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DLHS Hour 2 | Wealthy black men marry black women · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: And in Florence says that, well, let me let you hear.
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  Speaker 2: Destroying the black family has been on the forefront of
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  Speaker 2: the mind of the people who created this country. How
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  Speaker 2: do you destroy the black wolf in this country? Destroy
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  Speaker 2: the black family, make black women think that black men
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  Speaker 2: don't love them, make black men think that black women
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  Speaker 2: don't respect them.
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  Speaker 1: That's all a fallacy. Where do you think that. No,
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  Speaker 1: she came from.
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  Speaker 3: I know, for me, when I was younger, my mother
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  Speaker 3: was such a She's the most formidable human being I'm
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  Speaker 3: known now. I don't know that I would call what
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  Speaker 3: she did to me abuse, but I would say that
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  Speaker 3: people who've been around us think it is. I would say,
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  Speaker 3: like my uncle or other. So I would never call
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  Speaker 3: my interacts with my mother abuse. But I think we
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  Speaker 3: don't have a girl. I see her a certain one, right,
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  Speaker 3: Maybe a lot of people have had experiences like that,
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  Speaker 3: so I think it's all lived experiences.
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  Speaker 1: But skip you were saying something about it, even the influence.
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  Speaker 4: If you listen to what he says, he says, you
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  Speaker 4: know it's a fallacy. Oh, black men don't like black
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  Speaker 4: women when they get money. And he pulled up the
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  Speaker 4: national average and it's like ninety percent of black men
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  Speaker 4: that make over two hundred that whatever the figure is.
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  Speaker 4: That like what we would consider has money have black wives? Now, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: you do see something. Don't have to like them though
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  Speaker 4: they don't have to like them. They can talk behind
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  Speaker 4: the back. I mean, that's what you do.
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  Speaker 3: I think that one of the things we got to
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  Speaker 3: be careful of is our experiences. Like there is I
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  Speaker 3: would say it's a pretty popular notion that black men
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  Speaker 3: in society in general, that there is a notion that
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  Speaker 3: black men aren't good fathers, which the CDC has data
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  Speaker 3: that says isn't true, right, right, But there would be
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  Speaker 3: people who would argue, because of their lived experiences that
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  Speaker 3: that was true, right right.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, But I think you know, everybody can say that
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  Speaker 5: about everything, right, because the way you feel about certain
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  Speaker 5: things in your opinion comes from your experience. Like I
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  Speaker 5: remember when I first met you, you said, I don't
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  Speaker 5: like pretty girls because they act a particular way and
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  Speaker 5: they do.
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  Speaker 1: Or that, but that's based on your experience.
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  Speaker 5: You also said you don't like young girls because he
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  Speaker 5: think that's based on your experience. Right, It doesn't make
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  Speaker 5: that's no, that's not true. When you no, no, no,
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  Speaker 5: I have never said young girls stink. I said it right,
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  Speaker 5: And I've never said I don't like young girls because
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  Speaker 5: he think I've never said that because there's no data
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  Speaker 5: to say that all younger.
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  Speaker 3: I think that when you're younger, you don't you're not
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  Speaker 3: as aware of of personal hygienis as you like I
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  Speaker 3: used to didn't. I used to only take a bath
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  Speaker 3: once once a week when I was a teenager. Like
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  Speaker 3: I was a young guy, I didn't. I didn't know.
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  Speaker 3: Now you get old. So I think that a lot
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  Speaker 3: of that is that I I have these these uh
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  Speaker 3: and and plus uh, these are the things that got
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  Speaker 3: me my own show. So I'm gonna use Maybe people
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  Speaker 3: think you just say that, Julius, where do you think
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  Speaker 3: that notes she came from?
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  Speaker 6: Well, it could come from a various sources, primarily you know,
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  Speaker 6: preconceived notions, you know, especially some that are based on
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  Speaker 6: prejudice and uh, dialogue that has been long expressed about
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  Speaker 6: black men in particular.
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  Speaker 3: I think there was stuff like what happens happening with
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  Speaker 3: Stephen A. Smith, Like they're like when he said what
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  Speaker 3: he said about for instance, I'm just using that the
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  Speaker 3: latest incident like that was a national incident. I think
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  Speaker 3: that a lot of black women took that as a
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  Speaker 3: personal affront, and they have this view of him in
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  Speaker 3: this instance that he doesn't.
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  Speaker 1: Necessarily like black women, right would you say that?
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  Speaker 4: Well?
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  Speaker 5: I would also say I think whenever you say something
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  Speaker 5: bad about someone that you that you really like and
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  Speaker 5: you hold in high esteem, I think a lot of
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  Speaker 5: people are gonna come to your defense, right right, Like
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  Speaker 5: we black women love Jasmine Crockett because she stands up,
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  Speaker 5: she speaks and at least in most Black women's opinion,
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  Speaker 5: the truth, and she holds people speak to the fire.
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  Speaker 5: So we like her. So if you go for her,
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  Speaker 5: it's like going for Beyonce to be high. It's gonna
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  Speaker 5: come for you.
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  Speaker 3: And that's saying the way she the way she talks
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  Speaker 3: to her vernacular, yes.
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  Speaker 5: The way she looks, and this, of course people are going.
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  Speaker 7: To come to me.
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  Speaker 3: And I think a lot of people because on the assent,
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  Speaker 3: we have seen a lot of men, not a lot.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how you can categorize it.
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  Speaker 3: A lot of people have said things that were probably
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  Speaker 3: derogatory about successful women for all kinds of reasons, and
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  Speaker 3: so I could see how the zeitgeist might be you know,
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  Speaker 3: permeated with people who have that mentality. And I think
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  Speaker 3: even with Kamala, yes, you know what I mean, even
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  Speaker 3: though I was, even though I did helped, so I can't.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not absolving myself of it.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm saying so if you see somebody say something
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  Speaker 3: like that, then it would be probably believe lend uh.
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  Speaker 1: Credence to the idea that that is is a reality.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I definitely think so.
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  Speaker 5: And we you and I have had conversations several times
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  Speaker 5: about you know, you call them conversations, yes, or arguments
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  Speaker 5: whatever you want to call them camatations for this particular conversation,
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  Speaker 5: but I think you know it is you said.
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  Speaker 1: To me when you talked about when you were gone,
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  Speaker 1: was it was so peaceful here? No?
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  Speaker 5: No, that would you like me to be gone again?
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  Speaker 8: Just like?
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  Speaker 9: No?
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  Speaker 3: No, I mean that that was.
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  Speaker 8: See.
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  Speaker 5: The difference between me and you is I don't try
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  Speaker 5: to make up a definition for a word. I didn't
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  Speaker 5: or question statement. I didn't ask you. I didn't say
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  Speaker 5: you wanted that. I just said, would you like for me?
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  Speaker 1: Don't? And here's the thing I.
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  Speaker 5: Was putting down at you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm here no matter what you are right about that.
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  Speaker 1: You are right about that.
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  Speaker 3: I'm here here, I'm always here. I'm like, I'm always
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  Speaker 3: here always. I don't I don't know what y'all do.
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  Speaker 3: I know I'm dedicated to my audience.
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  Speaker 5: If I was you, I would get out of this quickly,
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  Speaker 5: all right.
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  Speaker 3: The question we're asking an influencer says that you know,
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  Speaker 3: there's this attitude that men don't like black men, don't
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  Speaker 3: like black men with money.
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  Speaker 1: Here is what he said.
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  Speaker 2: Destroying the black family has been on the forefront of
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  Speaker 2: the mind of the people created this country. How do
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  Speaker 2: you destroy the black wolf in this country? Destroy the
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  Speaker 2: black family, Make black women think that black men don't
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  Speaker 2: love them, make black men think that black women don't
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  Speaker 2: respect them.
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  Speaker 1: That's all the fallacy.
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  Speaker 3: Where do you think that came from? That's the question
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  Speaker 3: we're proposed to. We're gonna write to the.
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  Speaker 10: Post that for any person, though, black men, women and
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  Speaker 10: white men, whatever, I feel like, once you access to
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  Speaker 10: a certain amount of funds, you want to explore the
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  Speaker 10: unknown things that you never got a chance to explore.
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  Speaker 11: For I'm just a.
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  Speaker 8: Shock that the sisters that said, wow, black men is
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  Speaker 8: married to black women, but these same black men that
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  Speaker 8: are wealthy and that are doing well for themselves would
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  Speaker 8: not divorce their Black wives, but they definitely will cheat
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  Speaker 8: on their Black wives with females of the other race.
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  Speaker 8: I don't believe that they would necessarily leave them.
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  Speaker 10: I feel like a black men got smarter than the past,
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  Speaker 10: so I don't feel like they would necessarily leave them
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  Speaker 10: in this day and age. But I do feel like
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  Speaker 10: they would definitely cheat on them with other ethnicities and
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  Speaker 10: groups and racism.
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  Speaker 11: Women.
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  Speaker 12: Black woman is everything, right, I think that they're gotta
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  Speaker 12: be like a dunt or someone, you know, something that's
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  Speaker 12: happened his daddy, or dishonored his mother or something like that,
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  Speaker 12: right there are he had some problems or something. I
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  Speaker 12: think a black man should honor a black woman to
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  Speaker 12: the fullest, you know, no matter what how much money
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  Speaker 12: a white woman got, how much money he got, a
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  Speaker 12: black woman should honor a black woman to the foot
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  Speaker 12: because I got friends, you know, cheat on they black women.
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  Speaker 12: Then come home. I can have sex with they black
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  Speaker 12: wom with a white woman and get in the bib
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  Speaker 12: with a black woman. That's a no no for me, right,
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  Speaker 12: I never had they called a white woman before. Enough,
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  Speaker 12: like this's all black women, you know, so a black
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  Speaker 12: brother should honor our black folks like y'all against mother.
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  Speaker 13: So about the ninety narrative, that's definitely full. Black men
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  Speaker 13: will struggle with a sister as soon as it's time
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  Speaker 13: for them to get something, to get somewhere, if they
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  Speaker 13: will get with a white woman or another woman another race,
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  Speaker 13: like the black woman ain't you know, ain't capable of
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  Speaker 13: having money, or the black woman is not able to
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  Speaker 13: love him with.
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  Speaker 14: The money or whatever, you know.
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  Speaker 13: But yeah, so I don't believe the ninety five percent narrative.
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  Speaker 14: That's definitely phones.
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  Speaker 11: I don't know where it came from.
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  Speaker 13: I don't know where he got this from, but that
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  Speaker 13: is not the truth.
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  Speaker 11: They need to look at the Pew Foundation data peace.
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  Speaker 11: It has documented data about marriage among African Americans, and
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  Speaker 11: black women are the least married of all female groups
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  Speaker 11: in the United States. I don't subscribe to the notion
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  Speaker 11: that black men don't marry black women. I'm married to
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  Speaker 11: a black man and all my friends are. But there
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  Speaker 11: is data out there to talk about some of the numbers.
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  Speaker 14: I'm a sixty eight year old black male from Birmingham, Alabama,
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  Speaker 14: and I think it's still all comes from slavery because
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  Speaker 14: we were taught not to like each other. We were
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  Speaker 14: talking not that like dog, don't like bright. And as
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  Speaker 14: men came along and women started making it, you know,
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  Speaker 14: we just didn't want a black woman to be our
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  Speaker 14: boss or woman appeared to be our boss. And me personally,
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  Speaker 14: I just never did like Oprah. It wasn't nothing personal.
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  Speaker 14: I just didn't like as a person. But it wasn't
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  Speaker 14: because she had a lot of money.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because I didn't like the question we're asking Ai
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  Speaker 3: in Florence that says this.
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  Speaker 2: It's a narrative that we hear about black men.
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  Speaker 1: They don't get me. No, no, no, they don't like
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  Speaker 1: who oh, they don't like black women.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: The national average for black.
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  Speaker 2: Men who are married, what do they married to? It's
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  Speaker 2: got to be black women, Black women at what percentage?
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  Speaker 2: Over eighty five percent. But it don't matter though, because
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  Speaker 2: once they make money, that's when they go get.
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  Speaker 1: White women, white women.
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  Speaker 2: The national average for making over two hundred thousand dollars
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  Speaker 2: black men, Right, how many of those women men are
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  Speaker 2: married to black women?
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  Speaker 1: I give them by the coops ninety five percent.
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  Speaker 3: Ninety five Where do you think that attitude that I
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  Speaker 3: did came from going to the phones.
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  Speaker 9: Hey, I hate to say it, but that narrative came
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  Speaker 9: from women themselves. I mean where else would it come from.
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  Speaker 9: I mean, like you said, I feel like a woman
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  Speaker 9: would get done wrong BYuT maybe a past relationship she's had,
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  Speaker 9: and now she's blaming the whole gender.
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  Speaker 12: I don't think.
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  Speaker 9: I don't think men would come out and be like,
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  Speaker 9: oh oh yeah, we we think white women because most
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  Speaker 9: of us don't. I mean, we love our black women.
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  Speaker 9: So I mean that feel like that native came from
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  Speaker 9: women themselves. They gotta heal?
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  Speaker 1: Why is it always on black women?
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  Speaker 11: How come?
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  Speaker 1: Nobody as the question of why is.
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  Speaker 8: White women always choosing black men? Why is it always?
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  Speaker 8: How come it isn't when.
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  Speaker 9: You look at a person whose hair is as kinky
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  Speaker 9: as yours, whose lips is as stick as yours, when
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  Speaker 9: you look.
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  Speaker 11: At someone whose blod is as high as yours.
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  Speaker 9: And you reject it.
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  Speaker 8: Why is this black women's fault?
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  Speaker 11: When you reject someone that looks like you, isn't the problem?
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  Speaker 7: You simply stated, it comes from black women. That's where
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  Speaker 7: an errative comes from from black women, if not black
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  Speaker 7: women overall. That's how black women typically feel they feel
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  Speaker 7: like if it's going to be somebody's fault, they want
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  Speaker 7: to blame somebody for a situation of circumstance where they
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  Speaker 7: are not being able to secure a black man. Then
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  Speaker 7: you know, from their perspective, you know they got to
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  Speaker 7: have something to point at and blame it on.
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  Speaker 1: This is it.
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  Speaker 3: It is now time for our Beachcome welcome through the
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  Speaker 3: stage where we spot light some of the fun comedians.
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  Speaker 1: You know, some of you don't today here is Kevin Bowles.
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  Speaker 15: Still haven't gotten over the fact that I have a
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  Speaker 15: six foot seven kid and a six foot five kid
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  Speaker 15: and they both refused to play basketball. How can I
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  Speaker 15: possibly love them unconditionally? They have given me a solid condition.
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  Speaker 15: That's a lesson we learned people. Whatever it is you
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  Speaker 15: want your kids to do, back off. Let them try
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  Speaker 15: to find the gift nudget, but don't force that on
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  Speaker 15: them because they're going to break your heart.
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  Speaker 1: And I thought for sure my kids was going.
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  Speaker 11: To the NBA.
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  Speaker 1: Oh then I solid.
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  Speaker 15: In the seventy five year history of the NBA and
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  Speaker 15: there's only been like five thousand players total.
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  Speaker 1: I thought both the men were going pro. You know
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  Speaker 1: right away that first game.
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  Speaker 10: You know, right.
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  Speaker 15: Oh my god, this air ball and Lea as well.
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  Speaker 14: As you have to get drunk and blame the mom.
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  Speaker 1: You know your kids is Robs.
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  Speaker 15: I knew as soon as I saw you run, my
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  Speaker 15: kids gonna be a piece of.
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  Speaker 1: The kids go to the NBA. The kids mom would
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  Speaker 1: like this. The thing of it is is LeVar Ball
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  Speaker 1: got it right. Everyone hated LeVar Ball.
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  Speaker 15: You know, LaVar Ball, big baller, ball of brands and
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  Speaker 15: all the shoes and stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Hand picked his white, hand picked his wife.
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  Speaker 15: He's like, I'm giving you an Atlantic tall wife, and
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  Speaker 15: he cranked out two number two overall NBA picks.
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  Speaker 1: Who's got that kind of vision? Who's wins will be like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, it's amazing. A whole chicken dripple. You
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  Speaker 1: can do it those, but you gotta get into the game.
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  Speaker 14: Take one.
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  Speaker 1: Go to the park, bring a ball, play fetch, just
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  Speaker 1: talk the ball. Be like, man, don't get that why
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  Speaker 1: you had to stop watch. I'm trying to see something.
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  Speaker 9: Ring like a lot of cash and just let him
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  Speaker 9: blow in the wind and see how quickly she can
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  Speaker 9: scramble and kick it up like rock you in a
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  Speaker 9: chicken coop.
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  Speaker 1: Very funny, young man,