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The not so secret reason Conservative men can't get laid | Maintaining Frame 104 · Honey Badger Radio

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  Hello, everybody, Welcome to Honeybager Radio. My name is Brian Howry with
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  Alison and this is a maintaining frame meets what is this synth wave something?
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  Yeah, so synth writers with a Z synth writers like a synth wave type
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  thing. Yeah, it's similar to beatsabor, but with rhythm. I'll show
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  you what, guys, what it looks like in just a moment. I'm
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  not going to take request today, so this is just gonna be like the
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  background to us talking. I'm just gonna keep it to the standard song so
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  hopefully we won't get killed by copyright. I have to learn this new system
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  before I can really do custom songs. How's the volume? I think it
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  sounds okay. I don't know what you guys think. Are we Are we
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  fighting too much with the music of the game or yeah? Or give us
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  a yeah. So I'm just waiting for the chat to get caught up with
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  what's going on here. Yeah, okay, So this is a basically a
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  rhythm game. It's sort of like Beat Saber but not. I figured we
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  uh fix it up or mix it up a bit. There are customer levels,
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  just not as many as Beat Saber Tree surgeon says, turn it down
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  a bit, like still a little bit too loud for them, because like
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  how it sounds to me and like how it sounds to you guys different.
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  Can you turn it down on your system? And yes, I can,
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  because I think that it's about as far down as we can on this head.
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  All right, turn it down in discord. I wasn't worried that it
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  might turn you down at the same time, because it's like, so,
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  how's that tender? Yeah, I will double check the sound on my end
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  once I'm done here. Well, we'll see what they say. I think
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  it sounds fine. Now, so this isn't actually originals eighties movies. It's
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  just music inspired by the eighties. Yeah, definitely has like a eighties sound.
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  They say it sounds good now, okay good, So yeah we can
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  just leave it. Yeah, let's not let's not to touch many of the
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  moving parts. Let's not tempt fate. Yeah, anyway, so you tell
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  me what you guys think of this particular rhythm song, and maybe I'll do
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  yeah rhythm game and I'll do some custom levels on it. If that's it's
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  it's similar to Saver, it's a little bit more physically intensive really, yeah,
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  because there's a lot more like hip hip movement. Yeah, it engages
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  the pelvis more. Shall we say, oh, okay, sure, yeah,
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  all right, So today we are doing a request by Richard Bierre,
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  so another one, and he wants us to actually I think that this was
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  uneasy hmm okay, I'll double check this sound to make sure everything's good.
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  Well, I relowered your volume on my end and it sounds fine. Now,
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  so he wants us to discuss a video in which I believe he's a
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  feminist, discusses how conservative men don't understand why women won't date them. Yeah.
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  So he's basically explaining all of us why conservative men fail with the ladies.
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  Shall we say, yeah, so we thought we'd we'd we'd discussed that.
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  See if he's uh, his premise is well supported. You want to
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  get started or yeah, and we'll go until he repeats himself, So pay
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  attention to whenever he starts to just go over material that he's already gone over.
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  All right, I'm gonna play the video now. If you're watching this
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  on shorts, you should be able to see the game in the video at
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  the same time at the same size. But if you're watching horizontally, You're
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  you're gonna miss, you know, some parts of the video. So all
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  right, well, anyway, let's get into this. I don't know this
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  guy's name. I don't really care. So it's fair to say conservative men
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  have not been hiding like basic hatred of women, especially on platforms like Twitter.
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  Now, you guys know so, I guess it's fair to say so,
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  he said, so that must make it true. Awesome. He also
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  has defined what conservative is awesome. Okay, I guess we're just gonna have
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  to just take his word for it. He obviously is the one good man.
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  He knows well, he's not gonna tell us Allison, this is the
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  way these people work. We'll see, we'll see. But conservative, basically
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  every man that isn't him, probably, yeah, every man that isn't him
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  exactly. No, not not even that. If I'm being really charitable,
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  it's probably gonna be any man who has standards like that's it, right,
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  because he's just like, it's fair to say, is it? I think
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  we're starting off on the wrong foot right off the bat, Like, is
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  it fair? Is it? Though? Well, let's go back a little
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  bit again. No conservative, let's find out, let's find out. But
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  I have a feeling. I have a feeling this guy, I don't know.
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  Let's see, it's fair to say conservative men have not been hiding their
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  like basic hatred of women, especially on platforms like Twitter. Now, you
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  guys know, I've really tried to reduce my usage on Twitter, and I
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  have. I've deleted it off my phone. I'd say I've reduced my usage
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  by about maybe over ninety five percent. Sometimes I do go on it though,
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  because I just want to, you know, grasp what the conversation is.
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  And something that was going around recently on Twitter, which I think highlights
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  a lot of things I spoke about this channel. Was there a couple like
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  tiktoks of women complaining that they basically couldn't find a man whom Yeah, so
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  there are women online complaining and conservative men are the problem already. I see
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  where you see what I mean? Like this is sole like, yeah,
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  women plenty is okay? Yeah, all she wants a wilder who you know
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  this this posting, This tweet says, uh Scott, picture of this woman
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  in her car making a video about how she can't find a man that's gonna
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  basically give her everything she wants because I've seen this video and she's like ultra
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  entitled and she wants it all and she doesn't understand why why there aren't men
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  lining up to give her everything. And there's this guy that's like, all
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  she wants is to find her man, and she's sick and tired of waiting.
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  Yeah, I wonder why the climate is the as it is, lady,
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  Why is the climate is? How can we blame conservatives? Yeah,
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  let's blame conservatives. You know what it is. I know you're not,
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  I know, but I know what what it is is is that there are
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  gonna be some men that are gonna say, well, tough luck, like
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  people like me. And he is saying, oh, any man who thinks
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  that these women you know, have some I don't know, some soul searching
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  to do, that their standards are high, that they're coming across as entitled.
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  Those are conservative men to him, this is what I mean. Okay,
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  But anyway, let's let's play some more. And the comments weren't sympathetic.
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  That seems like a thing conservative male Twitter likes to do. They just
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  laugh at women's misery when it comes to this stuff, and in that it
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  reveals a lot. Yeh see conservative male Twitter as men laughing at women who
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  are posting their l's online. Women posting their l's and the men who react
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  to them. That's conservative men on Twitter. Can we just stop? Can
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  we just stop even confronting or dealing with the word conservative at this point?
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  Can we just accept that it's useless? No? No, no, I
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  don't. I don't mean this guy, because this is what these people do.
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  These people do that they use conservative as a pejorative. They do it
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  so frequently that people feel the need to defend themselves, and it puts them
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  in a box that they're not supposed to be in because they're fighting a battle
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  they're not meant to win. So it's time to just ignore that, ignore
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  it, point out understand that when they say conservative, they're just saying,
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  like chug in cell, you know, m R. It's the same ship.
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  They're just saying that. I've been trying to get people to I've been
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  trying to get people to understand this since fucking Kevin Logan. They they don't
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  say it because they're trying to find a term. They're saying it because they're
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  trying to put you in a box. And if you have standards it makes
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  you conservative, that's what they're saying, because they're gonna put you in a
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  figure box and then they're gonna mail the boxes. Yes, someone named Zach
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  long Dick is absolutely throwing a fit in the chat, saying, turn off
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  the music. Just one person though, So I don't know, all right,
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  so let's let's let's play some more. But I'm just saying, let's
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  listen, stop responding to what the allegations are, because they're not They're they're
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  not logical for applying saying, well, this woman would never date me someone
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  who has a lot to offer her, like financially, like I you know,
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  I'm a veteran, I'm retired, I have a pension and stuff.
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  All that stuff makes me good or like I'm six foot free, that makes
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  me like worthy and auba plies. Talking about this makes it clear that men
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  specifically still don't understand what makes someone attractive and especially how do we go because
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  conservative men just like, yeah, because Nelson, that's what this is.
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  That's what I'm saying, Like, look, I don't know this guy probably
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  doesn't know how stupid he is. But I'm gonna back up a little bit.
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  I'm just gonna explain, Okay, men have already been put in a
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  black category. Black category is a maoist thing. There were the black categories
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  that when you would evoke a certain like demographic of people, like men,
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  people are supposed to have a visceral emotional negative reaction to that black category.
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  So some black categories are men, white people, Christians, Conservatives, Republicans,
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  right wingers, libertarians. All of those are black categories according to these
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  people. So if they just say men, they're also saying conservative men,
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  white men, white conservative men, white cisgender heterosexual conservative men. It is
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  just that, it's just I said, you're a thing, and you're supposed
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  to feel some kind of way, and if you don't feel a certain kind
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  of way, I'm gonna make sure that my audience has a visceral emotional reaction
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  to what I have said. That's why he can just say conservative men are
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  this, and then later on, like not even a minute later, say
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  men, because it's the same thing. It's the same thing. So forget
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  the adjectives. They're useless. Okay, just forget them. These people don't
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  use them in good faith. They are being dishonest. I'm sure this guy
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  is not a hit with the ladies either. But he's trying to be the
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  good man, the one good man, which is what this whole thing is
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  probably gonna be, just so he gains favor with women. I hope she
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  sees this, bro. I don't get it. Like the woman did indeed
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  say what she wanted. She wanted financial security. These guys are like,
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  yeah, I could offer that to you, and he's like, no,
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  that's not what the woman wants. Well, yeah, they're not. They
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  don't want what they say they want. I know what women want. Yeah,
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  that's a little bit crapy there, my friend, A little bit.
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  Maybe you know what, I'll turn the music off completely and you can just
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  watch me flail. Oh are you gonna do this without music? Yeah,
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  it's all I want. No, it's just one spurg, Allison, It's
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  just one spurg. You can ignore the one spurg, right because it's just
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  one. Like, you know, it's just one. I mean, if
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  we had to respond to every spurgy comment, so we wouldn't have content,
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  we wouldn't have content at all because somebody'd be like too many colors, and
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  somebody'd be like I hate this vapor wave theme, and somebody else will be
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  like what's what the cartoon avatars? And somebody be like, what the volume
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  is wrong on this person? That guy's too loud? Just can we just
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  stop it? Can we just stop trying to appease everybody? You just can't.
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  You just can't. So look, you can say or you can go,
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  And that's all I hope you say, because you might get something in
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  value, because maybe the actual topic of discussion is more important than where our
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  sound levels are at, or whether or not we're using the latest fucking microphone,
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  or how fou fast our internet is or how many frames this is running
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  at or whatever the fucking music is. Okay, And I'm not spurging out.
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  I'm just expressing a little bit of frustration. Happy Father's Day, by
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  the way, oh god, which is what today is? The Guardian put
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  out awesome, but I'm sure that they put out some kind of clickbait bullshit.
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  Oh yeah, they did. Essentially that it was one of those articles
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  where they talk about their kids saying something you know, mm hmm uh.
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  A little Susie talked about the need for some you know, geopolitical position and
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  she's only three, little about how she's being killed by people's use of hydrocarbons
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  and she's only nine months. Oh is that like the woke the woke children
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  of like twenty sixteen. They're back, They're back, Yeah, the wo
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  children, except this one was three year olds. O. My daughter came
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  to me and said, yeah, this is a little boy asking his mother
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  why he had to celebrate the inferior parents on Father's Day. My god,
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  statistical analysis, mommy and my dad gives me less. I couldn't answer.
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  My my child, I sobbed, she said. My little girl came to
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  me and said, mommy, are we gonna live in the Handmaid's Tale?
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  I couldn't tell her no, Yes, I wept, I sobbed. I
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  remember those those were the days. Don't forget that men hate you utterly,
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  and the constructed a society to that. Happy Father's Day, everyone, Happy
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  parent Day, Happy Father's Day. Seriously though, oh yeah, out there,
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  you guys, you guys, you're all we got. Really, you're
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  all we got. At this point, you are the same red you are
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  the final, the last bastion. So oh goodness, thank you. D
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  five O three says the body O is okay. By the way, Teal
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  Deers in the chat says, the greatest Spurg. You must defeat is the
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  Spurg in your mind? Yeah, I have not only defeated him, I
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  have speed ran him. But okay, so I want to share the tweet
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  that this guy is talking about. So this guy named b Cactual, bk
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  Actual, Bravo Kilo Actual, who tweeted, says my app experience, I'm
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  assuming he means tender. I'm six to two, two hundred and five pounds,
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  all my hair, all my teeth fit decently, okay, looking retired
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  veteran, full benefits, my own place at the beach, my own business.
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  In three years on dating apps, I matched with tons of chicks,
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  maybe three of them were willing to meet in person, and it never went
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  any where. So that's that's kind of that that's kind of the standard right
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  now, right like, you can be this guy and still be striking out
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  with women. And of course it's still his fault according to the creator of
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  this video. But what we have, the only commentators we have are men
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  like this who are watching, like the in cell blob grow because that what
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  that's what that means, This is the growth of the in cell blob.
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  Now it's not just you know, autistics who are introverted and maybe a little
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  bit more emotional and neurotic. Now it's veterans with their own businesses who are
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  six foot two and probably could kill a man with their fricking thighs. Yeah,
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  he's there in cells now, it's like sparrow's egg. Yeah, all
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  right, let's play the rest of the more of this video, like,
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  I'm six foot free. That makes me like worthy and overapo he's talking about
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  this makes it clear that specifically still doesn't understand what makes someone attractive in relationship.
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  It wasn't what that woman was asking for. It's all like a financial
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  proposition. Yeah, but though literally the women are actually saying this is what
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  I want and they're putting it in their profiles, and men are like,
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  hey, I I qualify on all of those, all that criteria, I
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  meet that criteria. Why am I still? Why am I still unsuccessful?
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  And that's and he's like, you shouldn't have the right to you don't understand
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  women. I am the pussy whisperer. I know exactly what's going on.
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  And even though they're telling you what they want, that's not what they want
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  and you're wrong for listening to them. Maybe he's saying that because this woman
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  has said what she wants and this guy obviously meets what she wants. Yeah,
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  and yet it's still striking out that he's he's going to tell us all
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  what this woman has actually saying she wants somehow. I don't think this guy
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  is six foot sorry, but does he have a I don't know. He's
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  got a lot of posters on his wall, some I don't know, silver
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  YouTube bud thing because of course, you know, these are the guys that
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  get over one hundred thousand subs. But anyway, let's let's listen to more.
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  And as you're going to see in some of these replies, they're talking
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  about these women being lonely because feminism is basically tricks the yes, yes it
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  has, it's love to them. Also there, let's let's fa let's face
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  it. I don't think feminism inherit an invented hypergamy, No, but it's
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  using it. It's basically using it. Feminism is making things worse and it's
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  not adjusting the problem. Because I think that ultimately what we're dealing with is
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  a situation that's also compounded by what women naturally want mm hmm. You know,
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  and we don't want to talk about that. Okay, that was that
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  doesn't count. That was fucking That was not on master, it was only
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  on expert. Was it hard? Yeah? That was hard. I mean,
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  like I remember, this is the second time playing this game, so
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  yeah, it's fine. I mean play a lot of games that I sucked
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  at and I did it on the internet. Crib says, there's another tweet,
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  so he's going to respond to At some point, we have to look
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  at the freedoms that liberation provided in the revolution and think about whether they were
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  worth it. He's putting freedom's liberation and revolution in quotes. Is it more
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  or less likely for more children to be born and to grow up with their
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  grandparents' love? Isn't that a good unto itself? Oh? Good question?
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  Ib sounds like you're trying to oppress women though this this game is pressing me.
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  You don't have to conform, you don't have to be like your parents
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  or grand parents. And just sorry, someone very young, give up your
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  life, give up your job, have children, and that's your role.
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  May think that's a good thing. And now these women are like lonely and
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  can't find a man. They're like, well, we told you feminism was
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  bad, but we've covered the tradwise stuff on this for you? How old
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  man? Like what thirty? Maybe? I mean? I don't know,
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  man, do you think that your mother didn't have a fucking job? Like
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  what? Universe? Like? My mother had a career? My mother I
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  might be old enough to be his mother, don't How is it that the
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  the the are you suggesting that feminists like this gentleman are making unfair comparisons to
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  histories that never existed in order to justify their ideology because it gets them paid.
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  That's a wild accusation. That's gonna require a substantial amount of evidence.
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  Oh wait, we have the present year to look around us and see how
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  bad things are, and there's a direct correlation. And it seems like this
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  ideology is everywhere. Eh, I'm gonna just say it's a coincidence. Channel,
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  and we know ab us not a good thing, and so many of
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  you guys, why do we know it's a good thing? Wait? Wait,
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  wait, wait, let me go back. What's not a good thing?
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  Feminism was bad, but we've covered the tradwife stuff on this channel,
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  and we know us not a good thing. The trad wife is not a
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  good thing. He's saying, no, no, no, He said,
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  we know it isn't a good thing. Well, let's just accept it and
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  move on, because this is the order of the day. I have said,
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  I have decreed the trad wife thing is not a good thing. We
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  don't need to dig into this any deeper. We don't need to explore this
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  any further. It has been confirmed, the experts have said, so we
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  have consensus from the university. I saw all the view. It must be
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  true, the FEDS and the FEDS, all of it's confirmed by all of
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  the people in authority and power, and we all know that you shouldn't question
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  power because they have their fifteens and we don't if you're something like that,
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  which is almost all of them. No, he would say that Muslim tradwives
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  are not tradwives. The tradwife thing is specifically a white Western thing, because
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  that's the only group of people you're allowed to criticize for their cultural differences because
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  black category. So you like that. Family members like myself who were in
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  those more traditional relationships will tell you, yeah, it's a bad thing and
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  often has bad outcomes. But then what's so funny about these guys, Well,
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  only you, my friend, I think you're the mistake. I'm sorry.
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  I have so little sympathy for this guy. These people really piss me
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  off. Saying it is that, like neoliberal capitalism has also sold them a
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  lie, and I don't Oh wow, I just put a bunch of neoliberal
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  capitalism. Yeah, I'm educated, I went to a school. Those three
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  words come together and they form a really strong emotional reaction. All right,
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  can you hear me? Because I'm trying to tell you I think I can
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  hear you. Go ahead, all right, I'm just gonna sum this all
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  up what I've heard so far. A woman has said what she wants and
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  he's telling her, no, that's not what you want. How is that
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  different than the men he's complaining about? But he really has their best interest
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  in mine, Alison. Yeah, conservative men that he's criticizing, they don't.
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  They clearly want to put women in the kitchen and chain them to the
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  stove. It's very different. And even so like these guys, this veteran
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  who's complaining about, well, I on this level, I seem to be
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  fulfilling her desires, but I'm not getting women. What's going on with Gibbs?
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  Well, you know who knows maybe he does have an insight. Let's
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  hear it, Like, is he gonna get to it or is this going
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  to be mostly just throwing shade on so called conservative men, which we now
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  know just means men. So you're just gonna throw shade on other men.
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  I mean, I don't want to put money on it because I know I
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  would win. But let's just let's see. I'd like to be producted,
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  you know, I'd like to see, let's see if he has something of
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  interest to say, you know, like I'd like, I say, with
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  all the communists, if you figure out, like if you figure out the
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  main problem, which is you do need a meritocracy otherwise your society is not
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  productive. If you figure that out, you know, yeah, good on
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  you. But until you do, you've only got like one fourth of a
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  solution. You only have a complaint really, which is not a solution.
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  It's just a complaint. All right. Well, they want to have a
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  conversation about having a conversation. Yeah, so to find a partner based on
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  their finances and entitled men are entitled in terms ofersonality, in terms of just
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  everything outside the realms of finances, because they've been told their entire life.
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  If you like, get a good job, if you have a home,
• 26:08
  stable income, then that is like half the battle in actually finding a relationships.
• 26:14
  And this is why they actually hate things like feminism because now relationships are
• 26:18
  less and less a financial proposition because you know, they still are can have
• 26:22
  their own careers and don't need a man financially, right, but they but
• 26:26
  they still that's still a prerequisite for men. You're still not asking what women
• 26:33
  want. You're not even asking what women want. You still think that a
• 26:37
  woman is going to make as much as a man, or more than a
• 26:40
  man and be totally fine just like sharing a life with him, and that
• 26:45
  at no point is she going to start thinking we're just yeah, we're just
• 26:49
  gonna ignore women's like nature and preferences. The songs that they write about don't
• 26:56
  know, no no scrubs, you know, no like like're just gonna being
• 27:00
  to find out what Taylor Swift said, you know this easy Girl era,
• 27:04
  I'm in my I mean my what isirl? I don't know? I know
• 27:10
  what you're saying, it's it's the whatever, it's I'm not They're not They're
• 27:15
  not trying to get that bag while securing their own bag, that's not happening.
• 27:21
  No, that that's because that that would not be feminists. That's just
• 27:25
  what women do. Though, Oh, Manifestel seems to think she's a feminist,
• 27:29
  like she acts like one, but he's but he's acting like that doesn't
• 27:33
  exist. That women are completely like that. In fact, women are more
• 27:37
  pro egalitarian than men are, is what he thinks. We're going to ignore.
• 27:44
  We're going to ignore all of the songs that women write about not wanting
• 27:48
  scrubs. We're gonna ignore all of the tiktoks about being in there, the
• 27:55
  era of girl era they want to be taken care of there. Maybe we're
• 28:00
  gonna ignore Hannah Cox, who explicitly says who's supposedly a boss babe but still
• 28:04
  wants a man who does better than she does because she's the table and she
• 28:08
  wants him to bring something to the table. We're gonna ignore the statistics that
• 28:12
  show when men make more, they marry more, including when they get they
• 28:17
  win the lottery. We're going to ignore all of that, and we're going
• 28:19
  to tell people that what women are saying they want isn't what they want.
• 28:26
  Yep, okay, damn that capitalism and it's and it's concerned with property.
• 28:33
  Yeah, it's almost like m hmm, it's almost like women are promoting capitalism
• 28:41
  really if you think about it, because they're commanding men earn a certain amount
• 28:47
  to be eligible for consideration for dating. Maybe yeah, sure, I would
• 28:53
  argue that women promote materialism more capitalism is just like you know, maritime clothes.
• 29:00
  Like it's like basically property, that's all. Like I don't even like
• 29:03
  to use the word because I know that's some made up shit by companies,
• 29:07
  So I just say property rights. We didn't even call it a free market.
• 29:11
  It's just property rights. And he doesn't like property rights, you know,
• 29:15
  he and he doesn't know that women are the primary drivers of materialism,
• 29:22
  Like they're the ones that are like I need the newest clothes, I need
• 29:23
  the newest shoes, I need the new makeup, I need the new junk,
• 29:26
  and men are like more than willing to get it for them. Or
• 29:30
  you know, like back in the eighties, the car that you used to
• 29:33
  pick up chicks, well, you know, you could look back in history
• 29:34
  was like did you have the convertible? And then later it was like do
• 29:37
  you have the Ferrari? And then later it was like do you have the
• 29:40
  fucking you know Lexus, And now it's like, do you have the Bugatti?
• 29:44
  Oh? Is it because men keep changing that? No? No,
• 29:48
  no, it's because women keep asking for more yes, and and men are
• 29:53
  like, well, yeah, how do I get that? Because I want
• 29:56
  to get a woman like this is just it's not men want to exclude as
• 30:02
  many men as possible from the meeting game, you know, like they want
• 30:04
  to be excluded. You see. The problem within cells is that they selected
• 30:08
  the standards so that they could be excluded. Mm hm oh good lord,
• 30:14
  Okay, let's let's I think we got to get to get through basically women
• 30:19
  in these relationships. And it is scary that so many of these still think
• 30:23
  like this, because there's lots of them saying we should get rid of no
• 30:26
  fault divorce. Essentially, let's make it far harder for women to leave like
• 30:33
  terrible marriages with wouldn't it be Wait? Why are you saying women? This
• 30:38
  would also apply to men? What? Well, no fault divorce would also
• 30:44
  apply to men, right, make harder, make it harder for men to
• 30:48
  leave? Well? Who who? Who initiates the majority of divorce? I'm
• 30:53
  just saying, he's just revealing something. He's just revealing something right there.
• 30:59
  Okay, yeah, maybe he'll get to a point like it would be good
• 31:03
  if we could get something productive out of this, Like he would say,
• 31:07
  hey, this is what women actually want, so maybe you could create like
• 31:11
  a standard or something move forward to something like a solution, like Okay,
• 31:17
  all he's doing is saying women don't want what they say they want. I
• 31:19
  know what they want, and men are wrong when they say that what women
• 31:22
  say they want is what they want. This is so far of what it
• 31:26
  is, all right. One hundred thousand viewers, one hundred thousand subscribers,
• 31:32
  folks, I have a feeling we're never going to learn. I just I'm
• 31:37
  just saying. I'm just saying any tool proact to examples and what they reveal.
• 31:41
  But before we any further, please follow me on social media at the
• 31:45
  Kavanacle on both my instagram is my personal and my travel Instagram. Check me
• 31:48
  out on Fred's and Blue Sky. We are talking about Twitter here, but
• 31:52
  you know I don't really use Twitter that much, so follow me there if
• 31:56
  you want, but I don't really care. And also check out my Patreon
• 31:59
  page if you want to support me trying to build up as money one to
• 32:01
  three dollar patrons as possible, and you get access to the Discord server if
• 32:07
  you are a patron. So, like I said, it seems to be
• 32:08
  a pastime for American conservative men to just post a woman complaining about how she
• 32:15
  can't get a meaningful relationship and basically laughing at it and blaming feminism. So
• 32:20
  in this clip, the TikTok user and I think this is the original person
• 32:23
  called Ryan Spencer, or maybe it's a repost, I don't know. And
• 32:27
  basically this woman is just basically talking about how all her friends and relationships they're
• 32:32
  all happy, and she's had a very successful life. She's got it all
• 32:37
  sorted pretty much apart from she can't find someone to share this nice life with.
• 32:43
  It's three minutes long, but I'll play you eleven parts, all right,
• 32:46
  Yeah, share. So I've seen this video and when you listen,
• 32:52
  now tell me tell me because if this guy plays the clip without taking anything
• 32:57
  out of context too much, does this sound like she's looking for a man
• 33:01
  that she is willing to share, to share what she has, or a
• 33:08
  man to give her something, all right? Because I wonder like if the
• 33:14
  share is the critical thing here, Like does she know how to share.
• 33:17
  Okay, yeah, it's life with it's framnutes long. But i'llpply you some
• 33:22
  of the revs like, I am so sick and tired of just everything right
• 33:31
  now. I have literally convinced myself at this point, based on everything that
• 33:36
  everyone's telling me, my therapist, my family, my friends, that I'm
• 33:40
  just doing everything wrong. I'm healing, I'm thinking, I'm training wrong.
• 33:45
  I'm no. She doesn't want everything I do. Okay, stop for a
• 33:50
  second. She doesn't want to. You're not getting the outcome that you want.
• 33:54
  You are in fact wrong. No, she can't accept all. The
• 34:00
  game's wrong. The game failed. I've failed. The game's wrong. It's
• 34:06
  not me, it's the game that's bullshit. You're not getting the outcome you
• 34:09
  want, You're not getting the goal you want. Who's to blame you?
• 34:15
  This is the freaking problem with the issues around meritocracy. Women don't take responsibility
• 34:22
  when they're not getting what they want out of men. They just don't.
• 34:24
  They just insist that men are the problem. And yet at some point,
• 34:30
  relationships require courage, They require restraint, they require self control, they require
• 34:36
  getting out of your head, They require enjoying the fact that somebody else is
• 34:39
  getting something from you, which is something that I think women like this really
• 34:44
  struggle with. You cannot have a relationship unless both parties want to make life
• 34:49
  better for the other party, which means some points your husband or your boyfriend
• 34:54
  is going to benefit from your actions, and you gotta be okay with that.
• 35:00
  Right. You can't be like, oh my god, patriarchy, male
• 35:04
  privilege. Oh he's getting more out of the relationship than our This is bullshit.
• 35:07
  This is relationship killing thinking. Right, she says she wants to share,
• 35:13
  does she? And if she's not getting her goal, everybody around her
• 35:16
  is one hundred percent right? Change your approach. Well, let's listen to
• 35:22
  her. Let's listen to her. Let's find out. I mean, I
• 35:27
  know what she actually says. So, but relationship, everything I do is
• 35:31
  fucking wrong and I'm so sick of it. Stop comparing. It's not even
• 35:36
  about comparison, Like, I genuinely just want love in my life. So
• 35:42
  Mary, hmm, Really, it's literally not about anyone else. It's just
• 35:45
  about me and what I want. I feel you want love so badly,
• 35:50
  But she will not take responsibility. No, did you hear that? Let's
• 35:53
  let's listen again. Let's just listen to this again. Very important here she's
• 35:59
  looking for. It's literally not about anyone else, It's just about me.
• 36:05
  What was that? Wait, let's hear that again. What did she say?
• 36:07
  It feels like that's kind of an important detail. Want love in my
• 36:12
  life so badly. It's literally not about anyone else. It's just about me.
• 36:22
  It's literally not about anyone else. It's just about me. I wonder
• 36:28
  what's driving the men away? I wonder. I want to share as long
• 36:34
  as but it's also just about me. She doesn't want to share, dude,
• 36:37
  this is why she's getting clowned. Why can't this asshole see that?
• 36:44
  Because she can't even like, I have done so much work on myself.
• 36:50
  I have built a beautiful life for myself. I'm happy with my No,
• 36:55
  you're not my job. I'm successful, I'm into, I'm healthier than I've
• 37:01
  ever been. Truly, the only thing I'm missing in my life is someone
• 37:05
  to enjoy it with. And I'm so sick of waiting, Like, when
• 37:10
  is it going to be my turn? What more do I have to do?
• 37:15
  Or I'm allowed to meet this universe soulmate person that God supposedly has for
• 37:20
  me? How much harder? Do I have to pray and manifest? And
• 37:23
  wait, I don't want to manifest? Do you see? Do you guys
• 37:28
  see the problem here? She's gotten She thinks that she is like essentially a
• 37:35
  prime specimen of a human being, got it all done. Her shit's all
• 37:43
  like ducks in a row. I mean, I don't really know how true
• 37:45
  that is. She might have problems, but let's assume that all of this
• 37:49
  is true. And yet she's not finding a man. Now, statistically that's
• 37:53
  impossible. There are probably met she doesn't look she's not unattractive, Okay,
• 37:59
  so there are men who have approached her definitely, like one hundred fucking percent.
• 38:05
  So if she has been approached by men, for sure, there's no
• 38:09
  way that didn't happen. And she's not finding the soulmate and she's got all
• 38:15
  of her ducks in a row. Is it the fault of all the men
• 38:17
  that she is either ignored or turned down? Or is it something that she's
• 38:22
  missing? Because you know, when you have all your material things in order,
• 38:28
  that's great, But guess what that men are not impressed by how much
• 38:32
  shit you have. That doesn't impress men. They don't care about how much
• 38:37
  money you have. They don't care if you own your own business. They
• 38:40
  don't care about those things. They want a woman, especially at this age.
• 38:45
  What men want most from a woman is someone who's gonna bring peace into
• 38:50
  their life. Peace. Does she bring peace? I'm not I don't know
• 38:55
  the answer. I'm just gonna put it out there. Does she bring peace?
• 39:00
  But here's the thing, Like she says she wants that, but does
• 39:07
  she actually want a companion? Because I mean, people need to realize that
• 39:13
  being a companion is not necessarily easy. Sometimes it's work. Yeah, you
• 39:22
  know, it's an it can be an effort. It's like very rewarding.
• 39:27
  It's like any taking on any kind of responsibility. But you're taking on response
• 39:30
  in a way, you're taking on responsibility for another human being. Is she
• 39:32
  prepared for that? You know? If you if you aren't taking on responsibility
• 39:39
  for your life partner's needs, why are you having why do you why are
• 39:44
  you in a partnership? And I don't from what I've been hearing and what
• 39:47
  you've been pointing out, this individual doesn't have the least skills for taking care
• 39:53
  of another person's needs. Well, I mean, I'm not seeing any evidence
• 40:00
  of it all I'm all I'm hearing is me, me, Me? Why
• 40:05
  I now? Now, now, all right, let's listen to some more.
• 40:10
  I don't expect a lot. I really want love in my life so
• 40:16
  bad. I want my life partner. Am I just supposed to be alone?
• 40:22
  Like? Is that the message that this beautiful life I've built for myself,
• 40:24
  Like it's just supposed to be me and it alone? All of my
• 40:28
  friends, friends and their husbands that they prioritize, Like, as far as
• 40:35
  I'm concerned, I've been left behind and I really just want to find that
• 40:40
  person that matches my energy, and that matches my energy. See. Look,
• 40:47
  I feel for this woman honestly, so I watched this video, and
• 40:51
  why I feel for her is because she has been told a lie. She's
• 40:55
  been told a lie that she has to be like a man to find a
• 40:59
  man. And she's also probably like done a lot for herself and then said,
• 41:07
  okay, now I won't settle less for less than you know, X
• 41:09
  y Z from a man because I have done this and none of the men
• 41:15
  are measuring up. That's why when she says match my energy, like I
• 41:19
  don't know what that means, but that sounds like really hypergimous shit, So
• 41:22
  what are you gonna what are you gonna end up with? And I feel
• 41:24
  bad, but it's like none of this was necessary, Like you know what
• 41:29
  will be? She says, she's manifesting, right, Okay, Well,
• 41:34
  where's the space for a man in your life? You're saying, oh,
• 41:37
  I want to share this perfectly, okay, but when let's let's look at
• 41:42
  it in terms of manifesting, you gotta make space for it. I mean,
• 41:45
  if we're gonna go for the WU, let's go for the WU.
• 41:49
  If you're gonna manifest, you got a space for it. So you gotta
• 41:53
  make space for a man in your life. And if you're gonna be the
• 41:57
  man and you're expecting a man is even more of a man. That sounds
• 42:00
  like a never ending trail treadmill. Like I want somebody to match my energy.
• 42:06
  How about you want somebody who's benefited by your energy? A right,
• 42:10
  somebody who's life better because you're in it. That's making space. And I
• 42:16
  don'm not even gonna go into men. Don't want women who are she's not
• 42:21
  offering what a man offers. I'm sure she could find a young man who
• 42:24
  would love to live with her in her house and enjoy the things that she
• 42:30
  has, you know, but that's not what she's into. I'm guessing you
• 42:37
  know, because she doesn't. If you want a man in your life,
• 42:43
  you got to make room for a man, right And it's not just that
• 42:45
  you want your life to benefit some way to be of benefit to him,
• 42:51
  and you want to approach the relationship. I'm gonna exit this so you don't
• 42:55
  have to hear that sounds you said you don't approach. You approach the relationship
• 42:59
  in terms of how how do I benefit them? But also you have to
• 43:01
  give room for a man to benefit you because they like that. You know.
• 43:07
  Men like to feel like they matter and that they've done something that has
• 43:15
  made your life better. They really like that, you know. So you
• 43:19
  have to make these kinds of spaces in your life. And doesn't sound like
• 43:22
  you have. In fact, I don't even know if you have the right
• 43:25
  mentality for wanting a man, because it sounds more like you're upset that your
• 43:30
  girlfriends have got something you don't have that's not the energy to bring to a
• 43:35
  relationship. And you know, I'm, I'm, we're probably everything we're saying
• 43:39
  is not the same as what the conservative said, or these conservative men that
• 43:44
  he's calling out have said maybe they said something different, like what are your
• 43:47
  standards? Lady? I mean, I have all of this? What more
• 43:52
  do you want? And I could answer that women want men who are who
• 44:01
  they feel have greater moral authority, as simple as that. Like uh,
• 44:07
  and this is like even taking sex out of it. People are attracted to
• 44:12
  other people who they feel are more morally developed. And because we got rid
• 44:17
  of Christianity and it's sort of focused on that kind of moral development, but
• 44:23
  also the focus on the idea that men have or attain a higher level of
• 44:28
  moral development. While that we've gotten rid of that, you know, the
• 44:31
  average man can't access it, so he's it doesn't matter how much of a
• 44:37
  badass you are, how much you make, you're not hitting that note.
• 44:43
  And I don't think any woman really can describe that because I don't know,
• 44:47
  like, like most people, women don't have self awareness. And I'm not
• 44:52
  saying most most people don't really like this is just a but anyway, let's
• 44:58
  show we I mean, how far have we got? I feel like we're
• 45:00
  six six minutes? Okay, let's keep going, all right, I don't
• 45:07
  know, I don't have time. I don't know, so I don't think
• 45:08
  she specifically references dating apps, but that's like part of the problem. And
• 45:14
  you're going to see the dating app thing come up a lot in this video,
• 45:15
  so I might as well address it. So this person is talking about
• 45:17
  how they can't find someone compatible with them, and I sympathize with that to
• 45:22
  some degree. Like, I've been in a long term relationship pretty much since
• 45:25
  dating apps, or even a thing with my girlfriend who I met in high
• 45:30
  school. And I was thinking about this recently in terms of if we ever
• 45:32
  broke up, would I even want to date again, like in any capacity
• 45:37
  in like the near future, like a couple of years after that. And
• 45:39
  I'm just thinking, like no, because the dating landscape at the moment just
• 45:45
  seems really unappealing in terms of dating apps. And I know what I might
• 45:47
  personally and not how picky imps. So you're saying it's unappealing because of dating
• 45:59
  apps. That's that's like when people blame the Internet or social because of cars.
• 46:07
  Yeah, Okay, let's keep going all a feeling. This is a
• 46:14
  thing like too, Like, Okay, so he said I've been dating in
• 46:19
  a long term relationships ever since dating apps were a thing with my girlfriend from
• 46:24
  high school. So you didn't meet your girlfriend on a dating app then,
• 46:27
  right, I mean you knew it from high school. So this is it
• 46:31
  sounds like comparison that makes no sense unless you met your girlfriend on a dating
• 46:38
  app and then right afterwards realize you guys went to the same school, which
• 46:43
  I also find hard to believe. But it sounds like you you're really not
• 46:49
  wanting to actually confront the fact that sexual selection has gone like completely off the
• 46:57
  rails, and it's and the divide between men and women has ever been bigger,
• 47:02
  and a lot of it does have to do with women's liberation. I
• 47:08
  think, I do liberation from what it seems like there's never been more chained.
• 47:14
  Well, liberation is doesn't mean like this what people think. It means
• 47:20
  like I don't want to get into it, but it's like the sort of
• 47:22
  like Markusian version of liberation, which is really more like what you're saying,
• 47:29
  it's like an enslavement. So but the point is is that there's a reason
• 47:36
  why women have gone like their their tastes and their preferences have gone off the
• 47:43
  rails while men have stayed relatively the same. Yeah, can I just point
• 47:49
  something out here. Yeah, he says, Oh, I sympathize with this
• 47:53
  woman, and yet his body says something different. He watches this and he
• 47:58
  says, thank god, I don't have to date this woman. That's what
• 48:01
  he's saying. Mm hmm. I know he's not specifically explicitly saying it,
• 48:06
  but think about the lack of self awareness that generally people have and the proximity
• 48:10
  of what he's saying. He's watching this woman and she's thinking, thank god,
• 48:15
  I don't have to date today. Yeah, and that he even says,
• 48:20
  I don't know that I would date if I broke up with my current
• 48:22
  girlfriend. Yeah. And it's like, wow, that's fucking dark, Like
• 48:27
  is that really what you want? You know? And I know it's not
• 48:30
  like these people lie to themselves all the time. Oh I would never want
• 48:35
  to do that. Yes, you do, you just don't want to admit
• 48:37
  it. Well, I mean, even so, he's revealing something about himself.
• 48:42
  He's revealing that in response to this woman. His emotional response is to
• 48:46
  say, ick to this woman, he's just not being honest with us or
• 48:52
  himself. Yeah, exactly. The place some more is to find someone you
• 49:00
  really vibe with and I know that because of how hard I've actually found making
• 49:05
  friends as I've gotten older. Now I still have a lot of friends,
• 49:08
  and I'm thinking about I'm actually going to something at the weekend with a lot
• 49:13
  of my friends. But I was thinking about what age did I make friends
• 49:15
  of these people? So the earliest ones there, I made friends when I
• 49:19
  was about five years old, so that was in primary school and then secondary
• 49:22
  school for a lot of the others, so about twelve years old, and
• 49:24
  a few of them about like sixteen years old when we like mixed classes.
• 49:28
  But nearly every single person I'm meeting at this thing I've been friends with since
• 49:32
  school in some capacity, and for a lot of reasons. It's actually good
• 49:36
  to still have your school friends because you're all so different, but you still
• 49:38
  get on. So you get that. I'm pausing it there for a second.
• 49:42
  I want to jump to a different part. I can't. Let me
• 49:45
  see here, let me see challenge of the finding medium, collection on apps,
• 49:50
  the hindrance, the finding a partner, entitlement and self improvement. Let
• 49:54
  me they can jump to that. So where is this at? See now?
• 50:00
  Help me get there? How they get there? Okay? Six,
• 50:04
  I already started that section prioritizing emotional compatibility and personal growth in relationships. I
• 50:14
  don't know if is this guy gonna get into like why conservative men are the
• 50:16
  worst thing ever or what not. Yeah, apparently we're just going to say
• 50:29
  that and then have the same emotional response that the conservative men had to this
• 50:34
  woman, like I mean, come seriously, the conservative men are like,
• 50:37
  what the and he is also saying what the fuck? He's just not being
• 50:40
  honest with himself because the first thought is watching this woman is thank god,
• 50:44
  I don't have to date now. And by the way, lady, if
• 50:46
  that's if that's the response men are having to you, it is a you
• 50:52
  thing. Like even this this sort of like femi or feminist is having that
• 50:58
  emotional response to this woman, and she must be so unbelievably like repulsive that
• 51:07
  she she's He's not he's not being admitting it. He's not admitting he's not
• 51:12
  saying yeah, actually it's this woman that's making me just suddenly realize, Hey,
• 51:17
  thank god I don't have to date today, you know. Yeah,
• 51:25
  Okay, So I'll see if he gets something in real world work and university,
• 51:30
  for example, when I'm out of my bubble, how hard or easy.
• 51:34
  Did I find it? Well? I think I made four real friends
• 51:37
  in the whole university. Like, sure, you have like those like mates
• 51:40
  that you might go drinking with or go to the pub with, but in
• 51:43
  terms of actual friends you stayed in contact with after okage, For me,
• 51:47
  it's as compatible ass. He's really processing, like let me, let me
• 51:52
  tell you what's happening here. He's processing and emotion. He doesn't want to
• 51:55
  take responsibility for That's why he's going on this long tangent. That emotion.
• 52:01
  Yeah, that, but that emotion is repulsion towards that woman, like you,
• 52:06
  you must be a lady. If you're repulsing the male feminists something seriously
• 52:13
  wrong. If you're making them Yeah, they're they're wrestling, they're trying to
• 52:17
  wrestle with this reality that like, the one thing they can't accept is that
• 52:22
  there are cases where women become entitled and men are not, and they're and
• 52:28
  they're unable to process that. They have to like always frame women as the
• 52:32
  victims of men's entitlement. And this woman is clearly like she this is the
• 52:37
  thing. Okay, what you want isn't necessarily what's best for you. And
• 52:42
  this woman is struggling because she's in a place where she she has pursued what
• 52:46
  she thought she wanted and is finding that she is more unhappy because it is
• 52:52
  actually what turns out it's not what is best for her, and she may
• 52:57
  be looking in the wrong place to find this misery, like her peers,
• 53:04
  who maybe they did do something completely different. Maybe they were just like,
• 53:07
  I'm gonna find a man and we're gonna partner up and we're going to build
• 53:12
  a life together as a team or whatever it is. Or I'm going to
• 53:15
  find a man and I'm going to, you know, for lack of a
• 53:20
  better word, submit to him like his moral authority, not necessarily you know,
• 53:23
  like a servant or anything like that. I'm going to we're going to
• 53:28
  form a partnership. We're gonna build a family together. Well, no matter
• 53:30
  what you're in a partnership, you have to submit sometimes. Yeah, that's
• 53:34
  what I'm saying. It is when I say submit, though, again,
• 53:37
  this is one of those words that's been made emotionally charging for people, and
• 53:42
  they're gonna hear it and say, oh my god, do you mean the
• 53:44
  handmade chail? And it's like stop it, retard, take a sanax and
• 53:47
  sit down. I'm talking about like the fact that sometimes you and your partner
• 53:52
  you have to like submit to them because maybe they're right about something or they
• 53:58
  should have authority in a given situation. And here's the thing, where's the
• 54:01
  recognition in that whole construct that men submit to certain aspects of women too,
• 54:07
  And that is that men tend to put women's benefit first. And it's even
• 54:13
  said in the Bible, you know, it's like women submit, and I
• 54:16
  think it's like learn from how men do things, and men are called to
• 54:22
  put women first. Now I'm not I'm just pointing that out. I'm not
• 54:25
  I'm this is I'm just saying that. I'm not saying that that's the way
• 54:29
  it has to be, but it's true. I mean, if you're in
• 54:30
  a relationship, at some point you do have to submit, you do have
• 54:35
  to allow your partner to lead. And if you can't do that, then
• 54:38
  you're probably not going to be in a very good relationship and or and you're
• 54:44
  definitely not going to be in a relationship where you feel secure as a woman
• 54:46
  period like this this lady's not. So the point is that that is a
• 54:53
  that is a skill, and it requires courage, like submission requires courage,
• 54:58
  and nobody tells anybody about to be willing to submit requires courage and discipline and
• 55:05
  self development and you know, like a But to get back to this guy,
• 55:09
  I think that he's just repulsed by her entitlement. So he's going into
• 55:14
  this long ass and like I think, feminist men tend to be more on
• 55:19
  like the in cel phenotype kind of thing, where they're they process things more
• 55:23
  verbally. So he's had a strong emotion, now he's processing it, and
• 55:28
  he's going into this long thing about Oh wow, I didn't want to get
• 55:30
  friends because it's hard to vibe with someone. And actually what's happened is he's
• 55:36
  had a strong disgust response to this woman. And his immediate response was,
• 55:40
  oh, thank god, I don't have to I don't have to engage with
• 55:44
  a person like this. That was his immediate response. Did you guys notice
• 55:46
  that it's like, I'm so glad I don't have to date because of uh,
• 55:51
  well not this woman, uh something else, uh dating amps And also
• 55:55
  because it's really difficult for me to vibe. Okay, get further from the
• 56:00
  topic, get further from the topic, because I have trouble for making friends.
• 56:04
  You see what he's doing. He's running from the same disgust response the
• 56:08
  conservative men had, except he's not taking responsibility for it. Now, I
• 56:16
  don't think this guy's dangerous, but this is something I've seen with and there
• 56:21
  are some feminist men who are dangerous. They have a disgusted response to women,
• 56:27
  a very strong disgusted response, but they do not recognize it on a
• 56:30
  conscious level. So all of that filth, all of that sort of corruption
• 56:36
  and disgust gets buried deep within them. They don't process it. And if
• 56:42
  you are an unfortunately, if you're in a position at some point as a
• 56:46
  woman where you fail to uphold their identity as a one good man, that
• 56:51
  can irrupt onto you. And I'm not saying that this guy's dangerous. You
• 56:54
  know that might that eruption might just be like a complete implosion on his part.
• 57:00
  But some guys are Some guys are very dangerous. Some feminist men are
• 57:04
  very dangerous. This process of trying to swallow your disgust towards women is a
• 57:10
  dangerous process. You're much better off with men who are conscious of it and
• 57:15
  are just like, no, this woman is disgusting and don't internalize it,
• 57:20
  because that that's the problem. Like men internalize this. They they swallow it.
• 57:27
  They they put it into like a lava chamber inside them. And I
• 57:31
  mean, if you're lucky, then never explodes. If you're unlucky, it
• 57:35
  does, and you end up in a situation that we we we were tangentially
• 57:40
  a part of Okay, right, Okay, I'm gonna play more. Said
• 57:45
  all. She wants to find a man, and she's sick and tired of
• 57:47
  waiting. Then asks Grock, twitter's like right wing? AI? Right wing
• 57:54
  AI? Grock? Yeah, okay, sure dude, Sure again he's when
• 58:00
  he says right wing, he's it's not because it is right wing. It's
• 58:04
  just like when he says conservative men. It doesn't mean they're conservative men.
• 58:07
  He's just putting him in a box so that you have a reaction to it.
• 58:10
  So don't fall for it. But it, says Grox says. There
• 58:14
  are two main types of narcissism, brandiose and vulnerable. Grandiose narcissists are typically
• 58:20
  arrogant, confident, and assertive, while vulnerable narcissists are more insecure, sensitive,
• 58:24
  and self conscious. Both types share a core belief in their own superiority
• 58:29
  and a need for validation from others. Is that a lie? Is that
• 58:32
  is that a right wing buzzword action or is that just problem is that they're
• 58:38
  applying it to a woman and he doesn't. He doesn't believe that women like.
• 58:43
  That's the thing, Like, he has an emotional response to women.
• 58:46
  As you can see, he had an emotional response to this woman, and
• 58:50
  that emotional response was discussed. So he is actually judging women based on our
• 58:53
  actions. But his ideology does not allow him to acknowledge that on a conscious
• 59:00
  level, right, So he has to he has to to essentially put that
• 59:07
  acknowledging women's behavior as negative and as disgusting. He has to put that on
• 59:15
  his scapegoat and then ritually like destroy it or deny it. So essentially what's
• 59:23
  happened is he's had this disgust based emotional reaction to this woman, and now
• 59:29
  he's going to blame his own emotions on conservative men, which is a meaningless
• 59:34
  category. When he says conservative men, he's just saying everything that I experience
• 59:38
  emotionally, that's inconsistent with my identity as a person who regards women as infallible.
• 59:45
  You see what I'm saying. Yes, this is how scapegoats work.
• 59:50
  Everything that we feel is inconsistent with our identities that are precious to us.
• 59:55
  We put on the scapegoat and then we say, well, of course we're
• 1:00:00
  not that man. I mean, I had the same feeling as these conservative
• 1:00:02
  men, but I'm not them because I'm not part of that category, you
• 1:00:09
  know. And it's basically a very childish approach. Okay. Roc says there
• 1:00:17
  are two types of narcissism, grandiose and vulnerable. Grandiose narcissists are typically arrogant,
• 1:00:22
  confident, and assertive, while vulnerable narcissists are more insecure sense than the
• 1:00:27
  self conscious. Both type share a core believe in their own superiority and need
• 1:00:30
  for validation from it. So that's what he's saying in response to this video,
• 1:00:34
  I showed you that to this person is a narcissist because they can't someone
• 1:00:37
  to share their life with. How does that make someone any type of nascists?
• 1:00:42
  No, no, no, no, no, no, no again,
• 1:00:45
  this is emotional groping by this guy. That's not what they're responding to.
• 1:00:47
  They're not responding to the fact that she can't find a partner. They're
• 1:00:51
  responding to the terms that she uses the framework she uses her attitude, the
• 1:00:55
  fact that even though she's made this, it's not about anyone else. It's
• 1:01:02
  about me and what I want. She literally says it word for word.
• 1:01:07
  Okay, it just says it, yes, literally word. And also apparently
• 1:01:12
  her desire to have a partner isn't because she actually wants a partner. It's
• 1:01:15
  because she's got fomo because all of her friends have one. Right here,
• 1:01:19
  it's still about her even this, it's not about like what can I work
• 1:01:22
  on? What? What personality quirts? What? What can I work on?
• 1:01:27
  What are my values? Not like how much shit do I have?
• 1:01:30
  Like what do I believe in? Where? What do I values? Like?
• 1:01:35
  What do I What do I have that I can share with a man?
• 1:01:38
  If we lose everything, like we lose everything tomorrow, if the economy
• 1:01:44
  collapses on itself tomorrow and we're like we're homeless and we have no we have
• 1:01:47
  nothing, what do we have? That's what That's that's really what matters.
• 1:01:52
  Okay. But she doesn't gave an answer to that because she's just like,
• 1:01:55
  oh, I got my own business again. It's like what I said before.
• 1:01:59
  You know, if you remove people too much from the world, as
• 1:02:04
  it as fragile, as it is. They're the She seems like the same
• 1:02:07
  kind of person that would go into a Whole Foods and see that they're out
• 1:02:12
  of like, you know, her fucking avocado toast, and she's like,
• 1:02:15
  well, don't you have any in the back? That's the that like where
• 1:02:19
  is the back? You know? And oh yeah, yeah, like it
• 1:02:22
  just separated from reality, all right. Well also like, yeah, the
• 1:02:29
  way that she's talking about the issue is very narcissistic if you listen to it,
• 1:02:34
  it's a very narcissistic approach. Groc apparently picked up on that and just
• 1:02:39
  said she's she might be a vulnerable narcissist. This guy picked up on that,
• 1:02:45
  Like, I guarantee he picked up on that on emotional level, which
• 1:02:47
  is why he went into the I'm so glad I don't have to date today.
• 1:02:51
  I wonder why you suddenly thought of that when you watch that woman?
• 1:02:57
  Hey, Brian, Yeah, and then he starts to grope a away from
• 1:03:00
  his emotional responsive disgust. He's starting to rationalize it. He's rationalizing it because
• 1:03:06
  it's inconsistent with his identity, which doesn't allow that women can be disgusting.
• 1:03:12
  Like, let's just be frank, like women can be disgusting. I'm not
• 1:03:15
  even talking about physically, I'm talking about emotionally, psychologically, intellectually, they
• 1:03:21
  can present themselves in a way that's repulsive, and he can't handle that because
• 1:03:25
  he is identified with women being socially desirable. What that means is that they're
• 1:03:31
  always the ones that you measure social desirability against. So they themselves can never
• 1:03:37
  be disgusting because they are the measurement of disgust. And in order to recognize
• 1:03:43
  his emotional responsive disgust, he'd have to deny his own identity. So he
• 1:03:47
  starts going off on these intellectual tangents but rationalizing it. Then he goes and
• 1:03:52
  he says, oh, look, this person or the GROC has the completely
• 1:03:58
  neutral recognition of why I felt discussed listening to her. I'm going to say
• 1:04:03
  Groc is right wing, even though, uh, you know, I'm having
• 1:04:08
  the same response as all of these right wing people. There's all of these
• 1:04:11
  right wing men, and Groc is giving a neutral explanation of where that response
• 1:04:15
  is coming from. I'm going to say, that is the right wing response
• 1:04:17
  that is incompatible with my identity. Petuhi, petui petuhy, you know.
• 1:04:25
  And then and then I don't have to take any responsibility to it. So
• 1:04:28
  he gropes through this process of rationalization ending with scapegoating, and now he doesn't
• 1:04:32
  have to take responsibility on an intellectual level for his physical response to this woman,
• 1:04:39
  which was discussed, but that discussed still their friends, it's still in
• 1:04:43
  him. He's just justified why he hasn't to process it correct cause and success
• 1:04:49
  overstarting a family. She fell for it just like the rest. And you'll
• 1:04:54
  see this a lot. Isn't that capitalism? A lot? He's blaming capitalism?
• 1:05:01
  Okay, this guy's This guy is a comedy. So he hates capitalism.
• 1:05:04
  He thinks capitalism is the reason why women are sad. So not you
• 1:05:10
  know, men and capitalism? In fact, men what capitalism, patriarchy,
• 1:05:15
  conservatism, those are all essentially the same thing. But what would he?
• 1:05:21
  What would he? Okay, so he's saying that this woman is disgusting because
• 1:05:27
  insert scapegrowth. This woman is disgusting to me because insert scapegoat, because capitalism.
• 1:05:32
  But what would he? What would he rather her do? Not pursue
• 1:05:36
  a career? Well? Women should see. The thing is women should be
• 1:05:40
  able to desire things. But you know what I'm I I let's let's hear
• 1:05:48
  what he has to say. All right, let's stop goods through feminism,
• 1:05:51
  and the root society is gone. We owe nate and deserve love. I
• 1:05:55
  still get angry at these women, but every now and then I just have
• 1:05:58
  pity for them. Obviously I'm not such they are to take zero accountability,
• 1:06:01
  and that is everyone else is full for the situation. But they were lied
• 1:06:04
  to by those closest to them, and they should have been there to protect
• 1:06:08
  them. So obviously I know what the alternative these people are suggesting is.
• 1:06:12
  Basically, like women don't have careers anymore? Well, I always find you're
• 1:06:15
  a communist. Are people supposed to be defined by their careers, by their
• 1:06:21
  activity and the capitalist system? I thought you were a communist. Are we
• 1:06:25
  abandoning that now? Well he thinks that like nobody should work. But if
• 1:06:32
  we're going to have a system where people work, everybody should work, because
• 1:06:35
  we either are all miserable, like if men, how are we ever going
• 1:06:42
  to have a different system if women don't value something different? Like does he
• 1:06:47
  think that he's going to construct a system in complete defiance of what women value?
• 1:06:53
  And he says everybody else is the misogynist, Like Okay, go ahead,
• 1:07:00
  Brian. It's not meant to be understood. It's just meant to be
• 1:07:03
  done. You're right, it's meant to just be like this emotion is actually
• 1:07:09
  an emotion of the right wing. My discuss for this woman and her behavior
• 1:07:13
  is actually you know, right wing. Therefore it's not mine. Yeah,
• 1:07:16
  Patriarch Gert's men too, something like that. Feminism. Okay, so I
• 1:07:20
  was sort of like weirdly like anti captist lens. But just for women is
• 1:07:26
  that they say, oh yeah, having a career working for the man,
• 1:07:30
  it's also so destroying. Wouldn't it be better if you just like started a
• 1:07:32
  family and focus on the family things that are more important, right, But
• 1:07:36
  they never apply this to the overall system of oh yeah, it's all bullshit.
• 1:07:41
  It pretty much alwaans nothing for men and women. Hey look, hey
• 1:07:45
  guys, hey look, I didn't know he was a communist. I presumed
• 1:07:48
  it. I prejudice prejudiced him. But I was right because I'm always right
• 1:07:55
  about that, So of course no, I am, I am, I
• 1:07:58
  knew it. I was like, he's a comedy, and sure enough he
• 1:08:00
  comes down and goes, well, look actually, and he does this fucking
• 1:08:03
  you know he hits us with a rhetoric bomb where he's like, well,
• 1:08:06
  it's weird because you know, conservative men meaningless term, they actually like kind
• 1:08:14
  of hate capitalism, but only for women. But then they and they try
• 1:08:16
  to convince women that working for the man is so destroying, but they won't
• 1:08:20
  just go all the way with it. Oh weird, because they recognize that
• 1:08:26
  meritocracy is necessary for the functioning of a society, and conservative men specifically want
• 1:08:31
  men to take it on the chin. Yeah, But I mean, at
• 1:08:36
  the same time, it's like, why this is the thing that's funny about
• 1:08:42
  about these guys. They think that having a job and working a job and
• 1:08:46
  earning money is somehow putting you in a privileged position over people who don't.
• 1:08:51
  That's why he's like, well, why are you taking away women's right to
• 1:08:54
  work? Women should be able to work too. But then they also try
• 1:08:57
  to convince you that working is actually like it sucks and you shouldn't have to
• 1:09:00
  do it because you're working for the man and you're making the CEOs one percent
• 1:09:05
  rich and yet and it's just barely enough for you to live off of,
• 1:09:11
  so why are you doing that? But also don't deny it from women like
• 1:09:13
  there's this is why it's not worth like trying to go through the logic of
• 1:09:17
  it. Okay, men work despite the fact that many of the times,
• 1:09:23
  much of the time, they hate their job because they understand that providing for
• 1:09:28
  a family is more important than liking their job. So they make a choice.
• 1:09:33
  It's almost like life is nothing but traded offs, and they make this
• 1:09:36
  choice and they follow through on that. And communists are mad because they want
• 1:09:42
  to be like twenty four hour video game streamers for the cause, and they
• 1:09:45
  don't want to live in reality where men have to go out and just be
• 1:09:48
  like garbage men and work in sewers and work the power lines and go to
• 1:09:53
  the fucking coal mines or whatever it is, because they want to provide food
• 1:09:57
  and shelter for their fucking families and they can't even see and they would prefer
• 1:10:00
  that their wife, you know, was like either you know, helping with
• 1:10:06
  the family, the actual rearing of children. Them being like in the workforce
• 1:10:12
  too, just because equality whatever the fuck that even means, which it doesn't
• 1:10:16
  mean anything, Like men give their resources to women willingly, and then women
• 1:10:23
  vote so that the state takes it from them by force. On top of
• 1:10:27
  that, and men still are like, well, okay, you know,
• 1:10:30
  we'll just go with that. And then people like this try to convince women
• 1:10:34
  that the same men who are at once giving them money and their resources and
• 1:10:40
  their time and their blood, sweat and tears fucking buy their own free choice
• 1:10:46
  while those women are using the state to take resources from them and redirect them
• 1:10:51
  to women by force. And then these people, cunts like this guy,
• 1:10:56
  are trying to convince them that those men are the bad guys and that if
• 1:10:59
  any of them say, you know, I'd like to find a woman that's
• 1:11:01
  not going to like put me through hell and maybe will help out around the
• 1:11:04
  house, he'll be like, oh, that sounds really entitled. Even though
• 1:11:08
  that's literally what he wants, he just won't say it because he doesn't want
• 1:11:12
  to be considered conservative because it has that buzz electromagnetic fucking emotional black category shock
• 1:11:18
  value attached to it, and you can't like, even I can't even address
• 1:11:23
  this in the realm of reality because I have to continually fight against the fucking
• 1:11:27
  buzzwords. So anyway, there you go. Okay, all right, let's
• 1:11:33
  play more. Let's play some more. So we should be free to do
• 1:11:36
  what we want, ben It's like no, it's solos and bad for women.
• 1:11:40
  So please, nobody gets to do what they want. Everyone does what
• 1:11:44
  they must and then like they get a little bit of free time, maybe
• 1:11:47
  they will try to enjoy themselves. Why do you why do why do people
• 1:11:53
  like to you know this? This must be your job, This must be
• 1:11:57
  his job, because he seems to think that men who get up in the
• 1:12:00
  morning and leave their house at like seven am to go to a job are
• 1:12:03
  just doing whatever they want and they're not actually working. He's admitting that,
• 1:12:11
  Okay, he's saying that conservatives admit that work is soul destroying and it's horrible,
• 1:12:19
  but they don't want women to have to do it. And that's the
• 1:12:21
  thing, like the way men don't men want to give women their resources like
• 1:12:28
  they want why they're just structured. Absolutely, men are doing the soul destroying
• 1:12:31
  shit to keep society running. Women are enjoying the fruits of their labor.
• 1:12:41
  And uh yeah, that's exactly the way the conservatives want it because they believe
• 1:12:45
  that men should take it on the chin. Have you not noticed that we're
• 1:12:49
  not talking about conservatives, Alison, We're talking about romal Like what how is
• 1:12:55
  it going to work in in corporate are communism? Does he think that like
• 1:13:00
  everyone's going to have to work in communism, Like there's gonna be camps,
• 1:13:04
  camps for that. I mean, there's not going to be like this robot
• 1:13:12
  farms work was just invented by capitalists to keep the proletariat down, that's what
• 1:13:16
  he thinks. Yes, where do you think resources come from? Somebody has
• 1:13:21
  to acquire them until we live in like heaven are in the back that those
• 1:13:30
  resources are going to be difficult to acquire and dangerous, and prefer that men
• 1:13:38
  take those risks. Well, men prefer to take those risks. If I'm
• 1:13:44
  going to use his black category to define people, let's say, uh,
• 1:13:48
  people who are interested in a traditional arrangement of the sexes, which isn't really
• 1:13:53
  that traditional because women did a lot of the work throughout human history. Yes,
• 1:13:58
  yes, And I can sort of sympathize with the women who do want
• 1:14:02
  to be useful, Like I'm I'm a woman who wants to be useful,
• 1:14:08
  you know, I'm a woman who wants to build things and make stuff and
• 1:14:14
  be able to do something difficult. So I sympathize with that. Yeah.
• 1:14:21
  But but but that I mean, I'm not gonna I'm not going to say
• 1:14:26
  that conservatives are what they're not. They're not. They want men to occupy
• 1:14:30
  the more difficult position in society, and they want them to do it in
• 1:14:32
  order to protect and provide for women. That's their position, that's the traditionally
• 1:14:36
  masculine position, right. I don't know why he's mystified by it. And
• 1:14:41
  they don't want men to stop occupying that position because they know somebody has to.
• 1:14:48
  And I think the problem with this thinking is he thinks that nobody has
• 1:14:51
  to do the line work, nobody has to do the sewer work, nobody
• 1:14:56
  has to do the utilities work. It just happens. It doesn't just happen.
• 1:15:02
  This this is necessary work. Conservatives look at the world. They see
• 1:15:05
  the necessary, the dirty, the difficult, the dangerous, and they say
• 1:15:10
  men should be doing those jobs to provide women, uh, not just with
• 1:15:15
  the utilities that they're making, but also to provide women with a nest,
• 1:15:18
  a household that they can enjoy leisure and safety and security and raised children and
• 1:15:27
  occupy themselves with whatever hobbies or interests that they have. You know, the
• 1:15:30
  assumption, maybe the assumption was the conservatives think that there was going to be
• 1:15:34
  like a huge revolution and female philosophy like a new Greek philosophical age, and
• 1:15:41
  then we got feminism, so that was sort of taken off the table.
• 1:15:44
  But you know, like who knows. They just they just believe that women
• 1:15:46
  are the ones who should get the benefit of men's labor and men shouldn't and
• 1:15:53
  that's why they advocate this way. And when they look at you, when
• 1:15:57
  they look at this conserve, this communist dude, what they see is a
• 1:16:00
  man who doesn't believe that men should be the ones sacrificing themselves in the dangerous,
• 1:16:05
  dirty and difficult jobs. That the men shouldn't be the one sacrificing themselves
• 1:16:10
  in the workplace in order to create a little shagri law for their wives,
• 1:16:14
  you know. And they see that, and they see a man who disgusts
• 1:16:17
  them because they don't see him as a man. They see him as a
• 1:16:21
  man who is shirking his duty to put women first. Yeah, And he
• 1:16:27
  doesn't understand them because he's like, well, why don't you advocate that for
• 1:16:30
  men? And it's like, well you don't. You have this stereotype about
• 1:16:36
  conservatives that conservatives don't care about women. They very much care about women.
• 1:16:42
  They care about women way more than they care about men. It's just that
• 1:16:45
  you guys are arguing over how best to benefit women. It's so funny because
• 1:16:50
  both sides do that. You noticed, and nobody's on the slide. Yeah
• 1:16:56
  I don't. I'm like, no, I but I'm saying like, which
• 1:17:00
  is probably why we're so small. It's not a sides thing. It's just
• 1:17:03
  the way we are. Let me, let me qualify that. I don't
• 1:17:06
  think it's of women's benefit to continually see them as not in terms of their
• 1:17:14
  actions, because that's that is a cage that that we put women in.
• 1:17:19
  When we put women in this kind of they can only be one thing,
• 1:17:24
  well, then they can only be one thing. It's a cage. And
• 1:17:27
  honestly, as a woman, I would rather be defined by my actions than
• 1:17:32
  being a woman, than being defined as being a woman, right, And
• 1:17:39
  I think that when we don't do that for women, like when we do
• 1:17:42
  things like respect women, well what are you respecting? What are you respecting?
• 1:17:46
  Really, especially when you can't even define a woman. But you know,
• 1:17:49
  like so, I think it's of a certain type of benefit for women
• 1:17:55
  to be judged based on their actions. And their moral decisions. Right,
• 1:18:00
  I got a super chow, but go ahead, cool, that's like our
• 1:18:03
  first one. All right, No, I'm done, go do our stupid
• 1:18:06
  all right. So I did get one like like yesterday at eight o'clock,
• 1:18:13
  so it was like after okay, because I don't think I don't think it
• 1:18:16
  was yesterday. Yesterday was Saturday, right, yeah, so we got one
• 1:18:20
  yesterday, so there's no show. But it was in reference I think to
• 1:18:25
  maintaining frame number one oh two. So I want to read that one out
• 1:18:28
  really quick. First. Uh so, let me just a moment here.
• 1:18:33
  Let me put a badger chand on the screen, maintained frame number one oh
• 1:18:38
  two. Women are competing on IX gave us five dollars and says women transform
• 1:18:44
  the actions that give them the ick into a trading card game. The winner
• 1:18:47
  of each round is the woman who comes up with the most stupid ick,
• 1:18:51
  and then the players return to thinking up new scenarios and events that will let
• 1:18:55
  them win the next round of X. I bet that somehow winning the game
• 1:18:59
  elevates their stay among other women, probably by saying something like quote, I
• 1:19:02
  can be so incredibly picky and choosy because I am incredibly valuable and quote this
• 1:19:08
  minigame sucks. I think that's right. I think it's another kind of competition,
• 1:19:14
  and it's the thing like it's okay that women are competitive with other women,
• 1:19:18
  just like men can be competitive with other men. But we just need
• 1:19:21
  to acknowledge it's all make it useful, like useter gatheries. Like, women
• 1:19:28
  are competitive with other women, but they're competitive in terms of being productive.
• 1:19:33
  So the most productive woman gets the highest status man, so she's able to
• 1:19:39
  make I don't know, the most supple skin or the most interesting quill work
• 1:19:44
  or whatever. So we define things in terms of participation in the society,
• 1:19:51
  and that's right. I think healthy society. Like if women are competing over
• 1:19:58
  providing for some aspect of society, you know, that's that's not bad.
• 1:20:05
  Men do it. I mean, I think part of the problem in all
• 1:20:09
  of this, if I would be really honest, is that as a result
• 1:20:14
  of industrialization, a lot of the way that women contributed and competed in a
• 1:20:20
  productive way disappeared, and we haven't solved that. Yeah, I think,
• 1:20:30
  you know, I think most women do want to be useful. They don't
• 1:20:33
  just want to be like, they don't just want to be the measuring tool.
• 1:20:40
  They also want to go out and do stuff, and that's a good
• 1:20:43
  quality, and I think that's a great quality in women. I think that
• 1:20:46
  a lot of what we're seeing, the dysfunction that we're seeing in women,
• 1:20:50
  is because they have these impulses. They want to have an external moral standard,
• 1:20:57
  which is now intersectionality. They want to be used full so they become
• 1:21:00
  career women. But there's no connection between that and actually, you know,
• 1:21:03
  the process of becoming a mother and having children and being in a relationship with
• 1:21:08
  a man and all of that other stuff. There's no way of bringing that
• 1:21:12
  stuff together, so it all becomes really a dysfunctional mess. And you know,
• 1:21:17
  and it's like, I mean, those are those impulses are in my
• 1:21:20
  opinion, perfectly respectable. Like wanting to participate, wanting to achieve, wanting
• 1:21:28
  to gain that merit, you know, wanting to pursue excellence, wanting to
• 1:21:32
  protect the vulnerable or what you perceive to be the vulnerable. All of those
• 1:21:36
  are worthy impulses. It's just they're sort of twisted into some really screwed up
• 1:21:43
  ends. Anyway, Well, all right, let me I got another super
• 1:21:47
  child marine real quick ash asthrun gave us five dollars and says that guy needs
• 1:21:53
  to talk with people who live during the USSR. He has a girlfriend now,
• 1:21:58
  but the leader of the party can decide for him him to move to
• 1:22:00
  the other side of the continent, and his girlfriend can't move with him.
• 1:22:02
  Her labor is needed here. His there, happy communism. All right,
• 1:22:08
  Well, I will I will say for the record, he didn't explicitly say
• 1:22:11
  that he was, and if you asked him directly. I've also seen this
• 1:22:15
  happen to where these these people will dodge that and they'll be like, no,
• 1:22:17
  no, I'm a progressive. No no, no, I'm a libertarian
• 1:22:20
  socialist. No no, no, I'm a democratic socialist. So I mean,
• 1:22:25
  I just to be fair, I am making an allegation. It all
• 1:22:30
  sounds the same to me anyway, But appreciate the super chow regardless. All
• 1:22:33
  right, So let's play. The dividing line is this, Do you realize
• 1:22:39
  that we need a meritocracy in society to be productive? We can't just all
• 1:22:44
  live off of the labor of nobody, and people who are laboring should have
• 1:22:50
  a benefit to that labor. Yeah, okay, all right, playing more
• 1:22:57
  of it. I'm a baby machine and my maid and stead. That sounds
• 1:23:00
  like freedom, but of course these men is sort of about control. But
• 1:23:03
  here, wait a second, I thought you said that they're saying that,
• 1:23:15
  Well he was. He was essentially saying that the conservative men are saying that
• 1:23:17
  capitalism is horrible, right or the process. Yeah, they also think that
• 1:23:23
  working gives them power over women because they control the money. So it makes
• 1:23:29
  so it's sort of like, I think what he's saying is that men are
• 1:23:32
  willing to be uh slaves to capitalism because they can make women their slaves because
• 1:23:39
  they're the earning. They're the ones earning the money and women have nothing.
• 1:23:43
  Something like that. Seminism is based on, though, isn't it. I
• 1:23:46
  mean, yeah, let's let's let's puncture this all right. Let's puncture this
• 1:23:53
  when we start when we have the industrial revolution, all right, that allowed
• 1:23:59
  men working outside the home to take over women's jobs as well, Let's be
• 1:24:04
  honest, like, because they can buy the labor saving devices that take a
• 1:24:11
  job done in the home from like six days a week, twelve hours a
• 1:24:14
  day to like five hours or three hours a day, five days a week,
• 1:24:20
  right, So men are actually doing women's job in the home. Mm
• 1:24:27
  hmm. By buying the appliances that reduce that labor down to a far more
• 1:24:35
  manageable amount. Okay, mm hmm, So there's no, there's no.
• 1:24:41
  This isn't a situation where they're putting women into a made position or forcing them
• 1:24:46
  to work in the home, because they've already done. They've already like men
• 1:24:50
  are removing the labor of the home. You see what I'm saying. Yes,
• 1:24:58
  So it's like men are basically saying, hey, ladies, how would
• 1:25:00
  you like to have no job at all, not even a job in the
• 1:25:03
  home or only like a part time job. The only thing that you now
• 1:25:08
  have to do is direct the labor of all these mechanical servants. That's it.
• 1:25:13
  That's all you have to do. Ladies. We'll buy you a whole
• 1:25:16
  suite of mechanical servants to do your job for you. All you have to
• 1:25:19
  do is direct their labor, you know, and hazah, we do everything.
• 1:25:28
  So this is like the framework is total bullshit because what men are actually
• 1:25:33
  saying is, ladies, stay at home, let us do the work,
• 1:25:38
  and we'll buy you a suite of mechanical servants that all you have to do
• 1:25:41
  is just control, right, and then you will have a complete part time
• 1:25:47
  job, you know't raise children until they go to school, which we'll be
• 1:25:53
  paid for by the taxpayers, you know, and there you go. That's
• 1:25:59
  your life. So this is not a situation where men are saying, oh,
• 1:26:04
  well, I want you to become your maiden servant. That's bullshit.
• 1:26:10
  If they wanted that, they would never have made it so that women in
• 1:26:15
  the home had a suite of mechanical servants do the work for them that they
• 1:26:19
  pay for it. Yeah, that's not what it really is. Is that
• 1:26:28
  these men are saying, women, we want you to have the easiest,
• 1:26:33
  most leisurely life possible, and some of us in return with like a little
• 1:26:40
  bit of gratitude. Yeah, you get to feel like your affection is what
• 1:26:45
  makes us, makes us willing to do this. We're doing all of this
• 1:26:50
  because you demonstrate that you love us for it. And that's it. That's
• 1:26:57
  too much, and that is a pressure of women, is it? Okay?
• 1:27:02
  All right, fair enough, all right, let's play some more.
• 1:27:05
  So go a bit viral. He says it, but I think he's meant
• 1:27:09
  to say. I'm I'm a five to seven dude who's a manager at Amazon
• 1:27:12
  Warehouse making fifty five k annual. That would give her the world, but
• 1:27:15
  she probably thinks she can do better. That's an issue with a lot of
• 1:27:18
  your And here's true problem with this mindset. It's like this weird victim mindset.
• 1:27:23
  Right, she's saying she can't find a relationship. No, he's not.
• 1:27:26
  He's not playing victim, are you Okay, I'm gonna let him finish.
• 1:27:30
  But this guy's not playing victims. So funny when men say this is
• 1:27:34
  my situation and it's not like I'm on top of the world. People like
• 1:27:40
  this come out and say, oh, you're playing the victim. This is
• 1:27:42
  alex Syite bullshit. Oh you're playing the victim. No, I'm describing my
• 1:27:45
  situation. It's like I get hit by a car and I'm in the street
• 1:27:49
  and I'm like, yes, I've been hit by a car. Can someone
• 1:27:51
  called nine to one one? Oh, you're playing the victim. I'm describing
• 1:27:56
  my situation. He's already basically saying he wouldn't be good enough because he's an
• 1:28:00
  average person. He's five seven, he makes fifty five K dollars a year,
• 1:28:03
  and he would give her the world. Obviously, his comment is wigs,
• 1:28:06
  It's like, you know, reeks of desperation. You don't even know
• 1:28:10
  this person, Why would you give him the world? Oh, it's because
• 1:28:13
  she's like fairly attractive, right, But he's kind of like in so adjacent
• 1:28:15
  talking points is always about like I see that adjacent talking points. I love
• 1:28:21
  it more more black categories in s. Can I just point something out?
• 1:28:28
  Yeah, I give him you notice what he did. There's this guy said
• 1:28:31
  I would give this woman the world, and he's like, oh, he
• 1:28:33
  doesn't even know her, he's just attractive. But there was that. I
• 1:28:38
  think it's the I think he's contending with this disgust towards this woman's behavior or
• 1:28:43
  what she said. I still think he's still the containing I think maybe,
• 1:28:46
  but I think there's so like, Okay, this guy. People like this,
• 1:28:51
  they think they know the minds of the people they're like supposedly owning online,
• 1:28:58
  so they like, I know what you really believe? This is what
• 1:29:00
  he says. This is why he uses these these buzzwords like conserva, these
• 1:29:05
  adjectives, conservative men, intel, adjacent men, red pill men, manisphere
• 1:29:11
  men, whatever, white men, heterosexual men. Because what he's also it's
• 1:29:15
  not just that he's like trying to get an emotional reaction out of the audience
• 1:29:19
  by you know, so when he says these men and people go eh,
• 1:29:24
  he's also telling them I know what really goes on in the minds of these
• 1:29:29
  people. So when they say something online, I because I am a telepath,
• 1:29:33
  because all progressives are telepaths, I can read his mind and I can
• 1:29:38
  tell you what he really thinks. So what he's assuming is and I'll go
• 1:29:43
  back to the to the tweet because I think this is what's going on,
• 1:29:45
  because ironically, I'm kind of doing it too, but I mean, I
• 1:29:47
  just I'm just recognizing patterns. He's saying that this guy says I would give
• 1:29:54
  her the world, and what he's suggesting is that that is I to him
• 1:30:00
  because he thinks that these men hate these women. But they're all but they're
• 1:30:03
  also conflicted because they want to attract these women. But it's not really a
• 1:30:09
  conflict because the guy's saying, look a guy like me, average guy five
• 1:30:13
  seven, you know, fifty five k year works at Amazon. He's just
• 1:30:17
  saying that average guys like me are not people to most women. And you
• 1:30:24
  know, it's just the truth. It's not because these women are cruel.
• 1:30:28
  I think it's because that women's reality is distorted by the reality is distorted,
• 1:30:34
  so like men who are average or below are they're not just like unattractive,
• 1:30:42
  they're invisible, like they're not even noticed. So when this woman says,
• 1:30:46
  why can't I find a man, and I said earlier in this video,
• 1:30:49
  I said, it's bullshit, because I'm sure there were men that are hitting
• 1:30:51
  on her, buying her drinks, whatever, making offers. I'm sure that
• 1:30:56
  there's She probably gets a lot of attention because she isn't bad looking. But
• 1:30:59
  he's see, those aren't men to her, They're not even people. That's
• 1:31:02
  why she's like, why can't I find this man? But she has this
• 1:31:05
  idea in her head of the kind of man she wants, and that man
• 1:31:10
  in her mind has not appeared. He has not manifested despite how hard she
• 1:31:14
  has tried to manifest this soulmate that she has in her head. This is
• 1:31:18
  just not the way the world works. And when another man says, well,
• 1:31:21
  you know you, I would like to take you out, but you
• 1:31:25
  probably wouldn't give me the time of day, this guy says, oh,
• 1:31:28
  that's ironic. I thought you hate women, but you also want this woman's
• 1:31:30
  attention. It's like, no, he's describing a situation. The point of
• 1:31:34
  it is to say, maybe the average woman should be attracted to the average
• 1:31:39
  man and we'd probably all be better off. And this guy's like, Nope,
• 1:31:43
  can't have that. Women should have preferences. I mean, women are
• 1:31:46
  entitled to preferences. Men are not. That's essentially it. I think,
• 1:31:49
  is this getting a little bit in the weeds? I think that, Uh,
• 1:31:58
  I honestly, I think you're I think we should really really think about
• 1:32:01
  the idea that this woman is actually giving him a disgust response and he's trying
• 1:32:06
  to rationalize it. Maybe again, the conservatives aren't getting it. Okay,
• 1:32:13
  bear with me, Bear with me. The conservatives aren't expressing a disgust response.
• 1:32:18
  They're essentially saying, Hey, I would love to give you the world.
• 1:32:21
  I would love to be your sacrificial creature. I would love to,
• 1:32:28
  you know, just basically take on all of the hard stuff so you can
• 1:32:31
  have a life of pure leisure. You can be my princess and I will
• 1:32:36
  be your eternal, devoted slave. And he's like, you this woman,
• 1:32:45
  and he's having this emotional reaction to her, but he's trying to rationalize it
• 1:32:49
  away, and he's even having an emotional reaction to the attraction that these men
• 1:32:57
  have. Well, I mean, look at how he rais the whole thing
• 1:33:00
  about conservatives saying work is horrible, so men should have to do it.
• 1:33:04
  And he's like, well, what why don't you just why don't you do
• 1:33:06
  that for men? Like you think that work is horrible, but you don't
• 1:33:10
  you don't believe it, so for men. You don't want men to be
• 1:33:15
  able to get out of work. And you know, I think it's just
• 1:33:19
  this unexamined, I don't know, unexamined emotion that he's heeks experiencing in the
• 1:33:29
  face of a woman who he actually genuinely does not he does not vibe with
• 1:33:38
  or he thinks is you know, morally repugnant. But he can't pin it
• 1:33:42
  on her. So he's like going after the conservatives that actually find her attractive
• 1:33:46
  because they're okay with that framework of giving her everything. Well, then why
• 1:33:53
  would he pick this video to respond to? But he's not like this came
• 1:33:56
  out of nowhere and caught him off guard. He chose this video because he's
• 1:34:00
  having an emotion, he's having an emotional reaction to it. He needs to
• 1:34:05
  process his emotions over the video, and he's going through the process of rationalizing
• 1:34:10
  it, scapegoating, uh, being projecting. Instead of projecting disgust or feeling
• 1:34:15
  the disgust he has for this woman, he feels the disgust towards the men
• 1:34:19
  who find her attractive and who would give her the world, Like I'm I
• 1:34:24
  think we're I think we're underestimating how much this is purely driven by emotion.
• 1:34:30
  Mm hmm, Okay, just just just think about it. Fairly attractive,
• 1:34:35
  right, But these kind of like in so adjacent talking points is always about
• 1:34:39
  like, oh, it's it's the woman's fault. You don't know anything about
• 1:34:42
  this person. I got it, I got it. I can explain it,
• 1:34:45
  Okay, he says. Well, he says, well, the only
• 1:34:48
  reason he's responding to this is because she's attractive. Okay. But she's also
• 1:34:53
  said a whole bunch of stuff, right, She's also described a whole bunch
• 1:34:57
  of stuff. She's expressed some aspect of her personality. She says, she's
• 1:35:00
  done this, she that you know what, she says, she's a career
• 1:35:03
  woman. Why isn't this guy being like, oh, well, maybe this
• 1:35:08
  guy is actually responding to all of the wonderful things that she's expressing in terms
• 1:35:13
  of her personality in that video. Do you see what I'm saying? Yeah,
• 1:35:16
  like that, she was expressing aspects of her person her her successfulness,
• 1:35:21
  her career, you know, her personality. And this guy is presuming that
• 1:35:27
  other man is only responding to her attractiveness. What does that say about his
• 1:35:30
  attitude to all of her personality and her achievements in that video, Brian,
• 1:35:40
  I don't know. It says that he does not find them attractive. The
• 1:35:47
  feminist man, he does not find that attractive, so he believes the only
• 1:35:53
  thing a man could be attracted to about her is her looks. I'm telling
• 1:35:59
  you this guy is trying to work through his disgust. Okay, let's keep
• 1:36:03
  going. All right, I was dating a guy I found out he worked
• 1:36:06
  at Amazon, and I rejected him, or I reject everyone who's like shorter
• 1:36:11
  than the average man. No, you're just project Actually that's I think the
• 1:36:15
  average man is about five to seven. Yeah, in your own insecurity on
• 1:36:19
  this comment, But even talking about your income and job in relation to how
• 1:36:25
  much of a match you are for someone in the dating world, Like again,
• 1:36:29
  it's just so insane. You're prioritizing the wrong things a lot of no,
• 1:36:32
  because she literally said, I need a man to match my energy.
• 1:36:36
  Here's all the stuff I have, Like, yeah, no, he's just
• 1:36:42
  men. Look, this is so funny because men know that women want security
• 1:36:49
  instability from men, like and that manifest so that can be expressed as material
• 1:36:56
  goods and that is generally what it is. Like it may not be in
• 1:36:59
  every case, but in general, it's a safe bet. Right. The
• 1:37:02
  six sixty six sixth thing is real and men know that and there's nothing wrong
• 1:37:09
  with that, Like, well he wants well anyway, I love just play
• 1:37:13
  more off. People don't care what you do as a job because that's not
• 1:37:15
  what they're looking for in a partner, Like, sure, are there people
• 1:37:18
  out there who will see these things you just mentioned as deal breakers? I
• 1:37:21
  can't date anyone who only makes that amount of money. Yeah, sure there
• 1:37:25
  will be. But again, this person says she's looking for someone to share
• 1:37:28
  their life with, So it's pretty clear that's talking about companionship, personality and
• 1:37:33
  stuff. So even if this guy lad with that and still be a bit
• 1:37:35
  weird, but I'm saying, okay, but no one cares let me finish
• 1:37:40
  the job is and I'm pretty sure bullshit. That's it. I'm not even
• 1:37:44
  gonna say anything else. Bullshit. Okay, Okay, I do care what
• 1:37:47
  job you have. I do want to say something. Okay. So he's
• 1:37:51
  now just saying that she led with all of this other stuff, and yet
• 1:37:55
  all of this other stuff he doesn't believe is attractive. I'm just saying,
• 1:38:00
  because he said that, this man can only be attracted to her looks,
• 1:38:04
  right, he can't be like, oh oh, I love everything you're saying,
• 1:38:09
  and I'm also going to give you the world. It's only because she's
• 1:38:11
  attractive. Either this guy only thinks that women the only thing that women bring
• 1:38:16
  to the table is attractiveness, or he does not find what that woman has
• 1:38:21
  been saying as attractive in and of itself. So if we just who replaced
• 1:38:26
  her with it just a blank avatar what she was saying, he doesn't find
• 1:38:30
  that attractive, That's what I'm getting at. Yeah. So yeah, But
• 1:38:36
  the thing is that these guys are responding to something which is the average women
• 1:38:41
  woman's desires, which is height and income. We're also good looks. Probably
• 1:38:48
  they want to feel safe. I mean it's basically like you know, so,
• 1:38:53
  especially for a lot of left wing people. If I went back in
• 1:38:55
  the dating world, I really wouldn't care what someone's job is or in.
• 1:39:00
  Oh sure, as you get older you do have to work. Oh my
• 1:39:01
  god, dude, you don't understand, like, of course you don't care.
• 1:39:05
  You're a man like men don't care how much women make, but women
• 1:39:12
  do care about how much men make. It's just like we're not the same.
• 1:39:17
  Men and women are different. They prioritize different things, they like different
• 1:39:21
  things. And don't think I didn't catch when he said left wing men are
• 1:39:28
  basically just better men because he did say that. Of course he did worry
• 1:39:30
  more about fun. I'll go back a little bit. You don't worry about
• 1:39:36
  what a bougie opinion and not worry about financial But I'm saying, for these
• 1:39:41
  men, no one cares. No one cares who your job is. And
• 1:39:44
  I'm pretty sure, especially for a lot of left wing people, if I
• 1:39:46
  went back in the dating world, I really wouldn't care what someone's job is
• 1:39:50
  or ink. See what it says a lot of left wing so basically he's
• 1:39:55
  this is this is like this is their their technique. Okay, they say
• 1:39:59
  right wing people are greedy, materialistic, evil, selfish, et cetera.
• 1:40:03
  Left wing people are totally not that at all, and it's like a rejection
• 1:40:08
  of reality. It's like, no, men and women value different things.
• 1:40:13
  It doesn't matter what their politics is, right, because no matter what the
• 1:40:18
  black category that he assigns to, whoever he thinks his escapegoat is wrong.
• 1:40:24
  Yeah. So if conservatives are like, no, men should do the hard
• 1:40:28
  jobs so that women have lives of leisure, He's like, no, you
• 1:40:30
  just want a maid in a slave Yeah, exactly. You won't even allow
• 1:40:34
  that, conservatives, or what you're terming conservatives. You won't even allow what
• 1:40:41
  they're saying to be true, that they believe that the hard jobs should be
• 1:40:45
  done by men. Yes, no, men, women, I'm sorry,
• 1:40:49
  Conservatives must always be wrong. And also women don't want men who make money.
• 1:40:57
  Bullshit, right, they don't care, right, like there's some special
• 1:41:02
  trait they have. Oh, sure, as you get older, you do
• 1:41:04
  have to worry more about financial stuff, potentially buying a house or rent or
• 1:41:09
  maybe not being in a marriage relationship with loads of debt and stuff. But
• 1:41:12
  I feel like that is thinking really far down the road. Most people in
• 1:41:15
  the world, really, it's very very span of jobs. Jobs, they
• 1:41:18
  probably don't like that much. Jobs that probably don't really well, but I
• 1:41:23
  think most people realize that it is just the reality of living under capitalism.
• 1:41:26
  But oh with these things, because these aren't desirable. So I am so
• 1:41:31
  bored of this already. I'm done. Wait wait, wait, wait,
• 1:41:34
  I don't get it. I don't get it. Jobs, but also it's
• 1:41:45
  even worse for men to do the job while women can stay at home,
• 1:41:48
  like and staying at home don't stay capitalism. Don't you get what he's saying.
• 1:41:56
  He's saying jobs are bad, it's horrible and capitalistic, but women should
• 1:42:00
  do bad but women should do them because it's also bad for men to act.
• 1:42:04
  Essentially free women from that. M hm okay, right, all right,
• 1:42:11
  well, because when men work and women don't, men have power over
• 1:42:14
  women. I feel like he's just repeating himself. But also he has not
• 1:42:17
  just it's it's just like it's the programming, that's all. We're just like
• 1:42:23
  this guy has. He's like he's like an NPC in a video game that
• 1:42:27
  hasn't been properly play tested. So he's just gonna like say the same shit
• 1:42:30
  over and over again. Welcome to Cornearia. Capitalism is bad men. That's
• 1:42:35
  an intel adjacent talking point. That's what I think. Zero zero one one
• 1:42:41
  zero one zero one one one zero. Okay, That's why I think it's
• 1:42:45
  important to understand why he's doing this, what the motivation for it is.
• 1:42:49
  And I think the motivation for it is as he saw this, he felt
• 1:42:54
  discussed towards this woman, and he can't do that because women are supposed to
• 1:43:00
  be the ones that everybody else's social desirability is measured on. So he goes
• 1:43:03
  and he does this video to go grope through a rational explanation a rationalize his
• 1:43:10
  disgust away from threatening his identity. That's what I'm saying. I'm saying that
• 1:43:15
  that's his motive, trying to re establish his identity as female, female adjacent,
• 1:43:25
  female adjacent. He's re establishing his identity is female adjacent. Therefore,
• 1:43:29
  he has to purge himself of the evil emotion of finding this woman disgusting by
• 1:43:32
  by rationalizing it out. But every time he's just revealing himself like the whole
• 1:43:39
  Oh, you can only be attracted to this woman's looks because why because everything
• 1:43:43
  she's saying is disgusting. Oh well, recognizing that she's a vulnerable narcissist.
• 1:43:48
  That's right wing. Why because I've recognized it on a subconscious level that she's
• 1:43:54
  a vulnerable narcissist. Therefore I have to put put this comfortable feeling on a
• 1:44:00
  scapegoat and ritually say, well, that's not me. Feelings still there,
• 1:44:05
  But he's rationalized it away from himself. Get what I'm saying. He's like
• 1:44:11
  processed it away from himself. I think that's what's motivating him, you know.
• 1:44:15
  But that's some mind readings, So take it for what it is.
• 1:44:17
  I'm just saying, like, at this point, we need to know why
• 1:44:21
  these people have to ejaculate these talking points. Why does he have to choose
• 1:44:26
  now to do that? See what I'm saying, Yeah, I understand that's
• 1:44:30
  interesting to me. Why is he choosing now? Why is he Why is
• 1:44:34
  he trotting out his religious chant now? Why is he getting the rosaries and
• 1:44:40
  he's you know, counting him out? Why is he doing this now?
• 1:44:43
  Why does he feel the compulsion to I don't know, reaffirm his identity now
• 1:44:50
  in the response to this stimulus. Okay, how far are we not someone?
• 1:44:59
  But halfway he's helf as a victim and blames a woman that I even
• 1:45:02
  know for not giving them a chance, then yeah, you might have a
• 1:45:04
  bit more success in the dating world. Now, a lot of people were
• 1:45:08
  roasting this guy in the comments, but a lot of people were also agreeing
• 1:45:12
  with him. But there's another TikTok just like this. So I don't want
• 1:45:15
  to play everything in this woman's story. But she just talks about like the
• 1:45:17
  struggle of going out meeting new people, trying to meet a guy, and
• 1:45:21
  how it's just been a bit of a disaster, a bit similar to the
• 1:45:25
  last one. Obviously, that very emotional. I'll play you a little bit
• 1:45:29
  bit like I don't want to go out again. I'm tired of it,
• 1:45:32
  I'm over it, I'm sick of it when I tried like shit like this
• 1:45:36
  happens in what she get into an uber all the way home because I can't
• 1:45:44
  go have a drink like I wanted to because I had this giant fucking bag
• 1:45:46
  full of shit to carry around, and I get in this uber and it's
• 1:45:50
  this seventy five year old woman with her dogs. If she almost have talking
• 1:45:55
  about her dogs and like how she got an oil change and what did you
• 1:45:59
  do to name comedy show? Good? And I'm being nice and polite,
• 1:46:01
  but all I can think about is like, this is this is gonna be
• 1:46:04
  me? Like and I know that's the worst case scenario. That's not even
• 1:46:11
  like that's a terrible thing to be seeing all your life, but like,
• 1:46:15
  I just can't help but feel like like I'm gonna turn into this because what
• 1:46:18
  happened to the date? You know, honestly she didn't know. We don't
• 1:46:23
  know. I mean, I don't know if there was a date. Maybe
• 1:46:25
  there was, we don't know. But it's funny that she says this is
• 1:46:30
  gonna be me and then immediately because you know this is women, Oh nothing,
• 1:46:34
  there is anything wrong with that. It's like, but you clearly think
• 1:46:39
  there is something wrong with that. Why don't you just say that's not what
• 1:46:43
  I want and then just face that reality. Like, the first step in
• 1:46:47
  solving a problem is acknowledging you have a problem. So instead of trying to
• 1:46:51
  like not get the fucking sisterhood mad at you because you dare to make a
• 1:46:56
  generalized statement, just say, you know what, I don't want that I'm
• 1:47:00
  I think I'm gonna have to do some introspection and change my behavior and maybe
• 1:47:05
  I'll find somebody because like Honestly, it's not hard, dude. There's men
• 1:47:12
  everywhere and they's they're lonely too. You just have to see them. You
• 1:47:17
  just have to value their company. Just learn that. Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:47:21
  but I actually feel bad for the old woman, the older woman who is
• 1:47:26
  the uber driver talking about the cats. Yeah no, no, her dogs?
• 1:47:30
  Oh yeah, sorry dogs. Yeah, Like what what the hell,
• 1:47:33
  lady, you don't know anything about her, Like you're so superficial. Well
• 1:47:40
  that's true, but I mean again, like if you feel bad for that
• 1:47:43
  woman and she's in and that woman probably has nights where she's you know,
• 1:47:48
  alone with her own thoughts, maybe there should be some I don't know,
• 1:47:53
  like well maybe I'm sorry, but like I can't stand people just talking about
• 1:47:57
  problems and not taking any steps to chase No. I agree, Yeah,
• 1:48:02
  but one of those steps might be facing your mortality. Yeah, you know
• 1:48:06
  exactly, Like one of those steps might be facing your actual mortality and realizing
• 1:48:12
  that we we we end up alone. You are going to die alone,
• 1:48:16
  lady. Mm hm, it's not there's you know that. That's that we
• 1:48:19
  face a lot of our our most trying things alone, you know, and
• 1:48:27
  you got to be a person who can live up to that and how and
• 1:48:30
  start living your life because honestly, you say, oh, I have this
• 1:48:33
  wonderful life to share, but it sounds like you haven't even started living it
• 1:48:38
  because you're afraid of what the future that it brings to you. Like why
• 1:48:42
  would you do not live a life where you're where you look down the road
• 1:48:45
  and you're afraid of it? And if you are looking down the road and
• 1:48:48
  you're afraid of it, you got to change that, like you said,
• 1:48:53
  Brian, And it doesn't necessarily mean that you, I don't know, get
• 1:48:56
  a husband or a partner, but you got to become person that is okay
• 1:49:00
  with what what, what your choice is, where your choices are taking you.
• 1:49:08
  Are you even a whole person yet? Even if you had all your
• 1:49:11
  career shit together? Like who are you? Though? Yeah you've been who's
• 1:49:15
  gonna tell me? Oh, come on when you least expect it. I've
• 1:49:18
  been hearing that for like seven years, Okay, I'm so sick of hearing
• 1:49:25
  that. There's such a thing as people that just don't find their person and
• 1:49:30
  don't get married. So like, I'm a I'm a realist, and the
• 1:49:34
  realist in me is during the think like that's gonna be me and I'm depressed
• 1:49:40
  now over it. As pathetic as that sounds, don't get that similar to
• 1:49:44
  the last one, and obviously references dating apps more explicitly, which you know,
• 1:49:47
  I'm totally sympathetic to as well, especially as dating apps get more dystopian
• 1:49:51
  talking about like brilliant AI into it and just you know how mentally tarring is
• 1:49:57
  someone who doesn't know that but can imagine it must be to just keep going
• 1:50:00
  on loads of random dates with people you meet online and then, for some
• 1:50:04
  reason or another just not viye with them. As someone myself who has always
• 1:50:08
  been so picky with friends and everything and has a standard that I have before
• 1:50:14
  I get close to someone in any capacity, you can totally understand how this
• 1:50:16
  would be like an absolute nightmare. Like the thought of the thought of just
• 1:50:19
  going on all these dates, like it's like a job entity to me just
• 1:50:23
  gives me anxiety even thinking about it. And Yeah, if I was ever
• 1:50:26
  single again, I definitely wouldn't bother. To be honest, I'd I'd literally
• 1:50:29
  rather be single than deal with that, And it must be terrible job.
• 1:50:32
  Why are we listening to you? Then? Like, honestly, maybe that's
• 1:50:38
  not Maybe that maybe dating apps is not really the only way to meet people.
• 1:50:42
  I don't know. Call me crazy, but I don't. I don't
• 1:50:47
  again, what is motivating this person to continue to do this? I don't
• 1:50:54
  like, you know what. I feel like we're just getting repetition. Now,
• 1:50:57
  where are we in the video? Like two thirds of the way.
• 1:51:02
  Okay, let's if he repeats himself anymore, I'd say, well we'll call
• 1:51:08
  it, but for now, all right, all right, I don't think
• 1:51:09
  it's gonna get a lot better, frankly, but no, let me see
• 1:51:15
  is this does this? Did Richard Vierre have a comment to go with this
• 1:51:18
  video? Did you have a comment to go with this video? No?
• 1:51:21
  This was the previous one. I just needest Eliah. All right, all
• 1:51:29
  right, let's play some more of this then a little bit of self esteem
• 1:51:30
  as well. The constant rejection or a constant just you know, rejecting people
• 1:51:34
  because you're not feeling it. Because I know that would make me feel bad
• 1:51:38
  and feel like I've wasted everyone's time. So yeah, very sympathetic to this,
• 1:51:42
  and again shows contrary to the narrative on Twitter from the men, it's
• 1:51:45
  not just men who suffer from this because it's a general isolation problem under capitalism,
• 1:51:50
  rather than it's just I'm done, no more comy bullshit, stop it,
• 1:51:58
  capitalism, did this? Shut the fuck up. How about the destruction
• 1:52:01
  of the family, how about our separation from God? How about the fucking
• 1:52:05
  Enlightenment, I don't know. How about the fucking Marxist schools that are teaching
• 1:52:10
  women to hate men and treat them as opponents in the battlefield? Fuck the
• 1:52:15
  right off. I can't take it out, and I'm done. I'm done.
• 1:52:19
  This guy doesn't want to solve problems. He just wants to complain about
• 1:52:24
  the fucking great life that he has where he's able to go on the internet,
• 1:52:30
  unlike a power grid in an air conditioned home, go online, talk
• 1:52:35
  instantly with people anywhere in the world, and complain about everything that he has
• 1:52:42
  and blame it on the very system that he depends on. Yeah. Well,
• 1:52:47
  and honestly I would, Okay, I don't know what capitalism means anymore,
• 1:52:53
  but I would honestly say that he can thank men, Yes, well,
• 1:53:00
  that yeah, he can. Well he does. He blames men for
• 1:53:01
  capitalism, like the literally the men that keep his life as comfortable as it
• 1:53:08
  is. He is attacking because he doesn't realize how good he has it.
• 1:53:13
  It's like it's like trying to convince a fish that they live in water.
• 1:53:16
  He has no idea how lucky he is. And he is attacking the thing
• 1:53:24
  that and that's why, because this is the thing, like patriarchy and capitalism,
• 1:53:28
  these are the same. Like, that's what when they attack these things,
• 1:53:31
  that's what they are attacking. They are attacking patriarchy, they are attacking
• 1:53:34
  capitalism, they are attacking God all at the same time. Because they hate
• 1:53:40
  all of those things. And they don't even know why. They were just
• 1:53:43
  talked into it and they're and they're basically just operating on their programming and their
• 1:53:47
  emotions. Yeah, I'm sorry, go ahead. I don't mind a critique
• 1:53:56
  of capitalism, especially what we're dealing with today, which today is in capitalism.
• 1:54:02
  No, it really isn't. No, it's not you whatever this you
• 1:54:09
  can critique whatever. This economic system we're living under is till the sun like
• 1:54:14
  dries up and implodes. But it's not. This is not the system that
• 1:54:19
  they're calling capitalism. This is this is literally a fascist setup. It's corporations
• 1:54:26
  and the government together. That's what we're living under. Literally, So whatever
• 1:54:30
  he's complaining about. He doesn't know what he's talking about. That's all it
• 1:54:34
  is, Like, like I I own my shit. That's all capitalism is.
• 1:54:40
  That's all it is. It's like we own things. I own,
• 1:54:44
  and it starts with my body. I own my body, right, So
• 1:54:47
  like the argument against circumcision is an argument for capitalism by their definition, because
• 1:54:55
  you own your body. This is where it begins. Right, If you
• 1:54:59
  have nothing else, you have you. I have my voice, I have
• 1:55:02
  my ideas, I have my thoughts, I own those things. So when
• 1:55:09
  these people they don't even they don't even think about where this leads, where
• 1:55:13
  this comes from. That's why I get so frustrated because it's so useless.
• 1:55:17
  It's like, you're just bitching about how we can now have it because you
• 1:55:23
  need to, Yeah, because you need to complain about something. Well,
• 1:55:27
  Yes, because he's got an emotional urge that he needs to process. Yeah,
• 1:55:30
  he has a I swear that I think that this all comes back to
• 1:55:34
  he has a female adjacent identity. And what I mean by that is that
• 1:55:39
  women are the social metric by which everything is measured, and he's come to
• 1:55:43
  a point where he regards this woman as being deeply socially unattractive to him,
• 1:55:48
  in other words, repulsive, and he has to explain it to himself.
• 1:55:51
  So he gropes through this whole like rationalization, and then he finally, he
• 1:55:57
  finally just shoves all of those emotions capitalism. I mean, it's it's identical
• 1:56:02
  to It's like watching someone engaging in Islamic apologia and they'll they'll be like,
• 1:56:09
  I'm gonna make a bunch of response videos where I'm I'm gonna look at people
• 1:56:14
  women on TikTok that are sad because they can't find a man, and I'm
• 1:56:16
  going to convince you, the audience that by the time this is over,
• 1:56:20
  you're going to convert to Islam, because that's the only way we're going to
• 1:56:23
  solve this problem. This is what he's doing. He's just doing it for
• 1:56:26
  his religion. So it's like it's the same shit. It's the same shit,
• 1:56:31
  you know. Yeah, Well, I don't know. I guess we
• 1:56:41
  could. I mean, I probably could give a bit more of a coherent
• 1:56:44
  response if I weren't attempting to do this too. Yeah. Plus, I
• 1:56:51
  I mean get it. It really does this really like it doesn't really add
• 1:56:56
  anything like I was hoping he would be like, oh yeah, well this
• 1:56:59
  is the this is the trait that women want. You know, these are
• 1:57:02
  the these are the qualities. So far sixteen minutes in, that was what
• 1:57:06
  was promised. He has not delivered. Now, maybe all he said.
• 1:57:11
  All he said was is that right conservative men, conservative men think that women
• 1:57:16
  just want money, and they don't because women are like me, we like
• 1:57:20
  things that are more important than money. That's what he said. Like left
• 1:57:25
  wing people also women, because they're the same, unless, of course,
• 1:57:28
  you're a right wing woman, which means you're a slave to men, which
• 1:57:31
  means you're a woman, yeah, or you're a terrorist. But but that's
• 1:57:35
  what he's saying. He's like, you know, this is why he's saying,
• 1:57:38
  Well, you know, if it weren't for capitalism, we just have
• 1:57:41
  romance and love and and everything. I mean, granted, nobody would get
• 1:57:44
  married because I also hate marriage because it's like a sacrament. It's a sacrament
• 1:57:47
  from God and I hate that too. So we can't have that, we
• 1:57:50
  can't have property. You know, that was the point. What is the
• 1:57:56
  like, here's the thing he's going through all of this. He's saying,
• 1:57:59
  Well, women don't want money, they don't want men who are tall and
• 1:58:03
  athletic and good looking. They want this other indefinable factor. Well, what
• 1:58:09
  is it? Is it just like your religion. Well, he doesn't dare,
• 1:58:13
  He doesn't dare like actually tell women what they should want. No,
• 1:58:16
  but he's already had told them. He's told them what they don't aren't allowed
• 1:58:20
  to want. Like he's already said that women don't want this, And he's
• 1:58:26
  like, women don't want you know, like all of those romance covers with
• 1:58:30
  like fabio, tall, muscular, good looking women don't want that. They
• 1:58:33
  also don't want money. They don't want, you know, the billionaires that
• 1:58:36
  they also write romance novels about. You know, they don't want the things
• 1:58:41
  that they pay for, the that they will actually pay money to get the
• 1:58:45
  fantasy of. They don't want that. They want this other undefinable thing which
• 1:58:50
  isn't which I know isn't capitalist. But I can't explain what it is.
• 1:58:56
  I think I think it all comes down to they want his dick. That's
• 1:59:00
  that's it. All the women want him. There you go, that probably
• 1:59:06
  does make sense. Yeah, flap that on his his tombstone. Here lieth
• 1:59:12
  the men that all women wanted. Okay, because he had he had it
• 1:59:16
  all together emotionally because he was anti capitalist. Okay, you're right, this
• 1:59:23
  is this is this is sort of infuriating. How does how does this complete
• 1:59:28
  lack like this? How does this become so popular? It's not organic,
• 1:59:33
  Allison? But no, no, I mean there's some aspect to it.
• 1:59:38
  I think it's because it's an emotional Catharsis. Well, there is that,
• 1:59:41
  but I think that there is like an like this kind of midwid shit.
• 1:59:45
  It gets propped up by the algorithm. Til Deer was in the chat.
• 1:59:48
  He he'll tell you it's true, like this is all and that and this
• 1:59:53
  is like this guy people like this and like the the you know, Andrew
• 1:59:57
  Tates or like the oh this this is really great, straw man. We're
• 2:00:00
  gonna bump this up to the fucking stratosphere and so it gets that way.
• 2:00:04
  So yeah, I mean it's I'm sorry, but like this content that we
• 2:00:09
  make, it's too spurgy like, and it just isn't It just doesn't get
• 2:00:12
  it doesn't get the favor of the algorithm because it's too spurgy it what happened,
• 2:00:17
  It's fine, Yeah you did what happened? Yeah? No, no,
• 2:00:20
  I just because I'm done. Oh okay, okay, okay, let
• 2:00:24
  me just want me to go back or something. No, no, no,
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  no, I'm just gonna hide that. It's gonna hide the the game
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  because it's not there, so and let me also hide it in here.
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  I'll be right back, Brian. If you have any final thoughts on the
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  Yeah, yeah, you're right, he was. He was a communist.
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  Well I didn't, I didn't know. I never seen the video. I
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  just predet essentially what I'm getting. What I'm getting is that women do not
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  like money guys. They don't like money. Just forget all the romance novels
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  about women seducing billionaires. They also don't like tall men, so forget all
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  the romance novels about women seducing tall billionaires who are muscular and attractive. So
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  that's not what women want. Women want is communism? Well, and they
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  don't know it, but they but they should, right, yeah, they
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  should want communist men. And also I think that that guy was found that
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  woman repulsive and she had to figure out how to get away from that feeling.
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  All right, I'm going to go on the other computers, so you
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  make your all right. I had a super chow and then we'll wrap it
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  up because I gotta I gotta go to I gotta go, uh see men
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  about horse. So for Nova Fan, h gives us five dollars and says
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  communism slash slash. Also, Nova fan has rumble rants. All right,
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  thank you, nobod, I was gonna look at those. I was gonna
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  look at those. So Nova Fan has said too too rumble rants. So
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  here's a chan for that, and says for one dollar. This clown acts
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  like women who are unreasonably picky don't represent the average women. He ironically is
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  the one who needs to touch grass. And then he says for another dollar.
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  I think his motivation is will prove himself a good boy to the average
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  woman by dunking on men with a working brain. Yeah, it's a one
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  good man thing. That's ultimately what it is. All right, thank you
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  for that, and I think that's everything. Let me just make sure that
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  I didn't miss any super chats. Sometimes we get them on the verticals and
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  they don't show up. Okay, No, I think we're clear. All
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  right, all right, I'll see you're back. Do you have any thank
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  yous or just want to wrap it up? Alison, she's not here yet.
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  Or she's mute. Oh okay, I just screwed up. Okay,
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  So I do have one thank you. I believe Richard Bierre put in this
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  the patronage or the sponsorship. So thank you for Richard for the five hundred.
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  Thank you, Richard, very nice, I mean, good lord.
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  Oh yeah, Honestly, I think I think you're right this. I mean
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  I think there was an element of disgust. I think there was I think
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  on a fundamental level that he was groping to try to figure out how to
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  process that sense of disgust towards a woman that he had on some level,
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  because I like the the the juxtaposition of all the factors, Like I didn't
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  get to see his face because I was doing synth Wade. Maybe I could
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  have confirmed it by looking at his micro expressions, but the fact that he
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  listened to that woman and then his immediate response was to explain why he would
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  never want to date in today's era, Like I mean, really, right
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  after you watched this woman, you're like, ah, I'm so glad I
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  don't ever have to date. Yeah, that's a little bit suspicious there,
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  and then to go on and try to I don't know, like get upset
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  or not upset, but just be like, Oh, this this conservative man
• 2:04:13
  who says you would give him give her the world, he's just saying that
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  because of her appearance. Well, you already just like she was describing aspects
• 2:04:23
  of her achievement and her personality, so you're saying that that wasn't the only
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  thing that was on display was her appearance. We also got to get some
• 2:04:31
  of her philosophy and some of her superstitious beliefs, shall we say, and
• 2:04:36
  you say, some of her goals and values, So those were also there
• 2:04:42
  on display, and yet you immediately go to the only thing attractive about her
• 2:04:45
  is her looks. So I think I think that was a little bit of
• 2:04:48
  a slip there by that dude into his true opinion of this woman and her
• 2:04:54
  opinions, and then to just land on women shouldn't find the products of capitalism
• 2:05:02
  attractive, so they should stop buying romance books about billionaires and they should just
• 2:05:09
  find communist men attractive because reasons. Congratulations, Like yeah, yeah, everything
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  goes down to I am the man that all women should find attractive because of
• 2:05:25
  my beliefs. Mm hmm yeah we uh yeah, we we we were there,
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  Okay, that that's the conclusion that we can come to here. Excellent,
• 2:05:35
  all right, Yeah, I think I think every group of men would
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  would conclude that though if if you're part of an ideology, yeah, you
• 2:05:45
  would conclude that women should find the group of men that you are part of
• 2:05:49
  attractive. But maybe all men are attractive, huh. I think they're like
• 2:05:58
  any other people. Yeah, But I don't know. I think that maybe
• 2:06:03
  maybe maybe relationships are not simply about making yourself happy, but maybe there is
• 2:06:12
  a duty behind it, duty to the species, duty to Okay, well
• 2:06:19
  yeah, sure, all right, I mean maybe yeah, to be a
• 2:06:24
  factor, could be a factor at least duty to your civilization. Yeah,
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