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2084 - 90 Day Fiance (s12e9) "Actions Speak Louder Than Words" with Kim (90 Day Fiance Cray Cray) · Pink Shade: Reality TV with Mary Payne

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  Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome into Pink Shade. It is Tuesday, It's
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  Speaker 1: TLC Tuesday. So we're going to talk about ninety Day Fiance.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm replacing one Kimberly with another Kimberly, and it
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  Speaker 1: is Kim from ninety Day Reality Fiance Craig Cray. I
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  Speaker 1: never get it right, Hey girl.
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  Speaker 2: Hey Mary Paine. I'm very excited to be here, poor
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  Speaker 2: substitute for Kimberly, but here I.
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  Speaker 1: Am hardly hardly. Yeah, we got I said, well, we'll
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  Speaker 1: just put another Kim in and see if anybody notices.
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  Speaker 2: Nobody'll notice. We are exactly the same person, so similar
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  Speaker 2: in all the ways.
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  Speaker 1: So a lot of people think Amy Archer and Kim
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  Speaker 1: from Kimberly from Day with Daylines sound like the same person.
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  Speaker 2: Oh I could see, Well, their voices have some similarities.
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  Speaker 1: I think, yeah, yeah they do. And I'm used to
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  Speaker 1: them now, but you know, because they're my actual friends.
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  Speaker 1: But it is funny that when you when you hear
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  Speaker 1: somebody say that, you're like, hmmm, you're right, yeah, right,
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  Speaker 1: I could see that. But you all don't look alike,
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  Speaker 1: and nobody knows what you look like anyway.
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  Speaker 2: So it's fine, promise you. It's very boring.
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  Speaker 1: It's let me tell you what it is incredible and
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  Speaker 1: I will tell you guys. So, because Kim and Kyle
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  Speaker 1: do not do video, this episode is not on video.
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  Speaker 1: You can still listen to it on YouTube, but the
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  Speaker 1: video itself will not be on YouTube. There'll be no video,
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  Speaker 1: which is great because I didn't have to shower, I
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  Speaker 1: didn't have to put on mascara, I got my hair
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  Speaker 1: thrown up, I got on a T shirt. It's great.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to my life. It is wonderful. I recorded with
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  Speaker 2: Kyle the other day and he's in Europe and there's
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  Speaker 2: the heat wave and he told me, he was like,
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  Speaker 2: I am in my underwear, so I will be camera off.
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  Speaker 1: You're like, no problem, thank you, all right, thank you,
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  Speaker 1: thank you from the bottom of all of our hearts. Yes.
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  Speaker 2: So he was covered in wet owls to stave off
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  Speaker 2: the heat. So there we go. You know, imes like
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  Speaker 2: that where video is good, not to have video, you know?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what is where he's staying. They don't have air
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  Speaker 1: conditioner because a lot of places in Europe don't.
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  Speaker 2: They just don't like all, I mean in most of Europe,
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  Speaker 2: unless you're even in the South and like southern Europe.
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  Speaker 2: I think they do have air conditioning sometimes, but I
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  Speaker 2: mean he's in Austria and like the mountains, and it
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  Speaker 2: was the lightest day on record. It was in the
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  Speaker 2: nineties in the mountains.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so bad as far as European, I've only been
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  Speaker 1: to London and Paris and are thereabouts around in Paris,
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  Speaker 1: you know, Versill and Normandy and all those things. And
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  Speaker 1: I don't go to a hotel that doesn't have air conditioning.
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  Speaker 1: So this is not befall me.
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  Speaker 2: London typically, you know, you can't find air conditioning anywhere
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  Speaker 2: in London. But I think it is becoming a little
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  Speaker 2: bit more because they've had like three bad summers in
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  Speaker 2: a oh now, yeah, it's just it's getting hotter. Uh,
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  Speaker 2: the world's heating up, as they say.
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  Speaker 1: I wonder why some people. Yeah, interesting, Listen, even my
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  Speaker 1: mom believes in global warming.
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  Speaker 2: Incredible, incredible How when the temperature rises to twenty degrees
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  Speaker 2: people somehow can't deny it.
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  Speaker 1: But ye, Mom's like I believe in that. Now, speaking
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  Speaker 1: of Southerners, have you missed Debbie and Meadow the last
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  Speaker 1: two episodes? Oh sad, but.
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  Speaker 2: That these charmers, you know, I The problem with Debbie
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  Speaker 2: and Meadow is that there is a lot of drama,
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  Speaker 2: but they're not funny.
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  Speaker 1: No, it's not funny. It's scary.
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  Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, so it's not it's not fun to talk about.
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  Speaker 2: Like of course, you know we're we're I mean, we're
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  Speaker 2: talking about it, and we talked about it for a
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  Speaker 2: long time, especially the lat we haven't seen him in
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  Speaker 2: two weeks now, well we haven't seen Meadow in like
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  Speaker 2: three weeks themself. But but Debbie, you know, you're on
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  Speaker 2: Debbie's side until you hear he be like these other selects.
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  Speaker 2: You know that he posted on Instagram. I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: now I'm team No One Debbie. Like it was similar
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  Speaker 2: to the Chakaina and Tais brawl on. I know we're
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  Speaker 2: not talking about divorce divorce castle here, but like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: similar to the performance there, Shakaine, if you would have
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  Speaker 2: kept your fucking mouth shut.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe you again that that Matt and I talked about
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  Speaker 1: that and uh he was on last week instead of
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  Speaker 1: Kimberly and we said the same thing. It's like, I
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  Speaker 1: so I followed the whole thing, Like at this appruder film,
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  Speaker 1: I broke it down frame by Frank. Now this is
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  Speaker 1: what you have to do. I had to do it
• 4:39
  Speaker 1: last year as well with Florian and Jasmine got in
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  Speaker 1: a fight at the last resort. Yeah, at divorce in
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  Speaker 1: the desert, and I had to break that down frame
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  Speaker 1: by frame because I was like, it looks like somebody
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  Speaker 1: grabs somebody, but no, once you break it down, you're
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  Speaker 1: like And in this situation with Chakaina and Tyise, Taise
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  Speaker 1: put her teacup of popcorn down on the table and
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  Speaker 1: kind of like put it down in it went towards Chikina.
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  Speaker 1: She kinda is the one that pushed it and crashed
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  Speaker 1: on the floor.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she that was strategic and also like nobody's getting
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  Speaker 2: you Chekina, Like there's a large pub table between you. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: she had to thrust her body over said table and
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  Speaker 2: lunge like.
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  Speaker 1: She's she wasn't in any danger, but she's like she
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  Speaker 1: threw a glass at me. I was like, no, she didn't.
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  Speaker 1: She flicked popcorn at you and then face, and then
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  Speaker 1: you shoved the glass on the ground. And then because
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  Speaker 1: you said what she said, now nobody can be on
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  Speaker 1: your side ever again. So ever did it? You did
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  Speaker 1: it to yourself.
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  Speaker 2: Girl, And she is just continues to double down and like,
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  Speaker 2: do you believe the rumors that she and Sarper are
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  Speaker 2: like are no more?
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  Speaker 1: I do? I do?
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  Speaker 2: I do too. I think Sarper. You can tell Sarper's
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  Speaker 2: not quite as dumb yeah as we thought, because you
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  Speaker 2: can see the wheel as soon as she said that,
• 6:05
  Speaker 2: the wheels are turning in Starper's head, and he's doing
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  Speaker 2: the thing where he's like stylinging behind his wife. But
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  Speaker 2: he knows this is like she's a liability now and
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  Speaker 2: this is a bad, bad situation. So so yeah, this
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  Speaker 2: is I do believe he's probably like she's bad for
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  Speaker 2: my career. I don't know that he was ever bad
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  Speaker 2: into her. He always seemed like wishy washy about her.
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  Speaker 1: It's interesting because they go I sign and she's like,
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  Speaker 1: I fucking hate all this fucking horrors in there, and
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  Speaker 1: he's like, yeah, okay, let's don't be generalizations.
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  Speaker 2: After she calls another woman violent, she immediately two seconds
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  Speaker 2: later is talking about how she wants to fuck the
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  Speaker 2: other bitch up.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah okay, yeah, not as she kind of yeah, And
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  Speaker 1: then he's like, babe, you cannot say things such as this,
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  Speaker 1: and she's like, what, let's go nobody's gonna come in
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  Speaker 1: So I say to this person.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, wait by nether region stea mean butthole or yeah, I.
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  Speaker 1: Know, I just know butthole problem. Okay, this person had
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was ready, It was ready. I Guermo or
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  Speaker 2: she kind of calls him Geronimo or whatever his name is. Awful,
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  Speaker 2: I am Garima whites up. I was like, OK, can
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  Speaker 2: you imagine anything more fiery right now than Geirmo's dims?
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  Speaker 2: Like his ms are a freaking mess right now. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: so many buttholes in his dms today. Oh.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, I've told you, I don't want the buttholes.
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  Speaker 1: Oh God, it's so funny. And I was gonna telling
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  Speaker 1: my husband about that, about calling it the Kara. He's like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I was going and I gave him the
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  Speaker 1: whole backstory. He goes, Okay, I there's some things I'd
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  Speaker 1: like to see, but I don't want to see that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: No. Kyle was on OnlyFans this morning doing some research
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  Speaker 2: for the pod.
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  Speaker 1: Uh huh.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody's on their man, you don't really hear about it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know why it's such a big deal with
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  Speaker 2: Kara because like literally everyone like also, Rebecca's butthole is
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  Speaker 2: all over the place, but like nobody's talking about it.
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  Speaker 1: I've seen rebecca'snible. Somebody sent me a picture of screenshot
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  Speaker 1: of that one time, and I was like, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: we've definitely, we've all seen sisters Libby, just just all
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  Speaker 1: the Buttholes.
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  Speaker 2: The original Buttholes, yes, Ochi Buttholes. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, we got to get off the subject on.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry, people are like, I'm tuning out any Sorry, I
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  Speaker 2: don't remember how we'll even started talking about that.
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  Speaker 1: But Kara, Okay, So we're going to start with Marissa
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  Speaker 1: and Edward. And what I will tell you is that
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  Speaker 1: a listener wrote me and have told me that they're
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  Speaker 1: from the area, they've seen the wedding announcement, blahbadi blah.
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  Speaker 1: But also that Marissa's mother is seventy five years old.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I want you to sit with that for a second.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I've sat with it as we've been texting about
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  Speaker 2: we need her surgeons. Yeah. I don't know if I
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: could afford her surgeon, but.
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  Speaker 1: I can start saving now.
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  Speaker 2: This is a Martha Stewart situation. Yeah, well it's Martha
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  Speaker 2: Stewart like eighty five or something.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Jane Fonda, same thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. They look incredible. I mean, this woman kind of
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  Speaker 2: looks like Martha Stewart, but she she looks younger than Marissa.
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  Speaker 2: She does, maybe not younger but better.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and maybe not younger but better, but also like
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  Speaker 1: it could be a cousin, not even a sister. And
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  Speaker 1: also it's the hair color. She's got a good colorist,
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  Speaker 1: She's jon. I mean, Marissa's got a very stark, bleach
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  Speaker 1: bondie look with dark eyebrows. And so I think if
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: she toned down whatever, it's not for me to say. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So these two are going to New York City, these
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  Speaker 1: two love birds, and oh boy, he's all excited to
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: be a tourist, and so she points out things like
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  Speaker 1: the mPire State Building, parts of New Jersey that smell
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: like farts, things along the way between Pennsylvania and New
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: York City. So they arrive at her apartment and she's like,
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: don't get excited, it's not that great. Well, it's a
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  Speaker 1: very cute, small apartment that's probably five thousand dollars a month.
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  Speaker 2: It is very fancy, very nice. All of the finishings
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  Speaker 2: are perfect, and it's just like it was so gross
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  Speaker 2: and showed just her I mean whatever, like I don't
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  Speaker 2: want to say, like her privilege, but you know, just
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  Speaker 2: her thoughts on Edward's probably thinking this apartment is like luxury, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and it is.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And she's just like, oh, I'm so embarrassed of my
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: shitty tiny apartment.
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  Speaker 1: My second my second home in New York City. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And so she's mean to him about a motion sensored
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  Speaker 1: trash can. I'm like, let him live, let him play
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: with the motion since your trash can. Let him live.
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  Speaker 2: She hates this guy, she hates everything he does.
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  Speaker 1: He just bugs her so bad.
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  Speaker 2: I also was offended by her slander of New Jersey
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: quite frankly a lovely state, the garden state, if you will. Yeah,
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: you know, yeah, we all have a part of our
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: state that smells bad. Calm down.
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, when we there's a place that we pass
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: that's going from the DC area into Alexandria, and you
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: go over the wig or Wilson Bridge right by National Harbor,
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: and right by there is like the paper facility, not paper,
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: not paper, No, it's like it's like sewage whatever it is.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: It smells like a paper plant or a sewage plant.
• 16:14
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• 16:17
  Speaker 1: and you'll be like, what happened in this car? You know,
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  Speaker 1: and they're like, we didn't do it. It's the it's
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  Speaker 1: the sewage water plant or whatever. God. You know, you
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: know when you're approaching on the highway and it's right
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: by our nation's capital. So and they say, and they're
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: talking d he says, gosh, you know, everybody in New
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: York is not nice. In Pennsylvania, they say, Hi, Hi,
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: But you know in New York you got to learn
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: to walk. It's a skill, and to walk in here.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: So they're walking and they go to dinner and she
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: says the first thing she says is I want to
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: have a nice night, but you look sad like you
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: want to cry, Like what's going on? And he goes,
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: I'm aggravated. And she says with me, and he goes, yeah,
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: you're the only person I know here. Yeah. Yeah, He
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: says he feels pressure on his shoulders. He comes from
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: nothing and she has everything. Her lifestyle is a dream
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: and for him to be a part of it is
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: not easy, which is exactly what her ex husband told you.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: Exactly what he said. He said, this is going to
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: be hard for you.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: This is I mean, first of all, she's berating him
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: the entire way that you don't know what the Empire
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: Staffelding is, And she's like, like, why would you know that?
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: This trivia on New York Architecture, Like I don't know
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: do you know what the tallest building in fucking Dominican
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: Republic is? Right?
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: Why would you know that?
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: Like do you even know a city and Dominican Republic?
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: I think you've only been to the freaking resort, So like,
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: shut up. I just Marissa Kyle and I talk about
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: this all the time. Marissa is the most aggravating person
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: on this season who has been saved by the Depths
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: of Hell, which is Katie. Like, if there were no Katie,
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: everybody would be talking about how awful Marissa is NonStop.
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: She is right in It's just like I cannot stand her,
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: and she just she seems to have the ick or
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: be like it's this thing like did you ever date
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: a guy when you were younger and like you kind
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: of thought he was hot, but he was like embarrassing
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: in some way to you that you didn't really want
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: to bring him around your friends, and when you did,
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: you felt like embarrassed. That is the feeling that she has.
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: She feels embarrassed of Edward by the way for the
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: wrong reasons. It's because he's a poor right that she
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: feels embarrassed and like, it's so obvious to me when
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: I watch it, and it's so like irritating because you
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: wanted some young dick and now you have him with you,
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: but you don't. You're like, oh, it's not good enough
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: for me, and everything is focused on her. Oh well,
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: I have to make a decision if this is right
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: for me. I'm like, what about him? Right?
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: He does? And have to stick with you? Yeah? Yeah,
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: So in talking Head he tells us, you know, I'm
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: still thinking about when she said I'm like another kid,
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: and that's hurtful to me, and I need to get
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: this off my chest and talk to her. So he
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: tells her, you like to control everything, but I am
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: a man and I do know how to handle things,
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: and she goes, mmm, you say that, and I just
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: cringe because I just want you to be productive somehow.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm looking for things in a strong band,
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: and I don't know if you can do that. Like,
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: my expectations are high. It's not about money, and I
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: hate having these conversations like you do this and this,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: but this is the only way you're going to learn
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: how I operate. Just again, this is so weird.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: This man has been on American soil for like forty
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: eight hours.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: I know, I know, how could he learn? Like, hey,
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: in the morning, we get up and then can can
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: you make the kids water bottles? And I'll make the sandwiches?
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: Make sure they rush their teeth data He hasn't been
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: they're long enough to learn the routine to hop into help.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: And even if he wanted to, she would say he
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: was doing it wrong.
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: Absolutely, because she's so Yes, yes, there is no country
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: on Earth as obsessed as America with water bottles. This
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: is not a thing like in other places. I know
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: the amount of water bottles that are needed for children
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: and adults on a daily basis.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: Speaking as both of us pick up our water bottles.
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: Last time we were the last two times we were
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: in France, I asked our tour guide what they thought
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: of Americans with their water bottles, and they were like,
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: I don't understand. Like from us, we have water with
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: our meal, or we get water from our vegetables. We
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: don't need to carry around extra water. And I said,
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: but do you ever feel like dehydrated? Like you get
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: a headache, and they're like, no, we just drink a
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: glass of red wine, Like we're good. What are you
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: talking about?
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: They're like humans for millennia have somehow survived without drinking
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: sixteen hundred ounces of water. I don't know how.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: It's so funny. So he says to her, He goes,
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: I'm not a person who just lays in the bed.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna figure it out. I just need some time.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: And she says, well, I do have faith in you,
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: and I think you can be successful, but I've yet
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: to see you be successful in your life at all.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: What a horrible thing to say, rough, Wow, what a
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: thing to say about the person you've chosen to spend
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: your life with, like I have, I haven't seen you
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: figure it out yet, and you have not been successful
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: in your life at all. That is cash and your
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: husband saying that to you.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: He was holding down a full time job when you
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: met him, and he has had that job this entire time,
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: had enough money to get a penis surgery. He's doing something.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: Right, right. You know, this man got circumcised for you
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: as an adult. That is painful.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: So when her talking head, he goes, she just doesn't
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: give me the respect I need and I need your okay,
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: and you're one hundred percent right everyan. So he says,
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: you chose me to be the person to be with
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: for your life, so we need to be on the
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: same page. Let me organize and see the routine and
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: let me see if I can manage it. And she goes, well,
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: I just do everything myself so I won't be disappointed.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: And he says, but you're not alone now like you
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: have me, And then she says, you know what, I've
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: been horrible to you, and she starts crying and says
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: she's sorry, like you just figured that out.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're aware.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: We're aware you're horrible to him. So when you're talking
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: to it, she says, you know, when he had this
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: response to our conversation where I told him he has
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: never succeeded in anything in his life, strange he took
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: that wrong. But when he had that response to our conversation,
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: I realized I'm putting so much pressure on things instead
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: of just giving the time to enjoy each other. And
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: it is a major life decision. Ninety days. It's not
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: a lot of time, okay, but this is what you're doing,
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: so just get through it. Like, why do you mean
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: such a bitch?
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: Huh, she just goes, she cries. She's only sad for
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: like two seconds. This is what I don't understand. Like,
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: what were the conversations they were having before he came
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: to the US. Did they talk about what he would
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: do all day? What he's gonna do for work? I mean,
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: he can't work yet, even if he wanted to, even.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: After they get married, he can't work what like six
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: months he can't. He hain't fixed fenses. He's got to
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: do something in the neighborhood. He's got to be a
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: full time caregiver with the kids. He's gotta and he'll
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: figure it all out.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if that's like, is that the
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: game plan? We just we don't know. There's it's never
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: been talked about. Is he gonna be an h back
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: guy likes yet? Is he gonna like what's he gonna do?
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: There's so many options, but she gonna be a bear.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: I think she would like not like if he went
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: into like some trade, although rumor has it she doesn't
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: even work at Kleinfeld anymore. And now she's a pilates instructor.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: So she bought a bar three like franchise business.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, great for you. He can help. He can
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: help fix your barthfence.
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: He can work the front desk and give people towels
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: and check people out when they buy a membership or whatever.
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: Everybody loved him at Kleinfeld. I was like, yeah, yes,
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: of course he did.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: So the next day she's telling him she's glad about
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: makeup sex. She liked it, and he's like, okay, I
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: didn't know what that was called let's fight again, so
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: so sorry. So they just went in my throat. So
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: she says, I don't know what that was. She says
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: she has to go to work and he has met
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: her co workers on FaceTime and they all love him,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: and she's like it's exciting and scary because now they're
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: going to meet him in person. So they go to Kleinfeld,
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: which is not Kleinfeld's, but it is Kleinfeld. It's a
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: singular feld. They go to Kleinfeld, even though nobody calls
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: it that, and we see all the brides like waiting
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: for their appointments. I'm like, damn, this paper. People just
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: pumping out those brides.
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: Ye.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: All the consultants all come out and they hug him,
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: and he says, oh my gosh, I feel like a
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: row star. Dorothy with the giant white teeth comes out,
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: she hugs him and he then Dorothy's like, we got
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: to go to a meeting, and so she's like, I'm
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: nervousest into mountain the streets in New York, and he goes,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: what are you kidding me? I'm gonna have the best time.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: There's so many Dominicans here. I'm going to be fine.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: So he walks around talking, looking up at the buildings
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: and saying, I love New York.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: So he's gonna have a great time.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be great, going to meet Edward, He's going
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: to meet some friends. Okay, and we do know they're married,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: which I wish that people would stop telling me things
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: like this.
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, they always get married, were always. I think
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: it would be a lot more fun if like half
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: the couples broke up. Yeah, but on og they always
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: get married. It's it's a just like even debian debian
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: meeto are going to get married. Let's face it.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: No, we've already seen that they have. You've already seen
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: that they are married. And that's that's the craziest of
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: all how is he going to convince her that he's
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: number one into her and number two doesn't just fully
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: hate her? Like, how's he going to convince her of that?
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: I think he already has. She just doesn't want to
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: admit it to herself.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Thomas and Paula, so they talk and
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: he goes, I mean, we can go shopping for a dresser,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: for a place to put your clothes.
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: We can do that, but you're being abusive. You don't
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: even apologize that you're so abusive. She's like, what are
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: you not getting them out?
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: Kyle thinks that she screams at him hardcore off camera.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: But I don't know what to think about these I mean,
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: that's speculation. We haven't seen it. But Thomas annoys the
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: shit out of me. So, oh my.
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: God, what is wrong with this guy? The fact that
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: he is going so hardcore and having two beds in
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: his house, one in the bedroom and then one in
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: the living room. He is so hard on it. He's like,
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: this is wait, does he have two beds? Yeah? We
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: think because when they showed the scene in the closets
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: where he was doing his closet that appeared to be
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: in a bedroom, in a separate room that wasn't the
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: den area.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: That makes it so much worse. Why does he have
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: a couch.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: Because he wants to lay down? Why he drinks his coffee.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: That's what anamans are for.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: What go into your bedroom and laying on your bed. Anyway,
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: I could be wrong about that, but it appears to
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: me because he has a whole yoga mat area. If
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: you had a studio, you wouldn't also have a yoga
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: mat and you wouldn't have a place for that.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: I don't know, he's got a whole little corner for
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: his giant monitors and gaming console.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: So right, yeah, I definitely know.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: Rumor has it he's a software dove, so like maybe
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: that's just his workstation as well. Who knows he's a.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: He's an aerospace engineer?
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: Oh is he? Oh? Never mind?
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: Could have just made that up, but I believe that's
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: what a listener told me. So okay, so blahbatie blah.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: He says she's abusive. Okay, So she says, I'm hurt.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: I want to have a mature conversation, and he goes,
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: I don't feel good about anything you just said about
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: like wanting to have a dresser, and he goes, I mean,
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: you go to a hotel and you live out of
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: a suitcase, but now you're here and you're freaking out
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: because you don't have a perfect dresser. Yes, you're just
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: gonna and you're just gonna throw it away anyway. She's
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: like what she goes, I'm sorry I hurt you with
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: my words, and I don't want to blackmail you by
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: saying if you don't get me a dresser, I'll go
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: back to Brazil. I need to find a middle ground.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: And he goes, well, I certainly don't want you to leave,
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: and she goes, just recognize I have different needs than you,
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: like I like to put my clothes, not in a
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: suitcase or one bind from the dollar store like, and
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: she goes, just recognize that I'm different, and he goes, okay,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: I yeah. And she goes just having knowledgement of what
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, because I'm really struggling. I have different needs here.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: I need address her and he says, yes, I recognize that,
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: and they hug and they kiss and he says, I'm
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: sorry it's tough for you. We can organize your clothes.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: We're making progress. Okay, literally go to target and get
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: addressed her. I don't know why it's so hard, like.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: Goodwill, good will?
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Yes, And then they're too a talking to it together
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: where he says, I don't want something silly like this
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: to drive us apart, and she goes to me either.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: Then they look at each other and go.
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: B eyes.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: There there. This is a I don't know how to
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: read this couple. I guess they are like I don't.
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: Does that It's a little bit like Molly going did
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: you and a? She do the round? This is what
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: what are we doing? He said the words. So now
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: they're on a bike. They're riding, and she's thanking the
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: universe for bringing her to the Queen Mary for their
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: wedding planning. She looks great here. She's in sort of
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: like a j crew. Look, she's very business casual.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you think about this ship? What do
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: you think about the Queen Mary.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: First of all, I didn't know it was docked in
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: Long Beach. I didn't even did I didn't either. I
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: know people that have gone to it and like stay
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: there at the hotel part and had you know, had
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: the full experience, mostly because they want to do the
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: ghost Park. Yeah, so she's all excited because she gets
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: very excited about ghost and we meet the event planner
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: and the captain. Now, what's the captain for that boat?
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: That sales captain is what we called him.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: Okay because otherwise that that boat is permanently docked.
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a captain of sales okay, because storyteller captain?
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because did he need to be there? Because no? Okay,
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: So that was funny to me. I was like anybody
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: I was watching it by myself, looking around, like anybody
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: there's this boat is permanently docked. So he's like, I
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: got the worst job in all of captain Land. I'm
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: a captain of a cruise ship that's permanently docked.
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: So yeah, horrible. Also, though, like I thought this seemed
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: pretty cheap for a California wedding.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: We looked what, I didn't never hear a price?
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: What did they say they did it? I think Kyle
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: looked it up actually, but I think they have packages
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: that are like around twenty thousand, which again for like
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: California's well included like food and some drinks and stuff.
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: We were like, oh it includes food. Okay, I want
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: to say because he's not paid for that. If you
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: won't buy an addresser, I mean.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: Well, I don't know that it's about the money for him.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: I feel like it's about just not having things. It's
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: it's hard now, I don't know. It's one of all
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: that tiny stuffs everywhere, you know.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, apparently she needs two shelves. And this is where
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: you may put all your tiny things in your rocks.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: And that's it. That's it. This section is for you.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: I have my computer section in my yoga section. This
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: is your tiny thing section.
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: If it would just buy her the real size stuff,
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: she wouldn't need the tiny stuff.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: I wonder what if she has a tiny little cruise
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: ship and she manifested the Queen Mary.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: I bet she did. You know she wanted to go
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: here because the ghosts. Immediately she was like, I believe
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: in ghosts. We were like, we know, yes, we got
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: a girl, we.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: Got a cirl So in the talking head together, okay,
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait wait wait whoa, whoa whoa, I
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: forgot about this park. Okay, So they're both excited. They
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: say they would love to have the wedding here, and
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: they say it's perfect and her family will love it.
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: So I guess some of her family's coming, and she says, well,
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: your family come, and he says not sure because the
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: last time we visited we left on a bad note.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: Now he tells us that his parents are divorced. The
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: two sides don't get along, his mom and his dad's side,
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: and last time he visited North Carolina, he introduced Paula
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: to his mom and his mom's side. It was great,
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: Paula posted on social media, like, first time in North Carolina,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: fun pictures with mom, but then they visited dad's side
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: and dad's side it sounds like especially stepmom took extreme
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: offense to Paula, posting that she was having fun with
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: mom's side, Yeah, which sounds very childish and ridiculous.
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: Did you notice the mom's face was blurred from all
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: the pictures, which means she still has not consented to
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: being on the show. So I wonder if they're still
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: not like cool with each other, which is sad because like, yeah,
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: it sounds childish, but it was a stepmom that got
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: angry though before, right.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but so mom is like, if she's going to
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: act like that, then I'm not even going to be
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: on the show. I mean you know what I mean,
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: if they're going to be on the show, I'm not
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: going to be on the show. Yeah, I'm sure it's
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: like that. So he says, you know, that was like
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: an injustice to Paula that they got so mad. Now
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: we see a video of Paula at the dad is
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: Stepmom's place. She goes like this and she's like here
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: I am and she's doing like this and she rotates
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: around it. You see the stepmom make this mean face
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: and go and like hide behind the dad. I was like, oh,
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: this is Stepmom's a bitch. Okay, all right, Stepmom.
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: Seems like a handful.
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So Paula says, I really connected with his mother,
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: and his stepmother just did not like it and got mad,
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: and so stepmom was mad at us. So we just
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: went our separate always. We got a hotel and we left,
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: like wow, his wife cannot bond with his mother. So
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: we don't know if the parents broke up and they
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: were little and mom had some sort of problem and
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: never saw him, and now Stepmom's like, now I raise
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: you and now you're going back to her. Either way,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: it's all childish. It's all childish.
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: I don't I don't. I don't like this stepmom. I'm
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: not getting a good vibe from her. I did love
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: that Paula is excited about staying in a camper because
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: it's tiny.
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: It's a very small camper. It's a little apartment. So
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: she says we should talk to them, we should go
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: there and talkie, which is give me a little bit
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: of a Larissa feel, talking about how you feel. This
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: is forever and we will want to show this to
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: our kids in the future that we can all get along.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: So we're gonna go to North Carolina. But she's worried
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: about it, all right, So they land in Charlotte. He
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: says again about the bonding with the mom, So they're
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: going to his dad is stepmom now live in a
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: farm in Wilkesboro, North Carolina, which is pretty close up
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: to the Virginia border. Actually, yeah, Now I'm wondering where
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: their beach house was because they said they lived at
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: the beach, but now they live on this farm, and
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: I'm like, no, no, no, I'm always interested in North Carolina
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: beach house. So then we see Rinnie and Tom drive
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: up and they're very welcoming at first. Hey, we're I'm
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: so glad you're here. Da da da da. Tom The
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: dad says, you know, when I first met Paula, I
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: loved her. I found her to be family oriented, and
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: she wants tom As to be close with his family.
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: And Rennie goes, I do not feel that we are
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: close at all.
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what's her problem?
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: And dad goes, well, we're gonna have a nice visit
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: and I'm sure everybody will now be happy when they leave,
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: and she goes, I'll be happy when they leave. I'm like,
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: why are you, Rennie? What's wrong with you?
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: They haven't even gotten there yet. Calm down.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: So they're sleeping in the camper, which they made into
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: like a little guest house, and Paul's like, can I
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: use that restroom? He explains about having to clean the
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: tank and she's He goes, we have to clean the
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: tank when we leave, and she goes, no, oh my god,
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: I'm going to go in the forest. This is embarrassing.
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna He's like, okay, I'll change the tank.
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah you will. We're talking about.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: This, yeah I was. He joking, like, are the dad
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: and the mom gonna are they gonna have to like
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: drive somewhere to clean out this tank.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Do they unhook it and tickets? I
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: don't want to know. Yeah, So she changes into a
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: tank top and a denim squirt is some timberlaind boots,
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: and Rennie in the talking dad with the dad is
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: being so bitchy about her outfit. She's like, this is
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: terrible outfit. I was like, she's in a denim scourt.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: She's got on the correct footwear. It's hot a shit, yeah,
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: bus ray, you know what, Like, are you gonna make
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: her do actual farm work? Are we gonna go like
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: horseback riding? Like what does it matter?
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: You're playing with some goats and like right, right, she's
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: got boots on, it's fine, And.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: They're like troably botho's on the way over here.
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, they live in southern California. Hey, do not
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: require farm attire on a daily basis.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: I you know. So they see the sheep, which you
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: are cute, but she's kind of scared of him and
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: she's like, I'm a Sydney girl. And Rennie's like, she's
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: not a farm girl. And I'm like, Rennie, you need
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: to slow your role. Quit trying to become television. I'm
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: mad at you.
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: A woman's irritating, all right, Katie and Josh, Oh boy,
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: oh boy, oh boy.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: Like we said in our Big ninety day group chat,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: Josh needs to stop. He needs to stop on social media.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: He's not an influencer. He just needs to let this
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: season play out. He needs to quit talking on Instagram.
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: What is his goal? Like, what is he doing on
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: the social media's? Like, I don't understand his content. He
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: wants to be a photographer and like a videoographer. He
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: has stated as much as like that's his career aspiration
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: when he moved to America. So he's just here to
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: be an influencer and a photographer, which, like, good luck
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: with that. I mean, I don't know. He's just using
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: Katie honestly to be in the States.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: I think he's I mean, he gets gonna get what's
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: coming to him with Cammon.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: So she is horrible. To be clear, don't come at me.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: There's something really really neuro divergently wrong going on here,
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: and it's a lot of misdiagnoses and things that she
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: needs to get you to a psychiatrist. I think it's
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: an alcohol is Oh, it's also an alcoholism problem. But
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: I think she's self medicating is what I think she's not.
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: She's not medicating. Yeah, she's not doing She's says she
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: has the OCD, but she has no treatment plan.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: Like no, right yet she doesn't.
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: I don't know, And that's I don't understand why the
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: conversation here. I said this on our podcast, like Katie's
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: behavior is a boring like and no, there's nobody on
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: earth that thinks that this is okay, right, but like
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: why is it Josh saying we need to get you
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: help instead it's like this ultimately, like you need to
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: stop treating me like this, Like, well, you guys have
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: had that conversation about fifteen times and nothing's changing. So
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: when are you going to stop talking about your OCD
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: and start asking what you're gonna do about it?
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: And also not one person? And I thought this was
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: gonna be the episode, but it wasn't. Where somebody's gonna say,
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: have you ever considered not drinking?
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: All the problems seeing to happen when you're drunk.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean she's kind of mean when she's not
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: drunk too, about like you're not responsible with money, but like, yeah,
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: the really bad shit happens when she's wasted Bodeta drunk
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: and like these men have to physically restrain her face,
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: like get her into like AA or something.
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what's happening? So we open with her pukin and
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: poopin hangover style. She's got things coming out of her mouth,
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: thanks coming out of her kara, and she's looking for
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: her keys and her jacket, and he's sitting in there
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: one chair that they have because that's all he's allowed
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: to have is at one office chair, and I'm talking
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: to Eddie says, last night was awful. How much worse
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: will it get? Will she take someone home before I
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: wake up out of this bullshit that I'm letting myself
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: be in. Okay, I'm glad to see some self reflection
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: on his part, that he's allowing this to happen by
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: not she has no consequences for her actions, you know.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: So I'm talking ahead. Katie goes, Yeah, I'm dying. I
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: drank that much because it was my birthday and it
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: was like high stress, like Ryan was there and like
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: Josh was mad, and I don't remember what happened.
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: So every time we see her quote from Katie, I
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: don't like things that happen when they're bad, right, Wow,
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: I don't like I don't like knowing not knowing what
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: I did because I was drunk.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: There's a way to fix that, so he says. He says,
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: so the conversation with Ryan was not good, and you
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: were trying to make out with anything that moves.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: She would have said none. There were no women there
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: because all the female friends were like, she tried to
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: make all out with all of us last time, and
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: we're not coming back for more.
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: They're all like, forget this, and now she's trying to
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: make out with my husband, Like, get the fuck away, girl. Yeah.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: She goes, oh, I'm sorry, and he goes, sorry, stops
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: meaning anything after a while. I want to see some action. Now.
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: What is going through your head when you have a
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: partner that you love and who loves you, and you
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: have a few drinks and then you want to make
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: out with someone else And she goes, well, I still
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: love you, but I just want to make out with
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: someone and he goes, and even if that person does
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: not want to make out with you, like Mark is
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: a good example, and she's like, h so they see
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: the picture of her, She's going, I'm being crazy, KD,
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: I've been kiss face Ka and men are physically putting
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: their full hands on her face and pushing her awaund
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: She's like sticking her tongue through the hole like alaa, so.
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: Bad, like crazy. This is like literally intervention territory. If
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: these people care about her even one iota, they need
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: to get together and be like, you have got to
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: stop drinking, Like we.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: Don't want to go out with you. It's about the drinking.
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: How are these people still hanging out with her?
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: This is my thing. I was like, Okay, here's going
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: to be the time where he's going to say I've
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: really decided it's an alcohol problem.
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: But no, no, it's not even brought up Mary Payton.
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: And they don't even say the words alcohol like in
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: this entire episode. It's like it's weird, weird.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: It's weird. And she goes, oh, do you think everybody's
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: uncomfortable and doesn't want to hang out with me again? Yeah,
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: And he goes, I don't know, but i'd like to
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: talk about us, like quit trying to bring it back
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: to you, you know, And so she says, I've lost
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: friends from things I've done while I'm drinking, and I
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: have a lot of shame about that. And it's hard
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: to talk about. And I'll be so sad if anybody
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: abandons me. And she starts crying, and she says, I'll
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: worry all the time. I'll lose him and push him
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: away by my actions. And so the next thing you're
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: gonna say is so I'm going to start drinking.
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: Is she doesn't say that she should have more shame.
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: I think, like, I think the problem is you don't
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: have enough shame. Have more shame.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: No consequences to her actions is the point none.
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: But this is something like she and Josh met on
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: a night that was very similar to this, Right, they
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: met because she was wasted Bodeta make it out with
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: all his friends, right, and then him and he just
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: happened to get like the last call for making out,
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: and so that she went home with him. So maybe
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: he thought like, oh that was she was just like
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: annihilated that night. It was just a crazy night. But
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: after that behavior continued and continued and continued, Like what
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: was he thinking?
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: I don't know how he doesn't think for all these
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: months they've been apart, that she is not tonguing somebody
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: down in a bar.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: Everybody I knows. I think he knows. But this also
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: isn't about Katie being attracted to like any one specific person.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: This is about like validation and like deep seated like insecurity.
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: I mean there, there's I am not psychologists there. This
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: is like way above my pay grade. Quite frankly, I
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: just she needs help and this is this, this is
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: just it's so bad. I can barely watch her at
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: this party when she's being restrained by like multiple times.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: And that's where he should have said, as her partner,
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: like we're leaving, let's go.
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're done, you're too drunk. We're out of here.
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: And by the way, if you drink again, you're like,
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: there's no more drinking in our house.
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: But nobody knows it, nobody says it. She says, I've
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: lost friends because of my behavior while I'm drinking.
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So then she's rising, she's.
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: Sitting on the floor, and she goes, I don't know,
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: like I'm kind of freaking out, and he goes, what
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: will help. So he sits down on the floor because
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: he's like, Okay, I had chair time. Now I have
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: to get back on the floor. And he says, he says,
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: I want to feel cared about and loved and last
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: night and it wasn't the first time, and it actually
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: was way worse than some of the other times. And
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: that doesn't feel good to me. It doesn't sit right
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: with me. And she actually says something nice to him.
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: She says, I don't I don't want to make you
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: feel like this, and he says, well a little, And
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: he says, I want to see some serious thought from
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: you about what you want because we're getting married. I
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: want to see that you know what that means and
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: the commitment I'm making to you. You can make that
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: same commitment to me, but it's up to you to
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: figure out how to do that. Also, i'd like for
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: you to start drinking, but she's not capable. Yeah, And
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: then talking, Toddy goes, I love her and it's hard
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: to figure out what's going on.
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: It's not hard.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: It's not hard. You said it, and she said it.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: Everybody she knows has said it. And he says, I, like, I,
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: do I have to tolerate this? Or no? Do? Or
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: do should I walk away? Because right yep? Because right
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: now it doesn't seem like she can be in this relationship.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: Now are we gonna Are we gonna get some sort
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: of story arc with her where she stops drinking. Now
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: when we see her three union, she'll be like, I'm
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: eight months sober, like fingers.
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: Crossed, there's no way they have like two more months
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: to get married, and like she needs professional help. Yes
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: she does at probably medication or and like abstinence from alcohol.
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: Is that? Wait? Is that?
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: How? Yes? Yeah? Okay, like is that the right words?
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: I take?
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: I think from sex, but clearly that's not going to happen.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: She could have been prescribed medication and doesn't want to
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: take it because she can't drink.
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: Oh no, Mary Payne coming in with the hot takes,
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: I didn't even consider that.
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you do know my husband's are recovering alcoholic. I
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: got all the hot tips. I got all the hot tips.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: I got all the hot tips about behaviors on these shows.
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: You know what shows really triggering for me as The
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: Valley with Danny.
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: I don't know if you never watched it, and yeah
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: for me for other reasons. But we don't need to.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about Asha and Maxwell. I don't I
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: think I told the group chat. But you know she
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: has a doctorate in pharmacy. Wait, what Asha is a doctor?
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: She is she like a doctor, Like she's a farm D.
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: She is a farm D.
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: She has a doctor pharmacy. She's a pharmacist.
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: Yes, she's not the pharmacist assistant. She didn't get her
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: undergrad in pharmacy. She has her doctorate in pharmacy. I
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: have a good friend of mine who was a farm D.
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: She went to medical school.
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: Okay, that's like, you know, the difference between like a
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: dietitian and a nutritionist, and I can never remember which
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: is which, but like one is like a real thing
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: and one is like not a real thing. So I
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: was just asking, this is like a real pharmacist, not
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: like an RFK pharmacist.
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: She got her doctorate in pharmacy from the University of Tennessee.
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: She's okay, okay, okay, So she's book smart.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: She's smart. She is like the pharmacy manager at the
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: CBS where they live. So she's the whole manager. And
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: she and her whole family own a restaurant called like
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: Aunt Bertha's or something.
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: I mean, she had clearly has some money, yep, to
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: make these trips, and she's never talked about her career.
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, pharmacists do well, for sure.
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, so if you're head of the whole thing
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: because you could because you got a doctorate.
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, for sure.
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: They're crazy. Just okay, so I didn't know if you
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: knew that, So.
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: I did not know that. It's fascinating, all right.
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: So they go to dinner and he says to her, baby,
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: why were you flinging my hand in public? What if
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: I did that to you? And so we see the
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: of her because he is saying, when we're in here,
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: you need to behave and she says, you better quit
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: using that word. And then he tries to hold her
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: hand and she doesn't fling it so much as she
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: just like says, I'm not holding your hand. Now. I
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: agree with her here. I don't like a man trying
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: to tell me to behave. That's not going to go.
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: Well, no, I don't want a man to tell me
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: to behave. But also, if like my husband flung my
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: hand in public, I'd be like irritated.
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: But I mean, it's such an easy fix for this
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: issue that they're having.
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: They were walking there, apologize or she should well wait, yeah, no, she.
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: Should apologize because when they were walking downstairs, he says, remember,
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: you need to be more formal with my parents, not hey,
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: but good morning, sir, good morning ma'am. And I was like,
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: it's like when you're in France, no matter what bonjoules
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: once a while, they consider it very rude if you
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: don't say, even if the person is helping it out
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: of the person in the store, you still acknowledge them. Yeah,
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: because they consider it rude. Well, he's telling her. In
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: my country, this is a basic thing. You do not say, hey,
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: how you doing, mom and dad? You say good morning, sir,
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: good morning, good evening.
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: It's so easy to fix, so easy. And when he
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: gives her that feedback, which I thought he gave her
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: the feedback like pretty nicely. He was like, I've told
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: you before, Like they've had this conversation a dozen times.
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: And she's like, I don't know, I don't think it's
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: a big deal. Like she blows him off. Yeah, it's dick, Like,
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: This is his culture. So you're there, you're not in
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: the United States, so you need to adhere to what
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: he's telling you. So on them talking head, she says,
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: this Maxwell that is fighting with me is not the
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: Maxwell I know. And now he's listening to outside opinions.
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: Oh boy, no boy, oh boy.
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: So she tells them, you've been acting a little crazy
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: and a little aggressive, and he goes, okay, we're in public.
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: You need to lower your voice, and she goes mm hmmm.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: She says, I want you to clarify what you said
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: in the car about God not wanting us to be married.
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: And she says, you're a head over heels for me
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: until this trip, and now you're acting a little shaky.
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: And he goes, I want peace with you and with
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: my family, and if not, then I don't know what
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: we're doing. He's telling her flat out, like, yeah, you're
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: only here ten days. You cannot be disrespectful to my family.
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: Just hold it together for ten days. You know it's
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: not that hard.
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: And also you can tell she's on such thin ice
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: with his family. Oh yeah, so just like bees up nice. Yeah,
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: like a little bit, just like try show that you're
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: trying to be respectful, right, yes.
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: So she says, look, I am not disrespecting your family
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: and he goes, you better not, and she goes hush. Now,
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: her point there was like she was trying to finish
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: what she was saying and he started talking. So she
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: said hush, but he he says, you don't tell me
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: to hush, you just keep talking. So again it's like crossing,
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: you know, wires here, and she says, you just need
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: to think about what you need to think about with
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: your family, and then she gets up like she's leaving him,
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: but she's just going to peep. So in the moment,
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: she says, this is not the way I want to
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: be treated. I wanted I want him to be the
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: Maxwell I fell in love with, and I want him
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: to set these other opinions aside. Well, his point last
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: week was you wouldn't set your mother's opinion aside, So
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: why should I set my mother's opinion aside?
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: Which was a good point, ding ding dingy exactly. She
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: uses the D word disrespect. There's a disrespect. You disrespected, beang.
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: I felt so disrespected. That's Chicina.
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: So then he says, she needs to understand I am
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: not bossing her around with my parents, but this is
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: a whole different environment. This is Africa, baby, you need
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: to act like this. But she won't listen.
• 53:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, she They transitioned so wildly, like crazy fast
• 53:51
  Speaker 2: from this Yes, I hate you, I hate you. Who's
• 53:54
  Speaker 2: disrespecting who did God? Did God confirm or not confirm
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: that we should get married to? Like, well, we're gonna
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: get married next week. Yeah.
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: And as much as they leave it in this show
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: and drag things out, you're like, that's something we could
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: have seen happen. Yeah, why so there had to have
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: been twenty minutes they cut out, you.
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: Know, know that's why her mom came on this trip
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: with her.
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because they're getting married. Yeah. Well yeah, she didn't
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: want to dry. She was so hungry the whole time,
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: and we where's the food? It's their snacks. Wake me
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: up and they bring me a snack. So at the table,
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: she says, since I've known you, you've been sweet and loving,
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: and you've changed since you've been around your family. And
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: we don't have any time from backwards and forwards, like
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: we have to move forward. So let me know if
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: this is not what you want to do, I can
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: pack up and leave and be okay. And he goes,
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: you would be okay, and she's yeah, time heels all wounds.
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: He goes, really, so he's looking at her like, girls,
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: don't tell me you're trying to leave here, Come on home.
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: So she says, if he has doubt, this is the
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: turning point. I don't want to wait another minute. We
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: need to know tonight. This is And she says, this
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: is a partnership and the keyword is partner. You have
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: to be a part of it. And if you have reservations,
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: let's talk about the reservations. So he says, well, this
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: is real life. Now, she says, you told me God
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: told you that your wife was in the United States
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: and in the South. I'm in the United States and
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: I'm in the South. So do you want to protect
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: our relationship or tear it up? I was like, now
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: you know, he was on tender or whatever and found
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: her and then was like, guess what God told me?
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: When he realized that God thing was so important to her,
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: He's like, ooh, I gotta get it. She'll never know,
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: she'll never know. What God told me is between me
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: and God.
• 55:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, just like he literally tailored that to who you were.
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: And let's just I'm always wondering who these people are
• 55:47
  Speaker 2: that believe these like you know dms that are like
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: you're my princess and my dream girl because you're X
• 55:55
  Speaker 2: y Z and then they describe you. I'm like, oh,
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: she bought it. Okay, Uh, she bought it because she did.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: You zoomed in on your Facebook picture. So he says,
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: I am marrying you and your family, so you're marrying
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: me and my family. So if my family doesn't have
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: a place in the relationship, I'm not going to like that.
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: She goes, I love your family. I don't think you do.
• 56:15
  Speaker 2: I think she does.
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: She says, I love your family, so don't worry about that.
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: And then he goes, I choose you, baby, I love
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: everything about you. And now it's on. Now we're fine.
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: Now we're fine, and the talking heads sitting together, he says,
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: earlier today, I were worried. I was worried about the
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: whole thing with my parents. But I was overthinking it.
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: And that's what I do. I just get to overthinking.
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: And so now I choose her.
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: Okay, whatever. So she's go ahead.
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: Now they're praying. She says, don't let the enemy get
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: in our relationship. Now look at all the pros and
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: cons of all the options to talk about the k
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: one talk about the spousal So they decide the best
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: shot is the spousal visa and to get married to Nigeria.
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: So that's the only option. It's the only option.
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: The guy was like, you could do the whole K one,
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: but it's probably gonna I.
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: Will too, I will reject you.
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because of the scamming thing that he had going
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: on with his friend. Now are they married? What happened? No?
• 57:16
  Speaker 2: No, what that was like? The whole premise of this
• 57:19
  Speaker 2: whole storyline was like, it was very cute that she
• 57:23
  Speaker 2: and her friend, Like she introduced the friend to Maxwell's
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: friend and then they got engaged. Well, like, what happened
• 57:29
  Speaker 2: to those two?
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: Did they were they supposed to be on the show
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: and did.
• 57:34
  Speaker 2: They not get their K one revoked? I would be
• 57:37
  Speaker 2: pissed if, like my fiancee got his K one revoked
• 57:40
  Speaker 2: but the friend got was able to get married. I
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: don't know. Yeah, they're like never going to mention them again.
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: We will never get these answers.
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: So that's her best friend and his best friend, but
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: never to be mentioned again.
• 57:51
  Speaker 2: Never to be mentioned again, apparently, Yeah, double wedding in Nigeria,
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: we've never seen it before.
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: Come on, so talking head, she says, so much to
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: do for the web, the hair, the makeup, the efficient,
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: the proper paperwork. So that's the wrong order but yeah,
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: and he says the journey is tough, but he's so happy,
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: and he goes, let's just choose a day, any day
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: before you go back. This is day two, so we
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: got eight to go. And she goes, okay, let's plan that.
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: And he says he's excited to be husband and wife,
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: but he is worried to go home and tell his
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: family about the day he made this decision without consulting them.
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: So whatever they already know, I don't believe it.
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: Okay, so let's talk about Oh gosh, I thought we
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: had only one couple left, but we've got to. Okay,
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: Shay and Anna Baale. Somebody did see him on the street.
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: It was one of my listeners, I don't In one
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: of the Facebook groups of all our various podcasts, somebody
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: wrote they had seen him on the street of Paduca
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: and he'd lost seventy pounds.
• 58:55
  Speaker 2: What yeah, wow, Well, you know, fifty five is the
• 58:59
  Speaker 2: new thirty. It's like, not for you, Shay, not for you,
• 59:03
  Speaker 2: my man. You look ninety two.
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: You got a lot of doctors you needed to see
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: before that can happen.
• 59:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, sixty six days to wed, Shae is
• 59:13
  Speaker 4: out at Shed Nicole getting all of Nicole's shit sorted out,
• 59:18
  Speaker 4: and I was like, why is he taking pictures and
• 59:20
  Speaker 4: some okay, but anyway, he says, everything sucks right now,
• 59:24
  Speaker 4: he promised Annabelle he get the stuff out of there.
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: So he's going to the dump Now he's dumping some
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: stuff and selling the table in chairs, and he's hoping
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: annabel sees all this. But he's throwing that stuff in
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: the dumpster. And I'm like, some college kid or person
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: with no furniture could have used that for free, put
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: in no Facebook mark place.
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: He threw the couch in there, and all I can
• 59:43
  Speaker 2: think of is it's been sitting in that damp shed
• 59:46
  Speaker 2: for like three years, and true it might be like
• 59:50
  Speaker 2: full of bugs and stuff. Because the table, it looked
• 59:53
  Speaker 2: like he was selling the table and chairs, which were like, yes,
• 59:57
  Speaker 2: I thought the same thing. I was like, wow, that's
• 59:59
  Speaker 2: a big use a furniture to just throw away. But
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: I just assumed there was something no sanitary about the situation.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's a good point. So he comes home and
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: he takes annabel to coffee and uh and the talking
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: head she says, I feel my whole relationship was a
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: lie because Shay still has feelings for Nicole, but I
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: love him, so I'm willing to listen to what he
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: has to say again how many times, just over and
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: over it, and I don't I don't know if they
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: got married. I assume they did.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 2: I don't think Shae and Nicole. I don't think that
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 2: he's into her anymore. It seems like he could still
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: be with her if he wanted to do. They have
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 2: a daughter. They have a young daughter together though, right.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the kid's like five, that is what he said.
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you can't. You can't just like erase
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: somebody from your life when you have a five year
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: old with them.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: It's so the timeline. I'd really like to know, because
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: it's like he's been with her. But in the time
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: he was with Anna, he married Nicole and had a
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: baby and divorced Nicole and it's still at the Annabel.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: So I don't know if he went to see Annabel
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: one time, just decided it would be long distance, married Nicole,
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: have this baby in whatever order god divorced, went back
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: to Annabel.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 2: I didn't think about that. They say they've been together
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 2: seven years, is that it?
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: But the kid's not the kid's not eight yep. So
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: they're walking and talking and she says, you lie to me,
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: and he says, oh man, all those things. Alison says,
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: that happened. They happened, they did, but out of context,
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: out of context. Yeah, I just turned the phone when
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: she's around because you're so far away. It's just so
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: hard to explain it. Blah blah blah. And she says, well,
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: why does Alison think that you still love to Cole.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: He goes, oh god, that's just a running joke we've
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: had for like twenty years, Like I love you so much,
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: but I hate you and can't be with you. You know,
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: you know how that goes. You're my person, You're my person.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: She's like, no, I don't know that, Gus, Like I
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: love you and I want to be with you, but
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: I hate you so no. No. She goes, well, I
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: have to set boundaries. He goes, okay, babe, okay, babe.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: What's a boundary? And she says if you can't do
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: these boundaries, I'm leaving. You cannot see or talk to
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: Nicole ever again, or I will leave. He goes, oh bye.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: We have a child together, so I have to have
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: an attachment to her because we will run into her,
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: and I don't want her thinking that you are the
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: bad person. You know, at that table, I'm selling for her.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: That'll be the last thing. That'll be the last thing.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 2: It's not the last thing. You have a kid, Like.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: You have a kid. What do you mean you're going
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: to run into her? You mean at your house when
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: she's dropping off your kid? Like, run into her? She
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: has your kid. Yeah. So he goes, Babe, I'll do
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: whatever you want. I want you to trust me, and
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: I want to start playing in our wedding. Can we
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: do that and just forget about this? Can we? And
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: so she's like, hmmm, I don't even know what they
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: agreed on because they have a kid together, so we
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: didn't see what they actually agreed on.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 2: You know what's gonna eventually happen as Annabelle is not
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 2: going to like the fact that he has to pay
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 2: child support and all this stuff. She's not gonna cut it.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So he and talking to head. He says, I
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: love her and I don't know what I would do
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: without her, and she goes, she goes, I am here single.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: Days are over, no more party. He's babe, I'm fifty five.
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: We could drink a little five is New thirty five,
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: And she just laughs and says, oh my god, you're
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: so disgusting. All right, sixty days a wed. They're preparing
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: for a trip to Dunk Dunt Dunk the Lake. Clake
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: the lake. We're all the bad things have owls, lake ows.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: So he goes, I got a thirty pack. I'm ready
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: to go. That's just for me, you know what I'm saying, Babe.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: So he goes, Babe, I'm so excited excited for you.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: Meet everybody, Babe. It's gonna be a huge party, like
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: forty fifty people. I mean I saw six, but okay.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 2: It's a stage to make it look like it took
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 2: up more space.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: I didn't understand the stage. I was like, is there
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: a band? Why don't we have a stage exactly between
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: two trailers. So yeah, So then talking to us, he
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: says his lake house is his happy place. He just
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: loves being at the lake. We fucking know you love
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: being at the lake. It's all you talk about every episode.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: So they see the lake. It's very pretty. He explains
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: to her how the trees will be changing colors, and
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: they see the house, which looks a lot like his
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: other house, just pretty similar. And we're talking to she goes,
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: in the Philippines, people only have one house, and everybody
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: lives in the house, your parents, everybody. And here he
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: has two houses like I just don't and somebody doesn't
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: even live in one of them all the time. Yeah,
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: don't understand. Yeah. We see another picture of them together
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: when he was visiting, and he looks a lot better.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: So he really let himself go in the last couple
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: of years. I mean, want toned Americans is on GLP.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna go out there and assume that's
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: what happened. I hope so so so Alison the daughter
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: arrives with her chair. It's like here, I am got
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: my chair. I'm ready, and he goes, Annabelle, can you
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: go in there? Stirred the chili, and I do that
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: real quick. I want to talk to Alison. She's like okay,
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: And she did say I'm going there and do your job.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: Going there and do your job. Alicea says that to annabel.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: She does not I miss that.
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: She comes out. She comes out, she's got the broom
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: and she's starting to clean off the table. He goes, oh,
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: byde be gonna clean the table, and she goes yeah,
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: and Alisie goes, yeah, do your job, annabel.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 2: Geez, that girl has a punishable face. Alison, she sure does,
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 2: but I can't tell if she's just like, I'm gonna
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 2: be cheeky because the only time this woman's ever gonna
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 2: be on television.
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: But I think she was trying to be funny because
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: Annabelle loves to clean so much.
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 2: Oh that's right, yeah, and you know what chili is like.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: Jesus, So okay. So he says to Alison and goes, look,
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: when you talk to Annabelle, you should have included me
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: in the conversation. You should have had me come over,
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: like every little thing in the world doesn't need to
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: be drug up. And she goes, well, you don't tell
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: her the truth. So she came to my house and
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: asked hecause, well, you should have asked me over so
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: I could explain. Now, you made it hard for me.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: We almost didn't get married because you, and she goes
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: up because of you. Actually yea dad. Yeah, So now
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: Shy's is the party. Now Shay's friend Sabrina walks up
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: and was like, oh my gosh, where's Annabelle. So she
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: is like, Sabrina is talking to Annabelle, hugging her, and
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: it's like ten people standing around staring. It is so awkward.
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: And then Sabrina goes, let's do a yager bomb. Whoo,
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: I've just never known people to do shots like people
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: on TV shows.
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 2: Well, I haven't done a yager bomb since college.
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: I haven't done a shot since college.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's wise. I'm gonna have a sophisticated drink like
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 2: a regular person, okay or seventeen Yeah, yeah, I'm just
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 2: however many it takes. So in the talking head, Sabrina goes,
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 2: she's perfect for him.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: They're a really good mix. And she liked that Jaeger
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: bomb she did too. So now this is my note.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: Somehow there's a guy with a mic on a tiny stage.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: Was there a band? What are we doing?
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 2: I don't know where the stage came from. I don't
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 2: know who has this audio equipment. Again, this is probably
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 2: the biggest thing to happen in this Lake trailer park
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 2: and like the entirety of its existence. So yeah, I
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: think so.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: And then they all welcome Annabelle and they Wishay a
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: happy birthday. So I'm wondering if it's one of these
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: things like that they're going to film this party until eleven,
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: and then after eleven they're bringing the band and then
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: people are going to get real fucked up, but they're
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: only going to film until eleven or something.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 2: I don't think. So these are old people. I think
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 2: they're going to bed. That's eleven. They're like sixty year
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 2: olds here, Like, I do not plan. Let me put
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 2: it this way. I do not well, I currently do
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 2: not stay up till eleven, but I certainly don't plan
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 2: on staying up until midnight. When I am in my sixties.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: You never know, you never know what you're So these
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: people are drunk, so and they're talking to her. Allison says,
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: you know, Annabel's never seen a Lake party. She's happy now,
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: but let's see how she feels about my dad when
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: he shows his real side. Since kind of a hater.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 2: She's just he's being a creepy creeper, Like, yes, he's
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 2: doing the old man thing where he says, o're young,
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 2: fuck your brain's old, and I'm like, kidding, not not cool,
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 2: that's weird.
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: A girl comes up named Aspen and he's like, if
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: I was twenty one. You wouldn't be here, annabel I'd
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: be with this girl. I'm are riding on on. I'm
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: just kidding. I love you, Annabelle, ask when she's the
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: sweetest thing. I'd buy you island. I'd buy you an island.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: You have three trailers to your name. What are you
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: talking about?
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 2: This guy is like Podunk. What's the town called. He's
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 2: like Paducah Rich, you know what I mean? Right, which,
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 2: there's no shame like this. This double wide on the
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 2: lake looks quite nice. Actually, I have to say it
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 2: looks very relaxing.
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: The lake looked beautiful, I will say that. But it's
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: just And let me tell you something. I've been to
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: a million parties where you bring your own chair and
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: you pop your eyes down. Any drink beer out of
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: a cooler, So no shade on any of that. Like
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: that party, that party that Mallory and Rash had, I've
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: been to a.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 2: Million, me too, absolutely, we I mean all I did
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 2: in high school was drink in a barn, you know
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 2: what I mean? Like, yes, I've done this before. But
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 2: but yeah, but he's not island Rich. Okay, he's not
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 2: going to buy.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: You an island Rich. No, no, no, no no. So when
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: they're talking to head, annabel goes, I know he's drunk.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: He's flirting with women right in front of me. And
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: if this is who he really is, I don't want
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: to live my life like this, Annabelle, you say it
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: every week. We don't believe you.
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 2: I do. I love Annabella as a character. She has
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 2: naggers in her eyes. She hates this man, but she's
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 2: also like washing his balls and trim and his toenails.
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 2: I just I'll never understand. They seem to genuinely have
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 2: affection for each other, I think.
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: And they laugh a lot when you could when people
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: kind of laugh and they're talking his together. That so
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I can see it.
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 2: You know, Jenny and Submit have that on Divorce Castle.
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: They're the only people on Brutal.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 2: They're the only two that I'm like when they're when
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 2: nobody's watching and they do the camera and the these
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 2: two as well, they're like really cracking up together. So
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 2: there's something to that.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: And that brings us to Malory and a rush sheet.
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: And I do think these two are really hot for
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: each other too. I do, yeah, But they're not going
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: to make it through this financial stuff. They might make
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: it a few but they're not aligned.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know.
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: Do we know if they're married. I don't.
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 2: I don't want to know.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: Looka, I don't want to tell us. Don't I spoil it.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be the next DM I get. Okay, I
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: assume they do. Everybody gets married. But are they going
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: to make it long term?
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 2: I don't know. They can't even decide how much to
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 2: spend at the lows.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: You know, So it's seventy two days to wed and
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: they got a bidet attachment for a toilet, which is
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: all we were saying last week is like you could
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: buy this on Amazon for thirty dollars. Why do you
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: have to go and get.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 2: The whole everybody? Yeah?
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So he's so happy. He's like, oh, thank god, baby,
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: I can wash my asshole. I could wash my Cara.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: Come see water love my asshole.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 2: Did you know somebody posted in our Facebook group a
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 2: portable today where it had like a little battery powered
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 2: sprayer and like a plastic jug so you can take
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 2: your ass washer on the on the go.
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, so you don't have to like hook it
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: up to the plumbing. Correct, tell you just put some while.
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 2: Okay, great chilled water in there. I guess I don't know.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: What tap water might be bad. I don't know, Yeah,
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: I don't. So he says he's gonna test it out.
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: He's so happy. He's like, I'm gonna you go try
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: you go wash your asshole. She's like, I don't have
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: to go, but thank you. She says she found an
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: affordable bidet online for twenty five dollars. She says it
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: doesn't have a fancy fan or twiddle your ball sack,
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: and if it did, then you wouldn't need me anymore.
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: He goes, no, babe, no babe, you are my everything.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: Shut the motherfucker up.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 2: He's so cute. He's so cute. Yeah, so cute.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: So left his job as a boat captain in Marmorous.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 2: Looks like a pretty jo job somewhere like that isn't marmorous?
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 2: Where what? Who's the lady on? Sam from UK? Her
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 2: boyfriend lived in Marmarous, lived in Marmarous and he also
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 2: works on a tourism in Marmous. Then he moved back
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 2: to where the hell he's from. But Ali and they're married. Yes,
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 2: they are married. I know shock is he in the UK?
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: I think he is. And if you ever want to
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: really be entertained, I know you're going to talk to
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: Matt later, get him to do his invitation of Sam
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: for you. He does it sometimes he just calls and
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: does it on like a voice text and I'll press
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: it and it's out of me. You got it, and
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: please ask, but you don't forget?
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: How can he do that?
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: Isn't that a like a Birmingham accent? It's like a Newcastle.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: It sounds like a Scottish brogue. But yeah, the way
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: it's it's hilarious.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 2: He's got pretty far up north, so anyway, go on, okay,
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 2: ass marbarous?
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: Yes, So she's going over the bills so he can
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: understand what's happening. And I think this is good. I
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: think it'd be like here's what I bring in and
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: then minus everything after that, right, yeah, and she goes.
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: I think to him, my salary seems like a lot.
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: But if I was rich, I would not be working
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: two jobs. And we don't know how long it is
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: until he'll get a job. And I'm very stressed. And
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: Turkey heatd some carpentry, so he set up a little
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: workshop in the shed. But every time we go to
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: the store, we go to the store, it's like one
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: hundred dollars here, hundred dollars here. So she goes out
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: to the tool shed to talk bills and she shows
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: the monthly bills. I've got it here. I'll show it
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: to you here on the screen.
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 2: Now this I love that you took a save screenshot
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 2: that Kyle that you zoomed in on this ship, like
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 2: the whole money.
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: So this is three thousand, five hundred and fifteen dollars
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: worth of expenses. Four hundred and thirty of it was
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: at Low's.
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 2: Incomplete by the way, can we just say this is
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 2: an incomplete budget?
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: Okay, wait, so we got car insurance.
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 2: We don't have groceries on here, we don't have pet expenses.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: But wait, wait, wait, don't you think Costco is where
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: she gets her groceries and her pet expenses?
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 2: She said groceries were not She specifically said groceries were
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 2: not included. So I don't know what else for buying
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 2: at Costco? Dog food maybe, maybe other carpentry stuff. Maybe
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 2: you know, Costco has a lot of like tool benches
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 2: and stuff like that.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: Sometimes yeah, yeah, I'm looking at it. And of course
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: her biggest one is her mortgage and her car payment,
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: which is you know, average, but it's three five and
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: fifteen a month, and it is. What I would like
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: to have seen is the top line, which is how
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: much he's bringing in. I know, we don't know, we
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: don't know. So she shows the bills.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 2: Okay, pull that off. If anybody wants it, let me know,
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 2: I'll send it to you.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: So if you didn't, if you weren't good with the
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: screenshot like I was, so she says, d tool shed
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: talk bills. Okay. So she shows the bills and she goes,
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: here's how much we spent on this shop for you,
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: you know, at Low's. And she says, my grocery bill
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: has doubled since you came, because it's two people, right,
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: And he goes, okay, let me write on here for
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: things that we have to pay my parents every month.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: I was like, well, bad timing, bad timing, bad timing,
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: rush no, no.
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 2: But also come on, they have to have discussed that before. Yeah,
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 2: and he's the second time.
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: Second time he said it.
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 2: We've heard only said he said, like one hundred dollars.
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 2: I was like you, you have to be able to
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 2: send one hundred dollars, one hundred dollars or one hundred
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 2: and fifty.
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: He says, he goes, baby, he said, he said, baby,
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: they live.
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 2: In tent, and she goes, I know, I know other brothers.
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 2: What are these other Why do they live in a tent?
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 2: I don't understand.
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: And now they think because he's going to the States,
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: he's rich. So but one hundred dollars, I mean, I
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: think you can swing it. So he says, you know
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: you're showing me all these bills. I feel like you're
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: throwing it in my face and giving me stress. And
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: she's like, I'm not trying to throw it in your I'm
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: just trying to like show you realistically, like you think
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: I have all this money, but this is actually how
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: how much things cost. So in the talking end, she says,
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: the money issue is a really big thing. So I
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: need to start thinking about protecting what I had before
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: he came in the picture. So she says, I've been
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: thinking about protecting myself, like before we get married, do
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: you know what it is to say a prenup? And
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: he goes, no, I don't know.
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 2: And she's never watched this show and she goes.
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: Well, it's just sort of like my house and my
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: settlement from the accident, like that is mine, not ours,
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: and he goes, so ours, and she goes, no, it's mine.
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: And the way she's saying it is not explaining it
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: very well at all. She's like mine, and he goes, oh,
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: you broke my heart right now, and she says, you know,
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: I've really been thinking about this and it's a hard
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: conversation to have, but I had to do it face
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: to face when we're with each other. And he goes,
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: I don't think you think I just want your money,
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: and she goes, no, I'm not focused on if we
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: don't work out. I'm just trying to think, like, I
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: don't know what could happen in twenty years. In my life,
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: I've never seen a marriage work out. I've only seen
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: bad marriages. All right, Well, that's valid. It's valid. Her
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: parents divorced at age ten. She saw a lot of
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: bad things. And she says, you know, it's not about mistrust.
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: It's more about what she's been through to be prepared.
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: So he goes, I don't care about money, and why
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: do you think after fifteen twenty years we break up.
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: I want to be with you forever. I don't want
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: a contract. This is not normal and Turkey. If we
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: break up, we split everything, and she goes, that's the problem.
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: She goes, I'm just trying to protect myself from things
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: I cannot see that could be coming down the road.
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: So when then talking Headie says, it upsets me that
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: she think we might break up. It's only been one month.
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: How will it be down the road. I don't understand
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: this contract. I will not sign it. Final decision, final answer, yes, yeah.
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 1: And then he says to her, and you're focusing on
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: the breakup and I'm focusing on marriage, and he walks out.
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: Now I watched it on a screener and there was
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: no Next Time on.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 2: I know me too.
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I don't know what happens.
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think I but they were rolling the
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 2: credits during the scenes. I guess they didn't show next
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 2: Time on at all? And at all, I mean, I
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 2: don't know. Kyle and I disagreed about this. Kyle's like,
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 2: she needs to dip into that, yeah, that settlement money.
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 2: I'm like, absolutely not.
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: She well, she's got it, she's got it set up
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: in an IRA or something where she can't get to it,
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: and that was smart.
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 2: I think it's just like in a brokerage or something.
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 2: It depends. I mean that makes a big difference. Is
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 2: it in an IRA or she can't touch it?
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: She really can't get it?
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you can, you're gonna pay a massive penalty.
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 2: But like she should have just wrapped it up in
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 2: a trust and been like not touchable for thirty years.
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 2: I mean, that takes care of the problem right there.
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 2: She could just literally say I cannot access it, and
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 2: neither could he then ever, But instead she thinks that's
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 2: the only asset that she has, even the house. They're
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 2: gonna be working together. I can't imagine she's been paying
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 2: for more than a couple of years on that house.
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 2: So like, quite frankly, that will become a marital asset
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 2: and they should split it should anything happen. So like
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 2: she should have just done something with the settlement money
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 2: to make it not touchable for real, but I would not.
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 2: I think she's being really mature about her finances. I
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 2: got this windfall, I probably will never get a chunk
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 2: of change like that again, And I'm what I know
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 2: I need to set myself up for the future. And
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 2: I think that if you take a little bit, it
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 2: just becomes that much more easy to like take a
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 2: little bit more and a little bit more, and then
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 2: all of a sudden it's fucking gone.
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 1: So well, you do wonder she's going to be like, Okay,
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 1: I'm going to take five thousand out to pay for
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 1: a little party after our Justice at the Peace wedding
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: or something, you know. But I mean you she was
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: doing okay before because she was able to take a
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 1: vacation to Turkey with her girlfriends.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 1: So she's doing all right, you know. I think her
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: grocery bill was half well, her grocery bill was half
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: and she had two dogs and now she has four,
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 1: which was her choice to get two dogs right before
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: he came to make it for him. But I think
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: she does fine. I just think that she's probably like,
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: for these next six months, we've really got to like
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: buckle way down until you're contributing. And I don't think
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: there's anything wrong with saying this is going to be
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 1: like the world's most basic prenup basically protects this settlement
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 1: that I had. And then you know, if for ten
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 1: years you pay for the house, then it's a community asset.
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: I think it's pretty easy. But I think he will
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: need a person to sit with and interpret for him,
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 1: like Lorena Meryfield did when she married Garrick.
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 2: The thing is, you have to have a lawyer to
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 2: sign a prenup, at least in most states. I don't
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 2: know what it's.
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: Like in his native language.
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 2: He needs someone to yes, yes, you have to have
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 2: a lawyer. So I you know, he's not going to
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 2: have to sign something unless he understands what he's signing.
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 2: But I just don't think a prenup is like a
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 2: very big deal. But I'm American, I'm not Turkish. I
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 2: think it's this is a very American thing. Yeah, I
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 2: was just there to protect that chunk of cash. I
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 2: don't think that that's like that crazy at all. Yeah.
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: I don't think in like two months he's going to
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: divorce her and be like, give me that house. I'm
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 1: dying to live in a middle of nowhere Alabama, like
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 1: where everybody hates me. I mean it sounds great, you know.
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 2: No, but they could get divorced in ten years. I
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 2: mean it happens, and well.
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 1: Then he probably gets half the house he's probably.
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 2: Put you know, he deserves half the house at that point. Yeah. Absolutely,
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 2: But I think she is doing the correct thing wanting
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 2: to invest this money and just leave it in an
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 2: investment account and don't touch it for thirty years. I
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 2: think that's the most mature thing we've ever That's the
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 2: most mature financial decision we have ever seen anybody make
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 2: on this show. Ever.
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: Well, I believe in their love, and I.
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 2: Hope so I don't. I think that this financial stuff
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 2: is going to break them. Like he just doesn't seem
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 2: to have any understanding of like.
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, that's why ye by the way, by the way,
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: the top of that paper probably did say what she
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: made every month, and she just folded it. She didn't
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: want us to see it. And I get that that's fair.
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: So now I was just sort of thinking that through.
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 1: Now everybody knows that you have a podcast with Kyle
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 1: and it is called ninety Day Fiance Craig Craig Gray Crag.
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: Even though I always say ninety day Fiance Reality TV Craiker,
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 1: that's a long title. It is called ninety day Fiance,
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: great cret title. We should ninety day Pray Cray, But
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 1: tell everybody. What you're covering over there right now? Besides
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: the usual the obvious ninety Day Fiance stuff.
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 2: We need something else, Mary Paint. So we were obviously
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 2: on our main episode drop Sunday night. We're covering ninety
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 2: Day Fiance OG which is on right now, and then
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 2: b sides for Patreon people, we are covering a divorce
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 2: castle or what's it called Last Resort?
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: Last Resort.
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 2: We were covering that Paul show, but it just got
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 2: too repetitive. We got bored with it.
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 1: So I'm covering it and I'm hating myself every second
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: that I have to talk about it.
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 2: I just we did like five episodes and then we
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 2: were like, I think I think we got it, Like
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 2: I think there's no.
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: More, Yeah, there's there. We we just did six and
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: there's two to go, and I'm just like, please Lord,
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 1: let something it happen.
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 2: I don't think anything new is going to happen, so
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 2: I feel confident about that decision. But we're covering We're
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 2: actually talking about House of the Dragon because oh really,
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 2: and yeah, we love Game of Thrones, so we're covering
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 2: and then just to fill in the blanks until that
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 2: age show comes out on Week TV next month, which
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 2: is gonna be a shoot show. But we're just sitting
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 2: around here waiting for Puerto Rico Bang House, Mary Payne,
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 2: that's Gray. Yeah. Oh we cover diaries too because we're masochists.
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 1: So yeah, we do. On this show. We do Kimberly's
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: Corner at the end, and Kimberly tells me what happened
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: on ninety Day Diaries so that I don't have to
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 1: watch it.
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 2: I love Diaries. I love it because it gives you love.
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 2: Five minutes. That's all I need. I don't want any
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 2: further information about these idiots. I just need five minutes
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 2: and then I'm good.
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 1: She loves it too, And then when we cover ninety
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 1: Day Last Resort, we do Kimberly's corner and she tells
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 1: me what happened on Between the Pillows.
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 2: Oh, yes, we watch. We kind of have been watching
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 2: Between the Sheets now because because we've been light on content.
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 2: But it's summer too. Are we supposed to have all
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 2: the summer shows? Where are they?
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I would say Between the Sheets. The
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 1: reason it worked for The Single Life is because it
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 1: was fun and light and funny. The reason it does
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: not work for last resort is because it's a show
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 1: about fucking divorce, and you've got to sit there and
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 1: comment on yourself crying about how horrible your partner is,
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 1: and be like, well, that was a great day at
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 1: the castle. Remember when I was crying because I'm getting
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 1: a divorse? What about what fun and light content this is?
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 1: Let's look at a drawing of a vagina. I mean,
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 1: it doesn't work.
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 2: Doughnuts and pretend we're eating buttholes. This is great.
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it's amazing. And then that's another thing Chakaina
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 1: is mad about is on between the sheets that they
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 1: put Sarper with a woman and everybody else is with
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 1: same sex, which is you know, it's a fair point,
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 1: but you know.
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 2: That's not true. Didn't they put Geirmo with other I
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 2: can't remember. I don't know. I feel like Power and
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 2: Gearmo were paired up at some point.
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 1: She means for the particular episode where they were talking
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 1: about the anatomy of the man and the woman.
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 2: Oh, she kinda you're divorced from Sarper, just like, give
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 2: it a rest.
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 1: When we met Sarper at that party, Matt and I
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 1: said to Sarper, I said the sisters, Like, that's a
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 1: spinoff waiting to happen, right, He goes the sisters. I
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 1: tell you, they all come at you and you're like,
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 1: oh my goodness, it's like from Twilight, you know, the Twilight,
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 1: the vampires. He goes, that's just what he's like to
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 1: be around the sisters.
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they look crazy. You forget that she kind of
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 2: was like raised in a.
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 1: Cult, like eight girls eight like eight dolls. Not a
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 1: good sitch.
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 2: No, there's some nasty shit happened to that woman when
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 2: she was younger, for sure. Yeah, I divorce. Castle is
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 2: great this season, though I have to say I hate everyone,
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 2: but like, I have a lot to say about it,
• 1:26:57
  Speaker 2: which is what you want.
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 1: It's so good. And I was kind of when it
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 1: went for two hours to one and I never say that.
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 1: I never say that.
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 2: Riveted the whole first two weeks. I was like, oh
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 2: my god, we're giving two hours a week. This is
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 2: all we need. I have so much to say, Like.
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 1: What do you think about Pal She's so mean to us?
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 2: Oh, I hate her. She's awful. God, she's so mean
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 2: to Rust. That poor guy's penis is never going to
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 2: be hard again, like ever.
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 1: No, God, bless Karen Giermo. We're just sad that the
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 1: two hot people can't make it work. But there's no
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 1: way he's lost all respect for her. And one of
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 1: our listeners did say that it's not only fans she's
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 1: on something like on the dark web. That's like butthole specific.
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 2: What no, if she is, that's because people pirated or contest,
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 2: she's definitely. We have done the investigation over at Craig Cray.
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 2: We're like, we're investigating she is on the only fans.
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 1: Okay, well they said that she's on something else then
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 1: that is.
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 2: I don't Yes, I believe that. I believe that.
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm like, okay, fine, I don't need to
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 1: see it. Nobody send it to me. But you know
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't love it either. And I could see Garama's
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 1: point of like, now all these people can see my wife,
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like I get it. Yet
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 1: I could get where he's coming from. Yeah, but I
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 1: can see where everybody else is coming from too. Is
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 1: like she says, she has the kids six days a
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 1: week and you pay a zero so.
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 2: That is absolutely fair. However, she herself admitted she only
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 2: was doing it for her bachata career.
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 1: How is selling your butthole going to help your pachatta career?
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 2: Because she needs money for like recording studios and trips
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 2: to Italy to work with producers that aren't paying you,
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 2: you're paying them, Like she's doing this to fund her
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 2: music career, which, by the way, I am so sorry
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 2: You're not going to make any money at thirty three
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 2: doing bashatta and like it's just not happening.
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 1: It worked.
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 2: The best she could hope for is to be like
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 2: that dude on uh who who was a Belize guy
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 2: that we just finished up with. Yeah, that's the bitt
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 2: And like Stig is like maybe like somewhat well off
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 2: in Belize, but like, have you had some market, Like
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 2: the market for Bachata Senceuil like specifically is very small.
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 1: Well stick to artists. I've had listeners that live half
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 1: the year and Belize and I've asked twenty people and
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 1: one person knew who Stick was. My realtor went to
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 1: Belize and I was like, Okay, I know you don't
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 1: watch any of these shows, but I need you to say,
• 1:29:32
  Speaker 1: do you know stick get d artists? She's like, what
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 1: am I saying? Again? Go? The name is snig duh artists.
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 1: You need to ask everybody at your hotel, everybody or
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 1: anybody you see on the beach that's working. Locals asked them,
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 1: and she said she asked five people and all five
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 1: people looked at her like she was crazy, so she
• 1:29:50
  Speaker 1: stopped asking. So I don't think he's as famous as
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 1: he was portraying she is.
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 2: I mean, Belize is a country of like three hundred
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 2: thousand people. Okay, Well, if no that I'm saying like,
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 2: even if every single person knew who he was and
• 1:30:06
  Speaker 2: liked him, that's still not a lot.
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 1: Well. If our listener asked twenty people and one knew
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 1: who it was, and then my realtor asked five people
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 1: on the beach and nobody knew who he was, and
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 1: the country is really small, I'm going to go with
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 1: it's all bullshit.
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, for sure.
• 1:30:20
  Speaker 1: I mean they said he was a karaoke He said
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 1: he was a karaoke star, is what somebody said. Oh
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 1: I know who he is? He won like a karaoke contest.
• 1:30:28
  Speaker 2: How he can't sing?
• 1:30:31
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe he's a lip syncer like the
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 1: ninety day bad Boys. There we go, we solved it.
• 1:30:35
  Speaker 1: That's what he needs to do.
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 2: I'm so sad about the ninety day Bad Boys?
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 1: Are you pain?
• 1:30:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 1: I did follow his heart.
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 2: Loved to Emma's vagiant. I mean, like, seriously, come on, Emma,
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 2: of all people, is going to be the woman to
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 2: break up the band? Emma? Yeah, yeah, dude, that that no,
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 2: absolutely not. I loved to hate the Bad Boys. They
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 2: were still around Billy. Now, who's going to replace jam.
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 1: I told Josh they need to hold auditions, and he said,
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 1: that's a great idea. I was like that that'd be
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 1: some great content. Hold auditions.
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 2: I would hilarious. Super cannot be it though. He looked
• 1:31:17
  Speaker 2: like a psychopath and the one they had him.
• 1:31:19
  Speaker 1: In with his eyes are like this, and then he
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 1: had those giant herm and monster shoes.
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 2: Dude, he looked insane. It was great.
• 1:31:28
  Speaker 1: She kind of like, oh my god, they were trying
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 1: to avoid traffic. He was great. He killed it. No
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 1: he didn't, She kind of he didn't.
• 1:31:35
  Speaker 2: Now all of a sudden, she she kind of hates
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 2: She's a melting down on the social media. It's like
• 1:31:43
  Speaker 2: she hates TLC, she hates production, she hates Surper, she
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 2: hates Rebecca, she hates everyone yep. Everyone she does shocking
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 2: why she doesn't have any friends.
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 1: Listen, she can always go do a Twilight spin off
• 1:31:58
  Speaker 1: with their sisters.
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 2: I guess.
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 1: So to follow you guys on the social media, it
• 1:32:03
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• 1:32:06
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• 1:32:08
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• 1:32:12
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• 1:32:14
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• 1:32:17
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• 1:32:20
  Speaker 1: Okay, I knew reality was in there somewhere.
• 1:32:23
  Speaker 2: I knew it was, but we are there.
• 1:32:26
  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, everybody, make sure you're following Kim Kyle at
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• 1:32:32
  Speaker 1: I will see you later this week. I've got Laurie
• 1:32:34
  Speaker 1: Alterman coming on, she's a comedian to come on and
• 1:32:37
  Speaker 1: talk about pop culture and Bravo, and I will have
• 1:32:40
  Speaker 1: Chris Fara, our friend, Chris Fara, will come on to
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 1: talk about ninety Day Last Resort and then hopefully Kim
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 1: believe us back next week. Okay, bye,