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BE THE 1% – Stand Out, Achieve What Others Can’t · Motivational Podcast

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Speaker 1: Only one percent of the entire world could ever betch
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Speaker 1: two twenty five or ten If you look a bit deeper,
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Speaker 1: the numbers explain themselves.
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Speaker 2: Maybe ten percent of the world is even trying.
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Speaker 1: Five percent of the world probably isn't taken that training
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Speaker 1: that seriously, another four percent or like maybe slacking their sleep, diet, hydration,
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Speaker 1: and then the one percent that do all of the
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Speaker 1: things necessary get whatever that end result is.
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Speaker 2: It can't just be explained away without like some people can.
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Speaker 3: Do it and some people can't.
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Speaker 1: It's like no, it's some people do what it takes
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Speaker 1: and then some people don't, and then that's what's reflected.
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Speaker 2: In those little statistics.
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Speaker 1: So all I'm trying to say there is try to
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Speaker 1: put yourself in that minority group when it comes to
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Speaker 1: any kind of.
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Speaker 2: Achievement, especially fitness worse, because it's like you freaking beat
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Speaker 2: sixty seventy percent of anybody else just.
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Speaker 4: By going at all, Like, don't forget me.
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Speaker 1: Every time you do something that makes it a little
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Speaker 1: bit uncomfortable, odds are that is just going to add
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Speaker 1: up and add up and add up, and before.
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Speaker 2: You know it, Holy crap, man, how did you get
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Speaker 2: that back fade? How did you get that bicyt faite?
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Speaker 4: How'd you get those forms?
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Speaker 2: Whatever?
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Speaker 5: What if it's a mistake, it's a mistake, rest assured.
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Speaker 6: What do you know?
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Speaker 5: You're gonna stumble around, right, And what's gonna happen is this.
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Speaker 5: You're gonna move to You're gonna not stay in stasis,
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Speaker 5: You're not gonna wander around in circles. And I see
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Speaker 5: people like that. They said, well, I never knew what
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Speaker 5: to do, and now I'm forty.
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Speaker 2: It's like, that's not so good. That's not so good.
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Speaker 5: And you might say, well, and there is a literature
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Speaker 5: too that suggests that people are a lot more unhappy
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Speaker 5: when they look back in their lives about the things
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Speaker 5: they didn't do than they are about the mistakes they
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Speaker 5: made while they were doing things.
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Speaker 7: I want people to understand that they're not alone, that
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Speaker 7: there are other people feeling exactly the way they're feeling,
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Speaker 7: that their behavior is not insane, that they have a disease,
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Speaker 7: and it's not defaults. There's a very famous kind of
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Speaker 7: line that people don't change.
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Speaker 3: I happen to people do change. And I see that
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Speaker 3: every day.
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Speaker 7: I see people getting better. I see the lights in
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Speaker 7: their eyes come on you.
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Speaker 2: Got to get out there.
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Speaker 8: You got to give it everything you got, whether it's
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Speaker 8: your time, your talent, your prayers, or your treasures. Because
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Speaker 8: remember this, you will never see a U haul behind
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Speaker 8: a hearse.
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Speaker 6: If you want to know something about yourself, sit on
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Speaker 6: your bed one night and say, what's one thing i'm
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Speaker 6: doing wrong that I know i'm doing wrong that I
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Speaker 6: could fix, that I would fix you.
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Speaker 3: Meditate on that.
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Speaker 6: You'll get an answer and it won't be one you want,
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Speaker 6: but it'll be the necessary one.
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Speaker 5: And so if you're not willing to be a fool,
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Speaker 5: then you'll never start anything new. And if you never
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Speaker 5: start anything new, then you won't develop. And so the
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Speaker 5: willingness to be a fool is the.
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Speaker 4: Precursor to transformation.
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Speaker 5: And that's the same as humility. And so if you're
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Speaker 5: going to write your destiny, you can do a bad
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Speaker 5: first job.
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Speaker 2: You're gonna get smarter as you move forward.
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Speaker 9: Make the hard decisions, make the sacrifices, make the unpopular decisions,
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Speaker 9: and become comfortable in your own skin.
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Speaker 2: And if you.
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Speaker 9: Are not a person that you are comfortable being alone with,
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Speaker 9: that is the one person in this universe that you
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Speaker 9: have full power, full right, and full responsibility to change.
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Speaker 4: Sady, get you to give up.
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Speaker 10: They say, it's not that simple any So what's the
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Speaker 10: truth that is?
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Speaker 2: You know who's going to bail you out. You know
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Speaker 2: who's gonna come and to rescue you. You know who's
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Speaker 2: gonna come and save the day. No one.
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Speaker 11: No one's coming to tell you to turn the TV off.
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Speaker 11: No one's coming to tell you to get out the
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Speaker 11: door and exercise.
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Speaker 12: Nobody's coming to write the business plan for you.
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Speaker 2: No one's gonna come and do it for you. You're
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Speaker 2: gonna have to do it all yourself.
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Speaker 13: And many of you are not where you're supposed to be,
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Speaker 13: not because you're not gifted. You have absolutely no discipline.
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Speaker 13: I need you to confront you because you don't want
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Speaker 13: to holding you up. I need you to confront you.
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Speaker 2: I need you to look in the mirror and tell
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Speaker 2: you are not going through me like this no more.
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Speaker 2: You'll give you a past.
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Speaker 13: You are not where you're supposed to be financially, and
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Speaker 13: you give yourself a past.
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Speaker 2: You know you better than that. You know you should
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Speaker 2: be further alife, but you keep letting you slides.
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Speaker 13: It's time you punish you for now you're not gonna
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Speaker 13: hold any other human more accountable than.
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Speaker 2: You hold yourself.
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Speaker 3: It's these moments, these decisions we make on a daily basis.
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Speaker 4: Do we get up early and go for a run.
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Speaker 14: Do we hit the snooze button?
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Speaker 4: Do we go that extra wreck in the gym?
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Speaker 3: And our body's dying would push past that?
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Speaker 11: Those interest You need to be number one then or
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Speaker 11: around us every single day.
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Speaker 15: It is that you get up that day and do
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Speaker 15: those little tiny kings and little details, a little nuggets
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Speaker 15: of life.
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Speaker 2: That's what adds up to be a difference.
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Speaker 13: So I just need to think about three people that
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Speaker 13: you love.
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Speaker 16: That person that you think about has to be louder
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Speaker 16: than the snooze button. So when you think about Granny,
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Speaker 16: you gotta think about how do I hit the snooze
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Speaker 16: ruck or do I get up and make it happen
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Speaker 16: for Granny?
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Speaker 2: Are you hearing what I'm saying? Who you're doing is
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Speaker 2: for so the days you don't feel like getting out,
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Speaker 2: just think about them.
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Speaker 17: And you don't get here by quitting when you tired.
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Speaker 17: You get here by quitting when you finished, when you're done.
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Speaker 17: You don't stop when you tired, you stop when you're done.
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Speaker 17: Institution is worship, and so I asked you for my mom,
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Speaker 17: I asked you for my grandma, I asked you for
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Speaker 17: my sister.
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Speaker 13: That's why I can't quit and give up, even though
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Speaker 13: I get tired, just like everybody else.
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Speaker 2: Why because this is what I do, This is my la,
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Speaker 2: this is George. You gotta murder it. I dreams were easy,
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Speaker 2: everybody would make them happen.
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Speaker 13: The problem is that most people they can't get up
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Speaker 13: in the morning. They ain't got no energy. You just
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Speaker 13: ain't got the stampin though. You just ain't got the energy.
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Speaker 13: You can't smart everything, you can't out think everything.
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Speaker 2: Some stuff is just you gotta be powerful.
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Speaker 13: It's just some stuff that you gotta have stabbin afore
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Speaker 13: you just too slow.
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Speaker 2: It's just take you too low. You wait, got to
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Speaker 2: take you three weeks to do what it can take
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Speaker 2: twenty four hours to do. It gonna make you a
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Speaker 2: bad person, But you're gonna have to be average because
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Speaker 2: to be great, you got to keep off. No just Kyle,
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Speaker 2: you can't get.
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Speaker 3: Fifty percent off. It's sweat, it's full, it's tears.
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Speaker 2: There are no shortcuts. Just success.
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Speaker 13: Stop thinking of all and stop wanting people to put
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Speaker 13: you somewhere that you're then eard.
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Speaker 2: Y'all gotta do me a favor. Stop being gazels. You're
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Speaker 2: not average. There's nothing about you that's average. You're not good.
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Speaker 2: You are boy to be great. So you go out
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Speaker 2: there and giggles jowles. Do you have a heart?
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Speaker 13: Do you have to perseverance? Do you have to commitment?
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Speaker 13: Do you have a consistency? When I tell you that
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Speaker 13: you gotta make.
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Speaker 17: Sacrifices and you gotta get up at three o'clock, at
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Speaker 17: four o'clock and you gotta grind?
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Speaker 2: Why you telling them in that wow? Because people don't
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Speaker 2: need help sleeping there. People don't need help gaining.
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Speaker 13: Weight, People don't need help over indulging, making excuses, people
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Speaker 13: don't need help getting the snooze.
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Speaker 2: But people need help making sacrifices. Yup, it's tough.
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Speaker 13: It's harde I'm not telling was gonna be easy to
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Speaker 13: get up for three o'clock in the morning. I'm not
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Speaker 13: telling you it's gonna be easy to sacrifice. I'm not
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Speaker 13: telling you it's gonna be easy to grin. I'm not
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Speaker 13: telling you it's going to be easy. But I can't
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Speaker 13: tell you this. It will be there the sacrifice.
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Speaker 6: It's unbelievable how little genuine encouragement many people need, and
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Speaker 6: how and how they had none. No one ever said
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Speaker 6: to them and meant it. It's not okay for you
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Speaker 6: to be a weak loser. It's not okay. And the
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Speaker 6: reason it's not okay is because you could be way
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Speaker 6: more than that. And it's a crime, an ethical crime,
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Speaker 6: for you to allow all that necessary potential to go
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Speaker 6: to waste. It hurts you, it hurts your family, hurts
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Speaker 6: the world. Really really it does, and people think, oh, okay,
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Speaker 6: I give it.
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Speaker 2: There's going to a peace. The scripture says, you can
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Speaker 2: be transformed in your thinking, me yet transformed by the
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Speaker 2: renewing of your mind.
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Speaker 3: You can have peace in your heart right now. You
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Speaker 3: can have peace of mind right now.
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Speaker 4: Only through God are we going to find peace.
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Speaker 3: He's going to bring peace.
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Speaker 18: If you go visit the darkness that you've been running from,
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Speaker 18: you'll have the opportunity to leave a better person. You'll
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Speaker 18: have a better understanding of yourself, you have better understanding
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Speaker 18: of your purpose. But if you don't take that trip
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Speaker 18: and the darkness comes visits you, it's a guest that
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Speaker 18: will never leave.
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Speaker 19: Basically, two kinds of people in life. They're winners and
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Speaker 19: they're losers. And the definition is this. Losers take things
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Speaker 19: that happen to them and that they feel inside that suck,
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Speaker 19: and they wallow and they use it for self or
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Speaker 19: outward destruction. Winners take whatever they feel, they feel it
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Speaker 19: it sucks, and they transmute it into things that are
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Speaker 19: good for themselves and for the world. Period end of story.
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Speaker 20: I used to use the old phrase I'll take care
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Speaker 20: of you, you take care of me.
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Speaker 3: I found out how short ended death was.
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Speaker 20: I changed it here it is I'll take care of
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Speaker 20: me for you if you will take care.
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Speaker 2: Of you for me.
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Speaker 20: The best contribution I can make to you if you're
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Speaker 20: my friend is my personal development. What if I become
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Speaker 20: ten times wiser, ten times stronger, ten times better, ten
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Speaker 20: times more unique.
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Speaker 3: Think of what that will do for our friendship.
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Speaker 20: Self sacrifice usually earns contempt, Self development and self investment
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Speaker 20: earns respect.
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Speaker 21: If you want to develop something, if you want to
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Speaker 21: attain a new skill, let's just say you want to
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Speaker 21: learn another language. The quickest way to learn this language
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Speaker 21: is for the next thirty days, you take care, you
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Speaker 21: have something to eat, you have enough sleep, and the
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Speaker 21: rest of the type. You study, you don't watch television,
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Speaker 21: you don't go on social media, you don't play a games,
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Speaker 21: you don't go out on party, don't bring alcohol, you
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Speaker 21: don't take drugs.
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Speaker 2: You sleep, you eat, and you trade.
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Speaker 22: The most powerful tool in the world is you a
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Speaker 22: pen and a piece of paper. This is the greatest
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Speaker 22: wealth creator in the world. Write your goals down on paper,
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Speaker 22: and write them down in the present chense as though
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Speaker 22: you had already achieved them. Your brain knows that you're
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Speaker 22: not a millionaire, but now you're saying I am a millionaire.
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Speaker 22: And so your brain goes to work to close this
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Speaker 22: gap between where you are and where you want to be.
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Speaker 22: And your brain starts to work twenty four hours a day,
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Speaker 22: and it works, and it gives you ideas. There's this
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Speaker 22: incredible power in the universe that you can tap into.
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Speaker 22: You could just reach into it by simply writing down
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Speaker 22: a goal clearly on a piece of paper. And then
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Speaker 22: this mind goes to work twenty four hours a day
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Speaker 22: and it starts to pull into your life everything that
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Speaker 22: you need to make the goal clear. But if it's
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Speaker 22: not in writing, not a darn thing happens.
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Speaker 2: And I'm here to.
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Speaker 13: Tell you number one that most of you say you
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Speaker 13: want to be.
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Speaker 2: Successful, but you don't want it bad. You just kind
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Speaker 2: of want it.
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Speaker 13: You don't want it bad, and then you want to party.
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Speaker 13: You don't want it as much as you want to
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Speaker 13: be cool.
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Speaker 2: You most of you don't want success and much as
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Speaker 2: you want to sleep. If another human can tell you
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Speaker 2: to get up and.
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Speaker 13: Go to work and do what you're suposed to do,
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Speaker 13: why can't you pretend like if you need enough human,
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Speaker 13: be the human.
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Speaker 23: What comes easy will not last, what lasts will not
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Speaker 23: come easy.
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Speaker 19: Do what is hard, and your life will become easy.
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Speaker 18: You hear this all the time. Don't sweat the small stuff,
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Speaker 18: the one the point, oh one. They sweat every single
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Speaker 18: detail because the one thing they let slips, somebody is
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Speaker 18: going to use that to their advantage. Somebody is going
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Speaker 18: to make a big deal out of it, and they're
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Speaker 18: going to feel like they left something out.
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Speaker 15: I've always thought life is like this one way street
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Speaker 15: and your head down and now as you do, it
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Speaker 15: sort of disappears behind you.
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Speaker 2: You can't go back.
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Speaker 15: Once you started this damn journey, you can only go forward.
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Speaker 2: So you got two choices.
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Speaker 15: One you get scared, you give up and then you're
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Speaker 15: burn up.
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Speaker 2: In the second one.
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Speaker 15: You say fuck.
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Speaker 2: Fuck, it's here.
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Speaker 15: Then you barrow through it and when you come out
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Speaker 15: on the other side, I guarantee you you're gonna be
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Speaker 15: thrown than you ever thought possible.
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Speaker 23: You you're not in competition with with anybody but yourself.
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Speaker 2: A lot of people can give up. It's easy to
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Speaker 2: give up. It's the easiest thing in the world to do.
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Speaker 23: All Right, I'm done, I ain't going, I ain't gonna
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Speaker 23: keep going.
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Speaker 17: I feel like work.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's easy, it's very easy.
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Speaker 23: But what's hard is going. Yo, yesterday I got nothing.
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Speaker 4: From working as hard as I could.
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Speaker 23: Nothing happened from that. I'm gonna do the same thing
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Speaker 23: again the day.
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Speaker 11: But I'm gonna try to go harder.
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Speaker 23: That's the hardest thing in the world. Get up every
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Speaker 23: day and give one hundred percent and be in the
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Speaker 23: same position that you were each day. But mentally know
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Speaker 23: that you're trying and trying and trying. That's a real
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Speaker 23: that's a real glint.
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Speaker 18: You know.
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Speaker 24: It hurts the most is when somebody will not love
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Speaker 24: you at all, but yet they keep you around and
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Speaker 24: you want to know why. It's because they know you're
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Speaker 24: too good to let go. They know the type of
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Speaker 24: person you are, so they will not let you go
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Speaker 24: because you're a good person.
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Speaker 2: The disappointment is on you.
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Speaker 13: It is your fault, and you go through failure alone.
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Speaker 2: But failure has made me who I am today. Failure
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Speaker 2: gives you two choices. You stay down or you get up.
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Speaker 2: I didn't come this far to just break down and lose.
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Speaker 2: Now I'm a winner.
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Speaker 13: I'm going to win.
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Speaker 2: I'll do whatever the hell it takes to get through this.
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Speaker 4: Now.
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Speaker 2: If you know what's you're worth, the go out to
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Speaker 2: deal with your worst.
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Speaker 15: But you gotta be willing to take the hits and
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Speaker 15: not pointing fingers saying that you ain't.
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Speaker 2: Where you want to be because of him or or anybody.
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Speaker 25: If you are twenty to thirty years old, please find
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Speaker 25: a good boss, not necessarily a good company. Learn from
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Speaker 25: the boss, learn how to do it. When you are
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Speaker 25: thirty to forty years sold, try to do something yourself
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Speaker 25: if you really want to try. Where you're forty to
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Speaker 25: fifty years sold, do things that you are good at
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Speaker 25: After twenty years of learns, you should do somebody you're
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Speaker 25: good at it.
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Speaker 2: Where you are fifty to sixty years sold.
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Speaker 25: Spend a time supporting young people when you are six
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Speaker 25: over sixty years old, spend time with your grand children.
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Speaker 19: Three days of pain. The rest is easy. So it
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Speaker 19: takes about three days to shift the bi.
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Speaker 2: Make a few minute.
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Speaker 4: Life's gonna happen to you when you have a dream,
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Speaker 4: you're gonna get slapped around, and don't take it personally.
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Speaker 2: Don't ask why did this have to happen to me?
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Speaker 2: Why not you? Who would you suggest?
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Speaker 13: And some of you are not successful because every single
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Speaker 13: time you run up against.
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Speaker 2: A trial, every time you run up against the tipulation,
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Speaker 2: you stop.
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Speaker 26: All of you in this room want to be successful
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Speaker 26: as hell, but the journey to success comes with a
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Speaker 26: lot of what failure? So why the fuck don't you
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Speaker 26: teach yourself like I've taught myself, is how to fail properly.
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Speaker 2: It's not saying be a failure.
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Speaker 26: When I was three hundred pounds, people.
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Speaker 2: Think, Oh, you really thought you're gonna get a Nadan seal.
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Speaker 2: Oh I guess can fucking ruse the weight?
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Speaker 26: Which I told myself, you were gonna have to learn
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Speaker 26: how to get up extremely fast because you were gonna
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Speaker 26: have a million setbacks on this journey. And that's how
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Speaker 26: I literally taught myself how to fail first, because I
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Speaker 26: knew that if I was afraid of failure, I would
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Speaker 26: have never been able to be an exceed.
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Speaker 25: If we want to be successful, we have to work
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Speaker 25: with smart people.
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Speaker 3: Smart people.
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Speaker 25: If we want to be successful, we should have made
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Speaker 25: a lot of mistakes and never give up. A lot
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Speaker 25: of people that make mistakes.
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Speaker 2: Their problem, they give up.
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Speaker 3: We never give up. We learn from mistakes.
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Speaker 13: Everybody's got a dream, everybody's got to go, everybody's.
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Speaker 2: Wants something in life.
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Speaker 13: But many of you in this room right now, your
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Speaker 13: be small is idle.
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Speaker 2: Your be small is not turned on.
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Speaker 13: And when you leave this place, I'm telling you your
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Speaker 13: life is going to go to a whole, to the
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Speaker 13: level if you can learn to turn that switch off
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Speaker 13: a teeth that switch on, gonna.
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Speaker 2: Tell your dreams to everybody. Your dreams will attract you
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Speaker 2: enemies and ahead to us well in silence, let go
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Speaker 2: do what do you want to do in your life
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Speaker 2: and let him surprise your enemies wrote of you in
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Speaker 2: this room. You can't give up six months.
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Speaker 3: You can't give up eight months.
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Speaker 13: You can't let stuff go for a few weeks like
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Speaker 13: you can't let girls go.
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Speaker 2: Somebody who just can't live boys go, somebody who just
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Speaker 2: can't live hardies go. Let it go.
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Speaker 16: But you want to be successful, If you want to
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Speaker 16: dominate in the area, you gotta let everything go with
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Speaker 16: that thing you're pursuing.
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Speaker 2: You can't chase two rabbits and catch.
17:25
Speaker 13: Both of them.
17:26
Speaker 2: You can't play as much.
17:27
Speaker 3: As you used to play.
17:28
Speaker 2: You can't go where you used to go. You can't
17:30
Speaker 2: do what you used to do. And now you got
17:32
Speaker 2: to push your grind up to match your dream. I
17:35
Speaker 2: need you to pick your grind up. There's nothing wrong
17:38
Speaker 2: with your dream. You have a great dream, but your
17:41
Speaker 2: grind does not affect your dream. I need you to
17:44
Speaker 2: wake up every single day, and I need to use your.
17:46
Speaker 3: Twenty four hours like you've never used to before.
17:48
Speaker 13: You have to buy a routine and stick with it,
17:51
Speaker 13: and then when you find something good.
17:52
Speaker 11: Stay with it.
17:54
Speaker 4: You don't talk, you can fuss move.
17:56
Speaker 2: It's because this job ain't doing for me what I
17:58
Speaker 2: needed to do for me. Let's go get me to
18:01
Speaker 2: the next level.
18:01
Speaker 4: I hate this job.
18:02
Speaker 2: It's my favor.
18:06
Speaker 13: If you only have twenty four hours in a day,
18:09
Speaker 13: your success is the pit of the paw how you
18:12
Speaker 13: use the twenty.
18:13
Speaker 18: Four that would rather you confront, fight and fail, then
18:18
Speaker 18: for you just to settle for the comfort of remaining
18:22
Speaker 18: the same.
18:23
Speaker 2: Change is tough.
18:27
Speaker 12: Nothing fails like success. You're successful. Maybe it's in your health,
18:31
Speaker 12: maybe it's in your finances, maybe it's in your career,
18:33
Speaker 12: maybe it's in your family life. Maybe it's in the
18:36
Speaker 12: way that you show up in the world. Awesome, You're
18:38
Speaker 12: in a really vulnerable place right now. It is one
18:41
Speaker 12: thing to be successful, It is another thing to sustain success.
18:46
Speaker 12: So over the coming decade is that not a powerful idea?
18:50
Speaker 13: I want you to be brave enough when something's not working,
18:54
Speaker 13: do it right.
18:55
Speaker 2: You can't keep doing what you were doing before because
18:58
Speaker 2: you lose it. You have to to go intentional, deliberate.
19:02
Speaker 13: How many times do I criticize others versus how many
19:04
Speaker 13: times I criticize myself? How many times do I try
19:07
Speaker 13: to correct others? How many times do I correct myself?
19:10
Speaker 13: If it don't drive, you don't want that. So whatever
19:14
Speaker 13: it is you see that you don't have, if it drives,
19:17
Speaker 13: you go, I want that, And then you got to change.
19:20
Speaker 13: But you can't say you want that and you don't
19:22
Speaker 13: want change.
19:24
Speaker 7: The world's not going to become easier of a sudden.
19:29
Speaker 27: Know as you mature or have more responsibilities, more things
19:32
Speaker 27: that people will expect out of here.
19:35
Speaker 2: The truth is, as long as it's breathing, you're long
19:38
Speaker 2: as it's food.
19:39
Speaker 15: You can't depend on Nathan's motivation because motivation takes motion.
19:44
Speaker 2: Motivation takes movement.
19:46
Speaker 15: If you depend on outside sources to keep you going,
19:50
Speaker 15: when that outside source goes away, you go back to
19:53
Speaker 15: your default setting too.
19:55
Speaker 13: Anytime you want anything you don't have, you have to
19:59
Speaker 13: do something get that because if you were the person
20:02
Speaker 13: that could have it, you'd already have it.
20:04
Speaker 2: You'd have it already.
20:06
Speaker 13: You don't have it, and so you want it, so
20:08
Speaker 13: you have to become something different.
20:10
Speaker 28: The state of your life is nothing more than a
20:14
Speaker 28: reflection of the state of your mind.
20:19
Speaker 8: If you change the way you look at things, the
20:23
Speaker 8: things you look at change.
20:26
Speaker 2: No matter what circumstances have shown up in your life.
20:30
Speaker 29: The quality of your life will always and only be
20:35
Speaker 29: a reflection of your state of mind.
20:38
Speaker 4: In other words, how you feel about your life is
20:43
Speaker 4: your life.
20:44
Speaker 23: If you are not where you want to be in life,
20:47
Speaker 23: maybe it is about time you started talking less.
20:50
Speaker 3: And working more.
20:52
Speaker 30: Lock the world out for a week, a month, a year,
20:57
Speaker 30: however long it takes.
20:59
Speaker 13: Shut out everything, all distractions, all drama, all negativity, and
21:06
Speaker 13: focus on you.
21:08
Speaker 16: Do with your wage.
21:09
Speaker 2: You don't need deformission, but you need yours. You don't
21:13
Speaker 2: need that permission, but you do need George.
21:15
Speaker 13: You do need to look at yourself and declare who
21:18
Speaker 13: you are, and you need to believe it. I can't
21:21
Speaker 13: explain it any better than that. I don't know how
21:24
Speaker 13: it happens, but winners win. And if you create a
21:27
Speaker 13: culture of losing, if you keep being a victim, if
21:30
Speaker 13: you keep letting losing happen to you, if you keep
21:33
Speaker 13: letting people do you and treat you any kind of way,
21:35
Speaker 13: it's gonna become a culture.
21:40
Speaker 4: That against me, that against me. Tell me it's not
21:43
Speaker 4: gonna happen. Tell me it's gonna fail. I love it.
21:48
Speaker 4: I love every minute of it.
21:49
Speaker 31: You're not gonna beat me. I'm prepared to die. And
21:51
Speaker 31: I meant that, man, I swear to God on my life.
21:54
Speaker 31: I meant that, like I meant that shit because I
21:55
Speaker 31: was like, look and I signed my deathborn right there.
21:58
Speaker 31: I was like, look, if this is how I died,
22:00
Speaker 31: this is how I die. If I'm ready to die,
22:01
Speaker 31: I'm ready to kill. You have to be willing to
22:03
Speaker 31: give something up as well.
22:05
Speaker 30: David Goggins, he wrote me last night, and I can't
22:13
Speaker 30: repeat what he said to orbate him, but the the
22:16
Speaker 30: basis of his message was, be the guy who embraces
22:22
Speaker 30: the ugly, the miserable, Be the guy who embraces hard,
22:28
Speaker 30: work to grind. Don't be afraid of being hurt, don't
22:31
Speaker 30: be afraid of the sacrifice of some blood.
22:33
Speaker 4: One of the things that I was very lucky in
22:35
Speaker 4: my life with is I knew exactly what I wanted
22:38
Speaker 4: to do.
22:38
Speaker 6: Your ambition, if you have any sense, is actually to
22:41
Speaker 6: become competent.
22:42
Speaker 5: Do you want to be competent and dangerous or do
22:44
Speaker 5: you want to be vague and useless?
22:46
Speaker 32: I was always getting passive. What are you doing with
22:48
Speaker 32: your life? You knowing this still on left and they
22:51
Speaker 32: didn't know what it was. They didn't know if MMA
22:54
Speaker 32: wasn't one of this, They didn't know.
22:55
Speaker 2: What can make a career now.
22:56
Speaker 32: But as far as they were can send me Manda
22:57
Speaker 32: I'm talking about as far as they were concent I'm
22:59
Speaker 32: just getting into a k at appointing similar day. They
23:01
Speaker 32: didn't know nothing about it.
23:02
Speaker 2: My brother, I've seen them rise from the gut.
23:04
Speaker 13: Are pretty much like if he was telling me, hell,
23:06
Speaker 13: he would have to share his dinner with his dog,
23:08
Speaker 13: or if you didn't have enough food, he'll give all
23:10
Speaker 13: the food to his dog and he'll go trainings.
23:13
Speaker 30: I think I am only a bad guy that's trying
23:16
Speaker 30: to be good, just because religiously, we're all centers.
23:21
Speaker 3: We're all centers, we're born in pa sent.
23:24
Speaker 2: So what is that like, Dan John?
23:26
Speaker 33: Like, what is that like thinking there isn't another man
23:28
Speaker 33: on the planet.
23:30
Speaker 3: They could do anything to you in hand to hand content.
23:33
Speaker 6: It is definitely the case that there is no more
23:36
Speaker 6: exceptional form of the capacity to be dangerous than to
23:40
Speaker 6: be articulate. And so it's a moral endeavor in some
23:43
Speaker 6: real sense. To become articulate is to become the master
23:46
Speaker 6: of your own talent.
23:47
Speaker 2: No one did really well.
23:49
Speaker 32: I knew, you know what I mean, I knew, and
23:52
Speaker 32: then I got to I end up getting a trade
23:53
Speaker 32: just to keep them quiet.
23:54
Speaker 3: I enjoy walk.
23:56
Speaker 33: I don't want to be anywhere else but here.
23:59
Speaker 34: So every day I am, I am enjoying myself. I
24:03
Speaker 34: wake up every there I pins myself. You want to
24:06
Speaker 34: see the room I'm sleeping. You want to see the
24:07
Speaker 34: bed I'm sleeping, and you want to see the home
24:09
Speaker 34: that I am living in. There's an elevator in the home.
24:12
Speaker 34: So I'm on the tour floor and I go out
24:14
Speaker 34: click the boat and I goes from the.
24:15
Speaker 29: Tour floor to the forest floor.
24:16
Speaker 34: I open up the elevator and I go on, eat
24:18
Speaker 34: some breakfast, and then we go stretch out on the
24:19
Speaker 34: sawn and we have a big pill and jakozie.
24:23
Speaker 4: When you get out of bed every morning, right you
24:25
Speaker 4: get up out of bed, life and standing right there
24:28
Speaker 4: to kick you in the face. Ready lake cot ready
24:31
Speaker 4: to go to kick you in the face. Because every
24:33
Speaker 4: day when you get up, bad is coming at you.
24:36
Speaker 4: Forget about work, your personal life, everything, car don't start
24:39
Speaker 4: to this to that life is ready to get you.
24:42
Speaker 6: You got a goal and you'll see that as you
24:44
Speaker 6: progress towards the goal, there will be obstacles that emerge.
24:47
Speaker 3: In some of them you don't want to confront. Why
24:49
Speaker 3: it's useful to order your room?
24:50
Speaker 2: Heyartic room makes you anxious? Why too many pathways?
24:53
Speaker 6: Man?
24:54
Speaker 2: You know hard wooll pass.
24:55
Speaker 35: I put in a hell of a walk all true
24:58
Speaker 35: in this build up in the fire, I point down
24:59
Speaker 35: more Kong than anybody, more content than Fox, more content
25:02
Speaker 35: than ESPN, more content than BT Sports, more content than
25:05
Speaker 35: everybody on the my glove, on my own channels, you.
25:08
Speaker 33: Know what I mean. I'm a horse from all angles,
25:11
Speaker 33: not just in the gym. But I'm building this media
25:13
Speaker 33: and behind my set, and we pumped out the content.
25:15
Speaker 33: I'm very proud of Hell when we consistently daily movies,
25:18
Speaker 33: I was releasing you know, from from like a month ago,
25:22
Speaker 33: every single day, you know what i mean.
25:24
Speaker 2: Nobody's doing that, So.
25:26
Speaker 4: I'm very proud of it.
25:27
Speaker 33: And I'm very like the work pays, how the ways.
25:29
Speaker 16: And put in the Morgan.
25:31
Speaker 33: That's that's why I'm I'm sitting at the tope.
25:33
Speaker 4: Get up and fight every day. Man, go for it.
25:37
Speaker 3: Just go for it.
25:38
Speaker 4: Believe me, I'll live in proof that it can happen.
25:41
Speaker 6: It's good for you to go take your place in
25:42
Speaker 6: the world. Have some ambition, have a visions, have a goal,
25:46
Speaker 6: have a strategy. Got to be a good person, not
25:48
Speaker 6: because it's your duty, precisely because that's the proper way
25:51
Speaker 6: to live.
25:52
Speaker 4: Anything you do positive in your life and anything that's huge,
25:55
Speaker 4: it will immediately be surrounded by negativity, right immediately get
26:00
Speaker 4: ready for it, because no matter how successful you become,
26:03
Speaker 4: one thing never goes away, negativity.
26:06
Speaker 36: One of the kids is always visualized stadiums, and like,
26:10
Speaker 36: even when I play football, I'd kick the ball against
26:12
Speaker 36: a wall and I pretend I scored a goal and
26:14
Speaker 36: I'd run off and I'd be raising my hand and
26:17
Speaker 36: visualizing a arena full of fans, and that that was
26:21
Speaker 36: something I don't as a kid on my own, I
26:23
Speaker 36: like just run.
26:24
Speaker 3: Around kicking the ball.
26:25
Speaker 28: So I always had these visions of something, but I
26:28
Speaker 28: just didn't know what it was. And then I suppose
26:30
Speaker 28: when I came to these events and I stopped training
26:34
Speaker 28: them and then came to an event, I was like, Okay,
26:37
Speaker 28: this is it.
26:38
Speaker 6: One of the things that I've really learned recently, you know,
26:40
Speaker 6: learned to articulate better, is that there's a very tight
26:43
Speaker 6: relationship between aspiration and responsibility. The first question might be
26:48
Speaker 6: you need to aspire to something. An answer is, well, yes,
26:51
Speaker 6: because you have to do something. Okay, if you just
26:52
Speaker 6: sit there, you'll die. You can't just sit there. You
26:55
Speaker 6: have to act out in the world.
26:57
Speaker 4: There are mainly means nothing. It is literally an opinion.
27:02
Speaker 4: It's negative bullshit, and it means nothing to you. It
27:06
Speaker 4: doesn't mean anything. It doesn't affect unless you're the sick twist,
27:10
Speaker 4: the type of person like me that likes to let
27:12
Speaker 4: it fuel you. You let it. It's like your you know,
27:14
Speaker 4: it's like you're fuel. And other than that, it's useless.
27:19
Speaker 4: It means nothing.
27:21
Speaker 3: Life is not easy. It is not.
27:23
Speaker 11: Don't try to make it that way. Life's not fair.
27:25
Speaker 11: It never was, it is now and it won't ever be.
27:28
Speaker 11: Do not fall into the trap, the entitlement trap, a
27:32
Speaker 11: feeling like you're a victim.
27:34
Speaker 3: You are not. Get over it and.
27:35
Speaker 11: Get on with And yes, most things are more rewarding
27:39
Speaker 11: when you break a sweat to get them.
27:40
Speaker 6: There's got to be something at the top. It's got
27:42
Speaker 6: to be something important. If you don't have that, your
27:45
Speaker 6: life doesn't have any meaning. So if you criticize the hierarchy,
27:48
Speaker 6: or even the ideas of idea of hierarchy, you destroyed
27:51
Speaker 6: the idea of aspiration, and then people have nothing. Well,
27:55
Speaker 6: that's not helpful. People are built for a struggle, and
27:58
Speaker 6: they're built for a weight, and you want to take
28:00
Speaker 6: on a heavy burden voluntarily see if you can put
28:02
Speaker 6: yourself together, see what you can do over in the
28:05
Speaker 6: world while you're waiting to die.
28:06
Speaker 2: It's an all in Gabe, it better be worthwhile.
28:09
Speaker 3: Number two, I love it. Unbelievable. It is the stupidest word.
28:16
Speaker 3: Addiction should never come out of our mouths. Think about
28:20
Speaker 3: it to say, oh wow, what an unbelievable play.
28:24
Speaker 11: It was an unbelievable book, unbelievable film, an unbelievable act
28:28
Speaker 11: of person.
28:29
Speaker 37: I've been listening to the lives are all my career. Yeah,
28:31
Speaker 37: I've been listening to them live my whole career.
28:34
Speaker 11: It may be spectacular, it may be phenomenal, most excellent,
28:37
Speaker 11: are outstanding, But unbelievable. You give others and yourself more credit.
28:46
Speaker 11: It just happened, you witnessed it, You just did it.
28:48
Speaker 3: Believe it love.
28:52
Speaker 37: But an irishman when a case whereas world title, hell.
28:55
Speaker 2: No, you're serious, an irishman, an irishman win a fight?
28:59
Speaker 2: You see hell no, laugh.
29:01
Speaker 37: Laughs all around, and I just okay, you gotta win now.
29:04
Speaker 37: He wants to win a world title. Hell no, he's
29:06
Speaker 37: all talk, he's all hype, He's a joke.
29:08
Speaker 11: Happiness is an emotional response to an outcome.
29:12
Speaker 3: If I win, I will be happy. If I don't,
29:15
Speaker 3: I won't.
29:15
Speaker 11: It's an if then cause and effect quid pro quote
29:19
Speaker 11: standard that we cannot sustain because we immediately raise it
29:24
Speaker 11: every time we attain it.
29:26
Speaker 6: Every advantage comes with a disadvantage. So if you're extroverted
29:30
Speaker 6: your social and you're positive, but you're impulsive, and you
29:33
Speaker 6: can kilt towards hedonism and you can't stand being alone,
29:37
Speaker 6: no matter where you land in the temperamental landscape, you're
29:39
Speaker 6: going to have your associated faults and temptations.
29:43
Speaker 2: Laughter all around that the joe guard.
29:45
Speaker 37: Then the joker goes and wins the world tile ever
29:47
Speaker 37: he wants to win a second world.
29:48
Speaker 2: Tile more Lauter. Listen of it.
29:52
Speaker 6: I don't know.
29:52
Speaker 2: The sound of laughter, and the sound of debt motivates me.
29:56
Speaker 2: So I'm enjoying that. I see that I.
30:00
Speaker 28: Don't feel no doubt or or I don't feel.
30:02
Speaker 37: No, I don't feel that, don't if any of these
30:05
Speaker 37: are UFC bombs. Right now, he needs your rise up
30:09
Speaker 37: right now, down there.
30:11
Speaker 4: Do your things, stay on your course, stay focused, and
30:15
Speaker 4: keep your eye on the prize, and everything comes together.
30:19
Speaker 11: See happiness, Happiness demands a certain outcome. It is result reliant.
30:25
Speaker 11: And I say, if happiness is what you're after, then
30:29
Speaker 11: you're gonna be let down frequently and you're gonna be
30:31
Speaker 11: unhappy much of your time. Joy, though, joy's a different thing.
30:37
Speaker 11: It's something else. Joy is not a choice, it's not
30:40
Speaker 11: a response to some result.
30:43
Speaker 3: It's a constant.
30:45
Speaker 11: Joy is the feeling that we have from doing what
30:48
Speaker 11: we are fashioned to do, no matter the outcome.
30:53
Speaker 4: If you're looking for a few money, you're in the
30:55
Speaker 4: wrong place. Already you already know you're not in the
30:57
Speaker 4: right place.
30:58
Speaker 11: Number four, Define success for yourself. Define success for yourself,
31:04
Speaker 11: and check this out. I'm in without the New Orleans
31:08
Speaker 11: a few years ago, and I went to a voodoo
31:09
Speaker 11: shop and they had this wooden partition against the wall
31:15
Speaker 11: of these columns, and in these columns were all these
31:18
Speaker 11: vials of these magic potions, right, and the headings above
31:22
Speaker 11: each potion defining what they would give you were things
31:25
Speaker 11: like fertility, health, family, legal health, energy, forgiveness, money.
31:34
Speaker 3: Guess which column was empty money.
31:39
Speaker 23: I've got this situation where people are truly doubting me,
31:43
Speaker 23: like they.
31:43
Speaker 37: Dealt with me at the very very beginning, and that's
31:45
Speaker 37: the motivan for me. That's what's going to drive me
31:47
Speaker 37: to the gym when I need to go.
31:48
Speaker 3: To the gym.
31:50
Speaker 11: Money is king today. Is what makes the world, makes
31:52
Speaker 11: the world go round.
31:53
Speaker 3: It is success. The more we have, the more successful
31:57
Speaker 3: we are. Right.
31:58
Speaker 4: If that's not your mentality, read weekend when you're at
32:01
Speaker 4: home like your dread and Monday man, stop, stop and
32:05
Speaker 4: get another job because you're in the wrong place. That's
32:08
Speaker 4: not healthy for you.
32:09
Speaker 38: It took me a long time to understand that belief
32:12
Speaker 38: regulated emotion. So what happens is that if you act
32:16
Speaker 38: out your identity, if you act out your beliefs in
32:18
Speaker 38: the world, and what you want doesn't happen. What happens
32:24
Speaker 38: is that your body defaults into emergency preparation for action.
32:28
Speaker 3: We all want to succeed, right, So the question.
32:30
Speaker 11: That we've got to ask ourselves is what success is
32:33
Speaker 11: to us?
32:34
Speaker 3: What success is to you?
32:36
Speaker 38: And so what do you do then? And the answer
32:37
Speaker 38: is what you don't know what to do? So what
32:39
Speaker 38: do you do when you don't want know what to do?
32:41
Speaker 38: And the answer is you prepare to do. Everything is
32:44
Speaker 38: more money.
32:45
Speaker 3: That's fine. I got nothing against money.
32:47
Speaker 6: People stay where what they do has the results they
32:51
Speaker 6: want that's partly why you want to be around people
32:54
Speaker 6: who share your cultural presuppositions.
32:56
Speaker 4: And at the end of the day, it's really about
32:58
Speaker 4: that you love what you do, and it's about the
33:00
Speaker 4: journey the people you're doing with it, that you're having fun,
33:04
Speaker 4: you're getting up every day, and you're all working toward
33:06
Speaker 4: the same goal, whatever it might be.
33:09
Speaker 11: And do yourself this favor, whatever your answer is, don't
33:14
Speaker 11: choose anything that will jeopardize yourself. Prioritize who you are,
33:20
Speaker 11: who you want to be, and don't spend time with
33:23
Speaker 11: anything that antagonizes your character.
33:27
Speaker 4: It's a very fulfilling feeling. It really is a very
33:30
Speaker 4: fulfilling feeling because I've been where most people have been.
33:34
Speaker 4: I've been in the shitty job that you're just trying
33:36
Speaker 4: to pay your bills and you're trying to make ends meet,
33:39
Speaker 4: and you're miserable. You're doing it because you have to
33:42
Speaker 4: do it, because you have to pay your bills, because
33:43
Speaker 4: you need money.
33:45
Speaker 11: Don't drink the kool aid, man, It tastes sweet, but
33:48
Speaker 11: you will get cavities tomorrow.
33:50
Speaker 32: All right.
33:50
Speaker 11: Life is not a popularity contest. Be brave, take the hell.
33:54
Speaker 11: But first answer that question, what's my hell.
33:57
Speaker 38: You might ask well why, and the answer is well,
33:59
Speaker 38: because you can be hurt, pain, you can be damaged,
34:03
Speaker 38: you can become intolerably anxious, and you can die.
34:07
Speaker 4: So it's no wonder your sensitive.
34:08
Speaker 38: We're very sensitive to negative emotion.
34:10
Speaker 11: How do I define success for me myself? Well, for me,
34:14
Speaker 11: it's a measurement of five things. We've got fatherhood, we've
34:18
Speaker 11: got being a good husband. We've got my health, mind, body,
34:22
Speaker 11: and spirit. We've got career, and we got friendships. These
34:25
Speaker 11: are what's important to me in my life right now.
34:28
Speaker 4: Everything in life is about timing. It really is about
34:31
Speaker 4: timing the right time, the right place, the right everything.
34:34
Speaker 4: And I also believe that you create your own timing
34:37
Speaker 4: and life. Do what's the worst thing that can happen
34:40
Speaker 4: if you try so.
34:41
Speaker 11: First, we have to define success for ourselves, and then
34:45
Speaker 11: we have to put in the work to maintain it.
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Speaker 11: Take that daily tally, tend our guard, keep the things
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Speaker 11: that are important to us in good shape. I mean,
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Speaker 11: let's admit it, we've all got two rules and.
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Speaker 3: A good one and I'm bad. And they both want
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Speaker 3: to eat.
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Speaker 4: If the day that I walked out of that hotel,
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Speaker 4: right and I went to do this. It doesn't work out,
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Speaker 4: I can go back and be a belman again whenever
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Speaker 4: I want to. You can always go back and do that.
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Speaker 4: The worst part is not trying. You have to try.
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Speaker 4: Nobody's ever gonna do anything without trying. It's never the
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Speaker 4: right time.
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Speaker 3: The best I can tell, we just got to feed.
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Speaker 24: That goes on a little more than the other one.
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Speaker 3: Here we go. Number five. Process of elimination.
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Speaker 11: Is the first step to our identity aka where you
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Speaker 11: are not is as important as where you are.
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Speaker 4: It's never the right time. It's like, I can't now.
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Speaker 4: I got the truck I just bought, I got payments
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Speaker 4: on this frigid thing. You know, I got to. If
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Speaker 4: you do that to yourself, you'll never do anything. Forget
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Speaker 4: the truck, forget this, forget that, go for it.
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Speaker 3: Just go for it.
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Speaker 2: Believe me.
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Speaker 4: I'm living proof that it can happen.
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Speaker 3: All right.
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Speaker 11: Nineteen ninety two, I got my first job as an actor,
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Speaker 11: three lines, three days work in a film called Dazed
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Speaker 11: and Confused. It is just as important where we are
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Speaker 11: not as it is where we are.
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Speaker 2: Hey, let me tell you.
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Speaker 29: If someone told me that something is impossible, I will
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Speaker 29: go out and do it. That's just the way I
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Speaker 29: always was. I was thrown to my face. You're nothing
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Speaker 29: but the giant muscle. You can't act, you have no future.
36:34
Speaker 29: You have an accent that is lavable.
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Speaker 15: Me or nobody who's going to hit as hard as life.
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Speaker 15: But it ain't about how hard you hit, It's about
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Speaker 15: how hard.
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Speaker 2: You can't get hit. They keep moving forward.
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Speaker 15: How much you get pink, they keep moving forward.
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Speaker 2: That's how wit it has done.
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Speaker 11: The first step that leads to our identity life is
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Speaker 11: usually not I know who I am. I know who
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Speaker 11: I am, that's not the first step. The first steps
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Speaker 11: usually I know who I am not. The process of elimination,
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Speaker 11: defining ourselves by what we are not is the first
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Speaker 11: step that leads us to really knowing who we are.
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Speaker 15: Now, if you know what's your worth, the glott to
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Speaker 15: deal with's your worth.
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Speaker 2: But you got to be willing to take the.
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Speaker 15: Hits and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you
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Speaker 15: want to be because of him or her or anybody.
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Speaker 3: Well, those people, those places, those.
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Speaker 11: Things, stop giving them your time and energy.
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Speaker 3: Just don't go there. I mean to put them down.
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Speaker 11: And when you do this, when you do put them down,
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Speaker 11: when you quit going there, and you quit giving them
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Speaker 11: your time, you inadvertently find yourself spending more time and
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Speaker 11: in more places that.
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Speaker 3: Are health before you, that bring you more joy. Why
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Speaker 3: because you.
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Speaker 11: Just eliminated the who's, the where, the ons and the
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Speaker 11: winds that were keeping you from your identity.
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Speaker 2: Powers do that and that ain't you than that?
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Speaker 29: Ignore them, they say us. Work like hell, crust yourself,
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Speaker 29: break some rules. Don't be afraid to fail. I've made
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Speaker 29: a fortunate in several careers, and I've been very successful
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Speaker 29: in several careers.
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Speaker 2: Like believing in myself.
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Speaker 15: Until you start believing in yourself able to have.
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Speaker 29: A life, let me tell you you're going to find them,
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Speaker 29: they say us. On every turn that you make. Don't listen.
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Speaker 29: Just visualize your go or know exactly where you.
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Speaker 2: Want to go. Crust yourself.
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Speaker 11: Get rid of the excess the wasted time, decrease your options.
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Speaker 29: Get out there and work like hell, and break some
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Speaker 29: of the rules, and never ever be afraid of failure.
38:46
Speaker 29: I couldn't have done the one lifting event in my
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Speaker 29: life if I would have been afraid of failure.
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Speaker 3: We're shape, America is secure.
38:53
Speaker 10: You want my property, you can't have it, But I
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Speaker 10: did you a big favor.
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Speaker 2: I have successfully privatized world peace.
38:59
Speaker 3: Know one, who we are is hard.
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Speaker 11: It's hard to give yourself a break, eliminate who you are,
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Speaker 11: not first, and you're going to find yourself where you.
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Speaker 3: Need to be.
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Speaker 29: Because of course, there's a chance that you can fail
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Speaker 29: when you lift the way that dried ten times to
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Speaker 29: lift bench dress five hundred pounds and that failed.
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Speaker 14: But the eleventh time I did it. What would it
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Speaker 14: cost you if you quit down? What would it cost
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Speaker 14: you if you stop fighting? I'm gonna want to share.
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Speaker 27: With you, guys I think you might find helpful. Is
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Speaker 27: this idea about balance and how we're always looking to
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Speaker 27: find that balance in our lives. But I think a
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Speaker 27: few things are important.
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Speaker 14: Number One, acknowledging.
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Speaker 27: Just how hard it is and how difficult it is
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Speaker 27: to find that balance.
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Speaker 2: It's much easier said than done.
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Speaker 27: Like you, guys, I've got babies to raise, babies to feed,
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Speaker 27: bills to pay, food to put on the table, relationships
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Speaker 27: to maintain, businesses to run. It's hard. But what I
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Speaker 27: also found is these Number One is disciplined.
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Speaker 29: Never give up and never be afraid of failure, because
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Speaker 29: otherwise you box yourself in and you'll limit yourself.
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Speaker 2: If you all should go.
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Speaker 29: And be hungry for success, you should be hungry to
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Speaker 29: make your mark, and you should be hungry to be
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Speaker 29: seen and to be here and have an effect out there.
40:17
Speaker 11: I'm six, don't leave crumbs and the beauty of delayed gratifications.
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Speaker 11: So what are crumbs or the crumbs I'm talking about
40:26
Speaker 11: are the choices that we make that make us have
40:29
Speaker 11: to look over our shoulder in the future. You didn't
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Speaker 11: pay that guy back the money that you owed him,
40:36
Speaker 11: and tonight you just saw him three rows behind you.
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Speaker 14: We all have those moments when we want to quit.
40:46
Speaker 14: We want to throw on a towel where we don't
40:48
Speaker 14: see the end game and the target is not clear.
40:56
Speaker 14: I know you think it's over, but you got to
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Speaker 14: go again. Leave every excuse behind.
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Speaker 2: You can't quit. You got more left than you. No
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Speaker 2: one's said it was supposed to be easy. Life isn't there.
41:15
Speaker 2: Sometimes you just got to do it alone.
41:17
Speaker 27: Applied discipline to take care of yourself. The other one
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Speaker 27: is communication, and this is really important because I found
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Speaker 27: out you get curious and you communicate with people around you, like, hey, guys,
41:27
Speaker 27: I need some help finding my balance you'd be surprised
41:30
Speaker 27: how fast people come to help you. You've got to
41:33
Speaker 27: take care of the thing that allows you to do
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Speaker 27: what you do, and that thing is you. So take
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Speaker 27: care of you and find that balance.
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Speaker 4: You are not a quitter. You are not a one
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Speaker 4: hit wonder.
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Speaker 2: You were called to do something great.
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Speaker 14: Try harder, reach higher, run faster, stand taller.
41:56
Speaker 29: You have to think outside the box. That's what I believe.
41:59
Speaker 29: After all, what is the point of being unders heard?
42:02
Speaker 29: If all you want to do is if you like
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Speaker 29: for everyone and avoid the trouble. The only way that
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Speaker 29: I've got any place was the breaking sum of the rules.
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Speaker 2: What do you do? How do you live? How do
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Speaker 2: we get through it? You got to stand up, You
42:22
Speaker 2: got to get up.
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Speaker 39: The path that you have chosen was never designed to
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Speaker 39: be easy.
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Speaker 10: Some people want it easy.
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Speaker 39: But I dare you to go the hard way.
42:39
Speaker 2: What do we do with the life that has been given?
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Speaker 39: How do we face the circumstances that have been brought
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Speaker 39: before us?
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Speaker 27: I've learned this over time. I've learned it to experience
42:51
Speaker 27: in Sydney a while sey years. But I have learned
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Speaker 27: the power of intention, the power of purpose and having
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Speaker 27: real purpose and drive behind your thought process is you know,
43:02
Speaker 27: when you have that level of intentionality and you have
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Speaker 27: a real drive and purpose behind what you do, what
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Speaker 27: you say, how you act. On the other side of that,
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Speaker 27: you are slowly defining day by day your legacy.
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Speaker 11: You slept around on your spouse and you just found
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Speaker 11: out that tomorrow she and the.
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Speaker 3: Lady you're having an affair with are going to be
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Speaker 3: at the same PTA meeting.
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Speaker 2: It is the man that refused us to quit. It
43:26
Speaker 2: is the man that refuses.
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Speaker 13: Us to put down his gloves that separates winners from
43:32
Speaker 13: one of these.
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Speaker 29: When you're out there partying, forssing around, someone out there
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Speaker 29: at the same time is working hard, someone is getting smarter,
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Speaker 29: and someone is winning.
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Speaker 2: Just to remember that.
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Speaker 29: Now, if you want the coast through life, don't pay
43:46
Speaker 29: any attention to any of those rules. But if you
43:49
Speaker 29: want to win, there's absolutely no way around hog hod work.
43:57
Speaker 29: Don't be afraid to fail anything I've ever attempted, I
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Speaker 29: was always willing to fail.
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Speaker 14: It never matter how broken, how weary and devastating you
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Speaker 14: are right now.
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Speaker 2: That way will not last forever. So think about that
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Speaker 2: for a second.
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Speaker 27: Right you think about the legacy, because that's one of
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Speaker 27: the words that can often get lost in any event.
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Speaker 2: Power and purpose. Find your intention. Let's set it today,
44:24
Speaker 2: Let's okay.
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Speaker 6: Go.
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Speaker 2: Can always win. But don't be afraid of making decisions.
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Speaker 29: You can't be paralyzed that fear or failure, or you
44:33
Speaker 29: will never push yourself. You keep pushing because you believe
44:36
Speaker 29: in yourself and in your vision and you know that
44:39
Speaker 29: it's the right thing to do and success will come to.
44:42
Speaker 2: Don't be afraid to fail. Do we give up? Do
44:47
Speaker 2: we stand up? Do we push through? Those are the.
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Speaker 10: Questions that we ask each and every day when we
44:58
Speaker 10: are faced adversity. Hard times create tough mass, top mass,
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Speaker 10: create tough characters.
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Speaker 2: But you've got to carry on.
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Speaker 29: Don't listen to the nasayis I mean, how many times
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Speaker 29: if you hear then you can't do this, and you
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Speaker 29: can't do that, and it has never.
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Speaker 2: Been done before. I hear this all the time some
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Speaker 2: epact I love it when someone says.
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Speaker 29: No one has ever done this before, because then man,
45:28
Speaker 29: I do it.
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Speaker 2: That means that I'm the first one that has done it.
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Speaker 29: So pay no attention to the people to say you
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Speaker 29: can't be done.
45:34
Speaker 27: What are the keys to success? What's your secret to success. Well,
45:38
Speaker 27: there really is no secret. I think it's the same
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Speaker 27: basic building blocks and tenants that we all know. Surround
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Speaker 27: yourself with high quality people who believe in the same
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Speaker 27: values and principles and philosophies that you do. And not
45:50
Speaker 27: just in business as entrepreneurs, but just as human beings.
45:54
Speaker 27: You want to treat people right, treat them good, and
45:56
Speaker 27: make them feel good. Think big, think outside of the
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Speaker 27: be disruptive with your thoughts.
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Speaker 2: And remember, just because.
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Speaker 27: Something's never been done before, it doesn't mean it can't
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Speaker 27: be done.
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Speaker 2: So when it gets tough, you've got to get tougher.
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Speaker 39: When you're standing on your own two feet and the
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Speaker 39: storm is coming in, you still gotta stand.
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Speaker 2: And sometimes you just got to stand alone.