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Why Women Love Dad Bods · Podcast - Big 98.7

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I know for that because it's now time for it. Is it weird where
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we find out if the things we do are weird or not, or if
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they're just very normal things that we do. So, Amanda, I'd like
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you to start it off, because mine is like a real thinker and it's
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not even just a me specific thing. It's more of like a human civilization
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question. Really okay, well then mine is a little easier. But my
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husband thinks it's so weird that I constantly check our bank account. Of course,
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we have an app and I I like wake up. It's just kind
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of a part of my routine, like checking my email, going through social
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media and checking my bank account. But I do it numerous times a day.
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Oh yeah, for there's no reason. It's not like I think somebody
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is like a jack and money. It's just kind of like one of those
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habitual things that I do all the time. Are you checking on your husband
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spending? No? Probably, I mean every once in a while and be
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like, oh really you went to Wendy's today without me or you know,
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whatever it may be. And I'm like, I keep it on your husband.
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No, I'm not. I just then, why do you feel like
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you do it. I always just like to look and see where we're at.
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It's I mean, because it's not like I have a check book I'm
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balancing anymore. So it's kind of like, hey, just making sure that
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went through. Or do you have ice a spreadsheet? Nope, you have
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nothing just going in raw. Yeah, do you have a spreadsheet? Oh
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yeah. I did discuss with my husband the other day. We should probably
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revamp all of that, like we haven't. I don't think since we've had
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kids gone through like the budgeting and of everything. Man, I knows you
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are coming out of you account every month. Just get it on spreadsheet,
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every single thing that comes out. I think. I know. That's what
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I'm scared about. Even just we talk about it all the time, like
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apps, money is coming, I'll look at it something I'm like, I'm
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paying for that, and it's that much. Yeah, you'd be surprised once
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you put it all down. I mean, it's one of those things you
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just rather ignore because then it's not real if you don't acknowledge it exactly.
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But it is, so now I'm gonna go not weird. I check mine
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pretty often too, just to make sure, you know, because how many
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times do you see something come out, It's like, oh, I forgot
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to cancel that free subscription, and now they're charging me sixty dollars for it.
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I gotta make some calls. Don't you put a little reminder in your
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phone? That's a nice hack. Yeah, well, sometimes they just pretend
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that you didn't cancel it and charging me. Meanwhile, I still have Peacock
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from when they had us watching the football game back in jail. Peacock.
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Is it weird that we, and I'm talking humans drink milk from an animal?
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No? I told you as a thinker. Now I drink milk occasionally,
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not a ton, but just in general, like you just eating breast
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milk our whole life? Like is that what you're referring to? Like?
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Why are we eating animal? Well, eat in general, we're eating animals.
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It's not like, I know, I get the eating animals because that's
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like the circle of life, but drinking the milk from a cow specifically,
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because every animal, not every animal milk, produce milk much like us we
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do. So why is it that it's the cow's milk because that's not for
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us, you know what I mean? Like, if you break it down,
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the cows producing the milk for the cow. This is for the human.
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You weren't kidding when you had a real brain buster on a Monday.
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I was, And I swear I have not taken any edibles. I'm not.
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I'm totally with it. And this is just a thought I had,
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So is it weird? Never really thought about it. I quit drinking milk
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for a long time for that. No, just in general, Like I
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was like, I don't, why am I drinking milk? Like it was
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you grow up and it's like you're drinking milk for your bones. If you
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don't drink milk, you're just gonna shatter. Your bones are just gonna You're
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just never ever gonna be able to stand a chance, uh, playing any
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activities or doing anything. But when I was pregnant with Sydney, I was
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drinking a gallon of milk a day, like that was kind of my thing.
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It was so weird. I say, your own milk or the cow
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milk, the cow milk, and I was I was drinking it because I
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was having so much like that was my thing. And now every once in
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a while just have like a nice glass with like pasta or whatever. But
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we get it for the kids cause again and I even say this, it's
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so embarrassing. I'll be like, Briggs, you gotta finish your milk.
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Let me see the muscles. Like you know, you're just really talking about
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that that got milk campaign that really got every really didn't. So are you
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suggesting or is your thought process we should be having breast milk if we're having
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milk all the time as humans? I was just I was just thinking,
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and I'm just thinking why, you know. And then there's the old classic
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question of who discovered that the milk from a cow is good? And what
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were they doing? What were they up to that they discovered, Hey,
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that tastes pretty good. So Pike's wife fun little insight here. It has
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been out of town for four days, so Pike has had a lot of
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time to just really think. And is this what you you? You decided
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you weren't going to drink through the weekend for the month. Yeah, for
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the whole month. Nice job, I am. So now you're just sitting
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at home wondering about these are the thoughts I have. You gotta do something
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like in the morning, big nutty eight point seven. Is it true when
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people say that women love the dad bond. Is that true because I you
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know, I don't know if I believe it. Yeah, I think you
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just like a man who you know who. I guess it depends on who
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you are. Like, I love my husband's body, you know, I
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would call him a dad has a little bit of a That's the thing.
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Can we define I feel like we got away from what the dad bought originally
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was supposed to be correct. Yeah, so dadbod doesn't just mean morbidly overweight,
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you know what I mean? Dadbod initially was like the Leo Dicaprios.
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I believe the specific definition was somebody that you can tell used to work out,
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but then they had kids. You know, they started to eat,
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you know, like what the kid was eating. They're just a little softer,
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but you can tell there is some muscle there. It's not just like
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somebody who's just overweight. Uh. Very interesting to me. I think the
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most recent pictures that probably have surfaced that people have seen are like Patrick Mahomes
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and Travis Kelcey. You would think that they are just I mean ripped because
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of the world class athletes. Yeah football, I mean winning Super Bowl to
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all of this, Like you just expect that they work out constantly, right,
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Yeah, And seeing Travis Kelsey at the Bahamas and Patrick mahomes with his
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wife and you know sometimes he doesn't have a shirt on like that is just
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refreshing. I mean, he still looks good. He's just got you know,
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when he sits. I think a lot of ladies' is like, oh,
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you've got a little got a little tummy too. Yeah, but in
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clothes they look great. I think that's the goal for most adult men,
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just as long as it went with a shirt on, as long as you
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look Okay. What They've done some research on what it is about dad bots
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that is so attractive to women, research out of Bucknell University. They think
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that it may be sorry, Bucknail University. You know, I was expecting
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like Berkeley or something, but buck Nail, Bucknell. Oh, it is
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a place that's just making us up. They say it maybe because of the
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softer personality traits associated with a dad bod. They say, a more toned
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body, which you know, it's typically associated with higher testosterone, meaning increased
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aggression. So subconsciously, you ladies, in your head, you're thinking the
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dad bod could act as a signal that a man is ready to spend more
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time at home. Interesting, Like we're looking at him going, oh,
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you're kind of a softy, no punt, you're gonna be You're gonna be
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at home in the kitchen more often than you're out at the gym. So
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perfect. I could see that not like a what is that? That was
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what is that noise? That was the not the dad bod. That was
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more of the masculine man, the muscular man. See, I know some
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muscular man and they don't really go around going are you trying to do the
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Tim Allen thing? Yeah, Like I really hope somebody's waking up right now
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collecting what are these two doing? I used to think they were dumb,
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but now they've evolved to just grunting on the air a mating call. At
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this point, we'll hit you with this one trending. Now here's what you
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need to know. Well, this is really awesome. If you have not
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seen the renderings yet, you got to check it out. Seven oh one
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Collective and Jade presents that they are trying to bring a new concert venue.
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It's an outdoor event space right here in Fargo. They're looking at thirteen twenty
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nine to fifth Avenue North, so it's near downtown Fargo. It's like one
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and a half acres proposed to this outdoor festival field. It looks really cool.
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They're supposed to be giving it to the commission tomorrow and that's right over
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by. I mean, they're already doing outdoor shows at Fargo Brewing Company YEP,
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which is just a couple of blocks over so, but this looks like
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the perfect Yeah, like you get these kind of touring festivals that could probably
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come through. I'm imagining my band playing there are you? I have to
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tell you, Pike. By the way, did you see the comments?
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So we announced that Low Standards is going to be opening for Eve six and
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Happy har He's refest. We announced this and there were a couple of comments
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saying, wait, he's for real, like he's actually in a band.
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There were people that were I was cracking up. You did not see these
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on the Big ninety I missed. People thought I was just fooling this whole
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time, this whole time that you were just kind of joking like I'm in
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a band. Somebody say that if they weren't, what kind of goof is
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that? Because that's so you, which is even more hilarious. That's totally
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me. I'm always making stuff up. I'm not even married. I've got
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kids as a matter of fact. All right, TikTok? What is going
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on? Is it gonna get banned? Well? There was? I guess
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John Hooven over the weekend's talking about it because people are going, does he
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still have a mustache? What does he look like now? Last time I
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checked, he still had this stash? Nice? What a random question,
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bike, That's just kind of what I know about him. Sorry, why
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is he in the news? Oh man? Oh gosh? And I apologize
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because I haven't. I haven't seen him lately. He very well could not
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if he doesn't have a stash. I apologize. But either way, I'm
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sure Hooven's looking real nice these days, settled down, he's married. You're
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just assuming I would bet my life on it. All right? So the
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US House passed the band for TikTok. Many Americans are worried about whether or
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not it's going to be passed or not. So the reason nothing's happened is
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because the uh, you know, lawmakers in Washington, they're on a little
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break. They don't even reconvene until April eighth and then they'll discuss it.
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So that's what the delay is. It's not like they're really arguing over it
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real hard. Right now. So I'm looking at like his Google images page,
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so it's hundreds of photos, not a single one. Does he not
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have a mustache? Okay, so I got a thing. We're going ninety
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nine point nine percent sure the stash is still there? Correct? All right?
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Did you know Travis Kelce has his own music and food festival. I
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don't know how long it's been going on, but it's called This is So
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Travis Kelce Kelsey Jam Good. Anyway, MGK performed there last year. This
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year he is going to be announcing it. It looks like tomorrow who's going
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to be a part of it because he jumped onto social media and he said,
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please like this post. If it gets five thousand posts or likes on
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it, then he'll announce you're dating Taylor Swift. Now five thousand reactions is
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going to take you one side. Did you see Travis Kelsey There was an
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Easter tweet of his that resurfaced. Okay, so my husband brought this up
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to me yesterday and I thought that it was him. Yesterday saying this,
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and I got I went, You've got to be kidding me, Taylor take
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his phone? But what was it? It was in twenty ten and it
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was him wishing everyone a happy Easter on Twitter. It said happy Easter everyone,
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thanks Jesus for quote taking one for the team. Dot dot dot ha
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ha ha. So he's deleted it, but the of course the Internet will
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never forget. And I do have confirmation that John Hoven not only does he
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have a mustache, he is married. Are you just like deep dive in
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John's wiki? Pears? I am? I know all about him now.
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His spouse is named Mikey, so I don't know if that's a man or
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a woman, but he is married. Hey, I mean we go yea
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ever it could be Mickey, but there's no c That's kind of where I'm
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at on it. Who knows in the morning person you might know actually just
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from about a month ago or two months ago now, punk Satani philog old
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Groundhog. So Punksitani Phil has just welcomed twins with his groundhog wife Phyllis.
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Wait Phil and Phyllis? Okay? That horrible? I mean is that built
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in? Did they name him that the parents named them naturally. It's just
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coincidence that they met each other, like, oh my god, hello,
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my name is Phil, I'm the groundhog. Is it weird that they had
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twins? Is this common with groundhogs? Because how many animals only have one?
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You know, like like obviously dogs and cats have multiple. I had
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And this reminds me, actually this loves because Phil and Phillis are very much
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love. It reminds me of when I was a kid, we had hamsters.
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We had one one hamster. He was the He was the patriarch,
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right, what is his name? Henry? Okay, Henry, the hamster
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guy was awesome. I love this guy. And we thought, well,
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he needs a friend. So we got him a lady. And her name
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was Henrietta. Very phil and Phyllis. Another crazy coincidence. And so they
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hit it off right away on that hamster wheel, and they got it going
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on. And so suddenly nine months later we had hamster babies. Henrietta gave
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birth to not one, not two, but twelve little baby hamster. What
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was Henrietta huge or were they just so little? They're tiny? They came
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out of her and and I didn't witness the birth. You know, she
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is that like something, do you have to help? Like how does that
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go? Like what? As with most animals, you kind of just let
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them figure it. They just do that and then you don't have to like
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clean them up. And no, no, but she did produce twelve little
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hamsters. Have you ever seen a baby hamster? You know when it's a
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Super Bowl and you have those little weenies. Oh, it's kind of like
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that, like little smokies. Yeah, they're just not covered in barbecue sauce.
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I wish. Hey, that's disgusting. So here's the horrific part.
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And I did not mean to take this punk satani phil welcoming to kids and
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turning it into this story. But they got out of the cage, and
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I was probably me because I was a child, all twelve of them probably
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let them out to play with them. Well then they all dispersed, and
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now you've got twelve little smokies. Oh this is like my own personal you
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know what. Yeah, run gosh them. Imagine going to bed knowing that
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there are twelve baby hamsters. I would never sleep. I would I mean
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I would need to find I would get an extremity. Now, well,
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not an exterminator. That's a bit aggressive, but we would find them an
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extremity. I know, I didn't mean that what I just said about their
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parents, Henry and Henrietta. They're heart fools, their heart broke and sitting
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in their cage wondering where their kids are. And well, one by one
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we found them and oh you did well, Please don't get too excited.
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Yeah, not one. Yeah, they couldn't. They weren't quite old enough
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to survive in the wild. Not one. They needed. Henrietta's no milk
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out those days, those days, and they probably got stepped on. I
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mean, it was a sad deal. This is not good. Yeah,
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but hey, Henriette, I'm sorry. Phil and Phyllis. The groundhogs have
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given birth to two kids, and that's the main focus. Way though.
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Did Henrietta survive after a broken heart of twelve kids? It wasn't. It
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wasn't much longer for Henry or Henrietta. I don't know what the lifespan on
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a hamster is, but not very long at my home. I know,
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I don't know what CPS is for hamsters, but that's who I want to
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call in the morning on sign. Have you heard the term the ick?
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No? I mean, sometimes I'm like oh, the ick factor is high
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on Okay, so you got the idea, but it's become more and more
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of a thing. A lot of people are saying, like Travis Kelsey was
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giving them the ick because of some of his behaviors. So what Urban Dictionary
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defines the ick? Ass something someone does that is an instant turn off for
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you, making you instantly hate the idea of being with them romantically, Which
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is a little hurtful because it wasn't long ago my wife said something was giving
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her the ick that I was doing. No. Now that I read that,
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I'm like, oh, what do you remember? Was I think it
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was? I was feeling silly and I just kept kind of like laughing saying
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things and then laughing at the things I was saying, and she was just
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like, why are you, Like you're thinking you're so funny right now and
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it's giving me the If you're not being funny, if they're not in a
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mood. I can see how that would give somebody the ick. But at
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the same time, how do you not laugh when somebody has been so ridiculous?
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I know, all right, I know. Well, they did a
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survey to find what the biggest icks are when it comes to people in relationships.
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So for the women, the biggest ick that turned them off in their
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relationship was bad hygiene. Yeah, I feel like that should just be all
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the way around. I feel like guys probably feel that exact same way.
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That's correct, man, men did cite bad hygiene is the biggest ick factor.
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But then secondly, for women it was arrogance that turned them off the
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most. I can see that. Yeah, just somebody who there's just something
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like they have this aura about them. There's a I actually just had this
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conversation with one of our coworkers. There is a guy that people to me,
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yes, it's Pike. You look at him and you're like, oh
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my gosh, absolutely gorgeous, Like everybody looks at you and you're just like,
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he's just a good looking guy. For me. This guy just doesn't
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do it for me. And all my girlfriends just kind of laughing like are
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you how is that like something about him? And it is that it's like
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this arrogance is something about him, Like there is nothing attractive to this about
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this guy. To me, this is awkward because that was exactly me to
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a t I know you just I mean identical, you know what I mean,
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and I think that's probably the same with guys, where you're just like,
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I don't know, she's just putting off a weird vibe. Yeah,
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it gives you the ick. Women also said bad breath, spitting, and
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being rude to hospitality staff gave them the ick. The last one for me,
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And it's not even just women, it's just friends of mine. It
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all so disappointing, like why are you talking to the server like that?
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You know, give me a bud light? Like what what is that?
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Do you ever like, I guess you don't have kids, but do you
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ever please and thank you like, I know, condescendingly look at them and
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be like, really listen, but I know you're thirty five with four kids,
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but you know, come on now, let's learn some manners here at
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the bar. Man citing not only the bad hygiene, of course, but
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this is interesting. The second one was women who made crude jokes. Crude
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joke? Really? How crude would it have to be for me to be
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offended? I don't know that or do you think it's also just a woman
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with a potty mouth does that? But I think that bothers some guys,
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you know now that I think about it. You're right, it would be
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weird if both of us had like really gross senses of humor. You know,
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it would be kind of like not just give you the ick, but
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sort of just put them in the friend zone. I guess every once in
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a while, if I've had a couple of toddies, I start getting it's
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just weird. Or if you're around so stopid. If you're around oh god,
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if you're around certain people, you're dropping bombs that you normally probably wouldn't.
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Yeah, and my husband will look at me like Amanda, He'll put
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me in my place. Yeah, you do say some just nasty things,
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nasty nasty things I do not you do. And lastly, men the thing
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that gives them the ick behind hygiene and crew jokes, it's a baby voice.
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Oh god, a baby voice. And that goes for women too.
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Women do not like guys. Who do? Are so many people doing it?
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Who? Everybody? We do it? You do it, and of
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course you do not. Oh my god, your voice when you talk to
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your husband. It's just that is so not true. But it is.
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You and Lauren have this and you've talked about it. Yeah, what's her
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pet name? I'm not gonna say that please, Like if Nick calls me
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Amanda that kind of ooh, like a am I in trouble? Yeah,
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you should hear his nickname from me, Nick's nickname for you. Yeah,
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I was kidding. Oh, is there something going on the Gulf Score?
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Well, like it a minute in the morning on Big Nutty eight point seven.
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Oh, welcome back everybody. Happy Monday. If you're up and at
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them going to work today, probably annoyed with the people who got today off.
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So I know. It was a big Easter weekend. But also we
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had a big birthday in the fam here. Sidney turned five on Saturday.
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How'd that feel? Did you sob? You know? I didn't sob,
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but it was one of those moments I was like, oh my gosh.
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Even my husband and I looked at each other a couple of times like how
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was this already five years ago? Like, you know, just what really
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hit? We ended up on Friday, we drove to the Lakes area and
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just because of the weather or whatever, we weren't really sure what we're gonna
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do. But we ended up doing one night at Thumper Pond and it was
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so nice because sid is now tall enough, so she was able to like
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swim and stand through all of the pool area, going down the slides by
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herself. So those were the moments when you're going wow. You know,
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usually we're like, oh, we're having to hang out in the water the
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whole time. And she didn't even. I don't even she went down the
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kiddie pool in the slide like one time, you know, Oh she didn't
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like it. No, because she was going down the big slod. Oh
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you went to the big one. Yeah, she was going down by herself,
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just having a heyday. So that was awesome. She had a great
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time. And then there was an Easter egg hunt. It was really cold
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in Oatertail on Saturday, but we did that, hung out with some friends,
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and then little Bunny foo Fu popped on over on Sunday night and into
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yesterday. We just did all the things the church situation and he posted all
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of that, Oh really, did you have real eggs or the fake eggs?
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We did fake eggs, yep, so we put we usually what the
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Easter Bunny did was like some coins and then a little bit of candy.
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Classic. Yeah. We had the went over to my stepmom's place and we
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had eggs and they were the fake ones. I stepped on one of those
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little buggers. Ooh, did you like step step on knives? But I
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had to go to the hospital. We did not die Easter eggs. And
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I know that was bothering you last week. You're like, I can't believe
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you're not doing that. I don't know. I really don't remember doing that
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as a kid. Oh, it's the best. We did it yesterday.
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So we hid the fake eggs. We is in the Easter bunny in us.
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And then we collared eggs after so we did sort of backwards, so
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we just colored the eggs just to do it. Yeah, and then we
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all took some eggs so we can eat them. Yeah, some nice hard
22:18
boiled eggs. I mean, it was just filling those little coffee cups up
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with vinegar and the little tablet. Oh Man took me right back. Isn't
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it fun though? When you because you have your nephew. Is your nephew
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Popeye on Friday because he didn't have school? Just like the joy popped by?
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Well, I said, your nephew Popeye? No, that's not his
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name. That's a great name, but that is a cute little name.
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I well, I got to know him on Friday, so I was like,
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oh, little Popeye, come on over here. But just the joy
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except for I was shocked because my kids were all in on the Easter Bunny,
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like, do you have any plans? I'm like baiting him, super
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excited, going, I mean, anybody coming over over the weekend. He
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just wasn't having it. Well, you know, three years old. Oh
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it's very hilarious, Like he probably doesn't remember last year. It's all new.
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But they did get little treats. I got a Lego sets, we
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built some Legos. Nice putting together a little helicopter. I mean it was
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a mental exercise for sure, just following instructions, you know. And then
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you got the kid who's like trying to do it incorrectly, and it's you
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know, trying not to get frustrated. Hey are you I know you're five,
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but are you reading these instructions? Because that's not where that goes.
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Okay, get Amanda in the morning, No, Amanda stills the sea.
23:32
Let's see Bronte by Park Company Real toors Well is edit for Lizzo? Is
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she done with Hollywood for good? Over the weekend, she took to Instagram
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and said, I'm getting tired of putting up with being dragged by everyone in
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my life and on the internet. All I want to do is make music
23:45
and make people happy and help the world be a little bit better than how
23:48
I found it. But I'm starting to feel like the world doesn't want me
23:51
in it. I'm constantly up against lies being told about me for clout views,
23:56
being the butt of the joke every time because of how I look,
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my character being picked apart by people who don't know me, and disrespecting my
24:03
name. Lizzo did go on to say that she did not sign up for
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this bleep dot dot dot I quit. Well, you just feel bad,
24:10
I mean, And yeah, there are accusations against her, so she may
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or may not be a bad person. I don't know, but regardless,
24:17
you feel bad that she gets made fun of so much. Oh absolutely,
24:19
And when she is saying she's the butt end of a lot of jokes.
24:22
You were just talking about, like, is there another sports show or something.
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Yeah, it's a sports talk show I listened to where Yeah, they
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do this thing called Lizo's So Fat and they just tell these like yo Mama
24:33
jokes essentially, but it's about Lizo and it's just like that is so unnecessary
24:37
and not funny. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. I'm like,
24:40
is this the eighties? Like what is going on? Yeah? That is
24:41
so gross. Of course there are accusations about her right now, and I
24:45
don't know if she knows that something is coming down the pipe and she's just
24:48
kind of heading that off. Who knows? Just icky all the way around
24:52
and want Yeah, you want people to be able to do what they love,
24:55
and she loves making music, and it sounds like, you know,
24:56
I mean, you can still do it, but she just wants to kind
25:00
of step back from the limelights. Yeah, we'll see you's fair. And
25:03
the Golden Bachelor newlyweds Gary and Teresa. Where are they these days? Now?
25:07
Remember they were hot and heavy, they were in love and one of
25:10
the things that Gary had said is he wanted to find somebody that he could
25:14
spend his life with. And one of the reasons he didn't go with a
25:17
couple of the gals is because they weren't willing to move like they just simply
25:21
weren't. Just logistically it didn't work well. And you think about it,
25:23
I mean, you're in your seventies, you've got your You know, I
25:26
think I like Lance pants you step down. Yeah, I'd be devastated if
25:30
he uped and moved after finding love somewhere with a gallon Arizona. You know,
25:36
it's like, no, we're all here, this is what you want
25:37
to spend your time with. You really going to stop Lance from being happy?
25:41
No, I'm not, of course not. I mean, you do
25:42
you But it seems like this is the problem. We're being told that,
25:45
yeah, they're doing great, but she's still in New Jersey. He's in
25:48
Indiana and they're kind of living their lives apart because they neither of one wants
25:53
to kind of give it up. Well, whatever makes all gear happy.
25:59
I just wanted to work for him. I can't wait for the next Golden
26:03
Bachelor. I have to wait until fall for this bad boy. Is it
26:07
a lady or who are they doing? They don't know yet. They haven't
26:08
released the information. I would assume it's a lady, but they usually like
26:14
know, flip flop the Golden Bachelorette. But it'll be uh, it'll be
26:17
good and diddy. He broke his silence on social media yesterday for the first
26:22
time since the Feds raited his home, he decided he was going to go
26:25
Cute daughter picks his one year old daughter of love, who is adorable.
26:29
He posted pictures wishing everybody a happy Easter. I was bummed he turned the
26:33
comments off. That would have been that would have been interesting. You know
26:36
what they would have said, happy, probably hope you have a wonderful Easter,
26:41
Diddy, you and your family. Everything is just fine, by the
26:45
way, Homeland Security investigations in state. They will provide further information when it
26:48
becomes available. And I was looking just to kind of see because Chloe Kardashian
26:53
is the last celebrity that I saw like one of his posts. This was
26:56
from a couple of months ago. But I'm always wondering because that's kind of
27:00
a tell who's supporting him and who isn't God, I can't imagine anybody would
27:04
There is nobody at least said I'm following that. I was able to tell,
27:07
right, Like, I don't know who his ride or dies are,
27:10
But this is really where you find out who's riding and who's dying. Because
27:14
he's really good friends with jay Z, isn't he? I think? So
27:18
I don't know. The whole thing is I know he was good friends with
27:21
Biggie. But what I said, I'm trying to think. I'm just brainstorming.
27:26
We're just open discussion here, prest In peacetress in peace. Jeez,
27:33
what do you think I'm I'm as sad as he doesn't have any other friends
27:37
after Biggie was gone. Well he made the song about Biggie's I don't know.
27:42
I don't know, That's what I'm saying. Faith Evans around what she
27:48
had to say, I wonder at in the morning, Big Nuddy points.
27:53
Sometimes when you break up with somebody or even get divorced, you look back
27:56
and you think, how did I not at this moment moment realized that this
28:00
probably wasn't going to work out. And this lady shared a story about after
28:06
not after he might have one of your own, Amanda. Uh. This
28:10
woman was married for eight years and she's now happily divorced. But she says
28:14
she should have known apply divorced. I don't know why that got me by.
28:18
She said she should have known that it was over on her wedding night.
28:22
The night of her wedding supposed to be the happiest day of your life.
28:25
Yeah, She said that her husband had invited some friends from way out
28:27
of town, like out of state, just sort of the the you know,
28:32
I'll invite you, but I know you're probably not gonna come. But
28:33
they showed up. They showed up, so he's like, this is great.
28:37
I haven't seen these boys forever. She didn't even know them. The
28:40
wife hadn't even met these people. So in the middle of their reception,
28:44
the husband, because they were only in town for the weekend, thought it
28:45
would be a good time to go out to a bar with these buddies.
28:51
Yeah, his wedding recess. In the middle of his wedding reception. So
28:53
for an hour and a half, she's sitting there in her big poofy dress,
28:57
she says, feeling absolutely worthless. Meanwhile, his family and her family
29:02
are just going like, where's what's his name, where's this guy? Here's
29:06
his wedding. Yeah, that's beyond a major red flag. And why was
29:10
it? Why do you have to go off site? It's a wedding reception.
29:12
These guys can like chuckle and have a good old time there. Well,
29:17
yeah, it's a weird behavior. That should have told you, But
29:19
I know it's your wedding night, so you want to think everything's great,
29:22
it's amazing what you just dismiss or you think like, oh, that's not
29:26
going to be a big deal. To be fair, though, thinking back
29:29
to my wedding, there were times where I'd probably went an hour and a
29:32
half without actually even talking to my wife. Oh you know what I mean.
29:34
And that's the thing with weddings, unless you are actively like, hey,
29:40
we're going into this and we're going to leave it a certain time,
29:42
and you're gonna make it romantic. I mean, the bottom line is is
29:45
I would say, and this is pretty bold, ninety percent of people don't
29:51
even do what you think you are on your wedding night because it's you're exhausted,
29:55
you're talking to everybody, you're just and you want to be there with
29:57
your now spouse of have that memory together, but really you're both off in
30:02
different directions the whole night. I think that's why they created the honeymoon,
30:06
because the wedding. Yes, it's for you guys, but ultimately it's kind
30:11
of for everybody else too. I remember multiple times we were up at the
30:14
head table and I was going to go get a drink, and so mynn
30:17
wife would say get me this or whatever, and I'd go with the intention
30:21
of getting a drink, get stopped by a million people. You'd probably be
30:23
in one of them, Amanda, and she's parched at the head table,
30:26
just can't so twenty minutes later, I finally get back with a drink in
30:30
my hand and she goes, where's my wine? Like, oh, oh,
30:33
oh, yeah, you're my wife. Now I should probably handle that.
30:36
But yeah, weddings are kind of bizarre like that. But anything from
30:37
your experience as far as like red flags before I got married, yes,
30:41
one hundred percent. There was a couple of instances where I remember, like,
30:47
I just don't think I should go through this. This is of course
30:48
with my previous husband when I was twenty five years old. Everything is perfect
30:52
now, just everything about it. And again I was young. No nobody's
30:56
faulting. Yet there was also those moments where it was felt like it was
31:00
because we were together for however long. It was like, oh, I
31:03
guess this is what we're supposed to do, and oh that's always good when
31:06
you just accept well, this is just it. I'm just you know,
31:07
and it's not going to change, like you always hear that, Yeah,
31:11
you're never going to change anybody you sure are No, you're not hyphenated names.
31:15
So I'm gonna have a question with those, And where do you draw
31:18
the line, because then if you have kids, and then what if they
31:21
want to hyphenate? How many names can you add on? You know what,
31:22
I'm saying that I don't know what the limit is, but there are
31:26
people with some real luck. I don't know if there is like a limit,
31:30
like legally. I'm just saying we need to lines somewhere