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Yoreh De’ah 265:4-6. Bris Milah: The Blessings, Wine, Mamzer, Fast Days, Yom Kippur, Twins, Minyan · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  OK, let's do resh sama. Hey Haas Mila, we are reading
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  starting with Saif Dalit just from Saif Gimmel.
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  Just to point out the end of the remind just points out he says
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  call ha Brahos that you have to repeat all of them.
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  If you have to redo a UN kosher Mila one that's a vada, it
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  wasn't kosher, you have to redo it.
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  So you say all three Brahos. It's there's three of them, if
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  you haven't noticed, there's or 4 if yeah.
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  Well, so if you use Hagiafen, there's 4, right?
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  There's Mila Lahniso, then there's Hagiafen and then Corey
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  Tabrit. So there's actually 4.
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  And Kayyem is the extra paragraph after the bracha of
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  Corey Tabrit. And Kayyem is the, the paragraph
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  where it's, it's people call it a bracha.
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  It's not technically a bracha. It is more of its Fila for
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  Bracha and what's it called and and and naming the child, but
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  and that that was already said, and so you don't have to re say
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  that it could. You don't need to, but for
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  breakfast you need to and you drink.
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  When do you drink? So you drink after Corey Tabrit
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  and then you say Kayem and tayeled because Hagefen when you
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  say very great Geffen, that's that's because of the Brahaf
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  Kare tabrid and it gives Khashiwas khashiwas to to the
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  mitzvah with a concept enom reem Shira below yayin.
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  It's a it's like a Shira. It's a Brahaf sheba and
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  therefore it's more appropriate to do it on a cup of wine.
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  So, and so that's what Khazawas been talking and but Kayyem
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  it's, it's a really, it's a have sex.
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  So you should at least have A at least taste the wine.
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  OK, that I saw quoted both by all circles.
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  That's the Minogue. OK, as far as I know.
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  Fine, let's redial it inside Mamzer.
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  Can you sell who? Mamzer is a Jew.
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  He's 100% Jewish. We just finished or in the order
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  ever Kanani. So that's the whole question if
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  it's 100% Jewish or not. But either way, these are all
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  Jews and they all need a brasmila and umevarakhim Allah
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  birkasmila AD kurit a breathe and you say all the brachos.
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  So we just mentioned also for a mamsa, he's 100% Jew and
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  therefore it all applies to him. Have all having said that aim of
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  Akshim. I love Rahamim, but we don't, we
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  don't say what you don't say. You don't say Kayama Tayela, you
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  don't, we don't ask, we don't say a special raha of Rahamim
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  for him or a tefila for him. In fact, we don't say who says
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  that. The Shah says that.
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  The Maharal also points out in the TAZ that there's a custom to
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  call him Kidor. I don't know if he means it.
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  Mahariel, I don't remember. I mean, I don't know if your
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  Mama, she means you name the child Kidor and that becomes his
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  name. I don't.
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  I think the parents are going to choose what they want to do, but
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  or maybe they just call him Kidor, at least right then and
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  there. Also, some have the tradition
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  Ghidor Tapuhos Hema based on that from the the puzzle.
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  In other words, it's we want to publicize that he is a a momser.
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  We want everyone to know that he's a momser.
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  We know now again, there's a din we're not learning health class
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  momseras, but there is a din keeping it quiet if no one knows
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  about it, but everyone knows right now he's a momser.
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  So we, he's known and therefore we, we publicize it so that
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  everybody knows. And so that's right for it
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  matters for marriages. So some used to make it instead
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  of getting the bris inside the show or the main hall, they
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  would have him outdoors in the Hutzer.
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  That's that's where they would do the miss the, the bris for a
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  mom's there. And so it was, it was clear to
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  everybody that that he was in mom's there, that there's a
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  concept of we don't want mamzarin proliferating, we don't
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  want mamzarin in Kaliasura. And there is a Midrash Rabba
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  that's quoted in the GRA that it's because of mamzaris.
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  You're mixing illicit relationships.
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  And so therefore it brings mixtures of chaos disorder in
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  the world and indiscriminate plague that kills the good and
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  the bad. So that is, that's mamzaris.
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  And that's not something that we want.
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  Again, we don't dive in and wish anything bad on such a person.
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  And such a person can get the coins Aaliyah if he's a, if he's
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  a mamzar, Talmud Kaham. And he's a full Jew, 100%
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  Jewish, and deserves all the greatest kibudim if he deserves
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  it. But the concept, it's not
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  impersonal, but the concept of mamzeras, that's something that
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  we do not, we don't want and we don't want it to be to continue.
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  OK, let's read on. Umafar samim bishat Mila
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  toshihumamzer. That's the haggah.
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  So they right, we publicize it. Yomaki Purim uba arbaat somat.
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  So now what do we do on a fast aid Loya varet al hakos?
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  So the halacha and the sholkhanara is you skip that,
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  you skip one of those brothels, you skip beret priyagafin.
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  There's no cup. No, there's no cup at all.
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  You don't use it all. There's no cup at all.
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  You skip it completely and you just say the brothels without a
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  colas because it's asked her to drink it.
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  And it would be like a brothel. It would be a brothel of atalla
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  or like a brothel of atalla. I guess that's we're going to
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  see that's the Mahlokus what to do.
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  But that's that's the reason why it's it's deleted on a fast
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  meal. However, Shahayo LED it Ina meet
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  Ana. But so it depends though, if
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  since so on Yom Kippur, this Shokanara Vanswargdin, they'll
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  never be a Kos of Yani. But what about on the other
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  Taniyod? So a a woman, the mother, if
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  she's there normally she is and she's not fasting.
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  All right, It depends if she's fasting, but if you let it is
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  there and she's not fasting. So she's right.
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  She should not be. Is there a situation right?
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  I think she should not be, especially on the 8th day.
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  All right, probably. I don't think there's a
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  situation where she could be fasting.
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  OK, so she's not supposed to be fasting, right?
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  It's the other Somos and she just gave birthright.
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  We're not going to get into it, but it could be for two years or
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  whatever the situation is. She's not fasting.
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  So then, right, she's nursing aene meet ane, so she's just
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  since she is not fasting, Yahoo lavare Holocaust vetito MI MENA
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  ayolet it and she tastes it and that's fine right.
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  We mentioned that the OK since I said the word the the the
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  halacha is the post can point out that you only need to taste.
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  You don't need enough. It could be you don't even need
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  to taste. That's what we're going to about
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  to read. It's a Mahlokis because the
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  bracha Geffen is that's how it was in the talking for it to be
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  there for because in Shira Belian.
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  So the question, so let's say according to the Sholkhanara,
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  someone must at least taste it or you wouldn't have the Kos.
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  But the issue is since you you only have to taste it, you're
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  not having the wine for itself. It's not a Kos Sholbraka and
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  therefore you don't have to drink a Rivito or a Mali
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  Luganov. That's what I'm just trying to
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  point out that tasting is enough.
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  Maybe Mali Luganov is better, I don't know, but it's definitely
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  not necessary. All you have to do is just a
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  taste and it's and that's totally fine.
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  But she told me MENA how you let it.
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  So that's all she needs to do. And he shown ma ATA bracha as
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  long as she's there and she hears Berry Priya Geffen Ulmit
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  Ulmit covenant and she has to have in mind to be able to say
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  the Brafa very Priya Geffen right.
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  Some I'm sure the mother is listening, but sometimes you
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  know, the people there in the room are chit chatting.
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  So she if she's going to drink, she has to make sure that she's
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  listening. And Shalola havsik be Devarin
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  Bain shimiata brafa lishtiata kos.
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  And of course she can't make a havsik till they pass through
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  the wine. Right from the time that the
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  brafa's made until she drinks it, she can't talk.
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  So again, it depends on the case, but generally speaking,
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  I'm Yom Kippur and Tishaba, she's not allowed to drink.
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  So Ain Novarchin Alakos. So therefore there's no there's
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  no Kos OK will be tishaba of Asanami lo Maitinan.
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  It also points out that those who have right we discussed
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  those who bring Hadassin fragrance.
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  So we don't use that on Auntie Shabba AB because it's it's for
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  Onig it's and it's not this. It's not the time of Onig Auntie
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  Shabba. OK, let's keep going.
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  So for the same reason why we won't say the samim when it
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  lands on Tishbaab Mote Shabbas Hagar the yeesh omrim no.
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  And so the the ramas says wait, wait, what do?
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  What do we do on a fast day? The mvarakim akos bicolta aniot
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  vignote aniima brafa Latino kot kitani.
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  So we give it to little children to drink to the men of
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  Ashkenazim. As far as I know, even on Yom
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  Kippur and all the the somot, wherever they are, they all say
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  abraca anakos. But the adults don't drink it.
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  I mean, maybe the mother, I'm not sure which is preferable.
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  Let's see if he says, but someone's going to drink it,
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  they'll give it to a baby, a child, a child.
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  They say it's better to give it to a child who is above the age
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  of 6. But for a young kipper, they
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  would give it to the to the baby.
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  I think. So not 100% sure.
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  And there might be different. I mean, I'll give them that.
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  They can't suck in oral heim. The gras says what?
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  The same thing or not, right? The Teema is for the Kubota
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  Bracha, so it's not necessary. So don't give it to a child on
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  Yom Kippur. No one has to have it.
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  But it's better for the Kubota de Bracha to at least give it to
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  the baby. But we don't want to give it to
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  a child on Yom Kippur, because what's the expression in Khazal
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  Shama Yisrak Yisrak, That's the expression because, right, We
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  don't want him to learn that you're allowed to eat on Yom
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  Kippur or drink on Yom Kippur. The children above the age of 6
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  have a memory. And we don't want, we don't want
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  that. And we read them anyway, right?
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  Shikoshi Yisrak, that he'll learn and fine.
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  And we're more concerned about that, especially on Yom Kippur.
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  OK, fine, let's go on vecchino again.
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  And that's the custom. So after Yom Kippur, you give it
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  to the Tinak animal commotion. That's where that's discussed
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  more in detail even right always you you'd say by giving it to a
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  cotton with a teema of a Eno, A Ginke.
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  That's not Allah Hassan duck shorter appreciate Eno to anit
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  better to give it to a San Duk. He writes he was not fasting.
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  OK and the shaft just points out that the custom is you give it
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  to a cotton on a fast day, not to the San Duk even like even if
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  he's going to eat that day, San Duk has to fast on a public fast
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  day. As far as I know, it's for a
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  personal fast like for a yard site.
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  So then I think we say he can. OK, it's for a personal fast for
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  a regular tightness. We give it still give it to A to
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  the cut down. OK, Hey, Michieeso State, Tino
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  Cutler, MO What happens if you have two babies to do a Bursa on
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  at the same time? They're twins.
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  You have two, two people in the community.
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  They have at the same time. They bring them all at the same
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  time. OK, You have very Brafa, which
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  name? So Chauhanar writes say 1 Brafa
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  for both, right? When you do Shreeta on, I'm not
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  making a comparison or I am, but you do Shreeta on a chicken or
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  an animal. They say 1 alashita and then
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  they just keep shafting. It's not because they're all in
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  a row. They're ready to go and it's
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  it's one mitzvah. Afilu IM shnayam malim harishon
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  Phil IM shnaim Alina harishon yavarikala Mila, the olegam, the
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  Shini. So you're if you're going to do
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  2 at once, so the Mila use goes on both of them used to do that
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  before you start either one, right before the first one, you
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  say Alamila and then you cut the Ola and that works for the
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  second one, the Hashini and then the second one, I mean, and
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  that's OK. The father, it's not relevant
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  for the father 'cause he's going to the father.
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  Well, it could be if it's, if it's twins, it's two different
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  people, two different families. So both fathers are going to say
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  so anyway. So if it's twins, so he'll say
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  Lakhani. So let's see if he discusses
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  that. I'm assuming once on both as
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  well. The first one, the Hashini and
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  then the the second Moell. The second person would say, you
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  know, the second after the second baby for the second baby
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  who's ever say in the brotha, I think yuvari A sheer Kadesh you
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  did. That's the right correta breed.
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  That's the bracha. That's after the meal is
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  completely done, the Olegum Larry shams and by saying that
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  brotha it goes on the 1st brotha too.
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  So all the brothels you only do 1.
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  I feel in an arlafana mishata bracha cave and shedarito Allah
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  brachuli Asia Dato bin time even if you took you finished the
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  first baby, you take away the baby to the next room whatever
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  it is. Then they do the second baby and
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  the second person will say Corey Tabrit and that'll work on both.
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  Just have in mind it's for both babies.
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  The moil has to hear the brotha. The baby should be there too.
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  I'm not sure if it's as long as he has in mind and they bring it
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  right away. I don't think that's a problem.
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  OK, so he just has to have in mind the shock points out.
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  Maybe you don't even have in mind.
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  That's a whole question Sarafian.
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  OK, but the shock says Lamaisa. He says the better way it's
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  gonna it's a whole macho could be showing him if you if you
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  look in the resources. But the tour whatever.
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  But the shock says the best practice is to say your own
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  brothels for each baby because and just make sure you don't you
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  you make a little bit of 1/2 sick.
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  You don't bring both babies at the exact same time.
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  Then how many minutes it's not clear, but there should be could
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  be close, but not too close and bring them in the room
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  afterwards because it's it's it's easy not to have for people
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  to talk in between and for there to be 1/2 sick with things that
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  are not mamish necessary. You'll have it's easy for there
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  to be a a big break of time and Hassakhadat.
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  So your best practice is just to tell that Z were for all
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  generations in all places is just to do separately and to
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  have. So I'm not sure.
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  I guess I'm assuming they'll be different.
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  I mean, hug him and how to pass go no maisa haga hava IMSA
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  beintain. But if he speaks in between, oh
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  shaloh yeah, da to Allah shani mithila or he didn't have right?
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  This is what the Shah wasn't sure about.
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  He didn't have the second baby in mind.
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  Sari lavariek hashedeh. She did al arishan velasso
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  lavariek al milat hashini. So then you have to.
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  Then you're going to have to make new brothels, right?
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  You do the first baby and if there's a half SEC, So then you
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  have to say I share kidesh for the first baby and then for the
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  next baby, you got to say that the Ala Mila all over again.
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  So it's only a half SEC. If you talk about things that
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  are not related to Mila, you want to know about the weather,
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  you want to know about someone's car.
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  I don't know whatever you feel like talking about or you want
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  to discuss the toast was that's not related to the Mila.
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  How about if it's Sarah Hamila lo have a have set.
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  But as long as you're like, oh, pass me the new blade.
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  You don't want to right cross contaminate.
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  Give me, you know, pass me another cup of wine or using the
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  same cup of wine, but you know, like where they're having the
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  baby dip the wine that to put some in the mouth of the baby.
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  Whatever it is something that's Sarah Hamila that's not called a
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  have set, but I feel in Shaka will be a shared kiddesh.
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  You did the alpha vision. You know it's our clocks are Al
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  Hamila. Now let's say you're planning to
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  do 1 bracha for everybody and you just do the first and then
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  after the first baby, right, You learn Talaka, but you're so used
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  to doing a shared kiddesh right away.
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  So you see a shared kiddesh right away after the first baby
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  and you didn't yet do the second baby.
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  So you already did a shared key dish.
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  You're going to have to do that brafa again, obviously after the
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  second baby. But should you do all the Mila?
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  He says no because the first al Hamil, there's still no half
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  sick yet. You only said the brafa of a
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  shared key dish. That's not 1/2 sick.
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  I'm doing the Mila. It's still Sara Amila the of the
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  of the Mila. So therefore you don't have to
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  say a a new Al Hamila because that that is la Havre Havse
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  Kafka inyan kisui dung, OK, the IM shnea yelladim sha Adam ET al
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  Omerlah Nissan pivrito sha al ramavino, right?
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  So that's what we're saying that if it's one, if it's two that we
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  were talking if it's two separate babies and the
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  father's, each father's going to say la honey.
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  So on his own. But if it's right, two have
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  separate families. But here, if it's the same
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  family, it's twins, and therefore there is.
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  The it's one father for both children.
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  So he only is only going to say Lahakhani.
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  So after the OR before or during the first one, whatever your
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  minnag is. And when he says it for two,
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  he's instead of saying Lahakhani.
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  So you see, you're right, you say Lahakhani's son.
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  So obviously we see it's not a problem of changing the mudvaya
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  of the Brafa, you're just changing a letter and that's not
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  a problem. Bahrain, Omar Hayam Hayadim and
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  you say Kayama Tayaladim on both of them and you can name them
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  separate. You can name them in there.
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  Each one's gonna say each name separately.
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  OK, we talking, We talking cold Surkhi hamila Co ET habifine
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  asthma and whatever it's you'd struck and whatever you do for
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  the meal and you do normally you should do it for each child
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  separately. It could go naner shabbli kin
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  Yasser the Co ET adner bifine asthma.
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  So if you're going to light a candle for each child, so then
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  you light a so then you continue lighting a child and separate 1
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  candle for each child that you're not going to combine all
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  at once. The heka, the escher abdeenan
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  lamila BA asara BA heka de lo ashara.
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  Whenever you have a chance, there's a, there's a mitzvah to
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  do the bris Mila with a minion at least 10, that's whatever.
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  If you can, you can. That's what the, the ball Itzer
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  points out and all, and that's what all the everyone follows.
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  What's the reasoning for doing 10?
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  So I'll just point out you cut the Mahariel points out from
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  Pirka de Rabeli Azar because there's no Adas from Hashem that
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  Hashem gives to us to Kauai Israel with less than 10 people.
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  The Torah was given right mass revelation.
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  So it's never done with less than 10.
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  So therefore this is a, we want the people, the community to
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  testify that the Mila was done. And so therefore there's an
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  Indian to also do it with no less than 10 people.
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  The La Bush says it's sort of just you want to be Lafarcim
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  just to publicize that there was a bristmilla and it was done.
• 22:33
  It was done kosher Yid, and that's what we want.
• 22:36
  That also might be an aspect of Kirishisha, maybe Makayam, the
• 22:41
  bristmilla between US and the Kurdish Barku.
• 22:44
  One last thought, what if you have to wait till after midday
• 22:47
  in order to get a minion? So there the Miniac and Yalko
• 22:50
  Josef and others say even though you'll want to do a Bristmilla
• 22:53
  in the morning, well to get a minion that's worth pushing off
• 22:56
  a few hours, but only that day. Everyone says for sure you don't
• 23:01
  need a minion and you will never push it off an extra day just to
• 23:04
  get a minion.