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The Challenge · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello everybody,
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  Speaker 1: we are.
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  Speaker 2: Scrubbing it in what Well, I'm just kind of on
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  Speaker 2: a time crunch and you just were sitting there thinking
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  Speaker 2: about what you were going to say?
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  Speaker 3: Is that I'm not sitting here thinking where.
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  Speaker 1: We are doing the podcast in a different room, and
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  Speaker 1: so we don't get to hear the playback of our jingles.
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  Speaker 1: Don't trying to time it out.
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  Speaker 3: You don't have to time it out. I have to
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  Speaker 3: get a character.
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  Speaker 1: I hear it and then give my hello. I have
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  Speaker 1: to greet everybody after I hear my jingle.
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  Speaker 4: Whow that's beautiful.
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  Speaker 3: So sorry, no, no, no, how's it going?
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  Speaker 4: Oh?
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  Speaker 1: Wow?
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  Speaker 4: It's Thursday?
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  Speaker 1: It is Thursday. You know what day it is?
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  Speaker 4: Thursday?
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  Speaker 1: I know what day of the December is it? It's
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  Speaker 1: December fourth? Yeah, that's right. And I want to show
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  Speaker 1: you this December marriage challenge I found online.
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  Speaker 4: What is that?
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  Speaker 2: Good?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. It's very full.
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  Speaker 1: It's very full. It's every day basically thirty days of
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  Speaker 1: connecting intentionally with your partner.
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  Speaker 4: HM. Where'd you find that on.
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  Speaker 1: Instagram and I was scrolling and I like screenshot it.
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  Speaker 1: I sent it to Robbie said, we're doing this in December.
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  Speaker 1: Who and but it's cute. It's like one of them said.
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  Speaker 1: The first one was say one thing you admire about
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  Speaker 1: your spouse and why you know, like they're cute little things.
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  Speaker 1: It's not like anything.
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  Speaker 3: Little prompts.
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  Speaker 1: Little prompts like do a ten minute no phones check
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  Speaker 1: in tonight, you know, like so cute. Our our thing
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  Speaker 1: for Fridays, play game together love. Yeah, we love playing games.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So every day of the month of December, we
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  Speaker 1: have a little challenge to strengthen our marriage. Wow, it's
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  Speaker 1: beautiful when you're in.
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  Speaker 3: Haley would love that. That to me.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, i'llso be like Merry Christmas. Yeah, we're doing a
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  Speaker 2: December challenge.
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  Speaker 1: There's a couple a doctor up change a couple of
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  Speaker 1: them because they're not so much of us. But yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'll make them little.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe you're oh, yeah, it didn't need to know that,
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  Speaker 2: But you could just challenge yourself to do something that's
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  Speaker 2: not you, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: M hm.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe that's what the challenge actually is. Since you love
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  Speaker 2: playing games and that's not a challenge. Maybe the ones
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  Speaker 2: that don't feel like you could be part of.
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  Speaker 4: The challenge aspect, we'll see.
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  Speaker 2: That's like me, Haley every day recap. What's something that
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  Speaker 2: I did that made you feel loved?
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  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so she may have written that challenge actually, Like.
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  Speaker 1: Why I not thought about this? Like this is something
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  Speaker 1: really good for January. Maybe I'll make one for January. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: with like like this fresh start five start start the
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  Speaker 1: new year, and maybe not like partner Vibe, but like
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  Speaker 1: self vibe. You know, I've hope people would love that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: maybe I'll do that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeahs for free and then sell the PDPs for free
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  Speaker 2: and then sell it to the masses. Yeah yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Robbie is filling in for me next week.
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  Speaker 4: Is he feeling excited? Uh?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he gets like excited and nervous.
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  Speaker 2: Oh really, yeah, I don't even I don't picture Robbie
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  Speaker 2: getting nervous.
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  Speaker 1: It's not nervous because, like it's funny, just because I
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  Speaker 1: spend so much time with him, I can tell he's
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  Speaker 1: like a little bit different when he's like on the air,
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  Speaker 1: like he's himself, but I can tell like he's like
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  Speaker 1: a little bit it's not natural, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's most people. Like I think we've been
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  Speaker 2: doing this for so long and it's just me and
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  Speaker 2: you and we just forget the thing is here. But
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  Speaker 2: I think for most people it's a little out of
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  Speaker 2: the ordinary. Like you literally do this every single day
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  Speaker 2: on the radio and then every single week on the podcast. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and then you think of someone like Robbie who's sitting
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  Speaker 2: in an office his computer, phone calls all day and
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  Speaker 2: then sitting down and talking about his line.
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  Speaker 3: Kind of weird. It's so weird.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm excited. I'm excited to have him. Okay, great, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: if not you who oh he yeah, it's not you heat.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, We're We're going to Japan, and I'm so excited.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm also very like my vibe when I travel,
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  Speaker 2: I'm very much the go.
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  Speaker 4: With the flow person and not the plan I booked.
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  Speaker 2: And like, the reality is that a lot of the
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  Speaker 2: things in Japan you do need to book, and so
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  Speaker 2: it's not as good with the flow as I would
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  Speaker 2: like as I can be. And so we've had to
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  Speaker 2: have some conversations about her being like I need some
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  Speaker 2: help because I know that I'm the leader and like
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  Speaker 2: plan things. But I just need some help because we're
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  Speaker 2: gonna be gone. We're going to a lot of places,
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  Speaker 2: so I just you know, make some reservations and stuff.
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  Speaker 3: So can you help me basically?
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  Speaker 2: And I'm just chat GPT like a maniac.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sending PDFs.
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  Speaker 2: Asking it to create PDFs for me so it looks official.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like making a tinerary. It is quite amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Chatgyb T yeah yeah, and like add some doodles on
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  Speaker 1: the PDIA.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I really asked me.
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  Speaker 2: You know what's sad is like I remember when I
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  Speaker 2: had micro like a big old computer, and you know,
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  Speaker 2: if someone was on the Wi Fi on the phone
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  Speaker 2: and I couldn't get on the Internet and I had
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  Speaker 2: to just keep myself entertained on the computer, I'd be creating,
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  Speaker 2: like drawing on my Do you remember the thing where
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  Speaker 2: you would draw on I think it was called.
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  Speaker 1: Paint Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, paint paint.
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  Speaker 2: And then you could if there was like one line,
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  Speaker 2: one little space missing, you tried to fill it in
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  Speaker 2: and fill in the whole thing.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Anyways, I don't have that anymore.
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  Speaker 2: That creativity chatte is yapped up.
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  Speaker 1: Did you chat chubt for my wedding speech.
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  Speaker 3: No zero zero.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't start using chat jupt till, like I would say,
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  Speaker 2: around September of this year.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I was like anti and everyone was like, don't
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  Speaker 3: do it. It's bad for the environment. And I was like,
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  Speaker 3: you'll hold me back.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, sabotage the whole world, new world out.
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  Speaker 3: There's a whole new world of brilliance.
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  Speaker 2: You know. You have to go in and you just
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  Speaker 2: need to go in and erase the long dashes and yeah,
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  Speaker 2: tweak some things to make.
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  Speaker 4: It look official and original.
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  Speaker 1: So how many days are you guys gone?
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  Speaker 3: How dare you ask? If I use that for your speech?
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  Speaker 3: My speech was it was very heartfelt.
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  Speaker 1: So that's why I was like wondering if you used it?
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  Speaker 1: It did a really good job.
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  Speaker 4: No, I didn't. I didn't, did Paulina?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know about an asker. I'm gonna ask her
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  Speaker 1: what was your question? How many days are you guys
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  Speaker 1: gonna be gone?
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  Speaker 2: So I leave, I have a work trip before and
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  Speaker 2: then I'm meeting her.
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  Speaker 4: And Marla there.
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  Speaker 2: Oh what yeah, it's crazy. So I leave tomorrow. I
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  Speaker 2: mean sorry, I leave, I'm already gone.
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  Speaker 3: I do be gone. I have left.
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  Speaker 2: I have been gone since Tuesday, okay, and then it
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  Speaker 2: comes back when Monday the fifteenth.
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  Speaker 5: Wow, like two weeks? Yes, crazy?
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  Speaker 3: What I know?
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  Speaker 1: Nice?
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  Speaker 5: What You're gonna be gone for a fortnight? Two weeks?
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  Speaker 4: That's what a fortnight?
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  Speaker 1: Fourteen days?
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  Speaker 3: That's what Tailor's talking about about?
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  Speaker 4: Fourteen days?
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  Speaker 1: What have you just founding that? Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. Fortnite was a video game I did too, actually.
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  Speaker 5: For a long time, spelled differently it is.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, Oh my gosh, learning so much today.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm gonna be gone for a while.
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  Speaker 1: And out of the two weeks, beat you all the
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  Speaker 1: two weeks that you're gone. Do you have plans every
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  Speaker 1: single day on my vacation?
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  Speaker 2: Uh?
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  Speaker 3: Huh yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Nice.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll be doing things.
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  Speaker 2: But you know, Hayley's very much like, we can go here,
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  Speaker 2: we can go here. And I'm like, are we including
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  Speaker 2: jet lag on this itinerary?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, because I remember.
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  Speaker 2: Last time we went, which was like twenty nineteen, right
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  Speaker 2: before the pandemic. We went to Japan and I was
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  Speaker 2: fine for I would say four days, and then I
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  Speaker 2: felt like the fifth day or something like way later
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  Speaker 2: than I anticipated, the jet hit and we were at
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  Speaker 2: a like very traditional Japanese hotel where you put you
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  Speaker 2: can wear your like kimonos that they give you to
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  Speaker 2: go to dinner at the in the dining area. And
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  Speaker 2: I was so angry about having to get up and
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  Speaker 2: go eat dinner because I just wanted to sleep. But
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  Speaker 2: it was it was so traditional that if you didn't eat,
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  Speaker 2: there wasn't like room service or anything. So if you
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  Speaker 2: didn't eat the dinner that was served, you didn't eat right.
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  Speaker 4: And Haley was like, you have to, like you're.
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  Speaker 2: And so she got all dressed up in her kimono
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  Speaker 2: and I just went down in my like sweatshirt, all grumpy. Oh,
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  Speaker 2: and it was like the sixth day, I think. So
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  Speaker 2: I'm anticipating that, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I do think it's interesting because I feel like the
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  Speaker 1: way you vacation is says a lot. And I really
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  Speaker 1: feel like I met my match with like how I
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  Speaker 1: like to vacation because Robin and I really like to
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  Speaker 1: do it the same. Yeah, and that's very refreshing.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Haley and I.
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  Speaker 2: The thing is once we get to where we're going,
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  Speaker 2: because she she's very much like I want to see things,
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  Speaker 2: I want to do things, And I'm really grateful for
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  Speaker 2: that because if if she wasn't like that, I would lay, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and I'd miss the vacation because I'd be laying.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: It was like.
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  Speaker 2: I love laying, but why lay in Japan when I
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  Speaker 2: could lay at home? You know, right, So I'm grateful
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  Speaker 2: for our differences in that. But also I think I
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  Speaker 2: because I love to lay, it makes her feel like
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  Speaker 2: she can relax too, So if we need a day
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  Speaker 2: of lay, we could just do it.
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  Speaker 3: Like I told her, I go, Here's the thing.
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  Speaker 2: I think we should have ideas of things we want
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  Speaker 2: to do and plans, but if we wake up and
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  Speaker 2: we're exhausted or jet lagged, that we don't feel like
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  Speaker 2: we have to go do.
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  Speaker 4: Them right, we can lay, rest and relax.
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  Speaker 3: And lay down.
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  Speaker 1: It's just so funny because like I honestly, I don't
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  Speaker 1: think I've laid as much as I laid this weekend
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  Speaker 1: this whole year. Like the fact that you lay that
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  Speaker 1: much is like so.
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  Speaker 3: Like it's very bad for my back.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it is very bad for your back, but like
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  Speaker 1: that's why people usually go on vacation so that they
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  Speaker 1: can lay, because they can't lay when they're at home.
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  Speaker 2: Right, I have a I'm very privileged with my life schedule,
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  Speaker 2: I can lay a lot.
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  Speaker 4: And I love to go.
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  Speaker 2: Like that's why I love Easton and Allison and how
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  Speaker 2: y'all travel. I just love how y'all live because I
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  Speaker 2: feel so inspired by the just go go go of
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  Speaker 2: it all, and like, I don't care if we're tired,
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna go see these things because we're here for
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  Speaker 2: twenty four hours and we're gonna see everything we can
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  Speaker 2: fit in because I don't have that.
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  Speaker 5: When we when we were on our honeymoon, we were
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  Speaker 5: there at for a fortnite.
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  Speaker 6: We were in Hawaii, and we we did two weeks
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  Speaker 6: and why and we would there was like multiple days
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  Speaker 6: where we would walk to the breakfast area, eat breakfast,
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  Speaker 6: and then walk to a beach chair and sit there
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  Speaker 6: and then sit there for like ten hours.
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  Speaker 3: That's so it was the best.
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  Speaker 6: And it's very unlike us to just sit in one
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  Speaker 6: spot on vacation, but we did that a lot on
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  Speaker 6: our honeymoon.
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  Speaker 1: Was I love that.
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  Speaker 5: It's the best.
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  Speaker 4: Did you all lay over the holiday break?
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  Speaker 5: We sure did, Oh you did.
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  Speaker 6: We went and we were at my mom's house for
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  Speaker 6: a whole week, but we did a lot of laying
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  Speaker 6: there she was very excited to show me the CMA Awards.
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  Speaker 6: My mom she wanted she wanted my take on Luke
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  Speaker 6: Combe's performance.
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  Speaker 4: So, wow, what did you think?
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  Speaker 6: I thought it was great, played with Big X the plug,
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  Speaker 6: it was awesome, and yeah, we played around. Watched the
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  Speaker 6: Thanksgiving Day parade on YouTube later in the day.
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  Speaker 5: And it was it was the best. We had a
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  Speaker 5: great time.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I think people obviously people know that you're busy,
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  Speaker 2: but I don't think people realize how like insane your
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  Speaker 2: schedule is. So I'm, for one, I'm grateful that you
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  Speaker 2: get time to do nothing and watch a Thanksgiving pretty late.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you, thank you.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I came off. I had really like hectic months. Oh
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  Speaker 5: my god. I took a day a couple weeks ago,
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  Speaker 5: a Sunday and just laid.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I bought I bought a set.
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  Speaker 6: I bought a Boy's Life set and I bore the
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  Speaker 6: set in my house and it felt great, And I
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  Speaker 6: was like, now I get it.
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  Speaker 5: I get the lay.
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  Speaker 1: I really get it, like I really genuinely do. And
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  Speaker 1: like December is gonna be so hectic. I'd be like, really, what,
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  Speaker 1: oh it is the first two months because you're like
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  Speaker 1: doing all the Christmas stuff and like everybody has their
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  Speaker 1: holiday parties and like your schedule gets like booked. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but there's gonna be a week period where I have
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  Speaker 1: a couple of days to lay. Yeah, and you better believe.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah lay I will.
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  Speaker 1: I'd recommend I want to put clothes on. That's how
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  Speaker 1: much I just want to lay.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, sheesh, I haven't even reached that level of Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: But I do recommend getting up and doing some stretches
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  Speaker 2: a point careen there, Yeah, to engage your core because
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  Speaker 2: when you're.
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  Speaker 1: I know, I should do my back strengthening exercises.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, put your orthotics one and dear back strengthen the exercise.
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  Speaker 3: So don't worry, guys, we're not eight yet.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody asked me to link my herthotics the other day
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, that's where I am in life.
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  Speaker 3: Shot my shot my orthon Like, honestly, I wish I
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  Speaker 3: had a link.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, this is this is not funny. But we do
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  Speaker 2: have a scrubber who wrote in how do I tell
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  Speaker 2: my boyfriend to stop being lazy?
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  Speaker 7: You come back and repeat, Okay, we'll be right back,
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  Speaker 7: all right, So at a lease at least I love
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  Speaker 7: this name.
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  Speaker 2: It's spelled ad E l i Z, which is so pretty.
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  Speaker 2: Hi Beck at Tanya Mark in easton day one scrubber
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  Speaker 2: and still love the pod just as much. This is
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  Speaker 2: my first time writing in I finally had something bothering
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  Speaker 2: me enough. I stay with my boyfriend most of the week.
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  Speaker 2: He's a pilot, and I bartend at events when he's away.
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  Speaker 2: I actually like using the time to clean, partly for
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  Speaker 2: my own sanity and partly to do something nice for him.
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  Speaker 2: But as he's gotten more comfortable, he's gotten so messy
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  Speaker 2: and it's driving me insane. He leaves dirty clothes on
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  Speaker 2: the floor or toss over his gaming chair. He leaves
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  Speaker 2: dishes in the sink overnight after I just did all
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  Speaker 2: the dishes and ran the dishwasher. And sometimes he even
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  Speaker 2: forgets to flush the toilet.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is so gross.
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  Speaker 2: If I do his laundry and fold everything, he'll let
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  Speaker 2: it sit for days before putting it away. I have
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  Speaker 2: no idea how to bring this up without sounding like
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  Speaker 2: I'm nagging or being a total B word.
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  Speaker 3: Peep.
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  Speaker 2: How do I tell him he needs to stop being
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  Speaker 2: lazy and clean up after himself. Help?
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  Speaker 4: This will drive me insane.
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  Speaker 1: This will drive me like insane.
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  Speaker 2: I'm messy and I have my piles, but like in
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  Speaker 2: terms of just daily chores and laundry and stuff like
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  Speaker 2: that is just the signs of a adult.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. And I also feel like you should just tell
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  Speaker 1: him who cares if you sound like you're nagging. I
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  Speaker 1: do this all the time.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I think there's a way of just making it
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  Speaker 2: about feeling like disrespect towards you, because he is disrespecting you, like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you're cleaning, and then he's not even having enough respect
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  Speaker 2: for you to clean up after himself or even help you.
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  Speaker 2: So it doesn't even have to be naggy, it's just like, hey,
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  Speaker 2: I sometimes I think the problem is that you almost
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  Speaker 2: probably feel like you're being like a mother to him
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: cleaning up after him, and you're gonna end up presenting
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: him and be like so icked out, yeah if you're
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: not already, And so I think you just need to
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: make it more about you feeling disrespected and that you
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: put in the effort and you do these nice things
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: him and then he turns around and just like either
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: disregards it or lets it sit and doesn't doesn't contribute.
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: It sounds like, yeah, it's just also doesn't seem like
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: he has respect for you, because, like I would say,
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: I'm way like Robbie's not messy at all. But like I,
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: if there's like a dish in the sink, I will
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: wash it and put it in the you know, like
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: the clean side of the sink, whereas like he would
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: let him pile up before he does them. But because
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: I am the way that I am, he doesn't let
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: the sink get full because he knows it's important. It's
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: important to me, you know. So it's just kind of
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: like I feel like it's not even about him being lazy.
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: I just feel like it doesn't even respect you.
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: I think you should come out of maybe as like, hey,
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: we're we're a partnership or a team. And I feel
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: like I'm carrying a lot of the work of like
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: the housework, and I love doing it because I have
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: the time, and I like doing it for you and
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: keeping our space clean.
• 16:50
  Speaker 4: But if you could just you.
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: Know, doilet.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: I mean that two seconds.
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: I am so grossed out for her, but like flush
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: the toilet or make sure that if I do the
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: dishes and you eat something that you clean off the
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: dishes or put it in the dishwasher.
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: You're not asking a lot.
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: You're literally asking your clothes and fold them.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: Please just put them in their basket or yeah, closet.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: I would just approach it not as like you need
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: to do this, but more is like, hey, it would
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: it would make me feel really loved and it would
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: make me feel really respected if you contributed to the
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: things that I do around the house.
• 17:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm sorry.
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: That's really rough, tough, yeaf and tough, and he needs
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: to get it together.
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: He does.
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: Flushing the toilet is a privilege. Not everyone has a
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: flushing toilet.
• 17:40
  Speaker 5: It's true, It's true.
• 17:42
  Speaker 4: Okay, this one's fun. You want to read this one?
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: Aaron shout out to the Facebook group. Hey gang, First,
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: I just want to say that my four year old
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: still continues to ask why don't beck On Tanya sings
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: to grub a dub dub anymore? Oh, Tanya, your jingle
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: is missed in my household? Thank you erin. Secondly, and
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: the why I'm writing is I read a Facebook post
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: in our Facebook group that I think deserves a shout out.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: A woman named Daniella checked out of a hotel and
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: left her crimper there. The hotel wanted to charge her
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: fifty bucks to ship it back, so she reached out
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: into the Facebook group to offer the crumper to anyone
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: local if they wanted to go pick it up. Honestly,
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: a pretty nice gesture. I would have just said forget
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: it and not even thought to offer it to someone else,
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: but let the hotel dispose of it or whatever they
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: do with forgotten things items. Sorry. But then right away
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: someone else in the Facebook group named Jen said that
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: she was local and would pick it up for her
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: and then pay for the shipping herself to get Danielle
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: or her crumper back. I know this exchange is so
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: minor in the grand scheme of life, but these small
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: acts of kindness make our world such a better place.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: And I feel like these ladies deserve a shout out
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: from you guys. They have inspired me to go out
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: of my way to do something similar. I hope this
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: inspires our listeners to do the same. Love you all
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: and happy holidays. That is so sweet, and you know
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: what I do feel like sometimes we get in our
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: own way because, especially during the holidays, you want to
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: do nice things, and you get so overwhelmed because you're
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: like everybody needs so much. People need money, people need groceries,
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: people need so much that you kind of get overwhelmed
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: and you don't even.
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: Know where to start.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: And it's just like all these little tiny things, like
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: every little thing makes such a huge impact.
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: Sometimes when I'm feeling like when I'm doomed scroll too
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: far and things feel dark, sometimes I just go on
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: the Facebook group because it's always it's either like lighthearted
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: and funny, or like outrageous sex questions or just like
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: really like these moments of nice gestures and.
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, it's such a little.
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: Like small pocket of like nice joy and kindness. Yeah,
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: so thank you for sharing that, Jen.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: For securing the crimper and sending it back.
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: We love you.
• 19:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we love you guys. Thanks for being the best,
• 19:47
  Speaker 4: so warm, so kind, the best.
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: That's all for now. I I have to head off.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: Becka has to go. But if you guys have any
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: questions for Robbie, He's coming in next week, you can
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: DM them on Instagram or you can email us at
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: scrubbing in at iHeartMedia dot com.
• 20:05
  Speaker 4: Wonderful. We love y'all so much.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: I'll miss enjoy your trip.
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: Thank you.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: I'll be watching you on find my can't wait. Yeah,
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: that's going be fun.
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and you'll be like, where is she today?
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: Is she moving? Or is she let No, I'll be
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: on the.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: Move yeah yeah yeah.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: Haley's like, we can sleep on the trains. I don't
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: sleep on trains more planes or automobiles. I only sleep
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: laying down.
• 20:26
  Speaker 5: What parts of your pan are you going to We're.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: Going to Kyoto, We're going to we're going to do
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: a day trip in Hiroshima. We're going to do a uh,
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: we're going to Mount Fuji, and then we're going to
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: Tokyo and we're going to do a I think that's it.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, So we're really excited. I can't wait and
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: can't wait to come home and report back on my travels.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: Can't wait to have you back.
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: We love you so much.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: I love you.
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: Bye.