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380 Mujeres estrictas e inefectivas. · Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez

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  Podcast number three hundred and eighty continually converted to men in the churches. When
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  I get to any city in the world and while the pastor or church leader
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  takes me to the hotel, I like to ask you what are the main
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  problems facing young marriages, women and men in the church. They' re
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  usually the same. I find the difference in the proportion in which these problems
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  arise. In some places there is more domestic violence in others jealousy. In
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  major cities in the United States, for example, the predominant theme is that
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  people are too imbued in their work. In some cities of Colombia, or
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  the predominant theme is the promiscuity of man. In other societies, youth insurrection,
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  boys who don' t want to be subjected to anything or anyone.
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  As they are many years traveling and knowing many cultures, I can detail a
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  little more the mechanics that many pastors and leaders put into practice to solve the
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  problems of their communities. With this I' ve told you, I want
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  to lay the foundation for what I' m going to tell women today.
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  Girls know what percentage of men have changed and have been won for Christ through
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  the criticisms, complaints and sermons of their wives. Zero, the percentage is
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  zero. No one agrees to be a better husband through the toxic coercion of
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  a spouse. I have spoken to too many men who had no problem recognizing
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  their mistakes and were willing to change, but their wives constantly degraded them for
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  their mistakes. You' re just like your dad, you never do it
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  right or you did it right, but you could have done it better.
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  I married a useless man. I know that the holy pious and good women
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  who are hearing this podcast would never say anything like that to their husbands,
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  right. But girls, I think there are women who say so you approach
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  the troubled soul of those husbands and it' s sad to hear them say
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  whatever I do for her will never be enough. I don' t know
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  how you' ll be satisfied anymore, Pastor, I don' t know
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  how to make you happy. You' re ending your marriage, you'
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  re undermining and destroying the most important person in your life, the one God
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  told you to stay with until the last second of your existence. True,
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  your husband is a horrible bunch of mistakes and sins like you, no difference.
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  It will always seem to you that your husband' s sins are superior
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  to yours, but you cannot lose sight of the fact that the same drop
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  of blood that set you free also set him free. And this is not
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  a message for you to manage and endure your husband' s mistakes. It
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  ' s not a message for you to change and modify the way you'
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  re probably trying to fix those mistakes. Recapitulation Return to your last discussions with
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  him. Now remember the words you used, if there are qualifiers that attack
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  you and lower you eliminate them from your conversation. Why you never do things.
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  Well, I' m forbidden from doing this or that for God'
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  s sake. When you' re going to grow up phrases like these,
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  you can' t keep using them and I invite you to make your own
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  list. Also, if you used comparisons with men, we don' t
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  like comparisons where we' re losers. Well, I don' t think
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  anyone likes that. If you compare it, make it a winner. First
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  Peter, chapter number three, verse number one to himself wives. Submit yourselves
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  to your husbands, so that if any of them do not believe in the
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  word, they may be gained more by your behavior than by your words.
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  I just read First Peter, chapter number three, verse number one in the
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  new international version. Now he' s talking about submission. That submission must
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  be voluntary. They must make the depths of your heart. In Ephesians,
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  the lord says wives submit to their husbands. It does not say husbands submit
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  to their wives, because this must be a voluntary act and do not misunderstand
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  the word submission or submission. Please, girls don' t put it into
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  the language of today' s society, because it would be interpreted as how
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  a husband can subjugate, enslave, and run over a woman' s rights.
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  No submission. That means giving him the place of government that God gave
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  to a man who was a determined husband. Rule is implicit in respect and
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  love for the governed and does not deepen any further, because this is not
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  the main theme of this message. But let men rule with love and delicacy.
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  But let us return to what Peter Tresui' s first verse says.
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  In this verse the apostle. Peter says that the husband earns himself through the
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  behavior of a wife who, by her words, is a silent example testimony
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  of life that also cares through proceeding the heart of her husband. I'
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  ll help you. The next time he raises his voice, you put it
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  down, remember that proverbs XV one says the kind answer calms his anger,
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  but the aggressive one provokes anger Jasmith, on many occasions he looks at me
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  and tells me because you' re talking to me like this, Pastor,
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  the next time you see that he made the same mistake, ask him what
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  I can do to help you not make this mistake the next time you want
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  to compare it to lower it, tell him you' re a great man.
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  That thing you just did doesn' t match what you really are.
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  I love you good. I hope that in this podcast addressed to women they
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  have found small pebbles that are treasures that help to have a better marriage,
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  and don' t worry. I' m preparing other podcasts where I'
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  ll have a chance to talk to your husband. For now I want you
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  to have a nice day, but may God impress you with the wisdom you
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  need to have a very good marriage, may God bless you