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Going on a walk is the perfect thing to do on a first date · Podcast - Big 98.7

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Do you ever feel like as a mom that you are inadequate because of social
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media? And you're on there and you looking at your Instagram and your Facebook,
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You're seeing all these other moms doing these perfect little mom activities with their
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kids, and you just think, I'm not doing enough. I'm not being
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that that good Instagram mom. It doesn't feel like it's the Instagram mom.
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But there's a lot of times I just feel like I'm feeling at a mom
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like I am not with them enough. I don't know why. Like the
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mornings, I always struggle sometimes I'm like, gosh, should I be there
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in the morning when they wake up? I'm like, oh, I good
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to say goodbye to them night or a good night to them. Oh my
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god, So you'd be with them just a bit in the morning and you
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drop. I know it's weird because and you get this way, and I
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think you can relate it to any part of your life you're just not feeling
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like you're doing enough, or social media in general definitely can make you feel
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that way. But I will say, Amanda, from my perspective, you're
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probably the mom that's making other moms feel inadequate because you know you're always like
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doing these cute little things you fall festival over the weekend dance class. I
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just that I love doing all of that stuff with my kids. And I
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think a lot of that too is because we had kids a little older in
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life. So for us, it's all about our kids right now. We
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have so much fun we enjoy doing in activities with them. And to be
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completely honest with you, I mean it's not perfect. You know that as
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well, because it's well you're absolutely insane, yes, but it's like whatever.
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It It's also at that age where you have to find activities to do
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and do things otherwise I'm going to lose my mind. Oh yeah, there,
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Well there's so many kid activities and I don't have kids, but I
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can imagine you appreciate that as a parent, because like, how long can
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you just sit at the house, you know, you can't stump in Yeah,
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those four walls they're inclosing real quick with a three and four year old,
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and it's got to be fun too. While it can be stress while
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I'm sure to get him out of the house, you know, the car
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seats, the snacks on the road, but once you get there, it's
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like fun to see your kid doing cool stuff right, Oh, for sure,
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enjoying and it usually it doesn't end up that way. I mean there's
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usually a temper tantrum that has been had, and maybe three or four of
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them, and that's just that's just the way it goes. Yeah, sometimes
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you strike out right like yeah, I remember when like I was a kid,
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I remember going to see Santa Claus. Do you think as a parent,
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that's like it bringing your kid to meet Santa Claus? And I would
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just saw it, would just scream the whole time. Briggsy was that way
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and even we were at a red Hawks game recently and he was excited because
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he's like, there's hot guy. And then the closer howk eye got it
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was like oh yeah, like but it was actually you brought up the Fall
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Festival. So this year was the first year that both of the kids were
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there because last year Sydney Luanne wouldn't put pants on, so we had to
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leave her at home. She just was refusing to wear pets. You can't
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just go without pants. No, they have these rules the days you got
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to follow. I get it. I vibe with your kids, especially the
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mascot thing I had because there's like you know, there's research. There's actually
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years why people were afraid of mascots because they were like, look, I
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forget what it's called, but they looked close enough to humans, but they're
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not. It's terrified. Like for example, when I was a kid,
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there was my dad would bring me. I remember constantly going to like the
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boat show in the RV shows, all these shows in the ABC seamless duck
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do you have you seen this mascot? So ABC Seamless has a duck mascot,
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and they would have this hideous thing walking around the convention Center or the
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Civic Center wherever we were, and I would just scream and I remember running
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out of the building. My dad had to chase me down. Oh my
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gosh, that's hilarious. I'm like old enough to remember it. So I
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was probably I was probably like seven eight years old. See, the only
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one that ever really really got me and I've never seen it in real life,
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and they still Kurt. That's why I was running, so he wouldn't
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get me. The Burger King commercials, like that Burger King dude, that's
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the one that would get what the king. Yes he's harmless, he's in
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a commercial. Once you go face to face like chucky cheese for example.
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That was the other thing. I couldn't even go to birthday parties. I
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would hide under the table that when that rat, when that giant rat came
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out from the back, I got to mention this bandmates, the whole team
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was just horrific. I could not be there. Oh my gosh, that's
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so good. I don't even think about it because all my other friends are
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hugging him and take. Yeah, that's just it, that's sin. She's
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like, oh, come over here, like im posing, and Briggs is
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like no, no, like in a minute in the morning, Big nutty
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eight point seven. What do you think the perfect first date is? Because
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you know, traditionally you might think, oh, it's a dinner. Oh,
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maybe it's going on for drinks. Maybe it's going to coffee. It's
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none of It's a walk. It's a walk. Really yeah. A relationship
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expert, his name is Paul Brunson. If you didn't believe me, he
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said that the perfect first date is a walk because walking with someone as a
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form of what they call parallel play. What can you think of any other
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examples you can see how someone enjoys a walk without making physical contact because you
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know, dinner dates are sin. They're two people look directly at one another
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you're eating, which is always awkward. See that the forced conversation, you
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know, it could subconsciously signal a confrontation. It's very very nervous, really,
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but I can see that. With a walk you can choose to kind
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of look over. But you're also they have objects to like create distraction.
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As likes, there's no pressure to talking, like you said, and like
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Seinfeld said, if you're a fan like I am, the walking date is
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perfect because you don't have to look at the other person. It's the next
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best thing to being alone. It seems like a great way to go on
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a first date when you don't even want to spend time with them or look
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at the person. I'm all about that though. Yeah. Do you ever
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go on walks? Yeah? Well, and I mean now that you're good
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and married? Oh yeah, we bike. We walked to the park a
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few times a day. Yeah, with the kids. Oh the kids they
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love that little park, they sure to. But we we always go for
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a walking Wait, what do you remember your first date? Even go on
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a walking date? I imagine? Oh we did us rest in peace?
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Remember the boulevard, the boulevard ow and Veterans. Yeah, it's now So
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that was where we Nick came over, picked me up. We went over
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the boulevard, had an appetizer, went back, and then at that point
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I was living kind of over there by the roundup, and then we,
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uh, there was anybody else wants some free advertising? Stop? I'm just
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you asked my first. I'm horsing around. No, that's great. It's
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a great area. A lot of good stuff there. Yeah, and so
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then we there was live music there, so we went over there and yeah,
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and then yea. Then we went back and had a nice glass of
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wine on my patio and that was it. Then then we got married a
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year later on that date because we hit it off. That was it.
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That was yeah, it was crazy, all right. So we did not
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go on a horse carriage drive. How about you guys? Our first date?
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Yeah, well, we well we met, you know, we had
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hung out just getting groups or whatever would have you. But our first formal
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date, I remember, I'll never forget. We went to at Doolittles.
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So we always have a soft spot there on Doolittles. Okay, we're sitting
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there and it was the weirdest thing. But some guy came up to us
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as my wife Lauren and I were sitting there across from each other. I
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still remember the exact booth comes up and he claims it was a weird thing.
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He claimed to be like a relationship body language expert. Shut up,
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you're making this. It was so bizarre, I swear to god, I
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to this day, I'm not sure if somebody was just messing with us like
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it was somebody who knew me, or was put up to it. But
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he sat there and told us that he's a body language expert and he could
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just tell that we were one on a first date, but two that we
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had great chemistry. No kidding, I know, it's the weirdest thing that
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is. And then look at you. Yeah, and I you know,
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I had got the like the barbecue wing platter or whatever, didn't sauce all
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over my face. Good thing. They give me that big wet rag because
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you had to towel this boy down. Did you guys go for a walk
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ever? You guys walker? Oh yeah, we went to I still have
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adorable little photo session we had taken on my phone from an island park.
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You know, I'm a big Island Park guy. So we had gone on
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a walk there. Sure, what do you mean a photo session? You
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like you were taking selface walking or we were walking, and then we were
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I think we're sitting at this point, and we thought, hey, let's
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take a photo together. Oh got it. That's very adorable. I thought
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you meant like you hired somebody like as you guys were going for a walk.
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Yeah, peeking out from the I knew. I knew we'd be together
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forever at that moment. The capture in the morning, right, it's an
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engagement season, you know what with the beautiful fall colors on the foliage.
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People love getting engaged. Oh my gosh. And this song, nice little
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throwback. It is a heck of a diddy talk about making a song just
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perfect for weddings. Anyway, Here's three things that you should probably do differently
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after getting engaged, based on you know, experience. Right, we've both
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been engaged, and these are things that you just want to be aware of,
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like as soon as you get engaged. Number one, take time to
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bask in the moment immediately after the proposal, right, because if you're like
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me or my wife, the moment you get engaged you're on top of the
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world. You're super excited. But then what do you do. You go
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right to your phone and you're calling your parents, you're calling your besties.
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Exactly what we did. Yeah, right, it was just like to the
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point of the next day you kind of go, oh, my gosh,
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we're engaged. It was just even though it wasn't a huge surprise, it
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was something we had done. But it's just it's an exciting moment. But
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actually taking that time, and I think social media has wrecked that for a
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lot of people too. Well. Yeah, but the phone call thing,
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it's like you're probably memory of the day you engaged. It's like just you
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get engaged and then you're both on your phone. You're barely talking to each
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other. You don't even remember like they're talking to your now fiance because you're
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just on the phone for so long. So take a moment, bask in
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the moment. Yeah, enjoy it. And it is so joyous, like
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because imagine what that would have been like, the things you could just talk
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about and be a part. Oh, it's one of the most exciting thing.
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It really is, like you immediately start planning, and of course it
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is exciting to be able to tell all your friends and everything. That's all
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you want to do, and it feels good, but it can wait.
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It's gonna feel good tomorrow too, right, so chill. Number two.
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No one is invited until you agree on who is invited. A lot of
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people right away when again start calling people. Everybody you talk to it,
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hey, our wedding, just save the date in person. And then all
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of a sudden you realize once you get you know, the wedding, they
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invite and you got the venue and everything, it's like, oh, wait
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a minute, you know, maybe maybe we aren't to invite Todd. Yeah,
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kind of hold the hold off a little bit. Also, I think
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standing your ground as to what kind of wedding you both want. It is
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so easy for everybody to be chirping, whether it's your mother in law,
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your mom, dad, everybody has a voice of what they think your wedding
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should be like. And I think that is really hard. And then they
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want to invite their friends because you know, Grandma Sue watched you, you
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know, for however long, and she should be invited because of and then
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her kids that you grew up with them. I mean, the list goes
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on and there's not because like if they're paying for a good chunk of it,
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it's like, well, do I have the right to be like,
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no, you can't invite your friend Denise. Yeah, I know, and
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they'll go, oh, you know, do you remember, Denise? I
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mean, I don't know if I do remember, I really put my finger
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on the knees. Denise and Jim they invited us to their daughter's wedding twenty
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years ago. Number three things they remember, you know, right when you
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get engaged. Aged is discuss your date with VIGs. You know what a
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vig is, Amanda. I know what a vip is, but I don't
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know about that. And g very important guests got it. Before setting the
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date in Stone, you want to check with obviously immediate family. That's exactly
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what we did. It was his sisters, our parents, let's pick a
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date, and once we decided that date, then it was hopefully you can
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come. If not, no big deal. I mean, and that's what
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you want. And I think as a little girl you dream of or and
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probably guys you want everybody to be there. And maybe it was because it
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was both of our second weddings when nikind Of got got married, but it
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didn't mean that the people that didn't show up didn't love us. You look
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back at our wedding and some of those people are like, well they were
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in that moment and they're so close with us, But were we made so
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many other friends. Yeah, for context, like I was not at your
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wedding and it was it was because I didn't love you. I'm just teasing
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us. I'm just horsing around. Was that one didn't land? Holy,
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that one totally did land. I know you lot last time my horse around.
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No, it looks like a lovely wedding, but you're never gonna find
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a date. And this goes with anything that's just weddings, like if you're
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having an event or something like, there's never gonna be a date that pleases
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everybody. There's just too much going on. And also it's just something to
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think about. Guys. It does cost a lot. So the more it
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knows that people are setting, you're still probably gonna get a gift. I
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mean, when you get to know, it's like a yes, you're not
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offending me. You know, there's only a few people that you're like,
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oh, okay, that's a bummer, you're not coming. But it's about
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the two of you. Absolutely, it's easy for good. Doesn't the song
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make you just want to get engaged again? Do it all over? Yeah?
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No, I'm going to tell me to the same guy Amanda in the
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morning on Big You're ready Ready, that's he is typing hot today. No,
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Amanda steals that sea. Let's see brought to you by Valley Service Mechanical.
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And if you're like me, I mean I was on the edge of
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my seat. What were we gonna do wheel Watchers without Vanah White? There
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was a lot of speculation and it took a long time for her to solidify
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this deal. She must have got her pay day because she's back for two
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more years. She's gonna be alongside Ryan Seacrest, and he is excited about
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it. He said earlier this week. I love Vanah White. I've known
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her for a long time. We sat in important places next to each other.
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I would love to know jeez, thank you. Okay, God bless
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you, thank you. It's just is it the smoke? I just I
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don't know. I'm struggling to bad allergy, so well, I'm allergic to
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van a White discussion. So how she's been paid a lot? He said,
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Yeah, but Also, Ryan Seacrest made a statement saying he loves Vana.
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I've known her for a long time. But we sat in important places
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next to each other. What's the most important place you think they sat?
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Were they at the White House? I mean, I don't know. Anyway,
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She's he is excited to be walking alongside her every weeknight, and me,
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that's cool. I'm glad the show continues because it's a fun one to
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throw in. I'm not a big I don't identify as a wheel watcher like
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Amanda, but I'm not a part of the club that plays oh as the
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show's going on. But we love some wheel in our house. Absolutely.
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I like wheels. Got four of them on my car, and you are
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on one today. I can't even laugh anymore. It's just it's just too
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much for me. Whether or we're done. Kardashian, this is a train
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ride, Kim Kardashian, I have not can you, by the way,
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believe we were nominated for the Best Local Radio Show by the Fargo for him?
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I know it's shocking. They obviously didn't hear it. This segment shameless
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plug. If you want to vote for us, we've got the link on
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our Facebook page. Appreciate you putting up with us, But it's been a
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long time since we talked about Kim Kardashian in her love life. I kind
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of scoffed at the Tom Brady deal. That just didn't feel real at all.
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I think she wanted it desperately maybe, but it looks like Odell Beckham
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Junior. He was in a long term relationship with Lauren Wood and I don't
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know with their separate ways, and either Kim swooped in before or after TV,
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but I'm thinking maybe a little overlap went on here. They seem like
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a great match, and she's right up his alley. He loves being famous
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and there's no more famous person I met. Chris Jenner. Mama Kardashian probably
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already signed signed him on to her a little agency that she has. I
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wonder if they've heard the rumor of Odell Beckham Junior. This was maybe a
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year or two ago. Yeah, yeah, I had it until you brought
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it to my attention this morning. And the oo factor is so high it
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is one of the growth rumors now. Again, not judging anybody whatever you're
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in too, as long as not harming somebody else. But apparently he enjoys
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being the toilet if you will, No, it's gross. Kristin Cavalary remember
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her from Laguna Beach The Hills. Of course she was married to Jay Cutler
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will have Now. After all of that and that track record, she got
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herself a podcast. She brought Travis keltyon and started started talking to him about
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relationships and things, and then she dove right into how she had a crush
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on him. In fact, at one point in the podcast she said,
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I was in love with you. I fell in love with you watching Catching
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Kelsey, the reality show that was on back in twenty sixteen. He gets
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really uncomfortable. He's like, I'm flattered by your comments. Then he burst
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her bubbles, saying, just so you know, pretty much everything on that
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show was not real and she should know that because her life came that's how
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she became famous. Oh she knows it wasn't real, but he was real
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and that's what she enjoyed about it. So so basically she is putting her
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name out there like, hey, traf, want a date without doing it
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kind of in a very koy way. And that's Taylor's man. Well,
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that's what's happening. Taylor Swift fans are unleashing and saying the Kelsey Cavaliery romance
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can't happen. They're still for the trailer. Well, Taylor's gotta, you
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know, claim her territory, like Odell Beckhamwood. Okay, like in Amna
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in the morning on Big Nutty eight point seven, Big Nutty a point seven.
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Good morning, Mike and Amandy in the morning. It gonna be nice
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today. A little smoky, but otherwise sunshine in a high of eighty three.
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Work work, work, work. Everybody wants to, you know,
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feel like they're respected at work, no matter what your job is, whether
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you're at the intern, intern Gracie, or you're the CEO. These are
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the phrases that you should avoid to sound the most experienced at work. Oh
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boy, all right, all right. So if you're walking around saying things
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like hi, I'm first name, that's no good. That's no good.
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Okay, this is finally like a your happy hour. But introducing yourself by
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only your first name doesn't let the person you're speaking with no anything else about
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you and why you belong. So if you're at work, introduce yourself with
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your first and your last name and why you're involved in the meeting or on
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a project. So if you're like jumping on a zoom call with some people
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from out of market, yeah, you know to say, Hi, I'm
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Todd Todd I know a million times now I'm Todd Johnson district manager for yeah,
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thank you. Or Gracie in your case, Hi, I'm Gracie whatever.
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Your last name is Grace yea, So Jackson are got you and I'm
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a lead intern. I'm the Pike and Amanda in the morning show. Yeah,
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you're the head intern. Yeah, yeah, we are favorite intern.
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There's nothing wrong. We're just fluffing up your title just for the sake of
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it. See. I also see through that sometimes when people do come in
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a little hot you're like, okay, Joe Schmo. Yeah, Like you
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throw like the words senior in front of what are your whatever? Your title
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is executive senior executive intern. All right, how about this one? I
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am the blank and then this is literally what we were just talking about,
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but the junior level job title. So in your case, Gracy, you
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want to leave the intern off of it. Instead of introducing yourself as let's
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say, the editorial assistant, go with something like I'm a member of the
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editorial team, you figure out which part of it I clean do a lot
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of vague booking here. Okay, got it, I cleaned the desks.
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And then also the other phrase to avoid if you want to sound not inexperience
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to work, is I have to ask my boss. No, you don't,
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Janet. You don't have to ask anybody. Your Janet, member of
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the editorial team make the executive decisions. Okay. Yeah, So you have
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any phrases because people use the same phrases at work in it, they do
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get annoying. Do you have any phrases you don't like people over using your
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work trying to think I just try to avoid everybody at work with no I'm
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talking. That would be great. Unfortunately, you're being sarcastic. I'm just
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kidding. You were the one throwing shots to me the other day for sending
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all these emails. I like to tease you about the emails. I mean,
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they just send a lot of like invites. You know, you've got
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calendar invite because I'm the one who keeps this ship going, like four works.
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If it was up to us, we would just keep it in our
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heads, you know, like, oh, meeting next Wednesday at three thirty
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and then on it. Then five minutes into it, Hey, Pike,
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are you come into that meeting? Come in. I'm on the sixth hole,
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like in a minute in the morning one. But hey, Mandy,
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you had yourself a little predicament last night. I did. So. On
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Tuesdays, my daughter has dance out in Horse. She goes to just for
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kicks and tell me about it because he's four. Is four? Yeah,
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what kind of dancing are we doing? So it's kind of like a I
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don't know. I mean, my sister dance growing up, but at four,
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like I know, I get it's just learned how to do, you
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know, but she learned how to do like the turns. And honestly it's
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just like following along and memorizing a dance. I mean they do that or
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is it just sort of chaos? No, I think it's it's getting better.
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She's been in it now for about a year. But I know when
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the next recital is, Oh gosh, there's gonna be a Halloween show,
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Pike, It'll be, It'll be, It'll be great. Okay, So
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you're at dance, So I am getting ready to bring my daughter to dance
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and my son through a temper tantrum, and I was like, oh man,
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So he decided to stay back because he wanted to come with me.
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The goodness, he didn't come with me because after I dropped my daughter off
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a dance, I decided I need to go get gas real quick. It's
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a half hour, so I have some time to spare. Go in,
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get gas, get a couple of little snacks, and keep in mind a
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little backstory. It got the new peanut butter balls, the skippy peanut butterballs.
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They're so good, nice and uh. For the past three weeks,
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I've been telling my husband about the fact we probably need an oil change.
21:07
Like my light says need an oil change? You, like my wife just
21:11
yesterday, I can't function when that oil light is on. Yeah, yesterday
21:14
we happened to cross pass quick at home and he's like, I gotta go
21:17
get my oil change. I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna need my oil
21:19
change. But he usually sometimes does it at the lake, so I was
21:22
explaining my car kind of smells funny. Doesn't change his oil himself. My
21:27
stepdad does. He assists he buys the filter nice. So I have been
21:36
telling him about all of this for a few weeks. So I get out
21:40
of Casey is over there in horace and try to start my car. Sure
21:47
won't start, just like this is it trying to fire them kind of and
21:51
I'm like, Okay, this was really weird. But then it like started
21:53
kind of, but then it didn't. Then it started shaking, and I'm
21:56
thinking, okay, Pike, spot up. I'm basically Mcca, you really
22:02
are It was like that. So I have ten minutes to pick up Sid
22:06
from dance. Nick's mowing the lawn. I can't get a hold of anything
22:08
anybody. I don't know what I have to do, but I have to
22:11
get back to Dance to get Sid. Otherwise she's going to be sitting there
22:12
freaking out and there's nobody to really watch her. So I leave my car
22:18
at the gas tank, walk across town to go. There's all this construction.
22:22
I just like a complete idiot, go pick up Sid. Finally Nick
22:26
gets there, so we're waiting, so Nick of course comes, rescues us,
22:30
brings us back to the gas station. I'm complaining. I'm snapchatting my
22:34
friends about how ridiculous my husband is and how because he didn't answer no,
22:40
just because I asked him to get my car fixed. While sure, this
22:42
guy hops in the driver's seat, HiT's the button, what's wrong with your
22:48
car? Everythings ride up? Of course I would just look like a tool,
22:56
like the whole the car had an issue. And he does not believe
22:59
me. I don't believe you either. And first of all, it's not
23:02
the oil. And again I'm pretending to be a mechanic here. I really
23:03
don't know anything about cars, but I know that you know how long that
23:07
light would have to be on, how far past an oil change? Because
23:10
I trust me, I have tested the limits. But it is going to
23:11
burn up your injector pumps and stuff. I think, Oh, now you're
23:17
the mechanic. Get Amanda in the morning, big nutty eight point seven.
23:25
Now here's what you need to know. The countdown is on. Governor Bergham
23:30
has to hit three percent support support in the national pool by Monday in order
23:33
to be a part of the second debate, which is already going to be
23:36
on Wednesday in California. But whether or not he takes the stage, it
23:41
ain't over. He is on the campaign trail and yesterday he said we're gonna
23:45
be on the ballot in Iowa and New Hampshire, whether we're a part of
23:48
this debate or no not. He thinks voters, not party rules, should
23:51
determine which candidates move ahead. He says, I think it's a goofy clubhouse
23:56
rule, so we're just gonna keep charging forward. Yeah, I love it.
23:59
He's just refused seeing no it's an answer. It's kind of like,
24:02
I know you're a big sign. Felp girl, Amanda. It's like when
24:03
George got fired on a Friday and he decided he was just gonna show up
24:07
on Monday anyway and pretend like nothing happened. It's kind of like burgham gon
24:11
show him the debate. That's hilarious. Three percent? What are you guys
24:15
talking about? That would be funny. It's like picking in the deal,
24:18
like outside of there. It's just like Danny Masterson's wife, by you.
24:22
Phillips was standing by his side all the way, really until the end,
24:26
because it was a couple of weeks ago we found out that he was senced
24:29
to thirty years to life in prison for raping two women. And it was
24:32
a surprise yesterday when we found out that she filed for divorce because she said
24:36
she was going to stand by him. Even through the appeal process. His
24:40
lawyer or her lawyer, or rather said missus Phillips has decided to divorce him.
24:44
It's unfortunate everything that's going on. What is her name again? By
24:47
you Phillips, by you? Yeah, it sounds like she said, by
24:51
you. Have you been waiting all morning for that? No? I just
25:00
it's good. That was just real good. By the way, they live
25:02
a nine year old, so I nine. That's sad. That's sad.
25:08
Listen, that's sad. But I mean, imagine being married to a guy
25:11
in prison. You got about out at some point. I think it'd be
25:15
kind of nice to be married to somebody in prison. You think about it.
25:18
You know, the hows to be a lot cleaner. I don't have
25:22
to worry about them annoying you. My gosh, you're out of control.
25:26
I wouldn't go that far. You don't see the positives in a situation like
25:30
that. Absolutely not. No, No, I like to spend quality time
25:36
with my significant you do. You just you got a window there, But
25:38
otherwise you can spend some thirty year window. Oh my gosh, No,
25:44
like the glass window with like the telephone, no literal with the literal window.
25:48
Yeah, the literal window that you got between you. Yeah, I
25:51
mean, so you can't touch each other. Let's, of course you get
25:53
the conjugal so yeah, nope, I'm gonna I'm gonna go pass on that
25:56
one. Can we do the next story? Let's do it at this I
26:00
am all about but maybe they're doing it a little too soon. Hallmark did
26:04
release their full lineup of movies, which, by the way, ladies and
26:07
maybe some guys who are watching U all of them. There's a couple of
26:11
sequels in here from last year which will be good. They start on October
26:15
twenty. Yes, I forget what it's called. I found myself watching one
26:18
of these movies and the guy is a ghost. So the woman is like
26:22
in this house and the guy who obviously had died several years before, he's
26:27
a ghost, and they fall in love, and honestly, I loved it.
26:30
It was a good film. Are you sure you're not thinking to Casper?
26:33
No? Who is in that one again? Michael Keaton? Casper was
26:41
Adam's family. Christina Ritchie, I know she was at one point. Oh,
26:44
I know, Casper, the friendly ghost. See, I will tell
26:47
you because everybody, my husband of course, makes fun of me, there
26:49
are some I do not want. I'll record and like get into all forty
26:53
of them, but every once in a while you gotta dip out. I
26:56
mean, they're so cheesy. For instance, if there's a ghost involved here,
26:59
I'm probably not gonna watch that one. Love a little fantasy fiction,
27:03
I do. I mean, obviously I do, because I enjoyed this film.
27:07
I'm just saying, I'm like, I'm not gonna bump home alone too,
27:10
or The Grange or have you not Christmas New Grinch, The Grinch with
27:17
Jim Carrey's The New Grange that's like thirty years old at this point. Oh,
27:21
well, that it's new to me. There's been like several newnes sets.
27:26
One definitely you're talking about Jim Carrey's How the Grinch Oul Christmas? Look
27:33
up the year on that intograc because it's not new. My kids got into
27:37
that last year. That one will scare the But Jesus right out here,
27:41
what are you talking? My kids won't even sit and sit and watch it
27:42
by themselves, but they still like it. Are you ready? Yes,
27:47
your new film came out in two thousand, the turn of the century.
27:52
Remember me saying new to me? They made a new one recently, like
27:56
cartoon one or whatever. Right, it was like last year or something.
28:00
I've seen that one too. That one's cute, But I thought the Jim
28:03
Carrey one was the newest version. That's one of the all time classic movies.
28:07
He does such a good job. And what's rain Taylor momson is Cindy
28:10
louhu Oh yep, oh, heck of a movie. All right? Weatherwise
28:12
today, little smokey, we don't even have to think about winter. Weather
28:15
today is going to be gorgeous, Sonny, and I have eighty three in
28:18
the morning. Seven is that time? Man, I'm so excited. You
28:22
know, we always get somebody on the phone here who is brave enough to
28:25
try to get themselves out of the friend zone right here live on the radio.
28:27
So up this week my man. His name is Connor and he is
28:33
on the phone right now. Good morning, Connor, Hey, good morning
28:37
guys. Well, good morning. Hopefully we can get you out of the
28:38
friend zone. That would be nice. This is dare I say a bit
28:42
of a tangled web leaving here, but Connor, just let's start from the
28:48
beginning and tell us kind of what's going on with Megan. Yeah, So
28:51
basically my friend and I we went out downtown a few months ago and we
28:55
met a couple of girls, and one of which was Megan. So I
28:59
thought, you know, I hit it off with her and she was cool,
29:02
and I want to go out with her. But the next day I
29:03
found out that my friend already had a date set up with her. So
29:08
I guess they hit it off too, And he didn't mention it me,
29:11
but they just coordinated a date. In the moment, Yes, I was
29:14
a little bit disappointed. That is a b but I backed off. I
29:18
mean I just kind of played cool with it. I mean, I didn't
29:19
know her very well. I just thought, you know, she's cool and
29:22
we hit it off and stuff. But I obviously let them go on their
29:26
date. Their date went well, they dated for a few months. But
29:29
here's the thing. They now broke up and they're both single. So I
29:33
know, it's like you don't really go for your friends X, but I
29:37
kind of want to ask her out. Well, I actually do want to
29:41
ask her out, but it's just a little complicated, you know. I
29:45
will say, Connor, first of all, initially you did honor bro code,
29:48
which is cool, like obviously your buddy he was first, right,
29:51
so you just respected that, which is great, but now you're feeling like
29:53
it's your turn because you did actually, you know, on the same night
29:56
literally kind of start digging this. So that's where we come in. So
30:02
why don't we get her on the phone. We'll talk to Megan feel out
30:06
kind of what she thinks of the situation, because again, it is very
30:07
complicated. So you hang tied in the background. Okay, Connor, we'll
30:11
see what we can find out. Very cool, all right, hang on,
30:18
Hey is this Megan? Ya? Who is this strange man? She's
30:22
wondering what my name is? Pike. I'm a strange man from Big ninety
30:26
eight point seven radio station in town. Can we you know? I got
30:30
Amanda here too? Oh hey girl, I know it's just weird. I'm
30:33
the one who just makes it real comfortable, like this isn't gonna get weird
30:37
at all, sort of a good cop bad cop thing. So good.
30:40
Well, first of all, thanks for taking the call, Megan. Can
30:41
we chat with you just for like a minute about a kind of weird situation
30:45
you've got going on? Yeah? Sure, it's fun because you don't know
30:49
what weird situation you have going on. You think it's just a typical you
30:52
know, Wednesday. First of all, Megan, before we can proceed,
30:59
we got to find something out, like are you single? Uh? Yeah,
31:02
yeah, I am right now? Okay, Well interesting because the weird
31:06
thing that we're kind of describing is the fact that we talked to somebody who
31:08
admitted that they have a crush on you. Okay, anybody come to mind
31:14
who that might be? Uh not? Really isn't a joke, It is
31:18
not a joke. There is somebody out there that's I had a thing for
31:22
you for a little while. Actually, wow, Okay, yeah, I
31:26
don't. I don't really know. I can't really think of anyone. So
31:30
have you been single a while or what's kind of your your recent past as
31:33
far as dating goes. I mean, I did just recently get out of
31:40
a relationship, so I just kind of, you know, haven't really thought
31:44
of getting in a new one. I just kind of been enjoying being single.
31:47
I guess. Yeah, God, is there anybody the guy that you
31:49
just got of a relationship with? Is there anybody that he hangs with that
31:55
piques your interest by chance? And like his boots? I don't, I
32:00
don't really know. I don't really plan on dating any of his friends or
32:04
anything, now, wouldn't it. Yeah, that would just be a little
32:09
yeah. Range. Okay, well this is weird then, because the guy
32:15
we're talking about who has the crush on you is actually one of your ex's
32:19
friends. Okay, his name is Connor, remember Connor? Connor? Oh
32:30
that's what he said. We're just the middleman here. I mean, you
32:31
seem shocked, but you seem maybe pleasantly surprised. No, I mean I
32:37
just, oh my gosh, I love Connor. I mean I think he's
32:42
amazing, but like he's literally my ex's best friend. I'm just really confused
32:47
right now. Like I did not know that was happening at all. Do
32:52
you think it's something you can maybe get past? Do you think this act
32:54
of yours even would care? As he moved on? Oh my gosh,
33:00
I mean I just like it's a weird territory for me, Like I just
33:05
don't know it's my kid. Do I just feel weird? Oh my gosh,
33:08
Connor. How about Okay, Megan, we're gonna give you a surprise
33:14
because Connor's on the phone right now. Okay, Connor's been listening this whole
33:16
time. Sorry to you know, take good morning to Connor. Yeah,
33:24
hey, Megan, Well I just thought that we really hit it off from
33:29
the beginning, and I wanted to, you know, ask you how the
33:30
first one we met. But you know, I guess you guys kind of
33:35
whooped up a little too quickly before I got there. But I just always
33:39
thought we got along, So yeah, I thought it's worth a shot hit
33:45
it off Connor. Like that's so sweet, Like I'm seriously so flattered by
33:51
that, Like that's that's so and we we do hit it off for real,
33:57
But like, I just don't know if I can really do that,
34:00
Like I just feel like it would be here, like you just woke up
34:04
and you guys are like best friends. This is uncomfortable, to say the
34:07
least, But Megan, can we at least make Connor feel better? Like
34:08
it's not that you wouldn't want to, it's just that, given the situation,
34:14
it's not something you're interested in. Yeah, exactly. It's like nothing
34:17
against you at all, Connor, Like I think you're awesome, it's just
34:22
in another world. I mean, I'm cool, like just hanging out as
34:24
friends. There you go, why don't you guys start with friends? And
34:28
here's what I think I think you give it six months this x of years
34:31
probably just kind of forgets about it, and you guys go for it.
34:35
I bet that works out. I mean never say never, I won't.
34:39
There we go. I like where he said that. All Right, you
34:44
guys, we'll keep us posted. Thank you for doing this on the radio.
34:46
I know that's super uncomfortable, probably for both of you, but it
34:50
sounds like you're both good people. I think it's going to work out for
34:52
you. Okay, thank you. In the morning, are we ready because
35:00
guess who is coming to town? No man, no, not Santa Claus
35:05
Chad Kroeger and the boys. Nickelback will be the farger doome Thursday, October
35:07
fifth. That's two weeks from tomorrow, I think. And we have tickets
35:10
right now for call or nine. Let's say good morning too, is it
35:14
Andrea? Hello? Is it Andrea? You gotta hit I hit the bun.
35:19
I've quite literally hit the bun? Is this Andrea? Yes? Yes,
35:23
I'm sorry. Oh no, it's not your fault. The man have
35:25
messed the phone. All right, So here's it? Hell your call nine?
35:31
All right? So you like Nickelback, Andrea? I do? Oh?
35:36
Probably you never know? You never know. So the game, Andrea,
35:40
the name of the game is sixty second show Down. You ever heard
35:45
this little game? Yeah, so you know that in sixty seconds, you
35:49
gotta identify the five of the seven things in Turned Gracie has written down.
35:52
There could be people, places, or things. And we've been doing themes
35:54
lately. And what is the theme today in Turned Gracie? Fruit theme?
36:00
But just okay theme, just think fruity hush a minute, all right?
36:05
All right, So for nickelback tickets, it's a fruit themed round of sixty
36:08
second show Down. So you gotta choose who do you want to give you
36:10
the clues? Who do you think knows more about fruit? Amanda or me?
36:14
Pike. I'm gonna go with Amanda. Okay, don't blame you.
36:17
Obviously, Andrey wasn't listening yesterday when me and the guy nearly probably said the
36:22
world record. I mean it was like twenty seconds. I don't know I
36:25
heard that. Yeah, well, what was your thoughts? It seems a
36:28
little disappointed as to why she ended up going with me. I think I
36:31
don't think Andrea likes me. All right, Andrew, here we go.
36:36
I got sixty seconds on the clock, all right, Here we go Andrea
36:40
in three two one go uh the theme that we're doing. But then if
36:47
your kids have them and they come in a little package they have like welches
36:53
yep, perfect, little champagne and orange juice. We call this my yep.
37:02
You get this and it is the long fruit and there's then you put
37:07
whipped cream and cherries and ice cream on it, and it's a yellow yep.
37:12
And then what would it be if it was a dessert banana squift?
37:15
Yep? Perfect? And if you mix all of it up into a blender
37:20
and you would call it a u yep, perfect and not orange, but
37:25
it's a a fuji uh apple yep. And then up and then you drink
37:36
it. Oh yep, perfect on the trigger. All right. But hey,
37:46
Andrew, good news for you. You got it done, and you're
37:50
going to see nickelback. Awesome, Thank you so much. And you have
37:52
nothing against Pike, right, No, not at all. I love him.
37:57
I'm so happy he's got I love you. I just wanted to make
38:00
sure it was always well in the world Pike was feeling, because you know
38:02
me, Andrea, I would have literally carried that with me like I was
38:06
sitting at home, my wife would be like, What's what's bothering you?
38:10
Andrea today at eight eleven. I don't think she likes me, all right,
38:14
Hank tight Andrea