Latest / We Talk Back / Issa Husband Part 2
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- 0:01Speaker 1: Talk to them.
- 0:03Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
- 0:07Speaker 2: talk back. What's up, y'all?
- 0:10Speaker 3: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of
- 0:12Speaker 3: We Talk Back, a show dedicated to all you dreamers
- 0:15Speaker 3: and chasers and niggas and bitches.
- 0:18Speaker 2: Oh, wait. We dreamers and chasers this week. Last week,
- 0:21Speaker 2: y'all was niggas and bitches.
- 0:25Speaker 3: Y'all people.
- 0:28Speaker 2: All of y'all who listen.
- 0:29Speaker 3: It's your co-host AJ.
- 0:30Speaker 1: It's AJ, y'all. What's up, Tam?
- 0:34Speaker 2: Hey, boo. It's me, Tam Bam. I love y'all once again.
- 0:37Speaker 2: I don't know if I told y'all that last week,
- 0:38Speaker 2: but I do love y'all.
- 0:39Speaker 1: We was probably giggling too much.
- 0:41Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 0:41Speaker 2: How was your weekend? It was good.
- 0:43Speaker 1: What did I do this weekend?
- 0:44Speaker 5: Oh, girl.
- 0:46Speaker 1: I was doing some nice things this weekend.
- 0:47Speaker 3: So one of my friends, and we're going to have
- 0:50Speaker 3: them on the show to talk about cosmetic surgery at
- 0:53Speaker 3: some point, Lorde. I keep talking about it, but it's
- 0:57Speaker 3: going to be a very good episode. I think it's
- 0:59Speaker 3: actually needed. But one of my friends, she's a cosmetic surgeon.
- 1:05Speaker 3: She had her birthday dinner this weekend on a.
- 1:09Speaker 2: Yacht, child.
- 1:10Speaker 1: A three-bedroom yacht. That shit was like a damn luxury
- 1:13Speaker 1: townhouse right quick.
- 1:14Speaker 2: I saw you on there. Real nice. I was like,
- 1:16Speaker 2: who the fuck she with? How come she didn't invite me?
- 1:19Speaker 3: We was right here in Charleston, girl, because y'all know
- 1:21Speaker 3: I was born in paradise. A lot of people don't
- 1:23Speaker 3: appreciate how beautiful this city is. But you got to
- 1:27Speaker 3: have a boat to really see what the fuck is
- 1:29Speaker 3: going on. These white folks be everywhere.
- 1:31Speaker 1: Small islands all over.
- 1:33Speaker 3: They just be pulling up to the sandbars and chilling
- 1:36Speaker 3: on a nice Sunday, Saturday afternoon. We just don't get
- 1:39Speaker 3: to experience that often unless you know some niggas with
- 1:42Speaker 3: a boat. But they actually have a boat club out here,
- 1:45Speaker 3: which we should probably put some money together and join.
- 1:48Speaker 1: It's $ 5, 000 right now.
- 1:51Speaker 3: You can rent a yacht as much as you want
- 1:54Speaker 3: for the year.
- 1:56Speaker 2: Oh, that's not bad.
- 1:57Speaker 1: Yes, really not.
- 1:58Speaker 2: You can put $ 2, 500 up a piece.
- 2:00Speaker 1: Exactly.
- 2:01Speaker 2: So I don't know how they go about.
- 2:04Speaker 3: Figuring out who actually signed up for it, but why
- 2:07Speaker 3: wouldn't you be able to split that with somebody else?
- 2:09Speaker 3: Or maybe we just always have to be together when
- 2:11Speaker 3: we go on it, but we can have other people.
- 2:13Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to do that. so that's what I
- 2:16Speaker 1: did we was on the yacht child riding around we
- 2:18Speaker 1: did have some I.
- 2:19Speaker 2: Know we rent one of those and we have an
- 2:21Speaker 2: episode called we talk.
- 2:22Speaker 3: Yacht you know I had to bring the mic on
- 2:30Speaker 3: the yacht because I am I'm not really paid entertainment
- 2:32Speaker 3: but I travel with a mic bitch it was lit
- 2:35Speaker 3: okay I gotta do all the things and make sure
- 2:39Speaker 3: niggas hear me what you had going on.
- 2:41Speaker 2: Well, your weekend was much more eventful than mine. I
- 2:44Speaker 2: didn't do much of anything.
- 2:46Speaker 3: Bitch, I went to see Beyonce twice last week. Okay,
- 2:49Speaker 3: just flex a little bit. Sit your ass down.
- 2:52Speaker 2: I'm mad. Yeah, I did. I sat my ass down
- 2:55Speaker 2: and minded my business.
- 2:56Speaker 1: That's it.
- 2:57Speaker 2: Nothing entertaining happened for me. Let's get into stupid internet news.
- 3:03Speaker 3: What we got going on, child? This goddamn gunplay. Now,
- 3:07Speaker 3: I thought he was a maniac when I saw him
- 3:09Speaker 3: giving gifts and shit. to Ricky Rose laying in his bed.
- 3:14Speaker 2: In his bedroom.
- 3:16Speaker 3: But apparently this man has now pulled a gun out
- 3:19Speaker 3: on the woman, the mother of his child. Actually pulled
- 3:24Speaker 3: a gun out on both of them, essentially because she's
- 3:25Speaker 3: holding the baby, a six-month-old.
- 3:27Speaker 1: So he's facing.
- 3:28Speaker 2: Well, that's his wife as well. Oh, they're married. Okay.
- 3:31Speaker 2: Excuse me, they're married.
- 3:32Speaker 3: So now this gunplay is, I believe he's 44, his
- 3:35Speaker 3: wife is 43. So these are grown-ass adults with a
- 3:38Speaker 3: small child. I think he has multiple kids. Um, he
- 3:42Speaker 3: is now facing multiple charges, including assault with a deadly weapon,
- 3:46Speaker 3: false imprisonment and child abuse. According to the reporter, Andy
- 3:50Speaker 3: Slater gun plays accused of pointing a rifle at his
- 3:53Speaker 3: wife while she was holding their six month old child.
- 3:57Speaker 1: And his wife is done with the shit essentially.
- 4:01Speaker 2: Um, Yeah, I mean, that's awful. It's awful to have anyone.
- 4:04Speaker 2: Have you ever had someone point a gun at you before?
- 4:06Speaker 2: It's not a fun thing.
- 4:08Speaker 3: I have had it happen. Somebody else's man. Trying to
- 4:11Speaker 3: save a hoe? Yes, it has happened to me.
- 4:15Speaker 2: Yeah, same. Not somebody else's man. Well, yeah, it was
- 4:18Speaker 2: actually someone else's man, but he was playing with a
- 4:20Speaker 2: gun and woke me up with a gun pointed at
- 4:23Speaker 2: my head because he thought it was funny. Yeah, I
- 4:25Speaker 2: had that happen to me. He thought it was funny, like, oh,
- 4:28Speaker 2: let's wake her up with a gun at her head.
- 4:31Speaker 2: like for real that's not for the guy that happened
- 4:33Speaker 2: to me it's not funny at all it's not a
- 4:36Speaker 2: nice way to wake anybody up but i couldn't imagine
- 4:38Speaker 2: my husband while i'm holding our six month old baby
- 4:42Speaker 2: pointing a gun at me because i asked him to
- 4:44Speaker 2: be quiet while he's playing a video game and that's
- 4:48Speaker 2: what happened to her uh that's crazy now you do
- 4:51Speaker 2: have to take a little bit of accountability For a
- 4:54Speaker 2: nigga playing with a gun with you when he told
- 4:56Speaker 2: you his name was Gunplay.
- 4:59Speaker 1: You guys take a little, just a little accountable. A
- 5:03Speaker 1: little tiny bit. A little TT.
- 5:04Speaker 2: A little TT. Oh, that's terrible.
- 5:09Speaker 1: Yeah, like what the fuck?
- 5:11Speaker 3: And you know, a lot of times we always have
- 5:13Speaker 3: these arguments about femininity versus masculinity. But oftentimes, bad shit
- 5:19Speaker 3: happens when men get in their feelings. Like the most
- 5:22Speaker 3: we do for the most part, we fight women, right?
- 5:25Speaker 3: We might fight, cuss each other out and all that shit.
- 5:28Speaker 3: But these men are way too emotional nowadays. Like, why
- 5:32Speaker 3: are you pulling a gun out? We saw how emotional
- 5:34Speaker 3: he was when DJ Envy was trying to talk to
- 5:36Speaker 3: him like a man on three-way with Charlamagne, which I
- 5:39Speaker 3: think Charlamagne ass is messy. Don't call, don't call these motherfuckers.
- 5:42Speaker 3: Like let them hash at it whenever, whatever. But this nigga,
- 5:46Speaker 3: he's a messy guy, right? Unintentionally sometimes, right? But we
- 5:52Speaker 3: saw how emotional that dude was then. Like, you know, these.
- 5:56Speaker 1: Guys cannot handle their emotions. They can't.
- 6:00Speaker 3: So now you go around abusing and victimizing people and
- 6:05Speaker 3: add drugs and alcohol on top of that.
- 6:07Speaker 2: And add failed careers on top of that. You know?
- 6:10Speaker 1: I think a lot of these niggas be having money issues.
- 6:12Speaker 1: Why they be mad?
- 6:14Speaker 2: It's an ugly, ugly situation. And my heart goes out
- 6:18Speaker 2: to her in that, baby.
- 6:20Speaker 4: Mm-hmm.
- 6:21Speaker 2: It's terrible. Get out.
- 6:24Speaker 4: Right.
- 6:25Speaker 6: All right.
- 6:26Speaker 2: So I found this thing happening in Japan and I
- 6:29Speaker 2: thought it was the cutest thing. It pulled at my heartstrings.
- 6:32Speaker 2: There's a Japanese restaurant of mistaken orders. So in Japan,
- 6:37Speaker 2: known as a super aging society, dementia is predicted to
- 6:40Speaker 2: affect one in five people by 2025. That's a lot.
- 6:44Speaker 2: In such circumstances, an innovative social experiment has caught the
- 6:47Speaker 2: attention of Japan and the world. And it's the Japanese
- 6:51Speaker 2: restaurant of mistaken orders, where only the waiters and waitresses
- 6:57Speaker 2: are only people with dementia. You've got to have dementia
- 7:00Speaker 2: to get the job, right? So basically, they might mess
- 7:03Speaker 2: up your order. They might bring you the wrong plate.
- 7:05Speaker 2: But it gives these people a job. It gives them
- 7:08Speaker 2: some purpose. And it gives them some love. I thought
- 7:10Speaker 2: it was really dope. So the pop-up restaurant comes from
- 7:14Speaker 2: an encounter between the creator Shiro Oguni, I don't know
- 7:19Speaker 2: if I'm pronouncing that right, in a group home where
- 7:22Speaker 2: people with dementia live. Like everybody else, my awareness of
- 7:26Speaker 2: dementia at first tended towards negative images of people who
- 7:30Speaker 2: are radically forgetful and aimlessly wandering about. But actually, they
- 7:35Speaker 2: can cook, they can clean, do laundry, go shopping, and
- 7:37Speaker 2: do other normal things for themselves. Close up, they might
- 7:40Speaker 2: be a little off course now and then, But they
- 7:44Speaker 2: can be grateful to us. And we need to be
- 7:46Speaker 2: grateful to them because they are our elders.
- 7:48Speaker 7: Right?
- 7:49Speaker 2: Yeah. So I just thought it was dope. And it
- 7:50Speaker 2: had like a lot of nice pictures of these old
- 7:53Speaker 2: people bringing wrong food to the table and shit like that.
- 7:56Speaker 2: It was just so cute. So I thought that was dope.
- 7:57Speaker 1: That is nice.
- 7:59Speaker 2: Would you go to a place like that for dinner?
- 8:00Speaker 2: I would.
- 8:01Speaker 3: But my only concern would be like, do I have
- 8:03Speaker 3: the option to return this shit? Because like if I
- 8:05Speaker 3: ordered some fish and you brought me pork, like I'm mad.
- 8:08Speaker 1: I can't eat that. So do I have an option
- 8:10Speaker 1: to send it back or no?
- 8:14Speaker 2: Yeah, I think maybe you do have an option to
- 8:16Speaker 2: send it back probably. I might end up with chicken
- 8:20Speaker 2: the next time. I wouldn't even go there hungry, honestly.
- 8:24Speaker 2: I would just go there.
- 8:25Speaker 1: To see them.
- 8:26Speaker 2: Yeah, just to order a plate and just see what
- 8:29Speaker 2: the fuck come out, honestly.
- 8:31Speaker 1: Take a picture of my plate.
- 8:33Speaker 2: Hug somebody's grandma and go, you know? Right. I would attend.
- 8:38Speaker 2: I would go there. I would patronize that business. They
- 8:41Speaker 2: should have like a black one in the U.S. called
- 8:44Speaker 2: Soulful Mistakes. And just it'll be like soul food. And
- 8:49Speaker 2: you don't know what the fuck.
- 8:50Speaker 6: You're going to get.
- 8:51Speaker 2: But grandma bringing it to the table.
- 8:52Speaker 1: Oh, that's nice.
- 8:53Speaker 3: Because, you know, it's unprecedented. It's kind of weird that
- 8:57Speaker 3: they can predict that in 2025, by 2025, one in
- 9:01Speaker 3: five people will have dementia.
- 9:03Speaker 1: How do y'all come up with these numbers? How do
- 9:05Speaker 1: y'all know that? What is the trajectory? Like, how do
- 9:07Speaker 1: y'all know that's where we're headed?
- 9:09Speaker 3: So I'm wondering like what it looks like in America,
- 9:11Speaker 3: because one of my friends, his mom passed away of
- 9:13Speaker 3: dementia last year. And he literally said that most of
- 9:16Speaker 3: the old people on his mom's street, like people, parents
- 9:19Speaker 3: he grew up with have dementia. And I just think
- 9:22Speaker 3: that's weird. Like what's going on in that area that
- 9:25Speaker 3: we have people, hard drives getting wiped out.
- 9:28Speaker 1: Like what the fuck? Cause that's really what it is.
- 9:30Speaker 1: It's like real life memory loss.
- 9:33Speaker 3: Like computers need to be rebooted.
- 9:35Speaker 1: That's weird.
- 9:35Speaker 3: That's one of my, I'm scared. I don't want to
- 9:38Speaker 3: ever have to experience that.
- 9:39Speaker 2: Yeah, me neither. That's a big fear because your mind
- 9:43Speaker 2: is the most powerful thing that you have. So to
- 9:45Speaker 2: lose it and not remember your family members and your
- 9:48Speaker 2: loved ones, it's hard for everybody. It's hard for everybody.
- 9:51Speaker 3: And then having to take care of a parent like
- 9:53Speaker 3: that too.
- 9:53Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
- 9:54Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 9:55Speaker 2: And they don't even remember you and they ask for
- 9:57Speaker 2: you and you right there like that's got to be hard.
- 10:00Speaker 2: You know, so my love goes out to everyone with
- 10:03Speaker 2: a family member with dementia and with everybody with dementia.
- 10:06Speaker 2: And we might open a restaurant where your grandma could
- 10:09Speaker 2: come work.
- 10:09Speaker 1: Big heart.
- 10:10Speaker 2: Hold tight. Hold tight.
- 10:13Speaker 3: Okay, so Sam, what would you do, right, if your husband,
- 10:17Speaker 3: like say you were married to a man for about,
- 10:18Speaker 3: I don't know, 15 years or so. And he comes
- 10:22Speaker 3: down with some type of terminal illness. And he's like, man,
- 10:26Speaker 3: you remember so-and-so with that fat ass, man? I just
- 10:29Speaker 3: want to fuck on her one more time before I die.
- 10:32Speaker 1: Are you allowing him to do that?
- 10:34Speaker 2: Call her up.
- 10:36Speaker 1: Call her up. Call all the bitches as far. If
- 10:38Speaker 1: you about to get up out of here, like, who
- 10:40Speaker 1: am I to stop you?
- 10:41Speaker 2: To tell you that you can't have these experiences. You
- 10:44Speaker 2: want to do some coke? You want to fuck your
- 10:46Speaker 2: old bitch? What you want to do? What you want
- 10:49Speaker 2: to do? Because I want to give you everything that
- 10:51Speaker 2: you want to have experienced before you leave here. That's
- 10:55Speaker 2: what real love is about. I don't think it's about
- 10:57Speaker 2: trying to control or stifle experiences, right? Yeah. Especially if
- 11:01Speaker 2: a nigga about to die.
- 11:02Speaker 3: But we should be able to be like that in
- 11:03Speaker 3: relationships with the living.
- 11:05Speaker 1: People who aren't terminally ill, right? They should be able
- 11:07Speaker 1: to say amen.
- 11:08Speaker 2: No, nigga, you better be about to die.
- 11:12Speaker 3: That's the only exception. So a woman, right, with only
- 11:16Speaker 3: nine months left to live, asked her husband if she
- 11:18Speaker 3: could sleep with her ex just one last time. So
- 11:21Speaker 3: a heartbroken husband has revealed that his dying wife has
- 11:24Speaker 3: expressed a very specific wish because he felt like there
- 11:27Speaker 3: was no one I can tell. He took to Reddit
- 11:31Speaker 3: to open up about his horrific situation. The husband writes
- 11:34Speaker 3: that he was intentionally, excuse me, he was initially destroyed
- 11:39Speaker 3: after finding out that the love of his life, his
- 11:42Speaker 3: wife of 10 years, has a terminal disease. He says
- 11:45Speaker 3: that she's only expected to live for another nine months
- 11:49Speaker 3: at the most. I don't remember life without her, and
- 11:52Speaker 3: I don't know what I'm going to do when she's gone.
- 11:54Speaker 3: I have been doing my best to make the last
- 11:56Speaker 3: days of my life good and grant, excuse me, the
- 11:59Speaker 3: last days of her life good and grant whatever wish
- 12:01Speaker 3: I can, he says. So the doctor said that she
- 12:05Speaker 3: was likely to need a wheelchair in four to five months,
- 12:08Speaker 3: and then by month eight, she'll be bedridden.
- 12:12Speaker 1: For the last few weeks. If she doesn't decline faster.
- 12:17Speaker 4: Right.
- 12:18Speaker 1: So she basically. Asked him. Like before she's no longer.
- 12:23Speaker 2: Physically able to move around. Asked him.
- 12:26Speaker 1: Before she's no longer physically able to move around. If
- 12:29Speaker 1: she could.
- 12:31Speaker 2: And what he said. He said no.
- 12:34Speaker 3: He said she gave a whole monologue. About how sex
- 12:37Speaker 3: sometimes is just physical. And how emotionally fulfilling sex is.
- 12:41Speaker 3: With me but. it was bullshit to get to that point.
- 12:44Speaker 3: The man continued. So now I'm left with this deny
- 12:48Speaker 3: for the, excuse me. Now I'm left with this deny
- 12:52Speaker 3: my dying wife, a wish of her own ego, or
- 12:56Speaker 3: let her go. Fuck another man who she feels was better.
- 12:59Speaker 2: Man, let that girl get them rocks off. Let her
- 13:05Speaker 2: get them off.
- 13:06Speaker 3: I would, you could pull whoever you want. This dude
- 13:09Speaker 3: with all it, all the shit. Cause once you're gone,
- 13:12Speaker 3: I'm gonna get me a new nigga.
- 13:12Speaker 2: No way. Anyway.
- 13:13Speaker 1: So that's fucked up. But I mean, life goes on.
- 13:19Speaker 2: It just seems selfish to say no. Yes.
- 13:21Speaker 1: Because she's going to die and you're going to move on.
- 13:25Speaker 2: Right. And you're going to fuck whoever you want when
- 13:27Speaker 2: she's gone. So just let her have that.
- 13:29Speaker 3: I think the only thing maybe is like you had to,
- 13:32Speaker 3: how do you know your ex wouldn't even fuck? Like
- 13:34Speaker 3: you had to have already been having this conversation with
- 13:36Speaker 3: this person to know that they DTF.
- 13:39Speaker 1: Oh, she just put it out there.
- 13:41Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 13:41Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 13:43Speaker 3: He said, I feel like I'm put in a position
- 13:45Speaker 3: where I have to say yes because she's dying.
- 13:47Speaker 6: Yes.
- 13:48Speaker 5: Okay.
- 13:49Speaker 8: Yeah.
- 13:49Speaker 1: I know what I want to say, but I don't
- 13:51Speaker 1: know if that's right.
- 13:52Speaker 3: I'm so hurt that sex with an ex was apparently
- 13:55Speaker 3: so good that she needs to.
- 13:57Speaker 1: Do it once more before dying. I just hate everything
- 14:00Speaker 1: about this. That is kind of fucked up. It's like
- 14:04Speaker 1: I was.
- 14:04Speaker 3: Settling for this mediocre meat this whole time.
- 14:06Speaker 1: Now I'm about to die.
- 14:07Speaker 3: Like, man, I... Listen, and that's what I be saying.
- 14:10Speaker 3: Y'all want to wait until y'all dick stop working and
- 14:12Speaker 3: want to get a damn wife and just give her
- 14:15Speaker 3: the worst dick of her life. That is not fair.
- 14:17Speaker 2: But sometimes sex, you know, she married this man probably
- 14:21Speaker 2: because everything else about him was the best. And the
- 14:24Speaker 2: sex may not have been the best. But everything else
- 14:27Speaker 2: about him was the best, and she chose you for
- 14:29Speaker 2: a life partner.
- 14:30Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 14:30Speaker 2: Now, this person might have, I done had some good,
- 14:32Speaker 2: good dick from a person that was just an awful person.
- 14:35Speaker 6: Right.
- 14:36Speaker 3: You know?
- 14:37Speaker 2: So that doesn't mean he's a better man than you.
- 14:39Speaker 2: He just knew how to hit them buttons, and that
- 14:42Speaker 2: was probably just it.
- 14:43Speaker 7: Right.
- 14:44Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 14:44Speaker 2: And she wouldn't have come one last time. I wouldn't
- 14:47Speaker 2: feel devalued by that. I mean, I guess it's different
- 14:51Speaker 2: for men.
- 14:52Speaker 6: It is.
- 14:52Speaker 2: Because their ego is attached to their penis. It's the ego.
- 14:56Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Like, so you want to
- 14:59Speaker 1: own her in death too?
- 15:00Speaker 2: That's fucked up.
- 15:02Speaker 6: Right.
- 15:03Speaker 2: I saw this joke where this man was like, baby,
- 15:05Speaker 2: is there any way that you can make me feel
- 15:08Speaker 2: happy and sad at the same time? He said, yeah,
- 15:12Speaker 2: I certainly can. He said, how? He's like, all your friends'
- 15:15Speaker 2: dick is smaller than you. yo y'all we got part
- 15:31Speaker 2: two of the conversation with Vlad and the price we're
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- 15:46Speaker 2: and this is part two Do y'all believe happy wife,
- 15:49Speaker 2: happy life?
- 15:51Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 15:52Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 15:53Speaker 7: I like to come home to peace. That's another one
- 15:58Speaker 7: I don't like.
- 15:58Speaker 1: That peace shit.
- 15:59Speaker 8: A lot of niggas ain't peace.
- 16:03Speaker 2: I want to come home to peace, but don't bring
- 16:04Speaker 2: no peace.
- 16:07Speaker 8: It takes a lot for me to really boil up
- 16:10Speaker 8: and really spaz.
- 16:13Speaker 7: If I'm coming home, it may get a little crazy.
- 16:15Speaker 8: I may entertain it, but majority of times if I'm working,
- 16:18Speaker 8: especially like 18, 17 hour.
- 16:20Speaker 7: Days, I just want to go home and just like relax.
- 16:23Speaker 7: You know what I mean?
- 16:23Speaker 8: It's like, I'm already dealing with like a hundred different
- 16:25Speaker 8: people and different personalities. So it was like the last
- 16:28Speaker 8: one I want that to be at my wife at home.
- 16:31Speaker 2: And, you know, just like, you know.
- 16:34Speaker 6: What I mean?
- 16:35Speaker 3: Like Barry.
- 16:36Speaker 7: It was like, yeah.
- 16:38Speaker 8: So, you know, it was like, but the same thing too,
- 16:39Speaker 8: it was like, you know, vice versa. I would want
- 16:42Speaker 8: peace to be at home.
- 16:42Speaker 7: You know what I mean? Well, for her and myself,
- 16:44Speaker 7: you know what I mean?
- 16:45Speaker 8: Right.
- 16:46Speaker 9: Nice.
- 16:47Speaker 6: Yeah, to your point, I think you were saying, AJ, like,
- 16:52Speaker 6: a great.
- 16:53Speaker 4: Like, partner, whether that's a wife or a husband, but
- 16:55Speaker 4: I'll say, like, a wife, like, for a man, a
- 16:57Speaker 4: great partner, you get, like, great counsel.
- 17:01Speaker 6: That's where, like, that balance is what we're talking about because, like,
- 17:05Speaker 6: A woman's like your mama.
- 17:07Speaker 4: Like, your mama, when you bring certain people to the house,
- 17:09Speaker 4: she's like, I don't like him.
- 17:11Speaker 6: Don't even know why.
- 17:12Speaker 4: I remember so many of my homies when I was
- 17:15Speaker 4: younger that my mama didn't like and didn't have to
- 17:17Speaker 4: say why, and all them niggas turned out to be snakes.
- 17:20Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying?
- 17:21Speaker 2: We be knowing.
- 17:21Speaker 6: Women just, yeah, women just, you.
- 17:24Speaker 4: Know, they got that intuition. That's a real thing that
- 17:27Speaker 4: I don't sleep on. And men need that. You know
- 17:30Speaker 4: what I mean? Because sometimes we just going.
- 17:32Speaker 7: We hunting.
- 17:33Speaker 4: We, we, we.
- 17:34Speaker 6: We on the move.
- 17:35Speaker 4: And so it's like, but sometimes you need that partner
- 17:37Speaker 4: that you can trust in like the same way, like
- 17:39Speaker 4: a woman, you want a man wants a woman to
- 17:42Speaker 4: trust them, like leading them. You want to be able
- 17:45Speaker 4: to trust your lady to be able to like lead
- 17:48Speaker 4: you as well with just the information, the guidance. Sometimes
- 17:51Speaker 4: they're like, don't think you should.
- 17:52Speaker 2: Do that i don't that's actually.
- 17:55Speaker 6: Maybe you should take that you know.
- 17:56Speaker 3: Yeah that's actually what the bible says about submission and
- 18:00Speaker 3: right it says a man should love his wife as
- 18:02Speaker 3: christ loved the church it don't say nothing about women
- 18:05Speaker 3: loving men but i'm just throw that in there right
- 18:08Speaker 3: and you are supposed to consult with your wife you
- 18:11Speaker 3: are supposed to counsel counsel with not counsel your wife
- 18:15Speaker 3: you're supposed to counsel with your wife because women do
- 18:18Speaker 3: come with wisdom Right. So it's just not about you
- 18:21Speaker 3: moving through this world by yourself and having to make
- 18:23Speaker 3: all the decisions like you're supposed to do that with
- 18:25Speaker 3: a woman.
- 18:26Speaker 8: You know what it is for guys is like, yo,
- 18:29Speaker 8: it's so hard to trust people.
- 18:30Speaker 5: Right.
- 18:31Speaker 7: So I was like, yo, that's going to take some time.
- 18:33Speaker 5: Right.
- 18:35Speaker 2: Guys, that's women, too.
- 18:36Speaker 7: Right, right, right. So it's like, all right.
- 18:39Speaker 10: But once we get used to us getting our feelings hurt,
- 18:41Speaker 10: that's not.
- 18:41Speaker 3: Used to it.
- 18:43Speaker 8: But once you hit that zone and it's like, yo,
- 18:45Speaker 8: the trust is there, it's locked in, it's like, oh,
- 18:47Speaker 8: that's going to be.
- 18:48Speaker 7: A sweet zone from moving forward from that point.
- 18:50Speaker 6: Exactly.
- 18:51Speaker 8: It takes years to build that trust, especially with me because,
- 18:53Speaker 8: you know, my dad left when I was eight, so
- 18:55Speaker 8: I didn't trust nobody for a long time.
- 18:57Speaker 7: Right?
- 18:57Speaker 2: Right.
- 18:58Speaker 7: That was my dad that left me. You know what
- 18:59Speaker 7: I mean? So it was like, you know.
- 19:02Speaker 1: But it's not the women you can't trust, though.
- 19:05Speaker 5: It's everybody.
- 19:05Speaker 7: It's everybody.
- 19:06Speaker 1: Your friends.
- 19:07Speaker 7: Everybody, yeah.
- 19:08Speaker 6: Everybody.
- 19:08Speaker 8: It was like, but it took me growing up and
- 19:11Speaker 8: realizing like, yo, that's a me issue.
- 19:13Speaker 7: Right. Exactly.
- 19:15Speaker 4: Cause now, like for me, when it comes to trust, um,
- 19:18Speaker 4: I feel like, um, I like, I like clean slates.
- 19:22Speaker 5: Right.
- 19:22Speaker 4: So I'm gonna trust you till you show me I
- 19:24Speaker 4: shouldn't trust you. And that could be very quick. That
- 19:26Speaker 4: could be a couple of different fuck ups depending on
- 19:29Speaker 4: the mass.
- 19:31Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 19:31Speaker 7: Right.
- 19:32Speaker 4: Um, but I, I'm big on, I be coming into
- 19:35Speaker 4: shit blind, which is why sometimes shit play out.
- 19:38Speaker 6: Like with my ex wife, you feel me?
- 19:40Speaker 4: It's like when, When I look back at Hasha, I'm like,
- 19:43Speaker 4: I ain't have.
- 19:43Speaker 6: No business being married to your ass. But at the
- 19:47Speaker 6: same time, you feel me?
- 19:49Speaker 1: That's how I be, man. Like, what the fuck? What
- 19:51Speaker 1: about me attracted this motherfucker?
- 19:54Speaker 6: Right.
- 19:56Speaker 4: And really, too, like, I can say, too, because I
- 19:58Speaker 4: was young, that, you know, I married my ex for
- 20:02Speaker 4: a lot of the right reasons, but so many of
- 20:04Speaker 4: the wrong reasons, too. You know what I'm saying? Like,
- 20:06Speaker 4: she was just, like, She was.
- 20:09Speaker 6: Popping out here, you know what I mean? Like all
- 20:11Speaker 6: this little corny shit, right?
- 20:13Speaker 2: She got a fat ass. I'm about to marry her.
- 20:15Speaker 7: She didn't even have.
- 20:17Speaker 6: A fat ass, but she was just like really, really pretty.
- 20:20Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying?
- 20:23Speaker 4: You know, it was like popping, but that actually turned
- 20:26Speaker 4: out to be part of the.
- 20:28Speaker 6: Reason we didn't clash.
- 20:31Speaker 4: And then another thing, too, there's not enough credit given
- 20:34Speaker 4: to is like people actually do grow apart. like growing
- 20:38Speaker 4: apart is a real fucking thing i'm i'm a firm
- 20:41Speaker 4: believer in that so if you're not with the person
- 20:43Speaker 4: you're supposed to be with if you would just like
- 20:45Speaker 4: your real deal life so made y'all grow together but
- 20:50Speaker 4: so many times you you're not with that person and so.
- 20:53Speaker 6: You if one minute um you know i grew up gangbanging.
- 20:58Speaker 4: And shit you know i'm from california so It's like
- 21:00Speaker 4: one minute I might be into all of this other shit.
- 21:02Speaker 6: And then the next minute, you know, I'm 20. Actually,
- 21:06Speaker 6: I got married at 25. By the time I was 28,
- 21:08Speaker 6: I'm like reading.
- 21:09Speaker 4: Every day now, I'm watching John Henry Clark videos every
- 21:12Speaker 4: night before I go to sleep. I'm in some whole
- 21:13Speaker 4: different shit. She's still going to go to town and
- 21:16Speaker 4: do all this crazy shit every.
- 21:17Speaker 6: Night with her. Like, we just into different shit.
- 21:20Speaker 4: And so, like, to Vlad's point, you kind of should
- 21:25Speaker 4: do just a better job at vetting those things out
- 21:28Speaker 4: you know i'm saying but then it's a thin line
- 21:30Speaker 4: between that because to y'all points it's like okay well
- 21:32Speaker 4: how long how long is you know so it'd be
- 21:35Speaker 4: it's such a like thin ass line yeah i think.
- 21:38Speaker 3: You should just do it you can always get a
- 21:40Speaker 3: divorce as long as you don't add a baby.
- 21:41Speaker 9: To it like just do it just do it i
- 21:45Speaker 9: had my my uh my guy friend i had asked
- 21:48Speaker 9: him i said you want to be my boyfriend a
- 21:49Speaker 9: couple weeks ago He was like.
- 21:52Speaker 1: I want to vet you. Not vet you.
- 21:54Speaker 3: He said he wanted to court me a little bit more.
- 21:57Speaker 3: Then I go out of town. Me and Tam, we working.
- 22:00Speaker 3: I can't be available as much.
- 22:02Speaker 1: Now you tripping. Pick a side, niggas.
- 22:06Speaker 3: Pick a side because you can't have single committed AJ.
- 22:12Speaker 1: It don't work that way.
- 22:13Speaker 3: Right?
- 22:14Speaker 1: I'm a real-life Gemini, dog.
- 22:16Speaker 6: How you know that wasn't part of the courting process?
- 22:20Speaker 3: Listen, you got to be real vocal with me. You
- 22:22Speaker 3: have to tell me exactly. I don't assume shit. I
- 22:26Speaker 3: love that. What is it, a full agreement? No assumptions.
- 22:30Speaker 3: I don't assume anything.
- 22:31Speaker 6: And be impeccable with your words.
- 22:33Speaker 1: Absolutely.
- 22:34Speaker 2: Oftentimes, women are committed to a man that is not
- 22:37Speaker 2: committed to them.
- 22:38Speaker 1: Yes, so I don't get shit confused.
- 22:40Speaker 2: And now she just committed and he be like, all right,
- 22:42Speaker 2: we never said we was.
- 22:44Speaker 5: Right. Yeah.
- 22:45Speaker 6: It wasn't.
- 22:49Speaker 3: In my last relationship, in my last relationship, we got
- 22:52Speaker 3: engaged after two years.
- 22:54Speaker 6: Right.
- 22:55Speaker 3: But he didn't consider me anything until he asked me
- 22:58Speaker 3: to marry him.
- 22:59Speaker 1: Imagine being going from single to engaged. That don't even
- 23:01Speaker 1: make sense.
- 23:02Speaker 3: But so he wouldn't have to be accountable for all
- 23:04Speaker 3: the bullshit prior to asking me to marry him.
- 23:07Speaker 2: So you can't assume.
- 23:08Speaker 3: Just because y'all doing business together, y'all fucking raw, doing
- 23:13Speaker 3: all the shit, starting businesses, you can't assume. You have
- 23:16Speaker 3: to tell me. So now going forward, I need you
- 23:20Speaker 3: to write me a letter, okay?
- 23:21Speaker 10: Do you want to be my wife or do you
- 23:24Speaker 10: want to be my girlfriend?
- 23:25Speaker 3: Bitch, we don't get that shit notarized.
- 23:30Speaker 1: And put it in a safe because I need to
- 23:31Speaker 1: be sure.
- 23:33Speaker 2: Yeah, because a man will have you watching his kids
- 23:35Speaker 2: at his mama house, fucking you raw, and still ain't
- 23:38Speaker 2: with you. That ain't my girl. I'm watching your kids.
- 23:43Speaker 6: I don't even got no kids.
- 23:45Speaker 2: You hear me?
- 23:46Speaker 4: Right.
- 23:47Speaker 1: I just want to be quiet.
- 23:49Speaker 2: Because niggas be crazy.
- 23:51Speaker 6: There's some crazy niggas in the world, man.
- 23:54Speaker 4: So one thing I'm a firm believer in, though, too,
- 23:57Speaker 4: is like, I think that, like, people should, like, once
- 24:01Speaker 4: you do have that conversation and the communication line is
- 24:05Speaker 4: on point, I think that it's important to, like, be, like,
- 24:11Speaker 4: if we are in this dating relationship, whatever you want
- 24:14Speaker 4: to call it, before we actually marry thing, I think
- 24:17Speaker 4: it is fly and it's dope and it's important to, like,
- 24:20Speaker 4: show me what kind of wife you're going to be
- 24:22Speaker 4: right now.
- 24:22Speaker 6: And I don't mean you got to be doing everything, like, like,
- 24:26Speaker 6: to the max, I guess, of what you would do
- 24:27Speaker 6: as a wife.
- 24:27Speaker 1: There's no middle ground with me, though. You know what
- 24:29Speaker 1: I'm saying?
- 24:29Speaker 7: It's hard.
- 24:30Speaker 4: So, again, show me everything you would do as a
- 24:32Speaker 4: wife and be as a wife, and I'm going to
- 24:34Speaker 4: do the same. Because I'm telling you, sometimes you... I'm
- 24:39Speaker 4: with you with it. All you got to do is
- 24:40Speaker 4: get a divorce. But for men, for women, like, prime example,
- 24:43Speaker 4: Tam and AJ, y'all doing y'all shit. Podcast, they got
- 24:46Speaker 4: a motherfucking Sprite call tomorrow, and.
- 24:48Speaker 6: They want to give.
- 24:49Speaker 4: the $ 10 million endorsement to the podcast, et cetera, et cetera.
- 24:55Speaker 6: Now, now we.
- 24:59Speaker 4: Got to be intentional about who we just partnering with
- 25:02Speaker 4: and all that, because it don't just be a divorce.
- 25:04Speaker 7: Right.
- 25:05Speaker 4: Like to your point, this is a, this is a
- 25:07Speaker 4: white man's contract. This is a white man's structure period. Like,
- 25:12Speaker 4: and getting divorced was one of the hardest things I
- 25:14Speaker 4: had to do. And not because it was hard emotionally, but,
- 25:17Speaker 4: physically and contractually the shit was so difficult and my
- 25:20Speaker 4: ex it's an eight month process my ex waited to
- 25:23Speaker 4: the six months to pull back out.
- 25:25Speaker 6: We had to start the process again this shit was crazy.
- 25:27Speaker 1: You should have just did an.
- 25:28Speaker 6: M4h I'll say this.
- 25:32Speaker 2: For those of us who don't know what that is,
- 25:34Speaker 2: tell us. Murder for hire, nigga. Oh, God.
- 25:38Speaker 3: Tie your.
- 25:42Speaker 2: Ass up. No. We talk back to you.
- 25:47Speaker 9: If I was Mary J.
- 25:49Speaker 1: Blige, if I was Mary J.
- 25:51Speaker 3: Blige and how old boy did her, I would have definitely.
- 25:56Speaker 7: That's crazy.
- 25:56Speaker 3: Fucking unalive his ass, how they say on YouTube.
- 25:59Speaker 2: These are all jokes, you guys.
- 26:01Speaker 6: These are all jokes. Nah, but so, obviously, like, right,
- 26:05Speaker 6: we ain't going that far.
- 26:06Speaker 1: I'm just playing, y'all.
- 26:08Speaker 4: No, it really gets slithery, though. It really gets slimy. Like,
- 26:13Speaker 4: it's too many to name. Men and females, so, right,
- 26:17Speaker 4: men and women. So, I think it's just important to, like, like, like, like,
- 26:22Speaker 4: like I said, really know to their best, to your
- 26:26Speaker 4: best ability. We don't fully ever know nobody and people
- 26:29Speaker 4: are constantly changing and growing. So I think it's just
- 26:32Speaker 4: important for us to do our best to, you know,
- 26:36Speaker 4: try to get a good idea of what you're getting
- 26:37Speaker 4: into beforehand.
- 26:40Speaker 2: To that point.
- 26:40Speaker 6: All right.
- 26:41Speaker 2: Listen, oftentimes when people, men are getting a divorce, they
- 26:44Speaker 2: always be like, that ain't who I married. That ain't
- 26:47Speaker 2: who I married. So you can know him as much
- 26:50Speaker 2: as you want, but you know what they say, it's
- 26:52Speaker 2: a thin line between love and hate. And that's true.
- 26:56Speaker 2: I'm turning into a different person when y'all getting divorced.
- 26:59Speaker 8: You know another thing I realized too, when people get
- 27:01Speaker 8: married young, in their 20s, we're still growing, right?
- 27:03Speaker 7: We're still growing in our 30s, right? I'm 38, so
- 27:06Speaker 7: I'm turning 39.
- 27:06Speaker 1: I'm childish as fuck, FYI.
- 27:08Speaker 6: I feel like that 20 and 30 mark is where
- 27:10Speaker 6: we really grow.
- 27:13Speaker 8: But anything after 35, then we're, like, kind of solid
- 27:16Speaker 8: in our.
- 27:17Speaker 5: Stuff, right?
- 27:18Speaker 8: So if you're messing with somebody from, like, 30 and
- 27:20Speaker 8: y'all getting married after 35 and 40, y'all just, like,
- 27:24Speaker 8: living happily after, whatever, I feel like it gets a
- 27:27Speaker 8: little solid. So from the 20 to 30, it's like,
- 27:30Speaker 8: you getting married, that's when it's like, yo, I'm still growing.
- 27:32Speaker 8: Like you said, you started reading the YouTubes and the
- 27:36Speaker 8: books at 28, you got married at 25, right?
- 27:38Speaker 7: And then you're a different person where you are right now.
- 27:40Speaker 7: We're all different.
- 27:41Speaker 6: 100%.
- 27:41Speaker 7: You know what I mean?
- 27:41Speaker 8: So it's like, I feel like that 20, 30, we
- 27:43Speaker 8: really got to get out there and get it all out.
- 27:46Speaker 8: And then after 35, you can really settle down and
- 27:51Speaker 8: fuck with you.
- 27:52Speaker 6: I love the people that do be getting married.
- 27:56Speaker 4: We all be wishing for, not everybody, but I'm one
- 27:58Speaker 4: of the people that wished for the fake fairy touch.
- 28:01Speaker 4: I love to see the people who got married at
- 28:03Speaker 4: 21 still married all.
- 28:05Speaker 6: The way through.
- 28:06Speaker 7: That shit be dope to me.
- 28:09Speaker 4: But to your point, Like, because I got so many homies,
- 28:12Speaker 4: it's just like, they not slowing down. Them niggas is
- 28:16Speaker 4: trying to hit something every day, something new. I was
- 28:19Speaker 4: just watching a different podcast where the nigga was like,
- 28:21Speaker 4: I ain't never getting married. I don't even like seeing
- 28:23Speaker 4: the same girl.
- 28:24Speaker 6: I'm like, what the fuck are you talking about? Niggas is, yeah,
- 28:28Speaker 6: niggas is out here. So I think it is, like
- 28:30Speaker 6: you said, important.
- 28:31Speaker 1: For people to try to get shit out their system.
- 28:33Speaker 7: You can't fuck everybody.
- 28:34Speaker 6: You can't.
- 28:36Speaker 1: You can't. Everybody don't want to willingly fuck you. That's
- 28:38Speaker 1: the thing. They can fuck everybody.
- 28:42Speaker 2: You can fuck as many as possible. Let me ask
- 28:43Speaker 2: you this. Do y'all hold, like, do you hold your
- 28:46Speaker 2: married friends accountable? Because I think oftentimes a lot of
- 28:49Speaker 2: men be like, a man will be talking about cheating
- 28:51Speaker 2: on his wife and y'all be like, boy, you hell.
- 28:54Speaker 5: And that's it.
- 28:54Speaker 2: And never, like, tell him that that's not okay.
- 28:58Speaker 7: You know?
- 28:59Speaker 4: No, I 100% do. Without, without, um, Like, for instance,
- 29:04Speaker 4: my cousin. Ooh, let me not.
- 29:06Speaker 1: Just say too much.
- 29:07Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm about to say.
- 29:09Speaker 4: And we will air that shit.
- 29:12Speaker 6: Price's cousin.
- 29:13Speaker 7: Tell a different.
- 29:16Speaker 2: Story about somebody you've met.
- 29:19Speaker 6: But right, but no, on the real, like, one of
- 29:23Speaker 6: my real ones, one of my real ones, you know,
- 29:26Speaker 6: when they was married, they.
- 29:31Speaker 6: Because they didn't even fully pull the trigger.
- 29:33Speaker 4: They was just entertaining the thought of, you know, like,
- 29:37Speaker 4: Sneaky Leaks is the worst shit on the planet. Sneaky
- 29:41Speaker 4: Leaks to have a motherfucker just.
- 29:43Speaker 6: I'm about.
- 29:44Speaker 1: To create that dating site sneaky link that'd.
- 29:46Speaker 10: Be fun though that'd be fun exactly exactly right I.
- 29:51Speaker 5: Had to tell my real one like.
- 29:53Speaker 7: Yo that is not.
- 30:04Speaker 4: You don't want to do too much of that. So, like,
- 30:07Speaker 4: just know what you're doing because, like, I ain't here
- 30:09Speaker 4: to tell no man how to be.
- 30:11Speaker 1: Yes, you are. If you're a good man, you have
- 30:14Speaker 1: to course-correct other men.
- 30:15Speaker 6: No, no, no, listen. Follow me.
- 30:17Speaker 1: Y'all niggas love to tell us how to be.
- 30:18Speaker 6: I'm going to give you the best.
- 30:20Speaker 4: If you my partner, but if you just my homegirl,
- 30:23Speaker 4: I'm only going to tell you so much, too.
- 30:24Speaker 6: I'm not offended.
- 30:25Speaker 4: Like, you're not my child. I'm going to tell my
- 30:27Speaker 4: children what the fuck to do.
- 30:29Speaker 6: You feel me?
- 30:29Speaker 4: My niggas, the homies and shit, I'm going to advise them.
- 30:32Speaker 4: I'm going to lead by example at the best way possible.
- 30:34Speaker 4: I got some homies that I didn't talk their ears off.
- 30:37Speaker 4: We'd have been crying on the phone. And niggas still
- 30:39Speaker 4: going to do some foul-ass shit. Like, niggas don't give
- 30:42Speaker 4: a fuck that don't give a fuck.
- 30:43Speaker 6: You feel me?
- 30:43Speaker 4: So, like, but I'm going to do my best to,
- 30:46Speaker 4: like I said, advise, lead by example, give you the
- 30:49Speaker 4: best game I can give you.
- 30:51Speaker 6: And then what you do with that, you do. And luckily,
- 30:53Speaker 6: my real niggas.
- 30:54Speaker 4: That do be actually taking heed to the shit, you know,
- 30:58Speaker 4: Because marriage ain't nothing to play with.
- 30:59Speaker 6: Just go be single there because you can't play with
- 31:02Speaker 6: that shit.
- 31:03Speaker 4: Like, once you get to playing, I'm talking about the
- 31:05Speaker 4: karma coins just start going in the negative in that town.
- 31:09Speaker 6: Karma coins go negative.
- 31:10Speaker 1: I'm karma. I do the coming and fucking round, okay? Exactly.
- 31:14Speaker 2: Right?
- 31:15Speaker 4: And some people don't believe in karma, right? But I'm like,
- 31:17Speaker 4: karma damn near my religion. I'm a firm ass believer
- 31:21Speaker 4: in karma. So, you don't get to just, like, play
- 31:24Speaker 4: with the union and, like, the promises that you made
- 31:29Speaker 4: with the most highest, you don't get to just.
- 31:30Speaker 6: Play with that too much. Like you might get to
- 31:32Speaker 6: get away with it for a little.
- 31:34Speaker 4: Or another thing I'll be like, that I realized and
- 31:37Speaker 4: I'll be making shots at my niggas is like, just
- 31:39Speaker 4: because this person gets away with it, you don't have
- 31:43Speaker 4: the same like spiritual structure.
- 31:46Speaker 3: You might get caught every time.
- 31:48Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 31:49Speaker 1: It might take you one time.
- 31:51Speaker 4: I know I'm that, like I'm so scared to do
- 31:53Speaker 4: a certain shit because I got homies that be just,
- 31:56Speaker 4: trife living and them niggas just they just live it
- 31:59Speaker 4: seems like they live a great life I don't know
- 32:00Speaker 4: how many clinic trips them niggas.
- 32:02Speaker 7: Taking but it seems.
- 32:06Speaker 4: Like their life is just so cracking but like for
- 32:08Speaker 4: me I'm like man it don't work like that for
- 32:11Speaker 4: me you.
- 32:11Speaker 6: Know what I'm saying so I was.
- 32:13Speaker 4: To answer the question I'm a firm believer in definitely
- 32:16Speaker 4: like just holding just people I care about accountable I
- 32:19Speaker 4: don't give a fuck if it's my homies my own
- 32:20Speaker 4: girls I don't give a fuck if you married or
- 32:22Speaker 4: just in a regular relationship because I'm big on one
- 32:26Speaker 4: not seeing you crash out, and then two, if I
- 32:29Speaker 4: fuck with you, I love you, I'm around you enough,
- 32:31Speaker 4: if lightning get to strike in your way, and I'm
- 32:33Speaker 4: right next to you, you should not fuck around and
- 32:34Speaker 4: get struck by the lightning. Let me get you in
- 32:37Speaker 4: order so I ain't seeking with y'all.
- 32:40Speaker 2: 100%, you feel me?
- 32:41Speaker 6: But yeah, that's my take on it.
- 32:44Speaker 8: And to piggy off of that too, if something does
- 32:47Speaker 8: go down with your homie and your homie gets.
- 32:49Speaker 7: A divorce, we gonna be hearing about that shit, that
- 32:51Speaker 7: whole process too.
- 32:53Speaker 2: We try to give you advice early in the game,
- 32:58Speaker 2: and then now we're going to hear this.
- 32:59Speaker 7: No, I don't want to hear it after that. You
- 33:01Speaker 7: know what I mean?
- 33:02Speaker 10: It's like, hang up on that nigga.
- 33:08Speaker 4: And then too, it ain't nothing worse than like, it
- 33:11Speaker 4: ain't nothing worse than you like co-signing your people that
- 33:16Speaker 4: you care about doing bullshit.
- 33:17Speaker 6: And then they partner finding out.
- 33:19Speaker 4: Cause like, they might be back cool, but y'all would
- 33:22Speaker 4: never fuck with.
- 33:23Speaker 2: Each other the same. You ain't never invited to the
- 33:24Speaker 2: cookout no more.
- 33:25Speaker 6: Yeah, the dynamic of that world is forever fucked. Anytime
- 33:29Speaker 6: you go with me somewhere, my.
- 33:31Speaker 2: Homies girls love when they with.
- 33:34Speaker 4: Me because I ain't on no fuck shit.
- 33:36Speaker 6: Now what your nigga doing, if your nigga's a dog,
- 33:39Speaker 6: you already know your nigga's a dog.
- 33:41Speaker 4: It ain't got nothing to do with whether he's going
- 33:43Speaker 4: out with me or not.
- 33:44Speaker 6: Don't nobody dictate my program.
- 33:46Speaker 2: Some of these niggas is real slick. Some of these
- 33:49Speaker 2: niggas are like, yeah, a different man with their homies.
- 33:51Speaker 2: Where the hoes at, nigga? God bless you, brother. God
- 33:56Speaker 2: bless you. I'll see you at church on Sunday.
- 33:59Speaker 6: 100%. You ain't never lying. You ain't never lying.
- 34:08Speaker 2: I got one last question. Do y'all feel like, all right,
- 34:11Speaker 2: so you said you were a future fan. Do y'all
- 34:13Speaker 2: feel like the music has affected the rate of marriage?
- 34:16Speaker 1: With people in the black community?
- 34:20Speaker 7: Hell yeah. A lot of these dudes that's rapping are
- 34:23Speaker 7: not married. You know what I mean?
- 34:25Speaker 8: So it's like, and then a lot of dudes, whatever
- 34:28Speaker 8: is going on on the gram is going on with
- 34:31Speaker 8: their peoples too.
- 34:31Speaker 7: It's like, you know what I mean? It's kind of
- 34:34Speaker 7: like people in our circle.
- 34:35Speaker 8: Like Price could be one of our peoples and hanging
- 34:37Speaker 8: out with us all the time and he's just rapping.
- 34:38Speaker 7: Over what we're all doing.
- 34:40Speaker 2: Right?
- 34:41Speaker 8: So it's like, but I feel like, yeah, you ain't
- 34:43Speaker 8: gonna hear about marriage talk from a non-marriage nigga you
- 34:45Speaker 8: don't hear about what he's doing yesterday.
- 34:48Speaker 4: Right yeah i think that um i think yet i
- 34:54Speaker 4: think yes right but i also think it's deeper than
- 34:57Speaker 4: just rap because i feel like it's just black it's us.
- 35:01Speaker 6: As a people not valuing real success.
- 35:04Speaker 4: Right because if you really think about it yeah like
- 35:08Speaker 4: if you think about the biggest rapper the richest rapper
- 35:11Speaker 4: it's Jay-Z and he married me.
- 35:13Speaker 6: Regardless of, you know, the mishaps he may have.
- 35:17Speaker 4: Had in his union or not, he's still married and
- 35:20Speaker 4: building a family with his woman and a legacy with
- 35:22Speaker 4: his woman.
- 35:23Speaker 6: Some of the biggest executives, artists, producers, whatever, are married
- 35:29Speaker 6: and been married. You feel me?
- 35:31Speaker 4: And then when you just think of black men, period,
- 35:35Speaker 4: because there's so many great people like Vlad right here
- 35:38Speaker 4: who Everybody might not know on a, like, a notoriety
- 35:43Speaker 4: public level, but it's a married black man.
- 35:46Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying? So many successful married black men.
- 35:49Speaker 1: Most successful black men are married.
- 35:51Speaker 6: Are married.
- 35:53Speaker 5: Yes.
- 35:53Speaker 6: You feel me? And it's 2023. They're married to black women, too.
- 35:57Speaker 9: Yes.
- 35:57Speaker 6: For the most part.
- 35:58Speaker 4: Like, it ain't just a thing where, like, yeah, that
- 36:00Speaker 4: narrative is kind of getting killed off, too. Like, it
- 36:02Speaker 4: ain't just where niggas is rushing to go marry the
- 36:04Speaker 4: white girl, the little Hispanic, which no shade to you niggas,
- 36:07Speaker 4: but at the same time, Y'all killing the vibe.
- 36:10Speaker 7: However.
- 36:12Speaker 1: Come on, black man.
- 36:14Speaker 7: No, for sure.
- 36:17Speaker 6: You feel me?
- 36:17Speaker 4: But there are, it's really, it speaks to the value
- 36:22Speaker 4: that like us as a people, we don't value true success.
- 36:26Speaker 4: We love the, like the, the, the glitter, you know,
- 36:31Speaker 4: the glittery shit, like future's glittery. And I love the
- 36:34Speaker 4: nigga music, but future don't even be drinking lean. No,
- 36:36Speaker 4: we don't be doing half the shit.
- 36:37Speaker 6: Even talk about this music.
- 36:38Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying?
- 36:40Speaker 4: But it just, it looked good to the little kid
- 36:42Speaker 4: that's in the ghetto and the projects are in the,
- 36:43Speaker 4: you know what I mean, on the west side of
- 36:45Speaker 4: fucking Compton or the IE who ain't seen nothing, don't
- 36:47Speaker 4: got nothing. Then you see him, all the bust down chains,
- 36:50Speaker 4: popping out the Rolls Royce and talk about we fuck
- 36:52Speaker 4: on that.
- 36:52Speaker 6: Bitch and we lay up. Like, you know what I mean? Like, nigga,
- 36:55Speaker 6: that's what we doing.
- 36:56Speaker 4: But if you, y'all not listening to the real success,
- 37:00Speaker 4: and that was a part of why I got married too,
- 37:02Speaker 4: because I'm young, I'm around some of the biggest niggas
- 37:05Speaker 4: and I'm going to be the nigga that pop in
- 37:07Speaker 4: with chains on and wearing the same shit, flyer than
- 37:09Speaker 4: you niggas and all that, but I'm married. That was
- 37:13Speaker 4: my attempt to change the narrative, you know, and that's
- 37:16Speaker 4: still the goal and the objective. But I think it
- 37:19Speaker 4: does play a part, but I think, like I said,
- 37:21Speaker 4: it's deeper, so much deeper than rap.
- 37:24Speaker 6: Because my sons, I'm not.
- 37:26Speaker 2: What about female rap? Because, you know, a lot of
- 37:28Speaker 2: the music now that females are making... are not saying
- 37:33Speaker 2: let's get married you know they're like give me that
- 37:35Speaker 2: money and then get it gone like I get that
- 37:37Speaker 2: bread get the head and leave.
- 37:39Speaker 4: You know I've been in the studio for a month
- 37:41Speaker 4: with Saweetie finishing her album I was supposed to go
- 37:44Speaker 4: today I drove back from Vegas today I didn't.
- 37:46Speaker 6: Go and when we was talking earlier I almost brought it.
- 37:49Speaker 4: Up because we was writing and she wanted to say
- 37:53Speaker 4: like something about like I don't need a nigga I
- 37:56Speaker 4: don't want like all that like that's the narrative you
- 37:59Speaker 4: feel me but And.
- 38:01Speaker 1: Be at home crying by yourself.
- 38:03Speaker 2: Or you have people like Ciara. And even Beyonce said,
- 38:08Speaker 2: women that don't need no man. And I'm like, both
- 38:10Speaker 2: of y'all got a man. Why y'all saying that in
- 38:12Speaker 2: a song? Y'all both got a man.
- 38:14Speaker 1: It's programming. The same thing we just saw with Keke Palmer.
- 38:18Speaker 3: How she got up there performing, talking about she don't
- 38:21Speaker 3: need no nigga.
- 38:22Speaker 1: Girl, you a whole goddamn industry plant at this point.
- 38:26Speaker 1: I don't like that shit.
- 38:28Speaker 4: And look, because at the end of the day, too,
- 38:30Speaker 4: it's like, all right, we don't necessarily need nothing but
- 38:35Speaker 4: air and water.
- 38:37Speaker 2: Right?
- 38:37Speaker 6: But we all want. Now, if you're saying you don't want.
- 38:41Speaker 3: Speak for yourself, Bryce.
- 38:43Speaker 2: Speak for yourself. I need a man. I need a nigga.
- 38:48Speaker 2: I'm so tired of running this shit by myself.
- 38:50Speaker 1: I think men need women more than anything, for sure.
- 38:53Speaker 6: Yeah, we both need each other. Yeah, niggas need each other.
- 38:57Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. I think when it's like a Beyonce,
- 39:02Speaker 4: when they get to those certain levels where they just
- 39:03Speaker 4: paper it up and like how y'all said, just how
- 39:07Speaker 4: you come through and send you packing, send you on
- 39:09Speaker 4: your way.
- 39:10Speaker 6: Actually, it's a car waiting outside too. Send you on
- 39:12Speaker 6: your way with an NDA.
- 39:13Speaker 4: You need to sign this NDA before you get the
- 39:16Speaker 4: fuck out of here.
- 39:17Speaker 6: It's easy for them to be like, I don't.
- 39:19Speaker 2: Need, need, need.
- 39:20Speaker 4: But you know what I'm saying? The real reality is like,
- 39:22Speaker 4: even with Saweetie, I've talked to Saweetie plenty of times.
- 39:24Speaker 6: She's just like, She wants love.
- 39:26Speaker 4: Like every she wants to be in love and like
- 39:30Speaker 4: real love the problem is like the industries that these
- 39:34Speaker 4: people are in it's just like high school right and
- 39:36Speaker 4: so when you go to high school it's freshmen sophomores
- 39:40Speaker 4: juniors seniors it's very rare that the freshmen is fucking
- 39:44Speaker 4: with one of the top seniors you feel me and
- 39:46Speaker 4: so They feel like they're seniors, you know, and they're
- 39:51Speaker 4: also they're all dating in their class.
- 39:54Speaker 6: And unfortunately, in their class is niggas. They're just slime.
- 39:58Speaker 4: So they don't even want to think about being like
- 40:01Speaker 4: they want to project and push that. I don't need
- 40:03Speaker 4: no nigga.
- 40:03Speaker 6: Because it's like niggas.
- 40:05Speaker 2: Don't be wanting to feel crazy.
- 40:07Speaker 1: You know, no niggas.
- 40:08Speaker 6: That's what you're manifesting for sure. You know, and it's
- 40:12Speaker 6: a sale. It's a sale. It's the same way. Like,
- 40:15Speaker 6: so to your point, yes.
- 40:16Speaker 4: It's the same way, like, niggas want to hear the
- 40:18Speaker 4: street music, niggas want to hear this, this, and that.
- 40:21Speaker 4: You know, it's a sell point. You know, and right now, women, female.
- 40:24Speaker 5: Rappers are just.
- 40:25Speaker 1: It's a defense mechanism.
- 40:27Speaker 4: Pussy pink booty hole brown. That shit is taking over
- 40:29Speaker 4: the world. You know what I mean?
- 40:31Speaker 6: So it's like, the world is.
- 40:34Speaker 2: I blush every time I hear that shit.
- 40:35Speaker 7: You so stupid.
- 40:36Speaker 3: Hello, hello. I'd be embarrassed. I'd be embarrassed when I
- 40:48Speaker 3: hear that shit in public.
- 40:49Speaker 1: Like, oh my God. I love it though because.
- 40:55Speaker 6: It's so black. You know what I mean?
- 40:58Speaker 4: You making it clear.
- 40:59Speaker 6: You talking about black women.
- 41:01Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
- 41:02Speaker 1: That's why I love it.
- 41:03Speaker 2: I mess with the light-skinned girls when they sing the lyrics.
- 41:05Speaker 2: I be like, your booty hole pink, too.
- 41:07Speaker 1: They should be brown. They got brown booty holes. Them
- 41:11Speaker 1: should be just dingy, girl.
- 41:12Speaker 6: It's all pink.
- 41:16Speaker 3: They'll tell you, don't light-skinned girls' booty holes be brown, too.
- 41:20Speaker 1: Listen, miss me with that.
- 41:24Speaker 6: I done ran across a couple. That's funny though.
- 41:29Speaker 4: But to your point, yeah, I definitely think that the
- 41:33Speaker 4: music and all of that is playing a big part
- 41:36Speaker 4: because it's like the top rappers, if Travis, if Drake,
- 41:40Speaker 4: if Ye, if Future, if all these niggas popped out
- 41:43Speaker 4: and was married and pushing marriage, a lot more niggas
- 41:47Speaker 4: would get married.
- 41:47Speaker 6: I thought that.
- 41:49Speaker 7: Sorry to cut you off.
- 41:50Speaker 8: And if that was selling too. If Dad was selling,
- 41:53Speaker 8: it would be everybody.
- 41:56Speaker 2: It would sell if they pushed it more. Because think
- 41:59Speaker 2: about it, they push what they want to push to
- 42:01Speaker 2: the people. What's his name? Lil Baby had that song
- 42:06Speaker 2: that was about sticking together after the.
- 42:11Speaker 6: What's his name?
- 42:12Speaker 1: He started out.
- 42:13Speaker 2: he got the knee in his neck and he made
- 42:15Speaker 2: that black stand together song. They did not play that
- 42:18Speaker 2: song like that. That song was good. They didn't push
- 42:20Speaker 2: that song. You know, they're pushing everything else, but things
- 42:23Speaker 2: that uplift us, you know?
- 42:25Speaker 6: 100%.
- 42:26Speaker 1: When Keisha K. Orr and Gucci Mane got married, I
- 42:29Speaker 1: text Charlamagne.
- 42:30Speaker 3: I said, man, they about to change the trajectory of
- 42:32Speaker 3: black people, man.
- 42:33Speaker 1: Niggas gonna start getting married.
- 42:35Speaker 3: I just knew that more niggas was gonna start getting
- 42:37Speaker 3: married because Gucci Mane got married.
- 42:40Speaker 1: For sure. It really has.
- 42:41Speaker 2: No, that nigga clone.
- 42:44Speaker 4: Exactly.
- 42:45Speaker 7: That nigga clone.
- 42:47Speaker 2: That clone Gucci. That clone Gucci.
- 42:52Speaker 1: That woman changed his whole life right quick.
- 42:54Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 42:55Speaker 6: And then you gotta do it.
- 42:56Speaker 4: I mean, like, to your point, niggas is waiting to
- 42:58Speaker 4: do it till after.
- 42:59Speaker 3: They dick stop working.
- 43:01Speaker 2: Go ahead.
- 43:02Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 43:04Speaker 3: Now you wanna get one woman to roar sex for
- 43:07Speaker 3: the rest of her life? That is fucked up.
- 43:09Speaker 1: Okay?
- 43:09Speaker 6: Let's be very clear. We want Zone 6 turned up
- 43:14Speaker 6: Gucci to get married.
- 43:15Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying?
- 43:16Speaker 4: We want you to get married at that time. You know,
- 43:18Speaker 4: like Lil Baby and Jada Way. If they was married at.
- 43:22Speaker 6: The peak of their life, shit, that shit would.
- 43:25Speaker 4: inspire so many more motherfuckers but there's so many black
- 43:28Speaker 4: men that are rich way more rich than little baby
- 43:31Speaker 4: that may not be as famous that's married and married
- 43:34Speaker 4: to a black woman so that's what i'm saying the
- 43:36Speaker 4: real problem is that like we're not looking at boys
- 43:38Speaker 4: walk-ins we're not looking at fucking just so.
- 43:41Speaker 6: Many lebron lebron who've been married.
- 43:44Speaker 4: To the same black woman you're raising two black fucking
- 43:47Speaker 4: little superstars it's only gonna like We not looking at that.
- 43:51Speaker 1: It took them a while to marry her too now.
- 43:52Speaker 3: They had two kids before they even got married.
- 43:55Speaker 2: Did they?
- 43:55Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 43:57Speaker 3: Yeah, but not even the rappers. Look at the financial
- 44:00Speaker 3: dudes that's running the internet right now. All these finance guys,
- 44:03Speaker 3: these option traders and all this shit. None of these
- 44:07Speaker 3: niggas married either. So y'all talk about generational wealth and legacy.
- 44:11Speaker 3: You can't do that without a wife. You can't do
- 44:13Speaker 3: that when you having kids here or a kid there.
- 44:15Speaker 3: You spreading yourself so thin.
- 44:17Speaker 2: So how are you.
- 44:18Speaker 3: Going to get to the bag in a real way
- 44:20Speaker 3: If you got all your children in different households, you
- 44:23Speaker 3: ain't controlling shit at that point. You ain't got no
- 44:25Speaker 3: control over none of these kids and none of these women.
- 44:27Speaker 3: Future is not happy, y'all niggas. It's grown men out
- 44:30Speaker 3: here saying they would rather their son be like Future
- 44:33Speaker 3: than Russell Wilson.
- 44:36Speaker 2: Y'all crazy. Honestly, we don't know if any of them
- 44:39Speaker 2: are happy, honestly. All we know is what we see
- 44:42Speaker 2: on social media, and they could be going home crying
- 44:45Speaker 2: every night. You never know.
- 44:47Speaker 1: Well, we got niggas.
- 44:48Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 44:49Speaker 4: But I would rather be crying with something solidified than
- 44:56Speaker 4: nine different baby mamas that I'm having to pay monthly
- 45:00Speaker 4: different wages.
- 45:01Speaker 5: That nigga's disgruntled.
- 45:02Speaker 1: That's what y'all hear in Eastern music. That nigga's mad.
- 45:07Speaker 4: Oh man nah that don't feel there's no way that
- 45:10Speaker 4: feels good.
- 45:11Speaker 3: That Haitian maybe mama be taking that nigga through it
- 45:13Speaker 3: cause she ain't.
- 45:14Speaker 7: Having it she was raised right Haitian shots to Haitian people.
- 45:20Speaker 1: Yeah got roots in that nigga and everything.
- 45:22Speaker 4: And then they be now you gotta go and put
- 45:28Speaker 4: all your funds in different accounts to look like you
- 45:31Speaker 4: ain't making no money and do all this weird shit
- 45:33Speaker 4: when it's just like And then you do got to
- 45:36Speaker 4: deal with a nigga like Russell who come in.
- 45:40Speaker 1: And be like, be a great dad to your little son.
- 45:42Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying? You feel me?
- 45:49Speaker 4: I think that, like you said, we really don't know
- 45:51Speaker 4: what people are experiencing or feeling, but, I mean, like
- 45:56Speaker 4: we said, like, perception is everything. And if I'm going
- 45:59Speaker 4: to be doing anything, I'd rather be doing it like
- 46:02Speaker 4: with a partner. I like, I like what like Sierra
- 46:04Speaker 4: and Russell be doing. It looked real good. It looked
- 46:06Speaker 4: fly for our people, you know, and I think it's dope.
- 46:09Speaker 4: Niggas be calling it corny and shit.
- 46:11Speaker 6: Like y'all corny.
- 46:11Speaker 2: The same people who call it corny is the same
- 46:15Speaker 2: kids that grew up like, Ooh, you got a daddy.
- 46:17Speaker 2: You whack his head. You know, like it's the same people. Yeah.
- 46:23Speaker 1: No, but listen, we have a segment on our show, right?
- 46:25Speaker 3: It's, it's, uh, dumb bitch stories, right? And then the
- 46:30Speaker 3: sequel to that, not sequel, what is the word I'm
- 46:32Speaker 3: looking for? Like the equal to that.
- 46:33Speaker 2: The male version.
- 46:34Speaker 3: Yeah, the male version is the simp series, right? So
- 46:37Speaker 3: when we come back from break, we need some stories.
- 46:40Speaker 3: We need some simp stories from y'all, okay?
- 46:42Speaker 5: Y'all got it?
- 46:43Speaker 7: Hold on, when we were simps? When I was a simp?
- 46:45Speaker 2: Yes.
- 46:46Speaker 1: A time you got played.
- 46:48Speaker 2: A time you got played by the opposite sex.
- 46:51Speaker 3: Y'all stay tuned.
- 46:52Speaker 1: We'll be right back.
- 46:54Speaker 7: Boy, there's no real easy way to say this, but look.
- 47:01Speaker 2: Alright, let me just say this. Don't tell us no
- 47:04Speaker 2: shit from high school. We don't want to hear like, oh,
- 47:06Speaker 2: when I was in the 10th grade.
- 47:07Speaker 6: No, no, no, no.
- 47:10Speaker 7: This is before I met my wife.
- 47:12Speaker 1: You better say it was before.
- 47:15Speaker 4: You see a fucking black lady back there flying.
- 47:18Speaker 3: This was last year.
- 47:20Speaker 6: This happened yesterday.
- 47:20Speaker 8: I remember one time I went on a date this
- 47:26Speaker 8: chick went to like a comedy show and she kept
- 47:31Speaker 8: on ordering hot chocolates right I found out it was
- 47:34Speaker 8: kind of weird this was like her fourth hot chocolate
- 47:35Speaker 8: and I'm just like buying them whatever and then I feel.
- 47:40Speaker 10: Like this is about to be good it's not homeless
- 47:43Speaker 10: no it was crazy it was like yo by the
- 47:44Speaker 10: time and then we was like the comedy show was
- 47:46Speaker 10: cool it was a good vibe whatever and she called
- 47:48Speaker 10: this dude that was like she used to ride the
- 47:51Speaker 10: cabs and he used to drive by everywhere I'm like
- 47:53Speaker 10: yo is he the man she's like nah nah this
- 47:54Speaker 10: is this dude you know this whatever You come to
- 47:56Speaker 10: pick up, she gets in the car and.
- 47:58Speaker 6: Kisses him and leaves. I'm like, I paid for all
- 48:02Speaker 6: your hot chocolates and.
- 48:03Speaker 7: This is what the things I get? She had like
- 48:05Speaker 7: four hot chocolates. I was like, yo, this shit was crazy.
- 48:08Speaker 2: How much was the hot chocolate?
- 48:10Speaker 7: I don't know. She was like 425.
- 48:11Speaker 6: I don't know.
- 48:12Speaker 2: I thought she was going to say like she was
- 48:14Speaker 2: shitting up or something.
- 48:15Speaker 3: I thought she was going to say.
- 48:16Speaker 7: I think she had to get home. I don't know.
- 48:18Speaker 7: She called dude in the cab. She was like, damn,
- 48:20Speaker 7: she left with him.
- 48:20Speaker 6: Traumatized by the hot chocolate.
- 48:22Speaker 1: She sounded like she was working.
- 48:24Speaker 7: I would never buy hot chocolates again, New York.
- 48:28Speaker 3: She sounded like a car hopper. I thought she was homeless. Like,
- 48:33Speaker 3: is she sleeping outside? She need to stay warm?
- 48:34Speaker 1: Like, warm up.
- 48:36Speaker 7: That was the weirdest thing I ever said. Like, you know,
- 48:38Speaker 7: because on your fourth one, I'm like, That's mad.
- 48:46Speaker 2: What about you, Price?
- 48:47Speaker 4: To some people, it was fighting for your marriage. In
- 48:49Speaker 4: my mindset, it was fighting for my marriage. At the
- 48:51Speaker 4: same time, knowing that that was the person I had
- 48:53Speaker 4: no business being with, it was some sim shit. To
- 48:55Speaker 4: make a long story short, me and my ex, we
- 48:59Speaker 4: lived in Atlanta at the time. We got into it heavy.
- 49:05Speaker 4: She moved back to California and was like, You know,
- 49:11Speaker 4: we're being separated. It was like we getting separated.
- 49:14Speaker 6: So then I come back to fight for her, fight
- 49:16Speaker 6: for the marriage, blah, blah, blah, blah.
- 49:18Speaker 4: Ironically, her birthday's around this time and she kept posting
- 49:21Speaker 4: online that she wanted this dog, like a teacup Yorkie.
- 49:25Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? I got my little Finsta
- 49:27Speaker 4: page or whatever. Keep looking at her little page.
- 49:29Speaker 7: And see it.
- 49:30Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying?
- 49:31Speaker 4: So I keep seeing that she want this dumbass dog
- 49:33Speaker 4: and I'm like, all right, fuck it. I'm going to
- 49:35Speaker 4: for sure get the dog, whatever. So then we ended
- 49:38Speaker 4: up getting cool and you know, decided to go somewhere
- 49:42Speaker 4: for her birthday.
- 49:43Speaker 6: We go wherever we going. I surprise her with the dog.
- 49:47Speaker 6: She hype. So now she back, you know, yeah, it's all.
- 49:53Speaker 2: That.
- 49:53Speaker 7: Right.
- 49:54Speaker 6: And so I get her phone to take pictures.
- 49:58Speaker 4: She wanted me to get pictures and videos of her with.
- 50:00Speaker 6: The dog and this, this and that.
- 50:02Speaker 4: But as I'm recording the, the video, um, I see
- 50:08Speaker 4: text messages popping up on the.
- 50:09Speaker 6: Phone, you know, as I'm holding it.
- 50:12Speaker 1: Oh, that's scary.
- 50:14Speaker 6: Yeah, it was just not the right kind of text messages.
- 50:17Speaker 6: And it's on her birthday.
- 50:18Speaker 4: So I could tell from the responses from the text
- 50:20Speaker 4: messages of kind of like an idea of what she
- 50:22Speaker 4: was saying. So I'd be lying if I said I
- 50:25Speaker 4: didn't go through the phone when she went to shower.
- 50:28Speaker 5: Right?
- 50:29Speaker 6: So I went in the phone.
- 50:30Speaker 4: So I see, because I really just went straight to
- 50:32Speaker 4: that convo.
- 50:33Speaker 6: I didn't give a fuck about nothing else. I wanted
- 50:35Speaker 6: to see what she was talking about with this nigga.
- 50:37Speaker 6: Sure enough, she asking the nigga, why you ain't tell
- 50:39Speaker 6: me happy birthday? Like, all this lame ass shit. I'm
- 50:41Speaker 6: looking like, this nigga ain't even tell you happy birthday.
- 50:44Speaker 1: Like, you, you, whatever.
- 50:45Speaker 2: I got you a dog, bitch. Right.
- 50:48Speaker 5: We married.
- 50:49Speaker 6: Fuck all that.
- 50:49Speaker 1: We married.
- 50:50Speaker 4: But, saying all that to say, so, I hold it in, though,
- 50:56Speaker 4: because it had been months. We ain't had no sex, nothing,
- 50:59Speaker 4: so I wanted to, you know, I wanted to get
- 51:02Speaker 4: my issue.
- 51:03Speaker 6: And, so, boom, we do our thing. That next morning,
- 51:06Speaker 6: we drive.
- 51:07Speaker 4: Back down from wherever we at, and I'm steaming, but
- 51:10Speaker 4: I ain't say nothing the whole time. I'm just playing
- 51:12Speaker 4: it cool. But when we get to our destination, I
- 51:15Speaker 4: acted like I knew everything.
- 51:17Speaker 6: You feel me? I acted like I knew everything.
- 51:19Speaker 4: So she ended up just confessing, because I told her
- 51:20Speaker 4: about the one text message I seen, and then I
- 51:23Speaker 4: just portrayed like I knew everything.
- 51:25Speaker 6: And she went for it, so she started telling me everything.
- 51:29Speaker 6: She had a nigga at her mama house, and in
- 51:33Speaker 6: the pool kissing. It was just all this wild shit.
- 51:35Speaker 2: She told you? Damn.
- 51:38Speaker 6: She really had no choice because she.
- 51:40Speaker 5: Thought I knew her.
- 51:41Speaker 8: All right, bitches, never tell.
- 51:42Speaker 7: I don't know.
- 51:43Speaker 3: Yeah, never tell these niggas shit.
- 51:45Speaker 2: Right. These niggas can have video footage. I'll be like, baby,
- 51:49Speaker 2: they'll say hi.
- 51:50Speaker 1: It wasn't me. It wasn't me.
- 51:53Speaker 4: But what makes it, the simp story to it for
- 51:56Speaker 4: me is that, like, after that happened, you.
- 51:58Speaker 6: Know, I was crushed.
- 51:59Speaker 1: I'm talking about I was fucked up.
- 52:01Speaker 6: You know, your stomach beat. Hell no. And I said
- 52:04Speaker 6: I wouldn't cry, but I didn't cry. But my heart,
- 52:06Speaker 6: my stomach, I just had that stomach feeling. You know
- 52:10Speaker 6: what I mean?
- 52:11Speaker 2: That hurt.
- 52:12Speaker 7: That hurt.
- 52:13Speaker 8: That's that full hot chocolate type stomach right there.
- 52:18Speaker 6: But I stayed. I stayed.
- 52:20Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying?
- 52:21Speaker 6: To me, the simplest shit about it is the fact
- 52:24Speaker 6: that I stayed.
- 52:25Speaker 3: Hold on i got dragged on instagram because we did
- 52:29Speaker 3: a another podcast and i said if you cheating your
- 52:32Speaker 3: nigga and he find out you better leave that nigga
- 52:35Speaker 3: because y'all.
- 52:36Speaker 1: Will troll a bitch in the relationship like you want
- 52:39Speaker 1: me to stay and you want to troll me the
- 52:41Speaker 1: whole time while i'm.
- 52:41Speaker 4: Here right so no i didn't troll her um i
- 52:46Speaker 4: just was I went through a little season where I
- 52:49Speaker 4: was mean.
- 52:50Speaker 1: That's trolling.
- 52:51Speaker 3: That's exactly what I'm talking about.
- 52:54Speaker 6: But nah, you gotta let me get through. You gotta
- 52:57Speaker 6: let me get over this shit.
- 52:59Speaker 4: Like, yeah.
- 53:00Speaker 1: You need to heal separate from me and come back.
- 53:02Speaker 2: Nah.
- 53:04Speaker 6: No, that's scary. That's tricky.
- 53:06Speaker 4: Because healing separately, I might get under somebody to try
- 53:10Speaker 4: to get over you.
- 53:12Speaker 1: They still ain't me. You come back.
- 53:15Speaker 2: They still ain't me.
- 53:15Speaker 3: Or don't.
- 53:17Speaker 2: You know, or don't.
- 53:18Speaker 6: Or don't. If it ain't meant. If it ain't meant.
- 53:20Speaker 6: But then we ended up having my son after all
- 53:24Speaker 6: of that, which was the craziest part.
- 53:25Speaker 4: Like, we actually ended up having my son when it
- 53:29Speaker 4: was really, like, the tail end.
- 53:30Speaker 1: Is supposed to be down.
- 53:31Speaker 6: Damn, that's usually when it happens. We both was over
- 53:34Speaker 6: each other. Yeah. So, yeah, that was my sit moment.
- 53:36Speaker 2: I had a friend who got caught cheating on her man,
- 53:38Speaker 2: and they, like, worked it out. But for a long time,
- 53:41Speaker 2: she said, I used to think he was trying to
- 53:43Speaker 2: kill me because we would fuck and he would mash
- 53:46Speaker 2: a pillow on my face. During sex.
- 53:50Speaker 1: I've been there. I've been there. I've been there, dog.
- 53:55Speaker 1: That shit is real.
- 53:56Speaker 2: I've been there.
- 53:57Speaker 4: Hey, so before we go, before we go or switch
- 54:00Speaker 4: the topic, so You've been there like you didn't cheat it.
- 54:04Speaker 1: No, I didn't.
- 54:05Speaker 6: I didn't cheat it. I didn't cheat it.
- 54:07Speaker 2: I've never cheated.
- 54:09Speaker 10: I don't know what you're talking about.
- 54:13Speaker 1: OK, because of.
- 54:14Speaker 3: The self-awareness that I have about myself now, I know
- 54:16Speaker 3: that I need to be single in a relationship.
- 54:20Speaker 2: Let me explain. Please. You better explain because you ain't
- 54:27Speaker 2: going to get no man with that theory.
- 54:28Speaker 4: Yes, I am.
- 54:29Speaker 6: Yes, I am.
- 54:29Speaker 1: Because listen, in a relationship, I'm very, very loyal.
- 54:33Speaker 7: Right.
- 54:34Speaker 1: But I want people to stop pretending that they don't fraternize.
- 54:38Speaker 2: Right.
- 54:38Speaker 3: That you don't entertain messages you might get sometimes and
- 54:42Speaker 3: know you still got it a little bit.
- 54:44Speaker 7: Right.
- 54:44Speaker 6: Right.
- 54:45Speaker 1: Everybody does it.
- 54:46Speaker 3: You just don't want somebody to see it, like, in
- 54:48Speaker 3: your shit and see it. Like, a motherfucker be done
- 54:50Speaker 3: misinterpreting some shit because it was never for your eyes
- 54:52Speaker 3: in the first place. So I don't touch people things, right?
- 54:55Speaker 3: Don't touch my shit. When I say I want to
- 54:58Speaker 3: be single in a relationship, I want to be able
- 55:01Speaker 3: to tell my person everything about me. So if I
- 55:04Speaker 3: like to flirt, even if we together and we just
- 55:08Speaker 3: ordering coffee.
- 55:09Speaker 1: Or some shit. And I say, oh, thank you, baby.
- 55:11Speaker 1: Like in my last relationship, just calling somebody baby was
- 55:13Speaker 1: a problem.
- 55:14Speaker 3: And I don't mean nothing about it. Like my mom
- 55:17Speaker 3: calls everybody baby. Like I grew up like that. So
- 55:20Speaker 3: if you talk to a kid, a grown person, a
- 55:22Speaker 3: woman or a man, it's like, oh, thank you, baby.
- 55:24Speaker 1: That was a problem. I don't want that to be
- 55:26Speaker 1: a problem.
- 55:27Speaker 2: No, that's a problem for me. Cause if you my, um,
- 55:29Speaker 2: if you was my woman and you calling a nigga baby,
- 55:32Speaker 2: your head going between the washing and drying.
- 55:35Speaker 3: But I never really call like a grown person, a baby,
- 55:37Speaker 3: like grown man, baby. While with my significant other, it
- 55:41Speaker 3: would be like, uh, A younger person, somebody younger than me.
- 55:44Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Not like some grown, fine-ass nigga.
- 55:47Speaker 1: I'm like, thank you, baby. No, that never happened.
- 55:49Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying?
- 55:50Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah.
- 55:51Speaker 6: That's a little different, man.
- 55:52Speaker 2: That's a little different.
- 55:53Speaker 1: That never happened.
- 55:54Speaker 6: Look at Vlad, Vlad.
- 55:55Speaker 7: Yeah, that's a little much. That's a little much.
- 55:59Speaker 1: What's y'all's signs? What's y'all's signs?
- 56:00Speaker 2: What's your sign, Vlad?
- 56:01Speaker 7: I'm Pisces.
- 56:03Speaker 5: Oh, I like Pisces.
- 56:04Speaker 2: Oh, me too.
- 56:05Speaker 6: I'm a Sagittarius.
- 56:07Speaker 2: Sagittarius. I like Sagittarius. I'm a Gemini.
- 56:11Speaker 3: Sagittarius is like the opposite. The opposite of Gemini.
- 56:15Speaker 7: What's your birthday?
- 56:17Speaker 2: June 8th.
- 56:17Speaker 3: I like to tell people me and Kanye got the
- 56:20Speaker 3: same birthday, y'all.
- 56:21Speaker 1: Just to put.
- 56:21Speaker 2: Things in perspective a little bit.
- 56:23Speaker 7: Right.
- 56:26Speaker 6: What about you?
- 56:27Speaker 1: Period.
- 56:28Speaker 2: I'm a Cancer. When is that? July. End of June.
- 56:34Speaker 2: End of July.
- 56:35Speaker 6: Yeah. That's like my mom.
- 56:36Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 56:37Speaker 7: My brother's a cancer, so I know.
- 56:38Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 56:39Speaker 9: Facts.
- 56:39Speaker 2: Loving crybabies.
- 56:41Speaker 7: Right.
- 56:42Speaker 5: Facts.
- 56:43Speaker 6: Sound like my mom when I talk about that.
- 56:44Speaker 3: Yeah, okay.
- 56:45Speaker 6: See, I'll be knowing the signs. I just don't really
- 56:47Speaker 6: be knowing the... The traits.
- 56:50Speaker 4: Or just the birthdays. I actually be knowing the traits
- 56:52Speaker 4: more than... The time periods that make you.
- 56:55Speaker 6: Yeah, exactly.
- 56:56Speaker 3: I be having all my niggas sign up for, let
- 56:59Speaker 3: me not say that.
- 57:00Speaker 1: I be having all the niggas.
- 57:01Speaker 6: She said it right.
- 57:03Speaker 3: I mean, I have, when I meet somebody, I have
- 57:05Speaker 3: them sign up for CoStar.
- 57:06Speaker 1: It's this app.
- 57:07Speaker 3: Like, I need to see your fucking birth chart, dog.
- 57:09Speaker 3: Not because I want to manipulate you. It's just like,
- 57:11Speaker 3: it's like a good starting point to see, like, who
- 57:14Speaker 3: somebody is. right I need to know like how your
- 57:18Speaker 3: planets along.
- 57:19Speaker 4: I never get to know like if I'm a half
- 57:22Speaker 4: moon or this and that and all that shit I
- 57:24Speaker 4: don't know that I feel.
- 57:26Speaker 2: Too surprised I don't believe in that shit I just
- 57:28Speaker 2: feel like we're all individuals like some of that stuff
- 57:31Speaker 2: is true to a degree but for the most part
- 57:34Speaker 2: I think it's your life experiences that make you who
- 57:36Speaker 2: you are right.
- 57:37Speaker 3: And upbringing y'all you gotta find out who people mom
- 57:41Speaker 3: and daddy is who them people people is yeah before
- 57:43Speaker 3: you start.
- 57:43Speaker 2: Meeting with them Yeah, I was about to say, do
- 57:46Speaker 2: y'all feel like that's important?
- 57:47Speaker 5: Your upbringing?
- 57:48Speaker 6: Hell yeah.
- 57:49Speaker 1: That's like the main thing.
- 57:51Speaker 2: Do you use that to pick a woman? See, I
- 57:56Speaker 2: don't do that.
- 57:57Speaker 6: No, no, no.
- 57:58Speaker 8: I know with me, like I said earlier, I had
- 58:00Speaker 8: communication issues and I didn't trust a lot of people, right?
- 58:04Speaker 8: And that's something that I had to catch myself as
- 58:06Speaker 8: I got older, right? So in between that, me not knowing,
- 58:09Speaker 8: I was just like a cold-hearted, like, yo, we're going
- 58:12Speaker 8: to be in a relationship for like a.
- 58:13Speaker 7: Good three years. And he's like, I'm out.
- 58:14Speaker 5: I'm like, all right, you're out.
- 58:17Speaker 7: I'm out too. You know what I mean?
- 58:18Speaker 8: I was losing too because it was like, I never
- 58:20Speaker 8: really got too close, right? So I was like, okay.
- 58:23Speaker 8: But as I got older, I realized, you know, a
- 58:26Speaker 8: lot of people, like I said, growing up, they need therapy.
- 58:30Speaker 7: And they don't even know it. You know what I mean?
- 58:32Speaker 7: We all could probably use therapy right now.
- 58:34Speaker 5: Yeah, I agree.
- 58:35Speaker 7: Open up some shit.
- 58:35Speaker 6: You know what I mean?
- 58:36Speaker 7: So, it's like.
- 58:37Speaker 6: Sure.
- 58:37Speaker 8: I try to be that to, like, people I hang
- 58:39Speaker 8: out with all the time. Like, yo, just, like, as a,
- 58:41Speaker 8: you know, a free therapist and shit.
- 58:42Speaker 7: You know what I mean?
- 58:44Speaker 4: Yeah, I like getting to know who people's family is.
- 58:46Speaker 4: Not even for the sake of, like, oh, whether I'm
- 58:48Speaker 4: going to fuck with you or not.
- 58:49Speaker 6: But that's just... It helps me understand who I'm fucking
- 58:54Speaker 6: with a lot better. Like y'all said. So, like, if
- 58:56Speaker 6: you got a family that's... Like, my family.
- 59:00Speaker 6: We communicate, but we get angry. You know what I'm saying?
- 59:05Speaker 6: So we get the, my mama loud. She get the
- 59:07Speaker 6: going the fuck off.
- 59:08Speaker 4: She can really just break you and beat you down
- 59:10Speaker 4: with words she we ain't gotta put our hands on
- 59:12Speaker 4: you we just chew you away with words you know
- 59:14Speaker 4: like um you know shit like that but then i
- 59:17Speaker 4: come from family with anger issues and alcoholism things like
- 59:22Speaker 4: that so You want to know some of those things
- 59:24Speaker 4: so that you can know, like, anxiety issues, things like that.
- 59:28Speaker 7: Triggers.
- 59:29Speaker 6: Exactly. You feel me? So you can know who you're
- 59:31Speaker 6: dealing with and how to deal with them.
- 59:33Speaker 5: You feel me? It's important.
- 59:34Speaker 6: Sometimes people don't be wanting to meet your family. I'm
- 59:37Speaker 6: good on the family.
- 59:38Speaker 5: Nah.
- 59:39Speaker 10: I've been making jokes saying I don't like niggas with mamas.
- 59:45Speaker 3: It's that I don't like niggas with mamas and sisters
- 59:47Speaker 3: who are not in healthy relationships with a man, right?
- 59:50Speaker 3: Because here I am dating your son, dating your brother.
- 59:53Speaker 3: And you mad at me because he's no longer doing
- 59:55Speaker 3: the things he used to do for you because you
- 59:57Speaker 3: don't have a good relationship with a man. I don't
- 1:00:00Speaker 3: want to have to smack your sister.
- 1:00:02Speaker 7: I just had this conversation.
- 1:00:05Speaker 6: She was about to say her mom.
- 1:00:06Speaker 7: I don't want to smack your mom.
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: I'm not smacking no mama's man, but I will.
- 1:00:13Speaker 3: Leave your ass because of your mama.
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not going to.
- 1:00:15Speaker 6: Smack your mom.
- 1:00:16Speaker 2: Hell no.
- 1:00:17Speaker 6: It's crazy.
- 1:00:18Speaker 4: I literally just had this conversation. But I think it's
- 1:00:20Speaker 4: important to what we were talking about earlier. Wait, that
- 1:00:24Speaker 4: is all based on the type of man. Like, if
- 1:00:26Speaker 4: you a pushover-ass nigga, if you a nigga who, you know,
- 1:00:30Speaker 4: get talked to crazy and ran over, ran on by whoever,
- 1:00:33Speaker 4: because even if it's your mama, like, it could be
- 1:00:36Speaker 4: your mama, you can be your.
- 1:00:37Speaker 6: Mama's boy, all of that. You can have all the
- 1:00:39Speaker 6: love for your mom, support your mom, be the one
- 1:00:41Speaker 6: doing this, this, and that. But it's still order. It's
- 1:00:43Speaker 6: still lines.
- 1:00:44Speaker 4: You ain't allowed to cross, and I'm going to check you,
- 1:00:46Speaker 4: mama or not. You know, I got homies that's, I
- 1:00:49Speaker 4: got big homies that won't, like, talk back to their
- 1:00:52Speaker 4: mom or just, or check their mom, you know what
- 1:00:54Speaker 4: I mean? Or check their, well, I would check my
- 1:00:56Speaker 4: mom quick as a motherfucker.
- 1:00:57Speaker 3: Yeah, but now your lady, your woman is having to
- 1:01:00Speaker 3: deal with this woman and I'm not, I don't want
- 1:01:02Speaker 3: to have to check your mom.
- 1:01:03Speaker 1: I feel like you should.
- 1:01:04Speaker 5: Yes.
- 1:01:05Speaker 2: Right?
- 1:01:05Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 1:01:06Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 1:01:07Speaker 4: But then it's too, like, also, like, it's important for
- 1:01:09Speaker 4: the man to kind of have that conversation with, like,
- 1:01:12Speaker 4: like what we're talking about, like, let you know some
- 1:01:14Speaker 4: of the pain points of his mom or your parents,
- 1:01:18Speaker 4: et cetera, et cetera.
- 1:01:19Speaker 6: So it's like, This is... Because, like, my mom, a
- 1:01:22Speaker 6: prime example, my mom, she's single now. She ain't got
- 1:01:25Speaker 6: no man, but she don't give a fuck. Like, my
- 1:01:26Speaker 6: mom don't want me to be her man.
- 1:01:28Speaker 4: You know, I got homies who they mama think that
- 1:01:31Speaker 4: they her man.
- 1:01:33Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:01:34Speaker 4: Like, that ain't my mom, but if my mom needs
- 1:01:38Speaker 4: something or is hurting or whatever the fuck, like, she
- 1:01:41Speaker 4: don't want to see me just fucking... I'm balling out
- 1:01:43Speaker 4: over here and ain't doing nothing to help. Which, you
- 1:01:47Speaker 4: feel me? So that's more of a me thing. And
- 1:01:49Speaker 4: But the moment that that translate over to your relationship
- 1:01:52Speaker 4: or your partner is feeling that shit, then it's.
- 1:01:55Speaker 6: Like, all right, moms, I got to let you know
- 1:01:58Speaker 6: what it is.
- 1:01:59Speaker 4: Because one thing I'm a big friend believer on as
- 1:02:02Speaker 4: being a parent, it taught me that, like, okay, everybody
- 1:02:06Speaker 4: going to go off and do their own thing.
- 1:02:08Speaker 6: For the most part, right? Like, my two sons, I
- 1:02:10Speaker 6: love them to death. They love me. They love their
- 1:02:12Speaker 6: mamas for sure. They love me.
- 1:02:14Speaker 4: But when y'all little niggas get probably 16, The texting.
- 1:02:18Speaker 6: Calls is going to slow it.
- 1:02:19Speaker 4: By the time y'all little niggas is 18, 19, y'all
- 1:02:21Speaker 4: going to be doing y'all own fucking thing. And eventually
- 1:02:24Speaker 4: y'all going to go get married. Like when my mom
- 1:02:27Speaker 4: was married, her.
- 1:02:29Speaker 6: Husband came first. Your partner come first. You know what
- 1:02:31Speaker 6: I'm saying? And like your mom, your people.
- 1:02:35Speaker 3: Because we ain't good at the relationship, but the kids
- 1:02:39Speaker 3: is not going to be good. So I do think
- 1:02:40Speaker 3: you have to be like, we don't have kids, right?
- 1:02:42Speaker 3: But I do think you should. It got to be
- 1:02:44Speaker 3: fuck them kids when you got a husband, a wife.
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:02:47Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:02:48Speaker 6: It's order to it. It's order. Because, I mean, at
- 1:02:50Speaker 6: the end of the day, like I said, the kids
- 1:02:52Speaker 6: going to grow up and they going to go do
- 1:02:53Speaker 6: their own thing. Like, and you won't even talk to
- 1:02:56Speaker 6: these little niggas for who knows how long. They just
- 1:02:58Speaker 6: doing their own thing.
- 1:02:59Speaker 7: Right.
- 1:02:59Speaker 6: You feel me? And so... you got some people who.
- 1:03:02Speaker 4: Like devote their whole life to their children want to
- 1:03:05Speaker 4: follow their children around everything they do and when they
- 1:03:08Speaker 4: go get older move to Minnesota for college they want
- 1:03:11Speaker 4: to move to Minnesota to be close I wish I.
- 1:03:12Speaker 3: Would I got a home girl like that dog I'm
- 1:03:15Speaker 3: like I know for sure her son want to fucking
- 1:03:17Speaker 3: run away and he's about to graduate and he wants
- 1:03:19Speaker 3: to go to college on the west coast she like
- 1:03:22Speaker 3: I'm moving I'm like that is not that's not your
- 1:03:24Speaker 3: nigga right.
- 1:03:26Speaker 6: Let him go Let little bro do his thing, please.
- 1:03:30Speaker 4: I would tell my mom so quick, listen, you're staying here.
- 1:03:33Speaker 2: I'll FaceTime you.
- 1:03:37Speaker 7: I'll be back.
- 1:03:38Speaker 3: All her videos on social media is her and her son.
- 1:03:41Speaker 2: I'm like, yo, this is not healthy.
- 1:03:43Speaker 4: Yeah, it's beautiful, though, but it just, like, it gotta
- 1:03:46Speaker 4: be balanced and it gotta be ordered, man. Like, and unfortunately,
- 1:03:50Speaker 4: it do be the fact, like you said, that I
- 1:03:51Speaker 4: don't be having relationships, I don't be having men in life,
- 1:03:54Speaker 4: but you can't, I would hate to see you not
- 1:03:58Speaker 4: be potentially with like a great man because his mama
- 1:04:01Speaker 4: don't got a man you know what I'm saying like
- 1:04:05Speaker 4: that shouldn't just be the reason to just write something
- 1:04:07Speaker 4: off you know what I mean right away but based
- 1:04:09Speaker 4: on just.
- 1:04:10Speaker 2: You know sometimes them mamas will make it hard it's
- 1:04:13Speaker 2: like you fighting for position with your man all the
- 1:04:16Speaker 2: time because of the mama just feels like she should.
- 1:04:18Speaker 8: Come first now that's different let me ask you that
- 1:04:22Speaker 8: AJ and Tam do you guys cut off a lot
- 1:04:25Speaker 8: of guys for like little shit.
- 1:04:28Speaker 1: I have a high tolerance for bullshit.
- 1:04:31Speaker 2: When I tell you.
- 1:04:31Speaker 6: All right, all right.
- 1:04:32Speaker 7: I'm saying that a lot, too.
- 1:04:34Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:04:34Speaker 6: Define little shit.
- 1:04:35Speaker 7: I like the way that nigga sneezed yesterday.
- 1:04:47Speaker 3: Not chewing I don't like how you chew I can't
- 1:04:50Speaker 3: fuck with you.
- 1:04:51Speaker 8: Okay no I don't think.
- 1:04:56Speaker 2: I cut people off for small things like.
- 1:04:58Speaker 8: That right so you keep it because I'm finding a
- 1:05:00Speaker 8: lot of people I know too like yo little shit
- 1:05:02Speaker 8: my tolerance is like short.
- 1:05:04Speaker 3: Really so what's the I'm hearing.
- 1:05:08Speaker 2: A lot of females say that it be big shit
- 1:05:10Speaker 2: though like oh he's a gambler or he's just in
- 1:05:12Speaker 2: the streets too much or okay You know, things like that.
- 1:05:16Speaker 4: What's the last thing you had to cut a nigga
- 1:05:18Speaker 4: off of? What's the last nigga that got cut.
- 1:05:20Speaker 6: Off and why?
- 1:05:22Speaker 2: The last nigga that got cut off, he was doing
- 1:05:25Speaker 2: all the things. He was really, really nice, talking. Everything
- 1:05:28Speaker 2: was right, right? And then my homegirl, her man is
- 1:05:32Speaker 2: friends with the guy, right? She was like, girl, he
- 1:05:35Speaker 2: is on the run from the police right now. I
- 1:05:37Speaker 2: was like, yeah, I'm going to be out. I'm going
- 1:05:39Speaker 2: to be out.
- 1:05:40Speaker 7: That's the real.
- 1:05:41Speaker 2: Reason to cut a nigga off, right?
- 1:05:43Speaker 5: But, I mean.
- 1:05:47Speaker 6: It depends.
- 1:05:48Speaker 2: Exactly.
- 1:05:49Speaker 6: A little mortgage fraud.
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: I like a mortgage fraud type nigga.
- 1:05:53Speaker 3: I didn't get to that.
- 1:05:56Speaker 2: We not locked in.
- 1:05:57Speaker 1: We not locked in for me. We don't know why
- 1:06:00Speaker 1: we locked in. You know, switching up.
- 1:06:02Speaker 6: AJ said a little mortgage fraud.
- 1:06:06Speaker 3: I like a little mortgage fraud.
- 1:06:07Speaker 1: A little gray area scamming.
- 1:06:09Speaker 5: I like it.
- 1:06:09Speaker 6: You got a little too much money on the EDD.
- 1:06:11Speaker 6: You got a little too much... What are you all
- 1:06:14Speaker 6: around for?
- 1:06:14Speaker 7: A little blue collar crime.
- 1:06:16Speaker 10: White collar crime.
- 1:06:19Speaker 7: White collar crime.
- 1:06:22Speaker 8: It's a great combo for you guys to be having
- 1:06:24Speaker 8: right now too because it's like a lot of people
- 1:06:26Speaker 8: I feel like.
- 1:06:26Speaker 7: Not even having this conversation at all. You know what
- 1:06:29Speaker 7: I mean?
- 1:06:30Speaker 8: It's like you got younger girls just walking around here
- 1:06:32Speaker 8: thinking they lost. They don't even know what to do.
- 1:06:35Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 1:06:35Speaker 2: Men too.
- 1:06:36Speaker 7: Men too. Men too.
- 1:06:38Speaker 2: And I think oftentimes when men and women have this conversation,
- 1:06:41Speaker 2: it gets hostile.
- 1:06:42Speaker 7: Right.
- 1:06:42Speaker 2: Instead of like, we can laugh and talk about the
- 1:06:46Speaker 2: things that, you know, aren't working for us without being
- 1:06:49Speaker 2: mean to each other.
- 1:06:50Speaker 8: That's why I'm all about the non-traditional changing the whole
- 1:06:53Speaker 8: status quo of things.
- 1:06:54Speaker 7: You know what I mean?
- 1:06:55Speaker 8: If it works, this works as a platform where it
- 1:06:58Speaker 8: can open a dialogue with everybody, then let's do it.
- 1:07:00Speaker 7: Why not?
- 1:07:01Speaker 2: Right.
- 1:07:01Speaker 6: Right.
- 1:07:02Speaker 3: Yeah. You know, I really don't even like men that talk.
- 1:07:05Speaker 3: So I think like the men that we feel like.
- 1:07:10Speaker 3: This bitch want a deaf mute nigga.
- 1:07:13Speaker 6: No.
- 1:07:13Speaker 1: Don't put that on.
- 1:07:15Speaker 3: I want a man who walks in a room and
- 1:07:18Speaker 3: everybody knows that's a man without him opening his mouth.
- 1:07:20Speaker 1: That's what I mean by I don't like niggas that talk.
- 1:07:23Speaker 3: Like these podcast niggas, I can't get with these podcast niggas.
- 1:07:27Speaker 1: Y'all talk too much. Y'all chatty patties. I know y'all
- 1:07:30Speaker 1: was raised by black women.
- 1:07:32Speaker 3: That's what I mean. When I say I don't like
- 1:07:34Speaker 3: niggas that talk. I like quiet men. I like to
- 1:07:38Speaker 3: know that my nigga gonna smack the shit out of
- 1:07:40Speaker 3: you quietly.
- 1:07:42Speaker 2: How would you feel if a man that said he
- 1:07:44Speaker 2: like quiet women, you know?
- 1:07:46Speaker 1: I'm not for you. I talk a lot for the
- 1:07:48Speaker 1: both of us, okay?
- 1:07:49Speaker 2: So I don't need you talking, nigga. She don't like
- 1:07:54Speaker 2: a nigga who talk. She don't like mamas. Niggas with mamas,
- 1:07:58Speaker 2: niggas who talk.
- 1:07:59Speaker 3: No, I like men with moms, right? I like men
- 1:08:01Speaker 3: who have good relationships with their mom, but their mom
- 1:08:03Speaker 3: has to be happy. It has to be a happy
- 1:08:06Speaker 3: mom and a happy sister. That's all I mean by that.
- 1:08:08Speaker 5: Yeah. Damn, so podcast niggas don't get no action?
- 1:08:13Speaker 3: They be the ones arguing. You see how we are
- 1:08:15Speaker 3: able to... Y'all don't do podcasting, right? And we're able
- 1:08:17Speaker 3: to have this conversation with no bickering or us getting
- 1:08:20Speaker 3: mad and y'all getting.
- 1:08:21Speaker 1: You know, without it getting weird.
- 1:08:23Speaker 3: You see these arguments on these podcasts because it's too
- 1:08:26Speaker 3: much feminine energy going on.
- 1:08:28Speaker 1: Like, women are catty.
- 1:08:30Speaker 3: These guys are being catty with the women that they
- 1:08:33Speaker 3: have on these platforms.
- 1:08:34Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:08:35Speaker 1: And are you?
- 1:08:35Speaker 5: Yeah, I be seeing a lot of that. Tapsa, what's
- 1:08:37Speaker 5: some of your... What's some of... Before I get to rapping,
- 1:08:39Speaker 5: what's some of your.
- 1:08:41Speaker 2: What don't I like in a man? Is that what
- 1:08:43Speaker 2: you're asking?
- 1:08:44Speaker 5: What might a man not like in you?
- 1:08:46Speaker 6: Oh.
- 1:08:48Speaker 2: What would they might not like?
- 1:08:49Speaker 5: They love everything about me.
- 1:08:51Speaker 2: What do you mean? I'm confused at the question. Okay, honestly,
- 1:08:54Speaker 2: I think... One thing that a man might not like
- 1:08:59Speaker 2: about me, I can be real slick at the mouth
- 1:09:03Speaker 2: when I get mad.
- 1:09:04Speaker 1: That's black women shit.
- 1:09:06Speaker 2: I'm not as bad as I used to be. I
- 1:09:07Speaker 2: do think, okay, would I like someone to say this
- 1:09:11Speaker 2: to me before I say it? There was a time
- 1:09:14Speaker 2: when I'd be like, that ain't even your motherfucking baby.
- 1:09:17Speaker 2: You know, like, Just really, really like, we arguing over
- 1:09:23Speaker 2: what we going to eat. How did it get this far?
- 1:09:25Speaker 1: You know, like, it's cutting niggas.
- 1:09:30Speaker 2: So, you know, I'm better about it now. I think
- 1:09:33Speaker 2: that's my biggest thing is my slick mouth.
- 1:09:38Speaker 1: Using people's vulnerabilities against them.
- 1:09:40Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:09:41Speaker 5: That's fire.
- 1:09:43Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:09:44Speaker 3: That's good.
- 1:09:45Speaker 2: Other than that, I'm like a homie with my man. Like,
- 1:09:49Speaker 2: we be like homies. And sometimes I guess that's to
- 1:09:51Speaker 2: a flaw because they get too familiar sometimes. Yes. Mm-hmm.
- 1:09:57Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 1:09:57Speaker 2: I'm like, okay.
- 1:09:58Speaker 5: They get to get too comfortable.
- 1:10:00Speaker 1: Baby, don't you get too comfortable?
- 1:10:03Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:10:04Speaker 5: Right.
- 1:10:05Speaker 2: Yeah, like, my last relationship, like, you know, I said
- 1:10:09Speaker 2: I was a very submissive woman when I'm with a man. Like,
- 1:10:11Speaker 2: I like to cater to and serve. On Sundays, football Sunday,
- 1:10:16Speaker 2: he'd be like, Sunday, I'm watching football all day. Don't
- 1:10:19Speaker 2: bother me, really, right? And that's cool, you know, that's
- 1:10:21Speaker 2: your thing, because I'm going to want you to watch
- 1:10:23Speaker 2: Housewives with me, you know, on Tuesday night. So that's fine.
- 1:10:27Speaker 2: But he got to the point where he'd be drinking
- 1:10:29Speaker 2: his beer, and then when he finished his beer, he'd
- 1:10:31Speaker 2: just hold a, hey, babe, and hold a bottle up
- 1:10:34Speaker 2: in the air and shake it. Nigga, is that how
- 1:10:38Speaker 2: you ask for something?
- 1:10:39Speaker 1: Is that how you ask for something?
- 1:10:41Speaker 2: Is that what we have where you just hold a
- 1:10:43Speaker 2: bottle in the air and shake it like I'm some
- 1:10:44Speaker 2: fucking servant?
- 1:10:46Speaker 3: I can't stand somebody say, I need you to. That
- 1:10:49Speaker 3: gets on my nerves. You don't need me to do shit.
- 1:10:51Speaker 3: You need to ask me to do something. I need
- 1:10:55Speaker 3: you to go down to the store and up.
- 1:10:57Speaker 2: No.
- 1:11:00Speaker 3: That's when the obeyship got me fucked up because you'd
- 1:11:03Speaker 3: be able to say, I need you to such and such. No,
- 1:11:05Speaker 3: that's not how you ask another adult to do anything.
- 1:11:08Speaker 2: To do something. I don't mind saying I need you
- 1:11:12Speaker 2: to do something. It's just no words at all, just
- 1:11:14Speaker 2: holding shit up in the air and shaking it like
- 1:11:16Speaker 2: I'm a fucking puppy. Like, no, I don't like that.
- 1:11:20Speaker 2: So it can be a slippery slope when you are
- 1:11:22Speaker 2: submissive to a man and he just goes too far
- 1:11:26Speaker 2: with it. Yeah, take advantage of it.
- 1:11:28Speaker 5: Yeah, that's just a raggedy nigga, though. You know what
- 1:11:33Speaker 5: I'm saying? Niggas want to take advantage of it. You know,
- 1:11:36Speaker 5: take anybody's kindness for weakness.
- 1:11:37Speaker 4: It's like, Who the fuck is holding an empty beer
- 1:11:40Speaker 4: and talking about bags?
- 1:11:41Speaker 7: Just shaking it.
- 1:11:43Speaker 2: Shaking it in the air. Y'all tell everybody where they
- 1:11:47Speaker 2: can find you, where they can follow you, what you're into,
- 1:11:49Speaker 2: like what you're doing next. Tell everybody that.
- 1:11:53Speaker 4: You can follow me at The Price, T-H-E-P-R-I-C-E on Instagram.
- 1:12:01Speaker 4: Website is clrdent.com. We going crazy with these I Am
- 1:12:06Speaker 4: A Generational Cure videos. It's our latest merch drop. I
- 1:12:11Speaker 4: wrote a book late last year that's called Generational Cures.
- 1:12:17Speaker 4: We all are generational cures, so that's what we pushing heavy.
- 1:12:19Speaker 4: I go on tour October with my homie Carter Dufresne,
- 1:12:25Speaker 4: which is going to be pretty sick for about a month.
- 1:12:27Speaker 5: And in a week and a half, or.
- 1:12:31Speaker 4: On the 25th of September, I don't know when this airs,
- 1:12:33Speaker 4: but the 25th, I mean of August, I'm dropping a
- 1:12:35Speaker 4: single called Mansa Musa with.
- 1:12:37Speaker 6: The Hamilton pain.
- 1:12:38Speaker 5: So I'm excited about that. Yeah. So we working though.
- 1:12:41Speaker 4: We just talking our shit and living life.
- 1:12:44Speaker 2: All right.
- 1:12:44Speaker 1: That's good.
- 1:12:45Speaker 2: Y'all follow price and check out his thing.
- 1:12:50Speaker 7: Um, you can find me on IG. Vlad underscore P.
- 1:12:55Speaker 8: VLAD underscore P I V E R G R.
- 1:12:59Speaker 7: And you guys know Taylor, right?
- 1:13:01Speaker 8: So, Taylor, you know, I'm trying to get more into
- 1:13:04Speaker 8: her producing bag.
- 1:13:04Speaker 7: So, me and her are going to work on a
- 1:13:06Speaker 7: film that a friend of mine wrote.
- 1:13:08Speaker 6: Oh, wow.
- 1:13:09Speaker 5: It's pretty good.
- 1:13:10Speaker 8: So, you'll see more Taylor and me more behind the
- 1:13:13Speaker 8: scenes producing film projects.
- 1:13:16Speaker 2: Okay, I want to audition for a role.
- 1:13:17Speaker 7: I got you. I got you. I'll send you the script.
- 1:13:22Speaker 2: Okay, yeah.
- 1:13:23Speaker 5: Hey, Vlad, man. You know how to speak French, man?
- 1:13:25Speaker 8: Yeah, I speak Creole more than French. So, French is
- 1:13:28Speaker 8: like a little bit, you know, proper. Creole is like
- 1:13:30Speaker 8: the more, you know, spoken dialect. So me, I speak
- 1:13:33Speaker 8: Creole fluently.
- 1:13:35Speaker 4: How many, how many before you was married, you didn't
- 1:13:37Speaker 4: crack off the Creole or the French?
- 1:13:39Speaker 6: Time to go, Vlad.
- 1:13:40Speaker 5: Time to go, Vlad.
- 1:13:41Speaker 7: To be continued.
- 1:13:42Speaker 2: To be continued.
- 1:13:50Speaker 5: I appreciate this build.
- 1:13:51Speaker 4: I appreciate y'all considering me and having me on your platform.
- 1:13:54Speaker 5: And in your space.
- 1:13:55Speaker 2: No, we appreciate you. This was really good. This was
- 1:13:57Speaker 2: a really good conversation. I'm glad y'all came on.
- 1:14:00Speaker 5: Yes, we appreciate you guys.
- 1:14:01Speaker 7: Thanks for having us. I appreciate it.
- 1:14:03Speaker 2: All right, y'all.
- 1:14:04Speaker 5: Y'all keep killing it, man. Look forward to seeing more
- 1:14:07Speaker 5: of what y'all do.
- 1:14:08Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 1:14:09Speaker 3: All right, guys. Listen, if you enjoyed this episode, please
- 1:14:12Speaker 3: tune in every Thursday on the iHeartRadio app or wherever
- 1:14:15Speaker 3: the fuck you get your podcast at.
- 1:14:17Speaker 1: That's your girl AJ Holiday 2.0. Y'all follow me on Instagram.
- 1:14:20Speaker 1: What's up, Tam?
- 1:14:21Speaker 2: Y'all, it's official Tam Bam. Y'all follow me on Instagram.
- 1:14:24Speaker 2: Remember to speak now.
- 1:14:26Speaker 1: And never hold your peace.
- 1:14:29Speaker 5: Deuces.