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- 0:00I'm amazing. I'm so grateful.
- 0:02It's amazing to be here. You want to live in the middle
- 0:04of Ohio before? I want to live in LA before,
- 0:07because listen, this time it's out.
- 0:09It's Sunday. I got my latte, I'm about to go
- 0:11to the farmers market and I might go to the beach later
- 0:13bitch. This year, in 2026, the big
- 0:20cities are out. The suburbs also are out.
- 0:24But you know what's in mid cities?
- 0:27Yeah, yeah, this is pretty nice. Hey, guys, what's up to
- 0:31emergency? And welcome.
- 0:32Welcome back to my channel. And it's no secret or surprise
- 0:35that the cost of living is way up.
- 0:37And with the cost of living and cost of pretty much everything
- 0:41continuing to increase, the cities that already were
- 0:44expensive are becoming even more so.
- 0:47And this has forced Gen. Z into a very interesting
- 0:50position where we kind of got to decide whether or not we still
- 0:53want to be living in these expensive cities or if we want
- 0:56to be looking elsewhere. Like I think we've all had a New
- 0:58York City or LA, LA fantasy, but maybe now's not the time to be
- 1:03really going for that because LA and New York will always be
- 1:06there. And I think that that's a
- 1:07decision that a lot of people are choosing to make right now.
- 1:10Or we're seeing now people either emigrate from these big
- 1:13cities to either move back home or just move away from the
- 1:16cities with these crazy rent prices in general.
- 1:18And I think this migration of Gen.
- 1:20Z is so interesting. And the reason why I wanted to
- 1:21make this video is because I feel like we've seen this sort
- 1:23of thing before, but I think the drivers behind it are a little
- 1:26bit different. And the destination that people
- 1:27are fleeing to is different, and we'll talk about that a little
- 1:30bit later on. So make sure to stick around.
- 1:32But during the height of the pandemic, everyone, but notably
- 1:34Gen. Z, either had to move back home
- 1:36with their parents or move to lower rent cities as their jobs
- 1:39were on pause. They were laid off or went fully
- 1:41remote or just wanted to be closer to their families.
- 1:44And during this time, there were more opportunities to move
- 1:46literally wherever you want because rent pretty much
- 1:48everywhere was pretty damn cheap.
- 1:49Like I yearned for the days of 2020 to 2022 rent prices where
- 1:53you could stay in these luxury buildings for fractions of
- 1:55fractions of the price. And I think coming out of the
- 1:57acute phase of the pandemic, things sort of shifted back.
- 1:59And I think the ripple effects of that migration for people can
- 2:02also be felt and can play a small part to this pattern that
- 2:06we're seeing with the Census Bureau themselves positing that
- 2:08this could be a lasting effect from COVID.
- 2:09Fewer of the fastest growing places between 2022 and 2023
- 2:12were inner suburbs than in 2019 before the pandemic, and more
- 2:15were on the far outskirts of metro areas, 30-40 and even 60
- 2:19miles away from the largest cities downtown.
- 2:21And while the Census Bureau does not define exurbs, we tend to
- 2:24think of them as far outer suburbs of metro areas, and they
- 2:27often have a mix of urban and rural character, said Luke
- 2:30Rogers, a demographer in the Census Bureau's population
- 2:32division. Excerpts have sometimes been
- 2:34among the most rapidly growing communities, but this appears to
- 2:37be even more true now than before the pandemic.
- 2:39And this is so interesting. At least it's interesting to me.
- 2:42I don't know if you get down for like population migration and
- 2:44stuff like that, that is kind of a niche interest.
- 2:47But I think it's so interesting to see this shift in where Gen.
- 2:50Z is choosing to live and choosing to move as we're
- 2:53getting older and as we have more resources for ourselves.
- 2:55Because we were historically the generation, as most young
- 2:58generations do, to move to the big cities, to move to these
- 3:02highly populated areas. And we've seen this reflected so
- 3:04much in content over the years. Like a lot of us grew up
- 3:06idolizing cities like LA because the millennials were on YouTube
- 3:09and Vine making blogs, idealizing that city, making LA
- 3:12seem like this is the spot. This is the city that you need
- 3:14to move to to make your dreams happen.
- 3:16You can go to Lemonade and get your fun drink, then go to Earth
- 3:18Cafe and see Kylie Jenner, walk up and down Melrose and see
- 3:20Justin Bieber, and then go over to Delilah to see Tana Mojo make
- 3:23it out with Drake. Like that was the fantasy of the
- 3:26time when we were growing up. And then when we were a little
- 3:28bit older, there was this big New York push, like especially
- 3:30coming right out of the lockdown stage of the pandemic, like New
- 3:33York content and New York influencers were being pushed so
- 3:36hard. It felt like everyone and their
- 3:38mom was moving to New York and kind of still feels that way.
- 3:41I mean, up until very recently, where now it just seems like
- 3:44Gen. Z is getting sick of this.
- 3:46And while the grind to stay in larger cities is real, many are
- 3:49taking that step to dip out into mid tier cities.
- 3:51Like, come on, Like, does this not seem T?
- 3:55And don't you lie to me because everyone has a friend who's in
- 3:58New York City. That's actually leaving New York
- 4:00City. I just know it and they're
- 4:02probably going to one of these mid tier cities.
- 4:04And let me be clear, mid tier is not a diss.
- 4:06So for all the baddies turning it up in Denver or Philly, like
- 4:09do not be mad at me. Like if we need to actually
- 4:11define what these city tiers are because I'm not making it up
- 4:14because first we got the top tier or tier one cities.
- 4:17And these are the cities like New York, LA, San Francisco,
- 4:19Miami, Chicago, what have you. These are cities that have high
- 4:22populations, cities of high economic growth, input and
- 4:26output, and are usually seen in the zeitgeist as like these
- 4:28cultural hub and are also usually densely populated.
- 4:32Like these are usually the cities that like someone who is
- 4:34not from America can immediately name off the top of their head.
- 4:37Like when we say big cities, we mean like big cities.
- 4:40And these big cities also tend to be some of the most expensive
- 4:43to live in. Then we have the mid tier or
- 4:45Tier 2 city, which is what we're focusing on here.
- 4:48These are like the Raleigh's, the Charlottes, the Houston,
- 4:50Austin, Denver, Nashville, DC, Philly.
- 4:52And again, it's no shade like these cities aren't being called
- 4:56mid because they're mid, but because they're middle here.
- 4:59They're generally less densely populated, more affordable in
- 5:02comparison to the big cities because let's be real, what's
- 5:04actually affordable nowadays? And these cities typically have
- 5:07these forms of emerging industries and clusters out
- 5:09there. Think of like tech, biotech,
- 5:11finance, even things like budding entertainment and
- 5:13production like Mr. Beast's production company, which is in
- 5:16North Carolina. These cities are typically seen
- 5:18as and talked about as like up and coming and as like a best
- 5:21kept secret and often times has the feel of a big city without
- 5:24the congestion and the hustle and bustle and the anxiety that
- 5:28comes with those so to speak. And then of course we have the
- 5:30tier 3 cities or like the small cities.
- 5:31This video is not about y'all. Shout out to you all.
- 5:33Lots of love to you all. I hear you, I see you, but not
- 5:36right now. But the question here is, are
- 5:43people, namely Gen. Z, getting tired of the
- 5:46oversaturation of these top tier cities?
- 5:48Because there is definitely a pipeline of like moving into a
- 5:51city when you're young, hustling and then growing out of it, and
- 5:53then moving to the burbs to settle down with a family.
- 5:55Like this in and of itself is not a new concept, but it seems
- 5:58that increasingly younger people are moving out of the big city
- 6:01before the seemingly traditional exodus, namely without a
- 6:04partner, family, kids, or anything to really domesticate
- 6:08you out of the city. What the main reason that people
- 6:10are fleeing the city is now is because of things like the cost
- 6:13of living and housing increasingly not matching salary
- 6:16or minimum wage. And not saying that the people
- 6:18before us weren't struggling either.
- 6:19But we cannot deny that inflation, the housing market,
- 6:21the job market are all exceedingly worse than they were
- 6:24then. And I'll be honest and take it a
- 6:25step further, a good percentage of Gen.
- 6:27Z doesn't even want to be an American to begin with.
- 6:28So for the ones that are planning on staying, I can see
- 6:31what we're moving different. And I think this exodus is so
- 6:33interesting because in comparison to previous
- 6:35generations where it was for things like family security and
- 6:38stability, we're not moving a bump.
- 6:40We're not moving to some random suburb or like some no name
- 6:43small town because that's not where we are.
- 6:46That's not what we're looking for.
- 6:47We still want to have that sort of city like feel any younger
- 6:49energy to a city. We just don't want the crazy
- 6:52prices in lifestyle. And that's why we're seeing
- 6:54young people move from cities, not to suburbs, but to these mid
- 6:57tier cities or exurbs as some of them call, as the census calls
- 7:00them. And in addition to the younger
- 7:02feel of these sorts of cities, another thing that mid tier
- 7:04cities have going on is the fact that industry clusters are
- 7:07moving there because there's a lot of opportunity seemingly in
- 7:09these mid tier cities. So you're seeing things like
- 7:12more work opportunities out there or even an increase of
- 7:14remote jobs that allow you to live somewhere more comfortably
- 7:17and more affordably while still having a big city job without
- 7:20paying those big city prices. And it doesn't help these tier
- 7:23one cities cases that a lot of the things that they are known
- 7:26for and the main pull of these cities are moving out of the
- 7:29city as well. Like just a few years ago, a lot
- 7:31of film production moved from Hollywood to places like
- 7:34Atlanta, Austin, New Jersey and North Carolina.
- 7:37It also is spreading outside of the country to our kinder
- 7:39brethren over in Canada and abroad.
- 7:41You have the Covenant tech giant of Silicon Valley in Northern
- 7:44California still by far having the most tech jobs, but seeing
- 7:47through multiple rounds of layoffs and just industry shifts
- 7:50that there is a rapid increase in tech jobs in cities and
- 7:52states like Utah, Illinois and South Carolina with lower cost
- 7:55of life being cited as a reason. And then if you want to get into
- 7:57the social aspect of it all, the social scene is fleeing the
- 8:00traditional tier one social cities as well.
- 8:03When you hear spring break, what city do you normally think of?
- 8:05Miami, right? Well, I mean, except if you were
- 8:08online this past year where the city that defines spring break,
- 8:11the college kids craziness was Houston. 2026 marked the first
- 8:20year that Houston broke in as a top spring break destination and
- 8:24really truly came after their tier one sister Miami's bag.
- 8:28Like just look up Houston's spring break on tech talk and
- 8:30you'll see that the Girly's were turning up Houston in ways that
- 8:32they never turned up Miami for better.
- 8:34Well, no, just for worse. And then in the fashion world,
- 8:38New York is usually hailed as like the crown of fashion in the
- 8:41country, but but New York Fashion Week saw less traction
- 8:44than cities abroad due to designers choosing to show in
- 8:47European cities as opposed to showing in New York, continuing
- 8:50to stir the panic that's been in headline since 2024.
- 8:52With that being that fashion is on a dangerous decline in New
- 8:55York. So we're even saying that all of
- 8:56what these tier one cities were once known for and the reason
- 8:59why people will move there are now being outsourced or just
- 9:01moved to Tier 2 cities, if not other countries entirely.
- 9:05And not that I'm necessarily fearful for these cities because
- 9:07this happens pretty much cyclically and maybe 5 to 10
- 9:09years, the tier one cities will be back in their prime, at least
- 9:12I hope. But it is interesting to see
- 9:14how, where, and why the industry moves.
- 9:16And again, this all makes sense because like, if you're open to
- 9:19not living in a tier one city, want affordable living and are
- 9:22looking for opportunities in growing industries, why not move
- 9:25to a Tier 2? And this part is pure
- 9:27speculation. Like it's not really based in
- 9:29fact. But I feel like the appeal of
- 9:31these Tier 2 cities is that it allows people to leave their
- 9:34other Tier 2 or tier 3 cities or just general suburbs and get out
- 9:37of their hometown, which I feel like can be a common occurrence.
- 9:39And feeling of like, you know, you made it when you leave your
- 9:41hometown, which is pretty much always shown in media because
- 9:44for some reason, there always seems to be a stigma around
- 9:46staying in your hometown. And like, branching out seems
- 9:48like a good thing. But as opposed to prior where
- 9:51tier one cities were coveted, going from a small suburb to one
- 9:54of the main metropolises, Metropoli, I'm gonna say
- 9:57metropoli because that's how it's kind of the main metropoli
- 9:59of the country seems really intimidating and very scary.
- 10:01But maybe moving to a Tier 2 city doesn't seem as scary and
- 10:04seems more attainable. I don't know, food for thought.
- 10:06But moving back to people that were once in tier one cities.
- 10:08Moving to Tier 2 cities. According to this KTLA news
- 10:11article, nearly 50, 4000 people moved out of LA County between
- 10:14July 1st, 2024 and July 1st, 2025. the US Census data shows
- 10:19that the decline is part of an ongoing trend.
- 10:21In 2020, LA County was estimated to have more than 10 million
- 10:24residents. As of 2025, the county was
- 10:26thought to have just under 9.7 million residents.
- 10:30It's unclear where the fleeing Angelenos are moving.
- 10:32However, the neighboring counties of Riverside and San
- 10:34Bernardino saw a combined increase of over 21,000
- 10:37residents between 2024 and 2025, according to the US Census data.
- 10:41The greater Las Vegas area we also saw a population boost of
- 10:43more than 21,000 people last year.
- 10:45And so we 2020 definitely did turn it for a lot of people.
- 10:49It shifted a lot of things. Like I know I talk about it in
- 10:52damn near every video but do not look at me crazy.
- 10:54Like with the rise of remote jobs, maybe wanting to be closer
- 10:56to family, not wanting to pay insane living costs is like a
- 11:00real thing. Like I see the appeal.
- 11:02I mean like, not for me personally because I I love me a
- 11:05big city. What can I say?
- 11:12But I understand the thinking and I get the appeal.
- 11:14Like first of all, as someone living in LA, like having no
- 11:17congestion, no traffic. And let me tell you something as
- 11:21Ala transplant piece that there will never be worse traffic as
- 11:25the five heading east at 3:00 PM on a weekday with a one O 1 at
- 11:298:00 AM and not having to deal with that sounds like a
- 11:32blessing. And then there's also like the
- 11:34affordability of it all. And while these cities still may
- 11:36not be as affordable as like the almost mythical fantasized
- 11:39prophesized time of like the boomers, buying or renting an
- 11:42mid level city doesn't need to cost you a limb, your dignity
- 11:45and a high 4 figure, low 5 figure mortgage rate.
- 11:47And the cost of living for most things is generally less or at
- 11:51least more reasonable. Like I'm thinking now I'm seeing
- 11:53people on TikTok complaining about gas prices and being like,
- 11:55Oh my God, my gas is like $4.00 and that's so high and that's so
- 11:57crazy. Which yeah, it is.
- 11:59Let me be clear with that. But like in major cities and
- 12:02things like LA, you got gas touching 789 dollars a gallon.
- 12:06Yeah, I'll take 4 oil gas any day.
- 12:10And like, sure, in a mid level city, you won't don't find
- 12:12Keisha Nada deejaying out any of your clubs on a random Wednesday
- 12:15night. I mean, maybe you will, but the
- 12:17chances are a little bit less likely than living in like in LA
- 12:19or New York. And you might not be able to
- 12:20find your preferred alternative milk at every store Cafe.
- 12:23And you might not have as ready access to like the trendiest
- 12:25things or like the craziest latest, most boutique niche.
- 12:29You don't really need them in your life.
- 12:30Work out Pilates studios. But like that's OK because at
- 12:33least your eggs won't be $10 and the price of your studio
- 12:35apartments won't start with the number 3.
- 12:37And that's truly what matters more to most people.
- 12:38And as I previously mentioned, more industries are moving to
- 12:41these places, so there are more job opportunities without as
- 12:44much demand as in a big city. And by that I mean that there
- 12:46aren't 1000 people buying for the same job position.
- 12:49Like it's still going to be a lot, but maybe it would be
- 12:50around like 300 or so, I don't know.
- 12:52So statistically your chances are up.
- 12:54And then pay wise, mid level cities are kind of in a
- 12:56Goldilocks situation when it comes to geolocation pay for
- 12:59some jobs. Like I know for a fact that some
- 13:00jobs pay you in relation to where you live.
- 13:02I know especially in tech because again, I like to talk
- 13:04about this any chance I get. I used to be a tech buddy before
- 13:06I became a full time creator. And to my shop, they pay you
- 13:09differently based on where you live because the cost of living
- 13:11is different and different places.
- 13:12And yes, oftentimes tier one cities do get offered the higher
- 13:16end of those salary ranges. I don't know if that increase is
- 13:19ever really enough to offset the cost of living there.
- 13:21I mean, for some I'm sure it does, but for the majority of
- 13:24people, I don't know. But if you get a slightly higher
- 13:27pay for being in a Tier 2 city, more so than a tier 3, of
- 13:30course, and your cost of living is way lower, then you may have
- 13:33just found yourself in the pocket to pocket some more cash.
- 13:37Yeah. And of course this all depends
- 13:39on your job and isn't guaranteed for everybody.
- 13:41And that's a lot of good for the mid level cities.
- 13:43You can't say that I'm a hater because these are all solid
- 13:45options. My main cons are of course the
- 13:48resources and the appeal of the tier one city life because
- 13:51again, no shade, but some, not all.
- 13:55And I got to say that clearly not all, but some of these mid
- 13:59tier cities feel like corporate ghost towns and kind of like the
- 14:02city equivalent to a backroom. Like they just feel like
- 14:04corporate late stage capitalism venture capitalist final boss
- 14:09town, if that makes sense. Like especially like God forbid
- 14:12a tech company moves into that mid tier city.
- 14:15You get that same kind of cookie cutter house or cookie cutter
- 14:18apartment with like the Gray floors, the fluorescent light,
- 14:21the freaking four of our one with the same kind of stores at
- 14:23the bottom. Like, that spooky me to me
- 14:26personally, but I know that's just like a me thing.
- 14:27Like a house is a house. And truly, who am I to judge?
- 14:30Because hey, there's give and take with everything.
- 14:32But enough of weighing the pros and the cons.
- 14:33Let's actually talk about whether or not this exodus of
- 14:36Gen. Z from big cities is a good,
- 14:38bad, or neutral thing. And in short, to answer this,
- 14:46it's all a preference. As with anything, there are pros
- 14:48and cons and it's just a matter of opinion for what you want in
- 14:51your lifestyle. Like yes, the Internet can be a
- 14:53great tool to see all of these cultural hubs before taking the
- 14:56next step of moving, but don't let the Internet be your whole
- 14:59guiding light and foundation. And also don't let the Internet
- 15:02shame you for what you want. Because like realistically, if
- 15:04you know in your heart of hearts that you want to get a home
- 15:06young, start a family, or just live in a place that's more
- 15:09affordable, then follow that. Don't let some random influence
- 15:12on the Internet shame you out of that and tell you that like
- 15:13you're not living your life to the the fullest because it's
- 15:15your life. And on the flip side, if living
- 15:17in a bustling city is really important to you, but you live
- 15:20in a small town and have everyone around you telling you
- 15:21to stay in that small town, that again, it's your life and follow
- 15:25what you believe to be true. It's really all a matter of
- 15:27preference and what we prioritize in our individual
- 15:29lives. And none of this exists in a
- 15:31bubble. This is the part of the video
- 15:32that I was selling out a way for because I think this is the
- 15:34really interesting bit because this mass migration that we're
- 15:37seeing isn't just Gen. Z moving from tier one cities to
- 15:39Tier 2. It's an interesting way to see
- 15:41how culture historically moves throughout spaces.
- 15:44And there are other factors that contribute to this, like this
- 15:46whole ship that we're seeing feels partially motivated by the
- 15:48ripple effects of gentrification.
- 15:50And it's kind of like a reverse white flight right now.
- 15:53And if you're unfamiliar with the term, white flight refers to
- 15:55when white people made their exodus to the suburbs from urban
- 15:58areas to avoid crime, which was what was said public facing, but
- 16:01the reality was mostly to avoid being neighborly with people of
- 16:04color. But for some reason, in LA at
- 16:06least, a lot of these white folks want to return and
- 16:09gentrify historically black and brown neighborhoods because it's
- 16:12cheaper to purchase that property, right?
- 16:14Those gentrification does impact property value of a location.
- 16:17These folks from these neighborhoods, not just Gen.
- 16:19Z, of course, have to sometimes pick up their roots and head
- 16:22out. And this is a personal anecdote
- 16:23for my researcher, but she says that she's personally had a few
- 16:25family, friends and neighbors who've left LA County and
- 16:28California as a whole because it's just gotten too expensive.
- 16:30And that's just one side of the issue.
- 16:32Then you have the other side of things where of course, when you
- 16:35have a bunch of people moving out of a space that initially
- 16:37weren't from the space to begin with, there is a lasting impact
- 16:41to that because again, these spaces don't just cease to exist
- 16:44when you living in them. And this is the part that rings
- 16:46shrew no matter what time period it's happening in.
- 16:48And it's the concept of like people thinking of like the big
- 16:51cities as this sort of playground.
- 16:53I talked about this in my New York West Village girl video.
- 16:55But we see so many times that like you have these people that
- 16:57were born and raised in like tier one cities growing up and
- 17:01seeing the gentrification of their hometown with hordes of
- 17:03transplants moving in, treating their home city as some kind of
- 17:06playground. Like this magical fantastic
- 17:08school city that they like pay their youthful 10 year to and
- 17:10then change the city around a whole bunch and then move out
- 17:12once they get old or serious or afford it anymore.
- 17:15Make no attempt to get to know the pre-existing communities,
- 17:18creating their own community events that are all behind pay
- 17:21walls and acting like they discovered places that have been
- 17:24around in the communities for years.
- 17:26And of course my ask in this remains the same as it was in my
- 17:28previous video. And that is that if you are
- 17:30going to move into somewhere new that already had a pre-existing
- 17:33community, actually try to get to know the place and the people
- 17:35that live there. And don't try and transform it
- 17:37into your hometown or whatever projection you think the city is
- 17:40going to be and venture out of the main square.
- 17:42Like don't just stay in Times Square.
- 17:43Don't just go to the pink Wall and go to community goods or
- 17:46anything else you saw on I Love LA and call it a day.
- 17:48Like all of these places, whether they're a tier one or
- 17:50Tier 2 city, are alive with people and culture, and it's
- 17:53time you get into it. Yeah.
- 17:55And at the end of the day, the cycle that we're seeing is just
- 17:58that, a natural cycle of ultimately going back to what,
- 18:01you know, if you're from the suburbs or a Tier 2 city, then
- 18:04it makes sense that you want to raise your kids there.
- 18:06Like that's how you grew up and that's how you want them to grow
- 18:08up. And that can just be attributed
- 18:09to the cyclical nature of life fleeing from the city.
- 18:12But I think what I really want to drive home with this video is
- 18:15that that is not this. That's not what we're seeing
- 18:18right now. And what we are seeing with this
- 18:20mass exodus from large cities is not some kind of coming of age
- 18:24thing. It is more akin to a survival
- 18:26tactic and just further shows the state of the world for Gen.
- 18:28Z. The money just isn't what it
- 18:29used to be. These cities just aren't what
- 18:31they used to be. And we the people are not living
- 18:34in the same world that we used to or that we were told about.
- 18:37So basically, making whatever decision is best for you is
- 18:40going to be what's best for you. And for me personally, that
- 18:42means continuing to be an LAP, yeah.