Latest / Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge / Prenups, Painful Partings and Potomac
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod with Teddy Melancats and camera judge. Okay, guys,
- 0:12Speaker 1: here we are at to teas and pots with myself
- 0:16Speaker 1: and special guest toast Drue. Soadora, how are you. I'm
- 0:20Speaker 1: so good. Good to see you again. I've been missing
- 0:23Speaker 1: you since Vegas. I text you, I like, literally miss you.
- 0:27Speaker 1: I know. At the moment, I'm like, well, we're gonna
- 0:30Speaker 1: see each other soon, and we're gonna do it again.
- 0:32Speaker 1: We're gonna New York. All the things are happening out,
- 0:36Speaker 1: We're all we will all be at the same hotel.
- 0:38Speaker 1: I'm sure it'll be full blown chaos um. Which leads
- 0:42Speaker 1: me to the first fan question, which is who are
- 0:45Speaker 1: you most excited to see at Bravo Con. It's so
- 0:48Speaker 1: many people like I recently spoke with Karen Huger. I
- 0:52Speaker 1: can't wait see her. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
- 0:56Speaker 1: When do your Sefi sent me her amazing book with
- 0:59Speaker 1: her you know, the book about her mom, and it's unbelievable.
- 1:02Speaker 1: Anyone who has not gotten her book and read it,
- 1:05Speaker 1: please go and get it. My mom is actually reading
- 1:07Speaker 1: it now and she's just so excited. So I want
- 1:10Speaker 1: to see her and congratulate her on all the amazing
- 1:13Speaker 1: things she's doing with especially her book. Um who else,
- 1:16Speaker 1: I can't. I'm on a panel with Erica Jayne, so
- 1:19Speaker 1: I can't and met her. Um, I mean so many people.
- 1:25Speaker 1: It's so many people, so you know, we'll see. And now,
- 1:28Speaker 1: how is filming going? Filming is going, The filming is going,
- 1:35Speaker 1: it's going. It's it was so many clips um circulating
- 1:39Speaker 1: from Ross's birthday party on the internet, so a lot
- 1:43Speaker 1: of people kind of already know what's been happening, which, well,
- 1:47Speaker 1: it was real over here there. She hasn't shown up yet.
- 1:53Speaker 1: She has not yet. I actually haven't started yet, so
- 1:58Speaker 1: I don't know if you're like, I don't know more
- 2:01Speaker 1: than you know, is that what's been on the internet,
- 2:03Speaker 1: to be honest. Okay, all right, well, I appreciate you
- 2:06Speaker 1: taking the time to fill in for us today because
- 2:08Speaker 1: we tameras filming because they do extra filming now because
- 2:13Speaker 1: they're you know, they're gonna be in the middle of
- 2:15Speaker 1: Bravo Con next week, so like they are non stop.
- 2:18Speaker 1: This week, I realized that Potomac was coming out, so
- 2:22Speaker 1: we had to cover it, um, which Potomac is my favorite,
- 2:26Speaker 1: So sorry, I know, no, no, no, it's it's actually
- 2:30Speaker 1: one of my favors, Like I don't I don't miss
- 2:31Speaker 1: Potomac actually, so I'm there watching it. I don't miss
- 2:35Speaker 1: the episode because it's juicy. And can we say one
- 2:37Speaker 1: thing coudy craving. I was actually gonna say, does a
- 2:44Speaker 1: frog have a watertight asshole? What? I have to get
- 2:47Speaker 1: to that? Like where did that? I'm like Mia where
- 2:50Speaker 1: I can't wait till we wat watch that and see
- 2:52Speaker 1: what the heck she even like in context? What were
- 2:55Speaker 1: they talking about before? And then where did he go
- 2:57Speaker 1: after she said that? Not me googling the answer to
- 3:00Speaker 1: that late last night, Well I couldn't find I couldn't
- 3:05Speaker 1: find anything. So then I had to ask our producers
- 3:08Speaker 1: of the show and like does a frog have a
- 3:10Speaker 1: watertight asshole? And apparently it's like a slang like I
- 3:15Speaker 1: don't know, but it says like is a frog's areswater tight?
- 3:20Speaker 1: From what I mean, where did she ever get that information?
- 3:23Speaker 1: How would she know this? Were they talking about? Like?
- 3:26Speaker 1: I need to know what she was referring to. So
- 3:29Speaker 1: it's so much tells so much, it's so much to
- 3:33Speaker 1: unpack in this one episode. Well before we even get
- 3:36Speaker 1: into the episode, we need to unpack what's going on
- 3:38Speaker 1: on Twitter. So Mia Thornton post domestic violence incident from
- 3:43Speaker 1: friend of Jacqueline. Then Wendy chimes in on Mia using violence.
- 3:48Speaker 1: Did you see this? I did? It's so Mia right
- 3:53Speaker 1: since it's been deleted now, but first as a as
- 3:56Speaker 1: a tweet that says help is available at Bravo t TV.
- 4:00Speaker 1: I'm taking a stand to not condone violence. I will
- 4:03Speaker 1: never deliberately inflict physical pain on another. None of it
- 4:07Speaker 1: is okay. No one deserves to be treated this way.
- 4:10Speaker 1: Hashta back domestic violence awareness. Then that she posts the
- 4:14Speaker 1: phone number and it's a video. I saw the video
- 4:17Speaker 1: of Jacqueline. I'm assuming that's her husband or boyfriend or whomever.
- 4:23Speaker 1: But I'm like, how did she get this video in
- 4:25Speaker 1: the first place. Yeah, I don't even know everything. Everything
- 4:29Speaker 1: is accessible now, you know what I'm saying. Like, I
- 4:31Speaker 1: did try to go back and it's been deleted, So
- 4:35Speaker 1: I didn't see the video, but I, you know, read
- 4:38Speaker 1: things that people were retreating and like commenting on, so
- 4:41Speaker 1: trying to piece it together because I'm I'm like, I
- 4:43Speaker 1: know she has two beautiful kids. Um, I don't know
- 4:46Speaker 1: if this is her ex husband boyfriend, Like I was
- 4:48Speaker 1: confused on who the gentleman. Actually, I don't know who
- 4:52Speaker 1: he is because we haven't met him yet on this show.
- 4:55Speaker 1: But I do know that Mia came in through I mean,
- 4:59Speaker 1: I do know that Jacqueline came in through me. That's
- 5:02Speaker 1: her best friend. Yeah, but now they've unfollowed each other. Um.
- 5:07Speaker 1: Candice responds to this post, which, um, you know, the
- 5:11Speaker 1: whole thing is extremely heartbreaking, and then for also to
- 5:14Speaker 1: play out on social media. Um. Then Candice writes mess.
- 5:17Speaker 1: Then Candice writes, honestly, we can just skip to the
- 5:20Speaker 1: reunion at this point. We'll just tell you what happened
- 5:24Speaker 1: and then always always. Then Wendy chimes and, girl, I
- 5:31Speaker 1: know you not talking about not condoning violence. You threw
- 5:34Speaker 1: a drink on me and hit me with your purse
- 5:36Speaker 1: multiple times, breaking three nails in the process. You are
- 5:40Speaker 1: the poster child for violence. Then Mia responds, you are
- 5:44Speaker 1: absolutely right, and I will own that I was wrong.
- 5:47Speaker 1: I won't pretend to be perfect. I feel terrible for
- 5:49Speaker 1: acting that way, and I take self accountability. Then Jacqueline writes, ouch,
- 5:57Speaker 1: you got me. I guess I learned from the best house.
- 5:59Speaker 1: I question Mark nassas I'm college educated, own my own
- 6:03Speaker 1: home land and have my own career. Were different, says
- 6:07Speaker 1: the fake boss, who clearly doesn't own Zilch. You're a
- 6:09Speaker 1: fraud and as gutter as it gets focused on your
- 6:13Speaker 1: own mess. Pinocchio, m h, it's so much. It's so much.
- 6:19Speaker 1: It's good because now, yeah, like watching Jacqueline and me
- 6:24Speaker 1: as friendship, and oh we already now know what's to come,
- 6:28Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And I really wanted to
- 6:30Speaker 1: like Jacqueline, Like I don't know even what happens, so
- 6:32Speaker 1: I can't say I'm not gonna like her, you know,
- 6:34Speaker 1: but I was like stalking her Instagram, like she seems
- 6:36Speaker 1: like such a nice girl, a great mother, you know,
- 6:40Speaker 1: they have like this beautiful friendship, and I'm like, what
- 6:43Speaker 1: kind possibly freaking happened, Like what happened? Yeah, what happened?
- 6:47Speaker 1: And I guess, I mean, I guess I don't necessarily
- 6:51Speaker 1: also understand why Miya would leak these things in advance,
- 6:55Speaker 1: especially if I guess, we're gonna have to learn about
- 6:57Speaker 1: their friendships, see how close they really are are they
- 7:00Speaker 1: really are they best friends or they show friends where
- 7:04Speaker 1: like on her timeline, because that's the first thing, I think, right,
- 7:07Speaker 1: but like they've been liking each other's pictures, well, you know,
- 7:10Speaker 1: unless she went back and liked them. But it seemed
- 7:13Speaker 1: like they were friends like long ago, like she was
- 7:15Speaker 1: like years ago before she came on, So they were
- 7:19Speaker 1: legitimate best friends. And she brought her on the show.
- 7:21Speaker 1: So that's even more heartbreaking if that's the case, that
- 7:24Speaker 1: you bring your friend on the show, you know, and
- 7:26Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, all this myths happens. Now
- 7:28Speaker 1: you guys aren't even friends anymore, you know, like sometimes
- 7:30Speaker 1: you gotta keep your friends off of the crazy roller
- 7:33Speaker 1: coaster that is reality TV. But also, and I've said this,
- 7:36Speaker 1: you know, I said this on my social media but
- 7:38Speaker 1: which was also became like it started trending and all
- 7:41Speaker 1: this stuff, because I said, you know, if you are
- 7:45Speaker 1: going to be on a reality television show and you
- 7:47Speaker 1: have anything to hide, it's going to come out. So
- 7:50Speaker 1: if you want to be a private person, dun't gole
- 7:53Speaker 1: on reality television. It's just the long and short of it.
- 7:56Speaker 1: Like you can't say I don't want to be talked about.
- 7:58Speaker 1: You can't say I don't want the discussed. You don't
- 8:01Speaker 1: have those options anymore, Unfortunately I want to know you
- 8:05Speaker 1: before because I didn't know. I'm learning that now, you
- 8:08Speaker 1: know what I'm looking even at Mia, she's going through
- 8:11Speaker 1: so much right now, Like we don't know really what
- 8:13Speaker 1: with the status of her health is. You know, I
- 8:15Speaker 1: know she on episode one was saying she still going
- 8:17Speaker 1: for testing, so we don't know, you know what she's
- 8:19Speaker 1: dealing with her health now, with her friendship, and then
- 8:22Speaker 1: on top of that, she's had in the family fall
- 8:24Speaker 1: out with her like family who totally blocked her husband
- 8:28Speaker 1: out of their business. Yeah, so this sounds also very
- 8:32Speaker 1: the story that what she what Mia posted. And we
- 8:35Speaker 1: have to remember when you go back to last season,
- 8:38Speaker 1: Mia repeatedly got things wrong. Remember like she would get
- 8:42Speaker 1: people kind of all worked up and then she and
- 8:44Speaker 1: the person be like, I didn't say it like that,
- 8:46Speaker 1: and then she'd be like, oh, yeah, you're right, you know,
- 8:48Speaker 1: like her credibility is a little it's um but it
- 8:53Speaker 1: says Mia Instagram caption says, just want to let you
- 8:57Speaker 1: all know I love seeing our Real Housewives of Potomac
- 9:00Speaker 1: fans and our offices, but I won't be running into
- 9:03Speaker 1: you all for a little bit. I don't even feel
- 9:05Speaker 1: comfortable recommending you to continue to visit without having a
- 9:08Speaker 1: direct influence on the operations. Although please know I will
- 9:11Speaker 1: forever value you appreciate your love and support. I've never
- 9:15Speaker 1: experienced such pain. I practically birth these clinics. So I'm
- 9:18Speaker 1: feeling defeated right now. God has been preparing me for
- 9:21Speaker 1: the ultimate fight of my life, breaking the chain generational wealth.
- 9:26Speaker 1: I just can't give up now, I've come too far,
- 9:28Speaker 1: and then it's please pray for our family. Gordon's brothers,
- 9:31Speaker 1: who he trusted to support and carry on the family legacy,
- 9:35Speaker 1: have recently revoked his access to the company bank account
- 9:37Speaker 1: while we were out of the country. I've since learned
- 9:40Speaker 1: that my salary will no longer continue past this next
- 9:42Speaker 1: payroll cycle due to unwavering loyalty to Gordon. The thought
- 9:46Speaker 1: that the person who Gordon selected to run our empire
- 9:49Speaker 1: and who he thought would be the one to care
- 9:51Speaker 1: for me and the kids, has now manipulated the organizational
- 9:54Speaker 1: structure and robbed us of everything we own. Gordon and
- 9:57Speaker 1: I built this company from the ground up and brought
- 10:00Speaker 1: on family members since two thousand. Never would we think,
- 10:05Speaker 1: after a decade of building generational wealth and opportunities would
- 10:08Speaker 1: end up being taken away from its overnight. If you
- 10:11Speaker 1: can't trust family, who can you trust? My heart is
- 10:13Speaker 1: completely empty, I mean your versus. So that was hard
- 10:20Speaker 1: to read them, Like, and then they got into it
- 10:23Speaker 1: back and forth Brittany, I guess it's her. I don't
- 10:25Speaker 1: know if it's her cousin or someone related to Boorden,
- 10:28Speaker 1: but yes, she They were getting into a whole back
- 10:30Speaker 1: and forth in the comments. Uh that's the thing, Like
- 10:34Speaker 1: do you think that we're going to see all of
- 10:36Speaker 1: this play out this season as well? I have no
- 10:39Speaker 1: idea because that wasn't even a part of the trainer,
- 10:41Speaker 1: So I'm like, I feel like they would have put
- 10:42Speaker 1: that in the trailer because that's major, that's how we
- 10:46Speaker 1: met Mia. She's got these. But I also felt like
- 10:49Speaker 1: it was a little much. You know, when somebody's like
- 10:51Speaker 1: shoving it down your throat how much they're working. Yeah,
- 10:56Speaker 1: and then you're like are you? Though? Like there were
- 11:00Speaker 1: times where like she's like making eggs and then she's
- 11:02Speaker 1: like sitting there and she's like I gotta get through
- 11:05Speaker 1: all like and You're like, are you? I thought she
- 11:08Speaker 1: said they were her, join Like I thought they were hers.
- 11:11Speaker 1: I didn't even know well, because from the post it
- 11:14Speaker 1: sounds like they were actually, jeez, it's not getting yeah,
- 11:18Speaker 1: because and what did you think? What do you think
- 11:21Speaker 1: of g in general? Oh my god, Gee is great
- 11:26Speaker 1: reality TV because she just doesn't care, like it's no filter.
- 11:31Speaker 1: You know, he just was being a hundred to him.
- 11:33Speaker 1: I hope he continues to be him because I did
- 11:35Speaker 1: hear um that he might clean up this season because
- 11:39Speaker 1: he was thoroughly embarrassed. So I just but I don't
- 11:42Speaker 1: want that to be the case. I want him to
- 11:43Speaker 1: continue to be who he is, because that's that's the
- 11:46Speaker 1: real you know what I mean? Because I think and
- 11:49Speaker 1: I think that's why we're in this situation with me
- 11:51Speaker 1: is because I don't know that me as a hundred
- 11:53Speaker 1: percent being, you know. I think she's coming and wanting
- 11:55Speaker 1: to make good reality television, and then it's so much
- 11:59Speaker 1: that you're I'm have a hard time where I feel
- 12:01Speaker 1: like most housewiters I can watch and say, oh I
- 12:04Speaker 1: relate to them. Here, I feel this connection to them.
- 12:07Speaker 1: Here she's I'm not feeling it because I think there's
- 12:11Speaker 1: it's such a show right now. I agree with you
- 12:14Speaker 1: because actually when I saw Gizelle and she was finally
- 12:17Speaker 1: revealing our house that has been like I feel like
- 12:19Speaker 1: all of what to make like the whole season. I'm like,
- 12:22Speaker 1: I really I thought that saying. I was like I
- 12:24Speaker 1: can appreciate Gazelle because even for me in my house,
- 12:26Speaker 1: I am like life happens. We're still getting our house together.
- 12:30Speaker 1: So when I saw me and the fact that she
- 12:33Speaker 1: moved and like everything is perfect, Like I'm looking at
- 12:36Speaker 1: every room like she decorrect every room and she's renting.
- 12:40Speaker 1: So it's like, why how did you do invest all
- 12:42Speaker 1: the time to get a picture perfect? You know? I
- 12:44Speaker 1: love a housewife that's willing to let us be on
- 12:46Speaker 1: this journey because that's life. Like I'm stting over here
- 12:49Speaker 1: with my kid home today trying to like multists figure
- 12:53Speaker 1: it out. I don't same here, Like I'm like, I
- 12:55Speaker 1: agree with you on that day. Totally. Yeah. Okay. So
- 13:07Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Orange County star Heather to Brow and
- 13:10Speaker 1: husband Terry to Bros. Sweetest Family Moments Party of six.
- 13:14Speaker 1: Heather to Brow and Terry de Bro haven't left their
- 13:17Speaker 1: lives in the spotlight keep them from raising their four children, Nick, Max, Cat,
- 13:22Speaker 1: and Coco. The Real Housewives of Orange County star met
- 13:25Speaker 1: bog personality on a group day in the nineties. Heather
- 13:28Speaker 1: recalled during the November two thousand and fifteen of her
- 13:30Speaker 1: Heather to Bros. World podcast that she initially thought Terry
- 13:34Speaker 1: wasn't really her type after he complimented her kissing skills. However,
- 13:37Speaker 1: she was hooked the duo ty. Three years later, they
- 13:41Speaker 1: began expanding their family. The couple welcome twins Nicholas and
- 13:45Speaker 1: daughter Max, and then daughter Cat was one three years
- 13:47Speaker 1: later in October two thousand six. The pair's younger daughter, Coco,
- 13:51Speaker 1: arrived in December. Over the years, Heather and Terry have
- 13:55Speaker 1: highlighted their children's milestones on social media and at times
- 13:58Speaker 1: of their respective TV even chuse Okay, so that was
- 14:01Speaker 1: just a long drawn out thing because there has essentially
- 14:04Speaker 1: been there's been on a press tour the last couple
- 14:07Speaker 1: of days through Orange County and even let me see
- 14:11Speaker 1: where the little video as I saw her say all
- 14:14Speaker 1: about protecting yourself but also knowing. I think when you
- 14:18Speaker 1: know that things are actually good, it's easier to ignore
- 14:24Speaker 1: and you know lies camp which yes, that that's actually true.
- 14:29Speaker 1: But then the problem is I went back to her
- 14:31Speaker 1: podcast where she says that absolutely oh here it was
- 14:37Speaker 1: Real Housewives of a Lum. Heather do Bro suggest Bronwyn
- 14:40Speaker 1: calls paparazzi on herself. Heather revealed unease the Daily Pop.
- 14:45Speaker 1: I want you to say, for the record, there is
- 14:47Speaker 1: zero paparazzi in Orange County zero. You have to call
- 14:51Speaker 1: them on yourself. So which one is it? Did paparazzi
- 14:55Speaker 1: get her out and all these photos to ship by accident?
- 15:00Speaker 1: Did she call them? He called them? Like? I mean,
- 15:04Speaker 1: I think my four year old daughter nass totally like
- 15:09Speaker 1: you think papa is flying or like driving all the way,
- 15:14Speaker 1: so wanted to count I don't. I don't know, no,
- 15:18Speaker 1: if she had an issue, that all I'm saying. You know,
- 15:20Speaker 1: it is what it is. But I am saying, if
- 15:21Speaker 1: you're gonna called albron when for calling the paparazzi on herself,
- 15:25Speaker 1: which let's be honest, I feel like she probably did,
- 15:29Speaker 1: and then you got to own the fact that you
- 15:30Speaker 1: called it on yourself. And it's not like she lives
- 15:32Speaker 1: in West Hollywood or l A where they are honestly
- 15:36Speaker 1: out to get under yeah all the time, just waiting.
- 15:41Speaker 1: But her like I appreciate, you know, a good picture
- 15:46Speaker 1: perfect family but it just is very it's very projecting.
- 15:50Speaker 1: This is what we want to show, and this is
- 15:52Speaker 1: how we want to appear. The matching Christmas souths so
- 15:54Speaker 1: matching everything. It's just like, gosh, there's people are like perfect,
- 16:00Speaker 1: but that's someone. I mean, aren't we all? As I'm
- 16:03Speaker 1: like looking through my Instagram, I'm like, you know, sometimes
- 16:06Speaker 1: it's look a little dicey here too, aren't we all?
- 16:09Speaker 1: You know? I mean, I I'm not gonna lie. In
- 16:11Speaker 1: the beginning, I was like, I don't care. I'm putting
- 16:15Speaker 1: whatever is my real life on Instagram, you know, makeup,
- 16:17Speaker 1: no makeup, whatever. Then all of a sudden I joined
- 16:19Speaker 1: the show, and you find yourself wanting to, you know,
- 16:22Speaker 1: be better, I'll say that, wanting to be better. You know,
- 16:25Speaker 1: well let me. Then you learn about the app face
- 16:27Speaker 1: app let me, let me just let this a little bit,
- 16:31Speaker 1: you know, let me just go to the skill sir.
- 16:33Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden you get just like like, now,
- 16:36Speaker 1: like I really this season, I'm not gonna here as much.
- 16:39Speaker 1: You know, I think you just have to really and
- 16:41Speaker 1: it's a process, but I think at some point you
- 16:42Speaker 1: just have to be okay with being real, owning yourself. Yeah,
- 16:46Speaker 1: I called paparazzi. I want some more to do. Yeah,
- 16:48Speaker 1: you know, we want this picture perfect life or image
- 16:51Speaker 1: because you know, and then people can connect, then you
- 16:55Speaker 1: can you know, well, which brings us to our next Uh.
- 17:00Speaker 1: This this whole thing makes me. It made me, It
- 17:03Speaker 1: made me sad. I posted about it myself. But Kathy
- 17:06Speaker 1: Hilton responding on Instagram about why Kyle is crying so
- 17:11Speaker 1: Christian Grace Snow wrote, I'm so worried about Kyle, so upset,
- 17:17Speaker 1: and then did you see what Kathy responded? What is?
- 17:20Speaker 1: She respond She wrote? Why is she hips that in crying?
- 17:23Speaker 1: I'm the one who got bullied and she said she's
- 17:27Speaker 1: mean to stay persecuted. But it says perfect for ten months,
- 17:32Speaker 1: just cruel and disgusting. Yeah, and then just so much
- 17:38Speaker 1: commenting on everything like I wish because I know that Kathy,
- 17:46Speaker 1: in my opinion, Kathy wants everything to look a certain way.
- 17:51Speaker 1: So then why comment these things on social media because
- 17:54Speaker 1: then you're just gonna be talked about more. I think
- 17:57Speaker 1: it's so. I remember what you say when we were
- 18:00Speaker 1: in Vegas. You know about how Kathy may have you,
- 18:04Speaker 1: You know, Kyle, all these years, I never looked at
- 18:07Speaker 1: it that way because I just saw Kathy as like
- 18:10Speaker 1: she's like wealthy, you know, she's a kept woman, She's
- 18:13Speaker 1: a Hilton. But then to understand why Kyle's had her independence,
- 18:17Speaker 1: Kyle has had her career, you said it, And now
- 18:20Speaker 1: I feel like we're seeing the fall out of it,
- 18:22Speaker 1: because I feel like now Kathy's coming out of that
- 18:25Speaker 1: what we thought it was, what I thought it was,
- 18:27Speaker 1: what probably other people probably thought it was, and she's
- 18:29Speaker 1: starting to speak her real her even saying that, well,
- 18:33Speaker 1: why do you guys feel sorry for her? I mean,
- 18:35Speaker 1: I A'm the one. You know. Now you're getting into
- 18:37Speaker 1: how Kathy's really felt, and like you said, it's just
- 18:39Speaker 1: going down from here because I think Kathy just she's
- 18:43Speaker 1: now open, you know, she's now opening and to express herself.
- 18:46Speaker 1: Whish I pray this will be the beginning of healing,
- 18:50Speaker 1: because if Kyle ever misunderstood what their issues were, I
- 18:53Speaker 1: think now they're finally getting to what the real issues are,
- 18:56Speaker 1: which is Kathy's jealousy or envy, or her desire to
- 19:01Speaker 1: wish she had been more independent, whatever those feelings. I'm
- 19:03Speaker 1: kidding for her, but I hope this is the beginning
- 19:06Speaker 1: of them to be real and really go to a
- 19:09Speaker 1: deeper litle and connect because Katy's all over all over
- 19:12Speaker 1: the internet. But that's what I'm saying, don't but if
- 19:14Speaker 1: you really want to fix something, and I mean if
- 19:17Speaker 1: you really want to fix something with your sister or
- 19:19Speaker 1: somebody in your family, like imagine you and Ralph are
- 19:22Speaker 1: in a fight and you do the whole thing in
- 19:24Speaker 1: the Instagram comments. No, you know, I don't know what
- 19:29Speaker 1: to say, because you know, she and I have are
- 19:33Speaker 1: I feel like we really go at it the most
- 19:36Speaker 1: run around versus to speak to this. I think we
- 19:38Speaker 1: talked more on Twitter than we did during Filman to
- 19:41Speaker 1: be honest with you, you know, and our real feelings
- 19:43Speaker 1: came out. I feel like, like you said, reality, you're
- 19:47Speaker 1: now public, so there is no you know, hiding because
- 19:49Speaker 1: if they would have been able to solve their problems,
- 19:51Speaker 1: they could have been having this family counseling like all
- 19:54Speaker 1: this time before she got on the show, if they
- 19:56Speaker 1: were going to really work through their issues. Sometimes I
- 19:59Speaker 1: feel like reality holds you more accountable, you know, because
- 20:03Speaker 1: that's the thing, and you know, you could see you
- 20:05Speaker 1: could feel Cathy's anger here when she responds to Christian
- 20:09Speaker 1: Gary Snow. But you're also like, then why did you
- 20:12Speaker 1: come on the show if you know what's going to
- 20:16Speaker 1: come out? Like you knew, you know the things that
- 20:19Speaker 1: are potentially going to be shown, and it's a risk
- 20:23Speaker 1: I didn't like. I guess I didn't, though, I don't know,
- 20:28Speaker 1: maybe because you're more seasoned and like, I don't, I'm not.
- 20:31Speaker 1: I was only on for three seasons, Like, aren't you
- 20:34Speaker 1: going to that's me? I'm a movie compared to you, honey.
- 20:39Speaker 1: So no, no, definitely not. But thinking of, uh, did
- 20:47Speaker 1: you see that Bethany Frankel says she's going to pack
- 20:50Speaker 1: some ship up on Real Housewives of Beverly Hills? Are
- 20:55Speaker 1: you confused like she was? I mean, I haven't even
- 20:58Speaker 1: seen the show, but these are O b H clips
- 21:01Speaker 1: had me looking at Airbnb to go there and have
- 21:04Speaker 1: some shut up l O l at Andy and then
- 21:07Speaker 1: l Andy. We put me on one couch and the
- 21:10Speaker 1: whole lot on the other. What is she saying now
- 21:13Speaker 1: that she would fight with all of them, all of them?
- 21:16Speaker 1: She said she wants her own. Yeah, basically she said
- 21:18Speaker 1: she had the issue with everybody on the guest and
- 21:20Speaker 1: so I don't know if she didn't make things right
- 21:23Speaker 1: over in New York. But also, don't we know you
- 21:27Speaker 1: watched the show by saying this, you're a fan of
- 21:32Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, which is okay, funny like
- 21:35Speaker 1: we are, which is okay because remember those supposedly some
- 21:39Speaker 1: of those girls were her good friends from growing up, supposedly.
- 21:43Speaker 1: But my thing is some closure in a period dot
- 21:47Speaker 1: on Real Housewives of New York before you try to
- 21:50Speaker 1: try to ask for training or whatever she do so
- 21:54Speaker 1: Beverly Hills, Like, I need you to come shut this
- 21:56Speaker 1: down before you try to move on. So I don't
- 21:59Speaker 1: know you're You're like, your job isn't done over in
- 22:01Speaker 1: New York. You need to get your ass back there
- 22:03Speaker 1: and handle business, okay, period alright. Well, in the words
- 22:07Speaker 1: of Chanel, period dat okay. Final thing before we get
- 22:10Speaker 1: to recapping, um is Lisa Barlow is taking a page
- 22:15Speaker 1: out of your book and getting a little messy on Well,
- 22:17Speaker 1: I love that, I say, your book. Meanwhile, all I
- 22:19Speaker 1: do is like clap back to people on Twitter. But
- 22:23Speaker 1: somebody says, what does John Barlow do other than follow
- 22:26Speaker 1: Lisa around? And Lisa Barlow says, l O, l I'm
- 22:29Speaker 1: going to chime in here. John Barlow is a boss.
- 22:32Speaker 1: He's not punching time clocks and doesn't report to anyone.
- 22:35Speaker 1: He's an owner. He can do whatever the f he wants.
- 22:38Speaker 1: And sometimes that's hanging with me. I mean, Lisa, Lisa, Lisa,
- 22:46Speaker 1: I I love Lisa, that's my girl. Hey Lisa. Um.
- 22:51Speaker 1: But the two things we don't know what he does?
- 22:53Speaker 1: I mean, that's a ballet question. I I thought, you know,
- 22:58Speaker 1: just watching the show, and what I did at myre
- 23:00Speaker 1: is their partnership. I feel like the thing the businesses
- 23:03Speaker 1: they built for their children, and if you see him
- 23:05Speaker 1: there at the table um with the Vida tequila, I
- 23:08Speaker 1: do feel like they are partners. But it just they don't.
- 23:11Speaker 1: It doesn't it's not clear to us that they are.
- 23:14Speaker 1: So that to me assuming that, okay, they've got these
- 23:16Speaker 1: family businesses. But I think that's a valid question. So
- 23:20Speaker 1: we all have to what does what does he do?
- 23:25Speaker 1: What's his background? You know? I mean people have said
- 23:28Speaker 1: that about my husband. UM like sometimes it is it's
- 23:31Speaker 1: like in real life. So he does. But if we
- 23:34Speaker 1: don't show it and make it very clear, if we
- 23:36Speaker 1: don't make it very clear, then people will ask that.
- 23:38Speaker 1: People ask that about my husband all the time, so
- 23:40Speaker 1: what does it do? Uh? Um. Now he's in technology,
- 23:46Speaker 1: which you know is something that I don't think he
- 23:49Speaker 1: feels his appetising or people will really care about. I
- 23:51Speaker 1: find it fascinating. But he licens out software to like
- 23:56Speaker 1: AI and smart people technology stuff for five years from now,
- 24:00Speaker 1: so it's really because that's the world we live in.
- 24:02Speaker 1: So I feel like right now, you know, he has
- 24:04Speaker 1: a contributees telling about things that are being invented five
- 24:07Speaker 1: years from now, and is really it's fascinating. I mean
- 24:09Speaker 1: kind of scary, but um yeah, that's his that's his
- 24:12Speaker 1: real job, that's his career. Um. But he's also an
- 24:15Speaker 1: entrepreneurs so people see he's writing a book now and
- 24:17Speaker 1: doing some things. But I feel like it's important for
- 24:19Speaker 1: us to know, like how he got his money and
- 24:22Speaker 1: how we're able to live this wonderful life. So Lisa
- 24:26Speaker 1: was already hold like what that that TikTok where like
- 24:34Speaker 1: this news just broke. It's so heartbreaking. Tams exclusive Meni
- 24:39Speaker 1: Leaks twenty year old son suffers heart attack and stroke.
- 24:42Speaker 1: Me Nei Leaks. Old son is lucky to be alive
- 24:45Speaker 1: after a frightening medical emergency sent him to the hospital
- 24:48Speaker 1: and on a long road recovery. Sources with directnowledge to
- 24:52Speaker 1: tell us that Brent Leaks was in Atlanta earlier this
- 24:54Speaker 1: month when he suffered both a heart attack and a stroke. Luckily,
- 24:57Speaker 1: we're told that Brent was quickly transported to a local
- 25:00Speaker 1: hospital for medical attention. Our sources say, well, Brent was
- 25:04Speaker 1: hospitalized for several days. He's now out and rehabbing, and
- 25:07Speaker 1: everyone was hopeful he will make a full recovery. It
- 25:11Speaker 1: was last year when Nini's husband, Greg, who was also
- 25:13Speaker 1: Brent's father, died after a long battle with cancer. Brent
- 25:16Speaker 1: was featured on the house Sides of Atlanta throughout Nini's
- 25:19Speaker 1: time on the show with his brother Bryson. Nani has
- 25:21Speaker 1: not publicly commented on her son situation as of now.
- 25:25Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Nini, we're sending so much love and
- 25:27Speaker 1: prayers your way. This is and for your son, and
- 25:31Speaker 1: we're thinking about you. All Right, we'll take a little break,
- 25:34Speaker 1: we'll come back and we are going to discuss the
- 25:36Speaker 1: Pototomac premiere. All right, we are back, and there is
- 25:50Speaker 1: nothing I sent this to the group, but there's nothing
- 25:53Speaker 1: that I feel more in my entire body than this
- 25:58Speaker 1: right here like no hugs, no hugs, no touching, no touching.
- 26:13Speaker 1: I'm good, thank you. Now. I love Giselle keeping it
- 26:17Speaker 1: all the way real, honey. I live for real, real moments.
- 26:21Speaker 1: Giselle just she really I love her so much, even
- 26:25Speaker 1: though you know she doesn't love me that much. But
- 26:27Speaker 1: I feel like I'm gonna win her over at baravo'conn um.
- 26:31Speaker 1: I well, she just said something on her podcast, but
- 26:34Speaker 1: we'll see. But I love the fact that Giselle is
- 26:39Speaker 1: like we saw a softer side to her at the
- 26:42Speaker 1: end of last year, and then you know when when
- 26:44Speaker 1: she comes when she's with her kids this episode, talking
- 26:48Speaker 1: about the spring in the spring and her kids, even
- 26:51Speaker 1: trolling the way that she dresses, like I just I
- 26:56Speaker 1: think she just had to say said that, like we
- 26:58Speaker 1: all know jas ok Intra, but I love her like
- 27:01Speaker 1: she was my former first lady. All right, So we
- 27:05Speaker 1: literally a pray together, and yes, I will ever love
- 27:09Speaker 1: her in spirit. Um. So yeah, we have to make
- 27:11Speaker 1: this this work. Maybe we'll have a little pursercleing Brook.
- 27:14Speaker 1: All right, We'll do what we gotta do. Um. But
- 27:18Speaker 1: the shows, these are the best moments. Giselle, Robin and
- 27:22Speaker 1: Karen Giselle, Robin Karen and actually talked about me as
- 27:25Speaker 1: Instagram post about her health and that they are attention
- 27:29Speaker 1: seeking and she is putting out unsure narratives. They can't
- 27:33Speaker 1: figure out if she has cancer or not, and her
- 27:35Speaker 1: post takes away credibility. So this is what the post said.
- 27:39Speaker 1: It's a picture. It's the same time. Last week, Doc
- 27:42Speaker 1: called it seven thirty when I am Mia. I'm so
- 27:44Speaker 1: sorry your test results came back. I need you to
- 27:47Speaker 1: go to Johns Hopkins Cancer Center today for further evaluation.
- 27:50Speaker 1: You can only imagine the overwhelming amount of amount of
- 27:55Speaker 1: emotion g and I endured trying to figure out why. However,
- 27:59Speaker 1: even with such charitable news, I felt an extreme amount
- 28:01Speaker 1: of peace and energy and still that allowed me to
- 28:03Speaker 1: remain strong. I've been in and out of visits to
- 28:06Speaker 1: specialists every day, and the storm is not over, but
- 28:09Speaker 1: this experience is changing me. I'm working with a phenomenal
- 28:12Speaker 1: team and of physicians, and I appreciate the outpouring of support.
- 28:15Speaker 1: I have not been diagnosed as of yet, so please
- 28:17Speaker 1: keep me in your prayer. I know God has a
- 28:19Speaker 1: plan and we are often challenged to remain humbled that
- 28:22Speaker 1: tomorrow is not promised, that are days on this earth
- 28:24Speaker 1: are numbered and a message from my heart a gentile
- 28:28Speaker 1: minor to live, love, forgive, as today was your last
- 28:34Speaker 1: and then second post love. So many of you reached
- 28:38Speaker 1: out to check in, and I want to let you
- 28:40Speaker 1: all know I'm okay. Each day comes with new challenges.
- 28:42Speaker 1: So far no cancer, although I'm still undergoing testing and
- 28:47Speaker 1: we will surgically remove the two lumps for biopsy. As
- 28:50Speaker 1: of now, everything is looking good. Please don't worry. It's
- 28:53Speaker 1: not my intent tree to worry. Yet, remember the message
- 28:55Speaker 1: behind why God faces these challenges, so essentially what they're saying,
- 29:00Speaker 1: as you know, she changed her post a couple of times,
- 29:04Speaker 1: and she's making it unclear which kind of continues on
- 29:09Speaker 1: in this episode. Yeah, I feel like, yes, reality were
- 29:17Speaker 1: to be open and all those things, but I, as
- 29:19Speaker 1: a woman, I just should lightly when we start to
- 29:22Speaker 1: talk about health issues, um, because I dealt with diagnosis
- 29:26Speaker 1: and surgery and all those things, and it's a very
- 29:29Speaker 1: hard thing to go through just by yourself and then
- 29:32Speaker 1: with your family. So to really put it out there
- 29:34Speaker 1: in a way that it's very unclear is going to
- 29:37Speaker 1: bring a lot of confusion and also open the door
- 29:41Speaker 1: for the girls to dig and poke and all those
- 29:43Speaker 1: different things, which doesn't make it any easier. I think
- 29:46Speaker 1: when you're dealing with something like this, you need to
- 29:48Speaker 1: reduce your stress. You know, you need to take your momentum.
- 29:51Speaker 1: I'm a firm believer in that, because this is your
- 29:53Speaker 1: life you're talking about, and other people that are going
- 29:55Speaker 1: through something similar. You know, you have to be more
- 29:59Speaker 1: respond stable, I think in your messaging. So that's why
- 30:03Speaker 1: I think that's what it is. And I think, especially
- 30:05Speaker 1: when you're held under this lens of being on reality television,
- 30:09Speaker 1: whenever you talk about something medical medically related, you need
- 30:13Speaker 1: to know exactly what you're saying because people are gonna
- 30:16Speaker 1: be like watching you. Like I I remember something happened
- 30:19Speaker 1: even on Beverly Hills where somebody said there's significant other
- 30:23Speaker 1: spouse had a type of diabetes and they said the
- 30:26Speaker 1: wrong name, like it was just an accident. Everyone jumped
- 30:29Speaker 1: on them like that's not the right one. You know,
- 30:32Speaker 1: it just and it was someone just spoke wrong. So
- 30:35Speaker 1: I think, you know, I I personally have spoken about
- 30:38Speaker 1: you know when I like posted about getting skin checks
- 30:43Speaker 1: because something came back and you know, I had melanoma
- 30:46Speaker 1: but ended up being Melanoine seat too, but I explained,
- 30:49Speaker 1: like you have to go get your skin checks, how
- 30:51Speaker 1: important it is, and then I completely laid it out
- 30:54Speaker 1: to everybody because for me, I was thinking that's something
- 30:56Speaker 1: I really avoided doing. Go get your skin checks, like
- 30:59Speaker 1: which I'm saying to you guys. Now, they just found
- 31:01Speaker 1: another one that looked free cancrous. They dug it out
- 31:04Speaker 1: and then the results will come back later this week.
- 31:07Speaker 1: So it's just something you have to stay on top of.
- 31:09Speaker 1: I do every three months, and um, yeah, you just
- 31:14Speaker 1: have to be really clear in that messaging. But yeah,
- 31:17Speaker 1: it's I think it's gonna get on that, like, you know,
- 31:20Speaker 1: prayer see you on that. We'll be praying. Let us
- 31:23Speaker 1: know if you need anything. I think, um, that's something
- 31:26Speaker 1: I've never done. So even hearing you about that, that's
- 31:28Speaker 1: something that is important to do. There's so much things.
- 31:31Speaker 1: There's so much we don't know, you know, and how
- 31:33Speaker 1: we should take care of ourselves and better care and
- 31:37Speaker 1: that's the journey. I'm one as well, so I just
- 31:38Speaker 1: feel like as women, that's important for us to stick together.
- 31:41Speaker 1: I don't really like the ladies right off the bat.
- 31:44Speaker 1: In episode one, Hooking fun at it. I think, you know,
- 31:47Speaker 1: questions and concerns are warranted, but I think we need
- 31:51Speaker 1: to tread lightly into the making it, you know, shade
- 31:54Speaker 1: and all of that, because that's what I've experienced and
- 31:56Speaker 1: it doesn't feel good. Yeah, And I think just going
- 31:59Speaker 1: forward for me when she's going to make those types
- 32:02Speaker 1: of announcements, just being a little bit more clear knowing that,
- 32:07Speaker 1: especially on this show, people are going to want to
- 32:10Speaker 1: fight with you about things, especially when you throw things
- 32:13Speaker 1: another dract. If you're gonna throw a jab, they're gonna
- 32:15Speaker 1: throw a jab like it's just or just come on quiet,
- 32:18Speaker 1: you know, and just come on quiet. And if you're
- 32:21Speaker 1: a little tea, don't don't come in, you know, on
- 32:23Speaker 1: twenty But I think that just goes to her and
- 32:26Speaker 1: her lack of connectedness, you know, and let the girls
- 32:29Speaker 1: be apart, Let let us be a part. I want
- 32:31Speaker 1: to see where this house is when you bought it.
- 32:33Speaker 1: Who's your interior designer? Like? What? How is everything perfect already?
- 32:37Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, let's go to the doctor appointment, let's
- 32:40Speaker 1: do you know, like all of those things. I think,
- 32:43Speaker 1: you know, having to try to find put the pieces
- 32:47Speaker 1: together through social media is a little tricky. When you're
- 32:49Speaker 1: watching a show at the same time, kind of like
- 32:52Speaker 1: Ashley's divorce. What okay, So things made a lot more
- 33:02Speaker 1: sense to me when she said the comment like all that,
- 33:05Speaker 1: when she's saying she doesn't drinking party Moore anymore. They
- 33:08Speaker 1: aren't sexually compatible. They've been drifting apart, but this was
- 33:11Speaker 1: the line that got me. Okay. She says she wanted
- 33:16Speaker 1: monogamy after the birth of her child and his infidelity,
- 33:21Speaker 1: and that's when she said that. I realized, Oh, I
- 33:25Speaker 1: think they've always had an open thing, is what the
- 33:29Speaker 1: assumption I made from that, And now that that's happened,
- 33:34Speaker 1: now that she's had kids, she doesn't want an open
- 33:37Speaker 1: thing anymore, and she's just like done. I was gathering that.
- 33:43Speaker 1: I was gathering that t because I'm like, I think
- 33:45Speaker 1: I heard in the past that they were they were
- 33:49Speaker 1: introducing other women in the bedroom, and I think, and
- 33:53Speaker 1: it happens. You know, women are like, all right, I'll
- 33:56Speaker 1: try it, and then you fall in and trying to
- 33:58Speaker 1: please your man, and then maybe you like it too.
- 34:01Speaker 1: And now that she's had her you know, she's a
- 34:04Speaker 1: mom now and she's going through those hormonal changes and
- 34:07Speaker 1: being more responsible as you come into motherhood. She's like, yeah,
- 34:10Speaker 1: I don't like it no more. You know, I don't
- 34:12Speaker 1: want this, And now you know, it's kind of one
- 34:15Speaker 1: of those things you signed up for. You allowed it
- 34:17Speaker 1: to open Mandoor's box. How do you just tell a
- 34:19Speaker 1: man no, now, like that's what he's been You guys
- 34:23Speaker 1: have been married for she said, almost eight years, and
- 34:25Speaker 1: so I don't know how you can now suddenly expect
- 34:28Speaker 1: that change. Demanded as far as divorced I personally, and
- 34:32Speaker 1: I'm gonna put it on record. I think she's going
- 34:35Speaker 1: as far as say divorce, I don't. I mean, I
- 34:39Speaker 1: really was trying to think as hard as I possibly
- 34:41Speaker 1: could if I could ever get a couchie craving for
- 34:43Speaker 1: Michael Derby, and I just don't think I could. Well, Like,
- 34:49Speaker 1: how many drinks would attend to get couchie craving? A lot?
- 34:56Speaker 1: She said, it's not you, but I think, you know,
- 35:00Speaker 1: I don't know, I think. And she is looking the
- 35:01Speaker 1: hottest sues ever. I'm sorry, she is glowing, she looks stunning.
- 35:07Speaker 1: She's a dressed like you can tell she's feeling herself
- 35:09Speaker 1: that blue leather situation. I was like, okay, okay, girl,
- 35:13Speaker 1: I'll give it me like glow up vibes, and I
- 35:16Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know. I feel like she's got
- 35:18Speaker 1: one foot in, one foot out. She's like, I'm here
- 35:21Speaker 1: for the money opportunities and the businesses that he's been
- 35:24Speaker 1: amazing and created this lifestyle. He's paid all the bills,
- 35:27Speaker 1: she said, So I think she's using this divorce word, like,
- 35:31Speaker 1: but then why does it under her? Why get a
- 35:33Speaker 1: house together and put it under her LLLC. That's what
- 35:37Speaker 1: I don't like. I want to know. I'm gonna have
- 35:40Speaker 1: to dig a little deeper and what actually he does,
- 35:45Speaker 1: because remember last season, all of a sudden he was
- 35:48Speaker 1: gonna be producing movies and then they were like are
- 35:51Speaker 1: they going to be porns? Are they gonna be that?
- 35:53Speaker 1: Like everybody, I think he just has a lot of
- 35:56Speaker 1: money and he's just like, but then why were they
- 35:59Speaker 1: living in that con know, with no backyard for the kids?
- 36:02Speaker 1: It was a penthouse though, like doesn't that cost a lot?
- 36:05Speaker 1: Like phou Yeah, I'm sure it's not about the money,
- 36:07Speaker 1: but it's like we would think once you had, like
- 36:10Speaker 1: if if I lived in a condo and it was
- 36:12Speaker 1: cluttered with all of that, like a fancy bazillion dollar
- 36:15Speaker 1: condo whatever it is, and it was cluttered with all
- 36:17Speaker 1: that kids stuff. My husband would have a mental break
- 36:20Speaker 1: because you do the house is for them to live in.
- 36:25Speaker 1: Like to me, that is a bachelor pad. Yeah, that's
- 36:29Speaker 1: not like a family home. So I think he's going
- 36:31Speaker 1: to keep the bachelor pad and live in the family home.
- 36:34Speaker 1: Is that the plan? That's what I'm saying. I think
- 36:37Speaker 1: maybe she's like, let me throw this divorce word out,
- 36:41Speaker 1: but I will still go along with our plans getting
- 36:43Speaker 1: his bigger house and then maybe I'll get the house
- 36:46Speaker 1: in the divorce and he can go back to his penhouse.
- 36:49Speaker 1: Or I think really she just wants him to give
- 36:51Speaker 1: up the threesome up, you know, the whole idea, and
- 36:54Speaker 1: she's using divorce is like, I'm not playing with you now,
- 36:56Speaker 1: I'm gonna divorce you. Now what you wanna do? Now
- 36:58Speaker 1: what you over mind his house? O? Well, I'm still staying.
- 37:01Speaker 1: I still like, I think she still wants to be
- 37:05Speaker 1: with him. On watch what Happens, Like last night she
- 37:07Speaker 1: was talking about Luke from Summer House, and she seemed
- 37:10Speaker 1: like you could tell like she got a little like
- 37:15Speaker 1: she she was pointing it out there. Oh my god,
- 37:18Speaker 1: So she's ready for Okay, I think she's ready to
- 37:21Speaker 1: get out there, really or was she doing that to
- 37:24Speaker 1: get at Derby and Michael? I mean she try to
- 37:27Speaker 1: do that to maybe, Like I don't know, I just
- 37:29Speaker 1: have never particularly loved the way he treated her on
- 37:32Speaker 1: the show. And I know, like I just I don't know.
- 37:36Speaker 1: I think he always made her feel bad and from
- 37:38Speaker 1: someone who has her own, you know, issues like you know,
- 37:41Speaker 1: I can have my own insecurity issues with family and
- 37:43Speaker 1: those types of things. Seeing that she kind of looks
- 37:47Speaker 1: up to him as this like father figure and then
- 37:49Speaker 1: he kind of treats her. I didn't like it. I
- 37:51Speaker 1: didn't like the way he treated her. It does seem
- 37:54Speaker 1: like a good dad. Um, so I understand wanting to
- 37:57Speaker 1: hold onto that. Yeah, she looked at the woman. Don't
- 38:00Speaker 1: forget that, but you but now no, you have to
- 38:03Speaker 1: also think she's on season seven of her Housewives of Potomac,
- 38:07Speaker 1: so she can pay. She's got her. She can pay
- 38:10Speaker 1: her own way now she can. But like she said,
- 38:13Speaker 1: she's like, I don't even know how much money I
- 38:14Speaker 1: would need because he pays for everything. She doesn't even
- 38:17Speaker 1: know responsibility, She doesn't know, like think about had to
- 38:22Speaker 1: be the one to pay because they've been together since
- 38:24Speaker 1: she was how old they've been gether eight years, so
- 38:28Speaker 1: she had to have been like, like you, Like, I
- 38:34Speaker 1: didn't mean I didn't get married to I was like
- 38:36Speaker 1: to add one until I was whatever in my thirties,
- 38:39Speaker 1: so like I was well into knowing what I had
- 38:42Speaker 1: to do to figure out. I was paying all my
- 38:45Speaker 1: bills before this. I mean, it's great that my husband
- 38:47Speaker 1: doesn't now, but to never know like how much other utilities,
- 38:50Speaker 1: especially in a house now like it's a whole different
- 38:52Speaker 1: You've got landscaper bills. Like I don't think she understands
- 38:55Speaker 1: what that looks like. Um, so she's gonna need to
- 38:58Speaker 1: cross her tea stought her eyes got your didn't need
- 39:04Speaker 1: to learn she's really serious about this divorce because independence
- 39:08Speaker 1: is a whole new thing. Yeah, and then when then
- 39:11Speaker 1: they get into the topic of prenups where, you know,
- 39:14Speaker 1: in perfect Giselle fashion, she slides in the fact that
- 39:17Speaker 1: Robin is the only name on her house right how
- 39:25Speaker 1: right now that was new information? What did Robin call
- 39:30Speaker 1: her after scene and say I want to know that?
- 39:32Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I feel like Robin will just let
- 39:35Speaker 1: it slide off of her like she'll be like, yeah,
- 39:37Speaker 1: so what you know. I feel like Robin is able
- 39:40Speaker 1: to kind of move through these things. Robin said, I'm
- 39:43Speaker 1: gonna feel like that's why, I mean one got pissed
- 39:48Speaker 1: last season, even when she kind of said he wasn't
- 39:50Speaker 1: there when the kids were little. So I think once
- 39:53Speaker 1: this comes up, especially, yeah, I feel like it's we're
- 39:57Speaker 1: gonna get some more action on them. Um. But I
- 40:00Speaker 1: know what. We're running out time because you have to
- 40:01Speaker 1: catch a flight. But Candice meets with a doctor about
- 40:04Speaker 1: freezing her eggs and she wants to have the security
- 40:08Speaker 1: that she has the eggs stored away when she's ready
- 40:10Speaker 1: to have kids. Candice asked her husband Chris, to have
- 40:12Speaker 1: a schedule to be off work when she has her appointments.
- 40:16Speaker 1: Things do not feel good here a little rocky. Um. Yeah,
- 40:22Speaker 1: and I gotta reach out to Candice. Um, you know
- 40:25Speaker 1: that's my girl. I don't know it is. I can
- 40:28Speaker 1: tell you she's not my girl. After I watched twenty
- 40:31Speaker 1: two episodes straight to catch up because I was a
- 40:33Speaker 1: season behind and having to watch It's one thing when
- 40:37Speaker 1: you spread it out from a week like a week
- 40:39Speaker 1: by week, but when you were back to back binge
- 40:41Speaker 1: watching the show and you realize how much ship she's causing.
- 40:44Speaker 1: It was hard for me to because I don't like
- 40:47Speaker 1: that she always goes to body shape, like it's always physical,
- 40:50Speaker 1: and I don't like that. Now Candas has a mouth
- 40:54Speaker 1: on her, and I've I've told her myself. You know,
- 40:58Speaker 1: she's very vocal, but she's young too. She's not a mom.
- 41:02Speaker 1: She's learning, she's evolving. I I can see the growth
- 41:05Speaker 1: literally from her past seasons too. Now I feel like,
- 41:09Speaker 1: you know, you gotta give a grace. She's evolving. There's
- 41:11Speaker 1: been a lot of growth, you know, with her from
- 41:14Speaker 1: when she started. Her mouth has gotten better and and
- 41:17Speaker 1: and things. But however, Chris is feeling you know, I
- 41:21Speaker 1: feel like it may have taken a toll on him
- 41:23Speaker 1: and he's just like ready to go. Well, you know,
- 41:26Speaker 1: last season you could tell they're trying to make it
- 41:28Speaker 1: a little bit of a storyline how much he was drinking.
- 41:30Speaker 1: And then now he's supposedly out a lot, and then
- 41:33Speaker 1: he slid into Giselle's d m s and the super tees.
- 41:38Speaker 1: But you just don't really I feel like the first season,
- 41:41Speaker 1: you saw them, you saw them, you saw the intimacy
- 41:44Speaker 1: not intimacy, but you saw their connection and it just
- 41:47Speaker 1: doesn't feel there anymore. And that also can I say
- 41:50Speaker 1: this a lot. It can happen when you go on
- 41:53Speaker 1: the show. It's either gonna bring you closer together because
- 41:55Speaker 1: you're gonna it's gonna highlight what you've done wrong as
- 41:58Speaker 1: a couple, or it's gonna rip you apart because you're
- 42:02Speaker 1: gonna you know, egos are gonna start to get involved
- 42:05Speaker 1: and people still aren't going to see themselves for who
- 42:07Speaker 1: they are, and it's just gonna tear apart. I hope not.
- 42:11Speaker 1: I write for them. I think we're gonna stay till
- 42:14Speaker 1: and that's for sure, because I gotta know how this
- 42:15Speaker 1: all ends and what crystals out here in these streets doing.
- 42:18Speaker 1: He needs to be in that kitchen, cooking that good food.
- 42:21Speaker 1: That's where he needs to be, and says, but inside
- 42:24Speaker 1: and cook that good food. I mean, what would you
- 42:26Speaker 1: say if Rov was going out multiple nights to one
- 42:29Speaker 1: am uncles Okay, not Raby in these streams Okay, the
- 42:35Speaker 1: streams up a round. Let me make that clear. Rob
- 42:38Speaker 1: likes to go out, you know, and I believe it's
- 42:40Speaker 1: healthy for a man to get how many times a week. Yeah,
- 42:44Speaker 1: like I know how many. I mean he goes. He
- 42:48Speaker 1: goes high, Like he'll be in the office straight like
- 42:50Speaker 1: five days, you know, straight, and then I'm like, okay,
- 42:53Speaker 1: you need to get out. I'm like, go out. But
- 42:55Speaker 1: then there's times when he's like got something to do
- 42:57Speaker 1: every day with this friend and this friend and they're
- 42:59Speaker 1: going to foot ball game and they got Hawks tickets
- 43:02Speaker 1: and Falcons tickets and it's just a whole hawk. Hawks
- 43:05Speaker 1: tickets and going to the club are two different things
- 43:08Speaker 1: to me, but Hawks tickets, and then it's the after
- 43:11Speaker 1: party and then it's all right, me and the guys
- 43:13Speaker 1: are gonna hit up this last spot, you know, and
- 43:15Speaker 1: then it's a whole day turn into the night situation.
- 43:19Speaker 1: But I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't. I
- 43:21Speaker 1: think he does it right. When I'm about to go
- 43:22Speaker 1: off and I'm like it's enough, then he's like it's
- 43:24Speaker 1: almost like we know now, and he's on this three
- 43:27Speaker 1: days on. You know, if you're three days on, then
- 43:30Speaker 1: you deserve a night off. And then when it gets
- 43:32Speaker 1: to be too many, you gotta come in and take
- 43:34Speaker 1: care of these kids. But I do think that you
- 43:36Speaker 1: can feel as a wife, as a woman when it's
- 43:39Speaker 1: like I don't know, you're not answering your phone. It's
- 43:41Speaker 1: getting later and later, and now you know, it's no explanation,
- 43:44Speaker 1: like I need to know where you are. And you
- 43:46Speaker 1: guys have seen me grow into that. I did not
- 43:48Speaker 1: even know my husband went to Tampa, So who am
- 43:51Speaker 1: I to say anything's wrong? He was gone for days.
- 43:54Speaker 1: So I think now we've got into a point where
- 43:56Speaker 1: at least I know where he's going, I know when
- 43:58Speaker 1: he's going, and I know how in days will be gone. Um,
- 44:01Speaker 1: So I think for Candice, you know, she needs to
- 44:03Speaker 1: make sure she just knows those things. And if a
- 44:05Speaker 1: wife calls, you make sure you answer the phone. You know,
- 44:09Speaker 1: that's the least you can do. And how old is Chris?
- 44:11Speaker 1: I know she's pretty young, but like, isn't he gotten
- 44:14Speaker 1: his rocks off enough? Like I am? I am forty
- 44:17Speaker 1: one years old. There's only so I mean once, I
- 44:21Speaker 1: mean once a month. Maybe I can do it, but
- 44:23Speaker 1: like I have zero interest and like going out to
- 44:28Speaker 1: that capacity multiple like it's one thing. I'll go to
- 44:31Speaker 1: Bravo con and things will be wild, and then I'll
- 44:33Speaker 1: come home and need to recover for three weeks, Right,
- 44:36Speaker 1: that's yes. I was in the bed for like two days.
- 44:40Speaker 1: I was like, get my life back. But we're moms too.
- 44:44Speaker 1: I don't know. Guys their energy levels different, but I
- 44:46Speaker 1: don't know. I think you have to create what works
- 44:48Speaker 1: for you. I think we've seen, based on what we've seen,
- 44:51Speaker 1: Chris dealt with a lot with her mom, you know,
- 44:54Speaker 1: and I felt like he was very patient. He gets
- 44:56Speaker 1: a gold sticker for that, um, because not a lot
- 44:59Speaker 1: of men are willing to take that from their mother
- 45:00Speaker 1: in law. Um. He lived in a home that the
- 45:03Speaker 1: mom was contributing to. I think it's a man that's tough.
- 45:07Speaker 1: People questioning what you do for a living. And I
- 45:10Speaker 1: don't even know if he had a job at any point,
- 45:12Speaker 1: you know. I think that's hard to follow. I think
- 45:14Speaker 1: now he's been able to partner up with Candice, help
- 45:16Speaker 1: her get her music going. She's doing amazing things. And
- 45:19Speaker 1: then I feel like now he's like, look, I got
- 45:21Speaker 1: my thing going, and now I need my life, you know.
- 45:24Speaker 1: I think that's kind of what we're seeing too. So
- 45:27Speaker 1: you're giving more of a past than I am. Not shocking,
- 45:29Speaker 1: I'm I'm a little I'm a little bit of like
- 45:32Speaker 1: because you got to think about when he's come through.
- 45:34Speaker 1: That's why I'm looking at it from like, I'm like,
- 45:36Speaker 1: my husband would not have lived in how so, but
- 45:38Speaker 1: my mom was paying for allowing my mom to have
- 45:41Speaker 1: a room and just come and go. And my husband
- 45:43Speaker 1: would not let me like the amount of time he
- 45:46Speaker 1: has to like talk even last season when she's like
- 45:48Speaker 1: throwing salad at people all that kind of stuff. I
- 45:50Speaker 1: don't want to be like Teddy No, right, yeah, I'm
- 45:56Speaker 1: not gonna I'm not even anyone wouldn't even show up
- 45:58Speaker 1: to film like if I did that, like if I
- 46:01Speaker 1: was acting like that. But even the one time he
- 46:03Speaker 1: watched me cry, he was so embarrassed. Um and Edwin
- 46:07Speaker 1: represents the type strong men out there, like you know
- 46:12Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I just feel like Chris is
- 46:14Speaker 1: taking some hits that I'm like, let's let at me
- 46:18Speaker 1: and go out. Let then that you want him to
- 46:20Speaker 1: go out. You know, he's been keeping a lot in
- 46:22Speaker 1: he's taking a lot of hits. Let that man go
- 46:24Speaker 1: and get his little time. Let him get his time.
- 46:27Speaker 1: I disagree because I think he's gonna find too much
- 46:30Speaker 1: time and something else to get himself in trouble. And
- 46:32Speaker 1: when you are on a television show. People are gonna
- 46:36Speaker 1: record you, people are gonna telling you, and nothing is
- 46:39Speaker 1: going to slip through those cracks. And especially if you're
- 46:42Speaker 1: in a situation where you're trying to have a kid
- 46:43Speaker 1: with Candice, they're gonna be watching. But we don't have
- 46:48Speaker 1: to watch this. We're gonna have to keep tuning in
- 46:50Speaker 1: because apparently Karen's I know, I know, and we're out
- 46:54Speaker 1: of time. But I mean between that and they're saying
- 46:56Speaker 1: Karen sneaking off, oh, we didn't get to the point that,
- 46:59Speaker 1: Like Peter Thomas was on this episode, right, that's I
- 47:04Speaker 1: was Cynthia's ex husband. Let's talk about it, Cynthia's ex
- 47:08Speaker 1: husband being on this episode, Wendy bringing him on. Also,
- 47:13Speaker 1: I'm a little bit confused with Wendy all all of
- 47:16Speaker 1: her business ventures. She seems very confused about I was,
- 47:20Speaker 1: so I was confused. Was like I was here for
- 47:22Speaker 1: the Nigerian Lounge, like because I'm like Afro Beats is hot,
- 47:26Speaker 1: Like this is lit like afro Beats the whole you know,
- 47:29Speaker 1: making you feel like you're in Nigeria, like the vibe
- 47:32Speaker 1: that is really cool. But there's no but there's no
- 47:35Speaker 1: planning behind it, and then she wants to turn it
- 47:38Speaker 1: into like a kid library. She said, like a kid's
- 47:42Speaker 1: play area, right, yeah, with books like her professor career
- 47:46Speaker 1: was intertwining with this club. I'm like, no, no, no,
- 47:50Speaker 1: professor by day, club owner by night. That's what I meant.
- 47:53Speaker 1: If there's booze, if they're selling booze, it's probably not
- 47:58Speaker 1: said that down. We're not doing that. That's not it.
- 48:02Speaker 1: But I need Wendy to get. I don't know what's
- 48:04Speaker 1: happened in the Windy, you know, like I don't like
- 48:06Speaker 1: her in Gizelle. I don't. I don't know what's going
- 48:08Speaker 1: on with this club, like I need here to get.
- 48:10Speaker 1: Do you think that Giselle's hooking up with Peter because
- 48:15Speaker 1: we heard those rumors a while ago. Yeah, it was
- 48:18Speaker 1: in the trailer. I was like, I can see now
- 48:21Speaker 1: how Peter got into Tribes. I was wondering, like, how
- 48:22Speaker 1: did Peter even get in Potonic? But now we see,
- 48:25Speaker 1: so we gotta stay tuned. I think that would make
- 48:29Speaker 1: a lick couple though, but I don't know. All right,
- 48:32Speaker 1: We're gonna have to stay tuned. I think what we
- 48:34Speaker 1: do know for sure is this is gonna be a
- 48:37Speaker 1: very Juicy season. There's a lot. I mean, Teresa's back
- 48:41Speaker 1: is back, Teresa's back as a friend. Then we've got
- 48:45Speaker 1: Jacqueline the new Friends, who they showed last night. I
- 48:48Speaker 1: think for a second at the party they like said
- 48:50Speaker 1: her name, but like we didn't. I think we'll probably
- 48:51Speaker 1: meet her next week. Yeah, but it's it's gonna be good.
- 48:56Speaker 1: I think they're you know, I do like they they
- 48:58Speaker 1: keep repeating, you know in the trailer and at the beginning,
- 49:01Speaker 1: our class remains unmatched, and then you just them all
- 49:05Speaker 1: like ripping each other, ripping each other, like we know
- 49:10Speaker 1: how to keep a secret. No, you don't know, but
- 49:13Speaker 1: you know that, Like what do they say? We don't
- 49:14Speaker 1: play in the peak? They do not play in the peak?
- 49:18Speaker 1: So would you want to be your best friend? H
- 49:21Speaker 1: Who would you want to be your best friend? On
- 49:22Speaker 1: Potoma'd Karen? Karen? Yes? The grand Duney. Who's your pick? Who? Who?
- 49:35Speaker 1: Who's your Who's Rstill? I loved Giselle so much. I
- 49:40Speaker 1: love Jaselle. I I also like Ashley Derby. I want
- 49:45Speaker 1: to get to know her more. I think because especially
- 49:47Speaker 1: I have I have now something in common with Ashley
- 49:50Speaker 1: Derby because the last night I watched What Happens Live.
- 49:52Speaker 1: She said that the rudest housewife ever to her that
- 49:56Speaker 1: she's ever met, as Vicky Gumbolton. Oh, and you were like,
- 50:06Speaker 1: we're gonna have a lot to a lot of fun
- 50:08Speaker 1: connections at Bravo con. Yes, I love all the girls,
- 50:11Speaker 1: like don't like all of them in their own special way,
- 50:15Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I'm with you on that.
- 50:16Speaker 1: But I just like Karen's my person. She's Forrest too,
- 50:19Speaker 1: so that could be why. But it's gonna be good.
- 50:23Speaker 1: We're gonna learn a lot. I have a safe flight.
- 50:25Speaker 1: I will see you on Thursday. See Thursday. Boo shut
- 50:31Speaker 1: shut shut stop shut shut shut. We got to do
- 50:35Speaker 1: the next tasting. Let's do it. Let's do another tasting
- 50:39Speaker 1: with more celebrity and housewife. Let's do it. Because we
- 50:44Speaker 1: were in the liquor store Rough and I yesterday and
- 50:46Speaker 1: we passed by the eight Win eight. We were like,
- 50:47Speaker 1: we're all right over there, way stop in there. Next
- 50:52Speaker 1: there's a lot more we gotta taste. So all right,
- 50:54Speaker 1: I'll see you there. Thanks for coming on. Thank you guys.