Latest / Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge / The Twot Seat: DREW SIDORA (RHOA)
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod, which Teddy Mellencamp and cam
- 0:06Speaker 1: Ri Jeedge.
- 0:15Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episosode of two Teas in
- 0:18Speaker 2: a Pod.
- 0:19Speaker 3: But it's just one tea today. Andrew Sedora.
- 0:22Speaker 2: She is obviously one of the breakout stars from Real
- 0:28Speaker 2: Housewives of Atlanta.
- 0:30Speaker 3: She is an actress and a singer.
- 0:31Speaker 2: She is known for her occurring role as Sean Tell
- 0:34Speaker 2: in the Disney Channel original series That's So Raven that
- 0:37Speaker 2: we were all obsessed with, as Lucy Avila in the
- 0:41Speaker 2: two thousand and six films Step Up, and as Tiona
- 0:45Speaker 2: Watkins in the VH one TLC biographical film Crazy Sexy Cool.
- 0:50Speaker 3: She has a.
- 0:52Speaker 2: Movie coming out, The Vicious Murder. It's coming out on
- 0:55Speaker 2: TV today, So I'm going to talk to her all
- 0:58Speaker 2: things her new movie dropping, and all of the delicious
- 1:01Speaker 2: tea that we need because it's been a minute since
- 1:05Speaker 2: I have talked to Drew, and I have a lot
- 1:08Speaker 2: of questions.
- 1:09Speaker 4: Hey girl, Hey, what's up?
- 1:12Speaker 3: You look beautiful?
- 1:14Speaker 1: How my girl doing over your city? I know I
- 1:18Speaker 1: should be next to you. We should be drinking espresso martinis.
- 1:20Speaker 2: I know that we have a lot of shit. We
- 1:22Speaker 2: need to be handling right now. I miss you. I
- 1:25Speaker 2: thought I was going to see you last night.
- 1:27Speaker 4: Missed you. You got in and got out.
- 1:30Speaker 3: Uh so you were there too, I did.
- 1:32Speaker 1: I took pictures with Karen and Cynthia, but I think
- 1:34Speaker 1: I just missed you and Kyle.
- 1:36Speaker 2: Yeah, we left and then let me you want to
- 1:39Speaker 2: hear some teas?
- 1:41Speaker 3: So we left.
- 1:41Speaker 2: You know, we were because we got there early because
- 1:43Speaker 2: Kyle was being honored. For those of you guys that
- 1:45Speaker 2: don't know, it was us weekly event last night and
- 1:49Speaker 2: Kyle Richards is Reality Star of the Year.
- 1:53Speaker 3: She's the cover galon.
- 1:54Speaker 2: Then there's a bunch of featured housewives inside and people
- 1:56Speaker 2: from the valley. So like pretty much it was filled
- 1:59Speaker 2: with brav Bravo lebs if you will. But so everybody's there,
- 2:05Speaker 2: you know, like people are coming in. I got really
- 2:07Speaker 2: excited to see Jane from Love Island.
- 2:10Speaker 3: Have you ever did you meet her?
- 2:13Speaker 4: I feel like, I mean, it's like two different parties
- 2:15Speaker 4: going on.
- 2:15Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 2:17Speaker 2: But then afterwards we went to Craigs and went to dinner,
- 2:22Speaker 2: and so like we're sitting in the court, I'm with
- 2:24Speaker 2: Kyle and a couple of our non television friends, yes,
- 2:28Speaker 2: and we're hanging out and I see like some people
- 2:30Speaker 2: from the valley and at the table next to us,
- 2:33Speaker 2: say hi to them, and then I just.
- 2:35Speaker 3: Go to walk to the red room.
- 2:37Speaker 2: I'm not realizing there's another table filled of housewives.
- 2:41Speaker 3: So at this table is Uba, Aaron.
- 2:47Speaker 2: Raquel, the new chick from New York, Garcel Sutton, and
- 2:53Speaker 2: Heather Dubrow. Yeah, but so everyone's super friendly. I introduced
- 2:59Speaker 2: myself to Requal because I've never met her. Everybody else
- 3:01Speaker 2: it's like Hi, Hi, Hi, you know who wouldn't even
- 3:04Speaker 2: look up and say hello.
- 3:07Speaker 4: Garcel, you're lying to me now.
- 3:10Speaker 2: I'm like, I have not been on the show for years,
- 3:14Speaker 2: Like this was her face the.
- 3:15Speaker 4: Whole time Garco plays no games? Do you hear me?
- 3:20Speaker 4: I will? She is what she's done, She's done.
- 3:25Speaker 3: But I'm like, hold on, you're done because you called me.
- 3:28Speaker 2: A nat like I And at this point I was
- 3:31Speaker 2: like whatever, and like I have a live show coming
- 3:34Speaker 2: up with Heather Dubrow and all these people. So then
- 3:36Speaker 2: when we left, I was like, obviously not going to
- 3:38Speaker 2: go back over to the table and say goodbye because
- 3:40Speaker 2: that's freaking weird.
- 3:42Speaker 4: So I text everybody got shaded now. Yeah.
- 3:46Speaker 3: So then I texted Heather Dubro. I'm like, hold on,
- 3:48Speaker 3: what did I say?
- 3:48Speaker 2: Oh, just because I was like, I don't want her
- 3:51Speaker 2: to think I'm mad at her, So I texted her, uh,
- 3:55Speaker 2: I said, hey, sorry, I didn't say goodbye. Some people
- 3:58Speaker 2: over there don't like me, so wanted to save them
- 4:01Speaker 2: the trouble of ignoring me.
- 4:02Speaker 3: But I'll see you in a couple of weeks.
- 4:06Speaker 4: Was t we need to have a conversation.
- 4:10Speaker 1: We need to get to the bottom of these feelings,
- 4:12Speaker 1: you know, because I know that look like Garcelle, her
- 4:15Speaker 1: looks as a million things, like she don't even have
- 4:18Speaker 1: to say anything at all.
- 4:19Speaker 2: You can feel it, I know. And I was like,
- 4:23Speaker 2: at the end of the day, I really don't. Yeah,
- 4:26Speaker 2: you know how it is you recap this show with me?
- 4:28Speaker 2: Like we all talk about shit. You're we go from
- 4:31Speaker 2: week to week on who our favorite is. I mean,
- 4:33Speaker 2: sometimes you're my favorite and sometimes like Drew's a disaster
- 4:36Speaker 2: right now.
- 4:38Speaker 4: And you text me, you call me out on it.
- 4:40Speaker 3: I know, I'm like, girl, what the hell happened last night?
- 4:43Speaker 4: It is a tough week, girl, let me tell you
- 4:45Speaker 4: about it.
- 4:46Speaker 2: No.
- 4:46Speaker 1: I learned that, like I was on the carpet last
- 4:49Speaker 1: night talking about bring Charia Marlow back, and I'm like,
- 4:52Speaker 1: does somebody give me like a drink or something like
- 4:54Speaker 1: what hut me out of my mouth right now?
- 4:56Speaker 4: You know?
- 4:58Speaker 1: But like depending on what the type of season you have,
- 5:01Speaker 1: you start to see the good in the what was
- 5:03Speaker 1: bad and it's not so bad no more because you're
- 5:04Speaker 1: dealing with new shit.
- 5:05Speaker 4: Like it's it's definitely an eban a flow. It's a
- 5:07Speaker 4: roller coaster.
- 5:08Speaker 1: I'm learning it now, and I'm learning to just like
- 5:09Speaker 1: go with it and not like hold those grudges, you know.
- 5:13Speaker 1: So when you say that about Garcell, I'm like, after
- 5:16Speaker 1: all these years, I kind of like let things go
- 5:18Speaker 1: because it's so much new shit that happens. I'm like,
- 5:20Speaker 1: all right, that doesn't even mean nothing anymore.
- 5:22Speaker 4: That's how I felt like.
- 5:23Speaker 2: I was like, oh, well, I'll just be able to
- 5:24Speaker 2: say hey and she'll say hey, and like we don't
- 5:27Speaker 2: have to give each other a fake compliment and a
- 5:29Speaker 2: one what Like you can just be.
- 5:31Speaker 4: Like hey, yeah, hey bitch, Hey, hey.
- 5:34Speaker 3: I think you suck, Like I would have rather that.
- 5:38Speaker 4: You want to know something crazy, what?
- 5:41Speaker 1: So one of the girls that was on season before
- 5:46Speaker 1: last I think She was on season fourteen or fifteen.
- 5:49Speaker 4: She was a friend of the show of Atlanta.
- 5:52Speaker 1: Of Atlanta, she came on as Charrei's friend and she
- 5:57Speaker 1: came for me and my marriage and her name for two.
- 6:02Speaker 3: Oh yeah.
- 6:03Speaker 4: He actually DMed me not too long ago and like
- 6:08Speaker 4: send me an apology.
- 6:10Speaker 1: What I know, And I'm like, well, let me talk
- 6:12Speaker 1: about it, because I was like, see that. It got
- 6:16Speaker 1: my attention because I'm like, see, that's a testament to
- 6:19Speaker 1: how we can have our moments. Although I don't like
- 6:21Speaker 1: and don't agree what she did, but the fact that
- 6:23Speaker 1: she was woman enough to reach out, I know that
- 6:25Speaker 1: wasn't easy for her, and so I did appreciate it.
- 6:29Speaker 1: So I hearted the message.
- 6:31Speaker 3: You know, Oh you hearted it. That's a bad somebody
- 6:35Speaker 3: on Red Drew.
- 6:38Speaker 4: I hearted the message. I read it, and I actually
- 6:41Speaker 4: hearted it. You know. I didn't say anything else, but
- 6:44Speaker 4: I just felt.
- 6:45Speaker 2: Like, you're gonna acknowledge that you saw it, thank you.
- 6:49Speaker 3: You're not gonna say like, oh, I appreciate it. So
- 6:54Speaker 3: if you ran into her at Craigs, you'd say hi.
- 6:56Speaker 1: And That's what I'm saying, you know, to your point,
- 6:59Speaker 1: like I don't have to, you know, carry that like energy.
- 7:04Speaker 4: You know, I don't have to do the most either.
- 7:05Speaker 1: We don't gonna be like, oh my god, girl, let's
- 7:07Speaker 1: go for drink blah blah blah. But it was just
- 7:09Speaker 1: like a nicety you know what I mean, And that's
- 7:12Speaker 1: what it's about. I was like, well, that's a whole
- 7:15Speaker 1: new day. You know what we have come from, like
- 7:18Speaker 1: here we are. You never know what the future holds
- 7:20Speaker 1: when you're in like this.
- 7:22Speaker 2: Yes, well I think it also is you know, you're
- 7:26Speaker 2: you're a housewife. But I think you have to sometimes
- 7:29Speaker 2: think about how those friends feel when they come on.
- 7:31Speaker 2: And very few, I mean, we can count on one
- 7:34Speaker 2: hand how many people started as friends and get promoted
- 7:37Speaker 2: to housewives. So sometimes they come in and they do
- 7:41Speaker 2: shit that they probably wouldn't have necessarily done in real
- 7:46Speaker 2: life because they're like, hold on, I want to hold
- 7:49Speaker 2: that peach or that orange or that mohido or whatever
- 7:52Speaker 2: that starts like that.
- 7:55Speaker 1: They come in for a moment. They come in and
- 7:56Speaker 1: do the most and it's like just be you girl, like,
- 7:59Speaker 1: don't feel like you got to come. And I don't
- 8:01Speaker 1: know why everyone feels like the recipe is to come
- 8:03Speaker 1: for me.
- 8:04Speaker 2: Well, because I think why people come for you. Is
- 8:08Speaker 2: because you're so likable in general, and when people do
- 8:13Speaker 2: you don't you hold your own. But you're not like
- 8:17Speaker 2: scary back, you know what I mean, Like I haven't
- 8:22Speaker 2: really seen you lose your I mean, I'm trying to
- 8:24Speaker 2: go back to all the seasons, but like the person
- 8:27Speaker 2: you've lost it on the most right, it's probably Ralph.
- 8:32Speaker 1: Oh my god, I want to tell you see so bad.
- 8:34Speaker 1: But we're gonna get into it like every Sunday because
- 8:37Speaker 1: it's so.
- 8:37Speaker 4: Manything I want to say.
- 8:39Speaker 2: Let's talk about some positives. Uh, Vicious Murder is out
- 8:42Speaker 2: on to be today. Tell me a little bit about
- 8:45Speaker 2: this movie, how you got into it? What the you know,
- 8:48Speaker 2: just give us what we what we're gonna get when
- 8:51Speaker 2: we watch this movie, because you know I.
- 8:53Speaker 1: Well as you know as us actress girls, right, my
- 8:57Speaker 1: fellow has been it is so good. We can get
- 9:01Speaker 1: back in our space. You know, it's like we play
- 9:06Speaker 1: in the reality realm. But like this is my first
- 9:08Speaker 1: love obviously, this is my foundations where I come from.
- 9:10Speaker 1: So to come back as like the leading lady in
- 9:13Speaker 1: this amazing epic thriller, it was so magical. Shout out
- 9:17Speaker 1: to Christokes who directed the film. He is so freaking magical,
- 9:22Speaker 1: like he shoots beautifully and so even though it's a
- 9:25Speaker 1: thriller and horror and all that, I can tell you
- 9:28Speaker 1: it's beautifully shot. It is a very intelligent and smart
- 9:32Speaker 1: and strategic film because you're not gonna watch it and
- 9:34Speaker 1: think you have it figured out.
- 9:36Speaker 2: I was gonna say, I always figure it out. Am
- 9:39Speaker 2: I gonna figure it out?
- 9:40Speaker 4: You're not gonna figure it out. You're not, I promise you.
- 9:43Speaker 1: Because even me, I had to read the script a
- 9:45Speaker 1: couple of times. I was like, wait, what, You're not
- 9:49Speaker 1: gonna scream at the at the TV going.
- 9:50Speaker 4: Now, why did you do that? Like, come on girl.
- 9:53Speaker 1: It's literally like one of those smart films where you're like, wow,
- 9:56Speaker 1: this could happen to any one of us, that's how
- 9:58Speaker 1: good it is.
- 9:59Speaker 4: And it's I was.
- 10:00Speaker 1: Doing stunt work. I mean, it's twisting turns, it's a
- 10:04Speaker 1: roller coaster ride. They footage Family, my new footage Film's Family.
- 10:08Speaker 1: They go number one, like on two B all the time.
- 10:10Speaker 1: So I'm just here putting the.
- 10:12Speaker 4: Word out of on everyone to get their popcorn. Watch it,
- 10:15Speaker 4: stream it. You'll probably watch it a couple of times.
- 10:18Speaker 1: But we actually did an early drop, so today's official
- 10:21Speaker 1: release date, but we dropped it early for the fans,
- 10:23Speaker 1: so it actually released yesterday. So people have been dming
- 10:26Speaker 1: me because they got a start on it, and people
- 10:29Speaker 1: are like, I've watched it three times.
- 10:30Speaker 4: I'm like, all right, girl, well explain it to me
- 10:33Speaker 4: a little bit.
- 10:34Speaker 2: Just because I'm not the best with electronics. Is there
- 10:37Speaker 2: anything special that you have to do to watch a
- 10:40Speaker 2: movie on two B are? You just download it onto
- 10:43Speaker 2: your Apple and then you then you stream it?
- 10:46Speaker 3: Do we pay for it? How does it go?
- 10:49Speaker 4: Super? Easy?
- 10:50Speaker 1: I mean I have it in my hotel room, so
- 10:52Speaker 1: I'm like, super you download the app and you stream
- 10:56Speaker 1: it right from the uh from the two B app,
- 10:59Speaker 1: It's like, so use it friendly and that's pretty much it.
- 11:02Speaker 3: And then who are the two who are your two
- 11:04Speaker 3: co stars?
- 11:05Speaker 4: Uh? So Mesika she plays my beautiful lovely sister. Hazel
- 11:09Speaker 4: E is in it.
- 11:10Speaker 1: Remane Norris is in the film. Marcus Houston's executive produced.
- 11:16Speaker 1: Shout out to Marcus Houston. Why I need a Stokes?
- 11:19Speaker 1: Like I said, Christokes is our amazing director.
- 11:22Speaker 2: Did you film anything in Candy's bedroom?
- 11:27Speaker 4: Not since the past.
- 11:29Speaker 1: I'll keep you posting if we do a past too
- 11:31Speaker 1: and I end up back in her bedroom.
- 11:34Speaker 4: But no, that was freakish, But I love it.
- 11:38Speaker 1: Like people loved it right, like everybody wants to see
- 11:41Speaker 1: Candy in Todd's bedroom.
- 11:43Speaker 3: I mean I did, I did. I loved it. I mean,
- 11:50Speaker 3: truth be told. My podcast room.
- 11:52Speaker 2: There's a lall here, but then right next to it
- 11:54Speaker 2: is my bedroom. So whenever guests come into my house,
- 11:57Speaker 2: I'm like, here's my podcastroom, but first let's walk by
- 12:00Speaker 2: my unmade bed.
- 12:01Speaker 4: I love it. You don't make up the bed every morning,
- 12:04Speaker 4: You're not one of those people.
- 12:05Speaker 2: No, I really, I mean I did today, but it
- 12:10Speaker 2: was only because it was like, you know, yeah those days. Okay,
- 12:17Speaker 2: would you compare this film at all to your to
- 12:20Speaker 2: what's going on with yourself and your love life? Ooh?
- 12:24Speaker 4: You know me so well, I feel like I'm cheating.
- 12:26Speaker 1: I literally just said I was on KTLA this morning
- 12:30Speaker 1: and they showed a clip and I was like, art
- 12:33Speaker 1: imitates life.
- 12:34Speaker 4: Mm hm, you know a lot of times.
- 12:37Speaker 1: So yeah, I definitely tapped into my character Riley because.
- 12:41Speaker 4: I'm like, well, Dann like I could pull from it.
- 12:44Speaker 1: You know, she's a woman going through uh a not
- 12:47Speaker 1: so good marriage and possibly you know, gonna end it,
- 12:52Speaker 1: and she's debating on those things. There's been some infidelity
- 12:55Speaker 1: and you know that type of thing that we have
- 12:58Speaker 1: seen me go through, but the levels that she goes
- 13:03Speaker 1: to is beyond me.
- 13:04Speaker 3: It's it would it would lead you to jail.
- 13:07Speaker 1: It would lead like, hey girl, I would be herself
- 13:11Speaker 1: mad because I would you know what I mean, Like
- 13:14Speaker 1: it goes there. So it's obviously, you know, the worst
- 13:18Speaker 1: possible case scenario, but it does happen, you know what
- 13:22Speaker 1: I mean. But like I said, it's a lot of
- 13:23Speaker 1: twist and turns. It's gonna keep you guessing. It's very suspenseful,
- 13:27Speaker 1: like heart racing.
- 13:28Speaker 4: So get your popcorn.
- 13:31Speaker 2: I'm excited because you know, I don't do ship on
- 13:34Speaker 2: a Friday night and I need a good movie to watch,
- 13:36Speaker 2: and this is gonna be it.
- 13:37Speaker 3: So thank you, thank you.
- 13:47Speaker 2: Speaking of Candy a little bit, did you miss her
- 13:51Speaker 2: this season?
- 13:53Speaker 4: Honestly, I ain't gonna I missed everybody. I was like,
- 13:58Speaker 4: oh no, on what season is there? You know, it
- 14:02Speaker 4: was a lot that happened this season, and I was
- 14:08Speaker 4: more entertained the season before.
- 14:11Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was a lot of craziness that happened,
- 14:14Speaker 1: and I really miss Kenya this season.
- 14:16Speaker 3: I know that my heart breaks about this whole situation.
- 14:20Speaker 2: And something that I'm I'm a little and I don't
- 14:22Speaker 2: know if you're allowed to speak about it, and I'm
- 14:24Speaker 2: sure we'll get into it once the show airs, But
- 14:27Speaker 2: I'm a little bit confused about the poster board because
- 14:32Speaker 2: I thought it was just a face with like a.
- 14:34Speaker 3: Drawn on penis? Okay, am I inaccurate in that?
- 14:43Speaker 1: I don't know if it was drawn on. I have
- 14:46Speaker 1: thought it could have all been AI. I mean, I
- 14:49Speaker 1: don't no one really knows what we were looking at,
- 14:52Speaker 1: to be completely honest.
- 14:53Speaker 4: So that's kind of been the whole drama of it all.
- 14:59Speaker 3: Do you think this is something she can come back from?
- 15:02Speaker 4: Listen this whole situation. I'm like, aren't we on Housewives?
- 15:07Speaker 1: Like have we not seen other franchises in the years
- 15:10Speaker 1: before us do some of the most outlandish things? Isn't
- 15:13Speaker 1: that what we kind of sign up for? Like I've
- 15:16Speaker 1: been through the mud, I feel like like, yeah, like
- 15:20Speaker 1: all bets were off in my situation.
- 15:21Speaker 4: So I don't know, you know, and I'm not.
- 15:26Speaker 1: Suggesting that I support, you know, people being exposed in
- 15:30Speaker 1: anyway but my thing is if this is what you
- 15:32Speaker 1: were a part of, you need to own it and
- 15:34Speaker 1: live in your truth and be you unapologetically, and then
- 15:37Speaker 1: if you're caught up in some things, own it. Like
- 15:40Speaker 1: I've literally, and I'm speaking to myself, I've had to
- 15:43Speaker 1: own some things. I've had to apologize. I've been upset,
- 15:46Speaker 1: you know, I have acted out a character, and so
- 15:50Speaker 1: I just feel like, since when do we, you know,
- 15:54Speaker 1: get fired or suspended or put on pause for doing
- 15:58Speaker 1: our job.
- 15:59Speaker 4: That's just my.
- 16:00Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think sometimes this is where Housewives
- 16:03Speaker 2: is losing the plot at this point, Like this should
- 16:06Speaker 2: be for entertainment. People are shit talkers, People do shit,
- 16:10Speaker 2: They regret, they you know, they gossip, They.
- 16:14Speaker 3: All of it.
- 16:15Speaker 2: And it's like you either want that or you don't.
- 16:17Speaker 2: Like no offense to anybody, but like love all the kids,
- 16:21Speaker 2: love my own, but like I'm not that interested to
- 16:24Speaker 2: see you guys make chicken nuggets or whatever we're gonna do,
- 16:27Speaker 2: you know, like whenever they're like Teddy, can you go
- 16:30Speaker 2: to the fridge and pourrier juice for the kids and
- 16:33Speaker 2: make small talk? Like I'm like, this is this is lovely.
- 16:36Speaker 2: I'm glad this exists. But like, that's not why I
- 16:39Speaker 2: watched the show.
- 16:40Speaker 4: Go to TLC.
- 16:43Speaker 1: I can tell you I've never eaten so many chicken
- 16:45Speaker 1: and waffles in all my life. Okay, I said, I'm
- 16:50Speaker 1: eating another chicken and waffle.
- 16:52Speaker 4: Okay, it's cute, and let me tell you they were tasty.
- 16:55Speaker 1: Okay, But like like you said, this is which I
- 16:58Speaker 1: want to see.
- 16:59Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, here we go again.
- 17:02Speaker 2: But what else I need to know? Is Ralph really
- 17:04Speaker 2: living with you in the basement?
- 17:06Speaker 4: Oh? Him downstairs? Is him downstairs? He's downstairs? And but
- 17:15Speaker 4: why it was a court order? It was a court order.
- 17:22Speaker 4: So the judge said, so you know, that's the way
- 17:25Speaker 4: that we have to go.
- 17:27Speaker 3: You're co parenting.
- 17:29Speaker 1: We're co parenting, and yeah, we are. Still I'm learning
- 17:36Speaker 1: so much going through a divorce now. It is like
- 17:38Speaker 1: a business negotiation.
- 17:40Speaker 4: So because we.
- 17:41Speaker 1: Do have assets and we have a lot of things
- 17:44Speaker 1: that we were able to build between the booth of us,
- 17:46Speaker 1: we're having to negotiate terms and separate those things properly.
- 17:50Speaker 1: And when people want to fight for things that aren't theres,
- 17:56Speaker 1: you know, I got to stand on business and protect
- 17:59Speaker 1: my and so.
- 18:02Speaker 4: That's what we're doing. So it's a.
- 18:04Speaker 1: It's a back and forth thing for now until we
- 18:06Speaker 1: agree on terms.
- 18:08Speaker 3: And how is the co parenting going together?
- 18:13Speaker 1: You know, I can honestly say I think it's getting better.
- 18:18Speaker 4: I think it's getting better.
- 18:19Speaker 1: I think because I was ordered to leave the house
- 18:23Speaker 1: on certain days and he's ordered to leave the premises
- 18:25Speaker 1: certain days, and he's in the basement and I have
- 18:28Speaker 1: the main, you know level and upper level. It's put
- 18:31Speaker 1: separation between us. So it's like a reset, right So
- 18:35Speaker 1: every day is not the best obviously, but I think
- 18:38Speaker 1: co parenting it's probably our best area right now because
- 18:42Speaker 1: it makes you really focus on what's important, which are
- 18:44Speaker 1: the kids. That's it, that's all that matters, and that's
- 18:48Speaker 1: what we're working towards.
- 18:49Speaker 2: And correct me if I'm wrong. But did he end
- 18:51Speaker 2: up going through the adoption of your son or did
- 18:57Speaker 2: he formally adopt him or no? No, so that book
- 19:02Speaker 2: and all that.
- 19:05Speaker 4: Yeah, no, that that season.
- 19:08Speaker 1: You know, he basically said he wasn't going to And
- 19:13Speaker 1: that's when my mom and I were like.
- 19:14Speaker 4: Wait, but you said you.
- 19:15Speaker 1: Were and that was the only reason, Like I never
- 19:18Speaker 1: And I want to clear that up too, because I
- 19:19Speaker 1: think people really probably didn't understand the story because people
- 19:22Speaker 1: were like coming at me about like begging him to
- 19:26Speaker 1: adopt Josiah, and that was never the case.
- 19:30Speaker 4: He came to my mom.
- 19:31Speaker 1: And I like surprised, this is something that I want
- 19:34Speaker 1: to do. And at that point, like my mom and
- 19:36Speaker 1: I were in tears because obviously that's a major step,
- 19:39Speaker 1: right right, And he said he wanted to talk to
- 19:42Speaker 1: Josia to see if that's something Josiah wanted. Now, I
- 19:45Speaker 1: think the age that Josiah was at the time, I
- 19:48Speaker 1: don't think he really understood it because.
- 19:49Speaker 4: He only knows Ralph. You know, he only knew Ralph
- 19:52Speaker 4: at that time.
- 19:53Speaker 1: So I think, as a man, either you want to
- 19:56Speaker 1: do it or you don't. And because he said he
- 19:58Speaker 1: wanted to and and he ended up not doing it
- 20:02Speaker 1: and saying he didn't want to, that was the discrepancy,
- 20:05Speaker 1: That was the argument, that was the disagreement. That was
- 20:08Speaker 1: the hurt for me, because if you would have never
- 20:10Speaker 1: mentioned it, it would have never been Yeah.
- 20:12Speaker 3: It's been a non issue.
- 20:15Speaker 2: Do something and then they don't do it, and it
- 20:18Speaker 2: involves children, it's hurtful. Yeah, is there ever a moment,
- 20:24Speaker 2: you know, I think there's a lot of women listening
- 20:26Speaker 2: out here that have probably struggled with similar situations as
- 20:30Speaker 2: you and Ralph and had the highs and lows, and
- 20:33Speaker 2: like I've seen you guys together where you're having the
- 20:36Speaker 2: best time and you can feel the love there. And
- 20:38Speaker 2: I've also seen where I'm like, what the hell, Like
- 20:41Speaker 2: why is he being an asshole?
- 20:43Speaker 3: And you know I saw it firsthand. Is there still
- 20:48Speaker 3: love there? Or are you like done done?
- 20:51Speaker 4: Oh? You know, there's always gonna be a love there.
- 20:56Speaker 1: And that's the thing, like when you're married to someone
- 20:59Speaker 1: for ten years, it's like it's not a light switch.
- 21:01Speaker 1: It doesn't just go off the next day because we're
- 21:04Speaker 1: in this position. It's like I still care about as
- 21:06Speaker 1: well being. I still want him to do great things
- 21:09Speaker 1: and be successful because when he's good, my kids are good.
- 21:13Speaker 4: You know, I don't wish anything negative.
- 21:15Speaker 1: And maybe that's just me, but like my kids need
- 21:18Speaker 1: to be healthy and thrived, so by him being their father.
- 21:21Speaker 4: You know, fathers are important. I'm never gonna take that away.
- 21:24Speaker 4: I've never you know, been the gatekeeper to the kids,
- 21:27Speaker 4: like they deserve to have him in their lives, right.
- 21:30Speaker 4: I just want him to.
- 21:32Speaker 1: Be the best version of himself, and I want that reciprocated.
- 21:35Speaker 4: Now when it comes.
- 21:37Speaker 1: To us, that's always gonna be like a person that
- 21:41Speaker 1: has a special place in my heart because of the
- 21:43Speaker 1: history and the fond that we have, which will always
- 21:45Speaker 1: be the kids.
- 21:46Speaker 2: Have we all ACKed up at all since the separation,
- 21:49Speaker 2: Let's be honest.
- 21:50Speaker 1: Oh no, I mean I think probably, like in the
- 21:52Speaker 1: first couple of months of filing, but that went away
- 21:58Speaker 1: really fast because Kenny, you put me on game, like
- 22:01Speaker 1: you know, when you're going through a divorce, it starts the.
- 22:03Speaker 4: Divorce over, it does, yes.
- 22:08Speaker 1: Because it's basically like you're accepting all of the issues,
- 22:12Speaker 1: like whatever you're divorcing about when you like you commenced
- 22:15Speaker 1: marriage again, so you can't really say I'm mad about
- 22:19Speaker 1: this when you kind of have accepted.
- 22:20Speaker 3: It in a ways. The tip.
- 22:24Speaker 1: If the buddily fluids, if they co mingo, you know.
- 22:31Speaker 1: So no, like it's been very easy to separate, like
- 22:37Speaker 1: it we have become actually like you know, homies because
- 22:41Speaker 1: it's just like he's over there, he's talked about dating.
- 22:45Speaker 3: I was gonna say, what's dating like now with you guys?
- 22:48Speaker 1: He specifically like told me, like it's like a game show,
- 22:53Speaker 1: like all these women want them and are fighting over
- 22:57Speaker 1: like who's gonna get Roth Pittman next?
- 22:59Speaker 2: Basically, but do you think he's telling you that to
- 23:01Speaker 2: make you jealous or do you think that's fact?
- 23:03Speaker 1: It's fact, Like we already know he liked to leave
- 23:07Speaker 1: for three days, like now he doesn't have to come
- 23:09Speaker 1: home like order to leave, so he's just like, hey,
- 23:13Speaker 1: the judge said, so you know, traveling like he doesn't
- 23:18Speaker 1: have to come home. You know, on my parenting days,
- 23:21Speaker 1: he's gone until like eight nine in the morning.
- 23:23Speaker 4: I mean, come on, now, he's a man.
- 23:25Speaker 1: I'm not you know, well what about you though, Listen,
- 23:31Speaker 1: I have tried to date, but he like, I don't know.
- 23:36Speaker 1: So it was a situation and I was dating someone
- 23:40Speaker 1: and I heard that he talked to the guy.
- 23:44Speaker 3: He reached out to him behind your back, like on DM.
- 23:47Speaker 4: I don't know how it happened.
- 23:50Speaker 1: I don't have like receipts that it happened, but it
- 23:52Speaker 1: was total to me by a few people.
- 23:54Speaker 4: That it happened.
- 23:55Speaker 1: And me and the guy don't talk anymore. So, and
- 24:00Speaker 1: it was like we were building a great friendship.
- 24:02Speaker 4: You know. It wasn't anything like super deep. It was
- 24:04Speaker 4: just like a great friend But I'm like what's going on?
- 24:08Speaker 3: Like, you know, you like you can't, you can't give
- 24:11Speaker 3: me what I want. But I'm not allowed to meet
- 24:14Speaker 3: somebody else.
- 24:16Speaker 4: I have no friends, you know, it's me and my career. Yeah,
- 24:20Speaker 4: speaking out, which is murderers out.
- 24:21Speaker 3: To sweet You're like speaking of Teddy. Hold up, all right, Fine,
- 24:25Speaker 3: well we'll get off.
- 24:26Speaker 2: Of Ralph and we're gonna talk a little bit more
- 24:27Speaker 2: about Housewives. We know that Portia and Fedru come back
- 24:39Speaker 2: and film again.
- 24:41Speaker 3: Yeah, how's that?
- 24:45Speaker 4: Yeah? Why did it just freeze like that? Like I
- 24:51Speaker 4: don't know if.
- 24:51Speaker 3: You're at froze right when you said that, but all
- 24:54Speaker 3: I heard was, yeah, it froze on me, like at
- 24:58Speaker 3: that moment, Uh huh, our computers are throwing shade.
- 25:02Speaker 2: I see, that's timing was a lyrics and the timing
- 25:06Speaker 2: was key. Okay, So Pedra and Porsche come back. Phaedra
- 25:10Speaker 2: comes in midway through filming. What was your initial thought
- 25:16Speaker 2: about this decision?
- 25:20Speaker 1: I was like, I mean, no shade to Fedra, like
- 25:23Speaker 1: I she's an og right, I think the fans have
- 25:26Speaker 1: wanted to see her, and I mean for me, like
- 25:29Speaker 1: she's Housewives royalty, right, she started it, so nothing but respect, right,
- 25:35Speaker 1: But I didn't know Faedra, and so I just felt
- 25:40Speaker 1: like we were kind of missing somebody, like if Phaedri's
- 25:43Speaker 1: coming back, you know, somebody else be here, you know,
- 25:47Speaker 1: to have a conversation, you know, I think what we
- 25:49Speaker 1: all want to see, you know, And it was kind
- 25:51Speaker 1: of like, you know, an elephant in the room, I guess,
- 25:54Speaker 1: but that's above my pay grade. So it was like,
- 25:57Speaker 1: all right, I'm just gonna get to know her, you know,
- 26:00Speaker 1: for myself, stay out.
- 26:02Speaker 4: Other people's business, even though I'm nosy and.
- 26:04Speaker 2: What's t y'all like, no, we're not nosy, We're just
- 26:08Speaker 2: in quid.
- 26:09Speaker 4: I'm the only one that wants to know.
- 26:10Speaker 2: It's tea, okay, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, all right,
- 26:14Speaker 2: Well who who did you hit it off more with?
- 26:19Speaker 1: Definitely definitely, Oh yeah, definitely fa I mean I didn't.
- 26:26Speaker 4: Really I don't know her. There's no bee or anything.
- 26:29Speaker 1: It was just like get to know each other and
- 26:31Speaker 1: we had some things in common.
- 26:33Speaker 4: So it was honestly good vies.
- 26:35Speaker 1: But it was just kind of a lot of things
- 26:37Speaker 1: going on this season, so when she came in, it
- 26:39Speaker 1: was just like for her kind of having to catch
- 26:42Speaker 1: up on a lot that happened, because a lot a
- 26:45Speaker 1: lot happens this season.
- 26:47Speaker 4: It was a lot going on. It was so much
- 26:48Speaker 4: going on. I was trying to.
- 26:50Speaker 1: Like figure stuff out because it was just all over
- 26:52Speaker 1: the place. Everyone was having issues with everyone.
- 26:55Speaker 3: And is it a new showrunner this year?
- 26:58Speaker 4: Yeah, we had a new Yeah.
- 27:00Speaker 2: So I think that is also for anybody that knows,
- 27:03Speaker 2: like the showrunner is the person that kind of they're
- 27:07Speaker 2: part of production, but you kind of form these I mean,
- 27:11Speaker 2: at least I did form a very close bond with
- 27:13Speaker 2: whomever your current showrunner is, and then whenever it switches it,
- 27:17Speaker 2: there is normally like a learning curve to getting all
- 27:21Speaker 2: the women to trust you and build those relationships and
- 27:23Speaker 2: feel like they have your best interest at heart. But
- 27:29Speaker 2: between that and Cynthia's back ya as an official friend,
- 27:35Speaker 2: of which I'm excited about, I think Cynthia's oftentimes the
- 27:38Speaker 2: voice of reason.
- 27:39Speaker 3: Does that stay true this season?
- 27:41Speaker 4: She is she is, she is Cynthia.
- 27:44Speaker 1: She is always consistent, right, So you're gonna get what
- 27:48Speaker 1: you expect from Cynthia, which is what we love about her.
- 27:51Speaker 4: Cynthia brought me.
- 27:52Speaker 1: To this group, oh right, Actually, Eva brought me to
- 27:56Speaker 1: this grew because even introduced me to Cynthia.
- 28:00Speaker 3: And you know what I mess Eva.
- 28:02Speaker 1: I do too, because even I go back to the
- 28:05Speaker 1: game days, we won the game together. And so when
- 28:08Speaker 1: I lived in La, she lived in La, so we
- 28:11Speaker 1: came from like Hollywood and LA. And so she brought
- 28:16Speaker 1: me to Cynthia's her winery, right, So that's when I
- 28:19Speaker 1: met Cynthia. And then then the season I came on,
- 28:22Speaker 1: Eva was gone and I'm like, girl, like, I.
- 28:26Speaker 2: Mean what I mean, let's bring back Eva, but like
- 28:28Speaker 2: I want to bring back Eva from like America's next
- 28:31Speaker 2: top model when she was full blown villain. It was
- 28:34Speaker 2: so good, that was clutch awesome.
- 28:40Speaker 1: So yeah, so Cynthia brought me in the group and
- 28:43Speaker 1: then you know, after my first season, Cynthia was gone.
- 28:46Speaker 1: So for me, it's always felt like a like my
- 28:49Speaker 1: first season because each each year I'm with like a
- 28:53Speaker 1: new set of girls or a new showrunner or whatever
- 28:55Speaker 1: the case may be. So I never have gotten too
- 28:58Speaker 1: comfortable to be honest.
- 29:00Speaker 2: And then what about not having Chara, Yeah, I think
- 29:05Speaker 2: you know, we're building a new friendship circle.
- 29:10Speaker 4: You know, that's what's going on. Now. We've got these
- 29:13Speaker 4: new girls, We've got new energy, and.
- 29:15Speaker 1: So it was like a rebuilding season, like we're getting
- 29:18Speaker 1: to know each other.
- 29:20Speaker 4: I think at times, you know, obviously it's.
- 29:21Speaker 1: Good to have people with some history so we can
- 29:24Speaker 1: get with Tea like what do we you know, like
- 29:28Speaker 1: like how she is or whatever, and everyone was pretty
- 29:30Speaker 1: much it was all fair game, which I think is good.
- 29:33Speaker 1: But in some ways it's like people can kind of
- 29:36Speaker 1: show us their representatives. So I feel like this season,
- 29:39Speaker 1: you're gonna just see like exposure after exposure, and you're
- 29:42Speaker 1: gonna see these layers peel back because we're getting to
- 29:44Speaker 1: know a lot of each other at the same time.
- 29:46Speaker 4: Y'all are you know?
- 29:48Speaker 1: So I think that that makes it interesting because it
- 29:51Speaker 1: was things coming out at the table where I'm like what.
- 29:54Speaker 1: So That's why I say it was a lot. It
- 29:55Speaker 1: was a lot to take in because we don't really know,
- 29:57Speaker 1: we don't.
- 29:58Speaker 4: Know each other like that.
- 29:59Speaker 2: Yeah. So, and I would say last season, we didn't
- 30:01Speaker 2: get to see you as much as I would have liked.
- 30:04Speaker 2: I feel like maybe you were filmed like that, you were,
- 30:07Speaker 2: you were there in bits and pieces.
- 30:09Speaker 3: Are you more in the mix this year?
- 30:13Speaker 1: I mean I was now how they you know, how
- 30:17Speaker 1: it all plays out so much?
- 30:19Speaker 4: Right? How it all plays out.
- 30:20Speaker 1: But yes, oh god, I was like every time I
- 30:25Speaker 1: showed up, I'm like, here we go.
- 30:27Speaker 2: And who would you say you're closest with this season,
- 30:30Speaker 2: and who would you save the biggest issue with.
- 30:33Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. I mean you can look and see
- 30:35Speaker 4: who I'm following, who I'm not following.
- 30:37Speaker 3: Oh I love some research.
- 30:40Speaker 4: I will say I really loved getting to know Angela.
- 30:46Speaker 4: Angela Oakley.
- 30:48Speaker 3: Okay, she loves Chicago.
- 30:50Speaker 1: I'm from Chicago, so already you know the vibes and yeah,
- 30:56Speaker 1: it's just a certain energy Carrie. I think the fans
- 30:59Speaker 1: are gonna absolutely love her, you know, because she's a housewife,
- 31:02Speaker 1: like she is missus Oakley honey, like what like we
- 31:06Speaker 1: know who her husband is, Like we know her and
- 31:09Speaker 1: not even in a sense of like the person, but
- 31:11Speaker 1: you know the legacy, you know the name, you know
- 31:13Speaker 1: where they come from.
- 31:14Speaker 4: So it was really interesting getting to know her. What
- 31:17Speaker 4: you see is what you get with her.
- 31:19Speaker 2: Maybe the person you're saying is not a real one
- 31:21Speaker 2: is porstche because you're not following her.
- 31:24Speaker 4: Mmmm, that happened.
- 31:29Speaker 2: I mean, it didn't take me long to go on
- 31:32Speaker 2: to Instagram and just take a little gander at that.
- 31:37Speaker 2: So okay, and then do we have please please tell
- 31:40Speaker 2: me now, But do we get any Kim Zosiak appearances? Oh?
- 31:47Speaker 4: No, I didn't film with her, so I but if.
- 31:50Speaker 3: I can tell, you're lying, Drew.
- 31:53Speaker 4: I'm not lying. When do I lie to you?
- 31:56Speaker 3: No, you're lying you because you gave me that. You
- 31:58Speaker 3: gave me the A.
- 32:00Speaker 2: I didn't film with her. No, she made someone probably did.
- 32:04Speaker 4: See That's the thing. I don't know if she did.
- 32:07Speaker 4: I'm not lying.
- 32:08Speaker 1: I'm just saying I don't know if she did, Like
- 32:10Speaker 1: I don't want to say she didn't and then we're
- 32:12Speaker 1: waking and then she then.
- 32:14Speaker 4: I'll be a liar, right, but like I'm reserving the right.
- 32:18Speaker 1: Like maybe she did, but I wasn't integrated in that,
- 32:20Speaker 1: so I wouldn't know. I didn't film with her, but
- 32:22Speaker 1: I would have loved to. I think she's hilarious, I
- 32:24Speaker 1: really do.
- 32:25Speaker 4: And I've I've.
- 32:26Speaker 1: Been around her a few times, you know, around the city,
- 32:29Speaker 1: and she's funny, like she just is is.
- 32:33Speaker 4: You can't take your seriously, So it's just a.
- 32:37Speaker 1: I would have loved to have seen her because there
- 32:39Speaker 1: was a dinner and there was like an empty chair
- 32:41Speaker 1: and I was thinking she was gonna walk through the door.
- 32:43Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah no, but I was like that, I
- 32:46Speaker 1: would live for her to come to a walk through.
- 32:48Speaker 2: Like to do a little Can I ask you just
- 32:51Speaker 2: because there was so much about it, and I know
- 32:54Speaker 2: that I probably shouldn't even ask, but can you just
- 32:56Speaker 2: give me some info on the tie situation?
- 33:01Speaker 4: I talk about that this season. I do. I talk
- 33:04Speaker 4: about it this season, so y'all are gonna get it.
- 33:07Speaker 2: Y'all get it, so we're not gonna have to keep
- 33:09Speaker 2: guessing and people like baiting and like, you're just gonna share.
- 33:16Speaker 4: Yes, very open. I mean I never what they were
- 33:20Speaker 4: coming at me about. I was happy.
- 33:22Speaker 1: I'm always in a This is the thing I don't
- 33:23Speaker 1: like is people like to come for me and put
- 33:26Speaker 1: me in a position to have to defend myself.
- 33:28Speaker 4: Right instead of asking me questions.
- 33:30Speaker 1: Because if you ask me a question, Teddy, we've been
- 33:32Speaker 1: doing this for a few years now.
- 33:34Speaker 4: I'm going I'm an open book.
- 33:35Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell.
- 33:36Speaker 1: You, you know what I mean, Like, I don't have anything
- 33:38Speaker 1: to hide, I don't need to lie to kick it.
- 33:40Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell. But if I feel.
- 33:42Speaker 1: Like my back is against the one, you're being accusatory,
- 33:44Speaker 1: or you're saying things that aren't true.
- 33:46Speaker 4: Now you're getting Now you're passed. Now I'm pissed. Now
- 33:48Speaker 4: I'm defending. Now they're trying to like. And it's not
- 33:51Speaker 4: like I share with my friends like my girls, I share.
- 33:54Speaker 1: I overly share because I value sisterhood, I value my friendships,
- 33:58Speaker 1: I value your opinion, like I'm over here like you,
- 34:00Speaker 1: trying to figure this life out. So like, if I'm
- 34:02Speaker 1: having an issue, I'm gonna talk to my girls because
- 34:05Speaker 1: all my girls, like you said, we have our off
- 34:07Speaker 1: TV friends.
- 34:08Speaker 4: All my girls know what's for real and what isn't.
- 34:11Speaker 1: So those are the ones I talk to, and I will, like,
- 34:13Speaker 1: I'm a girl's girl. So but in this group of girls,
- 34:17Speaker 1: a lot of times I show up and they're like
- 34:18Speaker 1: thinking they know me and they don't know me, or
- 34:21Speaker 1: they're regurgitating something they heard on the street, and I'm like,
- 34:24Speaker 1: I'm right here if you want to.
- 34:25Speaker 2: Know, they're not doing it with any empathy or curiosity.
- 34:28Speaker 2: They're doing it just to try to catch you and
- 34:30Speaker 2: a lie or catch you like.
- 34:32Speaker 3: And that's that's who wants to share.
- 34:35Speaker 2: When you feel like you're you're you're not sharing because
- 34:38Speaker 2: somebody actually cares about how you're doing or you're feeling
- 34:41Speaker 2: or what you're going through.
- 34:42Speaker 1: Right exactly, Like let's be real, like who's gonna do that?
- 34:46Speaker 4: Who's just gonna And I feel like if you've watched
- 34:48Speaker 4: all the seasons, everybody knows what's going on with me.
- 34:51Speaker 4: They know I'm going through divorce. They know about my dad.
- 34:54Speaker 1: You know, you know about my sister with her mental health,
- 34:57Speaker 1: they know about my kids, they know about a chef
- 34:59Speaker 1: suing me, they know about they know about everything me
- 35:02Speaker 1: rubbed your Miki le'es like you guys know me, you know,
- 35:06Speaker 1: But it takes for somebody to say, oh, she's a liar.
- 35:08Speaker 4: Now I'm a liar. Well run the takes back. When
- 35:10Speaker 4: did I lie?
- 35:11Speaker 2: Like, let's know, no, And people may not agree with
- 35:14Speaker 2: you from time to time. I mean there was definitely
- 35:16Speaker 2: times I watch it I'm like, oh shit, I think
- 35:19Speaker 2: Drew might have it wrong here.
- 35:20Speaker 3: But you genuinely believed what you were going through.
- 35:23Speaker 2: Like that is and that I think I'm the same way,
- 35:26Speaker 2: Like we all are human and we make mistakes and
- 35:29Speaker 2: we want to believe in the best in people, and
- 35:31Speaker 2: then sometimes we get disappointed and it's freaking heartbreaking.
- 35:34Speaker 3: Yeah, but like, let us process it.
- 35:37Speaker 4: Let me process.
- 35:37Speaker 1: My processing time sometimes can be five to seven business days.
- 35:41Speaker 3: Let me process mine can be five to seven business months.
- 35:47Speaker 4: You give me a break, y'all. Like, but I do
- 35:49Speaker 4: feel like the ones who know no and the ones
- 35:52Speaker 4: who get it get it. And I mean, I be
- 35:54Speaker 4: your vice cup of tea.
- 35:55Speaker 1: But trust me, like people always come back and be like, Okay,
- 35:59Speaker 1: Drew was indicated or you know what I'm saying, Like
- 36:02Speaker 1: and if I'm wrong, I have had to apologize.
- 36:04Speaker 3: Yeah, well I can say this.
- 36:06Speaker 4: You know.
- 36:06Speaker 2: The thing I love about you so much is that
- 36:09Speaker 2: you are one of those those friends that like we
- 36:11Speaker 2: could talk every day, or we could talk once every
- 36:14Speaker 2: six months, and it's like not a day has passed
- 36:16Speaker 2: because you're such an open book and you're so easy
- 36:18Speaker 2: to talk to. And I would say that is a
- 36:21Speaker 2: huge coup as a housewife, because sometimes people get so
- 36:25Speaker 2: blocked off and so reserved. You're just like you're an asshole,
- 36:30Speaker 2: Which leads me to my next question, what the hell
- 36:32Speaker 2: happened with Candace? Why did she shade you on about
- 36:38Speaker 2: doing the next show together?
- 36:40Speaker 3: I thought everything was good, so what happened? Me too?
- 36:43Speaker 1: Like, this is what I don't understand. It's like, you
- 36:48Speaker 1: have my number, like we talk in real life. If
- 36:52Speaker 1: there was any sort of feelings or issues, like pick
- 36:56Speaker 1: up the phone and check me.
- 36:57Speaker 4: On it, call me out on it. We can have
- 36:59Speaker 4: a whole argument about it. I don't care. Let's talk.
- 37:02Speaker 4: Let's get down to business. Like that's the type of
- 37:04Speaker 4: friend I am.
- 37:05Speaker 1: Like, if I messed up, hold me accountable, but don't
- 37:08Speaker 1: let me find out about it.
- 37:10Speaker 3: Seven months later on the show, it was Shade.
- 37:13Speaker 4: Let's just call it what it is. It was Shady.
- 37:15Speaker 2: It was Shane. I think she was trying to put
- 37:17Speaker 2: herself above you and like, why is that necessary? You
- 37:23Speaker 2: work together?
- 37:25Speaker 4: We did, and I have the text messages where I
- 37:28Speaker 4: completely told her like, oh my god, thank you for
- 37:32Speaker 4: letting me open up with you, girl.
- 37:33Speaker 1: You have opened up the door for my music. You
- 37:36Speaker 1: have like given me confidence again. I was so humbled
- 37:40Speaker 1: and grateful to her. I was like, oh my god,
- 37:43Speaker 1: n you know who works with the both of us.
- 37:45Speaker 1: It's an amazing songwriter. I'm like, I'm so excited to
- 37:48Speaker 1: get in the studio with him. She's like, girl, congrats.
- 37:52Speaker 1: So I was like, like, I don't know where she
- 37:54Speaker 1: is saying I went wrong in the situation. But when
- 37:58Speaker 1: the show aired, it was like, all right, let's just
- 38:01Speaker 1: tweet all love. And I was like, no, I'm gonna
- 38:04Speaker 1: tweet how I feel.
- 38:06Speaker 3: Yeah, no, but I don't try to coach me now
- 38:09Speaker 3: after you.
- 38:11Speaker 4: Yeah, like, we're not gonna plan this thing out, Like
- 38:13Speaker 4: I'm a real one.
- 38:14Speaker 1: Like I'm like, because my fans and I we got questions,
- 38:17Speaker 1: you know, I'm I'm learning about this in real time,
- 38:20Speaker 1: so I'm like, how am I in Potomac?
- 38:24Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 38:24Speaker 1: How So I didn't like that, And all in all,
- 38:28Speaker 1: y'all can check the twitt fact check. She was like,
- 38:30Speaker 1: it's all love with me andrews the door. So, as
- 38:32Speaker 1: far as I know, there was, there wasn't an issue.
- 38:35Speaker 1: We never discussed it. I saw her of course on
- 38:38Speaker 1: reunion just kind of put.
- 38:40Speaker 4: It to rest. So as far as I know, I
- 38:43Speaker 4: believe we're good.
- 38:44Speaker 1: But the journey of it was, like I think it
- 38:46Speaker 1: could have been just felt weird.
- 38:47Speaker 3: Yeah, it felt a little weird for us.
- 38:50Speaker 2: So if you had to choose another housewife who has
- 38:55Speaker 2: a music career of sorts, who would you want to
- 38:58Speaker 2: collab with? I think we've got Eric Jane Countess Luanne,
- 39:02Speaker 2: kim Zolziak, Melissa.
- 39:05Speaker 3: Who else is there?
- 39:06Speaker 4: You said it first, like, there's no question.
- 39:09Speaker 3: Erica Jane.
- 39:10Speaker 2: She would be amazing and I would love to see
- 39:12Speaker 2: that and that. I know we're running out of time.
- 39:14Speaker 3: But the last question that I have is.
- 39:17Speaker 2: You're releasing a new album right soon, but you're working
- 39:22Speaker 2: with Porscha's ex, Dennis.
- 39:26Speaker 3: How's that going? How did she handle that?
- 39:29Speaker 4: The album is amazing?
- 39:32Speaker 1: The album is everything, Like, I'm so proud of the
- 39:37Speaker 1: work I put in on this project. It's just a
- 39:42Speaker 1: culmination of like everything I've been going through.
- 39:45Speaker 4: So music was literally my therapy.
- 39:48Speaker 1: Like days that I couldn't even get out the bed
- 39:51Speaker 1: because I was just crying and just dealing with everything.
- 39:56Speaker 1: I was like, okay, but I have a session. You know,
- 39:58Speaker 1: I got it into the studio. Can't be late. I
- 40:01Speaker 1: gotta I have somewhere to go. That's what motivated and
- 40:03Speaker 1: pushed me during like the darkest times when I was
- 40:07Speaker 1: going through, you know, all of the beginning stages of
- 40:10Speaker 1: this divorce. So I'm very grateful. Porsche's always been a
- 40:15Speaker 1: you know, supporter of my music. She's always Actually at
- 40:18Speaker 1: reunion last year, we talked on the phone, you know,
- 40:23Speaker 1: during break and she was encouraging me to get up
- 40:25Speaker 1: there sing that song.
- 40:27Speaker 4: So she's part of the reason.
- 40:28Speaker 1: Why I even got on the mic to do that.
- 40:32Speaker 1: And so moving forward, you know, it was just like we're.
- 40:36Speaker 4: Family, you know what I mean.
- 40:38Speaker 1: I'm doing music, he's curating the album. He's got relationships
- 40:42Speaker 1: and music. And then it showed up at a time
- 40:44Speaker 1: where I really just needed to put my energy into something.
- 40:49Speaker 1: No we're not romantically involved. No, there is no interest there.
- 40:54Speaker 4: No, we are never ever gonna date, and we never
- 40:58Speaker 4: ever did date.
- 40:59Speaker 1: And I don't even like that assumption because Ralph, Dennis
- 41:04Speaker 1: portion and I we were all friends and even when
- 41:06Speaker 1: I went through my achilles surgery, they were sending me flowers.
- 41:09Speaker 4: You know, Dennis has always been like a brother to me.
- 41:12Speaker 4: So that's been the relationship.
- 41:14Speaker 1: And no, we're not in this dark studio together, you know,
- 41:19Speaker 1: singing sweet Nothing's He's barely in the studio. You know,
- 41:21Speaker 1: he just had songs from producers and made the connection.
- 41:25Speaker 3: And that's why you're following each other.
- 41:29Speaker 4: I don't know. I was following her.
- 41:32Speaker 1: I was following her, and I don't think I can
- 41:35Speaker 1: follow her now.
- 41:35Speaker 4: If I want to. I think I was blocked so.
- 41:41Speaker 1: And you know, I don't know because people, again, you
- 41:46Speaker 1: can't be passive aggressive, like talk to me and tell
- 41:48Speaker 1: me what's up. Yeah, if there's a question or you
- 41:50Speaker 1: got an issue, don't tell me what you heard on
- 41:52Speaker 1: the street.
- 41:53Speaker 4: Let's talk about it. So you know, you'll see that
- 41:56Speaker 4: journey on this season because that was just a lot
- 42:00Speaker 4: for me.
- 42:00Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, I and everybody
- 42:03Speaker 1: that knows me knows who I am, what I stand for,
- 42:06Speaker 1: what I don't I'm going through.
- 42:07Speaker 4: Do you know know who I'm divorcing? Why would I
- 42:09Speaker 4: be stupid enough to be Yeah, just come on, I'm not.
- 42:13Speaker 4: I'm not that girl.
- 42:14Speaker 1: So like to even put that on me is unbelievable,
- 42:18Speaker 1: Like come on, do better.
- 42:20Speaker 2: Like yeah, you're like, I got my own shit to
- 42:22Speaker 2: figure out.
- 42:22Speaker 4: But that's what it is.
- 42:23Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna let the music speak for self because
- 42:26Speaker 1: it's that good. Like in the past, I've been like
- 42:28Speaker 1: I hope you guys like it. No, I'm like, listen,
- 42:31Speaker 1: this is good. This is some good music. It is
- 42:35Speaker 1: R and B at its greatest. It is me pouring
- 42:37Speaker 1: my heart into something that I need it in my life,
- 42:40Speaker 1: and I just really hope it helps and inspires anybody
- 42:44Speaker 1: listening that's going through a breakup, going through a divorce.
- 42:47Speaker 3: It is hard, and when do we get to hear it.
- 42:50Speaker 1: I'm dropping visuals like you guys are gonna just it
- 42:53Speaker 1: literally has happened.
- 42:53Speaker 4: In a real time, like we dropped a visual the
- 42:55Speaker 4: other day.
- 42:56Speaker 1: I'm shooting another video coming up, but the official release
- 42:59Speaker 1: date is twelve twelve, perfect, So I'm working really really hard,
- 43:04Speaker 1: you know, to finish the project strong, But twelve twelve
- 43:07Speaker 1: is the actual.
- 43:08Speaker 2: Release state, So make sure you guys stay on top
- 43:11Speaker 2: of that and also join me tonight and watching Vicious Murder.
- 43:16Speaker 2: Drew is pretty incredible at everything she does, and I
- 43:20Speaker 2: think the thing that I always resonates with me is
- 43:23Speaker 2: what a good heart you have and how comfortable you
- 43:25Speaker 2: always make people feel in your presence. And I'm just
- 43:28Speaker 2: really proud of you and I miss you.
- 43:31Speaker 4: I miss you too.
- 43:32Speaker 1: I'm here, so like text me, I know, let's figure
- 43:35Speaker 1: it out all right, all right, the baby bye girl,