Latest / Reality with The King / Oh, Damn Odom: Lamar Odom Doc Recap with Blue Telusma
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- 1:03Speaker 4: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
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- 1:31Speaker 4: scripted as well. Rain Drops, on today's episode of Reality
- 1:39Speaker 4: with the King, Blue to Lusima.
- 1:41Speaker 1: And I are back and listen. You all know the
- 1:46Speaker 1: two of us as a duo, primarily because a couple
- 1:50Speaker 1: of years ago we did a whole deep dive on
- 1:52Speaker 1: the Kardashians. It was a huge success. I owe the
- 1:57Speaker 1: rain Drops reducing me to you, Blue, really, but you
- 2:03Speaker 1: know the story how you did a TikTok. It wasn't
- 2:07Speaker 1: it wasn't for TikTok exclusively, but you did a video
- 2:11Speaker 1: talking about Travis Barker Buck and all of the things
- 2:14Speaker 1: with Kim and Courtney and all the things, and my
- 2:17Speaker 1: rain Drops said, Carlos, look at this, and I watched
- 2:20Speaker 1: and I said, I need her on the podcast. And
- 2:22Speaker 1: the rest is history. So now the rain Drops were like,
- 2:25Speaker 1: check her out, and I'm like, I'm obsessed already.
- 2:28Speaker 3: And it's full circle because I told you that I
- 2:30Speaker 3: wasn't good at TikTok, and months later I realized that
- 2:33Speaker 3: Shana Mouechler had dmmed me and was like, y'all got
- 2:35Speaker 3: that shit right. She was like yep mm HM's exactly
- 2:39Speaker 3: what the fuck happened. And now Shane is doing the
- 2:41Speaker 3: show with Claudia, so it's all.
- 2:42Speaker 1: Very very interconnected.
- 2:45Speaker 3: Honey, We're on the right side of history.
- 2:46Speaker 1: Repeatedly, we listen, we are and rain drops today we
- 2:52Speaker 1: are here to I'm not gonna say recab, but I
- 2:56Speaker 1: think it's called doing a deep dive in lamar Odom's
- 3:00Speaker 1: Netflix documentary because it's the reason why can't say we're
- 3:07Speaker 1: doing a recap like we do a mother in Night
- 3:09Speaker 1: Live with our reality shows, because we can talk about
- 3:13Speaker 1: scene by scene and give our opinions. This one is
- 3:18Speaker 1: different because it's a documentary of lamar Odam's life and
- 3:23Speaker 1: his marriage to Chloe, his child's mother, his family life,
- 3:30Speaker 1: and of course the addiction he faced. But blue, let's
- 3:35Speaker 1: just get right into it. Listen, if you haven't watched
- 3:38Speaker 1: the documentary, spoiler alert, We're going to reveal some things.
- 3:43Speaker 1: But I'll say this, it's worth the watch.
- 3:46Speaker 3: Smoke some weed first, illegally obtained or eat an edible
- 3:48Speaker 3: child because he he gonna work your nerves. That boy
- 3:52Speaker 3: ain't learned nothing, but go ahead, Sorry.
- 3:55Speaker 1: Okay, well let's talk about it. So the thing is this.
- 3:58Speaker 1: It starts off giving us a glimpse inside of his
- 4:01Speaker 1: personal life, you know, his childhood, growing up. His auntie
- 4:06Speaker 1: is a part of the documentary.
- 4:08Speaker 3: I love her.
- 4:10Speaker 1: Yeah, no, she's listen. She's like every black person untie
- 4:14Speaker 1: that still lives in the neighborhood because she doesn't want
- 4:17Speaker 1: to go away. She's kind of like pourl from two
- 4:19Speaker 1: to seven very much. So you know what I'm saying,
- 4:22Speaker 1: Like she's the one that kind of knows everything. She
- 4:25Speaker 1: talks about how his mom wanted to name Hi Lama,
- 4:28Speaker 1: but she said that words for sissy's and I'm like,
- 4:31Speaker 1: we still using that word in twenty twenty six.
- 4:33Speaker 3: Now, man, you got a fresh week, but not a
- 4:35Speaker 3: fresh attitude. What's going on? Ma'am, ma'am, you can't see that.
- 4:39Speaker 1: This is Netflix.
- 4:42Speaker 3: Hey, y'all Captain in the in the episode what is
- 4:46Speaker 3: that about?
- 4:47Speaker 1: But when you learn about his childhood, you know his
- 4:52Speaker 1: father always dealt with drugs unfortunately, and the relationship where
- 4:59Speaker 1: his mother wasn't always there. Starting starting from his childhood,
- 5:03Speaker 1: do you think that that really does paint the picture
- 5:09Speaker 1: of who Lamar is as an adult.
- 5:13Speaker 3: Yeah. Because one of the things that I realized immediately
- 5:16Speaker 3: is that Lamar Odom is a love bomber and an
- 5:20Speaker 3: addict and his daddy was a love bomber and an addict.
- 5:23Speaker 3: Because in the very beginning they talk about how his
- 5:25Speaker 3: father was charismatic but had a problem. Right, And when
- 5:29Speaker 3: you look at how Lamar met his baby mama, she
- 5:32Speaker 3: was crying over a broken heart and he love bombed
- 5:35Speaker 3: her during a week moment. Do we not just describe
- 5:37Speaker 3: Chloe Kardashian during every single season up until she met
- 5:41Speaker 3: Lamar Odom. Finding a damsel and presenting yourself as a
- 5:45Speaker 3: savior when you're about to be her biggest dependent feels
- 5:48Speaker 3: like a family curse that he got from his pappy. Yeah,
- 5:53Speaker 3: the apple didn't even leave the tree. Child's still stuck
- 5:55Speaker 3: on the branch. Ah, this is me being nice, car Loss.
- 6:01Speaker 3: I'm trying to be no and be listening. Let's get
- 6:04Speaker 3: into it.
- 6:04Speaker 1: Because the mother of his children, you know, like you said,
- 6:10Speaker 1: he she was dating one of his friends and when
- 6:15Speaker 1: right and when the boy broke her heart, Lamar's like,
- 6:21Speaker 1: give me a chance, And then she gave him a chance.
- 6:27Speaker 1: He starts to make some noise in school for his athleticism,
- 6:33Speaker 1: and then he gets her pregnant and then tells her
- 6:36Speaker 1: to follow me and she follows him.
- 6:39Speaker 3: Trapman?
- 6:42Speaker 1: Is that was that? What that was?
- 6:43Speaker 3: It was giving Trapman as a girl. Here's the thing,
- 6:45Speaker 3: me and Lamar Oldemar, we're all in the hout. Is
- 6:48Speaker 3: he like forty something like early forties?
- 6:49Speaker 1: Yeah, he definitely definitely laid forties.
- 6:51Speaker 3: He's he's older than me then, but like, let me
- 6:53Speaker 3: see because because you know, he had a hard life,
- 6:56Speaker 3: so we can't tell from his face.
- 6:57Speaker 1: Child Lord Jesus' girlfriend.
- 7:04Speaker 3: Me man, he triggered me. He is the main that
- 7:07Speaker 3: I fear. He's forty said okay, So Lamar and I
- 7:10Speaker 3: are like, okay, so in the same realm ish. Right
- 7:13Speaker 3: back then, if a cute boy liked you, there was
- 7:16Speaker 3: something about entrapment that used to happen, like, oh I
- 7:19Speaker 3: gave you a baby, you have to follow me around.
- 7:21Speaker 3: He is a very selfish man. And I watched the
- 7:25Speaker 3: documentary quickly realizing Lamar Odom is the black Charlie Sheen.
- 7:30Speaker 3: The only person who can take that many drugs, drop
- 7:32Speaker 3: dead and come back like Jesus from Eastern is Charlie
- 7:35Speaker 3: Sheen and Lamar Oldham. Those men are pickled and preserved
- 7:39Speaker 3: in drugs. Okay, the drugs are actually keeping them alive.
- 7:42Speaker 3: I don't recommend you try this at home. And the
- 7:44Speaker 3: man said, he said, yeah, I die for three days,
- 7:45Speaker 3: but I'm back though. What's like, wait, what That's not normal?
- 7:49Speaker 3: Only Charlie Sheen can do that. But in Charlie Sheen's documentary,
- 7:54Speaker 3: I do believe that Charlie Sheen evolved in some way.
- 7:57Speaker 3: I'm not absolving Charlie Sheen of his sins, but by
- 7:59Speaker 3: the the Charlie she documentary, I can see a little
- 8:02Speaker 3: bit of growth.
- 8:03Speaker 1: Child.
- 8:03Speaker 3: I watched the lamar Odom documentary and said, is there
- 8:05Speaker 3: another part three? Because where's the part where I feel
- 8:09Speaker 3: like he like learned something and is a better person.
- 8:14Speaker 1: Because when you listen, we can fast forward towards the
- 8:17Speaker 1: end because that ending sound by the moment the interview
- 8:22Speaker 1: was done and he wanted to go to Vegas, and
- 8:27Speaker 1: it was listen, it was sad because it was sort
- 8:30Speaker 1: of like, you went through this whirlwind of addiction and
- 8:36Speaker 1: despair and all the things death, and you still want
- 8:40Speaker 1: to you still want to party. And I thought that
- 8:43Speaker 1: was I don't know, I thought that was sad and
- 8:45Speaker 1: and and even when you go back to his his
- 8:49Speaker 1: child's mother, Liza Morales, and how they lost a child
- 8:54Speaker 1: due to crib death. Right, is that the to death?
- 8:58Speaker 3: Yeah, one of those type of situations.
- 9:00Speaker 1: Yeah, while he was on the road, and pretty much
- 9:04Speaker 1: how that situation unfortunately drove them apart because he was
- 9:10Speaker 1: making some noise you know, in the NBA, and he
- 9:12Speaker 1: moved her to Los Angeles and pretty much abandoned her
- 9:16Speaker 1: like he abandoned her.
- 9:17Speaker 3: Yeah, the same way he abandoned Chloe. And the thing
- 9:19Speaker 3: is too, is we talk about this on the main
- 9:21Speaker 3: show a lot about how when you're a woman and
- 9:24Speaker 3: you have any sort of power or cloud or platform,
- 9:28Speaker 3: there are these batty men who see you as a
- 9:31Speaker 3: cloud Chase. It wasn't until this documentary that I realized
- 9:33Speaker 3: that Lamar Odin was a batty because you would think
- 9:35Speaker 3: that because he was a basketball star and how all
- 9:38Speaker 3: this stuff. But the fact that he himself admits that
- 9:41Speaker 3: Chloe was a good look. Wow. So not even the
- 9:46Speaker 3: rich men of baddies. I was worried about the brokies,
- 9:48Speaker 3: not even the rich mentor baddies. Carlos, I'm gonna get
- 9:51Speaker 3: a dog, Okay, send me your breeder's name, because I
- 9:53Speaker 3: give up.
- 9:54Speaker 1: I give up.
- 9:55Speaker 3: Okay, y'all don't convinced meally broken alone? Now the rich
- 9:58Speaker 3: one's of batties too, I give up.
- 10:00Speaker 1: I give up. We need to we really need to
- 10:03Speaker 1: settle on this first of all, before we get to that,
- 10:07Speaker 1: because already already knew you when I was gonna clock
- 10:09Speaker 1: what he said, because I'm not sure a lot of
- 10:11Speaker 1: people did. Maybe they they they.
- 10:14Speaker 3: Always so much they don't want to humanize her.
- 10:18Speaker 1: We need to talk about did you gag when you
- 10:21Speaker 1: learn that they got Chloe Kardashian to even be featured
- 10:25Speaker 1: in the documentary?
- 10:26Speaker 3: I was tickled. It's the only reason I kept watching
- 10:28Speaker 3: when he kissed me off because the one thing I
- 10:31Speaker 3: would give about Chloe, and I've said this before years ago,
- 10:33Speaker 3: Chloye Kardashian has cosplaying as everybody's favorite downtrodden black auntie,
- 10:38Speaker 3: and so the black Auntie lives inside of her. I
- 10:40Speaker 3: will always feel some kind of sincere sadness for because
- 10:43Speaker 3: we all know that black women in our family who's
- 10:45Speaker 3: trying to save all these men and die is depleted. Right.
- 10:49Speaker 3: Even Chloe has said she's been settling it for like
- 10:50Speaker 3: three years now because she doesn't want to look at
- 10:52Speaker 3: another penis again because of Lamar and them. Right, So
- 10:55Speaker 3: the black woman lives in said of Loye Kardashian, I'm
- 10:57Speaker 3: gonna always have some kind of sympathy for And part
- 10:59Speaker 3: of what I saw was a woman who gave everything
- 11:03Speaker 3: for a man who benefited heavily and is still not
- 11:06Speaker 3: grateful enough for me. That man is un grateful. Lamar Odom,
- 11:12Speaker 3: you are ungrateful my birthday twin. Kelly Clarkson said, what
- 11:15Speaker 3: doesn't kill you make you stronger. Kelly, you were wrong.
- 11:17Speaker 3: What doesn't kill you sometimes gives you more audacity. He
- 11:21Speaker 3: didn't get stronger, He's just more audacious. He literally ended
- 11:23Speaker 3: the documentary by saying, I'm about to go to Vegas
- 11:25Speaker 3: and get married.
- 11:26Speaker 1: Child.
- 11:26Speaker 3: I'm about to find another victim baby like he's still outside, Carlos.
- 11:30Speaker 3: Not everybody gets better with age.
- 11:35Speaker 1: It was the thing about is this. It was disheartening
- 11:38Speaker 1: to I have to get it out. Yeah, Sam, I
- 11:43Speaker 1: don't think he ever was in love with Chloe.
- 11:45Speaker 3: I don't even know.
- 11:46Speaker 1: I think he loved the idea of being with Chloe
- 11:48Speaker 1: Kardashian because again rain Drops, if you haven't watched it,
- 11:55Speaker 1: is what he said.
- 11:56Speaker 3: That.
- 11:56Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I clocked it immediately, and he said, yeah,
- 12:01Speaker 1: I'm around this family, and I'm like, oh, I can
- 12:03Speaker 1: get used to this. This is what I need. It
- 12:06Speaker 1: was never like I'm in love with her, none of
- 12:10Speaker 1: those things. She was in love with him. I didn't
- 12:12Speaker 1: realize she was so young, twenty four years old when
- 12:14Speaker 1: they got married within thirty days of meeting each other.
- 12:18Speaker 1: He was plotting against her the way the women back
- 12:22Speaker 1: in the day some of the day poke hoos and
- 12:24Speaker 1: consums to get pregnant by the rich rapper.
- 12:27Speaker 3: I'm gonna look at what day did they get married?
- 12:28Speaker 3: Lamar odom Chloe Kardashian marriage, because you know we are
- 12:31Speaker 3: we're journalists here, guys, and said, we want to make
- 12:34Speaker 3: sure that we get the dates right, because hold on,
- 12:36Speaker 3: I have a little bit of tea mar odo. Okay,
- 12:39Speaker 3: So they were married in two thousand and nine. Marriage date.
- 12:41Speaker 3: I want to get the exact date.
- 12:43Speaker 1: Yes, please, they were.
- 12:44Speaker 3: Married September twenty seven, two thousand and nine. So they
- 12:48Speaker 3: met in September, late August and then got married in
- 12:51Speaker 3: late September. Right, I saw Chloe Kardashian and I don't
- 12:54Speaker 3: think I've ever said this anywhere before I ran into
- 12:56Speaker 3: Kloya Kardashian the month before she met Lamar Odom. It
- 13:00Speaker 3: was July two thousand and nine. I was working for
- 13:03Speaker 3: a nonprofit that was flying me to Vegas for a conference.
- 13:07Speaker 3: I had it layover in Los Angeles and took a
- 13:10Speaker 3: flight with Kim Kardashian, Reggie Bush, and Chloe Kardashian the
- 13:14Speaker 3: month before she met Lamar Chloya Kardashian was the third wheel.
- 13:19Speaker 3: And I remember sitting there like, is that Kim Kardashian
- 13:22Speaker 3: at my gate? No, that's not Kim Kardashian my gate,
- 13:23Speaker 3: because they were still fairly new two thousand and nine,
- 13:25Speaker 3: was right, but Lurid became strataspheric, right. And I remember
- 13:28Speaker 3: I got in the flight with them and they were
- 13:30Speaker 3: in first class, and I was like in Comfort Plus
- 13:32Speaker 3: or something like a couple of rows behind them, and
- 13:33Speaker 3: I'm just staring at them like it's Kim Kardashian, Reggie.
- 13:36Speaker 3: But first of all, everybody shorter than I thought. I'm
- 13:38Speaker 3: five nine, so me and Chloe were the same height.
- 13:40Speaker 3: I was like, Chloe is not as fat as I thought.
- 13:42Speaker 3: She's prettier than I thought. She looked like a lonely
- 13:44Speaker 3: third wheel. Though right she looked like a lonely third wheel.
- 13:48Speaker 3: Fast forward all these years now watching the documentary and
- 13:50Speaker 3: hearing his first baby Mama talk about how he grabbed her.
- 13:55Speaker 3: It's very much the same way that Chloe was the
- 13:57Speaker 3: month before they met. She seemed like a pretty lonely
- 14:00Speaker 3: girl who was right for the picking the fact that
- 14:03Speaker 3: I saw her in that light, and then a month
- 14:05Speaker 3: later she's in this world were marriage with this man
- 14:07Speaker 3: who I think is a love bomber. There's something predatory
- 14:10Speaker 3: about it that I can't unsee, Carlos, because that girl
- 14:13Speaker 3: in that in that at Lax looked like a lonely
- 14:15Speaker 3: third wheel with her her sister and her cute boyfriend.
- 14:20Speaker 3: And I was like, that's exactly the kind of girl
- 14:21Speaker 3: that a guy like Lamar would go after, because your
- 14:24Speaker 3: Kardashian adjacent, Like, you're not the pretty sister, but you're
- 14:27Speaker 3: right next to the throne. You have access to all
- 14:30Speaker 3: the things that Kim and Chris and them have, but
- 14:32Speaker 3: you're the weak spot that the press is making fun
- 14:34Speaker 3: of who clearly is visibly lonely.
- 14:39Speaker 1: Nine and and and one thing that I learned about
- 14:42Speaker 1: straight man because straight men have said this to me.
- 14:45Speaker 1: Straight men have said they can spot a woman with
- 14:48Speaker 1: daddy issues, and they can spot a woman who's lonely,
- 14:51Speaker 1: and what and and and listen, Blue is right because
- 14:54Speaker 1: again straight man said this to me. They go after
- 14:58Speaker 1: you because they are able to who sort of mowed
- 15:00Speaker 1: you to be the woman they want you to be,
- 15:02Speaker 1: and they know you're not gonna leave them, and they
- 15:05Speaker 1: do everything else.
- 15:06Speaker 3: They're grateful to be chose. I tell people all the time.
- 15:08Speaker 3: One of the things that scares me is a lot
- 15:10Speaker 3: of attractive men in Hollywood when they hit on me,
- 15:13Speaker 3: are annoyed when I'm not more grateful to be chosen.
- 15:17Speaker 3: How dare you think we're equals? Like, I'm fine. There's
- 15:20Speaker 3: a couple of people that y'all call your man crushed
- 15:22Speaker 3: Monday's who I've curved, who called me a bitch because
- 15:24Speaker 3: how dare I turn you down? Oh honey, Yes, we'll
- 15:26Speaker 3: talk off camera. And they get very upset because they're
- 15:30Speaker 3: thinking you're racially unabiguous black women over thirty five and
- 15:33Speaker 3: you plus size. You should just be happy that I
- 15:35Speaker 3: want to smell your draws. I'm like, no, I actually
- 15:36Speaker 3: have self esteem. I have a great therapist. Men men
- 15:40Speaker 3: like that get very angry when you're not reallying to
- 15:42Speaker 3: kiss the ring in that way, and Lamar owed him
- 15:45Speaker 3: very much comes off like that. To me, I think
- 15:48Speaker 3: this documentary did him no favors. I actually liked him
- 15:51Speaker 3: more before the documentary.
- 15:53Speaker 1: It explained that to me. Was it okay, did a
- 15:56Speaker 1: lot of they have to do with you know, we'll
- 16:00Speaker 1: we're going to dive into this some more. Was it
- 16:02Speaker 1: his treatment towards Chloe from the first day they met
- 16:05Speaker 1: until the day she smelled the crack and saw him
- 16:07Speaker 1: smoking it at the house after recovery? Was it? Was it,
- 16:12Speaker 1: like you said earlier, the audacity of how he just
- 16:18Speaker 1: isn't It's one thing because addiction is real addiction. You
- 16:23Speaker 1: really it does have a strong hold on you. Do
- 16:26Speaker 1: you give him a pass because the addiction or do
- 16:28Speaker 1: you think the addiction aside before he, as he said,
- 16:32Speaker 1: did his first cocaine in Miami later in life, and
- 16:38Speaker 1: he's a legend. He did his first hit of cocaine
- 16:42Speaker 1: in Miami after he met Chloe. That's what he's a legend.
- 16:46Speaker 1: Here's the thing.
- 16:47Speaker 3: The addiction is why I was showing him grace because
- 16:49Speaker 3: it is a disease and I recognized it as a disease, right, yeah,
- 16:52Speaker 3: it is. My issue is hindsight was supposed to be
- 16:54Speaker 3: twenty twenty it wasn't. My thing is those moments of
- 16:57Speaker 3: clarity that even addicts have, the lack of depth in
- 17:00Speaker 3: those moments of clarity, and his mask slipping and showing
- 17:04Speaker 3: that when he wasn't being addicted in that moment, he
- 17:06Speaker 3: was being conniving. It's the conniving part, it's the cloud
- 17:10Speaker 3: chaser part. I do think that being in the shadow
- 17:13Speaker 3: of like a Kobe Bryant and then finding your way
- 17:15Speaker 3: to be bigger than the Kobe did something to him.
- 17:18Speaker 3: I think he was the and I hate to use
- 17:21Speaker 3: this analogy. Back in the nineties and early two thousand,
- 17:23Speaker 3: used to be like, are you the Kelly Rowland or
- 17:25Speaker 3: the Beyonce we now know in twenty twenty six to
- 17:28Speaker 3: Kelly Rowlan is a bad bitch, right, but back in
- 17:30Speaker 3: the day, she's just gorgeous. She's a stunning specimen of
- 17:33Speaker 3: a woman. But back in the day, before we knew better,
- 17:35Speaker 3: we saw her as second we saw her as the sidekick,
- 17:38Speaker 3: and it was always a running joke, are you the
- 17:40Speaker 3: main character or the sidekick? Lamar Odom was always adjacent
- 17:44Speaker 3: to the glamour right, the Kardashians finally centered him and
- 17:51Speaker 3: him being cognizant of it and admitting in retrospect that
- 17:54Speaker 3: it was intentional. That's why he lost favorite with me.
- 17:57Speaker 3: When Chloe said I did not want to do Chloe
- 18:00Speaker 3: and Lamar. That was Lamar's idea.
- 18:03Speaker 1: Which I had, which up until up until she said that,
- 18:07Speaker 1: you could not have convinced me that wasn't them.
- 18:10Speaker 3: I thought it was Chris. I thought it was Chris.
- 18:12Speaker 1: Oh and when I said them, I met Chris.
- 18:14Speaker 3: We blame everything on Chris. Y'all got me up here
- 18:17Speaker 3: defending Chris Jenner. My got today. We all Chris Jender
- 18:21Speaker 3: in the bologies. This entire time, it was Lamar.
- 18:25Speaker 4: This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King.
- 18:28Speaker 1: Let's get back into the show. When he said I
- 18:33Speaker 1: was on I was on TV twice every Sunday, first
- 18:36Speaker 1: of basketball game, then the reality show, and then when
- 18:39Speaker 1: they showed that Cringey, that Unisex perfume cologne commercial.
- 18:45Speaker 3: I remember when it happened.
- 18:46Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like, oh you, I let me tell
- 18:52Speaker 1: you something. I felt so bad for her because again
- 18:55Speaker 1: going back to her being twenty four meeting this man
- 18:59Speaker 1: thirty days give me married. And Chloe has been very
- 19:02Speaker 1: honest about was she like like Blue intimated, how how
- 19:07Speaker 1: she was perceived of growing up? Who are you and
- 19:12Speaker 1: the family? Like you don't look like anything like Kim
- 19:15Speaker 1: and Courtney.
- 19:16Speaker 3: Like the ugly one.
- 19:17Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she she's always said that, and and the
- 19:22Speaker 1: the idea of he took advantage of that to me
- 19:28Speaker 1: just based on everything he said, in addition to the
- 19:30Speaker 1: fact that when the mistress called Chris first being Chloe
- 19:39Speaker 1: and said come get your husband on fucking him.
- 19:47Speaker 3: Let me tell you something about we need to do
- 19:49Speaker 3: a whole episode on mail Baddy. It's like, we need
- 19:50Speaker 3: to have an intervention with the seriously, because let's try
- 19:54Speaker 3: someone who ad minute though, because they're too proud to
- 19:56Speaker 3: admit it. Right. I once knew a mailbody Batty in Hollywood, who,
- 20:01Speaker 3: while he was trying to talk to me, was gloating
- 20:04Speaker 3: that he was dating and the side piece of the
- 20:07Speaker 3: fiance of a media mogul. And he was talking about
- 20:11Speaker 3: how like, yeah, you know, he might be rich and stuff,
- 20:12Speaker 3: because you know, baddies resent Richmond. He might be rich
- 20:15Speaker 3: and successful in stuff, but his bitch spent money on me,
- 20:17Speaker 3: taking me on vacation, and I'm like, I thought it
- 20:19Speaker 3: was supposed to be on a day. This is awkward
- 20:22Speaker 3: and he's fine as hell. You'll die when you know
- 20:24Speaker 3: who it is. He's fine as hell, So I'm just like, ooh,
- 20:26Speaker 3: this is this is We are never having sex. But
- 20:29Speaker 3: to see how much he gloated about the pillow talk
- 20:32Speaker 3: between him and her, about the powerful person that they
- 20:35Speaker 3: were in Kahouts against. I very much believe that all
- 20:38Speaker 3: of Lamar's bitches knew about his Kardashianis and they were
- 20:43Speaker 3: probably privileged to way more than they were supposed to be.
- 20:46Speaker 3: And knowing that's how the baddies speak to their other
- 20:49Speaker 3: women does not surprise me at all that she felt
- 20:52Speaker 3: the audacity to She probably felt like she knew the
- 20:54Speaker 3: family for talking to him all the time. He's a
- 20:57Speaker 3: liability in a way that is much louder than I
- 21:00Speaker 3: ever perceived. And I do think that the Kardashian women
- 21:03Speaker 3: do have a soft spot for coddling broken black men.
- 21:06Speaker 3: We've talked about this previously, and I can't imagine how
- 21:09Speaker 3: Chris felt watching that documentary. You're still gloating about taking
- 21:15Speaker 3: advantage of my daughter years later, when you had all
- 21:18Speaker 3: these opportunities to clean yourself up and say I'm so sorry.
- 21:21Speaker 3: Like years later, you're still gloating, Carlos, He was gloating
- 21:24Speaker 3: about taking advantage of her. He wasn't remorseful. He thinks
- 21:28Speaker 3: it's cute now present tense twenty twenty six. He still
- 21:30Speaker 3: thinks it's cute now. Lamar odem, Sir, you were better
- 21:35Speaker 3: off doing a KFC commercial than doing that documentary. Child,
- 21:40Speaker 3: That was not just for your legacy. You were better
- 21:43Speaker 3: off being finger licking good and telling us that you
- 21:45Speaker 3: are worse than we ever imagined. I thought you were sick.
- 21:47Speaker 3: You sick and you are bad, bitch. That's a bad combination.
- 21:50Speaker 1: Child, This is what.
- 21:54Speaker 3: You were expecting, Carlos.
- 21:56Speaker 1: Yeah, Hi's listen. I knew you would dissect us in
- 22:05Speaker 1: a way that no one else could because of your
- 22:08Speaker 1: education and just insight based on the dynamics of Mars
- 22:13Speaker 1: versus being as and as that all relates in Hollywood.
- 22:16Speaker 1: Because the thing is this, I really and it's interesting
- 22:21Speaker 1: you brought up Charlie Sheen, which I watched that documentary
- 22:24Speaker 1: and it had like three episodes because we're talking about
- 22:27Speaker 1: Charlie fucking she right worthy of three episodes. But I
- 22:31Speaker 1: agree with you. I did feel towards the end there
- 22:34Speaker 1: was a level of remorse and if he could do
- 22:38Speaker 1: things all over again, it would be different. And I
- 22:41Speaker 1: appreciate the fact that him and Denny's richers have a relationship.
- 22:45Speaker 1: Chloe Lamar do not have a relationship today. We never
- 22:50Speaker 1: talked about this publicly. Did you watch the episode where
- 22:54Speaker 1: he was on The Kardashians last season and he brought
- 22:58Speaker 1: the sheet cake? He was hours late, and I remember
- 23:03Speaker 1: watching it feeling like something's not right here, and I
- 23:07Speaker 1: never want to assume anything, And I think Chloe's coldness
- 23:13Speaker 1: was because she also was like, you're just not gonna change,
- 23:16Speaker 1: and as a producer, I gotta get this out. I
- 23:19Speaker 1: believe the reason why Lamar now was on The Kardashians
- 23:23Speaker 1: is because Chloe said, I'll do the Netflix thing and
- 23:25Speaker 1: it wasn't even exchange. That makes sense, Yeah.
- 23:29Speaker 3: That makes and honestly too, when you're someone who is
- 23:33Speaker 3: used to overextending grace to people that they haven't earned,
- 23:37Speaker 3: it always irritates you when someone doesn't show any gratitude
- 23:42Speaker 3: that they're getting somethingthing from you that they haven't earned,
- 23:44Speaker 3: and they want even more right, we allner that feel Carlos.
- 23:47Speaker 3: I know that the people who have been honingful to
- 23:49Speaker 3: you because carl Hinton and Carlos doesn't get his flowers.
- 23:51Speaker 3: Carlos puts everybody on, but not everybody says thank you?
- 23:54Speaker 3: Do you, Carlos? And I peep that, like I've been
- 23:55Speaker 3: watching right, you know, I like to study people, right,
- 23:58Speaker 3: and so you know what it's like to be general
- 24:00Speaker 3: and be around ungrateful people. It's hurtful, and it's very
- 24:04Speaker 3: hurtful because you're like, damn, if I did you the
- 24:07Speaker 3: way you did me this one, you wouldn't even have
- 24:09Speaker 3: the opportunity to be breathing my air right now. Like
- 24:12Speaker 3: the fact that we even breathing the same air is
- 24:13Speaker 3: already grace in itself, because you've aren't much worse than this, right,
- 24:17Speaker 3: And I do feel for Chloe that she's like, I've
- 24:20Speaker 3: still kept it cute when I could have eastered you
- 24:24Speaker 3: and you're in my face with a fucking Sheetcake acting
- 24:27Speaker 3: like it was just a misunderstanding. I'm on Chloe's side
- 24:32Speaker 3: on this one. Oh.
- 24:33Speaker 1: I listened team Chloe on this as well, because the
- 24:37Speaker 1: thing is this, I she was in love with him
- 24:42Speaker 1: and listen to hear how she Unfortunately, she admitted I
- 24:49Speaker 1: was an enabler. This is my husband. I thought he
- 24:52Speaker 1: could get better. I hated when he was off season
- 24:56Speaker 1: because it gave him permission to be out all night
- 24:58Speaker 1: doing drugs. I watch him crack. The smell of it,
- 25:02Speaker 1: you'll never forget, and the fact that she was around
- 25:07Speaker 1: all of that. Decides to leave the situation. He goes
- 25:11Speaker 1: to the Love Branch. First of all, the owner of
- 25:13Speaker 1: the Love Branch. You thought Tiger King was a whack job, right, mother,
- 25:20Speaker 1: This man is just as cuckoo for Coca Pops. And
- 25:25Speaker 1: to note that he took and when I say he
- 25:29Speaker 1: lamar Odom, he took twelve of the sexual enhancement drug
- 25:34Speaker 1: called reload that you're supposed to say once a day.
- 25:39Speaker 1: If that he took twelve in one day, twelve, he's.
- 25:42Speaker 3: Supposed to be dead. Like this man is a medical miracle.
- 25:47Speaker 3: But here's the thing, Carls. Did you see the part
- 25:48Speaker 3: at the beginning though where they said they recreated where
- 25:51Speaker 3: the hotel scene where he died in a museum. There's
- 25:55Speaker 3: a museum. Now lamar Odom almost dying has now become
- 25:59Speaker 3: a main attraction for lamar Odom and everybody he's attached
- 26:02Speaker 3: to it. That's how sick the attachment to celebrity is.
- 26:05Speaker 3: We'll take that nasty nearest experience. They're supposed to scare
- 26:08Speaker 3: you straight. Back in the day, scared straight actually worked.
- 26:11Speaker 3: Now scared straight is like an infomercial for the next
- 26:13Speaker 3: content creator, like ooh, if I almost Zion come back,
- 26:15Speaker 3: I get to be an influencer. Like, no, that's not.
- 26:18Speaker 1: How you were supposed to take that.
- 26:19Speaker 3: This is not a good thing. So like they're all
- 26:22Speaker 3: living as if that moment of him almost dying and
- 26:24Speaker 3: them dominating the news feed, it's like the highlight of
- 26:27Speaker 3: all of their lives. That is sad.
- 26:31Speaker 1: It's it's so sad. And the thing hearing that he
- 26:35Speaker 1: literally had twelve strokes, six heart attacks and Chloe finds out,
- 26:42Speaker 1: drops what she's doing and is there with him in
- 26:46Speaker 1: the hospital in Las Vegas feeding him and had twenty
- 26:51Speaker 1: four hour security because she said the drug dealers were
- 26:55Speaker 1: coming to supply him with drugs as he's gonna Oh.
- 27:02Speaker 3: The baby Mama had a little attitude though at that
- 27:04Speaker 3: part that.
- 27:05Speaker 1: That you are my I said, not too much say
- 27:12Speaker 1: because I know what you're talking about. Say what she
- 27:13Speaker 1: said that bab I was like this, Okay, Liza girl.
- 27:18Speaker 3: I'm shrying to be on your side. Not too much.
- 27:20Speaker 1: Friend you gave you tell them recite the park park
- 27:26Speaker 1: you're talking about.
- 27:27Speaker 3: So Klaria Kardashian, here's the thing about clayk Karashian. And
- 27:29Speaker 3: I will say, as somebody who understands that kind of girl,
- 27:32Speaker 3: we understand that kind of girl. When my father is
- 27:35Speaker 3: Robert Kardashian and the old j Case, and your mother's
- 27:38Speaker 3: christ Jener and your sister is Kim fucking Kardashian, there's
- 27:41Speaker 3: a certain level of You're used to the glamour to
- 27:44Speaker 3: a certain degree where it doesn't razzle dazzle you anymore, right,
- 27:47Speaker 3: And so Chloe's used to a certain level of celebrity
- 27:51Speaker 3: that everybody else will gag over. She also has to
- 27:53Speaker 3: learn the hard way about gatekeeping, because when you are
- 27:57Speaker 3: that conspicuous, everybody wants to be a barn. When she
- 28:01Speaker 3: finds out the drug dealers are trying to come to
- 28:02Speaker 3: the hospital, she says, for security reasons, we now have
- 28:06Speaker 3: to have a list and be restricted about who gets
- 28:10Speaker 3: access to Lamar because this is now turned to a
- 28:12Speaker 3: fucking circus right. My husband's a clown and now I
- 28:15Speaker 3: let the circus right? Makes sense? Maybe Mama talking about
- 28:19Speaker 3: when I walked in there, they wanted to the files
- 28:21Speaker 3: on the list. Do you know who the fuck I?
- 28:23Speaker 4: Girl? Girl?
- 28:27Speaker 3: You have an attitude that you have to give your
- 28:29Speaker 3: name for the list. She's keeping him alive, but you
- 28:35Speaker 3: mad that you had to get show your id. Throw
- 28:40Speaker 3: everybody away, child, I hate it here. I hate everybody.
- 28:45Speaker 3: Throw everybody away. Y'all got me caping for this white lady.
- 28:48Speaker 3: Throw everybody away. You know I'm not for Latina. I
- 28:52Speaker 3: want to be on your side. But you saw you
- 28:54Speaker 3: sound like a cloud right now. But that's my love
- 28:57Speaker 3: because of the end of the day.
- 28:59Speaker 1: Listen, fun intended it's black or white, right.
- 29:04Speaker 3: You spelled thank you incorrectly, baby, not thank you for
- 29:08Speaker 3: keeping my nigga alive. I got I'm gonna list you.
- 29:12Speaker 3: Do you know who I am? Yes?
- 29:13Speaker 2: You.
- 29:13Speaker 3: The bitch couldn't afford the list. That's why she made
- 29:15Speaker 3: the list and you're on it. Jesus wept. I please
- 29:22Speaker 3: watch this. I feel like me and Carls are setting
- 29:23Speaker 3: 'allup to watch them. That's gonna spike your blood pressure.
- 29:25Speaker 1: No, it's listen it like Blue said, this document this documentary,
- 29:32Speaker 1: watching it, it wasn't a complete opposite. When I thought
- 29:35Speaker 1: I was gonna.
- 29:36Speaker 3: It's a ship show, it was a ship show. Carl.
- 29:38Speaker 3: Carl said, he are you watching the Lamar documentary? I said, oh,
- 29:40Speaker 3: it's on BET And then halfway through, Bridges whipped me
- 29:43Speaker 3: and me. I look at Bridges like, this is a
- 29:44Speaker 3: ship show. Nobody's getting better. Everybody sucks. What's happening everybody?
- 29:49Speaker 1: It's not. It's not a redemption story to me because
- 29:54Speaker 1: to like you said, Chloe literally is trying to make
- 29:58Speaker 1: this guy main alive with a little hope. Right, So,
- 30:04Speaker 1: and this is no shade to anyone else. I am
- 30:07Speaker 1: team Chloe again because and again when I say this,
- 30:11Speaker 1: I mean this respectfully. We know that unfortunately in the enablers,
- 30:17Speaker 1: like Clay admitted, she's his wife, enabler meeting she will
- 30:22Speaker 1: watch him do it. She admitted that who's to say
- 30:25Speaker 1: that me allowing your baby mama and your kids without
- 30:28Speaker 1: being vetted. I don't know if they're going to give
- 30:32Speaker 1: you something. You know, I'm trying to keep you alive.
- 30:37Speaker 1: And yes, I understand that if you are the baby
- 30:40Speaker 1: mama of lamar Odam. I'm not gonna lie to you.
- 30:42Speaker 1: I don't if you're the child of lamar Otam. Yes,
- 30:46Speaker 1: the baby. I'm sorry, with all due respect, you have
- 30:51Speaker 1: nothing to offer to this situation and you don't have
- 30:54Speaker 1: a say you are the baby.
- 30:57Speaker 3: It's ensy because by that point Chloye looks like a
- 30:59Speaker 3: rich or white version of her. Can we be honest
- 31:02Speaker 3: that there was some envy? Yeah, my upgrade put me
- 31:06Speaker 3: on a list. How dare you? Girl? I get it,
- 31:10Speaker 3: but I don't right, I get it. And here's the thing.
- 31:12Speaker 3: Chloe had just walked in on your daddy trying to
- 31:14Speaker 3: pull the plug for a check. So the whole family thing,
- 31:18Speaker 3: even family's not safe. And here's the thing, I don't
- 31:21Speaker 3: know if you've seen it in the news. Lamar Odom
- 31:23Speaker 3: has come forward and says that he does not believe
- 31:25Speaker 3: that Chloy Kardashian stopped his father from pulling the plug. Ungrateful,
- 31:31Speaker 3: your drug addict, the daddy that didn't raise you suddenly
- 31:34Speaker 3: is an angel that Chloe Kardashian is lying on even
- 31:36Speaker 3: though she did.
- 31:37Speaker 1: Okay, and you know you and I believe in this too.
- 31:41Speaker 1: Certain things is like, who makes this up when she
- 31:44Speaker 1: said about your father, Joe wanted to pull the plug
- 31:48Speaker 1: and she said, Joe, what are you doing? Let him go?
- 31:51Speaker 1: And she was like, what do you want? Give me nikes,
- 31:54Speaker 1: cigarettes in a hotel room, or some shit that is
- 31:58Speaker 1: so specific that Chloe, why don't she make up a
- 32:02Speaker 1: pair of shoes, some cigarettes, or one hundred dollars in
- 32:05Speaker 1: a hotel Yes, Like the thing is when I saw
- 32:12Speaker 1: him do it the Today Show and that was a
- 32:15Speaker 1: Today show.
- 32:16Speaker 3: That he did, he said that that was a Today
- 32:18Speaker 3: I watched it.
- 32:19Speaker 1: I watched it. Oh, I want to gag you some more.
- 32:31Speaker 1: Jenna and Chanelle said it was great to see Chloe
- 32:37Speaker 1: save your life and he said, God saved my life.
- 32:40Speaker 3: Oh see.
- 32:42Speaker 1: And they first of all they gagged and said, well yeah, God, yeah,
- 32:50Speaker 1: but Chloe and he was like, hey, just so y'all know,
- 32:54Speaker 1: you know she did what she did. But God, I'm
- 32:57Speaker 1: I'm I'm here because of God.
- 33:00Speaker 3: I hate that.
- 33:01Speaker 1: And it was like, yes, like we're all breathing because
- 33:04Speaker 1: of God. That doesn't mean that this woman did I
- 33:07Speaker 1: sacrifice her entire six months to nurse you back to help.
- 33:15Speaker 3: And literally the only reason in your life.
- 33:19Speaker 1: I felt. He said this yesterday the Today's Show was lying.
- 33:25Speaker 3: Charlie Sheen would never. Y'all got me up here, using
- 33:27Speaker 3: Charlie Sheen as a moral litmus, right, Charlie Sheen would
- 33:31Speaker 3: never lamar, you are an ungrateful Kyle. And I hope
- 33:35Speaker 3: that Chloye Kardashian can finally end this chapter now that
- 33:38Speaker 3: we know that she has been keeping even more secrets
- 33:40Speaker 3: than we thought. It's worse than we thought. It's worse
- 33:43Speaker 3: than And I also think this is why the family
- 33:45Speaker 3: is so protective of Chloe.
- 33:47Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 33:48Speaker 3: If we're this infuriated watching a well curated edited clip,
- 33:51Speaker 3: imagine watching this happen in real time for years and
- 33:54Speaker 3: years and years while the whole world is feeling bad
- 33:56Speaker 3: about his addiction but not recognizing how you're shitting on
- 33:59Speaker 3: the person who's keeping you all. Yeah, yeah, no, I
- 34:05Speaker 3: will say this. Not everybody gets better with age. Lamar
- 34:10Speaker 3: Odom is a reminder that you can have every reason
- 34:12Speaker 3: to be grateful and still and up a mess and
- 34:16Speaker 3: growth is a choice, right lamar Odom. I think his
- 34:20Speaker 3: Kardashian years until the day he dies, he will constantly
- 34:23Speaker 3: talk about it. I think that was his heyday for him.
- 34:25Speaker 3: More so than his NBA career. He talks about his
- 34:29Speaker 3: Kardashian years way more than he does about his NBA career,
- 34:32Speaker 3: because he doesn't care about the legacy. He cares about
- 34:35Speaker 3: the clout. He's a cloud demon. It's official. I blue too, Loosemian.
- 34:40Speaker 3: These are not the thoughts of Carlos or anybody I
- 34:44Speaker 3: blue to looseman think that lamar Odam is a cloud demon.
- 34:49Speaker 3: I've seen too many cloud demons up close. I know
- 34:51Speaker 3: him when I see one. And I do think that's
- 34:53Speaker 3: why she's given up, Because when Chloe talks about giving
- 34:56Speaker 3: up on men in that way, I think it's because
- 35:00Speaker 3: conceived of her that you could invest this much and
- 35:02Speaker 3: love that purely and be that selfless and still walk
- 35:06Speaker 3: away with nothing and not even a proper thank you,
- 35:09Speaker 3: A sheet kick on camera, that's.
- 35:10Speaker 1: It, baby again hours late, and was sweating the whole time,
- 35:17Speaker 1: and it was it was sad to watch. And even
- 35:21Speaker 1: when she said how she after he got out of
- 35:27Speaker 1: a coma and he was nursed back to hell, he
- 35:30Speaker 1: could walk again, talk again, and all these things. She
- 35:34Speaker 1: got a house pretty much next door across the street
- 35:37Speaker 1: from her in Calabasas, and she smelled the crack and
- 35:41Speaker 1: saw him do it and punched him in the face.
- 35:45Speaker 1: Good for you, I was the donna say think but
- 35:49Speaker 1: it's what you're saying. It's sort of like, since I
- 35:53Speaker 1: was twenty four years old, you have done nothing but
- 35:58Speaker 1: been a news to take, take and take and take
- 36:03Speaker 1: and take and take. And I thought, at least this, ooh,
- 36:09Speaker 1: maybe this mmmm. I gotta ask you because you would
- 36:11Speaker 1: know better than me. Do you think she expected? Maybe
- 36:16Speaker 1: he will, at least for the first time since I've
- 36:19Speaker 1: met this man, would appreciate this. He did appreciate me
- 36:22Speaker 1: the marriage, but maybe he would appreciate the fact that
- 36:27Speaker 1: I helped get you back to being lamar odom. Yeah,
- 36:32Speaker 1: and you're still giving your ask the kids by smoking
- 36:36Speaker 1: crack in the.
- 36:37Speaker 3: Crack in the house. Honestly, you know how sometimes when
- 36:42Speaker 3: you break up from an ex that you really loved,
- 36:44Speaker 3: and you convince yourself that there's this one reason why
- 36:48Speaker 3: they couldn't do right by you, and if this one
- 36:50Speaker 3: thing was just addressed, y'all, could you know the one
- 36:53Speaker 3: that got away? We all had that conversation about the
- 36:55Speaker 3: one who got away? Right? I had a one who
- 36:57Speaker 3: got away? Where literally, because you guys know how do readings.
- 37:00Speaker 3: I had to read it tell me, hey, you have
- 37:01Speaker 3: more than one soul mate, and one of them might
- 37:03Speaker 3: fuck it up, so when you meet him. Yeah, it
- 37:05Speaker 3: was devastating. And the minute I met him, I knew
- 37:08Speaker 3: it was him, and I kept hoping that he would
- 37:10Speaker 3: rise to the occasion. Do you know he came across
- 37:12Speaker 3: my He's blocked and everything, but he came across my
- 37:14Speaker 3: feet through somebody else last week and I was like, Wow,
- 37:18Speaker 3: I've gone through all this evolution, You're still that guy.
- 37:22Speaker 3: Nothing we went through taught you anything, Carlos. It made
- 37:26Speaker 3: me so sad because fuck us being together. I was
- 37:28Speaker 3: at least hoping that what happened between has changed me.
- 37:31Speaker 3: I was hoping it would change you. Some people will
- 37:37Speaker 3: die the way that you left them. Not everybody evolves
- 37:40Speaker 3: over time, and there's a heartbreak that comes not from
- 37:44Speaker 3: the relationship not working, but for knowing, oh, you were
- 37:46Speaker 3: never going to be better than this, that thing I
- 37:50Speaker 3: saw in you, that little glimmer was never going to
- 37:52Speaker 3: come into fruition. I think Lamar is that for I
- 37:56Speaker 3: think Lamar broke Chloe more than trist ended.
- 38:00Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, just ahead, Lizzie, Lizzy, No, Lidy's got
- 38:07Speaker 1: a word child. Yes, yes, yes, because the thing is
- 38:11Speaker 1: this you it's the difference between Lamar and Tristan and
- 38:19Speaker 1: and and I'll give her this. With Tristan that is
- 38:23Speaker 1: obviously the father of her child, so there's always going
- 38:27Speaker 1: to be some connection there. So she has to buy
- 38:30Speaker 1: default in a lot of ways. The Lamar thing, I
- 38:32Speaker 1: think I think she really loved him. I think that's
- 38:35Speaker 1: her first love. I think she thought this was my
- 38:38Speaker 1: forever man. You know when she talked about the candy
- 38:40Speaker 1: and him being goofy, like he was everything that, you know,
- 38:44Speaker 1: she thought like, oh, this is my connection. And I
- 38:46Speaker 1: think in Chloe's defense too, you know, listen at that
- 38:50Speaker 1: time for her too, Kim got Reggie, Courtney has Scott,
- 38:55Speaker 1: and I have a basketball player who's handsome and tall
- 38:59Speaker 1: and he's with Kobe and my brother Rob looks up
- 39:03Speaker 1: to him, you know, like it was.
- 39:05Speaker 3: But the candy. Can we get back to the candy?
- 39:09Speaker 3: When you love and we both know what it's like
- 39:11Speaker 3: to be around men who are charming. Yes, when you
- 39:16Speaker 3: see that broken little when you fall in love with
- 39:18Speaker 3: the man and you see the broken little boy inside
- 39:19Speaker 3: of him, it touches something in you, and I think Lamar,
- 39:24Speaker 3: even the candy aspect, I love that she They included
- 39:27Speaker 3: that because it speaks to she saw a broken man child,
- 39:31Speaker 3: and she thought that she could love him and nurse
- 39:33Speaker 3: She's a cancer. She thought that she could love him
- 39:35Speaker 3: and nurse that little boy inside of him. And that
- 39:37Speaker 3: little boy inside of him, I think is what has
- 39:39Speaker 3: Chris on the hook. I think every time the Karashian
- 39:41Speaker 3: woman se Lamar Olden, they see that broken little boy
- 39:43Speaker 3: inside of him, and they want to love that little
- 39:46Speaker 3: boy so much. But the man he became as an asshole. Oh,
- 39:52Speaker 3: I'm a little triggered. We probably should have had a
- 39:54Speaker 3: trigger warning before this, because if you ever loved the
- 39:57Speaker 3: broken man, we all all this pain, Carlos, we all
- 40:01Speaker 3: know this pain. You're like, Oh, if your daddy has
- 40:04Speaker 3: showed up for you, if your mother hadn't passed away,
- 40:06Speaker 3: if your family had equipped you more, you could be
- 40:08Speaker 3: so great. You're so talented, You've been gifted with so
- 40:11Speaker 3: many natural Lamar has so many natural abilities. If someone
- 40:15Speaker 3: just loved you right, you could you could take over
- 40:17Speaker 3: the world. And I love you right over and over
- 40:20Speaker 3: and over again. And all you did was take over me. Nah, respectfully,
- 40:27Speaker 3: that's probably the last thing I will ever watched on
- 40:29Speaker 3: lamar odoms. So this is a grand opening, grand closing.
- 40:31Speaker 3: We will not be doing any more lives about him.
- 40:33Speaker 3: I can't. I still need to find a husband, Carlos,
- 40:36Speaker 3: I'm gonna be a man. Keep watching more.
- 40:39Speaker 5: Of these videos out But the thing, but I think
- 40:42Speaker 5: to your point too, the reason why I love that
- 40:45Speaker 5: we did this conversation is because again, one thing you
- 40:48Speaker 5: and I do well is we.
- 40:50Speaker 1: Always make it appetizing for the general audiences based on
- 40:57Speaker 1: love and relationship. Like this is universal and like you said,
- 41:00Speaker 1: it is a trigger warning for women who are being
- 41:05Speaker 1: with hey hey, yeah right hello. Now in terms of
- 41:13Speaker 1: these men who are desiring to be baddies, right, there
- 41:17Speaker 1: is this battie the dilemma happening. When it comes to
- 41:23Speaker 1: it's a pandemic happening. And the thing is is one
- 41:27Speaker 1: thing to learn that Okay, I walked away from this
- 41:33Speaker 1: saying while he never loved you, and when he talked
- 41:36Speaker 1: about you know, being in your family and that tastes
- 41:40Speaker 1: of fame, and he just loved the Papa riotting and
- 41:42Speaker 1: all that ship. And when she said we didn't have
- 41:44Speaker 1: like the Kardashians. That was our second season. We weren't
- 41:48Speaker 1: rolling in the dough. So like he's making millions, I'm
- 41:52Speaker 1: gonna come up and you starting.
- 41:54Speaker 3: Commercial with Blue too Loose. My month earlier, child, you
- 41:56Speaker 3: definitely weren't rolling on the dough. We were to commercials
- 41:59Speaker 3: like together.
- 41:59Speaker 1: Bitch, Yeah exactly. So it also was like, Oh, I
- 42:04Speaker 1: thought you were making all this money and she's like,
- 42:07Speaker 1: I was living off of his income, trying to keep
- 42:10Speaker 1: things together. And the last thing she said on this documentary,
- 42:14Speaker 1: which is what Bleu is saying, her exact words were,
- 42:18Speaker 1: he was playing me so I could continue this lifestyle
- 42:22Speaker 1: for him.
- 42:23Speaker 3: Yeah. Because there's a thing too. Money and access are different.
- 42:25Speaker 3: And in La in Hollywood, you could be in between
- 42:28Speaker 3: blessings financially and have a ton of access. There were
- 42:32Speaker 3: times in my career where I was down financially, but
- 42:35Speaker 3: I was at Cardi B's birthday party popping it right. Like,
- 42:38Speaker 3: access is very different from money, and when you're somebody
- 42:41Speaker 3: who has access and you meet somebody who has money,
- 42:45Speaker 3: you sometimes don't realize that person wants your access even
- 42:48Speaker 3: though they have the money. That's the lesson I had
- 42:52Speaker 3: to learn the hard way. Friend, Okay, I have a
- 42:54Speaker 3: couple of a list enemies who I thought, there's no
- 42:56Speaker 3: way you're heading on poor little meat with a little
- 42:58Speaker 3: press pass. Oh you want my because you want to
- 43:00Speaker 3: come to the function. Oh that's awkward. I thought you
- 43:03Speaker 3: really liked me, friend, Fuck you and your egoch like.
- 43:05Speaker 3: It's this interesting cross section. Rich and famous are two
- 43:09Speaker 3: different words for a reason.
- 43:13Speaker 1: Explain that to the audience, because again, a lot of
- 43:16Speaker 1: our viewers obviously are in the business. I get what
- 43:19Speaker 1: you said when you say that, but explain to them
- 43:21Speaker 1: about like the fact that when it comes to Hollywood,
- 43:24Speaker 1: being rich and famous are different, and the intersection of
- 43:27Speaker 1: that can sometimes sprout people who use you and take
- 43:32Speaker 1: advantage of you. Yeah.
- 43:33Speaker 3: Well, when I was working, I was working at the Grio,
- 43:35Speaker 3: and I had a couple extents in CNN where I
- 43:37Speaker 3: had a press path. So I was writing in motorcas
- 43:40Speaker 3: with Michelle Obama, and I was going through all these
- 43:42Speaker 3: industry events. But I was pressed right, what I did
- 43:45Speaker 3: not clock is getting in the room as a currency.
- 43:49Speaker 3: There are people who are much more famous than you,
- 43:51Speaker 3: but who don't have access, who are not on the list,
- 43:54Speaker 3: and so it becomes this interesting cross section of you're
- 43:57Speaker 3: meeting your childhood heroes, not realizing that they might have
- 44:01Speaker 3: all these residual checks, but they haven't been invited to
- 44:03Speaker 3: this party in years that you're taking for granted because
- 44:06Speaker 3: you're covering for work, and so now they're being your
- 44:09Speaker 3: friend for access and you think, oh my god, I'm
- 44:11Speaker 3: being chosen by one of my favorite people. Right. And
- 44:14Speaker 3: it's not until I lost my press pass it. That
- 44:16Speaker 3: wasn't until I left degree.
- 44:17Speaker 2: Oh.
- 44:17Speaker 3: I had some famous friends who I'd be like, hey, friend,
- 44:19Speaker 3: I've left my job with degree. I'm gonna be doing
- 44:21Speaker 3: freelancing now and banking on myself, left on red. Oh
- 44:27Speaker 3: because when Oh, but wait a minute, when you were
- 44:32Speaker 3: up and I had to kill stories for you so
- 44:34Speaker 3: you wouldn't get canceled. I was your best friend. Your
- 44:36Speaker 3: whole team knew that I was your a one a
- 44:39Speaker 3: spoon coon. But now that I can't give you that access, Oh,
- 44:43Speaker 3: different currencies. And so there are people. I did a
- 44:46Speaker 3: whole show with a celebrity who I grew up watching
- 44:48Speaker 3: and seeing her, and King Magazine found out that she
- 44:50Speaker 3: couldn't even pay for the check when we went to
- 44:51Speaker 3: get drinks, which you mean your car got declined but
- 44:54Speaker 3: you've been famous for twenty years. I just got here.
- 44:57Speaker 3: And so there's this interesting thing of appearance and smoking
- 45:00Speaker 3: mirrors that happens when it comes to celebrity culture, where
- 45:04Speaker 3: who has the bag and who has the guest pass
- 45:06Speaker 3: are not always the same person. Who's on the list
- 45:08Speaker 3: and who can pay for the tab are not always
- 45:11Speaker 3: the same fucking person. And when you think someone's cloud
- 45:13Speaker 3: chas and sometimes y'all get that shit backwards. Sometimes it's
- 45:16Speaker 3: the producer or the crew member or the person who's
- 45:19Speaker 3: still in good favor with the network who's actually putting
- 45:22Speaker 3: on your fave who you thought was the person in charge.
- 45:26Speaker 3: I don't want to say too much cross I'm choosing
- 45:27Speaker 3: my words careful now.
- 45:28Speaker 1: Listen, listen. You had me at the difference between the
- 45:31Speaker 1: bag and the press past, because that is so true.
- 45:35Speaker 1: There's a lot of people who you know, a lot
- 45:39Speaker 1: of my listeners, they follow and they think they're everything.
- 45:43Speaker 1: And I'm telling you Blue is cooking right now because
- 45:47Speaker 1: they may have the visibility, but they don't have a currency.
- 45:50Speaker 3: They can't pay their rent.
- 45:52Speaker 1: No they can't, they can't. They just can't. And they
- 45:56Speaker 1: they'll do and say anything for a piece of change,
- 46:01Speaker 1: they'll do. Listen, they'll do strange for a piece of change.
- 46:05Speaker 1: And strange isn't always what y'all think is prostitution all
- 46:09Speaker 1: those things. It really is. What Bleu is saying is
- 46:12Speaker 1: befriending the PA of the producer because they are good
- 46:16Speaker 1: with this person who's above and if and and you
- 46:20Speaker 1: have these men that may have the money, but they
- 46:24Speaker 1: don't have the power and they don't have their relevancy.
- 46:27Speaker 1: And that is why they date the R and B
- 46:29Speaker 1: singer or the hot female rapper and they get them pregnant.
- 46:33Speaker 3: And the reality star who got paid five k to
- 46:35Speaker 3: do her an appearance, and that's when you met her.
- 46:41Speaker 3: Chloyd Kardashian was getting paid five racks to show up
- 46:44Speaker 3: to a little event and say what's up everybody? She
- 46:46Speaker 3: meets lamar odom who is shooting with Kobe and them?
- 46:49Speaker 3: Who has all this money but she don't want who's
- 46:51Speaker 3: the talent? Oh? But you related to Kim Kardashian though, huh,
- 46:56Speaker 3: you might need that little five k. But you related
- 46:59Speaker 3: to Kim Kardashian. I something with this?
- 47:01Speaker 1: Do you think she knows that now she does? Do
- 47:04Speaker 1: you think she knows that with Tristan she did.
- 47:07Speaker 3: I think that's why. I think the reason why Tristan
- 47:09Speaker 3: could not hurt her the way Lamar did this because
- 47:10Speaker 3: Lamar taught her a very painful lesson.
- 47:13Speaker 1: Oh good for her, though, yeah, I mean good for her.
- 47:17Speaker 1: It's a tough one to learn. And I think that's
- 47:21Speaker 1: the reason why you Because I listen to me and
- 47:24Speaker 1: Lititle still watch the show.
- 47:27Speaker 3: It's like us and like seven other black people, but
- 47:29Speaker 3: we're still.
- 47:29Speaker 1: Right, we still watching right and my heart and listen,
- 47:34Speaker 1: this is me being an softy. My heart goes out
- 47:36Speaker 1: what she talks about. Like you said, all I've been
- 47:38Speaker 1: celibate for three years and like, don't leave the house
- 47:40Speaker 1: and I'm like, don't let don't let listen. Of course
- 47:44Speaker 1: I'm saying it. I haven't lived this. So I give
- 47:46Speaker 1: all the grades. Because to to be married to Lamar
- 47:50Speaker 1: Odom and to be Tristan Thompson's baby mama, trust me twice,
- 47:56Speaker 1: trust me you you you get a lot of grades
- 47:59Speaker 1: and you need some time off.
- 48:01Speaker 3: But I.
- 48:03Speaker 1: Do understand why there is this fear of meeting somebody
- 48:09Speaker 1: because you don't know what their agenda is.
- 48:13Speaker 3: There's crack pipes and batties outside I might want to
- 48:16Speaker 3: stay inside. What if that was every reason to stay
- 48:20Speaker 3: in the house, Carloss, I'm just saying, if I get
- 48:24Speaker 3: to be in my house with my nice little pantry,
- 48:26Speaker 3: with all my all my my foods labeled and my
- 48:29Speaker 3: clear containers, or go outside for mail baddies and crackpipes,
- 48:32Speaker 3: I'm having an inside movie at night. Fuck y'all. I'm
- 48:34Speaker 3: not leaving the house. Y'all got me up here. I'm
- 48:39Speaker 3: caping for Chloria Kardashian. Do you understand how hard this
- 48:42Speaker 3: is for me as a blood In twenty twenty six
- 48:45Speaker 3: you met the ninety two percent caping for CLORYA Kardashian.
- 48:48Speaker 3: That's how much mailbady And you're thinking about the Mailbady apademic.
- 48:50Speaker 3: Let me explenin to you something really quickly. But how
- 48:52Speaker 3: we got here? Black men were told, All men were told.
- 48:55Speaker 3: But you know, when the world gets a a cold,
- 48:58Speaker 3: the black community gets the flu. Right, everything I was
- 49:00Speaker 3: hits us harder. Right. Men were told for years, if
- 49:02Speaker 3: you are a straight man, you can only provide. If
- 49:06Speaker 3: you're a queer man, you allowed to have feelings because
- 49:08Speaker 3: they discard you like the women. But if you're a
- 49:10Speaker 3: straight man, you are only a provider. Right, Then the
- 49:13Speaker 3: women and the gays started going to school and making
- 49:16Speaker 3: as much money, and it could beat you in provision. Right.
- 49:20Speaker 3: So now you can't wield provision against us because we
- 49:22Speaker 3: got our own fucking coins. We going to brunch without you,
- 49:24Speaker 3: my guy, right, go to brunch in DC. It's nothing
- 49:26Speaker 3: but gays and girls, honey, right, And so it's like, damn,
- 49:29Speaker 3: I can't exactly, I can't throw my money in their
- 49:31Speaker 3: face anymore. Well, they talk about how they have feelings.
- 49:34Speaker 3: I want to have feelings, but nobody ever taught you
- 49:36Speaker 3: how to not to be self indulgent with your feelings.
- 49:39Speaker 3: So now we have all these men who have failed
- 49:41Speaker 3: a provision, who are trying to understand how to feel,
- 49:45Speaker 3: but are not being taught how to be emotionally intelligent
- 49:47Speaker 3: with their feelings. And it creates this Baddy mentality where men.
- 49:51Speaker 3: Now we keep on talking about transgirls versus sis girls.
- 49:54Speaker 3: We need to be talking about straight men versus everybody
- 49:57Speaker 3: else when it comes to the Baddy culture. Because they're thinking,
- 50:00Speaker 3: when women get flued out, I want to get flowed
- 50:02Speaker 3: out women at cloud chase. I want a cloud chase.
- 50:05Speaker 3: You have flatten the feminine experience. Women are more than that.
- 50:08Speaker 3: They're taking the worst parts of us and cosplaying as
- 50:11Speaker 3: the worst parts of us. What about the parts of
- 50:13Speaker 3: us that I actually care about other people, The parts
- 50:15Speaker 3: of us that are holding space for other people, the
- 50:17Speaker 3: parts of us to take accountability, the parts of us
- 50:19Speaker 3: that nurture. Batty culture is taking the worst parts of
- 50:22Speaker 3: womanhood believing all the best parts that they could have
- 50:24Speaker 3: actually learned from.
- 50:28Speaker 1: Well, Blue just gave me another topic to address.
- 50:33Speaker 3: Everything. A production meeting, y'all, y'all just watching our production meetings.
- 50:36Speaker 3: Let we gotta the male Baddy pandemic next on the
- 50:42Speaker 3: Black Divide.
- 50:45Speaker 1: Write that down, Lizzie, Lizy, write that down. That is
- 50:51Speaker 1: That's a good one.
- 50:52Speaker 3: Though.
- 50:52Speaker 1: We have to do a whole separate thing with that,
- 50:54Speaker 1: because I do want to educate the girls on some
- 50:57Speaker 1: of the telltale sides. Because listen, you know, this week
- 51:01Speaker 1: we was a mother in Night Live and we talked about,
- 51:03Speaker 1: like all of the guys that we're all Atlanta housewives,
- 51:07Speaker 1: and we're like, well, who's that? What's going on? Like
- 51:10Speaker 1: it does seem to be this trend of like these listen,
- 51:12Speaker 1: these motherfuckers want to get put on. They just they
- 51:16Speaker 1: They want to get put on and they want you to,
- 51:20Speaker 1: like you said, feel like I may not have X,
- 51:24Speaker 1: Y and Z, but bitch, I'm better than what you deserve.
- 51:28Speaker 1: And that is a fucked up way of moving through life.
- 51:32Speaker 1: And I it makes me angry, it makes it.
- 51:36Speaker 3: Makes us unsafe. M the reason why we're reactions because
- 51:40Speaker 3: it's unsafe for everybody, including themselves. Lamar Oldham is an
- 51:43Speaker 3: unsafe black man who was given the world and is
- 51:45Speaker 3: still too ungrateful to say thank you.
- 51:51Speaker 1: All right, well, rain Drop, let us know your thoughts
- 51:55Speaker 1: on this, and if you have watched the documentary, please
- 51:59Speaker 1: leap a comment, and if you haven't watched it, and
- 52:05Speaker 1: then come back and let us know your thoughts. And
- 52:07Speaker 1: Blue always let them. They find you, follow you and
- 52:11Speaker 1: support you. Sys I'm at Blue Centric.
- 52:13Speaker 3: On YouTube and Instagram, and I'm at Blue Tlusma on
- 52:16Speaker 3: the Tiki Talkies. I don't know why my TikTok's growing.
- 52:19Speaker 3: I never go on there, but it's growing. So find
- 52:21Speaker 3: on TikTok, I guess and you can find me on
- 52:23Speaker 3: Monday Night with Carlos and Dustin and Claudia.
- 52:28Speaker 1: Yo, she's a tree. I love you, Blue, be safe.
- 52:33Speaker 1: This we are going off this weekend with Dustin and
- 52:35Speaker 1: all all the things.
- 52:36Speaker 3: You back going for twenty though, how you doing? You know.
- 52:42Speaker 1: Another stri Yeah?
- 52:44Speaker 3: I think on four twenty we should all like wear
- 52:46Speaker 3: something in common. Maybe you dressed like Bob Marley or something.
- 52:48Speaker 3: I can get me a little.
- 52:49Speaker 1: I would love to get like the way with them.
- 52:55Speaker 1: That would actually be dope, asking to be dope.
- 52:58Speaker 3: I'll be all un illegally obtained edible just to be festive.
- 53:01Speaker 3: Legally obtain that stuff.
- 53:03Speaker 1: We're not breaking any laws.
- 53:04Speaker 3: Guys.
- 53:06Speaker 1: Well y'all heard it here first. Thank you, Blue, my
- 53:09Speaker 1: love be good babe.
- 53:10Speaker 3: Thank you guys. By Family by Boo.
- 53:16Speaker 4: Reality with the King is executive produced by me Carlos King,
- 53:20Speaker 4: produced by Lizzie Nimitz, and a partnership.
- 53:24Speaker 1: With the Lack of Effect Network.
- 53:26Speaker 4: You can also find us on my YouTube channel at
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