She's Not Avoiding Sex (Her Body Is Trying To Tell You Something)

Go Have Good Sex featuring The Christian Sexpert · Apr 23, 2026 · 29m

You think she doesn’t want sex.

But what if that’s not actually the problem?

In this episode, we’re unpacking what I really mean when I say, “Healthy women, in safe marriages, don’t turn down good sex.” Because “healthy” is doing a lot more work in that sentence than most people realize.

We’re talking about the real, often ignored factors that impact desire—mental health, trauma (including purity culture), hormones, physical health, medications, nutrition, and even where she is in her cycle.

If desire feels inconsistent, confusing, or completely gone, this episode will help you understand…