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The Daily Mess Can We Have Multiple Personalities Plus What Do We Do With Them · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: The goal was to create a place where you had
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  Speaker 1: your exploration. Hey, it's me that question guy, you know,
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  Speaker 1: the dude that's always asking questions because it's really fun
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  Speaker 1: to research for answers such as why don't people buy
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  Speaker 1: into the idea of another person having several different personalities?
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  Speaker 1: Plus what is the best way to deal with having
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  Speaker 1: too many roles to play? My name is Arrow. I'm
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  Speaker 1: a daily writer, a silent wolf. I stand on the
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  Speaker 1: sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study, activate. I
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  Speaker 1: happen to call it the Daily Mess because it's a
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  Speaker 1: chronological walk through an everyday world. It is my morning
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  Speaker 1: writing as a receiver of thoughts and ideas. We as
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  Speaker 1: people tend to throw things to the side because we
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  Speaker 1: are convinced that we're gonna deal with it later on,
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  Speaker 1: not if you don't write it down. When a subject
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  Speaker 1: arrives inside of me, it is time to dig in.
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  Speaker 1: It's still keeping that daily journal, but by doing that research,
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  Speaker 1: the picture will always become clearer. This is the daily mess.
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  Speaker 1: Why don't people buy into this idea of having several
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  Speaker 1: different personalities. I mean, the artist in me isn't the
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  Speaker 1: business man, It isn't the public figure. The artist in
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  Speaker 1: me is not a daily writer. It is just the
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  Speaker 1: artist in me. You can't help but feel very alone
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  Speaker 1: a lot of the time. Here's a real answer, coming
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  Speaker 1: straight from mental health professionals. It's not different personalities. It's
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  Speaker 1: different roles. Oh, let me say that again. It is
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  Speaker 1: not different personalities that you have. It's different roles. My
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  Speaker 1: father used to say, all the time, we're all wearing
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  Speaker 1: multiple hats. Shifting between those roles is an all time
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  Speaker 1: thing that we've always done. We are programmed to adapt
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  Speaker 1: to different parts of our personality to different situations. The
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  Speaker 1: real confusion comes from the word personality. We are convinced
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  Speaker 1: that when we hear personality that it's a mental health issue.
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  Speaker 1: Creative people take note of their shifts more because they
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  Speaker 1: spend a lot of time imagining things. It doesn't take
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  Speaker 1: too much to recognize the different voices, and like it
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  Speaker 1: or not, there are several versions of who you really are.
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  Speaker 1: Only some people actually take note of it, while others
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  Speaker 1: mosey on through life thinking about nothing but what is
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  Speaker 1: going on in their moment of now or they're rocking
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  Speaker 1: their past. Coming up next, what is the best way
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  Speaker 1: to deal with the multiple roles that we have? Hey,
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  Speaker 1: thanks for coming back to the daily mess? What is
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  Speaker 1: the best way to deal with having too many rules
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  Speaker 1: to keep up with? If we're talking about life in general,
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  Speaker 1: many people reach a different point when it feels like
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  Speaker 1: everything has stopped and the rules they just sit there
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  Speaker 1: staring right back at you. There are the rules that
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  Speaker 1: we've got to follow by way of family expectations, financial obligations,
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  Speaker 1: health advice, and so many more. Rules after rules after rules,
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  Speaker 1: No wonder, we just stand there and let those rules
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  Speaker 1: stare at us in the eyes. Let's break this down.
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  Speaker 1: Which rules get your love and attention? Non negotiable rules,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, they conquer your soul. The low safety
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  Speaker 1: requirement rules, ethical boundaries, and so many more. Then there
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  Speaker 1: are those rules such as habits guidelines, and we can't
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  Speaker 1: leave out self imposed rules or inherited rules. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I have to do it perfect, and if I don't
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  Speaker 1: do it perfect, there's nobody else on this planet that
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  Speaker 1: will do it as perfect as I do. So I've
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  Speaker 1: got to do it perfect. You need to ask yourself
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  Speaker 1: sometime if you forgot rule number one from week number one?
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  Speaker 1: Does it even matter if you dump it? Does anybody care?
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  Speaker 1: The shocking part is all too often we've weighed ourselves
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  Speaker 1: down with a role that's not even important, the number
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  Speaker 1: one role that people don't like to face and will
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  Speaker 1: often confront people who don't like being told what to do.
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  Speaker 1: Guilty as charged, plus rules that don't have a clear
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  Speaker 1: purpose or paperwork to go with it. Oh, present that
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  Speaker 1: in front of me. We got a conversation. You better
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  Speaker 1: be prepared, hi, MARYL. And that's the daily mess