His Marriage Was Over. He Didn’t Know Who He Was Without It: Pete Sodini’s Story

Masculine Containment · Oct 29, 2026 · 47m

Pete Sodini was in the middle of a painful divorce when he found himself facing a question he never expected to ask: Who am I without the marriage, family structure, and identity I’ve built so much of my life around?

When I invited Pete into The Brotherhood, he pushed back. His marriage was already ending, and he couldn’t understand how a group he thought was about improving relationships could possibly help him.

In this episode, Pete shares what happened when he joined anyway, what it was like to finally say out loud some of what he had been carrying alone, and how his experience began to…