Latest / We Talk Back / Virgin Heaux feat Ferb
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- 0:03Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
- 0:07Speaker 1: talk back.
- 0:11Speaker 2: What's up, y'all?
- 0:12Speaker 3: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of
- 0:14Speaker 3: We Talk Back, a show dedicated to these dreamers and
- 0:17Speaker 3: chasers this week, okay?
- 0:19Speaker 2: Yes.
- 0:20Speaker 3: It's your co-host, AJ Holiday. What's up, Tam?
- 0:23Speaker 2: What's up, Tam? Hey, y'all. It's me, Tam Bam.
- 0:26Speaker 1: I love y'all once again. We all made it to
- 0:29Speaker 1: another week. Thank y'all for tuning in. How was your weekend, AJ?
- 0:33Speaker 2: It was cool.
- 0:34Speaker 3: I actually went outside. It was A & T' s homecoming
- 0:38Speaker 3: this weekend. I went outside for two days, bitch. Saturday
- 0:42Speaker 3: and Sunday.
- 0:43Speaker 2: Being sociable.
- 0:46Speaker 3: Oh, look at you.
- 0:46Speaker 2: I was outside by myself on Sunday.
- 0:49Speaker 3: Yes, honey.
- 0:50Speaker 2: I was outside.
- 0:51Speaker 3: Not outside by yourself for Jiho.
- 0:55Speaker 2: There's some people around here, girl.
- 0:56Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a day party on Sunday. On Saturday,
- 1:01Speaker 3: it was a old head alumni party like at a Shriners. Girl,
- 1:09Speaker 3: your daddy was in there.
- 1:10Speaker 2: Okay.
- 1:11Speaker 3: It was one daddy in there though I wanted. No,
- 1:14Speaker 3: not your actual daddy. It was a lot of daddies though. Y'all,
- 1:18Speaker 3: hold on. We got an extra special guest on. We
- 1:21Speaker 3: talk back, yelling in the background. I confirm.
- 1:23Speaker 2: You're supposed to wait until you introduce your ass. She
- 1:27Speaker 2: all like, Daddy.
- 1:33Speaker 3: God damn it. That was my weekend, y'all. What's up
- 1:36Speaker 3: with your weekend, Tanda? We're going to introduce this bitch, man.
- 1:41Speaker 2: What did I do this weekend? Oh, I went on
- 1:43Speaker 2: a date this weekend.
- 1:45Speaker 4: Oh.
- 1:46Speaker 2: I went on a little date, and it was really,
- 1:49Speaker 2: really nice. He was a gentleman. So that's cool.
- 1:53Speaker 3: A.K.A. he tried to get in the draws. That's what
- 1:56Speaker 3: we call a gentleman.
- 1:58Speaker 5: Right.
- 1:58Speaker 2: He kept his ass to himself. Nice. And we just
- 2:01Speaker 2: had so much fun.
- 2:02Speaker 1: We went to a couple of cute little quaint places
- 2:05Speaker 1: here in Charlotte, and that's really all I did this.
- 2:06Speaker 2: Weekend, work. I didn't do anything extraordinary like Jiho like
- 2:11Speaker 2: you did.
- 2:13Speaker 3: I never heard of Jiho until now. First of all,
- 2:16Speaker 3: it's the greatest homecoming.
- 2:19Speaker 2: On Earth. On Earth.
- 2:21Speaker 3: There you go.
- 2:22Speaker 1: But, you know, that was only it was AT & T,
- 2:25Speaker 1: not AT & T, A & T people who coined
- 2:28Speaker 1: it that, you know, people from other colleges obviously think
- 2:31Speaker 1: their own homecoming is the greatest homecoming on Earth. But
- 2:35Speaker 1: I saw videos and pictures, and it is a lot
- 2:38Speaker 1: of people that show up for that shit show.
- 2:41Speaker 3: Somebody sent me a video of the tailgating, bitch. It
- 2:44Speaker 3: looked like the Walking Dead out there, bitch.
- 2:46Speaker 2: It was so crowded. It was so many people.
- 2:49Speaker 1: Yeah, it don't even look like it could be fun
- 2:51Speaker 1: with that many people. You ain't got no room to
- 2:53Speaker 1: move around.
- 2:54Speaker 2: Exactly.
- 2:55Speaker 1: They said it was a great time, so maybe next
- 2:57Speaker 1: year I'll pull up the G-Hole and see what the
- 2:59Speaker 1: hoes is doing out there.
- 3:03Speaker 2: Period.
- 3:06Speaker 1: I thought it was the greatest hoes of all time.
- 3:08Speaker 1: That's what I thought it was, but it's homecoming on earth.
- 3:11Speaker 3: We're going to get to our guest weekend, but let
- 3:15Speaker 3: me give her a proper introduction, okay? So y'all, today's
- 3:18Speaker 3: guest is the ultimate friend of We Talk Back. Okay,
- 3:22Speaker 3: if y'all went to the Black Effect live show back
- 3:25Speaker 3: in April in Atlanta, you might have caught this bitch
- 3:27Speaker 3: on the head standing on a split. I'm not sure
- 3:29Speaker 3: which one it was, but That.
- 3:31Speaker 2: Was her, okay?
- 3:32Speaker 3: So she's an actress. She's an influencer. She's also an
- 3:36Speaker 3: aspiring comedian. She's everywhere you ain't, my nigga, okay? Welcome
- 3:41Speaker 3: to We Talk Back, Furby.
- 3:44Speaker 5: Furb.
- 3:46Speaker 2: Furb.
- 3:49Speaker 4: Thank you.
- 3:50Speaker 5: They call me Furb with the word, and they ask
- 3:52Speaker 5: me what's the word, and I tell.
- 3:54Speaker 3: Them the word. Damn fool, bitch. How was your weekend?
- 4:02Speaker 4: So my weekend was actually good. It was productive. I
- 4:07Speaker 4: worked the Falcons game. I made some money. And I
- 4:10Speaker 4: had fun.
- 4:12Speaker 5: You know, when it got me, went out to eat,
- 4:15Speaker 5: got me something to eat. By these niggas out here,
- 4:18Speaker 5: you know, just trying to get in these pens, but
- 4:21Speaker 5: they can't. So they getting in the food ways.
- 4:25Speaker 4: Like, I may not be like them.
- 4:27Speaker 2: Oh, goodness me.
- 4:31Speaker 4: Look, let me not put my game out too much.
- 4:33Speaker 2: Right, they're going to listen and don't want to feed
- 4:35Speaker 2: you no more. Exactly.
- 4:37Speaker 3: Y'all, let's get into stupid internet news, okay?
- 4:42Speaker 2: I know everybody's.
- 4:43Speaker 3: Been seeing what's going on with Saucy Santana and academics live.
- 4:48Speaker 3: You know, Academics was under a lot of saucy heat, okay?
- 4:52Speaker 3: He was being sauteed by Saucy Santana for talking shit
- 4:56Speaker 3: to the City Girls.
- 4:57Speaker 2: You know, everybody was making fun of them.
- 4:59Speaker 3: And I think people haven't listened to the album because,
- 5:01Speaker 3: first of all, their last two albums have been fucking hits.
- 5:05Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe people just going off with their
- 5:07Speaker 3: hair and online, and they're not actually going to listen
- 5:10Speaker 3: to the music. But that album is fire. Some of
- 5:14Speaker 3: the songs sound a little old, but it's a fire-ass album.
- 5:17Speaker 3: So the record sales for the first week was like
- 5:20Speaker 3: between six and eight thousand. So people was talking shit
- 5:23Speaker 3: about them online and they're saying like their body language
- 5:26Speaker 3: don't look like they fuck with each other. This and
- 5:27Speaker 3: a third. Academics had too much to say about them.
- 5:31Speaker 3: Make a fun of them. You know what I'm saying?
- 5:32Speaker 3: This nigga doesn't leave the house. He's making content, making
- 5:35Speaker 3: probably millions from his basement, which is commendable.
- 5:39Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 5:39Speaker 3: But he also gets to be a bitch ass nigga
- 5:41Speaker 3: that nobody sees to put hands on him. So Saucy
- 5:46Speaker 3: Santana's sick of that shit. He's like, you know, come
- 5:48Speaker 3: fuck with a real nigga. You always got all this
- 5:50Speaker 3: shit to say to women. Come say it to me.
- 5:53Speaker 3: So it's a whole big thing. But the last thing
- 5:56Speaker 3: that Saucy responded to, the last thing he said was
- 6:02Speaker 3: he would first beat Academic's ass and then he would
- 6:11Speaker 3: fuck him in the ass. is his exact word. And
- 6:18Speaker 3: academics then took to his social media and his platform
- 6:22Speaker 3: from his basement, crying, you know, saying that he just
- 6:28Speaker 3: feels like he can't say anything to Saucy Santana because
- 6:31Speaker 3: he's a gay man in fear of being canceled. So
- 6:34Speaker 3: it's like, I can't defend myself when this person is
- 6:37Speaker 3: clearly threatening me. And then he also tried to throw
- 6:41Speaker 3: some other women in saying, okay, y'all okay with rape
- 6:44Speaker 3: when it comes to a gay man saying.
- 6:46Speaker 2: Some shit like this to me?
- 6:48Speaker 3: Which I feel him. I feel about that. I feel academics,
- 6:53Speaker 3: although I don't fuck with him, I don't like him.
- 6:56Speaker 3: I just feel like nobody can say some shit like that.
- 6:59Speaker 3: If academics was a woman in Saucy Santana- He's not though.
- 7:03Speaker 3: But he's not. But- You can't only have these standards
- 7:08Speaker 3: when it comes to women.
- 7:10Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? Exactly.
- 7:11Speaker 3: That's not okay.
- 7:12Speaker 4: And that's the problem with the world.
- 7:14Speaker 5: One thing applies to one gender, but if it's the
- 7:17Speaker 5: other person saying it, it's a problem.
- 7:19Speaker 4: It's the cool when they do it. It's the problem
- 7:21Speaker 4: when I do it. Fuck them. But that's not okay.
- 7:23Speaker 3: And let's look at jail culture. Niggas really be getting
- 7:25Speaker 3: raped in prison. People who can't defend themselves. It's not
- 7:28Speaker 3: a joke.
- 7:29Speaker 5: Ever.
- 7:29Speaker 3: Rape is never a joke.
- 7:31Speaker 2: Unless you're setting it up yourself. I don't think rape
- 7:33Speaker 2: is a joke.
- 7:35Speaker 1: But however comma there are some gray.
- 7:40Speaker 2: Areas when it comes to academics for me.
- 7:45Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying I've heard like some of the
- 7:47Speaker 1: disgusting vile things that he said about women that it
- 7:52Speaker 1: just makes me feel like I mean, obviously Saucy Santana,
- 7:57Speaker 1: I don't believe Saucy Santana is going to rape him, right?
- 7:59Speaker 2: I think it was just- Right, because who wouldn't want
- 8:01Speaker 2: his booty?
- 8:02Speaker 1: Some mean shit to say back, right? That's what I
- 8:05Speaker 1: feel like it was. And then just him crying is
- 8:08Speaker 1: just kind of like, you're crying? Because I know you've
- 8:12Speaker 1: said some very hurtful things to people that probably.
- 8:15Speaker 2: Make this hard.
- 8:16Speaker 3: He's never publicly told a woman he'd rape them after
- 8:18Speaker 3: he beat their ass, though.
- 8:20Speaker 4: Right.
- 8:20Speaker 2: That is wild.
- 8:21Speaker 1: But that's because he can't say that.
- 8:24Speaker 2: He would have been canceled for that.
- 8:26Speaker 3: But why can Saucy Santana say that then, you see?
- 8:30Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
- 8:31Speaker 1: Because we know that Saucy Santana is not really going
- 8:34Speaker 1: to rape him.
- 8:35Speaker 3: How do we know that?
- 8:37Speaker 5: It's like, the difference is the world doesn't see him
- 8:41Speaker 5: as a threat. they see academics.
- 8:43Speaker 4: As a threat.
- 8:44Speaker 1: Yeah, they see men as a threat to women versus
- 8:47Speaker 1: men as a threat to men, a gay man versus,
- 8:50Speaker 1: you know, a straight man. It's kind of like, oh,
- 8:53Speaker 1: he probably could hurt Saucy more than Saucy could hurt him.
- 8:58Speaker 2: In public opinion, which might not be true.
- 9:00Speaker 1: Saucy might, could fuck him up and bend him over
- 9:03Speaker 1: and tie him to a tree.
- 9:04Speaker 2: You know, we don't know, but... Jesus Christ. But....
- 9:09Speaker 1: In the eyes of the public, it's just kind of
- 9:11Speaker 1: like two men tossing words at each other.
- 9:14Speaker 5: No?
- 9:15Speaker 4: Right. They don't look at it like, oh, he just
- 9:18Speaker 4: said he's going to rape him. Oh, my God.
- 9:20Speaker 2: That's a bad thing. You're right, AJ. They should. They should. Yeah,
- 9:23Speaker 2: because we can't.
- 9:24Speaker 3: Really argue how that, because we live in a world
- 9:27Speaker 3: where my truth is my truth and all this bullshit.
- 9:30Speaker 3: We can't argue really how that made academics feel. He
- 9:33Speaker 3: might really feel like he has no defense.
- 9:37Speaker 2: Yeah, it is.
- 9:38Speaker 5: But I do feel like the rate that he been
- 9:40Speaker 5: going talking all this trash about people for so long,
- 9:44Speaker 5: now somebody.
- 9:44Speaker 4: Coming for you. Now you crying.
- 9:46Speaker 2: Oh, you want to cry.
- 9:47Speaker 4: But you done came for these people.
- 9:49Speaker 5: No, he ain't say he was going to ever rape,
- 9:51Speaker 5: but it doesn't make nothing else that he said any better.
- 9:54Speaker 5: You still talk trash and said some stuff you shouldn't
- 9:56Speaker 5: have said. So now he don't hit you below the belt.
- 9:58Speaker 3: Yeah he was just talking crazy to erica badu and
- 10:01Speaker 3: i feel like so queen latifah just recently co-signed um
- 10:06Speaker 3: uh my son a post that he put on his
- 10:09Speaker 3: social media regarding the situation it says it's crazy to
- 10:12Speaker 3: me how dj academics is crying scared to say anything
- 10:16Speaker 3: to saucy santana because he's a gay man And he's
- 10:19Speaker 3: scared of getting canceled, but has said some of the
- 10:22Speaker 3: most outlandish, vile, disrespectful, and demeaning things to black women
- 10:25Speaker 3: with absolutely no fear whatsoever. Brings me back to the
- 10:29Speaker 3: Malcolm X quote. The most disrespected, unprotected, neglected person in
- 10:33Speaker 3: America is a black woman. So Queen Latifah.
- 10:38Speaker 2: Reposted this.
- 10:39Speaker 3: You got Queen Latifah on your ass, nigga?
- 10:41Speaker 2: You got.
- 10:42Speaker 1: Queen Latifah took time to repost that shit.
- 10:46Speaker 6: You know you got Erykah Badu on your ass niggas
- 10:50Speaker 6: gonna learn niggas gonna learn and stop playing with the
- 10:54Speaker 6: divine feminine which is the black woman niggas.
- 10:57Speaker 3: Gonna start getting the fuck up out of here and
- 10:59Speaker 3: just disappearing like the rapture For playing with us. Like
- 11:04Speaker 3: at what point? At what point?
- 11:07Speaker 4: That's true.
- 11:09Speaker 3: I don't fuck with academics. I feel like somebody do
- 11:11Speaker 3: need to put hands and feet on him. Do I
- 11:13Speaker 3: want a grown man who's not a homosexual to be raped?
- 11:16Speaker 3: Absolutely not.
- 11:17Speaker 2: I don't want anybody to be raped. Nobody to be raped.
- 11:20Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 11:20Speaker 4: Absolutely.
- 11:21Speaker 3: I think it's more devastating for somebody.
- 11:23Speaker 2: Who's, you know, never done anything like that. It's devastating
- 11:26Speaker 2: for anybody.
- 11:27Speaker 1: Anybody who's violated sexual aid is devastated.
- 11:31Speaker 3: I'm sure.
- 11:32Speaker 2: It don't matter, man, woman, gay, straight.
- 11:34Speaker 4: This shit is not okay.
- 11:36Speaker 3: It's wild.
- 11:37Speaker 4: It's not okay.
- 11:39Speaker 5: And the whole problem with this scenario is the world
- 11:41Speaker 5: trying to be a fair world and then.
- 11:44Speaker 4: Trying to give someone else individually the shine.
- 11:47Speaker 5: Like, okay, we want all fairness, but if Saucy, because
- 11:53Speaker 5: he's gay, is saying that he's going to rape somebody,
- 11:55Speaker 5: it's okay. I feel like if it's going to be
- 11:58Speaker 5: fairness around the world, how they trying to make it,
- 12:00Speaker 5: Let it be fairness. It's not okay for him to
- 12:03Speaker 5: say that, but it's also not okay for Academic to
- 12:05Speaker 5: trash people and win.
- 12:06Speaker 3: And Saucy better be careful, because I do feel like
- 12:08Speaker 3: it was crocodile.
- 12:09Speaker 2: Tears, right?
- 12:10Speaker 3: And he could be lining Saucy Santana up for a
- 12:12Speaker 3: fucking lawsuit. You just never know.
- 12:14Speaker 4: Yep.
- 12:16Speaker 2: Okay?
- 12:16Speaker 3: You gotta watch your mouth.
- 12:17Speaker 5: Yep.
- 12:18Speaker 3: You gotta watch your mouth.
- 12:20Speaker 4: I'm surprised Academic ain't got lined up for a lawsuit.
- 12:23Speaker 4: I thought that.
- 12:24Speaker 2: I mean, just.
- 12:25Speaker 1: Didn't he allude to putting hands on Erykah Badu?
- 12:28Speaker 2: You know, like.
- 12:30Speaker 1: Some of the things he said was almost threatening towards her,
- 12:32Speaker 1: you know? So, I mean, you just got to be
- 12:36Speaker 1: careful with your words.
- 12:38Speaker 4: So, what did Erykah Badu... Did y'all see what Erykah
- 12:41Speaker 4: Badu had to say?
- 12:41Speaker 3: This was a couple months ago. Was that him or
- 12:44Speaker 3: blue-faced Erykah Badu? Erykah Badu just called him a pussy, basically. Yeah,
- 12:48Speaker 3: she just called him a pussy.
- 12:50Speaker 2: And went on with life.
- 12:51Speaker 3: And went on and sold some of her pussy fragrance. Like, literally.
- 12:55Speaker 2: She did like a half-off or some shit.
- 12:58Speaker 4: So smart.
- 13:01Speaker 3: Uh joe smith y'all be back at joe smith this
- 13:04Speaker 3: week and his wife because they still together quisha chavez
- 13:08Speaker 3: former uh porn star who whose husband just found out
- 13:13Speaker 3: that she has an only fans last week she's on
- 13:16Speaker 3: a press run right now she says her body count
- 13:19Speaker 3: is low this is a porn star saying her body
- 13:23Speaker 3: count is low okay She said, my body count is
- 13:26Speaker 3: very low.
- 13:27Speaker 2: Sorry.
- 13:27Speaker 3: I just talked to Joe about that a little while ago.
- 13:30Speaker 3: We were arguing. I was like, my personal body count
- 13:34Speaker 3: is low. I don't consider work. It don't matter. That's
- 13:40Speaker 3: not the same thing. Work bodies don't count, says Keisha Chavez.
- 13:49Speaker 4: But she but you're.
- 13:52Speaker 1: Using one pussy it ain't like you got a separate
- 13:54Speaker 1: pussy for the work a separate mouth that's my work
- 13:58Speaker 1: pussy and this is my pussy I give to my
- 14:00Speaker 1: husband like this.
- 14:01Speaker 3: Is my work laptop and I have my personal laptop
- 14:04Speaker 3: bitch you don't have that you have one.
- 14:06Speaker 2: Pussy one mouth one body bitches love to say what
- 14:12Speaker 2: don't count my number.
- 14:15Speaker 4: Like and speaking from my standpoint that y'all know Ain't
- 14:20Speaker 4: no way in hell she can say that.
- 14:22Speaker 2: I can say that. You can't say that. No, she can't.
- 14:25Speaker 4: She can't say that. No, that turns into dirt.
- 14:28Speaker 5: I feel like if it's penetration being involved and you can.
- 14:31Speaker 4: Get pregnant, it counts and it's sex. Right.
- 14:35Speaker 5: If it's scissoring, dildos, it don't count. And that's the
- 14:39Speaker 5: only way. It don't count, and that's from experience.
- 14:43Speaker 3: This girl is wild.
- 14:45Speaker 2: Yo, that's crazy, though. But you know what?
- 14:47Speaker 1: Women will rationalize anything to keep their body count low
- 14:50Speaker 1: in their head.
- 14:51Speaker 3: This is why niggas say we crazy.
- 14:53Speaker 2: Let me tell you something.
- 14:54Speaker 1: My body count start over the stroke of midnight on
- 14:57Speaker 1: New Year's Eve.
- 14:59Speaker 3: Every year, 11, 59, 59.
- 14:59Speaker 2: I'm at zero, bitch. Talk to your mama about it.
- 15:05Speaker 2: I don't know. Okay, so... And.
- 15:10Speaker 3: Who gonna argue?
- 15:11Speaker 4: So, okay, look, I got a quick question. Since she's
- 15:13Speaker 4: saying that since it was a work body, it don't count.
- 15:17Speaker 5: So let me ask y'all this. Do y'all consider this
- 15:20Speaker 5: as counting? If you have sex with somebody... Just because
- 15:24Speaker 5: you're horny, but you don't like them, you don't want
- 15:26Speaker 5: to be with them, you just have that moment, oh,
- 15:27Speaker 5: I need to go.
- 15:28Speaker 3: Ferb, if I don't come, it don't count. Let's be
- 15:31Speaker 3: very clear. And you already know every man is not
- 15:39Speaker 3: going to make a woman have an orgasm. That's the
- 15:40Speaker 3: difference between men and women. Niggas can fuck about five
- 15:43Speaker 3: bitches in a day and come every time. If I
- 15:46Speaker 3: smash two dudes, I'm not coming every time.
- 15:49Speaker 2: Okay.
- 15:50Speaker 3: So if I don't come, if I don't come, it
- 15:53Speaker 3: doesn't count. That's my whole math. That's my whole math.
- 15:58Speaker 2: Okay. Right.
- 16:00Speaker 1: So everybody got their own whole math. All my niggas.
- 16:04Speaker 2: Count until the new year. And then they gone. Sorry
- 16:08Speaker 2: to this man.
- 16:08Speaker 3: I do not know this man.
- 16:10Speaker 2: Who?
- 16:11Speaker 3: Do you carry any over? Do you carry any over
- 16:17Speaker 3: until the next year?
- 16:18Speaker 2: Some of them make the cut.
- 16:23Speaker 1: Like, listen, let me be clear because niggas probably thinking
- 16:27Speaker 1: I be fucking all kind of niggas and then I
- 16:29Speaker 1: pick from the litter and bring it over to the
- 16:31Speaker 1: New Year.
- 16:31Speaker 2: No, that's not what happens.
- 16:33Speaker 1: Whoever I'm dealing with at the end of the year,
- 16:35Speaker 1: if we're still dealing, they come with me.
- 16:36Speaker 2: But, you know.
- 16:45Speaker 1: They come with me into the new year. If I'm
- 16:47Speaker 1: still dealing with them, then I, yeah, but whoever else,
- 16:50Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 16:50Speaker 3: I'm back.
- 16:51Speaker 2: And you play Brian McKnight back at one.
- 16:59Speaker 4: Damn.
- 17:00Speaker 5: So now I probably should have believed my ex-girlfriend when
- 17:02Speaker 5: she told me she had sex with this boy, but
- 17:04Speaker 5: she didn't really like him.
- 17:05Speaker 4: I punched her in her mouth.
- 17:07Speaker 1: Okay, we don't condone violence here on We Talk Back.
- 17:11Speaker 4: Okay, let me repeat that.
- 17:13Speaker 5: So maybe I should have listened to my ex when
- 17:15Speaker 5: she said she didn't care about this nigga she had
- 17:17Speaker 5: sex with when we broke up for a little bit
- 17:19Speaker 5: of period of time and I bust the windows out
- 17:21Speaker 5: of the car.
- 17:23Speaker 4: It's so violent.
- 17:25Speaker 1: Again, here at We Talk Back, we do not condone violence.
- 17:29Speaker 2: Goddamn, Jasmine Sullivan. What the fuck?
- 17:40Speaker 5: Third time without the violence well maybe maybe i should
- 17:44Speaker 5: just listen to my ex in high school when she
- 17:46Speaker 5: told me she didn't like the nigga she had sex
- 17:48Speaker 5: with i didn't believe her i said how could you
- 17:50Speaker 5: have sex with someone if you don't like them i
- 17:53Speaker 5: thought that was absolutely impossible but today in 2023.
- 17:58Speaker 4: These women, show me, baby. It's impossible.
- 17:59Speaker 3: Yes, if she didn't come, it doesn't count. Let's move
- 18:02Speaker 3: on to the next one.
- 18:04Speaker 2: Y'all, these are jokes.
- 18:06Speaker 3: I want y'all to know, because people are going to
- 18:07Speaker 3: think we're really nuts.
- 18:08Speaker 2: These are jokes. We know that all sex really counts
- 18:12Speaker 2: after 12 o'clock.
- 18:14Speaker 4: It's still there.
- 18:15Speaker 2: The body still exists.
- 18:16Speaker 3: It doesn't count even if it's a different zip code
- 18:18Speaker 3: or area code.
- 18:19Speaker 2: What are you talking about? No, it does.
- 18:22Speaker 3: Bitches move all the time and reset their whole.
- 18:26Speaker 2: Omometer. Odometer.
- 18:29Speaker 4: They said they hold back an hour.
- 18:31Speaker 3: Daylight. Whole life savings.
- 18:36Speaker 2: Whole life savings. Whole life.
- 18:39Speaker 3: Whole life savings. Sorry, I didn't mean to snort on here.
- 18:46Speaker 2: Okay, y'all. That shit was funny.
- 18:49Speaker 3: Is this really a stupid internet news? Like, Lauryn Hill
- 18:53Speaker 3: asked Always not, like, late. And now she talking shit
- 18:56Speaker 3: to her supporters about, like, y'all better be glad I
- 18:59Speaker 3: do show up.
- 19:00Speaker 2: The fuck? Okay.
- 19:01Speaker 4: I heard about that.
- 19:03Speaker 3: She said, yo, y'all lucky I make it on stage
- 19:06Speaker 3: every night.
- 19:08Speaker 5: Mama said some things you don't say out loud. You
- 19:12Speaker 5: just keep in your head. If you ain't got nothing
- 19:14Speaker 5: nice to say, don't say it. But you got all
- 19:16Speaker 5: these people out here to support you and spending they money,
- 19:19Speaker 5: and you going to feel the need to say that
- 19:22Speaker 5: I feel like that's something she need to fix within.
- 19:24Speaker 1: She always talks about how she's just a human and
- 19:27Speaker 1: she's just not a robot and things gonna happen life
- 19:31Speaker 1: is gonna happen and she's just gonna do the best
- 19:32Speaker 1: she can and she hopes that her followers can understand
- 19:35Speaker 1: that you know which I can understand that statement right
- 19:39Speaker 1: but going up there talking about y'all motherfuckers lucky a
- 19:42Speaker 1: bitch showed up at all fuck y'all that's what I'm saying.
- 19:47Speaker 5: Well when you say it like that it gives off
- 19:50Speaker 5: a different persona well damn do you care about us
- 19:53Speaker 5: well damn do you care about your fans now it's
- 19:55Speaker 5: giving like you know it's just saying fuck everything a lot.
- 19:59Speaker 3: Of these people including Lauren Hill and a lot of
- 20:02Speaker 3: these big artists they almost bigger than life You know
- 20:06Speaker 3: what I'm saying? So to get up in front of
- 20:08Speaker 3: thousands of people and give them all of this energy
- 20:12Speaker 3: takes a fucking lot. Bitch, we did that one live
- 20:15Speaker 3: show and walking out on stage and seeing this 3,000
- 20:17Speaker 3: people looking back at you like, God damn. That shit,
- 20:21Speaker 3: you have to.
- 20:21Speaker 2: Be in a different line. I love that shit. I
- 20:23Speaker 2: was eating it.
- 20:24Speaker 3: I was like, I want to stay out here.
- 20:27Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 20:28Speaker 3: Some people are consumers.
- 20:29Speaker 2: Some people.
- 20:30Speaker 3: Give they energy. You know what I'm saying? So maybe
- 20:32Speaker 3: she needs to find a way to transmute that energy
- 20:34Speaker 3: so she could feel different about performing for people.
- 20:37Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 20:38Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? Because you can't just tell
- 20:40Speaker 3: your supporters, y'all lucky I showed up. The full thing
- 20:44Speaker 3: she said, she said, yo, y'all lucky I make it
- 20:46Speaker 3: on the stage every night. I don't do it because
- 20:49Speaker 3: they let me do it. I do it because I
- 20:50Speaker 3: stand here in the name of God. And that's how
- 20:53Speaker 3: she said it. And she continued, God is the one
- 20:56Speaker 3: who allows me to do it. who surrounded me with
- 20:59Speaker 3: family and community when there was no support, when the
- 21:02Speaker 3: album sold so many records and no one showed up
- 21:05Speaker 3: and said, hey, would you like me to make another one?
- 21:07Speaker 3: So I went around the world and I played the
- 21:09Speaker 3: same album over and over and over again because we're
- 21:13Speaker 3: the survivors. We're not just survivors. We're the thrivers, is
- 21:18Speaker 3: what she said.
- 21:19Speaker 2: But what's the truth is, she's lucky. Yes.
- 21:23Speaker 1: Right.
- 21:25Speaker 2: That she's been able to show up with the same fucking.
- 21:28Speaker 3: Album and people coming through. Absolutely.
- 21:30Speaker 2: You're right, Tam.
- 21:31Speaker 1: People support her after not valuing them in that way.
- 21:35Speaker 3: You're absolutely right.
- 21:38Speaker 1: Her fans are lucky, but she's also lucky, and I
- 21:40Speaker 1: think she should acknowledge that on stage as well.
- 21:42Speaker 5: I guess when it comes to that level of stardom,
- 21:46Speaker 5: it's hard for them to see that really humble, humble
- 21:51Speaker 5: point of view now that they got everything laid out
- 21:54Speaker 5: like that, it's harder for them to see. But like
- 21:57Speaker 5: you said, in reality, she is the lucky one because
- 21:59Speaker 5: without the fans doing that, you wouldn't be getting on stage.
- 22:04Speaker 4: What you mean?
- 22:06Speaker 2: Absolutely.
- 22:07Speaker 1: But what Kanye said, it's hard to stay humble when
- 22:10Speaker 1: you're starting on the jumble front.
- 22:11Speaker 2: I had to drop my mic on her.
- 22:12Speaker 4: That's what he said.
- 22:15Speaker 2: Maybe we'll be lucky enough to know that feeling and
- 22:17Speaker 2: see how he acts. What if I'm like, yeah, y'all,
- 22:20Speaker 2: this is Tam Bam. We talk bad, bitch. Y'all lucky
- 22:23Speaker 2: a bitch showed up for y'all motherfucking ass. Guess what?
- 22:27Speaker 1: We going to commercial and we'll be right back. We
- 22:29Speaker 1: going to get back into our topic. Y'all better come
- 22:31Speaker 1: the fuck back. It's Tam Bam, bitch.
- 22:37Speaker 3: So listen, y'all, we back. And to get into our
- 22:39Speaker 3: main topic today, we wanted to talk about the viral
- 22:43Speaker 3: conversation with star of.
- 22:45Speaker 1: It's Yvonne Orji.
- 22:47Speaker 2: Orji, yeah, okay.
- 22:49Speaker 3: She's one of the stars of Issa Rae's Insecure TV show.
- 22:55Speaker 3: She plays the character of Molly.
- 22:56Speaker 1: She has at least two great stand-ups.
- 22:58Speaker 3: I'm going to go watch them.
- 22:59Speaker 2: I think on HBO.
- 23:01Speaker 1: She speaks a lot about having Nigerian culture and Nigerian background.
- 23:07Speaker 2: Her stand-ups is really funny. She's very talented.
- 23:10Speaker 4: Okay.
- 23:11Speaker 2: Okay.
- 23:12Speaker 3: So the insecure actress and comedian Yvonne Orji has never
- 23:17Speaker 3: been shy when it comes to discussing how her vow
- 23:20Speaker 3: to wait until she gets married to have sex. So
- 23:25Speaker 3: she's a virgin and she's 39 years old to date.
- 23:28Speaker 2: Okay.
- 23:29Speaker 3: So she appeared on an episode of Chelsea Handler's podcast,
- 23:34Speaker 3: Dear Chelsea, and was asked whether she was still a
- 23:37Speaker 3: virgin to which she answered yes. jokingly asked listeners to
- 23:41Speaker 3: pray for her and her future husband because the weight
- 23:44Speaker 3: has left her with a lot of pent up energy.
- 23:48Speaker 3: So she said, pray for that man. Cause when she
- 23:51Speaker 3: put that coochie on him, that coochie, he's so stupid.
- 24:01Speaker 3: So I don't know if people realize, and I wish
- 24:03Speaker 3: I had that type of discipline because your sexual energy
- 24:06Speaker 3: is can be transmuted into creativity. So I feel like
- 24:10Speaker 3: I'll be able to do more shit if I stop
- 24:11Speaker 3: thinking about dick all the damn time. I'll be able
- 24:15Speaker 3: to execute more. She's a successful actress. You said she's
- 24:21Speaker 3: had all these comedy shows. She's doing the damn thing
- 24:25Speaker 3: because she's been using that energy in a different way.
- 24:28Speaker 4: That's so true.
- 24:30Speaker 1: That's amazing that you could go 39 years without being penetrated.
- 24:36Speaker 2: Cause I know like.
- 24:37Speaker 4: My, my coochie get the thumping.
- 24:38Speaker 1: I gotta go find me some, you know what I'm saying?
- 24:41Speaker 1: So I don't know how she, how she did that.
- 24:44Speaker 1: Like for 39 years is amazing to me.
- 24:47Speaker 2: Like that is like, she's like a unicorn.
- 24:51Speaker 1: Like seriously, you know, that to go that long without,
- 24:55Speaker 1: and she's had serious relationships. It's not like, you know,
- 24:59Speaker 1: she was just out here not doing nothing. You know,
- 25:01Speaker 1: she had relationships.
- 25:02Speaker 2: That got serious. Y'all ain't never watched a movie.
- 25:05Speaker 1: Y'all ain't had no Netflix and chill. Y'all was just
- 25:08Speaker 1: straight Netflixing for real. That's amazing to me.
- 25:12Speaker 3: And imagine like the foreplay, like the kissing and all that. Like,
- 25:14Speaker 3: cause I'm pretty sure she's done that at least. Like
- 25:16Speaker 3: the kissing and rubbing up. Like how you just stop?
- 25:20Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
- 25:21Speaker 3: That is stressful. How did you stop?
- 25:23Speaker 1: Like to get that's what I mean when I said
- 25:25Speaker 1: when my coochie gets stressful for all it's about to
- 25:27Speaker 1: go down like and hers I know hers thumping like
- 25:30Speaker 1: a heart beat out of the chest boom boom boom
- 25:33Speaker 1: boom boom you know it's.
- 25:34Speaker 4: Really not that hard though 39.
- 25:36Speaker 3: Years okay y'all so our guest today Ferb okay yes
- 25:41Speaker 3: ma'am Ferb is also a virgin she's not 30 how
- 25:44Speaker 3: old are you I am 24.
- 25:46Speaker 4: Ferb, the 24-year-old virgin. Make a documentary right now. Netflix,
- 25:51Speaker 4: I'm ready.
- 25:55Speaker 3: So Ferb is a virgin. She ain't made it to
- 25:57Speaker 3: 39 yet, and hopefully she does.
- 25:58Speaker 2: So however long you want to carry this out.
- 26:01Speaker 3: Tell us how that is for you. Because listen, I've been, look,
- 26:04Speaker 3: I've been smashing for a long time.
- 26:07Speaker 4: Okay.
- 26:07Speaker 2: Okay.
- 26:08Speaker 3: I was telling bitches how to smash in high school. Like,
- 26:11Speaker 3: let me tell y'all bitches what to do. I was giving, like,
- 26:14Speaker 3: sex etiquette in high school.
- 26:16Speaker 2: Yo, and I'm still asking questions.
- 26:17Speaker 3: Y'all who people came.
- 26:18Speaker 2: To to talk about this shit.
- 26:20Speaker 1: See, I started really popping my coochie at Benedict in college.
- 26:23Speaker 2: That's when I started.
- 26:24Speaker 4: I heard about Benedict in college.
- 26:26Speaker 3: Pretty sure you caught up.
- 26:28Speaker 2: Okay, so, um.
- 26:33Speaker 5: Honestly, I'm going to break it down for y'all. And
- 26:36Speaker 5: the way that I break it down is going to
- 26:38Speaker 5: make sense. So really, I've been liking women all my life.
- 26:43Speaker 5: Like literally since elementary school, I got caught with like
- 26:47Speaker 5: three girls behind the basketball pole. And I asked the
- 26:51Speaker 5: one girl, I said, hey, I'll never forget this like yesterday.
- 26:55Speaker 5: Does your vagina hair match the hair on top of
- 26:58Speaker 5: your head? She was like, I don't know.
- 27:01Speaker 4: I said, well, let me see. Put the pants down.
- 27:03Speaker 4: And she did.
- 27:04Speaker 5: She pulled them down. Then the other girl pulled them down.
- 27:06Speaker 5: Then I pulled mine down. And we was all just
- 27:08Speaker 5: looking at each other vaginas like, does your vagina hair
- 27:11Speaker 5: match the hair on your head? Because she had blonde
- 27:13Speaker 5: hair in her head. So I'm like, your vagina hair
- 27:16Speaker 5: blonde too? Let me see. And it's like, I promise
- 27:20Speaker 5: you from that point is like when I knew that
- 27:23Speaker 5: I liked girls because it was so interesting to me
- 27:26Speaker 5: to see.
- 27:27Speaker 4: I wanted to see more of it. I wanted to
- 27:29Speaker 4: see more.
- 27:30Speaker 1: Well, you know, Dick got hair too. So I don't
- 27:32Speaker 1: know if that was just inquisitive.
- 27:34Speaker 3: And it got like this little piece that's sticking out.
- 27:36Speaker 4: Exactly. And that's the scary part. I was presented hair
- 27:40Speaker 4: with no piece sticking out.
- 27:42Speaker 5: And I was cool with that. It was just lips.
- 27:45Speaker 5: So this is my opinion. I always wonder, was I
- 27:50Speaker 5: born like this? Or is it the factors in life
- 27:54Speaker 5: that made me like this? Because I do have a
- 27:56Speaker 5: mom that went through abusive relationships. And I do have
- 28:00Speaker 5: a dad that did his own whatever. But I'm just like,
- 28:04Speaker 5: what is it? I was liking my elementary school teachers.
- 28:07Speaker 5: So I'm like, I don't know. But I've been liking
- 28:09Speaker 5: girls from elementary school to now. And dudes, yes, have
- 28:15Speaker 5: been in and out of my life trying to talk
- 28:17Speaker 5: to me. But at the same time, they looked at
- 28:19Speaker 5: me as one of the guys. So they never really
- 28:22Speaker 5: forced nothing on to me.
- 28:24Speaker 4: Like, oh, yeah, come on. And I ain't have to
- 28:27Speaker 4: worry about nothing.
- 28:28Speaker 2: So.
- 28:29Speaker 5: I would use dudes, like, they would tell me, oh,
- 28:32Speaker 5: I just want to give you some hair.
- 28:34Speaker 4: I don't even want to do that. Oh, I just
- 28:35Speaker 4: want to lick on your titties. And I'd be like.
- 28:37Speaker 1: But I haven't had none in so long.
- 28:42Speaker 4: I don't have no penetration.
- 28:43Speaker 5: So for me, my sexual arousal is like, through the
- 28:48Speaker 5: motherfucking roof. Like, all a nigga got to come, all anybody,
- 28:53Speaker 5: nigga or female, got to do is come and touch
- 28:56Speaker 5: me right now.
- 28:56Speaker 4: And I'm going to come. That's how bad it is
- 28:58Speaker 4: with me. I don't have sex.
- 29:02Speaker 5: I don't do much with girls like that. So it's really,
- 29:05Speaker 5: I don't know what the problem is.
- 29:07Speaker 3: So you think you might be asexual? It sounds like
- 29:10Speaker 3: you might be asexual. You know, people who are asexual,
- 29:13Speaker 3: they may not be attracted to one gender or another,
- 29:19Speaker 3: just like anybody, but they really are not that sexual.
- 29:23Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
- 29:23Speaker 5: I get what you're saying, but look, this is where
- 29:25Speaker 5: my mind, I don't think I'm asexual because I'm always
- 29:27Speaker 5: thinking about sex.
- 29:29Speaker 4: I can watch porn all day.
- 29:32Speaker 5: I can see a naked person walking by and get horny, ooh,
- 29:36Speaker 5: and get happy.
- 29:38Speaker 2: Where you at with naked people just walking by? You
- 29:40Speaker 2: talking about the strip club?
- 29:41Speaker 4: I was just trying to get it.
- 29:44Speaker 5: I was like, listen, growing up in Miami, them crackheads crazy.
- 29:49Speaker 2: Oh, okay.
- 29:50Speaker 5: But no, it's really like, yeah, I guess you could
- 29:52Speaker 5: say at the strip club, like I can go to
- 29:54Speaker 5: the strip club and I'll be fine.
- 29:56Speaker 3: How the fuck you remain a virgin in Miami? The
- 29:59Speaker 3: kids in Miami start having sex at eight and shit
- 30:01Speaker 3: like that.
- 30:02Speaker 4: That is so true.
- 30:02Speaker 2: Those are some advanced children.
- 30:04Speaker 5: That is true, but that's how you know my calling
- 30:07Speaker 5: here on this earth is different. I grew up there
- 30:10Speaker 5: and I was not affected by it. I had my
- 30:12Speaker 5: own mindset.
- 30:14Speaker 4: I don't know. I was also raised in Georgia.
- 30:16Speaker 5: I feel like that has a lot to do with it, Augusta, Georgia.
- 30:20Speaker 5: I've been dealing with girls now. Men, they try me
- 30:23Speaker 5: all the time, but they.
- 30:24Speaker 3: Don't They try you because they know you're a virgin.
- 30:28Speaker 3: That's what it is.
- 30:28Speaker 4: Okay, but look, all of them don't know.
- 30:30Speaker 3: It's just the sexual prowess.
- 30:32Speaker 4: All of them don't know firsthand.
- 30:33Speaker 5: I feel like what's their problem is they see the tomboyness.
- 30:38Speaker 5: So they're like, okay, we know we ain't just going
- 30:41Speaker 5: to be able to get up in there, so we
- 30:43Speaker 5: have to try a different approach. And that different approach
- 30:47Speaker 5: ends up the dinner, food, having.
- 30:50Speaker 4: A good time.
- 30:51Speaker 2: They just want to hang out.
- 30:52Speaker 4: Hanging out. And it's like the ones that.
- 30:56Speaker 3: They may feel like they get like the best of
- 30:57Speaker 3: both worlds talking to you maybe because you have like
- 31:00Speaker 3: the tomboy thing going on. A lot of these dudes,
- 31:04Speaker 3: you know, it'd be borderline some other shit with them, right?
- 31:07Speaker 3: So you might feed into this thing that they got
- 31:09Speaker 3: going on mentally that they really... can't connect to another
- 31:13Speaker 3: man in a way, but like, oh, she's still a
- 31:14Speaker 3: female and she act like one of the homies, so
- 31:17Speaker 3: it's not gay.
- 31:17Speaker 2: I feel like I'm kind of like that, a little bit.
- 31:20Speaker 3: No, you're a grown-ass nigga bitch, okay?
- 31:24Speaker 2: Exactly, that's what I'm saying.
- 31:25Speaker 1: Like, I be acting like one of the homies, but
- 31:27Speaker 1: I'm like dimly dressed and move like a lady.
- 31:30Speaker 4: That may be true.
- 31:31Speaker 2: I definitely got like, like, I'll be, we'll be out
- 31:34Speaker 2: and I'll be like, look at that ass, look at
- 31:35Speaker 2: that ass.
- 31:35Speaker 4: Look, but this is the difference. You still get down
- 31:38Speaker 4: and dirty.
- 31:39Speaker 5: I don't.
- 31:41Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm definitely getting down and dirty. Oh, she called
- 31:44Speaker 2: you dirty. I know. She said I get down and dirty.
- 31:46Speaker 4: Look, she tried to talk so bad.
- 31:49Speaker 2: AJ went down and dirty. Let me ask you this, Ferb.
- 31:52Speaker 1: Because you say you think about sex a lot. You
- 31:55Speaker 1: can watch porn all day. What is keeping you from
- 32:00Speaker 1: losing your virginity? I'm going to.
- 32:02Speaker 4: Tell you exactly what's keeping me from losing my virginity, baby.
- 32:06Speaker 5: Growing up in Miami, like I just said, I don't
- 32:09Speaker 5: witness sex. Boyfriends and girlfriends throwing their clothes out, each
- 32:13Speaker 5: other's car breaking windows, girls getting pregnant the next day
- 32:18Speaker 5: being single moms, girls growing up without their fathers being
- 32:23Speaker 5: in their kids' lives. And I promise you, me growing up,
- 32:26Speaker 5: looking at all of that, it affected my mind.
- 32:30Speaker 4: It made me scared. I see it in the facts.
- 32:32Speaker 5: 8 out of 10 of the females here in the
- 32:36Speaker 5: United States. But I'm that 2% that paid attention. And
- 32:41Speaker 5: I see how dudes are. They just want to get
- 32:44Speaker 5: that quick nut. And then when you get pregnant, they're gone.
- 32:48Speaker 5: I said, you got me fucked up. If a nigga
- 32:50Speaker 5: quick nutting me, I'm going to be quickly under the
- 32:52Speaker 5: jail because I'm going to come and ruin your fucking
- 32:54Speaker 5: life until you know how to act right. And that's
- 32:56Speaker 5: not cool. That's not going to work because I'm going
- 32:59Speaker 5: to hurt you.
- 32:59Speaker 4: You're going to hurt me. It's just not. It don't
- 33:01Speaker 4: make sense.
- 33:02Speaker 5: So by me witnessing all of the infidelities, all the cheating,
- 33:07Speaker 5: I've cheated, and all of this stuff in the world,
- 33:09Speaker 5: I'm like, I will end up in jail if I
- 33:13Speaker 5: let a nigga have sex with me right now, just
- 33:14Speaker 5: because I'm so emotional.
- 33:17Speaker 2: So it's a trauma response.
- 33:18Speaker 4: There you go. You hit it on the head. It's
- 33:21Speaker 4: a traumatic response.
- 33:23Speaker 5: I feel like my trauma and what I've been through
- 33:26Speaker 5: has fucked my head up so much that I can't
- 33:29Speaker 5: even allow myself to try something new. Because if it
- 33:32Speaker 5: don't go how it's supposed to go, baby, I'm going
- 33:35Speaker 5: to jail.
- 33:35Speaker 2: I'm fucked up in the head.
- 33:37Speaker 3: So we're just adding the part where you can fuck
- 33:40Speaker 3: around and produce another human being with somebody who's not
- 33:44Speaker 3: going to be there with you. But women, most of
- 33:48Speaker 3: the females that I know that are in relationships with
- 33:50Speaker 3: other women, they be fighting all the fucking time. So
- 33:53Speaker 3: it's still volatile. even with two women.
- 33:55Speaker 2: You're right. But she can't get pregnant.
- 33:58Speaker 3: Right, but you can't get pregnant. So you're just taking
- 34:00Speaker 3: a dick from the equation. You're still dealing with fucked
- 34:02Speaker 3: up people. I mean, at the top of the show,
- 34:04Speaker 3: you were saying how you had to, you wanted to
- 34:06Speaker 3: punch a bitch in the face. So like I said,
- 34:09Speaker 3: two gay women, they be volatile as fuck. Like periods
- 34:12Speaker 3: be done, synced up, shit get lit.
- 34:14Speaker 2: I agree with you.
- 34:15Speaker 3: So what's the difference? Me personally, if a nigga piss
- 34:18Speaker 3: me off, I couldn't be with a woman, right? Because
- 34:22Speaker 3: at least this man can fuck the shit out of
- 34:23Speaker 3: me when I'm mad. Like now this bitch period on,
- 34:26Speaker 3: my period on, we just in the house, just pissed.
- 34:30Speaker 3: At least I could get this affection from a man.
- 34:33Speaker 3: Like that's why it doesn't make sense to me.
- 34:36Speaker 5: Well, let me try to give you a little more sense.
- 34:39Speaker 5: So let me tell you the difference. Yeah, and I
- 34:43Speaker 5: don't take nothing from the females. When it comes to
- 34:46Speaker 5: female and men, they go hand in hand. Ain't another
- 34:49Speaker 5: one better than the other.
- 34:51Speaker 4: Niggas ain't shit. Absolutely. So when you say that, I agree.
- 34:55Speaker 5: Now, my perspective is in order for it to work
- 34:58Speaker 5: with a woman, baby, you got to know yourself first.
- 35:03Speaker 4: And that's with men and women, though. It's like it's
- 35:06Speaker 4: the same, but it's not.
- 35:07Speaker 5: You have to know yourself before you get into something
- 35:10Speaker 5: with somebody because you're dating trauma. If you haven't healed
- 35:15Speaker 5: when you get into that relationship, all of that is
- 35:17Speaker 5: going to come out.
- 35:18Speaker 4: Whether it's a female, whether it's a male, whether it's
- 35:21Speaker 4: a transgender, whether it's an alien. Okay, let me not
- 35:25Speaker 4: say alien. I don't went too far, but.
- 35:27Speaker 5: That you really have to know who you are. You
- 35:30Speaker 5: have to go through your traumas. You have to heal.
- 35:33Speaker 5: And I feel like that's the number one reason why
- 35:34Speaker 5: I'm single right now. Because, baby, I'm motherfucking crazy. I
- 35:37Speaker 5: be crying every day. They be calling me a simp.
- 35:40Speaker 5: I'm sitting up here taking these shots.
- 35:43Speaker 4: And.
- 35:44Speaker 3: Who's calling you a simp?
- 35:46Speaker 4: So, like.
- 35:47Speaker 3: You be simping for these women?
- 35:49Speaker 4: I definitely admit that. I did. Once upon a time, like, because, like.
- 35:56Speaker 5: Women would see that what I got going on on
- 35:58Speaker 5: my page and stuff. They'd be like, oh, boom, okay,
- 36:01Speaker 5: she lit. But they really not gay for real. So
- 36:04Speaker 5: they'd be like, okay, I'm going to come over here.
- 36:06Speaker 4: I'm going to flirt. I'm going to have some fun.
- 36:09Speaker 4: And then, boom, they ghost me. So it's really like
- 36:11Speaker 4: it's so many factors that come into this shit. It's
- 36:16Speaker 4: so many factors.
- 36:16Speaker 5: But the way that I look at it, my first
- 36:19Speaker 5: question would be to a woman is, how is your
- 36:22Speaker 5: relationship with your mom and how is your upbringing?
- 36:26Speaker 4: To me, that's going to determine a lot. It's not
- 36:28Speaker 4: the sex.
- 36:29Speaker 5: That's why sex before marriage is important because you have
- 36:32Speaker 5: to learn who you're with before you get married. It's
- 36:35Speaker 5: not about sex because the sex can be great, but
- 36:39Speaker 5: that bitch, nigga, crazy as fuck. Nigga, I'm going to
- 36:41Speaker 5: punch you in the goddamn mouth and you ain't even
- 36:42Speaker 5: know because the dick was so good or the pussy
- 36:45Speaker 5: was so good. So it's like, it's very completely different,
- 36:48Speaker 5: but it also go hand in hand when you think
- 36:50Speaker 5: about it. The realisticness, the charisticsness. i'm trying to.
- 36:58Speaker 7: Find some characteristics right okay so do you feel like
- 37:03Speaker 7: you have some healing to do first before you can
- 37:06Speaker 7: even go there like uh sexually with anybody not just
- 37:09Speaker 7: the other person but do you feel like you potentially
- 37:11Speaker 7: have some healing that you need to do before you i.
- 37:13Speaker 5: Feel like my healing probably is the reason why i'm
- 37:16Speaker 5: still a virgin because yeah I got so much hurt
- 37:22Speaker 5: in me from my father, from my mother. And I'm
- 37:26Speaker 5: not talking about my father and my mother coming here
- 37:29Speaker 5: and saying, I'm going to hurt you because you my daughter. No,
- 37:32Speaker 5: it's unintentional hurt from their upbringing that they don't realize.
- 37:37Speaker 5: And I'm starting to realize that within myself, like it's
- 37:41Speaker 5: not their fault. And the fact that I realized that
- 37:45Speaker 5: through the Lord, now I have to adjust. And not
- 37:50Speaker 5: everybody is okay with taking the time to adjust. That's
- 37:53Speaker 5: the hard part.
- 37:54Speaker 4: Like, I don't want to do that date appearance. Why?
- 37:56Speaker 4: I got to be the bigger person. Why? This, that,
- 37:59Speaker 4: and the third. But I'm starting to realize that right now.
- 38:02Speaker 5: If I want things to be how they're supposed to
- 38:05Speaker 5: be in my alignment with God, I got to be
- 38:08Speaker 5: the one to understand.
- 38:10Speaker 2: Well, that's very healthy. Yes. That's healthy.
- 38:13Speaker 1: And that's very mature of you at 24 to even
- 38:15Speaker 1: recognize that.
- 38:16Speaker 4: Absolutely.
- 38:17Speaker 1: It's the exact opposite. People are using their vagina to
- 38:20Speaker 1: feel something. You know, they got all these traumas and
- 38:23Speaker 1: pain that they're carrying. And instead of abstaining, they popping
- 38:28Speaker 1: the pussy all over.
- 38:29Speaker 3: Poeing doesn't heal. That shit you just said about the
- 38:32Speaker 3: parents and shit like that. Like, I'm 39 and just
- 38:34Speaker 3: realizing that, child, about the parents and stuff like that. Because, yes,
- 38:39Speaker 3: they are older than us, but we might be a
- 38:41Speaker 3: little bit more. I know for sure I'm older than
- 38:44Speaker 3: my mom and dad.
- 38:46Speaker 2: Energetically. You see what I'm saying?
- 38:48Speaker 3: Spiritually older than them. So for you to recognize that at,
- 38:52Speaker 3: recognize that at 24, like, cause they aren't going to change.
- 38:54Speaker 2: Right. So how can I, how can I.
- 38:57Speaker 3: Be a little bit different because they are who they are.
- 38:59Speaker 2: Right.
- 39:00Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 39:00Speaker 3: How can I be a little bit different so we
- 39:01Speaker 3: can continue to be family?
- 39:03Speaker 4: Right. You know, it's the fact that that's a hell
- 39:05Speaker 4: of a realization.
- 39:06Speaker 5: But y'all just helped me realize with the sex, like it's,
- 39:10Speaker 5: it's really like my healing, like damn, like, cause it's,
- 39:15Speaker 5: it's not, they done tried to do it with me,
- 39:18Speaker 5: but it was always something like, no. And I listened.
- 39:22Speaker 5: I didn't say, I don't care. I'm just so horny.
- 39:24Speaker 5: I'm just like, okay, baby, it's a reason. It's not working.
- 39:29Speaker 5: And I just, I'm thankful that I'm able to the awareness.
- 39:33Speaker 5: God blessed me with the discernment. That's what it's called.
- 39:36Speaker 5: The ability to judge well and understand. So I'm thankful
- 39:42Speaker 5: for that. And I really feel like that does have
- 39:44Speaker 5: a huge part to be with me being a virgin.
- 39:47Speaker 4: I'm going to catch your bullshit before you catch me.
- 39:50Speaker 4: That's the difference.
- 39:52Speaker 5: But it's like, can I blame the men for that?
- 39:59Speaker 4: Them trying to do what they're doing with me.
- 40:03Speaker 5: Like, whose fault really is it? Because you have men, yeah,
- 40:07Speaker 5: that's going to pressure you. But then you also have
- 40:09Speaker 5: women that's giving up the first night. So who's Winnie Kerr?
- 40:15Speaker 1: Well, I don't think it's anybody's fault because sex is natural.
- 40:18Speaker 1: So it's not like a fault thing. It's about just
- 40:21Speaker 1: choosing for yourself what you want to do with your
- 40:23Speaker 1: own life.
- 40:23Speaker 4: And what works for you personally in that moment.
- 40:26Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 40:28Speaker 1: So AJ said something about like having older energy than
- 40:31Speaker 1: our parents. And for me, I don't think it's older energy.
- 40:35Speaker 1: I think my parents, they're older. They could have wisdom
- 40:38Speaker 1: that I don't have. And that's just something that comes
- 40:39Speaker 1: with age. But I do think that we have allowed to,
- 40:44Speaker 1: you know, like discover our emotional intelligence in a way
- 40:47Speaker 1: our parents didn't get to.
- 40:49Speaker 4: Okay.
- 40:50Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 40:50Speaker 3: I feel like some of them could have, they just didn't.
- 40:53Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? Like a lot of the
- 40:54Speaker 3: things that we tap in now, cause I'm just talking
- 40:57Speaker 3: about my mom for the most part. Like she just,
- 40:59Speaker 3: our generation is a bunch of Sims and we so
- 41:03Speaker 3: touchy and, and, but I'm like, you can't even talk
- 41:06Speaker 3: about your childhood without busting out crying.
- 41:09Speaker 1: But I don't think they were allowed to in the
- 41:11Speaker 1: way that we are. Like, you know, we are, you know, yeah,
- 41:14Speaker 1: we are like tapping into things that our parents didn't
- 41:18Speaker 1: even have like the avenues.
- 41:19Speaker 3: We getting our magic back.
- 41:20Speaker 2: That's all it is.
- 41:21Speaker 3: Our generation.
- 41:22Speaker 1: Our emotional intelligence and our, you know, mental health. When
- 41:26Speaker 1: our parents were our age, wasn't nobody talking to them
- 41:28Speaker 1: about their mental health.
- 41:29Speaker 4: Right.
- 41:30Speaker 2: You better mental health your ass to the job.
- 41:32Speaker 4: Right.
- 41:32Speaker 2: You know, that was it.
- 41:34Speaker 4: That's it.
- 41:34Speaker 2: Provide.
- 41:36Speaker 4: Exactly.
- 41:38Speaker 5: And then they had to be the women in the
- 41:39Speaker 5: household doing everything.
- 41:41Speaker 4: I mean, taking care of the household.
- 41:43Speaker 5: So it's like, what could they say when a man
- 41:46Speaker 5: doing everything, they in the house taking care of the household?
- 41:49Speaker 5: It's like they were expected to shut up and take
- 41:52Speaker 5: care of the household. So I agree with both of
- 41:54Speaker 5: y'all on that.
- 41:57Speaker 3: I come from a long line of hell raisers. Ain't
- 42:00Speaker 3: no woman in my family ever shut the fuck up.
- 42:02Speaker 3: I can promise y'all that shit. We have to break
- 42:07Speaker 3: those cycles though. I see that in my family too.
- 42:11Speaker 3: My grandma was very strong, very strong minded. She had
- 42:15Speaker 3: a husband and they stayed together until they both died.
- 42:18Speaker 3: But my mom got a strong personality. I come along,
- 42:22Speaker 3: I have the same strong personality. But my mom didn't
- 42:26Speaker 3: stay married for long. She ended up getting a divorce
- 42:28Speaker 3: and I've never been married. And I don't want that
- 42:31Speaker 3: to be the cycle that continues of black women in
- 42:35Speaker 3: my family without a husband. But they were hell raisers
- 42:39Speaker 3: because of the type of men they allowed access to them.
- 42:42Speaker 3: I am a hell raiser, but I don't just, that's
- 42:45Speaker 3: not my normal setting though. I can do that. You
- 42:48Speaker 3: know what I'm saying? I could be like that. That's
- 42:51Speaker 3: if the man is putting me in a position to
- 42:53Speaker 3: have to be that way. But that is just not
- 42:55Speaker 3: how I want to be normally with somebody I love.
- 42:57Speaker 3: I don't want a man that I can easily disrespect,
- 43:00Speaker 3: verbally or physically. So those are the type of people,
- 43:03Speaker 3: and that's what I've been learning through the relationships I've
- 43:05Speaker 3: been in. Those are not the type of people I
- 43:08Speaker 3: want to be with that makes me step outside my
- 43:10Speaker 3: body to equal their disrespect. I don't want to do that.
- 43:13Speaker 1: But have you ever fully trusted a man, even in
- 43:17Speaker 1: his flaws, to lead?
- 43:19Speaker 3: Absolutely I have. And I almost went to fucking prison. Like,
- 43:23Speaker 3: let's be clear, because I still know what I'm supposed
- 43:26Speaker 3: to be doing.
- 43:27Speaker 2: Right.
- 43:27Speaker 3: So you going you going outside of you to do
- 43:30Speaker 3: what to follow this man. Absolutely. But I might not
- 43:34Speaker 3: have been the right man.
- 43:35Speaker 4: You feel like you attracting the same kind of men?
- 43:38Speaker 3: I think that we are we you are what you eat. Therefore,
- 43:41Speaker 3: you are who you beat. I feel like these people
- 43:44Speaker 3: that you have in your life, there's an aspect of
- 43:47Speaker 3: you in them.
- 43:48Speaker 4: That's true.
- 43:48Speaker 3: Why you keep attracting until you change who you are.
- 43:51Speaker 5: Exactly.
- 43:51Speaker 3: I'm looking for the same type of energy.
- 43:55Speaker 2: I fuck with you.
- 43:55Speaker 5: You know I was saying that.
- 44:00Speaker 3: That's what I was saying.
- 44:03Speaker 2: Hold on.
- 44:05Speaker 3: The thing is that women realize that. It's the men
- 44:07Speaker 3: who think they can go through their life being a
- 44:09Speaker 3: hoe and not get a hoe.
- 44:10Speaker 4: That's true.
- 44:11Speaker 3: Why y'all think y'all deserve some wholesome.
- 44:13Speaker 2: Why the fuck.
- 44:14Speaker 3: Y'all think y'all deserve furb? Why do y'all think y'all
- 44:17Speaker 3: deserve a woman who's never been with anybody when y'all
- 44:20Speaker 3: not spent y'all entire lives running through niggas' daughters? Like,
- 44:25Speaker 3: why do you think nobody's supposed to run through your daughter?
- 44:28Speaker 2: That is so true.
- 44:30Speaker 4: I feel like.
- 44:31Speaker 5: What's keeping them around with me is the excitement and
- 44:34Speaker 5: the hope that they are going to eventually have sex
- 44:39Speaker 5: with me.
- 44:40Speaker 4: That's why they're around me.
- 44:42Speaker 2: But you never know.
- 44:43Speaker 1: You may have come across a man who has done
- 44:46Speaker 1: all of that and decided that that's not the life
- 44:48Speaker 1: he wants anymore. We can't judge people off their past exactly.
- 44:52Speaker 1: Because some people do change. I met a guy who
- 44:56Speaker 1: was an ex-NFL player. In college, he had all the everything,
- 45:01Speaker 1: all the hoes, all the bitches. He done fucked out
- 45:04Speaker 1: of both pants legs for a long time. He got
- 45:07Speaker 1: cut from the NFL and pretty much lost everything.
- 45:10Speaker 2: And everybody was gone. All the hoes, where they at?
- 45:13Speaker 2: He was looking for the hoes. They was gone. Everybody
- 45:16Speaker 2: was gone. And he had to really start over. And
- 45:19Speaker 2: it changed him. It humbled him. And it made him
- 45:21Speaker 2: not desire those things anymore.
- 45:24Speaker 3: I think it takes a while sometimes for a man
- 45:26Speaker 3: to get to that point though. I just was having
- 45:28Speaker 3: this conversation with somebody this morning because he was like,
- 45:30Speaker 3: pussy don't drive. I'm like, he said he'd be trying
- 45:32Speaker 3: to figure out what type of pussy other niggas be
- 45:35Speaker 3: getting because pussy don't drive him like that. That's a
- 45:38Speaker 3: dangerous man when he's not moved by pussy.
- 45:40Speaker 2: It takes a long time.
- 45:42Speaker 3: Yeah, it takes a long time for a man, most men,
- 45:45Speaker 3: to get to that space to where they're not waking
- 45:48Speaker 3: up every morning trying to figure out how they can
- 45:50Speaker 3: get some new pussy. You know what I'm saying? They
- 45:52Speaker 3: can focus on getting money.
- 45:56Speaker 1: Well, I think, you know, that's not fair to say,
- 45:58Speaker 1: because I think there's a lot of men who focus
- 46:00Speaker 1: more on money than pussy. Because, I mean, if you're
- 46:02Speaker 1: getting a lot of money, pussy going to come.
- 46:04Speaker 3: But a lot of men don't realize that, though. They
- 46:07Speaker 3: be chasing pussy instead of the money. They don't realize
- 46:09Speaker 3: pussy come with the money.
- 46:11Speaker 1: I don't know if I agree with that. I agree
- 46:13Speaker 1: with both of y'all. It's men who be feeling like
- 46:17Speaker 1: they don't even deserve no pussy.
- 46:19Speaker 4: Exactly.
- 46:20Speaker 5: And then it's men that feel like they what what
- 46:23Speaker 5: aj just said i feel like it's literally 50 50
- 46:27Speaker 5: if you got it you the pussy gonna come or
- 46:30Speaker 5: other half over here out here begging for trying to
- 46:32Speaker 5: get it anywhere they can like it literally go hand
- 46:35Speaker 5: in hand like i feel like it's just who you
- 46:38Speaker 5: are how you move what you attract what you do
- 46:42Speaker 5: because over here i'm.
- 46:45Speaker 2: Living life So let me ask you this.
- 46:49Speaker 1: Do you feel like you're with women because you really
- 46:52Speaker 1: are attracted to them or you feel safer with them?
- 46:57Speaker 3: Because you would be the dominant person in a relationship, right?
- 47:00Speaker 4: I would be the dominant one.
- 47:02Speaker 5: So I think as far as the safety-wise, personally, honestly,
- 47:08Speaker 5: I would feel safer being with a man, not a woman.
- 47:12Speaker 4: I am attracted to men.
- 47:17Speaker 5: I just.
- 47:17Speaker 4: I'm a virgin, scared to have sex.
- 47:21Speaker 2: I mean, emotionally.
- 47:22Speaker 4: Emotional safety.
- 47:23Speaker 2: Oh, okay.
- 47:23Speaker 5: Emotional safety, a woman, because I feel like I can
- 47:27Speaker 5: connect more, better with a woman. Like, this got nothing
- 47:31Speaker 5: to do with sex, but with woman connection. I feel
- 47:34Speaker 5: like I just moved out here to Alabama. The Lord
- 47:37Speaker 5: just connected me with a church that has a female pastor.
- 47:41Speaker 5: Because he know in order for me to have that
- 47:43Speaker 5: relationship with him, it's not going.
- 47:45Speaker 4: To be as easy to go through a man.
- 47:47Speaker 5: I'm not going to be as comfortable to build my
- 47:49Speaker 5: relationship if I had a male pastor.
- 47:51Speaker 4: But I've got a whole female pastor.
- 47:54Speaker 5: That is right up my alley.
- 47:57Speaker 4: I can talk to her. I can call her.
- 48:00Speaker 5: She's a friend and be comfortable with who I am
- 48:04Speaker 5: as a woman. So I really just feel like it's
- 48:07Speaker 5: really personal. But I am safer emotionally-wise. with a woman,
- 48:12Speaker 5: because I feel like that's all I've been dealing with,
- 48:14Speaker 5: first of all. Second, I feel like women understand more
- 48:17Speaker 5: than what the male mind will understand. Like you just said,
- 48:22Speaker 5: we mature faster than men, we see things more than men,
- 48:25Speaker 5: and we'll take accountability faster than a man would. And
- 48:28Speaker 5: I ain't got time to raise a man. Can't Michelle
- 48:31Speaker 5: say you can't raise no man? He already grown, what
- 48:35Speaker 5: you gonna do?
- 48:37Speaker 4: Nothing!
- 48:40Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 48:41Speaker 1: I think men take accountability faster than women.
- 48:43Speaker 2: You think so?
- 48:43Speaker 3: I never agree with that.
- 48:45Speaker 4: But that's her experience.
- 48:46Speaker 1: Girls, it'd be hard to get a woman to say.
- 48:50Speaker 2: It's.
- 48:52Speaker 1: Hard to get a woman, including myself, I'm not a girl,
- 48:56Speaker 1: to own they shit. To own they shit. I find
- 49:00Speaker 1: it hard. It's always in hindsight. that I find women
- 49:05Speaker 1: are be like, okay, well, since we're apologizing, I can
- 49:08Speaker 1: say that back there I was fucked up too. Whereas
- 49:13Speaker 1: men for me in the moment can be like, okay, yeah.
- 49:16Speaker 3: I don't like sorries without action. I see what you're saying.
- 49:20Speaker 3: to me as long as the change behavior is what
- 49:22Speaker 3: I look for right so men can say sorry all
- 49:24Speaker 3: day long and never change the behavior that is not
- 49:27Speaker 3: a legitimate sorry it's not so that's why I feel
- 49:31Speaker 3: like women go at least like men literally don't tell
- 49:34Speaker 3: us the truth so that we can even change the
- 49:36Speaker 3: behavior right they just go and do whatever they want
- 49:38Speaker 3: to do If men could be more honest with women
- 49:41Speaker 3: about who they are, their expectations, what they want from, like,
- 49:44Speaker 3: what do I need to do different in this relationship
- 49:47Speaker 3: so I can be a better partner? I feel like
- 49:49Speaker 3: women would be more open to doing that. But for
- 49:51Speaker 3: whatever reason, it's out there that you can't be honest
- 49:54Speaker 3: with women. That's one thing. So how can it be
- 49:57Speaker 3: like you can't be honest with women and women are
- 50:00Speaker 3: not accountable? That's weird to me. It can't be both ways.
- 50:05Speaker 3: I can't be accountable if you're not telling me the truth.
- 50:09Speaker 4: Right, right.
- 50:10Speaker 5: It goes hand in hand, but I feel like it
- 50:13Speaker 5: definitely goes back to the personal experience. I feel like AJ,
- 50:17Speaker 5: I mean, Tam feels the way she feels because of
- 50:20Speaker 5: her own experiences with men being accountable and women not
- 50:27Speaker 5: being accountable. And then you said for yourself, you have
- 50:29Speaker 5: your own troubles too. here and there being accountable and
- 50:34Speaker 5: the way that we act is what we attract. So
- 50:36Speaker 5: you may be attracting people that don't take accountability. But
- 50:40Speaker 5: me personally, I've, I've met a lot of people that
- 50:44Speaker 5: I could communicate with like, okay, I did this wrong.
- 50:46Speaker 4: You did that wrong. But that's because I've been.
- 50:49Speaker 5: Dealing with mainly women my whole life. So it's really
- 50:53Speaker 5: like your personal experience, what you attract.
- 50:57Speaker 4: Nobody's wrong.
- 50:59Speaker 1: Do you want to do, so you, you see yourself
- 51:03Speaker 1: with a woman versus a man or you just don't have?
- 51:06Speaker 4: So honestly, I don't know.
- 51:09Speaker 2: I don't.
- 51:10Speaker 5: If a man treat me right and say they want
- 51:13Speaker 5: to marry me and they consistent, that's what's getting, that's
- 51:17Speaker 5: all I need. If I found a man that's consistent
- 51:20Speaker 5: with no sex, that treat me right, that try to
- 51:23Speaker 5: get to know me and understand me, baby, you got it.
- 51:26Speaker 4: I'm going to open and bust it wide open for you.
- 51:29Speaker 3: Are you scared though are you scared to bust her
- 51:34Speaker 3: wide open I'ma.
- 51:36Speaker 4: Be scared but I'ma be comfortable I.
- 51:38Speaker 3: Feel like I ain't never been scared I'm absolutely.
- 51:44Speaker 5: I'm so scared my cherry ain't even popped So I'm really, yes,
- 51:50Speaker 5: I am scared. But I feel like once they, you know,
- 51:52Speaker 5: because I'm a horny freak. So I know once they
- 51:55Speaker 5: get me to that point.
- 51:57Speaker 4: I'm going to be okay. Like, I just haven't found
- 51:59Speaker 4: that one.
- 52:02Speaker 2: First of all, you cannot call yourself a horny freak virgin.
- 52:05Speaker 3: That don't even make sense to me. She's sucking the
- 52:09Speaker 3: hell out of them titties. That's it, though.
- 52:11Speaker 4: I'm trying to tell you, eating the hell out of them.
- 52:14Speaker 4: I could do tricks.
- 52:14Speaker 3: Now, I'm a virgin.
- 52:17Speaker 2: I'm a virgin.
- 52:18Speaker 3: Look, let me just go ahead and flip it around.
- 52:20Speaker 4: I can literally, I can work all day.
- 52:23Speaker 2: So you've done all the foreplay things, but just not
- 52:26Speaker 2: the penetration.
- 52:26Speaker 4: Yes, and so I've been always thinking like, does that
- 52:29Speaker 4: mean something? I sort of got foreplay.
- 52:30Speaker 3: Because you ain't never sucked no dick though, right?
- 52:33Speaker 4: I have. I'll admit, I have.
- 52:36Speaker 1: Oh, you, that's white girl behavior, honestly.
- 52:40Speaker 3: White girls suck dick and don't do penetration.
- 52:43Speaker 4: And guess who, and guess where I was when I
- 52:45Speaker 4: did it. in Augusta, motherfucking Georgia, where all the white bitches.
- 52:48Speaker 3: I swear to God, I was like in probably middle school,
- 52:55Speaker 3: high school, I sucked boys.
- 52:57Speaker 4: I think it was high school. I don't know. It
- 52:59Speaker 4: was probably middle school, high school, one of the two.
- 53:01Speaker 4: I was at the park, and I did like, I
- 53:05Speaker 4: was like, what the fuck is this? Boy, get out
- 53:07Speaker 4: of my face. I don't know what I'm doing. And
- 53:08Speaker 4: that was it.
- 53:09Speaker 3: Oh, you didn't like it? It was a little gummy worm?
- 53:11Speaker 4: Yeah, a gummy. That grass shit was so gooey. I
- 53:14Speaker 4: was like, it was binky.
- 53:16Speaker 2: This is gross.
- 53:19Speaker 3: Now, look. Did it have a turtleneck or no?
- 53:24Speaker 2: Listen, never. No, don't do that. Don't do that.
- 53:26Speaker 4: I don't remember if it had a turtleneck. But I remember,
- 53:28Speaker 4: I will tell you this. I just recently did it. Yes,
- 53:30Speaker 4: I did. Recently. And it's this boy that I was thinking, okay,
- 53:34Speaker 4: you know, he's nice. He's cool. He's treating me. A man, sorry.
- 53:39Speaker 4: A man that's treating me nice. He's cool. Taking me out.
- 53:44Speaker 5: But I did it to him. And he said I did.
- 53:46Speaker 5: It's like I've been doing that shit my whole life.
- 53:49Speaker 4: I'm like, nigga, I'm just talented. I eat pussy.
- 53:52Speaker 5: So that's nothing for me. But it almost threw up.
- 53:58Speaker 5: I gagged like 10 times. It just was like.
- 54:01Speaker 4: Disgusting. They do.
- 54:03Speaker 5: Like, I couldn't do it. And I said, I don't
- 54:06Speaker 5: want to ever do that again. It was disgusting to me.
- 54:10Speaker 5: I didn't enjoy it. He enjoyed it. But it was
- 54:12Speaker 5: very uncomfortable for me. But I wanted to make him
- 54:15Speaker 5: feel good because he was making me feel good.
- 54:17Speaker 4: And I kind of felt bad. That's my heart. I
- 54:20Speaker 4: wear it on my sleeve. And I'm like, damn. He
- 54:22Speaker 4: just made me feel good.
- 54:23Speaker 2: I'm going to just give him some head.
- 54:24Speaker 4: You're right. Let me just try to see what I
- 54:26Speaker 4: can do.
- 54:29Speaker 3: You gave him some pity head?
- 54:33Speaker 2: Yo, this is amazing.
- 54:35Speaker 4: And it didn't do. And I said, I won't ever.
- 54:38Speaker 5: I told him, I know it felt good, but I
- 54:40Speaker 5: just want to be honest with you. I'm not going
- 54:41Speaker 5: to ever do it again. So don't ask me because
- 54:43Speaker 5: I didn't like it for myself.
- 54:46Speaker 2: What have he paid?
- 54:47Speaker 4: You know, no, no, no, no, no. No.
- 54:54Speaker 3: He's moving to a new place. He needs some sofas
- 54:56Speaker 3: and shit. He needs some stuff.
- 55:00Speaker 5: It's the fact that you said, what if he paid? Girl,
- 55:02Speaker 5: I just downloaded OnlyFans.
- 55:05Speaker 1: Listen, don't do anything sexually for money that you wouldn't
- 55:10Speaker 1: do with the person for free because then it's prostitution.
- 55:14Speaker 4: Well, then, that's the case.
- 55:15Speaker 2: You said that to say what, bitch?
- 55:17Speaker 3: Right, because if that's the case, I can stop the
- 55:19Speaker 3: date then.
- 55:19Speaker 4: I done did it for free.
- 55:22Speaker 1: No, I'm saying if you wouldn't do it for free,
- 55:24Speaker 1: don't do it for money. Because if you only would
- 55:27Speaker 1: do it for money.
- 55:28Speaker 3: But we know based on Keisha Chavez that work doesn't count.
- 55:36Speaker 2: All right, y'all. Whatever AJ said.
- 55:39Speaker 3: That shit don't count.
- 55:41Speaker 5: But seriously, my whole thing is if I was not
- 55:49Speaker 5: a virgin, Would I still be getting my car cleaned,
- 55:54Speaker 5: my gas tank filled, dinner dates? Would I still be
- 55:58Speaker 5: getting treated like a princess queen.
- 56:00Speaker 4: If I had gave it up the first night? That's
- 56:03Speaker 4: the question I want to ask the world.
- 56:07Speaker 2: Very possibly.
- 56:08Speaker 3: I don't know, man.
- 56:09Speaker 2: Niggas.
- 56:10Speaker 3: It's a crap shoot. It is a crap shoot. I feel, though,
- 56:13Speaker 3: and I've said this before, I feel like women chaste.
- 56:15Speaker 3: after they give the pussy up. Before you give the
- 56:17Speaker 3: pussy up, you got all control over these niggas.
- 56:20Speaker 4: That's true.
- 56:20Speaker 3: Once you give that power away, now we start chasing,
- 56:23Speaker 3: trying to figure out why you were answering the phone
- 56:26Speaker 3: one ring later and shit like that. We just started
- 56:28Speaker 3: fucking with our own minds. So before you give that
- 56:31Speaker 3: pussy up, yeah, you got all type of control.
- 56:33Speaker 4: All the power.
- 56:34Speaker 3: All type of control.
- 56:36Speaker 5: And I do right now. I'm not going to say
- 56:38Speaker 5: everything because I know they're.
- 56:40Speaker 4: Going to listen, but it's like I really do.
- 56:42Speaker 5: Though and The way that they come at me, like,
- 56:46Speaker 5: I just want to make sure you good. I just
- 56:48Speaker 5: want to make sure this. I just want to make
- 56:50Speaker 5: sure that. And I just like, damn, like, my friend.
- 56:53Speaker 4: Just fucked this nigga and he ghosted her. They ain't
- 56:56Speaker 4: doing this.
- 56:57Speaker 5: They ain't doing that. And I'm just like, so I
- 57:01Speaker 5: need to keep this up. Then not give it.
- 57:03Speaker 3: Up ever, ever.
- 57:08Speaker 2: I wish. I'm jealous.
- 57:09Speaker 3: I'm going to tell you.
- 57:10Speaker 2: I'm jealous.
- 57:10Speaker 3: I told Tam and Taylor that shit yesterday. Like, if
- 57:13Speaker 3: I could unfuck some of these people, I would. Like,
- 57:16Speaker 3: did it for what? Like, I didn't have my first
- 57:18Speaker 3: orgasm by myself.
- 57:19Speaker 2: It wasn't from a man. Okay?
- 57:22Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? Like, from a man? I
- 57:24Speaker 3: might have been 22.
- 57:24Speaker 4: Tam Bam said Ferb or G.
- 57:32Speaker 2: Listen.
- 57:34Speaker 1: No, I definitely would take... some of my body back too.
- 57:39Speaker 1: I will also get my degree back because this shit
- 57:42Speaker 1: is expensive. They just took a payment out of my account.
- 57:45Speaker 1: Just now I will give that back and I will
- 57:47Speaker 1: take my money back.
- 57:50Speaker 5: So, so my next question for y'all, cause I see like,
- 57:55Speaker 5: this is, this is a real, a whole nother world
- 57:58Speaker 5: that I've never really been in like men and having sex.
- 58:01Speaker 5: So there can really be times where y'all have sex, like,
- 58:05Speaker 5: just to get a quick nut, and men do it too,
- 58:08Speaker 5: so it ain't nothing to be ashamed of, but I
- 58:09Speaker 5: really need to know, because I'm, like, into women for
- 58:12Speaker 5: real over here, so I need to know what's going
- 58:14Speaker 5: on in these mindsets whenever you're fucking with these niggas, like,
- 58:16Speaker 5: do you think they just.
- 58:18Speaker 4: Need a quick nut, or do y'all, you know, y'all can.
- 58:20Speaker 5: Fuck with just a quick nut and not have feelings
- 58:23Speaker 5: or relations and being with a man, or, because I
- 58:26Speaker 5: really don't know.
- 58:28Speaker 2: What, I'm confused as to what your question is.
- 58:31Speaker 3: Just having sex, period. Women do have sex with men
- 58:35Speaker 3: without feelings. I don't think men realize that, though. They
- 58:37Speaker 3: don't think it's true. Say, for instance, if a woman
- 58:41Speaker 3: cheated on her husband or her boyfriend, men think that's
- 58:44Speaker 3: the ultimate betrayal, even though they done fucked 400 bitches.
- 58:48Speaker 3: But it's the ultimate betrayal because they feel like this
- 58:50Speaker 3: man somehow got my woman's mind. That's why she gave
- 58:55Speaker 3: up the pussy. But no, sometimes we want to just
- 58:57Speaker 3: have sex. And we know the best dick slinger. Like
- 59:00Speaker 3: we call our favorite, favorite eater. Okay. We call him up.
- 59:04Speaker 3: We know we going to get the good time out
- 59:06Speaker 3: of him. And there's that part. You really don't like him. Like, that.
- 59:10Speaker 3: The same way men move sometimes. I'm past that point
- 59:13Speaker 3: in life. I ain't fucking on you unless we locked in.
- 59:19Speaker 3: Other than that, I don't feel like it. In the moment,
- 59:21Speaker 3: I don't feel like it physically.
- 59:23Speaker 2: I'm out of there.
- 59:23Speaker 4: Look at Tam. Look at Tam.
- 59:25Speaker 3: That's true.
- 59:26Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 59:26Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 59:28Speaker 3: I started looking.
- 59:32Speaker 4: At her eyes I said y'all.
- 59:34Speaker 2: Full of shit.
- 59:40Speaker 5: Bro y'all is full of it but I really just
- 59:44Speaker 5: needed to understand from a woman's perspective that is actually
- 59:49Speaker 5: involved with men because it's a lot of females that
- 59:51Speaker 5: I deal with that I just be wanting to have
- 59:54Speaker 5: fun with but then they be like you.
- 59:56Speaker 3: Know falling in love no they.
- 59:59Speaker 5: Just go fuck a man with no problem i just
- 1:00:02Speaker 5: be wanting to do that but they won't do it
- 1:00:04Speaker 5: with me but they'll just go fuck a man so
- 1:00:07Speaker 5: i'm like well damn you actually want to be with
- 1:00:08Speaker 5: them or something like why why can't we just fuck
- 1:00:11Speaker 5: real quick and have fun so i don't know y'all
- 1:00:14Speaker 5: couldn't answer that question.
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: Well you can't fuck no you you be strapping on
- 1:00:23Speaker 1: If you strapping, you not a virgin.
- 1:00:25Speaker 2: I'm sorry. You just never been penetrated.
- 1:00:27Speaker 3: You've done all the things. Now she left off live
- 1:00:31Speaker 3: to go get her dick, y'all.
- 1:00:33Speaker 4: Okay.
- 1:00:34Speaker 2: Don't bring your dick to this room, sir. I do
- 1:00:37Speaker 2: not want to see your dick. Please, I want to
- 1:00:38Speaker 2: see it.
- 1:00:39Speaker 3: I want to see if she got a cheap one or.
- 1:00:41Speaker 6: An expensive one.
- 1:00:43Speaker 4: Oh, my God.
- 1:00:45Speaker 3: She went and threw that shit on.
- 1:00:49Speaker 2: Man, dick.
- 1:00:51Speaker 3: I can die with you. That's an expensive one.
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: It's how they send the dick cookies, right? I would
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: not let nobody fuck me with one of them. I
- 1:01:03Speaker 1: want a real dick with some blood running through it.
- 1:01:09Speaker 3: Get out the camera first.
- 1:01:10Speaker 2: Sit your crazy ass down.
- 1:01:13Speaker 3: She got a little leather trim. How much that dick cost?
- 1:01:16Speaker 4: I think it was like $ 34. That's it? $ 40 dick?
- 1:01:20Speaker 7: Cheap.
- 1:01:21Speaker 3: Apparently the dick is going for $ 40 as well.
- 1:01:24Speaker 5: Period.
- 1:01:24Speaker 2: Quit playing with us.
- 1:01:25Speaker 4: Silicone. It's not hard. It's bendable. It's soft and it's pretty.
- 1:01:35Speaker 4: Oh my goodness. This is a starter one. I ain't
- 1:01:38Speaker 4: gonna lie.
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: See, that's why she don't want that dick. It been
- 1:01:41Speaker 1: folding inside of her. That don't sound good.
- 1:01:45Speaker 2: Why your dick collapsing?
- 1:01:48Speaker 3: Pump up the volume. I ain't never used it.
- 1:01:52Speaker 2: Yeah, you need an air basketball for your dick.
- 1:01:58Speaker 5: So I haven't ever had a strap inside of me,
- 1:02:02Speaker 5: which is why I still consider myself a virgin, but
- 1:02:04Speaker 5: I done the strapping real quick, real quick and easy,
- 1:02:10Speaker 5: but to.
- 1:02:12Speaker 4: Have it inside of me.
- 1:02:14Speaker 5: Listen, y'all be trying to put this shit inside myself.
- 1:02:17Speaker 5: I'm scared and just, I'm just really scared. Like I'm
- 1:02:21Speaker 5: really scared of dick.
- 1:02:25Speaker 3: So that's what it boils down to. You still a
- 1:02:27Speaker 3: virgin because you scared a dick.
- 1:02:28Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:02:29Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:02:31Speaker 5: Listen, just imagine a virgin and a man coming up
- 1:02:34Speaker 5: to you saying, oh, you a virgin. I'm going to
- 1:02:37Speaker 5: put this horse dick all up through your shit. It's
- 1:02:40Speaker 5: going to touch your brain and break you. And I'm
- 1:02:42Speaker 5: looking like, that's not what I want.
- 1:02:45Speaker 2: That's not appealing.
- 1:02:46Speaker 4: That's not.
- 1:02:46Speaker 5: It's not.
- 1:02:47Speaker 2: It's really not.
- 1:02:48Speaker 3: Yeah. Nowadays, if a dude tell me, I'll be like, what?
- 1:02:52Speaker 2: No, you're not. I don't even want that much dick.
- 1:02:56Speaker 3: They need nine, ten inches and all that shit. Honestly,
- 1:03:01Speaker 3: look at my forearm. My forearm is ten inches. Why
- 1:03:04Speaker 3: would you want somebody to put ten inches worth of
- 1:03:06Speaker 3: dick inside you?
- 1:03:07Speaker 4: That is wild to me. What the fuck is going on?
- 1:03:11Speaker 3: That is wild.
- 1:03:12Speaker 5: That's real wild. That's beyond the freak level that I got.
- 1:03:16Speaker 5: I'm at the basic level of freak.
- 1:03:18Speaker 4: All I want is foreplay. I don't want dick. I'm
- 1:03:21Speaker 4: not doing nothing. I'll jack you off. I'm not sucking it,
- 1:03:26Speaker 4: but I just want foreplay.
- 1:03:28Speaker 3: Y'all, we should have went to commercial after that dig,
- 1:03:31Speaker 3: but let's do that right quick.
- 1:03:32Speaker 2: Okay. Y'all, stay tuned.
- 1:03:35Speaker 1: Yeah, let's get, we don't know if we should get
- 1:03:38Speaker 1: a Sim series or a dumb bitch story. I don't
- 1:03:40Speaker 1: even know what to ask you for at this point,
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: but we're going to get a story from you when
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: we come back.
- 1:03:45Speaker 3: Okay.
- 1:03:47Speaker 1: Dumb bitch stories you're so dumb because we've all been
- 1:03:51Speaker 1: a dumb bitch at least once or twice see now.
- 1:03:55Speaker 5: Look this this boy the boy that i was just
- 1:03:57Speaker 5: telling y'all about that i thought was a good one
- 1:04:00Speaker 5: i gave him some head because he was treating me
- 1:04:03Speaker 5: nice he was like the sexist he not worried about
- 1:04:07Speaker 5: it and he respect me he just texted me i
- 1:04:11Speaker 5: told him i want some head When can I get something?
- 1:04:13Speaker 5: He said, whenever you bend it over. I said, I
- 1:04:15Speaker 5: just did. He said, nah, bend it over and take it.
- 1:04:19Speaker 5: So I'm acting, playing stupid.
- 1:04:20Speaker 4: Like, I don't know.
- 1:04:21Speaker 5: He talking about sex, but I'm like, you know, I
- 1:04:23Speaker 5: just said I'd bend it over for you so you
- 1:04:25Speaker 5: can give me head. And he said, I'm talking about dick.
- 1:04:29Speaker 5: And now he just got that ex on my list
- 1:04:33Speaker 5: because it's like, damn, I really thought he was different.
- 1:04:38Speaker 4: And when I.
- 1:04:40Speaker 1: But how you asking niggas for sexual favors and then
- 1:04:42Speaker 1: don't want to return them, though?
- 1:04:44Speaker 4: Because they.
- 1:04:44Speaker 2: She wants some head.
- 1:04:45Speaker 3: She don't want to be penetrated.
- 1:04:47Speaker 4: Okay.
- 1:04:48Speaker 2: But she also don't want to give no head.
- 1:04:49Speaker 4: I get what you're saying.
- 1:04:50Speaker 5: And the reason why I'm like that is because they
- 1:04:52Speaker 5: come to me consistently wanting to give me head with
- 1:04:55Speaker 5: nothing in return.
- 1:04:56Speaker 4: I got comfortable. If they wasn't never coming at me
- 1:04:59Speaker 4: like that, I would have never said nothing. Selfish.
- 1:05:04Speaker 3: Selfish.
- 1:05:05Speaker 5: Selfish.
- 1:05:08Speaker 4: I'll jack them off though with some good lotion and oil.
- 1:05:14Speaker 1: Girl get the fuck I'll kick you out too get
- 1:05:17Speaker 1: the fuck out of my house this look this a
- 1:05:20Speaker 1: whole nother generation do you have a dumb do you
- 1:05:23Speaker 1: have a dumb bitch story for us that was it
- 1:05:27Speaker 1: no like.
- 1:05:28Speaker 3: The time I was a dumb bitch right yes tell
- 1:05:31Speaker 3: us about it yeah.
- 1:05:32Speaker 2: You said you've been simping okay yeah I got one
- 1:05:36Speaker 2: All right. Go ahead. Tell us your sim story.
- 1:05:39Speaker 3: Ferb.
- 1:05:40Speaker 5: So I'm going to tell y'all my dumb bitch story.
- 1:05:42Speaker 5: And I will never, ever in my life be a
- 1:05:44Speaker 5: dumb bitch. And I don't talk to this bitch no more.
- 1:05:48Speaker 5: I met this girl. She's a dancer. And I promise y'all,
- 1:05:52Speaker 5: a dancer, I'm saying that to be respectful.
- 1:05:55Speaker 4: She's a stripper.
- 1:05:56Speaker 5: You know, they like to call themselves exotic dancers, foreign. Child,
- 1:06:00Speaker 5: you're a fucking stripper. Call it for what the fuck
- 1:06:03Speaker 5: it is.
- 1:06:03Speaker 4: You're getting money.
- 1:06:04Speaker 5: So anywho, I met this stripper a while back or whatever.
- 1:06:09Speaker 5: We was cool.
- 1:06:10Speaker 4: We was vibing, this, that, and the third. And I
- 1:06:12Speaker 4: liked her.
- 1:06:13Speaker 5: So I said, okay, we gonna have us some fun.
- 1:06:16Speaker 5: I'm finna take you out to the club, this, that,
- 1:06:18Speaker 5: and the third.
- 1:06:18Speaker 4: She had a nigga.
- 1:06:20Speaker 5: But I didn't give a fuck about the nigga. I said, baby,
- 1:06:23Speaker 5: I got you. I'm finna treat you right. I'm finna
- 1:06:26Speaker 5: show you what a real bitch can do.
- 1:06:28Speaker 3: I'm about to take you up out this club. You
- 1:06:30Speaker 3: don't need to strip no more.
- 1:06:31Speaker 4: Exactly.
- 1:06:32Speaker 5: Stevie said you got to go back to the strip club, baby.
- 1:06:35Speaker 4: I'm going to take you out of the strip club
- 1:06:36Speaker 4: like ballistic. Okay. So, boom. Here we go. I'm helping
- 1:06:43Speaker 4: her out. She done left the nigga. I'm helping her out.
- 1:06:46Speaker 5: Vibing with her i don't let her come and stay
- 1:06:48Speaker 5: with me i don't helped her gave her rise where
- 1:06:51Speaker 5: she need to go i don't took her to work
- 1:06:54Speaker 5: mind you her job is an hour away from where
- 1:06:56Speaker 5: i had to work and i'm just looking out for
- 1:06:59Speaker 5: her you know so anybody that's looking out for you
- 1:07:01Speaker 5: you're going to communicate with them type shit so she
- 1:07:04Speaker 5: had work all day vibing making her money and I
- 1:07:08Speaker 5: pull up to the club to see her at work. Like, damn,
- 1:07:11Speaker 5: look at all that fat ass. I love what I'm seeing. Oh, yeah,
- 1:07:13Speaker 5: I'm going to take her home. I'm going to stare
- 1:07:15Speaker 5: at that ass on the drive home. I'm going to
- 1:07:17Speaker 5: watch her walk in the door. All this good shit.
- 1:07:19Speaker 4: I'm excited. I'm just so fucking excited.
- 1:07:21Speaker 3: He's such a grown ass man, okay?
- 1:07:25Speaker 4: I love seeing ass and titties. So I go pick
- 1:07:28Speaker 4: her up from the club.
- 1:07:30Speaker 5: She get on the stage once I walk in, give
- 1:07:32Speaker 5: me a little one-two.
- 1:07:33Speaker 4: She put that leg up, pop, pop. I said, ooh,
- 1:07:37Speaker 4: we finna have us a good night. She gonna might
- 1:07:39Speaker 4: give me a private dance at home. Okay, bet.
- 1:07:42Speaker 3: Yes.
- 1:07:43Speaker 5: I mean, I waited all day for this shit from
- 1:07:45Speaker 5: 8 o'clock in the morning.
- 1:07:47Speaker 4: It's 12 going on 1 o'clock now.
- 1:07:49Speaker 5: 8 a.m. I'm excited. So she get off the pole.
- 1:07:53Speaker 5: She go get her clothes. We walk into my car.
- 1:07:56Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm watching that ass walk to the car.
- 1:08:00Speaker 5: She opened the backseat and she grabbed all her shit. Hey, baby,
- 1:08:03Speaker 5: I'm finna see you another time. I'm finna go over
- 1:08:06Speaker 5: here with my homegirl to my homegirl house. I'm gonna
- 1:08:08Speaker 5: stay the night over there. Huh?
- 1:08:15Speaker 3: She does usually for a ride.
- 1:08:17Speaker 5: I was confused. She had me so fucked up, I
- 1:08:20Speaker 5: was confused. She ain't just saying me that shit. She
- 1:08:23Speaker 5: ain't just telling me that shit and she know I
- 1:08:24Speaker 5: was waiting for her all day to come pick her
- 1:08:26Speaker 5: up tonight. She ain't just telling me that right now
- 1:08:27Speaker 5: and she could have been telling me that.
- 1:08:29Speaker 4: So I I just didn't hear that shit.
- 1:08:31Speaker 5: And I'm watching her grab her bag. I'm like, so
- 1:08:35Speaker 5: what you said?
- 1:08:36Speaker 4: Where are you going?
- 1:08:37Speaker 5: And she was like, yeah, no, baby, I'm going to
- 1:08:38Speaker 5: just go ahead and go over here with my homegirl
- 1:08:40Speaker 5: because we work together anyway.
- 1:08:42Speaker 4: And she she was drunk. She was lit. And I
- 1:08:46Speaker 4: just didn't know what was going on.
- 1:08:47Speaker 5: So basically, yes, she used me for a ride, said,
- 1:08:51Speaker 5: fuck me, put me to the back burner and went
- 1:08:54Speaker 5: with her home girl probably went to go get some
- 1:08:56Speaker 5: dick and did what she need to do hold on
- 1:08:59Speaker 5: story not over the next day got a phone call.
- 1:09:04Speaker 4: Fur bro.
- 1:09:07Speaker 5: Fur bro i just i should just went with you
- 1:09:10Speaker 5: bro cuz like that don't make no sense and i'm
- 1:09:14Speaker 5: like what you said i'm laughing because bitch that's what
- 1:09:20Speaker 5: the fuck you get when you do a good soul
- 1:09:22Speaker 5: wrong that's what happened i was amused i was so
- 1:09:25Speaker 5: happy i'm like i love it and people always ask
- 1:09:28Speaker 5: me why i don't fight.
- 1:09:30Speaker 4: Why i don't do the rah-rah why i.
- 1:09:32Speaker 5: Don't argue because the lord got me i don't never
- 1:09:35Speaker 5: have to i get the the phone calls all the
- 1:09:37Speaker 5: time anywho.
- 1:09:39Speaker 4: She called me bruh i'm stuck at a hotel.
- 1:09:42Speaker 1: First of all, let me just interject right there. God
- 1:09:45Speaker 1: don't have nothing to do with you not getting a
- 1:09:47Speaker 1: private dance.
- 1:09:48Speaker 2: Don't try to bring God into you.
- 1:09:54Speaker 1: Doing some ho shit at night like yeah see you
- 1:09:56Speaker 1: didn't come do that ho shit for me cause.
- 1:09:58Speaker 2: God got me baby now what we not gonna do.
- 1:10:02Speaker 4: That we not gonna.
- 1:10:03Speaker 5: Do that we not bring God to the hoes but
- 1:10:06Speaker 5: when you get done wrong.
- 1:10:08Speaker 3: God was not there I'm not doing it.
- 1:10:11Speaker 5: I'm not doing it Lord nope I'm not I'm not
- 1:10:15Speaker 5: but okay so she called me talking about oh I'm
- 1:10:19Speaker 5: at the hotel um The girl just told me, oh,
- 1:10:24Speaker 5: I got to pay her in order for me to
- 1:10:27Speaker 5: stay with her. And this, that, and the third, oh,
- 1:10:30Speaker 5: she's going to need some rent money from me. Like, bro,
- 1:10:33Speaker 5: I could have just went with you. And that's what
- 1:10:35Speaker 5: happens when you do weird stuff to people. Weird stuff
- 1:10:38Speaker 5: happens to you. Because if I would have went with
- 1:10:40Speaker 5: you that night, bro, I wouldn't have had none of
- 1:10:42Speaker 5: this to worry about, bro. And now I'm sitting at
- 1:10:44Speaker 5: this hotel looking like a bum with my dog in
- 1:10:47Speaker 5: front of all these people.
- 1:10:48Speaker 4: And I don't know.
- 1:10:49Speaker 2: And I'm like.
- 1:10:52Speaker 4: Oh, my God. I cannot believe that really happened. That
- 1:10:56Speaker 4: girl really did that to you.
- 1:10:57Speaker 5: But in all actuality, I was happy as fuck because
- 1:11:02Speaker 5: don't treat me like that.
- 1:11:04Speaker 4: I was really being a simp. I was being a
- 1:11:06Speaker 4: dumb bitch.
- 1:11:06Speaker 5: I was helping her, helped her move out the nigga house,
- 1:11:09Speaker 5: gave her a ride, made sure she got to work.
- 1:11:13Speaker 5: All she had to do was get a phone call
- 1:11:14Speaker 5: and say, fuck me. Left me right there in the
- 1:11:17Speaker 5: back burner. So that's some shit that I just, I
- 1:11:21Speaker 5: won't ever do again.
- 1:11:22Speaker 4: Like, oh, another quick one.
- 1:11:24Speaker 5: I gave this transgender, didn't know, didn't know it was
- 1:11:30Speaker 5: a transgender.
- 1:11:34Speaker 1: So was it trans woman or trans man? And then
- 1:11:39Speaker 1: tell me which one they are.
- 1:11:40Speaker 4: So it was a.
- 1:11:42Speaker 5: Man that was a woman into a woman that's trans what?
- 1:11:46Speaker 2: Trans woman.
- 1:11:48Speaker 5: Woman trans woman i was hanging out with this trans
- 1:11:53Speaker 5: woman kissed her i didn't i was i ain't even
- 1:11:58Speaker 5: gonna say me being drunk was my excuse i felt
- 1:12:00Speaker 5: the energy and when i feel good energy i don't
- 1:12:03Speaker 5: pay attention to what i need to pay attention to
- 1:12:05Speaker 5: i'm gonna just be honest she was the energy was
- 1:12:09Speaker 5: good i was vibing he looked good that surgery was
- 1:12:13Speaker 5: good i said damn baby Let me get a kiss.
- 1:12:18Speaker 4: We kissed.
- 1:12:19Speaker 5: Gave this transgender my phone because my phone broke that day.
- 1:12:23Speaker 5: So I went to go do a trade-in while I
- 1:12:25Speaker 5: was doing the trade-in. The person was distracted by the transgender.
- 1:12:28Speaker 5: So I was able to keep my phone and do
- 1:12:30Speaker 5: the trade-in. So I'm like, well, bitch, since you helped
- 1:12:33Speaker 5: me keep my phone and shit, you can have my
- 1:12:35Speaker 5: phone because she needed a phone anyway.
- 1:12:38Speaker 4: Child, please ask.
- 1:12:40Speaker 5: The next couple of weeks, that man talked to me
- 1:12:43Speaker 5: like I was a bitch off the streets, treated me
- 1:12:46Speaker 5: like I was a peasant, like I was its assistant,
- 1:12:48Speaker 5: and like I was just going.
- 1:12:49Speaker 4: To do anything as soon as they said the word jump.
- 1:12:52Speaker 5: And I'm like, damn, why I keep getting treated, running
- 1:12:56Speaker 5: into people thinking I'm just a simper and going to
- 1:12:58Speaker 5: just do anything for them. So once I realized how
- 1:13:01Speaker 5: this bitch was, I cut her off, like cut him off,
- 1:13:04Speaker 5: cut it off, whatever, and said, I'm done with you.
- 1:13:08Speaker 2: So... Yeah, we're not going to play this game.
- 1:13:11Speaker 4: Yes, we are.
- 1:13:12Speaker 2: We're going to play this game.
- 1:13:13Speaker 4: She don't want to get canceled.
- 1:13:15Speaker 3: She be scared. Girl, fuck that shit. You be so scared, girl.
- 1:13:20Speaker 1: It's not scared, but just saying.
- 1:13:23Speaker 3: We don't know how it refers to itself. We don't
- 1:13:26Speaker 3: know how that person refers to them.
- 1:13:29Speaker 4: So, like, yeah, I really... Look, I don't throw the mic.
- 1:13:35Speaker 2: So.
- 1:13:35Speaker 3: I ain't scared.
- 1:13:39Speaker 2: I'm just Because you overly considerate. Yeah, and I get it.
- 1:13:44Speaker 3: You can't be canceled when God puts you on. Fuck
- 1:13:47Speaker 3: out of here.
- 1:13:47Speaker 2: Go ahead, Ferb. I'm not worried about being canceled. It's
- 1:13:50Speaker 2: just kind of rude.
- 1:13:51Speaker 4: It's rude to trick a person, too.
- 1:13:55Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 1:13:56Speaker 3: Yeah, so finish telling us how you found out this
- 1:13:57Speaker 3: was it. I need to know, like, where's the rest
- 1:14:00Speaker 3: of the story?
- 1:14:01Speaker 4: So, look, there's still, like, real no.
- 1:14:04Speaker 5: know she coming out saying yes i'm a man like
- 1:14:07Speaker 5: 30 million people came up to me started coming up
- 1:14:10Speaker 5: to me once they saw me posting her this is
- 1:14:12Speaker 5: how popular he is started coming up to me like
- 1:14:15Speaker 5: you know that's a man you know that's a man
- 1:14:16Speaker 5: sending me this sending me clips now that's tv um
- 1:14:20Speaker 5: zodiac house sending me shit and i'm like what the.
- 1:14:23Speaker 4: Fuck did i just get myself into But I had
- 1:14:27Speaker 4: to respect. I didn't say nothing because I know how
- 1:14:30Speaker 4: that feels for them. So I'm like, I fuck with
- 1:14:32Speaker 4: you because.
- 1:14:33Speaker 5: Your energy is good, even though I feel disrespected because
- 1:14:36Speaker 5: you could have told me so.
- 1:14:38Speaker 4: I can be prepared.
- 1:14:40Speaker 5: But my heart, I'm just like, I'm going to let
- 1:14:42Speaker 5: you have this one. I'm still be cool with you
- 1:14:43Speaker 5: because I know how it is out here for y'all.
- 1:14:46Speaker 5: Y'all don't know how to do it. Child, big, huge mistake.
- 1:14:50Speaker 5: Treated me like trash. Talked to me like a bitch
- 1:14:52Speaker 5: off the streets. Always would curse at me and talk crazy.
- 1:14:55Speaker 5: So I'm like, you know what? At first I told
- 1:14:57Speaker 5: her I was going to fix the phone for her
- 1:14:59Speaker 5: because it blacked out on me.
- 1:15:00Speaker 4: That's why I was getting a new one.
- 1:15:02Speaker 5: I will fix it for you so you can unlock it.
- 1:15:04Speaker 5: But once she started treating me like shit, I said, girl,
- 1:15:06Speaker 5: fuck you.
- 1:15:07Speaker 4: And I blocked her.
- 1:15:08Speaker 5: Got a message from her one day saying, oh, if
- 1:15:10Speaker 5: you don't unlock the phone, I'm going to sue you
- 1:15:12Speaker 5: and call the police for the phone. Go ahead and
- 1:15:16Speaker 5: sue me off of my phone that I gave you
- 1:15:19Speaker 5: and call the police and let me know how that worked.
- 1:15:22Speaker 3: Did she pay you for the phone or something?
- 1:15:25Speaker 4: She didn't do nothing, give me nothing for the phone.
- 1:15:29Speaker 2: Oh, that's weird.
- 1:15:29Speaker 4: But she's going to try to sue me.
- 1:15:31Speaker 5: So we literally went on a whole reality show, Boss
- 1:15:35Speaker 5: Tech Boot Camp, and she tried to embarrass me on
- 1:15:38Speaker 5: that show saying that I scammed her out of $ 200,
- 1:15:41Speaker 5: got these bitches.
- 1:15:41Speaker 4: In the house, hiding their wallets.
- 1:15:43Speaker 3: Bitch, I don't know how.
- 1:15:44Speaker 4: To do that shit. This girl is talking about a phone.
- 1:15:47Speaker 5: She had to pay $ 200 for a phone and trying to.
- 1:15:50Speaker 3: Make it seem like I'm this bad.
- 1:15:53Speaker 4: And tricking them, got them thinking, swiping some visas. I
- 1:15:57Speaker 4: don't know what the fuck I'm doing with that shit.
- 1:16:00Speaker 4: So I was a dumb bitch for her.
- 1:16:02Speaker 5: I will never, ever give my phone for free to
- 1:16:04Speaker 5: a bitch that I just met that same day. And
- 1:16:07Speaker 5: still to this day, my spirit is telling me, yes,
- 1:16:11Speaker 5: that's a man. But to this day, she claims, no,
- 1:16:14Speaker 5: she's not a man. And I feel like that's because
- 1:16:16Speaker 5: she done had.
- 1:16:17Speaker 4: Did a lot of stuff with a lot of niggas.
- 1:16:20Speaker 4: And if it comes out, she's dead. Simple as that.
- 1:16:22Speaker 3: She has the sex change? Oh, yeah.
- 1:16:25Speaker 4: Everything.
- 1:16:25Speaker 3: That's why I got tricks. I heard those pussies were shallow. Like,
- 1:16:31Speaker 3: you can't really, like, penetrate it for real.
- 1:16:33Speaker 4: I wish I could share my screen with y'all. I
- 1:16:35Speaker 4: got receipts.
- 1:16:39Speaker 3: All right, we're going to get the fuck up out
- 1:16:40Speaker 3: of here.
- 1:16:44Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:16:44Speaker 3: Thank you, Furby.
- 1:16:45Speaker 2: I think that's my cue.
- 1:16:47Speaker 3: I think that's my cue, guys. Look, I want to
- 1:16:49Speaker 3: see it, though, but not right now on the live. Listen.
- 1:16:53Speaker 4: I'm going to make us a group chat, and I'm
- 1:16:55Speaker 4: going to show you.
- 1:16:55Speaker 2: All right. Send it to AJ. Send it to AJ, baby.
- 1:17:01Speaker 3: Fur, plug all your shit. Let our listeners know where
- 1:17:04Speaker 3: they can find your crazy ass at.
- 1:17:07Speaker 4: Alright, so I.
- 1:17:07Speaker 5: Just got to do the full introduction because y'all already
- 1:17:10Speaker 5: know it's your girl Ferb from Miami-Dade County, baby.
- 1:17:13Speaker 4: 305. We stay live.
- 1:17:15Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 1:17:15Speaker 4: You can follow me on the ground at MakeEmLaughFerb.
- 1:17:19Speaker 5: That's M-A-K then add an M.
- 1:17:22Speaker 4: MakeEmLaughFerb. F-E-R-B. If you don't know how to spell laugh, sorry.
- 1:17:28Speaker 4: I just spelled Ferb for you. MakeEmLaughFerb. It's that easy.
- 1:17:32Speaker 4: Fuck with y'all. Peace.
- 1:17:37Speaker 2: Thank you, girl.
- 1:17:38Speaker 3: Listen, y'all.
- 1:17:41Speaker 1: Ferb, weren't you on some shows that you could plug to,
- 1:17:43Speaker 1: like you can tell people to watch?
- 1:17:45Speaker 4: All right, y'all.
- 1:17:45Speaker 5: And I just want to give a special shout out
- 1:17:47Speaker 5: to Oregon TV bus table camp for giving me an opportunity.
- 1:17:53Speaker 4: Now look at me.
- 1:17:54Speaker 5: I'm a tomboy, as you can see. But if you
- 1:17:57Speaker 5: want to see me strip, you want to see all
- 1:18:00Speaker 5: this ass up. Go and subscribe to that. I'm actually
- 1:18:03Speaker 5: on there stripping with a thong, with heels on.
- 1:18:07Speaker 4: Yes, I am. So make sure you subscribe. It's only $ 5.
- 1:18:10Speaker 2: 99.
- 1:18:10Speaker 4: And tag me when you watch. I was on there
- 1:18:12Speaker 4: stripping for real, y'all. Like, stripping.
- 1:18:15Speaker 3: And this bitch tall as hell, y'all. Tell them how
- 1:18:17Speaker 3: tall you are.
- 1:18:18Speaker 4: Y'all, I'm literally like.
- 1:18:24Speaker 3: I'm 6'3, y'all.
- 1:18:27Speaker 5: 6'3.
- 1:18:28Speaker 1: 6'3.
- 1:18:28Speaker 4: And there's a lot of people that want to climb
- 1:18:30Speaker 4: up that tree. Okay?
- 1:18:38Speaker 2: Yes!
- 1:18:39Speaker 3: Get it. We are sick of you. Y'all, if y'all
- 1:18:42Speaker 3: enjoy Ferb, if y'all enjoy We Talk Back, y'all tune
- 1:18:45Speaker 3: in every Thursday on your iheart radio app wherever the
- 1:18:49Speaker 3: fuck you get your podcast at this is your co-host
- 1:18:52Speaker 3: aj holiday 2.0 on instagrams kick it tam.
- 1:18:58Speaker 1: Y'all it's me official tam bam on instagram y'all follow
- 1:19:01Speaker 1: me i love y'all thank you furb for joining us
- 1:19:03Speaker 1: we really appreciate y'all sharing your truth with us Y'all
- 1:19:06Speaker 1: remember to speak now.
- 1:19:08Speaker 3: And never hold your fake meat. Nah, we don't hold
- 1:19:11Speaker 3: no peace over here, okay? We talk back.