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122: No Parts 2025 - Extra Parts · Wine & Audacity

• 0:04
  Speaker 1: New Week, Part two of No Parts twenty twenty five.
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  Speaker 2: We're back New Week, New Fuckery.
• 0:10
  Speaker 1: Well it's the same fuckory. It's just continue. We talked
• 0:13
  Speaker 1: so goddamn on this episode. We just had to split
• 0:15
  Speaker 1: it into two separate parts.
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  Speaker 3: Yep, yeah, it got crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Love and happiness. Indeed, yeah, text at the end of
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  Speaker 1: the episode.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, hap, wait a minute, something's going wrong.
• 0:38
  Speaker 1: Here go the theme music.
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  Speaker 3: Mm hmmm.
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  Speaker 4: It's like a lot of like a lot of places,
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  Speaker 4: a lot of places.
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  Speaker 3: That you frequent that you might have frequented.
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  Speaker 4: It was like, you know, like what Shanna said, it
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  Speaker 4: may have like good memories to it, and then it's
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  Speaker 4: like you're gone.
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  Speaker 3: Then it's just a shell sell what it was or
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  Speaker 3: it's just gone. It has gone completely.
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  Speaker 4: So it's like gentrification, and I mean just just change
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  Speaker 4: in general. It's like, yeah, changes, and like change is inevitable,
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  Speaker 4: but sometimes yeah, it's like sometimes like it's it's hard.
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  Speaker 4: And just imagine them coming out of jail, and you know,
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  Speaker 4: it's like I remember when, I remember when, and now.
• 1:39
  Speaker 1: There's an apple store, Like okay, that's the street sign,
• 1:44
  Speaker 1: that's the same, but why is there a jumper juice right?
• 1:50
  Speaker 1: Like where the fuck did this hocken Dos come from?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, why is this here?
• 1:55
  Speaker 1: I got me some overpres.
• 1:59
  Speaker 2: Rotten almost was just like that, like that little a
• 2:02
  Speaker 2: little like that little when you when you go out
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  Speaker 2: there with them, you know, anything's still familiar. It's the
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  Speaker 2: movie and now out there and it's just like Foundry
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  Speaker 2: Road that used to be it was a solo cut.
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  Speaker 2: My grandmother worked at that solo cup factory for years.
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  Speaker 2: My grandma worked there and so it's so weird right
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  Speaker 2: out there now. Yeah, it's the whole Foundry Road. Like
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, it's a mission bbque out in.
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  Speaker 1: Remember you were growing up. Something that happened ja a
• 2:31
  Speaker 1: while ago. Remember there used to be out music in
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  Speaker 1: ons Mills. Music Fair Road used to be a skating
• 2:36
  Speaker 1: ring back there. I forgot about that where the BJ's is.
• 2:40
  Speaker 1: The b J has been there for about twenty years now,
• 2:41
  Speaker 1: but before it was a BJ's used to it used
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  Speaker 1: to be a.
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  Speaker 2: Skating I forgot all up. I forgot all about that.
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  Speaker 1: And before that it was a concert venue was called
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  Speaker 1: I think Painter's Meal music Fair That's why the name
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  Speaker 1: music Fair Road came from. Because it used to be
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  Speaker 1: a conservant. You back in the seventies. He said, a
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  Speaker 1: lot of artists used to come.
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  Speaker 2: Oh then that I didn't know before.
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  Speaker 1: I think before the Baltimore Arena was opened. It was finished,
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  Speaker 1: they opened that, and a lot of big like artists
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  Speaker 1: to come before at that at the amphitheat.
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  Speaker 2: Oh wow, Yeah, I didn't know that. I do remember
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  Speaker 2: the but I distinctly, uh vaguely remember the skating ring. Yeah, baby,
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  Speaker 2: that didn't last long. There's something else now, m m,
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  Speaker 2: it's it's that building been for sales since they closed
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  Speaker 2: Hot Skates before COVID, right.
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  Speaker 1: I think before.
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  Speaker 2: I think it might have been befo COVID, because there
• 3:32
  Speaker 2: was always something happening in there. It was a mess.
• 3:34
  Speaker 2: I did one of the trade parties there years ago,
• 3:36
  Speaker 2: of course, and uh yeah, they would look ghetto smitch,
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  Speaker 2: there's a little ghatto and there was always something happening there.
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  Speaker 2: And then after that girl allegedly was allegedly sexually assaulted
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  Speaker 2: in there in the bathroom, they went, they they went
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  Speaker 2: downhill shortly after that, because that wasn't the only incident.
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  Speaker 2: It was that it was uh somehow it was getting
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  Speaker 2: in weapons and stuff. It was crazy skating to a
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  Speaker 2: skating rink yeah, it was. It was bad because I
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  Speaker 2: don't think security was checking. They weren't checking people. They
• 4:08
  Speaker 2: it was fights. It was bad, and I was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: my kid didn't come back up and we went early,
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  Speaker 2: of course during the day when I did his party, but.
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  Speaker 1: I was remember us skate Land Orchard close. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: think they just the businesses started going because people stopped
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  Speaker 1: going skating.
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  Speaker 2: The only one that's still open is the one. It's
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  Speaker 2: one skate unless it closed recently, but I think it's one.
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  Speaker 2: That's only one that's still open. Yeah, Putty open six
• 4:41
  Speaker 2: and apparently North north Point is still open. And when
• 4:45
  Speaker 2: Dune Dog is still open. I forgot about that one.
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  Speaker 1: Skate lane North Point over there before neither.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe I'm going to Dundalg.
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  Speaker 1: It's so funny. It's the thing about Baltimore. You're from
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  Speaker 1: a certain side of town, you stay on your side
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  Speaker 1: of town. I don't venture the Dune.
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  Speaker 2: It's funny because I don't actually Middle River. I actually
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  Speaker 2: interview for a job in that area, and when I
• 5:15
  Speaker 2: put the address in it, I see what it's that.
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  Speaker 2: I said. I had to come on here every day.
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  Speaker 1: Merrit Boulevards driving past Martin State Airport every goddamn day. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't tell you once you get me past like
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  Speaker 1: I know, like I've said before on this podcast, I
• 5:37
  Speaker 1: know when Morgan State is, I know where Valentinos is.
• 5:41
  Speaker 1: Once you get past Valentino's, I don't know ship about I.
• 5:45
  Speaker 2: Still have to sometimes put stuff in my GPS to
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  Speaker 2: go to certain areas in town because I was like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know about this.
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  Speaker 1: How about living in d C for so long. It's
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  Speaker 1: close to home. But I've lived in d C enough
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  Speaker 1: for that sort of like generational generational turnover to occur
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  Speaker 1: to be able to see.
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  Speaker 2: It was the younger generation now.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but not just that, Like places like when I
• 6:08
  Speaker 1: moved to d C. When I started going to DC
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  Speaker 1: in twenty eleven, twenty twelve, there were restaurants and bars
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  Speaker 1: that were open and places to go and you know,
• 6:16
  Speaker 1: everything of the sort. And even when I moved down
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  Speaker 1: there in twenty thirteen, we had our little set of places.
• 6:21
  Speaker 1: We were going on H Street. Places, we were still
• 6:23
  Speaker 1: go on U Street places like you know that were
• 6:28
  Speaker 1: that was the spots to hang out. And now what
• 6:31
  Speaker 1: I started going to DC and twenty eleven, so fourteen
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  Speaker 1: years later, H Street is totally gentrified. Places I used
• 6:38
  Speaker 1: to go before the pandemic have long been closed for years.
• 6:41
  Speaker 1: Stadium closed, which I just found out literally three months ago.
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  Speaker 1: A month ago. Stadium fucking closed. Love has been gone
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  Speaker 1: for a year.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Love been gone for years.
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  Speaker 1: But that was City Winery in DC. But City Winery
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  Speaker 1: has been closed at this point for two or three years.
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  Speaker 2: Oh so Love, I didn't know that.
• 6:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they took over.
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  Speaker 2: It was and that city.
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  Speaker 1: I think the owner claimed it was an issue with
• 7:03
  Speaker 1: like crime and stuff in the neighborhood. He said he
• 7:06
  Speaker 1: was going to look for parksto definitely park. That place
• 7:10
  Speaker 1: is park. Park ain't gonna close no times. But I
• 7:15
  Speaker 1: remember when I first started going to d C and
• 7:16
  Speaker 1: was hanging out on H Street, going to places like
• 7:18
  Speaker 1: Whole Red Rocks, Red Rocks, and you said, I gotta
• 7:23
  Speaker 1: say say my best my DC red Rocks, red Rocks.
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  Speaker 1: But so when I used to go down to.
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  Speaker 2: Uh H Street, kill Mouth, kill Mouth, me.
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  Speaker 1: And my brothers used to be down there, you know,
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  Speaker 1: just like chilling and ship and it was it was
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  Speaker 1: such a good time. Please please, And then I used
• 7:55
  Speaker 1: to say chill, chill out, slim. But I used to
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  Speaker 1: go down to A Street. I used to go get
• 8:00
  Speaker 1: my shoes from the details d C L R on
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  Speaker 1: H Street. We used to stop by the Murray's in
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  Speaker 1: the same shop of center.
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  Speaker 2: Man, that nigga from d C. Fuck, is you mean shorty?
• 8:09
  Speaker 1: Like you a Bama mo?
• 8:11
  Speaker 2: What what is you talking about?
• 8:13
  Speaker 1: Mother's MoU Anyway, that hurt to talk like that.
• 8:17
  Speaker 2: He's a fucking dummy, yoga dum se.
• 8:20
  Speaker 1: Dump getting dump fucking dummy. Oh my god. But to
• 8:24
  Speaker 1: see like it was, like, is that a compliment?
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  Speaker 2: Depends on how they say it.
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  Speaker 3: What's that dummy?
• 8:29
  Speaker 1: It is dummy?
• 8:30
  Speaker 2: It is dummy. I said, I'm close to forty. I
• 8:32
  Speaker 2: don't talk like I don't speak and I don't speak
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  Speaker 2: in those terms.
• 8:36
  Speaker 1: I don't we'll talk about we'll talk about R and
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  Speaker 1: B or rhythm and bullets a little.
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  Speaker 2: Bit, not rhythm bullets?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Why and R and B? Yeah yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But to see like places I used to go, like
• 8:51
  Speaker 1: I said, Red Rocks on H on A Street. A
• 8:53
  Speaker 1: lot of those places like Taylor gour May. I think
• 8:55
  Speaker 1: Tailor go May is so open, But it used to
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  Speaker 1: be a whole stretch of spots like black Spot and
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't gentrified. But now there's a whole full Ah Street,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of those places that where they have either
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  Speaker 1: closed or just like moved a lot of apartment buildings
• 9:09
  Speaker 1: on the street now that it's fully gentrified.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, it's weird. Confirmed, it's really weird.
• 9:15
  Speaker 2: It's really weird. So look, we went on that, We
• 9:21
  Speaker 2: went on a tirade, but just basically to go back
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  Speaker 2: to what we've been saying about the stroll. For them
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  Speaker 2: to go down there and see what it once was
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  Speaker 2: and what it is now had to be like a
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  Speaker 2: culture shock kind of thing for them.
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  Speaker 1: It's a shock for us in general sense.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so I can imagine. But it appears that
• 9:38
  Speaker 2: a lot of them who they interviewed are doing better
• 9:40
  Speaker 2: in life and stuff, and I applaud them for that.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not one to judge people based on how they
• 9:45
  Speaker 2: live their life. It ain't none of my fucking business.
• 9:47
  Speaker 2: One question that I tend to ask people now is
• 9:49
  Speaker 2: how does that affect you? How does their sexuality affect you?
• 9:53
  Speaker 2: The way they carry themselves. Yeah, we're going and and
• 9:57
  Speaker 2: my my jokes in my laughter is you reversal so
• 10:01
  Speaker 2: you can be trained straight gay Bye black white, purple.
• 10:05
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna crack jokes just because crack jokes. If you're
• 10:08
  Speaker 2: looking back at you're looking back, that's just the the justice.
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  Speaker 2: But it's dangerous to yeah, yeah, yeah, you have to
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  Speaker 2: be very I know it, but you have to be
• 10:23
  Speaker 2: very careful. So I'm not gonna walk up to somebody
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  Speaker 2: and say some ship. But we might joke among you know,
• 10:29
  Speaker 2: joke amongst ourselves some ship, like I said, like Beyonce
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  Speaker 2: concentcy baby. I seen some sights, but I kept it
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  Speaker 2: amongst my little circle, like what the hell is going
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  Speaker 2: on right now here?
• 10:39
  Speaker 3: You know what?
• 10:40
  Speaker 2: And it wasn't just that. It wasn't just the LGBTQ.
• 10:43
  Speaker 2: It was not. It was everybody. They hit it on
• 10:46
  Speaker 2: some outfits, Hon and you and me somebody. But the
• 10:50
  Speaker 2: point you were making about what were you saying? What
• 10:53
  Speaker 2: was what I was trying to make is the whole
• 10:57
  Speaker 2: culture shock things I got off, got off, But I
• 11:02
  Speaker 2: don't know, that's not the point I was making. The
• 11:03
  Speaker 2: point I was making about the fact that they have
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  Speaker 2: all grown and gotten to other things, and now they're
• 11:09
  Speaker 2: no longer it appears that they are no longer doing
• 11:11
  Speaker 2: what they were doing when they were on the stroll.
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  Speaker 2: So that's always good to see that, you know, they've
• 11:17
  Speaker 2: changed their lives, but to see the way it affected them.
• 11:20
  Speaker 2: The one guy, what's the ball the ball head? The
• 11:23
  Speaker 2: ball head got ahead the sparkly jacket on Or I
• 11:25
  Speaker 2: can't remember his name, but he got really emotional when
• 11:29
  Speaker 2: they were down there talking, Yeah, because he remembered what
• 11:33
  Speaker 2: once was and what they once had to do. So
• 11:37
  Speaker 2: he got really really emotional at that point. But it
• 11:43
  Speaker 2: was it was a very informal, informative documentary. It showed
• 11:52
  Speaker 2: you a lot of things that you may not have
• 11:54
  Speaker 2: known about. Yeah, so his.
• 11:58
  Speaker 4: Here's something that like I've been thinking about since, you know,
• 12:01
  Speaker 4: like since all the ship like you know, like the
• 12:03
  Speaker 4: like the dedication all that ship coming out and how
• 12:06
  Speaker 4: and then how a lot of people were you know
• 12:09
  Speaker 4: a lot of people, I mean a lot of trans
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  Speaker 4: people are being you know, like they've been injured.
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  Speaker 3: For being honest.
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  Speaker 4: And I think, I think, I think the thing that
• 12:18
  Speaker 4: kind of about this man is like, Yo, you're vibing
• 12:20
  Speaker 4: with you vibing with this woman that you think is
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  Speaker 4: a woman that you're attracted to as a that you
• 12:24
  Speaker 4: are attracted to because she's feminine presenting m and then
• 12:30
  Speaker 4: when they stop, you and tell you like, hey, look,
• 12:33
  Speaker 4: this is before we go as far. Let me tell you,
• 12:36
  Speaker 4: and I think my thing is yo, they being honest
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  Speaker 4: with you. Let that ship rock.
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  Speaker 2: That's how I feel like you make a decision right there,
• 12:43
  Speaker 2: and they know this ain't what I'm into, but to
• 12:45
  Speaker 2: want to hurt them, and they were honest with you.
• 12:47
  Speaker 2: I can see if it went on for months and
• 12:49
  Speaker 2: years and then they told you actually read a story
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  Speaker 2: like that where they got married and she had it
• 12:55
  Speaker 2: was she was a transiender woman and she had him
• 12:58
  Speaker 2: under the impression that she just couldn't have children. She
• 13:00
  Speaker 2: didn't tell him that she was previously born a male.
• 13:04
  Speaker 1: You know, I don't in this day and age. I'm
• 13:07
  Speaker 1: sorry I called bullshit on that, because baby, you didn't
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  Speaker 1: have been in some kouchie before.
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  Speaker 2: I said the same you know, honestly, I said the
• 13:16
  Speaker 2: same thing. I thought the same thing, and I was like,
• 13:18
  Speaker 2: how did you not? You know? No, because they said
• 13:20
  Speaker 2: it really does. It feels different when they actually get
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: the full on. I watched an actual video of the
• 13:28
  Speaker 2: surgery get done and how they have to maintain it
• 13:30
  Speaker 2: and all that stuff like that. So I don't understand
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: how they claim not to know, you know, by the
• 13:37
  Speaker 2: time you've laid down, you know. But yeah, they got
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  Speaker 2: married and everything, and.
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  Speaker 3: He later on.
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  Speaker 2: I forgot how he found out. The husband found out
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: exactly like you know, but it was bad. It was
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  Speaker 2: really really bad. He ended up hurting her, really really bad.
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  Speaker 2: But he claimed he didn't know.
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  Speaker 1: I called bullshit.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, he didn't know person like personally speaking or
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  Speaker 4: that that that ship don't that doesn't make it, don't
• 14:05
  Speaker 4: make no, it don't make it look of sense because
• 14:07
  Speaker 4: like Briandon said, just like, hey, yo, I'm sorry my niga.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 4: That's how the point that I mean is the condor
• 14:17
  Speaker 4: come off, you know, saying you're saying us coming by nigga.
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  Speaker 2: But it goes back to the point that I was
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: making earlier that a lot of their biggest customers were
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: download men and men who were identified yeah, identified street
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: and were feeling it's a lot men who feel like
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: if they messing with a transgender woman, it doesn't make
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: them gay. And why I can't tell people how to
• 14:49
  Speaker 2: think personally, I don't understand that. But don't you understand
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: that they feel like if they messed with somebody who's
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: transgender day, they are still straight because their person identifies
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: as a woman, but naturally that person was born male.
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: So about how a person was born out of curiosity,
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: I'm wondering how I.
• 15:13
  Speaker 4: Think it's that they, I mean, because they Victoria Daddy.
• 15:19
  Speaker 4: Victoria Daddy says that, you know, the guys that approach
• 15:22
  Speaker 4: her or say something about you know, say something about.
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: Her, she she still got her male parts.
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but she.
• 15:29
  Speaker 4: Presents us off as a female. The dude is attracted
• 15:32
  Speaker 4: to that, he's attracted to the well he thinks two women. Yeah,
• 15:35
  Speaker 4: he's attracted to the woman. He's attracted to the woman.
• 15:38
  Speaker 4: And that's usually I mean, but that that's usually the
• 15:40
  Speaker 4: justifications like like you know, you're attract you're only attracted
• 15:44
  Speaker 4: to her because she looks like a beautiful woman, right,
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  Speaker 4: So it's like I understand, I mean you I mean,
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  Speaker 4: that's that's that's sort of like, you know, the justification
• 15:54
  Speaker 4: of why they why they feel like they're not gay
• 15:56
  Speaker 4: because they.
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: Attract to the woman.
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: They're not attracted to there not day not attracted to.
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  Speaker 3: Like if now if she was look different, it had
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: been ad be a different.
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  Speaker 4: So when he when he blink, when he like when
• 16:08
  Speaker 4: he blink twice, you know what I mean, but you
• 16:11
  Speaker 4: know you got this, you know you got this, You
• 16:13
  Speaker 4: got this beautiful woman tit these us and it's like,
• 16:17
  Speaker 4: you know.
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  Speaker 3: Like damn.
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  Speaker 2: But then what happens when they start masking with her
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: and she's she still has her male parts though, I.
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  Speaker 1: Mean, it's at that point it's up to the man
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  Speaker 1: to decide whether they want to deal with this woman
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: who has male parts or if whether or not they
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: want to that's that's them. But so I think it's
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: important in this instance. And I'm not sure if y'all
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: saw the clip that went not semi viral, but it
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: was posted around social media this past week of you
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: know who, Vania's I share clip. Sometimes she does parking,
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: lot of pimping and million So she was on the
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. She she is pro black. She talks about
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: a lot of black issues, a lot of issues surroundom women,
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: LGBTQ people, and she made up she was talking about
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: like dating and trying to find a partner who is
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: using the actual definition of the term woke or who
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: is at least aware of societal issues and societal concerns.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: Just hilarious interjected and she basically says something to the
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: effect of, yeah, well, I also want you to find
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: a man who knows that only women can have children.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: I've seen. It was a lot of controversy behind her.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: It came out of nowhere because she it was eye context.
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: It had nothing to do with nothing. They weren't talking
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: about that. So for her to just come out and
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: say that for that or they give just hilarious, don't you.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: They gave a donkey a week for it, rightfully so,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: because there was no reason for her to bring it.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: But she tends to say a lot of things that
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: are problematic, is all him very problematic? Yeah, very very
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: problem But this is not the first time she's been
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: her feet have been held to the filure.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: Lene she I'm not sure she meant to have that.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: It's some sort of like your moment or whatever it was.
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: What have to do with the price of tea in China,
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: nothing at all.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: But the line. I'm not sure if it's line or
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: my name. My apologies for mispronouncing her name. We're not
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: show not being sure of the correct pronunciation of her name,
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: because call people what their names are. Absolutely, she brought
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: up a very interesting point, and she when Jess made
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: the comment out of left field. She looked and said, well,
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: not only women can have children. There are people other
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: than women who can have children. And just was like no,
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: and they just kind of made a face at her,
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: and she said and line went on to explain that
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: you can be biological, biologically biologically female and have a
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: uterus and have children, but not every biological female identifies
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: as a woman.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, I'll get what you're saying.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: Because there are trans men who can have they can
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: still still have children, but they identify as transmn. So
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: that means you see, in cases of that transmen, you
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: can be pregnant, especially if they don't have the bottom surgery. Yes,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: and they still have all of their female parts. They
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: can still. But I saw a case like they carry
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: and give birth.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: To children where the it was a male to female
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: and a female male and they were married to each other.
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: And because the male to females, i mean the female
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: to male still had all their parts, he carried their
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: their child. So I saw a case like that one.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: Oh God, what was I watching? I don't know, you know,
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: I'm always watching some ship always come across something. So
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: I get with with man right was saying.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: That's that's essentially the overarching point, right, It's about there
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: is a difference between female and women and male and
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: male and man, the terms women and man and y'all
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: for we only have like fifty listeners. Hey, y'all. But
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: if you don't care about this, so you think I'm
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: talking bullshit, respond and I'll respond to you my dan
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: self on my own personal accounts. There is a difference
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: between sex and gender. Gender is a social construct about
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: outward appearance. Sex is about the organs you were born with.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: You can be in the instance of people in this room,
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: Aaron and our were born biologically male, and we present
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: as males or what society deems males to look as,
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: dressed as present as so and so forth. But there
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: are biological males who may dress in women's clothing, who
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: may undergo gender reassignment surgery, who may identify as women.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: They are still biological males, but they will be considered trands.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: In that instance.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: You also have biological males who feel that they aren't
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: a part of a gender binary they don't fit, or
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: they fit in between both, where they may have some
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: things that may be attributed to in some features that
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: may be attributed to mess so they fall they're considered
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: non binary.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Okay, I was about to ask you if that's where.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: You have both, or you don't consider yourself to be
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: a part of either. That's where the non binary part
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: comes in the same thing with women or biological females.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: You could be biological female and identify as a woman,
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: as a man, or as non binary. They aren't. In
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: a lot of instances they are one and the same,
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: but in some instances they aren't. And I think we
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: do ourselves a disservice when people attempt to have these
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: have takes without nuance, because you end up looking like
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: just hilarious, which is fucking foolish on fucking national radio
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: on an international platform. Because you don't know what words me.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: Sometimes it's best to shut the fuck up. That's where
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: I was going with it. Yeah, leave it all, because
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: I'm going to ask questions a out of curiosity, not
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: to offend anybody, not to hurt anybody's feelings. I genuinely
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: want to know because if becoming telling you identify as
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: a treat in your treat, I who am I to
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: tell you who you who? I can't do that. I
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: can't you cannot do that, And again, how does that
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: affect my life personally? Why do I have to feel
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: some type of way about it? Why do I want
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: to correct you? I don't have that right. That's not
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: my People take having the right to your opinion too
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: far sometimes, I.
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: Mean, everybody opinions are like us, everybody opinion.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: But when you use your opinion about how you think
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: things should go as the end, all be off of everybody,
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: everything and everybody, leave it alone, let it.
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: Go, that's where But no, but that's what that's what
• 22:41
  Speaker 4: that's what always happens. That's what always happens. I feel,
• 22:45
  Speaker 4: I mean, I feel like that's where you know, that's
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: all like all the groups and ship, like all the
• 22:48
  Speaker 4: groups and ship come from because you got some people
• 22:50
  Speaker 4: who you got people who think this way, and then
• 22:52
  Speaker 4: people who think this way, and then now all of
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: us are arguing why the way I think, you know,
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: the way I is the correct way? That or which
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: and nobody, you know, everybody's trying to everybodys s trying
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: to trying to argue.
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: It's down up or it's up down.
• 23:04
  Speaker 4: So it's like like Seanna said, Yo, you could just
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: shut the fuck up and leave it alone. Like what
• 23:11
  Speaker 4: they eat don't make you ship. But I mean, and
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: that's I mean, but that's that's what that's That was
• 23:19
  Speaker 4: the point. That was the point that I was shaying.
• 23:21
  Speaker 4: That was the point that I was trying to I
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: was bringing up as far as like, yo, if you
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: if you're dealing with this person and they come out
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: and they tell you like, oh, before we go any further,
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: I'm this, and it's like.
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: You have a choice. You you They're they're giving you
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: a choice to be like, that's not my thing. You know,
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: you're beautiful.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: I think we vibe.
• 23:44
  Speaker 4: That's cool, but I just I'm like, I'm not, like,
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not into that. And you you walk off,
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: everybody walk off respectfully. But then but most of the times,
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: it's like, you know, niggas get their fail niggas get
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: they they they pride her, the ego hurt, and it's
• 24:02
  Speaker 4: like then they feel some kind of way because they
• 24:05
  Speaker 4: insecure with that.
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: Uh.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: It makes a question their sexuality, their identity as a person.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: But again it goes into being attracted to whether you're
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: attracted to men. Again, separating the terms male from man
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: and woman from female, right, it goes into you being
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: attracted to a woman. If you see somebody in front
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: of you that's beautiful, has a womanly shape or what
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: we consider to be a womanly shaped as breast has hips,
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: has asked, she has makeup done, her hair is beautiful.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: You are attracted to the appearance. Whether or not the
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: appearance matches what's in their pants, because I don't want
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: to say her or his, depending on how that person
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: identifies or their pants is secondary to the fact that
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: you are attracted to what you.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: See what initially, And it goes back to people saying
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: that they're not a trait about not being attracted to
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: people's physical appearance. That's not true. That's the first thing
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: you say. You don't see somebody's personality first, that's not
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: what you see. You see their physical appearance with your
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: eyes can see. So people who are saying, oh, I'm
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: not attracted to people by appearance, No, that's your initial
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: attraction unless you have never seen that person in person,
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: if you've only spoken to them on the phone or
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: met him on the internet, if you never physically seen
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: that person, then yeah, you made that. Happened with my
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: son's father. I hadn't seen my son's father until our
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: first date. We met, we got introduced, we got introduced
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: to a family member, and I didn't see him until
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: our first day because back then we didn't have all
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: the smartphones and all of that smart you know, like
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: that was just coming out, so we ain't have camera
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: phones so we could send pictures and all that other stuff.
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: I didn't physically see him until our first day. You're
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: so stupid, but being dead asked this is why I
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: asked questions walking around being ignorant, That's why I asked questions.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: I appreciate.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: I appreciate because some.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: People don't do they They just rather stick with their
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: ignorance because that's what they.
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: No Not necessarily the ignorance, though, but I appreciate the
• 26:02
  Speaker 4: way that when you ask you you let them know, like, yo,
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: I ain't trying to look, I ain't trying to but
• 26:08
  Speaker 4: you know.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: This to me. But people, people can tell when you're
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: asking a question out of genuine curiosity, because you you're
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: learning more about whatever is presenting in front of you
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: or situations if you're asking questions. Starcastic, I showed you
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: the videos of Naomi Went Winter, but I think she's
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: she's in the house. Uh uh, miss it's not Miss
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: Rohi but the trans woman. And she goes on, what's that?
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: What's it not? Not not bigo, it's the chat GPT.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: It's an app where you can video chat with random
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: people around the world. O'meagle probably or something like that.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: Yo, I fuck with her, yall.
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, But she a lot of the men that she
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: does videos with, and these are all random characters that she,
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: of course it puts on her YouTube. A lot of
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: those men don't believe that she's trans. They don't believe it.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: She says, trans, how old are you trans?
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: You're talking about talking about to do the little cosplay?
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: And then like she did, she's do cosplay before she's.
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: Deep voice Nigga fucked his whole world.
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: She's she's beautiful.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: She's like twenty twenty three, so she's young, younger than
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: us clearly. But when she tells people when they're having conversations,
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: some of them are genuinely like inquisitive. They ask her
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: questions about, you know, stuff, honestly, but a lot of
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: the men are like, nah, you're not trans. Not stand
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: up real quick.
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that part, it's like, I hate that. I hate
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: that She.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Said no, but trans like it. Yeah, we still have
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of ways to go. But
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: I feel like some people are ignorant and will remain
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: ignorant for the rest of their lives. But I think
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: the starting point to this is simply being educated on
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: correct terminology and respect the people for who the fuck
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: they are.
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: But you know what, Brandon, but to touch on that,
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: like when they when they they be on the chat
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: ship like yo, I.
• 28:04
  Speaker 4: Think I think it's like a lot of a lot
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: of guys don't like to hear no or don't like
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: to hear like if you if you're talking to a
• 28:14
  Speaker 4: beautiful woman and you think you think this woman, you
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: think this one, you think she's bad as fuck, yo,
• 28:18
  Speaker 4: and then it's like she not interested, like clearly she
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: not interested. And then when she stopped, when she says
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: ship like you know, like she's trans, and it's like no,
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: you're not. Now you ain't you ain't tryings and it's like, yo,
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: you you're not. You're basically not taking no for an answer,
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: and then it's like yo, you don't want but you
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: don't want to believe that this woman isn't interesting, Like
• 28:36
  Speaker 4: this woman isn't interested or so she's trying to put
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: you down like she's trying to she's trying to let.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: You know, Like, so, are you trying to say that
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: women being transition interested?
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: No?
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: No, I'm just no what I'm saying that. No, what
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: I'm saying is a lot of guys. I'm saying a
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: lot of guys don't like to. They don't. They don't
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: like to, they don't. It's a I feel like it'd
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: be like an ego thing, like Yo, this beautiful woman
• 28:55
  Speaker 4: and then it's like yo, she says she trans and
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: then it's like, yo, you you know that's not your
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: Jewish Like you know that's not your thing. You know
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: that's not what you went to. However, Yo, you're looking
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: at this woman and it's like, Yo, you can't be
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: you can't.
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: But what does that?
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: What does one?
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: Did you meet?
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: The point it kind of sounds like you're from what
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: I'm gathering from what you're saying, is it sounds like
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: you're trying to make a correlation between women faking being
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: transd because they're not attracted the men. Like, I'm not
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: understanding the connection you're trying to make.
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: You.
• 29:26
  Speaker 4: No, I'm going and I'm going off how you said
• 29:28
  Speaker 4: shortly be like yo, she trys okay, like she's like
• 29:31
  Speaker 4: she's trying, like she's trying, and then the dude looking
• 29:33
  Speaker 4: at her like, no, you're not. And it's like what
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: I'm saying is like I disliked that. It's like, Yo,
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: you're not taking a person that. You're not taking a
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: person that at face value for what they're saying, but
• 29:41
  Speaker 4: you but you want it. But yo, you're you're you
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: want them to prove it. And it's like yo, and
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: it's like, Yo, that that's I mean, that's that's one
• 29:50
  Speaker 4: I mean to me, come off like, Yo, that's a rassment.
• 29:53
  Speaker 4: Likes It's like, yo, you you want you want them
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: to prove you know, you want them to prove at
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: the day already take it there like taking the face value,
• 29:58
  Speaker 4: Let it go, taking their face value. Let it go,
• 30:01
  Speaker 4: because at some point, at some point it becomes like
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: at the some point, you becomes a harassment. And now
• 30:06
  Speaker 4: you you know you you you going down the whole
• 30:10
  Speaker 4: now you're going Now you're going down a whole different
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: going down a whole different path because you don't like that,
• 30:14
  Speaker 4: you know, you don't like what you just heard.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: Still not clicking for me. But okay, I mean honestly,
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: what you're saying is not not clicking. You get the
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: point you're trying to meet.
• 30:27
  Speaker 4: No, No, it's you know, it's just like I mean
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: when you said, like when you said when you said, yo,
• 30:31
  Speaker 4: like prove it, like you know, like stand up, like
• 30:34
  Speaker 4: you're talking like they want them like they want them
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: to stand up, and it's like, yo, like yo, you
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: like like you want to like you know, like I said,
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: it just it just rught me wrong, like when I
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: heard like when I see when you know, you see
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: the videos and you hear about it, and then it's like, yo,
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: they say no, they say, they tell you what they are,
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: they tell you what they are, and then it's.
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: Like, yo, yo, I don't believe you, Like I don't
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: believe it.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: You need to prove it.
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: Oh okay. So what you're saying is when it is
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: to the point of where Brandy was just saying about
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: the not what you say her name was Naomi, about
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: Naomi telling these people I'm trains, I'm trains, and you're
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: saying a lot of the times when they are telling
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: these people that they trains, they're telling them, I don't
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: believe you trans. You don't look like you trans. Prove it?
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: Is that what you're trying?
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I hate that ship.
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: So he's saying, like a lot of times when these
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: people are being upfront on us, like Naomi when she's
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: talking to these random people and she's telling them, I'm trans,
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: I'm trains, I'm trains. And sometimes when trans people do that,
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: people are telling them, Oh, I don't believe you. I
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: don't believe you. Need to prove it? And how did
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: I prove it? Do I show you my original birth certificate?
• 31:38
  Speaker 5: Like?
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: Do I show you baby pictures?
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: Like?
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: And then why do I need to prove it? If
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you I'm trans, I'm trains.
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, then and then it always because why would I
• 31:47
  Speaker 4: have to lie about that? And then it always ends,
• 31:49
  Speaker 4: But then then it always ends with stand up.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: But what does it have to do with the original
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: point about women not being interested men? Not women not
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: actually being interested in me? So I got that point,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: but the the initial point you were making, I guess
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: the comparison was when women aren't actually interested in men
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: something something something that you started talking about Naomi.
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: I think the lines got crossed. That's what it sounded
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: like to me, I could be wrong, but it sounds
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: like the lines were getting crossed and what we were
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: actually talking about.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: Would transition into a separate point or was it like
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: you were trying to draw a parallel between women women
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: who aren't actually interested in men, because, like I said earlier,
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: the way it came off to me and put your
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: phone there because you're distracted because you're doing something else,
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: not being fully invested in conversation. Brandon, I don't check it.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: I got to because I tell y'all get off your phones.
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: But I'm sitting on my phone playing the game while
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: I'm talking to y'all clearly saying don't check it out
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: in front of the company.
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: Not in front of company.
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry, trying to be hard. Sorry, No, But the point,
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: I guess what I'm following is you made the comparison
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: or initial point about women not being attracted to men
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: or not really being attracted to men, and then you
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: went into a separate point about people not believe in transwa.
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: I think I kind of I think kind of like
• 33:16
  Speaker 4: suck it up and like sucked it up in my head,
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: and I drive like how could I try to like
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: self correct Okay, you know what I'm saying.
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: Because I'm sitting here, I'm saying like, damn, I said that.
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: Oh ship, Yeah I gleaned from no, no, no, you
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: know what I'm saying. It's like, yeah, I think, like
• 33:28
  Speaker 4: I think, I kind of like one way to kind
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: of like self correct myself to bring it back to
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: don't bring back to the virginal point.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: But I get the point that Shawn explained makes sense
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: when in interest is where you have trans women who
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: tell people who they are front, there are some men
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: or people who don't believe what they say. Even I
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: saw this finest trans man other day.
• 33:44
  Speaker 5: I was like, oh, oh shit, you was a woman
• 33:55
  Speaker 5: or was a okay, yeah.
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: He actually sent me a video on tiktip on tiptop
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: of a trans male and I would have never known,
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: never known until she told me. And I was like,
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: I know you lying because looking male presenting, you would
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: have never known it. At some point. Sometimes you can see,
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: like in the bone structure, especially where it comes to
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: male to female. A lot of times you can tell
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: because of their bone structure and the strong facial features
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: and stuff like that. Other times you can't at all
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: because I've seen plenty. I wouldn't have never freaking known,
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: but we would have all seen.
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: You're saying, We're like, that's a handsome woman.
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: But the same time, they just actually are a handsome women.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: But there are also men who have very soft features.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: So if, if, and when those men with soft features
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: transition into becoming trans women, it makes.
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: They look like their mama's yeah. It looks just like yeah,
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: so they already had the soft features and stuff, so
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: we would that's.
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: A beautiful young man, young young young woman.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: Young woman. Now, But.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Because that's a pretty boy, it's a pretty boy.
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: And that's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying, Charis.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: Okay, Charis, you choose to go about nice to meet.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: I was watching that the people who went to school,
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: be like, let's not talk about them.
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: But I was watching the episode of Judge Manthis and
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: it was a transgender woman on it on there and
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: with her her male friend who who was was gay.
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: And you wouldn't know right away, especially listening to her
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: talk that she used to be male. She just looked
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: like she has strong, you know, kind of strong facial features,
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: you know. And then he was like until they said it,
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: you know what introduction. But then he was like her name,
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: his name is not Mario, Marie. His name is Mario
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: and some some something, And I'm like you saying all
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: of that to say what, why would you do? I
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: felt if it felt it felt really disrespectful. And even
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: Judge Mansis looked at him like, because you know, just
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: Mathus don't do gayslander, you know, with his son being
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: gay and everything, he don't and he had a gay brother,
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: I believe he don't do gayslander. So Uge Manson kind
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: of gave Hm a look like you said it to
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: say what and he was like so, Judge Manson was
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: like is that true? And he was like yes, and
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: he said yes, I'm trained, you know, I'm trans identify
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: as a woman, blah blah blah. And jud Mana said, well,
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't have known til you said something because again
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: looking at her and listening to her voice, she had
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: a very high voice. How her voice was lighter than
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: mine we being perfectly honess, you know, and it didn't
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: sound like forced the fake like it sounded like her
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: natural voice, so I wouldn't known.
• 36:51
  Speaker 4: I also feel like that's disrespectful to you because some
• 36:54
  Speaker 4: girls just look like their daddies. Because what they call it,
• 36:56
  Speaker 4: what they call it like they did, like they did name.
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: They did name you calling you calling that person.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: I think that's rude. Yeah, it's it's you know, you're
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: gonna call me what I told you to call me?
• 37:07
  Speaker 4: Yep, because I mean yeah, because it's like you undermind,
• 37:09
  Speaker 4: like you undermine what I just said, or you're underminding
• 37:12
  Speaker 4: how I introduce myself to you.
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: And that's why I respect you by I'm respect the pronouns,
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: your your aditi, your whatever, the fuck your verbs. I'm
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: a respect whatever because I who the hell am I
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: to tell you who you are? I'm another human being
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: like you. I'm not.
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: Living in the.
• 37:32
  Speaker 4: World like we're living in the world where you could
• 37:34
  Speaker 4: be named any fucking thing. And it's like, even like,
• 37:37
  Speaker 4: even if you don't agree with even if you don't
• 37:39
  Speaker 4: agree what my name is, but call me by my name.
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: I know somebody who her children. She has all girls,
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: and they all have what is considered male names. All
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: three of her children, they have what it's considered male genuinely,
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: uh generally male names. But that's what she chose to
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: name my children.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: That was her right, My cousin Aaron, named her her
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: daughters Corey and Devin.
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: We know I went to school with somebody, a guy
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: named Shannon.
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: I don't know. It's something. It's something something about something
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: sexy about a girl named Corey. I ain't gonna lie,
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: like is it now?
• 38:13
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Like, I don't know, because
• 38:16
  Speaker 4: it's just like you know, it's it's it's red. You know,
• 38:18
  Speaker 4: it's one of the things.
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: It's rare.
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's rare. It's it's it's really really rare. Like
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: nobody like nobody like steps out on that side and.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: Be like, I mean, Taylor daughter is a junior, I
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: mean mine junior.
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: I'm listen, and I'm gonna be honest with you. I
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: ain't never met a girl named Devin.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: That I liked.
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: M I ain't never bet a girl named Devin.
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: I like, I think we went to school with a
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: devon When when we get to the point, one question
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: I'd like to ask people who are so against trans
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: people will get you was named Marcus. So I'm gonna
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: call you markets And I think I've mentioned this before
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: on this on this show.
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: People living in a life of Sintain, but not just
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: that business.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: It's a safe For example, example, you met a guy
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: in his name was Eric Jr. After his father, but
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: he introduced you to himself, and he introduced himself to
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: you as my name is Tony. I go by Tony. Well,
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: your daddy named you Eric, so I'll call you Eric
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: because that's your name. But but but if he explains
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: to you, well, my father was abusive, he beat the
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: ship out of me and my mother. And I don't
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: want to be associated with that nigga, so I go
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: by Tony. Well, you still don't call that person Tony,
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: to call him Eric juniors in his face.
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: Sure.
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: I have a friend who goes by his middle name
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: because he don't like his first name. Yeah, he goes
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: by his middle name because because of any people.
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: Have traumas, and it's not even about like gay, trans
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: by whatever people have. Like you said, trauma's associated with
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: their identities, with their names, and they could want to
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: change their name just for a reason. That is they
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: one they don't have to explain shit to you, and
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: it has nothing to do with you, has a name
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: that they want to go by, called him by their name.
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: I agree.
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: Any final part points or we can.
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: While no no, but I'll say I'll say the point.
• 40:07
  Speaker 4: I'll say this, it was it was part of it
• 40:10
  Speaker 4: was like a hard watch because really, I mean yeah,
• 40:13
  Speaker 4: because for me, I don't I don't like when people
• 40:16
  Speaker 4: just be fucking with niggas just like just just you know,
• 40:19
  Speaker 4: when somebody trying to let their life and you purposely
• 40:21
  Speaker 4: lot and you purposely fucking with them. And then I
• 40:24
  Speaker 4: felt like the police did them wrong, Like after they
• 40:28
  Speaker 4: got the I like, yo, I know what they're doing
• 40:31
  Speaker 4: is wrong. Like I know, I know what they're doing
• 40:33
  Speaker 4: is wrong, and I know that it's the other end,
• 40:35
  Speaker 4: you know me personally, I'm I'm like I'm the I'm
• 40:37
  Speaker 4: the I'm the person that's like, yeah, it's the other
• 40:40
  Speaker 4: ship to do. Other than that, like you could find
• 40:43
  Speaker 4: like you could figure it, like you could figure it out. However,
• 40:46
  Speaker 4: you know, they went in to buying where why nobody
• 40:48
  Speaker 4: trying to fuck with them like they had Lepardy and
• 40:50
  Speaker 4: some ship like they ain't like nobody wanted to nobody
• 40:52
  Speaker 4: wanted to fuck with the fuck with the trance community.
• 40:55
  Speaker 4: They they you know, no chance, no chances, like no chances,
• 40:59
  Speaker 4: no actual chance for no like no real job.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: It was like that for gays as well, where a
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: lot of people consider games to be pedophiles. And yeah,
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: you don't come around my kids. Don't come around my
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: family because you're gonna do something to the kids in
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: the family.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: And it be your nasty as uncle who doing the ship,
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: and it be him.
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: But like I said, and I mean, it was like
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: like old boy, I can't remember I can't remember his
• 41:21
  Speaker 4: name right now, but like trying to say when he
• 41:24
  Speaker 4: when he came out, when he walked the strip, and
• 41:27
  Speaker 4: was like just think remembering like how far they came
• 41:32
  Speaker 4: and the ship that they had to do like that.
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: That was a powerful moment and it's like like, won't
• 41:37
  Speaker 4: gotta do that no more, you know what I mean?
• 41:39
  Speaker 4: Like and then when they when they figured out the
• 41:41
  Speaker 4: Internet ship, I was low key happy, like, yo, see,
• 41:44
  Speaker 4: now y'all can do this shit. You don't got worried
• 41:45
  Speaker 4: about nobody trying to beat your asses in the car.
• 41:48
  Speaker 4: Oh it's the old jump out on y'all. Y'all can
• 41:49
  Speaker 4: y'all You know, y'all safe and control you control, you know,
• 41:52
  Speaker 4: you can control your setting. You can control your setting,
• 41:55
  Speaker 4: and you can yo, you can do the screening that
• 41:57
  Speaker 4: you didn't have to you couldn't do before.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: Yep.
• 42:00
  Speaker 4: So it's like, yeah, I am up the upgrade of
• 42:04
  Speaker 4: the hustle and like, I my I appreciate, you know,
• 42:09
  Speaker 4: I like the fact that the one that one uh,
• 42:11
  Speaker 4: the one lady was like a lot of them don't
• 42:15
  Speaker 4: live past twenty five. And Shorty was like she's sixty,
• 42:21
  Speaker 4: Like she like she's sixty. She made like oh she
• 42:23
  Speaker 4: made it, and that you know, that was that was
• 42:26
  Speaker 4: you know, that was a good moment.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: But think about all the people, all the friends that
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: they've lost, you that's like, think about like the family
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: and the friends and the people that used to work with,
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: the friends they used to live with, and they're just
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: all gone. Yeah that's murdered or died from the aid
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: or other diseases, or you know, they chose to leave
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: and never come back. Like that's it's all jarring.
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, just yeah, just watching like watching them, like watching
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: them reminists about who.
• 42:49
  Speaker 4: Was, who was where, who was doing what where, like
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: where they were walking that and up and down, and
• 42:54
  Speaker 4: it's like and then it's like did the person die
• 42:57
  Speaker 4: or they just not hear or they or they locked
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: up up and it's like, you know, they left, they
• 43:02
  Speaker 4: left it. They left it kind of vague. I mean, yeah,
• 43:04
  Speaker 4: they showed videos. Oh yeah, and Paul sucked me up.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: Paul that you could see the reaction from all the trends.
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: I like that bit Paul came down with that fucking camera.
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. I felt.
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: I felt like I think that was one of the
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: first trains and the people that I ever knew well
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: not and doesn't identify as trains. But I didn't know
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: that at the time when we were younger. I didn't
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: know the.
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: Exact episodeinition of his home boy Yeah, I need some
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: I need some some And she was like came out,
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: was like Mary was like, oh, I don't know you
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: had company, Kevin?
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: He was, no, that was that's you a tall glass
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: of water.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: No, that was Debbie, Debbie Allen's character. And Debbie was like, Kevin,
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: are you and there alone? And he was like, oh
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: what the hell it came out you like came home.
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: It's like, well, I know you had company on't you
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: a talk glass?
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: What?
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, ship, yeah that was. But I
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: just didn't, like, I didn't know the difference at the time,
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: you know, as you got when that show came out
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: you know we were younger, but none that I know.
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: Like I said, just respect people, leave people to hell
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: a loan And to those people that made it off
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: the stroll safe and Sam, thank God for you. And
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: to those that lost their life, our condolence because you
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: don't deserve to lose your life because you are who
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: you are. And this documentary is remember and all of
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: those people. I wish that they had gotten the justice
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: that they deserved. But somehow, some way, they they did.
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: We just don't know anything about it, you know.
• 44:52
  Speaker 3: And yeah they had, they had lots of connections, so happen.
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: But like I said, I still felt like ru Paul kind.
• 45:01
  Speaker 4: Of sucked it up, and I felt it was more
• 45:03
  Speaker 4: explored exploitive, like you know, you you were just like
• 45:07
  Speaker 4: you down that expectations, you down there being like real,
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: real candid, and it's like you're blowing up, like you're
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: blowing up the spot like.
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: You you was.
• 45:18
  Speaker 3: You was hurting more than you was helping.
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: Leaving alone. If people want to select their cool the
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: cat and then their boots, you know that stuff, their
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: boots cakes. Let let how is it affecting you? Leave
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: people alone? Leave alone? That's theirs they do they want
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: to do it, leave me alone, you know. I mean,
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: as long as ain't nobody being forced into nothing and
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: being you know, assaulted and all of that stuff. They
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: say prostitution is the oldest uh profession.
• 45:46
  Speaker 4: I mean Davids doing it in the meat trucks and
• 45:48
  Speaker 4: empty meat trucks and shipping. God niggas is out here.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: Going to looking for it.
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: They're out there, I know they are. And then you
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: got you got the one that you got the one,
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, in public doing it where
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: people can see them, you know, all that other stuff.
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: Children can walk past and be like, oh she just
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: over specific to just just transgiend to know. I'm talking
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: about period sex workers in general. Period sex workers in general.
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: Long as you ain't out in about and somebody can
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: walk down the alley and see you see you doing
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: something doing in public because now you need to take
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: care of jail. But outside of that lead let people
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: do what they want to do. I never understood why
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: stuff like that was. I mean, that's just my personal
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: opinion on it. As long as they ain't been forced
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: into it, Like I don't believe in pimps and all
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: that stuff, because I'll be damn if I'm out here
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: getting based off like the sort to need sore throat sore,
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: and then I gotta break my money throw you. No,
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: absolutely not, bitch.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: You don't have to stand, bitch with my money.
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: There's my money. Hold on, bitch.
• 46:45
  Speaker 3: You don't know how to You don't know how to
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: control your money.
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: You don't know how to count. Bitch, this was gonna happen.
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: You're gonna get daddy ten percent ship.
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: I was the fun.
• 46:53
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry, you go suck a dickey and gave you
• 46:58
  Speaker 4: back like five dollars like here you go, here you bitch,
• 47:01
  Speaker 4: go get.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: You a fight out of bad. I just never understand
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: why all the hookers didn't just jump the pimp, like
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: just jump them, beat his ass you.
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: Some of them did.
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: I'm I'm tired of dealing with you and your bush
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: is sucking dick's.
• 47:18
  Speaker 4: I was on.
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: And you talk about some key.
• 47:24
  Speaker 3: She made five hundred dollars. That go get you something,
• 47:28
  Speaker 3: Go get you something about that dollar man.
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: You Yeah, I'm gonna go buy when it was actually
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: a document. I'm gonna buy some hot grits. That's what
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna go buy. I'm gonna buy some grits. I'm
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: come back in his room and I'm a bull them
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: and I'm gonna throw them on you ass. That's what's
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: gonna happen.
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: Let's move on. But yeah, thank you for watching the documentary.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: I really appreciate it because it was it was a
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: really informative documentary I saw years ago and I thought
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: that it would be good to discuss doing problem. You know,
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: happy pride people, Happy pride, be who you are for
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: your pride.
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: That's why I don't give a damn if you identify
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: as a little red riding hood. That's what I'm gonna
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: call you.
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: And we're gonna find you a big bad wolf. They
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: eat your grandma cookies and.
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: Am and we'll be back right.
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: At this commercial break, but he said, and we're back
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: like we never left. Look like we never left. Going
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: to a second says.
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah yah.
• 48:37
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: All right, before we get started, if you have any questions, comments,
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: topic ideas, TV shows, movies, documentaries, or anything like that
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: that you want us to review, any rants, constructive criticism, feedbacks,
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: just ship you want to get off your chest. You
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: can reach us via email. We are asking to part
• 48:59
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• 49:02
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  Speaker 2: you boo. So, since we've been talking about all kinds
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  Speaker 2: of different things this week, I don't know, I'll just
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  Speaker 2: go to our favorite thread, or rather Brandon's favorite three head.
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  Speaker 4: You know it?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, six Brown Chicks, the six Brown Half his AKA,
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  Speaker 2: we'll key call them. A couple episodes ago, Yo ignorant
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  Speaker 2: some shit, she called him it was funny. I can't
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  Speaker 2: remember what she called him AnyWho. They did in big
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  Speaker 2: Mouth for a month, and she moved me in. Big
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  Speaker 2: Mouth has a skinny, spoiled, eleven year old autistic son
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  Speaker 2: who goes to school on a special bus and then
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  Speaker 2: spreads out in the front room with the big TV
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  Speaker 2: to play video games. I'm standing here now and I
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  Speaker 2: want to relax in the front room. I took his
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  Speaker 2: games and threw them in his bedroom. Something broke and
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: big Mouth started talking slick. I picked her up by
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  Speaker 2: her throat and pinned her to the wall until she
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  Speaker 2: calmed down. I did it in front of her son
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  Speaker 2: to let him know there's a new king in this house.
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  Speaker 2: The skinny kid ran to his room, and I sent
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: big Mouth in the kitchen to cook for me. I
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  Speaker 2: sent down to watch TV. All was well until a
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  Speaker 2: skinny kid pounce me like Spider Man and beat my
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  Speaker 2: face in head with brass knuckles. I swallow the tooth.
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  Speaker 2: The boy is an autistic He's super violent and goes
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: to a special school because he endangers everyone. I fought
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  Speaker 2: for my life while big Mouth spoke to her son
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  Speaker 2: in hush tones until he stopped. He brought his games
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  Speaker 2: back into front room and played them. He didn't even
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: wash my blood off his hands. Big Mouth said, you
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  Speaker 2: can never touch me. He crippled his father for the
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: same thing. I like big Mouth. She's just a single mon.
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to raise this monster, but I'm scared to
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: stay with her advice.
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: Leave you to be killed.
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: You shouldn't have put your hands on him. I don't
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: see what the little boy did room.
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: I'm just saying he was.
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: Defending his mama. Yeah, go go come moving. First of all,
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: big Mouth is a dumb ass, because why the fuck
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: are you moving somebody in your house after a month?
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: You're another person will pour pussy.
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: Management turn into a theme on the show it is poor.
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  Speaker 2: Pussy man, because I don't under say it is you.
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: I was just watching an episode of Judge. Mathis like that,
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  Speaker 2: and just like you moved him in after how long
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: it was like two months or something, and you have children.
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: Why would you do that?
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: I mean, well, I know it was a little fast,
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: but but it ain't no but to it. And then
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: sooner something happen to your children, then you want to
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  Speaker 2: be crying on the news.
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  Speaker 3: No, what are you doing?
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: How they made some dumb ass mistakes as a young mother.
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: I promise you I have. I promise you I have.
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: But one thing I was doing was gonna what's gonna
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  Speaker 2: do is protect my kid now? But that that's crazy,
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: that's bananas. I don't want to hear nothing about that.
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: When you become a mother, Jay, you can still have
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: a life, but it becomes about protecting your children first.
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: That's what it becomes. They didn't ask to be here.
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: They can't protect themselves, and it's your job to protect them.
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: True ship, But now what if he would have messed
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: around and defended hisself and did something to your son?
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  Speaker 1: Right?
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: Fine, then what yo? Because you don't know him, You
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  Speaker 2: don't know nobody in thirty days.
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: Ship.
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: This motherfucker's only made for somebody thirty years and they
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  Speaker 2: finding out ship. Wow, But all in all, you deserve
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: that ads with bro. You shouldn't have put your hands
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: on his mama.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, yo, but get out of there.
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: Look bet you do that ship again, Get.
• 53:23
  Speaker 3: The fuck out of there. They gonna kill you. Yo.
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: In your sleep, you said that nig he ain't autistic.
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: He just beat my egg, really beat and beat the
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: bricks off your ass.
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: Yeah, he sucked you up, Yo, Yoe said, he pounds,
• 53:39
  Speaker 4: he pounced. He pounced on you with some brass knuckles.
• 53:42
  Speaker 4: That nigga knew what the fuck he doing?
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: Bro?
• 53:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, Yo, you run run away, simber a
• 53:49
  Speaker 4: number of return what you got?
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: I got one more? Let me see. Let's see where
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: I'm going. I guess we're gonna stand in the poor
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  Speaker 2: pussy manage. That's say no, let's go to poor dick
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: management no longer six bro, poor pussy management. Okay. During
• 54:11
  Speaker 2: my healing journey, I reached out to my ex girlfriend Paula.
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: I've had two children with other women while I'm with Paula.
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: I was while I was with Paula. I'm sorry. I
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: stole her father's vintage Mercedes, crashed it, and then sold
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: it for parts who I dated her best friend and
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: destroyed that twenty year friendship. Much of that time I
• 54:29
  Speaker 2: was feeding my cocaine addiction. But I've been cleaned for
• 54:32
  Speaker 2: four months and I called Paula to ask for forgiveness me.
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: Thank you for taking me back each time I fucked up?
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: Can you forgive me for what I did? Your forgiveness
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: puts me on the path to becoming a better man.
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: Paula said, you can't become a better man. You are
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: what you are and you'll never be anything more. Never
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: that combo destroyed me and I relapsed. I hate that
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: woman so much? How do I make her life miserable
• 54:59
  Speaker 2: until she gives me her forgiveness? She's gone no contact
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: on me, so I need to know how I can
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: wreck her life from far away, sir, go to hell,
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: Go to hell. You wreck your life. You cheated on
• 55:15
  Speaker 2: her head, two babies by you. You slept with the
• 55:18
  Speaker 2: best friend, which the best friend is just just as
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: much in the wrong, because if you let Dick come
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  Speaker 2: between twenty years of friendship, you you ain't a ship bitch, No,
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: god damn way. You've stole her daddy call and wrecked
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: it all while being a coke kid then and sold
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: it for parts, and you want her to forgive you.
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: Now.
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: What people don't understand is that forgiveness does not really uh,
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: that does not mean reconciliation or reconnection. So Paula could
• 55:49
  Speaker 2: have forgiven you and never given you access to her
• 55:52
  Speaker 2: ever again. Now she doesn't have to forgive you. She
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: can hate you for the rest of her fucking life,
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: and that would be all right. It's the all day you.
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: You you may have paid for four months, but you
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: still got crackhead behavior and the words of judgementthis. I
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: know a crack head when I see a crackhead, and sorry,
• 56:13
  Speaker 2: that is that cocaine, crack roons, whatever the you was doing.
• 56:17
  Speaker 2: And then you're gonna blame her for you relapsed, and
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: please go to hell.
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: You go to hell and you die.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: How can I get get this bitch back? Even though
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: she cut me up? What anybody got any word on
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: voodoo dolls? I just want.
• 56:36
  Speaker 2: She wouldn't forgive me for every all the hell I
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: put her through.
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: Get until she forget what.
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: I just read a book like that, and I'm mad
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: because it was a two book. It wasn't you know.
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: I've refused. I can't do it. I didn't rest Ghetto
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  Speaker 2: Baby Daddy right like, I can't do it. I'd have
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: read some ghetto ship, but I cannot.
• 57:06
  Speaker 3: I can't.
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: I can't bring myself to do it. I can't.
• 57:09
  Speaker 3: I can't.
• 57:11
  Speaker 2: I watched TV movies and I can't bring myself to
• 57:16
  Speaker 2: watch Reader Krawn Mell's book and to be having some
• 57:20
  Speaker 2: horrible stuff. It'd be some decent stuff on it sometimes,
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: but they be having some horrible shit on tooth and
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: I cannot bring myself to reader Kwan Meles book. I
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: can't do it. I have no It makes my anxiety
• 57:31
  Speaker 2: bed just thinking about it. I not but I did.
• 57:36
  Speaker 2: I just read a book some ship like that to God.
• 57:38
  Speaker 3: But he was horrible.
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: He treated the good when he treated the good, but
• 57:40
  Speaker 2: then when he treated her bad, he was horrible to her.
• 57:42
  Speaker 2: And she finally left him alone. And he was with
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: the side chick, had the baby with the side chick
• 57:47
  Speaker 2: and everything, but he would not leave her alone. He
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: would not. She moved on. He stalked the attack the
• 57:53
  Speaker 2: all kinds of ship. And I made of that, damn
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  Speaker 2: author because wiz Part three a sis you had time
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: get your life together.
• 57:59
  Speaker 3: But yes, it's it's yeah, it's weird.
• 58:04
  Speaker 2: People are crazy.
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: It's weird. You did all of that, like you did
• 58:08
  Speaker 3: all that And it's like he was.
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: Just told he was all abusive. Even his mother told
• 58:12
  Speaker 2: him that he wasn't worth a damn. His mother was like,
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: stop putting your hands on these on these women. Wherever
• 58:17
  Speaker 2: somebody touched me on your daughter, oh, they would have
• 58:19
  Speaker 2: to see me why. His mother was like, they's somebody
• 58:22
  Speaker 2: daughter dother Win is somebody daughter and somebody mother, but
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: we off limits. But you know they're not off limits
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: from you're putting your hands on them. Yeah, he seemed
• 58:31
  Speaker 2: like that type. You made me do this? Oh why
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: shouldn't you gonna?
• 58:36
  Speaker 4: Well?
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: You made me shoot you? Now what never even you
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: made me throw hot grits on you. You made me
• 58:42
  Speaker 2: throw boiling water and sugar on you.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: What you made me do?
• 58:52
  Speaker 2: Now look at you laying there in pain and your
• 58:54
  Speaker 2: skin peeling off with pay Alexa play Love and Happiness
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