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A DATELINE STORY, A CLUB PARTY AND A PISSED OFF BARBIE · CALL ME MISTRESS

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  Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress.
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  I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, And today I've got with me the
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  Barbie. Hi.
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  Then I've got the one, the only, Abby Monroe.
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  Hey, All right, kids. So we're going to talk about a
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  few interesting things. I will say that, you know, Abby
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  has not been coming to the mic for quite some time, so we're
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  glad she's back. We're going to be doing some
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  more fucked up Fridays with her. She loves doing that and one of
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  our our one fucked up Fridays got pulled and it was with you
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  and kinky Kylie and it was such a good one and there was no
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  nudity. But they don't like it because I
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  think we touched your pussy with a toy and sexualized and boom,
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  it was off. Yeah, they.
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  Were just jealous it wasn't them. 2026.
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  I know it's so crazy. And then, you know, Barbie,
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  we're creating this big event together.
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  We're doing our official debut of Club Dominate and people all
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  over have been asking about it. They're inquiring.
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  Yeah, even like the promotion we've been doing on some of the
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  like vanilla sites, I was really shocked by like the response
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  like we got like I posted about it and we got like 100 followers
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  in like 2 weeks about it is crazy.
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  I would do it again, especially for like local events.
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  Yeah, like this, like especially like, you know, it's not like
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  we're famous. We don't have a ton of pools.
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  So it is crazy when you get numbers that are like larger
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  like that because it's like, oh wow, people actually want to
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  come party well. They do.
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  And it's it's the typical reason because we've talked about this,
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  there's only one specific person here in town that does, you
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  know, fetish esque type parties and you know, they only have so
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  much set up, but it's a nice spread.
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  He's got a nice pool, he's got a nice area.
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  He's a nice guy, really. Nice fun parties.
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  I like going to fun. Parties exactly but again, you
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  know, people are so limited when it's not a public space, you
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  know and. This one's definitely more BDSM.
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  It is. It's very BDSM and then there's
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  a lot of swingers who host parties well, but there's a lot
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  of BDSMers that aren't into swinging.
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  And then that you have swingers that do hotel takeovers.
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  Well, hotel takeovers are just a big disconnect.
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  You know, they'll do it on one floor, but then a lot of people,
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  they don't want to leave their door open.
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  And you know, that's what a lot of hotel takeovers are.
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  They don't have one centralized area.
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  So I mean, we're doing something completely different that no one
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  has done. I mean, I can't tell you in 20
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  years, at least not around here. No, not here.
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  No, I've never heard of anything like this.
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  Not around here. Not like not a fetish club.
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  Like fetish event. Yeah, fetish party, fetish
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  themed club night, Yeah, but not an actual, like, fetish goth
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  night where it's like, you know, full and you're able to swing in
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  both. And that's what I kind of like
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  about our event is that though we love our swingers and they're
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  going to be there and have a great time, we also really like
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  to focus on the fetish, the BDSM.
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  Because I will say, in my opinion, sometimes I can get a
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  little lost on people in the community.
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  You know, I mean, fucking's fun. But sometimes, you know, I want
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  to whack somebody instead. Yeah.
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  And so I'm kind of excited, you know, just to see how it goes.
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  I, you know, Mia knows. I'm just so excited about it.
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  Me and her talk about it all the time.
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  We do talk about. That we've also been planning it
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  a lot. So, you know, a lot of thought
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  has to go into these things. It does.
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  I mean, we have to go down to the very detailed view of
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  wristbands. Yeah, I mean, when you're
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  looking at an event where you're having 2 to 300 people, maybe
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  even more show up, you you got to put in a lot of work to make
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  sure it goes smoothly. Because we really, we pride
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  ourselves on having good events that run well.
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  You know, we, we've even got out of the way, we have three
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  different security groups going to be there, you know, So, you
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  know, we take this shit seriously.
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  Very. Much so.
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  Very much so. It's going to be quite the
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  event. I, I really am hoping so.
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  I feel like with all the effort we're putting into it and how
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  excited everyone seems, you know, events are what you make
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  them as well. And so there's just no way.
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  It's not going to be super fun. And you're talking, you know,
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  we're talking age, right from 21 to 80.
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  I mean, there's people that are old, young, mid age.
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  It's all inclusive. All these people are coming.
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  And you know, we're having DJ Tony T, we're having, like you
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  said, cage dancer, pole dancer, we're having all these cool
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  events, these demos. Two different kind of cages for
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  the cage dancers. It's going to be incredible.
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  It really is, and it's almost with serendipitous how it all
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  has been coming together. It's been literally since we
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  like found the place where we like the venue where we wanted
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  to have it. Everything has just fallen into
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  place. Like even getting like the
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  dancers booked and the DJ booked and the props and and the
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  furniture, it just all has clicked so well.
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  And that's it's just like, look at the universe.
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  They just want us to be kinky and have fun and have wild rough
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  sex. Oh goodness.
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  Yeah, it was funny because I was looking at venues.
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  Barbie was looking at venues. God.
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  For so long, so long, actually about 3 months, yeah, of
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  actually like looking, not just, oh, we're going to see if
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  something comes by. It was like, we are on Airbnb,
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  boots to the ground. So there was times where I was
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  on Google Maps just like looking around, typing in random like
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  ideas for types of buildings because, you know, hosting the
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  kind of parties we have. You have to also consider bylaws
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  and who owns it, where you're at.
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  You have to make sure you're safe because you know you want
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  your guests to be safe. You don't want crazy things to
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  happen. So we took our time because we
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  wanted to find like the perfect spot.
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  And then we did. We did.
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  It was. Sample parking, it's like 10,000
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  square feet. I mean there's so many like
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  check marks on this. Oh, yeah.
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  And it was just, it was perfect. And I was just like, it felt
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  like this. The clouds parted in the sun
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  just started hitting us. We're like, oh.
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  And I just recently learned, too, he said, that there's
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  actually going to be a kitchen open.
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  So people kitchen. Yeah, people.
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  There's going to be food Guys May, yeah.
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  People are going to be ordering off the venue.
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  This is going to be so fun. I'm so.
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  Excited. It really is.
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  I'm really excited that we're going to drag the back bed party
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  that I think that's just going to be so sick because I will say
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  hardcore piece of like fetish gear furniture.
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  And I feel like a lot of people, they see them online and we
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  don't ever have it out during parties because it's a vac bed.
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  You got to keep it, you know? But this one, we're breaking it
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  out for it. And I am super excited because I
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  already know people are probably going to lose their shit over it
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  like when they see it or at the beat them off with a stick.
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  I've already know that it's going to be a line of people.
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  Can I help it? Can I help it?
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  It's going to be all night. It's going to be so fun.
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  Maybe somebody will buy us another vac bed and we could
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  have two of them there. I want, I want a cube.
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  I want the kind that like when you they're like suspended, you
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  know what I'm talking about. I like that one.
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  I think if if we got another vac anything we should get a vac
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  cube. Those are awesome.
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  They. 'D also probably be easier to
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  get people in and out of a little bit just cuz you just sit
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  down in the queue. Yeah.
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  Very cool. I'm in my Latex era so so much
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  right now. Well, if someone wants to donate
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  or buy for the dungeon, feel free.
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  I love you forever. I'll hold your hand.
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  I would use it on you for a. Thing if you buy it for me, I'd
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  give you a kiss. I also need a zoom podcast or
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  it's called Pod Track P4 if anyone wants to donate one of
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  those. It's 150 on Amazon.
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  It's on my wish list because mine is getting ready to fry.
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  I don't even have a wish list in my bio and sometimes I feel like
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  I should just put it just to see what happens.
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  I get so like I feel like weird about it sometimes because I'm
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  like I'm just begging. I'm just.
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  Begging. I have a wish list but I haven't
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  posted it on there yet. Yeah, you got a poster?
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  I'm. Going to.
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  Do it. Yeah.
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  You can also do like a Sheen with shorter list.
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  I love. Money is the weight of my heart,
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  so if you want to fall in love with me, send me $500 and I'll
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  decide if I want to respond after.
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  There you go. You want to get my attention?
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  You give me gifts. Maybe he says sex toys and I
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  have presents outfit. I really do love presents on the
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  sucker phone. Oh yeah, we have this one guy
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  that comes to the dungeon and he brought us so many presents and
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  he like sent me a gift card for my birthday or something.
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  Oh no. Valentine's Day.
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  Yes, it was so sweet. And we had another guy like
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  bringing us dolls like oh, they made sense because like he
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  brought me a Bratz doll that looked like me.
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  He brought Mia and Elvira doll. I love that Liv a Bratz doll
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  that looked like. Her, that was.
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  And it was so cute. It was.
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  I love when they bring little presents and gifts.
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  That was so sweet. I'm like, yes, offerings.
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  Right. Yeah, that's so cool.
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  We, you know, we've met so many great people in this community
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  and this lifestyle. I mean, it's just such a great
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  thing, you know, honestly, because you're like minded
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  individuals and it's just so it's so connecting.
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  You know, when you meet people and you go through their journey
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  and you just enjoy things so much.
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  And I will say, the gentleman you were talking about bringing
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  gifts and that one night we did that smoking fetish and we have
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  to do a shout out. That's Charles and Georgia.
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  He's awesome. He's going to be coming down for
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  the the event. Little cupcake, Little cupcake.
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  Oh, I might have a friend that wants to put a cigarette on
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  them. Oh yeah.
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  You know you know, little friend.
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  Oh, I do. She she has been begging to put
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  a cigarette on the man. I said hey we got 2 smokers.
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  She only wants to do it to a man though.
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  She will not do it to a woman. I'll do it to anybody.
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  If we put her in that room in there, it would turn into a
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  snuff film so quick. We'd turn in there, she's
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  pulling her teeth out or something crazy.
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  She's real brutal. We wouldn't have to put a leash
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  on that bitch. No sharp objects.
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  Friend cannot have sharp objects.
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  That's funny shit. Yeah, We used to have this one
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  gentleman who would always come to the dungeon to see an old
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  friend of mine and they would play, and he was really into the
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  Bastian auto scene. He loved beating feet with
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  objects and not so much the caning aspect of the Bastian
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  auto, but he always wanted to use whips.
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  And she, yeah, she had an issue with how bad the whip would wrap
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  around the top of her foot. And she's like, look, hide all
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  the whips, they're gone, move with loggers, whatever.
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  Because I I can't do it. I can't do it anyway.
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  He was super cool about it. But but yeah, the whole bastion
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  out of the stretching thing, it is really cool.
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  It's just a cool fetish in general.
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  And I think like you said, the vac bed and other things that
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  are going to happen at this event, just the the fetish
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  level, it's just it's going to be incredible.
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  I'm really interested to see our friend, our new friend of the
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  dungeon, do the CBT live because they texted me the other day
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  about it and they're like, yeah, we got new sounding rods.
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  He's taking it really well. It's going to be great.
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  And I just think it's so funny like that.
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  They're practicing for it. It just is so fun.
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  It just, it just shows it's going to, it's going to be fun.
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  It really is. We're going to tie, tie him to a
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  stripper pole there, Salem witch style.
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  And then just he's going to get his Dick beat up.
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  And it was so funny. I invited them over to the
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  dungeon just to meet them and, you know, see how they are, hang
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  out with them for a second. And they were talking about it
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  and they're like, yeah, I'm just going to tie my boyfriend up to
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  the pole. And I was like, oh, you're going
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  to like hit him. And she was like, Yep.
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  And I was like, do you need any implements?
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  And she went, no, I'm just going to beat him up, put her hand
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  and. I was like, I love.
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  It if if they get there and that person starts just beating the
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  shit out of their boyfriend, I just, I'm going to sit there and
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  just giggle and watch. It's going to be so funny.
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  That's going to be awesome. Yeah, I'm really excited about
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  that. I'm excited to see what Liv
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  does, too. Liv always does super fun
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  things. And I'm just well-rounded, so
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  I'll do. Everybody's going to be swinging
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  from the ceilings. Oh yeah, we put Abby in the
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  cage, but she wouldn't like it in there.
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  No. She's a free bird.
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  I'll put everybody else in the cage.
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  You turn around, there's just eight people in that tiny cage.
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  Gabby's not letting them out. All their penises on the outside
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  of the cage, just whacking them. Just whacking them or yanking
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  them. Or that honestly, that.
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  Sounds pretty cool. I will say if we could probably
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  with the one go go cage we have, you could probably fit 5 or 6
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  dudes in there and you could get like 2 dudes on each wall with
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  their Dick sticking out and that would be a sick video or picture
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  just like walking around smacking the hard tip.
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  Yeah, I really want to see how many people we can shove in.
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  I have a picture of the cage with like 4 girls on it.
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  Oh. Yeah.
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  I'll I'll show you the pictures. Yes, that's awesome.
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  I have to show you the the cage. We got super cool.
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  And you know what? When the cage gets there, maybe
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  we'll see if we can suspend it. Yeah, yeah.
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  We'll see. We'll see.
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  We'll certainly do that. Wow, this is always interesting,
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  isn't it? So you all have seen different
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  people over the years that you've been here in the dungeon.
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  Have you thought maybe who would be someone that really sticks
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  out in your mind? Something maybe maybe is your
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  favorite or maybe not, but just someone that really just kind of
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  sticks out to you that you actually just enjoy saying.
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  Oh gosh, I like our latex boy. I love Latex.
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  I like cupcakes. I like latex.
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  Boy, I like the sweet ones. Yeah.
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  You know I tend to like the sweet ones.
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  Oh actually I know my 2 favorites I had there was this
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  one week where I saw two guys and they they were both very
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  hot. You know, not everyone who who
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  who floats through here is quite to my taste, but these two men
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  were actually like right up my alley.
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  And they both looked very similar.
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  They both had like, long black curly hair, you know, nice tan
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  skin. They were covered in like the
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  island tattoos. And like 1 was real jacked.
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  And the other one was still like pretty strong but lean.
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  And they both just wanted to get pegged.
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  And I was just like, yeah, I'm a fuck you like a bitch.
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  And I remember I was throwing them around, so I'm pretty
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  strong. And so I was like, I had their
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  legs up over their head. I was like, I'm gonna enjoy
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  myself. I was sitting there and I was
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  that they're sweating my makeup off.
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  Like I remember I went upstairs after me.
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  I was like, damn, you put in some work and I was like, he was
• 14:58
  fine. I had to show out a little bit.
• 15:01
  But I will say he's one of my favorite clients or just one of
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  my favorite times seeing somebody because the dildo he
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  brought was like $130.00 Doc Johnson, and we used it.
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  And at the end he didn't like it.
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  And he was like, oh, yeah, it's just not my taste.
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  You can have it. And then I took it home and I
• 15:21
  it's like the most expensive dildo I have because I'm not
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  going to spend $130.00 on a dildo.
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  And so now it's like my prize possession, my Doc Johnson.
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  I'm like, this is my baby. I know it kind of pass.
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  I know they doesn't leave my house because none of you whores
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  are touching it. It's my baby, it's my dog.
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  It stays at my house. It's on your insurance policy.
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  Yeah, the house burns down. That Dick is covered.
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  And. You know, it's really funny.
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  I purposely never looked at the box because I have a
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  photographic memory and I didn't want to see what Doc Johnson
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  looked like. Imagine him if I didn't think he
• 15:52
  was cute every time I used it. You know, you know, it's funny,
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  it just automatically thinks something when you say things
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  like that. Because I thought this so many
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  times, never having kids. At some point there's going to
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  be somebody who's going to come in and sell off my estate,
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  right? And they're going to open up the
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  dungeon and they're going to be like.
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  Don't worry me, I'll be here. I'll sell yours.
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  I'll just take it over for. You.
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  I'll rob you. Yeah.
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  If you pass before me, I'll go rob the dungeon.
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  Don't worry about it. Nobody.
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  No, but you're only 20 years younger than me.
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  True. You never know.
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  We're not that far. No.
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  That's what I'm saying. That's why I said if you die
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  before me, I know, we know I do. I I'm probably going to run into
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  the woods at some point. But could you?
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  Imagine if they like a if you like an estate sale like.
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  Bro I would be asking estate sale just if I got a text being
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  like there is an estate sale. It was a sex dungeon.
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  I would immediately be there. I would purchase everything and
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  then turn around. Who wants to buy this off?
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  I'd be like for everybody. Let's all share the wealth.
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  You know what's funny is years ago this is, this has been 1520
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  years ago, I went to a yard sale and they, so they were selling a
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  coffin. They were selling.
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  Yeah, they were selling gas masks.
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  They had some latex pieces. They were selling whatever
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  baddie died. They were selling fucking dildos
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  package, but like massive dildos.
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  And they were like, yeah, this is the adult room.
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  So, you know, obviously 18 or older.
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  And I was like, Oh my, take me there and take it.
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  Anything you're like. Unfortunately, this is my
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  favorite thing to look. It was so crazy and it was like
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  different costumes. It was.
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  Great, I would have said. Hands off.
• 17:37
  Everything in this room's mine. You were like, how much in the
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  room I. Know.
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  That's so fun, I feel like I never got lucky like that.
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  It was something you never skip to say.
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  Honestly, I have to. Tell you something funny, Yes.
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  So I had a friend of mine text me and apparently I heard about
• 17:56
  this in the news. Apparent I don't know her name
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  off the top of my head. Apparently some woman in
• 18:01
  politics, her husband got outed for being like a Sissy.
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  You know what I'm talking. About yes.
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  Well, apparently the dominatrix involved like came out and said
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  something about it. She looks vaguely like me.
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  And I'm also done. So I had people send it to me
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  and they people are going for a split second, I thought this was
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  you. I'm like, how crazy would that
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  have been? Like just turning out like one
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  of the guys we've seen in the dungeon was like, like married
• 18:28
  to a politician. I'd be like, oh, but you know.
• 18:31
  That's how fucked it is that they have such a problem with
• 18:35
  this man, This poor man, being a fucking crossdresser.
• 18:38
  I mean in a sense. Private.
• 18:40
  He's not my thing because he's not posting it.
• 18:42
  He's not just dig into his fucking gun.
• 18:44
  Now, I don't know about these people as people, I've never
• 18:47
  heard of them. But like, my thing is, I think
• 18:49
  it's like y'all are just making fun to make fun of that.
• 18:52
  You know what I mean? Somebody you liked.
• 18:55
  It's so unfair. It's just, I think it's just a
• 18:58
  little odd. It's like y'all had to dig that
• 19:00
  shit up. They're only jealous, but that's
• 19:02
  what it is. I just know I looked like the
• 19:06
  dominatrix involved. I got to show you the
• 19:07
  screenshot. Later you'll have to show us.
• 19:09
  It was a girl that like I did like one circus with that I
• 19:13
  hadn't met before, but she also happened to be a dominatrix.
• 19:16
  OK, well, I'm going to tell you about that later.
• 19:18
  That's not so funny that it's that's interesting since you
• 19:21
  bring up, you know, politics and social media.
• 19:24
  This is crazy. So this was back in 2022.
• 19:28
  There was this couple and they, you know, lived in a nice home,
• 19:32
  blah, blah, blah. She was a nurse.
• 19:34
  He worked for the IRSIRS had gone and they're in Virginia,
• 19:39
  mind you, I think in Roanoke or right outside DC.
• 19:44
  But he went and they, they pretty much gave him a
• 19:49
  promotion. So he's at this point, he's
• 19:51
  carrying a gun, he's carrying a badge.
• 19:53
  He becomes like an officer and so she's working a lot and they
• 20:00
  decide they're going to hire a nanny and they get nannies from
• 20:06
  foreign countries and they're they're called au pairs.
• 20:09
  Oh yeah, I know about the AU pairs.
• 20:11
  Yeah. OK.
• 20:12
  So they get one and it doesn't work out well, then they hire
• 20:16
  another one. I.
• 20:17
  Think they know what you're talking?
• 20:18
  You know what? I'm talking about.
• 20:19
  OK, yeah, because they always hire the young pretty au pairs.
• 20:23
  Well. Oh, you need a hot European 20
• 20:26
  year old to live in in your house to take care of your kids
• 20:28
  when your wife's gone? OK, well this girl was 24 and
• 20:32
  she was not an attractive Venezuelan.
• 20:35
  She wasn't attractive. She was short and kind of dumpy
• 20:38
  and the wife was beautiful and attractive thing.
• 20:41
  Cheating is never about that, no.
• 20:43
  It's about power. It is, but you know.
• 20:47
  Beyoncé got cheated on. Yeah, OK.
• 20:50
  I got you. Yeah, I got you.
• 20:54
  But ultimately what happens is this is how fuck this is.
• 20:58
  So the husband tried to establish that the wife was into
• 21:01
  BDSM and that she wanted a consensual rape done.
• 21:06
  Consent, non consent. I know.
• 21:08
  Exactly what story you're talking about.
• 21:09
  It's crazy. You know what story I'm talking
• 21:11
  about? Well, this was on Dateline about
• 21:13
  a week or two ago, and ultimately they set up a Fetlife
• 21:17
  account. The husband.
• 21:18
  I watched the trial. On this I did too right and see
• 21:22
  the AU pair goes and she collaborates with him I.
• 21:26
  Was so sick it. Was so sick it was.
• 21:28
  Sick and fucking twisted it was. And also like I felt so bad for
• 21:34
  the man on Fetlife that they got involved in that because that
• 21:40
  was just Oh my guys please be careful on fat life.
• 21:44
  Do not go meet strangers. Boy or not.
• 21:46
  I don't care if you're a man or what.
• 21:48
  Don't go meet fucking strangers offline.
• 21:50
  Figure out a way to vet them like you will die.
• 21:54
  So that's the part of the story where we need to give them
• 21:56
  context, so we're leaving that part out.
• 21:59
  So Abby's not familiar with this because you never get a chance
• 22:02
  to fucking watch Dateline. You're raising kids, Barbie and
• 22:06
  I do not have that. God bless my sons, right?
• 22:12
  So anyway, so the husband and the nanny, they go to the great
• 22:15
  lengths of using this woman's computer, creating a fat life
• 22:19
  account and all of this that the woman never even got on herself,
• 22:24
  never even knew about it. I guess they would go on, they'd
• 22:26
  delete the history, blah, blah blah.
• 22:29
  And then they got onto Fetlife again, and they were
• 22:33
  communicating with people, and they go into these chats on
• 22:37
  Telegram, which is all encrypted and it's untraceable.
• 22:42
  Yeah. But for some reason they were
• 22:45
  able to get parts of conversations that they had had
• 22:49
  the nanny and or the husband with strange people from
• 22:53
  Fetlife, strangers they never met, pretending to be the wife,
• 22:58
  the nurse. Okay so then all of a sudden
• 23:02
  they meet this guy, he's on Fetlife.
• 23:04
  He lives with this grandma. Seems like a nice kind of guy.
• 23:07
  They said he was into Larping and he just sounds like a DND
• 23:11
  kind of nerd, kind of a fun guy. And they set it up with him that
• 23:15
  he would come to their house. Posing as the wife saying this,
• 23:20
  so they're posing as a single woman saying I want you to come
• 23:24
  to my house consensually and do rape play.
• 23:27
  So break into my house and when I resist, keep going because so
• 23:32
  they're basically setting up a real rape to be and because oh,
• 23:37
  it's and that's what's so sick about it.
• 23:39
  They're like, oh, if I beg you to stop, keep going, that is
• 23:42
  demonic bitch. That is the most vile shit I've
• 23:45
  ever heard in my life. Like, Oh my goodness, that makes
• 23:48
  my skin crawl. It was terrible.
• 23:51
  And just like the fact that it's like the community already has a
• 23:54
  bad fucking reputation and the fact that they were successful
• 23:57
  in finding a guy who wanted to do that.
• 23:59
  I'm not judging the guy. It just sucks they were able to
• 24:02
  find somebody because it's just like, God damn, It's like, I
• 24:07
  feel so bad for that man. But yeah, you keep telling.
• 24:09
  Well, and the guy, he didn't even bring like some horrible
• 24:12
  weapon he brought it looked like a cheese knife, like a small,
• 24:16
  like a. Play knife that you would use
• 24:17
  for play. It didn't even have like a sharp
• 24:20
  edge. It was like a it was like a
• 24:21
  pointed butcher knife, not a non pointed butcher knife and it was
• 24:26
  probably maybe a 5 inch long. Like a bread knife without the
• 24:28
  red. Knife.
• 24:29
  Yes, yes. I was thinking bread, cheese,
• 24:32
  something. Yeah, it was small.
• 24:33
  It wasn't like a dagger, knife or anything like that.
• 24:36
  But ultimately, so the husband told the nanny that he was going
• 24:41
  to go to work, but each day he was going to start going to
• 24:44
  McDonald's. So it didn't look so obvious,
• 24:47
  right, Because they incorporated the fact that he was stopping
• 24:50
  somewhere before work. So the Opair goes and she is
• 24:54
  going to take their four year old daughter now to the zoo that
• 24:58
  day. So she's getting ready to leave
• 25:00
  and they all set it up so lovely.
• 25:03
  According to them. They send, she sends a text and
• 25:07
  tells the husband, yeah, there's a strange car here, I don't know
• 25:10
  who it is. And he's like, I'll be right
• 25:12
  home, I'm at McDonald's. So he turns around, goes back
• 25:17
  and him and the AU pair go in. They take the daughter with
• 25:21
  them, which made no fucking sense.
• 25:23
  If you there's a strange car at your house.
• 25:25
  And there's some strange people. Actually, the AU pair and the
• 25:28
  daughter should didn't even leave the car.
• 25:30
  No, no, made no fucking sense. There's I feel like any normal
• 25:35
  reasonable person would be like. I don't.
• 25:38
  Know because the child can't wait in a car by itself.
• 25:40
  So the AU pair, the child's guardian, should wait and then
• 25:44
  send the man in. And as the man's going in, you
• 25:46
  should already be on phone 911. That is how you check your
• 25:49
  house. But they did.
• 25:52
  The fact is, people thought they were smart.
• 25:54
  Oh my God. They got caught so bad, caught
• 25:56
  so bad, and it's like and like we haven't gotten even the but
• 26:01
  yet we're so passionate about how terrible this story.
• 26:04
  Is yes, because again, it puts BDSM in a bad light.
• 26:08
  You know Dateline starts it off with the SNM world, the dark
• 26:11
  seediness. The dark side of me shut up,
• 26:15
  shut the fuck up. And I remember just like the way
• 26:18
  I remember I was watching a trial on it and then I watched
• 26:22
  like a video essay on it and the way they were explaining
• 26:25
  Fetlife, like it's just like not like not to like draw attention
• 26:28
  from the fact that crime was committed, but it's just so
• 26:30
  annoying because it's just like they talk about it like it's a
• 26:33
  fucking dark web. Like it's not like a fucking
• 26:35
  thing. You can Google that.
• 26:37
  It's on the clean Internet. Like not only.
• 26:40
  Free size It's a. Free size, you just have to have
• 26:42
  an account like it's not even hard like you don't even have to
• 26:46
  do anything to get the account. I think.
• 26:48
  I think one time I had to show my ID, but I made a second
• 26:51
  account and didn't have to. So it's like big deal and I need
• 26:54
  to show your fucking ID to get a Facebook these days.
• 26:56
  It's like, I don't know, it was just so annoying to hear people
• 26:59
  like Fetlife is a fetish website for people to meet up.
• 27:03
  Girl, it's just kinky Facebook. That's.
• 27:05
  Commonly, that's what it. Is it is kinky Facebook I I've
• 27:08
  seen pictures of people on hikes.
• 27:10
  So the AU pair goes and takes the daughter to the downstairs
• 27:13
  basement and gives her her iPad with her and then locks the
• 27:18
  basement and then she goes. Upstairs, which is weird.
• 27:21
  Yeah, let's lock the kid in the basement when there's an
• 27:23
  intruder. Let's not just leave her in the
• 27:25
  car. Yeah, exactly.
• 27:27
  And then ultimately they don't call the police right away.
• 27:31
  Instead they go upstairs and the husband here screams, goes in
• 27:36
  there, says, you know, officer, blah blah blah.
• 27:41
  And he proceeds, ultimately he doesn't shoot the guy right
• 27:45
  away, but then he ends up wanting to oh, he.
• 27:51
  Yeah, they twist the story because they lied.
• 27:54
  They lied. What they told the police is
• 27:56
  that the man killed the wife, They shot the man in
• 28:00
  self-defense. So that was the order they told
• 28:03
  the police, came out later that I'm sure we won't ever really
• 28:07
  know what happened because they're not going to tell the
• 28:09
  truth. Essentially what happened is
• 28:11
  they came in essentially the situation dissolved a little bit
• 28:15
  where I think the wife and this Fetlife guy both were like, Oh
• 28:20
  no, we're being set up or something.
• 28:22
  They kill this dude and then they kill the wife.
• 28:25
  But they're trying to make it look like this dude did it, but
• 28:28
  they're dumb as fuck. And it just literally was just
• 28:31
  double homicide and they got caught literally immediately.
• 28:35
  I'm pretty sure the cops walked in and went OK so.
• 28:37
  He's going to jail, yeah. So you went through all of these
• 28:40
  months of effort in divorce? Just get a divorce.
• 28:44
  What they figured out was that the guy from Fat Life was
• 28:47
  sitting in the corner on the dog bed and they pretty much shot
• 28:51
  him. And because it was blood
• 28:53
  splatter past the doggy bed and there was a pool of blood.
• 28:57
  But then they said he the way the guy was positioned, they bet
• 29:01
  he was laying there coffin style with his arms crossed over his
• 29:05
  chest. So he like, he was there.
• 29:07
  Yeah. Like he was positioned by
• 29:09
  someone, hands crossing over his chest and then that the wife,
• 29:14
  she ends up dying at the hospital, but he.
• 29:18
  Like a stab wound. Yes, he taken and popped through
• 29:22
  her neck and her clavicle and everything and she survived long
• 29:26
  enough to get to the hospital but couldn't speak and passed at
• 29:32
  the hospital. It's it's literally evil.
• 29:34
  So are we such a dark turn to that?
• 29:36
  I know, I know, but you know, it's a valid point to bring up
• 29:39
  with Fed because. It brings a lot of attention to
• 29:42
  fat life that I had not seen in a.
• 29:44
  Wildlife, yes. And it and that's what just
• 29:47
  sucks about it, because it's just like that that life has
• 29:50
  nothing to do with this crime. Not at all.
• 29:52
  It those people tried to use fat life as a catalyst to find some
• 29:56
  freak that they can use as a prop, and it didn't even work.
• 30:00
  Like, it sounds like that guy was normal.
• 30:03
  It sounds like once they ran in, he figured out what was like to
• 30:07
  me. It just that dude probably went
• 30:09
  in there and was like, I don't know about this.
• 30:11
  You know what I mean? He probably, that's probably why
• 30:13
  he was in the corner all weird. Yeah, he that dude is a normal
• 30:17
  guy who had a weird fetish. Who, as far as he knew was doing
• 30:22
  something completely consenting. Yes.
• 30:24
  And so I don't think that life should get a bad Rep because in
• 30:28
  reality, that's an amazing example of someone in the King
• 30:31
  scene where he got the express permission.
• 30:34
  He thought he was having negotiations with the person
• 30:36
  involved. Now we can argue that they
• 30:38
  should have Facetimed or whatever blah blah blah.
• 30:40
  But anonymous encounters exist. And so it's like it just sucks
• 30:44
  this guy like I just feel so bad for him.
• 30:46
  Like y'all it's horrible. Please be careful if y'all meet
• 30:49
  up with people off fed the world is dangerous.
• 30:51
  Like FaceTime them or something. Like came your wits about you
• 30:56
  man. You know, the concept of a rape
• 30:58
  fantasy, the concept of consent, non consent.
• 31:02
  It's cool, it's great. It's cool and I will say, you
• 31:05
  know, it's fine lines. Yeah, absolutely.
• 31:09
  It's almost like you need a group like consent, non consent
• 31:12
  and you're all in a group and. CNC for me is like, sorry to
• 31:16
  interrupt you, but like CNC is also like rate play, but also
• 31:20
  CNC is free use. So then you get into like that's
• 31:24
  why I said fine lines of what's what, Because to me, like free
• 31:27
  use is not rape play. Rape play is more of the the
• 31:31
  role-playing of the struggle, if that makes sense.
• 31:35
  And so like, I feel like if you're into free use or if
• 31:38
  you're into like fucking while you're asleep, like that is CNC,
• 31:42
  but it's not rape play and CNC like, but rape play does fall
• 31:46
  under CNC. And I feel like people group,
• 31:49
  it's like they all have, they have like all CNC is just rape.
• 31:52
  And it's like, it's really not like, I mean, I don't really
• 31:56
  judge anybody who's like into like consensual rape play.
• 31:59
  It's not really my thing. I'm not really into that.
• 32:01
  But you know, teach their own. But like, I, I hate when people
• 32:06
  are just so judgy about that because, like, when you judge a
• 32:09
  kink, judge it on the fact that the people doing it are both
• 32:13
  consenting adults. Yeah.
• 32:15
  Once you get that, like, in through your head, you're going
• 32:18
  to realize that you don't really need to be, like, talking shit
• 32:21
  on any of this. Is there two consenting adults?
• 32:24
  Literally, who cares? Absolutely.
• 32:26
  And you know, the husband wanted to keep incorporating somewhere
• 32:30
  in her his wife's search history that she was involved with BDSM.
• 32:34
  And ultimately they figured out that it was the nanny going on,
• 32:39
  you know, the history, etcetera, etcetera.
• 32:41
  Start putting it in. It's just, it was just shitty
• 32:43
  and you. Know it's.
• 32:44
  Horrible. Like just divorce her.
• 32:47
  Yeah, absolutely. Just divorce like it just it
• 32:51
  just shows such evil intent. I hope they get 1 billion years
• 32:54
  in prison. Well, they sentenced both of
• 32:56
  them, Yeah, and I think. They both got pretty heavy.
• 32:59
  Sentences. I think she only got like a 10
• 33:01
  year sentence. That was it, 10.
• 33:03
  Yeah, well, she's an accessory. Oh, she's an.
• 33:05
  Accessory. OK, OK, Yeah, maybe they they
• 33:08
  probably couldn't prove how involved she.
• 33:10
  Was exactly she played dumb and you know, it was like he was so
• 33:14
  in love with her according to both of them and then and then
• 33:18
  his mother was paying for everything for her poor.
• 33:20
  Children don't got no parents now.
• 33:22
  Exactly. I mean, it's just, it's just sad
• 33:25
  all the way around. It's just a sad situation.
• 33:27
  That's why I'm always so serious with people about safety in the
• 33:31
  community, because I don't think people who are kinky are
• 33:34
  inherently more dangerous than anybody else.
• 33:37
  But I will say people who want to be predators will pretend to
• 33:40
  be people who are kinky. And that's my thing.
• 33:43
  It's like kinky people are not predators, but predators will
• 33:45
  hide in that grass. And you do have to watch out
• 33:48
  because as you know, we're all women.
• 33:50
  We've all seen doms that aren't doms.
• 33:53
  They just want to hit a girl. And so it's like I always
• 33:56
  implore people that when they're on fat, like especially if you
• 33:59
  want to hook up with people, if you want to go out and do things
• 34:01
  like do your best to make sure you're safe, because serial
• 34:04
  killers exist, Freaks exist. They do like, you know, get
• 34:08
  tested, be safe, drink your water.
• 34:13
  Like I just I, I get, I just feel so bad for people sometimes
• 34:17
  my hearts too big. I read that story and I, and I
• 34:20
  literally like it broke my heart.
• 34:22
  I had to. I think I listened to the trial
• 34:23
  in pieces just because I was like, I can't listen to all
• 34:25
  this. Yeah, it was a lot in Dateline.
• 34:28
  It was just it. Was I don't watch Dateline.
• 34:31
  I I watch like these streamers that will do live reactions to
• 34:35
  them. Yeah, it's it's like
• 34:36
  interesting. I don't know, I've been into
• 34:38
  those. It was all very interesting.
• 34:40
  I often we've been Yammer. Yeah, yeah, I know, I know it.
• 34:45
  Like you said, it took a dark turn.
• 34:46
  But ultimately, like Barbie said.
• 34:48
  It seems to do with 1000%, yeah. It just, it's sad to see people
• 34:53
  take advantage of community like that and the fact that they,
• 34:57
  they were hoping that the the community would just believe it
• 35:01
  was a fucked up accident and stuff like that instead of, I
• 35:04
  don't know, it's just sad for all.
• 35:07
  Imagine if they were successful. That poor boy.
• 35:09
  Oh. My God.
• 35:11
  They were successful. They would have just made that
• 35:14
  part. They would have ruined that
• 35:15
  man's reputation. That mom would have had to cry
• 35:17
  herself sleeping and her son's now dead.
• 35:19
  Rape is Oh my gosh. And you know, it's really dumb.
• 35:22
  People do this all the time. When they kill somebody and they
• 35:25
  play innocent, they then go like this father, husband.
• 35:30
  What he did, he brought in the AU pair into his bedroom.
• 35:33
  They literally. They moved in within two weeks.
• 35:35
  Yes, into she was sleeping in the wife's bed.
• 35:40
  Do we have not decorum? Oh my goodness.
• 35:43
  Yeah, they redecorated and did different things she took.
• 35:47
  The wife's pictures down, yes, and moved all the children's
• 35:50
  pictures like downstairs, like she was moving family pictures.
• 35:53
  Apparently she looked up a photo of herself in the bedroom.
• 35:55
  Yes, her and the husband on the side table.
• 35:59
  Oh no, she got murdered. Here, let me hang my picture
• 36:01
  above where her corpse was. So yeah.
• 36:04
  No morning. Yeah, it was horrible.
• 36:07
  Got my. Little break out the
• 36:08
  pyrotechnics at that point. Wow, I have a little bit more
• 36:11
  respect for people than that. Gosh, I've had more respect for
• 36:14
  dead people I don't even care about.
• 36:18
  All right, I tell you what, the best part to aside from all that
• 36:24
  was the humorous part. Barbie, you said in a session
• 36:27
  one time, yeah, he was bleeding, but it's not my problem if.
• 36:33
  You're looking for a knife. Find another bitch.
• 36:35
  There you go. All right.
• 36:37
  So Abby, thanks for coming in. Barbie, thank you for coming in.
• 36:41
  It's great. Time I'll send you my invoice.
• 36:44
  All right. Ladies.
• 36:45
  All right, all right, maybe one day.
• 36:47
  OK, so until then, this has been the latest episode of Call Me
• 36:51
  Mistress.