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The MOST Unhinged Reddit Updates · The conspiracy

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  Speaker 1: Hello, my beautiful, rare butterfly. How are you doing today?
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  Speaker 2: Good. I'm so happy you're here.
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  Speaker 1: Do you guys want to see something really cool?
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  Speaker 2: I thought you might.
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  Speaker 1: Look at that. One of you guys sent this to me.
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  Speaker 1: His name is Will Smith. No, it's not that Will Smith.
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  Speaker 2: Can we just take a.
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  Speaker 1: Second to appreciate this? He 3D printed it and then
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  Speaker 1: painted it. She's going on the shelf.
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  Speaker 2: So let's do that.
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  Speaker 1: There.
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  Speaker 2: That's cute.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, if you guys are wondering how Will got
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  Speaker 1: that to me, I have a secret.
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  Speaker 2: And a bit of a secret.
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  Speaker 1: Um, Caleb and I, my husband, we have been making
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  Speaker 1: some videos, making videos on YouTube, um, kind of discreetly
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  Speaker 1: and it's called the too late show. And we just
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  Speaker 1: do whatever we want on that channel. We're just, it's,
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  Speaker 1: it's a channel where we can just goof off and
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  Speaker 1: just do whatever. And there's a PO box in there
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  Speaker 1: and stuff. So if you guys want to send stuff and,
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  Speaker 1: and we talk to you guys on the too late
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  Speaker 1: show as well, uh, People call in and we chat.
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  Speaker 1: It's been really fun. And we read people's messages from
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  Speaker 1: Discord and everything. So go over there, do all that stuff.
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  Speaker 1: If you want, if you don't, that's fine. I figured
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  Speaker 1: I'd let you guys know.
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  Speaker 2: Now you know.
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  Speaker 1: And if you don't want to watch it, that's fine. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: we're reading Reddit today. So let's get into it. My girlfriend,
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  Speaker 1: 22 female, got me a very weird birthday gift. And I,
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  Speaker 1: 23 male, don't know what to make of it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I don't even want to guess.
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  Speaker 1: Let's just get into it. Yesterday was my 23rd birthday,
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  Speaker 1: and as is the usual when it comes to my birthday,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't want anything big. My girlfriend simply prepared a
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  Speaker 1: homemade meal, got a nice little cake from a bakery,
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  Speaker 1: and we sat down and just enjoyed the evening to ourselves.
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  Speaker 1: But then came the gift that she gave me.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, you like birthdays like me.
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  Speaker 1: Just... Hella low-key, not expecting anything.
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  Speaker 2: I'm scared.
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  Speaker 1: She gave me a little gift bag, and when I
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  Speaker 1: opened it, I saw something that I didn't expect to see.
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  Speaker 1: A little packet of Smucker's Grape Jelly. Okay, at least
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  Speaker 1: give me some bread with it, you know, some butter,
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  Speaker 1: all right? I'm talking one of those tiny little packets
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  Speaker 1: that they have on the table at breakfast restaurants.
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  Speaker 2: I'm familiar.
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  Speaker 1: I really didn't know what to think and just gave
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  Speaker 1: a weird look at my girlfriend. Her initial response was,
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  Speaker 1: do you get it? Okay, I hope this is like
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  Speaker 1: a really cute way of being like, we're going on
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  Speaker 1: a trip and we're gonna stay at this place. place
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  Speaker 1: where we got this jelly pack. I don't know. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I'll shut up. Let's just read.
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  Speaker 1: And I honestly said that I didn't know what she
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  Speaker 1: was talking about. Her expression immediately switched to angry and
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  Speaker 1: she got up, walked away, and muttered under her breath, asshole,
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  Speaker 1: it's his birthday.
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  Speaker 2: He just doesn't get it. Just explain it, love. What
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  Speaker 2: are you doing?
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  Speaker 1: She locked herself in our room for the whole night
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  Speaker 1: and I had to sleep in the living room. Is
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  Speaker 1: your girlfriend a four year old? She still hasn't come
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  Speaker 1: out except to use the bathroom. She avoided eye contact
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  Speaker 1: with me, won't talk to me and refuses to let
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  Speaker 1: me in our room. What did I do wrong? What's
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  Speaker 1: the significance of Smucker's grape jelly? I mean, how would
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  Speaker 1: we know, dude? I'm not living your life. Is this
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  Speaker 1: some widely known thing that I'm unaware of?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, that's fair.
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  Speaker 1: Like if it's a trend thing or something, not that
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  Speaker 1: I'm aware of. What does this gift mean? Someone please
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  Speaker 1: help me.
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  Speaker 2: What immature behavior? Is she, oh no, she's 22.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, she's young, but this is like, what are
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  Speaker 1: we doing?
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  Speaker 2: It's his birthday.
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  Speaker 1: You're ruining his birthday. Unless it's something crazy. Maybe we're
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  Speaker 1: missing something where it's like, you know, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know what it could be. I'm scared
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  Speaker 1: for you a little bit because I feel like maybe
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  Speaker 1: you screwed up. I don't know what you did, man.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what you did.
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  Speaker 1: Luckily though, I'm just.
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  Speaker 2: Skipping any comments.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going right to the update because I am scared.
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  Speaker 1: After reading through some of the comments and scavenging for
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  Speaker 1: some type of advice to deal with this situation, I
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  Speaker 1: went out and bought a new jar of peanut butter.
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  Speaker 2: What?
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  Speaker 1: I left it at the foot of the bedroom door,
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  Speaker 1: knocked and said, there's a gift out here for you.
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  Speaker 1: Do you even know why you're giving it to her?
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  Speaker 1: After just a few seconds, she opened the door, saw
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  Speaker 1: the peanut butter, and I walked up to her and said,
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  Speaker 1: if you start talking to me again, I'll be the
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  Speaker 1: peanut butter to your jelly. Nice.
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  Speaker 2: Nice, dude.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, that's not what it means.
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  Speaker 2: She couldn't help but smile.
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  Speaker 1: Sick.
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  Speaker 2: After that.
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  Speaker 1: And her response was, you're so dumb. While clearly trying
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  Speaker 1: to fight back a laugh.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, everybody. Everything's gonna be fine, oh my God.
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  Speaker 1: I immediately began to ask her what her deal was
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  Speaker 1: with the grape jelly. Here was her explanation. I'm guessing
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  Speaker 1: that it just had a deeper meaning that we don't know.
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  Speaker 1: So I feel like that's the only way I could guess,
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  Speaker 1: but let's see. She said that she got that as
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  Speaker 1: a gift for me to remind me of when we
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  Speaker 1: first met.
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  Speaker 2: She's a sentimental girl.
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  Speaker 1: She's a sentimental girl, that's fine, but you can't act
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  Speaker 1: like that. You could have just said that. Like, I
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  Speaker 1: understand if you're a little bit upset, but it's like,
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  Speaker 1: remember the first time that we met? Cute, and you'd
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  Speaker 1: be like, oh, right. You're just making a mountain out
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  Speaker 1: of a freaking molehill. What are we doing? We first
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  Speaker 1: met back in our senior year of high school and
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  Speaker 1: it was at lunchtime. She was new to our school
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  Speaker 1: that year and I offered her a spot at my
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  Speaker 1: table since she didn't have anywhere else to sit. The
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  Speaker 1: meal I was eating at the time, a sandwich with
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  Speaker 1: nothing but Smucker's grape jelly in it.
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  Speaker 2: That sounds good. That sounds good.
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  Speaker 1: That's her explanation for why she got me the jelly
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  Speaker 1: as a gift.
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  Speaker 2: She really clocked that and she was like, you know what?
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  Speaker 1: Seven years from now, I'm just going to lay this.
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  Speaker 2: Nuke on him and hope he gets it.
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  Speaker 1: And if he doesn't, I'm going to make him pay.
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  Speaker 1: That's her explanation for why she got me the jelly
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  Speaker 1: as a gift. I was confused and asked her how
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  Speaker 1: she expected me to remember what I was eating when
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  Speaker 1: we first met. She just shrugged and said, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I was just hoping you'd remember. Girl, be so for
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  Speaker 1: real right now.
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  Speaker 2: That's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know what I ate for lunch yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: That's crazy. And it's not like it was a significant thing.
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  Speaker 1: It's not like, you know, he spilled the grape jelly
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  Speaker 1: on your shirt and there was a moment in it.
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  Speaker 1: It was just like, he was just eating it. It
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  Speaker 1: wasn't like you got it for him or he let
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  Speaker 1: you share it or something. There's not an event. You
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  Speaker 1: just noted she's just really observant, which is cool, but that's...
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  Speaker 1: You're asking for a lot. I didn't know what to
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  Speaker 1: say to that, so I just apologized for not remembering
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  Speaker 1: and asked if she can forgive me. She said that
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  Speaker 1: she does forgive me and she also apologized for behaving
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  Speaker 1: so poorly when I didn't understand the gift. Okay. Okay. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we like to hear that.
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  Speaker 2: That's good at least.
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  Speaker 1: We've made up since then and I'm finally glad that
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  Speaker 1: this whole ordeal is behind us. At least she apologized.
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  Speaker 1: Hopefully she learns from that. I mean, to do that
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  Speaker 1: to you on your birthday of all days and to
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  Speaker 1: mope like a toddler for no good reason. Like that is,
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  Speaker 1: I cannot be on her side with that. Like I
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  Speaker 1: would have said, What is this for? And I mean,
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  Speaker 1: that's what you did. So yeah, I know this isn't like,
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  Speaker 1: am I the asshole? But you're not in this scenario.
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad you guys made up and everything. Hopefully this
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  Speaker 1: isn't a reoccurring thing for you guys, but just, you know,
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  Speaker 1: make note of that and see if this becomes a pattern,
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  Speaker 1: if it becomes a me, me, me kind of thing.
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  Speaker 2: But I don't know. You guys are young. I think
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  Speaker 2: you'll figure it out. Let's see what the comments say
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  Speaker 2: about it.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, until you factor in that it was his
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  Speaker 1: birthday and she decided to give him the silent treatment
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  Speaker 1: and make it all about her. her. And this was supposed,
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  Speaker 1: this was under best predator updates, like positive ending edition,
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  Speaker 1: which people are just like, was this supposed to be positive?
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  Speaker 1: Partner had unreasonable expectation, kicked me out during my birthday.
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  Speaker 1: I had to do something good for her just so
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  Speaker 1: she would talk to me. She didn't apologize. I had
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  Speaker 1: to apologize instead.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, she did apologize, but I understand.
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  Speaker 1: It's like you had to go out and buy peanut butter, hoping,
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  Speaker 1: praying that that might help the situation. This is a
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  Speaker 1: positive update. The girlfriend sounds exhausting and made OP's birthday
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  Speaker 1: about herself. Yeah, I don't disagree.
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  Speaker 2: I don't disagree. I'm glad that she apologized, but sounds.
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  Speaker 1: Like it's a personality trait more than a mistake, but
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  Speaker 1: what do I know, you know? Am I the scallywag
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  Speaker 1: for having my ex arrested at my wedding? Why is
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  Speaker 1: your ex at your wedding?
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  Speaker 2: I feel like we already have.
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  Speaker 1: The answer, but let's dive in, okay? This happened two
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  Speaker 1: days ago at mine, 28, and my wife's, 39, wedding,
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  Speaker 1: and a lot of people are telling me I'm in
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  Speaker 1: the wrong for having my ex, 27, arrested and my
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  Speaker 1: wife is saying I ruined the wedding and caused a scene.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I am salivating. Let's read this. First, a little
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  Speaker 2: backstory on my ex.
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  Speaker 1: We were together over five years ago for a matter
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  Speaker 1: of weeks. Oh, my nail popped.
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  Speaker 2: That's how excited I was. I was squeezing my fist.
• 8:52
  Speaker 1: My damn press-on fell off. Let me glue that back
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  Speaker 1: on really quick. I broke things off because I just
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  Speaker 1: wasn't into her that much. She began to pester me
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  Speaker 1: over text and social media all of the time to
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  Speaker 1: get back together or just hook up. This went on
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  Speaker 1: for months. And in a particular week moment, I gave
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  Speaker 1: in and slept with her again. At this point, things
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  Speaker 1: got a lot worse. I mean, you obviously had relations
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  Speaker 1: with her again, but it's like getting borderline stalker behavior.
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  Speaker 1: I tried to explain that it was a mistake and
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  Speaker 1: I still didn't want anything with her. From then, the
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  Speaker 1: messages ranged from abusive to begging me for spicy time. Eventually,
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  Speaker 1: I just blocked her. From then, she started turning up
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  Speaker 1: at my house, work, and social spaces I went to often. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so this is, that's a full-blown stalker. Okay, this is scary.
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  Speaker 1: She attempted to force herself on me and threatened violence.
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  Speaker 1: And at that point, I got a restraining order. Since then,
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  Speaker 1: I haven't heard from her in years. I met my
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  Speaker 1: wife three years ago and she is honestly the best
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  Speaker 1: thing in my life. We fell in love hard and
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  Speaker 1: honestly have a great relationship. We got engaged after two
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  Speaker 1: years and two days ago, finally had our wedding. The
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  Speaker 1: day was going amazingly until a friend of mine who
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  Speaker 1: I'll call Chris, great name, turned up with his plus one.
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  Speaker 1: My ex. Oh my gosh, crisscross. She was playing him
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  Speaker 1: because she wanted to get to you on your wedding.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 1: I spoke to him and he had absolutely no idea
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  Speaker 1: about my history with her. Yeah, because you dated her
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  Speaker 1: for five seconds. And we tried to get her to leave.
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  Speaker 1: After she refused, I decided to just ring the police.
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  Speaker 1: Two officers showed up to arrest her for breaking her
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  Speaker 1: restraining order. And she flipped out. She was shouting and screaming.
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  Speaker 2: She hurled abuse at my wife.
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  Speaker 1: And claimed that we were meant to be together, which
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  Speaker 1: obviously distracted from my wedding. Now my wife is upset
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  Speaker 1: with me for causing a scene and a lot of
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  Speaker 1: friends are saying that I should have just ignored it
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  Speaker 1: and focused on the day because she wasn't causing any
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  Speaker 1: problems up until the police showed up. So am I
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  Speaker 1: the asshole? You know what? I'm gonna go ahead and say, no,
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  Speaker 1: you're not. And I don't know if the comments will
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  Speaker 1: agree with me, but I don't know. Like roles reversed.
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  Speaker 1: If it was the bride, the wife, and a man
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  Speaker 1: came that has been actively stalking and saying awful things
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  Speaker 1: to you and shows up.
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  Speaker 2: Like, how scary is that? And it doesn't mean a
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  Speaker 2: woman isn't capable of doing something. She could have hurt your.
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  Speaker 1: future wife or your wife she could have done something
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  Speaker 1: terrible because I mean this is like a catalyst for
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  Speaker 1: her I'm sure I mean.
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  Speaker 2: She snuck into the wedding basically.
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  Speaker 1: Started dating your friend that I'm sure she looked up
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  Speaker 1: was your friend like this is another level of horrifying
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  Speaker 1: scary like I understand it ruined the wedding but something
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  Speaker 1: worse could have happened potentially like the stalking thing you
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  Speaker 1: got to take that seriously so it sucks that it
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  Speaker 1: took away from your guys's day but I feel like
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  Speaker 1: You just don't know what's going to happen. And you
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  Speaker 1: clearly have experienced it firsthand. I mean, you said she
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  Speaker 1: attempted to force herself on me and threatened me.
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  Speaker 2: Violence.
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  Speaker 1: I can't even imagine what she would plan to do
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  Speaker 1: to somebody that you're about to spend the rest of
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  Speaker 1: your life with, you know? And oh, there's an edit
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  Speaker 1: to answer some questions. Yes, my wife knew I had
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  Speaker 1: a restraining order against a stalker. We spoke about it
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  Speaker 1: when we started to become serious. A few family members
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  Speaker 1: also knew, but my friends didn't as I never.
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  Speaker 2: Spoke to them about it.
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  Speaker 1: Like I get it, it like ruined the day and
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure a lot of people, that's what they'll talk
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  Speaker 1: about and everything. But I mean, like again, like roles reversed.
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  Speaker 1: Wouldn't it be crazy if the husband was like, You
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  Speaker 1: ruin the day by calling the police and getting him
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  Speaker 1: arrested just because he threatened violence at you and all this.
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  Speaker 1: It seems so obvious in that point of view for
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  Speaker 1: me and probably for everyone else. But it's just as
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  Speaker 1: serious in this way. I don't know why this is
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  Speaker 1: making me so mad.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. You just don't know. And I think
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  Speaker 2: it's better.
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  Speaker 1: To make the literal scary crazy person exit the premises
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  Speaker 1: so you guys can enjoy your day. I mean, I'm
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  Speaker 1: sure you could not enjoy your day knowing that she's
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  Speaker 1: lurking around during your wedding day. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Am I being a little too wild on that? I
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  Speaker 2: don't know.
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  Speaker 1: There's an update actually.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, there is an update. Oh my goodness. Okay. I
• 12:49
  Speaker 2: guess I won't read the comments until after I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to stick.
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  Speaker 1: With what I'm going to stick with how I feel. Okay.
• 12:53
  Speaker 2: I got a lot of requests for an update on
• 12:55
  Speaker 2: my original post. So here it is.
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  Speaker 1: It's been a very long day since I first posted.
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  Speaker 1: I have spoken to both my wife and Chris, starting
• 13:02
  Speaker 1: with my wife. We had a very long, tearful conversation
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  Speaker 1: about everything from my ex to our wedding. I apologize
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  Speaker 1: for the fact that I didn't consider involving her before.
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  Speaker 2: Calling the police.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I didn't know that, unless I might've missed it,
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  Speaker 1: but like, yes, you should have told her. Like, been like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: I feel super uncomfortable. Can I please, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I'd say I am calling the police. I don't think
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: I'd ask at that point. Just to let her know,
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  Speaker 1: like you're starting a marriage, you need to let your
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  Speaker 1: wife know these things. Calling the police, which meant that
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  Speaker 1: X's outburst when being escorted out came as a complete
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  Speaker 1: surprise to her. Fair. Wife has the right to be
• 13:39
  Speaker 1: upset about that. Talk to your new wife.
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  Speaker 2: What are we doing? She apologized for the way.
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  Speaker 1: She reacted and explained that she wasn't angry at me,
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  Speaker 1: but is angry at X. The fact that the wedding
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  Speaker 1: was ruined and that the focus was shifted away from
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  Speaker 1: us and to the X, her anger was misdirected.
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  Speaker 2: Totally fair. This is good, by the way.
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  Speaker 1: Good conversing on your guys' part. I mean, it should
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  Speaker 1: have happened before. You should have told her at the wedding. But...
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: I think this is very healthy the way you guys
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  Speaker 1: are handling this right now.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a therapist.
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  Speaker 1: I would know. Another reason for the anger is that
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: a lot of the guests had no idea who X was.
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: So X comment of we're meant to be together has
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  Speaker 1: apparently led to people theorizing that I had been cheating
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  Speaker 1: on my wife with my ex. So we are now
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  Speaker 1: having to put our fires before rumors being, uh, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: begin to spread.
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  Speaker 2: That's, oh my god, that's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: My wife is now very much focused on making sure
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  Speaker 1: I am okay after all of this, though. She is
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  Speaker 1: still distraught about her special day being ruined, but we
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  Speaker 1: will work through that together.
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: On to Chris. This is where things get a little scary. Oh,
• 14:36
  Speaker 2: I'm scared.
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: I'm scared.
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: I don't want to read it. Oh, Rita.
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: Me and wife called him together, firstly, to check that
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: he is okay.
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: He is.
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: And secondly, to see how the hell she managed to
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: worm her way into his life in order to get
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: to my wedding. Hopefully Chris isn't like.
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: She's the one for me. I love her so much.
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: According to Chris, they connected over social media. Of course,
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: because she was FBI-ing that shit. She started liking his
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: posts over the course of about a month. and then
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: DM'd him, and they started chatting from there. The crazy
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: part is that to Chris, X has a completely different name,
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: but the posts on her profile dated back three years,
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: meaning she has had this profile with a fake name
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: for at least three years, and it's not the only one.
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: You're saying that as if it's not surprising. That like
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: doesn't surprise me at all.
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: Is it scary?
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: Yes. I mean, I personally don't, but I know pretty
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: regular people that just have like different.
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: Profiles just to like look. That's stuff. Still weird though.
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: Chris told us that a few other guys contacted him
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: after the wedding saying that they recognized her as they
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: had all also got DMs from her on different accounts.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: All with a different name.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: There is at least three other accounts that we are
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: currently aware of. Wow. Let's up that restraining order to
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: like 30 miles, okay? This is crazy. Apparently, X showed
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: no signs of being obsessed with me or even that
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: she knew who I was. He invited her as a
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: plus one, thinking that they might eventually get serious as
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: they were having a really good time together. He has
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: apologized profusely, but we have made it clear that we
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: do not.
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: Blame him for this. Of course not.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: Poor guy didn't know.
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: Can you imagine being Chris?
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: You just, you thought you found the love of your
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: life and you were just being used to get to
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: your other friend. Oh my gosh. There has been no
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: word currently on what's going on with X, but considering
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: her breaching the restraining order and resisting arrest, we assume
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: she will probably end up in prison. Me and my
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: wife have spoken about it and if we are contacted
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: by the police, we will absolutely press charges and wife
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: will also be getting a restraining order, as she should.
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: For now, we are going to try and enjoy our
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: honeymoon and deal with the rest of this mess when
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: we get back. Good.
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: Thank you Reddit for all the advice and opinions.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: You gave a lot of perspectives on the situation that
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: I had not considered. Wild, I'm glad everybody's safe, everybody's good,
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: and everybody got together and figured it out together. And
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: I think you guys are gonna have a beautiful marriage
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: from the way that you worked it out and everything.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: I think those are really good stepping stones.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: And screw the ex, holy crap. I hope she does
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: go to prison. That's wild.
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: Ah, poor Chris. Poor Chris just wanted to get some,
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: you know?
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: I'm just kidding.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: I'm just kidding.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: He just wanted to get lucky. Let me know what
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: you guys think. If I went in a little too hard,
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: let me know, but let's read another one.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: Am I the.
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: Scallywag for choosing my dog over my future wife?
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: Oh dear.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: Hello, everyone.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: I'm in a pretty big mental pickle and I'm reaching
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: out for help and no idea where to turn.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: My fiancee.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: And I have been living together for five years now,
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: proposed to her three years ago. For the most part,
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: living with her is easy. We get along just fine,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: and we enjoy each other's company. About four years ago,
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: we adopted a beautiful chocolate brown husky mix, and in
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: the beginning, she absolutely loved her, playing, training, walking, and
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: taking her to the park regularly. At the time, we
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: had a large apartment, so space wasn't an issue. However,
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: I lost my job during COVID. We had to move
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: into a much smaller one bedroom apartment. While we managed
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: financially and adjusted by giving the dog more walks and
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: park time, my fi... I don't know why, bro, fiance.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: I don't know why in my head that was a
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: spelling mistake. Let me say that again, the first one.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: My fiance, why did I, in my head, I was like.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: This guy's an idiot.
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: This guy spelled it wrong. My fiance started to feel overwhelmed,
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: especially by the dog's frequent whining for attention, which felt
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: much more intense in the smaller space. She felt like she.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: Couldn't escape her whining.
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: Over the course of about a year in that apartment,
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: her feelings shifted from frustration to dislike and eventually to
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: outright hate.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: Don't get a dog if you can't handle a dog.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: Especially a husky. Oh my gosh.
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: I feel like this guy really cares about this dog
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: though and is doing his due diligence and he's trying
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: to give her a good life for him or whatever.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: She stopped helping with feeding, walking, or engaging with the
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: dog entirely, saying she only puts up with it. It?
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: You hauntless wench.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: Because she knows how much I love her.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: Oh, so she's jealous of the dog.
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: Ooh. This caused a lot of arguments at first, but
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: eventually it took on full responsibility for the dog. Since then,
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: we've moved to a larger apartment in another state after
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: I secured a well-paying job. And now there's plenty of
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: space for both the dog and my fiance to have separation.
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: What a miserable apartment to be in. Just like juggling
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: your fiance being miserable for the dog and with the
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: dog you love and like having to hang out with
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: them separately. Ugh! Ugh!
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: This sounds terrible.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: I hope this change would improve things, but her attitude
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: toward the dog has stayed the same, or even gotten worse.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: I don't know. She just gives me bad energy. I
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: don't like it.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: I don't like it. And she's jealous of the dog
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: that you love the dog. And you know, I'm not,
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: I'm not there. I don't know if you're actually maybe
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: spending more time with the.
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: Dog than you are with her.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: I don't know all the ins and outs, but from
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: what it sounds like, she just like doesn't like the
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: presence of an animal in the home anymore, which that sucks.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: A recent situation that pushed me to make this post
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: happened when I took a week long vacation with friends,
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: oh no, and left my fiance in charge of the dog.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: I swear to God if she neglected this dog.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: When I came back, it was obvious our dog had
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: been kept in her crate.
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: Almost constantly, except for eating or going to the bathroom.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: What's her name?
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Which made me furious because it felt like outright animal abuse.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: It is. When I confronted her, she just repeated that
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: she absolutely hates the dog and.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: That she needs to be rehomed. Okay, I see why
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: we needed to rehome this woman.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: Rehome you, okay? I initially resisted the idea, but when
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: she pointed out that the dog would be happier with
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: a yard, it genuinely got to me.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: She's got a point. I'm not on her side at all.
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: And I agreed to start looking for a new home.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: I've since found someone willing to take her, but delays
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: have pushed back the timeline. And every time I tell
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: my fiance the dog will be with us another week,
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: she has an extreme reaction and even threatens to take
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: her to the pound. It's a woman so heartless. Like literally,
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: this woman has a heart of rock, of ash, which
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: leads to major fights because I'm trying to make sure
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: my dog ends up in a safe, loving home.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: Get her out of there.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: The woman, not the dog.
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: This takes us to today.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: She was supposed to start rehoming this weekend, but the
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: person has been dealing with a pretty bad medical.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: Issue for the past few days.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: I haven't told my fiance yet because I just already
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: know it's going to lead to a massive fight. I
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: want to rehome her on my terms, but my fiance
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: is fed up with it. Already saying no matter what,
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: she leaves this weekend. Speaking with friends, they warned me
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: about my fiance saying, if she's doing this to your dog,
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: what if your future kids drive her crazy with their
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: crying and screaming? that's a, that's a pretty heavy leap,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: but I mean, I mean, maybe she gets hella overstimulated.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: I mean, she didn't at the beginning.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: So it's kind of weird that it's happening now. Like
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: she was good for a while. I feel like it
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: has to do more with, I mean, I mean, maybe
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: I feel like there's correlation there probably with even the
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: potential jealousy thing with him, with the dog. It's like,
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: God forbid, you know, you had a little kid and
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: the dad loved the kid, fed the kid. And she's like,
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: What about me? We've been having more frequent fights as
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: of late and just makes me think this time, if
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: she doesn't understand that I'm just going to have to
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: choose my dog over her, I'd be losing friends, her
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: family that I'm on great terms with and any support
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: in the state I'm in as my family is in
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: an entirely different state.
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: Oh, that's so.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: I feel financially I'll be fine alone, but it's the
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: mental cost of losing everything over my dog. However, I
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: do also feel that maybe I'm the asshole for considering that.
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: I mean, no, I mean, it's how you feel about
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: a person. It's how a person treats a waitress or
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: a waiter. It's how they treat any other person. It's
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: how they treat animals. It's how they respect other living
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: things or don't. I mean, that can be, this would
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: be a complete no-go for me. Like if, I mean,
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: I came into the relationship with Kevin and Caleb came
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: in with Frankie and Petey and, you know, if he
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: were to treat Kevin like garbage and to be overstimulated
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: with him when he knew what he was getting into
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: with all that stuff, And Kevin's a lot.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: Kevin can be a lot, okay? He's a German Shepherd, Akita,
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: Norwegian Elkhound, Mutt, a mix of it. But he's a
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: sweet boy and Caleb loves him and everything. But I
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: would be so, I'd be like, okay, we're good. I'm done. Like,
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna give up my son. Yes, I'm gonna
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: call him my son. I don't have kids yet, okay?
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: He's my first son.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: For somebody who's unwilling to compromise and to own what
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: they agreed to do. Like you can't just dispose of
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: animals like that.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: It drives me nuts.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: I see so many TikToks of people getting huskies or like,
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: a Vichla or like a Malinois, all these dogs that
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: require so much work and training and exercise and everything.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: And they live in like apartments.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: They're like, I don't know why they're so crazy or
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: why they bark so much. Or like, they always want
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: to go outside. And then they rehome them. And I've
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: seen people do it like multiple times, rehome dogs all
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: the time. You are the problem, you know? Stop getting
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: an animal if you can't handle getting an animal. But
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know, this all just makes me upset.
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: I have seven dogs, dude. This, I'm not on your
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: side if you don't like it.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: I mean, I am if you're responsible and you don't
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: get an animal if you don't like animals, but if
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: you're just getting an animal and agreeing to it and
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: then just like going back on what you think and
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: most of all, abusing an animal, like that's the biggest part.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: It's okay that she just doesn't want a dog anymore,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: I guess, whatever, but to abuse a living thing is so,
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: so disgusting and upsetting. I think that's where I'm just like, nope,
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: no benefit of the doubt here, sister. Like I can
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: understand if you're not an animal person, but I don't know.
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: This is really upsetting. Let me know what you guys
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: think of the comments.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: Let's see if there's, oh no, there's no update, but
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: there's comments, so let's read some comments. Oh my goodness,
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry you were going through this. If your
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: friends are seeing the address in your girlfriend's actions toward
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: the dog, then you should seriously reconsider your future. Huskies
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: whine and talk. Nothing will prevent that. Why is her
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: reaction to the whining so visceral? Yeah, that's the funniest
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: thing I hear about people with huskies. It's just like,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: oh my God, they make so much noise. Yeah, dude,
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: that's all they do. That's what they do.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: They run and yell.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: The person I'm working with on rehoming her thinks she's
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: possibly getting overstimulated by the whining, which is fair.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: That's fair.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: I'm not a big fan of dogs barking constantly.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: That's why I train the dogs, crazy.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: And I know you can't help it sometimes. When I
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: talk to my fiance about it directly, she really just
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: goes into details about her despising the dog and she's
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: never been a good fit for us. It's incredibly difficult,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: especially looking back at older pictures of my fiance and
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: my dog smiling and enjoying each other. At times, it
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: is incredibly hard for me to believe it's just the
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: whining that caused her to hate her. In general, I
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: think it's just the dog being so vocal.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: I mean, a lot of noise can be a lot,
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: you know?
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: And here's a little benefit of the doubt. Was she
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: the best fit for you guys being in an apartment? No,
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: definitely not. So she has a point there, but I
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: don't know. This is really hard. I don't think you're
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: the asshole based on what your fiance has done and said,
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: but Huskies are a very challenging breed. A lot of
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: people can't handle them. That said, my dog would come
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: before any relationship with the attitude and actions your fiance
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: has displayed, not the asshole.
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: That's how I feel. That's how I feel, for sure.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't imagine getting rid of a pet that's
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: like a family member, loves you, and is dependent on you.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: I can't imagine staying with such a hateful and abusive person.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: Nail on the head. Can you imagine what kind of
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: parent she'd be? I feel like there, yeah, there probably
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: is correlation with that. I'm sure the therapists in the comments,
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: I know you're there. Is there a correlation with that?
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: Let me know. I hear you.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: I have three dogs and one of them drives me nuts.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: We got him at 14 months as a rescue, but
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: he's very stupid and highly strung, suspect brain damage.
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: He cannot be trained.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: The other two are extremely well-trained and he is super
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: clingy and licks constantly when which aches me, but I
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: never ever show it. My husband and kids love him,
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: and I know he had a tough life before coming
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: to us. I find myself actually giving him more attention
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: because I feel guilty about not liking him as much
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: as the other dogs. I'd never abuse or neglect an animal,
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: no matter how annoying they are. This is a huge
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: red flag, I think. OP should reconsider a life with
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: this person. Yeah, again, that is the breaking point, is
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: the abuse and neglect. I think it's completely fine to
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: have multiple dogs or a dog and just kind of
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: grow to.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: maybe not enjoyed as much.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: I know a lot of moms that have kids or babies, they,
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: and I see this on TikTok and stuff, they, you know,
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: the baby takes, you know, is higher on the scale
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: than the dog, no shit, and they just get overstimulated
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: and really annoyed by their dogs, and there's a different
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: relationship there.
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: I see a lot of other moms.
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: Who are like, no, I love my dog just as much,
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: if not more, than my kids sometimes, which I feel
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: like I'll be on that spectrum, but I also understand
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: that You know, you can get overstimulated and everything, but
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: that doesn't mean you treat the animal like it's not
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: a living thing. OP said to that, oh wow, see,
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: I just wish she'd see it in the same way.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: My dog literally only wants treats, pets, and belly rubs.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: Her intention is to love unconditionally. Even when I scold her,
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: she still just wants a belly.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: Rub right after.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: With that being said, my dog's intention isn't to bother
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: my fiance or make her upset. She's just a fun
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: loving dog, but anytime she makes a mistake, such as
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: going inside the house, she has a bladder issue from
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: previous abuse before we rescued her. I've heard my fiance say,
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: she's doing this on purpose.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: Girl, be so for real.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: If you don't mind me asking, how has the husband
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: been helping with that? And then the person underneath answers,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: my husband has been pretty understanding as he does get
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: frustrated at times too when the dog Scout just doesn't listen.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: The main thing is he helps make sure Scout doesn't
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: lie next to me and lick.
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: That's the worst bit.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: I think I have a sensory issue around that sound, lol.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: I'm not a big, I don't like dogs licking my
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: face and my hands and all that kind of stuff too.
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: love my dogs to death, I would throw myself in
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: front of a train for them. But I'm not a
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: big fan of that either, so I understand that. And
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: he does the walks, and he can't be walked with
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: other dogs as he gets too overstimulated, so it's a
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: team effort. But still, I get that he was a
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: poor puppy that was abused, and it's not his fault.
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: Just like, it's not a toddler's fault that it soils
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: its nappy or spills their drink, and that is what
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: I'm concerned about with this woman.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: She seems to lack any empathy.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think she needs to just not have anything
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: that she needs to take care of. I think. And
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: you know, there's a whole other spectrum of this where
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: like a dog is deadly or bites or is dangerous.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: That's a whole other thing. I understand not wanting that
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: around and it sucks, but. You know, your, your kids
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: take precedence over that or your partner or whatever. You
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: don't want to put anybody in danger. Not that you
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: shouldn't try to make it work.
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: It's just different on every case. So I can't really
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: speak to all cases, obviously. I'm sure people have cases
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: where they're like, no, like my dog would have had
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: a better life doing this.
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: And we rehomed it. Totally fine.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: Do what's best for the dog, you know, but I
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: just don't get an animal. If you cannot take care
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: of that animal. for its whole lifespan. And then some,
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: if it gets sick, if something bad happens, you know,
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: it's just, you're, you're taking our responsibility, be responsible for
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: it and be empathetic and, and just, I don't know,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: be human.
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: That's all we have for this one.
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: And I think I'm going to end it on that. No,
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: I just want to go hang out with my dogs.
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: I have a dog right here.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: Ruby, can I hug you? Come here, buddy. Poppy baby. Oh.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: I love Rupert so much. He's such a good boy.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: You want to say bye to everybody?
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: No, you can't look me on the face.
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: You know that. Good boy.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: Soak it in. Soak in Rupert.
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: Oh, good boy. Good boy. He's so cute, dude.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: Don't do it.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: Okay, we'll see you guys later.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Okay, say bye.