Latest / Honey Badger Radio / Further under the accountability gap | HBR Talk 405

Transcript

Further under the accountability gap | HBR Talk 405 · Honey Badger Radio

• 0:00
  Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to HBr Talk four oh five further
• 0:04
  Speaker 1: under the accountability gap, and we did go backwards a
• 0:09
  Speaker 1: little bit in the video, so that we're gonna rewatch
• 0:11
  Speaker 1: a little bit just to have some overlap. But before that,
• 0:17
  Speaker 1: I'm your host, Hannah Wellen here with nonsense Annihilator Lauren
• 0:20
  Speaker 1: Brooks Yodeo, the Personification of Perceptivity, Mike Stevenson, Duh abbreviate
• 0:28
  Speaker 1: Richard the Lionhearted sell Them, and we have the Doze
• 0:33
  Speaker 1: in charge, Brian Martinez, working in the background to make
• 0:36
  Speaker 1: everything happen. But before we get into the video, we
• 0:39
  Speaker 1: gotta do what we gotta do. As always, Honey Badger
• 0:42
  Speaker 1: Radio Dish is out a s'mor disboard of thought provoking
• 0:45
  Speaker 1: discussions and has experiences both recent and long pass have
• 0:48
  Speaker 1: demonstrated the provoked thoughts are fighting back. They've made it
• 0:53
  Speaker 1: clear that for people like us relying on third party
• 0:55
  Speaker 1: payment platforms like Patreon to fund our work is treading
• 0:58
  Speaker 1: on thin ice or building our house in the path
• 1:01
  Speaker 1: of a rapidly growing wildfire. In light of this, we
• 1:05
  Speaker 1: strongly encourage our supporters to switch at least their support
• 1:08
  Speaker 1: for us to feed the Badger dot Com the most
• 1:12
  Speaker 1: stable way to help us out, and if you want
• 1:15
  Speaker 1: to tip us directly instead of relying on any social
• 1:17
  Speaker 1: media platforms, tip jar. The link for that is feed
• 1:20
  Speaker 1: the Badger dot com slash just the tip. And as always,
• 1:26
  Speaker 1: the same risk applies to our social media platforms, which
• 1:30
  Speaker 1: is why you should further provoke the thought police by
• 1:32
  Speaker 1: tracking our thought provoking discussions on a Honey Badger Brigade
• 1:35
  Speaker 1: dot com, where you can find your way to all
• 1:38
  Speaker 1: of our content, as well as a link to feed
• 1:40
  Speaker 1: the Badger dot Com in the drop down menu at
• 1:42
  Speaker 1: the top of the page. I have no idea how
• 1:45
  Speaker 1: I haven't gotten banned from X in the last last month.
• 1:49
  Speaker 1: I have been surfing on top of Engagement Farmers. They
• 1:54
  Speaker 1: make very good surfboards, and so a lot more people
• 1:58
  Speaker 1: have seen my offensive posts. And I know that people
• 2:01
  Speaker 1: have been visiting my profile because it if I look
• 2:05
  Speaker 1: at my analytics, it tells me right. But uh, I.
• 2:11
  Speaker 2: You're even allowed to women if you go if you
• 2:14
  Speaker 2: go after the j's or the ends, then you're in trouble.
• 2:17
  Speaker 2: But your particular niche, I think you're all right.
• 2:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my focus is women. I don't care about your
• 2:24
  Speaker 1: your race or your religion. But uh, but there you go.
• 2:29
  Speaker 1: Eventually they'll get me, I'm sure.
• 2:33
  Speaker 3: Uh.
• 2:33
  Speaker 1: But in the meantime, we have a video to watch.
• 2:37
  Speaker 1: So last week we did watch this part uh and uh.
• 2:44
  Speaker 1: We we had a little bit of a discussion. But
• 2:47
  Speaker 1: we're gonna go over this a little bit again and uh,
• 2:51
  Speaker 1: and then we'll continue on with the video. I might
• 2:53
  Speaker 1: actually interrupt it and say something else, but we will continue.
• 3:01
  Speaker 1: I often get asked one question in particular when discussing
• 3:04
  Speaker 1: this topic, what is the underlying cause of the gender
• 3:07
  Speaker 1: based accountability gap? I initially believed that to answer that question,
• 3:12
  Speaker 1: I was going to have to find a point in
• 3:14
  Speaker 1: recorded history right before the accountability gap existed, look at
• 3:18
  Speaker 1: when it first manifested, and examine it to figure out
• 3:22
  Speaker 1: what changed. I went looking, I learned what I needed
• 3:25
  Speaker 1: to learn. I'm not going to go into a long
• 3:28
  Speaker 1: spiel describing the journey because spoiler alert, what I was
• 3:32
  Speaker 1: looking for does not exist. There is no such point
• 3:35
  Speaker 1: in time. There has always been that gap. That's not
• 3:39
  Speaker 1: to say that the situation is hopeless or the accountability
• 3:43
  Speaker 1: gap has no cause. It hasn't always been this bad.
• 3:46
  Speaker 1: There have been points in history when the gap was
• 3:49
  Speaker 1: not so dramatic. There have been points where it has
• 3:52
  Speaker 1: been very small, but the sexist styles of accountability have
• 3:56
  Speaker 1: been very different. There have even been points where women
• 3:59
  Speaker 1: were more are self aware, understanding the gap, not by
• 4:03
  Speaker 1: name obviously, but understanding it nonetheless and accommodating men's efforts
• 4:08
  Speaker 1: to fulfill their obligations as the more accountable sex. So
• 4:13
  Speaker 1: there's where I'm going to stop it, which is where
• 4:16
  Speaker 1: we were talking last week. This is where we ended
• 4:19
  Speaker 1: the show last week, and what we were talking about
• 4:23
  Speaker 1: last week, I believe was like chores and stuff like that.
• 4:27
  Speaker 1: But there's another point that needs to be made here,
• 4:30
  Speaker 1: and it's one that I think really a lot of
• 4:34
  Speaker 1: women don't think about because if they did, feminism wouldn't exist.
• 4:39
  Speaker 1: And the reason I say that is because they would
• 4:42
  Speaker 1: recognize there is no patriarchy. For centuries, men have built civilizations,
• 4:50
  Speaker 1: and I don't mean people have built civilizations specifically, just
• 4:54
  Speaker 1: the male people of adult age and close to adult
• 4:59
  Speaker 1: age or adult age for the time have built some civilizations.
• 5:04
  Speaker 1: Women didn't do that. And the feminist that has has
• 5:09
  Speaker 1: actually talked about this was Camille Paglia. I think that's
• 5:13
  Speaker 1: how you pronounce her name. I hope. I'm not butchering it.
• 5:16
  Speaker 1: I don't really read a lot of feminist bullshit anymore.
• 5:20
  Speaker 1: But one good thing, she said, one good thing out.
• 5:25
  Speaker 3: He's a very bad person.
• 5:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I I I figured most of them are right.
• 5:31
  Speaker 1: But but one good thing she said, uh, is is
• 5:34
  Speaker 1: that you know, if if women were the ones running things,
• 5:40
  Speaker 1: if women were in charge, we would still be living
• 5:42
  Speaker 1: in grass huts.
• 5:44
  Speaker 2: And the reason, having having seen certain scenes from Survivor,
• 5:52
  Speaker 2: we might not have when the men and the women
• 5:55
  Speaker 2: go off in different directions. They can't even build grass huts.
• 5:57
  Speaker 2: They can't even figure out how to get fucking water
• 6:00
  Speaker 2: of food, and they just cry and then they have
• 6:03
  Speaker 2: to get it saved.
• 6:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 6:05
  Speaker 1: And I looked into you know, the the really essential
• 6:11
  Speaker 1: jobs that get done in society today when by essentially,
• 6:15
  Speaker 1: I mean if you didn't do your job, if nobody
• 6:17
  Speaker 1: did your job, other people would die. Kind of jobs, right,
• 6:21
  Speaker 1: and obviously the most essential, top priority job in an
• 6:27
  Speaker 1: apocalyptic situation. Who who would need to be still there
• 6:32
  Speaker 1: for a large population, like half the population to survive
• 6:38
  Speaker 1: if every man in the world disappeared right now, every
• 6:43
  Speaker 1: every male over over the age of uh, you know,
• 6:46
  Speaker 1: majority disappeared in their country. Women would be in deep shit.
• 6:53
  Speaker 1: And I don't mean that figuratively. Like, there are two
• 6:58
  Speaker 1: jobs that if we didn't have men, we would really notice,
• 7:07
  Speaker 1: when we would notice it really fast. One of them
• 7:10
  Speaker 1: is obviously sewage treatment, and the other one is maintaining
• 7:20
  Speaker 1: a clean water system that delivers the water to your
• 7:24
  Speaker 1: house or your apartment. And without those two things, we
• 7:29
  Speaker 1: would have about three days left to live. Like everybody
• 7:34
  Speaker 1: talks about it, You're like, oh, women would have enough
• 7:37
  Speaker 1: time to get this stuff back up and running. No,
• 7:39
  Speaker 1: you can die of dehydration in three days. And if
• 7:43
  Speaker 1: you don't die of dehydration, you have died of dysentery,
• 7:49
  Speaker 1: or cholera or typhoid fever, you know, just anything that
• 7:56
  Speaker 1: can be in shit. If there's no plumbing, if there's
• 8:00
  Speaker 1: no indoor water system bringing water in and taking water out,
• 8:06
  Speaker 1: you're fucked. Ninety seven percent of the people who do
• 8:10
  Speaker 1: those jobs are men, Whereas if only if only three
• 8:17
  Speaker 1: percent of the people who do those jobs were left,
• 8:19
  Speaker 1: there would not be enough for that to continue, and
• 8:26
  Speaker 1: there wouldn't be enough truckers to deliver bottled water either,
• 8:29
  Speaker 1: and the trash would pile up as well.
• 8:34
  Speaker 2: Whereas if all the women disappeared tomorrow, there would be
• 8:37
  Speaker 2: one job, and one job only that men would not
• 8:40
  Speaker 2: be able to do without them, And it's it's gestating,
• 8:44
  Speaker 2: and they're already working on that. So men would have
• 8:47
  Speaker 2: like a couple of generations to perfect the artificial womb
• 8:51
  Speaker 2: and perhaps how to make artificial ovums over whatever the
• 8:56
  Speaker 2: plural is. And you know, if the fate of kind
• 9:00
  Speaker 2: rested on that, I'm sure they'd work on it pretty hard.
• 9:04
  Speaker 2: And then we'd have the warhammer forty future.
• 9:07
  Speaker 1: There you go, Well, and all they would have to
• 9:09
  Speaker 1: do is wait for the girls to grow up, right,
• 9:12
  Speaker 1: But if you waited for the boys to grow up,
• 9:13
  Speaker 1: you would they would all die before you know, if
• 9:17
  Speaker 1: all the men were gone. And let's say let's say
• 9:21
  Speaker 1: you solved the water problem, let's say you solved the uh,
• 9:25
  Speaker 1: the sewage problem, and let's say you solve the trash problem.
• 9:29
  Speaker 1: Right next is electricity and gas for heat, and you
• 9:36
  Speaker 1: don't have those. The first winter is going to kill
• 9:39
  Speaker 1: a lot of women, and many of them are going
• 9:43
  Speaker 1: to die because they're too stupid to figure out that
• 9:45
  Speaker 1: you have to have a ventilated room if you're going
• 9:47
  Speaker 1: to have an indoor fire. Or you will suffocate from
• 9:53
  Speaker 1: the gases that the fire gives off. I mean many
• 9:59
  Speaker 1: of them would die. I have food poisoning in the
• 10:01
  Speaker 1: interim because they wouldn't be able to cook without electricity.
• 10:07
  Speaker 1: And if they did cook without electricity, they'd be cooking
• 10:11
  Speaker 1: with fire. It's not the same. And they may get
• 10:14
  Speaker 1: things overdone or not done enough. And by the way,
• 10:18
  Speaker 1: they would very quickly run out of food that's already
• 10:21
  Speaker 1: at the grocery store. And again there's that delivery problem
• 10:24
  Speaker 1: because most of the trucking industry is mail, most of
• 10:29
  Speaker 1: the industry that engineers trains mail, most of the industry
• 10:34
  Speaker 1: that flies anything mail. So you really don't have a
• 10:40
  Speaker 1: way to get your groceries after the grocery store runs
• 10:44
  Speaker 1: out of everything. And most hunters are male too. Most
• 10:49
  Speaker 1: people who know how to hunt are male, so you
• 10:53
  Speaker 1: really would have no access to any meat. It takes
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: a whole season to grow your own food. We we
• 11:05
  Speaker 1: would be so fucked. But feminists don't think about that.
• 11:10
  Speaker 1: They only think about the things they get mad at
• 11:14
  Speaker 1: men for a small percentage of the male population doing.
• 11:20
  Speaker 2: It's it's a bloody good thing. Men love women so much,
• 11:23
  Speaker 2: and and and and always have. In fact, this is
• 11:26
  Speaker 2: the worst possible time in history for women to just
• 11:31
  Speaker 2: ideologically deny that men love women so much, and and
• 11:36
  Speaker 2: to to fall into this fucking cult like state of
• 11:43
  Speaker 2: mind where where they just assume that men are useless
• 11:47
  Speaker 2: and disposable and and and that they hate women, because
• 11:53
  Speaker 2: you can only take that so far before, because we
• 11:55
  Speaker 2: are at that point in history where well, we will
• 12:00
  Speaker 2: soon be able to replace women with not just robots,
• 12:05
  Speaker 2: but with like I said, artificial wounds and artificial biological
• 12:15
  Speaker 2: seeding or whatever. So your time is running out.
• 12:20
  Speaker 1: Ladies, better learn to be nice.
• 12:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, or just learn not to be giant cunts, because
• 12:28
  Speaker 2: that's all men.
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: Really want from you, generally, a giant cut.
• 12:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't even need it to be nice. We
• 12:38
  Speaker 2: can live with with women who have slightly flawed characters.
• 12:43
  Speaker 2: This is that's that's all we ask for in our
• 12:47
  Speaker 2: movies and our entertainment, and that's all we ask for
• 12:50
  Speaker 2: in reality. You don't have to be perfect, you don't
• 12:53
  Speaker 2: even have to be nice. Just don't be giant cunts, Like,
• 12:57
  Speaker 2: why would be put up with giant cunts when we
• 13:00
  Speaker 2: can replace you with robots and artificial eggs? And yeah,
• 13:05
  Speaker 2: that's sort of what we've been sat here saying for
• 13:08
  Speaker 2: the last dozen years or so. Can you can you
• 13:13
  Speaker 2: do the bare minimum to prevent yourselves from going extinct?
• 13:17
  Speaker 2: No patriarchy, toxic masculinity.
• 13:20
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, I guess they'd rather do the bear.
• 13:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 13:28
  Speaker 3: Raw. So I.
• 13:31
  Speaker 1: By the way, I did get corrected by somebody on
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: my description of what happened years later was Caesar the
• 13:39
  Speaker 1: Wrestling Bear. So since that's the middle of the story,
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: the beginning of that is back in my stupid college days,
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: I had a friend who wanted to go wrestle Caesar
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: the Wrestling Bear, but they only let women wrestle in pairs,
• 13:58
  Speaker 1: and so she had to find another woman who would
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: go with her, and she asked everybody. I was the
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: one that said yes, So I get into the wrestling
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: ring with this bear. This was at a bar in Findley,
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: Ohio called Brandy's Back in like nineteen ninety two, and
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: so I was I would have been either eighteen or
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: nineteen years old, depending on whether it was before or
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: after my birthday, and honestly don't remember, but it was
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: probably before. In any case, this bear about seven hundred
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: and fifty pounds. They said one thousand pounds. But this chick,
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: she was a weightlifter, and she said, there's no way
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: he was a thousand pounds because he stood up on
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: his hind legs and she stuck her hands under his
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: armpits and he leaned on her and it didn't knock
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: her over. That was the difference between me and her.
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: He took one paw when he decided to focus on me,
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: swiped it behind my knees, knocked me on my ass,
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: flipped me over, and started chewing on my butt. And
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: that was the entire five minutes. He laid on my back,
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: And for five minutes this bear just gnawed very gently
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: for a bear on my ass, like I was a
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: chew toy. If that thing had wanted to kill us,
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: the handlers would not have been able to get us
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: out of there alive. I looked back at that, and
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: I realized how fast he was and how strong he was.
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: Like if that bear had gone rogue at that moment,
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: we'd have been dead, both of us and possibly other
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: people in the room as well, unless they had something
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: to taze it into submission. But in any case, like
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: twenty ten, the owner of Caesar the Wrestling Bear, one
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: of his one of his bear handlers, got mauled to
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: death by another bear and I for a long time
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: I thought it was the bear that I had wrestled,
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: but it wasn't. It was another bear, and that bear
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: it had temper problems for a long time. They shouldn't
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: have been having that bear around people. But I can
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: tell you right now I would not go anywhere near
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: a bear in the woods on purpose after that experience,
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: just saying.
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: I had it on good forty that woman choose the bear.
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, most most women don't don't know jack shit about
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: the bear because the bear will eat you and he
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: won't even kill you first. Like that's there's a there's
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: a chick in Russia that was hiking with her dad.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: The story was horrible because she was eaten alive, and
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: she called her mom while it was happening. She didn't
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: know what else to do. I guess, but they don't
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: kill you before they eat to Like, women don't have
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: any sense at all if they're claiming that they would
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: be safer with a bear than they would with a man.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: But of course that's not the goal of that discussion.
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: We made a video about that. I believe it was
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: called we have to talk about the bear, and it was.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: It's on the Honey Badger radio channel in the in
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: the videos. But yeah, he's not just after picnic baskets night.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: Motorcyclist Yogi might be, but the rest of them aren't.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: In any case, like women don't take accountability for even
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: just acknowledging the truth about things like this, they don't
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: take accountability for recognizing the fact that for centuries, literally
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: eons then, since the beginning of humankind, men have been
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: taking care of us. That they've built civilizations to make
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: us safer and to make our lives more orderly, to
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: make us comfortable. A huge amount of inventions that men
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: have come up with exist to prevent harm from coming
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: to them and their families, their wives, and their kids.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: And yet women bitch all the time about the patriarchy
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: that they couldn't live without. We would die, we would
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: die fast, and it would really suck the way that
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: we would die.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: We've been doing it since before we were even Homo sapiens,
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: by the way, doing it since we were some primordial
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: ape species, and probably long before that. You have you
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: have to go back in millions of years before you
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: find a species where they don't do you know what,
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: Male bears don't do shit to protect female bets. That
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: they're like tigers, that the males just wander off on
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: their own and do their own thing, and they leave
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: the females to look after the kids by themselves. Bears
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: are exactly what you accuse men of being. Isn't that funny?
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: Isn't that hilarious?
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: But it is funny, you still choose.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: The bear, And yeah, there are many parallels there that
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: I won't get into.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: Of course, female bears, like the one thing about them
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: is if something something came along that was aggressive, they
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: might not mess with her because she's a bear. But
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: but yeah, so when I when I was making this,
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: and I specifically chose that that wagon and specifically chose this,
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: that's one of the things I was thinking of that,
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: you know, without a history of men inventing things like buildings,
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: you know, coming up with entire systems of mathematics to
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: make sure that those structures that they created for us
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: to live in were stable, and you know, creating the
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: entire system of indoor plumbing starting with things like water
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: pumps and sinks and toilets, that all of that, without
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: that we would be no better often than cave people.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: So there's your difference in accountability. And whenever a problem
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: comes along, if life drops a ton of shit in
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: your neighborhood, it's the men who grab the shovels and
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: pickup trucks and figure out where it would be best
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: for that shit to go. There has been no point
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: in recorded history during which women's personal accountability within human
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: civilization has been equal and identical to that of men.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: In other words, cultural changes have historically affected the size, scope,
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: and shape of the accountability gap, but not its existence.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: It is a culturally influenced phenomenon, but not a culturally
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: constructed one. It is, at least in part, a natural phenomenon.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: No matter how much I search this countertop or that
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: end table, I'm not going to find those keys, because
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: they are right there, and I've been looking right past
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: them the whole time. They're just not the key I
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: was looking for. The accountability gap is natural. You have
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: no idea how upsetting this was to find it, because
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: I was very dedicated to the fact that guyinocentrism, which
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: is a prioritization above women, specifically not to be confused
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: with storge, which is your family. Love for your family.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: Guyinocentrism is a predominant focus on women's interests over all
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: other things. That is not natural. Historically, the interest of
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: the family came first, and everyone in the family sacrificed
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: to maintain that umbrella because the family protected them as well.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: But the accountability gap is a naturally occurring thing. It is.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: It exists because women are weaker than men, and because
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: there are gender differences in what an individual can handle
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: and will handle in life, and also what impulses and
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: interest an individual has, which is why most of the
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: great inventions throughout history, overwhelmingly, most of the great inventions
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: throughout history have been created by men and not by women. Okay,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: that means, to a degree, it is in women's nature
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: to be less accountable than men and to focus on
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: different considerations when they do exercise accountability. It's at least
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: to some degree, a trait of female psychology that manifests
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: in a fixed, unlearned way, regardless of cultural or other
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: environmental changes. In other words, it's like an instinct, or rather,
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: accountability itself is the instinct, and it's both slightly stronger
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: and more comprehensive in men. But so remember what we
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: talked about in the beginning. Sorry about that, I'm gonna
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: lose my voice this early in the show. That's bad.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: That accountability is taking ownership of your decisions and whatever
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: consequences may come from them. And so if you your
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: decision was to plan or promise to do something, accountability
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: means following through with that. And that instinct is what
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: has made humanity a successful species that we not only
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: reproduced but pretty much have dominated the planet. That instinct
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: of not giving up, taking that determination forward to get
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: shit done when it's really important, and taking responsibility for
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: sorting out what is important versus what is not, taking
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: responsibility for the people around you and in particular your
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: family like that, all of that because humans have that instinct,
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: and it's stronger enough in men to have resulted in
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: the building of civilizations. Rather than being, you know, a
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: species that is prey or that lives in trees and
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: forages and hopes that food is always there, we're a
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: species that keeps ourselves safe, protects ourselves from the environment
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: from weather and disasters, from illnesses from starvation. We plan ahead,
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: we prepare for enter and it's not just instinctive to
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: playing ahead. We do it consciously, We know what the
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: consequences will be if we don't.
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: These are all things that stem from that instinct. If
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: I decide I'm going to do something, it's on me.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: And unfortunately, there's this ideology that has spent the last
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: two hundred years teaching women to be afraid of that
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: and hate that and avoid it, try to beat it
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: out of the rest of society. And that's our feminism
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: that we have to fight with all the time. We
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: have some super chats and stuff. So I have Albatross
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: forty nine twenty gave us five dollars and said, you
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: guys should do an HBr episode about the grape gang
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: cover ups in the UK and how so far activists
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: in you and women are dead silent about it. Yeah
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: they are, aren't they? And they haven't edjacked it.
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: The details only just emerge this well, the details have
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: been emerging slowly for the last twenty or thirty years
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: or so, but Rupert Lowe's investigation only confirmed certain details
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: this week. I did briefly allude to it on on
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: on the Tuesday Show. And how ironic it is that
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: it overlaps with with the let's protect children by locking
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: their parents out of the internet and so on. Yeah,
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: maybe maybe we'll do something next Tuesday, or we'll do
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: it here once we're done with this thing. Yeah, But
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: like I say, it's not like it's a it's a
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: suddenly emergent story. Like everyone's known about this for fucking years,
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: and it's only now that it's become so fucking obvious
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: that it's impossible for people to ignore. Maybe two hundred
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: and fifty thousand victims in the lasts I think it's
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: seventy years. It is an overestimation, But it's quibbling about
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: the exact number. Whether it could just be fifty thousand,
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: that's still fucking too many. A couple of thousand would
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: be too many, when it could easily be prevented by
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: fucking deporting these monsters, these gangs of monsters, these organized
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: mobs of gang rapists. All we ever needed to do
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: was just deport them as and when this happened, and
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: let it be known that we will deport them if
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: this happens, or better just fucking execute them when this happens.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: And I know that's an extreme position, even for Restore. Actually,
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: even I guess I guess restore it is even is
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: even toying with the idea of just fucking hanging the bastards,
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: And yeah, why wouldn't we, Why the fuck wouldn't we.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: Compare this with Epstein Island, where there were approximately twelve
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: thousand victims. Compare that with two hundred and fifty thousand,
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: like even if that's an overestimate, like the Nons scandal
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: in Britain dwarfs the Epstein Island scandal, But no one
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: wants to talk about it because they can't fucking blame
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: Trump for it. They can't turn around and blame the
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: guy who fucking released the list. I guess they can,
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: though maybe they'll just start saying, ah, Rupert low is
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: it is a gang rapist because he hasn't prosecuted the
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: gang rapists yet. Sounds ubsurd, doesn't it. But that's that's
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: exactly what these shameless leftist bastards are doing with the
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: Epstein files. Rather than blaming the people who did it,
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: they're blaming the guy who finally released the list because
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: he's on the list. Who's only on the list because
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: he fucking called the police on on on the head
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: pedophile And that's you know, when whenever there's whenever there's
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: a still the lining in sight, these bastards just turn
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: it on its head and blame it on the only
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: people who are trying to expose it. Is just what
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: the fuck do you do when when when these scumbags
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: are in charge, and and and then going out of
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: their way to ban anyone from exposing the scumbags and
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: from davoing everything into an alternate universe where the only
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: people who are trying to fix it are the only
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: perpetrate is of it. It's such a fucking upside down
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: back with hass well, do we live in the future.
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: Generations are not gonna believe us, let alone understand what
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: we were trying to freaking deal with.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Never know, they might end up studying it if if
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: civilization survives this self destructive era, what they may end
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: up having to do is go through and examine what
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: what flaws in logic allowed people to get away with
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: this ship, Because when you look at what's happening in
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: the UK, right, they're not they're not stupid. They know
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: that this ship was happening. They've known the whole time
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: that it was happening, and they condoned it and it's
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: not just because, well, we have to put up with
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: this because we want these people in our country so
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: that we can use them to control the vote or whatever,
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: replace the population with a more controllable population. That's not
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: the only thing, right. I think there's a connection in
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: some ways between this situation and the Epstein List, And
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: I know that some of the people who condoned this
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: situation are on that list, and perhaps they just didn't
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: care because they were doing it too, just not to
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: the same kids. So, you know, anybody that is in
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: a position of power in the UK and doesn't want
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: to be viewed as a person who is potentially doing
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: that shit should get right on this topic as soon
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: as possible and make sure that something is done that
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: you know, deportation does happen, because it really does look
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: bad by association if you don't, especially since we do
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: know that there were quite a lot of people on
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: that list and in power and positions of power in
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: both the US and the UK, and that's a big
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: reason why it wasn't being released.
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: And the victims aren't all girls, by the way, to
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: be able are saying that it's two hundred and fifty girls.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: Even as an estimate. I'm sure it was majority girls,
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: probably the vast majority girls, because in some sense, Muslims
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: are a lot like everyone else. They value female sexuality
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: more than they value male sexuality. Even though they see
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: Western girls as worthless sluts, they still see them as
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: girls like they they they see Western infidel men and
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: boys as even more worthless. They don't even have a
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: sexuality to be conquered. As you can see in the
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: whole batch of BARSI situation. They can't rape Muslim girls
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: because because they have value. Even even Muslim boys have
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: no value, especially once they've been violated once and then
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: then they're just nothing because it's the bottoms who are
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: accused of homosexuality. And at that point, all you're doing
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: is violating a criminal who will be put to death
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: if if any of this comes to lights. So, yeah,
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: make no mistake, they've they've been raping boys as well. Uh,
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: only if and when they can't find girls, they they
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: they want girls because they value the sexuality of girls,
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: even if they see those girls as as worthless sluts.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: I mean, well, they're raping girls. They are slaughtering men
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: in the street, They're not slaughtering girls in the street.
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: They they're they're trying to seduce them to come to
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: come to come back to their house so that they
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: can lock them in the fucking basement and get three
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: hundred of their friends and family to rape them. And
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: that's fucking awful. That's not there's no there's no two
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: ways about that. That's that's fucking horror movie awful. But
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: they don't even bother doing that with with with with
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: the with the infidel Western men. They just fucking butcher
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: them in the street because for the for the most part,
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: they're not even worth raping. They what a different kind
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: of trophy, you know.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: And what has come out is that they don't view
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: Westerners as human beings.
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: They view they don't think, they don't view non Muslims.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: They don't view non Muslims as human.
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: If they can convert Westerners then is fine.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: Then then you become human.
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: But any case, that's that's the situation. So we will
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: probably at some point do a more in depth look
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: at that, but it's it's not going to be today.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: We did get one from Richard Pierre who gave us
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: five dollars and said, when women say that they choose
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: the bear this is the bear that they imagine. I
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: don't know if I can get this into the right window.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: Let's see. There we go. This is the bear that
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: they imagine.
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: It's them.
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: That's hilarious. And it came through twice Richard, So I
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: don't know if you got charged ten dollars, but I'm.
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: Kind of wrote about Richard's because he has this on
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: his phone.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: He probably looked it up to post that it.
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: Is pride both, so I'm not judging.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: Then we have Roboto one, two, three, four, five, six seven,
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: gave us a dollar and said the issue and fact
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: is too many Western women are willing to cut off
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: their own nose. Despite their face. They not all would
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: rather die before being part of civilization when it benefits them,
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: And that is a good point. A lot of women,
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: you can't you can't make them happy. It's in fact,
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: if they find that they are starting to become happy,
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: they will actively find something to be up set about
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: just to avoid the happiness. It's like they're allergic to it,
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: or they think it's a kind of cootie or you know,
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: Headlce or some other such evil, nasty little critter that
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: they can't have crawling around in their psyche, because as
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: soon as they're offered a tool to make their lives easier,
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: they have to find a way to complain about it.
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: I learned that from talking to women on social media
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: about reproductive issues and birth control, and one of the
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: things that I try to emphasize it's not just a
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: game of blame here with reproductive issues, right. We have goals,
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: or at least we think we have goals as a population.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: We want our children to be raised in the best
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: environment for them that we can raise them in. We
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: want them to have the greatest chance of success as adults,
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: because when we become old farts that are senile and fragile,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: can't walk all the way down the hallway to get
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: a drink of water and can't remember whether or not
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: we went to the bathroom five minutes ago, that's the
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: generation it's going to be taking care of us, right,
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: So we want them to be in the best place
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: that they can be mentally and educationally, psychologically, physically, everything.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: So the goal is we know that children do best
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: when they're raised in a two parent home where both
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: parents are involved with the child, and that works best
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: in a situation where the children are planned, and people
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: aren't dropping babies out of wedlock, And so you want
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: women to have control over whether or not they get pregnant. Well,
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: there's multiple forms of birth control that women can use
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: in combination with each other, plus the man's birth control
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: that he can use, which should always be in use
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: to prevent STIs anyway, if you're having sex outside of woodlock,
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: and of course you can be picky about your partners,
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: and there's all kinds of ways that you have to
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: execute that plan, the plan to not have a baby
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: until you're ready to raise a child in a marriage,
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: whether it's when I use the word marriage, I don't
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: necessarily mean the state has to be involved, but in
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: a dedicated relationship, in a dedicated relationship with both parents
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: being involved taking care of the child, there's lots of
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: ways to make sure that that happens. Even if you're
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: gonna be a little hoe for a minute, you still
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: can avoid becoming pregnant. But what happens when I talk
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: about that, women get pissed because I'm not blaming men
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: and I'm not suggesting that they should all have vast
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: actomies and have to earn their sperm back. And I'm
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: not saying that abortion is men's fault, and I'm not
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: saying that women can do no wrong and that women
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: should be allowed to just depend on men to protect
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: them from pregnancy and not think about what they're doing.
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: They'd rather whine about men then use the tools available
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: to them to optimize their outcome from their sexual choices.
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: Women are so unaccountable that they will choose having something
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: to complain about over having something to be happy about,
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: and then they'll blame you for why they have to complain.
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: And that's an instinct too, one of the things I
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: talked about in previous shows. We have a different way
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: of raising boys than we do girls. But I think
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: part of it is because we have an instinctively different
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: way of responding to boys than we do girls. We
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: see boys and we see toughness and strength, and we
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: know they're going to get bigger and stronger than they
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: would if they were girls. We know that there's probably
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: a chance they're smarter too. Not very many women want
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: to admit that, but that's the way it is. And
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: we know that they're going to have to navigate a
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: world where they get less help their whole lives, and
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: so it starts in infancy. Mothers respond mothers and fathers
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: actually respond faster and with more sympathy when a girl
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: cries a girl baby cries than when a boy baby cries.
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: Kids spend their whole lives with a gap in compassion
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: and consideration and concern from the adults in their lives
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: between men and women, where boys boys have more I
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: don't want to say opportunities, but instances where they have
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: to face their own problems and try to solve things
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: for themselves before an adult will help them, and even
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: then they have to explicitly ask for help and hope
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: that the adult doesn't just turn around and say, solve
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: it yourself. Whereas girls get that said so many times. Yeah,
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: you don't even have to be the the you know,
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: top athlete in your class. You could be like Richard,
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: you're disabled, aren't you?
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so even a disabled it gets told that as
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: a boy. Right, girls can be fully able bodied and
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: will still get help with things that they don't need
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: help with, and girls learn the primary way to deal
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: with a problem is to ask someone to help you
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: with it, and boys learn the primary way to deal
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: with a problem is to analyze it, come up with
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: a solution and attempt to make that solution happen, and
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: they learn from the school of hard knocks.
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: I couldn't time my shoelaces for the longest time when
• 45:00
  Speaker 3: I was a kid, and I also help to tie
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: my shoelaces, but none of my parents wouldn't help me
• 45:08
  Speaker 3: talk my shoelaces. I had to. I had to learn
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: that myself, and I had to learn a lot of
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: other stuff by myself as well.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: It it took a massive temper tantrum on my part
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: for my parents to realize that I wanted to do
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: things myself, and it was over something really dumb too.
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: And I can still actually remember this really weird because
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: I was I was really little. I was small enough
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: to play with a rattle. I had this little blue
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: rattle and it had a little handle that had a ring,
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: and they put like ring like handles on a lot
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: of things for little kids. And I had a little
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: Christmas tree toy was like consent crick discs with holes
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: in the center, and they fit on a little pole
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: with a base, and they were different sizes and different colors,
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: so that you had the bottom one was wide and
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: the top one was narrow. And then there was a
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: little little red ball that sat on the top, and
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: I just it occurred to me that that ball would
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: fit inside the handle of that rattle, and so I
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: started messing with it, trying to put the little ball
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: in the handle of that rattle, and my little hands
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: wouldn't do it. I didn't have that coordination that you
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: need to push something into a tight fit. And both
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: of the objects were hard solid, you know, hard plastic
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: and hard wood. The tree was made out of wood,
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: and so I'm struggling with it, and I almost had
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: it a bunch of times, and I would get more
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: and more frustrated each time it didn't work. So my
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: dad picked it up and did it for me, and
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: I had a massive meltdown, and you know, he just
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: kind of stood there and looked at me, like, what
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: did I do? You know, why is she upset? So
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: finally he took it apart and gave it back to me,
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: And of course, at that point I immediately calmed down
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: and everything was okay. Because it wasn't done for me,
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: I had to do it myself again, and I did,
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: but then I knew for sure I was right it
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: could be done. And that was kind of how my
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: family learned that I was not normal for a girl,
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: that I wanted to do it myself, and I was
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: going to do it myself. And you expect that from boys,
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: and people over expected. Like Richard described, not teaching a
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: kid to tie their own shoes is a little unusual,
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: but there are so many other instances. Kids my age,
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: boys my age would get beaten up by bullies and
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: their parents would tell them, you have to fight back.
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: You have to be scarier than the bully.
• 48:20
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: Not oh, I'm going to go talk to that kid's mom,
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: But here's how to hit him back harder, here's how
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: to knock him down. Try this right. And when the
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: kid finally came back having triumphed over his bully, he
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: was praised for it, but he was never rescued, you know,
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: and not unless his bully was like six or seven
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: years older than he was.
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: Good fella, tweet, did a really good tweet recently, and
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: you retweeted it or you responded to it. Women to
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: tell men that's not how you do this, this is
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: how you do that. You're doing it wrong, Like this
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: is how you do it right, and and then later
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: on they complain men don't do anything. I have to
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: do it all by myself. Well, it's it's it's not
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: just women. It's this is something you learn when you
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: live in student accommodation, especially with lots of other people.
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: Like like, if you live with one particularly neurotic person
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: who like wakes up at six in the morning and
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: does the dishes to their standard, and they and then
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: they go, no one else does the dishes, and we're like,
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: well the fuck, we don't wake up at six o'clock
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: to do this. If you just left it another twelve hours,
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: someone else would do it, and they would do it
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: to their own standard, but their standard isn't as good
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: as your standard. And so and say like, well, I
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: have to do everything by myself. No, you don't have
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: to do everything by yourself. If you just if you
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: just let people do it, do it on their own
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: time and to their own standard, then they will get
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: practice at it and they will get better at it.
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: But if you keep doing the fucking devouring mother thing,
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: and if you don't, if you don't let other people
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: do it to their own standards and let their own
• 50:10
  Speaker 2: standards rise as they do it, then then yeah, how
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: how are they going to get better at it, and
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: and yeah, this this, this trans translates very much as
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: to how you raise children. You can advise them as
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: to how to do it, but if if you never
• 50:30
  Speaker 2: let them get better at it, then they'll never raise
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: their standards. And maybe your standards are too fucking high
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: in the first place. Like maybe if if you just
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: fucking calm down a bit and uh and and let
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: other people or maybe if you just briefly teach people
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: how to do it and and then wait a couple
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: of hours and fucking show them how you do it,
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: then you can learn together how how how to how
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: how to take a low standard and a high standard
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: and sort of meet in the middle, like like it's
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: it's possible. It's possible that that your standards are too high,
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: and it's possible that their standards are too low, right,
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: and you can and you.
• 51:25
  Speaker 3: Can meet in the middle, yep, very much, And.
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: Then maybe they will find out that your high standards
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: were perfectly reasonable, and maybe you will find out that
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: their low standards were perfectly reasonable. It's perfectly possible that
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: that that that your standards can be too high, and
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: that you shouldn't expect people to to to reach those
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: standards and and and conversely that other peoples standards might
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: be too low. It's it depends on the situation. It
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: depends on the relationship between your But if you just
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: shut other people off from the whole activity, uh, because
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: your standards are so centralized in your own fucking head
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: and your own fucking experience, then of course you're going
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: to be constantly neurotic and and and resentful of of
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: everyone else because you can't you just can't work with
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: other people. Like like, just because you're neurotic doesn't mean
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: everyone else is not neurotic enough. And you know, it depends,
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: Like I say, it's that there's no universal standard for
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: any of this. It's it's all it's all relative, and
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: it's all sort of situational. Like, no matter how neurotic
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: you are or how lazy you are, the lazy people
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: need to work with the with the neurotic people, and
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: the neurotic people need to work with the lazy people.
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: And I say this as someone who's neurotic and lazy
• 53:14
  Speaker 2: at the same time.
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: But yeah, see that's me. But I'm lazy, and yeah
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: I'm lazy, and the major twice cut once kind of
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: way because I don't want to cut twice. Yeah, you know,
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: I actually learned by going on vacation that and and
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: forgetting to do some things before I left, that a
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: well and properly rinsed set of dirty dishes can sit
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: for a whole week and it's all right. Like then,
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: they will clean up just fine when you get home,
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: and it's not going to be any more of a
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: chore then than it would have been. In fact, it
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: might actually be less because you're well rested. So we
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: never had dirty dishes sit like that when I was
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: growing up. But my husband laughed at me because I
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: was like, oh, we didn't clean the dishes. Oh, it's fine,
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: they're come and clean really easily. There's nothing caked on
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: because they were rinsed to go in the dishwasher. But yeah,
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: you can be neurotic and lazy at the same time.
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: In fact, there's some degree of it that is a
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: bit lazy in and of itself. But how and why?
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: After all, personal accountability is a necessary component of success
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: in life. Characteristics like mindfulness, diligence, and perseverance rely on it.
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: Why would half of a species that survives mainly due
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: to its ability to outsmart nature using those and similar
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: characteristics be designed with weaker mind and less ability to
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: exercise them. It sounds kind of unreasonable to suggest that
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: merely by virtue of having an any instead of an OUDI,
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: women are just naturally a bit off in the head.
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: And here's where feminists will stop listening. And that's the
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: takeaway that they're going to have from it. I will
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: tell you that right now they will not listen when
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: when we talk about this, they will not listen to
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: anything after that statement. That will be the statement that
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: they will. They will say this video makes, and this
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: discussion makes. We just got a dollar from Roboto one, two, three, four, five,
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: six seven on Rumble again and says, do Western people
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: understand what neutral activities are? If not? Why? If so,
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: why example, changing attire, doing laundry, clearing the gutters. Yeah,
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: there's not all activities are gendered. There are there are
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: certain things everybody should know how to do, and there
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: are certain things that you know, like if I got
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: stuck someplace with a flat tire, I'm not stranded. I
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: know how to change it. I get stymied if I
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: can't get the tire off. Though. I discovered that because
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: we had one that was rusted to the vehicle and
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: there was no amount of muscling it that would get
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: it off. But yeah, all of these are things that
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: if you lived alone you don't shouldn't need a partner
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: to be able to do them. But there's also a
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: history of division of labor in which the tasks around
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: the house were either primarily done by women or directed
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: by women. And when I say directed by women, I
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: mean they often hired other people if they had the
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: means to do the more laborious or menial of those tasks,
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: and just oversaw everything, planned the meals and so on.
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: But they while they were doing that, men were out working, hunting,
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: being in the military, and whatever their particular job was.
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: And before industrialization you had people doing both. If you
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: were a baker, your bakery was probably in your home,
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: not away from your home. People went to your house
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: to buy goods. You probably had a separate area set
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: up for it, but or you took your your wares
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: in a cart and went around to people with them
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: and delivered, you know, or or set up at a
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: public square. But in the meantime, everybody was at home
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: at the same time, and everybody was working together. If
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: you were a baker, your wife was a baker's assistant.
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: Your kids were probably bakery cleaners and baker's assistants. Your
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: sons would learn to be bakers, maybe your daughters would
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: learn to be bakers. So the same thing. If you
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: shod horses, or if you made armor or shoes or anything.
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: You know, it made pottery, if you were blacksmith. Everything
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: was a family affair. It didn't just involve one person.
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: But the man was still the leader of the house.
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: The husband was the leader of the house and the household,
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: and the wife was the steward of the resources. That
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: was not That was pretty much universal. So as far
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: as neutral activities are concerned, today we have a lot
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: of things that are much more neutral than historically because
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: people have a lot more time. You don't have to
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: boil your laundry. You don't have to beat rocks on
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: your laundry to get it clean right. You don't have
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: to light a fire and give a proper estimated temperature
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: to do your cooking and to keep your house warm,
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: and you know, and so on. Sorry, ladies, curse of
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: the JJ. You get shafted in the brain department. Sucks
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: to be you probably because that both is and is
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: not the case. Remember, personal agency is a person's control
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: over his own actions and his sense of connection to
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: their consequences. Personal accountability is ownership of that factor. Acceptance
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: that a person's control over his own actions makes him
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: responsible for them, and that sense of connection to their consequences.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: Means accepting that the consequences of your own choices are
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: your fault and it's your responsibility to deal with them
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: if you make And that one is just about the
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: toughest thing for women. When you think about various aspects
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: of like regular everyday life that women don't take accountability for,
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: I think probably the first thing besides besides reproductive rights,
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: I think the first thing that comes to mind is
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: the impact of their social behavior on other people. Women
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: will just just flat out hurt somebody socially and not
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: care about it, and they'll they will treat other people
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: not just like dirt under their feet, but like emotional
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: pun chin bags or emotional tissue paper, you know, or
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: emotional toilet paper, and really not consider it to be
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: any type of abuse at all. Looking in the chat,
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: there seems to be a bit of a discussion. The
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: last thing I was seeing from it is, I agree.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: What I'm saying is that unaccountability should not be an option.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: It shouldn't be an option. I think the biggest problem
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: is there's no way to cut it off. Like the
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: most that you can do is not not give people
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: back up if they're unaccountable, Like somebody doesn't take responsibility
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: for themselves. You can, you know, not pay their bills.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: You can not pull them out of a ditch, right,
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: But unless you follow them around and nag them, they
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: still have the option of failing miserably until they die
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: and yelling about it being your fault the whole time.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: Take a decision and you take accountability for that decision.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: You are taking on the responsibility to follow through with it,
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: even if having to do so becomes undesirable. So what's
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: the first thing that comes to mind when you give
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: a contract that maybe half the people that sign it
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: choose not to live up to it. I'm sure my
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: listeners have something in mind. I'm sure quite a few
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: of my listeners have been through that situation. Uh and
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: and quite a few of them have probably got scars
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: from it. And the thing that comes to my mind
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: first is marriage. Yeah, I don't know if my co
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: hosts have any stories on that before I launch into one.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 3: Parents got divorced.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: Your parents got divorced.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she did, really she did. She didn't really take
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 3: anything from my stepdad. She just she just wanted to
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 3: clean break because she wasn't I'm gonna use the Karen voice.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 3: She wasn't happy. Oh god, yes she she she So
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 3: she waited her right to his half of everything, including
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 3: his pension.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: Wow. Wow, that's unusual.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because because she was being financially swindled by somebody, somebody,
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 3: somebody else, so she thought she had somebody to monkey
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 3: bunch to.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, man, wow, that makes sense. Did did she
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: stay happy after that?
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 3: No? Because then she got so twenty eighteen, twenty and
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 3: nineteen she was loose scientist, she was starting to thin,
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 3: signs of dementia, and then twenty twenty the dementia took hold.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: So how long were they married before the divorce.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 3: They got married in ninety one.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: Okay, I graduated in high school in ninety one.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 3: So they got they got so, they got married in
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 3: They got married in Jamaica. So I was I was
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 3: six in ninety one, I think. So they got married
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 3: in Jamaica and we made it into a holiday, so
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 3: everybody kind of came out for the Redding. Uncles, aunts,
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 3: cousins that lived in Jamaica came to the reddin So yeah,
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 3: but her ex still looks after her now. So it
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 3: was a ex and her sister that started to look
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 3: after when when the dementia took her hold. But my
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 3: aunt passed away two years ago and it's just been
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 3: me and her. I've been looking after her. No of
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 3: none of the rest of the family want anything to
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 3: do with her.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: So she really screwed up her life with that one. Huh.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah. The reason her her sister had fallen out, it
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 3: was furcause of over a handbag. What it's a long story.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 3: I'll go, I will go. I will go over it
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 3: during the after show. But the gist of it is
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 3: my mom brought her, my aunt's daughter a handbag, but
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 3: she brought her uh brother a tablet, and she was
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 3: busy about that.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: Oh geez, that is that is the most petty argument.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, over over a gift.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 3: And my aunt's the type of person but to cut
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 3: off her nose to spite her face, so she got
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 3: she cut us off. After my man died and she
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 3: didn't shop again until until six years later, until she
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 3: until she passed.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 3: And then my uncle and my uncle got into with
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 3: it with a bunch of driver witnesses. Uh yeah, that
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 3: he converted.
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: Oh, they actually convinced him.
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because he was going through a divorce and he
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 3: was feeling low and that's how I got him.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. So there's another marriage contract broken. So about
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: about half in the United States, about half of marriages
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: and in divorce. I'm in the half that didn't. And
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: it's it's something that it used to be pretty normal.
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: It used to be the norm was most people would
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: be married and they would stay married. They would they
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: would stay married long enough to celebrate their their fiftieth
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: and sometimes even their seventy fifth wedding anniversaries. I was,
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: I was at family member's wedding anniversary celebrations at the
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: fifty and seventy five year marks and the big celebration.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: But because of the combination of of what the state
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: refers to as no fault divorce, which isn't no fault,
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: it's always his fault divorce, and in the fact that
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: the state mitigates every expense they can think of that
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: women might end up with because of divorce, Women divorce
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: at a very high rate, seventy percent. It's like sixty
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: nine percent of divorces are initiated by women. That's the
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: lowest number I found. There are some attorneys that says
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: high as eighty percent. It's a couple of studies that
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: say is high as eighty percent. But the most reliable
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: one that I've spotted was sixty nine percent of divorces.
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: Of the half of marriages that fail, the divorce initiator
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: is a woman. And you know, when you tell this,
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: feminists are like that many men are abusive. Well, no,
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: that's not that's not what's happening. Actually, no, no, most
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: of them are divorcing because they're not happy to use
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: the Karen voice, they're just that they don't want to
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: do the housework. They don't feel romanced, right, they don't
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: feel courted anymore, and and they've grown apart from him,
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: which basically means they haven't included him and what they're doing,
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: and they haven't tried to be included in what he's doing.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: But so instead they leave a lot of them will
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: monkey branch to another guy. Right, But even if they're
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: not doing that, they leave, and because it is his fault, divorce,
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: always his fault divorce, even when they commit adultery and leave,
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: or they're the abuser and they leave, or they just
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: decide that they're not gonna uphold this contract and they leave,
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: they get to take money and property with them. They
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: get custody of the kids. Historically, after the change in
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: law that took a primary custody away from the father,
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: women would be the primary custodial parent and the father
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: would have visitation and they had there were battles to
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: get that changed to joint custody. When joint custody was introduced,
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: the National Organization for Women wrote a letter to various
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: representatives to prevent that in every area that it was
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: trying to be introduced, and in the letter they basically
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: said that men only wanted custody of their children to
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: avoid paying child support, and that they were all deadbeats
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: and abusers. And of course, more than half of abusive
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: parents are women, and about seventy percent, give or take
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: one or two of the fatalities from mount child male
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: treatment are that are perpetrated by one parent acting without
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: the other are done by the mother.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that that was me. For the most part. She
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 3: was like very she was she just she just yelled
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 3: a lot at me and shouted at me a lot
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 3: for the most part.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: So mostly emotional.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like, that's why I can't see the
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 3: movie Michael, Yeah, because of Joe Jackson.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that that would be disturbing, it would be difficult
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: to sit through. But that it is mostly the mothers,
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: and among situations where there were you know, two or
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: more family members abusing a child, the mother is almost
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: always in the group, and it's in comparison to the father.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 3: My grandmother was nice to me, So my grandmother pretty
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 3: much too, looked after me until I was until I
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 3: was about twelve.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: Really, that sounds like a good grandmother I got.
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 3: I got the nice version of her.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: Apparently she was a little harder on other people.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Joseph built a tyrant with my with my uncle
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 3: and aunt and mom s.
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: Oh, maybe they viewed her differently because you know, maybe, uh,
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: she's she saw more need in you and more capability
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: in them and held them to a higher standard. That
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: does happen.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 3: Because she was at the hospital when when there was
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 3: like complications mm hmm. So she she she knew she
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 3: had to step up than I thoink.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: That's probably the case. That's probably the case. So yeah,
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: when it comes to accountability and relationships, there are a
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: lot of things we don't hear. There are a lot
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: of things we do here and a lot of things
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: we don't hear about how to have a successful relationship, right,
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: we don't. Usually there's there's not really a happy husband,
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: happy anything rhyme out there that that gets batted around
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: all the time. People will say, happy wife, happy life.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: I saw somebody on X I can't remember who it was,
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: uh said when when? When men parrot that, you know,
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: and it's usually conservative guys will parrot that. What you
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: what you want to ask him is when was the
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: last time you had sex? Half the time, it shuts
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: them up immediately.
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 3: They all blank. They can't yeah, yeah.
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and a lot of them can't remember.
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 2: Happy husband, angry wife.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, this is something that was actually kind of
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: is that?
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 2: Is that as true as happy wife, happy life, happy husband,
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 2: angry wife? Hey?
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: Quite often because to some degree.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 2: Women can't stand it when men are happy. Yeah.
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: Here's here's one One of the things I like to
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: do is sit and enjoy being where my husband is
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: sitting and enjoying a good meal and getting to you know,
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: have a good conversation with me, watch watch TV or whatever,
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: and just see how relaxed he can be. M m right,
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: that's very satisfying. I feel like I did a good job.
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: And so if he's relaxing, I'm happy because he's not
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: tense and he's not he doesn't look like he's worried
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: that he's he's not doing something that he should be
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: doing or anything like that. If he didn't have anything
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: to worry about, I'm happy. I don't know very many
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: women who can see their their boyfriend or their husband
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: just sit and relax and not get upset that he's
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: not working, that he's not doing something. I have like
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: two friends that are like me. They're like, if he's
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: relaxed and he's not dealing with a bunch of shit
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: and and he's just able to rest, that that's good
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: and they're happy. But most of the time, you know,
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: if I'm someplace and there's there's a husband and wife
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: and they're not away from home, right it's their home.
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: If he's just sitting and relaxing, well, why don't you
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: go do this.
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 3: Why isn't this done?
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: We have a problem the flass. It's not it's leaking
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: or it's squeaking or something, you know, And it's like
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: it's almost like there's a neuroses specifically, or neurosis specifically
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: around getting upset that he's relaxed just that. But uh,
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: you know, we get we get told all the time
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: that men have to continually work to to keep their
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: wife happy. They have to continually, you know, take her
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: out on date nights, continue to court her after they're married,
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: and everything. All the things that he did to win
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: her he has to keep doing in order to keep
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: her satisfied so she doesn't leave. But all the things
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: that she did to attract him, if you expect her
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: to continue to do those things, you're a misogynist.
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 3: I'm glad, I'm I'm glad I'm in visible to him.
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 1: At this point. I can understand that too.
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 2: Being visible to women is dangerous at this point in history.
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like an aunt being visible to a kid with
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: a magnifying glass. Mm hmm. Yournks on YouTube just gave
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: us five dollars and said comedian Patrice O'Neill said, a
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: happy man is a happy relationship. And I think so.
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 2: That's the equivalent of happy wife, happy life. And I
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 2: would like two suggest to y'all that these things are
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 2: both simultaneously true, and they can only be simultaneously true
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 2: if both things are simultaneously true, Like if both of
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: you are happy, then both of you are happy.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, is that right?
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 3: Patrisa Neil also said a guy wants a woman to
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 3: be around, but not to be around all the time.
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 3: So men want to be alone. But men that want
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 3: to be alone they want to note that you're in
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 3: the facility off of the house.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I think I think it goes both ways.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I try not to make it personal,
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 2: but I think the reason Lauren and I have been
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 2: so happy for uh h eight years, it's been about
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 2: eight years, it's because it's because we both enjoy time
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 2: to ourselves, even if we're just in separate rooms, even
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 2: if those rooms are just fifteen feet apart, Like, we
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 2: can hear each other very often. We're both doing the
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 2: same fucking livestream, and we're here. If we ever want
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 2: to come and have a kiss and a cuddle together,
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 2: we'll do that, But for most of the time we'll
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 2: be in different rooms, just doing different things. And we
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 2: love it that way because we both like having time
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 2: to ourselves. And quite often we'll be fucking three thousand
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 2: miles apart, and that kind of sucks, but it doesn't
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 2: last for a lot. It did suck during the fucking
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 2: lockdown years. Yeah, I think, and I think that only
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 2: strengthened the time that we do have together. But we've
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 2: never had a fight at what couples call a fight.
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 2: We've ever had that sort of heated argument about anything.
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 2: And I think I think it's because we just we
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 2: both like having me time and and and we're quite
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 2: happy to have me time fifteen feet apart. It's it's
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 2: it's it's that simple. Just you know, if you if
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 2: if if you've if you've filled up your mean time coffers,
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 2: then then you're together time becomes all the more precious. Yeah,
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 2: I guess it's it's easy for us because we don't
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 2: have kids, and because we're not young. Relationships are very
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 2: stressful when you're young and immature, and they're very stressful
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 2: when you have kids.
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: Well, there's there's a few years, there's a few years
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: when your kids are really little that you don't get
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: a lot of me time because your kids need all
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 1: of your time.
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 2: And so I'm not saying this too to recommend it
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 2: to other people like that. We have a unique relationship
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 2: where we're old enough that we don't give a ship
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 2: and we don't have kids, so we don't give a ship.
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 1: That helps a lot one of the things that makes
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: it easier when you have young kids and they're at
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: that age where they need to always have parents right
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: there right that where your kids don't need me time,
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 1: yet you need one on one time with your kids,
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: even if you are in a dedicated partnership with your
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: kid's other parents. Whether you're the father or the mother,
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: you need one on one time with your kids, and
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: especially if you're the father, because it takes every ounce
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 1: of self control. The mother has to not nag at
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: you to do things her way when you're parenting, and
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 1: the worst thing you can do for your child is
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: give in and do things her way. It's very important
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: that you do things your way because your way teaches
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: the child a set of lessons that's a little different
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: than what mom teaches, and your child's accountability increases because
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: of you. And it's because of this gap and the
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: fact that this gap is natural. Even your daughter's accountability
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: will be higher from me time with dad, right, one
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: on one time with dad. So when when the kid
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 1: is getting one on one time with dad, mom gets
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: me time. When the kid is getting one on one
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: time with mom, dad gets me time. Right, that's how
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 1: you do that when your kids really young, and you
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 1: know you can't make being at work that me time,
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 1: even if it's just a couple hours a week, Right,
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 1: it has to happen. And you also have to have
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: time that you spend with friends who are not part
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: of the relationship. And dad has to be able to
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 1: go out with the guys. Mom has to be able
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: to go hang out with the girls. And I don't
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 1: know about how everybody else does it, but my friends
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: were not barflies, so we usually were at one of
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: our houses when we're when we're hanging out without without
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 1: any guys around, it's not a big deal. We don't
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 1: have to go someplace. In fact, it's a lot cheaper
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: to just hang around in somebody's living room. But yeah,
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: all of these things, they're part of the marriage contract.
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: They're unwritten, they're the common sense part right that you
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: should care your whole life about your partner's happiness. It
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 1: should be paramount to you that your partner is happy,
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: whether you're the wife or the husband. But only the
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 1: husbands get told to do this, and then the wife
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 1: doesn't find joy in her husband's happiness, and then she
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 1: doesn't know where to find joy, and then she gets
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: neurotic and bored, and then she ends up doing something stupid.
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 1: And I know a few women who have said that
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 1: it's the stupidest choice they made in their whole lives,
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: including my husband's ex, and she didn't get a chance
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 1: to go back on it. So you know, it's definitely
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 1: an issue, and you are taking a chance that if
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 1: the outcome is also undesirable, you will be guilty of
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 1: causing that consequence, and it will be your responsibility to
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 1: mitigate it. That guilt can be as simple as self criticism,
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 1: or it can involve others judging you, and even penalties
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 1: should your decision lead to consequences that affect another person
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 1: that you know. When I was writing this, I had
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 1: a car accident in mind, right, but I spent most
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: of my life working two or three jobs to mitigate
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 1: mitigate the consequences. When I talk about birth control in
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 1: women controlling the outcomes of their sexual choices. It's not
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 1: because I'm judging other women. It's because I learned from
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 1: my wrongdoing and watching the impact on my children and
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 1: my husband and having limits to how much I could
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 1: mitigate the consequences they faced from my stupid choice. And
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 1: and that was just me not doing everything right with
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 1: my birth control. A lot of these women aren't even
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 1: using birth control right. And in my situation, in our situation,
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 1: it wasn't as bad as it could have been because
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 1: my husband and I had already planned, you know, we
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 1: were gonna get married, we were gonna have kids, and
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 1: it was all you know, this is in the future.
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 1: And what I basically fucked up was making the future
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 1: come too soon and we weren't financially ready for it,
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 1: and we didn't who hadn't already gotten married. So it
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 1: was my responsibility to make up for that in my
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 1: in my opinion, and even my parents parents like even
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 1: though they gave him the riot Act, even though they
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 1: when they talked to him, they acted like I hadn't
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 1: even been there for the conception, right, Just those little
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 1: happy sperm coming down the highway house when they talk
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 1: to me about it. They had a whole different attitude. Right,
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 1: He's he's gonna do what he's going to do, and
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 1: he has to do that because you put him in
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 1: this situation. What are you going to do? Are you
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 1: going to get a job, are you going to get married?
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 1: Are you going to you know, what are you going
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 1: to do about the fact that he has to already
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 1: pay child support? He's not going to be able to
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 1: support you. Are you going to demand he get another job?
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 1: And you know, we had a very difficult conversation about
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 1: that stuff. And and this was in a situation where
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 1: they thought I was physically disabled from a car accident.
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 1: Fortunately I wasn't, but it really sucked being in that situation.
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 1: Disability it isn't easy to live on when you have kids.
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 1: But in any case, that's you know, how do you
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 1: deal with I was unaccountable and now I have created
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 1: a situation that sucks for several people, and it's my fault.
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 1: You have to look at, well, what can you do
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 1: to make that situation suck less? And so that's why
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 1: that's why I worked two and three jobs for the
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 1: last thirty years pretty much because that was one way
• 1:28:42
  Speaker 1: I could make the situation not suck so much for
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 1: everybody is making sure that we weren't broke all the
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 1: time because of it. And I did not pull any
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 1: punches when I talked to the kids about this either,
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 1: because I wanted them to understand. It hurts to not
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 1: be able to protect people from the consequences of your choices.
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 1: When you make a stupid choice and other people are
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 1: getting hurt, it feels awful. If you don't want to
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 1: feel that way, think twice. Love your kids before you
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 1: before you conceive them, Love them enough to make sure
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 1: you do it at the optimum time, and not before.
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 1: Oh I see and Wowie gave us five dollars on
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 1: Rumble and said, speaking of visibility, I nearly got hit
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 1: by a woman driver the other day while I was
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 1: in the middle of her field division, about three to
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 1: five feet away. I was wearing my high visibility cap
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 1: to oh man, geez, was she on her phone? It's like,
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 1: I see women, I'm in Ohio. Okay, it's illegal to
• 1:30:01
  Speaker 1: use your phone when you're driving here. And it's not
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 1: just illegal to use your phone when you're driving here.
• 1:30:06
  Speaker 1: You can't even use hands free to call people or text.
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 1: You can't do any of that. It's illegal, right. The
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 1: most you can do is have a GPS playing, and
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 1: you're not allowed to mess with it while you're driving,
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 1: even hands free. You're not allowed to change the information
• 1:30:28
  Speaker 1: in it while you're driving. You have to pull over
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 1: and stop, put the car in park, and then you're
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 1: allowed to be on your phone.
• 1:30:40
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:30:40
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm dying of curiosity. Was she on her phone?
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 1: We also got a dollar from Roboto one two, three, four,
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 1: five sixty seven and rumbold and said, if no fighting, Mike,
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 1: how do you get to do makeup taxes?
• 1:31:00
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 1:31:01
  Speaker 1: And oh I see, and Wiley says she wasn't even
• 1:31:03
  Speaker 1: on her phone. She literally just stared at or through me.
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's awful. I'm not surprised. I wish
• 1:31:11
  Speaker 1: I could say I was, but I'm not.
• 1:31:14
  Speaker 3: I had I had, I had riven through that to me,
• 1:31:17
  Speaker 3: not the one lever pot just stare through me like
• 1:31:21
  Speaker 3: I didn't exist. I'd ask the question and they were
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 3: just blank me.
• 1:31:28
  Speaker 1: Maybe they didn't understand the answer.
• 1:31:31
  Speaker 3: That was just that we was just that was just
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 3: like there, they're just like see through me. If I
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 3: didn't like I didn't exist, jeez, she.
• 1:31:43
  Speaker 1: Was probably drunk. Yeah, probably, Well, maybe she was just female.
• 1:31:51
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I hate to do that, but I
• 1:31:54
  Speaker 1: I've actually experienced that too. I've gotten the blank stare,
• 1:31:58
  Speaker 1: and and in the younger they are the worse.
• 1:32:00
  Speaker 3: It is.
• 1:32:02
  Speaker 1: The zoomer stare. I went. I went shopping not too
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 1: long ago, and I get to the point in the transaction,
• 1:32:13
  Speaker 1: you know, where I'm supposed to pay for the stuff,
• 1:32:20
  Speaker 1: and I'm looking and the credit card thing is usually
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 1: like right out in front, and you know, I was
• 1:32:28
  Speaker 1: going to use a check card for that transaction so
• 1:32:31
  Speaker 1: and not cash, so I'm looking for it. I didn't
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 1: see it. Meanwhile, I hadn't been told my total and
• 1:32:39
  Speaker 1: there wasn't anything that showed what it was. So, you know,
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 1: I look at her and she's just giving me this
• 1:32:45
  Speaker 1: stare like I know the next step and I'm supposed
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 1: to take it without her telling me anything. It was
• 1:32:51
  Speaker 1: just like, you know, I said, is there a spot
• 1:32:55
  Speaker 1: for my card? And she goes, you have to give
• 1:32:57
  Speaker 1: it to me. I was like, well, it would have
• 1:32:59
  Speaker 1: been nice.
• 1:33:00
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 1: I didn't say anything, but it would have been nice
• 1:33:04
  Speaker 1: if she'd have said, your total is this much? I
• 1:33:07
  Speaker 1: have to swipe your card, you know, or anything at all. Hello,
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 1: I'm still alive. I did not turn into a blank
• 1:33:16
  Speaker 1: staring robot, but nope, zoomer stare I missed one by
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 1: a roboto one two, three, four, five sixty seven. Gave
• 1:33:27
  Speaker 1: us a dollar and said, doctor randomercam. How far do
• 1:33:30
  Speaker 1: you think England will go in the World Cup? It's Mike.
• 1:33:40
  Speaker 3: It's Michael, a cigarette break.
• 1:33:42
  Speaker 1: I hope he's not, but of have to ask him
• 1:33:45
  Speaker 1: when he gets back. Then I I have no idea.
• 1:33:54
  Speaker 1: Of course, there you go.
• 1:33:57
  Speaker 2: A cigarette break. Have to repeat the quick.
• 1:34:00
  Speaker 1: How far do you think England will go in the
• 1:34:04
  Speaker 1: World Cup?
• 1:34:05
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 1:34:05
  Speaker 2: The crash out by the quarterfinals at the very latest?
• 1:34:10
  Speaker 2: If if pattern recognition go towards anything, I it's not
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 2: since the nineties did I give the slightest ship about
• 1:34:21
  Speaker 2: how how England did in any of in any of
• 1:34:25
  Speaker 2: these fucking football finals. I mean, you can only have
• 1:34:30
  Speaker 2: so many disappointments before you go no, fuck it, no,
• 1:34:33
  Speaker 2: let's just let let's just let the Brazilians win every times,
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 2: such as such as the way with any sport that
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 2: England invented, it's like, yeah, no, we we're happy to
• 1:34:47
  Speaker 2: have invented this spot that that made the rest of
• 1:34:50
  Speaker 2: the world so happy. Get get good. Congratulations for getting
• 1:34:56
  Speaker 2: so good, rest of the world. I I hope you
• 1:35:00
  Speaker 2: appreciate England for inventing the sport that you will fucking
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 2: love so much. That's that's that's I'm hanging my laurels on.
• 1:35:11
  Speaker 2: That's that we did that.
• 1:35:16
  Speaker 3: I think as well.
• 1:35:21
  Speaker 1: Gave what.
• 1:35:23
  Speaker 3: England cave to at the Internet.
• 1:35:25
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well that's the case.
• 1:35:28
  Speaker 2: Well, timbaneously invented the World Wide Web. It's not quite
• 1:35:33
  Speaker 2: the same as the Internet. I think the Americans invented
• 1:35:36
  Speaker 2: the Internet.
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 1: The military invented They started out with a network that
• 1:35:45
  Speaker 1: was just on one site, but they needed something that
• 1:35:48
  Speaker 1: that could communicate, you know, across buildings, different buildings and such,
• 1:35:57
  Speaker 1: and so that's that's really why the Internet it came to.
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 2: We're communicating in the discord app, which has nothing to
• 1:36:06
  Speaker 2: do with the World Wide Web. It has its own app.
• 1:36:10
  Speaker 2: But your browser through which you find everything through w
• 1:36:17
  Speaker 2: w W dot. W w dot was invented by Tim Bernersley, englishman,
• 1:36:24
  Speaker 2: and and and and that's that's that's what you have
• 1:36:29
  Speaker 2: to thank an Englishman. Not necessarily the english people, but
• 1:36:33
  Speaker 2: you know just to some degree. It was an Englishman
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 2: who invented the World Wide Web. His name was Tim Bernersley,
• 1:36:39
  Speaker 2: and yeah, he gave it to the rest of the world.
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 2: And a lot of socialists will say, well, this is
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 2: a win for socialists because someone just invented something that
• 1:36:50
  Speaker 2: everyone can use. But yeah, the only reason is able
• 1:36:56
  Speaker 2: to to keep to keep itself above board is capitalism
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 2: because because because because we can make money from it,
• 1:37:12
  Speaker 2: we can we can make a career from it, and
• 1:37:15
  Speaker 2: that and that is largely thanks to your boy, Tim Bernersley.
• 1:37:21
  Speaker 1: Well, and it's good that that happened because the method
• 1:37:25
  Speaker 1: that that you used to access things on the Internet
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 1: before the World Wide Web, uh, would not work it
• 1:37:37
  Speaker 1: without dial up. I guess that's not entirely true, but
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 1: you basically were calling somebody's modem and getting into their
• 1:37:49
  Speaker 1: server or their computer when when you use the Internet
• 1:37:53
  Speaker 1: in the past. And so it's it's kind of why
• 1:37:59
  Speaker 1: I p addresses a lot of IP addresses look the
• 1:38:01
  Speaker 1: phone numbers, because they used to be phone numbers, not
• 1:38:06
  Speaker 1: not anymore. But but yeah, when I first started mostly
• 1:38:15
  Speaker 1: when I first started getting online, I was getting online
• 1:38:18
  Speaker 1: with a friend. She was operating the computer because it
• 1:38:22
  Speaker 1: was her dad's. And he was an educator and a
• 1:38:25
  Speaker 1: journalist of the real type of journalists where he went
• 1:38:29
  Speaker 1: and reported on he worked, worked for magazines that or
• 1:38:33
  Speaker 1: he was a stringer for magazines that published for hunters,
• 1:38:37
  Speaker 1: you know, stold things to field and stream and stuff
• 1:38:42
  Speaker 1: like that. But but yeah, and back then, if you
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 1: didn't know the the number for the place that you
• 1:38:59
  Speaker 1: wanted to connect with, you couldn't connect with it. There
• 1:39:03
  Speaker 1: was no look it up on Google and find the
• 1:39:07
  Speaker 1: the web address and all that. You just you had
• 1:39:11
  Speaker 1: to know. And a lot of times you got that
• 1:39:14
  Speaker 1: information from publications about the subjects. So if you wanted
• 1:39:19
  Speaker 1: It's like there were there were online games and there
• 1:39:24
  Speaker 1: were online forums, but if you didn't know the people
• 1:39:30
  Speaker 1: involved with a forum, you you didn't you didn't have
• 1:39:35
  Speaker 1: access to it. Bulletin board systems, yes, used net and
• 1:39:39
  Speaker 1: stuff like that as well. And uh, there were there
• 1:39:44
  Speaker 1: even later on, you know, not not that early, but
• 1:39:48
  Speaker 1: later on there were there There were MMOs. They weren't
• 1:39:53
  Speaker 1: there were no pictures, There were no video you know, games,
• 1:39:57
  Speaker 1: but there was it was text bas and uh you
• 1:40:02
  Speaker 1: could you could say what direction you were going and
• 1:40:06
  Speaker 1: it would give you a description of what you had
• 1:40:08
  Speaker 1: just walked into and what was happening, and you could
• 1:40:11
  Speaker 1: even get into battles and stuff like that. You just
• 1:40:13
  Speaker 1: had to be able to read really fast. So but yeah,
• 1:40:18
  Speaker 1: all of that, all of that, uh predated the World
• 1:40:22
  Speaker 1: Wide Web. So missed, Yeah, missed was one of them.
• 1:40:28
  Speaker 1: I played Realm's Mud, and uh, Genesis Genesis is still around.
• 1:40:34
  Speaker 1: I don't know if Realm's Mud is or not, but
• 1:40:37
  Speaker 1: I still occasionally, like I haven't had time in about
• 1:40:41
  Speaker 1: it a year close to a year, but I still
• 1:40:45
  Speaker 1: occasionally play Genesis. It's just fun. It's it's a there's
• 1:40:50
  Speaker 1: a lot of puzzles in it, and you can find it.
• 1:40:55
  Speaker 1: It's not that hard to find if you you can
• 1:40:58
  Speaker 1: Google search it and find it now Genesis Mud. Anyway,
• 1:41:05
  Speaker 1: we will get back to this for just a minute.
• 1:41:08
  Speaker 1: That means personal accountability is a type of personal risk. Aha.
• 1:41:15
  Speaker 1: Another bit of information long discussed in the men's rights
• 1:41:18
  Speaker 1: movement is the fact often noted in the writings of
• 1:41:21
  Speaker 1: evolutionary psychology researchers that likely because of the biological characteristics
• 1:41:26
  Speaker 1: that make human females smaller on average, less physically strong,
• 1:41:30
  Speaker 1: and more vulnerable to physical threats, especially while pregnant women
• 1:41:34
  Speaker 1: are more risk averse than men. So that's a big one, right.
• 1:41:42
  Speaker 1: This is what makes the accountability gap biological, even though
• 1:41:47
  Speaker 1: ginocentrism is not. It's a big risk to take on
• 1:41:55
  Speaker 1: ownership of the consequences of your actions, especially if you're
• 1:42:01
  Speaker 1: taking on ownership of the consequences other people face from
• 1:42:06
  Speaker 1: your actions and deciding that it's your obligation to mitigate
• 1:42:12
  Speaker 1: those consequences for those people because they didn't ask for that.
• 1:42:18
  Speaker 1: You end up in a situation where, you know, because
• 1:42:22
  Speaker 1: you made one wrong step or didn't make one right step,
• 1:42:30
  Speaker 1: you suddenly have obligations that are going to take a
• 1:42:33
  Speaker 1: huge chunk of your time or a huge chunk of
• 1:42:36
  Speaker 1: your effort, or you're going to have to do something
• 1:42:39
  Speaker 1: that you're maybe a little averse to doing, you know,
• 1:42:42
  Speaker 1: or things like that. This is when you're in an accident,
• 1:42:48
  Speaker 1: a car accident, like if you run somebody down in
• 1:42:50
  Speaker 1: the middle of the road because you weren't paying attention
• 1:42:52
  Speaker 1: or he was invisible because he was a man, you
• 1:42:56
  Speaker 1: end up with hospital bills that you can be forced
• 1:42:58
  Speaker 1: to pay. Accountability is taking on the understanding that it's
• 1:43:04
  Speaker 1: my fault if I'm not paying attention when I'm driving
• 1:43:08
  Speaker 1: and I hurt somebody, and women are naturally less likely
• 1:43:20
  Speaker 1: to want to take on that level of risk. Women
• 1:43:27
  Speaker 1: are naturally more likely to decide, fuck it, I'm not
• 1:43:33
  Speaker 1: doing that well. When it comes to accountability, then they
• 1:43:38
  Speaker 1: don't want to admit they're wrong. They don't want to
• 1:43:41
  Speaker 1: admit they made a mistake. They don't want to admit
• 1:43:44
  Speaker 1: they can make mistakes, and they don't want to admit
• 1:43:46
  Speaker 1: it's their fault if somebody else suffers. So, if you
• 1:43:51
  Speaker 1: choose not to use your birth control and you have
• 1:43:56
  Speaker 1: a baby, and you decide to keep the baby and
• 1:44:00
  Speaker 1: custody of the baby, and you don't do what it
• 1:44:04
  Speaker 1: takes to support that child financially, and your partner that
• 1:44:10
  Speaker 1: you had that baby with now has a child support bill,
• 1:44:16
  Speaker 1: a woman doesn't want to feel bad because that guy
• 1:44:19
  Speaker 1: now has two thirds of his income being confiscated by
• 1:44:24
  Speaker 1: the state and sent to her. She wants to feel
• 1:44:27
  Speaker 1: self righteous about it. She wants to feel like she
• 1:44:30
  Speaker 1: was in the right and he was in the wrong,
• 1:44:33
  Speaker 1: and never is she in the wrong for such a choice,
• 1:44:39
  Speaker 1: And so she will not take accountability. Women will dodge
• 1:44:42
  Speaker 1: accountability like it's trying to kill them or rape them
• 1:44:49
  Speaker 1: and then kill them, right, and that's that's the issue.
• 1:44:58
  Speaker 1: So will I think we'll stop here. There's I can
• 1:45:03
  Speaker 1: that going forward, there will be some evidence to back
• 1:45:07
  Speaker 1: up the uh, the risk taking gap. It's not a
• 1:45:13
  Speaker 1: solid gap, by the way. It's like two parallel lines
• 1:45:16
  Speaker 1: where where the male line is a little bit higher
• 1:45:19
  Speaker 1: and then there's a lot of overlap and the bottom
• 1:45:22
  Speaker 1: of the female line is lower than the bottom of
• 1:45:24
  Speaker 1: the male line and the top of the female line
• 1:45:26
  Speaker 1: is lower than the top of the male line.
• 1:45:28
  Speaker 3: Uh.
• 1:45:29
  Speaker 1: That's that's more the way the risk taking gap is.
• 1:45:32
  Speaker 1: The accountability gap is similar. But h but we'll get
• 1:45:37
  Speaker 1: into that next week. In the meantime, I don't think
• 1:45:42
  Speaker 1: I have any other super chows, no other super chats,
• 1:45:48
  Speaker 1: and no other rumble rants. So anybody else have any
• 1:45:51
  Speaker 1: last statements on this? No, I can't wait to watch
• 1:45:56
  Speaker 1: the rest of the video. I've got yours now. Huh Yeah,
• 1:46:02
  Speaker 1: this is good, good stuff. Poor woman's heads on.
• 1:46:06
  Speaker 2: I just hope we're here for next week's episode. We
• 1:46:09
  Speaker 2: might be a bit late, okay, because because because next
• 1:46:13
  Speaker 2: week I will I will be arriving at Newark Airport
• 1:46:19
  Speaker 2: about one o'clock, and and and and that gives us
• 1:46:26
  Speaker 2: a few hours to return home. So Lauren and I
• 1:46:30
  Speaker 2: might be a bit late next week. Okay, only only
• 1:46:33
  Speaker 2: a little bit. Maybe, it depends how long it takes
• 1:46:37
  Speaker 2: us to get to Newark Airport and back.
• 1:46:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, driving, you don't need to.
• 1:46:46
  Speaker 2: No, it's it's I think it's New York.
• 1:46:50
  Speaker 1: No, that's Jersey, Yeah it is.
• 1:46:53
  Speaker 2: It's about the same it's about the same distance as JFK.
• 1:46:57
  Speaker 2: But yeah, well, going to have it's going to be
• 1:47:02
  Speaker 2: a tight timeframe, so we might be like half an
• 1:47:04
  Speaker 2: hour maybe an hour late next week. There you don't
• 1:47:09
  Speaker 2: need to cancel the show, but Lauren and I might
• 1:47:11
  Speaker 2: be a little bit late, depending on the traffic.
• 1:47:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:47:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well I guess well.
• 1:47:19
  Speaker 2: I'll be back in the USA this time next week.
• 1:47:24
  Speaker 1: That'll be awesome. Yep. And I'm still working on like
• 1:47:30
  Speaker 1: what date to do the mixed up meet up. I
• 1:47:34
  Speaker 1: have seen some messages in the chat, but I haven't
• 1:47:38
  Speaker 1: seen very many people talking about, you know, what days
• 1:47:41
  Speaker 1: are going to be good for them. So we're probably
• 1:47:44
  Speaker 1: looking at the end of August. And therefore, because we're
• 1:47:48
  Speaker 1: in Ohio, it'll have to be an indoor thing, and
• 1:47:52
  Speaker 1: if it's going to be an indoor thing, I think
• 1:47:55
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna have to I was going to try
• 1:47:57
  Speaker 1: to do it farther east, you know, like in eastern
• 1:48:01
  Speaker 1: Ohio instead of western Ohio, but I don't think I can.
• 1:48:05
  Speaker 1: I don't want to try to arrange something with a
• 1:48:08
  Speaker 1: business halfway or more across the state in the middle
• 1:48:13
  Speaker 1: of everything that's going on here. So I'll look for
• 1:48:16
  Speaker 1: something in the Dayton metro area again and and we'll
• 1:48:20
  Speaker 1: have to go do it that way. So probably around
• 1:48:23
  Speaker 1: the end of August, worst comes to worst, it'll be
• 1:48:26
  Speaker 1: like the first weekend in September. But I'd rather do
• 1:48:33
  Speaker 1: it before September, since you're going back in September, right
• 1:48:39
  Speaker 1: about halfway through seventeenth.
• 1:48:42
  Speaker 2: Seventeenth is when I returned here.
• 1:48:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I don't want to be cutting it too close.
• 1:48:47
  Speaker 2: Have we figured out when the next BAT meetup is?
• 1:48:50
  Speaker 1: I should that's the one that I'm I should be.
• 1:48:53
  Speaker 2: Offking Allison, Alison, are you listening? Are we doing the chat?
• 1:48:57
  Speaker 1: That she might want to focus on the mix up
• 1:49:00
  Speaker 1: meet up just because of the timing and everything, So
• 1:49:08
  Speaker 1: that might be it. So in the in the meetup,
• 1:49:12
  Speaker 1: if you're if you're on our discord and then looking
• 1:49:15
  Speaker 1: to meet up, chat and uh leave me some feedback.
• 1:49:19
  Speaker 1: But aside from that, I will thank everybody for listening,
• 1:49:23
  Speaker 1: and thanks to all my co hosts for talking about
• 1:49:26
  Speaker 1: this weird issue with me, and thanks very much to
• 1:49:30
  Speaker 1: Brian for working in the background to make it all
• 1:49:32
  Speaker 1: happen in goodnight all